Outside In tag:typepad.com,2003:weblog-78237 2012-01-23T22:38:13-06:00 Random Thoughts on Living Well Where I Don't Belong TypePad typepad/JKP/outside_inhttp://feedburner.google.com Dead computer tag:typepad.com,2003:post-6a00d83489f76d69e201630006cd15970d 2012-01-23T22:38:13-06:00 2012-01-23T22:38:13-06:00 Last week, while I was working in the library, a message appeared on my screen telling me that my hard drive was about to fail and that I must back up its contents NOW! I will be honest with you... Jo
Last week, while I was working in the library, a message appeared on my screen telling me that my hard drive was about to fail and that I must back up its contents NOW! I will be honest with you and say I didn't take it seriously at first -- thought it was kind of like the "check engine" light on the car, which half the time doesn't mean anything. After the 3rd or 4th time, however, I decided to take it seriously and back everything up. Good thing I did that since, by the next morning, she was dead as a door nail. Whew! So now "Big Red" (my red Toshiba) has gone away for a brain replacement and left me floundering. I will resume my book posts once she is back.
 http://outside-in.typepad.com/outside_in/2012/01/dead-computer.html A Tribute to My Father tag:typepad.com,2003:post-6a00d83489f76d69e2016760e11254970b 2012-01-21T02:00:00-06:00 2012-01-20T22:29:43-06:00 Eleven years ago today, my father died. Below are the words that I spoke in farewell and tribute to my dad at his memorial service on January 25, 2001, in Roseville, Minnesota. Speaking them before 600 people was one of... Jo

Dad 4Eleven years ago today, my father died.  Below are the words that I spoke in farewell and tribute to my dad at his memorial service on January 25, 2001, in Roseville, Minnesota.  Speaking them before 600 people was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done.  The first part of this tribute was written at 30,000 feet above the North Pacific Ocean as I flew home from a vacation in Thailand.  

This is my annual tribute to him.

The call you dread and fear and never expect comes.  It’s mom.  “Joann, your father died this morning.  Please come home as soon as you can.  I need you.”  Like an arrow out of no-where, somewhere, it hits first the head, then the heart, and slowly the pain sinks into your bones.  One day you’re relaxing on the beach, washing off the stress of a difficult term, and 24 hours later you’re wandering in a daze around international airports—Phuket, Bangkok, Narita—all jammed with people, and yet feeling so incredibly alone.  The words keep shouting in your soul.  “Joann, your father has died,” slamming against your bones and your organs and your skin like a bullet ricocheting around a steel cavern.  You try to drive them away with polite conversation, with reading, with hymn-singing, hoping against hope that driving the words away will drive the reality away as well. 

But then the words and reality force their way back and the pain starts again.  “Joann, your precious father stepped into glory this morning.”  “Joann, your wonderful father went home to be with his Savior.”  With every fiber of my being I believe these words, but don’t want to believe them at the same time.  He was a precious father, but now he is lost in wonder, love and grace in the presence of Jesus. 

Yet here at 30,000 feet above the Pacific Ocean, I feel just plain lost.  Lost in sadness.  Lost in pain.  I know he’s with his Savior, but I want him here with us.  How will I get through the next ten hours on this plane? How will I bear to see my mom and sister and her family at the end of this long journey?  One hour at a time, one grace at a time.  “He giveth more grace when the burdens grow greater; He giveth more strength as the labors increase.  To added affliction, He addeth more more mercy; to multiplied sorrows, He multiplies peace.”  Then it hits me.  Despite the pain, I too am lost in love and grace.  Sustaining grace--John Piper describes it like this:  “Not grace to bar what is not bliss, nor flight from all distress, but this—the grace that orders our trouble and pain, and then in the darkness is there to sustain.”  Will the sadness and the tears and the pain ever go away?  Probably not.  But then again, neither will the grace.

So, my beloved dad is gone.  What to say?  The words that scream loudest from my soul are simply, “please come back.”  I know he's in a better placee, but I still want him back here. There are too many words and no words.  But following are a few---just a few of the special things I remember about my dad.

He had a sense of humor.  He loved to laugh and make others laugh, and he was never in danger of taking himself too seriously.

He was a servant.  He would do anything for anybody anytime anyplace, from bringing coffee to my waking mom every morning to fixing church roofs to shoveling neighbor’s driveways.

He was humble.  In a stuffy academic world, he was just himself.

He was generous.  If there was a financial need, he gave. His giving to us seemed limitless and it gave him great joy.

He was compassionate.  His heart was tender and easily broken by the pain and suffering in the world.  Last month in Beijing, we visited a clothing market that the government was ready to close down.  The peddlers were selling their goods at rock-bottom prices.  In a crowd frenzied over the best bargain, he kept asking, “what will happen to these poor people?”

He loved Jesus.  Quietly and simply, he ordered his life grounded in that love.

He was a wonderful father and I miss him so very much. 

Perhaps the greatest tribute I can give will be when I come to the end of my days and people say of me, simply, “she was just like her father.”

Goodbye Dad.  I love you and miss you more than words can express.      

Jo

My dad was an ice-cream lover. In his honor our family will make a run to a local Dairy Queen this afternoon.

If you knew my dad and have any special memories, please feel free to leave a comment. (For those of you receiving this by email, you need to click open the site in order to leave a comment)

 http://outside-in.typepad.com/outside_in/2012/01/a-tribute-to-my-father.html Literary Journey - The Late 1980's tag:typepad.com,2003:post-6a00d83489f76d69e20168e5c0626f970c 2012-01-18T10:52:01-06:00 2012-01-18T10:52:01-06:00 After teaching English in Zhengzhou for two years, I returned to Minnesota in 1986 to pursue a Master's Degree and gain more teaching experience, with the intention of returning to China a few years later. While Stateside, I started serious... Jo

After teaching English in Zhengzhou for two years, I returned to Minnesota in 1986 to pursue a Master's Degree and gain more teaching experience, with the intention of returning to China a few years later.  While Stateside, I started serious work on building my China library. These are the books that were key for me during that time:

1986 - 1990

Coming Home Crazy, by Bill Holm                      

In 1985 an oversized Icelandic-American professor from Minnesota went to Xi’an to spend a year teaching English. When he returned a year later, he published this book of essays on his experience.  This was the first book that I read that caused me to smack my head and say “I wish I’d written that.” What made the book so endearing to me and others who had or were teaching in China at the time was that he was essentially telling our stories and experiences.  I re-read the book last year and wrote a post titled “Still Crazy After All These Years.”

The Joy of Getting Along with the Chinese, by Fred Schneiter      

In the early 1980’s Fred Schneiter, in his capacity as a representative of the American Wheat Board, arrived in China to promote the eating of bread among the rice and noodle-eating population. This book offers a light and witty tour of Chinese culture, especially as it is often encountered by outsiders who are here to do business.  There are tips on everything from the rituals of banqueting and getting your taxi driver not to drive like a maniac to conducting negotiations.  

The New Emperors, by Harrison Salisbury           

In this book, NYT correspondent Salisbury shows how Mao and Deng ruled China, not according to Marxist principles, but in the manner of the emperors before them. It was something that I hadn’t seen before, and completely changed my understanding of China’s governance.

The Search for Modern China, by Jonathan Spence                     

If you’re looking for a definitive work on China’s recent history, this is it. It’s laid out much like an encyclopedia, so is a great reference book. Keep in mind, though that in Chinese history parlance, “modern China” dates from the mid-1600’s.

Evening Chats in Beijing, by Perry Link   

In 1988 Princeton Professor Perry Link spent a year in Beijing interviewing intellectuals to understand the changes that had taken place in the ten years of reform. This book is a record of those conversations.  We can listen in as they talk about corruption, the authoritarian nature of the state, the need for the reform of the work unit system. The reader can’t help get the feeling that pressure is building and something will blow, which it did in the spring of 1989.  This book will give you understand the mood in the country leading up to the events of 1989.

Have you read any of these? What did you learn?

 http://outside-in.typepad.com/outside_in/2012/01/literary-journey-the-late-1980s.html Literary Journey -- The Early 1980's tag:typepad.com,2003:post-6a00d83489f76d69e20162ffbc476f970d 2012-01-17T11:39:00-06:00 2012-01-17T11:39:00-06:00 In 1984 I set off for China to teach English for a year. Before I left, the organization that I was working for sent me a book to read. It was the first book about China that I remember reading.... Jo

In 1984 I set off for China to teach English for a year.  Before I left, the organization that I was working for sent me a book to read. It was the first book about China that I remember reading.  Just as that one year in China has turned into a 28 year sojourn, so too that one book also turned out to be the start of my literary journey. Since then I have pretty much read every book about China that I can get my hands on.

In an effort to track that journey I put together a list of books that have been particularly helpful to me in my attempts to make sense of the Middle Kingdom. Over the course of this week I will post more information about the books and their significance in my journey.

Please note that this list obviously reflects my interests, which run in the direction of political and social history. I acknowledge the absence of great Chinese literary works.

Pre 1984  (before I went to China)

The Chinese: Portrait of a People, by John Fraser

The China described by this Canadian journalist was pretty much the China that I encountered in 1984.  China was drab beyond description; everything was grey – the buildings, the clothes, the sky. There was no visible commercial activity: no stores, no shops, no street sellers, no beauty parlors, no restaurants, and no cars. Because the work units still controlled nearly every aspect of an urban dwellers’ life and suspicion of foreigners ran deep, Chinese were not allowed to befriend foreigners. If Chinese I knew wanted to invite me to their homes, they first had to seek permission from their work unit. As you can imagine, it rarely happened.

1984 - 1986 (while working in Henan)

Son of the Revolution, by Liang Heng and Judith Shapiro

In 1984, China was only 8 years from the end of the Cultural Revolution, a ten year period of chaos that had enveloped the country from 1966 until the death of Mao in 1976. This book is a memoir of a young man who came of age in China during those tumultuous days. I remember reading this book in China and being astounded at the brutality that had taken place so recently. It helped me understand the significance of what China was emerging from, and gave me a glimpse into the suffering that my own students and their families had experienced.

Thunder Out of China, by Theodore White and Analee Jacoby

White was a correspondent for Time Magazine who covered war-time China in the 1940’s. What gripped me most about this book was his account of the famine in Henan Province in 1943-1944 in which 10 million people died in the very province where I was now living. His description of the streets of Zhengzhou were horrifying, and haunted me as I explored the city on my bike.

Stillwell and the American Experience in China, 1911-1945, by Barbara Tuchman

What I hadn’t known before reading this book was the extent of US military involvement in China prior to 1949.  This book tells that story, beginning with the arrival of General Stillwell in 1911. It is an eye-opening account of American attempts to influence the building of a new China following the collapse of imperial rule.

Shantung Compound, by Langdon Gilkey

When the Japanese took over northern China in the 1930's one of the things they did was round up the foreigners in the region and incarcerate them in a prison camp in Weixian, Shandong Province. Gilkey tells the story of life in the camp.  The Japanese essentially told them, "We'll man the walls, but you are responsible to organize yourselves into a functioning society," something that proved challenging for several thousand prisoners from different countries, social classes, and religions. This book would be suitable for use as a textbook for all of the following subjects: history, anthropology, sociology, psychology, and political science. For a long time, I faithfully read this book once a year.

Have you read any of these?

 http://outside-in.typepad.com/outside_in/2012/01/literary-journey-the-early-1980s.html Literary Journey - The List tag:typepad.com,2003:post-6a00d83489f76d69e20168e5a6add9970c 2012-01-16T17:17:47-06:00 2012-01-16T17:17:47-06:00 Thanks to those of you who came out to my talk last week about China books. It was great to see you. Those of you who didn't make it might be curious to know which books I consider key in... Jo

ChinabookThanks to those of you who came out to my talk last week about China books.  It was great to see you. Those of you who didn't make it might  be curious to know which books I consider key in my understanding and love for China. 

I am posting here the list for your reference. 

Starting tomorrow I will post in more detail about each of the books and its influence. 

My Literary Journey to being a “Sinophile:” Books that have Shaped My Love for and Understanding of China

Sinophile:  a person who admires or has a strong liking for China, the Chinese, or their culture; friendly to or having a strong liking for China and the Chinese (dictionary.com)

 Pre-1984

  • The Chinese: Portrait of a People, by John Fraser   

 1984-1986

  • Son of the Revolution, by Liang Heng and Judith Shapiro
  • Thunder Out of China, by Eddie White
  • Stillwell and the American Experience in China, by Barbara Tuchman
  • Shantung Compound, by Langdon Gilkey

 1986 – 1990  

  • Coming Home Crazy, by Bill Holm
  • The Joy of Getting Along with the Chinese, by Fred Schneiter
  • The New Emperors, by Harrison Salisbury
  • The Search for Modern China, by Jonathan Spence
  • Evening Chats in Beijing, by Perry Link

 1990’s

  • Wild Swans, by Jung Chung
  • China Wakes, by Nicholas Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn
  • The Man who Stayed Behind, by Sidney Rittenberg
  • Red China Blues, by Jan Wong
  • Pavilion of Women, by Pearl Buck
  • To Change China: Western Advisors in China, by Jonathan Spence
  • A Million Truths, by Linda Jakobsen
  • The Chinese Have a Word for it, by Boye Lafayette De Mente

 2000’s

  • Turning Bricks into Jade, by Mary Margaret Wang, et.al.
  • The Good Women of China, by Xinran
  • Rivertown, by Peter Hessler
  • Oracle Bones, by Peter Hessler
  • Jesus in Beijing, by David Aikman
  • China Road, by Rob Gifford
  • Last Days of Old Beijing, by Mike Meyers
  • Factory Girls, by Leslie Chang

 2010’s

  • Country Driving, by Peter Hessler
  • Dreaming in Chinese, by Deborah Fallows
  • Snowflower and the Secret Fan, by Lisa See
  • God is Red,by Liao Yiwu

Which ones have you read?

 http://outside-in.typepad.com/outside_in/2012/01/literary-journey-the-list.html Viewing Assignment: The Best Life tag:typepad.com,2003:post-6a00d83489f76d69e20162ff757173970d 2012-01-12T12:12:54-06:00 2012-01-12T12:12:54-06:00 The Chinese web portal Netease has posted a video clip of interviews with ordinary Chinese about their ideas for 'the best life." It's a sobering look beyond the headlines of China's power and economic clout, at the people of China,... Jo

The Chinese web portal Netease has posted a video clip of interviews with ordinary Chinese about their ideas for 'the best life."  It's a sobering look beyond the headlines of China's power and economic clout, at the people of China, most of whom are working under difficult conditions to simply better their lives.