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Hi! My name is Mika and I’m deathly afraid of public speaking much less voicing my opinions.

I grew up with this belief that I needed to stay in the shadows and avoid being center of attention at all cost. In fact, as a small child, my life depended on this inherent fear. It saved me from sound lashing by the wrath of a very angry step-mom (definitely not your stereotypical American family with the doting mother and white picket fence). Unfortunately, as I got older, this fear stuck and I lived the majority of my life this way.

But I’m not that same little girl anymore.

Somewhere down the road, I found the courage to stop living my life that way. It was excruciatingly painful at first, but with each step of the way, I noticed my unwavering voice, and the confidence within my stance.

Then I decided to join Toastmasters. I can’t help but cringe as I look back on my first experience. I could barely get the words out of my mouth “My name is Mika and I’m here because I suck at public speaking.”

I completely failed at my introduction.

If you don’t know what Toastmasters is, it’s a program to help you hone down on your communications skills by speaking in front of a large group of people who offer you constructive criticism on your technique and approach.

The mere thought of being the center of attention in front of a group of random strangers can be a very anxiety-inducing experience for some (it certainly was for me). You may be asking why am I subjecting myself to this kind of uncomfortable scrutiny.

Well, have you ever not given your best because you’ve felt inadequate or afraid? That’s how I felt about social settings or whenever I was in the spotlight (thank goodness for the internet, right?).

Is there a certain aspect in your life you want to improve on?

If you’ve nodded your head at least once, pay close attention because you’re about to learn 4 ways you can make a tangible difference in achieving your aspirations.

1. Suffering is Part of the Process of Achieving Your Aspirations

Life is filled with suffering because it’s part of being human. Human suffering is inevitable. Whatever your goals are, succeeding in getting them will require some discomfort.

Just know that in order to achieve a better outcome than your current reality… be prepared to cry, sweat, and bleed for it (okay, maybe you won’t have to literally bleed–hopefully).

Perhaps your relationship is on the brink of falling apart, be prepared to experience more suffering before your relationship improves (you’ll have some challenges along the way) but with time, effort, and a lot of hard work, you can save your relationship.

Or maybe your health has deteriorated and you’ve packed on a lot of weight. If you want to shed the weight you’ve gained from eating too much cheese lying horizontally on the couch, you’re going to have to literally sweat it off and change your eating habits, which we all know is easier said than done.

Those who want to take the “easy way” out, so-called short cuts like diet pills or adopting an eating disorder have a far greater risk to your health. So, what’s the point of having that slammin’ body you’ve always wanted if you’re not healthy?

Suffering is part of life. To transform your life, you’re going to have to embrace the not-so-good parts of it too.

By allowing your fear of discomfort and potential pain to prevent you from even attempting to achieve your goals… you’re essentially choosing to settle for the current pain you do have right now. Complacency is a slow suicide.

2. Dancing with Life

Think of life as a dance partner. When you try to control the dance, life will eventually step on your toes. If you dance like a limp rag doll, life will eventually walk away and find a new partner.

However, if you go with the flow of the dance, you’ll realize the beauty of the dance and life itself.

As I mentioned above, life is full of suffering, but this doesn’t mean we’re all doomed to live an unhappy existence.

Whatever life throws at you, there is one thing you have full control over: Your response.

Many people, who feel they just can’t get a break and are constantly faced with negative circumstances and strife, forget the power they have. The power of choice.

You basically have two options.

1. You can choose to resist the reality of the situation and do everything you can to control what has already happened. Trying to control the past and things you can’t undo is utterly futile. Also, spending too much time wishing for a better and brighter future without actually taking any measures to change your life is counter productive.

Or

2. You can choose to accept what has happened and aspire to move forward rather than dwell on what you can’t control–your past. Embracing the pain and suffering of your situation will help you overcome it much faster than if you constantly relived the past. You can apply this to every aspect of your life.

You can think of it as forgiving your dance partner (life) so that you both can move forward in the dance of life.

3. Being S.M.A.R.T. When it Comes to Success

Anyone can make a goal but actually succeeding at it… is another story. The most effective way to get from point A to point B is to have a S.M.A.R.T. plan of attack.

S.M.A.R.T. is an acronym for

Specific: A specific goal over a broader goal is more likely to be achieved. If your goal is to gain financial freedom in 2012, you want to be very specific about your goal. As in, when, where, why, and how are you going to gain financial freedom? These are good questions to ask yourself. If you don’t have a specific goal, you’re not going to get specific results.

Measurable: You’re headed in the right direction by having concrete steps to help you achieve and accomplish your goals. Ask yourself more questions that will aid you in measuring your success.

Attainable: Is the goal realistic and possible to achieve? An example of an unattainable goal is “I’m going to go to the gym everyday.” Ask yourself, what are the chances of you keeping that goal? When we make unattainable goals and break them, we lose our morale and motivation to continue. By making attainable goals, you’re creating a space to achieve them through your attitude and actions.

Realistic: Are your goals realistic enough? Goals like “I want to gain 10,000 subscribers a month to my blog” might not be realistic if you’re new to blogging. I’m all for being optimistic, but let’s try to keep our feet on the ground.

Time-frame: Having a time-frame on your goal is very important. When you set a time limit, you have a solid limitation on it’s completion. This keeps you from dragging the goal out forever or endlessly deferring it to the graveyard of “I’ll do it tomorrow.”

A lot of people who feel unsatisfied with their lives don’t know where to begin when it comes to changing their lives. Take the time to define your deepest desires. From there, you will come up with ideas and strategies that will help you get from point A to point B.

You’ll fall short without a S.M.A.R.T. plan to achieving what you want out of life. This is why so many New Year’s resolutions fail shortly after they are made.

4. It All Comes Down to This

What you want in life won’t just fall into your lap. You must realize that in order to transform your life, you need to be the change in your life.

What you focus on, how you choose to cope with your emotions, and the actions you make (or don’t make) will create your current reality.

Think of someone who is very successful. Do you think they live the life they have just because it was handed to them? No. These people achieved their aspiration and accomplished their goals because of the way they chose to respond to life.

They took matters into their own hands and constantly aimed to accomplish their goals. These people had a goal, focused on what they wanted and took action, despite all the odds that were stacked against them.

You must be the biggest change in your in life.

If you want a successful relationship, then you must think and act like someone who is in a happy and loving relationship. If you want to lose weight or gain muscle, then you must act and think like someone who has the body you want. If you want to be a better public speaker, then you must take action to improve on this skill.

You can’t control what life dishes out onto your plate, but you can control what you choose to eat.

With that said, I may still have a long way to go before I wow people with an incredible speech, but as long as I’m taking action and continuously aspiring to achieve my goals, I’m one step closer to a standing ovation.

 
When Mika isn’t grappling with stage fright, she enjoys helping others liberate themselves from the fears that hold them back from living the life they truly want. She writes about relationship advice through personal development on the Path to Passion. She’s a travel enthusiast and her weakness is chocolate.

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DO you want to know how to make someone fall in love with you? This post doesn’t contain some magical secret about love that’s been kept hidden from the world for centuries, BUT there are some very useful tips that you can start using today to greatly increase your chances of someone falling in love with you.

As Valentine’s Day approaches, I’m sure some of us who will be alone this year dread it, or try to ignore it, or even mock the whole saga of lovey-dovey candlelit dinners as childish in order to mask their frustrations at not having a Valentine to spend the day with. However, perhaps the law of attraction might help you find just the one for you.

I must confess I had not really known much about this idea of manifestation and the Law of Attraction, even though I’ve come across it many times in the past. The first time was perhaps some five years ago when a friend suggested I read the book, “The Secret.” I didn’t pay much attention and went on my way.

NOTE: This is a guest post by Enoch Li

How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You

However, perhaps by chance, or perhaps by the force of the universe and the powers of manifestation – that one would draw the positive things to oneself if one focuses on them with a positive mindset – after doing some research I noticed that a few other articles in print or on blog seem to touch on this subject too. Some were supportive of the law of attraction; others tried to find loopholes in the theory.

So, it got me thinking if it was possible to use the Law of Attraction to find an answer to the question of how to get someone to fall in love with you.

Regardless of how we interpret this and whether you agree with it or not, hear me out on how I think it would help you find the one you love, and love you back.

Right now I’m on a weekend getaway trip to Harbin, northern China, with my fiancé, for Valentine’s Day. I had been busy trying to recover from depression and improving my physical health, while he has been occupied with work and career. We had not had much quality time together, so we decided to use Valentine’s Day as an excuse to get away from our routine in life and just focus on one another. As I was waiting for the flight at the airport, I messaged a girlfriend of mine and told her where I was going. Her response slightly surprised me.

“I HATE Valentine’s Day!” She exclaimed.

“Why?” I asked.

“Because, I’ve never had anyone to spend Valentine’s day with!”

It got me thinking. She was young, pretty, had a career, had a goal, had a dream and exuded a self-confidence that radiated. Then why was she alone and had no one who would dedicate and commit himself to her?

Combining what I’ve been learning about manifestation and extending my positive energy and thoughts into the universe because it would come back to me in great things, and the outlook on life my girlfriend has, I have the following postulation.

My friend did not have someone to love her, because (1) she did not love anyone fully, and (2) she emanated too much negative energy and so what came to her, was also hurtful. In other words, she flipped the law of attraction and manifested the negative, and therefore, reaped the negative.

Despite her outward success, she was a fearful person. She feared loss, feared pain, and feared hurt. As a result, she hardly ever gave herself fully. Every guy she dated, she was calculating in her head, whether he had enough money, was chivalrous, had power, and what advantage he could bring her. She complained about all of them, and how they were trying to use her. It became a vicious cycle: the more she dated and was hurt, the less she would give.

Unfortunately, we all get hurt in love, but like other things in life, we have to keep trying and experimenting, to find out what kind of person we are suited with, and would bring out the best in both ourselves, and the ones we love. However, if we don’t start wholeheartedly, and give it our all, we would never find out.

Similarly, my girlfriend always wanted to take first, or see what the other had to offer, so her intentions of going into a relationship was already guarded. To exacerbate matters, by already being suspicious of those she dated, she projected negativity instead of sincerity; therefore it was a self-fulfilling prophecy that the ones she attracted would also not be in the relationship for the long haul.

5 Things You Can Do – How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You

As I sipped my cappuccino this morning with my fiancée next to me, his hand wrapped around me lovingly, I dare to draw some conclusions based on the law of attraction. If you are lamenting that you have no one to spend Valentine’s Day with this year, try the following and see if next year would be better:

1. Be confident with who you are

Don’t worry about what other people think about you, or what you have to do to make others like you. Be comfortable in your own skin and trust that someone will love you for who you are. Self-confidence radiates from within and attracts like-minded people.

2. Focus on improving yourself

If there are habits you would like to change, focus on them and improving yourself for yourself, and not for anybody else. You need to love yourself first.

3.Manifest the positive

Challenge your negative thoughts. When you think “no one will ever love me,” ask yourself if there is any evidence to support the fact that with the billions of people in this world this is possible? Instead, try to think, “I will find the one.” Same situation, different mindset, could bring different results. The limiting belief limits our ability.

4. Give unconditionally

Give your all to others. Give without expecting return. Give your time and effort. You will see that your generosity will touch others and slowly, it would build karma in your bank of goodwill. Others will also give to you in situations you least expect.

5. Love, without fear of getting hurt

To have someone love you for who you are, you first need to do the same. When you are willing to open up to others, others will mostly reciprocate. If they don’t, then you have learned your lesson. Yet do not indulge in the hurt. Move on and find that person who will not hurt you. Do not fear.

When you know who you are, when you are giving, when you are happy with yourself, the radiance from inside is hard to hide. This will attract other positive and happy people to your side. Although it’s no fail-proof strategy, it’s the best way I can give you how to make someone fall in love with you.

Is there any harm in at least trying to understand the law of attraction? I am not one to say whether it is the panacea to all challenges we face, but what can be bad with thinking positive and letting the best of you come out to shine?

Try it, perhaps the law of attraction, will in its literal sense, attract a person who will love you back.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Biography
Raised in Hong Kong and Australia, Noch Noch was a young, overachieving executive for an international corporation, working and living in the world’s most premier cities. After seven years of living the life she dreamt of, or so she thought, she suffered a serious episode of stress-related depression that turned her life upside down. As she battles with depression, Noch Noch is on a quest to be the wake up call for others in similar plights. She strives to be true to herself, jotting down her reflections on living with depression and self-awareness at “Be Me. Be Natural.” (http://nochnoch.com).

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If you find yourself waking up every day for months on end thinking that your life sucks, then take 10 minutes to read this post very carefully because it might just completely transform you and help you create a better life.

I decided to write this post because I found myself in that situation for many years. It started off pretty mildly but gradually got worse and worse without me realizing it.

At first I only had negative feelings about life or my own abilities when something would go wrong in my life, which wasn’t very often. As I started to experience more setbacks, I started becoming more negative. It eventually got to a point where for weeks on end I would wake up in the morning thinking that my life sucks, that I’m a loser and I’ll never be happy. I was pretty miserable and just not fun to be around, constantly sucking energy from other people. In other words, I’d lost sight of the fun, happy and good person I really was and turned into a shadow of my best self.

Creating A Better Life For Yourself

Negative feelings and thoughts tend to sneak up on you and attach themselves to you. By the time you realize it, a lot of damage can have been done and a lot of days, weeks or months may have passed.

So what can you do if you find yourself thinking that your life sucks or that you hate your life?

Is it possible to create a better life for yourself?

Step #1 To A Better Life – See Yourself In Another Light

“Self-observation brings man to the realization of the necessity of self-change. And in observing himself a man notices that self-observation itself brings about certain changes in his inner processes. He begins to understand that self-observation is an instrument of self-change, a means of awakening.” – George Gurdjieff

The first step to creating a better life is to see yourself as others see you, because sometimes you can just lose sight of the forest through the trees.

Imagine that you can move out of your body and see yourself from a distance. You can see yourself move, you can hear yourself talk and you can watch how you behave from a distance, in the same way as another person would see you.

It’s like zooming out of your life, taking a step back and seeing it from a ‘larger picture’ perspective. This will help you see your problems in a different light, and it will help you see how you are acting.

The reason why this is so important in the formula of creating a better life is because the way you think and act might just be responsible for your current life situation (or at least contribute to it). If this is the case, the sooner you see that your behaviour needs adjustment, the sooner you will be able to make positive change in your life.

For example: Let’s say you want success and hate your life because you are broke for many years already.

You may hate your life and complain about being broke, and the result is that you’re terribly unhappy. But if you zoom out on your situation, you’ll maybe see that you’re not making any effort to change. You’re working one job and sit at home for the rest of the day watching TV.

Can you see what’s wrong with the picture here?

If you really want to complain about life, you should at least be working 2 jobs and hustling in your free time and then still be broke before you earn the right to complain. And I guarantee that you won’t be broke if you double your work and make a little on the side too.

Step #2 To A Better Life – Change Your Attitude

“Life will knock you to your knees and keep you there… if you let it.” – Rocky Balboa

The second step to creating a better life is to continuously make the choice to take control of your situation instead of adopting a victim mentality.

In ANY situation you have the choice to either be passive about it (to whine and complain about how life isn’t fair etc.) or to do whatever you can to change your situation. If you want a better life you need to make the conscious choice to forget about having a victim mentality. Stop complaining about your situation, stop whining and feeling sorry for yourself. Your life is as it is and if you want change, you have to do something to bring about that change.

I really like the movie Rocky Balboa. Hidden in the story about boxing, the movie contains a great message about life.

Life has a way of throwing difficult things at you. These are continuous jabs and punches from life. If you have your guard up you can block and dodge a lot of these punches without taking much damage (i.e. overcome problems and obstacles). However, it’s inevitable that life’s punches will sometimes get through your defense and do some serious damage. Life may even throw in some unexpected hook and knock you out or knock you down to the ground. Your success depends on whether you stay down on the ground and accept your defeat, or whether you pick yourself up again and get back in the ring to fight.

Instead of seeing obstacles and problems in your life as a handicap, rather see them as a test. They are there to make you stronger, not to keep you back from what you’re doing. BUT… your attitude towards your life and towards yourself make all the difference.

Step #3 To A Better Life – Set Goals and Be Flexible

“Empty your mind, be formless, shapeless – like water. Now you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup, you put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, you put it in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Now water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend.” – Bruce Lee

The third step to creating a better life is a combination of two things:

1- You have to set the goals you wish to achieve in order to create your better life. You cannot get what you want if you don’t know what it is that you want. You need to know exactly what you need to do and achieve before you can have the life that will make you happy.

Once you have set your goals, you’re able to focus all your energy and creativity on achieving those goals, thus greatly increasing the chance that you’ll bring about the change in your life that you desire.

2- You have to let go of expectations. If you attach a lot of value to a certain future outcome, you are setting yourself up for disappointment if that future outcome doesn’t happen how and when you want it to.And as you may already know, very few things in life go exactly as planned. You have your goals and you should do your best to achieve those goals but you must be flexible to adapt to whatever life throws your way.

Creating a better life is much easier if you are able to adjust your plan or strategy when necessary (or even if you have to take a completely different approach). If you’re inflexible you’re going to find it very difficult to bring about the change you want when life throws a proverbial spanner in the works.

Step #4 To A Better Life – Take It Day By Day

“You don’t try to build a wall. You don’t set out and say ‘I’m gonna build the biggest, baddest, greatest wall that has ever been built’. You say ‘I’m going to lay this brick as perfectly as a brick can be laid’. You do this every single day, and soon you have a wall.” – Will Smith

There are many sayings that emphasize this step in the process of creating a better life like,”Rome wasn’t built in a day” and “the journey of a thousand miles beings with a single step“. It’s crucial that you don’t excessively focus your thoughts on achieving your end-goal. You may be very far from achieving the change you want in your life and that huge gap between where you are now and where you want to be will serve as a huge mental block if you focus on it.

Rather be aware of your end goal and know what you need to do to get there eventually. Then just focus your energy and efforts on taking action towards that end goal every day, and only concentrate on doing what you need to do that day. Do it as best as you can, and be willing to do it for as long as you need to do it to achieve your success. Take things one day at a time and you’ll achieve your goals without losing hope or motivation as quickly as you would if you only focus on the end-goal.

Step #5 To A Better Life – Stay Positive

“A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.” – Sir Winston Churchill

The fifth step in creating a better life is to stay positive. Don’t allow yourself to think or say anything negative. Not about yourself, about life or about others.

I’ve done a lot of reading and research about the Law of Attraction and other universal laws and it’s become very clear to me that the way in which you think has a huge influence on the opportunities and situations that manifest in your life (both negative and positive situations). Negative thinking sends negative energy into the universe and results in negative situations manifesting in your life. Vice verse, positive thinking sends positive energy into the universe and often results in good situations manifesting in your life. (However, positive thinking on its own is not enough but this is something I will discuss in another post about the Law of Attraction).

Staying positive doesn’t mean that you need to lie to yourself or give yourself false hope by saying that everything will be okay when it’s clearly not the case, but instead of focusing on the negative, find that tiny little positive aspect of whatever bad is happening and concentrate on that.

No matter how bad something is, there is always a tiny bit of good that can come from it. If you cannot change the situation you’re facing, the best you can do is see it in a positive light. If a relationship ends, it’s a chance for a better one to form. If you lose your job, it’s a chance to find something better or start your own business. If you fail at something, you’re one step closer to achieving success. And so on and so forth.

Step #6 To A Better Life – Forgive Yourself

“Remembering a wrong is like carrying a burden on the mind.” -Buddha

The sixth and final step in creating a better life is to forgive yourself for your past mistakes.

We are all human and this means we make mistakes. Some people make more mistakes than others, and some mistakes are more serious than others but it’s inevitable that you’re going to make mistakes throughout your life.

If you’re very hard on yourself and mentally beat yourself up or hate yourself for things that you’ve messed up or done wrong, you’re placing a huge burden on yourself. This burden can subconsciously sabotage any success that you want to achieve because you may feel that you deserve to be punished for your mistakes and thus live a life of suffering or unhappiness.

Learn to forgive yourself for the mistakes you’ve made, learn from those mistakes and then you’ll be free to move on and bring about the chance that you desire for a better life to take the place of your current one.

Parting Words

This is the formula to creating a better life that I personally follow. I recommend that you refer back to this from time to time because it’s easy to lose sight of of your own mistakes in attitude and behaviour and go down a wrong path that leads to unhappiness, depression and suffering.

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So…what’s in it for you? Not much, except for pretty much the exact blueprint and tools to help you transform your life and get anything and everything you desire. Happiness, success, wealth, freedom, love, friendship, health… learn to get it all.

AND… there’s a 60 day full refund policy. If you feel I don’t live up to my promise that I’m making right now, just send me an email and you’ll get the entire price back in your account AND I’ll even let you keep the program, free of charge.

THAT’S how confident I am that the Upgrade Reality Program will help you completely transform your life and help you achieve your goals, dreams and desires.

Where Can I Get The Upgrade Reality Program?

To show my appreciation for all of you reading Upgradereality.com, I’m offering a 20% discount on the first 100 copies of the Upgrade Reality Program until this Sunday 5 February.

I’ve even prepared a special 45 minute workshop video where I give away some amazing secrets and tips on improving your life and getting the life you dream of living. It’s TOTALLY FREE TO WATCH, so check it out here:

http://upgraderealityprogram.com/workshop

Learn more about the Upgrade Reality Program and get your copy for 20% less:

Remember, you have no risk because I’m taking all the risk for the first 60 days. Heck, if you wanted to scam me you could buy the product and ask for a refund immediately and have the program for free.

I really believe in helping others and from the 6 months I’ve put into designing and creating the Upgrade Reality Program, I think I’m able to really and genuinely make a positive impact on your life and the lives of hundreds and thousands of people.

Best wishes
Your friend and mentor,
Diggy

P.s. even if you don’t buy the Upgrade Reality Program right away, check out my FREE 45 minute workshop video. It really contains some fantastic practical advice you can use to make a positive change to your life right now:

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As promised yesterday, here is today’s video:

This video reveals the #1 secret the rich and famous DO NOT want you to discover.

It took me YEARS of hard work and complete failure to finally figure this out. And it’s been responsible for a lot of the successes I’ve been having till this day. So I highly encourage you to watch it right here:

http://upgraderealityprogram.com/body-over-mind

I’ve been working hard on this for you. So please do not hesitate to leave a comment below the video.

You can do that either in the facebook comment field. Or using the standard comments.

Thanks and hope you’ll enjoy!

Diggy

PS. February the 1st at 2PM EST I’m finally releasing the new and improved Upgrade Reality Program.I’ve been working hard on it. And I still got some surprises coming. So stay tuned for that.

Now, if you want to know what it’ll be all about… please watch the video here:
http://upgraderealityprogram.com/body-over-mind

and wait till the end. Where a link to a page will appear with more information on the Upgrade Reality Program.

Thanks again! I appreciate you!

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