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    <title>STOP  MALE  ABUSE</title>
    
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    <id>tag:typepad.com,2003:weblog-1277748</id>
    <updated>2010-01-23T03:06:43-08:00</updated>
    <subtitle>Lynn Melville, author of 'Breaking Free from Boomerang Love', confronts and challenges emotional, verbal, mental and physical abuse of men, domestic violence against men, and the pain of loving someone with Borderline Personality Disorder.</subtitle>
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        <title>Interviews About Borderline Personality Disorder</title>
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        <published>2010-01-23T03:06:43-08:00</published>
        <updated>2010-02-07T23:23:51-08:00</updated>
        
        <author>
            <name>Lynn Melville</name>
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        <category scheme="http://sixapart.com/ns/types#tag" term="abuse against men" />
        <category scheme="http://sixapart.com/ns/types#tag" term="Borderline Personality Disorder" />
        <category scheme="http://sixapart.com/ns/types#tag" term="domestic abuse" />
        <category scheme="http://sixapart.com/ns/types#tag" term="Domestic violence" />
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    <content type="html">NOTE ON FEBRUARY 8, 2010: The below interview with me was dramatically different from anything you've ever heard about Borderline Personalty Disorder. With two hours of air time, I was able to powerfully deliver hard-hitting, straight talk about the Borderline...&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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    <entry>
        <title>Fight Over Battered Men Funds</title>
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        <id>tag:typepad.com,2003:post-65392915</id>
        <published>2009-04-13T00:13:38-07:00</published>
        <updated>2009-04-13T00:22:06-07:00</updated>
        
        <author>
            <name>Lynn Melville</name>
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        <category scheme="http://www.sixapart.com/ns/types#category" term="FIGHT OVER BATTERED MEN FUNDS" />
        
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        <category scheme="http://sixapart.com/ns/types#tag" term="male domestic violence victims" />
        <category scheme="http://sixapart.com/ns/types#tag" term="partner abuse" />
        <category scheme="http://sixapart.com/ns/types#tag" term="partner violance" />
        


    <content type="html">An article in the Sunday Sun in the United Kingdom states that, "The stigma is slowly being removed for male victims and they now feel they can come forward. So the number of battered husbands and partners is growing so...&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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    <entry>
        <title>Women Abusing Men</title>
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        <id>tag:typepad.com,2003:post-65214801</id>
        <published>2009-04-08T03:43:14-07:00</published>
        <updated>2009-04-08T03:43:14-07:00</updated>
        
        <author>
            <name>Lynn Melville</name>
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    <content type="html">Contrary to public perception, recent statistics are showing that 40 percent of domestic violence incidents in the United States are committed by women against men. I was interested to see that even in Malaysia, this is a problem. A recent...&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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    <entry>
        <title>RIHANNA AND CHRIS BROWN BATTERING</title>
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        <id>tag:typepad.com,2003:post-63969845</id>
        <published>2009-03-12T00:40:03-07:00</published>
        <updated>2009-03-12T00:40:03-07:00</updated>
        
        <author>
            <name>Lynn Melville</name>
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        <category scheme="http://sixapart.com/ns/types#tag" term="women against men domestic violence" />
        


    <content type="html">Well, unless you've been shutting yourself off from the news, you've heard about the domestic abuse battering against singer Rihanna by singer Chris Brown, as they drove away in a rented Lamborghini from a pre-Grammy party in February. Donald Trump...&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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    <entry>
        <title>EMOTIONAL ABUSE:  101 Things I'm Tired Of</title>
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        <id>tag:typepad.com,2003:post-56219816</id>
        <published>2008-09-27T19:28:41-07:00</published>
        <updated>2009-05-30T15:34:33-07:00</updated>
        
        <author>
            <name>Lynn Melville</name>
        </author>
        <category scheme="http://www.sixapart.com/ns/types#category" term="EMOTIONAL ABUSE: 101 Things I'm Tired Of" />
        
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        <category scheme="http://sixapart.com/ns/types#tag" term="hurtful things women do to men" />
        <category scheme="http://sixapart.com/ns/types#tag" term="women abusing men" />
        


    <content type="html">I'm a member of a Yahoo online community board for partners of Borderlines. One of the men recently posted his 101 Things I'm Tired Of list. I was so impressed with how clearly he expressed the pain, the sorrow, the...&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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    <entry>
        <title>DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AGAINST MEN:  Almost 50%</title>
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        <id>tag:typepad.com,2003:post-54960750</id>
        <published>2008-08-31T23:43:34-07:00</published>
        <updated>2009-06-06T18:16:24-07:00</updated>
        
        <author>
            <name>Lynn Melville</name>
        </author>
        <category scheme="http://www.sixapart.com/ns/types#category" term="DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AGAINST MEN: Almost 50%" />
        
        


    <content type="html">Check out the below link featuring Harry Crouch, executive director of the San Diego Mens Center in California. Harry brings up the unknown fact that in the 2007 national crime statistics report of 1.4 million women as domestic violence victims,...&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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