<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/" xmlns:blogger="http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008" xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0" version="2.0"><channel><atom:id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6954589184064338179</atom:id><lastBuildDate>Fri, 01 Nov 2024 10:35:52 +0000</lastBuildDate><category>alzheimer&#39;s</category><category>dementia</category><category>Alzheimer&#39;s disease</category><category>Dorothy DeMarco</category><category>Frontotemporal Dementia</category><category>Parkinson’s disease</category><category>Vascular Dementia</category><category>alzehimer-s</category><category>alzheimers</category><category>bob demarco</category><category>book. alzheimer&#39;s</category><category>breathing</category><category>caregiver</category><category>communication</category><category>dancing</category><category>detect</category><category>early</category><category>exercise</category><category>family caregiving</category><category>feelings</category><category>gold&#39;s gym</category><category>memory</category><category>people</category><category>sign</category><category>silver sneakers</category><category>test</category><title>Alzheimer&#39;s CareGiver the Book</title><description>My mother suffers from Alzheimer&#39;s Disease. I am her Care Giver. This is our story.</description><link>http://alzheimerscaregiverthebook.blogspot.com/</link><managingEditor>noreply@blogger.com (Alzheimer&#39;s Reading Room)</managingEditor><generator>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>9</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6954589184064338179.post-7098224735182700806</guid><pubDate>Mon, 27 Dec 2010 15:49:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2010-12-27T10:49:13.148-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Alzheimer&#39;s disease</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">dementia</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Frontotemporal Dementia</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Parkinson’s disease</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Vascular Dementia</category><title>Alzheimer&#39;s Disease, Dementia, and What is the Difference Between Alzheimer&#39;s and Dementia</title><description>&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;b&gt;Dementia is a symptom, and Alzheimer&#39;s disease is the cause of the symptoms...&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-small;&quot;&gt;Alzheimer&#39;s Reading Room&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/i&gt;  &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.alzheimersreadingroom.com/2010/06/whats-difference-between-alzheimers-and.html&quot;&gt;&lt;h3&gt;What is the Difference Between Alzheimer’s and Dementia?&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;In a nutshell, dementia is a symptom, and Alzheimer&#39;s disease is the cause of the symptom. When someone is told they have dementia, it means that they have significant memory problems as well as other cognitive difficulties, and that these problems are severe enough to get in the way of daily living.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.alzheimersreadingroom.com/2010/06/whats-difference-between-alzheimers-and.html&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;Go here&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; to read more about the Difference between Alzheimer&#39;s disease and dementia.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;h3&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.alzheimersreadingroom.com/2010/01/what-is-alzheimers-disease.html&quot;&gt;What is Alzheimer&#39;s Disease&lt;/a&gt;?&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;b&gt;Alzheimer&#39;s disease is a physical illness that causes radical changes in the brain. As healthy brain tissues degenerate persons suffering from Alzheimer&#39;s experience a steady decline in memory and the ability to use their brain to perform tasks.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.alzheimersreadingroom.com/2010/01/what-is-alzheimers-disease.html&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;Go here&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; to read more about Alzheimer&#39;s disease.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;h3&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.alzheimersreadingroom.com/2009/03/what-is-dementia.html&quot;&gt;What is Dementia?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;b&gt;Dementia is the gradual deterioration of mental functioning, such as concentration, memory, and judgment, which affects a person’s ability to perform normal daily activities.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.alzheimersreadingroom.com/2009/03/what-is-dementia.html&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;Go here&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; to read more about Dementia.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;h3&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.alzheimersreadingroom.com/2009/09/dementia-and-eight-types-of-dementia.html&quot;&gt;Dementia and the Eight Types of Dementia &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;b&gt;Dementia is a an illness that usually occurs slowly over time, and usually includes a progressive state of deterioration. The earliest signs of dementia are usually memory problems, confusion, and changes in the way a person behaves and communicates.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.alzheimersreadingroom.com/2009/09/dementia-and-eight-types-of-dementia.html&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;Go here&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; to read more about the Eight Types of Dementia.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: large;&quot;&gt;Original content Bob DeMarco, the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.alzheimersreadingroom.com/2010/11/alzheimers-disease-types-of-dementia.html&quot;&gt;Alzheimer&#39;s Reading Room&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description><link>http://alzheimerscaregiverthebook.blogspot.com/2010/12/alzheimers-disease-dementia-and-what-is.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Alzheimer&#39;s Reading Room)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6954589184064338179.post-2343564760819929729</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 21:10:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-11-12T16:12:56.953-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">alzehimer-s</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">dementia</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">detect</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">early</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">memory</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">sign</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">test</category><title>Memory Tests to Detect Alzheimer&#39;s and Dementia the Old Fashioned Way</title><description>&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:46U9L33ecDjSbM:http://activerain.com/image_store/uploads/8/3/5/3/8/ar123803208483538.JPG&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; src=&quot;http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:46U9L33ecDjSbM:http://activerain.com/image_store/uploads/8/3/5/3/8/ar123803208483538.JPG&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;b&gt;In my little world here in Delray Beach, Florida I have learned a harsh lesson -- it is very difficult to diagnose mild cognitive impairment, dementia, and probable Alzheimer&#39;s. My first experience was with my own mother......&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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I knew something was wrong with my mother. I knew it. When I would mention some of my concerns to family and friends they would usually conclude -- she is getting old. When it first started to really bother me my mother was 86 years old.&lt;br /&gt;
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Her friends that saw her everyday would tell me she is doing great. Her doctor of six years didn&#39;t see a problem.&lt;br /&gt;
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I did know her behavior was undergoing subtle changes. She talked about money incessantly, she complained about being bored incessantly. She started scrapping her feet on the ground. She said things that lead me to believe she was feeling insecure, maybe fear -- these were very different than what I heard her saying in the past.&lt;br /&gt;
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After my mother was diagnosed with dementia her friends refused to believe both the diagnosis and me. When she would talk to family and friends that lived far away they would usually say --she sounds great.&lt;br /&gt;
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She did sound great. She could still drive, go to the store, and play bingo. What they didn&#39;t see was how her behavior would often turn erratic. I invited all of them to come live in the front row for a few days -- they passed.&lt;br /&gt;
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The time came when I decided to come and spend some extended time with my mother and try to find out what was happening. At the time, you could put everything I knew about Alzheimer&#39;s and dementia in a thimble. &lt;br /&gt;
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It took a few months before I finally started to understand the problem. It took four doctors to get to the bottom of the problem. None of the people that were seeing my mother on a daily basis saw a problem. &lt;br /&gt;
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People in an early stage of dementia are very good at disguising the problem. They can laugh and change the conversation when you ask them questions about memory, or the ability to go here and go there. For me, it was the changes in behavior, the meanness, and the inability to walk more than a block that tipped me off.&lt;br /&gt;
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If a person suffering from dementia gets lost or starts having problems driving, you will never hear about it. The last thing an elderly person wants to do is lose their independence. One of the biggest symbols of independence is the drivers license. Trying to get that drivers license is like trying to get a steak out of the mouth of a bull dog.&lt;br /&gt;
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After I had been hear a couple of years, I learned some interesting things about my mothers behavior.&lt;br /&gt;
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She drove her car over a concrete abutment, through a hedge and hit a tree. She then drove the car around some trees, over a sidewalk, over the lawn, and put the care in her condominium parking space. She didn&#39;t tell me, my brother, or my sister. &lt;br /&gt;
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When I first learned about this her friends were laughing telling the story. They were impressed by the fact that she actually got the car back into her space. They did not see it as an indication that maybe she shouldn&#39;t be driving -- or worse.&lt;br /&gt;
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Her friends, still friends, also forgot to mention that they stopped inviting my mother to their lunch time outings to restaurants because she constantly complained about money. When I asked them years later, when I first learned about this, if she had always done this -- they said no. In other words, her behavior had clearly changed but it had no impact on their view of her health.&lt;br /&gt;
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If you live far away from your parent and they are over 80, there is a good chance you could end up in the same situation I found myself in six years ago. &lt;br /&gt;
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Here are few things you can try to spot mild cognitive impairment, Alzheimer&#39;s or dementia at an early stage.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.alzheimersreadingroom.com/2008/10/bob-demarco-my-profile.html&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;85&quot; src=&quot;http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3385/3193476301_1325afb2c7_s.jpg&quot; width=&quot;85&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #0b5394;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.alzheimersreadingroom.com/2008/10/bob-demarco-my-profile.html&quot;&gt;Bob DeMarco&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is the editor of the Alzheimer&#39;s Reading Room and an Alzheimer&#39;s caregiver. The &lt;span style=&quot;color: #0b5394;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://alzheimersreadingroom.com/&quot;&gt;Alzheimer&#39;s Reading Room&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is the number one website on the Internet for news, advice, and insight into Alzheimer&#39;s disease. Bob has written more than 950 articles with more than 8,000 links on the Internet. Bob resides in Delray Beach, FL.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;b&gt;Original content Bob DeMarco, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.alzheimersreadingroom.com/2009/11/memory-tests-to-detect-alzheimers-and.html&quot;&gt;Alzheimer&#39;s Reading Room&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description><link>http://alzheimerscaregiverthebook.blogspot.com/2009/11/memory-tests-to-detect-alzheimers-and.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Alzheimer&#39;s Reading Room)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3467/3988197057_0e8cb65fc8_t.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6954589184064338179.post-5188572689535440933</guid><pubDate>Fri, 19 Sep 2008 04:43:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2008-09-19T00:43:49.348-04:00</atom:updated><title>Ten Million Baby Boomers likely to suffer from Alzheimer’s during their lifetime</title><description>&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZUKn8g1606P1DIQdrMx6S-yx9tOXhvrGhJy3WfigJi4fRtriy0C6DCO6T835hs1Zm_Hk4sIavb6_QaB-Zpz8md6CHFRR-_3B0FfE6ah9FkFYACVBjA0myf6wCa6U0CCkrU3cJRltW21zU/s1600-h/Head+shot+5.JPG&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 143px; height: 145px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZUKn8g1606P1DIQdrMx6S-yx9tOXhvrGhJy3WfigJi4fRtriy0C6DCO6T835hs1Zm_Hk4sIavb6_QaB-Zpz8md6CHFRR-_3B0FfE6ah9FkFYACVBjA0myf6wCa6U0CCkrU3cJRltW21zU/s200/Head+shot+5.JPG&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5247414181177917794&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;I am a baby boomer. My mother suffers from Alzheimer’s disease. Five years ago, I left my job as the CEO of a small software company to take care of my mother.  I am living the devastating effects of Alzheimer’s from the front row. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;It is rare to meet baby boomers that are concerned about their own uncertain fate when it comes to Alzheimer&#39;s disease. This includes most of my close friends. Fifteen thousand baby boomers are turning 60 each day.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;• Every 71 seconds someone develops Alzheimer’s disease.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;• Alzheimer’s disease is now the sixth leading cause of death (recently surpassing diabetes). &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:130%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;• &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: rgb(204, 0, 0); font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;One in every eight adults over the age of 65 suffers from Alzheimer’s disease.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;• One out of every two adults over the age of 85 suffers from Alzheimer’s disease.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:130%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;• &lt;span style=&quot;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);&quot;&gt;Ten million baby boomers will develop Alzheimer’s disease in their lifetime.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;span id=&quot;fullpost&quot;&gt;     Alzheimer’s disease is certain brain death. Imagine living in a world where you can recount experiences from 1936, but can’t remember your birthday party five minutes after it ended. Meet my mother. My mother never suffered a major illness. She never had an operation. Five years after her diagnosis she is in very good health. But, her brain is dying. She doesn’t know it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I started the Alzheimer’s Reading Room to keep track of the thousands of articles and many books I was reading. I soon realized I could help the ten million Alzheimer’s Caregivers worldwide by personalizing this information on my blog. Later on, I decided to start writing about our successes in fighting the disease, our decisions on treatments, our new life style, where to look for help, and news about the search for a cure. I stick to information I believe is useful and helpful. There is an enormous amount of new information each day; it’s difficult to identify the best and most useful information. This is my job.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I now know there are many things baby boomers can do to lower the odds of contracting Alzheimer’s disease. I do all of these things for myself each day. There are things you can do to stave off the disease. You need to start doing them now. You cannot wait. With this in mind, I am broadening my mission on the blog to include information to help baby boomers understand and take action against Alzheimer’s&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here are few things baby boomers should be doing right now:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;• &lt;a href=&quot;http://alzheimersreadingroom.blogspot.com/2008/08/valsartan-may-offset-alzheimers.html&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;High blood pressure&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; (hypertension) is a cause of cognitive decline. Hypertension causes build-up of beta-amyloid in the brain. This is a complication frequently associated with Alzheimer’s disease. Take action to get your blood pressure down now.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;• &lt;a href=&quot;http://alzheimersreadingroom.blogspot.com/2008/04/high-cholesterol-levels-in-your-40s-may.html&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;High cholesterol&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; levels in your 40s may raise the chance of developing Alzheimer&#39;s disease decades later. Failure to deal with this condition effectively could raise the odds of contracting Alzheimer’s disease by fifty percent. Get your cholesterol checked often and get it down.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;• &lt;a href=&quot;http://alzheimersreadingroom.blogspot.com/2008/09/vitamin-b12-may-protect-against-brain.html&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;B12.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; A recent study found that people with higher levels of vitamin B12 were six times less likely to experience brain volume loss. A simple blood test is all that is needed to check the level of B12 in your system. You should start eating foods rich in B12 and consider getting B12 shots to raise the amount of B12 in your system.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;•&lt;a href=&quot;http://alzheimersreadingroom.blogspot.com/2008/03/big-belly-in-middle-age-triples-risk-of_26.html&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt; Big Belly. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Having a large belly in middle age nearly triples the risk of developing dementia.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;• &lt;a href=&quot;http://alzheimersreadingroom.blogspot.com/2008/08/researchers-link-cocoa-flavanols-to.html&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;Cocoa flavanols&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;. A recent study at Harvard found that those who regularly drank a cocoa flavanol-rich beverage had an eight percent increase in brain blood flow after one week, and 10 percent increase after two weeks. I highly recommend incorporating this into your diet.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;• &lt;a href=&quot;http://alzheimersreadingroom.blogspot.com/2008/09/physical-activity-for-older-adults-at.html&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;Exercise.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; A new study just released shows that regular exercise is one of the best ways to reduce your risk of dementia and can help slow progression of Alzheimer&#39;s disease.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the days ahead, I will be writing more about ways to combat Alzheimer’s disease. If you know someone currently caring for a loved one with Alzheimer’s disease please tell them about the blog. You can subscribe to the blog via email or reader by taking the appropriate action on the blog.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They are predicting that ten million baby boomers will suffer from Alzheimer’s disease. By spreading the word and taking action we can lower the number. Let’s get together on this.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Original content the&lt;a href=&quot;http://alzheimersreadingroom.blogspot.com/&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt; Alzheimer&#39;s Reading Room&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;center&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/dp/0312355394/?actionplan-20&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px; width: 120px;&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; src=&quot;http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51ZIhAkDKZL._SL500_AA240_.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/center&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0312355394?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=actionplan-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0312355394&quot;&gt;The Alzheimer&#39;s Action Plan: The Experts&#39; Guide to the Best Diagnosis and Treatment for Memory Problems&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img alt=&quot;&quot; style=&quot;border: medium none  ! important; margin: 0px ! important;&quot; src=&quot;http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=actionplan-20&amp;amp;l=as2&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;a=0312355394&quot; width=&quot;1&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;1&quot; /&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/span&gt;</description><link>http://alzheimerscaregiverthebook.blogspot.com/2008/09/ten-million-baby-boomers-likely-to.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Alzheimer&#39;s Reading Room)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZUKn8g1606P1DIQdrMx6S-yx9tOXhvrGhJy3WfigJi4fRtriy0C6DCO6T835hs1Zm_Hk4sIavb6_QaB-Zpz8md6CHFRR-_3B0FfE6ah9FkFYACVBjA0myf6wCa6U0CCkrU3cJRltW21zU/s72-c/Head+shot+5.JPG" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6954589184064338179.post-6504480779901695670</guid><pubDate>Fri, 05 Sep 2008 18:28:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2008-09-05T14:44:57.082-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">alzheimer&#39;s</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">alzheimers</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">dancing</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">people</category><title>A Wonderful Moment in Time--Mom Dances for the First Time in Years</title><description>&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEigDj_L-4o5eVOJ1jv8re4muY-jVEYSUG-2vVr7fvprzEU_1Hv2qHhptVrGT8HlAVV8SoNDkWy6AbFzHKXgHRNeP5OEhJOCQ8QSExmUkoAJBjip8X3h2N8UExGNuu6UJPNLz8Z9olBD7UeY/s1600-h/Mom+at+the+Banana+Boat.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 111px; height: 143px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEigDj_L-4o5eVOJ1jv8re4muY-jVEYSUG-2vVr7fvprzEU_1Hv2qHhptVrGT8HlAVV8SoNDkWy6AbFzHKXgHRNeP5OEhJOCQ8QSExmUkoAJBjip8X3h2N8UExGNuu6UJPNLz8Z9olBD7UeY/s200/Mom+at+the+Banana+Boat.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5241871075998048370&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;Wonderful people.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;I have a vivid image of the look on mom&#39;s face and of us dancing. I will have that image in my mind forever. This is the kind of moment that really knocks home to me why I am here with mom. Moments  like this help keep me energized and focused.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id=&quot;fullpost&quot;&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;My name is Bob and I am the sole caregiver for my mother who suffers from Alzheimer&#39;s disease.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One of the biggest problems I face as a caregiver is keeping my mother socialized. If it was up to her she would sit around all day in the dark, rarely speaking. If you have experienced this you know how really disconcerting this can be.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;About two years ago, I decided to take my mother out to the Banana Boat in Boynton Beach. The Banana Boat is an outdoor restaurant on the Intercoastal Waterway. The &quot;Boat&quot; has an outdoor restaurant and an outdoor bar where you can eat and listen to live music. Since my mother rarely speaks when we go out to dinner, I decided we would sit at the bar and eat. This would insure we had movement and people talking around us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My mother ordered chicken wings and french fries, one of her favorites meals. My mother&#39;s eyes almost popped out of her head when she saw &quot;a big basket of french fries&quot;. She was delighted. We had a very good time that night and I decided to do it the next Friday night. Pretty soon we were doing it most Friday nights.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After a few weeks, women started to come over and talk to us. The attraction was an older man with his elderly mother; they wanted to say how nice it was to see us. Keep in mind my mother was 90 at the time. Of course, they were saddened to hear that mom was suffering from Alzheimer&#39;s. Soon both women and men were coming over to talk.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I should point out that the Banana Boat is the kind of place that attracts many of the same people week-in-week-out. Since we go around 6:30 we catch the happy hour crowd many of whom stay until 8.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After a while, a small group of people started saving a chair for my mother as they were expecting us. The first time we missed a Friday one woman asked for our phone number and told me they were worried about &quot;mom&quot; when we didn&#39;t show up. So they wanted to be able to check if we hadn&#39;t told them we wouldn&#39;t be coming the next week. Now we call to let them know if we are not coming.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As time went on, our little group of friends started to get bigger and this turned out to be a &quot;God send&quot;. Each week, one by one these wonderful people come up and start talking to my mother. She really enjoys this and her attitude perks up right away. They treat her just like everyone else and talk to her like she is one of the gang. This year a group got together and took my mother to the casino to play slot machines on here birthday. I cannot put into words how much this meant to mom and me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My mother loved to dance. So, each and every week I asked her if she wanted to dance. Our new friends would also ask mom to dance--men and women alike. I could tell that mom wanted to dance but she always said, no. Mom is no longer confident around  crowds or people she doesn&#39;t know, so while her instinct is to dance her brain is telling her no. I can tell you mom was never shy about dancing and she is a good dancer.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Last Friday night, I asked mom if she wanted to dance. She said, no. But, I could tell she really did want to dance this time. When we were getting ready to leave, and as mom stood up, I started dancing with her right on the spot. She was shaking it a little bit and had a big smile on her face. By the time we were done people had tears in their eyes and smiles as big as big could be. Wonderful people.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have a vivid image of the look on mom&#39;s face and of us dancing. I will have that image in my mind forever. This is the kind of moment that really knocks home to me why I am here with mom and situations like this really help me to keep at it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Original content the &lt;a href=&quot;http://alzheimersreadingroom.blogspot.com/2008/09/wonderful-moment-in-time.html&quot;&gt;Alzheimer&#39;s Reading Room&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;I can assure you it was really a wonderful moment in time.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Original content the &lt;a href=&quot;http://alzheimersdiary.blogspot.com/2008/09/wonderful-moment-in-time-mom-dancing.html&quot;&gt;Alzheimer&#39;s Diary&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description><link>http://alzheimerscaregiverthebook.blogspot.com/2008/09/wonderful-moment-in-time-mom-dances-for.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Alzheimer&#39;s Reading Room)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEigDj_L-4o5eVOJ1jv8re4muY-jVEYSUG-2vVr7fvprzEU_1Hv2qHhptVrGT8HlAVV8SoNDkWy6AbFzHKXgHRNeP5OEhJOCQ8QSExmUkoAJBjip8X3h2N8UExGNuu6UJPNLz8Z9olBD7UeY/s72-c/Mom+at+the+Banana+Boat.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6954589184064338179.post-8816387944044945335</guid><pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 19:46:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2008-08-28T15:58:34.697-04:00</atom:updated><title>The first of many signs of Alzheimer&#39;s in my mother that went undetected</title><description>&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj01RfDOugAs55z0HaDWkuFzIDy3RKE1TgTiso_HXqyhYviRdLwp6Peq4MF-DGlxCRNkyekkFzLSucJYIgtot1TYwAd8hE6gzRw6HmnWd3p2nn4b3D6aF8nPrugfxU9x08N17PCDK4FFkjE/s1600-h/Mom&#39;s+statues+2.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 128px; height: 156px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj01RfDOugAs55z0HaDWkuFzIDy3RKE1TgTiso_HXqyhYviRdLwp6Peq4MF-DGlxCRNkyekkFzLSucJYIgtot1TYwAd8hE6gzRw6HmnWd3p2nn4b3D6aF8nPrugfxU9x08N17PCDK4FFkjE/s200/Mom&#39;s+statues+2.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5239660194413219218&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;I wrote the following in 2006. It was a long time before anyone realized my mother was suffering from dementia. Turns out this was one of the early signs.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id=&quot;fullpost&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I became a CareGiver before I had any idea that the word existed. It all started back in late 2003 after a series of strange occurrences by my mother. I guess I should have known when my mother ran her car over an abutment and scraped off the entire side of her car on a tree. Me, more than 1000 miles away, I was told the car was not that bad. A day later and on the scene, I found out the car was totaled. Fortunately, my tiny five foot tall, 87 year old mother was just fine. At least that is what she, her friends and all the doctors told me. While I accepted it at the time I just knew something was not right. This is when I started to worry. Often asking myself, what can or what should I do? At the time no one, not the people who saw her everyday, her personal physician, none of her neighbors recognized my mother was in an early stage of dementia. After all, she was still driving, paying her bills and going to bingo.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Bobby&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id=&quot;fullpost&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;center&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/dp/0312355394/?actionplan-20&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px; width: 140px;&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; src=&quot;http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51ZIhAkDKZL._SL500_AA240_.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/center&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0312355394?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=actionplan-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0312355394&quot;&gt;The Alzheimer&#39;s Action Plan: The Experts&#39; Guide to the Best Diagnosis and Treatment for Memory Problems&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=actionplan-20&amp;amp;l=as2&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;a=0312355394&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; style=&quot;border: medium none  ! important; margin: 0px ! important;&quot; width=&quot;1&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;1&quot; /&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;!-- sphereit end --&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description><link>http://alzheimerscaregiverthebook.blogspot.com/2008/08/first-in-many-signs-of-alzheimers-in-my.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Alzheimer&#39;s Reading Room)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj01RfDOugAs55z0HaDWkuFzIDy3RKE1TgTiso_HXqyhYviRdLwp6Peq4MF-DGlxCRNkyekkFzLSucJYIgtot1TYwAd8hE6gzRw6HmnWd3p2nn4b3D6aF8nPrugfxU9x08N17PCDK4FFkjE/s72-c/Mom&#39;s+statues+2.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6954589184064338179.post-8817251452361267172</guid><pubDate>Mon, 11 Aug 2008 01:02:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2008-08-10T21:03:26.368-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">book. alzheimer&#39;s</category><title>What I Wish I’d Done Differently</title><description>&lt;div&gt; Been there, done that. An excellent article worth reading and passing along to friend.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I found out that one of the most important decision that can ever be made is the selection of an excellent personal physician. Are they still updating their education? This is one question I would ask. And the first thing I would recommend is asking question.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I would suggest adding the New Old Age to your reader. Click the link in the clip to do it. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;table style=&quot;border: 4px solid rgb(51, 204, 204); margin: 12px 0px; background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 50%; font-family: arial; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial; width: 100%; clear: left;&quot; cellpadding=&quot;0&quot; cellspacing=&quot;0&quot;&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td valign=&quot;top&quot;&gt;&lt;!-- BEGIN_CLIP_CONTENT ID:8C17FFAB-8B61-49F6-92F8-BCFABE1D8216:0 CLIPMARKS.COM --&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;CM_CTB_Content_Wrap&quot; style=&quot;margin: 0px; padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);&quot;&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(220, 220, 220); white-space: nowrap; margin-bottom: 8px; background-color: rgb(238, 238, 238); background-image: url(http://clipmarks.com/images/source-bg.gif); background-repeat: repeat-x; height: 24px; line-height: 24px; vertical-align: middle; 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-moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;&quot; cite=&quot;http://newoldage.blogs.nytimes.com/2008/07/07/what-i-wish-id-done-differently/&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;Looking back on the last few years of my mother’s life, with 20/20 hindsight and the belated knowledge that came from four years of reporting about aging for The New York Times, my single biggest mistake was not finding a doctor with expertise in geriatrics to quarterback her care and attend to the quality of her life, not merely its length.  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;margin: 0px 6px 6px 4px;&quot;&gt;&lt;table style=&quot;padding: 0px; font-size: 11px; border-spacing: 0px;&quot; cellpadding=&quot;0&quot; cellspacing=&quot;0&quot; width=&quot;100%&quot;&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style=&quot;border-width: 0px; padding: 0px; background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 50%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;&quot;&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td style=&quot;border-width: 0px; padding: 0px; background: transparent none repeat scroll 0% 50%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial; width: 107px;&quot; align=&quot;right&quot; width=&quot;107&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://clipmarks.com/share/8C17FFAB-8B61-49F6-92F8-BCFABE1D8216/blog/&quot; title=&quot;blog or email this clip&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://content9.clipmarks.com/images/c2b-foot.png&quot; alt=&quot;blog it&quot; style=&quot;border-width: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;17&quot; width=&quot;107&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;</description><link>http://alzheimerscaregiverthebook.blogspot.com/2008/08/what-i-wish-id-done-differently.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Alzheimer&#39;s Reading Room)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6954589184064338179.post-85766952443403023</guid><pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 11:50:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2008-07-17T07:53:19.565-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">alzheimer&#39;s</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">bob demarco</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">caregiver</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Dorothy DeMarco</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">family caregiving</category><title>My mother at the age of 85 was a real dynamo</title><description>&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDdA3mRt56TgrI58JiQUCnAXke_tUg0nFXlyh8wQ_ulY8PIS4LiPDWzOYtPBReuCR-6rvdiuOPRMekJLLg6z-w7zZLJp8UGNOtX92-nDuCOgrsyu4GT6h0OamPY7yz5_gvX_dHJPPT_OZ-/s1600-h/BOB+IN+Office+fpr+blog.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 96px; height: 111px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDdA3mRt56TgrI58JiQUCnAXke_tUg0nFXlyh8wQ_ulY8PIS4LiPDWzOYtPBReuCR-6rvdiuOPRMekJLLg6z-w7zZLJp8UGNOtX92-nDuCOgrsyu4GT6h0OamPY7yz5_gvX_dHJPPT_OZ-/s200/BOB+IN+Office+fpr+blog.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5185825553452682498&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;!-- sphereit start --&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;She lived on her own, paid her own bills, and took care of herself.......&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id=&quot;fullpost&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;My mother at the age of 85 was a dynamo.&lt;/span&gt; She lived on her own, paid her own bills, and took care of herself. She had been doing this for more than ten years since the death of my father. She was on her own.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My mother was often spotted walking to the pool in her community. A tiny women the senior citizens all around her marveled. It seemed as if father time had forgotten about her. There was no limit to what she could do. Walk 20 blocks, no problem, you name it. Up at dawn and awake at midnight she was a real dynamo.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My mother was very funny, a real character. She made people laugh and smile. She read the newspaper daily, did the crossword puzzle and watched CNN. She had opinions on everything and wanted to know your opinion.  She was a wonderful person: always welcoming people into her home. She was noted for all of my 50 years for her great Italian cooking. I remember as a kid that all of my friends really looked forward to staying over our house. Donuts, spaghetti and meatballs you name it. Ravioli anyone? My mother was and is a real character.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Me? I was there with my mother when my fathered &quot;passed away&#39;; this was when I really started thinking about her longevity, her health. I was thinking about her for years knowing that someday she had to live with one of us (I have a brother and sister). As the years flew by I started to think about it more and more. She just kept going ang going without a health problem of any kind. Rarely a minor illness. But, I knew in my mind that sooner or later father time was going to catch up with her.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At times, my brother, sister and I had discussions about putting my mother into some kind of &quot;facility&quot;.  To be honest, to be honest now, I knew I would never be able to do it. While I had only mentioned it to a few people, I had made a promise to my father not long before he died. I promised him no matter what, I would take care of his wife of 55 years, my mother, our love, Dorothy. It was not a promise I made haphazardly.  It seemed as natural to me as breathing. I already knew in my mind and my heart, I was the one.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I knew the day would come. I just didn&#39;t know when. Or how.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/dp/0801885094/?tag=alzcare-20&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px; width: 140px;&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; src=&quot;http://ec1.images-amazon.com/images/I/51Q8HH6PHWL._AA240_.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0801885094?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=alzcare-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0801885094&quot;&gt;&lt;center&gt;The 36-Hour Day: A Family Guide to Caring for People with Alzheimer Disease and Memory Loss in Later Life&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img alt=&quot;&quot; style=&quot;border: medium none  ! important; margin: 0px ! important;&quot; src=&quot;http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=36hourday-20&amp;amp;l=as2&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;a=0801885094&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;1&quot; width=&quot;1&quot; /&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;!-- sphereit end --&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description><link>http://alzheimerscaregiverthebook.blogspot.com/2008/07/my-mother-at-age-of-85-was-real-dynamo.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Alzheimer&#39;s Reading Room)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDdA3mRt56TgrI58JiQUCnAXke_tUg0nFXlyh8wQ_ulY8PIS4LiPDWzOYtPBReuCR-6rvdiuOPRMekJLLg6z-w7zZLJp8UGNOtX92-nDuCOgrsyu4GT6h0OamPY7yz5_gvX_dHJPPT_OZ-/s72-c/BOB+IN+Office+fpr+blog.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6954589184064338179.post-4157655089983970739</guid><pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2008 12:38:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2008-07-15T08:39:09.724-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">exercise</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">gold&#39;s gym</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">silver sneakers</category><title>My mother--Exercise may slow Alzheimer&#39;s brain atrophy</title><description>&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhjD3VIcRNrTM1QFA0nYkTqjR0pgHl8nolZBIxYIC1qcn1M8vrzAx9yx3_wOLz6A4J4XFNcMSrBaCg85szEfolj8-pT3etrYnS68K0dWlQIwuijm4-VAKvIHFZze-UazJOHMkB60PFGJso8/s1600-h/Mom+at+Gold%27s+Gym3.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhjD3VIcRNrTM1QFA0nYkTqjR0pgHl8nolZBIxYIC1qcn1M8vrzAx9yx3_wOLz6A4J4XFNcMSrBaCg85szEfolj8-pT3etrYnS68K0dWlQIwuijm4-VAKvIHFZze-UazJOHMkB60PFGJso8/s200/Mom+at+Gold%27s+Gym3.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5223212227697558066&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;!-- sphereit start --&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;When my mother first showed signs of dementia she was falling down almost daily. Then she fell and broke her finger. My mother who a year earlier could walk 15 blocks without any real problem could no longer walk a block. I knew I had to do something. While I was trying to decide what to do her health care provider (Humana) began offering a free membership to a health club (Gold&#39;s Gym). I enrolled her in Gold&#39;s and the Silver Sneakers program. She stopped falling. Once I realized that it was her brain and not her ability to walk, I started putting her on the treadmill. Four years later my mother is walking very slow and holding my hand very tight when she walks. Her brain is sending her all kinds of false messages. Here is the good news, she has not fallen once in these four years. An amazing result for a 92 year old woman suffering from Alzheimer&#39;s disease.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As some of you know, I am a big proponent of exercise and I believe this is a necessary component of staving off the dreaded effects of Alzheimer&#39;s.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id=&quot;fullpost&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhhKHmGtS9Xg3a0lq_uWevLroS_NvId5qgBzy-VobAOfTTDjv5zWMZLu2Coq1tJNS0n-r6fAekKlX6W3WwDNYvZ3FiUwb6JgBmZt2K68EqLzsFsx6i6gk3J9z7gOQRZoJBA8xujlrXHsZfi/s1600-h/Mom+and+Bob+At+Banana+Boat.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhhKHmGtS9Xg3a0lq_uWevLroS_NvId5qgBzy-VobAOfTTDjv5zWMZLu2Coq1tJNS0n-r6fAekKlX6W3WwDNYvZ3FiUwb6JgBmZt2K68EqLzsFsx6i6gk3J9z7gOQRZoJBA8xujlrXHsZfi/s200/Mom+and+Bob+At+Banana+Boat.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5223214095009698786&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/25676632&quot;&gt;Exercise may slow Alzheimer&#39;s brain atrophy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Getting a lot of exercise may help slow brain shrinkage in people with early Alzheimer’s disease, a preliminary study suggests.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Analysis found that participants who were more physically fit had less brain shrinkage than less-fit participants. However, they didn’t do significantly better on tests for mental performance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That was a surprise, but maybe the study had too few patients to make an effect show up in the statistical analysis, said Dr. Jeffrey Burns, one of the study’s authors.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He also stressed that the work is only a starting point for exploring whether exercise and physical fitness can slow the progression of Alzheimer’s. The study can’t prove an effect because the participants were evaluated only once rather than repeatedly over time, he said.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While brains shrink with normal aging, the rate is doubled in people with Alzheimer’s, he said.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Burns, who directs the Alzheimer and Memory Program at the University of Kansas School of Medicine in Kansas City, reports the work with colleagues in Tuesday’s issue of the journal Neurology.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The study included 57 people with early Alzheimer’s. Their physical fitness was assessed by measuring their peak oxygen demand while on a treadmill, and brain shrinkage was estimated by MRI scans.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dr. Sam Gandy, who chairs the medical and scientific advisory council of the Alzheimer’s Association, said the result fits in with previous indications that things people do to protect heart health can also pay off for the brain.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;URL: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/25676632/&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;center&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/dp/0312355394/?actionplan-20&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px; width: 140px;&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; src=&quot;http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51ZIhAkDKZL._SL500_AA240_.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/center&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0312355394?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=actionplan-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0312355394&quot;&gt;The Alzheimer&#39;s Action Plan: The Experts&#39; Guide to the Best Diagnosis and Treatment for Memory Problems&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=actionplan-20&amp;amp;l=as2&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;a=0312355394&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; style=&quot;border: medium none  ! important; margin: 0px ! important;&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;1&quot; width=&quot;1&quot; /&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;!-- sphereit end --&gt;</description><link>http://alzheimerscaregiverthebook.blogspot.com/2008/07/my-mother-exercise-may-slow-alzheimers.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Alzheimer&#39;s Reading Room)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhjD3VIcRNrTM1QFA0nYkTqjR0pgHl8nolZBIxYIC1qcn1M8vrzAx9yx3_wOLz6A4J4XFNcMSrBaCg85szEfolj8-pT3etrYnS68K0dWlQIwuijm4-VAKvIHFZze-UazJOHMkB60PFGJso8/s72-c/Mom+at+Gold%27s+Gym3.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6954589184064338179.post-7368697066979137148</guid><pubDate>Sun, 25 May 2008 16:50:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2008-09-07T18:29:22.252-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">alzheimer&#39;s</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">breathing</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">communication</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">feelings</category><title>Alzheimer&#39;s and Communication, Take a Few Deep Breaths</title><description>&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhB5O9h-CqbdZInmUuozHZiU3pUnaoKhPvkRMLVyinApbp_r1NGXRW6OBIa_KICwdj_gVLkFrlOnd8g4FAzSdA7lDszwqUfyJq24Mo5u6wtJTDWTFODNqtMkfd6F0I1cL0G-KEdk4x_0JNv/s1600-h/BOB+IN+Office+fpr+blog.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 95px; height: 121px;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhB5O9h-CqbdZInmUuozHZiU3pUnaoKhPvkRMLVyinApbp_r1NGXRW6OBIa_KICwdj_gVLkFrlOnd8g4FAzSdA7lDszwqUfyJq24Mo5u6wtJTDWTFODNqtMkfd6F0I1cL0G-KEdk4x_0JNv/s200/BOB+IN+Office+fpr+blog.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5204356491106885650&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;!-- sphereit start --&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;When my mother would say something mean, nonsensical or just downright crazy it would bring up emotions like anger in me immediately. Imagine a person being very mean to you and how you might feel. Since I was raised in a feisty Italian-American family it was not unusual for my “temper” to flair. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id=&quot;fullpost&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: rgb(51, 153, 153);font-size:130%;&quot; &gt;Alzheimer&#39; and Communication, Take a Few Deep Breaths&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I moved to Delray Beach, Florida to take care of my mother one of my most difficult problems was learning how to communicate with her. If you have cared for a person suffering from Alzheimer’s or dementia you know how difficult this can be.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEglQ2IekliOhv04g2ixCR8E1lVP1pOlGXpfOROOt4imymInQcqQZOBij0gLLqxd-aqt7E28coNNfSZTxCyke4Vv9wZGnCGFj1qlYpA0w47xknEIDa2njPvJAzpEZ6eXD4K_x5dc2-Aa4-EI/s1600-h/Mom+in+front+of+the+giant+Ginger+Bread+house+at+the+Mariott+in+Delray.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEglQ2IekliOhv04g2ixCR8E1lVP1pOlGXpfOROOt4imymInQcqQZOBij0gLLqxd-aqt7E28coNNfSZTxCyke4Vv9wZGnCGFj1qlYpA0w47xknEIDa2njPvJAzpEZ6eXD4K_x5dc2-Aa4-EI/s200/Mom+in+front+of+the+giant+Ginger+Bread+house+at+the+Mariott+in+Delray.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5204356787459629090&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;When my mother would say something mean, nonsensical or just downright crazy it would bring up emotions like anger in me immediately. Imagine a person being very mean to you and how you might feel. Since I was raised in a feisty Italian-American family it was not unusual for my “temper” to flair. If I reacted the way I had in the past my mother would either get “meaner”, or she would go into her room and stay there for hours on end often refusing to speak. I would end up with a pain in my stomach and a range of feelings that included a sense of hopelessness. I realized during those first days that I needed learn how to deal effectively with this new, unfamiliar, communication with my mother.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The first thing I decided to do was work very hard to learn a new set of skills when these situations occurred. I learned to label (identify) and accept my initial reaction. What was I feeling: anger, frustration, confusion, sadness or a combination of all of these feelings? I found that by identifying my feelings I could corral and contain them so I could deal effectively with my mother and the situation at hand. Once I had my mother settled I would go into a separate room and let my feeling come to the surface. First identify, second feel and third dismiss these feeling as part of the sometimes craziness called Alzheimer’s disease. I know my mother didn’t mean what she was saying and I knew from my previous 50 years with her that she would never say or do the things she was doing if she could help it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As I was learning, I read an article about taking a “few deep breaths”. I tried it. Before I knew it, I was able to use this technique to blow away all the bad feelings and find myself relieved. I also learned to take a few deep breaths once the communication episode with my mother was starting. This really helped put me in focus and remind myself about what needed to be accomplished.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So my advice to you is to learn how to take a few deep breaths. Nice and slow deeper and deeper breaths. It works.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I learned to accept my initial reaction to these situations as part of being human. In other words, I came to understand that it was OK to have my feelings, my emotions. I also learned that I needed to keep these feelings in check and find a way to diffuse the anger within me. I came to understand that my mother was now evidencing behavior that was a result of her own confusion and the deterioration taking place in her brain. I came to accept the Alzheimer’s disease for what it is—something mean and sinister that was not going to go away. I learned to take control of the situation at hand.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can do it too, I know you can.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;center&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/dp/0312355394/?actionplan-20&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px; width: 140px;&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; src=&quot;http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51ZIhAkDKZL._SL500_AA240_.jpg&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/center&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0312355394?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=actionplan-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=9325&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0312355394&quot;&gt;The Alzheimer&#39;s Action Plan: The Experts&#39; Guide to the Best Diagnosis and Treatment for Memory Problems&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=actionplan-20&amp;amp;l=as2&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;a=0312355394&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; style=&quot;border: medium none  ! important; margin: 0px ! important;&quot; width=&quot;1&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;1&quot; /&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;!-- sphereit end --&gt;</description><link>http://alzheimerscaregiverthebook.blogspot.com/2008/05/alzheimers-and-communication-take-few.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Alzheimer&#39;s Reading Room)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhB5O9h-CqbdZInmUuozHZiU3pUnaoKhPvkRMLVyinApbp_r1NGXRW6OBIa_KICwdj_gVLkFrlOnd8g4FAzSdA7lDszwqUfyJq24Mo5u6wtJTDWTFODNqtMkfd6F0I1cL0G-KEdk4x_0JNv/s72-c/BOB+IN+Office+fpr+blog.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></item></channel></rss>