If you step into our home in Arkansas on any given morning, you will quickly find that my days are a beautiful, full mix of caring for family, book research, writing, and health coaching. But for years, much of my day was spent raising and educating ten children—including seven through adoption. The most I ever homeschooled at one time was seven kids, ranging from first to tenth grade. As one person, I could not have taught six or seven different grade levels at once. Instead, I found ways to help my kids help each other. Viewing our household as a collaborative team transformed the daily atmosphere from chaos to (mostly) cooperation. Here are a few battle-tested ways we cultivate teamwork and joy in our homeschool routine.

The “Buddy and Rotate” Station Method

When wrangling multiple ages, one-on-one time often felt tricky. In our home, pairing siblings strategically was a game-changer. While I sat down with a younger child for handwriting or phonics, an older sibling stepped up to help a middle child with reading or supervise a math game. We rotated these stations often. Not only did this keep little hands productively occupied, but it also built real leadership skills in older children, showing them that their contribution was vital to our family team. 

Side note: one of my daughters works as a special needs therapist. Two others work as preschool teachers for kids with special needs. Perhaps the “buddy and rotate” system gave them unique skills?

Teamwork through Cooperative Learning with a Loop Schedule

Inspired by the Charlotte Mason approach, I loved gathering the whole family together for shared learning. To keep us moving forward without stress, we relied on a loop schedule. We listed our enrichment subjects in order—such as Bible Study, a Geography map game, a history video, and read-to-me times. 

Once our core work was wrapped up, we spent twenty minutes on the next item on our loop. If a doctor’s appointment or daily routine interrupted our schedule, we simply picked up right where we left off the next day. It kept our whole crew connected and learning together on the same page.

Teamwork through Collaborative Oral Narration

Oral narration was one of our favorite tools after a shared read-aloud. Asking a child to share what they remembered allowed them to synthesize information, organize their thoughts, and speak with confidence. Of course, they didn’t understand that this was what they were doing at the time. They just thought they were answering questions orally instead of writing them down. 

I would also have them share what they’d learned with their dad—or even visiting family and friends—in the evenings. It gave my children a sense of accomplishment to share, and it helped them to see how much they were learning.

For the littlest ones, I wrote down their words or prayers in a keepsake journal. As the kids grew older, big brothers and sisters often jumped in to listen to and cheer on their younger siblings’ stories or prayers, turning everyday learning into a family victory.

Teamwork through Inclusive Activity Bins for Little Ones

To keep younger kids happily engaged alongside the rest of the crew, we created special activity bins reserved exclusively for school hours:

• Kinetic sand or play-dough with cookie cutters
• Sorting trays with large colorful pom-poms
• Water reveal coloring pads and stickers
• Pattern blocks and simple lacing cards

As they grew older, we added:

• Perler beads
• Legos
• Pattern blocks
• Watercolor

Offering these special, dedicated hands-on activities helped the youngest kids feel valued and included in the school routine alongside their big brothers and sisters.

Teamwork through Establishing Firm Daily Boundaries

One key to peace in our busy home was setting a clear finish line for seatwork. Yes, they still had to do workbooks, especially for vocabulary and spelling, and I would let them know how many pages they needed to finish that day. 

Establishing consistent daily boundaries gave everyone a shared goal to work toward. The children learned that focused diligence earned precious free time for group play, outdoor exploration, or family board games—and John and I could preserve our evenings for rest (ha, ha) and family activities

Looking back at those full mornings, I am constantly reminded that homeschooling was never meant to be a solo effort; it requires teamwork. By shifting our perspective from managing six different grades to nurturing a collaborative team, we turned what once felt like an impossible task into a feasible journey in which the kids learned together. 

Of course, we are a real family, and the journey wasn’t always seamless. There were still struggles, squabbles, and sometimes tears. Yet cultivating this team mindset was one tool that helped us keep things as smooth as possible, even amid the beautiful chaos of raising ten children.

Proverbs 16:3 (ESV) reminds us, “Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established.” When we surrender our routines to Jesus and invite our children to work together to figure things out, our daily chaos transforms into sweet sanctuary. During those years, we were building a foundation of faith, family unity, and lifelong learning that lasts far beyond the school years. It wasn’t easy, but it was worth it!

If you want to take this spirit of teamwork and harmony even deeper into your home, I share more of our family’s journey in my book, The Grumble Free Year. In it, I share practical tips and honest lessons on how we traded complaining for gratitude and cooperation—helping us cultivate a peaceful, joyful environment where our homeschool and family life could truly thrive.

An Exciting Opportunity

Have you ever dreamed of walking the cobblestone streets of Europe and stepping right into the pages of history? I would love to invite you to join me for a special adventure in August 2027. We are heading to the breathtaking city of Prague!

Writing historical fiction and navigating the homeschool journey has shown me that a beautiful adventure begins when we step into the very places where history was made. 

The 2027 Prague Experience offers three unique paths to fit your heart’s calling:

• The Mission Experience: Serve alongside local ministries and build meaningful relationships within the community.
• The Homeschool Experience: Bring history, literature, culture, and faith to life through immersive education for your family.
• The Leisure Experience: Take in the stunning architecture, enjoy authentic Czech cuisine, and share wonderful fellowship.

We will discover historic landmarks and celebrate a rich Christian heritage together. The itinerary is being finalized right now, and there is no obligation to simply learn more.

Join the priority list today to receive early registration opportunities, pricing details, and special updates directly from me!

As the autumn leaves begin to turn and the cool fall breeze sweeps through, there is nothing quite like wrapping up in a warm scarf, heading out for a brisk walk, or settling into a cozy corner with a great fiction story. Between raising teens, caregiving, writing, and tending to the (just sad) garden in my hydroponic tower, finding time to sit down with a physical book is nearly impossible. That is why audiobooks are my absolute favorite way to experience stories on the go. Whether you are taking a kickboxing class, painting with watercolors, or simply raking the leaves, having a skilled narrator bring characters to life is an incredible joy.

This fall, I challenge you to trade the grumbles of daily chores for the transformational power of a great story. To help you build your ultimate fall listening list, I have put together some of my audiobooks that will capture your imagination and the real, behind-the-scenes stories of how they came to be!

1. As Sure As the Stars (Co-authored with Jennie K. Drollinger)

Listen here: As Sure As the Stars

Imagine pulling into a coffee shop drive-thru on a freezing February morning and spotting your high school rival—and first love—in the car ahead of you, thirty-two years after they broke your heart. Can a love story survive a three-decade pause?

My Behind-the-Scenes Story: This novel is incredibly special to me because it is based on the unbelievable, real-life second-chance romance of my dear friends Bryan and Jennie Drollinger! Their reunion recently captured the nation’s heart, earning them the title of “America’s Favorite Couple” alongside Jeff Goldblum and Mary Steenburgen, and even being featured in Variety! 

Jennie first met Bryan in Alaska back in 1985; they were high school rivals who eventually fell in love, were separated by life, and reconnected thirty-two years later. Their journey of faith and destiny was so moving that I knew we had to write this book together!

2. Trust the Stars

Listen here: Trust the Stars

This compelling split-time novel weaves together two unforgettable stories of faith, love, and sacrifice. In the present day, Olivia travels to Kenya and unexpectedly meets Louis, unaware that he is actually Prince Louis of Alloria. As their connection deepens, Olivia must navigate her fear of vulnerability and the intense media spotlight accompanying a royal romance. 

Parallel to their story is the heart-wrenching World War II narrative of Princess Alessandra Appiani of Savoy, an Italian princess imprisoned in Buchenwald concentration camp after risking everything to protect her family and aid the resistance. Written across two eras, the novel explores how the quiet light of faith can guide us through the darkest seasons.

My Behind-the-Scenes Story: I got the idea for the story when I heard about a princess who had been in a concentration camp during World War II. Writing this story made me reflect deeply on how we navigate seasons of transition and uncertainty. I wanted to write a high-stakes romance that captures the feeling of looking up at the night sky and trusting that God is directing our steps, even when we cannot see the road ahead.

3. The Clockwork Chronicles Trilogy (Breath of Bones, Flight of Fate, and Twist of Time – Co-authored with Nathan Goyer)

Listen here: Breath of Bones | Flight of Fate | Twist of Time

What if a Jewish newspaper reporter in Nazi-occupied Prague was connected to an assassination of the “Butcher of Prague” and had to face the legendary Golem, while also standing against the Gestapo—all in a world filled with steampunk airships, robots, and Nazi spider tanks?

My Behind-the-Scenes Story: Writing this historical fantasy trilogy with my son, Nathan, was one of the greatest joys of my life! The idea was born in a moment of pure domestic chaos: I was actually in the middle of sweeping the floor when I suddenly paused, leaned on my broom, and asked Nathan: “What do you think about writing a WWII fantasy where Prague’s ancient Golem legend is reawakened, complete with steampunk elements?” 

Nathan immediately jumped on board! We spent hours brainstorming flying airships and massive steam-driven machines, creating a thrills-and-gears adventure that homeschool families and teens love.

4. The Seven Brides for Seven Bachelors Series (The Memory Jar, The Promise Box, and The Kissing Bridge)

Listen here: The Memory Jar | The Promise Box | The Kissing Bridge

Can a glass jar packed with secret keepsake trinkets and a dream of baking “fancy” cupcakes save a failing family business—and heal a heart that has been boarded up by grief? That’s the story behind The Memory Jar.

My Behind-the-Scenes Story: For fifteen years, I lived in northwestern Montana, just an hour away from the beautiful, remote West Kootenai community. When I visited local Amish families, I was fascinated to learn that thirty to forty young bachelors arrive there every spring to obtain hunting residency status for the fall! My imagination went wild thinking about what it is like for these young men arriving from across the country—and the young women waiting for them. I combined this unique tradition with my personal love for baking to create Sarah and her “fancy” cupcakes (they called me the “Amish Cupcake Boss”!).

5. The Big Sky Series (Beside Still Waters, Beyond the Gray Mountains, and Under the Blue Skies, On Golden Cliffs)

Listen here: Beside Still Waters | Beyond the Gray Mountains | Under the Blue Skies | On Golden Cliffs)

An eighteen-year-old Amish girl has her entire Indiana life and wedding planned out until her family packs their entire lives into two boxes each and moves to the rugged, wild frontier of Montana. How do you find peace when your simple world is completely turned upside down?

My Behind-the-Scenes Story: This modern-day pioneer romance was inspired by the incredible true story of my friends Ora Jay and Irene Eash, who moved to the Amish community in Montana in 1990. After sitting around their table numerous times over many months, listening to their deep tragedies (including the loss of their two daughters in a buggy accident) and their subsequent discovery of a grace-filled, personal relationship with Jesus, I knew their courage and faith had to be shared.

You can also listen to the Ora Jay and Irene’s true story in Plain Faith. Plain Faith was written directly with Ora Jay and Irene Eash to tell their true story of leaving the Amish and finding a grace-filled faith.

Listen Here: Plain Faith

6. The Amish Mysteries & Novellas (The Buggy Before the Horse, In the Fullness of Time, An Amish Garden, and An Amish Second Christmas)

Listen here: The Buggy Before the Horse | In the Fullness of Time | An Amish Garden | An Amish Second Christmas

My Behind-the-Scenes Story: In An Amish Garden, Sadie Chupp finds her greatest joy in the greenhouses in her Montana community. A company is interested in buying her heirloom seeds, but they are the only thing she has left from her deceased parents. Eli Plank is a traveling bachelor who believes he can help Sadie, but a misunderstanding leaves her heartbroken. Will she trust him again, and let the seeds of a new relationship take root?

7. Where Treetops Glisten (Co-authored with Cara Putman and Sarah Sundin)

Listen here: Where Treetops Glisten

Three heartwarming stories of courage, healing, and romance set during World War II, where the era’s iconic Christmas songs bring hope to weary souls on the home front and on the battlefield.

My Behind-the-Scenes Story: Co-authored with my dear friends Cara Putman and Sarah Sundin, this collection of novellas was inspired by the classic Christmas songs of the World War II era—such as “White Christmas,” “I’ll Be Home for Christmas,” and “Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas.” We wanted to capture how music could carry families through the deepest tragedies and keep hope alive during the dark years of war.

8. Non-Fiction Favorites

Listen here: Praying for Your Future Husband | The Grumble Free Year |  Faith That Sticks | Every Little Win | Heart Happy | Prayers That Changed History | Daily Bible Reader

Real, raw, and deeply encouraging guides to finding peace, joy, and spiritual growth in the middle of life’s most chaotic moments.

My Behind-the-Scenes Story: These books are born directly from my personal journey as a mother, wife, and believer. 

Praying for Your Future Husband, co-authored with Robin Jones Gunn, was inspired by our shared desire to help young women prepare their hearts for God’s perfect timing. 

Heart Happy was written in the thick of parenting our busy household, finding joy and staying centered in God’s love through chaotic circumstances.

Listening to these faith-filled stories is a fantastic way to uplift your spirit this autumn. 

What are your favorite audiobooks to listen to as the weather cools down? Let me know in the comments below!

An Exciting Opportunity

Have you ever dreamed of walking the cobblestone streets of Europe and stepping right into the pages of history? I would love to invite you to join me for a special adventure in August 2027. We are heading to the breathtaking city of Prague!

Writing historical fiction and navigating the homeschool journey has shown me that a beautiful adventure begins when we step into the very places where history was made. 

The 2027 Prague Experience offers three unique paths to fit your heart’s calling:

• The Mission Experience: Serve alongside local ministries and build meaningful relationships within the community.
• The Homeschool Experience: Bring history, literature, culture, and faith to life through immersive education for your family.
• The Leisure Experience: Take in the stunning architecture, enjoy authentic Czech cuisine, and share wonderful fellowship.

We will discover historic landmarks and celebrate a rich Christian heritage together. The itinerary is being finalized right now, and there is no obligation to simply learn more.

Join the priority list today to receive early registration opportunities, pricing details, and special updates directly from me!

The kitchen is one of the most effective classrooms in a homeschool home. Over years of raising ten children, I’ve discovered that teaching kids to prepare simple, wholesome, homemade dishes creates practical life skills and wonderful moments of connection. While a crisp Caesar salad feels like a special treat, turning it into a family project makes it even sweeter.

When we invite our children into meal preparation, we teach them stewardship, service, and hospitality.

Homemade with Gratitude

In the Old Testament, God reminded His people to give thanks for the good things of the land. Deuteronomy 8:10 says, “When you have eaten and are satisfied, praise the Lord your God for the good land he has given you.”

Preparing a fresh, green salad allows us to pause and appreciate the wholesome ingredients God provides. From crisp Romaine to golden croutons, teaching children to build a meal from scratch helps them connect the food on their plates to the Creator who provides all good gifts.

Serving One Another in Love

Cooking together gives children an opportunity to serve their family with joy. Jesus taught us that true leadership comes through serving others. When a child tears the lettuce, whisks the dressing, or bakes croutons, they are contributing to the family table in a meaningful way.

Making an approachable homemade version of Caesar dressing—without raw eggs or anchovies—gives kids confidence in the kitchen while creating a crowd-pleasing dish everyone looks forward to sharing.

Hands-On Learning Tasks

Preschool – Early Elementary (Ages 3–7)

• Lettuce Shredders: Wash Romaine leaves and tear them into bite-sized pieces.
• Crouton Seasoners: Toss bread cubes with olive oil, garlic powder, and Italian seasoning in a large bowl.
• Dressing Whiskers: Measure mayonnaise, yogurt, lemon juice, and seasonings into a bowl and whisk until smooth.

Upper Elementary (Ages 8–11)

• Bread Cube Master: Cut sourdough or French bread into uniform crouton cubes using a serrated knife.
• Cheese Grater: Safely grate fresh Parmesan cheese using a box grater.
• Salad Tosser: Combine all ingredients in a large bowl and gently toss with the homemade dressing.

Middle & High Schoolers (Ages 12+)

• Stovetop Chef: Season chicken breasts and cook them in a skillet over medium heat until they reach an internal temperature of 165°F.
• Oven Prep: Toast the croutons in the oven at 375°F until golden brown and crispy.

Kid-Friendly Homemade Chicken Caesar Salad

This recipe simplifies traditional Caesar salad with a child-approved dressing and homemade garlic croutons that kids love to make.

• Prep Time: 20 Minutes
• Cook Time: 15 Minutes
• Servings: 6–8

Ingredients:

• Salad Base: 2 heads Romaine lettuce (washed & chopped), 1½ lbs sliced grilled or pan-seared chicken breast, 1 cup freshly grated Parmesan cheese.
• Homemade Garlic Croutons: 4 cups cubed French bread or sourdough, 3 Tbsp olive oil or melted butter, 1 tsp garlic powder, ½ tsp Italian seasoning, pinch of salt.
• Easy Kid-Friendly Dressing: ½ cup mayonnaise, ¼ cup Greek yogurt (or extra mayo), 2 Tbsp lemon juice, 1 tsp Worcestershire sauce, 1 minced garlic clove, ⅓ cup finely grated Parmesan cheese, salt & black pepper to taste.

Step-by-Step Instructions:

1. Make the Croutons: Preheat your oven to 375°F. Toss bread cubes with olive oil, garlic powder, Italian seasoning, and salt in a large bowl. Spread evenly on a baking sheet and bake for 10–12 minutes until golden brown and crunchy. Set aside to cool.
2. Cook the Chicken: Season chicken breasts with salt, pepper, and a splash of olive oil. Cook in a skillet over medium heat for 6–7 minutes per side until the internal temperature reaches 165°F. Let the chicken rest for a few minutes, then slice into bite-sized strips.
3. Whisk the Dressing: In a medium bowl, whisk together the mayonnaise, Greek yogurt, lemon juice, Worcestershire sauce, minced garlic, Parmesan cheese, salt, and pepper until completely smooth.
4. Toss the Salad: Place the chopped Romaine lettuce into a large serving bowl. Add the cooked chicken strips, homemade garlic croutons, and extra grated Parmesan cheese. Drizzle the dressing over the top and toss gently to coat.
5. Serve & Enjoy: Divide into bowls and serve fresh at your family table!

Print the recipe here!

Tips for Making Your Kitchen a Place of Connection

• Prioritize Presence: Put away screens during prep time to let conversation flow naturally.
• Embrace Imperfection: Let the lettuce pieces be uneven and the croutons rustic. Process matters more than perfection.
• Start with Gratitude: Pause before the meal to thank God for the food and the hands that prepared it.

A Prayer for Your Family Table

Lord, thank You for the bounty You provide and the joy of working together in the kitchen to make a delicious, homemade meal. Bless this food to nourish our bodies and these moments to strengthen our family bonds. May our home always be filled with Your peace and hospitality. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

An Exciting Opportunity

Have you ever dreamed of walking the cobblestone streets of Europe and stepping right into the pages of history? I would love to invite you to join me for a special adventure in August 2027. We are heading to the breathtaking city of Prague!

Writing historical fiction and navigating the homeschool journey has shown me that a beautiful adventure begins when we step into the very places where history was made. 

The 2027 Prague Experience offers three unique paths to fit your heart’s calling:

• The Mission Experience: Serve alongside local ministries and build meaningful relationships within the community.
• The Homeschool Experience: Bring history, literature, culture, and faith to life through immersive education for your family.
• The Leisure Experience: Take in the stunning architecture, enjoy authentic Czech cuisine, and share wonderful fellowship.

We will discover historic landmarks and celebrate a rich Christian heritage together. The itinerary is being finalized right now, and there is no obligation to simply learn more.

Join the priority list today to receive early registration opportunities, pricing details, and special updates directly from me!

If you have ever caught yourself staring at the clock at 2:00 PM—laundry piling up on the couch, kids bouncing off the walls, and half your homeschool lesson plan left untouched—I want to give you a gentle reminder: you are not alone. That heavy, familiar weight lands on all our shoulders at times: Am I really doing enough? Are my sweet kids falling behind?

Most of our stress comes from trying to bring a traditional classroom right onto our kitchen tables. A teacher managing twenty-five students needs seven hours just to handle line-ups, attendance, bathroom breaks, and paperwork. But at home with our children, true one-on-one teaching happens in small, beautifully effective moments.

There’s a Better (and Easier!) Way

When I first began to homeschool my oldest, I assumed our days would stretch into endless hours. I felt so much relief when I realized how unnecessary that was. Just fifteen minutes of your focused love and attention accomplishes what might take hours in a crowded classroom, where lessons have to move at a single pace for a large group.

When we build our days around real relationships and natural homeschool rhythms instead of rigid hourly schedules, real learning blossoms. Instead of racing against an unforgiving clock, we open up space for true connection, joyful discovery, and heart-to-heart conversations.

When your homeschool schedule fits the heartbeat of your unique family, learning becomes a welcoming, shared adventure rather than a stressful checklist. By gathering together for core subjects, keeping individual lessons brief, and leaning into a flexible rhythm, your entire home can thrive without the exhausting burnout.

How to Homeschool Multiple Ages Without Replicating the Classroom

1. Group Subjects: One Table, Multiple Ages

Teaching several children doesn’t mean you have to run four different schools under one roof. Trying to maintain entirely separate programs for every subject and child is a quick path to complete mama exhaustion.

Learning together brings such sweet unity to our homeschool mornings. You can all cozy up around the table with a Morning Basket to read wonderful stories, memorize Scripture, enjoy beautiful art, and explore history or science side by side.

History and Literature: Read a rich, living book aloud. Your older child can write a thoughtful essay or draw a detailed map, while your little one draws a picture and eagerly tells you what they remembered from the story.

Science and Nature Study: Explore the life cycle of a plant together. Your younger child can sketch the little sprout in their journal, while your older child digs into soil science and plant biology.

Beyond academics, learning as a family gives our kids daily practice in listening, offering help, and showing genuine patience to one another. As Paul gently reminds us:

"Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony." - Colossians 3:12–14 (ESV)

2. The Power of Short, Focused Lessons

Little minds simply aren’t built for long, drawn-out lessons. When seatwork drags on, focus fades, and tears start flowing for both parent and child.

Charlotte Mason, an insightful 19th-century educator, loved using short, focused lessons. She famously taught that “education is an atmosphere, a discipline, a life,” encouraging us to use rich, engaging books rather than dull worksheets, and showing how brief lessons protect a child’s natural wonder.

• For young children, fifteen to twenty minutes of concentration on math or reading builds far more understanding than an hour of weary struggle.
• Set a timer for twenty minutes during skill-based subjects (math, grammar, phonics).
• Work alongside your child with your full attention.
• When the timer goes off, stop and transition, even if the worksheet is not completely finished.

This boundary keeps their love for learning bright and builds healthy attention habits without making school feel like a test of endurance.

3. Establish a Daily Homeschool Rhythm Over a Rigid Hourly Schedule

Strict hourly homeschool schedules (like 8:00 AM Math, 8:45 AM Spelling, 9:30 AM History) can leave us feeling defeated the moment a toddler spills juice or a math problem needs a few extra hugs and explanations.

A natural daily rhythm honors the flow of your home rather than the numbers on the clock:

Morning Gathering & Devotions (Living Books, Scripture, Read-Aloud)

↓

Individual Skill Work (Focused Math & Phonics intervals)

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Lunch & Outdoor Movement

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Independent Reading, Nature Study, or Creative Project Time

When life happens—and it always does!—you can simply ease into the next step of your rhythm without feeling like your whole day fell apart.

4. Cast Aside the Guilt

Why do we feel guilty? First, because we care. Yet that quiet pressure to judge our worth by how many hours we spend “teaching” stems from underlying worry. We may worry about what others might think. Or we let fear about the future steal today’s peace. 

When our seven-year-old doesn’t know the days of the week or our ten-year-old still struggles with multiplication facts, we project into the future… How will we ever get through high school?  Scripture gives us such sweet comfort when those heavy worries creep in.

"Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." - Philippians 4:6

God’s Word also reminds is that each day has enough worries of it’s own. 

When worry creeps in, the best thing to do is take your focused energy off the problem and put it into the solution. As that worry takes root, I have to make a choice. It’s impossible to dwell on a problem and work on a solution at the same time. The brain just doesn’t work that way. 

So, when those anxious thoughts about math facts or missed homeschool lessons start spinning, I force myself to pivot. I take that heavy, anxious energy and consciously shift it. I stop obsessing over the “what ifs” and start asking, “What’s one small step I can take right now to help my child?” When I put that focused energy into the solution, the worry loses its power.

Remember, the Lord did not ask you to recreate a formal school building in your living room. He invited you to lovingly guide the hearts and minds of your precious children in this special season. So when 2:00 PM rolls around, you don’t have to stare at the clock with a heavy heart, feeling like you’ve fallen short. A simple three-hour homeschool rhythm gives you the freedom to step away from rigid expectations, trusting that brief, focused moments of loving connection accomplish far more than a long day of frustration ever could.

A Prayer for the Homeschool Family

Lord, grant us your deep peace and divine wisdom as we guide our children each day. Help us let go of worry, release the pressure to replicate a classroom, and joyfully embrace the sweet, simple beauty of this present season. Amen.

An Exciting Opportunity

Have you ever dreamed of walking the cobblestone streets of Europe and stepping right into the pages of history? I would love to invite you (and your homeschool family!) to join me for a special adventure in August 2027. We are heading to the breathtaking city of Prague!

Writing historical fiction and navigating the homeschool journey has shown me that a beautiful adventure begins when we step into the very places where history was made. 

The 2027 Prague Experience offers three unique paths to fit your heart’s calling:

• The Mission Experience: Serve alongside local ministries and build meaningful relationships within the community.
• The Homeschool Experience: Bring history, literature, culture, and faith to life through immersive education for your family.
• The Leisure Experience: Take in the stunning architecture, enjoy authentic Czech cuisine, and share wonderful fellowship.

We will discover historic landmarks and celebrate a rich Christian heritage together. The itinerary is being finalized right now, and there is no obligation to simply learn more.

Join the priority list today to receive early registration opportunities, pricing details, and special updates directly from me!

It was an ordinary Tuesday when I went to pick up my husband from the hospital after a routine procedure. It was a simple outpatient scope. My older son had dropped off John while I ran some errands, and I arrived in time for pickup. Yet when I walked into the office area, a doctor was waiting for me.

“Mrs. Goyer there were some problems with the procedure, and your husband is currently being worked on.”
My heartbeat quickened, and a boulder grew in my stomach. “How bad is it?”
“It was scary for a minute, but he should be fine. My guess is that he’ll need to stay in the hospital for a few days.”

When I rushed back to John, thankfulness filled my heart, and there was also a peace that I couldn’t explain. When I’d woken up that morning, I had no thought of anything different happening other than the day full of errands that I’d had planned. My husband having a major medical problem hadn’t been on my mind. And even though it was scary, John returned home five days later. He also shared God’s goodness with everyone who entered his hospital room. 

I also discovered something about myself. Even with the scary news, I had peace, knowing that God was with me. Knowing God isn’t just a cerebral thing. It’s not just about having enough facts; the reality of God tips the scale more to one side or the other. Instead, through the years of reading my Bible, seeking God, and walking in fellowship with Him, I have a true knowing of God’s character. I know God loves me and will take care of me. I know that God will be with me through every challenge, every heartbreak.

Knowing God

Sometimes we forget that the God described in the Bible is the same one who is active and present in our lives. We learn about God’s character and nature in the Old Testament, and we witness it in the New Testament. And when I understand God’s character in these ways, it helps me to trust that He will act in a similar manner with me today … and every day.

The very nature of God the Father in the Old Testament breathes life right through the actions and words of Jesus in the New Testament. Jesus is the visible image of the invisible God. During His time walking around the earth, He showed us exactly what the Father’s character looks like in action. We know God for ourselves as we read and study. Yet we know these things to be true when we witness them in our own lives. 

10 Evidences of the Character of God

These ten examples illustrate who God is and how understanding His character can transform our daily lives.

1. The Compassionate God

Old Testament (The Father): “The Lord is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love.” (Psalm 103:8, NIV)

New Testament (Jesus): “When he saw the crowds, he had compassion on them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.” (Matthew 9:36, NIV)

2. The Good Shepherd

Old Testament (The Father): “The Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing.” (Psalm 23:1, NIV)

New Testament (Jesus): “I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep.” (John 10:11, NIV)

Not a single loophole or worry or fear is left to the soul that knows God. –Hannah Whitall Smith

3. The Forgiver of Sins

Old Testament (The Father): “I, even I, am he who blots out your transgressions, for my own sake, and remembers your sins no more.” (Isaiah 43:25, NIV)

New Testament (Jesus): “When Jesus saw their faith, he said to the paralyzed man, ‘Son, your sins are forgiven.'” (Mark 2:5, NIV)

4. The Light of Salvation

Old Testament (The Father): “The Lord is my light and my salvation, whom shall I fear?” (Psalm 27:1, NIV)

New Testament (Jesus): “When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, ‘I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.'” (John 8:12, NIV)

5. The Great Healer

Old Testament (The Father): “For I am the Lord, who heals you.” (Exodus 15:26, NIV)

New Testament (Jesus): “Jesus went throughout Galilee, teaching in their synagogues, proclaiming the good news of the kingdom, and healing every disease and sickness among the people.” (Matthew 4:23, NIV)

6. The Creator of All Things

Old Testament (The Father): “Do you not know? Have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth.” (Isaiah 40:28, NIV)

New Testament (Jesus): “For in him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things have been created through him and for him.” (Colossians 1:16, NIV)

7. The Righteous Judge

Old Testament (The Father): “God is a righteous judge, a God who displays his wrath every day.” (Psalm 7:11, NIV)

New Testament (Jesus): “Moreover, the Father judges no one, but has entrusted all judgment to the Son.” (John 5:22, NIV)

8. The Faithful Provider

Old Testament (The Father): “The eyes of all look to you, and you give them their food at the proper time. You open your hand and satisfy the desires of every living thing.” (Psalm 145:15-16, NIV)

New Testament (Jesus): “He took the seven loaves and the fish, and when he had given thanks, he broke them and gave them to the disciples, and they in turn to the people. They all ate and were satisfied.” (Matthew 15:36-37, NIV)

9. The Holy God

Old Testament (The Father): “For I am the Lord your God; consecrate yourselves and be holy, because I am holy.” (Leviticus 11:44, NIV)

New Testament (Jesus): “Such a high priest truly meets our need, one who is holy, blameless, pure, set apart from sinners, exalted above the heavens.” (Hebrews 7:26, NIV)

10. The Embodiment of Love

Old Testament (The Father): “The Lord your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves. He will take great delight in you; in his love he will no longer rebuke you, but will rejoice over you with singing.” (Zephaniah 3:17, NIV)

New Testament (Jesus): “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” (John 15:13, NIV)

Every page of Scripture points us toward a God who loves us deeply and consistently. Seeing how Jesus modeled the Father’s heart gives us a solid foundation for our faith today. It was this very foundation that sustained me in that quiet hospital room with John. 

The peace I felt in that moment wasn’t random or circumstantial; it was rooted directly in these unchanging truths of who God is. Knowing Him as our Compassionate Shepherd, Faithful Provider, and Great Healer transforms abstract theology into a living anchor when unexpected storms hit, filling our hearts with a supernatural rest that passes all understanding.

Discussion Questions

1. Which character trait of God mentioned above resonates most with your current season of life, and why?

2. Can you recall a time when you experienced unexpected peace during a stressful or fearful situation? How did knowing God shape that experience?

3. How can actively reflecting on the connection between God’s character in the Old Testament and Jesus’ actions in the New Testament strengthen your daily walk with Him?

A Prayer to Know God More

Heavenly Father, thank You for revealing Your true character and nature through Your Word and through the life of Your Son, Jesus. Help us to know You not just with head knowledge, but through a personal, daily trust in Your unfailing love and goodness. When unexpected challenges and storms arrive, ground our hearts in Your peace that passes all understanding. Remind us that You are our Shepherd, Healer, Provider, and constant Companion. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

An Exciting Opportunity

Have you ever dreamed of walking the cobblestone streets of Europe and stepping right into the pages of history? I would love to invite you to join me for a special adventure in August 2027. We are heading to the breathtaking city of Prague!

Writing historical fiction and navigating the homeschool journey has shown me that a beautiful adventure begins when we step into the very places where history was made. 

The 2027 Prague Experience offers three unique paths to fit your heart’s calling:

• The Mission Experience: Serve alongside local ministries and build meaningful relationships within the community.
• The Homeschool Experience: Bring history, literature, culture, and faith to life through immersive education for your family.
• The Leisure Experience: Take in the stunning architecture, enjoy authentic Czech cuisine, and share wonderful fellowship.

We will discover historic landmarks and celebrate a rich Christian heritage together. The itinerary is being finalized right now, and there is no obligation to simply learn more.

Join the priority list today to receive early registration opportunities, pricing details, and special updates directly from me!

Real life has a funny way of interrupting our best-laid lesson plans with one constant truth: people have to eat!

My family still expects food in the fridge and dinner on the table every single day. Over the years, as our family grew and life stayed busy, I made it my mission to collect easy, delicious recipes that feed a crowd without keeping me glued to the stove all afternoon.

This Taco Soup recipe was given to me by a former editor, and it has been a staple in our home for well over twenty years. Even now that my kids are older, it remains an absolute family favorite. It is rich, comforting, full of veggies, virtually foolproof, and best of all, it turns your kitchen into a hands-on learning lab where kids of all ages can pitch in and help.

Print your copy of the recipe here!

Fast and Easy Taco Soup

Prep time: 15 minutes | Cook time: 45-60 minutes (or 4 hours on LOW in a slow cooker) | Servings: 8-10

Ingredients

• 2 lbs ground beef (or ground turkey)
• 1 large onion, chopped
• 1 can pinto or kidney beans
• 2 cans chili beans
• 1 can whole kernel corn
• 1 can white corn
• 2 cans Mexi-corn
• 1 can stewed tomatoes (Mexican style)
• 1 can Ro-Tel diced tomatoes and green chilies
• 1 packet taco seasoning mix
• 1 packet original Ranch dressing mix

For Serving: Tortilla chips or warm cornbread, shredded cheese, sour cream, sliced jalapeños, and salsa.

Step-by-Step Instructions

1. Brown the Meat: In a large stockpot or Dutch oven, brown the ground beef and chopped onion over medium-high heat until the meat is fully cooked and the onions are soft. Drain off any excess fat.
2. Combine the Cans: Add the taco seasoning and Ranch dressing mix to the meat, stirring well. Next, dump in all the canned beans, corn, and tomatoes. Do not drain any of the cans—the juices create the flavorful broth!
3. Simmer and Serve: Stir everything together thoroughly. Bring the pot to a gentle simmer, then turn the heat to low, cover, and let it simmer for at least 45 to 60 minutes so the flavors meld together. Alternatively, transfer everything to a slow cooker and cook on LOW for 3–4 hours.
4. Garnish: Ladle into big bowls and top with your favorite fixings!

Tricia’s Kitchen Tip: This recipe is wildly forgiving. Don’t like onions? Leave them out. Missing a specific type of corn? Swap in whatever canned veggies or beans you have sitting in your pantry. You can also throw in a small can of green chilies if you are out of Ro-Tel. You truly cannot mess this up!

Print your copy of the recipe here!

How to Get Kids of All Ages Helping in the Kitchen

Involving your kids in meal preparation isn’t just a great way to lighten your workload; it doubles as practical math, life skills, and team building. Cooking together gives us a chance to slow down, talk about our day, and practice serving one another.

Here is how you can delegate this recipe based on age:

Preschool to Early Elementary (Ages 3–7)

• Can Duty: Let younger kids hunt through the pantry to find the right cans of beans, corn, and tomatoes.
• Pouring and Dumping: Once an adult opens the cans, little ones can safely dump the contents straight into the pot or slow cooker.
• Tearing and Crushing: Have them crush tortilla chips into bowls or tear up fresh cilantro for garnishing.

Upper Elementary (Ages 8–11)

• Measuring and Seasoning: Let them open the seasoning packets, measure out toppings like cheese and sour cream, and practice reading the recipe steps out loud.
• Can Opener Master: Under supervision, this is the perfect age to master using a manual or electric can opener.
• Prep the Toppings: Teach them how to safely slice green onions or dice avocado with a butter knife or child-safe nylon knife.

Middle & High Schoolers (Ages 12+)

• Stovetop Duty: Older kids can take charge of browning the ground beef, chopping the onions with a chef’s knife, and monitoring the pot as it simmers.
• Scale the Recipe: Challenge your middle or high schooler to practice fraction math by doubling or halving the recipe based on your family’s needs for the night.
• Sous Chef Status: Turn the entire meal over to your teen once or twice a month so they build confidence cooking complete dinners for the family before heading off to college or adulthood.

Nourishing Hearts and Homes

Scripture reminds us that gathering around the table to share a meal is about far more than just filling hungry bellies—it is about cultivating gratitude and Christian fellowship within our homes:

“They worshiped together at the Temple each day, met in homes for the Lord’s Supper, and shared their meals with great joy and generosity.” — Acts 2:46 (NLT)

When we bring our children into the kitchen, we teach them that feeding a family is an act of love, service, and hospitality.

Homework for Homeschool Moms

Sometime this week, hand this recipe over to your kids! Assign each child a job based on their skill level, step back, and let them take ownership of making dinner.

A Prayer for the Family Table

Heavenly Father, thank You for Your faithful provision in our lives and for the daily blessing of food on our table. As we gather in our kitchens to cook and share meals together, fill our home with Your peace, laughter, and joy. Help us to use these simple, everyday moments of meal prep to teach our children life skills, patience, and a heart for serving others. Bless our conversations around the dinner table, and let our home be a place of sanctuary and warmth for all who enter. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

YOUR TURN! What is your family’s favorite “go-to” easy weeknight dinner? Do your kids have a favorite job in the kitchen? Drop your recipes and tips in the comments below!

An Exciting Opportunity

Have you ever dreamed of walking the cobblestone streets of Europe and stepping right into the pages of history? I would love to invite you to join me for a special adventure in August 2027. We are heading to the breathtaking city of Prague!

Writing historical fiction and navigating the homeschool journey has shown me that a beautiful adventure begins when we step into the very places where history was made. 

The 2027 Prague Experience offers three unique paths to fit your heart’s calling:

• The Mission Experience: Serve alongside local ministries and build meaningful relationships within the community.
• The Homeschool Experience: Bring history, literature, culture, and faith to life through immersive education for your family.
• The Leisure Experience: Take in the stunning architecture, enjoy authentic Czech cuisine, and share wonderful fellowship.

We will discover historic landmarks and celebrate a rich Christian heritage together. The itinerary is being finalized right now, and there is no obligation to simply learn more.

Join the priority list today to receive early registration opportunities, pricing details, and special updates directly from me!

It’s a strange thing to admit: as a homeschool mom, I was rarely by myself, but there were many, many seasons when I felt lonely. My children were with me all day—and often all night, depending on who needed a drink, couldn’t sleep, or suddenly remembered something important at bedtime.

There were lessons to teach, meals to prepare, dishes to wash, appointments to remember, and laundry that multiplied when I wasn’t looking. Add writing books and household and ministry responsibilities, and every hour already had an assignment. I was surrounded by people I loved, yet I sometimes felt deeply lonely. Maybe you’ve felt that way too.

Loneliness doesn’t always mean we’re physically alone. Sometimes it means we don’t have enough space to be seen as a person—not only as Mom, teacher, cook, driver, nurse, and household manager.

We love our children. We’re thankful we get to educate them. But we can love homeschooling and still admit that it’s hard. A full house doesn’t always mean a full heart. Yet the good news is that we don’t have to stay lonely. But before I get to the tips, let’s dig a bit deeper into the reality of our unique situation.

Why Homeschool Moms Can Feel So Lonely

Homeschooling asks a lot from a mother. We are educating our children, but that usually isn’t our only job. We’re also caring for our homes, planning meals, paying bills, managing schedules, helping aging parents, serving at church, and trying to maintain our marriages.

Many homeschool moms also have part-time jobs, businesses, ministries, or work-from-home careers. Because the work happens at home, others may assume it is flexible. But “flexible” doesn’t mean “free.” 

Personally, I write two or three (sometimes more!) books a year, and while I can switch up my writing, there are still deadlines, meetings, and emails. Just like there is always a to-do list running through my mind as a homeschool mom, there’s always a to-do list running through my mind as a professional writer, too.

In addition to work duties, when your children are with you twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week, it can be hard to find time to meet a friend for coffee—or even finish a phone conversation without someone needing help with a math problem.

For many years, things like coffee dates and book clubs felt impossible to me. Only recently, with my two youngest children now in high school, have I been able to add a few of those activities to my week.

I can now meet a friend for coffee or attend a book club at our local library. Those may sound like small things, but they have been life-giving. Before this season, getting away felt nearly impossible.

If that’s where you are today, please hear this: you aren’t doing something wrong. You may simply be in an intense season. Not every season has the same capacity.

You may not be able to build your friendships the way someone with older children does. You may not have childcare, extra money, or an open evening. That doesn’t mean connection is out of reach. It may simply need to look different right now.

The Homeschool Co-op I Didn’t Technically Need

One of the best decisions I made was joining a homeschool co-op. Honestly, it would have taken less time and energy to manage my children’s lessons on my own. Getting everyone ready, packing supplies and lunches, driving to the co-op, and spending the day there added more work to our schedule. 

But I realized that efficiency wasn’t our family’s only need. My children needed friends. And I needed friends too.

At our co-op, parents were required to stay with their children. This meant that I spent one entire day every week at the co-op. At first, that might sound like one more obligation. Instead, it became something I looked forward to every week.

I interacted with other parents and teachers. I got to know the other children. At lunchtime, I sat with other homeschool moms and talked.

We didn’t always discuss deep subjects. Sometimes we talked about curriculum, meals, children, or the strange things that had happened during our week. Yet those conversations reminded me that I wasn’t the only one trying to teach fractions while keeping up with laundry and wondering what to make for dinner. Over time, our relationships grew beyond co-op day. We planned other activities and began connecting outside of classes.

Coming out of the COVID lock-down, it was exactly what my children and I needed.

The most efficient homeschool isn’t always the healthiest homeschool. Sometimes we need to make room for something that takes more time because it gives us something more valuable: community.

You Don’t Need a Perfect Homeschool Group

Not every family has access to a large co-op. Maybe the co-ops near you are full, expensive, too far away, or simply not a good fit. Connection doesn’t have to begin with a formal program. It can start with one other mom. Here are some things I’ve done that you might try:

• Invite another homeschool family to meet at the park. The children can play while the moms talk. Bring coffee from home and let the children run.
• Plan a nature walk together. Meet at the library. Take turns hosting a simple lunch. Choose one science experiment, art project, or history activity to do as a group.
• You can also share the teaching load. Maybe one parent enjoys science while another loves art. One can lead an experiment while the other organizes a craft. The point isn’t to create a complicated program. The point is to stop carrying everything alone.

Community doesn’t have to be complicated to be meaningful. Choose a few that you can start with:

• Meet another family at a park twice a month.
• Invite a mom and her children over for lunch.
• Host a weekly summer Bible Study for other moms and kids
• Plan a monthly field trip with two or three families.
• Start a simple book club for moms.
• Create a group text where homeschool parents can encourage one another.
• Work on a science, art, or history project together.
• Ask another mom to exchange childcare for an hour.
• Meet at the library while older children work independently.
• Take a walk with another mom while the children ride bikes.
• Invite a family over for pizza without cleaning the whole house first.

Don’t wait to start! Don’t wait until your home is perfect, your schedule is peaceful, or your children are always well-behaved. If we wait until life is easy to build relationships, we may wait a very long time.

When Comparison Keeps Us Apart

Sometimes a lack of opportunity isn’t the only thing keeping us from friendship. Sometimes the barrier is inside us. If you’re hesitant to reach out to other moms, pause and ask yourself why.

Are you afraid you won’t fit in? Are you worried your children will misbehave? Do you feel embarrassed by your home? Are you concerned that another mom will judge your homeschool choices? Or do you struggle with comparison?

Comparison kept one of my dearest friends, Tara, and me from becoming friends for three years. We were both homeschool moms, and we knew of each other. Yet I would look at what Tara was accomplishing and feel as if I didn’t measure up. What I didn’t know was that she was doing the same thing when she looked at me.

Each of us saw the other woman’s strengths and compared them to our own insecurities. Then our families finally met up. Our spouses came too, and we all hit it off. Tara and I discovered how much we enjoyed each other. A beautiful friendship began. But I was sad when I thought of the three years we had missed.

Comparison had convinced each of us that the other woman had everything together. It built an invisible wall between two women who could have been encouraging each other.

Comparison turns potential friends into imaginary competitors.

The mom you find intimidating may be looking at you and feeling exactly the same way. She may appear confident but feel lonely. She may seem organized but be struggling in an area you can’t see.

We often compare someone else’s visible strengths with our hidden struggles. That comparison will never be fair. What would happen if, instead of pulling away, you took one small step closer?

What Scripture Says About Friendship

God did not design us to carry life alone. Ecclesiastes 4:9–10 teaches that two people are better than one because one can help the other when she falls. Homeschool moms need people who will help us get back up—not people who expect us never to stumble.

Proverbs 17:17 reminds us that a friend loves at all times. A true friend doesn’t only show up when the house is clean, the children are cooperative, and the homeschool day goes according to plan. She loves us in the messy seasons too.

Galatians 6:2 tells believers to carry one another’s burdens. Yet no one can help carry a burden we continually hide.

Romans 12:10 calls us to love one another with genuine affection and to delight in honoring each other. Friendship grows when we learn to celebrate another woman’s gifts without treating her success as evidence of our failure.

Hebrews 10:24–25 encourages believers to keep meeting together and to motivate one another toward love and good works. Gathering matters because encouragement is easier to receive when we stop trying to live in isolation. Take some time to look up these Scriptures and write down what God is speaking to your heart.

Jesus Himself valued friendship. He ministered to crowds, but He also shared meals, walked with His disciples, and spent time with people He loved. If Jesus made room for relationships, we shouldn’t consider friendship selfish. Friendship isn’t a distraction from faithful living; it is often one of the ways God sustains us.

Friendship May Look Different in This Season

You may be reading this and thinking, That sounds wonderful, but I truly cannot get away. I understand.

There are seasons with babies, toddlers, special needs, health problems, financial limitations, or demanding work schedules. You may not be able to attend a weekly book club or meet a friend for coffee. Start with what is possible.

Maybe friendship looks like sending a voice message while folding laundry. Maybe you call a friend while driving to an appointment. Maybe you invite another mom to sit at your kitchen table while both of your families work on school.

Perhaps you exchange encouraging texts throughout the week. You might join an online homeschool community and then slowly build a friendship with someone in your area. Maybe you and another mom can agree to pray for each other every Monday morning. Small connections still count. You don’t need hours of free time to begin building a friendship. You need one intentional moment.

At the same time, be willing to examine your schedule. Sometimes we say we have no time for friendship, but we spend the small pockets of time we do have scrolling social media, watching other people’s lives, and feeling more alone. Online interaction can be helpful, but it isn’t always the same as being known.

Could you exchange thirty minutes of scrolling for a phone call? Could you invite someone to join an activity you’re already doing? Could you stay at the park a little longer and talk with another mom? Connection may not require adding another complicated obligation. It may mean opening the life you already have and inviting someone into it.

Give Yourself Permission to Have Needs

Homeschool moms can become so focused on meeting everyone else’s needs that they feel guilty acknowledging their own. But needing friendship doesn’t mean you love your children less. Wanting adult conversation doesn’t mean you’re ungrateful. Needing an occasional break doesn’t mean you aren’t committed to homeschooling. You are a mother, but you are also a woman created for relationship.

Your children can also benefit from seeing you build healthy friendships. They learn that adults ask for help, make time for people, apologize, listen, laugh, and encourage one another. When we model community, we teach our children how to build community too. Taking care of your need for connection is not abandoning your family. Instead, it is strengthening the person who cares for them.

Seven Practical Steps for the Lonely Homeschool Mom

1. Tell God the truth.

Don’t minimize your loneliness. Bring it to God honestly.

“Lord, I love my family, but I feel alone. Please help me notice the people You have placed around me. Give me courage to reach out.” God already knows how you feel. Prayer opens your heart to His comfort and direction.

2. Identify one possible homeschool friend.

Don’t begin by trying to create an entire community. Think of one woman you would like to know better. 

She doesn’t have to be exactly like you. Her children don’t have to use the same curriculum. You don’t have to agree on every homeschool method. Look for kindness, honesty, and a willingness to encourage one another.

3. Make a specific invitation.

“Let’s get together sometime” rarely becomes an actual meeting. Instead, try:

“Would you and your kids like to meet us at the park Thursday at ten?”

Or:

“I’m going to the library Tuesday afternoon. Would you like to join us?” A simple, specific invitation is easier to answer.

4. Connect friendship to something already on your schedule.

Invite someone to join you for a field trip, nature walk, library visit, or afternoon at the playground. Friendship doesn’t always need its own separate space. Sometimes it can grow alongside the life you are already living.

5. Consider a co-op or regular group.

A weekly or monthly gathering provides repeated opportunities for relationships to grow. You don’t have to manufacture a new meeting every time. Give a group time before deciding it isn’t working. Real friendship often develops through many ordinary conversations.

6. Be willing to go first.

Share something honest. Ask a meaningful question. Admit that you’ve had a hard week.

You don’t need to tell your entire life story at the first meeting, but a little vulnerability lets another person know she has permission to be real too.

7. Stop waiting to feel impressive.

You don’t need a spotless home, perfectly behaved children, or a beautiful homeschool schedule to be worthy of friendship. Come as you are, and give the other mom permission to do the same.

An Invitation to Reach Out

Maybe there’s a Tara in your life—someone you’ve admired from a distance but assumed wouldn’t need or want your friendship.

• What if you’re wrong?
• What if she’s lonely too?
• What if both of you have been comparing yourselves when God wants you to encourage each other?

Send the text. Make the invitation. Suggest the park day. Try the co-op. Join the book club when your season allows it. It might feel awkward. The first conversation may not turn into a lifelong friendship. Keep trying.

Community isn’t built through one grand gesture. It grows through small choices to show up, listen, share, and make room for another person.

A Prayer for the Lonely Homeschool Mom

Lord, thank You for the children and responsibilities You have entrusted to me. You see the work no one else notices, and You understand the loneliness I sometimes feel.

Help me remember that needing friendship is not a weakness. Give me the courage to reach out, the wisdom to recognize healthy relationships, and the humility to let others know the real me.

Free me from comparison. Teach me to celebrate the gifts You have placed in other women without believing their strengths diminish mine.

Please bring people into my life who will encourage me, pray with me, laugh with me, and help me keep going. Show me how to be that kind of friend in return.

When I feel unseen, remind me that You see me. When I feel alone, remind me that You are near. Lead me toward the community You have for my family and me. Amen.

Friend, if the house is full but your heart feels lonely, you are not the only one. There is another homeschool mom packing lunches, explaining fractions, switching laundry, answering emails, and wondering whether anyone else feels the way she does. Perhaps today is the day one of you reaches out.

Sometimes the friendship we’re waiting for begins when we become brave enough to say, “Would you like to join us?”

Additional Resources – An Exciting Opportunity

Have you ever dreamed of walking the cobblestone streets of Europe and stepping right into the pages of history? I would love to invite you to join me for a special adventure in August 2027. We are heading to the breathtaking city of Prague!

Writing historical fiction and navigating the homeschool journey has shown me that a beautiful adventure begins when we step into the very places where history was made. 

The 2027 Prague Experience offers three unique paths to fit your heart’s calling:

• The Mission Experience: Serve alongside local ministries and build meaningful relationships within the community.
• The Homeschool Experience: Bring history, literature, culture, and faith to life through immersive education for your family.
• The Leisure Experience: Take in the stunning architecture, enjoy authentic Czech cuisine, and share wonderful fellowship.

We will discover historic landmarks and celebrate a rich Christian heritage together. The itinerary is being finalized right now, and there is no obligation to simply learn more.

Join the priority list today to receive early registration opportunities, pricing details, and special updates directly from me!

Hey friends!

Can I be honest with you for a second?

I know you have a book inside you. Maybe it’s been there for years. Maybe you’ve started it a dozen times, or maybe it’s still just a dream you keep whispering to yourself at night… someday.

You tell yourself you’ll write it after the kids are older, after life slows down, after you finally have a free weekend.

But here’s what my friend Amber Lia and I have learned after writing and publishing hundreds of books between us: that a free weekend is never coming. And the good news? You don’t need it.

The Real Reason Your Book Isn’t Finished Yet

When Amber and I sat down recently to talk about what actually holds writers back, we didn’t discuss talent or time. We talked about three things that quietly steal your finish line:

• You’re waiting for life to slow down. (It won’t. Trust me. I have 10 kids. Amber has four sons and lives in what she affectionately calls a “testosterone house.” We both write anyway.)
• You’re trying to figure it all out alone. The editing process, the structure, the audience, the next steps. It’s a lot to carry by yourself. No one should have to.
• You have no finish line. Nobody at the front of the classroom is saying, “Get it done by 3 o’clock.” Without accountability and a clear target, even the best intentions drift.

Does any of that sound familiar? I thought so. You’re not alone, and that’s exactly why Amber and I are doing something about it.

Three Writing Tips That Will Change Everything

Before I tell you about the most exciting thing we’re doing this October, let me share a few of the things that have made the biggest difference in my writing — and in Amber’s.

1. Stop Writing for the Editor. Start Writing for Your Reader.

So much of our creative energy gets strangled when we’re worried about proposals and word counts and what an editor might think. The moment you shift your focus to one specific reader (someone you can picture, someone with real pain points you understand), everything gets clearer, faster, and more alive.

I never scroll social media just for fun. I’m always asking: What does my reader need from me today?

Our audience asks questions and posts about their struggles. These are HUGE clues about what they need from us as writers.

That’s the secret behind writing four books a year with a full house… focus on the reader and write FOR them in the fringes of your day.

2. Understand Your Format Before You Write a Single Word.

When I wrote my very first novel, I had my heroine going shopping for winter clothes and visiting a travel agency before her big adventure even started.

An editor finally told me: “Think of it like a movie. Cut to the next scene.”

That one moment of feedback saved me years of confusion. Once you understand story structure — the inciting incident, the midpoint, the climax — writing stops being a mystery and starts being a map.

3. Get the Words Down. Then Make Them Beautiful.

Early in my writing life, I would edit the same first page over and over again, trying to make it look like a bestselling book on the shelf.

Here’s the truth: nothing we write at first is “good enough.” And that is perfectly, wonderfully okay.

Write it rough. Write it messy. Write it imperfect. You can’t polish something that doesn’t exist yet.

What Would You Do With Four Focused Days?

Imagine this: four days where the only thing on your agenda is your book. No dishes. No to-do lists. No one needing anything from you. Just you, your words, the most beautiful fall foliage in Arkansas, and two bestselling authors right there beside you — cheering you on, coaching you in real time, and helping you finally cross that finish line.

That’s exactly what Amber and I are creating this October at our very first Writers Intensive Retreat in Hot Springs, Arkansas. And friend, we have been praying over this thing. Everything has fallen into place in the most providential way, and we are so ready to welcome you.

 Writers Intensive Retreat

Hot Springs, Arkansas
October 2026 (Thursday–Sunday)
Only 24 spots available — 6 already confirmed!

Register for The Finish Line Intensive

Register Now!

Here’s What Your Four Days Will Look Like

Thursday — Your Personal Deep Dive

We kick things off with a pre-conference day at my home. Yes, my actual house, with the medieval-European-castle kitchen, I fell in love with the moment I walked in.

This is your day for one-on-one attention from both Amber and me. Whatever you need:

• clarity on your project
• help choosing between ideas
• a fresh perspective on a stuck chapterPhoto by Nicolas Lobos on UnsplashWe are all yours. We end the evening together over a shared dinner right here in my home.

Friday & Saturday — Deep Work at Mariposa Retreat Center

We move to the stunning Mariposa Place of Wellness. Twenty breathtaking acres owned by my friend Dr. Kenisha Bryant, nestled between my home and Hot Springs.

There are nature trails for brain breaks, a commercial kitchen, hills overlooking the trees (which will be ablaze with fall color), and wildlife around every corner. It is the most inspiring place I can imagine doing this work.

This is where the magic happens. We’re not just going to talk about writing. We are going to write.

Amber says it best: it’s easy to get obese on information if you never exercise it. So we’re building in real, dedicated writing time, with Amber and me right there in the room with you, available to look over your shoulder and say, “What about this? Have you tried that?”

One evening, we’ll head into Hot Springs itself (where hot water actually bubbles up out of the earth!) for a fun outing together.

Fun fact: Hot Springs was once the spring training hub for Major League Baseball and the mafia. So, you know. It has stories.

Sunday — Send-Off at My Home

We close the weekend back at my place with a shared breakfast, a time of prayer, and the most important thing you’ll leave with: your concrete next steps.

Not vague encouragement — a real, specific, actionable plan mapped to exactly where you are in your project and where you want to go.

The Food, the Fellowship, the Fun

We are not messing around with the details. Every meal is included and prepared by our personal chef. Think nourishing soups, fresh salads, healthy snacks, and food that keeps your blood sugar stable and your creative energy flowing.

Your body and your brain are going to be so well taken care of.

And the people? Oh, the people.

Let me give you some backstory… some of my dearest author friends (bestselling names you’d recognize today) were complete beginners when we first met at a conference years ago.

The community you build at an event like this? It can last a lifetime. We’re also creating an online community that continues throughout 2026 and 2027, so the support doesn’t stop when you drive home.

This Is For You — Wherever You Are

Maybe you have a half-finished manuscript. Maybe you have three ideas and no idea which one to chase. Maybe your book is technically done, but you have no clue what to do next. It doesn’t matter. We will meet you exactly where you are.

There is no judgment here — only encouragement, strategy, and a whole lot of joy. And you don’t need more talent. You don’t need a quieter life. You probably just need this.

And you don’t need more talent. You don’t need a quieter life. You probably just need this.

Your 30 Seconds of Brave

Amber and I had our own 30 seconds of bravery when we hit “publish” on the application form and asked ourselves, Is anyone even going to want to come? People showed up. Because God is clearly up to something here.

Now it’s your turn.

Don’t wait for tomorrow. Tomorrow has a way of never arriving. You’re reading this for a reason. The obstacle in your way — the busy schedule, the self-doubt, the unfinished draft — that’s not a stop sign. That’s the very thing we’re going to tackle together. The obstacle, friend, is the way.

 Ready to claim your spot? Fill out the JotForm application. We’d love to have you. Grab a friend and come together. There’s nothing better than doing something brave with someone you love.

Only 24 spots total. Six are already gone. Don’t let this be the thing you put off until someday. Register Now!

We love you, we believe in your book, and we cannot wait to see you in Arkansas this October.

With so much love and excitement,

Tricia Goyer (and Amber Lia )

P.S. What do you like most about this? Also, if you had to plan a retreat here with us, what would YOU want?

The words “high school transcript” can make even an experienced homeschool parent nervous. I remember the first time I’d created my own transcript and joined my son as we met with the college counselor. I was certain he’d look at the page, crumple it up, and tell me I didn’t know what I was doing. Thankfully, that didn’t happen. I have created high school transcripts for seven of my children—and guess what? Every college has accepted them. Some colleges require my children to take standardized tests or a placement test at their school. Yet having an accurate transcript is important.

Make It Simple

As homeschooling parents, we’re used to creating lesson plans, choosing curriculum, teaching through interruptions, and adjusting when a child needs extra help. Then, suddenly, we’re expected to become a guidance counselor and school registrar too! We find ourselves shaking in our boots.

The good news is that creating a homeschool transcript doesn’t have to be complicated. A transcript is simply an organized summary of your student’s high school education. It tells colleges what your student studied, how many credits were earned, and how well the student performed. But it needs to do something else, too: tell the truth. A strong transcript doesn’t exaggerate your student’s story—it explains it clearly.

Colleges understand that homeschool parents prepare their children’s transcripts. What admissions officers need is a document that is professional, consistent, realistic, and supported by the student’s actual work. Let’s walk through the process together.

What Is a Homeschool Transcript?

A homeschool transcript is an official academic record, usually covering grades 9–12. It normally includes:

• The student’s full legal name
• The student’s date of birth
• The homeschool’s name and address
• The parent or homeschool administrator’s contact information
• Courses completed each year
• Credits earned for each course
• Final grades
• The grading scale
• Grade point average, or GPA
• Expected or actual graduation date
• The parent or administrator’s signature
• The date the transcript was issued

You may also include honors courses, Advanced Placement courses, dual-enrollment courses, and other significant academic information. The finished transcript should be clean and easy to read. In most cases, one or two pages are enough. Your transcript should be complete enough to inform, but simple enough to understand.

Putting Together a Homeschool Transcript

Step 1: Begin with the End in Mind

Before deciding what belongs on the transcript, think about where your student may be headed.

Is your teen considering:

• A four-year university?
• A community college?
• A trade or technical program?
• Military service?
• An apprenticeship?
• Employment?
• College athletics?

These paths may have different expectations. Research the admission requirements of several possible schools while your student is still in ninth or tenth grade. Do not wait until senior year to discover that a college expects an additional laboratory science, foreign language, or advanced math course.

Also check your state’s homeschool requirements for graduation. Homeschool laws and graduation expectations vary, and colleges may have their own course requirements in addition to state requirements.

Don’t build a transcript around where your student has been; build it with an eye toward where your student may be going.

Step 2: Choose Clear, Accurate Course Titles

Course titles should help an admissions officer understand what your student studied.

Instead of vague titles such as:

• Math
• Science
• English
• History

Use specific titles such as:

• Algebra I
• Geometry
• Biology with Lab
• Chemistry with Lab
• English Composition
• American Literature
• United States History
• World Geography
• Spanish I

Creativity is wonderful in homeschooling, but clarity is best on the transcript. “Exploring God’s Amazing World” may have been a beautiful year of study, but “Biology with Lab” tells a college exactly what the course covered. You can still describe your creative approach in a separate course-description document. Let the learning be creative, but let the course title be clear.

Step 3: Decide How Credits Will Be Awarded

A full-year high school course is commonly recorded as one credit. A semester course is commonly recorded as one-half credit. However, credit practices and college expectations can vary.

Parents generally award credit by considering one or more of these:

• Completion of a recognized high school curriculum
• Time spent studying the subject
• Mastery of the material
• Completion of significant projects
• Classes taken through a co-op or online provider
• Dual-enrollment coursework
• Documented instruction with a tutor or outside teacher

Keep records showing how you awarded the credit. Save course outlines, curriculum information, major assignments, tests, lab reports, reading lists, and grades from outside instructors.

I have never needed this type of information for my children, who have attended college, but they have not applied to top schools. We choose to start our children off at a local community college or state school. And when it came to my daughter who attended a private, Christian college, answering a few questions presented by the school counseler was enough to satisfy him.

For unusual or student-designed courses, create a brief description explaining:

• What the student studied
• Which books or resources were used
• What assignments were completed
• How learning was evaluated
• Why the amount of credit was appropriate

I’ve included this type of information in a brief “notes” section on the transcript. A short sentence about any unusual or student-designed courses was good enough. Yet remember this: If you award the credit, keep the records that support it.

Step 4: Create a Realistic Grading System

This step matters—a lot. As homeschool parents, we love our children and want to present them in the best possible light. But a transcript is not a place for wishful thinking. It is an academic record.

A common grading scale is:

• A: 90–100
• B: 80–89
• C: 70–79
• D: 60–69
• F: Below 60

You may use a different scale, but state it clearly and apply it consistently. Grades can be based on:

• Tests and quizzes
• Essays and written assignments
• Projects
• Laboratory work
• Presentations
• Daily assignments
• Class participation
• Final examinations
• Demonstrated mastery

If a course was taught by an outside instructor at a co-op, an online school, or a college, record the grade that organization awarded. Do not quietly change an outside B into an A.

A transcript filled with perfect grades may look impressive, but it can raise questions if those grades are not supported by the student’s work, outside classes, recommendations, or test results. Give the grade your student earned, not the grade you wish your student had earned.

Why Realistic Homeschool Grades Matter

A transcript is not only used to decide whether a student will be admitted. Colleges may also use academic records, test scores, placement testing, or a combination of factors to determine which classes a student should take.

If a transcript says a student mastered advanced algebra, but the student still struggles with basic equations, placing that student into a higher college math class may set the student up for frustration or failure.

Likewise, an inflated English grade may place a student in a writing-intensive course for which they are not prepared. That does not help our children. Our goal isn’t merely to help them get into college. Our goal is to help them be ready for college. Admission gets your student through the door; honest preparation helps your student stay there.

A lower but truthful grade is not a mark of parental failure. It is useful information. It shows you and your student where additional study, tutoring, or practice may be needed.

Step 5: Calculate the GPA

A standard unweighted GPA usually follows this scale:

• A = 4 points
• B = 3 points
• C = 2 points
• D = 1 point
• F = 0 points

Multiply the grade points by the credit value of each class. Add those grade points together, and then divide by the total number of credits attempted. For example:

• English II: A, 1 credit = 4 points
• Geometry: B, 1 credit = 3 points
• Biology: A, 1 credit = 4 points
• World History: B, 1 credit = 3 points
• Art: A, 0.5 credit = 2 points

The student earned 16 grade points across 4.5 credits: 16 ÷ 4.5 = 3.56 GPA

Some families use a weighted GPA for honors, AP, or dual-enrollment work. Colleges may recalculate every applicant’s GPA according to their own system, so identify clearly whether the GPA on your transcript is weighted or unweighted. When uncertain, an unweighted GPA is often the simplest and most transparent choice. A GPA should be calculated—not created.

Step 6: Include Outside and Dual-Enrollment Courses

Did your student complete courses through:

• A homeschool co-op?
• An online academy?
• A community college?
• A university?
• A private instructor?
• A public-school partnership?
• A technical program?

Include those classes and identify the provider when appropriate. For example:

• College Algebra—Central Community College
• Spanish II—Bright Path Online Academy
• Chemistry with Lab—Cornerstone Homeschool Co-op

Remember that listing a dual-enrollment course on the homeschool transcript does not replace the college’s official transcript. The student will usually need to request an official transcript directly from the college that awarded the credit.

Outside classes are helpful because they provide colleges with additional evidence of a student’s readiness and ability to work with instructors other than a parent.

Step 7: Understand Testing and Placement Policies

Families should not assume that every college follows the same testing policy. Many colleges require, recommend, or consider ACT or SAT scores. Others are test-optional, test-flexible, or test-blind. Even a test-optional college may require scores for certain scholarships, academic programs, athletic eligibility, or course placement. Always check the current policy of every school on your student’s list.

Homeschooled students may find ACT or SAT scores especially helpful because they provide an external measure that can support the grades on a parent-issued transcript.

Some colleges—particularly community colleges—may also ask students to complete placement testing. One widely used option is ACCUPLACER, which helps institutions evaluate readiness for courses in reading, writing, and math. Other colleges use their own placement exams or consider several factors, including high school grades and test scores.

A placement test is not necessarily a rejection of your transcript. Its purpose is to help the school place the student in a class where the student has a reasonable opportunity to succeed. Placement testing isn’t about proving your child is smart. Instead, it’s about finding the right place for your child to start.

Prepare for testing early. Do not wait until the month before graduation to discover that your student needs extensive review in algebra, grammar, or essay writing.

Step 8: Add the Finishing Details

Before calling the transcript complete, make sure it contains:

• A clear title, such as “Official High School Transcript”
• The student’s identifying information
• The homeschool’s identifying information
• Courses organized by year or subject
• Credits and final grades
• Total credits earned
• Cumulative GPA
• Grading scale
• Graduation date
• Parent or administrator’s printed name
• Parent or administrator’s signature
• Date issued

Save an editable copy and a PDF copy. The PDF prevents accidental formatting changes when the document is emailed or uploaded.

When sending the transcript, follow the college’s instructions. Some institutions accept transcripts uploaded via an application platform. Others ask the homeschool administrator to send it directly. A college may request a final transcript after graduation, even if an earlier transcript was submitted with the application.

Label the transcript “official” only when it is final, signed, dated, and being submitted through the method requested by the institution.

Keep a Supporting Portfolio

The transcript is the summary, but your records provide the evidence supporting it.

Consider keeping:

• Course descriptions
• Curriculum names and publishers
• Book and literature lists
• Laboratory records
• Major essays
• Significant projects
• Test results
• Volunteer records
• Internship documentation
• Co-op grades
• Online-course reports
• Dual-enrollment transcripts
• Certificates and awards

A college may never ask for most of these records, but having them available makes it much easier to answer questions.

For each high school course, write the description while the details are fresh. Reconstructing four years of coursework during the fall of senior year is possible, but it is not pleasant. Ask me how I know!

What Should Not Go on the Homeschool Transcript?

Not every accomplishment belongs on the academic transcript. A transcript usually should not contain lengthy descriptions of:

• Hobbies
• Volunteer work
• Church involvement
• Sports
• Employment
• Mission trips
• Clubs
• Awards unrelated to coursework

These experiences are valuable, but they usually belong on a student résumé, activity list, application, or school profile. They are not needed on your child’s homeschool transcrip.

If an experience was developed into a legitimate course, such as an internship connected to a career-exploration class, document the learning objectives and explain how the credit was earned.

A Final Homeschool Transcript Checklist

Before sending your student’s transcript, ask:

• Are all course titles clear?
• Are the credits reasonable?
• Are the grades accurate?
• Is the grading scale included?
• Is the GPA calculated correctly?
• Are outside providers identified?
• Does the transcript include a graduation date?
• Is it signed and dated?
• Does it look professional?
• Does it match the student’s actual level of preparation?
• Have we checked the requirements of every prospective college?
• Have we saved the records that support every course and grade?

Then ask one more important question: “Does this document honestly represent my student?”

If the answer is yes, you have done your job well. The goal is not a perfect-looking transcript. The goal is a trustworthy record of real learning.

10 Helpful Online Resources for Homeschool Parents

Policies and requirements change, so always check the latest information directly with each college. These are some amazing resources, but not that some do require membership to access the information.

1. HSLDA High School Transcript Templates
   Offers transcript guidance and downloadable templates, although some materials may require an account or membership.
2. HSLDA Sample High School Transcript
   Shows how course names, credits, grades, and GPA can be organized.
3. Common App
   Allows students to apply to participating colleges. A homeschool parent or supervisor commonly completes the counselor portion and submits school documents.
4. College Board’s Homeschoolers’ Guide to Assessments
   Explains how homeschoolers can access the SAT, PSAT, AP, and CLEP programs.
5. ACT Resources for Homeschool Students
   Provides ACT registration, planning, and college-readiness information for homeschool families.
6. ACCUPLACER
   Explains college placement testing and provides free practice materials and sample questions.
7. BigFuture College Planning for Homeschoolers
   Helps families research colleges, applications, financial aid, and other planning steps.
8. Federal Student Aid
   Provides official information about the FAFSA, federal financial-aid eligibility, grants, loans, and application procedures.
9. College Navigator
   A U.S. Department of Education tool for researching colleges, programs, costs, admission information, and graduation rates.
10. NCAA Homeschool Student Eligibility Requirements
    Essential for homeschooled students who hope to participate in NCAA college athletics. NCAA documentation requirements extend beyond an ordinary transcript.

You Can Do This

Creating a transcript can feel intimidating because it carries so much importance. But remember: you have already done the harder work. You selected the materials. You taught the lessons. You encouraged your student. You adjusted when something wasn’t working. You watched your child grow. The transcript simply gathers that learning into a form someone else can understand.

Be thorough. Be realistic. Be truthful. And give yourself permission to ask colleges questions. Admissions offices would rather help you prepare the correct documents than receive incomplete information later.

You are not trying to manufacture an impressive student on paper. You are helping a real student take the next faithful step. And that real story—told clearly and honestly—is worth sharing.

Additional Resources – An Exciting Opportunity

Have you ever dreamed of walking the cobblestone streets of Europe and stepping right into the pages of history? I would love to invite you (and your homeschool grad!) to join me for a special adventure in August 2027. We are heading to the breathtaking city of Prague!

Writing historical fiction and navigating the homeschool journey has shown me that a beautiful adventure begins when we step into the very places where history was made. 

The 2027 Prague Experience offers three unique paths to fit your heart’s calling:

• The Mission Experience: Serve alongside local ministries and build meaningful relationships within the community.
• The Homeschool Experience: Bring history, literature, culture, and faith to life through immersive education for your family.
• The Leisure Experience: Take in the stunning architecture, enjoy authentic Czech cuisine, and share wonderful fellowship.

We will discover historic landmarks and celebrate a rich Christian heritage together. The itinerary is being finalized right now, and there is no obligation to simply learn more.

Join the priority list today to receive early registration opportunities, pricing details, and special updates directly from me!

If you’ve read any blogs about homeschooling (or have attended a homeschool conference), you most likely have been encouraged to Read Aloud to your kids. For some the idea of reading aloud to your children may feel foreign or intimidating, especially if you did not grow up with someone reading to you. Do you feel that way, friend? If so, you are not alone. 

The good news is that sharing a book together is not about putting on a theatrical performance or having formal literary training. Instead, it is simply inviting your child into a story, creating a warm bond, and discovering the joy of words side by side … no multiple character voices needed!

Cultivating a Love for Literature

Reading aloud became a core part of my homeschooling when I had seven children I was teaching at once. That’s when I turned to Sonlight curriculum.

One of the greatest gifts that Sonlight gave our family was a love of beautiful literature. Even years later, my children still remember many of these stories. 

Some of our favorite read-alouds included timeless classics like Charlotte’s Web, Owls in the Family, and Homer Price. These books are filled with both humor and moral values. They were written during eras when authors consciously embedded strong moral foundations into their narratives. The characters in these books model virtues like sacrificial friendship, family unity, and community responsibility. Children learn the value of these things through the pages of a story.

Why doe reading aloud matter? In today’s rapidly changing culture, children frequently face confusing messages about right and wrong. Returning to character-rich stories provides a steady and reliable moral compass … which is exactly what our children need.

Great books like these bypasses the need for a lecture. Instead our kids see morals, values, and consequences played out. These types of stories plant truths directly into children’s heart, shaping their character in ways that will last well into adulthood.

These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up." (Deuteronomy 6:6-7, NIV)

How to Read Aloud

For first-time homeschool parents, the idea of reading aloud might feel challenging. The secret is understanding that young children do not need to sit rigidly still to absorb a story. Aren’t we glad?

Kids can listen while they are busy with other things. You can easily read while they play with wooden blocks or color a picture. Keeping their hands busy actually helps anchor their attention to the words being spoken. This is a concept supported by Jim Trelease in The Read-Aloud Handbook, which is a great book!

Make the reading aloud experience interactive and engaging. You can pause to ask questions about what might happen next. You can also (if you choose!) give different characters unique voices. 

If your kindergartner or elementary school aged child is coloring, you can encourage them to draw the scenes they hear in the story. This removes the pressure of forced stillness and turns literature time into a joyful shared activity. 

Yet also read to older children too! I read to my kids all the way through high school. Reading aloud naturally builds vocabulary and comprehension, setting a strong foundation for their independent reading journey later on. My older kids had independent work too, of course, but they enjoyed listening along with their younger siblings.

Here are some books that I read aloud to my kids ages 5-15 as I homeschooled them together:

The Read-Aloud Handbook

Understood Betsy

Little Pear

Charlotte’s Web

Owls in the Family

Homer Price

My Father’s Dragon

Henry Huggins

Sarah, Plain and Tall

The Boxcar Children

As a homeschooling mom of many, I also loved using Five in a Row Curriculum. Instead of rushing through subjects, we’d spend an entire week enjoying one wonderful picture book together. As I read aloud, the conversations these books sparked were just as valuable as any workbook.

Some of our favorites were:

The Story About Ping

Make Way for Ducklings

Caps for Sale

Katy and the Big Snow

Madeline

Very Last First Time

Lentil 

Owl Moon

A Treasured Routine 

You do not need a background in literature to make reading aloud time a treasured part of your day. You only need a willingness to start. 

As you open these books, you will find that the shared laughter, the wide-eyed wonder, and the quiet moments of connection will naturally unfold. I love how God can use these simple stories to draw families closer together and to weave His truth into our children’s hearts. Pick out one story, find a cozy spot, and let the adventure begin.

Prayer for Aspiring Readers 

Dear Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of stories and the precious minds of our children. Please give us the courage to step into new routines and the grace to enjoy the learning process. Help us to use these moments of reading together to build strong bonds and point our families toward Your unfailing love. Guide our words and our hearts as we explore these wonderful books side by side. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

An Exciting Opportunity

The 2027 Prague Experience offers three unique paths to fit your heart’s calling:

• The Mission Experience: Serve alongside local ministries and build meaningful relationships within the community.
• The Homeschool Experience: Bring history, literature, culture, and faith to life through immersive education for your family.
• The Leisure Experience: Take in the stunning architecture, enjoy authentic Czech cuisine, and share wonderful fellowship.

We will discover historic landmarks and celebrate a rich Christian heritage together. The itinerary is being finalized right now, and there is no obligation required to simply learn more.

Join the priority list today to receive early registration opportunities, pricing details, and special updates directly from me!

If you want God to move in your life in ways that leave you breathless, there is one simple, radical posture you have to adopt: Just be available.

Be available, and genuinely believe that He will move on your behalf.

You have to believe this down in your bones. If you don’t believe in a BIG God with BIG dreams, there’s no real point in making yourself available. But when you learn to trust God completely and surrender your timeline to His divine imagination, you can rest in the absolute assurance that He will lead you down the right path.

Let me tell you how I know this is true.

More Than a Statistic

Fifty-two years before I wrote these words, a young woman was about to give birth. She was young, scared, and had no idea how she could afford a child without her parents’ help. She hadn’t spoken to her former boyfriend in months and didn’t even know how to reach him. Her conversation with God was stilted and filled with heavy questions: How could God let this happen to me? What is my life going to look like now?

When that baby girl was born, the young mother held her close and realized that things were going to be okay. This child wasn’t a burden; she was a gift. She raised her daughter the best she could, pouring love into her, wanting so desperately to give her a better life.

But history has a heartbreaking way of repeating itself.

Years later, that daughter found herself in the exact same situation—living at home, pregnant, terrified, and wondering how she was going to survive.

If you haven’t guessed by now, I was the daughter.

I was born to a single teenage mom, and at seventeen years old, I became a single teenage mom myself. My boyfriend was out of the picture, and I faced raising my son with no college degree, no money, and—according to the world’s calculations—little to no hope for a bright future.

If you take my story at face value, I was supposed to be a statistic.

Government research tells us that daughters of teen mothers are overwhelmingly likely to become teen mothers themselves, walking a path defined by hardship and cycle after cycle of poverty.

Yet, I am not a statistic. And do you know why? Because God doesn’t do statistics.

God loves to take human statistics and blow them completely out of the water. Throughout Scripture, He has a habit of seeing what nobody else can see. He saw a mighty king in a forgotten shepherd boy named David (1 Samuel 16:7). He saw a bold apostle in a persecutor named Paul. He saw a mighty warrior in a frightened nobody hiding in a wine press named Gideon (Judges 6:12).

God has spiritual X-ray vision. He looks past your current circumstances, past your past mistakes, and past national demographics, peering directly into the human heart.

And when God looked at a seventeen-year-old scared girl holding a newborn baby, He saw something worth redeeming.

Today, God has allowed me to author dozens of books, write for major publications, speak across the country, and walk alongside thousands of women through the Daily Bible Podcast and my Heart Happy community. Over the years, our family launched crisis pregnancy centers, supported teen moms, and stepped out in faith to adopt and foster children.

None of that happened because I was special, talented, or had it all together. It happened because of a BIG God with BIG plans for my life.

What Does “Being Available” Actually Look Like?

God can do immeasurably more than we ask or imagine, but He invites us to participate. We have to open the door.

My journey toward availability wasn’t a one-time decision where I suddenly had everything figured out. It started on a quiet day when I was six months pregnant and surrendered my life to Jesus Christ as my Savior. That was Day One.

Over the decades since, God has taught me what it really means to live an available life.

1. Being Available Means Stepping Away from the Status Quo

Sometimes, being available to God requires you to do things that look completely crazy to the people around you.

Years ago, after I gave my heart to the Lord, birthed my son, and later married my incredible husband, John, we had three small children under the age of five. We felt a quiet, persistent prompt in our hearts to raise our family in Montana—a place we had literally never even visited! We had no job lined up there, very little money, and our family thought we had lost our minds.

We got on our knees and prayed a simple prayer: “Lord, if this desire is from You, make it clear.”

At the time, John sold computers on commission, usually selling one or two a week. The very next day after our prayer, he went to work and sold eleven computers in a single day—enough to pay off our lingering bills and fund our move.

We packed up our kids and moved 1,000 miles away. Within three weeks, John had a far better job. Within six months, we bought our first home. And within a year, we were deeply plugged into a thriving church, ministering to youth in ways we had only ever dreamed of.

When you trust a Big God, you can trust Him to guide your steps even when the destination feels unknown.

"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." — Jeremiah 29:11

2. Being Available Means Cultivating a Hungry Heart

To be truly heart-happy, you have to want God Himself—not just His blessings, not just answers to your prayers, but His presence. When you become hungry for His Spirit to work in and through you, you stop clinging to comfort and start asking, “Lord, what are You doing today, and how can I be a part of it?”

"Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen." — Ephesians 3:20-21

Step Into Your Story

You might feel like your past disqualifies you. You might look at your current bank account, your relationship status, or your lack of formal training and think, “God could never use someone like me.”

Let my story be your reminder today: God loves using the broken, the overlooked, and the statistically improbable.

All He needs is your “Yes.” Lay down your need to control the outcome, stop worrying about what other people think, and make yourself available to the Creator of the universe. You will be amazed at where He takes you.

A Prayer to Become Available

Dear Heavenly Father, thank You that You do not view me through the lens of my past, my mistakes, or the world’s statistics. Thank You for having BIG dreams for my life and for seeing potential in me that I cannot see in myself. Lord, today I make myself completely available to You. Take my talents, my time, my resources, and my ordinary moments, and use them for Your glory. Give me the courage to step away from comfort and follow You down whatever path You lead. I place my hope and my future in Your faithful hands. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

An Exciting Opportunity

Have you ever dreamed of walking the cobblestone streets of Europe and stepping right into the pages of history? I would love to invite you to join me for a special adventure in August 2027. We are heading to the breathtaking city of Prague!

Writing historical fiction and navigating the homeschool journey has shown me that a beautiful adventure begins when we step into the very places where history was made. 

The 2027 Prague Experience offers three unique paths to fit your heart’s calling:

• The Mission Experience: Serve alongside local ministries and build meaningful relationships within the community.
• The Homeschool Experience: Bring history, literature, culture, and faith to life through immersive education for your family.
• The Leisure Experience: Take in the stunning architecture, enjoy authentic Czech cuisine, and share wonderful fellowship.

We will discover historic landmarks and celebrate a rich Christian heritage together. The itinerary is being finalized right now, and there is no obligation to simply learn more.

Join the priority list today to receive early registration opportunities, pricing details, and special updates directly from me!

The first year of homeschooling can feel exciting and overwhelming. When I started, I had three kids ages five, two and newborn. I was overwhelmed, and I thought, “What in the world am I doing?” That’s when I decided to focus on the basics, and it really paid off.

My first year of kindergarten was over thirty years ago. The good news is that my oldest three kids are now adults. All of them are doing extremely well. Two have wonderful spouses and children. They all have great jobs, good friends, and exciting hobbies. Most of all, my adult children love learning, love our family, and love God. 

At the time, I didn’t think I knew what I was doing, but looking back I see that my top priorities led to success. That’s the good news, friends! Kindergarten doesn’t have to be complicated. The very simple choices you make during kindergarten are the exact building blocks that can lead to growing life-long learners!

Don’t Get Overwhelmed

…and don’t worry if your child is “keeping up.”

If you happen to do an internet search on “homeschooling schedules and curriculum,” the millions of results can be overwhelming. There are thousands of ideas for daily schedules, and even more ideas for the best curriculum choices. How can you ever choose? Worries fill your mind, and you wonder if your child will “keep up.”

After homeschooling for more than thirty years—including homeschooling seven children at one time—I can tell you something that will hopefully give you peace: Your goal isn’t to recreate school at home. Your goal is to raise a child who loves God, loves learning, and loves being with you. Kindergarten is the perfect year to slow down, start simple, and enjoy the journey. If you are brand new to homeschooling, here is exactly how to start, step by step.

Step 1: Remember What Matters Most (People Over Schedules)

The most important rule of a homeschool routine is simple: Don’t let the schedule rule you. A schedule should serve your family, not the other way around.

Try planning four formal school days each week and saving one day for field trips, library visits, nature walks, playgroups, or serving others. Some of our children’s favorite school memories happened outside our house.

Also, don’t be afraid of rabbit trails or redirection. When you leave room for the unexpected, you leave room for the Holy Spirit to move in your day. If a morning starts off rough, you have the freedom to pause, go outside, or share a quick snack. By building flexibility into your week, you teach your children that forming relationships always matters more than checking boxes.

Step 2: Keep Your Priorities Simple

If I were homeschooling kindergarten again today, these would be my priorities:

• Bible
• Phonics
• Reading aloud
• Handwriting
• Basic math

Everything else can happen naturally in everyday life. Science happens while digging for worms. History happens through great books. Music happens while singing. Art happens while painting, coloring, and creating. Life skills happen while baking cookies and folding laundry. You do not need a massive stack of textbooks for a five-year-old.

Step 3: Focus on Phonics

One reading specialist commented that she often sees parents spend lots of time reading to children—but not enough time teaching phonics. I think that’s excellent advice.

Read aloud every single day. But also spend intentional time helping your child connect letters and sounds. Strong phonics instruction makes reading, writing, and spelling much easier later. By breaking reading down into its smallest parts through short, daily phonics games or lessons, you give your child the tools to unlock thousands of stories independently.

Step 4: Keep Lessons Short

Kindergartners don’t need long lessons. Their attention spans are short, and their bodies are built to move.

Instead of trying to finish every worksheet, watch your child. When they’re engaged, stop. Leave them excited for tomorrow rather than pushing them to the point of frustration. Ten to twenty minutes is often enough for one subject. Learning should feel enjoyable—not exhausting.

Step 5: Read Constantly

If I could only give one piece of homeschool advice, it would be this: Read more books. Many subjects can be learned through wonderful stories.

When we open a book together, vocabulary grows naturally. Character develops. Curiosity grows. Conversations happen. Some of our richest homeschool discussions started with a picture book. Sitting side by side on the couch, sharing a story builds a shared family culture that workbooks simply cannot replicate.

Step 6: Don’t Be Afraid to Play

Do not feel guilty when your school day looks like play. Play isn’t taking a break from learning. Play is learning for a young child. Children learn beautifully through:

• Building with blocks (exploring physics and spatial awareness)
• Pretending and role-playing
• Nature walks
• Painting, coloring, and creating
• Cooking and baking
• Board games (practicing math, turn-taking, and critical thinking)
• Dancing in the living room
• Helping around the house

A Simple Kindergarten Schedule

To help you visualize your week, here is an example of what a balanced, gentle routine can look like.

Monday–Thursday Routine

• Bible & Prayer (10–15 min): Devotional, scripture memory, and praying together.
• Read Aloud (20 min): A chapter book or beautiful picture books.
• Phonics (15–20 min): Short, interactive lesson or reading game.
• Handwriting (10 min): Tracing letters, drawing shapes, or practicing their name.
• Math (15–20 min): Counting objects, playing math games, or a quick workbook page.
• Outside Play (Lots!): Running, climbing, exploring, and fresh air.
• Enrichment (Flexible): Art, music, science, cooking, nature, or life skills.

Friday: Day of Discovery

Keep Fridays completely fun and flexible:

• Library visits or museum trips
• Field trips or visiting the zoo
• Park days and nature walks
• Visiting grandparents
• Baking together
• Service projects
• Reading lots of books

Give Yourself Grace

Your homeschool won’t look like anyone else’s. Some weeks you’ll finish every lesson. Some weeks you’ll only read books and go to the park. Both are okay. Both are school.

Children don’t remember perfectly completed lesson plans. Instead, they remember cuddling on the couch while Mom read another chapter. They remember baking bread. They remember collecting leaves. They remember laughing together.

One Last Thought

When people ask me what made the biggest difference in our homeschool across thirty-five years, they often expect me to name a specific curriculum or an organizational hack.

Instead, I tell them this: We read together. We talked together. We prayed together. We explored together. And we enjoyed one another. This builds an education and a family.

It is vital to remember that kindergarten is the foundation on which the rest of your homeschool years will be built. Because of this, the main focus should be fostering a true love for learning. Cultivating this sense of wonder and delight in the early years sets a joyful tone for the decades of discovery ahead. As we read in the Bible:

“These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” — Deuteronomy 6:6-7

Embracing the Journey Ahead

As you begin this wonderful journey of homeschooling your kindergarten student, take a deep breath. You truly have everything you need to succeed. The simple moments spent reading on the couch, exploring the backyard, and learning about God’s world build an incredible foundation. When you prioritize relationships and keep your days simple, you give your child a gift that will last a lifetime. Remember the wisdom found in Scripture: “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6). Your primary goal is simply to guide their heart toward the Lord and foster a genuine joy in discovery.

A Prayer for Your Homeschool

Dear Heavenly Father,

Thank You for the beautiful gift of children and the absolute privilege of guiding their education. Please grant deep peace to the parent reading these words today. Remove any feelings of overwhelm or anxiety about checking every single box. Help them to see the wonder in small, everyday moments. Give them the patience to handle challenging mornings and the joy to celebrate tiny victories. Guide their daily routine and let Your Holy Spirit fill their home with love, laughter, and a sincere desire to know You more. Lord, bless their homeschool and knit their family closer together this year.

In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Helpful Resource for Your Journey

If you want to dig deeper into building a joyful and simple learning environment, I highly recommend reading Homeschool Basics. My friend Kristi Clover and I teamed up to gather the best tried-and-true advice from our combined decades of experience to help you get started and stay the course.

We wrote this book to provide practical tools that take the unnecessary pressure off your shoulders so you can focus on the heart rather than just academics. We cover a wide range of topics to support your family:

• Top ten tips for a successful first year
• Strategies for planning your schedule with absolute confidence
• Advice on balancing your housekeeping and lessons
• Ways to teach multiple children at the same time
• Ideas for helping your child develop a life-long love of learning

Homeschooling can truly transform your life, your home, and your family by preparing your children for the life God called them to live. If you are feeling overwhelmed or simply need a fresh dose of inspiration, this guide will remind you that you have exactly what it takes to succeed.

An Exciting Opportunity

Have you ever dreamed of walking the cobblestone streets of Europe and stepping right into the pages of history? I would love to invite you to join me for a special adventure in August 2027. We are heading to the breathtaking city of Prague!

Writing historical fiction and navigating the homeschool journey has shown me that a beautiful adventure begins when we step into the very places where history was made. 

The 2027 Prague Experience offers three unique paths to fit your heart’s calling:

• The Mission Experience: Serve alongside local ministries and build meaningful relationships within the community.
• The Homeschool Experience: Bring history, literature, culture, and faith to life through immersive education for your family.
• The Leisure Experience: Take in the stunning architecture, enjoy authentic Czech cuisine, and share wonderful fellowship.

We will discover historic landmarks and celebrate a rich Christian heritage together. The itinerary is being finalized right now, and there is no obligation to simply learn more.

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Looking back at my thoughts from 2009, I cannot help but smile at the journey. Back then, I was just navigating the end of the teen years with my oldest children. I was a coffee-loving, non-gardening mom who felt a little out of place in the traditional homeschool mold, but I was so deeply thankful that the scary predictions about teenagers hadn’t come true for our home.

Now, fast-forward to today. After raising ten children—navigating toddlers, teenagers, and young adults many times over—I have a whole new perspective. If you are a homeschool parent currently staring down the barrel of the teenage years or feeling anxious about what lies ahead, let me offer you some gentle, time-tested encouragement: the teen years do not have to be a season of terror.

What 2009 Taught Me vs. What 10 Teen Kids Have Proven

Back in 2009, I wrote about a family at church with eight kids whose warmth toward each other blew me away. I wanted teenagers who actually liked their parents, and I worried if homeschooling could really deliver that.

Here is what decades of parenting ten kids has taught me since then:

• Homeschooling Isn’t a Guarantee, But It Is an Invitation: Homeschooling isn’t a magic formula that prevents every struggle or rebellion. However, it gives us something priceless that traditional schedules often strip away: time.
• Time Breeds Intimacy: When you spend your days together, you get to witness the subtle shifts in your teenager’s heart. You get to hear their late-night thoughts, understand their unique sense of humor, and work through real-life conflicts in real time.
• Connection Over Perfection: You don’t have to fit a specific homeschool stereotype to build a lasting bond with your teen. Whether you are baking bread from scratch or grabbing fast-food milkshakes after a hard math lesson, what matters most to your teenager is your presence, your empathy, and your willingness to listen.

The Gift of Knowing Your Teenager

Culture constantly tells us that teenagers will automatically become distant, moody, and secretive. But in a homeschool home, you have the special privilege of seeing who God is shaping them to be right before your eyes.

Yes, there will be hard days. There will be attitudes to correct, heavy conversations to navigate, and moments when you feel completely out of your depth. But because you are walking shoulder-to-shoulder with them through their education and daily life, you get opportunities to connect with them in ways other parents rarely get the chance to experience.

You get to be their sounding board, their safest place to fail, and their biggest cheerleader as they step into young adulthood.

Scripture gives us such a beautiful reminder of the value of pouring truth and time into our children daily:

“And you must commit yourself wholeheartedly to these commands that I am giving you today. Repeat them again and again to your children. Talk about them when you are at home and when you are on the road, when you are going to bed and when you are getting up.” — Deuteronomy 6:6-7 (NLT)

Homeschooling allows faith, character, and relationship to be woven naturally into the fabric of your ordinary days.

3 Ways to Cultivate Joy with Your Homeschool Teen

If you want to build a rich, connected relationship with your teenager during these crucial years, try focusing on these simple heart habits:

1. Protect Unscheduled Time: Resist the urge to over-schedule every hour of their day. Leave room for spontaneous conversations, shared hobbies, or just sitting on the couch together at the end of a long afternoon.
2. Be Quick to Listen, Slow to Judge: When your teen shares a doubt, a struggle, or a quirky opinion, try to listen without immediately jumping into lecture mode. Create a safe space where they know they won’t be instantly condemned for processing out loud.
3. Enjoy Who They Are Right Now: Don’t just focus on preparing them for the future; enjoy the person they are today. Laugh at their jokes, learn about the things they are passionate about, and celebrate their growing independence.

Action Step for Homeschool Parents

Sometime this week, set aside 30 minutes to do something purely fun with your pre-teen or teenager—no schoolwork, no chores, and no hidden agendas. Grab a coffee, go for a drive, or play a quick game, and simply tell them how much you enjoy being their parent.

A Prayer for Parents Navigating the Teen Years

Heavenly Father, thank You for the incredible gift of our children and for the privilege of walking alongside them through every season of growth. For the parent who feels anxious or fearful about the teenage years, please fill their heart with Your peace and confidence. Give us supernatural wisdom, patience, and gentle grace as we guide our teens toward young adulthood. Help us to guard our relationships with our children, to listen with open hearts, and to reflect Your loving-kindness in our homes every day. May our homeschools be places of deep connection, laughter, and lasting faith. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

YOUR TURN! Are you currently homeschooling a teenager, or are you preparing for those years ahead? What is one way you like to connect with your big kids? Share your thoughts in the comments below!

Additional Resources

Hope and Refreshment for Homeschooling Parents

Need more ideas and advice on homeschooling? Pick up a copy of Homeschool Basics. Receive tried-and-true homeschool advice from veteran homeschooling moms Tricia Goyer and Kristi Clover. We dish out practical help on getting started and staying the course. Homeschool Basics will remind you that the best homeschooling starts with the heart.

Packed with ideas to help you push aside your fears and raise kids who will grow to be life-long learners. Kristi and I believe that homeschooling can transform your life, your home, and your family. Mostly, we believe homeschooling can truly prepare your children for the life God’s called them to live. Don’t let doubts hold you back any longer.

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What if the most atheistic country in Europe became your next mission trip?

In one of the hardest places in the world to plant a church, 1,300 people a month are finding faith — and you’re invited to be part of what’s next.

The Czech Republic is often cited as one of the most atheistic nations on Earth. It’s a place where faith isn’t just uncommon; it’s counter cultural. And yet, for over a decade, a network of churches called Maják (”lighthouse” in Czech) has been doing exactly that: planting light in the dark. I want to share, in his own words, a message from one of the men leading that work.

A note from Pastor Freddie (Bedrich):

I am Pastor Freddie from the Czech Republic, leader of the Maják Network. We started Maják with the hope of bringing Jesus to people in one of the most atheistic countries in the world. By God’s grace, our church has grown into a network of 11 churches serving more than 1,300 people every month. But we are not done! Our vision is to see our network grow to 20 churches, reaching even more people with the good news.

To help fulfill this vision, we are organizing a Maják Partner Conference on October 6th and 7th in Birmingham, Alabama.

Our hope is to connect with ministry partners for new churches not just in the Czech Republic, but also in Slovakia and Poland. We want to share more of our vision and introduce some of our incredible leaders. We are so grateful for current partners like Tricia and John Goyer—whose daughter, Leslie, is part of one of our churches. They are helping us see this vision fulfilled, and we will have some exciting news to share about our partnership with them very soon!

For now, our immediate need is raising $15,000 to cover the travel costs to bring our Czech leaders over to the US.

If you are interested in learning more, would you consider joining us in Birmingham, or partnering with us financially to help get our team there?

Why This Mission Matters

Eleven churches. Over 1,300 people reached every month. In a country where secularism runs deep, and faith often feels like swimming upstream. WOW! That’s not a small thing… that’s a movement.

And Pastor Freddie isn’t asking anyone to take his word for it from a distance. He’s asking for the chance to show it. He will be bringing his leaders across the ocean to sit at the table with partners in Birmingham. Their heart is to cast a vision for what 20 churches across the Czech Republic, Slovakia, and Poland could look like.

That kind of trip doesn’t happen on hope alone. It happens because people who believe in the mission step up to cover the cost of getting there.

These are the leaders who are coming:

Marek, David, Dima, Freddie, Petr, Ivo, Daniel

You Can Help!

There are a few simple ways to be part of this mission:

1. Join Us in Birmingham

The Maják Partner Conference is October 6–7. If you want to hear the vision firsthand and meet the leaders behind it, this is your invitation.

Schedule and Information

Register for the Conference

2. Help Fund the October Trip to Birmingham

The immediate need is $15,000 to bring the Czech mission leadership team to the US. Every gift — large or small — moves them closer to being in the room. If this stirs something in you, reach out and let’s talk about how to get involved. Sometimes the most atheistic corners of the world are exactly where a lighthouse is needed most.

Donate $15 to help

3. Learn and Pray, Give and Go!

Go see it for yourself. Whether it’s a short-term mission trip, a homeschool family trip, or simply taking a vacation to learn more about how church planting works in Moravia and the Czech Republic — there’s a door open for you! Sometimes the most atheistic corners of the world are exactly where a lighthouse is needed most. Go see it for yourself! Fill out the part you’d like to play!

Connect With Us →

Tell us how you’d like to be part of this mission story. Give financially, ask about traveling to the Czech Republic next year, join the prayer team, or just stay in the loop. It takes two minutes, and it’s the first step toward Birmingham, Prague, and everywhere this vision is headed next!

I can’t wait for you to join us!

Additional Resources

Daily Bible Podcast Coffee Club

We’re Tricia and Michelle, two friends inviting you to join us in reading through the Bible chronologically this year. Reading the Bible every day can be a challenge. We’re here to summarize each day’s passage and provide action steps… in under 15 minutes. Grab a buddy and join our community. Take the plunge, and let’s read through the Bible together. We’ll be cheering you on all the way!

You can join us using your own One Year Bible© (if you’d like to purchase one, you can grab your preferred version using the links below). Or you can print up the One Year Chronological Reading Plan. If you don’t have a copy of the One Year Bible©, we will have the exact passages for the next day in the show notes. You can also subscribe to the One Year Chronological Bible Reading plan on the YouVersion Bible App.

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When our family welcomed new children through foster care and adoption, it was one of the most beautiful—and utterly overwhelming—seasons of my life. Our home was suddenly filled with new routines, new fears, and a delicate mix of big emotions.

I felt weary, but my load was lightened immeasurably when neighbors, friends, and our church family stepped in to help. They brought meals, gave gift cards, offered childcare for our large crew, and sent constant notes of encouragement. They didn’t just tell us they were praying; they rolled up their sleeves and became our village.

As homeschool parents, we have a unique opportunity to turn these moments into living classroom lessons. When we open our Bibles, God’s command to care for the vulnerable is crystal clear:

“Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you.” — James 1:27 (NLT)

“Learn to do good. Seek justice. Help the oppressed. Defend the cause of orphans. Fight for the rights of widows.” — Isaiah 1:17 (NLT)

Teaching our children the value of service doesn’t have to come from a textbook unit study. Serving foster and adoptive families allows our kids to practice hands-on, Christlike compassion right in our own communities.

Turning Service into a Family Practice

When you involve your children in blessing foster and adoptive families, you teach them that loving others requires action. Here are a few ways to turn these acts of service into meaningful family projects:

• Meal Prep as a Home Economics Lesson: Gather your kids in the kitchen to double a batch of dinner rolls, bake a casserole, or assemble freezer meals for a family navigating a new placement.
• Chore Blessings: Teach your older kids to serve by offering to mow a foster family’s lawn, rake leaves, or walk their dog during those hectic first few weeks.
• Organize a Supply Drive: Have your kids inventory baby gear, diapers, wipes, and gently used clothes, or let them help pick out brand-new pajamas to build a “placement kit” for a local agency.
• Blessing the Biological and Existing Kids: Remind your children to include the resident siblings in a foster or adoptive home. Giving existing kids a special card, a small treat, or an invitation for a play date shows them that their changing world is recognized and cared for, too.

Real Ways You Can Bless Foster and Adoptive Families

I asked several foster and adoptive moms what meant the most to them during their placement seasons. Here is what they shared:

1. Show Up Without Being Asked

When a child arrives, parents are often operating on pure adrenaline and low sleep. It is hard for a weary parent to even know what to ask for.

• “Friends brought over food, diapers, formula, and other necessities while we got settled. Kids are often dropped off with nothing. They didn’t ask … they just DID.” — Krystie
• “Friends just show up. We had a couple who came out to California where we were adopting and celebrated with us, serving as a hand to hold after the emotional roller coaster.” — LeighAnn

2. Provide Meals and Paper Goods

Dinner is often the hardest hour of the day during a major transition.

• “Our mom’s group at church made meals for us for the first two weeks and donated toys and baby supplies. They have been such a huge blessing!” — Charity
• “Meals for the family are so helpful, along with paper products so we don’t have to do dishes.” — Shannan

3. Throw a Shower or Organize Supplies

Many foster placements happen with less than 24 hours’ notice, leaving parents scrambling for age-appropriate gear.

• “Friends threw us an adoption shower. We took the money and bought our three adopted kids a new wooden swing set. They enjoyed it for many years!” — Sherrie
• “My church threw me a baby shower. I had nothing, and we were surprised to have only 24 hours to get ready for her.” — Laura

4. Offer Childcare and Respite Support

Providing trusted eyes and hands gives parents much-needed breathing room to recharge or spend one-on-one time with individual children.

• “Respite care, meals, activities with individual kids, clothes, and Christmas gifts meant so much. Something that really touched me was when my biological kids were included, too.” — Kimberly
• “Friends washed laundry while watching my little guy, gave seven weeks of free childcare until he could go to daycare, and watched him while I had a nap after being sick all night.” — Andrea

5. Wrap Them in Acceptance and Prayer

Above all, foster and adoptive families need a community that surrounds them with fierce love and consistency.

• “The most important thing is having a village of friends, family, and fellow foster/adopt families to surround you and your kiddos for support. Prayer is the key for daily strength and wisdom.” — Christy
• “We were thankful that each of our children was always accepted as OURS—not as outsiders, not as someone else’s child. Everyone accepted our adoption in the same way they would a biological child.” — Karen

Action Step for Homeschool Families

This week, sit down with your kids during your morning gathering time and pray over the foster and adoptive families in your community or church. Pick one simple action step your family can execute together—whether that is dropping off a freezer meal, mailing a card of encouragement, or purchasing a box of diapers to donate.

A Prayer for Foster Families and Those Who Support Them

Heavenly Father, You are the Father to the fatherless and the protector of the vulnerable. We lift up the foster and adoptive parents who have opened their hearts and homes to children in need. Give them Your supernatural strength, wisdom, and patience for each new day. Lord, open our eyes to the families around us who need support. Teach our children how to serve with generous, loving hearts, and use our homeschools as places where Your compassion is put into action. Wrap these precious children in Your love, grace, and protection. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

YOUR TURN! Have you ever received or offered support during a foster or adoption journey? What are some creative ways your homeschool family likes to serve others? Share your ideas in the comments below!

Additional Resources

The Grumble-Free Year: Twelve Months, Eleven Family Members, and One Impossible Goal

USA Today bestselling author Tricia Goyer and her family of eleven embark on a yearlong quest to eliminate grumbling from their home and discover a healthier, more thankful approach to life together.

The Goyer home–with two parents, eight kids, and one eighty-eight-year-old grandmother with dementia–is never without noise, mess, activity, and, often, complaining. And it’s not just the kids grumbling. After adding seven children in less than six years through adoption, the Goyer family decided to move out of survival-mode and into unity- and growth-mode. They decided to tackle the impossible: a grumble-free year.

With grade-schoolers, teenagers, and a grandmother who believes children should be seen and not heard, plenty of room exists for flunking the challenge. Add to that seven children being homeschooled together in close quarters, and what could possibly go awry?