There has to be some kind of awareness amongst parents, educational authorities and the government to prevent precious lives from taking their lives at the slightest provocation.

The basic mind-empowering starts from home. Parents have to imbibe a sense of self-confidence and security in their children instead of merely piling high expectations on them. Life is far too precious to be given up at the drop of a hat. If a child faces any stress or harassment at school or in any environment, he or she should be able to confront the issue or report the incident to his or her parents or guardian.

The stability that comes from a secure mind lasts a lifetime. Only an emotionally supported child will bloom. The demands of the job markets and educational institutes should not create a rift between over-stressed parents and their children.

Each child is a precious entity in this Universe and will not be abandoned by the laws of nature as long as one has self-confidence and mental security. Every thought that you embed in your child makes his or her future. So be vary of what goes inside there.

Hyper-sensitive children need to be taught how to remain calm and composed in any situation. Unconditional love of a parent or guardian is essential for such individuals as they become the ’soft landing’ each time he or she faces a difficult situation.

However, this parent or guardian must use the trust in this relationship to develop the child’s self-confidence and mental security.

How can you do that? There are a few important steps that go into transforming each child into a determined, confident and sensible adult.

I am very sure that no parent would prefer to compensate the life of a child just to get the best job in the country or be the topper in school. It simply isn’t worth it and the emotional trauma linked to the negative consequences that follow a highly-pressurized child who is hyper-sensitive is too excruciating to the family and victim.

So, its time that parents and authorities take a serious decision to prevent young, precious lives from vanishing into oblivion. They should not wither before they bloom.

A visually disabled person will tell you how the gift of sight would make a difference to him whereas someone who has been seeing since birth could never value it as much.

When one becomes aware of the gifts behind these senses and how they affect the way we absorb everything into our souls,minds and bodies…it becomes a whole new experience.

Absorbency through senses leads to perception and that then helps us to make our choices and directions in life. The true value of your senses, when you become aware of them can change the way you look at life. You would not be able to define your likes and dislikes without them.

Therefore, when you learn how to focus on the great things life offers through your senses, you enhance the quality of your life and attract all the rigth things into it.

If we would concentrate more on the positive energies these senses bring to our minds, we would be able to cherish the very essence of the Universe.

A beautiful landscape that leaves you mesmerized may not be within your neighborhood but we tend to leave out the tiny sparks of beauty that lie within the crevices of every part of this gorgeous planet. A brilliant sunrise or a baby’s smile contains more energy to brighten your day than a landscape on a postcard can.

Take some time off to inhale the beauty around you. Immerse yourself in pleasing sights,sounds and smells whenever you can. Trust me…you will see the difference it will make to your mind and soul.

I remember the times, not too long ago…when people like me would treasure personal diaries that contain private information and notes that were written in secrecy. They would be stashed away, far from the reach of curious eyes and hands. Sometimes, going through a diary much later would make me wonder why I even bothered hiding it in the first place!

Yet, the joy of writing my thoughts and emotions remains a vital part of my schedule…albeit not daily. Regardless of which medium you use, these entries will always remain precious to you as an individual because you are capturing moments of your life and converting them into the best words that fit these expressions.

Well, I know it may seem impossible to add an additional task to an overflowing schedule so I figured out an easier way to record special moments that occur on a regular day. I rely on technology to help me save time and energy on maintaining a personal journal.

I would save tiny notes on my cellphone or use services like Twitter.Facebook if I come across something that needs to be shared. This gives me plenty to write about in my journal when I do find the time for it.

So, what really goes into the journal? That largely depends on your personal preferences. I would rather dwell with the positive aspects of life for that adds trememendous quality to my existence and also emits positive energy from me each time I read or think about it.

I also write about the less pleasant incidents for I believe that I will always be able to find a lesson behind it, if I haven’t done so as yet.

Luck is not dependent on what your horoscope says for the day or if you woke up on the right side of the bed. Luck is when you know you will get exactly what you want, no matter what.

For instance, what would you go after right now if you knew you would get it? Leave the how,why and when thoughts in some dark spot and focus on the answer. Think as big as you can. What would you really like to have in life right now?

How will you feel if you get it now? Will you feel lucky? Well, let me assure you that if you really believe in it; you WILL and not just MIGHT get lucky! Its as simple as that.

How can you really believe in something and make it appear? Sounds impractical? Well, that sets the winners apart from the losers. Whose side would you rather be on?

If you were to take a sneak peek inside the mind of a ‘lucky’ person, you will find that he or she basically has a positive attitude towards life. This person may not have just happened to be at the right place at the right time but has known that it would happen anyway.

Your ‘lucky’ neighbor believed that he or she can win that lottery and not by just hoping or wishing. Wishing is different from believing. Luck is based on believe and not hope or wish. This is where most of us misunderstand the fact behind luck.

Luck does not happen out of the blue. It has been embedded in the person’s mind and he or she has been sending out a positive energy towards the element with or without actually realizing the outcome. The intense desire for something and belief in its manifestation will attract the element towards this person.

So if you really want something, no matter what it is, you will get it.

You have the power within you to want anything at any point of time in your life. You are in control of your luck. Luck comes from within you and not by chance.

From the moment your heart first began to beat when you were still in the warm confines of your mother’s womb, you have a soul,body and mind of your own. You are recognized as an individual by mankind. Although you will need to co-exist on a planet overflowing with people,you will always be looked at as a creation that forms a part of this Universe.

So the first step in overcoming loneliness is to understand that the importance of your existence goes far beyond the familiar surroundings you know. You play a vital role in the evolution of the Universe. Your biological connections to other humans are just one aspect of your existence.

Every atom in your body is connected to the Universe (and that includes everything from the air you breath to a massive ship that is sailing on the Pacific Ocean right now). You have the right to dream,want and claim anything on this Universe as much as anyone else.

Therefore, you need to empower your mind to accept the fact that you are a magnificent being in your own right. You are not alone for everyone and everything is connected to your mind,body and soul.

Loneliness comes from feeling detached to everything. I don’t think one can even afford to feel lonely if he or she realizes the magnamity of life.

Emotional dependence leads to loneliness when your expectations from the sources are not satisfactory. The best way to avoid any negative vibrations during such circumstances would be to look for the inner peace and connection.

Self-realization brings inner peace. There are many ways one can achieve this. Try meditation or self-hypnosis. Whatever you do, I can assure you that the outcome of realizing this theory will leave you thrilled. I began to love myself and life so much more than I ever did.

The mental strength that develops from this gives you the confidence and determination to overcome loneliness,rejection and depression.

There is no way you can be detached from this Universe unless you allow your mind to think so. You have a very important role to play,regardless of where or who you are.

In Chaos Theory, the term “Butterfly Effect” was given to a theory after it was confirmed that the flutter of a butterfly’s wings somewhere in Asia actually affected the formation of a tornado in the West. As ridiculous as this may sound,it is a fact.

Start looking beyond the physical realm and dimensions that you think you know and open your mind to accept truths that lie far deeper within the very roots of Creation.

Expectations comes with a myriad of emotions and the closer the person is with you, the higher the levels of intensity and needs. One must remember that it is not always possible to avoid being disappointed because we all come with our shortcomings.

Therefore, instead of working your way out of it, a better option would be to work your way in. A great time to do this would be during hibernation (read previous article).

The person may not be intentionally disappointing you but nevertheless, tempers flare and silent sighs that initially go unnoticed would turn into a gigantic explosion with time.

Should you mention how you feel to the person? Yes. That is highly recommended. In fact, it is best to inform the person of how his or her actions have affected you. At times, the person may empathize and things may turn out in your favor. Yet, do brace yourself for any negative responses too. It helps to know how the person feels too.

There always are lessons to learn and life throws them in the strangest of times. Such situations give us the opportunity to pause and think if there really is a better way to get through without hurting yourself. You may find that realigning certain aspects of your life may actually turn out looking better than the present circumstance.

The change may look unpleasant and uncomfortable at first sight but its easier to choose the direction when you can rather than having to take whatever comes your way. You may want to even plan this change in your mind well before you leap.

People are always going to be full of surprises and you may want to be prepared to face them as far as possible. Trust me, some of them can jump out of nowhere and catch you unaware. These nasty ones can hurt quite a bit and instead of reaching out for your concealer to hide those scars, try to duck before it hits you.

You may want to look at the positive traits that come with independence. Better exposure,freedom,clearer mind,a sense of responsibility,etc.

Some of us get so ‘comfortable’ with our lives without realizing that this attitude is denying you of the life you actually wish for. Puffy clouds with words like ‘risky’ and ‘discomfort’ keep hovering overhead as we go about living a life that we make ourselves believe we are happy with.

Risks come to those who keep looking out for them. Discomfort come to those who believe that moving an inch from where they are would come with additional liabilities and stress.

The difference between you and the person you would like to be is the comfort zone you live in. The water in the river has to flow through, over and under objects that come in the way for it to surge ahead. The logic is, we prefer a clear flowing river to a mug of water that has been stagnating for months.

The comfort zone may seem cozy for now and it may even make it look like the best place to stay in until something else comes along. Your bubble may burst any moment and the change that comes with it may not be exactly what you were hoping for.

I am sure that you would prefer to take a sip from the flowing river than the mug! Your life unfolds with every choice you make.

Going after the career or dream you want may require you to make a few adjustments to the ‘comfort zone’ but there is no book of rules that says you will have a long rough path to take. Your path to the new destination is completely under your control.

It will turn out to be exactly as you would want it to be. How can I be so sure about it? Well, quite simply because we all are who we wanted to be, regardless of whether each choice was made consciously or subconsciously.

Define your future and don’t get too comfortable when you get there either. I promise that you will find something more on the other side that you will want. Learn how to get uncomfortable – but with a positive attitude.

Discomfort longs for change. Voluntary change always yields better results than the ones you are made to take. If your mind says you are comfortable at the moment and that always asking for more is greed, the only response I have is:

The Universe has more than enough for all of us to have the lives we want to live. If you say ‘enough’, it is you who have not accessed what is rightfully yours and not destiny or luck. You are a part of this massive Universal energy. You are connected to every element within this magnificent realm and have the innate ability to connect yourself to any of them using different frequencies.

You connect yourself through your thoughts and actions. You have no limits as to what you can access. The only challenge that you face is your mind. You have to quit telling yourself that you are happy the way you are. Why limit yourself to what your emotions and physical self can see when scientific evidence proves that the entire Universe is at available?

The comfort zone you are used to is only an illusion that you have created from your past thoughts. You just have to start creating a new illusion with your mind and you will be able to live the life you want.

You have the liberty of choosing what you want to fill your plate up with at a buffet although I must admit that I have been amused by a few who take a bite off everything! We all have our unique preferences and appetite that somehow manage to find the right choice of dishes from the spread. In that manner, we do tend to refuse some dishes. The right to choose the food that you eat at a buffet does in more ways than one appear similar to the choices that are made in life.

1. You need to identify the choices that are good for you but don’t necessarily come in attractive packages. You know that the boiled broccoli and asparagus will do more good for your health than the fried potato wedges although the latter looks more tempting. So, it is always good to pause and think before making up your mind on issues that don’t seem to look too good from the outside but may hold greater value on the inside. Trust me, you would not want to miss out on these ones!

Example: No one fancies a trip to the dentist but you know that it sure helps to keep those teeth in good shape. Postponing the appointment for the 34th time is not going to make you feel any better when those cavities start to hurt.

2. It is ok to say ‘no’ when you know that you won’t like a particular food. Its best to avoid stuff that you know you won’t like or benefit from. Sometimes we all fear that refusing someone (especially when the person is a loved one) would hurt him or her. I used to accept any request that flew my way because I felt that I had to keep everyone in my life happy. Was I always happy when I obliged? No. There have been instances where I had to regret secretly while the other person would hardly be aware of my feelings or empathize. In such circumstances, it makes one wonder if it really was worth all the pain and discomfort.

You have the right to happiness as much as anyone else does and if you keep thinking that your refusal will hurt the other person, it most likely would. On the other hand, approach the situation from a positive perspective. Think before you speak. Try the ’sandwich’ technique. That way the person will notice the positive vibrations from the exterior far more than the ‘no’ in the middle.

Example: “I sure would love to come and spend the week with your family but I have a very busy week ahead. I will do my best to make up for this soon. I hope you understand.

Saying ‘no’ to some things in life is okay. There has to be a balance in everything. The entire Universe is spread before you so that you can choose from it. Make use of the free will that you have been blessed with to obtain the best that you can become.

So, goals and dreams regardless of volume and level, are all conceived and planted in the mind equally. It is we who set the limits. If you keep reminding yourself that you will never be able to afford the swanky new apartment, your thoughts will make sure that you are not disappointed.

Extraordinary feats have been achieved in history and continue to do so because there are people who have set their limits much higher than what most would. They are no different from you and me. The Universe does not deprive one of any element. You are given as much access to everything on this planet as any other person.

It is important to keep those positive thoughts flowing through your system for as often as possible. After all, its tough to stay away from bad news nowadays because bad news sells more than the good ones. If you don’t find a bad news interesting enough, someone will come along and add some spice to make it sensational.

Universal Truth Of Life is about absorbing and transmitting positive vibrations. So, what good does thinking about the wonderful moments in other people’s lives do for you? Well, it sends out positive energy to them. They may not even know you but you still co-exist on the same planet and are part of the entire universe. Sending out positive energy to any element will only reproduce it in you. Thats the only way it works, scientifically.

Here is what I would like to think about as I type this article:

Someone just won the lottery right now.
Someone just became a parent.
Someone just made it to the top of Mount Everest.
Someone is falling in love right now.
Someone just ate his first decent meal in a week.
Someone’s life is just being spared by an assailant.
Someone just moved in to a home he has spent years dreaming about.
Someone’s toddler just walked or spoke for the first time.
Someone just got his first job.
Someone blind could now see for the very first time.

In fact, all or some of these could be happening as you are reading this right now!
If you had paused after reading each sentence to think about it, you should be able to absorb the emotions that come with such moments.

This exercise comes in handy when you don’t feel so positive. I have in fact recommended it to several clients who swear that it works.

When you think of a particular incident, your mind conjures up related emotions even if you are not directly involved in it. Emotions are formed through thoughts and they contain atoms. These atoms then form a path that lead to the elements that fall under the same frequency. This is the cycle of life.

Anyway, these theories form the core essence of UToL and are simplified scientific structures that have been toned down to fit anyone’s life.

Your understanding spouse and adorable kids need to be assured that you still care and love them, while you are busy chasing your dreams. You may not have the energy or time to hang around with them or help out with the chores at home each day, but you can surely fit in a few moments of affection whenever you can.

“I am doing all this for the family.”
Of course you are! What use would it be if no one is around when you reach the finish line?

“I will have all the time in the world to spend with them”
That is taking their existence for granted. Maybe they don’t feel the same way about you. What begins as a longing for your attention and affection could turn into loneliness, neglection and disappointment with time.

“They will always be around and so will I.”
It can get very lonely at the top when you get there.

Technology has given us ample opportunities to reach out to our loved ones even if we are thousands of miles apart. Squeezing in a moment or two to send a message or email just to let them know that your thoughts are with them can make a big difference.

Subtle physical affection each day can do wonders to relationships. Value those around you. Love them and let them know that too. Love is not a guessing game. It is an emotion that has to be expressed.

Call your mom or dad at least once a week. Spend some quality time with them. Let them know you care. They don’t have to be pushed to the back seat when more people come into your life. After all, they have spent a great deal of their lives bringing you up!

Likewise, kids need your love and attention. Home is the only place we all return to for love, warmth, security and affection. Children need to be reassured that you are there for them and that they can always count on you.

Deprivation of affection and love can leave even the most patient and understanding person feeling neglected, unappreciated and lonely. No one deserves to feel that way. Especially not those who love you.