"The Inner Coach"

3 Choices

theinnercoach — Sat, 31 Jul 2010 10:16:48 +0000

There are always 3 Choices in Life.

A choice is not an option. It is a choice.

An option means that I can opt for this choice or I can opt for that choice.

An option is a choice between one thing and another.

Duality and contrast allow different options.

In a dual reality world there are always 2 options.

An option is a choice, but one choice is not an option.

A choice is the realisation of what I focus my attention on.

At any moment in time, my attention is focusing on 3 choices.

What I have
What I am doing
Who I am being

My physical consciousness is able to focus on one choice at a time.

My spiritual awareness is conscious of my 3 present choices at all times.

I always have 3 choices. Whether I am aware of my choices is dependent on my options.

I have an option to be aware or unaware of my choices.

I can choose to:

Be physically conscious and have physical consciousness.
Be emotionally aware and have emotional awareness.
Be mentally consciously-aware and have Spiritual Conscious-Awareness.

When I choose both options, I automatically choose my 3rd Choice.

There are always 3 Choices in Life once I have overcome the dual reality of my options.

Grace & Disgrace

theinnercoach — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 06:33:49 +0000

Grace & Disgrace are a dual reality and a contrasting choice.

From my perspective, something or someone either raises my emotional energy or depletes it.

What raises my energy has grace.

Whatever depletes my energy is a disgrace.

What blesses my life has grace.

What curses my life is a disgrace.

What I see as good for me has grace.

What I see as bad for me is a disgrace.

What I see as a positive benefit has grace.

What I see as a negative detriment is a disgrace.

What I experience as graceful, I like.

What I experience as disgraceful, I dislike.

My True Power is not derived from people or things.

My True Power has neither grace nor disgrace, it is Divine Grace.

Divine Grace just is. It has not duality.

The Purpose of Dreams

theinnercoach — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 07:00:28 +0000

The Purpose of Dreams is threefold:

To solve problems
To succeed in challenges
To explore opportunities

Dreams give me the opportunity to solve problems in my life before they occur as problems in my life.

When I find the solution to a problem in my dream, it does not need to manifest as a problem in my reality.

Dreams give me the opportunity to complete a challenge in my life without being challenged in my real life.

When I succeed in completing a challenge in my dreams, I no longer need to be challenged in the same way in my real life.

Dreams give me an opportunitgy to explore life in the spiritual as a dress rehearsal for experiencing life in the physical.

When I explore an opportunity in my dreams first, it allows the exploration of an opportunity in real life to occur effortlessly.

From a positive perspective, every dream is an opportunity to learn, to grow and to develop spiritually.

Negative challenging problems in dreams, as in real life, are just opportunities in disguise.

The Purpose of Life is to dream, realise those dreams, and then experience those dreams.

Coping with Life

theinnercoach — Wed, 28 Jul 2010 06:18:31 +0000

I never cope with life. I choose to live life.

I either cope with the problems of life or not.

When I cope with the problems in my life, I manage to either resolve them or to tolerate them.

Becoming intolerant of the problems in my life is a sign of not coping with the problems and not coping with not having a solution to my problems.

I cope with a problem by finding a solution to the symptoms of my problem.

When I find a solution to a problem, I can cope with that problem by tolerating the symptoms.

Coping with a problem never cured the problem or made it go away. It just found a way of managing the problem or managing to cope with the problem because the potential for that problem to reoccur still remains.

When I find the cause of a problem, I find what is creating the problem and I no longer have to cope with the problem or manage it.

When I find the cause of a problem, I find a way to become problem-free, and I no longer need to cope with the problem because there is no longer a problem or a potential problem.

The cause of a problem is always my perspective.

A problem is a missed opportunity, when my perspective is misaligned.

Coping with life is a required strategy until I learn to become aware of the opportunities for my life.

When I accept all the opportunities that life has to offer, I am truly problem-free and coping is no longer required.

Resilience

theinnercoach — Tue, 27 Jul 2010 07:15:28 +0000

Resilience is the measure of my strength or weakness to resist the negativity of life.

I need resilience to tolerate the problems that continually confront me in life.

Without resilience, I am weak, unable to cope with the problems of life and I am descending into chaos.

Without resilience, life becomes intolerable and I become intolerant of the problems that are confronting me.

Strength and weakness are a duality of relative existence.

In a dual reality world, I am either strong or weak, with either enough resilience or not enough resilience to life.

Resilience is required in order to tolerate life when I am disconnected from my True Power.

When I am connected to my True Power, I accept whatever occurs in life as an opportunity.

In the absence of problems, I am in the presence of opportunity.

With Presence, I have the opportunity of attaining a problem-free life.

With a problem-free life, resilience is no longer necessary.

I choose not to be resilient to the wonderful opportunities that my Soul continually presents as a present and a gift to my Self.

Natural Disasters

theinnercoach — Mon, 26 Jul 2010 06:33:15 +0000

Natural Disasters are an oxymoron.

Disasters are not natural.

All disasters are Man made.

Disasters occur when problems are beyond chaotic.

Disasters are an accumulation of problems that have no apparent solution, so that a disaster becomes the solution.

Disasters are not natural but they are inevitable in a problematic world.

Chaos is not the natural state of being.

Chaos is a creation of Man’s thinking, beliefs and actions.

Nature does not create problems, Man does.

Nature is beauty and balance.

Beauty and balance are the natural state of being.

Problems are a perspective of a negative outlook on life.

What is seen as a disaster caused by nature is an opportunity for new growth and a change in perspective.

It is the nature of the Earth to change and to grow.

Resisting that change will always be disasterous.

Attempting to control the planet will be a disaster, naturally.

Advanceage

theinnercoach — Sun, 25 Jul 2010 10:04:13 +0000

Advanceage is the benefit of the wisdom of experience.

As I advance through life with age, I gain experience and wisdom.

Wisdom is my advanceage in Life.

All experiences in life can be seen as either an advantage and a benefit or a disadvantage and a detriment.

With the wisdom of advanceage, all experience becomes an opportunity to advance and grow with age.

Life is an opportunity to benefit from my wisdom.

Without wisdom there is no benefit and no opportunity. There are only problems that are always detrimental.

Lost in the chaos of solving detrimental problems, there is no opportunity for wisdom to grow.

Learning how to solve problems may increase my knowledge but it won’t increase my ability to be wise.

There is no advanceage in learning how to solve problems.

A Wise Man chooses not to have problems.

This is the Age of Advancement.

I am here to experience the benefits and the advanceage of this advanced Age, as I advance in this Age and I advance in age.

Beingness

theinnercoach — Sat, 24 Jul 2010 08:52:36 +0000

Beingness is the natural state of Consciousness.

Three dimensional physical reality allows Consciousness to ‘have’ and to ‘do’ as well as to ‘Be’.

My Beingness individuates me as a Human Being.

As a human Being, I have the choice and the opportunity to choose my state of Being.

The state of my Beingness determines who I am Being.

My beliefs concerning what I have and what I do determine my state of Beingness.

Knowing my emotional state of Being requires an awareness of my Consciousness and a conscious-awareness of my Self.

It is the Soul’s intention to expand its Beingness through its Self.

Expanding Beingness expands Consciousness.

Consciousness seeks an expanded awareness of who it is, who it is Being, its Beingness.

A three dimensional physical world is one contextual reality that allows that potential to realised.

Happy Partners

theinnercoach — Fri, 23 Jul 2010 05:49:38 +0000

Being Happy with my Partner requires both myself and my partner to be happy.

I can only be happy with my partner when I am happy myself.

I can only be happy myself when I take responsibility for my own happiness.

I am not responsible for my partner’s happiness, my partner is.

When I am being unhappy with my partner, I am really being unhappy with myself.

When I am unhappy with my partner, I am blaming them for my unhappiness instead of seeing in them the reflection of my own unhappiness.

When I am unhappy, it is the purpose of my partner to reflect that state of being to me.

I am always happy to see my partner being happy.

When my partner is happy, I can be happy with my partner.

We can share our happiness together.

Happiness is the natural state of Being for us both.

We just have to learn to experience it together as Happy Partners.

Vibrational Intensity

theinnercoach — Thu, 22 Jul 2010 07:09:56 +0000

My Vibrational Intensity determines my experience of Life and my state of Being in Life, my Beingness.

How I process information is determined by my energetic state of being, which is the intensity of my vibration.

My Intensity is divided by Polarity, which creates a duality of positive & negative, heart & head, or id & ego.

My Intensity is also divided by Gender, which creates a duality of male & female, left brain & right brain, that makes me sinful or virtuous.

Energy that is divided by both polarity and gender creates four categories of intensity that determine my personality and my character.

A positive, male personality & character is: Rational, Exclusive, & Detached.
A positive, female personality & character is: Emotional, Connected & Sensitive.
A negative, male personality & character is: Unemotional, Disconnected, & Insensitive.
A negative female personality & character is: Irrational, Inclusive & Attached.

My True Identity is beyond my personality and my character, it is my True Vibrational Intensity that is beyond my relative dual reality.

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