Listen - The Full Stop Communityhttps://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/Mon, 23 Mar 2026 12:36:12 +0000en-GBSite-Server v@build.version@ (http://www.squarespace.com)noinfertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menA friendly, informative and fun podcast for friends, family and those who are coming to terms with infertility and childlessness.A childless not by choice community podcast thefullstoppod@gmail.comChildless at the End of Life: What Nobody Tells YouSun, 22 Mar 2026 14:21:08 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-8464610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:69bff681deb04c144db844a5This is one of those episodes that takes a little courage both to make, and perhaps to listen to. But we think you'll come away from it feeling more informed, less alone, and ready to take at least one step you've been putting off.

Death and end of life planning are topics most of us avoid. Add childlessness into the mix and the silence gets even louder because so much of the information, guidance and legal framework out there assumes that you have someone: a child, a close family member, someone who knows you and will step in when the time comes. For a growing number of people, that assumption simply doesn't hold.

In this episode we bring together three guests with distinct and complementary expertise to have the conversation that so many childless adults need and so rarely get.

In this episode we cover:

What end of life planning actually means, from advanced care planning right through to after death

Powers of attorney: what they are, how they work, and crucially, what your options are if you don't have someone you trust to appoint

Advanced Statements and Advanced Decisions to Refuse Treatment and why Penny argues these matter more than most people realise

The concept of social death and how childlessness shapes the experience of ageing and loss

What happens to your belongings and why recording the provenance of meaningful items matters

The gap in legal guidance around local authority funerals and why it urgently needs updating

Why there is currently no central register of wills in England and Wales and what that means for people who die alone

The role of animals in later life, and the organisations that can help

Assisted dying legislation: what it means (and doesn't mean) for powers of attorney right now

Our guests:

Charlotte Dixon — wills and probate solicitor and lifetime lawyer

Professor Gayle Letherby — sociologist and researcher specialising in childlessness, identity and the life course

Penny Shepherd — coordinator of Ageing Without Children East Kent and trustee of the Aging Without Children (AWOC) charity

Please note: Nothing in this episode constitutes personal legal or financial advice. Laws and frameworks vary by country and region, always do your own research and consult a qualified professional for advice specific to your circumstances.

Resources and links mentioned:

Ageing Without Children (AWOC): awoc.org

Office of the Public Guardian (England & Wales): gov.uk/opg

National Will Register: nationalwillregister.co.uk

The Cinnamon Trust: cinnamon.org.uk

Cats Protection: cats.org.uk

Dogs Trust: dogstrust.org.uk

Ashes to Admin: Stories from the Caseload of a Local Authority Funeral Officer by Evie King

Continue the conversation: Join The Full Stop Community at thefullstoppod.com/fullstopcommunity

The Full Stop is a podcast for and about the childless not by choice community. New episodes available on all major podcast platforms

]]>This is one of those episodes that takes a little courage both to make, and perhaps to listen to. But we think you'll come away from it feeling more informed, less alone, and ready to take at least one step you've been putting off.

Death and end of life planning are topics most of us avoid. Add childlessness into the mix and the silence gets even louder because so much of the information, guidance and legal framework out there assumes that you have someone: a child, a close family member, someone who knows you and will step in when the time comes. For a growing number of people, that assumption simply doesn't hold.

In this episode we bring together three guests with distinct and complementary expertise to have the conversation that so many childless adults need and so rarely get.

In this episode we cover:

What end of life planning actually means, from advanced care planning right through to after death

Powers of attorney: what they are, how they work, and crucially, what your options are if you don't have someone you trust to appoint

Advanced Statements and Advanced Decisions to Refuse Treatment and why Penny argues these matter more than most people realise

The concept of social death and how childlessness shapes the experience of ageing and loss

What happens to your belongings and why recording the provenance of meaningful items matters

The gap in legal guidance around local authority funerals and why it urgently needs updating

Why there is currently no central register of wills in England and Wales and what that means for people who die alone

The role of animals in later life, and the organisations that can help

Assisted dying legislation: what it means (and doesn't mean) for powers of attorney right now

Our guests:

Charlotte Dixon — wills and probate solicitor and lifetime lawyer

Professor Gayle Letherby — sociologist and researcher specialising in childlessness, identity and the life course

Penny Shepherd — coordinator of Ageing Without Children East Kent and trustee of the Aging Without Children (AWOC) charity

Please note: Nothing in this episode constitutes personal legal or financial advice. Laws and frameworks vary by country and region, always do your own research and consult a qualified professional for advice specific to your circumstances.

Resources and links mentioned:

Ageing Without Children (AWOC): awoc.org

Office of the Public Guardian (England & Wales): gov.uk/opg

National Will Register: nationalwillregister.co.uk

The Cinnamon Trust: cinnamon.org.uk

Cats Protection: cats.org.uk

Dogs Trust: dogstrust.org.uk

Ashes to Admin: Stories from the Caseload of a Local Authority Funeral Officer by Evie King

Continue the conversation: Join The Full Stop Community at thefullstoppod.com/fullstopcommunity

The Full Stop is a podcast for and about the childless not by choice community. New episodes available on all major podcast platforms

]]>Michael Hughes, Berenice Howard-Smith and Sarah LawrenceThe practical and emotional realities of end of life planning when you don't have children to lean on.What does end of life planning actually look like when you don't have children to advocate for you? In this honest and practical episode, Berenice and Michael are joined by Charlotte Dixon (wills and probate solicitor), Professor Gail Letherby (sociologist) and Penny Shepherd (Aging Without Children trustee) to explore the conversations, legal tools and support systems that childless adults need — but are rarely told about.false01:01:16510Childless at the End of Life: What Nobody Tells Youfullthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)Imagine If: Writing the Unspoken with Byddi LeeSat, 21 Feb 2026 14:50:49 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-8364610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6999c2e922936363d2449564What happens when a writer decides to break the silence around childlessness, but not with a neat resolution, but through the voices of two women whose stories span 4,000 years?

In this episode, Berenice and Michael are joined by Byddi Lee. She is the author of Barren (shortlisted for the 2025 Carousel Aware Prize for Independent Authors), The Rejuvenation Trilogy, and March to November. She has published flash fiction, short stories, and co-founded and manages the spoken word event Flash Fiction Armagh. Byddi also writes for stage and screen. Her climate-change play Toxic Relationships has been performed by Armagh Theatre Group in venues across Ireland regularly since 2023. Byddi is a member of BBC Writersroom Voices 23, is an Arts Council Northern Ireland supported writer and holds professional membership at the Irish Writers Centre in Dublin and the Society of Authors, UK.

For more information, visit www.ByddiLee.com.

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The Full Stop podcast and content posted by The Full Stop Community CIC is presented solely for general information, and educational purposes. The guests’ views may not represent those of the Full Stop Community CIC, online community members or the co-directors. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

]]>Michael Hughes, Berenice Howard-Smith and Sarah LawrenceWhat happens when a writer decides to break the silence around childlessness?In this episode, Berenice and Michael are joined by Byddi Lee, novelist, playwright, biologist, former teacher, passionate gardener and proud cat mum to five, originally from Armagh, Northern Ireland. We're here to talk about her remarkable novel Barren — a dual-timeline story that weaves together a contemporary experience of baby loss and infertility with a gripping, scientifically grounded journey into Neolithic Ireland.false01:06:5759Imagine IffullImagine Ifthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menChildless Voices: Celebrating Civilla Morganpodcast episodeSun, 18 Jan 2026 13:36:42 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode8264610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:696cd6c13062d14b648190fe

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithTen Years, 180 Episodes, and Choosing to Rest: Podcasting, Grief, and Living a Full LifeIn this episode of The Full Stop, we are joined by Sevilla, one of the earliest and most influential voices in the childless not by choice podcasting space. After ten years and 180 episodes, Civilla shares her decision to step away from her podcast — a choice shaped by grief, timing, work, and deep self-reflection.false01:06:5758Childless Voices: Celebrating Civilla MorganfullChildless Voices: Celebrating Civilla Morganthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menLetting Go of the Perfect Holiday Seasonpodcast episodeSat, 20 Dec 2025 18:31:40 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode164610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6946e9e9ee022009fd5683c3

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithPast, Present and FutureIn this reflective end-of-year episode, Berenice, Sarah, and Michael look back on the past year, the growth of the Full Stop, and the conversations that have shaped their community. They also turn gently towards December holidays, a season that can bring joy, grief, pressure, and loneliness in equal measure.false01:06:5757Letting Go of the Perfect Holiday Seasonfullthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)Childlessness and LGBTQ+:Identity,Activism and Belongingpodcast episodeSat, 15 Nov 2025 16:10:13 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode8064610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:691886618396227c11708088

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithThe Invisible Grief of Gay MenAustralian activist Michael Barnett joins the Full Stop to talk about identity, queer visibility, childlessness not by choice, and what it means to advocate fiercely for others while holding private grief.false00:59:5856Childlessness and LGBTQ+: Identity, Activism and BelongingfullChildlessness and LGBTQ+: Identity, Activism and Belongingthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menChildlessness and Changing Relationshipspodcast episodeFri, 10 Oct 2025 22:09:10 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode7964610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:68e98226ef51a22a278bb9c7

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithThe Squeaky Third Wheel: Childlessness, Connection & Courage in RelationshipsIn this heartfelt episode of the Full Stop podcast, counsellor and author Meriel Whale joins the team to discuss how childlessness reshapes love, identity, and connection within relationships. Together with Berenice, Sarah, and Michael, she explores what happens when partners experience grief at different paces, how intimacy and communication evolve after loss, and why understanding each other’s emotional landscape matters more than ever. This conversation dives deep into the unspoken spaces , loneliness within couples, the struggle to ask for help, and the challenge of rebuilding closeness after childlessness. Insightful, compassionate, and full of warmth, it’s an invitation to slow down, listen differently, and find courage in the spaces between.false00:59:5855Childlessness and Changing RelationshipsfullChildlessness and Changing Relationshipsthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menOwning Our Othernesspodcast episodeSun, 07 Sep 2025 11:47:26 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode7864610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:68bd6e7326ad714911298d5f

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithReframing ‘Otherness’: A Conversation with Lana ManikowskiIn our latest episode, we talk with author and coach Lana Manikowski about the experience of being “othered” as a woman without children. Lana describes how years of infertility led her to a new purpose: helping others define their lives beyond parenthood. She speaks openly about shame, resilience, and the importance of investing in yourself — whether that means therapy, journaling, or creating community. Lana also shares the story of founding Others Day Brunch, an annual event that offers connection and celebration for those who feel isolated around Mother’s Day.false00:59:5854Owning Our OthernessfullOwning Our Othernessthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menEmpowering the Childless Menopausepodcast episodeSun, 10 Aug 2025 10:34:51 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode7764610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:68978885b71d0f1a6f469196

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithDiscovery, Emotional Processing, and Empowerment DuringTransitionIn Episode 77, Berenice, Michael, and Sarah are joined by Anne Barratt from Empowering Health who discusses her holistic approach to health, focusing on kinesiology and its role in understanding individual experiences of menopause and childlessness. Anne encourages listeners to embrace their femininity and creativity, highlighting that aging is not an end but a new beginning.false00:59:4653Empowering the Childless MenopausefullEmpowering the Childless Menopausethefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menThe Silence After IVF: What Happens When It Doesn’t Workpodcast episodeSat, 12 Jul 2025 10:40:57 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode7664610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:687239b6e5124123d48c7ba3

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithWhat Happens When It Doesn’t WorkIn Episode 76, Berenice, Michael, and Sarah have the conversation they’ve avoided for six years: what happens after failed IVF. With raw honesty and compassion, they explore the emotional aftermath of a process that’s gruelling, often isolating, and rarely discussed when it doesn't lead to parenthood. They reflect on grief, lost identities, anger at misleading success rates, the mental and financial toll, and the uncomfortable silence surrounding childlessness after IVF. This episode holds space for everyone who has ever felt abandoned by the system—and those seeking to understand.false00:59:4653The Silence After IVFfullThe Silence After IVFthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menI Can’t Not Do It: Storytelling, Grief and Identitypodcast episodeSun, 01 Jun 2025 13:14:04 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode7564610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:683c4fdf437ca35b50f1cb8b

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithChildlessness and connectionsWe welcome Professor Gayle Letherby, a pioneering sociologist whose deeply personal and academic work has transformed how we think about childlessness, grief, identity, and storytelling. Gayle reflects on her journey, beginning with a miscarriage in the 1980s that altered her life trajectory and became the foundation of a groundbreaking academic career. Her research into involuntary childlessness, pregnancy loss, and the status of parenthood spans decades—and she’s still going strongfalse00:59:4652I Can’t Not Do It: Storytelling, Grief & Identity fullI Can’t Not Do It: Storytelling, Grief & Identity thefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menBeing a childless aunt, uncle or godparentpodcast episodeWed, 07 May 2025 09:05:12 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode7464610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:68176daf7afeda30417318f2

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithNavigating caring roles with children as a childless person Please note that we do cover what it’s like not to be an aunt, uncle or godparent, as one of our presenters does not have this caring role. This might be a challenging listen for some of our audience, so you may wish to skip this one. (Members of our online community can carry on the discussion in our safe space.)false00:59:4651Being a childless aunt, uncle or godparent fullBeing a childless aunt, uncle or godparent thefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menFriendship and Found Familypodcast episodeMon, 07 Apr 2025 17:03:34 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode7364610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:67f401d91a573f6830cac99c

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithFriendship Dynamics and Childlessness with Robert NurdenIn this episode of the Full Stop podcast, hosts Berenice, Michael, and Sarah are joined by returning guest Robert Nurden to discuss the nuanced and often underexplored topic of how childlessness impacts friendships. The conversation delves into personal experiences, societal reactions, and the emotional complexities surrounding friendship dynamics in the context of childlessness.false00:59:46411Friendship and Found FamilyfullFriendship and Found Familythefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menInternational Women’s Day: Breaking the Silence on Childlessness and Gender Equalitypodcast episodeThu, 06 Mar 2025 22:37:12 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode7264610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:67ca1ffa970fd81f0f0dc8a5Anne is a postgraduate degree qualified counsellor holding a Masters in Counselling and Psychotherapy and experienced in supporting grief of involuntary childlessness with many communities - CALD, heterosexual men and women as well as in the LGBTQIA+ community. 

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithThe importance of acknowledging childlessness in the International Women’s Day narrativeAnne shares her insights on the importance of visibility, the emotional toll of exclusion, and how platforms like LinkedIn can be used to broaden conversations about childlessness. We also dive into International Women’s Day, discussing the need for allyship, the gendered expectations placed on women, and how we can all work towards a more inclusive and equal society.false00:01:05410International Women's Day: Breaking the Silence on Childlessness and Gender EqualityfullInternational Women's Day: Breaking the Silence on Childlessness and Gender Equalitythefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menChildless and Pregnancy Losspodcast episodeSun, 02 Feb 2025 12:27:10 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode7164610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:679f61616ee9f447d3b937cbThis episode talks about fertility treatment, miscarriage and pregnancy from the start. We stress that every journey is valid and that sharing stories around why we’re childless can be a powerful tool for healing and changing society narratives.

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithInspiring conversation about setting intentions, goals, and how we navigate life as childless individuals.This conversation delves into the heavy and often unspoken topic of miscarriage, pregnancy loss, and childlessness. We and our guests, Lori and Sandra share our personal stories, highlighting the emotional turmoil and isolation that often accompany these experiences. We discuss the importance of community support, the hierarchy of grief, and the need for open dialogue about loss. false00:01:0549Childless and Pregnancy LossfullChildless and Pregnancy Lossthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menAlternative approaches to resolutionspodcast episodeSun, 05 Jan 2025 15:40:10 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode7064610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:677aa2bb5f6528257e5f0b65In this conversation, Bindi, Lisa, Berenice and Michael explore the themes of community, personal growth, and the unique experiences of childless individuals. We discuss the importance of creating a supportive environment, and how to navigate societal expectations. We debate the significance of setting intentions and embracing life's journey, while also recognising the challenges that come with it.

]]>In this conversation, Bindi, Lisa, Berenice and Michael explore the themes of community, personal growth, and the unique experiences of childless individuals. We discuss the importance of creating a supportive environment, and how to navigate societal expectations. We debate the significance of setting intentions and embracing life's journey, while also recognising the challenges that come with it.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithInspiring conversation about setting intentions, goals, and how we navigate life as childless individuals.Lisa and Bindi share their personal journeys, contrasting the pressures of goal-setting with the more flexible, empowering practice of setting intentions.false00:01:0548Alternative approaches to resolutionsfullAlternative approaches to resolutionsthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menTriggers and tackling festive celebrationspodcast episodeSun, 01 Dec 2024 12:47:22 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode6964610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:674c53f576ab594ee00bab5eWe’ll talk about the courage to say no, the art of self-care during the holidays, and the power of embracing a more authentic, personalised way of celebrating. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed by family obligations or looking for ways to make this season meaningful on your terms, this conversation will inspire and empower you.

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithExploring boundaries, grief, and finding joy during times of celebration.Holidays like Christmas are often painted as joyful and magical, but for many, they bring up emotional complexities—especially for those navigating childlessness and changing family dynamics. Together with Michael, Sarah, and Berenice, Karin helps us unpack what it means to honour your needs, set healthy boundaries, and create new traditions that reflect who you are today.false00:01:0548Triggers and tackling festive celebrationsfullTriggers and tackling festive celebrationsthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menChildless Men’s Experiences in Societypodcast episodeSun, 03 Nov 2024 13:19:26 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode6864610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6727769d2d28b54dc0ddaf43The importance of providing visibility and voice for childless men, challenging societal silence, and creating safe spaces for men to openly discuss their experiences.

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithFor International Men's Day we explore the often-overlooked experiences of childless menDrawing from their panel discussion at the Storyhouse Childless event in Chester, they explore what it means to navigate society and self-perception as men without children—whether by choice or circumstance. Featuring insights from Michael, Andy Harrod, Mark Briggs van Leeuwen, and Sam Ryley, this candid conversation highlights the challenges, the societal silence, and the journey to self-acceptance faced by childless men across generations.false00:00:5647Childless Men’s Experiences in SocietyfullChildless Men’s Experiences in Societythefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menChildlessness and money explainedpodcast episodeMon, 23 Sep 2024 10:53:57 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode6764610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:66f142afdcc28d0a00ba5a01

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithHow financial plans can challenge our life scriptsIn this conversation, Dr Jay Zigmont discusses the unique financial planning needs of childless people. He emphasises the importance of understanding the different life scripts and financial goals that come with being childless, and we have a chat about the societal judgments and perceptions that often accompany being childless not by choice. We talk about the challenges of systemic change in financial services to better help us, the significance of legacy and the power in building supportive communities. false00:01:0246Childless and money explainedfullChildless and money explainedthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menAgeing with experiencepodcast episodeSun, 01 Sep 2024 13:13:36 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode6664610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:66d4664180c6b9382d39cb5bIn this conversation, Michael discusses the challenges and fears associated with aging and the need for planning and preparation. He emphasises the importance of thinking ahead and considering various aspects of life, such as cognitive ability, health, relationships, and technology. We also talk about the role of advocacy and the need for trusted friends or family members to support and advocate for individuals as they age.

Michael shares personal experiences with his parents' dementia and the importance of having legal documents in place, such as power of attorney and enduring guardianship. We highlight the need for proactive planning and open discussions about ageing and care and ask if there are more ways to create a movement around end-of-life planning for the childless community.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithPersonal reflections on the impact of caringMichael discusses the challenges and fears associated with aging and the need for planning and preparation. He emphasizes the importance of thinking ahead and considering various aspects of life, such as cognitive ability, health, relationships, and technology. The conversation also touches on the role of advocacy and the need for trusted friends or family members to support and advocate for individuals as they age.false00:01:0245Ageing with experiencefullAgeing with experiencethefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menMaking a noise with World Childless Weekpodcast episodeSun, 28 Jul 2024 13:36:31 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode6564610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:66a642fad8c0e857fecaea41
World Childless Week is an annual event that aims to give a voice to the childless community. It was started by Stephanie Joy Phillips because she felt there was a lack of representation for childless individuals. The event has grown over the years, supported by the Ambassadors who help organise and promote the week.

Being childless not by choice (cnbc) is the taboo subject of an unrecognised minority. World Childless Week is there to help the cnbc: validate their emotions, find support, build friendships, realise their own worth and rediscover the confidence to speak out and celebrate themselves as a unique individual. 

Alongside supporting the childless community World Childless Week hopes to reach out and work towards building bridges between the childless, childfree and parents; raising empathy and removing the stigma of disenfranchised grief.  

World Childless Week takes place on 16-22 Sept 2024.

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Storyhouse is an independent arts centre and creative hub in Chester, UK. It offers a range of events, including Storyhouse Childless, which focuses on supporting and raising awareness for those who are childless or child-free. The event has grown over the years, with increasing attendance and expanded programming. It provides a safe and supportive environment for people to connect, share their experiences, and find understanding. The event is a two-day gathering that aims to create a supportive and empowering space for the childless community.

Join Annabel, Kirsty, Jane and Nicola as we find out about the themes, get a few spoilers and talk about the need for Storyhouse Childless, and how this event has had a positive impact on volunteers and staff at the venue too.

Storyhouse Childless takes place on 28-29th September 2024 with an extra meet-up on Friday 27th September at the Storyhouse bar. Buy tickets or find out more on the Storyhouse website.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithEmpowering with Storyhouse ChildlessMeet Annabel Turpin, CEO of Storyhouse, Nicola Haigh, Storyhouse Community Manager who are in conversation with Kirsty Higgins and Jane Davis whose ideas created, and helped to grow, the annual Storyhouse Childless event. false00:45:1635Telling Stories with StoryhousefullTelling Stories with Storyhousethefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menThe Spaces Between Us: Childfree and Childlesspodcast episodeMon, 27 May 2024 09:54:16 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode6364610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6654553d5dda142ebf1e1ba3To make connections with others in childless not by choice spaces you can download our useful guide written by Sarah Lawrence and designed by Berenice Howard-Smith.

]]>To make connections with others in childless not by choice spaces you can download our useful guide written by Sarah Lawrence and designed by Berenice Howard-Smith.

]]>Michael Hughes, Berenice Howard-Smith and Sarah LawrenceCan we be allies and asking difficult questions over the differencesWe are joined by Ali Hall and Dr. Dawn Llewellyn to discuss the perceptions of childfree and childless individuals. We explore the challenges of visibility and the need for more nuanced language. The conversation addresses the divide between the childfree and childless communities, the importance of creating safe spaces, and the complexities of aging without children. The episode emphasises empathy, understanding, and debates unity as a means of advocating for non-parents. false01:11:58511The Spaces Between Us: Childfree and ChildlessfullThe Spaces Between Us: Childfree and Childlessthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menAsk us anything: five years of the Full Stoppodcast episodeSun, 28 Apr 2024 11:26:10 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode6264610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:662e2d77efbbc259390f9b55To make connections with others in childless not by choice spaces you can download our useful guide written by Sarah Lawrence and designed by Berenice Howard-Smith.

Enter our competition to win a signed copy of Save Me From The Waves by Jessica Hepburn, biscuits from The Kitsch Hen and a year of membership for a childless not by choice person to the online Full Stop Community. Enter via social media or our online form. Please note that terms and conditions apply.

]]>To make connections with others in childless not by choice spaces you can download our useful guide written by Sarah Lawrence and designed by Berenice Howard-Smith.

Enter our competition to win a signed copy of Save Me From The Waves by Jessica Hepburn, biscuits from The Kitsch Hen and a year of membership for a childless not by choice person to the online Full Stop Community. Enter via social media or our online form. Please note that terms and conditions apply.

]]>Michael Hughes, Berenice Howard-Smith and Sarah LawrenceCelebrating five years of podcastingThe Full Stop podcast hosts, are joined by members of the online community to discuss personal growth, the importance of inclusivity and diversity within the childless community, and the therapeutic power of vulnerability. We share our struggles and the strength we have found in the community's empathy and support. We also discuss future directions, advocating for the community, and the value of challenging conversations. The episode underscores The Full Stop’s role in creating a supportive environment and the collective appreciation for the sense of belonging it has provided.false01:11:58510Ask Us Anything: Five Years of The Full StopfullAsk Us Anything: Five Years of The Full Stopthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menChildlessness and lonelinesspodcast episodeThu, 28 Mar 2024 15:11:48 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode6164610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:65ff21c40d8b994a4ed45174To make connections with others in childless not by choice spaces you can download our useful guide written by Sarah Lawrence and designed by Berenice Howard-Smith.

]]>To make connections with others in childless not by choice spaces you can download our useful guide written by Sarah Lawrence and designed by Berenice Howard-Smith.

]]>Michael Hughes, Berenice Howard-Smith and Sarah Lawrence We're starting a conversation on childlessness and loneliness We discuss the subjective nature of loneliness, its distinction from social isolation, and its fluidity. The conversation covers the societal pressures and gendered experiences of loneliness, with insights into how we seek connection and support.false01:11:58510Childlessness and Loneliness with Dr Joanne Lawrence-Bourne and Dr Robin HadleyfullChildlessness and Loneliness with Dr Joanne Lawrence-Bourne and Dr Robin Hadleythefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menSave Me from the Wavespodcast episodeSat, 17 Feb 2024 09:59:13 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode6064610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:65cb7a1659190f54297d85db

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]]>Michael Hughes, Berenice Howard-Smith and Sarah LawrenceDiversity and inclusion for childless people at work and in business networks.We are joined by our dear friend - author, arts producer, and adventurer Jessica Hepburn, who shares insights from her life and discusses her upcoming book "Save Me from the Waves," the therapeutic role of nature and swimming in her life, and the influence of "Desert Island Discs" on her personal growth. She shares her plans for a year of self-love and her writing on Substack. The conversation encompasses themes of resilience, self-discovery, and the importance of finding joy and connection in our found families.false01:17:2059Save Me from the Waves with Jessica HepburnfullSave Me from the Waves with Jessica Hepburnthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menNavigating the workplace as a non-parentpodcast episodeFri, 19 Jan 2024 18:30:52 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode5964610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:65aabc80e0ff5954928e991fThis episode contains mentions of IVF and miscarriage.

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]]>Michael Hughes, Berenice Howard-Smith and Sarah LawrenceDiversity and inclusion for childless people at work and in business networks.In this podcast episode, Sophie Hunter from S E Hunter Associates joins us for thoughtful discussion about the challenges that people without children face in professional settings, including workplace bullying and discrimination. We share personal experiences and emphasise the need for greater awareness, support, and genuine empathy from colleagues and managers. The conversation explores the differences in experiences between childless men and women, the importance of leadership training, and the potential for childlessness to become a protected characteristic. We share our advocacy for open communication, the creation of employee support networks, and encourage companies and business networks to foster an inclusive environment that values all employees regardless of family status.false01:17:2058Navigating the workplace as a non-parent fullNavigating the workplace as a non-parent thefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menBoundaries and careSat, 16 Dec 2023 20:49:06 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/boundaries-and-words-of-comfort64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:657df388467e4b148d4c101eThis episode mentions infertility, miscarriage and loss.

]]>This episode mentions infertility, miscarriage and loss.

]]>Michael Hughes, Berenice Howard-Smith and Sarah LawrenceChildlessness and the holidaysChristmas and the holiday season can be a complicated time for those of us in the childless community. It's OK to grieve, to long for a different experience, and to set boundaries to protect ourselves. Let's remember that it's alright to do what feels right for us during this season. false57Boundaries and carefullBoundaries and carethefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menWhy is nobody talking about childless men?Sat, 18 Nov 2023 13:27:37 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-57-imd64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6557c7e69fc4040d0a747d18The 57th episode of The Full Stop podcast is recorded to raise awareness of childless men on International Men's Day, 19th November. The recording features a panel of childless men discussing their experiences and perspectives. The speakers, from various backgrounds and professions, share their personal journeys with childlessness, discussing feelings of exclusion and inclusion and the impact of societal narratives around men who are not fathers, and the importance of finding support. They also address the lack of conversation around childless men and the need for more recognition and understanding. The discussion includes research findings from Dr Robin A Hadley who also shares a poem that reflects on the longing and emptiness experienced by men who are not childless not by choice.

]]>The 57th episode of The Full Stop podcast is recorded to raise awareness of childless men on International Men's Day, 19th November. The recording features a panel of childless men discussing their experiences and perspectives. The speakers, from various backgrounds and professions, share their personal journeys with childlessness, discussing feelings of exclusion and inclusion and the impact of societal narratives around men who are not fathers, and the importance of finding support. They also address the lack of conversation around childless men and the need for more recognition and understanding. The discussion includes research findings from Dr Robin A Hadley who also shares a poem that reflects on the longing and emptiness experienced by men who are not childless not by choice.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithInternational Mens' Day 2023In a society where men are often measured by their achievements, what happens when one of those markers - parenthood - doesn't come into play?Our guests, including Dr Robin Hadley, reflect on societal narratives around men and women in a thought-provoking Full Stop podcast episode. Let's redefine the perception on International Men's Day and beyond.. false01:03:3556Why is nobody talking about childless men?fullWhy is nobody talking about childless men?thefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menHidden Stories of ChildlessnessSun, 15 Oct 2023 16:26:12 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-5664610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:65291d6df912f74fbd0d4f2cThis conversation is a heartfelt exploration of disability and hidden illnesses, with an invitation to understand and empathise with the struggles of those who are childless not by choice.

]]>This conversation is a heartfelt exploration of disability and hidden illnesses, with an invitation to understand and empathise with the struggles of those who are childless not by choice.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice SmithSharing lfe stories of not being a parentNina Thair and Danielle Hines in conversation with us on their journey to childlessness and challenging us to go deeper. false01:03:3556Hidden Stories of ChildlessnessfullHidden Stories of Childlessnessthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menI Always Wanted To Be A DadSat, 16 Sep 2023 12:04:34 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/robert-nurden64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:650595f4be01ac0a1c79cff1This conversation is a heartfelt exploration of a sensitive topic and an invitation to understand and empathize with the struggles of those who are childless not by choice.

]]>This conversation is a heartfelt exploration of a sensitive topic and an invitation to understand and empathize with the struggles of those who are childless not by choice.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice SmithMen Without ChildrenRobert's journey to find a partner and have children, his involvement in the childless men's community, and his book project are discussed.false01:03:3555I Always Wanted To Be A DadfullI Always Wanted To Be A Dadthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menChanging attitudes to medical care and childlessnessSat, 19 Aug 2023 17:06:25 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/changing-attitudes64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:64e0e32006a25e7d9e55dd43We recorded this podcast with an audience from The Full Stop Community. We had some outstanding questions which you'll hear us answer in the recording.

]]>We recorded this podcast with an audience from The Full Stop Community. We had some outstanding questions which you'll hear us answer in the recording.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithEducating and reforming what childlessness means in healthcare with Gail MillerGail Miller is a doctor working in the USA and a coach. She also happens to be childless and she's using her experiences to educate the medical profession to enable compassion and empathy for the childless community.false01:16:4554Changing attitudes to medical care and childlessnessfullChanging attitudes to medical care and childlessnessthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menCommunity and FriendshipSat, 22 Jul 2023 19:08:15 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/community-friendship64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:64bbca04eb733545141c24ddWe recorded this podcast with an audience from The Full Stop Community. We had some outstanding questions which you'll hear us answer in the recording.

]]>We recorded this podcast with an audience from The Full Stop Community. We had some outstanding questions which you'll hear us answer in the recording.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithConversations about connectionsListen for an empowering discussion that grows on our previous episode on finding an network, to creating and being part of one as Janine and Cecilia share how they have created support in Denmark for those who are childless. false01:09:0853Community and FriendshipfullCommunity and Friendshipthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menThe Circle of TransformationFri, 16 Jun 2023 09:11:12 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen//solo-ageing-inclusion-b6gjk-z3kr664610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:648b3b5d35231937edf32400We recorded for the first time in our Full Stop Community with an audience. We had some outstanding questions which you'll hear us answer in the recording.

]]>We recorded for the first time in our Full Stop Community with an audience. We had some outstanding questions which you'll hear us answer in the recording.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithConversations about compassionListen for an empowering discussion about self-compassion, finding a support network, how to find help and Karin's Circle of Transformation, and so much more. false01:16:3052The Circle of TransformationfullThe Circle of Transformationthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menSecuring our future with youSat, 03 Jun 2023 19:31:21 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen//solo-ageing-inclusion-b6gjk64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:647b9466a138724a4bb42fc7Growing what we do, sustainably securing our future, and giving you something extra matters. We realise that we have a thing' we may want to pass on one day and to keep our digital legacy secure.

]]>Growing what we do, sustainably securing our future, and giving you something extra matters. We realise that we have a thing' we may want to pass on one day and to keep our digital legacy secure.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-SmithGrowing our podcast for our community Join us for our fourth birthday when we share exciting news about the future of The Full Stop and how you can be a bigger part of the story.false00:45:4151Securing our future with you fullSecuring our future with you thefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menSolo Ageing and Inclusion, April 2023EpisodesSun, 23 Apr 2023 12:18:27 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/solo-ageing-inclusion64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:64624fed5c10d808f4764567Patricia and Denise cover so much ground here that applies not just to childless people but to those who are creating online environments and apps as we discuss digital exclusion. They also discuss bias and exclusion around power of attorney, the cost of living crisis, human rights and make a call for more support and awareness. 

]]>Patricia and Denise cover so much ground here that applies not just to childless people but to those who are creating online environments and apps as we discuss digital exclusion. They also discuss bias and exclusion around power of attorney, the cost of living crisis, human rights and make a call for more support and awareness. 

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Howard-Smithwith Patricia Faulks and Denise JacksonPatricia Faulks set up her blog, Lilley and Me, during Covid lockdowns to share the story of ageing alone with childlessness and the challenges that brings including learning how to use her computer and Zoom calls. Denise Jackson returns to the podcast to talk about bias around money saving having challenged UK money expert Martin Lewis to tackle solo households. false01:53:26312Solo Ageing and InclusionfullSolo Ageing and Inclusionthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menChildless Step Parenting, March 2023EpisodesFri, 17 Mar 2023 12:29:21 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/childless-step-parenting64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:64624feea5f04547ec3f2af7We cover the difficulties of Mother’s Day, daily life. Ken and Lisa talk about society’s perception around being a step parent both within the childless community and outside it. We ask about the problems of language and how that affects the sense of place in a family.

]]>We cover the difficulties of Mother’s Day, daily life. Ken and Lisa talk about society’s perception around being a step parent both within the childless community and outside it. We ask about the problems of language and how that affects the sense of place in a family.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice SmithTruths and myths about parenting someone else's childWe were joined by Ken Fenton and Lisa Ann Kissane to talk about the challenges of step parenting when chlldlessfalse01:07:07311Childless Step ParentingfullChildless Step Parentingthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menThe Childless Menopause, February 2023EpisodesSun, 19 Feb 2023 09:34:46 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/childless-menopause64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:64624fefc6926f7a7885f79cWe’d like to introduce you to Anastasia MacDonald who many of you may already know from her constant and reassuring presence online. We gather to talk about how the menopause affects us as the childless not by choice community. Is it a relief? A time of mourning and what’s it like on the other side?

Like many of our episodes, we connect our community both as listeners but also as guests and we have a feeling that there will be some interesting collaborations to come. We do love seeing our guests meet and share stories! If you’d prefer to read, you’ll find a transcript below..

Here’s our guest details

Anastasia can be found on Instagram here and the book she mentioned is What Fresh Hell is This? by Heather Corinna (please do buy from an independent book shop if you can) and the podcasts are The Menstruality, and the Hit Play Not Pause podcast.

Read the transcript

If you enjoyed the transcript and you’d like to support is in transcribing all the episodes and contribute to the Full Stop’s future you can buy us a virtual coffee at Kofi. Thank you.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice SmithLoss, grief or celebration?We're bring our unique experiences of the menopause to the table. So little is said of the loss that we may feel as this life changing event happens and the impact on us and, perhaps our partners too. We're joined by Anastasia MacDonald. false01:18:22310The Childless MenopausefullThe Childless Menopausethefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menNew beginnings, January 2023EpisodesSun, 15 Jan 2023 09:30:00 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/beginnings-jan-202364610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:64624ff0a98fad1be3ddce34We’d like to introduce you to our guests who are rather marvellous company, as you’ll find out in our 47th episode. Mike Sparks restores vintage electrics (yes, we also through he has a great name!) and teaches water skiing, how this two areas of his life come about? Caroline Stafford sells gorgeous biscuits and she talks about how she came to create a baking business. Also joining us is Vicky House who founded Clem’s Garden which we’ve long loved, and she explains her vision andher boundaries.

Like many of our episodes, we connect our community both as listeners but also as guests and we have a feeling that there will be some interesting collaborations to come. We do love seeing our guests meet and share stories! If you’d prefer to read, you’ll find a transcript below..

Here’s our guests details

Caroline’s The Kitsch Hen bakes gorgeous biscuits which you can order from her website.

Mike Sparks restores vintage electrical items and sells them online.

Vicky can be found in Clem's Garden which is currently taking a rest but you’ll find lots of gorgeous images and their social media photography is a delight.

Read the transcript

If you enjoyed the transcript and you’d like to support is in transcribing all the episodes and contribute to the Full Stop’s future you can buy us a virtual coffee at Kofi. Thank you.

]]>Michael Hughes, Berenice Smith and Sarah LawrenceNew directions and being curiousJoin us with Caroline Stafford owner of The Kitsch Hen, Vicky House founder of Clem's Garden and Mike Sparks, owner of Sparkies Lighthouse and water ski teacher as we explore new beginnings and being curious. false01:5839BeginningsfullBeginningsthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menA year in review, December 2022EpisodesSun, 18 Dec 2022 21:08:24 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-46-202264610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:64624ff2a252f6489476ca9b

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice SmithMessages from you and thoughts from usIn this episode we were joined by your words. We're thrilled to receive messages from our listeners to share with others and we reflect on the changes in 2022 and share our themes for 2023.false01:13:0648A year in review fullA year in review thefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menHidden childless stories of being single, November 2022EpisodesSun, 27 Nov 2022 12:59:23 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-44-hidden-childless-stories-single64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:64624ff464c173110b88d0c5

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice SmithSingle, childless and community In this episode we were joined by Penny Rabarts and Elaine Ritchie who are both childless and single. They talk candidly about dealing with privacy, trust and navigating life as single women. false47Hidden stories of childlessness on being singlefullHidden stories of childlessness on being singlethefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menHidden childless stories, the unseen grief of invisible illness: October 2022EpisodesSat, 22 Oct 2022 20:11:38 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-44-hidden-childless-stories64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:64624ff6c6926f7a7885f7d8Charlie, Palo and Steph all spoke about how invisible illnesses can compound and complete the unseen grief of not having children. We also asked them to share the support groups they have founded or are involved with, and resources that have helped them.

]]>Charlie, Palo and Steph all spoke about how invisible illnesses can compound and complete the unseen grief of not having children. We also asked them to share the support groups they have founded or are involved with, and resources that have helped them.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice SmithUnseen grief of invisible illness In this episode we were joined by Charlie Bishop, Palo Barker and Steph Penny. Often the wider world can assume that the only reasons we do not have children are failed IVF, failed adoption or didn't try. This narrative excludes many for whom getting pregnant can be life threatening. false46Hidden Stories of Childlessness fullHidden Stories of Childlessness thefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menStruggle well with Jessica Hepburn, September 2022Sat, 24 Sep 2022 15:27:33 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-43-struggle-well-with-jessica-hepburn-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:64624ff8d245da4748d7d38dWhen we met up with Jessica Hepburn for episode 43, two things came to mind. The first is how we met her, which you’ll discover in the recording which was had a time of new starts for all of us and the importance of 43 which Jessica explains to us, and oddly how this is indeed, episode 43!

It’s fair to say that her pursuit of motherhood is just one of many parts of this pond to peak adventurer’s story! Jessica has been on many journeys herself and inspired others; maybe she’ll do that for you as you find out more about struggling well.

How to follow and connect with Jessica

Jessica’s website, and you can follow her on Facebook, and Instagram.

Buy Jessica’s books:

In Pursuit of Motherhood or shop B-Corp at World of Books.

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice SmithPond to peak adventurer and author, Jessica Hepburn on struggling well Jessica Hepburn is one of the UK’s leading voices on fertility and family, as well as endurance sport (even though she is the most unlikely athlete and doesn’t have children). She has become a pioneer in inspiring people to live as big and bravely as possible when life doesn’t go to planfalse01:07:5945Struggle WellfullStruggle Wellthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,men'The Hollow Sea' by Annie Kirby, August 2022EpisodesSun, 21 Aug 2022 09:46:43 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-42-the-hollow-sea-by-annie-kirby-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:64624ffb60ae832d213f240aFollow Annie on social media to find out more about The Hollow Sea, book launches, events and her next novel

]]>Follow Annie on social media to find out more about The Hollow Sea, book launches, events and her next novel

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice SmithThe story of writing and publishing a debut novel with Pengin's WriteNow programme.Annie Kirby first appeared on episode 2 to talk about her writing and she's back with us to share her journey as The Hollow Sea is published with Michael Joseph this week.false44The Hollow SeafullThe Hollow Seathefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menDownriver Nomad with Rob Hutchings, July 2022EpisodesSat, 23 Jul 2022 19:51:30 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/n7d75aekhuq277gubuymy0a8c2audf-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:64624ffdc6926f7a7885f816Join Michael, Sarah and Berenice as they discuss childlessness, swimming the Clutha River and a nomadic life with athlete and author, Rob Hutchings.

]]>Join Michael, Sarah and Berenice as they discuss childlessness, swimming the Clutha River and a nomadic life with athlete and author, Rob Hutchings.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice SmithRob Hutchings; A Triathlete's Adventures and Adversities into the Rapids "There have been two great passions in my life, as I look back. One of those is my fascination with people’s stories and the other is running, both of which came together in a glorious fusion in our latest podcast with Rob Hutchings. Adventure triathlete, wild swimmer, yoga teacher and now author of ‘Downriver Nomad’. " Sarah Lawrence, The Full Stop false01:35:3943Downriver NomadfullDownriver Nomadthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menChasing Creation, June 2022EpisodesFri, 24 Jun 2022 13:25:44 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-40-chasing-creation-with-katy-seppi-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:646250003cf2d02fb20fed41We covered a lot of ground in this discussion including running an event and supporting our community leaders. We hope you enjoy meeting Katy and listening to her wisdom.

]]>We covered a lot of ground in this discussion including running an event and supporting our community leaders. We hope you enjoy meeting Katy and listening to her wisdom.

]]>Michael Hughes, Berenice Smith and Sarah LawrenceChildless Collective Summit news with Katy SeppiKaty Seppi who joined us in early June to talk about the forthcoming Childless Collective Summit. It’s happening again on 14-17th July. false01:22:0042Chasing Creation fullChasing Creation thefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menA new mental health hub, May 2022Fri, 20 May 2022 21:53:11 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-38-u-acnzr64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:64625017d60d7f622ccf16c7The Full Stop podcast is a monthly podcast for the childless not by choice community, their friends, colleagues and family too.

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice SmithThe Childless Mental Health HubOur guest Sarah Bagg from Life, Love and Me discussed the newly launched Childless Mental Health Hub that aim to provide a safe space for counselling and coaching for the childless not by choice community. false00:54:0741A new mental health hubfullA new mental health hubthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menThe power of grief with Stella Duffy, OBE: April 2022Sun, 17 Apr 2022 15:54:18 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-38-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6462501956da57103f898d0d"There is huge power in grief, power in understanding what loss is like but as well as being pronatal and heteronormative, our culture is 'let's be happy' and to never admit that things are hard sometimes." Stella Duffy, OBE

]]>"There is huge power in grief, power in understanding what loss is like but as well as being pronatal and heteronormative, our culture is 'let's be happy' and to never admit that things are hard sometimes." Stella Duffy, OBE

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice SmithRecognising our feelings with Stella Duffy, OBEIt's a very passionate episode as we discuss worth, loss and life-changing experiences, but there are some moments of profound discovery. There are tears and lots of laughter too. As with all podcast guests, we wanted Stella to join us in person for a party and a book reading too - but we'll have to wait a bit longer for that in this ever-changing world. We do hope you'll love this episode as much as we loved recording; it felt extra special for us for so many reasons, as you'll hear. false312The power of grieffullThe power of griefthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menDo childless men need a community? March 2021Sun, 20 Mar 2022 13:13:44 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-37-do-men-need-a-community-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6462501be59ad3467d789953Men are not immune to loneliness as you will hear; we all need a safe space to share those innermost emotions and feelings with others knowing we will not be ridiculed. We also know that in a community we have so much potential that can make our lives even better as we age.

]]>Men are not immune to loneliness as you will hear; we all need a safe space to share those innermost emotions and feelings with others knowing we will not be ridiculed. We also know that in a community we have so much potential that can make our lives even better as we age.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith In conversation with The Clan of BrothersJoin our guests from Australia, America and Latvia as we explore the relationship between community and male childlessnessfalse01:20:18311Do childless men need a community too?fullDo childless men need a community too?thefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menEmpowerment, February 2022Thu, 24 Feb 2022 12:34:42 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-35-evolution-z9rfj64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6462501cf25cbd7c58a20ac3Empowerment can be a big act or something personal. In this episode we share our podcast episode with Judy Graham and Sarah Roberts who run their own practices supporting people who are childless not by choice

]]>Empowerment can be a big act or something personal. In this episode we share our podcast episode with Judy Graham and Sarah Roberts who run their own practices supporting people who are childless not by choice

]]>Berenice Howard-Smithwith Judy Graham and Sarah Robertsfalse1Episode 36: EmpowermentEpisode 36: Empowermentthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)Empowerment can be a big act or something personal. In this episode we share our podcast episode with Judy Graham and Sarah Roberts who run their own practices supporting people who are childless not by choiceinfertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menEvolution: a full stop future, January 2022Sun, 23 Jan 2022 09:15:26 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-35-evolution64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6462501ea2a28621683f2cc1In this episode, we share the details on our plans. The background to the change is future proofing our work and making it more streamlined so that we can continue to inform, entertain and give a voice to our community.

We feel very fortunate to spend time with each other and our community including you, and people who support each other and take time out to care, making some incredible connections. Please listen and join us!

This episode was recorded during January 2022 and Covid-19 rules and restrictions we might discuss may have changed in your location in the meantime.

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice SmithMaking plans to secure our podcastWe share and ask for your feedback as we future proof our podcast and making it more streamlined so that we can continue to inform, entertain and give a voice to our childless community.false38Evolution, a full stop futurefullEvolution, a full stop futurethefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menThe Alternative Kings and Queens speech, December 2021Mon, 20 Dec 2021 13:44:58 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-34-kings-queens64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:64625020b7803d6424503662

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice SmithComfort during the holiday seasonIn this episode we are joined by past guests from the podcast to share messages of hope and coping techniques to help you through the festive season. false01:55:08372021 Alternative Kings and Queens speechfull2021 Alternative Kings and Queens speechthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menPast, present and future reflections, November 2021Sun, 14 Nov 2021 11:15:53 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-33-past-present-and-future-reflections-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:646250223015967b2fbba286In this episode we discuss the healing properties of the Full Stop, what we’ve learned from guests and our key episodes. We also share the plans we’re making to secure the future of the podcast in 2022.

]]>In this episode we discuss the healing properties of the Full Stop, what we’ve learned from guests and our key episodes. We also share the plans we’re making to secure the future of the podcast in 2022.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice SmithThe healing power of a podcastIn this episode we discuss the healing properties of the Full Stop, what we’ve learned from guests and our key episodes. We also share the plans we’re making to secure the future of the podcast in 2022.false36Episode 33: Past, present and future reflectionsfullEpisode 33: Past, present and future reflectionsthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menChildlessness and work, October 2021EpisodesFri, 15 Oct 2021 09:53:25 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-32-childlessness-and-work-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:646250248db7b05b801b7d2a1 in 5 People are childless - 90% are so not through choice.

Katy Schnitzler is a training consultant, academic and specialist in the area of reproduction at work. Specifically, Katy advises on pregnancy loss, infertility and childlessness - helping organisations to better support employees affected by such prevalent, yet often concealed, issues.

Katy's work with businesses is informed by the most current research, including findings from her own PhD, which Katy is pursuing alongside. Katy successfully secured the prestigious ESRC DTP scholarship to complete this vital research. Katy is also a highly experienced HE Lecturer, and has also presented at academic conferences, winning awards for her research. 

Working in world leading research has led Katy to collaborate extensively with various organisations, including The NHS, universities and baby loss charities. 

]]>1 in 5 People are childless - 90% are so not through choice.

Katy Schnitzler is a training consultant, academic and specialist in the area of reproduction at work. Specifically, Katy advises on pregnancy loss, infertility and childlessness - helping organisations to better support employees affected by such prevalent, yet often concealed, issues.

Katy's work with businesses is informed by the most current research, including findings from her own PhD, which Katy is pursuing alongside. Katy successfully secured the prestigious ESRC DTP scholarship to complete this vital research. Katy is also a highly experienced HE Lecturer, and has also presented at academic conferences, winning awards for her research. 

Working in world leading research has led Katy to collaborate extensively with various organisations, including The NHS, universities and baby loss charities. 

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith Advice on childlessness in our working livesWith our guest Katy Schnitzler from MIST (Miscarriage & Infertility Support Training)false01:27:4036Childlessness and workfullChildlessness and workthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menLet's talk about intimacy, September 2021Mon, 13 Sep 2021 20:50:29 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-31-lets-talk-about-intimacy-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:64625026d2ebe72f94d0e9a8In this episode, we talk about sex and there may be triggers for you as we include trying to conceive, fertility treatment, miscarriage and grief. As always we speak with care and sensitivity.

]]>In this episode, we talk about sex and there may be triggers for you as we include trying to conceive, fertility treatment, miscarriage and grief. As always we speak with care and sensitivity.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith A special episode for World Childless WeekJoin Michael, Sarah and Berenice as we talk about sex and intimacy. false01:46:0035Let's talk about intimacyfullLet's talk about intimacythefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menWorld Childless Week, August 2021Sat, 14 Aug 2021 08:44:57 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-30-world-childless-week-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:64625028f25cbd7c58a20e59

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith with Stephanie PhillipsStephanie Joy Phillips spills the beans on the new events taking place for World Childless Week 2021, more on the People’s Champion and plans for the future. false01:02:2734World Childless WeekfullWorld Childless Weekthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menMen and mental health, July 2021Sat, 17 Jul 2021 07:31:31 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-29-men-and-counselling-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6462502abd279e52b5ef4a42
“No feeling is good or bad, right or wrong. I don’t get to judge, but I can sit with you and help you know you are not alone and that there is support out there.”
— Chrissy Pantlin

Our guest this month is Chrissy Pantlin. She’s based in Australia. After illness, Chrissy qualified in counseling and set up her practice in the pandemic. Chrissy has taken all her knowledge from working in health and safety in heavy industry where she saw an absence in support mental and physical health and skills to provide a much-needed service. In this episode, Chrissy talks about what she’s learning from the men who come to her practice and shares a wealth of advice that we know will be useful to all genders.

You can find out about Chrissy’s practice, which includes online counselling by clicking here

Helpline details

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UK: Contact the Samaritans on freephone 116 123, they're open 24 hours and are there to listen and Mind.

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith How a background in health and safety lead to support services for menOur guest this month is Chrissy Pantlin. She’s based in Australia. After illness, Chrissy qualified in counseling and set up her practice in the pandemic. Chrissy has taken all her knowledge from working in health and safety in heavy industry where she saw an absence in support mental and physical health and skills to provide a much-needed service. In this episode, Chrissy talks about what she’s learning from the men who come to her practice and shares a wealth of advice that we know will be useful to all genders.false33Men and mental healthfullMen and mental healththefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menThe joy in the everyday, June 2021Thu, 10 Jun 2021 18:05:16 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-28-the-joy-in-the-everyday-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6462502b2fbb597f8247bbecPlease be aware that we talk about miscarriage and suicide in this episode.

]]>Please be aware that we talk about miscarriage and suicide in this episode.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith Finding comfort in meditation, yoga, singing and self care with Bindi Shah and Clare EllerayThe joy in the everyday is a celebration of self-care and looking after ourselves. We hope you’ll be inspired by our guests, Bindi Shah and Clare Ellerayfalse32The joy in the everyday fullThe joy in the everyday thefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menIt's our second birthday! May 2021EpisodesSun, 16 May 2021 11:23:07 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-27-its-our-second-birthday-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6462502c0ba92d37f2274886This is a long episode - we edited lightly so you can enjoy the flow of conversation in this open house event. We speak about how we began, what we do and some ideas on how to launch your own podcast, and how it’s helped us, and our guests too.

We talk about infertility, miscarriage and other subjects around childlessness not by choice in all our episodes.

]]>This is a long episode - we edited lightly so you can enjoy the flow of conversation in this open house event. We speak about how we began, what we do and some ideas on how to launch your own podcast, and how it’s helped us, and our guests too.

We talk about infertility, miscarriage and other subjects around childlessness not by choice in all our episodes.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith Turning the tables on us!We were joined by Jody Day, Robin Hadley, Sarah Roberts, Victoria Firth, Yvonne John and Lesley Pyne for an online birthday celebration false31It's our second birthdayfullIt's our second birthdaythefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menCelebrating 10 years of Gateway Women, April 2021EpisodesSat, 10 Apr 2021 12:34:48 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-26-celebrating-10-years-of-gateway-women-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6462502d97294c1499d1fab6When Jody asked us if she could celebrate 10 years of Gateway Women with The Full Stop podcast, we were delighted. All three of us are proud to call Jody a friend and an inspiration.

Gateway Women means a lot to Sarah and Berenice who have been members for many years and the model and thinking of the community has inspired Michael who has seen great change.

To find out more about Gateway Women and how to join please click here

Helpline details

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UK: Contact the Samaritans on freephone 116 123, they're open 24 hours and are there to listen and Mind.

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith Building a community network for womenWhen Jody asked us if she could celebrate 10 years of Gateway Women with The Full Stop podcast, we were delighted. All three of us are proud to call Jody a friend and an inspiration.false212Celebrating 10 years of Gateway WomenfullCelebrating 10 years of Gateway Womenthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menSimply us, March 2021EpisodesSat, 13 Mar 2021 21:54:16 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-27-simply-us-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6462502ebd67c11546e972baIn this episode, we have no guests! Not because we’ve scared them away (we don’t think…!) but we wanted to keep it simple as we caught up with each other after two months of not chatting or hosting together. It actually began as an ‘admin’ chat and we hit record and we realised there might be a few nuggets of wisdom. Join us as we riff about screen sharing, Covid in our countries (we do get a bit emotive here, and this was recorded in early February so the statistics have changed), handling Zoom meetings and boundaries.

We hope you enjoy it, and as it’s the first episode with just us, we’d really love to know what you think.

Helpline details

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UK: Contact the Samaritans on freephone 116 123, they're open 24 hours and are there to listen and Mind.

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Meriel Whale Counselling

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith In conversation about mental health Managing life during Covid with advice and reflections on mental health, meetings, and boundary settings.false211Simply UsfullSimply Usthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menNavigation, February 2021EpisodesSat, 13 Feb 2021 17:35:42 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-24-navigation-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:64625030d74e4b2bece1772dYou can find out more about Kate, her book, and find links to her social media and articles through her website by clicking right here.

]]>You can find out more about Kate, her book, and find links to her social media and articles through her website by clicking right here.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith With Kate KauffmanWe’ve called this episode Navigation because Kate, for us, is a fantastic voice for our community, not just through her book Do you Have Kids, When the Answer is No, but in the many articles she has published, as a World Childless Week Champion and a good friend to many of us. She’s steering a path for all of us and for the future. She’s inspired us along the way with the podcast as a speaker outside our community, helping to educate and bridge the gap with eloquence and knowledge.false210NavigationfullNavigationthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menMaking connections, January 2021Sat, 09 Jan 2021 14:19:45 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/wk5g4zukpzizgomgrqqsv1oehezxo7-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:646250313c3eb72838a75527We wanted to use this episode to discuss how we’ve had to adapt in this current climate of online communication. Who better than Helen Louise Jones who has been raising our spirits with singing through her Childless Voices project and Chanting Circles. The choir began before lockdown in the UK in March 2020 and she had to quickly adapt the delivery to keep providing support and it’s been growing as a result.  She joined us to talk about the power of voices and how it’s helped her to grow too.

We were also delighted to welcome Lisa Ann Kissane who talked about her love of books and how she’s encouraging our community to read through her website and Gateway Women’s NoMo Book Club which hosts online meetings to chat about the books she's recommended. If you’ve ever been triggered by a book then you need Lisa in your life! We encourage you to check out her website for her reviews, it's such an inspired idea. 

Helpline details

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UK: Contact the Samaritans on freephone 116 123, they're open 24 hours and are there to listen and Mind.

USA: Suicide Prevention

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Meriel Whale Counselling

Sarah Lawrence After The Storm

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith Online communications and communities Making connections is such an important part of our lives today but it can be hard, especially in this current climate. We're joined by Helen Louise Jones and Lisa Ann Kissane to talk about the power of online friendship.false01:05:0829Making connectionsfullMaking connectionsthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menThe Alternative King's and Queen's Speech, December 2020Sun, 13 Dec 2020 11:16:47 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/7zh4j2rwtcavljj1b9n09ivs41qog0-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:646250321506b634a240f220In this episode, we were joined by Sarah Roberts from The Empty Cradle, Stephanie Phillips from World Childless Week, Andy Harrod from Invisible Childlessness with Jody Day from Gateway Women to share our reflections on the year passed and our hopes for 2021.

Helpline details

You can find lots of resources in our Toolkit here.

UK: Contact the Samaritans on freephone 116 123, they're open 24 hours and are there to listen and Mind.

USA: Suicide Prevention

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Meriel Whale Counselling

Sarah Lawrence After The Storm

How to listen to The Full Stop podcast

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Covid-19 resources

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith A reflection on a challenging yearfalse28The Alternative King's and Queen's Speech 2020fullThe Alternative King's and Queen's Speech 2020thefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)In this episode, we were joined by our , Sarah Roberts from The Empty Cradle, Stephanie Phillips from World Childless Week, Andy Harrod from Invisible Childlessness with Jody Day from Gateway Women to share our reflections on the year passed and our hopes for 2021.infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menToxic hope and worth, November 2020Sun, 22 Nov 2020 14:16:31 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-21-worthiness-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:646250336e71ac620d3ed858This episode poses questions about events that lead us to the space of involuntarily childlessness and we do mention infertility and fertility treatment from the start.

]]>This episode poses questions about events that lead us to the space of involuntarily childlessness and we do mention infertility and fertility treatment from the start.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith questions about Questions that lead us to the space of involuntarily childlessnessIn this episode we are joined by Andy Harrod to talk about feeling worthy and the power of toxic hopefalse27Toxic hope and worthfullToxic hope and worththefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menGrief and Childlessness, October 2020Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:01:09 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-20-childlessness-and-the-arts-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:646250347516f30c7c773368In this episode, we were joined by artist Helen Segal who is the founder of Empowered Childlessness. Helen shares her inspiring life journey, discussing openly her grief and impact of IVF, and change in her life. It’s an incredible episode and we loved chatting to her, and there’s so much to take away from this.

On 15th October 2020, it’s the Wave of Light for Baby Loss Awareness Week. Helen will be running a free workshop on this date, and a longer one on 26th October. To find out more please visit her website here and also check out her Facebook group here too.

Helpline details

You can find lots of resources in our Toolkit here.

UK: Contact the Samaritans on freephone 116 123, they're open 24 hours and are there to listen and Mind.

USA: Suicide Prevention

Canada: Canada Crisis

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How to listen to The Full Stop podcast

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Covid-19 resources

European Centre for Disease Control and Prevention (links to worldwide Government resources)

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith Empowered Childlessness with Helen Segal In this episode, we were joined by Helen Segal who is the founder of Empowered Childlessness. Helen shares her inspiring life journey, discussing openly her grief and impact of IVF, and change in her life. It’s an incredible episode and we loved chatting to her, and there’s so much to takeaway from this.false02:24:0126Grief and the ArtsfullGrief and the Artsthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menLGBTQI+ and childlessness, September 2020EpisodesSun, 13 Sep 2020 10:13:39 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-19-lgbtqi-and-childlessness-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6462503527893630b8d8a511Victoria is a performer, theatre maker and director, born in Yorkshire in the UK. She makes plays that embrace the physical and playful. ‘How To Be Amazingly Happy’ was shown at the Edinburgh Fringe in 2018 and an extract performed at Fertility Fest in 2019, and explores how you find a new ‘once upon a time’ after the ‘happy ever after’ never turned up. We were delighted to welcome Victoria to The Full Stop podcast!

Meriel Whale is counsellor and much welcomed return guest to the podcast. She works compassionately with people in great distress to help them to move forward with their lives and has a particular empathy with involuntary childless community.

]]>Victoria is a performer, theatre maker and director, born in Yorkshire in the UK. She makes plays that embrace the physical and playful. ‘How To Be Amazingly Happy’ was shown at the Edinburgh Fringe in 2018 and an extract performed at Fertility Fest in 2019, and explores how you find a new ‘once upon a time’ after the ‘happy ever after’ never turned up. We were delighted to welcome Victoria to The Full Stop podcast!

Meriel Whale is counsellor and much welcomed return guest to the podcast. She works compassionately with people in great distress to help them to move forward with their lives and has a particular empathy with involuntary childless community.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith LGBTQI+ and involuntary childlessnessIn this episode we were joined by Victoria Firth and Meriel Whale as we continue to explore the the unheard voices in our community. We wanted to explore what it means to be LGBTQI+ and involuntarily childless. Trigger: This episode discusses alternative parenting including adoption and IVF.false01:03:4725LGBTQI+ and ChildlessnessfullLGBTQI+ and Childlessnessthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menAgeing Without Children, August 2020Sun, 16 Aug 2020 19:49:29 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-18-ageing-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:64625036c6926f7a788602e0Ageing Without Children with Kirsty Woodard, Ming Ho and Denise Jackson

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]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith Talking about the Tightrope Generationfalse01:15:2124Ageing Without ChildrenfullAgeing Without Childrenthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)Ageing Without Children with Kirsty Woodard, Ming Ho and Denise Jacksoninfertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menFacing up to change, July 2020Sun, 12 Jul 2020 11:17:37 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/nh05o70yewkwvvj1vlgc5txd6pdk10-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:646250378390412963c2565bTrigger: motherhood and birth are briefly mentioned in this episode.

In this episode we are joined by author and speaker, Yvonne John, with her guests Haneefah Muhammad, Krista Cooper, Bindi Shah and Civilla Morgan to talk about the impact of the murder of George Floyd and Black Lives Matter and how childlessness and racism have impacted their lives.

]]>Trigger: motherhood and birth are briefly mentioned in this episode.

In this episode we are joined by author and speaker, Yvonne John, with her guests Haneefah Muhammad, Krista Cooper, Bindi Shah and Civilla Morgan to talk about the impact of the murder of George Floyd and Black Lives Matter and how childlessness and racism have impacted their lives.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith with Yvonne JohnChildlessness and Black Lives Matter"Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced." James Baldwinfalse02:06:1823Facing up to change,fullFacing up to change,thefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menCoping using EFT, June 2020Sun, 21 Jun 2020 12:03:13 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/coping-using-eft-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:646250383015967b2fbba64cYou can find out more about EFT and Rosalind’s work at her website which is here

]]>You can find out more about EFT and Rosalind’s work at her website which is here

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith with Rosalind BubbUsing emotional freedom techniques for wellnessIn this episode we’re joined by Rosalind Bubb, a therapist and EFT International 'Accredited Certified Master EFT Trainer’. Rosalind has been volunteering her skills to NHS workers during the Covid-19 pandemic. In this episode she shares her story with us, and guides us through an EFT Tapping Session and we hope you’ll join us. false00:59:2922Coping using EFTfullCoping using EFTthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menSingle and childless in a pandemic May 2020Sun, 17 May 2020 08:24:56 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-15-single-and-childless-in-the-pandemic-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:646250397982e1159f4af864Trigger: we discuss our journey to childlessness and adult themes.

]]>Trigger: we discuss our journey to childlessness and adult themes.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith A reflection on what living alone during lockdownWe are joined by Rod Silvers, Jody Day with Julie and Joss from Gateway Women.false21Single and childless in a pandemicfullSingle and childless in a pandemicthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menThe Clan of Brothers, men and childlessness April 2020Sun, 19 Apr 2020 09:58:23 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/mf753iqrh7rv8ouws5fepolqhwcb0n-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6462503a64c173110b88d5b7This episode discusses being a step parent and managing Father’s Day. It was recorded during the global Covid-19 lockdown.

]]>This episode discusses being a step parent and managing Father’s Day. It was recorded during the global Covid-19 lockdown.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith Men and childlessnessThe second in our recurring series of episodes on male infertility. Michael leads this podcast special with three guests who are childless not by choice.false114The Clan of BrothersfullThe Clan of Brothersthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menSpecial episode: friendship in a time of need, Covid-19 and our communityWed, 25 Mar 2020 11:18:40 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-13-friendship-in-a-time-of-need-covid-19-and-our-community-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6462503bb7803d6424503d3bWe briefly mention IVF treatment and how the impact of stopping treatment during the pandemic may affect us. You may find this triggering.

]]>We briefly mention IVF treatment and how the impact of stopping treatment during the pandemic may affect us. You may find this triggering.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith Covid-19 and our community We reflect on the impact of the Covid-19 coronavirus and ask how we can support our community.false01:36:00113Friendship in a time of needfullFriendship in a time of needthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menAlternative Approaches to Mothering Sunday Sun, 15 Mar 2020 17:11:26 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-12-alternative-approches-to-mothering-sunday-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6462503cabae113afda40c83We do mention miscarriage and parental loss so this episode maybe triggering.

]]>We do mention miscarriage and parental loss so this episode maybe triggering.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith With Civila Morgan and Allie Anderson Mother’s Day is a day of mixed emotions. We can feel a sense of loss and perhaps conflict too. In this episode, join Michael, Sarah and Berenice in conversation with fellow podcaster, Civilla Morgan, presenter of the podcast 'Childless Not By Choice', who shares her views on faith, the loss of her mother and how she’s inspiring churches to take a new approach. We welcomed Allie Anderson, a freelance journalist, editor & writer specialising in health to the podcast. She shares her advice on tackling the day and we discuss new activities and… Colin Firth!false112Alternative Approaches to Mothering Sunday fullAlternative Approaches to Mothering Sunday thefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menInspiring Stories with Suzan Muir, Feb 2020Sun, 16 Feb 2020 11:51:49 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-11-inspiring-stories-with-suzan-muir-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6462503d0e9254593bba1bcc“Could your concept of who you are be expanded to include the plants and animals around you? Could it include mountains, rain and wind? What would our lives feel like if we started to include non animate elements as part of our family?” Suzan Muir

Join Michael, Sarah and Berenice in conversation with Suzan Muir and hear more about her extraordinary and inspiring life.

To find out more about Suzan’s retreats please visit her website by clicking here

Helpline details

You can find lots of resources in our Toolkit here.

UK: Contact the Samaritans on freephone 116 123, they're open 24 hours and are there to listen and Mind.

USA: Suicide Prevention

Canada: Canada Crisis

Australia: Beyond Blue

How to listen to The Full Stop podcast

Hit the play icon above!

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith Nature as family with Susan Muir“Could your concept of who you are be expanded to include the plants and animals around you? Could it include mountains, rain and wind? What would our lives feel like if we started to include non animate elements as part of our family?” Suzan Muirfalse111Inspiring Stories fullInspiring Stories thefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menKicking Off 2020 with Bibi Lynch, Jan 2020Sun, 19 Jan 2020 09:41:29 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-10-in-conversation-with-bibi-lynch-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6462503ebd570675055e0cdfThis episode is emotive, from moments of laughter to swearing and tears.

]]>This episode is emotive, from moments of laughter to swearing and tears.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith In conversation with journalist, writer and broadcaster, BibiIn this episode Michael Hughes and Sarah Lawrence chatted to Bibi Lynch about her childlessness journey and her experiences in her work and what life has taught her about living a life unexpected. true01:11:26110Kicking OfffullKicking Offthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menFestive debrief, Dec 2019Tue, 31 Dec 2019 13:49:49 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-9-bonus-episode-our-festive-debrief-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6462503f8cc2686a55994327Michael, Sarah and Berenice met up to share their thoughts on how Christmas went for them and their thoughts on the New Year.

This is an entirely off-the-cuff recording, completely unedited and we hope it brings you comfort as we head into 2020, at a time that be reflective and brings it’s own challenges.

Helpline details

You can find lots of resources in our Toolkit here.

UK: Contact the Samaritans on freephone 116 123, they're open 24 hours and are there to listen and Mind.

USA: Suicide Prevention

Canada: Canada Crisis

Australia: Beyond Blue

How to listen to The Full Stop podcast

Hit the play icon above!



]]>Michael Hughes, Berenice Smith and Sarah LawrenceHow did we get on over Christmas and New Year? Michael, Sarah and Berenice met up to see how they got on over the festive period and how they felt about the start of a New Year.false00:47:1719Festive debriefbonusFestive debriefthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menThe Alternative Kings and Queens Speech, Dec 2019Sun, 08 Dec 2019 17:37:23 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-8-the-alternative-kings-and-queens-speech-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:646250405c10d808f47653f1Listen to Jody Day, Lesley Pyne, Andy Harrod, Civilla Morgan, Rosalind Bubb, Anna Barratt, Stephanie Philips, Brandi Higgins Lytle, Kate Kauffman, Tanya Trusler, Tessa Broad, Yvonne John, Sophia Andeh and Jennifer Parrish.

]]>Listen to Jody Day, Lesley Pyne, Andy Harrod, Civilla Morgan, Rosalind Bubb, Anna Barratt, Stephanie Philips, Brandi Higgins Lytle, Kate Kauffman, Tanya Trusler, Tessa Broad, Yvonne John, Sophia Andeh and Jennifer Parrish.

]]>Michael Hughes, Berenice Smith and Sarah Lawrence Hope and support for the holidays Voices from our community share their words of support with our audience.false01:44:0018The Alternative Kings and Queens speechfullThe Alternative Kings and Queens speechthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menF**k Festivities with Emily Scott, Nov 2019Mon, 18 Nov 2019 10:17:07 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-7-fk-festivities-with-emily-scott-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:646250413a0f4c26041ade20In this episode Michael, Sarah and Berenice were joined by Emily Scott from IVF Fairness to talk about coping during the holidays. We shared our own experiences of how we manage at times of celebration. Emily chatted to us about good mental health as part of the team at Mind.

To find out more about Emily and her vital work in making IVF free to everyone, you can follow her on Twitter here.

Helpline details

UK: Contact the Samaritans on freephone 116 123, they're open 24 hours and are there to listen and Mind.

USA: Suicide Prevention

Canada: Canada Crisis

Australia: Beyond Blue

How to listen to The Full Stop podcast

Hit the play icon above!





]]>Michael Hughes, Berenice Smith and Sarah LawrenceCoping during the holidaysWhatever stage you're at in the childless not by choice journey, the holidays can be difficult. Loaded with triggers from adverts, social media and invites to events or parties. It's enough to challenge the strongest of us. Join us as we chat to Emily Scott about how to cope over the holidays.false00:52:0017F**k FestivitiesfullF**k Festivitiesthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menMental Health with Meriel Whale, Oct 2019EpisodesSun, 13 Oct 2019 11:33:02 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-6-mental-health-with-meriel-whale-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:646250437b3a1420e27ec295From the start Michael, Sarah and Berenice share personal stories.

At 0.58 you can listen to community news

At 1.12 Meriel Whale joins Michael and Sarah in conversation.

This episode is 1.35 minutes long.

Helpline details

UK: Contact the Samaritans on freephone 116 123, they're open 24 hours and are there to listen and Mind.

USA: Suicide Prevention

Canada: Canada Crisis

Australia: Beyond Blue

]]>From the start Michael, Sarah and Berenice share personal stories.

At 0.58 you can listen to community news

At 1.12 Meriel Whale joins Michael and Sarah in conversation.

This episode is 1.35 minutes long.

Helpline details

UK: Contact the Samaritans on freephone 116 123, they're open 24 hours and are there to listen and Mind.

USA: Suicide Prevention

Canada: Canada Crisis

Australia: Beyond Blue

]]>Michael Hughes, Berenice Smith and Sarah Lawrence Talking mental health, infertility and childlessness with Meriel WhaleThis episode mentioned suicide so it may not be suitable for everyone. Berenice, Michael and Sarah were joined by counsellor Meriel Whale in a very honest episode on how our mental health can be affected by our unique childlessness journey. false01:35:0016Mental Health and childless not by choicefullMental Health and childless not by choicethefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menWorld Childless Week with Stephanie Phillips and her Champions, Sept 2019EpisodesSun, 15 Sep 2019 10:40:53 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-5-world-childless-week-with-stephanie-phillips-and-her-champions-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:64625044b7803d6424503d8cSarah Lawrence hosted this episode and asked some amazing questions which inspired Steph, Jody Day , Anne Barratt, Karin Enfield De Vries, Bibi Lynch and Yvonne John to talk about what World Childless Week means to them and the community. We also lingered on the big issues that challenges us and themes to tackle for the future.

]]>Sarah Lawrence hosted this episode and asked some amazing questions which inspired Steph, Jody Day , Anne Barratt, Karin Enfield De Vries, Bibi Lynch and Yvonne John to talk about what World Childless Week means to them and the community. We also lingered on the big issues that challenges us and themes to tackle for the future.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith Talking about the impact of this awareness week and hopes for the futureStephanie Phillips, a British woman, founded World Childless Week in 2017. It’s an online event to raise awareness and support the childless not by choice community. In its initial week in September 2017 #worldchildlessweek was tweeted 1.2 million times. false11:49 15World Childless Week fullWorld Childless Week thefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menMen and Childlessness with Dr. Robin Hadley, Rod Silvers and Andy Harrod, Aug 2019Sat, 17 Aug 2019 08:11:50 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-4-men-and-childlessness-with-dr-robin-hadley-rod-silvers-and-andy-harrod-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:646250458db7b05b801b8424

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]]>Michael Hughes, Berenice Smith and Sarah Lawrencewith Dr Robin Hadley, actor Rod Silvers and researcher Andy HarrodIn this episode we were joined by Dr Robin Hadley, actor Rod Silvers and researcher Andy Harrod to talk about men and childlessnessfalse01:20:0014Men and ChildlessnessfullMen and Childlessnessthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menWriting It Out with Tessa Broad and Lesley Pyne July 2019EpisodesSun, 14 Jul 2019 10:43:14 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-3-writing-it-out-with-tessa-broad-and-lesley-pyne-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:646250598e73ed1556e4e6fdWriting It Out with Tessa Broad and Lesley Pyne

In this episode we talked about Writing It Out with Tessa Broad who chatted to us about her experiences of writing Dear You. You can read more about her book on her website here and buy via Amazon here. You can follow Tessa on Twitter too by clicking here.

Lesley Pyne is a life coach and author of Finding Joy Beyond Childlessness. Read more about Lesley and her work on her website here. You can also follow Lesley on Twitter here.

Sarah, Michael and Berenice wish to thank Lesley and Tessa for joining us and taking the time to share their experiences. You can listen to authors Lorna and Annie on Episode 2 here.

Competition!

Win a copy of Finding Joy Beyond Childlessness by Lesley Pyne by signing up to The Full Stop Podcast newsletter by midnight BST on 31st July 2019.

We’ll randomly pick a winner after the closing date. UK residents can choose an ebook or print book, overseas will receive an ebook download. We’ll announce on social media, on our next episode and in our next newsletter.

How to enter

Sign up to our newsletter here by 31st July 2019 no later than midnight BST.

Follow us on social media as we’ll announce the winner there first, and we’ll drop you an email.

If you’re not a winner, don’t worry. You can buy a copy of Finding Joy Beyond Childlessness by Lesley Pyne on Amazon here

]]>Writing It Out with Tessa Broad and Lesley Pyne

In this episode we talked about Writing It Out with Tessa Broad who chatted to us about her experiences of writing Dear You. You can read more about her book on her website here and buy via Amazon here. You can follow Tessa on Twitter too by clicking here.

Lesley Pyne is a life coach and author of Finding Joy Beyond Childlessness. Read more about Lesley and her work on her website here. You can also follow Lesley on Twitter here.

Sarah, Michael and Berenice wish to thank Lesley and Tessa for joining us and taking the time to share their experiences. You can listen to authors Lorna and Annie on Episode 2 here.

Competition!

Win a copy of Finding Joy Beyond Childlessness by Lesley Pyne by signing up to The Full Stop Podcast newsletter by midnight BST on 31st July 2019.

We’ll randomly pick a winner after the closing date. UK residents can choose an ebook or print book, overseas will receive an ebook download. We’ll announce on social media, on our next episode and in our next newsletter.

How to enter

Sign up to our newsletter here by 31st July 2019 no later than midnight BST.

Follow us on social media as we’ll announce the winner there first, and we’ll drop you an email.

If you’re not a winner, don’t worry. You can buy a copy of Finding Joy Beyond Childlessness by Lesley Pyne on Amazon here

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice Smith with Tessa Broad and Lesley PyneIn this episode we talked about Writing It Out with Tessa Broad, author of Dear You, and Lesley Pyne coach and author of Finding Joy Beyond Childlessness.false01:00:0013Writing It Out fullWriting It Out thefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menWriting It Down with Lorna Gibb and Annie Kirby July 2019EpisodesSun, 14 Jul 2019 10:19:51 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-2-writing-it-out-with-lorna-gibb-and-annie-kirby-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6462505af4a8921b2c4c5cb3In this episode we talked about Writing it Out with Dr Lorna Gibb who shared her experiences of writing and researching Childless Voices. You can read more about her book on this Guardian review and buy via Amazon here. You can follow Lorna on Twitter too by clicking here.

Dr Annie Kirby, winner of the Asham Award 2005 and author, spoke to us about plans for her creative writing workshops for our community. Read more about Annie and her work on her website here. You can also follow Annie on Twitter here.

Sarah, Michael and Berenice wish to thank Lorna and Annie for joining us and taking the time to share their experiences. You can listen to Lesley Pyne and Tessa Broad talking about writing on Episode 3.

]]>In this episode we talked about Writing it Out with Dr Lorna Gibb who shared her experiences of writing and researching Childless Voices. You can read more about her book on this Guardian review and buy via Amazon here. You can follow Lorna on Twitter too by clicking here.

Dr Annie Kirby, winner of the Asham Award 2005 and author, spoke to us about plans for her creative writing workshops for our community. Read more about Annie and her work on her website here. You can also follow Annie on Twitter here.

Sarah, Michael and Berenice wish to thank Lorna and Annie for joining us and taking the time to share their experiences. You can listen to Lesley Pyne and Tessa Broad talking about writing on Episode 3.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice SmithWith Lorna Gibb and Annie KirbyIn this episode we talked about Writing It Out with Dr Lorna Gibb and Dr Annie Kirby, winner of the Asham Award 2005, and author.false01:00:0012Writing It Down fullWriting It Down thefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menSpeaking Out EpisodesSat, 08 Jun 2019 11:22:43 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/episode-1-speaking-out-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6462505c5c518602cde1b181In this episode we talked about Speaking Out. Sarah shared her experiences of Facebook lives and video for her website After The Storm. Berenice spoke about Walk In Our Shoes. Michael talked about his experiences and that of his wife. You can read their website Married and Childless here.

Jody Day talked about her private and public journey. You can read all about Gateway Women right here.

Other resources mentioned include:

John Williams Screw Work Break Free 30 day challenge

Michelle McGrath’s excellent podcast, Unclassified Women.

Jody’s interview with The Guardian in 2012.

]]>In this episode we talked about Speaking Out. Sarah shared her experiences of Facebook lives and video for her website After The Storm. Berenice spoke about Walk In Our Shoes. Michael talked about his experiences and that of his wife. You can read their website Married and Childless here.

Jody Day talked about her private and public journey. You can read all about Gateway Women right here.

Other resources mentioned include:

John Williams Screw Work Break Free 30 day challenge

Michelle McGrath’s excellent podcast, Unclassified Women.

Jody’s interview with The Guardian in 2012.

]]>Michael Hughes, Sarah Lawrence and Berenice SmithSharing our stories of childlessness with guest, Jody Day from Gateway WomenJoin Michael, Sarah and Berenice in conversation with Jody Day from Gateway Women. We discuss how we're spoken about our infertility and the impact it's had on our lives, friends and family. false01:24:0011Speaking OutfullSpeaking Outthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,menMeet The PresentersWed, 29 May 2019 14:04:09 +0000https://www.thefullstoppod.com/listen/meet-the-presenters-u64610a2c16b3c479e2bba92b:64624fec97294c1499d1f297:6462505d64ad006fe1a4d011BY THE FULL STOP PODCAST

Find out about your three presenters in our own unique Q&A. We picked five questions to ask each other and came up with five unique answers! There’s a lot of laughs and we hope you’ll find it fun to listen to! We’d love to know what you think on our social media channels.

]]>Michael HughesMeet the team behind this childless not by choice community podcast.Find out about your three presenters in our own unique Q&A. We picked five questions to ask each other and came up with five unique answers! There’s a lot of laughs and we hope you’ll find it fun to listen to! We’d love to know what you think on our social media channels. false00:24:0011Meet The PresenterstrailerMeet The Presentersthefullstoppod@gmail.com (Berenice Howard-Smith)infertility,IVF,family,health,mental,health,awareness,men