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        <title>Items of Interest</title>
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        <published>2009-11-09T13:51:59-08:00</published>
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        <summary>What's the difference between rich and poor countries? It could be trust. The 25 scariest science experiments ever conducted. I have seen video footage of the one called "The Pit of Despair" and it was heartbreaking. Science is great but...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>What's the difference between rich and poor countries? It could be <a href="http://www.forbes.com/2006/09/22/trust-economy-markets-tech_cx_th_06trust_0925harford.html">trust</a>.</p><p>The <a href="http://io9.com/5390389/25-of-the-scariest-science-experiments-ever-conducted">25 scariest science experiments</a> ever conducted. I have seen video footage of the one called "<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harry_Harlow">The Pit of Despair</a>" and it was heartbreaking. Science is great but I hate it when it outruns moral reasoning.</p><p>I'm interested in seeing <a href="http://www.metmuseum.org/special/se_event.asp?OccurrenceId=%7BF8E9ACA7-5B17-471F-9394-D298E7E53159%7D&amp;HomePageLink=special_c2b">this show</a> at the Metropolitan Museum of Art. </p><p>Ayn Rand's greatest <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2009/11/01/books/review/Kirsch-t.html">accomplishment</a>? "Convinc[ing] so many people, especially young people, that they could be
geniuses without being in any concrete way distinguished." And I say that as someone who managed to slog through the whole 1,000+ page mess that is <em>Atlas Shrugged</em>. </p><p>Very nice <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/31766129@N08/4091173721/">photo</a> by Mark Lotterhand.</p><p /><p /><p /><p /></div>
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        <title>Two Types</title>
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        <published>2009-10-22T13:26:33-07:00</published>
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        <summary>"...and that's Sagittarius." (pointing upwards at the night sky) "Wow. How did you learn so much about the stars?" "Well, in high school, there are two types of kids. There are the kids who go to parties with their friends,...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>"...and that's Sagittarius." (pointing upwards at the night sky)</p><p>"Wow. How did you learn so much about the stars?"</p><p>"Well, in high school, there are two types of kids. There are the kids who go to parties with their friends, get drunk and pick up girls. And then there are the kids who study the stars."</p><p>- conversation on my canoe trip down the <a href="http://images.google.com/images?hl=en&amp;source=hp&amp;q=allagash+river&amp;um=1&amp;ie=UTF-8&amp;ei=Vb7gSrqmMIbZlAeR3tjVCw&amp;sa=X&amp;oi=image_result_group&amp;ct=title&amp;resnum=4&amp;ved=0CCEQsAQwAw">Allagash</a>.</p></div>
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        <title>The Dream</title>
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        <published>2009-06-21T18:51:56-07:00</published>
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        <summary>I'm going to break a personal rule and write about a dream I had a few weeks ago. In my dream I handed my daughter to an old woman to hold for a moment. When I turned back, the woman...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>I'm going to break a personal rule and write about a dream I had a few weeks ago.</p><p>In my dream I handed my daughter to an old woman to hold for a moment. When I turned back, the woman had put Lilah in a little straw boat and floated her down a river, like a baby Moses.</p><p>IDIOT! How could she do something so <strong>stupid</strong>. I ran downstream, looking frantically for any sign of her or the boat. Then I saw the boat, it was overturned and caught in some reeds. Lilah was nowhere in sight. I dove into the river head-first. I was like a robot. The only thought in my head was "Go. Go. Go. Do something. Do something. Do something." </p><p>I swam through the dark water towards the bottom. It was murky but Lilah's pink jacket started to come into view. I thought, "I need to get her to the surface as fast as possible and start CPR right away." </p><p>And then I woke up.</p><p>In a way the dream was relieving. One of my deepest fears is in a moment of crisis I might freeze, too overcome with emotion to move. In my dream this was not a problem. On the contrary, I felt like an unstoppable force. It was only after I had woken that the emotions swept over me and I could hardly control myself I was crying so hard.</p><p>Happy Fathers Day.</p></div>
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        <title>The Albatross</title>
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        <published>2008-11-11T18:23:39-08:00</published>
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        <summary>A long time ago, I made a bad career move. A really bad career move, one that would follow me for an unexpectedly long time. I hope you will read this as a cautionary tale. I think a lot can...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>A long time ago, I made a bad career move. A really bad career move, one that would follow me for an unexpectedly long time. I hope you will read this as a cautionary tale. I think a lot can be learned from it.</p><p>I was working for a small tech startup that would later be acquired by a well known company on the west coast. It was an intimidatingly smart outfit, when I joined there were eight employees and half of them had PhDs in Computer Science from Harvard. Anyway, we were growing rapidly and I was put in charge of finding, interviewing, and hiring another person to help us in tech support.</p><p>I'd done this before and the person I hired was a rock star. She was smart, talented and well liked by everyone. So people within the company trusted my judgment. Oh, how I let them down.</p><p>After much searching, it came down to two candidates. Candidate A was a young guy, a recent graduate of BU. He seemed ambitious and capable without being a merciless stair-climber. He was earnest and eager to hit the ground running. I could tell right away he would go far.</p><p>And then there was the other guy.</p><p>Candidate B was kind of weird looking, the word "dorky" springs to mind. Everyone who saw him remarked he looked like Newman from <em>Seinfeld</em>. He was a little older than me and he'd held a good amount of jobs in a short amount of time. But he was impossibly friendly and good-natured. He gave a great interview. </p><p>So I was faced with the choice between the two. And I'm ashamed to admit, I made the bad choice. I chose candidate B. I chose candidate B because I was threatened by candidate A. I thought there was a possibility that candidate A would later outshine me. I rationalized this to myself by thinking, "I just want to hire a monkey who will answer the phone." </p><p>But it didn't take long for me to regret the decision. Within a week, I wanted to fire candidate B. He had an almost preternatural ability to fuck up whatever he was working on. One of the engineers had put in a feature to delete client accounts. The feature had a warning screen, "Are you sure you want to do this?" and he wanted to add the line, "If this is [Candidate B], click 'No.'"</p><p>Candidate B was also disturbingly strange. The kind of guy who plays Dungeons and Dragons and decorates his cube with Star Wars figurines. Now, I have nothing against these people, I saw my fair share of them working in Silicon Valley. But they usually have some marketable skills to make up for their social failings. Candidate B had none. No skills. The guy could barely pick up the phone without cheerfully screwing it up. I later learned he gave a great interview because he'd taken a class in it. And his resume had been puffed up with skills he obviously did not have.</p><p>But I was not able to fire him. Our COO wanted to sell the company and turnover looked bad for potential acquirers. So I was forced to shuffle Candidate B into some role where the damage he inevitably caused was minimized. The role was so pointless I'm not sure he did much of anything outside of sit at a desk and play World of Warcraft. As long as he stayed out of my hair and people forgot I hired him, that was fine with me. </p><p>Little did I know this thing, this horribly inept, impossibly friendly person would follow me, haunt me for the next three years. He would follow me after the acquisition, traveling 3,000 miles to the west coast to work in a cube a few doors down from me. Always skirting being fired and shuffled from manager to manager, Candidate B made a career of finding the role of least significance and hanging on for dear life. I was not fully rid of his presence until I left my employer in 2001. He was still there when I left. </p><p>I don't know for the life of me how he held on for as long as he did but, somehow, he did. He outlasted me. And always people would say, "Why did Dave hire that guy?" As a result, I was not entrusted with interviewing and hiring people for a long, long time.</p><p>Which is too bad because I learned something from hiring Candidate B. It's a simple rule, may you remember it forever - don't be afraid to hire someone who is smarter than yourself. I learned that lesson a thousand times over. You are much better served being the dumbest guy in the room than to be surrounded by fools. Seek out the smart people and learn from them. </p></div>
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        <title>Daddy's Girl</title>
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        <summary>Teaching Lilah how to bang seashells together and she's smiling like I told her the funniest joke in the world.</summary>
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 </p><p>Teaching Lilah how to bang seashells together and she's smiling like I told her the funniest joke in the world.</p></div>
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        <title>Hunting Rattlesnakes</title>
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        <summary>This weekend my friend Mark and I went to the Massachusetts/New York border to hunt rattlesnakes. I used to hike 4,000 foot mountains with Mark before he developed an obsession with these animals. I was there with him on that...</summary>
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This weekend my friend Mark and I went to the Massachusetts/New York border to hunt rattlesnakes. I used to hike 4,000 foot mountains with Mark before he developed an obsession with these animals. I was there with him on that fateful day he bought the book about them and I have hardly seen him since. Damn snakes.<br /><br />I'm not what you would call a 'snake person' but after going insane after ten months of baby-imposed social isolation, the opportunity to get out of the house was too great to pass up. I did this even though it meant driving eight hours round trip and slogging through bug-infested woods to photograph a bunch of poisonous snakes. <br /><br /><center><a href="http://davegreten.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8345157ce69e200e552b1ff578834-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=1215,height=1800,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="display: inline;"><img alt="IMG_0174" class="at-xid-6a00d8345157ce69e200e552b1ff578834 " src="http://davegreten.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8345157ce69e200e552b1ff578834-320pi" /></a></center>
<br /><br />The den was a spot Mark had been to before so he knew the area well. Good thing too, because it's creepy roaming around in the woods watching your every step to make sure you don't step on a camouflaged snake. At one point I stepped by a rock and heard an ominous rattle at my feet. Mark said, "Don't move" but I still jumped three feet. <br /><br />Despite my cowardice, don't get the wrong idea about rattlesnakes. They are extremely docile and reluctant to use their venom. Far more rattlesnakes are killed by humans than humans killed by rattlesnakes. They are beyond easy to kill. All you need to do is throw a rock on them and pow, you just killed yourself a snake. Congratulations. That's part of the reason they are endangered and a protected species in this area. <br /><br />Because they are so easily destroyed, the location of rattlesnake dens is a closely protected secret by Fish and Game. To find his first one, Mark had to rely on a tip he received years ago and pour over satellite and topographical maps. In his mad pursuit of snakes, he has set up what he calls "the rattlesnake command center" in his home's dining room. His entire table is littered with maps and books on this elusive animal. He has now located something like 4-5 dens.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://davegreten.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8345157ce69e200e552b200ba8834-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=1800,height=1200,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="display: inline;"><img alt="IMG_0084" class="at-xid-6a00d8345157ce69e200e552b200ba8834 " src="http://davegreten.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8345157ce69e200e552b200ba8834-320pi" /></a></center>
<br /><br />We spent a lot of time photographing these snakes. Mark took over 200 pictures. I'll spare you all of them and summarize with the one above. But I wish I had brought a camera along to photograph Mark taking these pictures. Since we live in an age of high quality nature photos, viewers can be unaware of the lengths photographers will go to get a good shot. Mark basically stuck his head about a foot away from this coiled snake to get this picture. <br /><br />We saw a total of 25 snakes. According to Mark, that's his second best day ever. On the drive home he called his snake friend Pete - a man who has dedicated his life to finding all the rattlesnake dens in the New England area. Pete is so fanatical he has a standing $500 reward to anyone who shows him a rattlesnake den in Maine. Mark has stumbled upon a sub-culture I had no idea existed. I dozed for the last hour of the drive back to Mark's place but they were talking like excited schoolgirls the whole time.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://davegreten.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8345157ce69e200e552990ce18833-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=1800,height=1203,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="display: inline;"><img alt="IMG_0171" class="at-xid-6a00d8345157ce69e200e552990ce18833 " src="http://davegreten.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8345157ce69e200e552990ce18833-320pi" /></a></center><br />All in all, it was a welcome reprieve from the world of work, raising a child, attending funerals and shopping for a house. I'm looking forward to more outings like this one but I will be amazed if this post gets any comments whatsoever.</div>
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        <title>The Long Goodbye</title>
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        <published>2008-04-09T16:53:42-07:00</published>
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        <summary>My grandmother passed away on Monday. Although it was not unexpected, it did come as a shock. The voicemail from my mother made me stop in my tracks. She had been so frail for so long I am a little...</summary>
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&lt;p&gt;My grandmother passed away on Monday. Although it was not unexpected, it did come as a shock. The voicemail from my mother made me stop in my tracks. She had been so frail for so long I am a little ashamed to admit I did not like going to visit her. She could hardly hear a word we said and was confined to her chair, reading an endless series of books and totally dependent on the care of others. I hope you do not think me as selfish. It was too painful to see someone who was once so filled with life and dignity reduced to this. I don't think she liked it either. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;When I think of my maternal grandparents, I see the face of rock-solid German stoicism and practicality. When they were ready for you to leave, there was no dawdling. Grandpa would look at his watch and say, &amp;quot;Well, time for you to get going.&amp;quot; I refer to my grandfather as &amp;quot;the man of steel.&amp;quot; Not that he is cruel or brutal but that there is nothing in the world that can break him. He's like Clint Eastwood. Tall, strong and steely. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;But don't get the wrong idea - he likes a good laugh, a good beer, and was overwhelmed with happiness when I showed him his great granddaughter. He has an extraordinarily generous spirit and looks out for those who are close to him. But he also was a military man all his life so he sees a world of rules, discipline, and brutal efficiency. To give you an idea of his sentimentality, my mother told me the story that when Grandpa was in a mop-up operation in the Pacific in World War Two, he was pulling survivors from the ocean onto his boat. One capsized sailor was clinging to his clearly dead friend. My grandfather wrenched him from his grip and said, &amp;quot;He's dead. Let him go.&amp;quot;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;And so it was, initially, with Grandma. A group of nurses were crowded around him when they presented him with the news that his wife of 61 years had passed on. I'm sure they were worried he would faint, collapse, have a heart attack, or maybe all three. His reaction was, &amp;quot;Well, this is a shock. What are we going to do? Maybe we should move back to Connecticut.&amp;quot; Not quite the reaction everyone was expecting. Sometimes a little dementia can be helpful.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;The tears came later and knowing that pains me. My mother and grandfather were escorted into my grandmother's room so they could have a moment with Grandma lying in her chair. I can imagine an intolerable silence. My grandfather then said, &amp;quot;I think I might get a little teary here.&amp;quot; The fact that he said it apologetically makes &lt;em&gt;me &lt;/em&gt;teary. I can't even imagine something so horrible that it would make my grandfather cry. But this was it. And the thought of my grandfather sitting alone in his room, it's almost too much to take.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;The thing I remember most about my grandmother were her hands. They were soft and kind. I can think of nothing that was more reflective of her overall character. She was the softness and humanity that offset my grandfather's punctuality and discipline. They were an ideal pairing for 61 years and she will be missed terribly by everyone who knew her.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;/p&gt;

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        <title>Funny Wikipedia Factoid of the Day</title>
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        <id>tag:typepad.com,2003:post-47677320</id>
        <published>2008-03-28T15:50:46-07:00</published>
        <updated>2008-03-28T15:50:46-07:00</updated>
        <summary>The Warrant song "Cherry Pie" was written in 15 minutes. Band member Jani Lane was told to write a rock anthem by the president of Columbia Records. It was written down on a pizza box.</summary>
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            <name>Dave Greten</name>
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<p>The Warrant song "<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cherry_Pie_%28Warrant_song%29">Cherry Pie</a>" was written in 15 minutes. Band member Jani Lane was told to write a rock anthem by the president of Columbia Records. It was written down on a pizza box.</p></div>
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        <title>Little Bear</title>
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        <id>tag:typepad.com,2003:post-42995654</id>
        <published>2008-01-08T09:39:42-08:00</published>
        <updated>2008-01-08T09:39:42-08:00</updated>
        <summary />
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            <name>Dave Greten</name>
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        <title>Very Serious</title>
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        <published>2007-10-19T09:29:00-07:00</published>
        <updated>2007-10-19T09:29:00-07:00</updated>
        <summary>I was inspired by Ironic Sans' wedding photo of him and his new bride where they are both looking very serious. You don't see this kind of thing often, an unsmiling couple looking directly at a camera. Emily and I...</summary>
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            <name>Dave Greten</name>
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&lt;div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"&gt;&lt;p&gt;I was inspired by &lt;a href="http://www.ironicsans.com/2007/06/shes_a_vector_girl_im_a_bitmap.html"&gt;Ironic Sans'&lt;/a&gt; wedding photo of him and his new bride where they are both looking &lt;a href="http://www.ironicsans.com/images/wedding02.jpg"&gt;very serious&lt;/a&gt;. You don't see this kind of thing often, an unsmiling couple looking directly at a camera. Emily and I gave it a shot over the weekend.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Take One:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;a onclick="window.open(this.href, '_blank', 'width=450,height=338,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" href="http://davegreten.typepad.com/.shared/image.html?/photos/uncategorized/2007/10/15/resized01.jpg"&gt;&lt;img width="450" height="338" border="0" src="http://davegreten.typepad.com/dave_gretens_blog/images/2007/10/15/resized01.jpg" title="Resized01" alt="Resized01" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Way to muck it up, Em. Let's try this again. Take Two:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;a onclick="window.open(this.href, '_blank', 'width=450,height=338,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" href="http://davegreten.typepad.com/.shared/image.html?/photos/uncategorized/2007/10/15/resized02.jpg"&gt;&lt;img width="450" height="338" border="0" src="http://davegreten.typepad.com/dave_gretens_blog/images/2007/10/15/resized02.jpg" title="Resized02" alt="Resized02" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Take Three:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;a onclick="window.open(this.href, '_blank', 'width=450,height=338,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" href="http://davegreten.typepad.com/.shared/image.html?/photos/uncategorized/2007/10/15/resized03.jpg"&gt;&lt;img width="450" height="338" border="0" src="http://davegreten.typepad.com/dave_gretens_blog/images/2007/10/15/resized03.jpg" title="Resized03" alt="Resized03" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;


&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Now I'm starting to crack. Take Four:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;a onclick="window.open(this.href, '_blank', 'width=450,height=338,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" href="http://davegreten.typepad.com/.shared/image.html?/photos/uncategorized/2007/10/15/resized04.jpg"&gt;&lt;img width="450" height="338" border="0" src="http://davegreten.typepad.com/dave_gretens_blog/images/2007/10/15/resized04.jpg" title="Resized04" alt="Resized04" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;


&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Take Five:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;a onclick="window.open(this.href, '_blank', 'width=450,height=338,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" href="http://davegreten.typepad.com/.shared/image.html?/photos/uncategorized/2007/10/15/resized05.jpg"&gt;&lt;img width="450" height="338" border="0" src="http://davegreten.typepad.com/dave_gretens_blog/images/2007/10/15/resized05.jpg" title="Resized05" alt="Resized05" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;


&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Take Six:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;a onclick="window.open(this.href, '_blank', 'width=450,height=338,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" href="http://davegreten.typepad.com/.shared/image.html?/photos/uncategorized/2007/10/15/resized06.jpg"&gt;&lt;img width="450" height="338" border="0" src="http://davegreten.typepad.com/dave_gretens_blog/images/2007/10/15/resized06.jpg" title="Resized06" alt="Resized06" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;


&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Take Seven:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;a onclick="window.open(this.href, '_blank', 'width=450,height=338,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" href="http://davegreten.typepad.com/.shared/image.html?/photos/uncategorized/2007/10/15/resized07.jpg"&gt;&lt;img width="450" height="338" border="0" src="http://davegreten.typepad.com/dave_gretens_blog/images/2007/10/15/resized07.jpg" title="Resized07" alt="Resized07" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;


&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Lessons learned - I can hold a much more serious face than my wife. I smile much harder when I am trying not to.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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