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Episode 34--The Chick Whisperer--Is Marriage For Chumps?

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Thu, 05 November 2009 19:31 CST

Co-Host Adam Lyons (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/adam) We're joined by none other than Adam Lyons for an upfront discussion on marriage--all from the perspective of two guys who are both happily married AND professional dating coaches. No question is off the table as we talk about monogamy vs. open relationships, the right and wrong reasons to get married, why dating more women now means a stronger marriage later, and more. Pay particularly close attention when Adam gives you step-by-step details on how he went from AFC to living the good life with his favorite woman ever. And YES...whether you're thinking it's time to find a wife or you've all vowed never to tie the knot, be sure to listen up...there's something in this episode for everyone. Plus, we answer a voicemail from Andre in Indiana about a woman who seems interested, but is still keeping him at arm's length. What's up with that?

Episode 33--The Chick Whisperer--Are Women Really So Hard To Figure Out?

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Tues, 06 October 2009 17:42 CDT

Co-Host Marni Kinrys (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/wing) On the occasion of the long-awaited launch of Chick Whispering, the book (and now complete program) inspired by this podcast, I invited none other than Wing Girl extraordinaire Marni Kinrys to join me for what may be the definitive Chick Whispering discussion, superseding all others. Listen in as Marni talks about some absolutely primo ways to figure out what's on a woman's mind--quickly and easily. We also delve into some of the deeper issues as to why so many people prefer to flat-out give up on MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) rather giving a fair shot to figuring them out. Also, we tackle a terrific voice mail from Donovan in New York city on dating older women. For more on the new Chick Whispering e-book, stop by http://www.chickwhispering.com for an intro video I've produced that explains it all.

Episode 32--The Chick Whisperer--How To Choose The Right Woman

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Mon, 10 August 2009 18:38 CDT

Co-Host David Shade (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/shade) Take it from two guys who've been there before and have the scars to prove it. Making the RIGHT DECISION when it comes to which woman to invite into your life for a long-term relationship is not just mission-critical, it could literally make or break your ENTIRE LIFE. Join my co-host David Shade and I as we talk about what exactly to look for in a woman in order to evaluate her LTR potential. And just for good measure, we also tackle a great e-mail from a listener who is considering making a 'friend with benefits' into his steady girlfriend. If you haven't taken a look at what's included in The Master Plan lately, you're in for a BIG surprise (and it's a good one): http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/masterplan/special

Episode 31--The Chick Whisperer--Supernatural Connection With Women

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Thu, 16 July 2009 13:07 CDT

Co-Host Bryan Bayer (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/amp) Sure, most of as guys all want to build rapport with a woman and experience a genuinely deep connection with her. But have you ever stopped to consider that there could be a level of connecting with women that FAR exceeds what you've ever even imagined was possible? Join me along with my co-host Bryan Bayer from AMP as we share some truly crazy thoughts and wild stories--all in the name of empowering YOU to 'hyper-natural' relationships with the greatest women on Earth. While we're at it, we respond to Chad in Pittsburgh's voicemail question about how to relate to women from Asian cultures...especially if they don't speak English all that well. By the way, there are NEW ADDITIONS to The Master Plan, so visit http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/masterplan to check 'em out. Remember also to claim your copy of my FREE book on how to meet women on Twitter: http://www.twiduction.com

Episode 30--The Chick Whisperer--Women Are NOT The Enemy...Make Them Your Ally Instead

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Wed, 24 June 2009 17:10 CDT

Co-Host Nick Sparks (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/unbreakable) It's easy to lapse into an 'us versus them' mentality when it comes to women, especially when one's focus is off. Join Nick Sparks and I as we talk about how to get what you want from women WITHOUT feeling like you have to win a game of 'keep away' to do so. Prepare for some surprising insights that are flat-out unheard of in the Seduction Community, but which have been field tested with great success. Gentlemen, this episode is ALL ABOUT how to enjoy FAR GREATER satisfaction in your relationships women than you've ever dreamed possible...WAY, WAY beyond sex alone. If you haven't checked out The Master Plan yet, visit http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/masterplan. And if you haven't snagged up the FREE book on how to meet high quality women on Twitter, the time is now--more and more women are joining EVERY DAY: http://www.twiduction.com

Episode 29--The Chick Whisperer--What If 'Be Yourself' Was GOOD ADVICE, For A Change?

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Thu, 23 April 2009 14:35 CDT

Co-Host Alan Roger Currie (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/modeone) How many times have you ever been given the advice to just 'be yourself' in order to attract more women? Yeah well, what if 'be yourself' ISN'T WORKING? You know how it goes, 'keep doing what you've always done and you'll keep getting what you've always gotten.' Listen in to this very special episode Alan Roger Currie (aka Mode One) and I break down exactly how to take back your birthright as a REAL MAN and portray the 100% authentic version of your best self. Fair warning, though...get ready for some seriously straight talk on this matter. For the complete toolkit on being the highest quality man you can be--and attracting the highest quality women as a result--check out The Master Plan at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/masterplan. It's brand new. And while you're there, be sure to watch the recent video interview I did with my friend Kya on what women REALLY want from a guy. There's also FIVE MORE free videos for you when you log in.

Episode 28--The Chick Whisperer--Is She Interested In You?

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Mon, 02 March 2009 22:44 CST

Co-Host Doc Love (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/doclove) OK, here's a 'pop quiz'. There's only one question, so this is 'pass/fail' all the way. What is THE most important factor when you're talking to a woman for the first time? Well, our co-host--the legendary Doc Love--says it's HER INTEREST LEVEL IN YOU. And guess what? According to Doc, that REMAINS the most important factor as long as you're in a relationship with her. And he may just be on to something here. After all, this guy has been at this dating and seduction advice stuff since 1964...that's 45 YEARS for those of you without a calculator handy. So get ready to kick it 'old skool' for this latest episode of TCW. As such, you may not agree with everything you hear on this show. (So what else is new, right?) But I can all but GUARANTEE you some solid takeaways that WILL take your game to the next level. And if you haven't snagged your FREE copy of Twiduction from http://www.twiduction.com, there's still time. Get the e-book and get subscribed to the newsletter--all in one easy step.

Episode 27--The Chick Whisperer--Flirting And Creating Natural Attraction

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Sat, 31 January 2009 17:23 CST

Co-Host Christian Hudson (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/social) Approaching women is one thing, but actually creating real attraction is another. And let me tell you, if there was ever a subject that confounds even the best of us at times, that's it. So how do you make a woman interested in you as more than "just friends"? And furthermore, how in the world do you get the job done without leaning on canned techniques like a crutch? Well, get ready to put this problem to bed once and for all as The Social Man's Christian Hudson and I work the issue from every angle, giving you practical tips on how to flirt effectively with women and make sure they're into you. Also, we tackle a tough voicemail asking why we as guys tend to "freeze up" when we're in the presence of that one particular woman we want the most. Don't forget, there's a FREE e-book on how to meet women on Twitter.com waiting for you when you signup for the X &Y Communications newsletter. http://www.twiduction.com

Episode 26--The Chick Whisperer--The Dude Whisperer

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Tue, 23 December 2008 09:12 CST

Co-Host Mirabelle Summers (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/fireworks) OK, when I read the new book Fireworks With Females I thought it was pretty good. Then I figured out that a woman, namely Mirabelle Summers, wrote most of it. She's basically "The Dude Whisperer", based on what I've read. Naturally, that's when I got on the phone and invited Mirabelle to co-host a TCW episode with me. And it was as epic a conversation as I had expected, most definitely. Get ready to find out--for real--what women want, what women THINK men want, what they REALLY think about men approaching them, and even the truth about whether or not they're really "trying to keep men from being successful with them". It's all in this episode, and much more...including an e-mail from Thomas in Houston who has given all his power away to his woman. Find out what Mirabelle tells him... Are you on our newsletter yet? If not, I've got a FREE e-book on how to meet women on Twitter.com just for signing up. http://www.twiduction.com

Bonus Episode--The Chick Whisperer--Stop Giving Your Power Away

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Tue, 21 October 2008 02:51 CDT

(NOTE: Originally offered as a special bonus to newsletter subscribers last year, now published to the feed for the first time ever) Co-Host Brent Smith (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/brent) Are you sick of giving all of your power away to women? Has it gotten so bad that you're not even sure you KNOW what 'giving your power away to women' even MEANS? Well, if you have any trepidations as to whether you're really in complete control of your dating life or not, you've come to the right place. In this BONUS episode from "the vault", you're about to find the answers to every question you've ever had on the subject but were afraid to ask. All courtesy of 'Mr. Indifferent' himself, none other than Brent Smith of DYD fame. There's not a better guy on Earth we could have had sit in for this particular show. Have you discovered The Leading Man relationship management system at www.the-leading-man.com? Do so and get FREE videos along with killer bonuses in your inbox. And don't forget, the NEW Facebook group is growing fast at http://groups.to/freestuff.

Episode 25--The Chick Whisperer--Inner AND Outer Game

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Thu, 02 October 2008 23:32 CDT

Co-Host Bart Baggett (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/bart) Keeping on with the theme of bringing you something completely different, it's my pleasure to welcome back Bart Baggett after being MIA from the Seduction Community for quite some time. Find out how handwriting analysis (Yes..HANDWRITING analysis) can not only be a great way to meet women, but also become a very real resource to you in evaluating the potential viability of long-term relationships. This is not palm reading or the Chinese horoscope...you've just got to listen in and discover this for yourself. Bring a pad and a paper along and put it all to the test. Best of all, find out how having a strong inner game underscores everything involved. Be sure to check out The Leading Man relationship management system at www.the-leading-man.com and get FREE videos along with killer bonuses in your inbox. Plus get in on the ALL NEW Facebook group at http://groups.to/freestuff.

Episode 24--The Chick Whisperer--Taking Care Of Business In The Bedroom

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Wed, 03 September 2008 04:33 CDT

Co-Host Alex Allman (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/control , http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/sex) OK, here's something completely different for you. We invited sex advisor Alex Allman to sit in for the show, which can only mean you are in for some seriously frank and straightforward ways you can improve your sexual prowess with women RIGHT NOW. Discover simple but often-overlooked secrets to transforming your woman into the vixen of your dreams...all courtesy of YOUR leadership. Sick of "dead lays"? Find out how to kiss that problem goodbye. And while your at it, learn how to kiss your correctly and kiss her often. Scot and Alex also address a voicemail question about a certain "timing" issue lots of guys have. Be sure to check out The Leading Man relationship management system at www.the-leading-man.com and get FREE videos along with killer bonuses in your inbox. The Leading Man will be released to the world on September 13th, 2008.

Episode 23--The Chick Whisperer--BONUS--Introducing The Six New Coaches (Plus Special Surprises)

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Mon, 04 August 2008 00:03 CDT

Special BONUS Episode. Meet the six newest members of the X & Y Communications coaching team. Listen to their individual stories of where they've come from and where they are today. Most of all, discover what they've got to share with you that will help you take your success with women to the next level. Plus, Scot talks about being referred to as a 'heterocentrist', Tazmanian Devil mating habits, whether X & Y Communications is 'sex positive' or not and tops the whole show off with yet another special announcement you won't want to miss. Listen in and feel the human drama. After hearing from the new X &Y Communications instructors, tune in to the blog at www.edumckaytion.com/blog and and catch their latest posts if you haven't already. Remember, there's always cool stuff for you at no charge when you subscribe to Scot's content-rich but always FREE newsletter at www.thechickwhisperer.com.

Episode 22--The Chick Whisperer--Shyness And Introversion

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Sat, 19 July 2008 13:47 CDT

Co-Host Jae Ellis (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/askromeo) We asked what you wanted us to cover, and ironically enough all of you shy guys out there weren't bashful AT ALL about telling us you wanted this topic dealt with. So how about it? Are you shy around women and want to change that? Or are you an introverted guy who is wondering how to effectively meet the right women given a "pickup" culture obsessed with bars and clubs? And what's the diff between 'shyness' and 'introversion' anyway? Get the lowdown straight from Scot and Jae Ellis (star of the latest current DYD Dating Gurus interview), along with some BTDT for a guy whose would-be fiancee seems to be slacking off a bit. When you're done listening, meet the new team of X &Y Communications instructors at www.edumckaytion.com/blog/team and snag the latest bonus video collection called 'Coolness Personified' from www.thechickwhisperer.com.

Episode 21--The Chick Whisperer--Greatness Gets Women

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Tue, 17 June 2008 07:43 CDT

Co-Host Carlos Xuma (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/carlos) So what's the deal? Is there a "quick fix" for getting women in your life, or do you have to become a flat-out superhuman stud before you even think about seeing any success? Scot McKay and The "Alpha Man" himself Carlos Xuma hash out what it takes to start taking control of your dating life like a man. Can't there be a REALISTIC plan for being the kind of man you actually WANT to be and filling your life with great women? You betcha. Listen in and discover exactly what that means from two guys who specialize in this stuff. Plus, Jason in New Jersey asks about how he can acquire a laser-sharp wit like all his friends seem to have...and reel in the chicks with. Also get in on a BRAND NEW bonus featuring lots of video by signing up for the newsletter at www.thechickwhisperer.com, invite some friends to tune in, and chill out at the NEW forum at www.thechickwhisperer.com/forum.

Episode 20--The Chick Whisperer--First Date Success: Welcome To Your Reality

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Thu, 17 April 2008 05:03 CDT

Co-Host Dave M. (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/davem) You're probably used to hearing Dave M. talk about online dating. In this episode, you'll get to know another whole side of his game--more specifically, how to make first dates go your way...every single time. Wild success online means LOTS of first dates, although you'll soon find out why neither he nor Scot are particularly comfortable considering first meetings actual 'dates', at least when done up right. Listen in and never suffer through a humiliating first meeting with a woman ever again. Instead, learn the art of welcoming each and every woman you meet into your own personal reality--which is exactly where she should want to be. By the way, pay careful attention toward the end of the podcast for some brand new stuff that will knock your socks off. Stay in step with the show by signing up for the newsletter at www.thechickwhisperer.com, inviting some friends to tune in,stopping by the NEW forum at www.thechickwhisperer.com/forum, and snagging that FREE bonus podcast with Brent Smith.

Episode 19--The Chick Whisperer--What Do I Do Next?

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Sat, 08 March 2008 16:58 CST

Co-Host Cory Skyy (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/skyy) One of the most frequently asked questions we get is 'What Do I Do Next?' It's asked when considering how to approach a woman, trying to figure out what to say to a woman, when its time to get her number, even all the way through until when she's in your bedroom. Scot McKay and his guest Cory Skyy give you everything you need to never run into these 'roadblocks' ever again. Why concern yourself with memorizing patterns and routines when you can cure the issue once and for all? Remember, be sure to sign up for our newsletter at www.thechickwhisperer.com and get a FREE BONUS episode featuring Brent Smith that's available nowhere else.

Episode 18--The Chick Whisperer--Defining Relationships And Making Solid Decisions

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Tue, 05 February 2008 06:54 CST

Co-Host Frank B. Kermit (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/kermit) A lot of guys find the Seduction Community and end up learning how to be PUAs. The problem is that they often arrived wanting to learn how to get a girlfriend. How do guys get off-track like this? Is the pickup artist's lifestyle really the only option for a man who is in total control of his lifestyle with women? Scot and Frank detail the different types of relationships with women and stages thereof. Any or all are available to a man who knows what he wants and makes solid decisions rather than lame excuses. Remember, be sure to sign up for our newsletter at www.thechickwhisperer.com and get a FREE BONUS episode featuring Brent Smith that's available nowhere else.

Episode 17--The Chick Whisperer--Do Great Women Even Really Exist?

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Sat, 05 January 2008 04:12 CST

Co-Host Rion Williams (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/rion). Simply put, there's no other man who spends quite as much time studying the social dynamics between men and women as Rion Williams. So when he stops by to co-host the show, you can be assured that the discussion will invariably turn towards the highest echelon of great women and how to attract them. If various forums around the Seduction Community are any indication, there's widespread belief that even the very existence of truly great women is a myth--especially in North America. Listen in as Scot and Rion explore that concept, offering some very real explanations of why guys might feel that way. More importantly, find out how to escape that pessimistic frame and start discovering unbelievably high-quality women in YOUR home town. Remember, be sure to sign up for our newsletter at www.thechickwhisperer.com and get a FREE BONUS episode featuring Brent Smith that's available nowhere else.

Episode 16--The Chick Whisperer--Understand Women And Get What You Want

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Thu, 06 December 2007 05:58 CST

Co-Host Zan Perrion (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/zan). Known for being a world-class master of 'natural game', Zan Perrion stops by for a discussion on what it takes to understand women. Bypassing all the fluff, the co-hosts deliver non-stop original content on the subject which is likely to challenge everything you've ever heard. Then again, what else is new around here? Count on being better equipped than ever before when it comes to getting what you want out of your lifestyle with women. Also...a listener calls in wanting to know what's up with guys who wear pink. Be sure to sign up for our newsletter at www.thechickwhisperer.com and get a FREE BONUS episode featuring Brent Smith that's available nowhere else.

Episode 15--The Chick Whisperer--Having Sex With Her As Soon As Possible

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Fri, 02 November 2007 10:13 CST

Co-Host Joseph "Thundercat" Matthews (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/rapport). Contrary to what beginners are taught to believe when it comes to getting to a physical level with women as soon as possible, McKay and Matthews spill the completely ironic if not downright counter-intuitive truth to the matter. And wait, what if we find a woman we'd actually like to keep around for a while? Will having sex too early in the relationship screw things up...literally? Get the unexpected response--right after that voice mail from the famous musician who can't seem to get the women to stick around after gigs. No kidding.

Episode 14--The Chick Whisperer--Pickup, Seduction...And Then What?

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Wed, 10 October 2007 18:43 CDT

Co-Host Cameron Teone (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/cameron). Cameron Teone is the kind of guy you could have a beer with. Listen in as he shares stories from his Project Hollywood days, leading to a discussion of what it really takes to get the hottest women into your life. Routines and techniques get you to the front doorstep, but what does it take to move beyond the first stages? Scot and Cameron also talk about what to do in a bar or club scenario when a woman you want to approach has already seen you get "shot down" a few times, and answer an email from a guy who's woman left him for another guy only to hint at wanting to come back for a fling. There's lots of action on tap in this show. {pca-c69da4177b4e354f29ef8140a3ec458c}

Episode 13--The Chick Whisperer--Poisonous Women: More Than Just A Pretty Face

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Thu, 20 September 2007 09:19 CDT

Co-Host Stephen Nash From Cutting Edge Image Consulting (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/nash). After a warm up on how to handle getting approached by women (thanks to an email from a listener with some serious newfound game), Scot and his co-host/fellow podcaster Stephen Nash throw down exactly how to identify and avoid getting tangled with women who could ruin your life. Gain a perspective you may never have had previously, and quite literally save yourself a WORLD of trouble...all because you subscribed to our little show. Sweet. And by the way, what's up with that six-week hiatus? Find out. {pca-c69da4177b4e354f29ef8140a3ec458c}

Episode 12--The Chick Whisperer--Playboy, PUA, Player, Ladies' Man...What's The Difference?

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Thu, 09 August 2007 00:32 CDT

Co-Host Nick Shane From BecomeAPlayboy.com (http://www.becomeaplayboy.com). OK, so the terms 'playboy', 'pickup artist', 'player' and 'ladies' man' are all heard a lot, and guys are bombarded with advice on how to be one (or all four). But, seriously, what do these terms mean? And more importantly, how do you know if the shoe fits or not? Find out as Scot breaks it down with a guy who should know. Also...how to practice 'safe sex' if going at it on the roof. {pca-c69da4177b4e354f29ef8140a3ec458c}

Episode 11--The Chick Whisperer--Daytime Pickup

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Tue, 24 July 2007 14:25 CDT

Co-Host Brad Finsilver from DateMentor.com (http://www.datementor.com). Most of the attention given to pickup tends to center around bars and clubs. But a true measure of a man who is in control of his own dating world is how effectively--and authentically--he can approach women and create attraction anywhere he goes. We challenge you to leave the peacock home for now and consider the possibilities for igniting femininity in broad daylight...right there in public. Boldly go where no man has gone before (or so it seems) courtesy of this epic-length edition of TCW featuring so much rapid-fire material you'd think it was this month's Power Session. And no...Brad Finsilver isn't really Steve Martin incognito, he just sounds like it. {pca-c69da4177b4e354f29ef8140a3ec458c}

Episode 10--The Chick Whisperer--Talking To Women You Just Met

scot@xandycommunications.net (Scot McKay) — Tue, 03 July 2007 05:44 CDT

Co-Host Sebastian Drake from The Approach (http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/vibe). You've heard terms like 'approach', 'banter' and 'rapport' riffed on elsewhere. How about a completely different outlook on talking to women you've just met? Get your head around what a woman truly wants when it comes to first-impressions and WIN. Fair warning, guys: What is unleashed in this episode is revolutionary yet makes perfect sense. It could be the most important message you've heard in a long time, allowing you to separate yourself from the herd...but isn't that what you've come to expect from TCW? {pca-c69da4177b4e354f29ef8140a3ec458c}