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    <title>Andrea's Brain Drain</title>
    
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    <updated>2007-06-03T13:35:27-04:00</updated>
    <subtitle>Networking, relationships and marketing -- unraveling the learning curve.</subtitle>
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        <title>Networking - it's a marathon</title>
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        <summary>How often do we hear parents complaining that their kids, "only call when they need something" -- Or get the feeling that our business contacts are really only interested in 'what's in it for them' whenever you cross paths --...</summary>
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            <name>Andrea Goodsaid</name>
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&lt;div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"&gt;&lt;p&gt;How often do we hear parents complaining that their kids, &amp;quot;only call when they need something&amp;quot; --&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Or get the feeling that our business contacts are really only interested in 'what's in it for them' whenever you cross paths --&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;The story that Seth Godin tells of his seeing &lt;a href="http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2007/06/the_blind_squir.html"&gt;&amp;quot;The Blind Squirrel Problem&amp;quot;&lt;/a&gt; in action speaks volumes to our typical marketing and networking efforts. Too little too late is an all too common reality.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;An even bigger challenge to this, it seems to me, is the level of sincerity and good intentions behind most networking efforts in particular. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Just like kids calling parents only in cases of emergency or dire financial need, we fail to reach out to our customers, clients and connections when it's &amp;quot;unimportant&amp;quot; to us. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;We fail to be fair weather (our weather) friends.&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;We forget to keep it &amp;quot;all about them&amp;quot;&lt;/li&gt;

&lt;li&gt;and less words more often is totally the way to go...&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;img title="Misterrogers" alt="Misterrogers" src="http://andreagoodsaid.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/2007/06/03/misterrogers.jpg" border="0" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 5px 5px" /&gt;Makes me stop and wonder.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;What sort of network do you suppose &lt;a href="http://www.wilygraphics.com/timingandspacing/2006/05/fred_rogers_and_the_art_of_get.html"&gt;Mister Rogers&lt;/a&gt; had? &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Could it really be that simple?&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://andreagoodsaid.typepad.com/weblog/endless-referrals.html"&gt;Appreciate the people around you&lt;/a&gt; and the network will come?&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Kinda makes 'ya think, eh?&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I appreciate you!&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;img title="Andreasig" alt="Andreasig" src="http://andreagoodsaid.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/2007/06/03/andreasig.jpg" border="0" /&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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