HOW TO FIND YOUR PERSONAL COLOR PALETTE

2026-09-02T08:04:30.173-07:00

In this post,i'll show you how to start finding your own personal colors.We will learn what category you fall under, Warm,Cool or Neutral.

Start with your natural coloring:

Consider:

Your natural hair color
your skin's undertone
your eye color
Whether your coloring is light,medium,or deep
Whether you look better in softer or brighter colors
Whether warm,cool,or neutral colors seem to flatter you most

TIP: Look at yourself in natural daylight whenever possible.Indoor lighting can change the way colors appear.

Look at Your Hair

Your natural hair can give you a clue.

This is especially interesting if you've embraced gray or silver hair.

As our hair changes over time,the colors that flatter us can sometimes change too. A color,that looked wonderful with darker or warmer hair may not have the same effect once your hair becomes silver or gray.

Silver hair can look absolutely beautiful with the right color's-and it can actually make certain shades look eve more striking.

Pay Attention to Your Eyes

Your eyes are another wonderful clue.

Look closely at your eye color in natural light.

Do you see:

Blue?
Gray?
Green?
Brown?
Hazel?
Golden or amber flecks?

For example my eyes are blue-gray wi th golden flecks

Sometimes our eyes contain several colors rather than just one.

And here's something fun:the colors you wear can make different tones in your appear more noticeable.

My gold flecks pop when i wear sage green,and when i wear soft white, the light gray tones stand out more!

Try the "Near Your Face" Test

This is one of my favorite ways to experiment with color.

You dont have to buy anything.

Simply hold different colors near your face in natural daylight.

TRY:

Soft white
Cream
Sage green
Dusty rose
Berry
Blue
Lavender
Olive
Coral
Mustard

Watch what happenes to your face.

ASK YOURSELF:

Does my skin look bright?

Do my eyes stand out?

Does my complexion look even?

Do i look rested?

OR does the color seem to take over?

The goal isn't necessarily to find a color you love.

The goal is to find the colors that make you look your best.

"I look my best in COOL colors, vs WARM.

Soft colors flatter me most.

SOFT VS BRIGHT COLORS

This is another important clue.

Some people look amazing in clear, vivid colors.

Others look much better in colors that are soft,muted,dusty,or slightly blended.

i look MY best in soft muted colors.

WARM VS COOL COLORS

Now experiment with temperature.

Warm colors tend to have yellow,golden,peach,or earthy qualities.

THINK

Camel
Warm beige
Peach
Coral
Terracotta
Olive
Warm brown

Cool colors tend to have blue,pink,or icy qualities.

THINK:

Blue
Lavender
Rose
Berry
Cool pink
Blue-gray
Plum

Some people fall clearly into warm or cool coloring,

While others can wear a mixture of both.

DON'T FORGET NEUTRALS

Neautrals are just as important as colorful shades.

Try different versions of :

White
Cream
Gray
Navy
Brown
Taupe
Black

You may discover that soft white looks much better on you than

stark white,or that charcoal is more flattering than black.

Those little differences can tell you a lot about your personal color palette.Once you begin paying attention ,you may start seeing a pattern. You should be able to see if cool shades or warm shades flatter you most.You may even find that some colors you never thought you could wear suddenly become some of your favorites.

But there's also another piece to this puzzle.....Your personal coloring is also connected to one of the FOUR SEASONAL color families:

So now its time to take the next step.

In my next post:

FINDING YOUR COLOR SEASON

We'll explore the four seasons,what makes each one different,and how to begin figuring out which season,and possibly which sub- season- fits YOUR unique coloring.

Your perfect palette may be closer than you think.

"Because beauty i'snt about changing who you are.

It's about discovering what brings out the best in you. "

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2026-08-20T07:34:36.149-07:00

HOW TO DRESS YOUR BODY SHAPE WITH CONFIDENCE

Have you ever put on an outfit that looked amazing on someone else,only to wonder why it didn't feel or look quite right on you?

It may not be the clothing itself.It may simply be that the outfit was designed around a different set of proportions.

Understanding your body shape can be a helpful styling tool.It isn't about changing your body,making yourself smaller,or following strict fashion rules. It's about learning which cuts,proportions,and silhouettes naturally complement the body you already have.

I learned my body shape is the PEAR,and it has really helped me find my best clothing and personal style.I feel more confident and beautiful with my body.

And remember: your body doesn't have to fit perfectly into one category. Most women are a combination of characteristics,and your body shape can change somewhat with age,weight changes,muscle development,and even the way you stand.

Think of these guidelines as suggestions- not rules.

The five main Body Shapes

Lets take a quick look at each one

HOURGLASS⌛
PEAR🍐
APPLE🍎
RECTANGLE ▮
INVERTED TRIANGLE ▽

Let's look at each one and explore some easy ways to dress it.

1. THE HOURGLASS SHAPE

Generally has:

shoulders and hips similar in width

A noticeably defined waist

Fuller bust and /or hips

Curves that are fairly balanced from top to bottom

The hourglass shape often looks wonderful in clothing that follows the body's natural curves without overwhelming them.

Clothing that can work beautifully TRY:

Wrap tops and wrap dresses
V-necklines
Fitted or semi-fitted tops
High- or mid-rise trousers
Straight-leg or boot cut jeans
Waist - defined dresses
Belts worn at your natural waist
Tailored jackets that follow your shape

A STYLING TIP

A softly Tailored silhouette can be just as flattering as clothing that hugs your curves.

2. THE PEAR SHAPE

Generally has :

Hips that are wider than the shoulders

A smaller or more defined waist

A Narrower upper body

More visual fullness through the hips and thighs

Clothing that can work beautifully TRY:

Boat neck and square neck tops, v-necklines
Statement earrings or necklaces
Lighter or brighter colors on top
patterned or textured tops
Structured jackets
A-line skirts
Straight let trousers
Boot cut or gently flared jeans
High rise jeans and trousers
Dresses that skim the hips

A STYLING TIP

A beautiful way to dress the pear shape is to create a little more visual interest on top.

3. THE APPLE SHAPE

Generally has:

More fullness through the middle

A less defined waist

Slimmer legs or arms in comparison with the torso

Shoulders and hips that may be relatively similar in width

Clothing that can work beautifully TRY:

V-neck and scoop -neck tops
Open jackets and cardigans
Long vertical layers
Straight-leg trousers
Boot cut jeans
Dresses that skim rather than cling
Empire or raised waistlines
Structured but softly draped fabrics
Tops that create a long vertical line

A STYLING TIP

Don't automatically choose oversized clothing.

very loose clothing can sometimes make the entire body appear larger because it removes definition.

Instead look for clothing that skims the body without clinging to it.

4. THE RECTANGLE SHAPE

Generally has:

Shoulders,waist,and hips that are relatively similar in width

A straighter torso

Less difference between the waist and hips

Clothing that can work beautifully TRY:

Belted dresses
wrap styles
peplum tops
Cropped jackets
High-rise bottoms
Wide - trousers
A-line skirts
Layering
Color blocking
clothing with interesting and textured details

A STYLING TIP

this shape can be incredibly versatile, if you'd like to create the appearance of more curves ,use clothing that creates definition at the waist and adds volume or interest above and below it.If you love a straighter sillouette ,embrace it. You don"t have to create curves that aren't yours, these aren't rules!

5. THE INVERTED TRIANGLE SHAPE

Generally has:

Shoulders that are wider than the hips

a relatively Narrower lower body

A more prominent upper body

Slimmer hips and legs in comparison

Clothing that can work beautifully TRY:

V-necklines
scoop necklines
Softer shoulders details
Straight-leg trousers
Wide-leg trousers
A-line skirts
Fuller skirts
Boot cut jeans
Patterns,textures, or lighter colors on the bottom work best

A STYLING TIP

If you'd like to visually balance your proportions,keep the upper half relatively simple and allow your lower half to have a little more visual interest.

But again,these aren't rules.If you love a statement shoulder,wear it!

EVERY BODY SHAPE COMES IN DIFFERENT SIZES TOO

WHAT ABOUT PETITE WOMEN?

Being petite doesn't mean you need to avoid certain styles.

The most important consideration is often scale and proportion.

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HOW TO FIND YOUR PERSONAL COLOR PALETTE