the hanlon family

Noonday Adoption Fundraiser

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Mon, 19 Mar 2012 19:56:00 +0000

For those who read my blog and didn't get an invite:

"the passion at noonday collection is to connect you with the lives of artisans struggling for a better future while styling you along the way. fashion and design are a vehicle for opportunity and change. you, too, can be a voice for the oppressed!"

Noonday Collection is a unique new company created to provide a way out of poverty through unique, one of a kind accessories and gifts. There are so many wonderful finds, each with a story that impacts the artisan who made the items from Uganda to Guatemala to India. Your fashion sense can now put girls through sewing school in Uganda, restore dignity to abandoned HIV positive women in Ethiopia, and empower communities in Ecuador and India, to orphan care around the world. Also, 20% of the sales from the evening will be applied directly to my adoption fund. Check out Noonday by visiting www.KristinHarvey.NoondayCollection.com .

Take a look at the jewelry, scarves, hats, belts, sandals, journals, among a few other things made by oppressed women around the world. They are beautiful, and if you make a purchase you will also support my adoption!
1. visit www.KristinHarvey.NoondayCollection.com
2. shop and add items to your bag
3. checkout, select Kristin Harvey from the Ambassador drop down box at the top
4. at the bottom when it says "For Ambassadors Only- Trunk Show" enter my name, Laura Hanlon

Feel free to share! I hope you find something you like :)

Conflict

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Fri, 10 Feb 2012 01:43:00 +0000

Who loves conflict? Not I, nor anybody else I think. You might beg to differ though if you lived in my house, it might would seem that I loved it. I would like to think of myself as a peacemaker, but if I really look at my life, I definitely can NOT conclude that. I seem to be the person in which conflict doesn't scare me. I know it's reality, but do I too often pursue it?

For the past few years I have been trying to learn on how to best handle conflict, mostly because there seems to be too much of it in my life (specifically my marriage- bringing two very different people together in a house seems to breed conflict, it's not just me right?). What I have learned is that conflict always begins with your feelings. I was reading today on Lysa TerKeurst's blog about conflict resolution and thought she said it perfectly:

"I had a choice to make. I could get all caught up in the emotion and make this a much bigger deal than it needed to be or I could sit with Jesus and ask for a better perspective.
Often I’ve chosen the emotional route. And honey let me tell you, that’s an exhausting road for sure. As I female I’ve traveled and will travel this road again. It’s part of my DNA and my PMS. But for this situation some rare rationality was tugging me to just sit with Jesus and seek wisdom.

As I sat, the Lord whispered into my heart a question, “What do you really want?”

“I want to pout and explain my feelings and pout some more.” But that wasn’t really true. That’s how I felt but that’s not what I wanted. There’s a big difference between those two. Identifying that difference would lead to a solution. And in the end, a good solution should always be the goal when tackling conflict.

Feelings should be indicators not dictators.
They can indicate there are some emotions to process but not dictate how we act and react in a situation."

I've learned that I do tend to pursue conflict, because I have this need to be heard. I think that my feelings need to be known, an although this might be true, I seem to ~~always~~ mostly let my feelings dictate my actions. I have a choice, process first or react first. I need to take time and process, pray for wisdom, and listen.

It seems that my next step is figuring out how to process before reacting.... self-control. Lord, give me some self-control!

Maybe one day I'll get this figured out. Thankful for a husband and children who push me to grow, even though they come with conflict.

The Nasty Cold

noreply@blogger.com (Zach and Laura Hanlon) — Tue, 07 Feb 2012 02:11:00 +0000

I took this picture last week. We have gotten our yearly cold. It started off with Ainsley coughing throughout the night, which keeps me up since I am the lightest sleeper in the whole wide world it seems! Next came the runny noses and spreading of germs, which led to Ellie ~~wasting~~ using a whole box of Kleenexes in one day (how do you teach you kid to reuse a Kleenex, yet alone use one?)

I thought I was almost safe from the nasty thing, then it came. It started with a sore throat and a cough, then came the loss of voice (laryngitis) and the hacking cough (bronchitis), then the worst headache and the worst cough and congestion (sinus infection) of my life, I thought. Why does it seem that I got the worst of it? I thought mothers weren't supposed to get sick, I thought that I was the adult with the immune system. I used to NEVER get sick, not until I had kids. I was even around kids ALL the time, I was a teacher and church nursery volunteer. Why when the days come when it is almost impossible to rest, do I have the worst immune system?

Ok, enough complaining. I thought I would share my nasty thoughts with you and hopefully not this nasty cold.

Recovering...

Psalm 18:30

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Wed, 25 Jan 2012 01:19:00 +0000

Waiting 8 Months

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Fri, 20 Jan 2012 16:47:00 +0000

Some of you might be wondering what is going on with our adoption, shouldn't we have a baby by now? Well there was a long wait for our UCIS approval, which slowed us down, and then there was a lot of changes going on within Ethiopia concerning adoption, which has slowed everybody down.

We have been on the waitlist for over 8 months now (16 months since we began the process),and we are expecting to wait at least 10 more months before we receive a referral (a picture and information on our recommended child). After we receive our referral, we will travel for our court date and then travel again later to bring our child home. What that means is that it will take us about 14 more months before we bring him home. So hopefully March 2013, we will have our family of 5 together!

It is difficult to wait for a child, especially when you think about all the children waiting in the orphanages all over the world. You develop a bond for the child who is not yet in your arms, a child you have yet to see, but pray for everyday. I would definitely compare it to pregnancy, just a really, REALLY long pregnancy. Your heart aches, you want to hold your child, you want to care for your child, you want to love your child. I can't deny that I already have so much love for him. It might be hard for a lot of you to understand how I can love someone I haven't even met, seen a picture of, or felt. I'm not going to lie, it seems strange, but it's real.

Ellie and Ainsley are great distractions. They keep me busy, my love for them is tremendous and distracting too, and they wear me out. It also helps that I still have so much more to read and prepare for, adoption is a whole other world of parenting. I'm waiting patiently, but my heart still aches in the process...

Stinkers for the Day

noreply@blogger.com (Zach and Laura Hanlon) — Thu, 19 Jan 2012 18:11:00 +0000

The girls are giving me a hard time today. I love these two little ones to death, but they can be so difficult at times.

Stinker #1 is showing me what it's like to have a teenage girl. She has been very disrespectful, giving me a LOT of attitude and disobedience. I shouldn't complain too much, because I know I definitely deserve this from my teenage years. It's just I'm definitely failing in the area of patience and gentleness today... Trying to work on that.

Stinker #2 kept me up all night, she's not feeling so well. Unlike stinker #1, she requires a LOT of attention and love. I shouldn't complain, I love the cuddles and being needed. I again just fail in giving compassion and being patient.

Parenting is hard.

On another note, I can't believe my bulbs are blooming in January. Can't deny it's been warm here, I would love at least one snow though. Maybe for my birthday?

HAPPY BIRTHDAY AUNT COCO!

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Wed, 18 Jan 2012 18:46:00 +0000

The girls love singing happy birthday, so I absolutely had to make a video of them singing for their special auntie. Enjoy. Happy birthday Carla, we love you oh so much :)

2012 Resolutions

noreply@blogger.com (Zach and Laura Hanlon) — Fri, 13 Jan 2012 15:15:00 +0000

I'm not a big fan of resolutions, but I can't deny the fact that each new year it's nice to have a time to evaluate and make new goals (or most likely begin to restart an old one). I thought it would be fun to list my 12 goals for this next year, and look back and see what I was able to accomplish. I hope that I will be proud. We'll see.

My Twelve for 2012:
1. Seek to know God more intimately.
2. Wake up early. This has been a consistent goal for the past 3 years, one I have consistently failed to accomplish more than a few months.
3. Stay fit. I continually want to strive to be healthy.
4. Do #2 by working out with hubby. He loves his workout philosophy, Crossfit, and it has done wonders for him. I want to encourage him and share that with him.
5. Read 6 ADULT books.
6. Cherish and enjoy my children more, even in the terrible twos and threes.
7. Be more humble.
8. Be more patient.
9. Be a better wife. Especially in encouraging and respecting my husband.
10. Keep up the blog.
11. Start a journal to my girls.
12. Cook an Ethiopian meal. The food is yummy, my son is from there, I want to at least try it!

We will see what this year holds. I'm hoping it will definitely include a referral of our little boy, finally knowing who our son is, we cannot wait for that day!

Welcome Back!

noreply@blogger.com (Zach and Laura Hanlon) — Fri, 13 Jan 2012 03:01:00 +0000

You might assume that I am welcoming you back to my blog, to the contrary, I am actually welcoming myself back. Yes, I am terrible. I completely gave you false hope in my last entry over 4 months ago, I failed to return.

As this new year began, I couldn't stop thinking about my blog. I love the history in it, a place where people can see my life who don't get to experience it with me frequently (especially my family), a place where I can share my joys, my hopes, my thoughts, and any randomness I want to. I remembered how much joy, even if not in this moment but when looking back, this blog brings me. It's a part of my life, stored here in one place.

So bare with me as I begin to catch up and get back in to this wonderful world. I have missed you and have so many plans for you. I hope you enjoy the new look, and the new and old posts. It's partly for you, and mostly for me. Yea, I'm a little selfish. I'm working on that.

Ainsley's Catechism

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Wed, 11 Jan 2012 03:02:00 +0000

I have posted a video of Ellie doing her catechism, but Ainsley has yet to demonstrate hers! Ellie has memorized over 26, Ainsley has about 13. I'm very impressed with her ability, I'm sure it has a lot to do with having an older sister, but she still is smart (and very distracted)! She's also very stinking cute. Here she is:

On the front page!

noreply@blogger.com (Zach and Laura Hanlon) — Fri, 06 Jan 2012 14:16:00 +0000

That's me, on the front page of Cary News! I'm leading our preschoolers in worship inside a high school our church meets at. Some might call me famous, I would only slightly agree with them if the article was about me. The article was about my church, you can read it here: http://www.carynews.com/2012/01/04/50026/church-without-the-steeple.html

I got a lot of comments, especially at church. They only lasted a week, thank goodness! I can't lie though, it's fun being in the paper!

Learning to Drive at 3 years

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Wed, 04 Jan 2012 02:30:00 +0000

The girls got a little jeep for Christmas from their Gigi, Aunt Andi, and Uncle Allen. They are having so much fun in it. Ellie loves driving it, Ainsley loves riding in it.

Ellie is quite a driver, although she had (and still has) a tough time receiving instruction. Once she finally realized that we are actually trying to help her, she started doing learning more and more. Now she knows how to do a 3 point turn!

We love cruising down the street. We let Ainsley try out the driver's seat, but it never lasts long. Either Ainsley gives up quickly, I get frustrated, or Ellie gets frustrated, usually the latter. Ainsley is such a good sport and just enjoys riding.

They are so stinking cute in their car!

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Our First NYC Adventure with Kids

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Mon, 19 Dec 2011 18:49:00 +0000

Zach travels a lot with business, and we get to reap the benefits of his frequent flying and hotel staying! We decided to take the girls somewhere, and we thought why not NYC at Christmas time. So we booked our flight and hotel, and began the adventure. It was definitely a different experience with two little ones who still require naps and early bedtimes, but we had fun!

The girls were so excited to fly, they were bummed that it was such a short flight! I think I was too a little, it's fun exploring airports especially when you get to stay in the sky club (free internet, drinks and snacks). The girls do amazingly well with traveling, so it's quite enjoyable! Ellie also seems to love staying in new places, Ainsley just wants to make sure she is with us. They had fun exploring our hotel room and jumping on the beds!

The first day there we arrived early afternoon, got settled (Doubletree in Times Square), took a LONG nap, then ate some not so good Chinese food and went to the Disney store in Times Square. We let the girls pick out one thing under $10, Ellie chose a Minnie Mouse camera and Ainsley chose a stuffed, pink Minnie Mouse. They loved it! After the girls went to bed, Zach went out and discovered the reserve coffee at Starbucks in Times Square. It's a special coffee roast, and brewed a special way:

The second day we went to the Children's Museum of the Arts to the special toddler time. They played, colored, painted, sang, and banged on the drum. It was so much fun, I definitely recommend this place.

Playing with playdough

Painting

Playing with flubber. Ellie loved it, Ainsley wouldn't touch it.

Craft time, Ainsley trying to keep clean (she does not like to be sticky).

A video of a tiny portion of the singing/story time:

Storytime with CMA in NYC from Laura Hanlon on Vimeo.

In the ball pit.

Goofing around.

After the museum time was over, we ate lunch at this great little coffee shop (can't remember the name). We met a few guys who were grad students thinking about developing an app for kid videos, we got into a lengthy conversation with them that was quite nice. After our warm, yummy lunch, we headed to High Line Park. We read the book The Curious Garden a few months ago, and thought we would find the garden mentioned in the book. It was winter and the flowers were gone, but it still had a very peculiar appeal to it.

The park overlooked west side Manhatten:

The girls loved the benches

Chairs to enjoy a rest, a good book or the sunny days

Place that overlooked a street under the park

We finished the day with a nap, Chipotle (one of our favorite restaurants), and then venturing to see some Christmas lights in the city. There were gigantic toy soldiers, huge Christmas ornaments, TONS of lights, and it was beautiful.

Christmas Tree at Rockefeller Center

Under the tree

Christmas trees in the city

Radio City

The third day, it was Ainsley's birthday!

We started off with FAO Schwartz. It was a hit. The girls loved playing with all the toys. We let Ainsley pick out a reasonable gift, she choose a Melissa & Doug wooden necklace kit. They had fun making necklaces later that afternoon in the hotel. We also let the girls pick out some candy, which they gobbled up in less than 10 minutes! Oh and I can't forget the PIANO. The girls loved running around on the big piano and making music, and they also highly enjoyed the professional piano dancers. It is very entertaining and highly enjoyable by us all!

Here is a video of the professional piano dancers:

FAO Piano Dancers from Laura Hanlon on Vimeo.

Outside FAO Schwartz

Trunkis, which they LOVED playing with (and ended up getting for Christmas, thank you Coco and Chucko)

The Big Piano

(They had much more fun than it looks like in this picture. They weren't happy about making them pose).

We had heard from many people to try this restaurant, Serendipity (it supposedly had the best dessert ever, frozen hot chocolate). We braved it, waited over an hour, and ate some delicious food ending with the famous frozen hot chocolate. It was amazing.

Enjoying our frozen hot chocolate (sorry, we didn't notice the purple cup RIGHT in the way of the beautiful drink)

We ended the day with a nap, some NY pizza for dinner, and the M&M store.

It was a wonderful trip experiencing a different side of New York City with the girls. Something we will remember always. (Although I can't deny that traveling with kids who need naps is difficult.) The faces and joy that these girls had with such a new and different place was definitely priceless. I am so blessed.

Ainsley's 2nd Birthday

noreply@blogger.com (Zach and Laura Hanlon) — Fri, 16 Dec 2011 21:13:00 +0000

Our baby girl is 2 years old! I cannot believe how I don't have a baby anymore and how fast my two girls are growing. Ainsley has developed a sweet, loving, free spirited, yet stubborn personality. I absolutely have loved watching this little one grow.

Ainsley loves:
-to eat. everything.
-to sing.
-to suck her thumb.

-to do whatever Ellie does.
-to be goofy.
-to pray. for everything.
-baby dolls.
-to organize or stack anything and everything.

-to be without any clothes!
-to lay in bed and cuddle with you in the morning
-to be held by mommy or daddy, definitely not by Ellie.
-to color and paint.

-to poo poo in the bathtub. we love that too....
-to jump.
-to read books, by herself.
-to find gum in anyone's purse, including the stranger at the library.
-the iphone, especially people's photos on the iphone.
-her face painted.

Ainsley does not like:
-bouncy houses, although she enjoys the trampoline.
-being thrown into the air.
-the chick-fil-a cow or any other dressed up character, including Santa.

I absolutely ADORE and LOVE this little girl. She is nurturing, loving, easy-going, goofy, smart, and joyful. She can easily light up your day and make you feel warm. I love watching her discover and explore this world, I look forward to the many days ahead. What a joy and blessing she is to our lives. HAPPY BIRTHDAY AINSLEY!

Family Photoshoot

noreply@blogger.com (Zach and Laura Hanlon) — Sat, 26 Nov 2011 21:47:00 +0000

I have got to share these AMAZING photos by a TALENTED photographer and friend, Phil Matta. I HIGHLY recommend him, let me know if you want his contact info. Click on picture below to view all.

January 13, 2012

First Airplane Ride

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Wed, 09 Nov 2011 02:43:00 +0000

The girls and I went to Texas to visit my sister. It was Ellie's second plane ride (first was a visit to visit my other sister in FL when Ellie was 6 months old), and it was Ainsley's first plane ride ever! Zach was able to fly with us to Atlanta because he was traveling for business, but I did the rest of the trip there and back by myself!

The girls were wonderful fliers. We had two flights to Houston and two flights back to Raleigh, they slept on one flight each way for the while flight. It was amazing. I had a little rough time carrying Ainsley, our luggage, my huge tote, and keeping track of Ellie. I would easily do it again, it wasn't too bad because they loved it. Well, I guess Ainsley might disagree with me a little bit, she wasn't a fan of take off or landing. She survived with no tears, only words of concern and death grips on my hand.

Excited
Being silly
Asleep:

Coming home

Blessed to have children who travel well. Here's a little video of our first flight as four:

YouTube Video

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October Beach Trip

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Sun, 09 Oct 2011 18:46:00 +0000

First trip with our small group to the beach. It was pretty cold. Enjoyed some wonderful time with our friends, Phil and Christie, Jonathan and Miranda, Jake and Elizabeth, and also our wonderful hosts Eric and Lindsey. It's such a beautiful house that we stayed in, and the owner is very gracious and hospitable. I love the beach, any time of the year.

Girls playing before the day starts (photo by Elizabeth)

We did play on the beach. I stayed covered up the whole time, but the girls dug in the sand and the men braved the water. Here's Ellie with the shovel (photo by Phil Matta).

Ainsley hanging out in the house (photo by Phil Matta).

Enjoying a moment of rest in the sun (photo by Phil Matta)

The group on the beach, it was windy.

Missing...

noreply@blogger.com (Zach and Laura Hanlon) — Sun, 04 Sep 2011 01:39:00 +0000

Some of you might be wondering if I'm still alive, I wanted to ease your minds. I definitely have been missing from the blog and I wanted to let you all know that we are are all well here. The blog has just been on the last of my to do list. I hopefully will get back in the swing of things soon. Don't loose hope in me!

Playing at Nana and Papa's

noreply@blogger.com (Zach and Laura Hanlon) — Fri, 02 Sep 2011 02:16:00 +0000

The girls LOVE playing at Nana and Papa's house. They have the kitchen and train set from when I was their age, along with other toys, new and old. They can spend hours in the garage playing with them. Here they both are on the train set:And here is Ainsley doing what she spends most of her time doing, playing and lining up the ice cream.
It really makes me laugh how long she will do this, how particular she is when lining them up, and how she just keeps doing it and doing it over and over! I wonder how much this is developmental and if it will show up later down the road as part of her personality. We will see.

Happy Dog

noreply@blogger.com (Zach and Laura Hanlon) — Tue, 30 Aug 2011 19:05:00 +0000

My Lucky Day

noreply@blogger.com (Zach and Laura Hanlon) — Mon, 29 Aug 2011 19:06:00 +0000

I found 3 four leaf clovers! Crazy.
(sometimes I still get excited like I am a kid)

Sassy Ellie

noreply@blogger.com (Zach and Laura Hanlon) — Wed, 10 Aug 2011 02:01:00 +0000

I might have told her to put her hands on her hips. Other than that, the rest is completely her (outfit and all). Hopefully she won't be this sassy at 16...

Sisters Reading Together

noreply@blogger.com (Zach and Laura Hanlon) — Wed, 03 Aug 2011 20:50:00 +0000

It never fails. I just love when they read to each other.

Sisters Reading/Singing from Laura Hanlon on Vimeo.

My Little Pebbles

noreply@blogger.com (Zach and Laura Hanlon) — Fri, 22 Jul 2011 18:56:00 +0000

Carpet Art

noreply@blogger.com (Zach and Laura Hanlon) — Thu, 21 Jul 2011 18:59:00 +0000

I would have to say it turned out pretty well...

I had painted my toes and instead of carrying the polish all the way back to my bathroom, I decided to be lazy and put them on the fireplace. I had the thought that it would be bad if I dropped them, but thought that wouldn't happen because I would be the only one touching them. I had 3 polishes, 2 clear (base coat and top coat) and 1 hot pink. I went to put them away later that evening, and low and behold DROPPED ONE! Which one did I drop? Of course the one that would do the most damage!!!! Tried to remove it, but only made it look worse. So above is the result because that looks better than some orangey-pink mess. I do have to say it's somewhat growing on me...