Be careful in the way you commit yourself or you’ll find yourself so busy meeting the obligations of others that you have no time,energy, or money to keep your own commitments. This may sound like an unkind way to treat others, many young lives have been severely restricted because of overcommitment.It is foolish to link your life with the decisions of a fool.

        This is not to say you’re not to be helpful to others, only that you must allows them to face the responsibility for their own action. Even the closest of friendship have been destroyed because of bad depts and foolish commitments. Don’t allow yourself to be pressured into doing something out of guilt, for guilt is not the basis for true friendship.

               A japanese proverb says,”The silent man is the best to listen to.” Our generation can’t tolerate silence. We speak first and think later,sometimes we assume that the only words worth listening to are the ones coming out of our own mouths rather than really listening to our friends,we use their words as springboards from which to launch our own opinions.Even our best intentions can be sabotaged if we speak up too quickly. For example a friend shares a problem, and we blurt out bad advice without even thinking about the implications.
            Careless words,tossed out without thinking have more power than we might think. They have the power to hurt others or to embarrass them. Our foolish words are equally capable of hurting and embarrassing us. It is just as impossible to recover every hurtful word once it has left our mouth.When you are tempted to speak without thinking or to say something unkind, it’s better to say nothing at all.
            Every time you speak, your words have the potential either to bring joy to others or to cause great pain.
            In my opinion, A wise person knows the power in chosen words, she thinks before she speaks. Words of encouragement do not always come easily. Building up others requires us first to think about what they need to hear, stop talking long enough to listen to what the other person is saying. Set aside the desire to do all the talking and focusing attention on the other person. A fool on the otherside does not think before speaking,It never considers the importance of saying the right thing at the right time.Some of the deepest hurts people carry have come from careless words spoken by a fool.
           Begin by asking questions,listening more, and talking less. Silence have protection from regretting what you say.Silence is never as akward as rashly spoken words.
         According to my research,the trouble with talking too fast is you may say something you haven’t thought of yet.Our words and our actions reveal who we are,one of the biggest barriers to peaceful communication is failure to claim responsibility for our own words and behavior.No one can force you to speak improperly, what you say is your own choice. You are responsible for what comes out of your mouth so please guard your mouth.

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Love Triangle? This is the most painful situation in love.

Sometimes in love triangle the one who left must die or must suicide,or the one who left turn into something bad. Some say that what is the meaning of love if you dont feel any pain in your heart? I dont understand why we must hurt everytime when we are inlove. Why who knows how to love they are always leftover . I really hate third parties involving two guy after one girl,always result is punching in face infront of the girl.

This situation can cause us big problems in life.

Don’t find love, let love find you. That’s why it’s
called falling in love, because you don’t force
yourself to fall, you just fall to someone that you love

*You shall not force your self to be in love with someone that you cannot love because they will hurt their feels.