The 2012 Guide To Dating-Cheap Sally’s Infographic is a post from the: WeLoveDates online dating blog

Using an indepth analysis of census data, dating costs, mental and physical health and google trends, the Daily Beast has ranked Atlanta as the best city in the United States to find a date.  The creators of the study determined that areas with higher than average incomes and an abundance of singles are prime dating locations-lots of people willing to spend lots of money-win, win. Also taken in to account?  The happiness and quality of life of a cities residents, AND how many residents are signed up for an online dating site.

The Top Ten Cities To Find a Date Are:
1. Atlanta, GA
2. Gainsville, FL
3. Lincoln, NE
4. Austin, TX
5. Minneapolis, MN
6. Seattle, WA
7. Madison, WI
8. San Francisco, CA
9. Ann Arbor, MI
10. Washington, DC

Most surprising to me?  No Los Angeles or New York on the list!  Granted, they aren’t the happiest cities in the states so maybe I shouldn’t be too shocked!  U.S readers, what do you think of this study? Anyone moving to Atlanta soon?

The Best Cities To Find a Date In 2012 is a post from the: WeLoveDates online dating blog

The Super Bowl was the big talk of the weekend in the States this past weekend. Whether you’re a Giants fan or a Patriots fan or just watching for the commercials, it turned out to be a close and xciting game. As expected, Monday morning’s radio shows were abuzz with game recaps and opinions. I was expecting this, but what I wasn’t expecting was the sexist undertones in some of the commentary.

One particular radio show was discussing how women, assuming they don’t care about football or have an allegiance to any particular team, should automatically default to supporting her man’s team. The female callers seemed to agree, but something about the entire discussion just didn’t sit right with me.

First of all, the radio hosts were completely ignoring the fact that women care about football on their own, outside of a relationship. I’ve dated men who know nothing about football, and I’m the one paying attention to the tv on Sundays. A discussion about supporting my man’s team doesn’t account for my own allegiances.

Second of all, there was no mention of men supporting the women in her interests. Maybe football isn’t her thing, but if she’s expected to root for her boyfriend or husband’s team, the least he can do is reciprocate a little by not complaining when she watches The Bachelor, right?

And third, it was unsettling to listen to women call in to the show and completely agree with the announcers. Where’s our fight ladies?

Of course, it’s entirely possible that I’m reading far too much into this. Maybe I’m in the minority of women who have a strong allegiance to one football team, or maybe I’m interpreting this too deeply. It just seems to me that in relationships where compromise and support are crucial elements to success, we should remember the compromises and support men should offer to women as well.

What about you ladies out there? Do you support your husband/boyfriend’s teams, or do you have your own?

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Wakey, wakey…heart eggs and bacon!  Suppose you are lucky enough to wake up next to your Valentine on Feb 14th, and you want to make them a delicious breakfast to show your love.  Nothing says I Love You more than heart shaped eggs, obviously and this love heart egg shaper makes it easy.
The Art Of Kissing can be used a few ways-1. Consider it a gift to your self if you need to brush up on your kissing skills before the big day, or 2. Give it to someone who needs assistance in the kissing department and offer to help them practice.

Want a creative way to tell someone you’re crushing on them?  Check out this updated version of Cupid’s Bow and Arrow-the Love Catapult!  How could anyone resist a bunch of mini cupids flying at their face…and guns are SO romantic, right?   Bang, bang!

Who needs a real boyfriend when you’ve got the Magic Frog Prince?  Apparently, just add water and he turns from a green little frog to a handsome young man…voila!  Now, if only dating in the real world was so easy…

If you are in a relationship, Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to spice things up.  Leave one of these Sexhilariation Stickers somewhere your love will find it in the morning-give him (or her!) something to think about all day long! Meow.

Jewelry is always a hit on Valentine’s Day but what if you aren’t ready to shell out diamonds and pearls, and want to keep things a bit light?  Handcuff jewelry is not only a little tongue in cheek, but it’s just edgy enough to wear without feeling like you’re engaged. It definitely still conveys a message, though.

Whether you’re single, casually dating or in a serious relationship, I think we all can agree that the best way to celebrate V-day is with a bottle of bubbly!  Might I add-this is especially fun if you’re single!

Are you dating a sentimental or girly girl?  Some of you men out there might not appreciate a gift like this, but most women will.  Cutesy, decorative letters spelling out a multitude of sweet sayings-the you and me is my favorite-will definitely bring a smile to her face.  And hey, if it doesn’t work out she can always just chuck them under the bed.

What about the gift that is for both her AND him?  I’m talking about lingerie of course-she’ll feel pretty with it on, and he’ll have fun taking it off.  There are tons of styles (from demure to…diiirrty) and lingerie is definitely the gift that keeps on giving.  I like this babydoll from Gilda and Pearl.

Ok, so we’ve got lingerie for the ladies to wear…but what if a guy wants to slip into somthing more comfortable?These Jedi Bathrobes fit the bill perfectly!  So sillMay the force be with him!

Valentine’s Day Gift Guide 2012 is a post from the: WeLoveDates online dating blog

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I recently found myself in a situation where things were moving way too quickly with a guy I had just met. We bonded while waiting for a flight back to Atlanta, and in a matter of hours it felt like we had been friends forever. You know what I mean – those relationships that you form for a temporary purpose: keeping you company in line for a rollercoaster and Six Flags, bonding over mutual gripes on public transportation, the friend of a friend from out of town that joins you all at your local bar one night. People you never imagine you’ll see again but they serve their purpose as your confidante and entertainment while you’re together. Now add onto that a level of mutual attraction, and you’ve got yourself a situation ripe for the fast-track. So how do you slow things down and make sure no one rushes into anything?

Pause for a minute.
Ask yourself: if you had met this person under different circumstances, would you still feel this way? I’m sure there are people who have met their spouses while sitting at the gate waiting for their flight, but in my case, this guy would never have passed my tests had I not been bored and traveling alone, eager for someone to talk to.

Play Devil’s Advocate.
Imagine introducing this person to your friends. What would their opinions be? Would this person stack up against their standards and expectations of you? If you’d be embarrassed to introduce them to your friends, maybe they’re not as great as they seem in the moment.

Watch What You Say
It’s always exciting to imagine a dalliance with a stranger, and in the midst of those fantasies we say things we don’t necessarily mean. Things like, “You should come back here and visit!” is probably not the best thing to say to someone before they pass your Crazy Stalker Google Search test.

Cut it Off
If it’s progressed to the point of constant communication that is interfering with your day and driving you crazy, it’s best to just cut it off. Be direct and tell them you’re no longer interested. For those of you who are big wimps like I am, maybe just stop responding to his text messages and disappear into thin air.

Somebody please reassure me I’m not the only one who finds themselves in a mess like this!

The Allure of the Mysterious Stranger is a post from the: WeLoveDates online dating blog

Please believe me when I say that the reason why you are single has nothing to do with how you look. Take it from me, I know.

This is why you’re single:

*you’re too picky. You expect Prince Charming, when you’re more of an ugly stepsister.  You’re 5’2 and you won’t consider dating anyone shorter then 6′. You just have a thing for blonde, blue eyed tennis players who do their laundry on Tuesdays.

*you’re not a nice person. Maybe you’re bitter or generally unpleasant. You have an attitude. Maybe someone broke your heart horribly 5 years ago and it jaded you. You think all men are dogs and all women are bitches. It shows.

*you expect instant gratification. You finally make the decision to pay for an online dating site or just start a profile and you are upset when said Prince Charming has not knocked on your door in week 1. It upsets you when no one has messaged you in 3 weeks and so you write the whole thing off as a failure.

*you cannot be bothered to write your profile. Or post photos. You feel it’s not important. Your lack of effort makes you look lazy and uninterested. Also, uninteresting. You refuse to email anyone – they should come to you, right? Wrong. So wrong. You’re all there for the same reason. Put your best foot forward, please.

*online dating scares you, but you like the attention from the opposite sex. So you email back and forth. You talk on the phone. Texting. But you delay the actual meet. You never meet. You have glorified pen pals, basically.

*you feel you are unworthy of love. You’ll find someone when you lose that extra weight. Or get a better job. Or whatever is it that you think is holding you back. The only thing holding you back is you, sweetheart. There is someone out there for the you that you are right now. You are worthy, right now.

Reasons Why You’re Still Single-From an online dating site employee who REALLY knows! is a post from the: WeLoveDates online dating blog

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As kids and teens, our relationship ideas were focused on how cute a boy was, what sport he played or if he had a pool in his backyard. Perhaps they were simpler times, though I clearly remember the dramatic break ups and all of the feelings associated with these early relationships.

It’s only logical that as we grow older, our relationships evolve and the qualities we look for in a partner change. We as people become more complex, therefore allowing us to embark on more complex relationships. So as adults, what qualities do we look for now? Who has replaced the varsity athlete with a backyard pool?

Emotionally available.

We’ve all found ourselves attracted to the commitment-phobe at one point or another. The guy who is fun and carefree and who won’t settle down. I don’t know if they actually fear the commitment itself, or if they are just constantly on the look-out for something better. Either way, they’re infuriating to date.

Stable lifestyle.

A good job and normal life is generally preferable to beggar on the street that’s couchsurfing. I’d even go a little further and say that I want a guy who has a budget, a rational outlook on life, and solid friendships. I think those are grounding elements for a person’s ego and they bring out the same groundedness in myself.

Intelligence.

Everyone knows that looks fade. Even in men, who only seem to get more attractive with every gray hair and laugh line, it doesn’t last forever. I want to be attracted to my partner physically, but I also want to be attracted to them intellectually as well. If I can’t have great conversations with someone over time, I’m not going to stay interested for very long.

These are the top three changes for me. I no longer care about sports teams or six-pack abs like my 15-year-old self did. Now it’s all about making things last long term.

What are some qualities you look for now that you would never have considered years ago?

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Dating Qualities Change as We Get Older is a post from the: WeLoveDates online dating blog