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	<title>thehayden.org</title>
	
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		<title>My take on life – Part 1</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 17:34:17 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Philosophy]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Give today without reason to the ones you love
for the ones you love may without reason die tomorrow.
Not every saying of a friend is true,
but a true friend believes every saying.
Trust is like the ocean, the deeper in you go
the more likely it is to drown or to swim.
Just as gold is refined,
a wise person [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Give today without reason to the ones you love<br />
for the ones you love may without reason die tomorrow.</p>
<p>Not every saying of a friend is true,<br />
but a true friend believes every saying.</p>
<p><span id="more-194"></span>Trust is like the ocean, the deeper in you go<br />
the more likely it is to drown or to swim.</p>
<p>Just as gold is refined,<br />
a wise person makes use of trials to identify their impurities and remove them.</p>
<p>Always smile on the outside even when you&#8217;re torn within,<br />
for only God sees the inside and it&#8217;s no one else&#8217;s business.</p>
<p>Please don&#8217;t take what I write too seriously,<br />
because if you&#8217;re serious, what I write may take you.﻿</p>
<p>-END-</p>
<p>&#8230;just some of my thoughts preserved.</p>
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		<title>Your Stare</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 17:20:28 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://thehayden.org/?p=192</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Face pale yet crimson,
your coy well veiled
by brown eyes floating
upwards within cherubs
of pearly whites.
Below them arch gently
a vaguely pointed nose
on which your two tiniest
fingers lie, the others settled
neatly above your brow.
This peep-between has
my awe awakened by
your wine-colored lips,
which airs slightly open
an eternally sweet breath.
Your charismatic flirt
curls my attention, as do
your lashes lead me to those
constant [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Face pale yet crimson,<br />
your coy well veiled<br />
by brown eyes floating<br />
upwards within cherubs<br />
of pearly whites.</p>
<p><span id="more-192"></span>Below them arch gently<br />
a vaguely pointed nose<br />
on which your two tiniest<br />
fingers lie, the others settled<br />
neatly above your brow.</p>
<p>This peep-between has<br />
my awe awakened by<br />
your wine-colored lips,<br />
which airs slightly open<br />
an eternally sweet breath.</p>
<p>Your charismatic flirt<br />
curls my attention, as do<br />
your lashes lead me to those<br />
constant eyes; to which I<br />
fall victim of your stare.</p>
<p>-END-</p>
<p><strong>Reflection<br />
</strong>There&#8217;s a lot that can be communicated through one&#8217;s stare. Love, hate, lust, disgust, envy, jealousy, passion, thought, prejudice, hope, hopelessness&#8230; yes all through a stare.</p>
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		<title>Travel</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 12:50:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>thehayden</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Poetry]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m off!
With the wind
Carried on hopes.
My feet
Being lifted
Miles high.
The lives of
Many below
vanishing slowly.

I&#8217;m emerged
Between curling
White clouds.
With them
My mind floats
Cozy thoughts
No way of
Stopping, home
At my back.
On the horizon
lies the
Destination of much.
White smoke from
tires on this
tarmac runway.
So lands
in a new,
place of missions.﻿
-END-
Reflection
On your last flight, did you sleep, read, write, make plans or maybe you were too [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m off!<br />
With the wind<br />
Carried on hopes.</p>
<p>My feet<br />
Being lifted<br />
Miles high.</p>
<p>The lives of<br />
Many below<br />
vanishing slowly.</p>
<p><span id="more-186"></span></p>
<p>I&#8217;m emerged<br />
Between curling<br />
White clouds.</p>
<p>With them<br />
My mind floats<br />
Cozy thoughts</p>
<p>No way of<br />
Stopping, home<br />
At my back.</p>
<p>On the horizon<br />
lies the<br />
Destination of much.</p>
<p>White smoke from<br />
tires on this<br />
tarmac runway.</p>
<p>So lands<br />
in a new,<br />
place of missions.﻿</p>
<p>-END-</p>
<p><strong>Reflection</strong><br />
On your last flight, did you sleep, read, write, make plans or maybe you were too worried about getting to your destination in one piece for any of that. :) Flying is oftentimes the the most productive time away, while away.</p>
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		<title>Heavens Symphony</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 23:57:25 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Nature]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Long wishes
Sink softly
Upwards
Into the evening sky.
Deep and timid
Tinged white diamonds
Like cities distant.
Jazzing a soothing
Migration of melodious
Thoughts.
Smiles patented by moment
Fling twilight
Into my sky
Now owned
By my cognac
Eyes.
Butterflies now rest,
Flowers all closed,
Lights revealed
As I’m touched by
This ebb of night.
Sky’s orchestra
Harmonized.
I’m tongue tied
My fingers cry
with reaching,
Reaching
To sky’s understanding,
For all it&#8217;s stars
on me to land.
-END-
Reflection
There&#8217;s nothing like a clear night [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Long wishes<br />
Sink softly<br />
Upwards<br />
Into the evening sky.</p>
<p>Deep and timid<br />
Tinged white diamonds<br />
Like cities distant.<br />
Jazzing a soothing<br />
Migration of melodious<br />
Thoughts.</p>
<p><span id="more-178"></span>Smiles patented by moment<br />
Fling twilight<br />
Into my sky<br />
Now owned<br />
By my cognac<br />
Eyes.</p>
<p>Butterflies now rest,<br />
Flowers all closed,<br />
Lights revealed<br />
As I’m touched by<br />
This ebb of night.<br />
Sky’s orchestra<br />
Harmonized.</p>
<p>I’m tongue tied<br />
My fingers cry<br />
with reaching,<br />
Reaching<br />
To sky’s understanding,<br />
For all it&#8217;s stars<br />
on me to land.</p>
<p>-END-</p>
<p><strong>Reflection</strong><br />
There&#8217;s nothing like a clear night with all the stars making way to our eyes, when we open them enough to behold the awesomeness which encircles our tiny planet.</p>
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		<title>This, is the life!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Aug 2009 21:15:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>thehayden</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Nature]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[beach]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[beautiful]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[island]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sun]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://thehayden.org/?p=168</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[As my toes sink pleasantly between pearl white sand grains,
The strong breeze of “no worry” gusts through my knotty hair.
With my back to the vast blue sea of living splendors and delight,
My eyes ardent on dynamic greens and many dazzling colors inland.
Engulfed by an enlivening feeling as I stroll the shoreline of thought.
Sounds of sprightly [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As my toes sink pleasantly between pearl white sand grains,<br />
The strong breeze of “no worry” gusts through my knotty hair.<br />
With my back to the vast blue sea of living splendors and delight,<br />
My eyes ardent on dynamic greens and many dazzling colors inland.</p>
<p><span id="more-168"></span>Engulfed by an enlivening feeling as I stroll the shoreline of thought.<br />
Sounds of sprightly seagulls and the locals going about theirs, the comfort.<br />
Smells of the natural salt sea, unimaginable freshness… tranquility.<br />
The sun touches my unarmed brown skin warmly, with it’s equation of light.</p>
<p>Contentment revolves about my cozy heart as the skeptical is shelved.<br />
This Isle of sun, sand, and sea; a cure for all, if treasured to the fullest.<br />
This, is the life!</p>
<p>-END-</p>
<p><strong>Reflection</strong><br />
Although we&#8217;ll be leaving soon to head back to the wonders of the dessert (Las Vegas, NV). One can&#8217;t help but enjoy, the now, the last of it, for now and the rest of it, soon from now. Beauty comes in so much varieties and no matter where my feet happen to be, I&#8217;m always able to find some beauty.</p>
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		<title>These last few weeks…</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Aug 2009 21:07:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>thehayden</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Site Announcements]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sunday]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://thehayden.org/?p=169</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[These last few weeks have been hectic, sorry for the absence. PinStack.com has really been evolving nicely. Thanks to a great Moderation team and a bunch of professional members&#8230; the site is sticking tightly to it&#8217;s niche!
Today, I&#8217;m working (yes, I know its Sunday) from a beach chair under a coconut tree, with my wife [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These last few weeks have been hectic, sorry for the absence. PinStack.com has really been evolving nicely. Thanks to a great Moderation team and a bunch of professional members&#8230; the site is sticking tightly to it&#8217;s niche!</p>
<p>Today, I&#8217;m working (yes, I know its Sunday) from a beach chair under a coconut tree, with my wife and the cool Caribbean breeze as company.</p>
<p>theHayden.org updates to follow&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Sad Girl</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 03:49:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>thehayden</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Nature]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Poetry]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[beach]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://thehayden.org/?p=155</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[One day on a beautiful beach,
Viewing all that my eyes could reach.
Was a little girl sitting in the sand alone,
Had toys but her smiles were gone.
Saw her parents lazing in the sun,
Not recognizing her lack of  fun.
So I called my sister and told her “go play”
With the sad girl, until her sadness goes away.
The parents [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One day on a beautiful beach,<br />
Viewing all that my eyes could reach.<br />
Was a little girl sitting in the sand alone,<br />
Had toys but her smiles were gone.<br />
Saw her parents lazing in the sun,<br />
Not recognizing her lack of  fun.</p>
<p><span id="more-155"></span>So I called my sister and told her “go play”<br />
With the sad girl, until her sadness goes away.<br />
The parents looked across and smiled at me.<br />
Though they missed the point in all honesty.<br />
Each sunny day burst with promise,<br />
of opportunities to share happiness.</p>
<p>-END-</p>
<p><strong>Reflection</strong><br />
True story.</p>
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		<title>Word of the week “Libertine”</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 18:52:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>thehayden</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The work of the week is libertine:
Pronunciation [lib-er-teen]
–noun
1. 	a person who is morally or sexually unrestrained, esp. a dissolute man; a profligate; rake.
2. 	a freethinker in religious matters.
3. 	a person freed from slavery in ancient Rome.
–adjective
4. 	free of moral, esp. sexual, restraint; dissolute; licentious.
5. 	freethinking in religious matters.
6. 	Archaic. unrestrained; uncontrolled.
Via Dictionary.com
]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>The work of the week is libertine</strong>:</p>
<p>Pronunciation [lib-er-teen]</p>
<p>–noun<br />
1. 	a person who is morally or sexually unrestrained, esp. a dissolute man; a profligate; rake.<br />
2. 	a freethinker in religious matters.<br />
3. 	a person freed from slavery in ancient Rome.</p>
<p><span id="more-148"></span>–adjective<br />
4. 	free of moral, esp. sexual, restraint; dissolute; licentious.<br />
5. 	freethinking in religious matters.<br />
6. 	Archaic. unrestrained; uncontrolled.</p>
<p>Via <a title="dictionary.com" href="http://dictionary.com" target="_blank">Dictionary.com</a></p>
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		<title>Dessert</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 01:01:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>thehayden</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[food]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Calling travels sonic,
As all surrenders.
Concocting turbulence,
Of northern ideas.
Phenomenal rush,
For snowflakes en ice cream.
Like the morning dew,
Falls this appetite.
Congregating thoughts so enjoyable,
They perch on sin&#8217;s edge.
Frost like cool in myriads of flavors,
Succulently bracing.
The members of my body coordinate,
Constructing this delight.
Rainbow of scents fill the air,
Eating away at my drizzled patience.
Eyes peer endlessly,
Through lids of excitement.
This craving [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Calling travels sonic,<br />
As all surrenders.<br />
Concocting turbulence,<br />
Of northern ideas.</p>
<p>Phenomenal rush,<br />
For snowflakes en ice cream.<br />
Like the morning dew,<br />
Falls this appetite.</p>
<p><span id="more-144"></span>Congregating thoughts so enjoyable,<br />
They perch on sin&#8217;s edge.<br />
Frost like cool in myriads of flavors,<br />
Succulently bracing.</p>
<p>The members of my body coordinate,<br />
Constructing this delight.<br />
Rainbow of scents fill the air,<br />
Eating away at my drizzled patience.</p>
<p>Eyes peer endlessly,<br />
Through lids of excitement.<br />
This craving for frolicking fruity sensations,<br />
Nears quench&#8230;&#8230;mmm.</p>
<p>-END-</p>
<p><strong>Reflection<br />
</strong>Indulge yourself here:</p>
<p>http://www.epicurious.com/recipesmenus/desserts</p>
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		<title>Everything reminds me of you, Mother</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 20:58:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>thehayden</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Poetry]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[death]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mother]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[The silence of constant night unaffected,
By my gaze towards the brilliance of the bursting moon,
Yet, shadowed by the love I once told you to remember, Mother.
Droplets of tears fall forever within,
As they batter memories, ever so present.
Memories of your battle and grasp for dear life, Mother.
When the nights are silent, like this,
It becomes just me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The silence of constant night unaffected,<br />
By my gaze towards the brilliance of the bursting moon,<br />
Yet, shadowed by the love I once told you to remember, Mother.</p>
<p>Droplets of tears fall forever within,<br />
As they batter memories, ever so present.<br />
Memories of your battle and grasp for dear life, Mother.</p>
<p><span id="more-135"></span>When the nights are silent, like this,<br />
It becomes just me and thoughts of you.<br />
Then at dawn the sun is lazy for me.<br />
Without you, life still seems, to contain you,<br />
What do I do now? Mother.</p>
<p>-END-</p>
<p><strong>This write is dedicated to my mother Mable Ann James<br />
March 24th 1955 – June 1st 2009 (breast cancer)</strong></p>
<p><strong>Reflection<br />
</strong>How do you move forward from the death of a loved one when their absence means the death of your moving forward?</p>
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