What's The Big Deal Now?

The Kiss or the Drawer?

admin — Wed, 18 Apr 2012 17:35:29 +0000

There are many different views on what a relationship can or should look like, but when we look at the idea of romance, what do we really want in a relationship?

Sex Sells

admin — Wed, 18 Apr 2012 16:47:15 +0000

Sex in advertising is nothing new, but what's really being communicated by some of these companies? And what effect does it have on our culture?

Sex: Now or Later?

admin — Tue, 06 Mar 2012 19:27:40 +0000

You have some questions to ask when it comes to sex like, "when's the right time?" But what other questions should you be asking?

Birth Control

admin — Tue, 06 Mar 2012 19:14:56 +0000

Get the facts on the effectiveness of different types of birth control against STIs or pregnancy and find out what your other options are.

Pregnancy

admin — Tue, 06 Mar 2012 15:12:44 +0000

Many teens don't even think about the possibility that being sexually active could end up getting them pregnant. Here's what you need to know.

STDs

DReyes — Tue, 21 Feb 2012 22:11:25 +0000

Get informed about sexually transmitted infections. Find out how you could get them, their effects, and if they're curable or not.

Sex and the Brain

admin — Tue, 14 Feb 2012 18:50:07 +0000

What does your brain have to do with lasting relationships? Maybe more than you think. Find out how your brain feels about casual sex.

Nice to Meet Me!

DReyes — Thu, 09 Feb 2012 21:47:05 +0000

Welcome and thanks for coming to check out What’s the Big Deal Now?

This site is dedicated to providing you with the best information out there about sexuality, substance abuse, violence and relationships. We’re also keeping a close eye on what’s happening in movies, music and tv to give you interesting facts and behind the scenes information on how companies and entertainers are using their influence in positive and negative ways. But we’re not here to talk at you. Give your feedback. Comment on posts, ask questions, and dig deeper.

Life is complicated as a young adult and we’re here to help you get the knowledge that can help make it simple. There a lot of risks you can take, but which ones should you go for? Do you really know all the factors involved? Find out by clicking around and let us ...

My boyfriend accuses me and grabbed my arm

DReyes — Wed, 25 Jan 2012 18:37:08 +0000

My boyfriend is always asking where I’ve been and accusing me of flirting with other guys. The other day he grabbed my arm and squeezed it when I tried to walk away. What should I do?

It sounds like you’re in an abusive relationship. It’s important to be able to recognize warning signs in a relationship that could lead to abusive behavior.

Isolation (trying to get you alone and separated from your other friends or family), Intoxication (trying to get you drunk or less alert through alcohol), Insulting (using belittling comments or attitudes to disrespect or control you) and Invading (getting into your personal space to intimidate you or make you feel small)

These are all serious warning signs of abuse and you need to talk to a trusted adult about the situation. If he’s gone beyond these and started ...

Some of my friends like to party on the weekends…

DReyes — Wed, 25 Jan 2012 18:35:55 +0000

I have some friends who like to party on the weekends with a lot of alcohol. They keep trying to get me to join them. How can I say no and stay friends with them?

One of the most important aspects of friendships is respect. That means that a real friend will respect you and the choices you want to make for your life. It’s important to clearly let your friends know that you’re not interested in drinking alcohol. Tell them in a firm way, but not rudely.

When they see that you really mean what you say then comes the real test of friendship. If they really are your friends and respect you, they’ll support your decision and won’t try to get you to break it. If they keep hassling you, it might be that they don’t truly respect you ...