Upside Down Cats

I Could Write a Book...

gina@upsidedowncats.com (Gina) — Thu, 01 Nov 2012 15:30:19 -0500

...but not right now. While my Sweetie has embarked on a project called National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo), I am serving as his most enthusiastic supporter and his “biggest fan” - but not in the creepy Stephen King context... (There will be no hobbling around here.)

No, for the time being, I’m content with the writing I am privileged to be hired to do for my clients. I’m currently plenty busy in the word department and so, although I almost envy the verve with which I see Scott delving into this endeavor, I know that this particular challenge is not for me at this point in my life.

That doesn’t mean, however, that the whole, “birth of a novel,” creative and productive atmosphere hasn’t inspired me. In honor of this new dawn within our household, one with an outlook of hope and health and passion, I’m embarking this first day of November on my very own project. I have dubbed it, National Just Get It Done Already Month (NaJuGeDoMo). While my Sweetie spends a few hours a day on his writing, I’ll be spending a few of my own doing those things in my life that just fall by the wayside in the course of day-to-day life. You know the types of things I mean: cleaning closets, clearing clutter, taking on distasteful or seemingly impossible tasks. Those things. And there are plenty of them around here - believe me. There are issues to address in the garage, in the basement, in closets and right out in the open. So this is the time. Like we decided when the idea of NaNo WrMo came up again this year: There’s no reason not to give it a go. Nothing to lose. Much to gain. November is going to be an enlightening and constructive month around here.

First up on my “Bite the Bullet” list is cleaning out the refrigerator. Not just straightening and making sure there’s nothing rotting away in the back - but really CLEANING it - wiping it down and making it all sparkly and hygienic once again. It’s long overdue, I’m dreading it, but I’m gonna tackle it today. As God as my witness, I will have a clean refrigerator by sunset!

In the spirit of these November challenges where some action is required on a daily basis, I’ll post about my progress on my own project, just so I don’t feel like I’m cheating on the rules. Besides, I do enjoy blogging, even though you wouldn’t know it from my absence here. Maybe I’ll get back in the habit of that too.

'Cause being around you is all I see...

gina@upsidedowncats.com (Gina) — Fri, 03 Feb 2012 16:09:19 -0600

Twenty years ago, two good friends went to a dreadfully depressing movie (Grand Canyon) followed by a late dinner at Perkins.

It was during after-dinner conversation that the day turned into more than just two friends getting together. Truths were revealed, feelings were expressed and the two friends decided to explore a new dimension to their relationship. It seems love had begun to bloom on the bedrock that was their friendship. Our first date - and we didn’t even know it was until it was over!

Today I look back on these twenty years and wonder... Did I have a life before you, my Scott? If so, I don’t remember and I can’t conceive of a moment when you haven’t been as much a part of me as... me.

As in any life, ours has been filled with extraneous challenges as well as momentous highs. The important thing is that (ok, gonna quote Rev. Green...) for “good or bad, happy or sad,” we are in life and in love together. There’s no bigger blessing in the world than to know that no matter what you’re going through, you have your best friend and biggest supporter right by your side.

While today is a milestone, of sorts, for us, it really is no different than any other day. There are a few things I know for certain about today (and every day to come): I will love you. You will love me. No matter what the events of the day, it will end with those things still being true. Guaranteed.

I dedicate this song to you, Sweetie. Listen to the Rev...

Let's Stay Together

I'm, I'm so in love with you
Whatever you want to do Is alright with me
'Cause you make me feel, so brand new
And I want to spend my life with you

Me sayin' since, baby, since we've been together
Ooo, loving you forever
Is what I need
Let me, be the one you come running to
I'll never be untrue
Ooo baby

Let's, let's stay together
Loving you whether, whether
Times are good or bad, happy or sad

Oooo oooo ooo ooo, yeah
Whether times are good or bad, happy or sad

Why somebody, why people break up
Oh, and turn around and make up
I just can't seeeeeeeee
You'd never do that to me
(Would you baby)
'Cause being around you is all I see
It's why I want us to

Let's, let's stay together
Loving you whether, whether
Times are good or bad, happy or sad

Let's, let's stay together
Loving you whether, whether

NABLOPOMO '11 - #4

gina@upsidedowncats.com (Gina) — Fri, 04 Nov 2011 19:53:00 -0500

Things I've learned since becoming a freelance writer

4. I'm still not a morning person. Unlike the two decades that I woke at the crack of dawn to be ready to welcome daycare children every morning, I rarely have to get up early any more. I often wondered throughout those years if I would dislike mornings as much if I didn't "have" to get up so early...

Yep - still do.

No matter what, I just don't function right before 9:00 or 10:00 AM. That's just the way it is. At least I don't have to fight City Hall anymore. Another win.

NABLOPOMO '11 - #3

gina@upsidedowncats.com (Gina) — Thu, 03 Nov 2011 20:53:54 -0500

Things I've learned since becoming a freelance writer

3. I love the way my mind works. I've always known I was smart but recently I've discovered that I'm a really good thinker. To me, that means that not only do I learn easily but I make valid and logical cognitive leaps. I'm insatiably curious and I love to research and figure things out. Nothing thrills me intellectually like the pieces of a knowledge puzzle coming together to reveal the big picture.

Nothing makes me feel more comfortable in my own skin than knowing I've got it going on upstairs. It's the most meaningful type of beauty - a beautiful mind.

NaBloPoMo '11 - #2

gina@upsidedowncats.com (Gina) — Wed, 02 Nov 2011 12:30:55 -0500

Things I've learned since becoming a freelance writer

2. I am quite interesting. (You'd know that if you'd shut the hell up and LISTEN to me!)

Perhaps it comes from being the youngest in a household of terribly interesting people - I grew up without trusting that I had a "voice" worth listening to. Or maybe I cultivated it within myself by internalizing a myriad of self-doubts and negative experiences along the way that convinced me that I didn't have much of interest to say and was therefore easily ignored. Whatever the cause, I naturally fell into the habit of being "shy" - not forthcoming with opinions or emotions, unwilling to share my "real self" with many people, for fear of experiencing the lack of respect and the rejection that is manifested by being ignored.

But I've overcome it - especially in the last several years. I have learned that I am indeed quite interesting, clever, intelligent and not a bad conversationalist - IF you bother to listen. I will not, however, beg for your attention. If your pet, children or another conversation is more compelling than I am to you, by all means, heed what you must. But should you be interested in what I have to say, you most likely won't be disappointed.

In fact, rather than accept being ignored, now I am insulted by it. If listening to me isn't worth a few moments of your undivided attention (which I respectfully give to others) then I see that as an unwillingness to really know me. I'm not fast food you can consume without thought. I'm a real meal, worth savoring, at least for a little while.

NaBloPoMo '11 - #1

gina@upsidedowncats.com (Gina) — Tue, 01 Nov 2011 17:19:24 -0500

It's NaBloPoMo Again!

Yes, for a brief time I thought I would pass on NaBloPoMo this year. It's quite a commitment of time and thought. I wondered if I had it in me this year to commit to blogging every day throughout the month of November. Business is brisk and the days slip by so swiftly...did I really have time for this?

Apparently, the answer is, "Yes, yes I do." Or maybe more accurately, "Yes, I want to." After all, I've been participating in National Blog Posting Month since 2007 - that's a track record of which I'm proud and would regret breaking. While blogging - now that I'm a "professional writer" - gets pushed to the bottom of my to-do list, I still love and cherish the opportunity to write just for the sheer joy of personal expression.

Although blogging on a theme isn't a NaBloPoMo requirement, I've never done NaBloPoMo without one, so here's my 2011 theme:

drum roll please...

Things I've learned since becoming a freelance writer

Let me tell you, this career reinvention has been an education! I've made a list of lessons learned and I'll share one per day during the month of November. So that's the plan.

I've already mentioned #1 a couple times in this very post -

1. I am a listmaniac. (As a professional writer, I'm authorized to create my own words - it's in the bylaws.)

I can't imagine the concept of facing a day without a list. If it enters my mind, it must go on a list. Otherwise, "it" stays in my mind, rattling around aimlessly in some ill-fated attempt to process itself - without the all-important procedural step of being placed on a list. In fact, since my discovery of Springpad, a personal organization program, I even make lists of my lists. Oh my.

In My Other Life, I Talk to Animals

gina@upsidedowncats.com (Gina) — Mon, 23 May 2011 14:53:22 -0500

In another lifetime, another universe, I am Dr. Sue, communicating with these apes, learning more from them than they learn from me. If I had to answer the question, "What other profession would I pursue?" it would he that of Dr. Sue - anthropologist. Discovering "human" characteristics in animals reminds me not how much they are like us but how much we are like them. Her research touches me like little else, reminding me that just because we are human doesn’t mean we are the most intelligent, cleverest, most creative, kindest and wisest. That is the most uplifting message I can imagine.

Do yourself a favor and check out this video:

Thanks to Roger Ebert for Tweeting the link to this video.

The Rewards of NOT Getting the Job

gina@upsidedowncats.com (Gina) — Thu, 31 Mar 2011 12:52:26 -0500

I have been rejected for a writing gig for which I recently applied. While on one level, it stings and feels like a blow to my ego and talent, I am not feeling all that bad about it. Upon considerable reflection on the situation, I've decided that it was actually for the best. (I promise you this is not a case of "sour grapes.") It simply comes down to this: I am insulted - and here's why.

I was excited for the opportunity to write and submit a sample as an "audition" for a freelance case study writer for this "financial guru" guy, promising a steady stream of work to the successful candidate. The "assignment" was to use the provided emails and survey results to craft a case study about a woman who had experienced great career gains after having taken his course. I followed his instructions and submitted an articulate, creative and compelling case study of which I was exceedingly proud. Having sent it, I was feeling optimistic but trying not to get my hopes up too high. I had resolved that, whatever happened, it had been a great experience and had demonstrated just how much I enjoy the process of case study writing. The hardest part, frankly, (to quote Tom Petty) was the waiting to hear one way or the other.

Continue reading "The Rewards of NOT Getting the Job"

Cooking Up Some Tasty Case Studies

gina@upsidedowncats.com (Gina) — Mon, 28 Mar 2011 14:42:45 -0500

A case study - in case you aren't familiar with the term - is a factual vignette presented as a short story. Think of it as a verbal snapshot of a specific situation. They're intended to draw the reader into a scenario in which he identifies with the subject and/or the problem presented in the case study. They're often open-ended, sparking the reader's independent consideration of the issue.

Writing case studies differs from other the other types of professional writing I do (like articles, eBooks, blog posts, instructional guides and website text) due to their particular purpose and unique format. Since I first became aware of them, case studies have seemed like an interesting challenge. I've thought of interesting topics over the last few months and added them to my independent projects to-do list, to write when I have free time. Lately it seems case studies are everywhere and they're wanting to be written by me!

At first I was leery of writing case studies because of their very nature which is quite unlike all those other pieces I write and especially my "anything goes so long as it flows" style which I employ here on my blog. No, case studies are more like writing poetry, complete with definitive guidelines distinguishing their construction from that of plain ol' prose.

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What's Cookin'? 3/20/11

gina@upsidedowncats.com (Gina) — Mon, 21 Mar 2011 20:30:45 -0500

Back by popular demand - my What's Cookin' feature! I guess everyone wants to know the answer to that 'burning' question and since I'm a big believer in giving the people what they want, here goes:

As I always do (even lo these many months when I haven't posted them here) I plan our meals in advance for the upcoming week.

Lemon pasta, chicken & broccoli "stirfry."

Beef Parmesan sandwiches, home fries & salad

Homemade macaroni & cheese & oven roasted broccoli, cauliflower, carrots & zucchini

Beef & broccoli with sesame udon noodles

Bacon, egg & cheese bagel sandwiches & yogurt parfaits w/ strawberries & granola

Kielbasa, macaroni & cheese & coleslaw

Hash brown skillet with crabmeat, poached eggs & hollandaise sauce, fruit salad and orange juice

Flounder w/ white wine & shallots, brown rice pilaf & sautéed green beans & cauliflower

I'll try to keep up with this, since I've heard from so many friends and family that they really miss reading these. I hate the thought of disappointing!