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<title><![CDATA[Upon Further Review...]]></title>
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        <title><![CDATA[Creating &quot;New&quot; Jobs Or Recycling An Old Job?]]></title>
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        <pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 15:35:00 GMT</pubDate>
        <description><![CDATA[<p><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);">For as long as I can remember, the idea of creating new jobs to help resolve, or least smooth over, a struggling economy has been an interesting mystery to me.  </span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);">Just exactly, how do you &ldquo;create&rdquo; new jobs?&nbsp; </span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);">How do people who have lost jobs end up in these &ldquo;new&rdquo; jobs?  </span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);">Frankly, what are these &ldquo;new&rdquo; jobs?&nbsp; </span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);"><p><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);">It feels as though these &ldquo;new&rdquo; jobs are basically the same <strong>recycled</strong> jobs we have always done, but supplanted from one place to another place.  Teacher, firefighter, desk job, or any other job we have had in the past are not &ldquo;new&rdquo; jobs, despite the goals to increase the number of these positions.  </span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);">They&rsquo;re the same old jobs we have done forever:&nbsp; retread and recycled.</span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);">A &ldquo;new&rdquo; job is something that is created and has never been heard of before.  Social media strategist, new media reporter, are two that come to mind.  </span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);">I think of startups and entrepreneurs as part of the &ldquo;new&rdquo; class of jobs.  They are providing a service, niche or general, that is in need today.  From creating new apps for phones, or providing a new way to order concert tickets, these &ldquo;new&rdquo; jobs are in demand, but need to be created and shaped before they become a functional part of our daily world.  </span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0);">That&rsquo;s what &ldquo;new&rdquo; jobs, to me, is defined.  Sure, if you land a new job, it simply means you have changed locations, job title, and company.  But, is it a &ldquo;new&rdquo; job, or a recycled gig that someone else used to do before they left and you walked in?&nbsp; </span></p></span></p><p>&nbsp;</p>]]></description>
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        <title><![CDATA[Maybe the Doctor (Bloom) May Need To Take Some Mediciation]]></title>
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        <pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2011 00:43:00 GMT</pubDate>
        <description><![CDATA[<p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">I had planned on writing a little letter to Dr. Stephen Bloom, but I felt some perspective was needed before writing about something based purely on reactionary terms.&nbsp; Or maybe Kyle Munson can add this to the ever growing list of responses that Dr. Bloom should spend some time reading.&nbsp; </span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">Nevertheless, he we go...</span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">By now, everyone across the state of Iowa knows Bloom and the write-up he penned for <strong><a title="&quot;Observations From 20 Years of Iowa Life&quot; Dr. Stephen Bloom, The Atlantic, December 9, 2011" href="http://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2011/12/observations-from-20-years-of-iowa-life/249401/1/" target="_blank"><font color="#f27c0d">The Atlantic Magazine</font></a>. </strong></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">A lot of folks here in the land between two rivers are very upset by his &ldquo;flame-torch&rdquo; observation of Iowa as the 2012 Caucus approaches on January 3rd. Much like the Iowa Hawkeyes football season, anything bad that happens, we over-react in a frenzied mode. It&rsquo;s easy for Mike Draper of <strong><a href="http://raygunsite.com/" target="_blank"><font color="#f27c0d">RAYGUN</font></a></strong> to print up a shirt mocking Bloom, it&rsquo;s easy for people to send messages to The Atlantic to voice their displeasure and wanting their recourse towards Bloom.</span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">The problem is, when we don&rsquo;t read the entire text of he wrote, only reacting to the excerpts and quotes that were highlighted, we miss the entire picture. </span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">This isn&rsquo;t going to make people happy, but I&rsquo;ll say it: there is some validity to Bloom&rsquo;s observations, <em><strong><span style="text-decoration:underline;">if you get beyond</span></strong></em> some of his disparaging remarks, which is his opinion, like it or not. </span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">For everything we romanticize about our fair state, there&rsquo;s plenty of challenges that we are currently facing, or will face. </span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">I agree with a large part of his observation of the socioeconomic and political culture of Iowa. Iowa is facing plenty of issues that we know all too well. It doesn&rsquo;t take a professor to figure that out. (Yeah, I wrote that last sentence. Sometimes, I have to be a smartass. I&rsquo;m too nice.) </span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">There are some things he wrote that is very true: </span></p><ul><li><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">Iowa is not flat. </span></li><li><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">The once-flourishing river towns of Keokuk, Davenport, to name a few, are reshaping an identity for themselves, now that the Mississippi River is no longer a major mode of transportation. </span></li><li><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">The eastern side of the state is mostly Democratic, the western half is Republican. </span></li><li><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">We continue to re-elect Tom Harkin and Chuck Grassley to the U.S. Senate, and <strong><a title="Iced &quot;Tea&quot; November 4, 2010" href="http://civilityisnotdead.wordpress.com/2010/11/04/iced-tea/" target="_blank"><font color="#f27c0d">we love incumbents</font></a></strong>. </span></li></ul><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">Bloom calls the whole thing schizophrenic, I call it unique and an example of how we operate here in Iowa. Partisanship aside, I have long theorized that Iowans will elect people who can do their job and ensure that we get what we want from Washington or from the statehouse in <strong><a class="zem_slink" title="Des Moines, Iowa" href="http://www.dmgov.org/" rel="homepage"><font color="#f27c0d">Des Moines</font></a>. </strong>If you can deliver the &ldquo;goods&rdquo;, you get re-elected. Plain and simple.</span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);"><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">I have been an Iowan all of my life. A black Iowan, mind you, Dr. Bloom. One of about 50,000 in this state. You&rsquo;ll probably find us in the urban areas. It&rsquo;s lovely in Davenport, Des Moines, Waterloo, and Sioux City at this time of the year.</span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">The crux of Bloom&rsquo;s dissertation is this: why does Iowa gets so much attention by this nation and the political world every four years when it comes to the Presidential election? Bloom&rsquo;s ulterior motive, to me, is to tell America about the &ldquo;real&rdquo; Iowa&hellip;from his own eyes.</span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">Personally, he barely scratched the surface. There is a lot more to Iowa than &ldquo;ve-HICK-les&rdquo;, NASCAR, and the Hawkeyes. </span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">Bloom described Keokuk as a crime-riddled skuzzy town. I wonder why he hasn&rsquo;t visited my hometown of Waterloo, where the continual lingering effect of racial tension and crime rears its ugly head from time to time. I should know: my grandparents lived down the street from one of the <strong><a title="&quot;The Longest Week&quot;  July 13, 2011" href="http://civilityisnotdead.wordpress.com/2011/07/13/the-longest-week/" target="_blank"><font color="#f27c0d">most infamous crimes in Iowa history</font></a></strong>. </span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">Every town isn&rsquo;t free of criminal activity, Dr. Bloom. Even in Iowa City, when your students get tagged for underage drinking. </span><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">Des Moines, for a long time, was referred to as &ldquo;Little Chicago&rdquo; because it was a refuge for Chicago criminals to hide out in the 1970&prime;s. </span></p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);"><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">I have seen a lot of changes in this state over the past 35 years, going on 36 (on New Year&rsquo;s Day). Iowa is not a place where things quickly change for the sake of change. It takes prodding, convincing, and showing everyone the big picture that we have to evolve and keep pace with the world. It can be a struggle or very easy, but that&rsquo;s what we&rsquo;re doing&hellip;together. That&rsquo;s the challenge of cultural change, Dr. Bloom: it takes time and patience to make it happen. But, it&rsquo;s will not go at the pace that you want it to be. </span></p></span></span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">I do disagree with him on his assessment that Iowans are a bunch of gun-toting, isolationist, God-fearing conservative folks. We&rsquo;re more than that. Look at me, I&rsquo;ve never lived on a farm, never fired off a shotgun, independent of both political parties, and I attend church when I&rsquo;m able to, if I&rsquo;m not visiting family or volunteering. </span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">As far as naivety is concerned, we use it as a facade at times, but for the most part, we let our niceness and politeness give off the sense that we&rsquo;re dolts and simpletons. That is what Bloom is asserting, in my view. Folks, i</span><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">t&rsquo;s alright to show a little mean streak if someone insults us. Lord knows how many times I want to tell Bill O&rsquo;Reilly and Keith Olbermann to shove it up where the sun don&rsquo;t shine. </span></p><blockquote><p><strong><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">After years and years of in-your-face religion, I decided to give what has become an annual lecture, in which I urge my students not to bid strangers &ldquo;Merry Christmas&rdquo; or &ldquo;Happy Easter,&rdquo; &ldquo;Have you gotten all your Christmas shopping done?&rdquo; or &ldquo;Are you going to the Easter egg hunt?&rdquo; Such well-wishes are not appropriate for everyone, I tell my charges gently. A cheery &ldquo;Happy holidays!&rdquo; will suffice. Small potatoes, I know, but </span><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">did everyone have to proclaim their Christianity so loud and clear?</span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">Maybe it wasn&rsquo;t such a good idea. One gutsy, red-in-the-face student told me in no uncertain terms that for the rest of her life, she would continue offering Merry Christmas and Happy Easter tidings to strangers, no matter what I, or anyone else, said, because, &ldquo;That&rsquo;s just who I am and I&rsquo;m not about to change. Ever!&rdquo; Score one for sticking it to the ethnic interloper. </span></strong></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">-Stephen Bloom, &ldquo;Observations from 20 years in Iowa&rdquo; The Atlantic, December 2011</span></p></blockquote><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">Bloom crossed the line here. Lecturing his students how to address their holiday greetings was more self-groveling and venting his hatred towards &ldquo;Merry Christmas.&rdquo; Not all people who say &ldquo;Merry Christmas&rdquo; are religious. If someone says &ldquo;Merry Christmas&rdquo;, a suffice &ldquo;You too and Happy Holidays&rdquo; will do, Dr. Bloom. No one&rsquo;s trying to force their religion on anyone. If they do, they have a problem&hellip;with themselves. </span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">I use both terms. Not by choice, but what comes easily out of my mouth, if I&rsquo;m not stuttering to spit it out. </span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);"><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">Bloom is correct when he says that Iowa is a yesteryear to the past, for good and possibly bad. The good is that there is still a society and a part of the world that value decency, respect, and humility. The bad: the troubling perception from the outside world that Iowa is still a &ldquo;lily-white&rdquo; Pangaea that is steadfast in sticking to their beliefs and traditions, that could be seen as politically incorrect. </span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">Stephen Bloom, for the most part, took an elitist position when he wrote about this state. Folks don&rsquo;t like it when someone writes or talks above their heads and subtly mocks them for their way of life and attitudes. I&rsquo;m guilty of that myself, so I have to tone down the intellectual guff and make it sensible for everyone to understand what&rsquo;s being written. </span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">Trust me, it&rsquo;s hard for us to drop some of those attitudes as well. But denigrating people to prove a point does ooze a sense of personal discontent for him. </span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">Dr. Bloom implied that we&rsquo;re the ones who are stuck in our ways. Maybe it&rsquo;s the other way around. I&rsquo;m starting to think that he&rsquo;s the one who hasn&rsquo;t changed with the times, if we&rsquo;re solely judging his attitude and his snide remarks.</span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">But make no doubt that our challenge, as Iowans, is to keep showing America that we are culturally intuitive, open-minded, willing to take on new endeavors and lifestyles, and still maintain the integrity and respect towards our fellow woman and man. Midwest nice isn&rsquo;t just a catchphrase.</span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">Fear and the unknown are the driving force and reasons for us not to evolve.</span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">I wonder what Dr. Bloom is really afraid of?</span></p><p><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);">Becoming one of us, or realizing that we&rsquo;re just as smart as he is?</span></p></span></p>]]></description>
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        <title><![CDATA[Sticks and Stones]]></title>
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        <pubDate>Mon, 05 Sep 2011 18:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
        <description><![CDATA[<p>"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me..."</p><p>That may be true, but it shouldn't be a precursor to murder.&nbsp;</p><p>The discussion over the beating death of Marcellus Andrews of Waterloo has brought up a litany of angles and different perspectives over whether or not Andrews was gay (his sister said he wasn't, per the <a href="http://wcfcourier.com/news/local/marcellus-andrews-attack-sparks-soul-searching/article_082ded2c-3c09-5d99-a0f0-aa1d194432fc.html">Waterloo-Cedar Falls&nbsp;Courier</a>) to the ever-ending list of violence among youths, particularly on the east side of Waterloo.&nbsp;</p><p>As a native of Waterloo, I didn't feel comfortable coming out right away and offering any opinion or comment.&nbsp; Stuff like needs several days to simmer before knowing what the details are and writing&nbsp;an opinion.&nbsp;</p><p>This I can be sure of:&nbsp; something did happened between Andrews and murderers that provoke the deadly beating.&nbsp; That is a fact.&nbsp; Was it a hate crime?&nbsp; Andrews' family sides with the Waterloo police by saying it wasn't a hate crime.&nbsp; Others will beg to disagree.&nbsp; But, to disagree, would imply that others think they know more about Marcellus than Marcellus'&nbsp;family does.&nbsp;</p><p>Is it fair for me, or anyone else,&nbsp;to make an assertion that Andrews was gay and that his family is covering up the fact or are in denial of that notion?&nbsp;</p><p>That's about as reckless of an assertion to make, and a terrible one at that.&nbsp; His family knows Marcellus more than Des Moines Human Rights commissioner Rudy Simms, One Iowa, and I combined.&nbsp;</p><p>So, what about the words that were used towards Andrews when he was confronted and then was beaten up?&nbsp; Were they used just as words, or was there an intent to say something about him?&nbsp; Today, insensitive and derogatory words to describe an individual have become a flashpoint of discussion and debate.&nbsp;</p><p>Do these words define a person is a hate-monger, racist, misogynist?&nbsp; The easy answer is yes.&nbsp; But, is it as clear-cut as we want to make it out to be?&nbsp;</p><p>That is what&nbsp;makes the Andrews beating&nbsp;death a confusing situation:&nbsp; was it a hate crime or another sad case of black-on-black youth&nbsp;crime?&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>It all depends on how certain words are used.&nbsp;</p><p>By intention or in the heat of the moment.&nbsp;</p>]]></description>
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        <title><![CDATA[Life Disrupted]]></title>
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        <pubDate>Mon, 11 Apr 2011 23:22:00 GMT</pubDate>
        <description><![CDATA[<p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:Georgia, Times, serif;font-size:14px;line-height:21px;"><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:15px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">These are the kind of&nbsp;<a href="http://civilityisnotdead.wordpress.com/2010/07/15/following-the-trail-of-life/" target="_blank" style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(17, 89, 0);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;"><strong style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">posts</strong></a>&nbsp;that I do not like writing about.&nbsp; It is unfair for me to write it because when it comes to something of this nature, it makes me physically sick. &nbsp;As an unemotional sort of fellow, I detach myself from the story, because I feel it needs to be written in a way that isn&rsquo;t maudlin and all over the place.</span></p><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:15px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">Nevertheless, what I&rsquo;m going to say will not offer solace to everyone, or make things any easier.<br /></span></p><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:15px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">Because the emotions are too raw and hard for everyone to wrap around.</span></p><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:15px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">I write this because it is the only way for me to convey my thoughts, as fresh as they are in my in mind this evening.<br /></span></p><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:15px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">Ashley Okland, a real estate agent for Iowa Realty, was found shot in a model home in West Des Moines Friday afternoon.&nbsp; She passed away a short time later at Iowa Methodist Medical Center.</span></p><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:15px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">I didn&rsquo;t know Ashley very well, but we were acquainted through our membership with the Young Professionals Connection, an organization that is affiliated with the Greater Des Moines Partnership.</span></p><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:15px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">Ashley was well respected and very liked.&nbsp; I didn&rsquo;t write that because it was easy to say it.</span></p><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:15px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">Because that sentence is true.</span></p><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:15px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">YPC is like a little family.&nbsp; Well, not little, but nevertheless everyone knows everyone in YPC. &nbsp;We meet for gatherings, committee meetings, or run into each other outside of YPC.&nbsp; When someone leaves town for another job or something new, it&rsquo;s tough but manageable. &nbsp;We celebrate someone&rsquo;s promotion and weddings. &nbsp;We offer support when someone is laid-off or is having a bad day.</span></p><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:15px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">But when something like this happens, unexpectedly, senselessly, and tragically, it makes that small &ldquo;big&rdquo; circle feel broken.&nbsp; And empty.</span></p><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:15px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">This week, has been, in no other words, a tough, draining, sad week for a lot of people. &nbsp;From the death of Sgt. Eric Stein, the senseless car accident that claimed the life of Chad Wells in Altoona, to this evening&rsquo;s horrific and deplorable act, there is sadness, people searching for answers, and broken hearts.</span></p><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:15px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">Life disrupted.</span></p><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:15px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">Life in disarray.<br /></span></p><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:15px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">It is my hope that all of us who knew Ashley will not just relive the memories and the good moments, but also to take one thing that she said or did that stood out to you, and apply it to your lives.</span></p><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:15px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">That should be the best and most lasting way to honor Ashley Okland.</span></p><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:15px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">Flowers will wilt away, the mourning will end, and we have to move on in our lives, but the lessons that someone provides, whether their time is short or long, is something that will be passed on every day.</span></p><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:15px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">Those are the only comments I will make on this.&nbsp; No other words are needed.</span></p><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:15px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;"><br /></span></p><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:15px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;text-decoration:underline;background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;"><strong style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 128);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">UPDATE</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:15px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 128);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">I was asked to post the following information with regards to the upcoming events that will take place later this week.</span></p><ul style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:15px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:30px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;list-style-type:none;list-style-position:initial;list-style-image:initial;"><li style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;list-style-type:circle;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><strong style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 128);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">Visitation will be held Tuesday, April 12, at Fjeldberg Lutheran Church, 209 N. 2nd Ave. in Huxley, Iowa from 4 to 8 p.m. A Celebration of Life will be held at 10:30 a.m. on Thursday, April 14, at Lutheran Church of Hope, 925 Jordan Creek Pkwy, West Des Moines, Iowa. A burial will be held in Huxley.</span></strong></li><li style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;list-style-type:circle;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><strong style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 128);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">The Young Professionals Connection Social Hour-Fundraiser for the Big Brothers/Big Sisters&rsquo; Bowl for Kids Sake has been changed. &nbsp;YPC members will not bowl or raise money for Big Brothers/Big Sisters. &nbsp;The event has been changed to celebrate Ashley&rsquo;s life and the donations received will be given to the Ashley Okland Memorial Fund. &nbsp;The event will be held Thursday 4/14/11, at Catoors, 1306 Grand Ave. in West Des Moines.</span></strong></li><li style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;list-style-type:circle;color:rgb(122, 122, 122);"><strong 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style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 128);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;"><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 128);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">Lastly, and this is personal, someone&nbsp;</span><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;text-decoration:underline;color:rgb(0, 0, 128);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">has</span><span style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;color:rgb(0, 0, 128);background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;">&nbsp;to know, or saw something near the model home and the area. &nbsp;It would disappoint me if this case grows &ldquo;cold&rdquo;. &nbsp;The individual who committed this should not be walking the street, and you know it. &nbsp;If you know anything,&nbsp;minuscule or significant, please call the West Des Moines P.D. at&nbsp;&nbsp;(515) 222-3363, or the Polk County Crime Stoppers at&nbsp;<strong style="margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;border-style:initial;border-color:initial;outline-width:0px;outline-style:initial;outline-color:initial;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;background-image:initial;background-attachment:initial;background-origin:initial;background-clip:initial;background-color:transparent;background-position:initial initial;background-repeat:initial initial;"><span 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        <description><![CDATA[<p><span style="color:#000000;">Over the past few months, we have been subjected to the foilables and rancor from actor Charlie Sheen.&nbsp; From his public criticism of producer <strong><a class="zem_slink" title="Chuck Lorre" href="http://www.chucklorre.com/" rel="homepage"><font color="#115900">Chuck Lorre</font></a></strong> (from <strong>&ldquo;<a class="zem_slink" title="Two and a Half Men" href="http://www.cbs.com/primetime/two_and_a_half_men/" rel="hulu"><font color="#115900">Two and Half Men</font></a>&ldquo;</strong>) to spitting out amusing lines like &ldquo;Adonis DNA&rdquo; and the rage of the Twitter hash tags <span style="color:#008000;"><strong>&ldquo;#Winning&rdquo;</strong></span>.&nbsp; </span></p><p><span style="color:#000000;">Recently, an acquaintance, <strong><a title="@joewinn1984 on Twitter" href="http://twitter.com/#!/joewinn1984/status/44785765972049921" target="_blank"><font color="#115900">Joe Winn</font></a></strong> from <strong><a title="Lessing-Flynn Advertising" href="http://www.lessingflynn.com/" target="_blank"><font color="#115900">Lessing-Flynn</font></a></strong> tweeted this:&nbsp; </span></p><blockquote><p><span style="color:#000000;">If you have to tell people you are winning, you are already losing &ndash; both people&rsquo;s respect and attention. Don&rsquo;t perpetuate dumb cliches.</span></p></blockquote><p><span style="color:#000000;">After he posted that, <strong><a class="zem_slink" title="CBS" href="http://www.cbs.com/" rel="homepage"><font color="#115900">CBS</font></a></strong> decided to fire Sheen, likely ending his show &ldquo;Two and a Half Men&rdquo; completely.&nbsp; They originally suspended productions as Charlie was put on suspension (or something to that effect).&nbsp; </span></p><p><span style="color:#000000;">The <strong>#Winning</strong> tag has been used in jokes and have been bantered by everyone across the world.&nbsp; But, when you strip everything down, for Charlie Sheen, it&rsquo;s no longer funny to be &ldquo;Winning&rdquo;.&nbsp; </span></p><p><span style="color:#000000;">It&rsquo;s downright sad.&nbsp; </span></p><p><span style="color:#000000;">Colin Cowherd from ESPN&rsquo;s <strong><a title="&quot;The Herd with Colin Cowherd&quot; show page" href="http://sports.espn.go.com/espnradio/show?showId=theherd" target="_blank"><font color="#115900">&ldquo;The Herd&rdquo;</font></a></strong> pointed out&nbsp;something that was lost in all of the Sheen hubris:&nbsp; his personal life.&nbsp; Not just his personal life, but the people around him are in disarray, much like him.&nbsp; </span></p><p><span style="color:#000000;">Did you know he has five children (one with a former girlfriend, two with actress <strong><a class="zem_slink" title="Denise Richards" href="http://www.deniserichards.com/" rel="homepage"><font color="#115900">Denise Richards</font></a></strong>, and two with actress Brooke Mueller)?&nbsp; <strong><a title="Mueller in Rehab, PopEater, Feb. 16, 2010" href="http://www.popeater.com/2010/02/16/brooke-mueller-rehab/" target="_blank"><font color="#115900">Mueller</font></a></strong> was reportedly in rehab last year for substance abuse.&nbsp; His penchant for porn stars isn&rsquo;t new news.&nbsp; He&rsquo;s been around them since the 1990&prime;s.&nbsp; He shot ex-fiancee <strong><a class="zem_slink" title="Kelly Preston" href="http://www.kellypreston.com/" rel="homepage"><font color="#115900">Kelly Preston</font></a></strong> in the arm, was arrested for domestic battery against Mueller, and Richards divorced him on grounds of violent behavior and substance abuse.&nbsp; </span></p><p><span style="color:#000000;">Don&rsquo;t take my word for it.&nbsp; <strong><a title="Charlie Sheen's personal life, as chronicled by Wikipedia." href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charlie_sheen#Personal_life" target="_blank"><font color="#115900">Wikipedia</font></a></strong> has a list.&nbsp; </span></p><p><span style="color:#000000;">And in the age of <strong><a title="&quot;News A.D.D.&quot; May 18, 2010" href="http://civilityisnotdead.wordpress.com/2010/05/18/news-a-d-d/" target="_blank"><font color="#115900">&ldquo;news A.D.D.&rdquo;</font></a></strong>, last I checked, nobody cares about the ongoing Wisconsin collective bargaining saga.&nbsp; Everyone&rsquo;s enjoying the train wreck that is Charlie.&nbsp; </span></p><p><span style="color:#000000;">Charlie is out of control.&nbsp; Drug and alcohol abuse, penchant for violence against women, his interest in adult film actresses, et cetera, has created a perfect storm&hellip;in the worst way possible.&nbsp; All of us think it&rsquo;s funny and wild, but go ask his kids about watching &ldquo;daddy&rdquo; behave like this.&nbsp; You don&rsquo;t think they&rsquo;re embarrassed, confused, and scared about what their dad will do next?&nbsp; Why is he acting like this?&nbsp; Is he running from his <strong><a title="&quot;Running from Shadows&quot;  March 6, 2011" href="http://civilityisnotdead.wordpress.com/2011/03/06/running-from-shadows/" target="_blank"><font color="#115900">&ldquo;shadow&rdquo;</font></a></strong>?&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span style="color:#000000;">&nbsp; </span></p><p><span style="color:#000000;">Charlie Sheen is not&nbsp;hurting himself, but everyone around him.&nbsp; His kids are going to suffer, directly and indirectly, from his actions and behavior.&nbsp; And we continue to endorse this by giving him what he wants&hellip;attention.&nbsp; It&rsquo;s pathetic that no one has offered to pull him by the collar and get him &ldquo;real&rdquo; treatment, and not the half-assed &ldquo;celebrity&rdquo; rehab Hollywood prefers.&nbsp; </span></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p>]]></description>
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