INTULEXIA Parental Advisory

INTULEXIA Values Visions Circles | TRUTH TRUST CONSENT

2016-07-24T22:36:00.001-07:00

INTULEXIA Values Visions Circles
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TRUTH TRUST CONSENT

We COULD NOT stop dissociating when we wanted to. | The Ten Stages

2016-07-24T04:56:00.001-07:00

We COULD NOT stop dissociating when we wanted to.
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The Ten Stages

Admitting that the traumas buried in our childhood unconscious rule our lives | Dissociation: Maggot in the Brain

2016-07-24T04:52:00.001-07:00

Admitting that the traumas buried in our childhood unconscious rule our lives | Dissociation: Maggot in the Brain

Many people today are afraid to communicate with their hearts

2016-07-17T03:14:00.001-07:00

INTULEXIA

"Courage is warm. It comes from the heart. So many people today are afraid to communicate with their hearts. They become distant, hard, and cold. That is not the way the mother treats the child. That hard distance is the opposite of courage. It comes from fear.

"Courage can also mean to be responsible. To play your part. Irresponsible people are not courageous. They don't want to bear the consequences of their actions. We have a responsibility to ourselves and to each other. To be courageous is to take full responsibility for whatever happens. The Buddha was courageous because he took responsibility for the suffering of mankind.

"There is a kind of courage that in Chese is called yong. It has the connotation of going forward, advancing, of diligence and effort. It also means eternity. Yong-meng is used to refer to an animal like a lion or tiger that has a fierce and determined energy.

"At the end of the day, courage is something that is selfless. Personal gain and loss are put aside. When you're devoted, dedicated, and committed, you don't think. You just do.
"Relentless effort is a form of courage. To be unafraid of failure is courageous. It takes courage to venture into the unknown. To be adventurous takes courage. Letting go is a form of courage. Once we let go, we don't know what to hold on to. Relaxing into uncertainty, an uncertain future – that is courage."

The realisation of our "Child within-nature"

2016-07-17T03:05:00.002-07:00

Zen enlightenment can also be described as an experience of "dying to our old self" and being reborn into an entirely new life.

The realisation of one's "Child within-nature" involves dying to the old "self" — dying to all our ego-centred attachments, and being reborn to a newness of life "in our child within."

To start our recovery journey ,we must accept that we generally see the world as a bundle of personal reactions and that is the cause of so much of our unnecessary unhappiness

2016-07-16T23:55:00.001-07:00

To start our recovery journey ,we must accept that we generally see the world as a bundle of personal reactions and that is the cause of so much of our unnecessary unhappiness. We must develop a feeling of "I" that is different from the one we have now. We all have the experience of constant chatter in our heads. We are always thinking something, responding to something, imagining something. We say "I" to each activity in our mind: "I hate this . . . I am this . . . I want this." But this flood of constant response and talk in our brain is nothing more than life acting on our personality and our personality responding to it. We can form in ourselves, in our own child within, a little bit of awareness that can stand back from that torrent of thought and activity and simply see -- without response to it, without judgement or justification

INTULEXIA: Part of our stages work is to develop an awareness of the feeling of "I" in the moment.

2016-07-16T23:44:00.004-07:00

INTULEXIA: We are not one person. There is no "I am," but many "I's" coming from numerous places within us. There is the "I" who is in command when it is hungry. There is the "I" who is in a bad mood, there is the "I" that loves to read poetry, and on and on. . . . In (our accustomed state), we just assume that we always act as the same person. Inner knowledge tells us that we are made up of many disconnected, fragmentary facets without unity. When such information is verified, then a presence besides those many "I's" is also present. You can no longer fall entirely for the illusion of unity. . . ."
"It is no small thing to begin to see who we are. It will impact our whole life. We are not one, but many. The aim is to become one, the true one behind the many "I's". The mysterious metaphor "man is legion" refers to the multi-faceted being that we are in our separation from the unifying Source. Part of our stages work is to develop an awareness of the feeling of "I" in the moment. Such an effort will allow us not to be that fragmentary self claiming to be our whole identity. Any change in the sense of "I" will also transform the world around us

They freeze our memory with ice to keep us from remembering

2016-07-15T07:22:00.003-07:00

We the passionate recovered are the raw force of our own lives, and it threatens the still-traumatised and shaming groups – the norm – who are by nature spiritually dead or dying. Out of fear of being awakened such people unconsciously traumatise us in order to mute our honesty. They humiliate us to force us to lock our truth in back alleys of the psyche, and they freeze our memory with ice to keep us from remembering......But remember we do.

The old map we start to uncover in the stages is supposed to tell us what is normal

2016-02-07T09:53:00.000-08:00

The old map we start to uncover in the stages is supposed to tell us what is normal, but that map was not made for you. It was made to keep the engine of our cultural machine running. It requires your numbness. Refuse, and understand why we have to study the stages. We admit that the traumas buried in our unconscious rule our lives, makes us powerless to embody the truth, and drives us to act out in ways destructive to ourselves, to others, and to the environment.

come to believe that the truth at our core is more powerful than the lies imposed upon us, and that this truth can lead us to our enlightenment.

make a decision to align with truth, despite the pressure to submit to the distortions of family, society, and the historical voices we carry within us.

make a searching and fearless assessment of our traumatic history: personal, familial and ancestral.

admit to ourselves and to a recovered person the full details of our traumas.

become entirely ready to grieve this past and to let go of our false constructed self.align with our true self and do the deep and transforming work of grieving.

study the ways we have hurt ourselves, others and the environment through replication of our traumas, and we become willing to make amends to them all.change our inappropriate behaviour to ourselves and others. continue to monitor our attitudes and behaviour, and when we make a mistake or escape we promptly admit it, trace its traumatic origin, and take steps to not repeat it.seek through self-reflection an ever deepening connection to truth, desiring only to be guided to our life’s calling our child hidden within.

Having awakened to our child with-ins calling, we dedicate our lives to its full manifestation and to nurturing the healing paths of others.

When the time is right, we come out and live true recovery no matter the consequences.

2015-05-13T11:46:00.000-07:00

When the time is right, we come out and live true recovery no matter the consequences. We emerge into the open with our new creation—a new idea, new art, an honest website, a daring scientific hypothesis. But most importantly, we emerge as a new variation of humanity, aligned with truth. This is how we define our recovery. With ecological and economic collapse looming, the time for morphing into this new way of being human is quickly becoming a necessity.

Refuse, and we start to understand why we have to study the stages.

2015-04-21T02:08:00.001-07:00

DREAM WARRIOR RECOVERY: Are You Sleepwalking?

2015-04-16T22:16:00.001-07:00

DREAM WARRIOR RECOVERY: Are You Sleepwalking?: Book authored by the priest. (Photo credit: Wikipedia ) Are You Sleepwalking? by Anthony de Mello. The scriptures are always h...

Galatic Tours Meditation: The longer we go without healing our traumas, the ...

2015-04-16T22:09:00.001-07:00

Galatic Tours Meditation: The longer we go without healing our traumas, the ...: When we make decisions to try to take perfect care of ourselves, we become lost,frozen because at this stage our inner co...

DREAM WARRIOR RECOVERY: To bring about a totally new mind

2015-04-16T21:55:00.001-07:00

DREAM WARRIOR RECOVERY: To bring about a totally new mind: It is definitely possible to bring about a totally new mind. But there are certain indications, certain necessary characteristics which...

DREAM WARRIOR RECOVERY: "This is the end, and, for me, the beginning of li...

2015-04-16T21:54:00.001-07:00

DREAM WARRIOR RECOVERY: "This is the end, and, for me, the beginning of li...: "This is the end, and, for me, the beginning of life." Dietrich Bonhoeffer. I am convinced that he can still be of help ...

We have developed dishonesty in an attempt to gain control and power our selfish power.

2015-04-15T22:29:00.000-07:00

Honesty is the channel of truth between recovery and the mind in the ten stages.We who have had to nurture it are imbued with a great deal of power: the power to see, the power to know, the power to differentiate, the power to reflect, the power to choose, the power to speak the truth, and ultimately the power to grow.

We have developed dishonesty in an attempt to gain control and power our selfish power. We live as victims, strapped into the childhood ruts our parents lovingly beat us into. We become children of the lie not only to our closest intimates but to ourselves. Our inner truth is dangerous because it connects with all our years of buried pain and rage and sadness and hurt. If it are to explode it will crush our fragile external lives forcing us to realise just how unloved we are by ourselves and our present intimates and how unloved they were in their childhoods by those entrusted to guide their existences.

But at the same time this realisation, our realisation will free our real purpose for being. Suddenly our lives will generate hope – and a path towards our peace. This peace will disturb us, as it has disturbed some, but at least they would come into and know reality knowing for once

We the passionate recovered are the raw force of our own lives, and it threatens the still-traumatised parents and shaming groups

2015-04-15T08:45:00.001-07:00

We the passionate recovered are the raw force of our own lives, and it threatens the still-traumatised parents and shaming groups – the norm – who are by nature spiritually dead or dying. Out of fear of being awakened such parents unconsciously traumatise us in order to mute our honesty. They humiliate us to force us to lock our truth in back alleys of the psyche, and they freeze our memory with ice to keep us from remembering......But remember we do.

Ten Stages of Mourning of Our Childhood @ The Ten Stages

2015-04-15T08:38:00.001-07:00

1. SHOCK: We have Anaesthetised ourselves against overwhelming loss. We have Not been able to comprehend, to face the full magnitude of emotional alienation as the child within.We become elated and despondent our belief systems start to crumble and we become thirsty for the studies. There is only so much physical or psychic pain which can be endured by the child within, and when that limit is reached, our mental/emotional system shuts down. We have been often in a state of repressed denial for a very long time. We have expressed this as “numbness,” or as a sense of unreality, a sense of disassociation.

2 EMOTIONAL RELEASE: We start to return to a full on realistic world. At this time we begin to quantify the extent of our loss and realise how dreadful the loss has been. We tend to healthily vent this releases of pent-up emotions is better than our battle to constantly repress them, but we start to feel and express strong emotions. As the shock wears off, we feel the need to release all the emotions that have been building up. Our release may be verbal or physical, and while this is healthy, care should be taken to ensure our safety, others, or personal property. We have to recognised this stage and need to provided “screaming places” where these powerful emotions can be safely vented.

3. DEPRESSION, LONELINESS AND UTTER ISOLATION: Our pent-up feelings break threw the carefully constructed dam of denial.Releasing the feeling of “Their is No help for me.” We descend down in the depths of despair. We identify and realise this is a NORMAL feeling. At this stage we needed to be quietly aided by EXPRESSED CONCERN in our recovery and its goals. A response to loss is for childhood is to experience vivid dreams, so vivid that we believe we have actually seen or heard our specific abuse or a moment from the past as it expresses itself in our sub-conscious. Another manifestation is that the we will mistake another person for the person from our past, usually on the street or in a store. This will sometimes cause us great embarrassment as we may address the stranger, only to realise our mistake.

4.WE CAN DEVELOP PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS OF DISTRESS: “Ill” with symptoms related to the loss, weight loss, alienation. Our best help is to understand the Stages process and press onwards even though we wish to once more escape.

5. PANIC: We can become convinced “something is wrong with us” as a survivor. we suffer survivor remorse, we can concentrate on little else. We may fear a further loss of our sanity.In effect we are regaining our sanity

6. GUILT FEELINGS: May recall our own past neglect, mistreatment, or wrong to the abuser. Wrongs may be imaginary or exaggerated. But they may be REAL wrongs with REAL guilt. Sharing and unburdening of real guilt gives best relief. “Forgiveness” of real wrongs, done to us as if they were imaginary, is no adequate solution.

7. HOSTILITY: Feeling better leads us to expressing self more actively. Hostile expressions toward those who “caused” our losses. Such hostility is normal and blameless becoming part of the healing process.

8. WE HAVE AN INABILITY TO RENEW NORMAL ACTIVITIES: We feel we cannot get back to “business as usual.” We must bear loss alone, since others are back to normal activities. We Need encouragement to face new realities, not to be sheltered from them.We start to move away from old friends and associates as we recognise we have little in common with them.We pick up the support from The Stages Guides. The HEALING OF OUR MEMORIES: There is a slow realisation that the painful memories are part of the healing process and must be integrated into the life of the recovering. It is a time of reaching out, however tentatively, to embrace fully all that has happened and to accept that life must change if it is to continue. The memories become less frightening, and the sky a bit brighter as the recovering begins to face the world with more and more confidence.

9. WE GRADUAL OVERCOME OUR GRIEF FOR OUR CHILDHOOD: Our emotional balance returns little by little, like healing of a physical wound. The Rate and severity can varies with each of us.We start to acknowledge our similarity of hurt and loss.There is a slow realisation that the painful memories are part of the healing process and must be integrated into the life of the recovering. It is a time of reaching out, however tentatively, to embrace fully all that has happened and to accept that life must change if it is to continue. The memories become less frightening, and the sky a bit brighter as we begin to face the world with more and more confidence.Loss brings about changes. We begin to mature it is in the resumption of the adult life and going on through the years without a parent, that we must come to the realisation that a new role is to be accepted and lived, and our period of grief for ourselves is over. The Renewed cycle of our life continues, and our bereaved self can finally shed the cloak of grief and take on the robe of peace and renewal.

10. WE HAVE TO MAKE A READJUSTMENT TO THE NEW REALITIES OF OUR RECOVERED LIFE: We are Not our “old self again,” because there is now a new situation a new form of reality. We feel the freedom of our grief process . We feel Stronger, deeper, better for having faced and overcome some of our dysfunctional childhood.We realise that this is a life time changing event and we practice the ten stages studying our past history in the light of our new reality,

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2015-04-14T15:23:00.004-07:00

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I am enough because I have a good heart.

2014-06-08T16:24:00.001-07:00

I am enough because I have a good heart.

I am enough because I try to make thoughtful decisions.

I am enough because I’m doing good work.

I am enough because I try to make others laugh and smile.

I am enough because I am tolerant and patient.

I am enough because I value my relationships.

I speak to everyone in the same way

2014-06-08T15:41:00.000-07:00

“I speak to everyone in the same way, whether he is the garbage man or the president of the university.”
― Albert Einstein

Breaking Free of the Co-dependency Trap presents a groundbreaking developmental road map to guide readers away from their co-dependent behaviors and toward a life of wholeness and fulfillment.

2012-08-13T02:08:00.001-07:00

Cover of Breaking Free of the Co-Dependency Trap

Breaking Free of the Co-dependency Trap presents a groundbreaking developmental road map to guide readers away from their co-dependent behaviours and toward a life of wholeness and fulfilment.

Diabetes drug makes brain cells grow

2012-07-05T21:53:00.001-07:00

The widely used diabetes drug metformin comes with a rather unexpected and alluring side effect: it encourages the growth of new neurons in the brain. The study reported in the July 6th issue of Cell Stem Cell, a Cell Press publication, also finds that those neural effects of the drug also make mice smarter. See Also: Health & Medicine Brain Tumor Stem Cells Nervous System Mind & Brain Brain Injury Intelligence Neuroscience Strange Science Reference Neural development Stem cell treatments Diabetes mellitus type 2 Embryonic stem cell The discovery is an important step toward therapies that aim to repair the brain not by introducing new stem cells but rather by spurring those that are already present into action, says the study's lead author Freda Miller of the University of Toronto-affiliated Hospital for Sick Children. The fact that it's a drug that is so widely used and so safe makes the news all that much better. Earlier work by Miller's team highlighted a pathway known as aPKC-CBP for its essential role in telling neural stem cells where and when to differentiate into mature neurons. As it happened, others had found before them that the same pathway is important for the metabolic effects of the drug metformin, but in liver cells. "We put two and two together," Miller says. If metformin activates the CBP pathway in the liver, they thought, maybe it could also do that in neural stem cells of the brain to encourage brain repair. The new evidence lends support to that promising idea in both mouse brains and human cells. Mice taking metformin not only showed an increase in the birth of new neurons, but they were also better able to learn the location of a hidden platform in a standard maze test of spatial learning. While it remains to be seen whether the very popular diabetes drug might already be serving as a brain booster for those who are now taking it, there are already some early hints that it may have cognitive benefits for people with Alzheimer's disease. It had been thought those improvements were the result of better diabetes control, Miller says, but it now appears that metformin may improve Alzheimer's symptoms by enhancing brain repair. Miller says they now hope to test whether metformin might help repair the brains of those who have suffered brain injury due to trauma or radiation therapies for cancer.

EURO 2012 POSTERS BY DAVID WATSON

2012-06-27T17:44:00.001-07:00

Euro 2012 recently began and, for those of you who don’t know, it’s the European football championship. European football is what we Americans call soccer, and it has slowly gained steam over the years, although still not as popular as American football… Whether you’re into the championship or not (or even sports in general), you’ll probably love these simple, modern posters David Watson ofTrebleseven designed for it.

Each poster represents a particular country that’s playing, and the colors of their flag are incorporated into one of the various circular designs. I love the typographic twist these posters have and how they don’t have blatant sports references in them.

ASTON MARTIN ONE-77

2012-06-23T03:03:00.001-07:00

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Equivalent cars are available for 2 Million Sterling – 2.7 Million Dollars.

We are Offering the Car at 1.4 Million, but it should be considerably more.

Our Client wishes for the Sale to be Confidential, and approaching clients will need to provide documents

INTULEXIA Parental Advisory

INTULEXIA Values Visions Circles | TRUTH TRUST CONSENT

We COULD NOT stop dissociating when we wanted to. | The Ten Stages

Admitting that the traumas buried in our childhood unconscious rule our lives | Dissociation: Maggot in the Brain

Many people today are afraid to communicate with their hearts

The realisation of our "Child within-nature"

To start our recovery journey ,we must accept that we generally see the world as a bundle of personal reactions and that is the cause of so much of our unnecessary unhappiness

INTULEXIA: Part of our stages work is to develop an awareness of the feeling of "I" in the moment.

They freeze our memory with ice to keep us from remembering

The old map we start to uncover in the stages is supposed to tell us what is normal

When the time is right, we come out and live true recovery no matter the consequences.

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