<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/" xmlns:blogger="http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008" xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0" version="2.0"><channel><atom:id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1737070305099225944</atom:id><lastBuildDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2017 05:57:43 +0000</lastBuildDate><category>masochist</category><category>bdsm</category><category>journey</category><category>master</category><category>apprenticeship</category><category>bondage</category><category>fascinating</category><category>folsom</category><category>gifts</category><category>guard</category><category>heavy bottom</category><category>leathermen</category><category>masochists</category><category>old</category><category>sadism</category><category>sadist</category><category>sadomasochism</category><category>san francisco</category><category>san francisco sadist</category><category>scars</category><category>tonight</category><category>torture</category><category>training</category><category>wicked</category><category>wicked canes</category><title>BAY AREA BONDAGE DOMINATION SUBMISSION AND SADOMASOCHISM</title><description>A blog about a spaceage sadist and his journeY, it takes you deep inside san franciscos sadomasochist community, and it tells you about torture, sadism, masochism finding masochists and real accounts of sessions and fetish parties in san francisco! Follow me.</description><link>http://thespaceagesadist.blogspot.com/</link><managingEditor>noreply@blogger.com (Scorpio99)</managingEditor><generator>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>10</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><blogger:adultContent>true</blogger:adultContent><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1737070305099225944.post-2939977472230380214</guid><pubDate>Sat, 15 Jan 2011 21:23:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-01-18T16:36:56.976-08:00</atom:updated><title>Tonight at kink.com: The deflowering of Nicki Blue</title><description>&amp;nbsp;Tonight i am going to the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.theupperfloor.com/site/liveshows.jsp?c=2&quot;&gt;UPPERFLOOR&lt;/a&gt; at kink.com for a special party. Ive been to many and they were all great. This one has a weird vibe to it. Im not sure how i feel about it.. It really doesnt turn me on when i here it. no sexual charge no lightning or twitching going through the body so why am i going. Well i rsvped and when you rsvp you must show up. soooo, im gonna go, my plan is to breeze by the&amp;nbsp; bar because cherrytorn &lt;a href=&quot;http://thetorns.com/blog/31-general/183-nicki-blues-defloweringis&quot;&gt;http://thetorns.com/blog/31-general/183-nicki-blues-defloweringis&lt;/a&gt; is bartending tonight which will probably be the highlight im going to try to get her to come from around the bar to see whats shes wearing , then perhaps try to get her to let me spank her because she may need one and im qualifyed, then hit the &lt;a href=&quot;http://sfcitadel.org/&quot;&gt;sfcitadel.org&lt;/a&gt;, for my dm shift. Souuuuuuuund goooood. Thats what brad pit would say to his men in &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.inglouriousbasterds-movie.com/site.html&quot;&gt;Inglourious Bastards&lt;/a&gt;. come out to say hi if you have guest list action or know about the citadel introduce your self to me i love meeting new kinksters.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;sincerely in leather,&lt;br /&gt;Scorpio&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.paintoy.com&quot;&gt;
&lt;img alt=&quot;&quot; src=&quot;http://www.strangesoup.com/paintoybanners/pt20.jpg&quot;/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://thespaceagesadist.blogspot.com/2011/01/tonight-at-kinkcom-deflowering-of-nicki.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Scorpio99)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1737070305099225944.post-8437119382297886337</guid><pubDate>Mon, 19 Apr 2010 08:22:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-04-19T12:09:21.333-07:00</atom:updated><title>Maestro Stefanos&#39;s upper floor party at kink.com &quot;Sadists Sluts and Service Brunch&quot;</title><description>&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-large;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-family: Georgia, &#39;Times New Roman&#39;, serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;O&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: medium;&quot;&gt;f&amp;nbsp;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-weight: normal;&quot;&gt;all the parties i have been to this year and the latter part of last year the one that&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-large;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-family: Georgia, &#39;Times New Roman&#39;, serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: medium;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-weight: normal;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://stefanosandchey.com/&quot;&gt;Maestro stefanos&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;throws at &lt;a href=&quot;http://theupperfloor.com/&quot;&gt;The Upper Floor&lt;/a&gt; at &lt;a href=&quot;http://kink.com/&quot;&gt;kink.com&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;has been my favorite besides the private party with my personal leather family. The decor, &amp;nbsp;the energy, The dominant men and women and the subs and slaves are fantastic. &amp;nbsp;I attended the party with two beautiful submissives whos names were thorahammer and kitten, they are truly beautiful women and amazing bottoms with powerful energy. Kitten wore a collar and leash made by chainmaille mike&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-large;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-family: Georgia, &#39;Times New Roman&#39;, serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: medium;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-weight: normal;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;mailto:michael.fanjul@gmail.com&quot;&gt;michael.fanjul@gmail.com&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;that was just beautiful he makes jewelery and chains, chain maille amongst other things, if your into chain maille and chains drop him a line. &amp;nbsp;Thora hammer is an incredibly beautiful lady with soft white skin and hair, exotic colored eyes and a rare cutting design on her chest in the middle of her breast it is raised and is very unique. &amp;nbsp;kitten has milk chocolate soft skin beautiful hair and lips and dynamic lines and voluptuous breast. &amp;nbsp;They both served and suffered beautifully Today. I saw things in there eyes and this i will never forget.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-large;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-family: Georgia, &#39;Times New Roman&#39;, serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: medium;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-weight: normal;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-large;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-family: Georgia, &#39;Times New Roman&#39;, serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: medium;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-weight: normal;&quot;&gt;that is all for now until next time be well&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-large;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-family: Georgia, &#39;Times New Roman&#39;, serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: medium;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-weight: normal;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-large;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-family: Georgia, &#39;Times New Roman&#39;, serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: medium;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-weight: normal;&quot;&gt;Scorpio&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-large;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-family: Georgia, &#39;Times New Roman&#39;, serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: medium;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-weight: normal;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-large;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-family: Georgia, &#39;Times New Roman&#39;, serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: medium;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-weight: normal;&quot;&gt;p.s. I know it has been sometime but things have changed for 2010 and this blog is back on track, i have several updates and real life stories of bondage discipline and sadomasochism coming soon all new for 2010&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.paintoy.com&quot;&gt;
&lt;img alt=&quot;&quot; src=&quot;http://www.strangesoup.com/paintoybanners/pt20.jpg&quot;/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://thespaceagesadist.blogspot.com/2010/04/maestro-stefanoss-upper-floor-party-at.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Scorpio99)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1737070305099225944.post-732199799177394739</guid><pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2009 12:43:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-03-16T15:42:18.557-07:00</atom:updated><title>MASTERS DEN  tonight be there!</title><description>&lt;div dir=&quot;ltr&quot; style=&quot;text-align: left;&quot; trbidi=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: x-large;&quot;&gt;T&lt;/span&gt;onight in san francisco one of the best parties of the year is happening, &quot;Masters Den&quot; .&amp;nbsp; Yes, if your into D/s, ettiquette protocol, auctions, sadism, masochism,&amp;nbsp; female submission and male Dominants this is the party for you. Masters Den always has brought out some of the best serious lifestylers and players who showcase there skills and property. Maestro Stefanos,&lt;a href=&quot;http://stefanoschey.blogspot.com/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt; http://stefanoschey.blogspot.com/&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp; host and creator of Masters Den does a great job of bulding the enrgy and keeping the party bubbling and beteen the auction the slave position contest and various impromtu demos you cant help but to have a good time. Starts at 7:15 pm friday night tonight september 18th,2009 be there ill be at the door to greet you (so say hello)at the beginning of the party, make sure to get there early so you wont miss anything. enjoy &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://sites.google.com/site/maestrochey/&quot;&gt;http://sites.google.com/site/maestrochey/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://sites.google.com/site/maestrochey/&quot;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: x-large;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: red;&quot;&gt;Scorpio&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.paintoy.com&quot;&gt;
&lt;img alt=&quot;&quot; src=&quot;http://www.strangesoup.com/paintoybanners/pt20.jpg&quot;/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://thespaceagesadist.blogspot.com/2009/09/masters-den-tonight-be-there.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Scorpio99)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1737070305099225944.post-2572914993858905885</guid><pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 12:16:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-09-12T05:16:04.704-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">bondage</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">sadomasochism</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">san francisco sadist</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">tonight</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">torture</category><title>TONIGHT IN SAN FRANCISCO  KINK-E-ZINE.COM MEET AND GREET ANNIVERSARY!</title><description>&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: x-large;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; T&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;onight in san francisco &lt;a href=&quot;http://kink-e-zine.com/&quot;&gt;kink-e-zine.com&lt;/a&gt; is having its 2 anniversary party and you will have a chance to meet and greet the staff share ideas give suggestions ask questions and even play if your lucky. kink-e-zine has been in operation for 2 years and is at the center of the bdsm community in san francisco all of the staff are lifestylers and live and play in the sf bay are scene and across the globe. Each person has a unique story and lots of education.&lt;br /&gt;This will be held at the SF CITADEL &lt;a href=&quot;http://sfcitadel.org/&quot;&gt;sfcitadel.org&lt;/a&gt; tonight september 12th,2009 doors open at 8:00 pm. As usual there will be all sorts of beautiful people engaging in many forms of bdsm like, bondage, sadomasochism, domination and submission, torture and fetish wear. Yes the spaceage sadist will be there too, i write a column in the true colors section of kink-e-zine called &quot;an apprentice journey&quot;. Come say hello and lets chat a bit and if your brave challenge the cross and i will take you through some paces.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That is all for now, hope to see you tonight&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: red; font-size: x-large;&quot;&gt;Scorpio&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.paintoy.com&quot;&gt;
&lt;img alt=&quot;&quot; src=&quot;http://www.strangesoup.com/paintoybanners/pt20.jpg&quot;/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://thespaceagesadist.blogspot.com/2009/09/tonight-in-san-francisco-kink-e-zinecom.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Scorpio99)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1737070305099225944.post-2703857047856470872</guid><pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 13:42:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-09-11T07:05:25.826-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">folsom</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">masochist</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">sadism</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">san francisco</category><title>The spaceage sadist finds a masochist at the end of the party.  (folsom street fair addition!)</title><description>&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: x-large;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; A&lt;/span&gt;t last! we meet once again. Glad you logged on. since last time i shared with you alot has happened. The night of the renaissance fair i had know planned scene that night and spent most of the night laughing and talking with my leather sister and friends. But close to the end of the party i met a beautiful woman with a nice corset on very voluptuous with long hair. we talked for a bit and she agreed to a spanking session. She didn&#39;t say she was a masochist but i soon found out she was very into corporal play, and very much in touch with her masochism. As i pulled her skirt up to reveal her huge round ass i noticed she ad bruises and marks from sessions previous to are meeting , she could no longer hide it at that point. I gave her a good warm up with a somewhat heavy flogger and she loved it, and we ended up doing some breast play also which was great, her breast were amazing, i marked them nicely with a riding crop that had a stiff cracker on the end of it and it left some beautiful lines on her breast above the top of her nipples on each breast. She later emailed me and thanked me with a nice note and we have since made plans to session again the weekend of the folsom street fair &lt;a href=&quot;http://folsomstreetfair.org/&quot;&gt;http://folsomstreetfair.org/&lt;/a&gt; . the local dungeon has a party&amp;nbsp; the night before the fair so you should definitely come to san francisco and go to the &lt;a href=&quot;http://sfcitadel.org/&quot;&gt;sfcitadel.org&lt;/a&gt; and party with us september 26th,2009 then that next morning get up early and come out to the folsom street fair september 27th,2009 it will be a weekend you never forget im sure.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That is all for now tune in again for more masochism sadism and san francisco s&amp;amp;m fun!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: x-large;&quot;&gt;&lt;b style=&quot;color: red;&quot;&gt;Scorpio&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.paintoy.com&quot;&gt;
&lt;img alt=&quot;&quot; src=&quot;http://www.strangesoup.com/paintoybanners/pt20.jpg&quot;/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://thespaceagesadist.blogspot.com/2009/09/spaceage-sadist-finds-masochist-at-end.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Scorpio99)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1737070305099225944.post-3935908350679791908</guid><pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2009 14:10:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-03-16T15:41:47.649-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">bdsm</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">masochist</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">sadist</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">wicked</category><title>Saturday morning</title><description>&lt;div dir=&quot;ltr&quot; style=&quot;text-align: left;&quot; trbidi=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 180%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;I&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;ts saturday morning early. I get up and lift weights, then i do my daily bdsm exercises, 150 swings each arm with the heavy flogger, some target practice, then some knot tieing for speed.  Ive already got my volunteer shift at the local dungeon, 10 oclock dungeon monitor  shift. I have no play partner set up for tonight. But the day is still early. I have some business down the peninsula then im going to comeback to san francisco and help out some of the nicest people in the community that are starting the only kink themed coffee cafe ive ever heard of right here in the middle of the san francisco leather district, &lt;span style=&quot;font-family: Arial;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.wickedgrounds.com/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;&lt;span id=&quot;lw_1251555404_6&quot;&gt;http://www.wickedgrounds.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; wicked grounds will be the place to be in san francisco. for the kink crowd and bdsm community, plus just any regular people who like good coffee. After i help out there im going to come home and get ready for the ren faire themed party at the local dungeon, my leather sister will be there with me so it will be fun discussing and watching the play, if i dont find a masochist to work with tonight. Well, thats all for now i will update you on my night soon. Keep coming back for new updates,pics, events,knowledge and of course my adventures, be sure to comment and tell me how you like the material,and click on the banners for more hot spaceage sadist approved sites.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thats is all for now&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: red; font-size: 130%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: verdana; font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;Scorpio&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: verdana; font-weight: bold; text-decoration: underline;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.paintoy.com&quot;&gt;
&lt;img alt=&quot;&quot; src=&quot;http://www.strangesoup.com/paintoybanners/pt20.jpg&quot;/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://thespaceagesadist.blogspot.com/2009/08/saturday-morning.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Scorpio99)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1737070305099225944.post-5558221212806435151</guid><pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 09:02:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-03-16T15:37:16.783-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">heavy bottom</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">masochist</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">wicked canes</category><title>Finding the masochists you need  in your s&amp;m community</title><description>&lt;div dir=&quot;ltr&quot; style=&quot;text-align: left;&quot; trbidi=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_cpItCxVWDvM/SpkCXStq5sI/AAAAAAAAADQ/q4buQv61R5o/s1600-h/butt+sadist.JPG&quot; onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot;&gt;&lt;img alt=&quot;&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5375330229427037890&quot; src=&quot;http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_cpItCxVWDvM/SpkCXStq5sI/AAAAAAAAADQ/q4buQv61R5o/s320/butt+sadist.JPG&quot; style=&quot;cursor: pointer; height: 240px; width: 689px;&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 180%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: lucida grande; font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;O&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;ne thing your going to have to have if you you choose this lifestyle is thick skin.  Alot of rejection and flaking. It is hard to find masochists let alone heavy ones.  I have had my share of rejection and getting flaked on and still experience this from time to time but im starting to play more and more regularly now.  The only thing about this is when you dont have a regular play partner or slave you never really know who your going to be playing with so it could be a heavy masochist one week and a total bondage bottom the next which is fine but you just never know so its kind of not your choice.  This weekend i thought i was going to be playing with one of the strongest women i have played with and it didnt happen, last minute blow off, but i ended up having one of the best scenes i have had with my very own leather sister who recently has been able to find some time to play and come around the community again after overcoming some tough challenges.  It was wonderful she not only is beautiful but muscular and very strong, she proved to be quite a heavy bottom, i applied some serious leather to her and she processed and suffered beautifully. It was very fulfilling. I used some wicked canes and straps on her. I love straps. Well, that was my weekend, so on to next week the hunt starts all over again, who will it be next weekend who will it be. My advice always have atleast 2 dates set up cause you never know whos gonna cancel.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That is all for now&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: red; font-size: 180%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: verdana; font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;Scorpio&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.paintoy.com&quot;&gt;
&lt;img alt=&quot;&quot; src=&quot;http://www.strangesoup.com/paintoybanners/pt20.jpg&quot;/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://thespaceagesadist.blogspot.com/2009/08/finding-suitable-partners.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Scorpio99)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_cpItCxVWDvM/SpkCXStq5sI/AAAAAAAAADQ/q4buQv61R5o/s72-c/butt+sadist.JPG" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1737070305099225944.post-6831564706256854065</guid><pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2009 01:54:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-03-16T15:30:40.398-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">fascinating</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">journey</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">leathermen</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">masochists</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">master</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">scars</category><title>Goin up the coast of california to see the Master!</title><description>&lt;div dir=&quot;ltr&quot; style=&quot;text-align: left;&quot; trbidi=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 180%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;M&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;ythologically an apprenticeship is also a time of nourishment, an oasis if you will, in the desert were the young dom can gather strength, and drink from the waters of wisdom, before heading out to the scene and finding or creating his/her own leather family, niche in the community or even sometimes his own communityand or scene!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;This is my journey....&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once again we meet.I hope all of you are well, and have taken a drink from the waters of wisdom since we last met. I told you i would let you know how my session went, and i will do so now. I had spent a day and night at Masters house with my leather sister, we had fun as usual. That night before i returned to San Francisco Master gave me instructions on how my night would go and what i was to do, I was buzzing with anticipation. I was excused to retire to the bedroom and i went to the bedroom and got  in the bed, it was surreal i looked around and there was statues of leathermen, artwork pictures, slappers, crops, implements of device bondage, studs and beams, mirrors, rope,  i was in a true leathermens room. I meditated and thought of the next day then drifted off. I dont know why but me and my leather sister left alittle late and we were racing the clock to get to &lt;span class=&quot;yshortcuts&quot; id=&quot;lw_1251554428_0&quot; style=&quot;-moz-background-inline-policy: continuous; background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% transparent; cursor: pointer;&quot;&gt;San Francisco&lt;/span&gt;. When we got to the city i had enough time to drop my stuff, get ready, eat something, and leave. I got to the party right on time with no time to spare. Since i was on the set up crew i began doing the work and then, i saw him, he told me to meet him at the cross in about &lt;span class=&quot;yshortcuts&quot; id=&quot;lw_1251554428_1&quot;&gt;20 minutes&lt;/span&gt;... i did. I helped him get into his restraints then hooked him to the cross, I pulled out my buffalo flogger that was given to me by Master and Made by Master Erik and given to him, (i told you all my toys have a story). My energy was surging through my body, you have to understand this man is an incredible bottom with years of experience, a true leathermen and i was given the honor of being his warm up for the night. I took some deep breaths and hugged him, i touched his muscles and rubbed his back, he told me not to mind his scars there just a map to his house, and we laughed. His back is amazing the scars, the texture, the muscles, masochists are fascinating. I kneeded his muscles for a bit then stepped back and made some distance measurements, and then began. I started building my rhythm.  After a few minor  adjustments he told me to step back 4 more inches and my flogger sunk into his back. It was beautiful, i increased the pace and force in rhythmic successions, it felt amazing he yelled out harder and i did, then yelled again and i did, then he started to grunt i could see his muscles bulging out and i could feel his back with the tips of my flogger, we were one! It ended with him counting off ten nasty lashes each harder then the other, and then one to grow on and we were done. I was exploding with adrenaline and energy breathing rapidly. He said thankyou and asked how it was for me, words couldnt really describe but i managed to tell him, &quot;fucking fantastic&quot; , he said &quot;good&quot;, then walked off like nothing happened, this man is a piece of iron wrapped in leather. I had warmed up a mighty bottom. Ill never forget that. Later on that evening to my amazement he returned the favor and demonstrated what my flogger could do on me. I felt like a savage beast after that it was incredible. My work was done for the evening and i left with a smile on my face and some great memories. Thank god for my Master, and for the mens community and the 15 Association. My only source of practical realtime experience i have right now.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Since then which is about 4 weeks ago i have been to 2 parties and 4 discussion groups and 1 class, i haven&#39;t played since then either. What i have done is made some new toys, 2 slappers and 2 quirts, really beautiful raw leather and they throw really well, im excited and anxious to use them. I have pictures of them here. This brings me to my next subject.....leather&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am definitely feeling some &lt;span class=&quot;yshortcuts&quot; id=&quot;lw_1251554428_2&quot;&gt;growing pains&lt;/span&gt; but i also feel like my leather education is growing &lt;span class=&quot;yshortcuts&quot; id=&quot;lw_1251554428_3&quot;&gt;leaps and bounds&lt;/span&gt; spiritually and creatively as of late do to working with actual leather. If i ever become an educator in the community i will make the novice use his hands and other tools to work with leather. Its a wonderful experience that brings you closer to the essence of being a leathermen or woman. Seek out hides, fold them punch them sew them, smell them, see how leather behaves under pressure or heat, carved with knives or tools. Get to know how people create the tools of the trade. This for me has been an important part of my journey and will continue to be apart of it. I am hooked on working with leather, and as an artist i believe i have found a new medium.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I dont have really any more to tell you at this time. I have hit some sort of obstacle in my journey, like i said im experiencing growing pains. This weekend i will be going to the 15  Association Anniversary weekend, and im sure i will have some great things to share with you next time. I am growing weary and need to drink form the waters of wisdom again. until then be well and may all your experiences be pleasurable and enlightening.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: red; font-size: 130%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: verdana; font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;Scorpio&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.paintoy.com&quot;&gt;
&lt;img alt=&quot;&quot; src=&quot;http://www.strangesoup.com/paintoybanners/pt20.jpg&quot;/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://thespaceagesadist.blogspot.com/2009/08/gaining-momentum.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Scorpio99)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1737070305099225944.post-7482544523875814142</guid><pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 09:52:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-08-29T07:04:51.876-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">apprenticeship</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">bdsm</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">gifts</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">journey</category><title>The Many Gifts BDSM can Give</title><description>&lt;code&gt;&lt;/code&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:180%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;font-family:georgia;&quot; &gt;&lt;br /&gt;M&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;ythologically an apprenticeship is also a time of nourishment, an oasis if you will, in the desert were the young dom can gather strength, and drink from the waters of wisdom, before heading out to the scene and finding or creating his/her own leather family, niche in the community or even sometimes his own communityand or scene!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;&quot; &gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:130%;&quot;&gt;This is my journey....&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So we meet again.  Alot has happen since i shared with you last. Ive learned alot also. I want to start by back tracking a bit. I told you all that the first gift bdsm gave me was my two children, i want to clarify that and say that the first gift bdsm gave me was Master Timothy my Master/Mentor/Leather Daddy, confidant and dear friend, then came the children. Which both are gifts that keep on giving im happy to say.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So far this year i have not played publicly. Not because i didnt want to but because it has been  very hard to find partners to play with,publicly and privately for that matter. As a dominant in the bay area scene i am carefully choosing my steps. I have had this insatiable urge to beat whip torment and tickle, and have had no outlet. Since i have talked to you last ive been to 3 parties, no play, however i have met some very interesting unique people and have had some great conversations with them, and i am greatful for that. One particular conversation comes to mind, that i want to share with you. I was at a party and it was close to the end of the night i had not played and was a bit discouraged about that, i was wondering is it my looks is it my energy, and then up walked a Mistress which goes to the same discussion group i go to every tuesday, and asked how i was doing. I like this woman she is very humble and intelligent so i felt comfortable telling her how i was feeling. I told her and she reponded by telling me some of the best advice ive heard in a while besides Masters.  She said jamilliano, have patience, you dont want to play with someone who really doesnt want to play with you like someone who is playing with you cause theres noone else to play with, or vice versa, or who is very hesitent about playing with you, the chances of something going wrong go up, also the energy could be ruined or non existent, or just not fulfilling.I agreed, and it changed the way i look at the delimma of finding play partners for ever, it also calmed me down because i know my heart and mind are in the right place. So, it is somewhat exciting to be in this head space about play partners because i am wondering who will cross my path or dare to enter my personal space and engage, connect, negotiate, and get on with it and suffer beautifully. Easier said then done.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Energy, ive mentioned it earlier in this piece and I am becoming encreasingly more aware of it, what it is, and how to create it. I am spiritual and i love spirituality, and i am into spiritual bdsm I believe  that i was exposed to spiritual bdsm without even knowing it. Now i am completeley awake and concious, and the path im choosing to go down is definitely a spiritual one filled with love. The energy i have with my Master is powerful, it has never ceased, it is amazing and very therapeutic in our teacher student dynamic. Its rare i find this energy anywere else, but i have been talking to this woman and have felt some of this energy with her in a different dynamic, she is very intelligent and sexy, this energy provides a very fertile ground for exploration and learning. I have also been reading and exploring emotional catharsis, as a result my toy bag has gotten bigger, so as a practitioner of spiritual bdsm my tools are love, energy, sensation such as sensual pleasure ,pain, torture etc, sexuality, confinement, biology, physics, controlled circumstance  and the elements earth wind, fire and water just to name few.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well, between volunteering , going to parties, going to discussion groups, going to a class, and thinking about playing wanting to express myself and assert myself and then not playing or finding a suitable play partner i had hit a pressure point, it was time to see Master. I had recently reconnected with an old friend who is a beautiful human being, and found that she was on a simular journey as i and the stars must have aligned just right and we both found ourselves on are way to see Master. The ride was fantastic, deep into California we went, then  deeper and deeper.&lt;br /&gt;we arrived to see Master with his new toy a nice  Harley Davidson, Then out came his beautiful slave adorable as ever, Looking sexy i might ad also with her lock and chain collar. We exchanged pleasantrys and hugs and introductions, then sat and got down to business. It was magical, We indulged in fervent servitude, intellectual discourse, and training, i was in singletail heaven for a bit, then we dined. Time stood still. It was a great visit. I feel centered again, replenished,hydrated,having drank from the waters of wisdom, now i can keep moving on the journey.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;quick update,so far this year i have been to 5 discussion groups, 1 class, and 5 parties, and i dont care if i only play one time this year it is worth it when theres the right energy and attitude, but its funny how things work, i forgot to tell you guys, before leaving Masters house i secured a play date with one of the leather brothers from his club, this mans experience goes back to the 60&#39;s, it will be an absolute honor to work with him, that will be happening in a few days and i will update you next month on how that went. My toybag, yes it has a new addition, a nasty whip like cane that is thin and goes to a sharp point and has a red rubber tip at the end and a handle, it is sadistic and nasty. Any of you bad asses want some of this find me and i will give you an education. Given to me as a gift from a old sadist in my weekly tuesday kinky discussion group. That is all for now but tune in next month, im sure i will have lots more to share. I must keep moving now&lt;br /&gt;&lt;script type=&quot;text/javascript&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;var gaJsHost = ((&quot;https:&quot; == document.location.protocol) ? &quot;https://ssl.&quot; : &quot;http://www.&quot;);&lt;br /&gt;document.write(unescape(&quot;%3Cscript src=&#39;&quot; + gaJsHost + &quot;google-analytics.com/ga.js&#39; type=&#39;text/javascript&#39;%3E%3C/script%3E&quot;));&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;script type=&quot;text/javascript&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;try {&lt;br /&gt;var pageTracker = _gat._getTracker(&quot;UA-10176223-1&quot;);&lt;br /&gt;pageTracker._trackPageview();&lt;br /&gt;} catch(err) {}&lt;/script&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Scorpio&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.paintoy.com&quot;&gt;
&lt;img alt=&quot;&quot; src=&quot;http://www.strangesoup.com/paintoybanners/pt20.jpg&quot;/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://thespaceagesadist.blogspot.com/2009/08/apprentice-up-coast-we-go.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Scorpio99)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1737070305099225944.post-4630937555179118267</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 10:32:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-03-16T15:20:07.216-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">guard</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">master</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">old</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">training</category><title>The APPRENTICE(TRAINING UNDER AN OLDGUARD MASTER)</title><description>&lt;div dir=&quot;ltr&quot; style=&quot;text-align: left;&quot; trbidi=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: verdana; font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;An Apprentice Journey&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Apprenticeship is a time of experiential learning. In many cultures people leave home to study a particular craft, and usually under a good mentors guidance learn as much about life as they do there craft. In the case of bdsm i would say you learn as much or more  about yourself, as you do this craft.  Mythologically an apprenticeship is also a time of nourishment, an oasis if you will, in the desert were the young dom can gather strength, and drink from the waters of wisdom, before heading out to the scene at large and finding or creating his own niche in the community.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: verdana; font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;This is my journey.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My journey started some years ago, i had a girlfriend who gave me a letter she had written and never showed anyone. It was amazing,it said things like, ive always wanted to belong to someone, i want to be owned, I wish someone would take tie me up and take me away and keep me. Not soon after that we were on are way to the local bdsm club. There we met a big tough intimidating looking man, he askled me why i was here, and i replied im here to learn. I told him about the letter. Not soon after that my girl was in a blindfold and he was teaching me how to tie her up to the cross. My girl was very uninhibited and had humongous beautiful breasts and had no problem with revealing them or her body on command. After untieing her and coming down from the natural high i experienced from this whole situation , this big tough looking man said to me, i dont see many african americans come here truly wanting to learn, and went on to say  i had a great attitude and that he would be willing to show me some things if i came here with an open mind and heart. I did, and so it began a beautiful friendship that turned into an apprenticeship, that was born out of several hours upon hours of drinking Peete&#39;s Coffee, talking, discussing and going to the power exchange.This man became my master, My leather Daddy,  I learned alot, we lived down the street from the club so i was there all the time, we incorporated what we were learning into our daily lives right away, . it was magical, we were having some of the most powerful, intense, sweaty, hot gorilla sex i have ever had  because of the energy that was created by the power exchange between me and my girl. In fact it was so intense that after some time i got the news that bam, my girl was pregnant, so i always say the first gift bdsm has ever given me was a baby girl,and a baby boy,,jamalitoff and  applebear.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ive learned alot but my journey is not over. Looking back i have been heavily into corporal punishment, and domination and submission. In the past it was easy to learn something from Master/ or someone he approved of and go put it into practice at home. That i believe is also were most of my experience has come from , my two 24/7 D/s relationships. I learned alot and have the scars to prove it, on my heart that is. About 2 years ago, i was told it was time for me to come out to the community and do more, be seen, volunteer, go to mens parties, and make connections and take my apprenticeship to the next level. Slowly i began to go to munches and some events. It was different because now i was single, and had to find my way.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This brings me to the  present time, 2009, I have some specific goals in 2009, they are as follows, to become more proficient in bondage, rope work, to become more apart of my community which is the San Francisco bay area, by volunteering, going to events, munches, discussion groups, parties, classes and workshops, to network and build my own loving circle of friends. Exciting isnt it! Who knows were this will take me but i am determined to succeed  and become a Master, Come walk with me on this journey, I will update you on my travels experiences and lessons i have learned, and what im doing next, were i like to go, and who i meet.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Right now i have a limited toy bag, it consists of, a buffalo hide flogger, a home made quirt i call mr mind, cause it will make you mind some body, it will make beautiful tits more beautiful if you know what i mean. A breast harness, a cane, a homemade metal paddle, some rope, and some odds and ends for sensation play, i will update you as my toybag becomes bigger and badder. I like toys that have a history or a story behind it and mine do, so i will share these things also. I dont have much but i have alot of skill, energy, enthusiasm, im ready to play and have a open heart.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So far in 2009, i have been to two parties, they both were at the SF Citadel i saw a cute little lady with sexy muscular calfs and highheels tie a man and whip a man, It was completely sexy and erotic, the way her skirt would ride up a bit revealing her strong legs when she nelt or climbed on bondage furniture to make ties. 2009 is starting off good, i also have a coffee date with a very knowledgeable person who is respected in the community, and im excited about that. Im looking forward to a party they call &quot;THE MASTERS DEN&quot; it has been good to me this passed year, ive played at each one i have been to, the energy has been thick and the play amazing, Masters Den brings out some of the best. I played with three sexy  women 2  were very experienced subs and extremely strong, the other was fairly new very tall, very sensuous, and eager to experience. They will always have a place in my heart.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;until next time be well and may all your experiences be pleasurable and enlightening&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: verdana; font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;Scorpio&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.paintoy.com&quot;&gt;
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