Break From Your Usual Surroundings

When you’re spending hours every day at work and then at home, it can make your days feel very repetitive. Simply breaking up your day by stepping outside into new environments creates a nice reset for the rest of your day. Try taking a small walk during your lunch break or before going home to break the routine of going straight from work to home. It is not just going on the walk that makes the difference; it is also being disconnected from the world around you, paying attention to your surroundings rather than having your head in your phone. It doesn’t have to be a new place either, but you don’t want it to get to the point where it feels part of the routine; perhaps a nearby park you haven’t been to in a while. Keep it fresh by picking somewhere different now and again.

Encourages You to Be More Active

Getting outside every day naturally encourages you to move your body more, without feeling like you have to complete any strenuous exercises. To get your daily walk in, it can be as simple as trading driving to the shop for walking to the shop instead, or going for a walk with a friend with a take-out coffee rather than sitting in for a coffee. Wearing a comfortable outfit for your walk will give you that bit more motivation to head out for the walk, with a womens tracksuit being a perfect option. Simply moving more and enjoying the fresh air can make a difference.

Break Up a Busy Day

A day filled with chores can make it easy to procrastinate; however, if you have a planned break to go outside, it can motivate you to get the jobs done leading up to the break. Then you will feel reset after the walk to crack on with the rest of the day. This can also be helpful if you work from home to create a clear divide between work and home. Before transitioning back into home life, a quick stroll is perfect to split the two environments up. Your walk can replace the usual commute you would be doing to and from the office.

Part of Your Self-Care Routine

Getting outside can become part of your self-care routine. You can pair it with something that you already enjoy doing to make it easier, such as listening to your favourite podcast. This makes the habit easier to form, especially during the colder months where it feels harder to get yourself outside. Your skincare should also be considered when being outside, making sure you include applying SPF in your skincare routine. The easiest way to do this is to use a moisturizer that has SPF in then it is a 2-in-1 job, saving you an extra step in your routine.

Connect With Others

Getting outside everyday doesn’ve have to be on your own. It is actually a really nice way to catch up with friends and family. Instead of meeting for food, why not suggest going for a walk instead? Heading out for a walk with your partner is a great way of spending quality time together, enabling you to have meaningful conversations without the usual distractions you might have elsewhere. You could even arrange a regular weekly walk with a family member you might not get to see enough with everything else you have going on in your lives. That being said, walking alone does have its own benefits.

Something Simple to Look Forward To

Once you’re in a good routine of getting outside every day, it becomes enjoyable and something to look forward to. Having these small moments of enjoyment to look forward to gives you a reason to step away from your mundane day-to-day life. Something as simple as having your morning coffee in the garden can make getting out of bed in the morning a bit easier, or knowing you’ll be going on a lunchtime walk might motivate you through a stressful morning.

Conclusion

Getting outside every day doesn’t need to involve big plans or take hours out of your schedule. Small changes, from a lunchtime walk to enjoying your morning coffee outside, can make a difference. Find an outdoor activity that works for you, make it part of your routine, and enjoy the feel-good benefits it brings.

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Guest Author Bio
Cathy Fletcher

Cathy Fletcher is a retired physiotherapist based in Manchester, UK, with a rich 40-year career in the NHS. After navigating the challenges of divorce and retirement, Cathy discovered a new purpose: empowering individuals over 50 to live their best lives and uncover new passions. Her personal journey through these significant life changes has fuelled her commitment to sharing insights and experiences with others in similar stages.

That brings me to my posts here at Life As A Human.

I started writing for Life As A Human in 2014, two years after my husband took his life. The posts were guarded, but I didn’t know how to do it any other way. At the time I wasn’t ready to ‘go all in’.

In 2019 I made the decision to write a memoir called No One in Their Right Mind. In April of this year, 2026, it was published. I was ready to share my story. There have been many emotions through it all, and I suspect that will continue for some time. What a fantastic time of learning and growing it’s been!

Over the years, many people have commented on my posts here on Life As A Human, and that connection has always felt so meaningful to me. Lately, I’ve been hit with the realization that my inability to write fully, that by leaving some details out, might have verged on a sort of untruth. I began to wonder if, by not being specific enough and by dancing around the details, the vagueness may have caused people to draw conclusions that might not be exactly as things were. 

I spent fifteen years with a narcissist. It wasn’t good. When he died I had mixed feelings. I was sad for him; sad for the little boy. I was sad for me and the little girl I didn’t protect. This wasn’t the beautiful love story I wish it could’ve been. It was a story of manipulation, abuse and betrayal. And in all honesty, after the difficulty of dealing with the suddenness of his departure and the complexity of what life was, there was a relief. A feeling of safety. Life on high alert had ended.

It could be that my tendency to be an over-thinker is having its way with me. But I just wanted to provide the clarity I couldn’t provide until now. And I also wanted to say thank you for all your comments on my posts at the time, the connection was everything.

To Gil Namur and Kerry Slavens, I need to say thank you for your kindness and generosity of spirit. None of this – my finding Life As A Human, the opportunity to contribute to the site, my memoir –  would have been possible without you both.

‘Only in the fullness of time’. I’ve always loved this saying. Totally stolen from Gil.

Hugs, all xo

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An eclipse tends to arrive wrapped in a lot of noise. Warnings, predictions, lists of what will happen to each sign. I would like to do something quieter here. I want to walk through what this eclipse actually is, where it sits in the sky and how you can find its place in your own chart without needing anyone to hand you a verdict. Along the way I will keep the astronomy honest, because the meaning reads better once the mechanics are clear.

What an eclipse really is

A solar eclipse is a New Moon with an extra condition met. Every month the Moon catches up with the Sun and sits in the same part of the sky and that is an ordinary New Moon. Most months nothing dramatic happens because the Moon passes a little above or below the Sun from our point of view.

An eclipse is what you get when that meeting happens close to one of two special points called the lunar nodes. The nodes are the two places where the Moon’s path crosses the path the Sun appears to travel through the year. When a New Moon lands near a node, the three bodies line up closely enough that the Moon’s shadow reaches the Earth and a strip of the planet sees the Sun blocked.

That is the whole secret of why eclipses cluster. They can only happen when the Sun is near the nodal axis so they arrive in seasons, roughly twice a year, in whatever signs the nodes occupy at the time. This is worth holding onto, because it explains why the eclipses of this period fall in Leo and Aquarius and nowhere else.

The lunar nodes are an old part of astrology, in use for around two thousand years. They are not a modern addition. It helps to know which pieces of a chart are ancient and which arrived recently and the nodes sit firmly in the ancient column alongside the Sun, the Moon and the visible planets.

Where this eclipse sits

Here are the positions for the twelfth of August 2026, checked against an ephemeris rather than pulled from memory.

• The eclipsed Sun sits at about 20 degrees of Leo, with the New Moon right there beside it.
• The South Node is in the late degrees of Leo, within about ten degrees of the eclipse.
• The North Node is in the late degrees of Aquarius, directly opposite.
• Jupiter is also in Leo, in the earlier degrees, travelling through the same sign as the eclipse.

So the picture is a Leo eclipse leaning toward the South Node, with the North Node waiting across the wheel in Aquarius. That South Node flavour matters for interpretation and I will come back to it.

For the astronomy lovers, a note on the event itself. According to NASA, this will be the first total solar eclipse visible from mainland Europe since 1999. In Spain the Sun will be very low, only around ten degrees above the horizon as totality begins so it happens in the warm light just before sunset. The maximum length of totality, out over the Atlantic near Iceland, reaches a little over two minutes. If you are anywhere along the path, please use proper eclipse glasses during the partial phases, since only the brief total phase is safe to watch with the naked eye.

The Leo and Aquarius axis

Since the eclipse sits on the Leo to Aquarius line, it helps to understand what that axis tends to be about. I will keep this on the level of themes rather than promises, because a chart describes a landscape, not a schedule of events.

Leo, in the older tradition, tends to be associated with the individual heart. The wish to be seen as a particular person, to create something that carries your own signature, to shine in a way that feels personal. Aquarius, on the other side, tends to point toward the group, the wider circle, the contribution that serves more than yourself.

An eclipse near the Leo South Node, with the North Node in Aquarius, often reads as an invitation to carry the warmth of Leo outward. Not to abandon the personal but to let it belong to something larger. That is the traditional interpretation of a nodal pull from South to North and I offer it as an interpretation, not a fact. Two careful astrologers can read the same axis with different emphasis and both can be working honestly.

I want to be plain about one thing here. I do not think an eclipse is a cosmic punishment or a debt being collected. The language of karma as penalty tends to frighten people more than it helps them. An axis like this describes a direction of growth that many people feel as a quiet tug over months, not a single dramatic day.

How to find it in your own chart

This is the part you can actually do and it is more useful than any generic forecast. Pull up your birth chart, which you can generate for free on many astrology sites if you know your date, exact time and place of birth. Then look for a few things.

• Find 20 degrees of Leo. See which house that degree falls in for you. The house is the area of ordinary life where this eclipse has its address in your chart. Leo on the cusp of your career sector reads differently from Leo down in the private, home part of the wheel.
• Check whether you have any planet near 20 degrees of Leo or 20 degrees of Aquarius. A personal planet within a few degrees of that line means the eclipse touches something specific in your chart rather than passing at a distance.
• Notice if you are a late July or mid August birthday or born in the second half of January or first half of February. Those Suns sit closest to this eclipse and its opposite point.

If none of that lines up closely, this eclipse is likely a background event for you rather than a headline. That is a perfectly ordinary outcome and it is more honest than telling every reader that their life is about to change.

For anyone who wants to understand these pieces properly rather than look them up each time, learning to read your own birth chart is the real gift. Once you can see where a degree falls and which house holds it, forecasts stop being something you receive and become something you can check.

A calmer way to hold an eclipse

An eclipse tends to get treated as a switch that flips your life on a particular afternoon. In my experience of reading charts over many years, it works more like a season. Themes that were already stirring tend to come into focus around the eclipse and the weeks on either side of it. Something you had been circling becomes clearer or a choice you had been postponing starts asking to be made.

So rather than bracing for an event, you might simply pay attention. Notice what keeps surfacing in the Leo and Aquarius areas of your life during August. Where do you want to be seen as yourself and where are you being asked to fold that self into something shared. You do not need to force an answer. Eclipses tend to reward noticing more than deciding.

And if you happen to be in northern Spain that evening or anywhere the partial eclipse reaches across Europe, step outside and look, safely. It is a rare thing to watch the Sun go dark near the horizon while the meaning of it all can wait while you simply take in the sight.

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Guest Author Bio
David Sáez

David is a professional astrologer with twenty years of practice, based in the south of Spain. He writes handwritten natal chart readings for clients around the world and teaches a free course on reading your own chart from scratch. You can find his work and the course at astrodavidsr.com.

The entrance to the Sonolux hotel and LUMI restaurant

Filled with cobblestone streets and French colonial stone buildings from the 17^th, 18^th and 19^th centuries, the original area of Canada’s second largest city comprises just a square kilometre. The compact layout makes it very walkable with interesting sights like the 1687 Saint-Sulpice Seminary, the original Bank of Montreal building from 1837 (still in use) and the adjacent Gothic Revival, Notre Dame Basilica. Nearby are several small, well-maintained parks along with numerous shops, cafés, restaurants and hotels.

The original Bank of Montreal. 1837

Most of the best Old Montreal hotels are modest in size, ranging between 100 and 200 rooms. We’re glad we went even smaller by staying at the Sonolux, a 36 room, art-filled boutique hotel ranked as one of the best new hotels in the world by Esquire. It opened less than a year ago.

Art collector and entrepreneur Daniel Gallant, a native of Moncton, New Brunswick, envisaged and created the Sonolux. He described his goal. “I wanted an evolving pathway between initiation and illumination.” He added, “It’s important to me to marry travel and art to give the guests something unexpected.”

Sonolux visionary and creator Daniel Gallant in the hotel lobby and restaurant

He certainly achieved that goal as the former neoclassical 1914 National Trust building on Rue Saint Jacques retained only the bank façade. The interior was gutted and turned into three dozen modern, long and narrow suites with projected art films and animation in the lobby and in all corridors. In effect, all public areas of the hotel have become galleries. There’s an audio lounge in the basement, Subterra, designed for vinyl listening sessions or live jazz on many evenings. As expected, the acoustics are stunning. There is little or no view from the room windows so, as Daniel Gallant explained, “The view has to be inside the hotel.”

Live jazz on many evenings in Subterra

That innovation was achieved by hiring ten artists who had full freedom to create the visuals projected throughout public spaces and available on all guest TVs. In addition to traditional hotel hospitality, management wanted to promote contemporary art and artists that people might not expect or know. The videos and the artists change every few months.

Every corridor has theatre seats and original, projected art

Even without its unusual art, the hotel and its perfect location would be a gem. The king beds are very comfortable with great lighting and drapes to separate the lounging or study area. Air conditioning is excellent. There are plenty of electric outlets and large bedside tables that strangely lack any drawers. A key attraction is the large bathroom with a shower big enough for two and a Japanese-style toilet/bidet. It’s the first time we’ve seen this convenient facility, common in Asia, in a North American hotel. Bravo!

Sonolux, named by combining Sono (“sound”) and Lux (Latin for ‘light’), also incudes a remarkably good restaurant. LUMI is known for its innovative, creative dishes under the direction of Executive Chef Graham Hood, a Dalhousie University graduate who has worked in several Michelin restaurants.

Unusual LUMI dessert topped with ruffled, dried yogurt

Located in the Sonolux lobby and surrounded by interesting, projected images on the walls, LUMI and Chef Hood offer à la carte dishes or an imaginative five or nine course tasting menu. When dishes are served, a small card is placed in an adjacent holder describing the ingredients. Another innovative and welcome touch.

Some LUMI highlights for us included shrimp en gelée with cucumber, Sri Lankin curry and coriander as well as a colourful fresh and roasted radish dish with arugula and dill. The dessert was a unique layer cake with makrut lime and cream topped with a ruffle of dried yogurt.

Chef Hood’s roasted radish appetizer

Until now, the focus of Sonolux has been on the hotel but the restaurant is now receiving accolades as its kitchen aims for future Michelin recognition.

Another Old Montreal restaurant, just a 10 minute walk from the Sonolux, has already earned Michelin Guide honours. Toqué has been led for 33 years by Executive Chef Normand Laprise, often called the godfather of modern Québécois gastronomy. He was the first chef to fully commit to fresh and seasonal local ingredients. With his partner, Christine Lamarche, they became pioneers of the now common Farm to Table movement.

Normand Laprise has been named Chef of the Year by MacLean’s Magazine along with many other citations (including awards from the James Beard Foundation and Relais and Châteaux). Our lunch at Toqué showed why. His dishes were among the most stylish and elegant we’ve ever enjoyed. Even the appetizers were visual masterpieces. John was impressed with his trout gravlax with kale, strawberry and green garlic oil. Sandra chose morel mushrooms stuffed with walleye & tarragon mousseline, fried shallot and smoked sturgeon beurre blanc. An exquisite dish. Our main courses were equally stunning. One of us had Quebec walleye with string beans, fennel, King Eryngii mushrooms and Kalamata olive purée while we both loved the chicken ballotine with lobster mousseline, asparagus and parsnip purée. Even dessert went well beyond the ordinary – Angelica infused rice pudding with blue honeysuckle berry compote, pistachios and lemon gel. If this was just lunch, we marvelled at what a Toqué dinner might be like.

Sandra’s favourite dish at Toqué. Stuffed morel mushrooms

Happily, we did get a chance to enjoy a Montreal dinner planned by a Michelin-starred chef. Jérôme Ferrer was born in France and combines French culinary traditions with Quebec terroir at his popular restaurant, Les Givrés d’Europea. We managed to snag a 5pm sitting for the six course tasting menu ($115). It not only included some remarkedly good traditional dishes (Arctic char, New Brunswick oysters, Quebec lamb shoulder, flambeed veal filet) but had a quirky side that we loved. We’d never had an amuse bouche of frosty eggnog with smoked corn or fried frogs legs diving into a sauce or blue cheese fritters served in a shoe! The biggest surprise was a fluffy cloud of maple flavored cotton candy at the end of the meal. A touch of whimsy that made us laugh out loud.

To round out our short culinary tour of Old Montreal we walked ten minutes from the Sonolux hotel to Marcella, an Italian restaurant popular with locals.

Marcella Italian restaurant in Old Montreal

It was busy and noisy but featured authentic regional cuisine. The tuna crudo was particularly impressive. It included basil oil, roasted sesame and lemon mayonnaise, fried capers, lemon, and lime zest with pistachio crumble. The deep fried calamari was hot, tender and tasty while the tortellini alla ricotta (with homemade sausage and smoked caciocavallo cheese) made us feel very Italian.

Outstanding tuna crudo at Marcella

As we were departing Montreal after our too-short three day visit, we thought of the message that the Sonolux creator, Daniel Gallant, left with us. “Through discovery”, he said, “we hope people will leave this hotel differently from when they arrived.” We felt exactly that, not only about the hotel but about our complete Montreal culinary adventure.

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All photos by Sandra and John Nowlan – All Rights Reserved

Technology can’t solve every people-related issue – that shouldn’t be a surprise. It does make it easier to spot problems before they become serious, though. In fact, this is why so many HR teams use AI. HR Magazine reported in 2025 that 68% of HR workers use AI at work.

So, issue prevention. That is where AI is starting to have a real impact. Rather than replacing HR professionals, it’s giving them better information. It’s helping them respond more quickly. And it’s allowing them to focus on the conversations that matter most.

Keep reading on to learn more.

1. Preventing Burnout and Supporting Mental Health

Burnout rarely happens overnight. It builds gradually. Long hours. Heavy workloads. Missed breaks. A steady increase in pressure that goes unnoticed.

AI helps identify those patterns early on. By analyzing workload data – like overtime, workload distribution, employee feedback, etc. – it highlights signs that someone could be struggling before the situation reaches a crisis point.

That doesn’t mean software is making decisions about people’s wellbeing. Rather, it gives HR teams another insight. This allows managers to check in with employees. They are also able to redistribute work and offer support as and when it’s needed.

Many organizations are now investing in AI software. They do so to strengthen this proactive approach. Used responsibly, this software helps shift the focus from reacting to burnout to preventing it in the first place.

2. Strengthening Workplace Safety and Compliance

Creating a safe workplace involves far more than responding to incidents after they’ve happened.

AI does a lot. It monitors compliance records. It identifies gaps in mandatory training. It flags potential risks. It even reminds employees when certifications or safety checks need to be renewed. In industries where health and safety regulations are particularly strict, this extra layer of oversight reduces the chance of important tasks being overlooked.

It’ll also make reporting simpler. Employees are able to report hazards and incidents through intelligent systems. Such systems gather the right information from the outset.

The result of this is a process that’s easier to manage and – just as importantly – easier to act on.

3. Reducing Workplace Bias and Unfairness

Bias isn’t always obvious. Sometimes, it will appear in subtle patterns. They’re difficult to spot, especially during day-to-day decision-making.

HR teams are helped by AI to identify trends. This’ll happen in recruitment, promotions, pay reviews, and performance evaluations. These trends could otherwise go unnoticed. If certain groups are consistently progressing more slowly or receiving different outcomes, then those patterns become easier to investigate.

Remember, though, that AI isn’t immune to bias itself. Any system is only as reliable as the data it’s trained on – and, because of this, human oversight is still critical.

When used properly, AI will become another tool for encouraging fairer and more consistent decision-making rather than replacing it.

To conclude, protecting employees requires a good deal of judgement, empathy, and clear communication. That’s the bare minimum. And, obviously, none of these qualities can be automated.

But, if used properly, AI can allow HR professionals to act in the best interests of employees.

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Guest Author Bio
John Moran

John Moran is an American who enjoys the fine art of living well. His interests include anything wine, food or nature related especially when enjoyed with friends and family.

I am the youngest in my family. There were 4 children two boys and 2 girls. My sister shared her room with our cousin for several years. But that’s another story. So the 2 boys had a room and the 2 girls had a room and my parents had the biggest room. Our Great Aunt lived in a room over the garage. It was a sitting and bedroom all in one. I was sent to the back of the house in the smallest room. I was right near my parents so when I went to bed as a kid I would talk to my mom from my bed. Or I would make noises so she would come into my room. She never did, she would yell from her room. ‘Go to sleep!’

My room was a square, I had a desk and a bed. That was it. I think I had bunk beds at one point and then moved up to an actual bed. I remember my window would always be frosted over in winter and sometimes I could feel the arctic breeze come through the window. My window was right across a piece of land from my friends window and often we would yell to each other through our windows. My youngest brother John would always come wake me up for whatever adventure he would come up with. Or if it was snowing he would come to wake me up. Or if it was Halloween. John would let me join him and his friends running amok in the neighbourhood. But I would always be happy to come home to my own room. Plastered with posters.

My Dad brought me home a Hang In There poster one time of a cat hanging on a rail. He’d never done that before, given me a present. So I really loved that poster. As I got older I would paint my own art work to put on the walls or I would have pictures of my favourite actors on the wall. I also had a red plastic blow up chair. I have no idea where it came from but it was really cool back in the day. It was a great chair to read in. When my friends came over we would always hang out in my room so that chair became a pretty necessary thing. Seating was scarce in my 8 by 10 room!

I had a few nightmares in that room too. One was of dinosaurs roaming the streets and eating people. I just woke up with a panic in my chest and remembered my Dad was eaten by a dinosaur in the dream. It was pretty sad. And it’s still vivid today in my head. It started off with that far away pounding of a big dinosaur feet to the monster actually near our house. I remember part of the dream was when the dinosaur showed it’s ugly face in my window. It took me a while to go to bed after that nightmare.

One more thing I should mention apart from posters from my Dad. My biggest gift from him was that he shared his love of reading with me. On a hot summer day he brought me a book called the Caine Mutiny by Herman Wouk. Here he said try reading this. It’s an adventure with some interesting characters we can talk about when your finished reading it. And so a reader was born. Soon after that Dad would bring me all kinds of books from his era. Another one that sticks to mind is The Keys to the Kingdom by A. J. Cronin. I loved this book. And so we would exchange books and thoughts on those books. We both were also very fond of A Tree Grows In Brooklyn by Betty Smith.

Jurassic Park had not been written so I don’t know where I would get dinosaur themed nightmares but it appears any kind of disaster held my attention! Because my other nightmare that stuck with me was that there was a huge earthquake and we all died. Not a pleasant death either! That was pretty scary.

Thankfully nightmares did not persist in my nocturnal habits. As an adult I would dream more about actors, I dreamt George Clooney took me dancing and Brad Pitt did too. I dreamt of warm tropical island and flowing sheer drapes moving to and fro in the warm breeze. I digress. 

So back to bed rooms. As my older siblings started moving out of the house and when my great aunt died there was more square footage available. While I was away in Calgary trying to find myself…which I did not at all but I did have fun… again that is another story. I came home and my parents had moved me into their old room. They painted it and re decorated. Bought me a new bed. It was so awesome, the room was red and black. It felt like I was in my own apartment. I had plants hanging in those Macromay hangers, remember those? I had my big red plastic chair and I recall maybe a couch? It was so much roomier for having friends over to hang out! I loved this room, it was big and so comfortable. My window faced the road and there was a huge maple tree in the front that I would admire for many years. It’s gone now it lived through the best part of my years. I watched it turn from green to red and yellow and beige and from there to bare and back to green again. It was like a calendar that I would watch from my window in my room.

I found the love of my life when I was nineteen. He and I shared his bed many a night. A small twin that only my old self would be able to fit in. Young and slim and totally in love we cuddled and laughed, made love and smoked cigarettes in that tiny little bed. To us it was our world. We talked and talked and eventually we took the next step.

Marriage and again my bedroom was changed! We had a queen bed with antique posts. It was really so not us. But it filled the room. It seemed over the years our beds were either too high or too low. Our first queen was low to the ground. One year in our apartment. We then moved to a town house. It had 3 bedrooms and all the trimmings. My bedroom now was always shared. My room was not my own but I didn’t care I was happy to share it with my husband. We lived through many ups and downs in that town house and made it out in one piece and moved again to a house. It just so happened to be the house I moved out of so many years before. It was September and my maple tree welcomed myself and the rest of my family to our new home. Our children were six and thirteen. When I think about that move now it always reminds me of 9/11. Its kind of sad that that’s what I think of when looking back on that house.

Our bedroom was over the garage. It actually had a walk in bathroom and that was pretty sweet. It had a fireplace that we used in 98 during the ice storm. My parents went to the Hilton and we stayed at the house with my brother Paul who is handicapped. The ice storm was again another one of those events that will remain embedded in my memories. All four of us in a pull out bed in front of that fireplace trying to stay warm. We were all safe and that was the most important thing. My children remember it as fun! I mean it wasn’t horrific but it was kind of scary sometimes. Especially when those trees around your home would crack. You never knew if you would have windows in your home or a car by the end of the storm. 

Our children could walk to school and they could then retreat to their rooms. Ryan took my old room and Megan took the room that was my sisters at one point. I’m not sure I ever saw the floor in either bedroom. Talk about clothes everywhere. A far cry from what I felt like was an apartment back when I was a teenager. My children didn’t believe in hangers or drawers for that matter. But hey it was their bedrooms. If that’s how you live that’s how you live. I tried to ignore it as best as I could.

Our bedroom was full of light in the day and we had a television where we could watch our shows. It was a hide out, a place to go to if you needed to catch your breath. It was where we my husband and I would snuggle and cuddle in our huge queen sized bed. My friends used to make fun of us because every time they would phone us and ask what we were doing we were like “well, we’re in bed!”

After 17 year in our home it was time to sell. So many memories went with us. Parties and anniversary’s and birthdays and christenings and babies . This was my father’s legacy. Our children had moved on and so it was time to give up the house and move to something more manageable.

We found an apartment on the Lakeshore. A two bedroom overlooking the Lake. It was lovely and large. Our new bedroom was a good size. We bought a new bedroom set in black. Now our bed was too high. You kind of had to jump into it. We had our own bathroom. It was sweet.

After five years in the apartment my husband died of lung cancer and I was back to being alone in my room. Our room was now my room. After some discussion I moved out of that apartment into a house with my two children. We lived in Saint Anne’s. It was a very old home and had a lot of character even when we wore our parka’s while watching television. It had its good things and bad. One good thing was I had the luxury of getting my daughters bed frame which is just right!

I am at the last station now. A seniors residence after 2 years with my children. Having received a call because there was a one bedroom available I couldn’t risk not getting in down the line.
So now my bedroom overlooks a little forest and its just beautiful. Its not as big as some of my previous bedrooms but its just me so not that horrible either. Half the bed has never been used. My walls are filled with art work that my sister has done. They bring me so much joy and are so colourful. Photo’s and art work… oh and plants… can’t live without my plants. There are none in my bedroom now because the sun is so hot in the summer but come fall I will move some in there.

No, I don’t think we look at our bedrooms much. Or maybe you do? But these rooms where we rest and love and cry and laugh these rooms are the essence of the house. A private place that if you want entry please knock. Late nights I can either write or I can listen to music with my headphones on and fall asleep to the greats. The songs of my youth.

My bedroom has always been a place for me to think, to read or write. It’s a sanctuary for my soul to rejuvenate a harbour for when my heart is broken. I am always thankful for this… my bedroom, a place where the spirit can find peace. Where a story can be told about it’s job with good sentiment and many glorious moments in one’s life. A bed as cozy as cozy can be can take away all the hurt and pain and loss. It can fill you with joy with thankfulness and with tender memories that keep your love alive.

As the years fly by I am thankful to have shared my room with a man who loved me and cared for me and his children. And now that I am on my own again, I am thankful to have those memories to hold onto in the dark in my room. To give me comfort. To remind me that love never dies it becomes something from within rather than from without.

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Photo is by Martha Farley – All Rights Reserved

Driverless Cars: When There Is No Driver to Blame

One of the biggest and most exciting use cases of modern-day technology is driverless vehicles. While it’s still not quite considered the norm, there has certainly been enough innovation to suggest that’s where we’re heading. Take a trip to Los Angeles and you’ll see Waymo robotaxis transporting locals and tourists across the city. It’s a similar sight up and down the Las Vegas strip and many areas of China.

The advantages come in the form of convenience, safety and cost. But have we stopped to consider the issue of accountability?

Until now, the issue of accountability when it comes to automobiles has been pretty straightforward. If there’s an issue with the car, the manufacturer is held accountable. If there’s a road traffic accident, a driver or pedestrian will be held accountable. But what happens when there’s no driver?

If self-driving cars are to be the future, we’re probably about to enter a world where accountability becomes murky. Personal injury solicitors are likely to see their work shift from pursuing claims against individual drivers to pursuing claims against the companies responsible for developing and maintaining self-driving technology.

Blockchain: Trust Without Identity

While crypto gets plenty of attention, the technology behind this new form of currency is far lesser discussed. Nevertheless, blockchain technology has been adopted in a variety of industries. But in the case of crypto and digital assets, blockchain is used to remove central intermediaries such as banks.

This helps to cover the identity of individuals involved in transactions, a far cry from traditional processes where banks have all the details of their customers. Crypto enthusiasts will proudly lay claim to the fact that this is a good thing, but how do we hold people accountable in a world where everyone’s anonymous?

The answer is with great difficulty. And worryingly, we’re already seeing examples of crypto scams. The main takeaway here is that while blockchain can enhance verification, it simultaneously raises the issue of accountability.

AI: When Reality Can Be Manufactured

As we enter a whole new era, there’s no doubt what the buzzword on everyone’s lips is: AI. While there’s so many different areas of AI, generative AI refers to artificial intelligence that is capable of creating original content through machine learning.

As most of us have seen though, this makes it incredibly difficult to distinguish between genuine content and AI-generated content. ‘Deepfakes’, as they’ve come to be known, mean we now have to challenge everything we see. But in cases where content has been artificially manufactured to deceive individuals, who is to blame and how do we prove it?

As we enter an era where truth becomes debatable, it’s not just a question of who is accountable, but how do we establish accountability.

Final Thoughts

Technology is moving at an alarming rate, and as we enter the era where algorithms and machines are operating autonomously, it is becoming increasingly harder for legal and social worlds to keep up. In terms of law especially, we will need to rethink the way we establish accountability and how we create transparency in a world that is deliberately secretive.

In the future, the question shouldn’t be whether or not technology can work independently, it’s whether we, as a society, can reduce the accountability gap.

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Son Doong Cave

The Accidental Discovery

For millions of years, Son Doong lay hidden beneath the dense canopy of Phong Nha-Kẻ Bàng National Park. Its modern history began not with a team of scientists, but with a local logger named Hồ Khanh. In 1990, while searching the jungle for timber and food, Khanh stumbled upon a massive opening in a limestone cliff face. He felt a strong, cool wind blasting outward from the dark cavern and heard the distinct, deafening roar of an underground river. Intimidated by the sheer scale and the eerie sounds echoing from the abyss, he left.

When he returned to his village, he forgot the exact location of the entrance. It wasn’t until 2009, when British cave explorers Howard and Deb Limbert coaxed Khanh into leading an expedition to relocate the site, that the entrance was found once more. What the team discovered inside stunned the international scientific community.

Mind-Boggling Scale

To comprehend the size of Hang Son Doong, one must abandon typical mental models of cavernous spaces. The main passage stretches more than 5 miles (9 kilometers) in length. At its widest and tallest points, the cavern reaches depths of 650 feet (200 meters) and widths of 500 feet (150 meters).

To put this spatial volume into perspective, a modern 40-story skyscraper could stand vertically inside the cave’s largest chambers without its roof touching the ceiling. Alternatively, an entire block of New York City high-rises—or a fleet of Boeing 747 airplanes—could easily fit within these subterranean halls. The scale is so vast that explorers frequently experience vertigo, feeling as though they are walking beneath an indoor sky rather than solid rock.

The Garden of Edam: A Sunken Rainforest

The massive Second Doline in Hang Son Doong is so large that trees grow inside.

The most enchanting feature of Hang Son Doong is its internal forest, affectionately named the Garden of Edam by the original explorers. This jungle does not exist in total darkness; rather, it thrives due to a pair of catastrophic geological events that occurred hundreds of thousands of years ago.

The roof of the cave collapsed in two distinct locations, creating massive sinkholes known as dolines. These giant skylights allow shafts of brilliant sunlight to pierce the subterranean gloom, while acting as funnels for rainwater.

Over millennia, wind and birds carried seeds down into these sunlit pockets. Today, a rich ecosystem flourishes more than 300 feet below the surface. The jungle is home to lush ferns, dense mosses, bamboo thickets, and trees stretching up to 100 feet tall. This isolated sanctuary supports an array of wildlife, including monkeys, flying foxes, hornbills, and specialized, eyeless cave insects found nowhere else on the planet.

Subterranean Weather and Formations

Because the cave features an active river and drastic temperature differentials between the hot jungle air outside and the cool, damp interior, it possesses its own dynamic microclimate. As moist air enters through the dolines and meets the cool air of the cavern, it condenses. This process forms thick, ethereal sheets of fog and internal clouds that float through the upper reaches of the chambers, mimicking an outdoor atmosphere.

The geological formations within Son Doong are equally legendary. It features the world’s tallest known stalagmites, some towering over 260 feet (80 meters) high, such as the towering column named the “Hand of Dog.” The cave also contains vast fields of “cave pearls”—rare, spherical calcite formations created over centuries as water droplets repeatedly hit small grains of sand, coating them in concentric layers of calcium carbonate within shallow, agitated pools.

Large stalagmites in the Hang Son Doong, Vietnam. This passage is said to have the greatest cross sectional area of any cave in the world.

Preservation and Modern Access

Today, Hang Son Doong is tightly protected to preserve its fragile, isolated ecosystem. Access is strictly limited to a single eco-tour operator, and only a few hundred permits are issued globally each year. The demanding trek requires multi-day expeditions involving technical roping, river crossings, and intense jungle hiking.

This controlled access ensures that the ancient, mist-shrouded forests and pristine limestone architectures of Earth’s greatest cavern remain untouched for generations to come, standing as a testament to the magnificent secrets still hidden right beneath our feet.

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