#Ways To Tell (If He Likes You)

Kenny Martin Jr Live at a Workshop for Ladies called "It's A L.O.V.E. Thang! in September 2013

2013-07-02T22:17:00.000-07:00

Kenny Martin Jr., the author of #WaysToTell....ifhelikesyou will be a guest panelist at an upcoming Workshop for ladies entitled "It's A L.O.V.E. Thang!" The workshop will be held in Oakland California on Saturday September 7th at the Washington Inn. Event Information: The Ladies Of Virtue & Excellence Present: "It's a L.O.V.E. Thang" Workshop and Panel! This event was created by the founder of the L.O.V.E. Ministry (www.itsalovethang.com) Karsyn R. Davis whose "soul" purpose is to empower, equip and encourage young women in today's society to "Be A Lady At All Times", LOVE themselves and others and be the best "them" that they can be in Christ. As a two time pageant queen, speaker, and Christian, Karsyn is excited to share her wisdom with all! This event will feature classes on self-esteem, etiquette, poise and presentation, proper makeup application, and skin care. After the classes there will be an "ALL MALE Panel"

Chivalry is not Dead!!! (He's just a dead beat)

2013-06-18T08:38:00.002-07:00

Chivalry from men is not a dead thing Sisters. It is alive and well, and real men love to show it to every woman that crosses their path. Be it opening the door for her, walking her to her car, pulling out her chair, taking his jacket off so she can be warmed or removing his hat in her presence. Men that love women and respect them the same, are never too busy to show it. You might be perhaps taking your notes from a guy who has given up on loving a woman or does not see the need to respect any. It is a man void of good teaching and upbringing in my opinion that will not allow his chivalrous potential to manifest. Whatever you do my sister please do not lump us all in the same category as men who will not be gentlemen to a lady. We who are the gentlemen are proud to be such, and want to let it be shown and known every chance we get. Chivalry Lives!!!!! -Min. Kenny Martin Jr. #WaysToTell.....

Potential Husbands don't hang out where Twerkers do... #HeAintThere

2013-06-12T09:24:00.001-07:00

What would make you think that a man who is looking for a wife to be committed to and to possibly mother is children would be inclined to seek her out in a club or bar or party full of over sexed men and women half naked. The mind of a marrying man has matured and has come to a place in hi life in which all foolishness and playing around has ended. He is not interested in sharing her with anyone and knows that a woman who will twerk or shake her booty in the face of this man, is not ready to settle down yet. Maturity seeks out maturity. There may be men hanging out where you are going, and they may look good to you and you to them. They are not however men who are looking to make the pole sliding thick chick full of singles and glitter, their one and only. Sexy is sexy with clothes on, modest, and with dignity and class. Keep yours!

How to make yourself irresistable to Men that Marry!

2013-06-11T12:09:00.001-07:00

"The shape of your body is not as important as the shape of your mind. Invest in good thinking, and a healthy heart. #IntelligenceIsSexy" The world we live in and the media that seems to guide it's decisions and thinking has convinced women and some men that sexy is only found in the shape of a woman's body. Be it a large chest size or a round back side, we have been hypnotized with the belief that sexy is all about the frame. Truth is, that most men who marry are not at all that interested in their woman having perfect curves or a beach body shape. Most are attracted to and turned on by a woman who can share intimate moments with him in stimulating thought and dialogue. Being able to talk about the future and having hopes, dreams and goals that can be articulated clearly and with color are an aphrodisiac. I'd encourage every woman to make sure that as she is getting that body right, not to forget to put much more into her mind. Read, study, and learn about the world around you, and about yourself. As you fill your head with knowledge and listen to those with wisdom, you will begin to realize your own value and self worth. Confidence is exuded from a woman who understands that she does not have to display her private parts fully or partially in order to be found attractive or approachable by a quality Man. Real men appreciate real women for who they are inside. #WaysToTell..... Min. Kenny Martin Jr. Email: waystotell@gmail.com To ask a question!

Don't Chase that man...

2013-05-09T11:33:00.000-07:00

If he doesn't run after you....you're not the one he's pursuing. You're pursuing him.

The Mirror Message

2013-05-09T11:28:00.002-07:00

"if every place is a problem place, the the problem might be the mirror's face"

Are you ready to start really Understanding Men?

2013-03-06T14:48:00.002-08:00

Bishop T.D. Jakes shares a word to women on understanding men better.

Are you an Passionate Career Minded Person?....Is it Hurting Your Relationship?... Here are some tips that might Help.

2013-03-05T12:04:00.002-08:00

Jennifer feels torn and guilty. For the first time in her life, she’s doing work that she absolutely loves. She’s had several jobs in the past that merely paid the bills. Now, however, she looks forward to going into the office every day. It’s always stimulating and rewarding. Some days, she is disappointed when 5 pm rolls around. That’s when the guilt pours in. While Jennifer adores her work, she also adores her family. Her children are teenagers and pretty much take care of themselves, but she feels a distance growing between herself and them. It’s getting more and more difficult to keep up with what’s new in their lives and that didn’t used to happen. What’s even more troubling is the distance she feels growing in her marriage. She worries that the time, energy and attention she devotes to her work is having a detrimental effect on her relationship with her husband. Sometimes, as she excitedly shares with him about one of her work projects, he seems to be bored and not really listening. He rarely talks about his job except to complain about his boss.

Other times, when Jennifer calls home to say she’s staying late at the office, she can hear the irritation in his voice. She doesn’t want to lose either her fabulous job or her loving relationship with her husband and children. Most of the time, Jennifer feels like she has to short-change one or the other and that is stressful and upsetting. The inner conflict can be huge! When you work at a job you love and you also want to keep your relationship healthy and connected, you might feel just as torn as Jennifer does. Finding balance is the goal and it may not seem easy to come by. The demands of life can be stressful and you might even believe that, in order to have success in one area of your life, you’ve got to neglect the other areas. Please note: There is a difference between being passionate about your job and being a workaholic.

When work is an excuse to avoid your partner or a tense situation at home, pay attention. Acknowledge it if you feel compelled to work long hours or spend little time with your partner. Get curious about why this is and decide what you will do about it. Re-frame We don’t believe that you have to neglect any aspect of your life and certainly not your own well-being either! If you are seeking balance between your relationship and career, we first recommend that you try a re-frame. This intentionally looking at the same situation you find yourself in a slightly different way. For example, if you tend to tell yourself that, “There’s no time for it all” or “There’s not enough me to go around” or “I can only focus on either my work or my family,” stop yourself and remember to breathe. While it’s probably true that you can’t be and do everything all at once, you CAN nurture both a thriving career and a healthy and close relationship. Balance, success and satisfaction become available when you open up to, “I don’t have to choose.” You might not know how this kind of balance will happen. In fact, if you try to plan it all out in advance, you’ll mostly make yourself stressed out and exhausted.

What you can do is to affirm the possibility of balance to yourself and then make decisions that are in alignment with balance as they come up. Communicate Keep the communication between you and your partner open and honest. Let him or her know that you see your work AND your relationship and family as equally important. Don’t stop sharing about what you love about your job. If your partner seems to you to be bored or uninterested, ask if he or she wants to hear more. Don’t take it personally if the answer is “No.” Make sure to ask about your partner’s day and to value whatever he or she does, regardless of whether or not there’s a paycheck involved. The point here is to use what you each found enjoyable, difficult or thought-provoking about your everyday experiences as a way to stay in touch with one another. This can be fuel for connection regardless of how different each of your experiences are.

Connect Never stop creating chances to connect with your partner and with your own self. Remember, nobody wins if you sacrifice yourself or what you are passionate about. You may have to do some creative scheduling, but it IS possible to keep the connection with your partner strong and healthy. Think of it as an adventure! How can you and your partner take the 15 minute chunk of time you have alone in the evening and make it a moment for touching in with each another? Could you sit together on the couch holding hands and listening to the relaxing music or just the sounds of your home and one another’s breathing? This might sound boring, but if you really tune into the moment, you might really enjoy it and it could build up for later passion in the bedroom.

Shared from:
http://www.relationshipgold.com

Are you Giving all the Good stuff Away.....??

2013-03-04T12:00:00.000-08:00

Showing Everyman what you've got under your clothes reduces your value in the eyes of THE man who wanted to make you his bride. #STOPThis Leave something to the imagination.

Your Anointed and appointed Preacher Crush may not be what you think...

2013-03-04T11:07:00.002-08:00

Dr. Myles Munroe enlightens women to the truths about Men who hide behind the pulpit and use the titles and platform to seduce. Watch, share and be empowered.

Save something for the one that's coming for you........

2013-03-04T08:36:00.000-08:00

I know there may be an urge to open yourself up to every man that looks your way and spends some time talking to you and complimenting you too. It is important that you remember to reserve yourself (the best part) for the one who will commit his life to loving you and sharing himself completely with you. There is a tendency in some to give it all away (love, affection, secrets, passion and energy) to a man early on who may or may not reciprocate. When you finally do get into a serious and lifelong relationship at times they seem to be exhausted of anything left to give. My suggestion is to always reserve the best part for the right one.

Stay Beautiful in Word, deed and Attitude....

2013-03-03T18:55:00.002-08:00

There is nothing worst than a woman who has agreat outer beauty, but fails when it comes to her conversation, actions and attitude. The frame you're rocking soon is dismissed and ignored to a man when you demonstrate to him that you have a sarcastic and unfriendly attitude. You become unaatractive and not desired to be around to spend time with. You may find that your body gets a man to look your way and possibly become intimate with you (have sex). That will more than likely be it, as your ugly ways will not allow him to stomach your presence on a regular basis. Make sure you are not a mean one, and do not turn them off because you speak too negatively and or with so much dirt. Be a Lady everywhere, and everytime.

Why are you getting Naked?

2013-03-02T18:57:00.000-08:00

Hey Sisters, Just so you know, Sexy is still sexy even when you keep your clothes on. There is no need to start revealing everything you've got to every man online, and in public. The man who is really interested in getting to know you and wants to spend his life with you does not have to see your private body parts no any partial revealing of them in order to consider you to be sexy. It is lsess about your body parts and more about the auora and the confidence that you exude with your womanhood. As you speak and share your heart in sincerity and truth, the man will begin be drawn even closer to you. Continue to maintain your integrity and character and know that real women are sexy with clothes on.

What are you doing?

2013-02-06T10:07:00.001-08:00

I understand waiting to be married, I just dont understand the intimacy and intercourse you're having together while waiting....huh? #burning

Can I change His mind?

2012-12-18T14:56:00.002-08:00

The question posed is: "Should a women still date a guy that says up front, at the moment he's not looking for anything too serious in a relationship? Is it likely for a guy to change his mind after getting to know the girl, or is that a signal to #WALK?" Ways To Tell Answer: You are not gonna convince him to get serious about a relationship if he's already saying he's not in it for that. Doesn 't mean he will never settle down though. Point is that you don't want to be building this fantasy in your mind about how you are going to change him and cause him to fall for you cause then you will basically be the pursuer and he will have little reason to chase you. If you want to be courted, don't be the aggressor. Settle on being "friends" only and just allow the relationship to develop if it will. Do not compromise or become intimate in anyway if he has already communicated is desire to stay out of a serious relationship...you'll be setting yourself up for hurt if you do. Ultimately men know where they are in their life and if they want to be married in the near future. Don't be a girl among many. Your time and life is to precious.

No man wants to share.....

2012-12-18T10:23:00.001-08:00

A real man does appreciate your curvature and your sexy walk and talk, but he'll be fine waiting to experience that and the warmth and pleasure of your intimacy and womanhood after he has made you HIS bride. #WhoWantsToShareAnyway?

The Secret to becoming a future wife....

2012-12-18T10:22:00.002-08:00

As you get to know the Lord more and more and allow him to take complete control of your life....He himself will prepare you to become a better you...a stronger woman....and if destined, a prepared wife.

Video Blog: Hello Ways To Tell Followers!!! (Welcome Video)

2012-12-03T14:13:00.000-08:00

Hello Ways To Tell Followers, I just wanted to take some time to share with you the basis of this whole #WaysToTell....ifhelikesyou movement. Take a minute and wath the video and feel free to drop me any questions or feedback you might have. You can also visit me on www.facebook.com/waystotell or www.twitter.com/ifhelikesyou

Don't be so easy!!

2012-11-14T13:27:00.001-08:00

Refuse to allow a man who does not love you, protect you, cover you, respect you, and encourage you, to penetrate you.

Let him Find You...

2012-11-12T10:21:00.001-08:00

You can hunt for a man if you want to, but if that booga goes crazy after you get him home, just remember it was you who found him and not the other way around. #BeFound

Help the Women in Your Life....

2012-11-10T13:39:00.000-08:00

Help me help others by sharing this page with all your girlfriends! Let's reduce the hurt, and help the hopeless.... #GoodWomenDeserveGoodMen

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Think well of you.......

2012-10-23T09:00:00.002-07:00

Good Morning,

Just want to encourage you to think of yourself the way God thinks of you. He is always concerning himself with providing you with the best you could ever have. Trouble often is that you settle for what attaches itself to you. Be willing today to dismiss anything that does not enhance, encourage, strengthen, or motivate your life. God has good thoughts towards you, and always has plans to prosper you and to bring you peace, joy and an expected end. He Loves you.....#NowYouShouldToo.

-Kenny

If you have to ask, he's not pursuing you....

2012-10-07T19:49:00.000-07:00

Men who are pursuing after you will make it absolutely clear to you that you are the one they want to get to know better. When a woman starts saying things like I'm not sure if he feels like I feel, it's a sure sign that she is driving the car and he has gotten out of it. Men don't waste time with a woman that they are not interested in unless she is giving it up to him. Real men don't have time to waste playing games wi their lives or yours. Start telling yourself the truth and refuse to be strung along wondering if the relationship is going anywhere. If you don't know, them that's your answer...no.

Listen to your heart.............

2012-10-05T08:52:00.001-07:00

Just because you were hurt before, does not mean it's gonna happen to you this time. You must continue to remain vulnerable to love. I'm not suggesting you play the fool and ignore your intuitions. However, anything as beautiful and organic as love and relationship requires some tenderness and relaxation of the heart. Give love away and allow it to come your way. It is your heavenly gift to experience love by God through a man. He ordered it and designed us to desire, and enjoy it from one another. So my message this morning is that you let your heart speak, let your emotions breathe, and listen when it says this is right. The key is to have the principles by which it makes that decision in place beforehand. Love!
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Is he Complimenting or is he Pursuing....?

2012-10-04T09:56:00.001-07:00

Men like to compliment women all the time. They are creatures of sight and recognize outward beauty when they see it. Don't be surprised if he
comes your way and tells you how wonderful you look today. It does not mean that you should expect him to start pursuing you or make advances towards getting to know you better. It is a snap shot in time. He is merely admiring your beauty. All beauty is not outward either. When a man sees a confident woman walking, speaking or simply postured with strength, he may let you know that he has noticed you as well. Let it all come natural, and don't be afraid to say thank you without a look of surprise or sarcasm. You are beautiful aren't you, and confidence is your glow right? Wear it well.