Looking back at my thoughts from 2009, I cannot help but smile at the journey. Back then, I was just navigating the end of the teen years with my oldest children. I was a coffee-loving, non-gardening mom who felt a little out of place in the traditional homeschool mold, but I was so deeply thankful that the scary predictions about teenagers hadn’t come true for our home.

Now, fast-forward to today. After raising ten children—navigating toddlers, teenagers, and young adults many times over—I have a whole new perspective. If you are a homeschool parent currently staring down the barrel of the teenage years or feeling anxious about what lies ahead, let me offer you some gentle, time-tested encouragement: the teen years do not have to be a season of terror.

What 2009 Taught Me vs. What 10 Teen Kids Have Proven

Back in 2009, I wrote about a family at church with eight kids whose warmth toward each other blew me away. I wanted teenagers who actually liked their parents, and I worried if homeschooling could really deliver that.

Here is what decades of parenting ten kids has taught me since then:

• Homeschooling Isn’t a Guarantee, But It Is an Invitation: Homeschooling isn’t a magic formula that prevents every struggle or rebellion. However, it gives us something priceless that traditional schedules often strip away: time.
• Time Breeds Intimacy: When you spend your days together, you get to witness the subtle shifts in your teenager’s heart. You get to hear their late-night thoughts, understand their unique sense of humor, and work through real-life conflicts in real time.
• Connection Over Perfection: You don’t have to fit a specific homeschool stereotype to build a lasting bond with your teen. Whether you are baking bread from scratch or grabbing fast-food milkshakes after a hard math lesson, what matters most to your teenager is your presence, your empathy, and your willingness to listen.

The Gift of Knowing Your Teenager

Culture constantly tells us that teenagers will automatically become distant, moody, and secretive. But in a homeschool home, you have the special privilege of seeing who God is shaping them to be right before your eyes.

Yes, there will be hard days. There will be attitudes to correct, heavy conversations to navigate, and moments when you feel completely out of your depth. But because you are walking shoulder-to-shoulder with them through their education and daily life, you get opportunities to connect with them in ways other parents rarely get the chance to experience.

You get to be their sounding board, their safest place to fail, and their biggest cheerleader as they step into young adulthood.

Scripture gives us such a beautiful reminder of the value of pouring truth and time into our children daily:

“And you must commit yourself wholeheartedly to these commands that I am giving you today. Repeat them again and again to your children. Talk about them when you are at home and when you are on the road, when you are going to bed and when you are getting up.” — Deuteronomy 6:6-7 (NLT)

Homeschooling allows faith, character, and relationship to be woven naturally into the fabric of your ordinary days.

3 Ways to Cultivate Joy with Your Homeschool Teen

If you want to build a rich, connected relationship with your teenager during these crucial years, try focusing on these simple heart habits:

1. Protect Unscheduled Time: Resist the urge to over-schedule every hour of their day. Leave room for spontaneous conversations, shared hobbies, or just sitting on the couch together at the end of a long afternoon.
2. Be Quick to Listen, Slow to Judge: When your teen shares a doubt, a struggle, or a quirky opinion, try to listen without immediately jumping into lecture mode. Create a safe space where they know they won’t be instantly condemned for processing out loud.
3. Enjoy Who They Are Right Now: Don’t just focus on preparing them for the future; enjoy the person they are today. Laugh at their jokes, learn about the things they are passionate about, and celebrate their growing independence.

Action Step for Homeschool Parents

Sometime this week, set aside 30 minutes to do something purely fun with your pre-teen or teenager—no schoolwork, no chores, and no hidden agendas. Grab a coffee, go for a drive, or play a quick game, and simply tell them how much you enjoy being their parent.

A Prayer for Parents Navigating the Teen Years

Heavenly Father, thank You for the incredible gift of our children and for the privilege of walking alongside them through every season of growth. For the parent who feels anxious or fearful about the teenage years, please fill their heart with Your peace and confidence. Give us supernatural wisdom, patience, and gentle grace as we guide our teens toward young adulthood. Help us to guard our relationships with our children, to listen with open hearts, and to reflect Your loving-kindness in our homes every day. May our homeschools be places of deep connection, laughter, and lasting faith. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

YOUR TURN! Are you currently homeschooling a teenager, or are you preparing for those years ahead? What is one way you like to connect with your big kids? Share your thoughts in the comments below!

Additional Resources

Hope and Refreshment for Homeschooling Parents

Need more ideas and advice on homeschooling? Pick up a copy of Homeschool Basics. Receive tried-and-true homeschool advice from veteran homeschooling moms Tricia Goyer and Kristi Clover. We dish out practical help on getting started and staying the course. Homeschool Basics will remind you that the best homeschooling starts with the heart.

Packed with ideas to help you push aside your fears and raise kids who will grow to be life-long learners. Kristi and I believe that homeschooling can transform your life, your home, and your family. Mostly, we believe homeschooling can truly prepare your children for the life God’s called them to live. Don’t let doubts hold you back any longer.

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What if the most atheistic country in Europe became your next mission trip?

In one of the hardest places in the world to plant a church, 1,300 people a month are finding faith — and you’re invited to be part of what’s next.

The Czech Republic is often cited as one of the most atheistic nations on Earth. It’s a place where faith isn’t just uncommon; it’s counter cultural. And yet, for over a decade, a network of churches called Maják (”lighthouse” in Czech) has been doing exactly that: planting light in the dark. I want to share, in his own words, a message from one of the men leading that work.

A note from Pastor Freddie (Bedrich):

I am Pastor Freddie from the Czech Republic, leader of the Maják Network. We started Maják with the hope of bringing Jesus to people in one of the most atheistic countries in the world. By God’s grace, our church has grown into a network of 11 churches serving more than 1,300 people every month. But we are not done! Our vision is to see our network grow to 20 churches, reaching even more people with the good news.

To help fulfill this vision, we are organizing a Maják Partner Conference on October 6th and 7th in Birmingham, Alabama.

Our hope is to connect with ministry partners for new churches not just in the Czech Republic, but also in Slovakia and Poland. We want to share more of our vision and introduce some of our incredible leaders. We are so grateful for current partners like Tricia and John Goyer—whose daughter, Leslie, is part of one of our churches. They are helping us see this vision fulfilled, and we will have some exciting news to share about our partnership with them very soon!

For now, our immediate need is raising $15,000 to cover the travel costs to bring our Czech leaders over to the US.

If you are interested in learning more, would you consider joining us in Birmingham, or partnering with us financially to help get our team there?

Why This Mission Matters

Eleven churches. Over 1,300 people reached every month. In a country where secularism runs deep, and faith often feels like swimming upstream. WOW! That’s not a small thing… that’s a movement.

And Pastor Freddie isn’t asking anyone to take his word for it from a distance. He’s asking for the chance to show it. He will be bringing his leaders across the ocean to sit at the table with partners in Birmingham. Their heart is to cast a vision for what 20 churches across the Czech Republic, Slovakia, and Poland could look like.

That kind of trip doesn’t happen on hope alone. It happens because people who believe in the mission step up to cover the cost of getting there.

These are the leaders who are coming:

Marek, David, Dima, Freddie, Petr, Ivo, Daniel

You Can Help!

There are a few simple ways to be part of this mission:

1. Join Us in Birmingham

The Maják Partner Conference is October 6–7. If you want to hear the vision firsthand and meet the leaders behind it, this is your invitation.

Schedule and Information

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2. Help Fund the October Trip to Birmingham

The immediate need is $15,000 to bring the Czech mission leadership team to the US. Every gift — large or small — moves them closer to being in the room. If this stirs something in you, reach out and let’s talk about how to get involved. Sometimes the most atheistic corners of the world are exactly where a lighthouse is needed most.

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3. Learn and Pray, Give and Go!

Go see it for yourself. Whether it’s a short-term mission trip, a homeschool family trip, or simply taking a vacation to learn more about how church planting works in Moravia and the Czech Republic — there’s a door open for you! Sometimes the most atheistic corners of the world are exactly where a lighthouse is needed most. Go see it for yourself! Fill out the part you’d like to play!

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Tell us how you’d like to be part of this mission story. Give financially, ask about traveling to the Czech Republic next year, join the prayer team, or just stay in the loop. It takes two minutes, and it’s the first step toward Birmingham, Prague, and everywhere this vision is headed next!

I can’t wait for you to join us!

Additional Resources

Daily Bible Podcast Coffee Club

We’re Tricia and Michelle, two friends inviting you to join us in reading through the Bible chronologically this year. Reading the Bible every day can be a challenge. We’re here to summarize each day’s passage and provide action steps… in under 15 minutes. Grab a buddy and join our community. Take the plunge, and let’s read through the Bible together. We’ll be cheering you on all the way!

You can join us using your own One Year Bible© (if you’d like to purchase one, you can grab your preferred version using the links below). Or you can print up the One Year Chronological Reading Plan. If you don’t have a copy of the One Year Bible©, we will have the exact passages for the next day in the show notes. You can also subscribe to the One Year Chronological Bible Reading plan on the YouVersion Bible App.

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When our family welcomed new children through foster care and adoption, it was one of the most beautiful—and utterly overwhelming—seasons of my life. Our home was suddenly filled with new routines, new fears, and a delicate mix of big emotions.

I felt weary, but my load was lightened immeasurably when neighbors, friends, and our church family stepped in to help. They brought meals, gave gift cards, offered childcare for our large crew, and sent constant notes of encouragement. They didn’t just tell us they were praying; they rolled up their sleeves and became our village.

As homeschool parents, we have a unique opportunity to turn these moments into living classroom lessons. When we open our Bibles, God’s command to care for the vulnerable is crystal clear:

“Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you.” — James 1:27 (NLT)

“Learn to do good. Seek justice. Help the oppressed. Defend the cause of orphans. Fight for the rights of widows.” — Isaiah 1:17 (NLT)

Teaching our children the value of service doesn’t have to come from a textbook unit study. Serving foster and adoptive families allows our kids to practice hands-on, Christlike compassion right in our own communities.

Turning Service into a Family Practice

When you involve your children in blessing foster and adoptive families, you teach them that loving others requires action. Here are a few ways to turn these acts of service into meaningful family projects:

• Meal Prep as a Home Economics Lesson: Gather your kids in the kitchen to double a batch of dinner rolls, bake a casserole, or assemble freezer meals for a family navigating a new placement.
• Chore Blessings: Teach your older kids to serve by offering to mow a foster family’s lawn, rake leaves, or walk their dog during those hectic first few weeks.
• Organize a Supply Drive: Have your kids inventory baby gear, diapers, wipes, and gently used clothes, or let them help pick out brand-new pajamas to build a “placement kit” for a local agency.
• Blessing the Biological and Existing Kids: Remind your children to include the resident siblings in a foster or adoptive home. Giving existing kids a special card, a small treat, or an invitation for a play date shows them that their changing world is recognized and cared for, too.

Real Ways You Can Bless Foster and Adoptive Families

I asked several foster and adoptive moms what meant the most to them during their placement seasons. Here is what they shared:

1. Show Up Without Being Asked

When a child arrives, parents are often operating on pure adrenaline and low sleep. It is hard for a weary parent to even know what to ask for.

• “Friends brought over food, diapers, formula, and other necessities while we got settled. Kids are often dropped off with nothing. They didn’t ask … they just DID.” — Krystie
• “Friends just show up. We had a couple who came out to California where we were adopting and celebrated with us, serving as a hand to hold after the emotional roller coaster.” — LeighAnn

2. Provide Meals and Paper Goods

Dinner is often the hardest hour of the day during a major transition.

• “Our mom’s group at church made meals for us for the first two weeks and donated toys and baby supplies. They have been such a huge blessing!” — Charity
• “Meals for the family are so helpful, along with paper products so we don’t have to do dishes.” — Shannan

3. Throw a Shower or Organize Supplies

Many foster placements happen with less than 24 hours’ notice, leaving parents scrambling for age-appropriate gear.

• “Friends threw us an adoption shower. We took the money and bought our three adopted kids a new wooden swing set. They enjoyed it for many years!” — Sherrie
• “My church threw me a baby shower. I had nothing, and we were surprised to have only 24 hours to get ready for her.” — Laura

4. Offer Childcare and Respite Support

Providing trusted eyes and hands gives parents much-needed breathing room to recharge or spend one-on-one time with individual children.

• “Respite care, meals, activities with individual kids, clothes, and Christmas gifts meant so much. Something that really touched me was when my biological kids were included, too.” — Kimberly
• “Friends washed laundry while watching my little guy, gave seven weeks of free childcare until he could go to daycare, and watched him while I had a nap after being sick all night.” — Andrea

5. Wrap Them in Acceptance and Prayer

Above all, foster and adoptive families need a community that surrounds them with fierce love and consistency.

• “The most important thing is having a village of friends, family, and fellow foster/adopt families to surround you and your kiddos for support. Prayer is the key for daily strength and wisdom.” — Christy
• “We were thankful that each of our children was always accepted as OURS—not as outsiders, not as someone else’s child. Everyone accepted our adoption in the same way they would a biological child.” — Karen

Action Step for Homeschool Families

This week, sit down with your kids during your morning gathering time and pray over the foster and adoptive families in your community or church. Pick one simple action step your family can execute together—whether that is dropping off a freezer meal, mailing a card of encouragement, or purchasing a box of diapers to donate.

A Prayer for Foster Families and Those Who Support Them

Heavenly Father, You are the Father to the fatherless and the protector of the vulnerable. We lift up the foster and adoptive parents who have opened their hearts and homes to children in need. Give them Your supernatural strength, wisdom, and patience for each new day. Lord, open our eyes to the families around us who need support. Teach our children how to serve with generous, loving hearts, and use our homeschools as places where Your compassion is put into action. Wrap these precious children in Your love, grace, and protection. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

YOUR TURN! Have you ever received or offered support during a foster or adoption journey? What are some creative ways your homeschool family likes to serve others? Share your ideas in the comments below!

Additional Resources

The Grumble-Free Year: Twelve Months, Eleven Family Members, and One Impossible Goal

USA Today bestselling author Tricia Goyer and her family of eleven embark on a yearlong quest to eliminate grumbling from their home and discover a healthier, more thankful approach to life together.

The Goyer home–with two parents, eight kids, and one eighty-eight-year-old grandmother with dementia–is never without noise, mess, activity, and, often, complaining. And it’s not just the kids grumbling. After adding seven children in less than six years through adoption, the Goyer family decided to move out of survival-mode and into unity- and growth-mode. They decided to tackle the impossible: a grumble-free year.

With grade-schoolers, teenagers, and a grandmother who believes children should be seen and not heard, plenty of room exists for flunking the challenge. Add to that seven children being homeschooled together in close quarters, and what could possibly go awry?

Do you have a recent high school graduate who is heading off to college? Friend, I wish we could sit down for coffee and chat! After being both parent and teacher for years, it’s often a hard transition. Yes, it’s exciting, but it’s a big change. The key is helping our teens launch strong while keeping our own hearts in check. 

And that is exactly why I put together this guide. We are going to walk through the unique dorm items your student actually needs, the crucial conversations to prioritize before move-in day, and the specific prayers to anchor your soul. Also, we must remember 1 Peter 5:7 as we navigate these practical and emotional hurdles. The key to it all is casting all our anxiety on God because He cares for us!

I remember exactly how it felt when we went to set up our daughter Maria’s dorm room. She was our fourth oldest, but our older children had lived at home during their first few years of college. Packing her up and moving her onto campus was a completely new experience for our family. When the final box was unpacked and it was time to say goodbye, driving away left an undeniable hole in my heart. Letting go is incredibly hard.

Beyond the emotional burden, the practical side of this transition can be overwhelming. The financial strain is real, and there are always unexpected expenses you have to cover quickly to ensure your student is ready.

Here is a guide to navigating the practical, relational, and spiritual aspects of sending your homeschooled teen off to college.

The Practical College Prep: Beyond Pens and Paper

You already know to buy notebooks, highlighters, and a sturdy water bottle. However, dorm living requires a few unique tools to make a small space feel like home and function well.

Unique College Dorm and Apartment Items:

• Quality Mattress Topper:  Dorm beds are notoriously uncomfortable. A thick memory foam topper is an excellent investment for good sleep.
• Clip-On Bed Fan and Lamp: When sharing a room, having personal lighting and air circulation keeps the peace between roommates with different sleep schedules.
• First-Aid Kit and Medicine Caddy: Pack a small bin with basic cold medicines, bandages, and pain relievers. They will need this the moment they catch their first campus cold.

Time-Saving Gadgets:

• Single-Serve Coffee Maker: This saves both time and money, keeping them out of the expensive campus coffee shop line.  
• Noise-Canceling Headphones: Essential for maintaining focus in a bustling dorm or a crowded library. 
• Rolling Laundry Hamper: Carrying a heavy bag across campus to the laundry facility is exhausting. A hamper with wheels is a game-changer.

Crucial Conversations to Have Before College Drop-Off

When you homeschool, you are intimately involved in your teen’s daily schedule and environment. College shifts that responsibility entirely onto their shoulders. Before you pack the car, make time for these essential conversations:

• Time Management and Boundaries: Talk about how to structure a day when no one is telling them what to do. A good planner is a great resource for first-time college kids. Discuss the importance of setting boundaries with new friends to ensure study time is protected.
• Owning Their Faith: They are stepping into a space where they will encounter many different worldviews. Ask them how they plan to find a local church or campus ministry. Discuss what it looks like to make their faith their own. I highly recommend the workbook Experiencing God.
• Financial Expectations: Be very clear about who is paying for what. Get them one of these handy budgeting wallets and set expectations for a monthly budget that covers everything from textbooks to late-night pizza runs.

Anchoring Your Heart in Scripture

When the anxiety of the unknown creeps in, we have to turn to God’s Word. Here are a few scriptures to cling to as you navigate this transition:

• Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV): “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”
• Philippians 4:6-7 (NLT): “Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.”
• Isaiah 41:10 (ESV): “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”

Check out these Scripture cards!

Prayer Prompts for the Journey

Prayer is our most powerful tool as we send our kids into the world. Use these prompts in the weeks leading up to move-in day:

Prayers for Your Teen:

• Lord, please provide healthy, uplifting friendships for my student. Lead them to peers who will encourage their faith and challenge them to grow.
• Father, grant them wisdom and discernment in their daily choices. Give them the courage to stand firm in their convictions.
• God, help them manage their time and energy well. Give them focus in their studies and peace in moments of academic stress.

Prayers for the Homeschool Parent’s Heart:

• Lord, comfort my heart in this season of transition. Help me to trust You with my child’s future.
• Father, give me the wisdom to know when to step in and when to step back. Teach me how to transition from a role of daily management to a role of supportive counsel.
• God, thank You for the privilege of homeschooling and raising this child. I surrender their next steps entirely to Your capable hands.

Sending a child to college is a beautiful, heart-wrenching, and entirely worthwhile process. Trust that the foundation you have built during your homeschooling years will serve them well in the days ahead.

Additional Resources

Join us over at the Daily Bible Podcast Coffee Club for daily Scripture reflections and videos. Not only will you be immersed in the Word every morning, but you’ll find a community of fellow believers from all walks of life who are coming together to understand God’s Word. A cozy blend of faith, community, coffee, and Bible reading for extra-committed listeners of the Daily Bible Podcast with Tricia and Michelle awaits you here; come on over!

Growing up, I didn’t understand it when I’d hear older people saying, “I felt the Lord speak to me.” Was it an audible voice? And if so, how did you know it was God? I mean, when people start hearing voices, that’s usually a problem.

The thing is, as my relationship with God grew, I started becoming one of those people. 

People ask me this question more often than you might think. In fact, some of the most life-transforming moments of my life have happened when I wanted direction, asked God to provide and answer, and then I actually paused to listen. 

If you find yourself wondering how to tune out the loud noise of daily life to truly hear God, you are not alone. Many of us deeply desire clear direction for our families, our ministries, and our daily choices, yet we struggle to recognize His leading amid our chaotic schedules. In the stories below, I will share how God has gently guided me through His Word, prayer, and everyday circumstances, helping you see that He is still actively directing His children today. 

My goal is that you will walk away from this post with practical tools to recognize His gentle whispers and the courage to step out in faith when He calls. 

A Whisper to My Soul: The Beginnings of Hope

I can clearly remember the day when I was praying about whether or not to help start a crisis pregnancy center. At the time, my days were already incredibly full. I was homeschooling, writing, and raising our family, and it did not seem I had time to commit to anything else.

As I prayed, God’s voice was clear. I felt Him whisper to my soul, “What about them? What about the young women who face the difficulties that you faced as a young mom? What are you going to do to help them?” It wasn’t an audible voice, but the words were very clear in my mind.

I understood what God meant. When I was fifteen and pregnant, I sought counsel and help. Instead, a Planned Parenthood clinic gave me an “easy way out” by suggesting abortion, and it’s a decision that I’ve regretted since.

Yet, a few years later, when I found myself pregnant again, I had the love and support of women from the church that I occasionally attended. Because of their love, I believed that God loved me, too, and I dedicated my heart to Jesus, making Him Lord of my life.

The Stirrings of Change

As I prayed about starting a crisis pregnancy center, these memories surfaced, and  I knew exactly what God was asking me to do. Because I remembered what it was like to be young and so unsure in my role as a mom, I felt a deep responsibility to be there for others. I am so thankful for the women who surrounded me with support and encouragement during those early years, and I wanted to ensure other girls had the same community.

In 1999, I took that first step in faith. I partnered with Kathy Keller, Twyla Klundt, and Pastor Daniel Lambert to found the Hope Pregnancy Center in Kalispell, Montana. We began simply by providing free pregnancy tests and counseling. God quickly brought dozens of new volunteers around to help carry the vision forward.

When dozens of young mothers began choosing life for their children, I knew we needed to do even more to support them. That realization eventually led to the start of a Teen MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers)  support group in 2002 to continue loving and guiding those teenage moms. God just needed me to take the first step to get the ball rolling. Looking back, it is beautiful to see how He provides the exact strength we need when we simply say yes to His call.

When His Plan Comes Together

The amazing thing is that the very first teen mom who came to that meeting became an unofficial part of our family. In fact, her baby is grown and has a baby. Not only was God calling me to serve, but He was also expanding our family, too, which is more than I could have imagined.

So, does God still speak to people today?

My answer is simple: Yes. Not because I’ve heard an audible voice from heaven, but because over and over again I’ve experienced God’s gentle, unmistakable leading through His Holy Spirit, His Word, prayer, circumstances, and the peace—or lack of peace—that only He can give. The Bible talks about this too. This verse has become one of the foundations of my life:

“My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me.” - John 10:27

The First Time I Couldn’t Ignore Him

One of the clearest moments came after my abortion. For years I carried shame that I thought would never leave. I believed God had forgiven everyone else, but I wasn’t sure He could ever fully forgive me. Then one day I felt an unmistakable nudge in my spirit to attend a post-abortion Bible study that was happening at my church.

It wasn’t something I wanted to do. Everything inside me wanted to stay hidden. I wanted to pretend my past didn’t exist. But God kept drawing me. It wasn’t condemnation. Instead, I felt an invitation to find healing in part of my life.

As I walked through that Bible study, Jesus met me in my deepest places of brokenness. He replaced shame with grace. He showed me that the cross was enough—even for me. That decision changed everything.  It was after I received healing that I wanted others to receive it too.

From Hidden Shame to Public Freedom

Not long after I attended that Bible Study, God placed another impossible thought in my heart. Share your story: publicly, at church.

Every part of me wanted to say no. Standing in front of my church and admitting my abortion felt terrifying. What would people think? Would they judge me? Would they look at me differently? But obedience mattered more than my fear. So I stood before my church and shared the story of my abortion—and more importantly, the story of God’s forgiveness.

Instead of rejection, I found freedom. Instead of condemnation, I found women quietly coming to me afterward saying, “Me too.”

That day I realized something important. The testimony I wanted to hide was the very testimony God wanted to use.

Revelation 12:11 says, “They triumphed over him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony.” 

Our stories become powerful when Jesus becomes the hero.

God Asked Me to Help Others Find Freedom

I thought my healing journey was complete, but then God had other plans. Soon He began nudging me again. I led a post-abortion Bible study, and honestly, I didn’t feel qualified. But maybe you’ve heard this saying: “God rarely calls the qualified. He qualifies those He calls.”

Week after week I watched women walk into Bible studies carrying shame, fear, and secrets. Week after week I watched Jesus set them free as we went through the Bible Study, Forgive and Set Free.

Only God could have taken the worst decision of my life and turned it into one of the greatest ministries I’ve ever experienced.

A Pregnancy Center Was Never My Plan

As I continued serving women, another opportunity emerged. Starting a pregnancy center had never been on my bucket list. Yet God kept opening doors that I couldn’t have opened myself, which is the story that I shared first. This is also why I know that an amazing God speaks to very ordinary people. 

Eventually, those steps of obedience became Hope Pregnancy Center. When our doors opened, women found hope. Babies were born, and families were strengthened. Lives were changed back then, and all these years later they are still being changed. And it all started because God asked me to take one small step.

Isaiah 30:21 says, “Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, 'This is the way; walk in it.'” 

God had a plan for me then, and He still does today.

And this is exactly what following Jesus has often felt like: One step. Then another.

God Guides My Writing

People often ask where my book ideas come from. The truth is, many of them begin in prayer. Some have come while researching. Others have come through conversations. Some have arrived while traveling.

Over and over, God has connected pieces that I never could have arranged on my own. He has led me toward stories that needed to be told. He has also closed doors. Too often we hear when God says, “Yes,” but sometimes He says, “No.”

There have been publishing opportunities that looked wonderful on paper: contracts, projects, and speaking invitations. Everything in me thought they made sense, yet God gave me no peace. Looking back, I can see His protection. Sometimes God’s guidance is found in what He tells us not to do.

Looking back, I can see the times when God stopped a big project—or I felt a pause in my spirit telling me to decline an “amazing opportunity,” it was because God needed my attention someplace else, like caring for my Grandma (until she passed away in 2025) or adopting children.

Three Times God Called Us to Adopt

Perhaps the clearest examples of when God spoke to us to “care for the least of these” came through adoption. John and I didn’t decide one afternoon that adopting seven children sounded like a good idea. Three separate times, God clearly stirred both of our hearts. The first time He called us to adopt one child.

Later He called us again. Then years later He called us yet again. Each time the assignment felt bigger than our resources. Each time we wondered how it would work. It’s not as if we were bored and had any room in our schedules, yet each time God faithfully made a way. Somehow He expanded our capacity and our hearts

Those three moments of obedience eventually became seven beautiful children who forever changed our family. I cannot imagine our lives without them.

God Moved Us to Arkansas

While each of the previous examples came from God placing something on my heart that stemmed from personal experience, moving to Arkansas wasn’t on my radar at all. Moving wasn’t simply a financial decision. In fact, my husband took a huge pay cut. It also wasn’t a career decision. John was stepping back to serve a ministry. But it did become a prayer decision.

John sensed God leading us toward Arkansas, and I was hoping that my husband would come to his senses. Instead, God spoke to my heart and confirmed that this was His plan.

There wasn’t a giant neon sign in the sky. There was simply the growing confidence that He was preparing something we couldn’t yet see. As we’ve watched Him unfold His plans—from ministry opportunities to writing to family—we’ve seen His fingerprints everywhere.

How Does God Speak?

Blackaby wrote this years ago in his book Experiencing God, and I’ve found that still to be absolutely true today.

God’s voice has never led me to do something that contradicts Scripture. Instead, His Spirit has consistently illuminated His Word, confirmed His direction through circumstances, and brought unity with other believers.

Another of his quote has stayed with me for years:

That has become one of the guiding principles of my life. God isn’t asking me to invent new plans. He’s inviting me to join Him in what He’s already doing.

Does God Still Speak?

Absolutely, and it’s not because we’re special. It’s not because we’ve earned it, but because we belong to Him. The Holy Spirit still guides. Jesus still leads His sheep. The Father still directs His children.

The question isn’t whether He is speaking. The better question is: Am I slowing down enough to listen?

Jeremiah 33:3 says, “Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.”

Looking back over my life—from healing after abortion, to ministry, to writing, to adoption, to moving across the country—I see a trail of God’s faithfulness. Each step began with one simple act of obedience. I didn’t always understand where He was leading. Instead, I simply trusted the One who was leading me.

And if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: God is still speaking. He is still calling, and He is still directing. And for those who belong to Him, He is still saying, “Follow Me.”

Practical Takeaways for Hearing God’s Voice

Here are a few practical ways you can begin applying these principles to your own walk with the Lord:

• Create quiet moments to listen. We cannot hear God if our lives are constantly loud. Carve out a few minutes each day to sit quietly with your Bible, turn off the distractions, and simply listen for His leading.
• Pay attention to your peace. God often guides us through a deep sense of peace or a noticeable lack of it. If an opportunity looks wonderful on paper but leaves your spirit unsettled, consider that it might be God protecting you and saying no.
• Take one small step of obedience. You do not need to have the entire plan figured out. Whether it is attending a Bible study, making a phone call, or checking on a neighbor, just take the first step God places on your heart.
• Let God use your broken places. The parts of your story you want to hide are often the exact areas God wants to use to bring freedom to someone else. Do not be afraid to share how God has redeemed your past and brought you healing.
• Look for confirmation. God’s voice will never contradict Scripture. When you sense Him leading you, look for confirmation in His Word, through prayer, and through the wise counsel of other faithful believers.
• Join in the work already happening. You do not need to invent a brand new ministry. Look around your community to see where God is already moving, and ask how you can jump in and serve right where you are.

Reflection Questions

• In what areas of your life is it difficult to slow down and listen for God’s voice?
• Can you recall a time when you felt a gentle nudge from the Holy Spirit to take a step of faith? How did you respond?
• Is there a part of your story or a past hurt that God might be asking you to surrender or share so others can find freedom?
• What is one small act of obedience you can take this week to join God in the work He is already doing around you?

A Prayer for Listening Ears

Dear Heavenly Father, thank You that You still speak to Your children today. Forgive me for the times when I let the noise of my daily schedule drown out Your gentle whispers. Please give me a sensitive heart to hear Your leading through Your Word, through prayer, and through the circumstances around me. 

Give me the courage to take the next small step of obedience, even when the path ahead is unclear or feels intimidating. Help me to trust that You go before me and that Your plans for my life are good. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Additional Resources

Have you ever felt a gentle nudge from the Holy Spirit to take a step of faith, but fear held you back?

God often asks us to step out of our comfort zones. When He does, it can feel completely overwhelming. I remember feeling entirely unqualified when God first called me to write, and later when He prompted our family to pursue adoption. As I share in my book, Walk It Out: The Radical Result of Living God’s Word One Step at a Time, He does not need our abilities. He just asks for our obedience.

You do not need to have all the answers. You only need the willingness to take one small step. If you are wondering what God can do with your everyday obedience, this book is for you. Together, we explore how listening to God’s voice and putting your faith into action changes your heart and your community.

Here is what you will discover inside:

• How to tune out the noise and listen for God’s clear direction.
• The courage to say yes when the assignment feels bigger than your resources.
• The incredible joy that comes from trusting the One who is leading you.

Are you ready to join God in the work He is already doing?

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The new school year is just around the corner, and kids everywhere are getting ready to transition back into a routine. But here is the wonderful beauty of homeschooling: that routine doesn’t have to be limited to rigid schedules, heavy textbooks, and endless worksheets.

One of the greatest joys of teaching kids at home is discovering that learning happens everywhere, and board games are a fantastic, hands-on tool for teaching almost any subject.

Whether you are teaching math skills through strategy, world history through territory building, or language arts through wordplay, games bring laughter, healthy competition, and deep connection straight to your kitchen table. “Gameschooling” allows kids of all learning styles to absorb critical concepts while simply having fun together. And the best part is, they’ll be enjoying themselves so much, they’ll forget they’re learning!

Scripture reminds us that joy and connection within our homes are foundational to how our children learn and thrive:

“A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.” — Proverbs 17:22 (ESV)

When we infuse our homeschool days with joy, learning ceases to feel like a chore and becomes a shared family adventure.

Gameschooling by Age Group

To help you build your game closet this school year, here is a breakdown of wonderful board game options organized by age group:

Games for Younger Learners

For early elementary kids and preschoolers, games build foundational skills like counting, turn-taking, color recognition, spatial awareness, and fine motor control.

• Outfoxed – A classic whodunit game for preschoolers, perfect for critical thinking skill-building in little ones.
• Ticket to Ride: San Francisco – A younger-child-friendly version of the original Ticket to Ride (fun for older kids), and a great way to teach kids about geography and thinking ahead.
• Stare! Junior – a fun and challenging memory game the whole family will enjoy!
• Shenanigrams – a word-building (and stealing!) game that even your most mischievous littles will love.
• Number Hunter – this one has a neat combination of geography, ecology, and math, all rolled into one exciting adventure!
• Quixx – this fast and fun dice game teaches math and strategy, and is perfect for the entire family.

Games for Upper Elementary

As children enter upper elementary, games become incredible tools for critical thinking, logic, geographic knowledge, vocabulary expansion, and historical context.

• Century Golem Edition: Eastern Mountains – a strategy game that is both fun to play and gorgeous to look at. (Bonus: This game can be combined with Century Golem Edition and played as a special format called “The Call to Adventure”!)
• Tetris: The Board Game – a twist on the classic Tetris video game that teaches logic and strategy.
• A Lotta Axolotls – a strategy-based game full of cute axolotls. What more could you want?
• Shifting Stones – this one teaches logic and decision-making skills while building on your child’s math foundation.
• Here to Slay – an exciting adventure-strategy game of monster fights and heroic feats. It also has lots of fun expansions available.
• Splendor – a gem-collecting strategy game that teaches kids about currency and logic.
• Unlock! Kids Edition – it’s a ready-to-play escape room in a box designed specifically for children. These puzzle games encourage critical thinking and teamwork.
• Get the Picture – a word puzzle game that only takes 10 seconds to learn, so it’s easy to fit into any homeschool schedule.
• Hues and Clues – a vibrant color-and-word-guessing game that encourages teamwork and builds deductive reasoning skills.
• Ligretto – a speedy card game that encourages quick thinking and strategic planning.
• What Do You Meme? Family Edition – a game of funny memes and deductive reasoning that will have your family cracking up.
• Taboo: Kids vs. Parents – a great way to build your child’s vocabulary… and yours, too!
• Mantis – this strategy pick is also perfect for the whole family – if your child knows their colors, they can play! Take turns trying to score or steal and get as many points as you can.
• Mancala – a classic strategy counting game that has been around for thousands of years. (Bonus: Look up the origins of the game for a fun history add-on!)
• Catan – It’s a classic for a reason, and a favorite in our household. Collect resources and build settlements in this hexagonal strategy game. (Bonus: There are lots of different versions of Catan out there to try!)
• Lost Cities – A fun, two-player adventure-based strategy game that is quick to set up and easy to learn.
• Kingdomino – Another family favorite! Take turns choosing tiles to build your kingdom. This one teaches strategy and planning ahead.
• Azul – This game is both aesthetically pleasing and fun to play. Take turns picking tiles to build a Portuguese mosaic wall while helping your child develop critical thinking and logic skills.
• Dixit: Revelations – This guessing game is a bit like Apples to Apples, only you are guessing picture cards instead of word cards. Your children will learn deductive reasoning and build their descriptive vocabulary, and you’ll get to learn more about them. It’s a win-win!
• Wingspan – For your little nature enthusiasts, this one teaches all about birds and their habitats while also teaching strategy and decision-making skills. Plus, it’s absolutely beautiful. (Bonus: Download the Wingsong app to hear the call of each bird featured in the game!)

Games for Teens

Teenagers thrive on deep strategy, long-term planning, complex rule sets, and cooperative problem-solving. Playing games with your teens creates a relaxed environment for conversation, strengthening your relationship while challenging their minds.

• The Bible is Funny – A hilarious Apples-to-Apples-like card game of out-of-context Bible verses. Perfect to lighten up a rough homeschool day.
• Ransom Notes – A magnetic word game that will bring out the inner goof in your teens while teaching them to think outside the box.
• Viticulture – You and your teens will manage a vineyard in this strategy-based board game. It’s great for teaching resource management and planning.
• Everdell – Build up a city of adorable woodland creatures in this strategy game. This is an absolute favorite in our home; the artwork is beautiful and the game is well-crafted.

Your Turn

Take a look at your homeschool schedule for the upcoming school year and block out one afternoon per week as a dedicated “Game Day”. My daughter-in-law does “Fun Fridays” in her homeschool, and it often involves several board games. Swap out your standard curriculum for one or two games from your closet, and invite your kids to learn with you through play.

A Prayer for Joyful Learning

Heavenly Father, thank You for the freedom and gift of homeschooling our children. As we step into this new school year, help us to remember that learning is not confined to pages in a workbook, but is found in the joy of discovery and relationships. Fill our homes with warmth, patience, and laughter. Give us creativity as parents to use simple tools like games to spark curiosity and cultivate wisdom in our children’s hearts. Bless our time together and let Your peace reign over our school days. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Additional Resources:

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The first week of the new homeschool year carries a very specific kind of energy. Part of you is thrilled to dive into fresh books and crisp new notebooks, while another part of you is bracing for the inevitable shock that comes with trading laid-back summer afternoons for structured learning.

If you are feeling a little nervous about how to transition your kids back into a school routine without tears (yours or theirs!), here is a secret: the first week doesn’t need to look like a full-court press.

Instead of jumping straight into eight-hour school days and heavy textbooks, treat the first week as a celebration. When you fill those first few days with fun, connection, and gentle transitions, you set a positive tone that carries your family through the rest of the year.

5 Fun Ways to Celebrate the First Day of Homeschool

Make the start of the new homeschool year feel like a special event rather than a chore with a few simple traditions:

• The Back-to-School Feast: Kick off the week with a special “Back-to-School” breakfast. Make over-the-top waffles, serve hot chocolate, or let the kids pick their favorite morning treats.
• First Day Interviews: Have each child answer a short list of fun questions—their favorite color, what they want to learn this year, their favorite food, and a dream for the future. Keep these in a binder to look back on at the end of the year!
• Photo Shoot Fun: Take first-day photos holding a simple chalkboard or paper sign with their new grade level.
  – Pro tip: Take a silly photo alongside the nice one to keep things light!
• Curriculum Unboxing Party: Treat new books like Christmas gifts. Let kids unwrap their workbooks, test out brand-new markers, and organize their desk spaces with excitement.
• The (Not!) Back-to-School Field Trip: Celebrate the freedom of homeschooling by heading to a park, splash pad, or local museum during regular school hours when the crowds are minimal.

Host a “Mini” Back-to-Homeschool Party

Instead of standard ice breaker games, kick off the year with a themed mini-party! Kids of all ages love anything miniature, and it turns the first day into an unforgettable celebration:

• Mini Finger Foods: Serve a bite-sized lunch menu! Think mini sliders, tiny muffin-tin pizzas, mini fruit skewers, tiny juice boxes, and bite-sized donut holes or mini cupcakes for dessert.
• Mini Games: Keep game time fast and low-pressure. Play quick minute-to-win-it challenges, like stacking mini marshmallows with chopsticks, rolling a marble into a tiny cup, or doing a quick 30-second Pictionary round on mini dry-erase boards.
• Mini Prizes: Fill a small basket with fun mini rewards for completing the games or finishing their first day—fun-sized candy bars, mini notebooks, tiny highlighters, or miniature novelty erasers for their new school supplies.

More Connection Activities for the Family

Beyond the party, simple hands-on projects help re-engage young minds and build sibling connection:

• The Family Vision Board: Get out poster boards, old magazines, glue sticks, and markers. Spend an afternoon cutting out pictures and words that represent what your family wants your home, faith, and school year to look like.
• Cooperative Building Challenge: Give the kids a stack of index cards, a tub of LEGOs, or a box of popsicle sticks. Challenge them to work together to build the tallest tower or a bridge that holds a book. It immediately gets them communicating and problem-solving as a team.

Gentle Transition Activities to Build Routine

Trying to force kids into a rigid schedule on day one is a recipe for burnout. Ease into your daily rhythm with these gradual transition steps:

1. Start with “Soft” Subjects: Focus the first two days on subjects that naturally inspire joy—read-aloud books, art projects, nature walks, or hands-on science experiments. Save heavy grammar and math drills for week two.
2. Practice the “Morning Basket”: Use your first week to establish a peaceful morning gathering time. Read a devotion, memorize a short Bible verse together, read a picture book, and pray over the day before everyone branches off to individual work.
3. Time Your Lessons in Short Blocks: Attention spans take time to rebuild after summer. Keep lessons to 15-20 minute intervals for younger kids and 30-40 minutes for older ones, offering quick movement breaks in between.
4. Establish the “Shutdown” Rhythm: Practice how your school day ends just as intentionally as how it starts. Have a set 10-minute routine where everyone puts their books away, caps the markers, and cleans their space so the afternoon starts with a clean slate.

Grounding Your Week in God’s Grace

When we look at Scripture, God constantly reminds us of the power of new beginnings and the beauty of His steadfast love as seasons change:

“The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.” — Lamentations 3:22-23 (ESV)

If a lesson plan falls apart, a kiddo melts down, or the schedule gets derailed during week one, remember that you don’t have to carry perfection on your shoulders. God gives you fresh mercy every single morning, and your homeschool is a space for grace to flourish.

Reflection Questions for Mom

• What is one fun tradition or mini-party idea you can introduce this week to make your kids feel excited about starting school?
• Which area of your daily routine needs the most grace and patience as your family transitions out of summer mode?

A Prayer for the First Week of Homeschool

Heavenly Father, thank You for the joy and privilege of embarking on a new school year with my children. As we step into these first few days, I ask that You fill our home with Your peace, laughter, and patience. Help me to focus on connection over perfection, and give my children eager, curious hearts to learn. When moments of frustration or weariness creep in, remind us of Your new mercies every morning. Guide our days, protect our hearts, and let our home be a sanctuary of Your love. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

YOUR TURN! How do you celebrate the first week of homeschool in your house? What are your favorite back-to-school traditions? Drop your ideas in the comments below!

Additional Resources

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I’ve written historical fiction, contemporary fiction, split-time novels, a children’s picture book, a YA nonfiction book, cozy mysteries, biblical novels, steampunk fantasy, self-help, memoir, and 365-day devotionals — and somewhere north of 75 books total. People ask me all the time: “What’s the secret?” There isn’t one secret. There are hundreds of small ones, gathered one manuscript at a time, one deadline at a time, one genre at a time.

This is my attempt to hand them all to you at once.

I’ve split what follows into two parts. First, the lessons that hold true no matter what kind of book you’re writing — the deep-structure truths about craft, research, discipline, and story that apply whether you’re writing a picture book or a 400-page WWII epic. Then I’ve gone genre by genre, because the truth is, writing a cozy mystery teaches you things writing a memoir never will, and writing a devotional teaches you things a steampunk fantasy never will.

Take what’s useful. Skip what isn’t. And if you’re standing at the start of your first book wondering whether you have what it takes — you do. You just don’t know it yet.

PART ONE

What I’ve Learned About Writing Books — Period

On Starting

Every genre on this list taught me something the others couldn’t. Historical fiction taught me reverence for what’s true. Fantasy taught me the discipline of invented rules. Memoir taught me the cost of honesty. Devotionals taught me that showing up every single day, in a form as small as a page, is its own kind of faithfulness.

If there’s one lesson underneath them all, it’s this: the book teaches you how to write it. You don’t master “writing books” once, in general, and then coast. You learn it again, one manuscript at a time, one genre at a time — and every new book still has something left to teach you.

That, more than any single tip on this list, is the real secret. There isn’t a finish line where you stop learning how to write. There’s just the next page.

Additional Resources

Journal Through the Bible in a Year

Have you ever wanted to read through the Bible but found yourself giving up? Or even worse, you read the chapters and at the end question how they apply to your life. Tricia Goyer understands. For years she felt frustrated that she couldn’t stick to her commitment to read God’s Word all the way through. Things changed when she found a doable plan and wrote out a daily prayer. Tricia’s heart changed. Her life did, too.

God can bring real transformation into your heart and life when you daily commit to reading your Bible and praying through God’s Word. Praying through the Bible in One Year offers a guided reading plan and a daily prayer starter to help you make God’s Word applicable to your life. Discover the inspiration for real-life transformation.

Purchase a copy of Praying Through the Bible in One Year HERE.

Easing back into a routine should never feel like a sudden shock to your family.

I have been homeschooling for over thirty-five years and have ten kids. Moving from lazy summer days back to a daily routine takes a lot of careful planning. We need a schedule that works for the whole family.

At the same time, we have to respect how each child learns best. It takes plenty of grace to gently guide everyone forward together

Finding Grace in Our Daily Routine

Our first goal is always a soft start back into our daily life. Instead of dropping a strict schedule on everyone all at once, try inviting your family to help build a daily rhythm together.

We need a routine that makes room for different energy levels, chores, and personal interests. Taking a gentle two weeks just to practice a flexible plan really cuts down on complaints and helps everyone work together as a team.

Three Steps to a Soft Start

1. Call a Family Meeting

Gather everyone around the table with some snacks. Ask your kids what they want their days to look like. Listen to their ideas about chores and hobbies so they feel included right from the start.

2. Pick One Habit First

Do not try to do everything on day one. Start by waking up a little earlier or tackling just one subject together. Adding small steps builds a strong foundation without overwhelming anyone.

3. Keep It Loose For Two Weeks

Treat the first fourteen days as a simple practice run. If a schedule feels too heavy, simply change it! Give yourselves plenty of grace as you figure out a rhythm that truly fits your family.

Ask: What is one small habit we want to introduce during our first practice week?

Creating a Cozy Place to Learn

A great school year starts with how our home feels. We want to make sure our shared spaces are tidy, comfortable, and inviting. This makes a big difference when we gather to read aloud or when the kids need quiet time to focus.

A calm and steady home helps everyone pay better attention. It also stops arguments before they start while we settle into our new daily habits.

Anchoring Our Days with Great Books

I like to build our lessons around living books and real history. Try to pick stories that make your kids curious and connect to the real world.

Reading out loud together is a wonderful way to start your morning. It gives the whole family a shared adventure to talk about all week long.

Three Books to Share Together

Over my many years of homeschooling, I have found that a good story brings the whole family together. If you are looking for living books to anchor your days, here are three wonderful choices to try with your kids:

1. The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe by C.S. Lewis. This classic story is an amazing adventure that captures everyone’s imagination. Four siblings find a magical land called Narnia hidden inside an old wardrobe. It is full of wonderful characters and gives your family plenty to talk about.
2. Charlotte’s Web by E.B. White. This is a beautiful story about a kind spider named Charlotte who saves a little pig named Wilbur. It is a wonderful example of true friendship and putting others first. We have loved reading this book in our home for years.
3. Number the Stars by Lois Lowry. This is a beautiful story set in Denmark during World War Two. It follows a young girl named Annemarie who helps her best friend escape danger. It is a great way to introduce history to your kids while showing them what true bravery looks like. We always have amazing family talks after reading this one together

Start with a Meaningful Spark

When it is time to open those new school books, try starting with an exciting lesson instead of jumping right into tests and quizzes. A fun beginning truly sets a joyful tone for the whole year.

I always like to pair our early lessons with hands-on projects or gather the family to play a great strategy board game.

Sitting down around the table to play something like Century Golem Edition gets everyone working together and keeps our momentum going strong through those first few weeks.

Managing Expectations with Compassion

It is so important to remember that changing our daily routine takes time and plenty of grace. Every child adjusts to a new school year at their own pace, and there will always be a few bumpy days.

Talking kindly with your kids about your daily goals really helps lower stress for everyone. It reminds our family that we are all on the same team, working together to guide each child with patience and respect).

Practical Week-One Outline

• Morning routine: light reading, brief orientation to the day
• Core subject block: 60–90 minutes of focused study with short, frequent breaks
• Creative or project time: hands-on exploration or independent inquiry
• Household responsibilities: simple, age-appropriate chores to foster teamwork
• Reflection: end-of-day journaling or discussion

Balancing Our Schedule with Free Time

It is important to set up a few daily goals and school routines that we stick to. At the same time, we need to leave wide open spaces for our kids to explore the things they love.

I always encourage my family to dive into special projects that catch their eye. Giving them room to follow their own interests helps them want to learn and builds a wonderful sense of responsibility.

Celebrating Small Steps

Taking time to celebrate the little steps forward is so important. Always try to notice the small milestones your kids reach each day. When we cheer for our family and point out their hard work, it truly builds their confidence.

A few kind words help everyone in the house keep a wonderful attitude about learning and growing together.

Take the pressure off yourself this August. Pick an engaging book, set up a board game, and enjoy the atmosphere of learning together. You are doing a wonderful job guiding your family!

To Sum It Up

Discover the Power of Prayer in History

As a homeschooling mom of ten, I am always looking for ways to make history come alive for my family. I want my kids to see that real people faced hard times and trusted God to help them. That is exactly why I wrote Prayers That Changed History.

This book shares the stories of twenty-five amazing men and women. We get to read about heroes like Martin Luther and Corrie ten Boom. We learn how they prayed and how God answered them in big ways.

Reading these stories out loud is a wonderful way to start our school mornings. It shows our kids that their own prayers matter just as much as the prayers of people in the past. Grab your copy today and let us explore history together!

As we step into a new homeschool year, my mind often fills with the usual to-do lists and curriculum choices, and if you’re like me, you’re likely navigating your own “beautiful chaos” of laundry piles and busy schedules. 

Yet I’ve learned that the most important preparation doesn’t happen in my homeschool planner but on our knees. When we invite God into our learning spaces through prayer, He can transform our frantic, busy days. It’s then that we discover that the true heartbeat of faith-filled homeschool isn’t found in checking boxes, but in the heart-to-heart prayers we share. 

Here are nine prayers for your homeschool year:

1. A Prayer for Wisdom and Discernment

We can seek God’s guidance for curriculum, scheduling, and daily decisions.

“If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” — James 1:5

Lord, I come to You recognizing that I cannot navigate this school year on my own strength or intellect. You promise that if I lack wisdom, I can ask You, and You will give it generously without finding fault. I ask for Your divine discernment today. Guide my heart as I choose curriculum, organize our schedule, and make daily decisions for each child. Help us not to lean on our own understanding, but in all our ways to acknowledge You, trusting that You will make our paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6). Establish the work of our hands this year, Lord. Amen.

2. A Prayer for Peace and Rest

With God’s help, we can overcome anxiety, overwhelm, and the pressure to be perfect.

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” — John 14:27

Father, when the days feel long and the to-do list feels overwhelming, calm our hearts with Your supernatural peace. You have not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). 

Forgive me, Lord, for the times I let worry take root. I cast all my anxieties on You today, knowing that You care for us deeply (1 Peter 5:7). Let Your peace, which transcends all understanding, guard our hearts and minds in Christ Jesus as we study and grow together (Philippians 4:7). Amen.

3. A Prayer for Joy in Learning

With God’s wisdom, we can cultivate a love for discovery, curiosity, and a cheerful atmosphere.

“This is the day the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.” — Psalm 118:24

Lord God, restore to us the joy of discovery. Remind us that the earth is full of Your goodness and everything we study reflects Your marvelous creativity (Psalm 33:5). When lessons feel dry or difficult, inject our home with a spirit of wonder. Let the joy of the Lord be our daily strength (Nehemiah 8:10). Lord, help us to approach our subjects with cheerful hearts, knowing that a joyful heart is good medicine for the mind and body (Proverbs 17:22). Amen.

4. A Prayer for Patience and Kindness

With God’s Spirit, we can sow seeds of grace in family relationships and sibling interactions.

“Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.” — Colossians 3:12

Heavenly Father, living and learning together under one roof means we need an abundance of Your grace. Help us to be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry (James 1:19). Clothe our family in compassion and gentleness today. May we be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ You forgave us (Ephesians 4:32). Let our home be a sanctuary where words build up rather than tear down. Amen.

5. A Prayer for Diligence and Perseverance

With God’s help, we can stay focused and motivated through teaching challenging concepts and hard days.

“Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” — Galatians 6:9

Lord, when difficult concepts arise and giving up feels easy, grant us the perseverance to press on. Remind my children that whatever they do, they are working for You and not merely for human approval (Colossians 3:23). 

Lord, give my children the focus to run with perseverance the race marked out for them (Hebrews 12:1). I pray that we will not become weary in doing the good work of education, trusting that a beautiful harvest of righteousness awaits us if we remain steadfast. Amen.

6. A Prayer for Spiritual Growth and Character

With God’s wisdom, we can prioritize our children’s hearts and faith over academic achievements.

“But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen.” — 2 Peter 3:18

Father, more than I desire high test scores or academic accolades for my children, I desire their hearts to belong to You. I pray that they will be rooted and established in Your love (Ephesians 3:17). May they grow not only in worldly knowledge but also in the grace and knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. Let the fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control—be evident in their lives this year (Galatians 5:22-23). Amen.

7. A Prayer for Protection and Health

With God’s protection, He can guard the family’s physical, emotional, and mental well-being.

“The Lord will keep you from all harm—he will watch over your life; the Lord will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore.” — Psalm 121:7-8

Lord Jesus, I ask for Your hand of protection over our home, our health, and our minds this school year. You are our refuge and fortress, our God in whom we trust (Psalm 91:2). Protect my children from illness, physical harm, and the emotional vulnerabilities that can disrupt their peace. Guard their minds from negative influences and thoughts that cause discouragement. Grant us vibrant health and strength so that we may serve You fully each day. Amen.

8. A Prayer for Unity and Family Harmony

With God’s Spirit, we can strengthen the bond between parents and children, and among siblings.

 “How good and pleasant it is when God’s people live together in unity!” — Psalm 133:1

Holy Spirit, knit our hearts together in love and unity. Help us to make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace (Ephesians 4:3). Where there is friction, bring reconciliation. Where there is misunderstanding, bring clarity. May our homeschool be characterized by a shared purpose, standing firm in one spirit and striving together as one for the faith of the gospel (Philippians 1:27). Let our love for one another be a testimony of Your presence in our home. Amen.

9. A Prayer for a Servant’s Heart and Mission

With God’s guidance, we can encourage children to use their education to serve others and glorify God.

 “Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms.” — 1 Peter 4:10

Lord, remind us that the education we pursue is not just for our own benefit, but to equip us to love and serve the world around us. Let our light so shine before others that they may see our good works and glorify You (Matthew 5:16).  Help my children discover the unique gifts You have placed inside them, and give them opportunities to use those gifts to bless others. May we always remember that to whom much is given, much is required (Luke 12:48), and may we use our learning to serve Your kingdom. Amen.

Before You Go

Consider printing these prayers out and placing them in your teacher binder or morning basket. Whenever the day feels chaotic, take a moment to pause, breathe, and speak these truths over your children. You are not walking this journey alone. God is with you, guiding you and leading you every step of the way.

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Packed with ideas to help you push aside your fears and raise kids who will grow to be life-long learners. Kristi and I believe that homeschooling can transform your life, your home, and your family. Mostly, we believe homeschooling can truly prepare your children for the life God’s called them to live. Don’t let doubts hold you back any longer.

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There have been seasons when I hid the hardest parts of my life. I cried over them in private. I carried shame no one else could see.

I was sure that if people really knew my story, they would hate me. After all, some of the things I had done were the very things pastors preached against. And so I hid my shame and pain. I cried about those things when no one was looking.

I Cried Because of Shame and Regret

As a teenager, I became pregnant twice. First, I was so embarrassed to be pregnant at fifteen that I chose abortion. I was told at a Planned Parenthood clinic that it was just scraping away a few cells. I wanted to get out of my situation so bad that I chose to believe it. I was crushed not long after to know that my baby had a heartbeat. At fifteen, I’d trusted what the adults in the situation had told me, yet no one told me about the emotional pain I’d experience.

A few years later, I got pregnant again. This often happens because young women want to “redeem” their past decision, even if it’s not a conscious thought. My son was an amazing gift, but the shame remained for many years until I attended a Bible Study for post-abortive women.

Sitting in that Bible Study and realizing that God forgave ALL my sins brought such freedom. It was also in that Bible Study that I chose to forgive myself.

Walking in freedom changed me, and I soon helped to start Hope Pregnancy Center with our pastor, Daniel Lambert, and my friends, Kathy and Twyla.

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Twenty-seven years later, this center is thriving! What a victory. I used to cry about my choice, and I still regret it. Yet when I lifted my shame up to Jesus, He revealed that my freedom could help others. Lives of babies have been saved. Lives of parents have been transformed. That hard season has led to years of faithful ministry. My tears are now tears of joy.

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I Cried Because of Shame and Frustration

There have been other seasons of tears in my life. For most of my adult life, I struggled with my weight. I tried diet after diet. I would lose weight, gain it back, and wonder if I would ever be free.

The tears often came in the quiet, hidden moments. I remember sitting on the edge of my bed, staring at a closet full of clothes that no longer fit, feeling the heavy weight of defeat. The shame was a heavy cloak. It whispered that I was failing at a fundamental level. I poured immense amounts of energy into nurturing my large family, writing books, and managing the daily chaos of life. Yet, when it came to my own health, I felt entirely stuck in a frustrating loop of starting over.

The victory did not arrive overnight in a flash of unreachable transformation. The victory I so desperately longed for started with a deep breath, a surrender of guilt, reaching out to a friend who offered free health coaching, and a commitment to small, intentional choices.

God sees us in those quiet moments of deep frustration.

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit” (Psalm 34:18, NIV). 

When I handed over my shame and stopped demanding an impossible standard of myself, the actual healing began.

You do not have to carry the heavy burden of shame today. If you are sitting in a season of tears and frustration, please know you are entirely seen and deeply loved. Lasting freedom is possible when we replace guilt with grace and take the journey one gentle step at a time.

Just like my friend Amber did for me, I’m reaching out a hand to you. My health coaching is free. The only cost is the food you’ll need to reach your health goal (and friend, you have to buy food anyway). The coaching continues for free as you reach transition and beyond. I’m still connecting with those who lost their weight years ago, because maintaining is as important as losing.

If you’d like to chat with me (by phone, Zoom, or text) about my free health coaching, reach out.

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I Cried Because of Dashed Hopes and Rejection

I collected rejection letters as I tried to become a published author. I failed more times than I can count.

Each rejection letter felt like a heavy, closed door. I poured my heart into stories and proposals, only to receive nos. The sting of those literary rejections compounded the inadequacy I felt in other areas.

Yet, failure is never the end of the story. God uses our stumbling steps to carve a path of total dependence on Him.

“Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans” (Proverbs 16:3, NIV).

When we surrender our mistakes, our rejected manuscripts, and our weary hearts to God, He meets us with boundless grace. He does not demand a flawless performance. He simply asks for a willing spirit.

With the gentle whisper of the Holy Spirit, I learn how to keep moving forward when the words refuse to flow, and the obstacles seem entirely insurmountable.

Everything changed when I did two things:

1. I committed to a daily writing habit not dependent on the results.

I just wrote what God put on my heart, letting the words flow on the page and not letting my doubts, fears, worries about rejection, or my inner critic stop me.

2. I connected with writer friends for accountability and support.

If you are feeling stuck in your writing journey, I invite you to step away from the daily demands and join me for a time of focused renewal. From October 22 to October 25, I am co-hosting a special four-day writing and wellness retreat, The Finish Line Intensive, with my dear friend and collaborator, Amber Lia. We are gathering at my home in Benton, Arkansas, to help you start, sustain, or finally finish that book God has placed on your heart.

We will spend our days focusing on practical writing strategies, spiritual encouragement, and finding the stamina to reach the end of your manuscript. You do not have to walk this writing road alone. You can find all the details and reserve your spot now.

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My Victory Stories Came from Taking One Step, Then Another

For a long time, these were the stories that made me cry. But God… Those two words changed everything.

Jesus met me in my brokenness, not after I had cleaned myself up, but right in the middle of my mess. He forgave me. He healed me. He patiently transformed me. He kept reminding me that my identity wasn’t found in what I had done. It was found in what He had done for me in His victory on the cross.

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.” — 2 Corinthians 5:17

Jesus then called me, in each of these areas, to serve others. Today, the things that once brought me the deepest shame have become the stories I share most often. They are also places where I reach back out to care for those who are where I once was.

• I tell women about my abortion because I want them to know there is no sin greater than the grace of God.

“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” — 1 John 1:9

• I talk about being a teen mom because one unexpected chapter doesn’t determine the rest of your story.
• I share my story of losing 90 pounds because I want people to know that change and victory is possible, even after years of believing it isn’t.
• I tell aspiring writers about the rejection so they keep going when they feel like giving up.

None of those stories point to how strong I am. Every one of them points to how faithful God is.

I’ve discovered that the places where Satan whispered, “Hide,” are the very places where God now says, “Share.” Not because I enjoy talking about my failures, but because every time I do, someone reaches out and says, “Me too.”

Me too. These two words remind me why our testimonies matter.

“They triumphed over him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony.” — Revelation 12:11

The things I used to hide are now helping other men and women step into the light. The things I used to cry about have become my victory stories. Not because they weren’t painful. Not because they weren’t sinful. Not because I’ve forgotten them. But because Jesus redeemed them.

I love what Joseph told his brothers after years of betrayal:

“You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.” — Genesis 50:20

God didn’t cause my sin, my failures, or my heartbreak. But in His incredible mercy, He redeemed them. He took what the enemy meant for destruction and used it for His victory—to point people to His grace. If you’re carrying something today that fills you with shame, please hear this:

“There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” — Romans 8:1

Your worst moment is not the end of your story. God is still writing. He is still healing. He is still redeeming.

One day, you may look back and realize that the very thing you begged God to erase became the testimony He used to bring hope to someone else. That’s what He does. God takes ashes and creates beauty. He takes brokenness and brings restoration. He takes shame and clothes us with grace.

“To all who mourn... He will give a crown of beauty for ashes, a joyous blessing instead of mourning, festive praise instead of despair.” — Isaiah 61:3

That is the God I serve. The victory and all the glory belongs to Him. Now my question for you: how can I serve you today? In which of these areas would you love to have my help?

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As an author who has navigated the publishing journey for over a hundred books, I know firsthand how challenging it is to complete a manuscript alone. That is why I am so thrilled to invite you to join me for a transformative weekend.

Whether you need to outline a new idea, build momentum, or type those final words, this intensive is designed to provide exactly what you need to succeed.

What You Can Expect:

• Dedicated Writing Time… Together: We sit together and write. Together we’ll make substantial, focused progress on your chapters.
• A Supportive Environment: Write in a welcoming space filled with encouragement and a sense of shared goals.
• Constructive Feedback: Receive insightful critiques to strengthen your narrative and elevate your unique voice.
• Research-Oriented Conversations: Engage in deep discussions to bring authenticity and rich detail to your work.

Every attendee will receive a comprehensive workbook to guide their creative process step by step.

You will also gain access to an exclusive online community where our close-knit group of writers can continue to build their skills together. We will keep supporting each other and growing our craft through the rest of 2026 and all of 2027.

God has given you a message to share, and it is time to get to work. Let us get your story out of your head and into your readers’ hands.

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If you are looking at the calendar and realizing the back-to-school season is right around the corner, you might be feeling a mix of excitement and quiet panic. Balancing lesson plans, fresh curriculum, and household management can make any seasoned or rookie homeschool mom feel overwhelmed.

When I look back at my time management secrets from over a decade ago, I am reminded that while technology and schedules change, a mom’s need for order, peace, and sanity never does. Managing a home and a homeschool is a high calling, but you don’t have to carry the weight of the entire world on your shoulders to do it successfully.

Scripture reminds us that God desires peace and order for our lives, not chaotic frenzy. In 1 Corinthians, we are told:

“But be sure that everything is done properly and in an order.” — 1 Corinthians 14:40 (NLT)

Getting your home, your heart, and your schedule into a sustainable rhythm before the first day of school is the best gift you can give your family.

10 Back-to-School To-Do List for Moms

To help you transition smoothly into the new school year, here is a practical checklist to get your heart and home ready:

1. Declutter the School Zone: Clear out last year’s broken crayons, half-used notebooks, and finished workbooks to make physical room for the new year.
2. Pre-Sort Your Curriculum: Don’t wait until the first day of school to open the teacher’s manuals. Flip through them now, map out your first month, and organize your daily student binders.
3. Meal Plan and Prep Ahead: Freezers are a homeschool mom’s best friend. Spend a weekend prepping a few weeks’ worth of easy breakfast items or slow-cooker freezer meals for those intense first weeks of school.
4. Establish a Routine, Not a Rigorous Schedule: Kids thrive on rhythm. Start adjusting bedtimes and wake-up times a week or two before school officially starts so no one is shocked by the early morning alarm.
5. Set Up a Charging Station: Designate one central location in the house for all tablets, laptops, and kindles to be plugged in every evening so you aren’t hunting for chargers mid-lesson.
6. Create a “Go-Bag” for Co-op Days: If you participate in a local homeschool co-op or field trip group, pack a permanent tote bag with extra pencils, notebooks, tissues, and shelf-stable snacks so you can grab it and go.
7. Organize the Launchpad: Dedicate a specific basket or shoe rack near the door for shoes, jackets, and backpacks. Hunting for a lost left shoe can easily derail an entire morning.
8. Write Down Your “Why”: On a blank index card, write out the core reasons you chose to homeschool this year. Tape it inside your teacher’s manual for those inevitable hard days when you need a reminder of your mission.
9. Schedule Your Library Runs: Put library days directly onto your master calendar and set up digital reminders on your phone for return dates to avoid those sneaky overdue fees.
10. Dedicate the School Year to God: Gather your family before the first day of school. Pray over your children, your curriculum, and your home, asking the Holy Spirit to guide your days.

Back-to-School Delegation Tools for Homeschool Families

Take a lesson from successful entrepreneurs: Delegate it, but don’t abdicate it! Your children need to know that a thriving household is a team sport. Technology has evolved beautifully to help us share the load. Here are some updated digital tools to help you delegate chores, calendars, and childcare:

For Chore Management

• OurHome: A fantastic, free app that allows you to assign chores, set goals, and reward kids for completing tasks without annoying ads.
• S’Mores Up: Act as the “CEO” of your household by customizing automated chore schedules, managing allowances, and tracking family rewards.

For Scheduling & To-Do Lists

• Cozi Family Organizer: A shared family calendar where everyone can see the week’s schedule, shared grocery lists, and daily to-do checklists in real time.
• Trello or Notion: Perfect for moms with middle or high schoolers. You can create visual boards for independent daily assignments, allowing your students to digitally check off their schoolwork as they complete it.

For Childcare Co-ops

• Shared Google Workspace: Set up a shared Google Sheet or private Facebook Group with a few trusted homeschool families to coordinate a babysitting swap, trading mornings off so each mom gets uninterrupted time to run errands or rest.

Clear Your Mind First

It is easy to get so caught up in organizing binders and meal prepping that you completely neglect your own mental and spiritual health. If you are feeling tightly wound, your kids will feel it too.

Your Bonus To-Do: Implement “Morning Pages.”

This powerful habit comes from author Julia Cameron, who originally introduced it in her seminal book on creativity, The Artist’s Way. Her brilliant approach is simple: before the kids wake up and the house explodes into activity, grab a cheap notebook and write three full pages of longhand, stream-of-consciousness thoughts. Don’t overthink it, don’t edit it, and don’t worry about spelling or grammar. Just dump every anxiety, back-to-school to-do item, random thought, or prayer request straight onto the paper.

Following Cameron’s exact routine by clearing that mental clutter first thing in the morning acts as a literal release valve for your brain. It leaves you with a fresh, calm, and spacious mind to tackle whatever the homeschool day throws your way.

A Prayer for the New School Year

Heavenly Father, as we stand on the threshold of a brand new school year, we come to You asking for Your peace and guidance. For the mom who is feeling overwhelmed by the endless to-do lists, the curriculum choices, and the weight of household management, please grant her supernatural calm. Quiet her anxious thoughts and remind her that You have fully equipped her for this holy calling. Lord, bless our homes with Your presence. May our school days be filled with patience, joy, and the beauty of order. Guard our marriages, strengthen our families, and give us minds that focus on You before the chaos begins. We surrender this year to You, trusting that You will faithfully sustain us through it all. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

No matter how long your back-to-school checklist feels right now, remember that you do not have to be perfect to be the perfect mom for your kids. This journey isn’t about running on a treadmill of endless tasks; it is about cultivating a peaceful, Christ-centered environment where your family can grow together. Take a deep breath, implement a few tools to share the load, and give yourself grace as you find your new rhythm. You’ve got this, mama, and God is walking right alongside you every step of the way. Here is to a beautiful, balanced, and blessed school year ahead!

Additional Resources

Hope and Refreshment for Homeschooling Parents

Need more ideas and advice on homeschooling? Pick up a copy of Homeschool Basics. Receive tried-and-true homeschool advice from veteran homeschooling moms Tricia Goyer and Kristi Clover. We dish out practical help on getting started and staying the course. Homeschool Basics will remind you that the best homeschooling starts with the heart.

Packed with ideas to help you push aside your fears and raise kids who will grow to be life-long learners. Kristi and I believe that homeschooling can transform your life, your home, and your family. Mostly, we believe homeschooling can truly prepare your children for the life God’s called them to live. Don’t let doubts hold you back any longer.

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Life, at times, can feel like an absolute battlefield of the heart. It’s an experience we all share—no matter who you are, where you live, or what your background is, everyone goes through times of trouble. We all face seasons where the pressure mounts, the challenges multiply, and we find ourselves wondering how we can possibly keep standing. Hardship is a universal language, and it is something we can all deeply relate to.

I remember several distinct seasons in my own journey where the spiritual and emotional battles felt constant. There were the years following the adoption of our children, when our daily routine was consumed by helping them heal from deep trauma, navigating behavioral meltdowns, and weathering emotional storms that tested every single ounce of my strength.

But the testing didn’t stop there. Our family walked through a season of providing round-the-clock care for my grandmother, balancing her fragile health with the needs of a busy household. Not long after, my in-laws moved in with us, bringing a beautiful but complex blending of generations under one roof. And then came the bittersweet battlefield of the heart that every parent understands—watching those same children we fought so hard for grow up, pack their bags, and move out into the world.

The Cry of the Heart

There were many nights across those changing years when I hid in the bathroom or sat in the quiet of the early morning, crying out to God, completely overwhelmed by the weight of it all.

When you obey God and step out in faith, it’s natural to expect the road to turn out smoothly. But what happens when it doesn’t? What happens when the road gets infinitely tougher than you ever anticipated?

If you are currently walking through a season that feels chaotic, exhausting, or downright adversarial, I want to remind your heart of an unshakeable truth: God’s promises are your anchor. True, deep-seated peace doesn’t come from a conflict-free life; it comes from knowing the Captain of the host is standing right there in the trenches with you.

Finding Your Stronghold in the Chaos

When the world around us seems to crumble, we have to look away from our circumstances and look directly at the unchanging nature of God. Psalm 46:1 promises us:

“God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.”

Notice it doesn’t say He will prevent the trouble from happening. It says He is an ever-present help right in the thick of it. His nature doesn’t fluctuate based on our bad days. He is just as good, just as powerful, and just as loving when you are facing a crisis as He is when you are sitting on a mountaintop.

We see this beautifully illustrated in Romans 8:28: “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” This iconic verse doesn’t mean every situation you face will be inherently good, but it does mean that God is a master weaver—He can take the sharpest, darkest threads of your pain and meticulously work them into a tapestry of redemption.

3 Ways to Overcome the Battles of the Heart with Goodness

When your heart feels under attack—whether from financial stress, family division, or emotional exhaustion—the enemy wants you to fight back using worldly weapons like anger, bitterness, or despair. Instead, God calls us to a completely different battle strategy:

• 1. Respond with Radical Love: Jesus gave us a revolutionary command in Matthew 5:44 to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us. When you are faced with hostility, a harsh word, or an unfair situation, responding with unexpected kindness completely disarms the dark.
• 2. Serve Your Way Through the Struggle: When anxiety tries to paralyze you, look outward. Find a small, practical way to serve your family, a neighbor, or your community. As Galatians 5:13 encourages us, “serve one another humbly in love.” Pouring love into someone else’s life has a beautiful way of clearing the fog over your own.
• 3. Put on Your Spiritual Armor: You cannot fight a spiritual battle with physical strength. When the waves of worry seem overwhelming, immerse yourself completely in Scripture. Stand firm on Ephesians 6 by actively wrapping yourself in the truth, righteousness, and peace that only Christ provides.

No matter how fierce the conflict around you grows, His grace remains entirely sufficient, and His ultimate victory is already bought and paid for.

A Prayer for the Battle-Weary Heart

Dear Heavenly Father, I come to You today seeking Your supernatural strength and guidance amid the personal battles I am facing. When my circumstances feel chaotic and my heart feels heavy, help me to anchor my soul firmly to Your unshakeable promises. Teach me to overcome negativity with Your goodness, and help me to trust in Your unfailing love even when the road is incredibly tough. Thank You for being my safe refuge and my constant strength. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Journal Prompts

• What specific promise of God can you actively mouth to yourself when you feel panic or weariness rising in your heart today?
• How can you respond with Christlike love to a person in your life who is currently very difficult to get along with?
• What is one simple act of service you can perform this week to lift someone else’s spirit and shine the light of Christ?

Additional Resources

Discover a Story of Faith in the Line of Fire

If you love stories about finding hope in the darkest of places, you won’t want to miss my historical novel, Flight of Fate.

Set against the harrowing backdrop of World War II, this gripping story follows characters who must navigate unimaginable dangers, secrets, and the terrifying realities of war. Yet, even when everything around them is falling apart, they discover that God’s hand is never too short to save, and His guidance is a perfect compass through the fog of war. It’s a powerful reminder for our own modern battles that God’s purposes will always prevail.

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If you are sitting at your kitchen table right now, staring at a fresh stack of homeschool curriculum and feeling a wave of overwhelm, fear, or deep self-doubt about the upcoming school year, please take a deep breath. You are not alone, and you are exactly the mom your children need.

Twenty years ago, when I was balancing a bustling house, a writing career, and homeschooling my oldest children, I constantly wrestled with the pressure to “do it all.” It’s easy to look at the calling of homeschooling and worry that you aren’t enough, or that your personal goals and dreams will completely swallow up the time you need for your family.

But giving your children everything doesn’t mean erasing who God made you to be. When we look at the familiar pages of Proverbs 31, we see a woman whose home was a launching pad for the whole family’s gifts. She was an entrepreneur and a creative soul who used her talents for God’s glory—and her husband and children rose up to call her blessed!

If you are just starting out and trying to find your footing, the secret isn’t to run faster; it’s to slow down and find a holy rhythm.

10 Ways to Slow Down and Find Balance

To protect your peace, your marriage, and your sanity, here are ten practical ways to create balance in your homeschool, spiritual life, and family:

1. Adopt a Morning Routine for Your Spirit: Fill your own cup before you try to pour into your children. Spend the first minutes of your day on your knees or in the Word, anchoring your heart in God’s peace.
2. Establish Fixed Learning Windows: Set clear boundaries for school time. For instance, dedicate your mornings entirely to lessons, leaving your afternoons open for personal projects, creative work, or rest.
3. Embrace the Power of Independent Play: You do not need to be your children’s 24/7 cruise director. Giving them unstructured time to build living room forts or put on backyard skits fosters deep sibling bonds and critical independence.
4. Batch Your Errands: Plan all grocery trips, post office runs, and doctor appointments for just one or two designated days a week. Running out of the house every single day is a massive time and energy killer.
5. Train Your Helping Hands: Homeschooling is a team sport. Train your children to take true ownership of household chores—like dishes, laundry sorting, and floor sweeping. It is excellent life training for them and a massive help for you.
6. Protect Your Evenings for Marriage: When your husband comes home, let the school books and work projects close down. Dedicate your evenings to cooking dinner together and nurturing your marriage.
7. Build a “Buffer Day” into Your Schedule: Don’t homeschool at maximum velocity five days a week. Use one day—like a “Friday Fun Day”—for library trips, nature walks, catching up, or just breathing room.
8. Outsource and Ask for Help: If it is within your budget, hiring someone to help clean for just a few hours every couple of weeks is worth every penny for your mental health and peace of mind.
9. Keep an “Un-Done” List: Instead of stressing over what you didn’t accomplish at the end of the day, write down three things God did help you handle, shifting your focus from performance to gratitude.
10. Find Your Tribe: You were never meant to do this journey in isolation. Surround yourself with like-minded mamas who can cheer you on when the days get heavy.

Journal Prompts

• What is the biggest fear or doubt you are carrying about your homeschool journey right now, and how can you surrender it to God today?
• Which of the ten steps above can you practically implement this week to bring more breathing room into your home?

A Prayer for the Overwhelmed Homeschool Mom

Heavenly Father, I pray for the mother reading this who is standing at the beginning of her homeschool journey feeling fearful, doubted, and overwhelmed. Quiet her anxious thoughts with Your perfect love. Remind her that You do not call the equipped, but You equip the called. Give her the wisdom to slow down, to set healthy boundaries around her time, and to protect her marriage and spiritual life above her to-do list. Let her home be filled with Your peace, and let her children watch her walk out her God-given assignments with joy. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Additional Resources

Finding Your Homeschool Tribe

Finding your people is one of the single most important things you can do for your homeschool journey. When you are just starting out, it is easy to feel isolated, as if you are the only mom on the block trying to decipher math curriculums while managing a household.

But homeschooling was never meant to be a solo sport. Finding true friends and a dedicated homeschool community isn’t just a nice bonus—it is vital for your emotional support, your mental health, and your family’s ability to thrive.

When you surround yourself with a community of like-minded parents, you gain a built-in sounding board for those days when a lesson plan falls completely flat. You find veteran moms who can look you in the eye and say, “I’ve been there, it gets better.” More than that, your children see that they are part of something bigger, forming deep friendships with peers who share their unique daily rhythms. A strong community turns what could be an overwhelming task into a shared adventure, giving you the collective strength to keep going when doubt creeps in.

If you are ready to find that vital support and connect with mamas who truly understand the unique juggle of homeschooling, family life, and personal well-being, I would love for you to join us over in my Facebook group, Healthy Homeschool Moms. It’s a safe, encouraging space where we focus on nourishing our spirits, taking care of our bodies, and lifting each other up so we can thrive together in every season of motherhood. You don’t have to walk this path alone!

From 2010 to 2016, John and I adopted seven children. First, we added one, then two more, and then four more. After all of the adoptions were finalized, we were homeschooling seven kids between the ages of 5 and 15. That’s a lot!

Trying to teach six different grade levels to seven different kids individually would have run a homeschool mom straight into a wall. The solution was to find a reliable system that let our family do a large chunk of core learning together.

The Goal: Learning Together and Loving It

When we had a large family, doing every subject separately with every child was a recipe for exhaustion. In my book, Homeschool Basics, I shared how finding a good system that let us do a massive chunk of our learning together was my ultimate sanity saver. By combining ages for subjects like history, literature, and science, we piled onto the couch, opened a book, and let the conversations flow.

The ultimate goal was not just to get through the material. We wanted our children to actually love learning. Educator Charlotte Mason captured this beautifully when she wrote, “The question is not, ‘how much does the youth know?’ when he has finished his education, but ‘how much does he care?'” (Mason, Home Education). Shared learning built an incredible family culture and gave siblings a common ground to laugh, ask questions, and grow over the same stories.

The Structure That Saved the Day

To make group learning actually work, we found we needed a predictable rhythm. Managing a simple homeschool schedule helped us develop daily routines and turned chaos into calm. In our home, we divided the school day into two main blocks: “Together Time” and “Independent Work.”

During Together Time, we gathered in the living room to cover content-rich subjects like Bible, history, read-alouds, and science. The older kids took more detailed notes or wrote a summary later, while the younger ones drew a picture of what they heard. We were all on the same topic, just engaging at different levels of depth.

After we finished our shared subjects, we transitioned to Independent Work. This was when students tackled skill-based subjects such as math, spelling, and language arts at their grade level. While the older kids worked on their own, I had the margin to sit one-on-one with the younger children to practice reading or explain a new math concept. As I have shared before, creating and managing a routine rather than a rigid schedule allowed for the flexibility families needed while still keeping everyone moving forward (Goyer, Teaching a Large Family). This structure provided boundaries without feeling restrictive.

A Rhythm, Not a Rigid Schedule

I found that trying to replicate a strict public school schedule at home usually led to frustration. Instead of assigning a rigid hour to every subject, we relied on managing a steady flow. Here was a glimpse of what our daily rhythm looked like:

• Morning Foundation: I prioritized time with God first, reading my Bible before the house woke up.
• Breakfast and Chores: Everyone pitched in. Having the kids managing some of the daily responsibilities kept the home running smoothly so the burden did not fall entirely on mom.
• Together Time: We gathered on the couch for our group subjects. We read historical novels, studied science concepts, and discussed our Bible lessons as a family.
• Independent Work: The kids shifted to their math and language arts curricula while I rotated through to help anyone who got stuck.
• Lunch and Free Time: We took a solid break. I encouraged the kids to play outside or work on their own creative projects.
• Afternoon Wrap-Up: We finished any lingering assignments or enjoyed a hands-on activity, leaving the evening completely free for family time.

Questions I Asked Myself

Before I overhauled our daily routine, it was essential to figure out our underlying goals. To create a schedule that fit our needs, I started by asking myself these critical questions:

1. Why did I homeschool, and what was my real reason for making this choice?
2. What would a great school-at-home day actually have looked like for us?
3. A year from now, what would I consider a true “success” for our family?
4. What values did I want my children to carry into adulthood when they completed their schooling?
5. What worked well in our then-current schedule, and what did I need to cut?

Taking the time to answer these questions helped build a schedule based on our actual priorities rather than someone else’s expectations.

Ditch the Checkboxes

It was incredibly easy to fall into the trap of measuring success by the number of completed worksheets. A friend of mine once confessed that her homeschool year had far too many “check the box” moments, and she craved more “explore and dig” moments instead. I could completely relate to that desire.

Managing a peaceful home was far more valuable than a completed lesson plan. When we stopped worrying about checking off every single box, we gave our children the freedom to follow rabbit trails and ask deep questions without feeling rushed.

How I Knew They Were Actually Learning

If I was not grading stacks of individual worksheets, how did I assess my kids’ progress? The answer was straightforward: verbal checks and simple quizzes.

As I read a history chapter or a science lesson aloud, I paused to ask questions. Having them narrate back what I just read was a fantastic verbal check that revealed exactly what they grasped. I also used simple quizzes in a low-pressure, conversational format. This immediate feedback ensured everyone was on track without the stress of formal testing.

Connecting How I Taught with How They Learned

The best curriculum choices fit both the student and the parent. It was vital to connect the ways I loved to teach with the ways my kids loved to learn.

If I were a mom who loved reading and discussing ideas, choosing a literature-based program energized me. My enthusiasm naturally drew the kids into the subject. I took time to identify my own priorities, observed the children’s learning tendencies, and found that sweet spot where my teaching style and their learning style intersected. When I enjoyed the process, my children did too.

Ultimately, managing many grade levels wasn’t about perfection or ticking every box on a curriculum chart. It was about creating a shared experience where learning was a journey we walked together. By establishing a predictable rhythm, prioritizing our core values, and embracing the flexibility to learn at our own pace, we turned potential chaos into a vibrant, educational home. Looking back, the most important outcome wasn’t the completion of every assignment, but the curiosity we cultivated and the family bond we strengthened along the way.

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