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<title>X &amp; Y On The Fly--Dating Podcast  LISTEN:  289-466-5002</title> 
<description>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone:  289-466-5002***  I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating advice podcast on planet Earth.  We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders.  Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews.  Less fluff = good stuff.  And get this...we never resort to getting trashy.  Squeaky clean and a class act all the way.  How's that for unique?  Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at <a href="http://www.relationship-advice.us/">"www.relationship-advice.us"</a>.  Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode.  We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: <a href="mailto:scot@datetoorder.com">"scot@datetoorder.com"</a> or <a href="mailto:emily@datetoorder.com">"emily@datetoorder.com"</a> OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400.  Call or write to us!  We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley.  Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show.  SPECIAL NOTE:  The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired.  Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</description>
<itunes:summary>X &amp; Y On The Fly--Dating Podcast. Spirited discussion about dating and relationships hosted by Scot and Emily McKay. What you hear is guaranteed to be unique and often hilarious but ALWAYS useful. All killer, no filler. Based on the popular newsletter from X &amp; Y Communications (www.relationship-advice.us).</itunes:summary> 
<itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
<link>http://www.relationship-advice.us/</link>
<email>info@xandycommunications.net</email> 
<itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords>

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src="http://www.flurry.com/images/flurry_rss_logo2.gif">Subscribe with Flurry</feedburner:feedFlare><feedburner:browserFriendly>I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X &amp; Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at "http://www.relationship-advice.us/". Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: "scot@xandycommunications.net" or "emily@xandycommunications.net" or NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show.</feedburner:browserFriendly><item>
     <title>Episode 38--X &amp; Y On The Fly--Who Wears The Pants?</title> 
      
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<itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Wed, 02 July 2008 19:29:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/325298466/episode38.mp3" fileSize="40036127" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Okay, who really should be calling the shots when it comes to relationship management? The man? How about the woman? Emily and Scot define what 'wearing the pants' really means, offer some real-world ideas on how to take male/female power struggles off th</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Okay, who really should be calling the shots when it comes to relationship management?  The man?  How about the woman?  Emily and Scot define what 'wearing the pants' really means, offer some...&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 37--X &amp; Y On The Fly--Dating Differences When You're Younger Vs. Older</title> 
      
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<itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Sat, 26 April 2008 11:27:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/278659959/episode37.mp3" fileSize="36358747" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>It has been said that this podcast has something for everyone, and this episode pretty much proves it. What are the disadvantages of dating when you are younger compared to when you are older? And how about the distinct dating advantages of being older? A</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>It has been said that this podcast has something for everyone, and this episode pretty much proves it.  What are the disadvantages of dating when you are younger compared to when you are older?  And...&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;
Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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     <title>Episode 36--X &amp; Y On The Fly--How To Communicate With The Opposite Sex</title> 
      
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<itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Tue, 25 March 2008 01:29:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/275406716/episode36.mp3" fileSize="46422379" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>OK, get your "decoder rings" on. Emily and Scot are feelin' decidedly frisky after almost two months without an XYotF show, and ready to help you figure out what on Earth MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) mean by what they say, and what to say to them i</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>OK, get your "decoder rings" on.  Emily and Scot are feelin' decidedly frisky after almost two months without an XYotF show, and ready to help you figure out what on Earth MOTOS (Members Of The...&lt;br/&gt;
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Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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     <title>Episode 35--X &amp; Y On The Fly--Get Over It: How To Fall Out Of Love</title> 
      
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<link>http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode35.mp3</link>
<title>X &amp; Y On The Fly</title>
<description>X &amp; Y On The Fly</description>
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<itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Tue, 29 January 2008 22:05:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/275406717/episode35.mp3" fileSize="48665350" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Special guest Renee Piane (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/renee). It happens to the best of us. You meet someone (or not even?) and you fall for him or her...hard. Usually, however, unless the person we're talking about here is 'The One', the relationship is </itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Special guest Renee Piane (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/renee). It happens to the best of us.  You meet someone (or not even?) and you fall for him or her...hard.  Usually, however, unless the person...&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;
Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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     <title>Episode 34--X &amp; Y On The Fly--How To Understand The Opposite Sex</title> 
      
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<link>http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode34.mp3</link>
<title>X &amp; Y On The Fly</title>
<description>X &amp; Y On The Fly</description>
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<itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Mon, 03 December 2007 15:47:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/275406718/episode34.mp3" fileSize="44182261" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Are you kidding me? Do Emily and Scot really think they can solve 'world peace' in a single podcast? Actually, understanding MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) might not be as enigmatic as we make it out to be, let alone 'impossible'. Listen in to this e</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Are you kidding me?  Do Emily and Scot really think they can solve 'world peace' in a single podcast?  Actually, understanding MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) might not be as enigmatic as we make...&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;
Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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     <title>Episode 33--X &amp; Y On The Fly--Who's Got It Harder In The Dating World, Men Or Women?</title> 
      
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<link>http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode33.mp3</link>
<title>X &amp; Y On The Fly</title>
<description>X &amp; Y On The Fly</description>
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<itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Sun, 22 October 2007 23:32:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/275406719/episode33.mp3" fileSize="32442830" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Emily and Scot are back with another mano-a-mano discussion on a truly controversial topic. So which gender has the more difficult time when it comes to dating? Listen in as Scot gets some outside opinions on the matter to start out with. From there, prep</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Emily and Scot are back with another mano-a-mano discussion on a truly controversial topic.  So which gender has the more difficult time when it comes to dating?  Listen in as Scot gets some outside...&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;
Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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     <title>Episode 32--X &amp; Y On The Fly--An Unsettling Discussion About Settling</title> 
      
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<link>http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode32.mp3</link>
<title>X &amp; Y On The Fly</title>
<description>X &amp; Y On The Fly</description>
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<itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Wed, 12 September 2007 05:18:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/275406720/episode32.mp3" fileSize="42999675" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Special Guest Sean Stephenson (www.timetostand.com). You look around you and see couples who can't seem to get along. Then you wonder how they ever got together, let alone stay together. In this episode Scot and Emily define what settling is all about and</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Special Guest Sean Stephenson (www.timetostand.com).  You look around you and see couples who can't seem to get along.  Then you wonder how they ever got together, let alone stay together.  In this...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 31--X &amp; Y On The Fly--"I'm Just Not Feeling It Anymore"</title> 
      
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<title>X &amp; Y On The Fly</title>
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<itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Tue, 07 August 2007 13:40:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/275406721/episode31.mp3" fileSize="42560629" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Special Guest David Wygant (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/wygant). Why is it so many people can't stay attracted to someone who used to seem so hot to them? And how can you prevent this from happening? Scot and Emily have heard one too many stories from list</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Special Guest David Wygant (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/wygant).  Why is it so many people can't stay attracted to someone who used to seem so hot to them?  And how can you prevent this from...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 30--X &amp; Y On The Fly--What Does A 'Happy Relationship' Look Like?</title> 
      
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<itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Tue, 10 July 2007 16:43:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/275406722/episode30.mp3" fileSize="36246361" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Special Guests Jon and Laurie Weiss (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/happy). We all know that men and women are supposed to be 'happy' together. But what does that ? Emily and Scot look at the big picture, welcoming some gold-plated advice from a pair of guest</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Special Guests Jon and Laurie Weiss (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/happy).  We all know that men and women are supposed to be 'happy' together.  But what does that ?  Emily and Scot look at the big...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 29--X &amp; Y On The Fly--You've Attracted One...Now What?</title> 
      
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<title>X &amp; Y On The Fly</title>
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<itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Mon, 18 June 2007 23:54:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/275406723/episode29.mp3" fileSize="46784907" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Special Guest Marie Forleo (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/marie). There's a lot of talk about how to create attraction. But what is there to remember about maintaining that attraction once you actually HAVE someone in your life? Discover the hidden mistakes </itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Special Guest Marie Forleo (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/marie).  There's a lot of talk about how to create attraction.  But what is there to remember about maintaining that attraction once you...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 28--X &amp; Y On The Fly--The War Of The Roses</title> 
      
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<itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2007 04:37:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/275406724/episode28.mp3" fileSize="41056757" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Finally...something the 'perfectly imperfect' co-hosts don't exactly agree on. Emily thinks that men should give women LOTS of flowers, early and often in a relationship. Scot, while not exactly against giving women flowers altogether, has a completely di</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Finally...something the 'perfectly imperfect' co-hosts don't exactly agree on.  Emily thinks that men should give women LOTS of flowers, early and often in a relationship.  Scot, while not exactly...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 27--X &amp; Y On The Fly--Pickup And Seduction</title> 
      
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<title>X &amp; Y On The Fly</title>
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<itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Fri, 4 May 2007 10:12:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/275406725/episode27.mp3" fileSize="40403078" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Special Guests Joseph "Thundercat" Matthews (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/thundercat)plus AJ and Jordon from PickupPodcast.com. The terms "pickup" and "seduction" mean different things to different people. Emily and Scot have an honest discussion of both th</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Special Guests Joseph "Thundercat" Matthews (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/thundercat)plus AJ and Jordon from PickupPodcast.com.  The terms "pickup" and "seduction" mean different things to different...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 26--X &amp; Y On The Fly--The Essence Of Femininity</title> 
      
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<itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Wed, 18 April 2007 04:01:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/275406726/episode26.mp3" fileSize="41163774" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Special Guest Amy Waterman from 000Relationships (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/amy). Back in Episode 23 Scot and Emily covered Masculinity. But...ahhhh...they've truly saved the best for later. This episode covers all the wondrous intricacies of feminine wi</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Special Guest Amy Waterman from 000Relationships (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/amy).  Back in Episode 23 Scot and Emily covered Masculinity.  But...ahhhh...they've truly saved the best for later.  This...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 25--X &amp; Y On The Fly--A Personal Conversation About Online Dating</title> 
      
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<title>X &amp; Y On The Fly</title>
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<itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Sun, 25 March 2007 17:54:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/275406727/episode25.mp3" fileSize="55699547" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Special Guest Grant Adams from Net2Bed/Net2Wed (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/grant). What has taken so long for THIS episode to happen? After all, Emily and Scot met on Match.com and have considerable online dating track records under their respective belts</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Special Guest Grant Adams from Net2Bed/Net2Wed (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/grant).  What has taken so long for THIS episode to happen?  After all, Emily and Scot met on Match.com and have...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 24--X &amp; Y On The Fly--Kiss Me Correctly And Kiss Me Often</title> 
      
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<title>X &amp; Y On The Fly</title>
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<itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Tue, 06 March 2007 04:46:00 CST</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/275406728/episode24.mp3" fileSize="50474197" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>NEW ENHANCED SOUND QUALITY! Special Guests Michelle Penney from Kissing 101 (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/kissing)and Janet Morehead from Mojo-Maker.com. The two hosts of this podcast have each long since overspent their respective 336 hours spent making ou</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>NEW ENHANCED SOUND QUALITY!  Special Guests Michelle Penney from Kissing 101 (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/kissing)and Janet Morehead from Mojo-Maker.com.  The two hosts of this podcast have each long...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 23--X &amp; Y On The Fly--All About Masculinity:  How To Be The MAN She Loves</title> 
      
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<title>X &amp; Y On The Fly</title>
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<itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Thu, 15 February 2007 04:39:00 CST</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/275406729/episode23.mp3" fileSize="19657587" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Special Guest Carlos Xuma from Dating Dynamics (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/carlos). Any guy can be MALE, but what does it take to be a MAN in today's world? Idiot/Jerks, Mama's Boys, Nice Guys, and Macho types abound, but where have the REAL MEN gone? Sco</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Special Guest Carlos Xuma from Dating Dynamics (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/carlos). Any guy can be MALE, but what does it take to be a MAN in today's world?  Idiot/Jerks, Mama's Boys, Nice Guys, and...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 22--X &amp; Y On The Fly--A Great Long Term Relationship Vs. A Prison Sentence</title> 
      
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<title>X &amp; Y On The Fly</title>
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<itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Sat, 3 February 2007 21:17:00 CST</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/275406730/episode22.mp3" fileSize="16360418" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Special guest Homer McDonald from StopYourDivorce.com . It's a common natural fact that dating may very well lead to a long term relationship or EVEN... (deep breath) marriage. Scot and Emily hash out the differences between what makes a relationship last</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Special guest Homer McDonald from StopYourDivorce.com .  It's a common natural fact that dating may very well lead to a long term relationship or EVEN... (deep breath) marriage.  Scot and Emily hash...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 21--X &amp; Y On The Fly--Hey, Are You Flirting With Me?</title> 
      
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<title>X &amp; Y On The Fly</title>
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<itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Sat, 13 January 2007 17:32:00 CST</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/275406731/episode21.mp3" fileSize="16369802" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Special guest Matt DeReno from Flirting.com. So what's the deal with flirting, anyway? Is it really so hard? And who tends to be better at it, women or men? Emily and Scot talk about the differences between how men and women flirt, and what makes for trul</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Special guest Matt DeReno from Flirting.com.  So what's the deal with flirting, anyway?  Is it really so hard?  And who tends to be better at it, women or men?  Emily and Scot talk about the...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 20--X &amp; Y On The Fly--Breaking Up Is Hard To Do, But It Shouldn't Be</title> 
     
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<description>X &amp; Y On The Fly</description>
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     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Mon, 1 January 2007 11:52:00 CST</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/275406732/episode20.mp3" fileSize="12618061" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>It's the first day of 2007 and the start of a new beginning. So what better time to talk about endings? Emily and Scot break DOWN all the reasons why people break UP...or SHOULD break up. Yet another touchy subject hit head on by X &amp; Y On The Fly. Tune in</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>It's the first day of 2007 and the start of a new beginning.  So what better time to talk about endings?  Emily and Scot break DOWN all the reasons why people break UP...or SHOULD break up.  Yet...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 19--X &amp; Y On The Fly--SPECIAL EDITION The Weddingcast</title> 
      
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<title>X &amp; Y On The Fly</title>
<description>X &amp; Y On The Fly</description>
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     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Thu, 21 December 2006 02:46:00 CST</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/275406733/episode19.mp3" fileSize="17076000" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>It has been a full month since Episode 18, and during that time Emily and Scot have (in order) hosted a house full of people, gotten married and gone on a world freaking tour (aka "The Honeymoon"). FAIR WARNING: This is NOT your typical X &amp; Y On The Fly E</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>It has been a full month since Episode 18, and during that time Emily and Scot have (in order) hosted a house full of people, gotten married and gone on a world freaking tour (aka "The Honeymoon"). ...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 18--X &amp; Y On The Fly--From Good To Amazing On A Date</title> 
      
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<title>X &amp; Y On The Fly</title>
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     <itunes:author>Scot McKay and Emily Grillo</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Thu, 23 November 2006 02:46:00 CST</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/275406734/episode18.mp3" fileSize="13899120" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Okay, enough about what NOT to do... How does someone go from being "good" at dating to being truly excellent...and therefore memorable? WARNING: This discussion goes way beyond "paint-by-numbers" dating tips and exposes what it takes to be a TRUE artist </itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Okay, enough about what NOT to do...  How does someone go from being "good" at dating to being truly excellent...and therefore memorable?  WARNING:  This discussion goes way beyond "paint-by-numbers"...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 17--X &amp; Y On The Fly--Top 10 Dating Excuses</title> 
     
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<title>X &amp; Y On The Fly</title>
<description>X &amp; Y On The Fly</description>
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     <itunes:author>Scot McKay and Emily Grillo</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Thu, 16 November 2006 16:28:00 CST</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/275406736/episode17.mp3" fileSize="14150505" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Why is it so many people are willing to give up on dating completely? Find out in this episode what the top ten excuses for dating failure are, and how to get over them--ANY of them. Just say "no" to being alone!</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Why is it so many people are willing to give up on dating completely?  Find out in this episode what the top ten excuses for dating failure are, and how to get over them--ANY of them.  Just say "no"...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 16--X &amp; Y On The Fly--Men, Boys, Women And Girls</title> 
      
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<link>http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode16.mp3</link>
<title>X &amp; Y On The Fly</title>
<description>X &amp; Y On The Fly</description>
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     <itunes:author>Scot McKay and Emily Grillo</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Fri, 10 November 2006 23:59:00 CST</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/275406737/episode16.mp3" fileSize="11336000" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Okay, so women want men and men want women. But aren't there some "boyish" and "girlish" qualities that remain amazingly sexy even when we're of "legal" age (and older)? Find out as Scot and Emily confess what is hot and what is not when it comes to being</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Okay, so women want men and men want women.  But aren't there some "boyish" and "girlish" qualities that remain amazingly sexy even when we're of "legal" age (and older)?  Find out as Scot and Emily...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <itunes:author>Scot McKay and Emily Grillo</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Sun, 29 October 2006 22:10:00 CST</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/275406738/episode15.mp3" fileSize="12256000" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>So is being a "brat" a good thing or a bad thing? Well, it all depends on whether you are a toddler at Wal-mart or someone's partner in a relationship. Find out the difference between being spunky and being flat-out spoiled. Both Emily and Scot have their</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it's a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>So is being a "brat" a good thing or a bad thing?  Well, it all depends on whether you are a toddler at Wal-mart or someone's partner in a relationship.  Find out the difference between being spunky...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 14--X &amp; Y On The Fly--How To Let Someone Down EASY</title> 
      
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     <pubDate>Thu, 19 October 2006 01:26:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
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