Thrive at home.

Looking for more peace and sanity as a stay at home mom? You’re in the right place!


You know motherhood is about more than just surviving. But when you’re in the trenches and overwhelmed by the needs and to-do lists, how do you bring order to your life at home?

That’s what I help moms do at The Cavemom blog!


I’m Deb, AKA the Cave Mom. I’m a homeschooling mom to four little boys, wife to David, and organizer to all this craziness!

I started to help moms find peace and purpose at home through schedules, routines, and practical solutions to everyday struggles.

No mom can do it all, but you can create more breathing room in your days and peace in your spirit. By getting rid of the unimportant and making room for the great in your life, you’ll find purpose and fulfillment as a stay at home mom.


Head over here if you’re looking for tips on parenting, building healthy relationships, and self-care during the busiest seasons of motherhood.

Schedules and routines

Trying to bring order to your days and actually check some things off your to-do list? Get sample schedules and build routines that serve you!

Around the table

Find real food recipes for the growing family, meal plans and tips, and freezer cooking resources over here.

Latest posts from the blog

7 Common Struggles of Stay at Home Moms

Being a stay at home mom is hard. It’s a good hard, but it’s still hard! There are some common struggles stay at home moms have, so let’s talk about what those are, and what you can do about them!

Intentional parenting: defining your goals

When you’re in the trenches of motherhood, how do you know if you’re being successful? 18 years isn’t very long, but it feels forever away when you’re wondering if you’re even doing a good job. So how can we know if we’re parenting effectively? How do we know if we’re mothering well?

Learn how setting goals can help you mother with intention, and stay on track toward raising kids you love to be with.