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		<title>who balances the checkbook?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 May 2013 04:08:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harriet</dc:creator>
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		<description>Recently, my sister-in-law asked me who balances the checkbook in our house.  The question caught me off guard&amp;#8230; not because I don&amp;#8217;t know, but because there&amp;#8217;s not a designated balancer. J and I both check into our finances at least every other day. [And then we tell each other about it, as if the other is completely [&amp;#8230;]&lt;img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thepostgraduateflail.com&amp;#038;blog=28671299&amp;#038;post=2799&amp;#038;subd=thepostgraduateflail&amp;#038;ref=&amp;#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/thepostgraduateflail/~4/_lr91WurWUc" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>hungry</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Apr 2013 23:12:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harriet</dc:creator>
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		<description>I&amp;#8217;ve been hungry. The ravenous, growling kind that makes you snap at even the nicest of husbands. The kind that sends you to the fridge in a frenzy, looking for something quick and filling and ready and FOOD. I&amp;#8217;ve also been sicker than I&amp;#8217;ve ever been (sober). I&amp;#8217;ve felt nauseous for at least five out [&amp;#8230;]&lt;img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thepostgraduateflail.com&amp;#038;blog=28671299&amp;#038;post=2756&amp;#038;subd=thepostgraduateflail&amp;#038;ref=&amp;#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/thepostgraduateflail/~4/YIt0XNOjapM" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>slacker</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Apr 2013 02:53:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harriet</dc:creator>
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		<description>I know, I know&amp;#8230; I&amp;#8217;ve been slacking. But March was crazy at work, busy at home, and in general, we&amp;#8217;ve had a lot going on. Promise I&amp;#8217;ll be back in a week or so. (Unless I have no internet.) (Because we&amp;#8217;re in the middle of a move.) (Didn&amp;#8217;t I mention it? Oh, wait&amp;#8230;) Here&amp;#8217;s to [&amp;#8230;]&lt;img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thepostgraduateflail.com&amp;#038;blog=28671299&amp;#038;post=2752&amp;#038;subd=thepostgraduateflail&amp;#038;ref=&amp;#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/thepostgraduateflail/~4/hMvLMmG_Wn0" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>back to school…?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Mar 2013 23:03:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harriet</dc:creator>
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		<description>Every couple of months, I take a look at my student loans, the payments I have to make, and emphatically declare that I&amp;#8217;m NEVER going back to school. A week later, I usually find myself poking around at different graduate schools, and wondering if I could make it as a grad student. What it usually [&amp;#8230;]&lt;img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thepostgraduateflail.com&amp;#038;blog=28671299&amp;#038;post=2743&amp;#038;subd=thepostgraduateflail&amp;#038;ref=&amp;#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/thepostgraduateflail/~4/-O5QQ1-XzBQ" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>let’s talk about food</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2013 03:50:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harriet</dc:creator>
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		<description>In the past two-ish years, I&amp;#8217;ve done a lot of thinking about food, and &amp;#8220;food products,&amp;#8221; and what it all means. I don&amp;#8217;t mean that I&amp;#8217;ve been constantly hungry and thinking about food (though I do like to think about what I&amp;#8217;m going to cook for EJV for dinner). I mean: &amp;#8220;food&amp;#8221; does not mean [&amp;#8230;]&lt;img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thepostgraduateflail.com&amp;#038;blog=28671299&amp;#038;post=2734&amp;#038;subd=thepostgraduateflail&amp;#038;ref=&amp;#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/thepostgraduateflail/~4/Sjh-1Qc7KzA" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>the happenin’ haps</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2013 01:31:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, this weekend I&amp;#8217;m supposed to do a half marathon in New Orleans. I&amp;#8217;m going to try my darndest (darnest?) best, but really, I just want to finish. I&amp;#8217;ve mostly made my peace with the fact that I&amp;#8217;m probably never going to be fast, but I keep signing up for races as a means to [&amp;#8230;]&lt;img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thepostgraduateflail.com&amp;#038;blog=28671299&amp;#038;post=2728&amp;#038;subd=thepostgraduateflail&amp;#038;ref=&amp;#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/thepostgraduateflail/~4/w3ZcEvn31-Y" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>i’m still here</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 05:04:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harriet</dc:creator>
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		<description>I&amp;#8217;ve been working on my goals. You know, the ones other than blogging more often. In January, I didn&amp;#8217;t buy any new clothes. I went to Reunion Tower on my birthday, and it. was. awesome. I read a book. (Didn&amp;#8217;t quite make it to 4, but I&amp;#8217;ll get there.) It was The Heavy by Dara-Lynn Weiss, and even [&amp;#8230;]&lt;img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thepostgraduateflail.com&amp;#038;blog=28671299&amp;#038;post=2719&amp;#038;subd=thepostgraduateflail&amp;#038;ref=&amp;#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/thepostgraduateflail/~4/ABNoX1xXQss" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>nine years</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jan 2013 03:58:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harriet</dc:creator>
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		<description>On our first anniversary, Jason was home from college for the weekend. We spent the night before watching movies and hanging out, but I was certain that I would get to see him on our &amp;#8220;actual&amp;#8221; anniversary. Needless to say, I was quite unhappy to find that he was back in Madison without as much [&amp;#8230;]&lt;img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thepostgraduateflail.com&amp;#038;blog=28671299&amp;#038;post=2710&amp;#038;subd=thepostgraduateflail&amp;#038;ref=&amp;#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/thepostgraduateflail/~4/cS7LJDnfqyM" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>about those goals</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jan 2013 21:55:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harriet</dc:creator>
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		<description>I have four big goals for this year: + Move more + Read and write more + Spend less + Figure out my life (&amp;#8230; piece of cake, right?) The first should be easy enough&amp;#8230; I&amp;#8217;ve done the math, and if I cover an average of  2.7 miles a day, I can run 1000 miles [&amp;#8230;]&lt;img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thepostgraduateflail.com&amp;#038;blog=28671299&amp;#038;post=2693&amp;#038;subd=thepostgraduateflail&amp;#038;ref=&amp;#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/thepostgraduateflail/~4/Bjo-TujyXgA" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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		<title>the best birthday</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jan 2013 23:25:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Harriet</dc:creator>
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		<description>Yesterday was the best birthday yet. I don&amp;#8217;t think we&amp;#8217;ll be able to top this one anytime in the near future, and maybe not ever. That being said, it wasn&amp;#8217;t just awesome because I got an iPad, or because we had dinner at Reunion Tower, or because my mom sent me money for that Kate [&amp;#8230;]&lt;img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thepostgraduateflail.com&amp;#038;blog=28671299&amp;#038;post=2670&amp;#038;subd=thepostgraduateflail&amp;#038;ref=&amp;#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/thepostgraduateflail/~4/FBfuBxuNrYY" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description>
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			<media:title type="html">Thanks babe. </media:title>
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