When She Says, “Let’s Just Be Friends”

September 27, 2012
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To a man romantically interested in a woman, few phrases are harder to hear than “let’s just be friends.” It’s a rejection made even more painful because it creates a glimmer of hope, giving no closure but leving many questions. Does she really want to be friends? Will she eventually see how good you’d be [...]

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Do Men Really Want Sex More Than Women?

September 18, 2012
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The build-up to sex is always similar, whether it’s a one-night stand or a couple’s first time together. Men act by showing interest, proposing dates and physically escalating towards intimacy. Women react by allowing or rejecting these advances. Here’s the tricky part. Guys want to start having sex as soon as they’re attracted to someone. [...]

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How To Stop Caring What Others Think Of You

August 30, 2012
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Back when our ancestors lived in primitive communities, caring what others thought of you was a necessity; ignoring someone’s opinion could result in catching a rock to the head or being hit with a club. In a modern, less physically violent society, things are different. Paying too much attention to what others think messes with [...]

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Make Women Chase You By Forcing Investment

August 23, 2012
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The other day I talked to a friend who’s fallen for a guy who doesn’t like her back (and is actually dating someone else). We’ve all been there and it sucks; wanting to give someone the world and knowing they don’t feel the same. When this happens, the natural reaction is to think that giving will [...]

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The People Around You Don’t Know What They’re Doing

August 17, 2012
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Most people don’t know what they want to do, where they want to eat or how they feel about things. Instead, they let mass media and the strong leaders in their lives decide for them. As a man, you have the power and responsibility to be one of those leaders. Whether you want to help [...]

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The Big Mistake Men Make When Giving

August 9, 2012
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As a man, you will often be compelled or expected to give things to other people. From paying for dates to supporting their families, the male sex has a long history of giving – and that’s cool. Generosity gives us satisfaction, creates social power and is attractive to women. It’s a selfless personality trait reserved [...]

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What Should You Do When People Don’t Like You?

August 3, 2012
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As kids, didn’t we all want to be liked and accepted by everyone? I’m sure you can remember how important being popular was in school; how much fitting in mattered. But if you look at your adult life, you’ll realize that not much has changed. Everyone still wants to be liked and fears being disliked. [...]

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5 Ways To Make Motivation A Habit

July 30, 2012
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The 2012 Olympics started this weekend, and many were surprised by Michael Phelps’ coming 4th in the 400m relay. Equally shocking was Usain Bolt coming second to Yohan Blake at the Olympic Trials a month ago. Both men are incredible athletes in their prime and world-record holders in their sports. But after watching their recent [...]

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5 Reasons to Stop Putting Women On Pedestals

July 26, 2012
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If you’re a man, you have to agree there’s something magical about women. Like a beautiful sunset, a snow-capped mountain or a gorgeous painting, the right girl will make you lose your breath. It’s all too easy to get overwhelmed by this feminine beauty, whether internal or external. When this happens, men put women on [...]

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Why Real Life Is Like The Matrix: Red Pill, Blue Pill

July 23, 2012
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In the first film of the Matrix trilogy, Neo has a choice to make. He can swallow the blue pill, continue living in a simulated reality and “believe whatever he wants to believe.” Or he can take the red pill – and wake up in the real world. You make the same decision every single [...]

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