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The reason i missed the many joy in my relationship.

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Mon, 3 Oct 2011 13:10:00 +0530

The reason i missed the many joy in my relationship.

It starts like a flash.
It was thrilling like a current.
Nothing could ever compare the happiness and joy of those days..
I didn't know anything to complain.
Everything were more than a fantasy..
I was happy enough to see her face.
I was still happy if she didn't say anything to me..
We see each other hardly once in a week..
Still then i was so excited seeing her.
I was more than satisfied when i can see her.
Not even sitting by her side. All those days are before she even know my feelings for her.

And then we move along with the girlfriend, boyfriend thing... Very exciting at the first month. still very satisfied.
But what has gone wrong. Is there something being used up or what could have gone wrong.
We talk a lot. We see each other more often before we get together.
I was happy and exciting about everything when i first know that she love me too.
So as day goes by and month passes by, i realized i am not satisfied anymore. and almost feel noting at all.

It was no better with her either. She has to move to other place very far from our town. Then she finally break up with me.. Ouch man... that night on, i began to realized how much i am in love with her, how much my life longs for her.Then i finally find out the reason why i was not happy all the time. the reason i complain.. I was happy when i expect noting from her. She did something i didn't expect that she would ever do for me..that make me happy..She was mine and still mine..I have somehow learned how to love her and i am happy with her ever more..because she love me..and i will never take her for granted..

Does size matters in your love.

noreply@blogger.com (Love Blog) — Thu, 21 Jul 2011 13:16:00 +0530

Does size matters in your love. Does color matters in your relationship or does the length or the prize counts in your relationship.

When I walk downtown Delhi, somewhere in the slum area in south Delhi, what I saw that day really gives me something new concept about love. There under the fly-over bridge was a couple dressed in rags with shabby faces. Around them were three small kids playing on the road sides of the busy traffics. That is not all what change my thought. The point is those couple, when you looked at them you can see the beauty of love.. that cannot be stained even by their bad condition of living or their dirty clothes and a weeks long of not bathing skins. The young lady rested her head on the lab of her thin and slim young lover.. to whom she is the princess and for him there is no other girl that could be more beautiful the she is.

In their face I can see content and love beautifully blooming. Then I questioned myself the controversy of small rings big rings, small size, big size... I personally think each ring is beautiful. If your man is rich enough to buy you a gigantic ring congrats good for you.., but you ladies with "small" rings they are beautiful too and congrats on having one =) I think it is all the thought that counts and I don't understand why there all of these dramas about big vs small when they all mean the same thing.

You may be fantasizing about having a huge diamond ring one day, but I wonder if you would be happier than the poor young women somewhere in the slum area without a single sing in her finger if you are not the only one he gave rings.

I would be happier than anyone else if it is out of love no matter the size may be. It is Love alone that counts..

KEEP TRYING !!!!

noreply@blogger.com (Love Blog) — Mon, 18 Jul 2011 12:25:00 +0530

by Rosy K Remsangpuii

It is madness to hate all roses because you got scratched with one thorn

To give up on your dreams because one didn't come true

To lose faith in prayers because one wasn't answered

To give up on your efforts because one of them failed

To condemn all your friends because one betrayed you

Not to believe in love because someone was unfaithful or didn't love you back

To throw away all your chances to be happy because you didn't succeed on the first attempt

I hope that as you go on your way, you don't give in to madness

Remembering always..................

Another chance may come up !!!!! - another friend, a new love, a renewed strength.......................

Be persistent, look for happiness in everyday........

The sure path to failure is- to give up !!!!!!!

It is often through failure that future success come.....................

- KEEP TRYING ... !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God bless you all.....

Ideal way starting a relation (don't rush nor let rush)

noreply@blogger.com (Love Blog) — Fri, 10 Jun 2011 16:43:00 +0530

Whether you have had bad relationships in the past, not work out relationship with your girlfriends/boyfriends, it can be helpful to know ways to begin more successful/healthier relationships. Though it is possible that relationships that start out of a so to say ideal way could also sometime not working out, the likelihood of this happening is less than in relationships that begin in a rush/unhealthy ways.

Well, the first step may be talking to her! Talking a major conversation initially might not be the a wise start, simply a brief exchange of words will do. Flirting are the usually used first communication. But you should be very careful in your language. Hello, nice sweater, you are looking great, going home Christmas?.. that sorta thing will be enough for the beginning. Then, keep talking to her. "Are you going home for Christmas?" "Will your family be visiting?" "Where do they live?". The point is let her know someway that you are interest about her. But telling directly that you are interest about her/ care about her might freak her out. Again, innocuous exchanges that continue the conversation and elicit a certain amount of info. I mean, if she says "I'm going to my boyfriend's house for the holidays," it's a pretty good bet she's taken.

Do you know anything about her? If so, that's a foundation. Does she stop for coffee on the way to work? A good place to meet up or even ask her if she'd like to go for coffee. That puts the ball in her court, of course, so you have to be prepared for rejection, so to speak, but it doesn't mean it's hopeless. She really might have a hair appointment.

Kansas State University recommends having realistic expectations when you begin a new relationship. This protects the health of your relationship because it prevents you from becoming disappointed if your significant other is not everything you had hoped he/she would be.

Communicate Well

Honest, loving communication is one of the cornerstones of a healthy relationship. You can communicate well with your partner by listening deeply to what she says without interrupting or providing judgment. It is also important to ask clarifying questions and to paraphrase what the other person has said to make sure you understand her properly. You should also share information about yourself at the beginning of a relationship. Kansas State University states that you should not, however, share too much information about yourself at the beginning of a relationship to avoid overwhelming the other person.

Isn't it amazing how awkward and tongue tied we can be simply because we are attracted to someone, someone we might sit down with and have a perfectly fine, easy conversation with otherwise. Therefore as far as possible try to omit stammering in-front of her because it is a sign of immature behaviors. Also try not to be funny if you are not, she could only thinks you a jerk.

Build Trust and Respect

The University of Texas at Austin Counseling and Mental Health Center recommends doing this by focusing on all the nice things your partner does and says. Taking the opportunity to thank your partner for the small things he does (rather than the mistakes he makes) at the beginning of the relationship can set a positive tone to it. Another good tip the University of Texas at Austin recommends is to establish a pattern of apologizing immediately when you do something wrong in a relationship.

Explore Common Interests

Find things you and your partner share, and do those things together to get to know each other better and enjoy the time you spend together more. Common interests are one of the best foundations of a healthy relationship, so it is also a good idea to make sure a person you are interested in has similar interests as you before you get into a relationship. It is also important to note that it is all right if you do have some dissimilar interests, as you can learn new things from each other as well, which helps make being part of a relationship more interesting.

Treat your new relationship as if it was your first. The old tricks you've used in your old relationships will eventually make you associate your mate with all the mistakes of the past. Keep an open heart, and an open mind.

Lastly but not the least, do not rush into a relationship neither let rush anyone into it, because it may be interesting for the time being, but it mostly don't work out in most of the cases. If you want him/her start it gentlty, slowly and carefully..

Love loves Love

noreply@blogger.com (Love Blog) — Tue, 10 May 2011 10:28:00 +0530

It Is Not Easy Anymore To Figure Out What Is Love? Whose Is Love? While It Is Neither The Best Thing To Test On Someone's Love. Your Doubt Can Even Let Loose The One Who Love You.

Competition For Higher Profile And Pursue Of Riches And Better Living Also Have Deep Influence In Many Of Our Love Career. And It Is Not Even Surprising Anymore To Notice Someone Denying Love To Someone With A Better And More Impressive Resume Who Can Lend His Credit Card And Buy Her Gold And Diamond.

Our Love Has Love Valuables And Glitters Than Love. But Wealth And Glitters Don't Always Make A Happy Couple. Riches And Gold Are Gone In A Moment And Vanish In Economic Recession Leaving Behind A Once Lovely Women Torn And Broken Hearted.

Well Then Do We Mean Poverty Is Love. Not At All! But Some Says When We Hungry Love Will Keep Us Alive. Yeah! Even Through Difficulties In Life If We Have Love, Our Relation Will Always Be Alive. Though I Can't Say His Love Or Her Love Is True. But I Can Tell Love Loves Love But Not Wealth Or Valuable..

Frienship

noreply@blogger.com (Love Blog) — Mon, 28 Mar 2011 10:15:00 +0530

Paul Khiangte

Written wit a pen,
Sealed with a kiss.
If you are ma friend,
Answer me this:

Are we friends, or are we not?
You told me once but I forgot.
So tell me now, and tell me true,
So I can say "I'm here for U."
Of all the friends I've ever met

Your the one I wont forget.
And if I die before you do,
I'll go to heaven and wait for you.
I'll give the angels back their wings
And risk the loss of everything.
Coz there isn't a thing I wouldn't do.
To have a friend like you!!!

Tips To Talk To Ladies Effortlessly..

noreply@blogger.com (Love Blog) — Sun, 13 Feb 2011 15:29:00 +0530

Wish to know how you can talk to women who you are interested in? Or what if you could discover how to approach women and how to attract ladies and what if you could use this skill to have your pick of high quality ladies rather than having to settle for whatever crumbs fell off of the table? If your answer is that you would like to be a man of numerous choices when it comes to ladies, you might want to check out what some of the dating experts are saying about how to speak to women...

First, Are You Making This Mistake?

If you?re feeling like you need some advice on how you can talk to ladies, it is probably because you?re making the typical mistake of getting into "approaching mode." What does this mean? It indicates that each and every time you see a lady you are attracted to, a total shift happens inside your mind and body. You start to really feel nervous, beneath pressure, you begin scrambling for issues to say, you start worrying about whether or not she's going to reject you...

Does this sound familiar to you? If so, you might be thinking that every other man on the planet feels this way....even those who are specialists in how to speak to women. But that's not the case. Males who know how to approach ladies do it as a completely natural process. They speak to ladies they're attracted to the exact same way they would speak to any regular individual who they meet. In other words, they don't experience all this extra fear and anxiety along with other emotional baggage which plagues the typical man.

Why is this and how do you get your self in a various mindset?

Go Against the Grain

Knowing how you can speak to ladies isn't common knowledge, and so most men go about it the incorrect way: They compliment her on her looks, they ask her name, they try to direct the conversation towards getting a date or getting a phone number. In other words, most men make the mistake of telegraphing interest right off the bat and putting himself one step below the woman.

Then, they proceed to attempt and treat the interaction like a company deal. They go right for the close, and completely deprive the interaction of any kind of mystery, playfulness or romance. In other words, they don't know how to speak to ladies because they're too busy thinking like men. Males are bottom-line thinkers who like to go right the jugular.

But women are more indirect and choose their interactions with men to be natural and to have some sense of mystery and ambiguity. Needless to say, men hate this and just wish that women would be more direct about what they want...and this is why most males are clueless about how you can speak to ladies and how to attract ladies.

In the event you want different results, you have to learn to do issues differently...

Master the Art of Indirect Communication

Did you know that the secret to understanding how you can talk to women is being able to send them mixed signals and to build curiosity, mystery and suspense? This means that you communicate as if you?re not that interested in them, yet you give them little subtle signs that tell them you're interested in them. For instance, light touches when you talk to them, playful small jabs that suggest you may be attracted to her...but which leave some mystery.

This is the art of indirect communication, and ladies discover it mysterious, challenging and appealing. These may be things which would frustrate a man, but which are essential to understanding how to talk to ladies.

Article Source: http://articles.goodfound.org

Effective Ways To Get Your Ex Back

noreply@blogger.com (Love Blog) — Sun, 30 Jan 2011 11:09:00 +0530

No matter how miserable your situation is, there is hope for you. If you're serious regarding reversing your breakup, listed below are 3 useful ways to get your ex back - regardless of whether everything would seem hopeless.

1 Way

When you are looking for ways to get your ex back, the very first thing you'll need to know is your ex has almost certainly left you because the relationship was more effort than it had been worth and because he/she did not see any value in you, at least not enough to make them want to stick it out. So what does that tell you?

Yes, you'll want to make yourself more valuable in the eyes of your ex. And by more valuable I do not mean start sending your ex luxurious gifts or stuff like that. What I mean is you would like to rework yourself into the type of person that your ex would love to be with; another one that they discover is extremely hard to stay away from.

As a result, you need to build your self-confidence, become more sympathetic and considerate of other peoples' feelings, and become more fully commited to relationships and people.

2 Way

Make sure that your ex is aware you would like to get back along with him/her. You might imagine that this appears like silly opinion and may be thinking to yourself, "Obviously I want my ex back. What is there to tell?"

However you'll be astonished to find out that very often people do not realize that their ex should still have feelings and wants them to come back. And not realizing this, they never even think the option of bringing together because for them the break up is really a done deal. Thus, be sure you actually come right out and say to your ex that you really want to get back together and do not simply assume they know it.

3 Way

Take an extended hard look at yourself in the mirror. Some may say that only a shallow person would fall for someone because of their looks. But let's be real, physical attraction is a large part of any relationship. It's human nature for individuals who have been in a relationship for time to begin with neglecting their looks, which may indirectly fuel a breakup. Therefore, before you approach your ex, make sure that you are looking your best. The physical difference can make an extremely positive impact to how you're feeling as well.

If you've just been through a break up, you may be feeling lost, confused and annoyed about your tries to get your ex back.

I want to share with you a very successful ways to get your ex back include your girlfriend, boyfriend, husband or wife... even if it seems hopeless!
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- By: Councellor Jack Carter, 2011-01-14

Sign of Cheating your hasband

noreply@blogger.com (Love Blog) — Tue, 25 Jan 2011 13:05:00 +0530

Did your husband come home last night? Did he phone you from somewhere and make up some excuse about why he couldn't make it?

One of my friends actually caught her husband in the act right in their own home! She was home early and getting undressed. While she was taking her right earring out, she dropped it and it rolled under the bed. She crawled under there to get it and while she was under the bed, her husband came in with another woman! She was devastated but clearly saw that her husband was being unfaithful.

Some husband hide the phone bills, credit card statements and other financial statements, when they come in the mail. Another sign is getting constant engaged tone when you ring him at work or on his way home from work. Please pay attention to every phone call he answers, is he whispering before saying its a wrong number? These are the signs of a cheating husband!

Maybe the dynamic between you and your husband has changed. Perhaps he used to leave you little love notes before going to work and call you in the middle of the day just to hear your voice. While this relationship won't stay this way forever, what happens if you try something like this now? Is he pleasantly surprised or does he get angry and defensive?

Does your straying husband show you a lot less attention than he used to? You can remember the days when he used to leave you little notes when he went to work and would phone you in the middle of the day for no reason just to talk to you and hear your voice. OK, you can't have that sort of relationship forever of course. But now, if you phone him at the office, instead of being pleasantly surprised, does he get all defensive and suspicious and you end up having a blazing row instead?

Most of these clues do mean that your husband is cheating on you. But unless you do constant research and find out the truth, you cannot come to conclusions. So be alert all the time, so you do not miss on any clue. Once they are gone, you will not get it back. So be sure to look out for the signs of a cheating husband!

By Guest Author

Does sex helps in relationship?

noreply@blogger.com (Love Blog) — Sat, 27 Nov 2010 10:58:00 +0530

Justin Velasquez said: For me, personally, sex has led me to more confusion, more emptiness, more heartbreak then I would like to admit. I could say I love the person, when the fact of the matter is that I just love how they make me feel at the time. True love involves really knowing the person and caring about them. It involves a deep friendship.

Eventually lust will involve feelings of resentment, disgust, anger, and other negative feelings for the person, whereas with love, if the relationship ever ends for some reason, there are less negative feelings.

I want to keep our relationship and want to avoid anything that can effect us now or after marriage. I heard some people saying sex before marriage let to distrust even after marriage and i don't want all those thing to happen.

Does sex helps in relationship?

Are you bold enough to tell me...

noreply@blogger.com (Love Blog) — Sat, 20 Nov 2010 12:45:00 +0530

Are you bold enough to tell that you love someone?

if you love me let me know,..

what if tomorrow never comes,

will she ever know that you love her..

What if you don't get another chance to tell what you feel about her..

if you love me let me know, if you don't set me free..

How cruel could you be to play over someone's heartfelt love...

be bold enough to tell that you don't love her anymore..

if you love me let me know, if you don't set me free..

Are you a lover??

noreply@blogger.com (Love Blog) — Fri, 19 Nov 2010 15:30:00 +0530

Player: usually like someone easily, get bored easily.. love has no much meaning,,, just a game..it is all about self interest..

Compromise: Can stick in the relationship unless they find someone better than you..They keep relationship as a waiting platform for a better one to turn up..They don't care much about what you do.. where you are.. But this could also turn out to be a true lover if you are clever and really want it.. but this is a bit risky..like a dormant volcano can erupt anytime..you don't know when will they change their mind..

Bonded: The most sympathetic relationship i can imagine. Sticking in to relationship not because they love it. The bonding force my be anything from worrying of disclosure of their past (sex activity or something), bonded financially or anything..

Sincere: Most lasting and fruitful lover are the sincere ones.. this can cope with almost all the above categories and most of the case work out successful..cause they don't start easily nor quit easily..They are sure about what they want and what they love for..

Heartfelt: Most romantic and most fantastic romance..pop out not from the mind..but from the heart..straight form the heart and straight to the heart..

Do you think love do hurts? Doesn't it hurt? They say love hurts..how does it feel being in love?? The more it hurts the more you will feel,..the harder it hurts the softer your bosom..I won't realize i'm in love if it doesn't hurts me..

Want to feel some sparks in your romance life???

noreply@blogger.com (Love Blog) — Mon, 15 Nov 2010 11:52:00 +0530

Many of these days relationship are not lasting and are not working out as they are probably suppose to be.

What Ms. Dr. Emma Illoyed says is that many of us are expecting some fantastic sparks in our romance, which is actually a novellic and not practical everytime. And she says, if you have some sparks it will cause a fire and the fire someday will only burn you down. She add that Real Love is all about perfect decission and commitment to it. A perfect love is loving perfectly but not about loving the perfect.

By Dr. Emma Illoyed (accidental husband)

Red Rose doesn't turn Yellow

noreply@blogger.com (Love Blog) — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 13:00:00 +0530

Lovers at one time used to love each other very much that it never ever seems to be breakable. But things can not always be the same. I begun to agree that love can sometime be fed up, but still i am not sure. As time passed by and love being used up, many of us tries to settle in a polite way.But that doesn't seems to be the right solution. How can you turn the red ross to yellow so easily. It would rather turn blue.