"The Inner Coach"

Kindness & Kindliness

theinnercoach — Thu, 09 Sep 2010 06:08:03 +0000

Kindness & Kindliness are not the same thing and they are often confused.

Kindness is my affinity in a generous way to my own kind.

Kindliness is the ‘spark of light’ that is my affinity to my own True Self.

The opposite of kindness is the meanness and miserliness that is expressed to people who are not like me, not of my kind and whom I do not like.

I am never kind or generous to people whom I do not like.

The opposite of kindliness is a malignancy that is negative and often seen as bad, dark or evil.

Kindliness is benign. It is warm, welcoming, embracing and accepting of life in a positive way.

Unkindliness is malignant. It is cold, aloof, disconnected and intolerant of life in a negative way.

I can be benign and kindly without being generous, although giving of my kindliness will always be seen as generosity.

I give with kindness, I express my kindliness.

Kindness gives to others material possessions that others want and need.

Kindliness is a compassionate state of being that I share with another person who also has a kindly disposition.

Awe

theinnercoach — Wed, 08 Sep 2010 06:31:58 +0000

Awe is the experience of something more powerful than my self.

My ego can never be more powerful than my self, it is my self.

My Soul is more powerful than my Self, when I forget how powerful I am as my Soul.

I am not in awe of my Soul, I am in Awe as my Soul.

When my self is in awe of my Soul it is humbled by my Soul, feels inferior to my Soul, and is in fear of my Soul.

When I am in fear of my soul, the experience will be awful.

When I feel the compassion of my Soul’s Power, I am in Awe as my Soul and full of Awe.

Whether I choose my experience in Life to be full of Awe or awful is always my own personal choice.

My Soul is in Awe as my Self.

My Soul knows that I can be as powerful as my Soul once I become in Awe as my Self.

Students & Pupils

theinnercoach — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 06:55:55 +0000

I am a Student of a Course.

I am a Pupil of a Teacher.

Pupil & Teacher is a role duality.

It is where one believes that they have the knowledge and the other believes that they need the knowledge.

It is the duality of superiority and inferiority.

The pupil will always defer to the superior knowledge of the teacher.

It is only in my disconnection from the Truth that I seek to become the pupil of a teacher.

Jesus is the example of a Teacher without pupils. A Disciple is the student of a course, not a pupil.

My Inner Teacher and Coach does not seek to teach me about life.

My Inner Coach has given to my Self the gift of Life for the purpose of learning and growth.

My Soul chooses for my Self to be a Student of Life and to allow life to follow its natural course for my Self.

I am a student of the Nature of Life – of course.

Teachers teach, pupils are taught, students learn and disciples follow their own path.

A Spiritual Coach

theinnercoach — Mon, 06 Sep 2010 07:07:10 +0000

A Spiritual Coach coaches spiritual people.

A spiritual person has awakened to the reality of their spiritual path in life.

They require a spiritual coach to support and guide them on their path.

A spiritual coach does not coach as a profession or as a hobby.

A hobby meets one’s emotional needs.

A profession meets one’s material and monetary needs.

A ‘calling’ fulfils one’s vision for one’s life.

It is not my vision to be a coach.

Being a coach and coaching spiritual people allows me to fulfil my vision for my life. It is the means, the reason and the purpose.

Aligning others to their path in life, aligns my Self to my path.

Empowering others empowers my Self.

What I give to others, I allow my Self to receive more of.

I give to my clients my Time, my Space and my Reality.

These are the most essential elements of my abundant Life.

A Professional Coach

theinnercoach — Sun, 05 Sep 2010 07:55:21 +0000

A Professional Coach coaches as a profession.

When Coaching is a profession, it is a business and it is commercial.

Commercial businesses and professions operate within a set of professional guidelines.

A professional service is required to give value for the fees charged for that commercial service.

A professional coach is required to coach professional people.

An aim and objective of professional people is to become more professional so that they can make more money.

The aim of business and commerce is to make money.

The aim of a professional coach is to make money.

A business that is not professional does not make money and will soon go out of business.

An activity that costs money is called a hobby.

Hobby coaches are not seen as professional people.

Spiritual Coaching is neither a profession nor a hobby.

It is a calling.

“Many are called, few are chosen”.

Resentment

theinnercoach — Sat, 04 Sep 2010 08:32:09 +0000

Resentment is being unaccepting.

I resent what I cannot accept.

I resent that which I am tolerating in life and I find intolerable in life.

Whatever I find intolerable, I tolerate and I do not accept in life, will always be re-sent.

I resent whatever I do not see or receive as a gift.

Forgiveness is the state of Being without resentment.

It is the total acceptance of what is given without resentment.

It is re-sentment without resentment.

Forgiveness is justice, because everything just is re-sent.

Forgiveness of a resentment is the acceptance of a gift and an opportunity for growth.

Resentment is the state of being without forgiveness.

Bliss

theinnercoach — Fri, 03 Sep 2010 06:37:23 +0000

Spiritual Bliss is Pure Feeling.

Emotional Bliss is the feeling of Joy.

Feeling the emotion of pure joy is bliss, but it is not Spiritual Bliss.

Pure Feeling is more than just joy or the feeling of bliss.

Pure Feeling is True Happiness. It is the natural state of our Spirit.

When the spirit of Pure Feeling resonates with True Happiness, everything is Bliss.

In the Physical Realm, bliss is the attainment of True Happiness.

In this physical realm, I am a triality of physical, mental and emotional energy.

The attainment of true happiness requires all three aspects of my Self to resonate in harmony:

My physical self resonates with contentment
My emotional self resonates with joy
My mental self resonates with fulfilment

The joy of Bliss without contentment & fulfilment may be a pleasurable experience but it is not an expression of True Happiness.

Toxicity

theinnercoach — Thu, 02 Sep 2010 07:02:15 +0000

Toxicity is the absence of Light.

My disconnection from the Light of my Consciousness creates a toxic reality.

Fears and false beliefs make my world toxic.

The unhealthiness of my Life is relative to the toxicity that is created by my fears and my limiting beliefs.

Fears and false beliefs are without Light.

Any unhealthiness is the manifestation of the toxicity of my fears and my beliefs.

Toxic thinking comes with the absence of Light. It has no Presence.

My toxic thinking results from my programmed beliefs that hold my fears.

My toxic negative thinking creates toxic negative emotions that eventually materialise as toxins in my physical body.

Bacteria and Viruses are not inherently toxic.

It is my mental and emotional energy vibrations that are toxic.

The role of a virus is to cleanse my physical cells of toxicity.

The role of a bacterium is to cleanse my lymphatic system of toxins.

My lymphatic system is how my body cleanses cell toxicity to keep my body healthy.

Viruses clean the cells and bacteria clear away the cell waste.

Toxicity is a fact of life that the body is designed to accept and to deal with naturally.

My body cleanses, processes and eliminates toxic waste efficiently when I am healthy in order for me to remain healthy.

Toxicity is not a problem. Being unable to process toxicity and eliminate it effectively is the reason that illness exists.

Sharing Perspective

theinnercoach — Wed, 01 Sep 2010 06:14:04 +0000

Sharing Perspective is sharing the same reality.

I can only share my perspective of life with someone who has that same perspective of life to share with me.

A different perspective of life creates a different reality for each perceiver.

Expecting someone with a different perspective of life to share my perspective of life, is arrogance.

I cannot divide my perspective of life and give half to someone else.

We all have choice and we all make different choices.

We all have different thoughts, which create different realities and different perspectives of reality.

Sharing my perspective requires me to communicate my perspective to another, receive their perspective from them and then compare any similarity.

We all create and live in different realities, yet still share the similar aspects of our reality that have the same perspective.

Changing someone else’s reality is not an option.

Changing my own perspective takes but an instant to create a new instant of reality, instantly.

My Alter Ego

theinnercoach — Tue, 31 Aug 2010 05:58:27 +0000

My ego is my sense of self. It is who I believe myself to be.

My Alter Ego is my alternative ego, a different perspective of my Self.

I have 3 perspectives of my Self and 3 perspectives of life.

I have therefore, two alternative perspectives of who I am and two alter egos.

A subjective sense of self is an ego that sees myself as good from a positive perspective.

An objective sense of self is an ego that sees the bad aspects of myself from a negative perspective.

An adjective sense of self is an ego that sees my Self as Being only Good from a Divine perspective.

Being Good is Divine and sees only the Goodness attributable to my Self, to others and to all of Life.

Being good or bad is a duality of a relative dual reality world and will alter my ego’s perspective dependent on which extreme that I am perceiving life to be from.

My ego, my alter ego or my alternative Ego.

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