***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating coaches you know and love over at X & Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating and relationship tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com. If you like the podcasts you'll love our newsletter. You can also find us on Facebook at www.facebook.com/scotandemily. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: "scot@deservewhatyouwant.com" or "emily@deservewhatyouwant.com.com" OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at +1-210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show for the past four years. hourly 1 X & Y On The Fly--Dating Podcast. Spirited discussion about dating and relationships hosted by Scot and Emily McKay. What you hear is guaranteed to be unique and often hilarious but ALWAYS useful. All killer, no filler. Based on the popular newsletter from X & Y Communications (www.relationship-advice.us). Deserve What You Want And Never, Ever Settle Scot and Emily McKay http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/ info@deservewhatyouwant.com dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching no http://www.xandycommunications.net/images/flypod1.jpg Wed, 28 June 2006 10:03:00 CST en-us (c) 2007-2008, X & Y Communications Worldwide Mediacasting Network xyonthflyhttp://feedburner.google.com http://feeds.feedburner.com/XYOnTheFly?format=skin(c) 2007-2008, X & Y Communications Worldwide Mediacasting Networkdating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approachingHealth/Self-HelpHealth/SexualitySociety & Culture/PhilosophyReligion & Spirituality/ChristianityHealth/Alternative Healthinfo@xandycommunications.netScot and Emily McKayhttp://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/2.0/http://www.relationship-advice.us/http://www.xandycommunications.net/images/flypod1.jpgXYOnTheFlyhttp://feedburner.google.comSubscribe with My Yahoo!Subscribe with NewsGatorSubscribe with NetvibesSubscribe with GoogleSubscribe with PageflakesSubscribe with PlusmoSubscribe with FeedLoungeSubscribe with The Free DictionarySubscribe with Bitty BrowserSubscribe with NewsAlloySubscribe with Live.comSubscribe with ODEOSubscribe with PodnovaSubscribe with Excite MIXSubscribe with Yourminis.comSubscribe with Attensa for OutlookSubscribe with WebwagSubscribe with netomat HubSubscribe with Daily RotationSubscribe with Podcast ReadySubscribe with FlurryI'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X & Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at "http://www.relationship-advice.us/". Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: "scot@xandycommunications.net" or "emily@xandycommunications.net" or NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. We've all heard the old, worn-out cliche time and again...'If you want a great relationship with your significant other, you're going to have to WORK ON IT every single day.' But do we take that at face value without ever stopping to consider what that really means? And is it even TRUE to begin with? Listen in as Scot and Emily get down to the heart of the matter, dispelling old stereotypes while at the same time opening up entirely new 'cans of worms' in the process. Be sure to 'like' our new Facebook Page at http://www.facebook.com/scotandemily. Join the community and enjoy tons of free stuff. We've all heard the old, worn-out cliche time and again...'If you want a great relationship with your significant other, you're going to have to WORK ON IT every single day.' But do we take that at face value without ever stopping to consider what that really means? And is it even TRUE to begin with? Listen in as Scot and Emily get down to the heart of the matter, dispelling old stereotypes while at the same time opening up entirely new 'cans of worms' in the process. Be sure to 'like' our new Facebook Page at http://www.facebook.com/scotandemily. Join the community and enjoy tons of free stuff. http://www.xandycommunications.net/images/flypod1.jpg http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode46.mp3 X & Y On The Fly 299 299 Scot and Emily McKay Mon, 16 May 2011 22:48:00 CDT info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)nodating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approachingWe've all heard the old, worn-out cliche time and again...'If you want a great relationship with your significant other, you're going to have to WORK ON IT every single day.' But do we take that at...<br/> <br/> Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode46.mp3 Get ready for a no-holds-barred discussion on all sorts of non-monogamous relationships. Swingers and 'The Lifestyle'? The 'don't ask / don't tell' policy of the rich and famous? Bisexual trysts? The creative possibilities appear to be endless. So is it true that couples who have an 'open relationship' are enjoying better sex lives? Are they happier overall? And do they actually trust each other more...or less? Scot and Emily swap opinions about all of that and more...but we'll let you figure out whether it's 'full swapping' or just 'soft swapping'. Guys, The Man's Approach is finally here. Check it out at: http://www.themansapproach.com. Ladies, discover the new, true you with Emily's Attraction Makeover program: http://www.attraction-makeover.com Get ready for a no-holds-barred discussion on all sorts of non-monogamous relationships. Swingers and 'The Lifestyle'? The 'don't ask / don't tell' policy of the rich and famous? Bisexual trysts? The creative possibilities appear to be endless. So is it true that couples who have an 'open relationship' are enjoying better sex lives? Are they happier overall? And do they actually trust each other more...or less? Scot and Emily swap opinions about all of that and more...but we'll let you figure out whether it's 'full swapping' or just 'soft swapping'. Guys, The Man's Approach is finally here. Check it out at: http://www.themansapproach.com. Ladies, discover the new, true you with Emily's Attraction Makeover program: http://www.attraction-makeover.com http://www.xandycommunications.net/images/flypod1.jpg http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode45.mp3 X & Y On The Fly 299 299 Scot and Emily McKay Sat, 12 February 2011 17:34:00 CST info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)nodating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approachingGet ready for a no-holds-barred discussion on all sorts of non-monogamous relationships. Swingers and 'The Lifestyle'? The 'don't ask / don't tell' policy of the rich and famous? Bisexual trysts? ...<br/> <br/> Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode45.mp3 Where are you? Who were you with? What's more annoying, having to ask questions like that or being on the receiving end of them? Well, in this episode, besides proving that the show is still in production after all, Scot and Emily give you the lowdown on jealousy. What is it anyway? And how can you tell for sure if those jealous feelings you've been having are reasonable? Every angle is explored, including what causes 'habitual jealousy' (along with what cures it), and what to do if you find yourself with an overly jealous partner. Guys, if you're ready to confidently approach high quality women, but don't necessarily want to be a pickup artist, be on the lookout for The Man's Approach...coming soon: http://www.themansapproach.com Where are you? Who were you with? What's more annoying, having to ask questions like that or being on the receiving end of them? Well, in this episode, besides proving that the show is still in production after all, Scot and Emily give you the lowdown on jealousy. What is it anyway? And how can you tell for sure if those jealous feelings you've been having are reasonable? Every angle is explored, including what causes 'habitual jealousy' (along with what cures it), and what to do if you find yourself with an overly jealous partner. Guys, if you're ready to confidently approach high quality women, but don't necessarily want to be a pickup artist, be on the lookout for The Man's Approach...coming soon: http://www.themansapproach.com http://www.xandycommunications.net/images/flypod1.jpg http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode44.mp3 X & Y On The Fly 299 299 Scot and Emily McKay Tue, 03 August 2010 14:46:00 CST info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)nodating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approachingWhere are you? Who were you with? What's more annoying, having to ask questions like that or being on the receiving end of them? Well, in this episode, besides proving that the show is still in...<br/> <br/> Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode44.mp3 Let's face it, whether you're a man or a woman there are things about the opposite gender that tend to drive you nuts. Why do they do all that annoying stuff? Well, in this episode you'll get straight answers once and for all from both Scot and Emily...even though they may not be the answers you want to hear. Yet the fact remains that we somehow still love MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) anyway, don't we? All of this nonsense can only make for a particularly spirited and humorous episode this time around. Guys, the new program on how to understand women better is Chick Whispering, which you can find at http://www.chickwhispering.com. Ladies, unravel the mysteries of men with Emily's Attraction Makeover program: http://www.attraction-makeover.com Let's face it, whether you're a man or a woman there are things about the opposite gender that tend to drive you nuts. Why do they do all that annoying stuff? Well, in this episode you'll get straight answers once and for all from both Scot and Emily...even though they may not be the answers you want to hear. Yet the fact remains that we somehow still love MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) anyway, don't we? All of this nonsense can only make for a particularly spirited and humorous episode this time around. Guys, the new program on how to understand women better is Chick Whispering, which you can find at http://www.chickwhispering.com. Ladies, unravel the mysteries of men with Emily's Attraction Makeover program: http://www.attraction-makeover.com http://www.xandycommunications.net/images/flypod1.jpg http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode43.mp3 X & Y On The Fly 299 299 Scot and Emily McKay Sun, 25 October 2009 14:32:00 CST info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)nodating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approachingLet's face it, whether you're a man or a woman there are things about the opposite gender that tend to drive you nuts. Why do they do all that annoying stuff? Well, in this episode you'll get...<br/> <br/> Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode43.mp3 Going on a first date can be a nerve-wracking experience for someone of either gender. But it doesn't have to be. Listen in as Scot and Emily talk about simple ways to prepare for first dates, make sure conversation flows easily, ignite the sparks of attraction and--of course--get the second date. Sure, we all know that hitting someone with 'interview questions' is a bad idea already, so plan on discovering some innovative GOOD ideas instead that are sure-fire winners. And guys, be sure to check out Scot's new program for men who are ready to start naturally attracting the women they want the most. It's called The Master Plan and you can watch free videos and check it out here: http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/masterplan Going on a first date can be a nerve-wracking experience for someone of either gender. But it doesn't have to be. Listen in as Scot and Emily talk about simple ways to prepare for first dates, make sure conversation flows easily, ignite the sparks of attraction and--of course--get the second date. Sure, we all know that hitting someone with 'interview questions' is a bad idea already, so plan on discovering some innovative GOOD ideas instead that are sure-fire winners. And guys, be sure to check out Scot's new program for men who are ready to start naturally attracting the women they want the most. It's called The Master Plan and you can watch free videos and check it out here: http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/masterplan http://www.xandycommunications.net/images/flypod1.jpg http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode42.mp3 X & Y On The Fly 299 299 Scot and Emily McKay Tue, 02 June 2009 11:04:00 CST info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)nodating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approachingGoing on a first date can be a nerve-wracking experience for someone of either gender. But it doesn't have to be. Listen in as Scot and Emily talk about simple ways to prepare for first dates, make...<br/> <br/> Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode42.mp3 What is is about romantic "movie moments" that drive women wild? Better yet, what can guys learn from Hollywood about how to ignite femininity and become exactly the kind of man women desire? Scot and Emily look to uncover all the secrets the motion picture industry has to share, from the early classics all the way through to the present. You'll also find out what NOT to do, courtesy of some case studies in truly bad game brought to you on the silver screen over the years. Be sure to snag Scot's FREE new e-book on how to meet someone on Twitter by visiting http://www.twiduction.com. Also, Emily's brand new Attraction Makeover program has arrived--see the free video at http://www.attraction-makeover.com What is is about romantic "movie moments" that drive women wild? Better yet, what can guys learn from Hollywood about how to ignite femininity and become exactly the kind of man women desire? Scot and Emily look to uncover all the secrets the motion picture industry has to share, from the early classics all the way through to the present. You'll also find out what NOT to do, courtesy of some case studies in truly bad game brought to you on the silver screen over the years. Be sure to snag Scot's FREE new e-book on how to meet someone on Twitter by visiting http://www.twiduction.com. Also, Emily's brand new Attraction Makeover program has arrived--see the free video at http://www.attraction-makeover.com http://www.xandycommunications.net/images/flypod1.jpg http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode41.mp3 X & Y On The Fly 299 299 Scot and Emily McKay Wed, 28 January 2009 12:35:00 CST info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)nodating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approachingWhat is is about romantic "movie moments" that drive women wild? Better yet, what can guys learn from Hollywood about how to ignite femininity and become exactly the kind of man women desire? Scot...<br/> <br/> Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode41.mp3 Are you a single parent? Or are you dating someone who is? If so, this episode is dedicated to you, along with all couples worldwide who decide to have a baby while attempting to retain their sex life. With their son just about to celebrate his first birthday, Emily and Scot reveal their strategies for keeping things hot even when there's a newbie in the house. They also share every blasted secret they have from their single parent days, along with some new ones they wish they'd thought of before. Get a FREE special report on how to ace first dates when you log-in at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com. Plus, join the X & Communications Facebook page at http://www.facebook.com/scotandemily and get free stuff. Are you a single parent? Or are you dating someone who is? If so, this episode is dedicated to you, along with all couples worldwide who decide to have a baby while attempting to retain their sex life. With their son just about to celebrate his first birthday, Emily and Scot reveal their strategies for keeping things hot even when there's a newbie in the house. They also share every blasted secret they have from their single parent days, along with some new ones they wish they'd thought of before. Get a FREE special report on how to ace first dates when you log-in at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com. Plus, join the X & Communications Facebook page at http://www.facebook.com/scotandemily and get free stuff. http://www.xandycommunications.net/images/flypod1.jpg http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode40.mp3 X & Y On The Fly 299 299 Scot and Emily McKay Tue, 11 November 2008 03:58:00 CST info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)nodating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approachingAre you a single parent? Or are you dating someone who is? If so, this episode is dedicated to you, along with all couples worldwide who decide to have a baby while attempting to retain their sex...<br/> <br/> Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode40.mp3 Should you really try to get your ex back after a breakup? The answer: It depends. You're about to find out what it depends on exactly. Emily and Scot also talk about some great ways to defend against ever having to worry about the entire issue to begin with. And what about exes who create drama? Discover how to handle that, regardless of whether it's your ex or that of someone you're dating now. Don't forget to grab your FREE special report on how to ace first dates when you log-in at: http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com. PLUS...be sure to check out Scot's all-new relationship management system for guys at http://www.the-leading-man.com, where you'll find FREE videos. Should you really try to get your ex back after a breakup? The answer: It depends. You're about to find out what it depends on exactly. Emily and Scot also talk about some great ways to defend against ever having to worry about the entire issue to begin with. And what about exes who create drama? Discover how to handle that, regardless of whether it's your ex or that of someone you're dating now. Don't forget to grab your FREE special report on how to ace first dates when you log-in at: http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com. PLUS...be sure to check out Scot's all-new relationship management system for guys at http://www.the-leading-man.com, where you'll find FREE videos. http://www.xandycommunications.net/images/flypod1.jpg http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode39.mp3 X & Y On The Fly 299 299 Scot and Emily McKay Mon, 01 September 2008 19:59:00 CDT info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)nodating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approachingShould you really try to get your ex back after a breakup? The answer: It depends. You're about to find out what it depends exactly. Emily and Scot also talk about some great ways to defend...<br/> <br/> Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode39.mp3 Okay, who really should be calling the shots when it comes to relationship management? The man? How about the woman? Emily and Scot define what 'wearing the pants' really means, offer some real-world ideas on how to take male/female power struggles off the table forever, and even hear opinions from a couple women on the street. Will you agree, disagree or somewhere in between? Either way, get ready for some surprising stuff... Now you can get a FREE special report on how to ace first dates when you log-in at: http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com Okay, who really should be calling the shots when it comes to relationship management? The man? How about the woman? Emily and Scot define what 'wearing the pants' really means, offer some real-world ideas on how to take male/female power struggles off the table forever, and even hear opinions from a couple women on the street. Will you agree, disagree or somewhere in between? Either way, get ready for some surprising stuff... Now you can get a FREE special report on how to ace first dates when you log-in at: http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com http://www.xandycommunications.net/images/flypod1.jpg http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode38.mp3 X & Y On The Fly 299 299 Scot and Emily McKay Wed, 02 July 2008 19:29:00 CDT info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)nodating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approachingOkay, who really should be calling the shots when it comes to relationship management? The man? How about the woman? Emily and Scot define what 'wearing the pants' really means, offer some...<br/> <br/> Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode38.mp3 It has been said that this podcast has something for everyone, and this episode pretty much proves it. What are the disadvantages of dating when you are younger compared to when you are older? And how about the distinct dating advantages of being older? And while on the subject, what can younger people learn from the experiences of older daters, and how can people who find themselves single into their thirties, forties and way beyond do to recapture the advantages typically reserved for the younguns? Have Emily and Scot got some surprises in store for you... Be sure to get in on the newsletter when you log-in at: http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com It has been said that this podcast has something for everyone, and this episode pretty much proves it. What are the disadvantages of dating when you are younger compared to when you are older? And how about the distinct dating advantages of being older? And while on the subject, what can younger people learn from the experiences of older daters, and how can people who find themselves single into their thirties, forties and way beyond do to recapture the advantages typically reserved for the younguns? Have Emily and Scot got some surprises in store for you... Be sure to get in on the newsletter when you log-in at: http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com http://www.xandycommunications.net/images/flypod1.jpg http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode37.mp3 X & Y On The Fly 299 299 Scot and Emily McKay Sat, 26 April 2008 11:27:00 CDT info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)nodating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approachingIt has been said that this podcast has something for everyone, and this episode pretty much proves it. What are the disadvantages of dating when you are younger compared to when you are older? And...<br/> <br/> Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode37.mp3 OK, get your "decoder rings" on. Emily and Scot are feelin' decidedly frisky after almost two months without an XYotF show, and ready to help you figure out what on Earth MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) mean by what they say, and what to say to them in return. Seriously, do you find yourself at a total loss for words when it comes to relating to the other gender? Your tongue-tied troubles are about to cease forever through the magic of podcasting. From now on, handle meetings, makeups, breakups and everything in between with the right words and a solid level of understanding. Plus, discover how best to find love after moving 6000 miles away to a new home...thanks to a listener's e-mail. Be sure to get in on the newsletter when you log-in at: http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com OK, get your "decoder rings" on. Emily and Scot are feelin' decidedly frisky after almost two months without an XYotF show, and ready to help you figure out what on Earth MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) mean by what they say, and what to say to them in return. Seriously, do you find yourself at a total loss for words when it comes to relating to the other gender? Your tongue-tied troubles are about to cease forever through the magic of podcasting. From now on, handle meetings, makeups, breakups and everything in between with the right words and a solid level of understanding. Plus, discover how best to find love after moving 6000 miles away to a new home...thanks to a listener's e-mail. Be sure to get in on the newsletter when you log-in at: http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com http://www.xandycommunications.net/images/flypod1.jpg http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode36.mp3 X & Y On The Fly 299 299 Scot and Emily McKay Tue, 25 March 2008 01:29:00 CDT info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)nodating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approachingOK, get your "decoder rings" on. Emily and Scot are feelin' decidedly frisky after almost two months without an XYotF show, and ready to help you figure out what on Earth MOTOS (Members Of The...<br/> <br/> Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode36.mp3 Special guest Renee Piane (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/renee). It happens to the best of us. You meet someone (or not even?) and you fall for him or her...hard. Usually, however, unless the person we're talking about here is 'The One', the relationship is going to end. What if your feelings were extraordinary powerful for this person and you were hoping it would last forever? How can you fall OUT of love? Find out how, courtesy of some reasoning from at least one decidedly unexpected source. REMEMBER...be sure to get in on the newsletter when you log-in at: http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com Special guest Renee Piane (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/renee). It happens to the best of us. You meet someone (or not even?) and you fall for him or her...hard. Usually, however, unless the person we're talking about here is 'The One', the relationship is going to end. What if your feelings were extraordinary powerful for this person and you were hoping it would last forever? How can you fall OUT of love? Find out how, courtesy of some reasoning from at least one decidedly unexpected source. REMEMBER...be sure to get in on a BONUS episode of XYotF when you log-in at: http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com http://www.xandycommunications.net/images/flypod1.jpg http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode35.mp3 X & Y On The Fly 299 299 Scot and Emily McKay Tue, 29 January 2008 22:05:00 CDT info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)nodating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approachingSpecial guest Renee Piane (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/renee). It happens to the best of us. You meet someone (or not even?) and you fall for him or her...hard. Usually, however, unless the person...<br/> <br/> Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode35.mp3 Are you kidding me? Do Emily and Scot really think they can solve 'world peace' in a single podcast? Actually, understanding MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) might not be as enigmatic as we make it out to be, let alone 'impossible'. Listen in to this episode for all the secrets--it's a show that you just don't want to miss. AND...be sure to get in on the newsletter when you log-in at: http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com Are you kidding me? Do Emily and Scot really think they can solve 'world peace' in a single podcast? Actually, understanding MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) might not be as enigmatic as we make it out to be, let alone 'impossible'. Listen in to this episode for all the secrets--it's a show that you just don't want to miss. AND...be sure to get in on the newsletter when you log-in at: http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com http://www.xandycommunications.net/images/flypod1.jpg http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode34.mp3 X & Y On The Fly 299 299 Scot and Emily McKay Mon, 03 December 2007 15:47:00 CDT info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)nodating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approachingAre you kidding me? Do Emily and Scot really think they can solve 'world peace' in a single podcast? Actually, understanding MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) might not be as enigmatic as we make...<br/> <br/> Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode34.mp3 Emily and Scot are back with another mano-a-mano discussion on a truly controversial topic. So which gender has the more difficult time when it comes to dating? Listen in as Scot gets some outside opinions on the matter to start out with. From there, prepare to be surprised and challenged by what you hear, because as usual nothing is left on the table and no stone is left unturned. Do we finally get a good, bitter argument outta these two this time? Well, of course not...but at least you can predict there'll be an Episode 34 that way. Emily and Scot are back with another mano-a-mano discussion on a truly controversial topic. So which gender has the more difficult time when it comes to dating? Listen in as Scot gets some outside opinions on the matter to start out with. From there, prepare to be surprised and challenged by what you hear, because as usual nothing is left on the table and no stone is left unturned. Do we finally get a good, bitter argument outta these two this time? Well, of course not...but at least you can predict there'll be an Episode 34 that way. http://www.xandycommunications.net/images/flypod1.jpg http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode33.mp3 X & Y On The Fly 299 299 Scot and Emily McKay Sun, 22 October 2007 23:32:00 CDT info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)nodating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approachingEmily and Scot are back with another mano-a-mano discussion on a truly controversial topic. So which gender has the more difficult time when it comes to dating? Listen in as Scot gets some outside...<br/> <br/> Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode33.mp3 Special Guest Sean Stephenson (www.timetostand.com). You look around you and see couples who can't seem to get along. Then you wonder how they ever got together, let alone stay together. In this episode Scot and Emily define what settling is all about and provide real solutions for helping you stay out of that trap...forever. Never, ever settle...ever again! Special Guest Sean Stephenson (www.timetostand.com). You look around you and see couples who can't seem to get along. Then you wonder how they ever got together, let alone stay together. In this episode Scot and Emily define what settling is all about and provide real solutions for helping you stay out of that trap...forever. Never, ever settle...ever again! http://www.xandycommunications.net/images/flypod1.jpg http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode32.mp3 X & Y On The Fly 299 299 Scot and Emily McKay Wed, 12 September 2007 05:18:00 CDT info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)nodating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approachingSpecial Guest Sean Stephenson (www.timetostand.com). You look around you and see couples who can't seem to get along. Then you wonder how they ever got together, let alone stay together. In this...<br/> <br/> Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode32.mp3 Special Guest David Wygant (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/wygant). Why is it so many people can't stay attracted to someone who used to seem so hot to them? And how can you prevent this from happening? Scot and Emily have heard one too many stories from listeners who have managed to somehow extinguish the flame after a relationship starts. Worse...it's often the case that they can't exactly pinpoint what went awry. True secrets unveiled, along with a few other surprises. Special Guest David Wygant (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/wygant). Why is it so many people can't stay attracted to someone who used to seem so hot to them? And how can you prevent this from happening? Scot and Emily have heard one too many stories from listeners who have managed to somehow extinguish the flame after a relationship starts. Worse...it's often the case that they can't exactly pinpoint what went awry. True secrets unveiled, along with a few other surprises. http://www.xandycommunications.net/images/flypod1.jpg http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode31.mp3 X & Y On The Fly 299 299 Scot and Emily McKay Tue, 07 August 2007 13:40:00 CDT info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)nodating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approachingSpecial Guest David Wygant (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/wygant). Why is it so many people can't stay attracted to someone who used to seem so hot to them? And how can you prevent this from...<br/> <br/> Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode31.mp3 Special Guests Jon and Laurie Weiss (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/happy). We all know that men and women are supposed to be 'happy' together. But what does that mean? Emily and Scot look at the big picture, welcoming some gold-plated advice from a pair of guests who happen to have nearly fifty years' worth of experience at both relationship coaching AND relationship happiness. Don't miss this chance to hear the voice of real experience (and a very bad Regis Philbin impersonation). Special Guests Jon and Laurie Weiss (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/happy). We all know that men and women are supposed to be 'happy' together. But what does that mean? Emily and Scot look at the big picture, welcoming some gold-plated advice from a pair of guests who happen to have nearly fifty years' worth of experience at both relationship coaching AND relationship happiness. Don't miss this chance to hear the voice of real experience (and a very bad Regis Philbin impersonation). http://www.xandycommunications.net/images/flypod1.jpg http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode30.mp3 X & Y On The Fly 299 299 Scot and Emily McKay Tue, 10 July 2007 16:43:00 CDT info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)nodating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approachingSpecial Guests Jon and Laurie Weiss (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/happy). We all know that men and women are supposed to be 'happy' together. But what does that ? Emily and Scot look at the big...<br/> <br/> Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode30.mp3 Special Guest Marie Forleo (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/marie). There's a lot of talk about how to create attraction. But what is there to remember about maintaining that attraction once you actually HAVE someone in your life? Discover the hidden mistakes that all too many people make and find out what it takes to keep the fire burning for a LONG time to come. Special Guest Marie Forleo (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/marie). There's a lot of talk about how to create attraction. But what is there to remember about maintaining that attraction once you actually HAVE someone in your life? Discover the hidden mistakes that all too many people make and find out what it takes to keep the fire burning for a LONG time to come. http://www.xandycommunications.net/images/flypod1.jpg http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode29.mp3 X & Y On The Fly 299 299 Scot and Emily McKay Mon, 18 June 2007 23:54:00 CDT info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)nodating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approachingSpecial Guest Marie Forleo (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/marie). There's a lot of talk about how to create attraction. But what is there to remember about maintaining that attraction once you...<br/> <br/> Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode29.mp3 Finally...something the 'perfectly imperfect' co-hosts don't exactly agree on. Emily thinks that men should give women LOTS of flowers, early and often in a relationship. Scot, while not exactly against giving women flowers altogether, has a completely different outlook on the subject. No guests or 'man-on-the-street' interviews in this episode, just the two hosts mano-a-mano. Tune in for something completely different and get ready to be fully polarized...whether these two 'kiss and make up' at the end or not. Finally...something the 'perfectly imperfect' co-hosts don't exactly agree on. Emily thinks that men should give women LOTS of flowers, early and often in a relationship. Scot, while not exactly against giving women flowers altogether, has a completely different outlook on the subject. No guests or 'man-on-the-street' interviews in this episode, just the two hosts mano-a-mano. Tune in for something completely different and get ready to be fully polarized...whether these two 'kiss and make up' at the end or not. http://www.xandycommunications.net/images/flypod1.jpg http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode28.mp3 X & Y On The Fly 299 299 Scot and Emily McKay Mon, 28 May 2007 04:37:00 CDT info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)nodating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approachingFinally...something the 'perfectly imperfect' co-hosts don't exactly agree on. Emily thinks that men should give women LOTS of flowers, early and often in a relationship. Scot, while not exactly...<br/> <br/> Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode28.mp3 At long last--and after a considerable number of requests from listeners--this is the 'introcast' episode. Recorded nearly a year after Episode 1 was first published in June of 2006, Emily and Scot introduce themselves, share some of their background, recount how they met, describe what makes their relationship great and--of course--tell all about X & Y Communications. If you are a new listener, this is a great place to start. If you are a longtime listener, we realize this is long overdue. Enjoy.My Odeo Channel (odeo/f76b938e07bba4a8) My Podcast Alley feed! {pca-c69da4177b4e354f29ef8140a3ec458c} At long last--and after a considerable number of requests from listeners--this is the 'introcast' episode. Recorded nearly a year after Episode 1 was first published in June of 2006, Emily and Scot introduce themselves, share some of their background, recount how they met, describe what makes their relationship great and--of course--tell all about X & Y Communications. If you are a new listener, this is a great place to start. If you are a longtime listener, we realize this is long overdue. Enjoy.My Odeo Channel (odeo/f76b938e07bba4a8) My Podcast Alley feed! {pca-c69da4177b4e354f29ef8140a3ec458c} http://www.xandycommunications.net/images/flypod1.jpg http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode0.mp3 X & Y On The Fly 299 299 Scot and Emily McKay Wed, 28 June 2006 04:29:00 CDT info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)nodating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approachingAt long last--and after a considerable number of requests from listeners--this is the 'introcast' episode. Recorded nearly a year after Episode 1 was first published in June of 2006, Emily and Scot...<br/> <br/> Visit us on the Web at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates when you log-in to the X & Y Communications newsletter.http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode0.mp3 Scot and Emily McKaynonadultDeserve What You Want And Never, Ever Settle