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    <title>Minding Our Elders&amp;reg</title>
    
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    <updated>2013-05-24T01:01:00-05:00</updated>
    <subtitle>Information, Support and Shared Experience for Caregivers and Seniors by Author, Columnist, Consultant, Speaker Carol Bradley Bursack</subtitle>
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        <title>Vitamins B12, B6 and Folic Acid Shown to Slow Alzheimer’s in Study</title>
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        <published>2013-05-24T01:01:00-05:00</published>
        <updated>2013-05-24T01:01:00-05:00</updated>
        <summary>The MRI scans compared the scans to see how much gray matter was lost in brain regions most affected by Alzheimer’s disease. The participants taking the vitamin “cocktail,” showed what researchers concluded was a significantly smaller amount of brain shrinkage in those specific regions.</summary>
        <author>
            <name>Carol Bradley Bursack</name>
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<p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-outline-level: 1;"><span style="mso-font-kerning: 18.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">Could a combination of the vitamins B12, B6 and folic acid be first
effective “drug” to slow down the progression of Alzheimer’s disease? The
concept looks promising. T</span>he <em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Proceedings
of the National Academy of Sciences</em> recently published information about a
study on aging volunteers that has demonstrated how this combination of B
vitamins has, in their trials, <a href="http://www.businessweek.com/news/2013-05-20/vitamins-that-cost-pennies-a-day-seen-delaying-dementia-health" target="_blank" title="vitamins B12, B6 and folic acid may slow Alzheimer's">slowed
atrophy of gray matter in brain</a> areas affected by Alzheimer’s disease. In
the words of senior study author A. David Smith, professor emeritus of
pharmacology at Oxford University in England, “It’s a big effect, much bigger
than we would have dreamt of.”</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.healthcentral.com/alzheimers/c/62/160989/vitamins-b12-shown-alzheimer" target="_blank" title="B12, B6 and folic acid to stop brain shrinkage">Read more about the promising vitamin cocktail that could slow Alzheimer's progression:</a> 
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        <title>Adult Grandchildren Often Pick Up the Role of Caregiver</title>
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        <published>2013-05-23T01:01:00-05:00</published>
        <updated>2013-05-23T01:01:00-05:00</updated>
        <summary>Whatever the reason that caregiving begins, I hear from a number of young adults who are trying to care for one or more grandparents. Most of them love their grandparent dearly, but they often come up against obstacles that are quite overwhelming for people so young.</summary>
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            <name>Carol Bradley Bursack</name>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>Few people who have fulfilled the caregiver role to an elder would say 
it's an easy job. However, most caregivers are either adult children who
 have at least matured into their 40s or 50s, or else they are mature 
spouses of the ill person. These caregivers have a few decades of living
 behind them and hopefully have been able to enjoy some young years 
where their responsibilities, at the most, were to take care of 
themselves, a spouse and their children. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.agingcare.com/Articles/grandchildren-caring-for-their-grandparents-149490.htm" target="_blank" title="grandchildren caring for grandparents">Read more about grandchildren caring for grandparents:</a> </p>
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        <title>Helping Grandchildren Understand Grandparent's Dementia</title>
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        <summary>Children can be frightened by the changes in the grandparent who was once gentle and loving, but could now have become cranky and occasionally downright mean and abusive. How we, as parents, handle the changes in our own parents can affect how well our children handle the changes. But each child is different and each set of circumstances is different. So where to you start when it's time to explain?</summary>
        <author>
            <name>Carol Bradley Bursack</name>
        </author>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>Children can be frightened by the changes in the grandparent who was 
once gentle and loving, but could now have become cranky and 
occasionally downright mean and abusive. How we, as parents, handle the 
changes in our own parents can affect how well our children handle the 
changes. But each child is different and each set of circumstances is 
different. So where to you start when it's time to explain?</p>
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        <published>2013-05-21T01:01:00-05:00</published>
        <updated>2013-05-21T01:01:00-05:00</updated>
        <summary>One reason our elders put on such a show for the doctor is fear. They don't want to hear a bad diagnosis for many reasons, one being the possible loss of independence. So, they put on their company manners. They tell the doctor whatever seems best in order to get out of there "free." </summary>
        <author>
            <name>Carol Bradley Bursack</name>
        </author>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>...My mom was a supreme example. She fell in her apartment—often more than 
once a week. She had memory problems. She was taken advantage of by 
telemarketers. She had digestive issues. However, when I took her to her
 doctor, what I called her "hostess personality" took over. While she 
may have complained of pain in the car during our drive, the minute she 
had a chance to tell her doctor how terrible she felt she was perkiness 
personified.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.agingcare.com/Articles/doctor-visits-with-elderly-parent-149071.htm" target="_blank" title="why elders try to fool the doctor">Read more about why parents try to fool the doctor:</a></p>
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    <entry>
        <title>Siblings Disagree About Mom Seeking Dementia Evaluation</title>
        <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/typepad/hwqw/~3/o2BeHo3W55w/siblings-disagree-about-mom-seeking-dementia-evaluation.html" />
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        <updated>2013-05-20T01:01:00-05:00</updated>
        <summary>Dear Carol: My sister Jean has wanted our mom to see a doctor about memory issues for months but Mom says she’s fine. Jean lives out of town, so she set aside a day to come into town and take Mom to lunch and get Mom’s hair cut. Then, Jean sprung a doctor appointment on Mom and, not surprisingly, Mom refused to go. She and Jean had a fight. </summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">Dear Carol:</span></strong><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;"> My sister Jean has wanted our mom to see a doctor
about memory issues for months but Mom says she’s fine. Jean lives out of town,
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