whilst not on the same sorta token, two years back i never really got over a chick who I thought was perfect. We were both 24 back then and she moved across several oceans for a job. Drank myself to sleep at one stage in that part of my life and really didnt know how I got thorough work and post grad studies unscathed.

We basically did everything a couple, heck married couple did behind closed doors whilst she wanted us to act like friends (no hand holding) in public/in front of our mates. Anyway, push came to shove and she ditched me - ironically for not going public about it all... it was a fuck up...but nevertheless on both ends I think!

On the bit about "out of your league" what do you mean specifically? Maturity wise? Career wise? Earning potential? etc.? If anything is to go by, there is a phase of this mentatily I believe in a lot of guys...probably more so Asian guys due to lack of mental strength and negative thinking instilled by years of Asian parenting.

I too experienced this...everything she did was just magic and golden and I seemed like a bloody commoner next to this queen I had created. After the break up, I still held these thoughts...only time erased all this, the next women I met were just as equal if not better than she was and today, I still think shes above average but no where near what i thought she was back then...

awwwwwwwwwww guy.

i'm sorry to hear that.
I was in a similar situation but I asked my dude and it turned out okay.

I'm in toronto.. and have lots of nice friends.
Come out sometime!