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		<title>Hermann Hesse on Discovering the Soul Beneath the Self and the Key to Finding Peace</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Maria Popova]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Feb 2024 20:08:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA["Self-hate is really the same thing as sheer egoism, and in the long run breeds the same cruel isolation and despair."]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>&#8220;Self-hate is really the same thing as sheer egoism, and in the long run breeds the same cruel isolation and despair.&#8221;</h3>
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<p><img width="320" height="480" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/hesse_steppenwolf.jpg?fit=320%2C480&amp;ssl=1" class="cover alignright size-medium" alt="Hermann Hesse on Discovering the Soul Beneath the Self and the Key to Finding Peace" decoding="async" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/hesse_steppenwolf.jpg?w=1000&amp;ssl=1 1000w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/hesse_steppenwolf.jpg?resize=320%2C480&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/hesse_steppenwolf.jpg?resize=600%2C900&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/hesse_steppenwolf.jpg?resize=240%2C360&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/hesse_steppenwolf.jpg?resize=768%2C1152&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px" /></p><p>&#8220;To be nobody-but-yourself &#8212; in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else &#8212; means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight,&#8221; E.E. Cummings <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2017/09/25/e-e-cummings-advice/">told students</a> from the hard-earned platform of his middle age, not long after Virginia Woolf <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/09/12/virginia-woolf-soul/">contemplated the courage to be yourself</a>.</p>
<p>It is true, of course, that <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2019/10/21/iris-murdoch-unselfing/">the self is a place of illusion</a> &#8212; but it is also the only place where our physical reality and social reality cohere to pull the universe into focus, into meaning. It is the crucible of our <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2017/05/25/christof-koch-consciousness-qualia/">qualia</a>. It is the tightrope between the mind and the world, woven of consciousness. </p>
<p>On the nature of the self, then, depends our experience of the world. </p>
<p>The challenge arises from the fact that, upon inspection, there is no single and static self but a multitude of selves constellating at any given moment into a transient totality, only to reconfigure again in the next situation, the next set of expectations, the next undulation of biochemistry. This troubles us, for without the sense of a solid self, it is impossible to maintain a self-image. There is but a single salve for this disorientation &#8212; to uncover, often at a staggering cost to the ego, the constant beneath this flickering constellation, a constant some may call <em>soul</em>. </p>
<p><a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/tag/hermann-hesse/">Hermann Hesse</a> (July 2, 1877&ndash;August 9, 1962) takes up the question of discovering the soul beneath the self in his 1927 novel <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Steppenwolf-Novel-Hermann-Hesse/dp/0312278675/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong><em>Steppenwolf</em></strong></a> (<a href="https://search.worldcat.org/title/698117126" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>public library</em></a>). </p>
<figure id="attachment_66531"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img decoding="async" fetchpriority="high" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/HermannHesse_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=680%2C960&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="960" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-81996" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/HermannHesse_TheMarginalian.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/HermannHesse_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=320%2C452&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/HermannHesse_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=600%2C847&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/HermannHesse_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=240%2C339&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/HermannHesse_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=768%2C1084&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/HermannHesse_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=1088%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1088w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Hermann Hesse</figcaption></figure>
<p>He writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>Even the most spiritual and highly cultivated of men<a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2014/10/17/ursula-k-le-guin-gender/">*</a> habitually sees the world and himself through the lenses of delusive formulas and artless simplifications &#8212; and most of all himself. For it appears to be an inborn and imperative need of all men to regard the self as a unit. However often and however grievously this illusion is shattered, it always mends again&#8230; And if ever the suspicion of their manifold being dawns upon men of unusual powers and of unusually delicate perceptions, so that, as all genius must, they break through the illusion of the unity of the personality and perceive that the self is made up of a bundle of selves, they have only to say so and at once the majority puts them under lock and key.</p></blockquote>
<p>Accepting the fact of the bundle is not easy, for it requires seeking the deeper unifying principle, the mysterious superstring binding the bundle. (After all, daily you confront the question of <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2014/10/07/rebecca-goldstein-personal-identity/">what makes you and your childhood self the same person</a> despite a lifetime of physiological and psychological change &#8212; a question habitually answered with precisely this illusion of personality.) </p>
<p>With compassion for this universal human vulnerability to delusion, Hesse observes:</p>
<blockquote><p>Every ego, so far from being a unity is in the highest degree a manifold world, a constellated heaven, a chaos of forms, of states and stages, of inheritances and potentialities. It appears to be a necessity as imperative as eating and breathing for everyone to be forced to regard this chaos as a unity and to speak of his ego as though it were a one-fold and clearly detached and fixed phenomenon. Even the best of us shares the delusion.</p></blockquote>
<figure  class="wp-caption alignnone"><a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2014/05/27/ulysses-mimmo-paladino/"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/ulysses_paladino1.jpg?w=600&#038;ssl=1" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Illustration by Mimmo Paladino for <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2014/05/27/ulysses-mimmo-paladino/">a rare edition of James Joyce&#8217;s <em>Ulysses</em></a></figcaption></figure>
<p>Considering this ego-self a kind of &#8220;optical illusion,&#8221; Hesse insists that, with enough courage to break the illusion and enough curiosity about these &#8220;separate beings&#8221; within, one can discern across them the &#8220;various facets and aspects of a higher unity&#8221; and begin to see this unity clearly. He writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>[These selves] form a unity and a supreme individuality; and it is in this higher unity alone, not in the several characters, that something of the true nature of the soul is revealed.</p></blockquote>
<p>A generation before Hesse, Whitman, after boldly declaring that he contains multitudes, recognized across them <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2016/06/24/walt-whitman-democratic-vistas-self/">&#8220;a consciousness, a thought that rises, independent, lifted out from all else, calm, like the stars, shining eternal.&#8221;</a> </p>
<p>We call this consciousness, this higher unity of personhood, <em>soul</em>. </p>
<figure id="attachment_64220"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://society6.com/product/as-i-see-my-soul-reflected-in-nature_framed-print?sku=s6-8967320p21a12v52a13v54?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/margaretcook_leavesofgrass7.jpg?resize=680%2C860&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="860" class="size-full wp-image-64220" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/margaretcook_leavesofgrass7.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/margaretcook_leavesofgrass7.jpg?resize=240%2C304&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/margaretcook_leavesofgrass7.jpg?resize=320%2C405&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/margaretcook_leavesofgrass7.jpg?resize=768%2C972&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/margaretcook_leavesofgrass7.jpg?resize=600%2C759&amp;ssl=1 600w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text"><em>I see my soul reflected in Nature</em> &#8212; one of Margaret C. Cook&#8217;s illustrations for <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2018/04/11/leaves-of-grass-margaret-cook/">a rare 1913 English edition</a> of Walt Whitman&#8217;s <em>Leaves of Grass</em>. (Available <a href="https://society6.com/product/as-i-see-my-soul-reflected-in-nature_framed-print?sku=s6-8967320p21a12v52a13v54?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener">as a print</a>.)</figcaption></figure>
<p>Knowing that <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2024/01/07/hermann-hesse-steppenwolf-artist/">even the soul is two-fold</a>, Hesse offers his prescription for resisting the easy path of illusion and annealing the soul from the self. Half a century before Bertrand Russell insisted that <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2018/07/03/how-to-grow-old-bertrand-russell/">the key to a fulfilling life</a> is to &#8220;make your interests gradually wider and more impersonal, until bit by bit the walls of the ego recede, and your life becomes increasingly merged in the universal life,&#8221; Hesse writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>Embark on the longer and wearier and harder road of life. You will have to multiply many times your two-fold being and complicate your complexities still further. Instead of narrowing your world and simplifying your soul, you will have to absorb more and more of the world and at last take all of it up in your painfully expanded soul, if you are ever to find peace.</p></blockquote>
<p>It is only by nurturing and expanding the soul that the self, fluid and fractal, can be held with tenderness. And without tenderness for the self, Hesse reminds us a century before the self-help industry commodified the concept, there can be no tenderness for the world and no peace within:</p>
<blockquote><p>Love of one’s neighbor is not possible without love of oneself&#8230; Self-hate is really the same thing as sheer egoism, and in the long run breeds the same cruel isolation and despair.</p></blockquote>
<p>Couple with Virginia Woolf on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/09/12/virginia-woolf-soul/">how to hear your soul</a>, then revisit Hesse on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2019/01/15/hermann-hesse-solitude-suffering-destiny/">the courage to be yourself</a>, <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2018/12/12/hermann-hesse-letter-to-a-young-german/">the wisdom of the inner voice</a>, and <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/07/06/hermann-hesse-wonder-butterflies/">how to be more alive</a>.</p>
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		<title>Endling: A Poem</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Maria Popova]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Feb 2024 16:56:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I turned the corner one afternoon to find my neighborhood grocer gone. No warning, just gone &#8212; padlocked and boarded off, closed for good, a long chain of habit suddenly severed. We know that entropy drags everything toward dissolution, that life is a vector pointed at loss, but how rarely we realize that the lasts are last, how staggering the turning of those corners. The friend you embrace in a casual parting not knowing it is the final farewell. The lover you kiss not knowing you will never touch again. Your mother answering the phone in a voice you&#8217;ve known&#8230;&#160;<a class="h3 read_on" href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2024/02/16/endling/">read&#160;article</a>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I turned the corner one afternoon to find my neighborhood grocer gone. No warning, just gone &#8212; padlocked and boarded off, closed for good, a long chain of habit suddenly severed. </p>
<p>We know that <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/04/07/the-more-loving-one-auden-universe-in-verse/">entropy drags everything toward dissolution</a>, that life is a vector pointed at loss, but how rarely we realize that the lasts are last, how staggering the turning of those corners. The friend you embrace in a casual parting not knowing it is the final farewell. The lover you kiss not knowing you will never touch again. Your mother answering the phone in a voice you&#8217;ve known forever, a voice you don&#8217;t know you will never again hear.</p>
<p>Even science has tenderness for these unbidden finalities in its term for the last known survivor of a species: <em>endling</em> &#8212; an end abrupt yet somehow endearing in its smallness, its particularity, in the way a tragedy so vast and collective can culminate on the minute scale of the individual, the scale on which our lives ultimately unfold. </p>
<p>And so, a poem:</p>
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<blockquote><p><strong>ENDLING</strong><br />
<em>by Maria Popova</em></p>
<p>Unspooling from a reel<br />
in the sound archive<br />
of the British Library<br />
is the syncopating chirp of<br />
the last <em>Moho braccatus</em> &#8212;<br />
a small Hawaiian bird<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;now extinct.</p>
<p>After centuries of humans<br />
silenced the species<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;with civilization,<br />
after a hurricane<br />
killed the last female<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;in 1982,<br />
he alone was left<br />
to sing the final song<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;of his kind &#8212;<br />
a mating call for<br />
a world void of mate.</p>
<p>In ten billion years,<br />
the Sun will burn out.<br />
In a hundred billion,<br />
the galaxies will drift apart<br />
and take away the light,<br />
leaving the night sky<br />
black as the inside<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;of a skull.<br />
In time,<br />
all the energy<br />
of the cosmos<br />
will dissipate<br />
until none is left<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;to succor life<br />
as the universe goes on expanding<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;into eternity.</p>
<p>Somewhere along the way,<br />
there will have been a creature<br />
to think the last thought<br />
and feel the last feeling<br />
and sing the last song<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;of life.</p>
<p>And it will have been beautiful,<br />
this brief movement of being<br />
in the silent symphony<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;of forever,<br />
and it will have been merciful<br />
that only hindsight<br />
ever knows<br />
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;each last.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>The Secret Life of Chocolate: Oliver Sacks on the Cultural and Natural History of Cacao</title>
		<link>https://www.themarginalian.org/2024/02/15/oaxaca-journal-sacks-chocolate/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Maria Popova]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Feb 2024 16:33:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Without chocolate, life would be a mistake &#8212; not a paraphrasing of Nietzsche he would have easily envisioned, for he was a toddler in Germany when a British chocolatier created the first modern version of what we now think of as chocolate: a paste of sugar, chocolate liquor, and cocoa butter, molded into a bar. As the making of bars entered the factories over the course of the next century, chocolate &#8212; further and further removed from the lush life of cacao, stripped of its cultural history and botanical wonder &#8212; became a microcosm of our progressive commodification of delight,&#8230;&#160;<a class="h3 read_on" href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2024/02/15/oaxaca-journal-sacks-chocolate/">read&#160;article</a>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Oaxaca-Journal-National-Geographic-Directions/dp/0792265211/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank"><img loading="lazy" width="320" height="494" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/sacks_oaxacajournal.jpg?fit=320%2C494&amp;ssl=1" class="cover with-border alignright size-medium" alt="The Secret Life of Chocolate: Oliver Sacks on the Cultural and Natural History of Cacao" decoding="async" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/sacks_oaxacajournal.jpg?w=778&amp;ssl=1 778w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/sacks_oaxacajournal.jpg?resize=320%2C494&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/sacks_oaxacajournal.jpg?resize=600%2C925&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/sacks_oaxacajournal.jpg?resize=240%2C370&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/sacks_oaxacajournal.jpg?resize=768%2C1185&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px" /></a></p><p>Without chocolate, life would be a mistake &#8212; not a <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2015/09/18/nietzsche-on-music/">paraphrasing of Nietzsche</a> he would have easily envisioned, for he was a toddler in Germany when a British chocolatier created the first modern version of what we now think of as chocolate: a paste of sugar, chocolate liquor, and cocoa butter, molded into a bar. As the making of bars entered the factories over the course of the next century, chocolate &#8212; further and further removed from the lush life of cacao, stripped of its cultural history and botanical wonder &#8212; became a microcosm of our progressive commodification of delight, our aggressive erasure of ancient cultures, our self-expatriation from the living reality of nature.</p>
<p>To retrace the roots of chocolate across space, time, and culture is to reclaim its status as a pinnacle of the creative conversation between nature and human nature, to recapture some of the lost wonder.</p>
<p>That is what <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/tag/oliver-sacks/">Oliver Sacks</a> does in some wonderful passages from his <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Oaxaca-Journal-National-Geographic-Directions/dp/0792265211/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong><em>Oaxaca Journal</em></strong></a> (<a href="https://search.worldcat.org/title/61477986" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>public library</em></a>) &#8212; the altogether marvelous record of a botanical expedition animated by his love of ferns and his largehearted humanistic belief in &#8220;how crucial it is to see other cultures, to see how special, how local they are, how un-universal one’s own is.&#8221;</p>
<figure id="attachment_73861"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://society6.com/product/cacao-from-flore-damerique-by-etienne-denisse-1840s_print?sku=s6-20991970p4a1v45?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/etiennedenisse_cacao_sm.jpg?resize=680%2C939&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="939" class="size-full wp-image-73861" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/etiennedenisse_cacao_sm.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/etiennedenisse_cacao_sm.jpg?resize=320%2C442&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/etiennedenisse_cacao_sm.jpg?resize=600%2C829&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/etiennedenisse_cacao_sm.jpg?resize=240%2C331&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/etiennedenisse_cacao_sm.jpg?resize=768%2C1060&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/etiennedenisse_cacao_sm.jpg?resize=1112%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1112w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Cacao by Étienne Denisse from his <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2021/07/08/etienne-denisse-american-flora/"><em>Flore d’Amérique</em></a>, 1846. (Available as <a href="https://society6.com/product/cacao-from-flore-damerique-by-etienne-denisse-1840s_print?sku=s6-20991970p4a1v45?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener">a print</a>, a <a href="https://society6.com/brainpicker/collection/vintage-science-cutting-boards?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener">cutting board</a>, and <a href="https://society6.com/brainpicker/collection/vintage-science-cards?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener">stationery cards</a>, benefitting The Nature Conservancy.)</figcaption></figure>
<p>Detailing the wonder of cacao at the crossing point of the sensual and the scientific, Sacks writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>Cacao trees have large glossy leaves, and their little flowers and great purplish pods grow directly from the stem. One can break open a pod to reveal the seeds, embedded in a white pulp. The seeds themselves, the cacao beans, are cream-colored when the pod is opened, but with exposure to air may turn lavender or purple. The pulp, though, has almost the consistency of ice cream, Robbin says, and a delicious, sweet taste&#8230; The sweet, mucilaginous pulp attracts wild animals&#8230; They eat the sweet pulp and discard the bitter seeds, which can then grow into new seedlings. Indeed, the tough pods do not open spontaneously, and would never be able to release their seeds, were it not for the animals attracted to their pulp. Early humans must have watched animals and then imitated them&#8230; opening the pods and enjoying the sweet pulp.</p></blockquote>
<p>Nested into the story of chocolate is a miniature of the scientific method itself, with its twin prongs of observation and empiricism:</p>
<blockquote><p>Over thousands of years, perhaps, early Mesoamericans had learned to value the beans as well, discovering that if they were scooped out of the pod with some pulp still attached, and left this way for a week or so, they would become less bitter as fermentation occurred. Then they could be dried and roasted to bring out the full chocolate flavor&#8230; </p>
<p>The roasted beans, now a rich brown, are shelled and moved to a grinder &#8212; and here the final miracle happens, for what comes out of the grinder is not a powder, but a warm liquid, for the friction liquefies the cocoa butter, producing a rich chocolate liquor.</p></blockquote>
<p>And yet this liquor is almost undrinkably bitter. What lodged cacao into Mesoamerican culture and what first made it appealing to Europeans was not its taste but its bioactive properties, channeled through culture before science uncovered the underlying chemistry &#8212; Montezuma is said to have consumed forty or fifty cups a day as an aphrodisiac, and we now know that the flavonoids, polyphenols, theobromine, and magnesium in cacao vitalize the body in various ways. </p>
<figure id="attachment_81980"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/Montezuma_AntonioRodriguez.jpg?resize=680%2C846&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="846" class="size-full wp-image-81980" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/Montezuma_AntonioRodriguez.jpg?w=823&amp;ssl=1 823w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/Montezuma_AntonioRodriguez.jpg?resize=320%2C398&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/Montezuma_AntonioRodriguez.jpg?resize=600%2C747&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/Montezuma_AntonioRodriguez.jpg?resize=240%2C299&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/Montezuma_AntonioRodriguez.jpg?resize=768%2C956&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Portrait of Montezuma by Antonio Rodríguez, 1600s.</figcaption></figure>
<p>Tracing the trajectory of the bitter chocolate liquor across time and cultures, Sacks writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>[The Mayan] <em>choco haa</em> (bitter water) was a thick, cold, bitter liquid, for sugar was unknown to them &#8212; fortified with spices, corn meal, and sometimes chili. The Aztec, who called it <em>cacahuatl</em>, considered it to be the most nourishing and fortifying of drinks, one reserved for nobles and kings. They saw it as a food of the gods, and believed that the cacao tree originally grew only in Paradise, but was stolen and brought to mankind by their god Quetzalcoatl, who descended from heaven on a beam of the morning star, carrying a cacao tree.</p></blockquote>
<p>The tree itself is an evolutionary miracle &#8212; <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2013/12/04/avocado-ghosts-of-evolution/">like the avocado</a>, it went almost extinct in the wild. But, for more than two millennia, humans cultivated it in present-day Mexico as a source of that divine drink. Sacks writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>Cacao pods served as symbols of fertility, often portrayed in sculptures and carvings, as well as a convenient currency (four cacao beans would buy a rabbit, ten a prostitute, one hundred a slave). Thus Columbus had brought cacao beans back to Ferdinand and Isabella as a curiosity, but had no idea of its special qualities as a drink.</p></blockquote>
<figure id="attachment_81984"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/aztec_chocolate.jpg?resize=680%2C522&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="522" class="size-full wp-image-81984" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/aztec_chocolate.jpg?w=800&amp;ssl=1 800w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/aztec_chocolate.jpg?resize=320%2C246&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/aztec_chocolate.jpg?resize=600%2C461&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/aztec_chocolate.jpg?resize=240%2C184&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/aztec_chocolate.jpg?resize=768%2C589&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">1671 engraving of Aztec chocolate-making by John Ogilby.</figcaption></figure>
<p>By the middle of the 17th century, chocolate houses populated Europe &#8212; the progenitor of the soon ubiquitous coffeehouses and teahouses; without cacao, we would not have neighborhood cafés. Goethe, who traveled widely, always carried his own chocolate pot &#8212; an emblem of the spell chocolate would soon cast upon humanity with its dual enchantment of chemistry and culture. </p>
<p>Cross-pollinating physiology, psychology, and philosophy the way only he could, Sacks leaves the story of cacao with a rosary of questions painted at the mystery that haloes all knowledge:</p>
<blockquote><p>why, I wonder, should chocolate be so intensely and so universally desired? Why did it spread so rapidly over Europe, once the secret was out? Why is chocolate sold now on every street corner, included in army rations, taken to Antarctica and outer space? Why are there chocoholics in every culture? Is it the unique, special texture, the “mouth-feel” of chocolate, which melts at body temperature? Is it because of the mild stimulants, caffeine and theobromine, it contains? The cola nut and the guarana have more. Is it the phenylethylamine, mildly analeptic, euphoriant, supposedly aphrodisiac, which chocolate contains? Cheese and salami contain more of this. Is it because chocolate, with its anandamide, stimulates the brain’s cannabinoid receptors? Or is it perhaps something quite other, something as yet unknown, which could provide vital clues to new aspects of brain chemistry, to say nothing of the esthetics of taste?</p></blockquote>
<p>Couple with <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/07/13/avocado/">the fascinating evolutionary and creative history of the avocado</a>, then revisit Ellen Meloy on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2021/06/02/ellen-meloy-anthropology-of-turquioise/">how chemistry and culture created color</a>.</p>
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		<title>Maira Kalman on How to Live with Remorse and Wrest from It Defiant Joy in Living</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[Each time we have tried to elevate ourselves above the other animals by claiming singular possession of some faculty, we have been humbled otherwise: Language, it turns out, is not ours alone, nor is the use of tools, nor is music. Elephants grieve, octopuses remember and predict, crows hold grudges. Perhaps one day this too will be snatched from us, but for now there seems to be one tumult of being pulsating in the human breast alone: the capacity to be sorry, to feel the soul-ache of remorse as the penitent past fangs the flesh of the present. How to&#8230;&#160;<a class="h3 read_on" href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2024/02/13/maira-kalman-still-life-with-remorse/">read&#160;article</a>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://mairakalman.com/shop/p/limited-edition-still-life-with-remorse" target="_blank"><img loading="lazy" width="320" height="320" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_bird_Maira1.jpg?fit=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1" class="cover with-border alignright size-medium" alt="Maira Kalman on How to Live with Remorse and Wrest from It Defiant Joy in Living" decoding="async" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_bird_Maira1.jpg?w=1004&amp;ssl=1 1004w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_bird_Maira1.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_bird_Maira1.jpg?resize=600%2C599&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_bird_Maira1.jpg?resize=240%2C240&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_bird_Maira1.jpg?resize=768%2C767&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px" /></a></p><p>Each time we have tried to elevate ourselves above the other animals by claiming singular possession of some faculty, we have been humbled otherwise: Language, it turns out, <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/01/22/cetacean-communication/">is not ours alone</a>, nor is the use of tools, nor is music. Elephants grieve, octopuses remember and predict, crows hold grudges. </p>
<p>Perhaps one day this too will be snatched from us, but for now there seems to be one tumult of being pulsating in the human breast alone: the capacity to be sorry, to feel the soul-ache of remorse as the penitent past fangs the flesh of the present. </p>
<p>How to live with remorse, how to make of it a catalyst for creation, is what the philosopher-artist <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/tag/maira-kalman/">Maira Kalman</a> explores in her small and splendid book <a href="https://mairakalman.com/shop/p/limited-edition-still-life-with-remorse" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong><em>Still Life with Remorse</em></strong></a> &#8212; a collection of miniature essays, poems, and painted vignettes reckoning with remorse through Maira&#8217;s own family story, punctuated by glimpses of the lives of some of her muses: Leo Tolstoy, Clara Schumann, Virginia Woolf, Franz Kafka, Henri Matisse.  </p>
<figure id="attachment_81963"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://mairakalman.com/shop/p/limited-edition-still-life-with-remorse" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira_Matisse.jpg?resize=680%2C846&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="846" class="size-full wp-image-81963" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira_Matisse.jpg?w=986&amp;ssl=1 986w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira_Matisse.jpg?resize=320%2C398&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira_Matisse.jpg?resize=600%2C747&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira_Matisse.jpg?resize=240%2C299&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira_Matisse.jpg?resize=768%2C956&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text"><em>Objects in Matisse&#8217;s Studio</em> by Maira Kalman</figcaption></figure>
<p>Defining remorse as &#8220;deep regret implying shame, implying guilt, implying sorrow,&#8221; Maira observes that &#8220;in still lifes and interiors there must be a certain amount of remorse lurking among the bowls of fruit, vases or flowers and objects scattered about the room.&#8221; </p>
<p>Rising from the pages is the intimation that memory is the still life of living, that while remorse may haunt the mental images of our recollections, we can find in it an occasion for beauty, for creative vitality, for defiant joy. </p>
<figure id="attachment_81967"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://mairakalman.com/shop/p/limited-edition-still-life-with-remorse" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira_Tolstoy.jpg?resize=680%2C833&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="833" class="size-full wp-image-81967" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira_Tolstoy.jpg?w=1019&amp;ssl=1 1019w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira_Tolstoy.jpg?resize=320%2C392&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira_Tolstoy.jpg?resize=600%2C735&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira_Tolstoy.jpg?resize=240%2C294&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira_Tolstoy.jpg?resize=768%2C941&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text"><em>Tolstoy Eating Breakfast</em> by Maira Kalman</figcaption></figure>
<p>Opening with an allusion to that immortal line from <em>Anna Karenina</em> &#8212; “All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.” &#8212; she considers the half-life of sorrow across generations:</p>
<blockquote><p>Happy families,<br />
Unhappy families.<br />
All the same, right?<br />
Ach. ach. ach.</p>
<p>To begin<br />
You are born.<br />
To a long line of ancestors<br />
who are long gone<br />
but still yell or whisper<br />
in your ear<br />
in the depths of night.<br />
A game of telephone played<br />
from one generation to the next.</p>
<p>Garbled and confused.<br />
Glimmers of light.<br />
Misunderstandings.<br />
Errors.</p>
<p>And now, here you are.<br />
With the ones you love.<br />
Or the ones you don&#8217;t.</p>
<p>The ones you cannot live without.<br />
The ones you would like to smite.</p>
<p>Those who have disappointed you<br />
or betrayed you. Those who have<br />
been kinder than you deserve. And<br />
the kind ones who inevitably die.<br />
And leave you feeling very much<br />
alone. They are what you have.</p>
<p>And if you think, at any given point,<br />
that you know what is going on,<br />
you are sorely mistaken. </p>
<p>And yet.</p></blockquote>
<p>With an eye to the complicated marriage of Sophia and Leo Tolstoy (so different from <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2016/02/15/anna-dostoyevsky-reminiscences-marriage/">that of Anna and Fyodor Dostoyevsky</a>) &#8212; the initial mutual infatuation, the thirteen children, the selflessness with which Sophia transcribed all of Leo&#8217;s writings, the mutual resentment of the end &#8212; she writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>When trying to understand why human beings do what they do, a fog descends.</p></blockquote>
<p>The verse to which Mahler wrote music becomes a quiet animating chorus for the book:</p>
<blockquote><p>Dark is life.<br />
Spring is here.<br />
The birds are singing.</p></blockquote>
<figure id="attachment_81965"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://mairakalman.com/shop/p/limited-edition-still-life-with-remorse" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira_Virginia.jpg?resize=680%2C677&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="677" class="size-full wp-image-81965" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira_Virginia.jpg?w=1010&amp;ssl=1 1010w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira_Virginia.jpg?resize=320%2C319&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira_Virginia.jpg?resize=600%2C598&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira_Virginia.jpg?resize=240%2C239&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira_Virginia.jpg?resize=768%2C765&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text"><em>Virginia Woolf&#8217;s Writing Table</em> by Maira Kalman</figcaption></figure>
<p>From the personal stories &#8212; her grandparents killed in the Holocaust, her father delivering milk as his cover while working for a Palestine liberation underground, Kafka&#8217;s <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2015/03/05/franz-kafka-letter-father/">troubled relationship with his own father</a>, Clara Schumann&#8217;s tenacity and her <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2017/02/21/clara-schumann-johannes-brahms-letters/">tender unclassifiable relationship with Brahms</a> &#8212; emerges a universal lens on suffering, remorse, and redemption, shining a sidewise gleam on what makes life worth living despite the almost unbearable brunt of being alive.</p>
<p><a href="https://mairakalman.com/shop/p/limited-edition-still-life-with-remorse" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/MairaKalman_remorse_blue.jpg?resize=680%2C680&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="680" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-81971" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/MairaKalman_remorse_blue.jpg?w=798&amp;ssl=1 798w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/MairaKalman_remorse_blue.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/MairaKalman_remorse_blue.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/MairaKalman_remorse_blue.jpg?resize=240%2C240&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/MairaKalman_remorse_blue.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<blockquote><p>Your family.<br />
My family.</p>
<p>Your remorse.<br />
My remorse.</p>
<p>All the same, right?</p>
<p>Vast skies full of remorse.<br />
Oceans of remorse.<br />
But enough.</p>
<p>There should be merriment.<br />
And good cheer.<br />
Good tidings. Well wishing.</p>
<p>Tables laden with food.<br />
Children playing.<br />
Gathering of kinfolk.</p>
<p>Like Clara would have wanted.<br />
Seeing the best.<br />
Forgiving the worst.</p>
<p>If there is remorse,<br />
let there be a limit to remorse.<br />
A way to shake off the heavy weight.</p>
<p>But how can we make this happen?<br />
How to do this?</p>
<p>Dark is life.<br />
Spring is here.<br />
The birds are singing.</p>
<p>In the strangeness of life, LIVE.</p></blockquote>
<figure id="attachment_81964"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://mairakalman.com/shop/p/limited-edition-still-life-with-remorse" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira2.jpg?resize=680%2C837&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="837" class="size-full wp-image-81964" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira2.jpg?w=1002&amp;ssl=1 1002w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira2.jpg?resize=320%2C394&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira2.jpg?resize=600%2C739&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira2.jpg?resize=240%2C296&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/remorse_Maira2.jpg?resize=768%2C946&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text"><em>Yellow Vase</em> by Maira Kalman</figcaption></figure>
<p>Couple with <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2012/09/28/antilamentation-dorianne-laux/">&#8220;Antilamentation&#8221;</a> &#8212; poet Dorianne Laux&#8217;s antidote to regret &#8212; then revisit Maira Kalman&#8217;s wonderful <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/10/26/women-holding-things-maira-kalman/"><em>Women Holding Things</em></a> and her <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2020/08/28/maira-kalman-the-autobiography-of-alice-b-toklas/">illustrated love letter to Alice B. Toklas and Gertrude Stein&#8217;s love</a>.</p>
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		<title>When Relationships Change: Anne Morrow Lindbergh on Embracing the Intermittency and Mutability of Love</title>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>&#8220;All living relationships are in process of change, of expansion, and must perpetually be building themselves new forms.&#8221;</h3>
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<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Gift-50th-Anniversary-Anne-Morrow-Lindbergh/dp/0679732411/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank"><img loading="lazy" width="320" height="501" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/giftfromthesea_lindbergh.jpg?fit=320%2C501&amp;ssl=1" class="cover alignright size-medium" alt="When Relationships Change: Anne Morrow Lindbergh on Embracing the Intermittency and Mutability of Love" decoding="async" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/giftfromthesea_lindbergh.jpg?w=959&amp;ssl=1 959w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/giftfromthesea_lindbergh.jpg?resize=320%2C501&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/giftfromthesea_lindbergh.jpg?resize=600%2C938&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/giftfromthesea_lindbergh.jpg?resize=240%2C375&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/giftfromthesea_lindbergh.jpg?resize=768%2C1201&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px" /></a></p><p>&#8220;God is Change,&#8221; Octavia Butler <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/06/22/octavia-butler-god/">wrote</a>, channeling in poetic truth <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2014/05/22/alan-lightman-accidental-universe-impermanence/">the fundamental scientific fact of the universe</a>. </p>
<p>We know this. And yet to be human is to long for constancy, to crave the touchingly impossible assurance that what we have and cherish will be ours to hold forever, just as it is now. We build homes &#8212; fragile haikus of concrete and glass to be unwritten by the first earthquake or flood. We make vows &#8212; fragile promises to be upheld by selves we haven&#8217;t met in a future we can&#8217;t predict. </p>
<p>The dearer we hold something, the more tightly we cling to the dream of constancy, the more zealously we torture ourselves with the belief that any change is loss. Naturally, it is in our intimate relationships that we most come to fear change and most suffer when it comes &#8212; a fear not at all groundless, given <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/09/06/general-theory-of-love-separation/">what relationship rupture does to our limbic system</a>. </p>
<p>The salve for this singularly discomposing suffering comes not from ossifying change but from changing our beliefs about it. Such salutary recalibration is what the aviator and writer <strong>Anne Morrow Lindbergh</strong> (June 22, 1906&ndash;February 7, 2001) offers in <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Gift-50th-Anniversary-Anne-Morrow-Lindbergh/dp/0679732411/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong><em>Gift from the Sea</em></strong></a> (<a href="https://search.worldcat.org/title/1031967395" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>public library</em></a>) &#8212; a book I found in a Little Free Library and felt immediately speaking to my soul, drawn from the diaries Lindbergh kept during two weeks of solitude on the ocean shore &#8220;searching for a new pattern of living&#8221; as she was entering the second half of her life, that vital &#8220;period of second flowering&#8221; when one is &#8220;free for growth of mind, heart and talent.&#8221;</p>
<figure id="attachment_81952"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/annemorrowlindbergh_TheMarginialian.jpg?resize=680%2C383&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="383" class="size-full wp-image-81952" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/annemorrowlindbergh_TheMarginialian.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/annemorrowlindbergh_TheMarginialian.jpg?resize=320%2C180&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/annemorrowlindbergh_TheMarginialian.jpg?resize=600%2C338&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/annemorrowlindbergh_TheMarginialian.jpg?resize=240%2C135&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/annemorrowlindbergh_TheMarginialian.jpg?resize=768%2C433&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Anne Morrow Lindbergh</figcaption></figure>
<p>Reflecting on the natural trajectory of intimate relationships, she writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>The pure relationship, how beautiful it is! How easily it is damaged, or weighed down with irrelevancies &#8212; not even irrelevancies, just life itself, the accumulations of life and of time. For the first part of every relationship is pure, whether it be with friend or lover, husband or child. It is pure, simple and unencumbered. It is like the artist’s vision before he has to discipline it into form, or like the flower of love before it has ripened to the firm but heavy fruit of responsibility. Every relationship seems simple at its start. The simplicity of first love, or friendliness, the mutuality of first sympathy seems, at its initial appearance &#8212; even if merely in exciting conversation across a dinner table &#8212; to be a self-enclosed world. Two people listening to each other, two shells meeting each other, making one world between them&#8230; It is free of ties or claims, unburdened by responsibilities, by worry about the future or debts to the past. And then how swiftly, how inevitably the perfect unity is invaded; the relationship changes; it becomes complicated, encumbered by its contact with the world.</p></blockquote>
<p>While this is true in most relationships, Lindbergh observes, the pattern is most pronounced &#8212; and most painful &#8212; in our most intimate bonds. And yet the pain we experience as a relationship exits this early stage of unselfconscious mutual elation is not evidence of loss &#8212; it is evidence of our misshapen ideals of closeness as a static pattern of attachment. She offers an alternative orientation to the inevitability of change:</p>
<blockquote><p>We mistakenly feel that failure to maintain its exact original pattern is tragedy. It is true, of course, the original relationship is very beautiful. Its self-enclosed perfection wears the freshness of a spring morning. Forgetting about the summer to come, one often feels one would like to prolong the spring of early love, when two people stand as individuals, without past or future, facing each other. One resents any change, even though one knows that transformation is natural and part of the process of life and its evolution. Like its parallel in physical passion, the early ecstatic stage of a relationship cannot continue always at the same pitch of intensity. It moves to another phase of growth which one should not dread, but welcome as one welcomes summer after spring.</p></blockquote>
<figure  class="wp-caption alignnone"><a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/07/11/bunny-tree-blaint-zsako/"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/bunnyandtree2.jpg" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Art from <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/07/11/bunny-tree-blaint-zsako/"><em>Bunny &#038; Tree</em></a> by Balint Zsako</figcaption></figure>
<p>At the heart of this dread is our unwillingness to relinquish the polished self-image we see in the light-filled eyes of the other in those early stages of mutual infatuation, before we have touched each other&#8217;s darkness, before we have met the hungry ghosts of each other&#8217;s unmet needs. We long for that image, perfect and haloed with adoration, to become our identity, seeking to make of love a flattering mirror in which to find our best selves, tasking the other with the emotional brunt of bearing the parts we don&#8217;t want to look at. Lindbergh pulls back the curtain on the most damaging myth handed down to us by the Romantics:</p>
<blockquote><p>Certainly, one has the illusion that one will find oneself in being loved for what one really is, not for a collection of functions. But can one actually find oneself in someone else? In someone else’s love? Or even in the mirror someone else holds up for one? I believe that true identity is found&#8230; in creative activity springing from within. It is found, paradoxically, when one loses oneself. One must lose one’s life to find it&#8230; Only a refound person can refind a personal relationship.</p></blockquote>
<p>The twin root of our suffering in a changing relationship is the expectation &#8212; the demand, even &#8212; that the other&#8217;s love be total and permanent, reserved for us alone, unshared with other priorities and passions, those natural constituents of a fully developed personality and a fully inhabited life. Lindbergh writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>We all wish to be loved alone&#8230; Perhaps, as Auden says in his poem, this is a fundamental error in mankind. </p>
<p><em>For the error bred in the bone<br />
Of each woman and each man<br />
Craves what it cannot have,<br />
Not universal love<br />
But to be loved alone.</em></p></blockquote>
<p>Lindbergh recounts discussing this verse with an Indian philosopher, who made a striking observation &#8212; while mutuality is the essence of love and therefore it is natural for us to wish for it, it is in the time-sense that we err. &#8220;It is when we desire continuity of being loved alone that we go wrong,&#8221; he told her. </p>
<p>The fear of change dissolves when we come to see love not as a vector of constancy but as a rosary of nows, its core promise not that of permanence but of presence. Hannah Arendt would affirm this a generation after Lindbergh in her <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2019/02/25/love-and-saint-augustine-hannah-arendt/">superb meditation on love and the fear of loss</a>, insisting that &#8220;fearlessness is what love seeks [which] exists only in the complete calm that can no longer be shaken by events expected of the future&#8230; Hence the only valid tense is the present, the Now.”</p>
<figure id="attachment_81954"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://society6.com/product/falling-star-by-witold-pruszkowski-1884_print?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/fallingstar_WitoldPruszkowski.jpg?resize=680%2C874&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="874" class="size-full wp-image-81954" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/fallingstar_WitoldPruszkowski.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/fallingstar_WitoldPruszkowski.jpg?resize=320%2C411&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/fallingstar_WitoldPruszkowski.jpg?resize=600%2C772&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/fallingstar_WitoldPruszkowski.jpg?resize=240%2C309&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/fallingstar_WitoldPruszkowski.jpg?resize=768%2C988&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/fallingstar_WitoldPruszkowski.jpg?resize=1195%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1195w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text"><em>Falling Star</em> by Witold Pruszkowski, 1884. (Available as <a href="https://society6.com/product/falling-star-by-witold-pruszkowski-1884_print?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener">a print</a>.)</figcaption></figure>
<p>Only by meeting each now on its own terms, Lindberg argues, can we allay the reflexive ache of perceiving change as loss, reframing it instead as fertile evolution:</p>
<blockquote><p>One learns to accept the fact that no permanent return is possible to an old form of relationship; and, more deeply still, that there is no holding of a relationship to a single form. This is not tragedy but part of the ever-recurrent miracle of life and growth. All living relationships are in process of change, of expansion, and must perpetually be building themselves new forms. But there is no single fixed form to express such a changing relationship.</p></blockquote>
<p>Those able to configure their relationships with such fluidity of form, Lindbergh notes, are &#8220;pioneers trying to find a new path through the maze of tradition, convention and dogma.&#8221; Auden was one himself &#8212; his relationship with the young poet Chester Kallman, <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2016/07/28/virginia-woolf-vita-sackville-west/">like that of Virginia Woolf and Vita Sackville-West</a>, shape-shifted <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/04/07/the-more-loving-one-auden-universe-in-verse/">from friend to lover and back again</a> over the last quarter century of Auden&#8217;s life.</p>
<p>Ultimately, our fear of change is a trap of self-limitation, keeping relationships from deepening and broadening to encompass the full range of who we are as complete human beings, as dynamic processes in continual state of becoming, which in turn makes possible the thrill of continual mutual discovery. Lindbergh writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>One comes in the end to realize that there is no permanent pure-relationship and there should not be. It is not even something to be desired. The pure relationship is limited, in space and in time. In its essence it implies exclusion. It excludes the rest of life, other relationships, other sides of personality, other responsibilities, other possibilities in the future. It excludes growth.</p></blockquote>
<p>With an eye to the best kind of pure-relationship &#8212; &#8220;the meeting of two whole fully developed people as persons&#8221; &#8212; and with the recognition that &#8220;the light shed by any good relationship illuminates all relationships,&#8221; she considers the core dynamic of such a relationship:</p>
<blockquote><p>A good relationship has a pattern like a dance and is built on some of the same rules. The partners do not need to hold on tightly, because they move confidently in the same pattern&#8230; To touch heavily would be to arrest the pattern and freeze the movement, to check the endlessly changing beauty of its unfolding. There is no place here for the possessive clutch, the clinging arm, the heavy hand; only the barest touch in passing. Now arm in arm, now face to face, now back to back&#8230; Because they know they are partners moving to the same rhythm, creating a pattern together, and being invisibly nourished by it. </p>
<p>The joy of such a pattern is not only the joy of creation or the joy of participation, it is also the joy of living in the moment. Lightness of touch and living in the moment are intertwined. One cannot dance well unless one is completely in time with the music, not leaning back to the last step or pressing forward to the next one, but poised directly on the present step as it comes.</p></blockquote>
<figure  class="wp-caption alignnone"><a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2013/07/25/ruth-krauss-maurice-sendak-open-house-for-butterflies/"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/openhouseforbutterflies25.jpg?w=680&#038;ssl=1" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Illustration by Maurice Sendak from <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2013/07/25/ruth-krauss-maurice-sendak-open-house-for-butterflies/"><em>Open House for Butterflies</em></a> by Ruth Krauss</figcaption></figure>
<p>With this, she returns to the correct time-scale of love &#8212; not constancy but intermittency, measured out by the metronome of presence:</p>
<blockquote><p>When you love someone you do not love them all the time, in exactly the same way, from moment to moment. It is an impossibility. It is even a lie to pretend to. And yet this is exactly what most of us demand. We have so little faith in the ebb and flow of life, of love, of relationships. We leap at the flow of the tide and resist in terror its ebb. We are afraid it will never return. We insist on permanency, on duration, on continuity; when the only continuity possible, in life as in love, is in growth, in fluidity &#8212; in freedom, in the sense that the dancers are free, barely touching as they pass, but partners in the same pattern. The only real security is not in owning or possessing, not in demanding or expecting, not in hoping, even. Security in a relationship lies neither in looking back to what it was in nostalgia, nor forward to what it might be in dread or anticipation, but living in the present relationship and accepting it as it is now.</p></blockquote>
<p>Complement these fragments of <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Gift-50th-Anniversary-Anne-Morrow-Lindbergh/dp/0679732411/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong><em>Gift from the Sea</em></strong></a> &#8212; a revelatory read in its entirety &#8212; with philosopher Martin Buber on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2018/07/24/martin-buber-i-thou-love/">love and what it means to live fully in the present</a>, then revisit Thich Nhat Hanh on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2020/12/01/thich-nhat-hanh-fear-love/">the four Buddhist mantras for turning fear into love</a>.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[There is a thought experiment known as Mary&#8217;s Room, brilliant and haunting, about the abyss between felt experience and our mental models of it, about the nature of knowledge, the mystery of consciousness, and the irreducibility of aliveness: Living in a black-and-white chamber, Mary the scientist studies how nature works &#8212; from the physics of light to the biology of the eye &#8212; but when she exits her monochrome room and encounters color, she experiences something far beyond her knowledge of what color is. It might be impossible, the experiment intimates, to imagine &#8212; even with our finest knowledge and&#8230;&#160;<a class="h3 read_on" href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2024/02/07/dear-oliver/">read&#160;article</a>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dear-Oliver-Unexpected-Friendship-Sacks/dp/1891011308/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank"><img loading="lazy" width="320" height="478" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/dearoliver_barry.jpg?fit=320%2C478&amp;ssl=1" class="cover alignright size-medium" alt="The Art of Allowing Change: Neurobiologist Susan R. Barry&#8217;s Moving Correspondence with Oliver Sacks about the Blessed Overwhelm of Transformation" decoding="async" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/dearoliver_barry.jpg?w=803&amp;ssl=1 803w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/dearoliver_barry.jpg?resize=320%2C478&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/dearoliver_barry.jpg?resize=600%2C897&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/dearoliver_barry.jpg?resize=240%2C359&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/dearoliver_barry.jpg?resize=768%2C1148&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px" /></a></p><p>There is a thought experiment known as <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2021/08/24/marys-room-frank-jackson-animated/">Mary&#8217;s Room</a>, brilliant and haunting, about the abyss between felt experience and our mental models of it, about the nature of knowledge, the mystery of consciousness, and the irreducibility of aliveness: Living in a black-and-white chamber, Mary the scientist studies how nature works &#8212; from the physics of light to the biology of the eye &#8212; but when she exits her monochrome room and encounters color, she experiences something far beyond her knowledge of what color is. It might be impossible, the experiment intimates, to imagine &#8212; even with our finest knowledge and best predictive models &#8212; what an experience would feel like before we have it, raw and revelatory and resinous with the one thing we can never model, never reduce to information: wonder &#8212; the wonder of the world suddenly new and we suddenly new to ourselves.</p>
<p>Neurobiologist Susan R. Barry was in her fifties when she realized she had been living in Mary&#8217;s Room.</p>
<p>Born cross-eyed and stereoblind &#8212; unable to form three-dimensional images the way most people do as we aim our two eyes in the same direction, combining the visual input in the brain &#8212; Barry had undergone a number of corrective eye-muscle surgeries as a child, which made her eyes appear aligned. She was told she was cured, able to do anything people with normal vision do except fly an airplane. </p>
<figure id="attachment_81935"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://society6.com/product/stereogram-of-the-full-moon-by-lewis-morris-rutherford-1864_print?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/Rutherford_stereogram_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=680%2C347&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="347" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-81940" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/Rutherford_stereogram_TheMarginalian.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/Rutherford_stereogram_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=320%2C163&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/Rutherford_stereogram_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=600%2C307&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/Rutherford_stereogram_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=240%2C123&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/Rutherford_stereogram_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=768%2C392&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">1864 stereogram of the Moon by Lewis Morris Rutherford. (Available as <a href="https://society6.com/product/stereogram-of-the-full-moon-by-lewis-morris-rutherford-1864_print?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener">a print</a>.)</figcaption></figure>
<p>It was not until her junior year of college that, listening to a lecture about the visual cortex and ocular dominance columns, she learned about monocular and binocular vision. She was astonished to realize that she had gone through life lacking the latter &#8212; the kind most people have, which allows us to see in stereo. She accepted her condition and went on living with the lens chance had dealt her. But by midlife, her eyes had grown even more misaligned, both horizontally and vertically. She learned about a kind of vision therapy involving a set of prism glasses and some impressively inventive eye-training exercises. It was transformative. Paintings began to look more three-dimensional and she could see &#8220;the empty, yet palpable, volumes of space between leaves on tree.&#8221; She recounts:</p>
<blockquote><p>Over the next several months, my vision was completely transformed. I had no idea what I had been missing. Ordinary things looked extraordinary. Light fixtures floated and water faucets stuck way out into space.</p></blockquote>
<p>Three years into relearning to see, she met <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/tag/oliver-sacks/">Oliver Sacks</a> at her astronaut husband&#8217;s space shuttle launch. With his passionate curiosity about the interplay of physiology and psychological reality, the famed neurologist asked her a question that came to haunt her: Could she imagine what the world would look like viewed with two eyes? </p>
<p>As a neurobiology professor herself, having written and read countless papers on visual processing, binocular vision, and stereopsis, Barry was at first certain she could. But the more she thought about the question, the more she felt into it, the more she realized that something essential was missing from her cerebral understanding: She was Mary, and the world was the world. </p>
<figure id="attachment_63804"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2018/03/11/chemistry-imagined-roald-hoffmann-vivian-torrence-carl-sagan/"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/chemistryimagined28.jpg?resize=680%2C908&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="908" class="size-full wp-image-63804" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/chemistryimagined28.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/chemistryimagined28.jpg?resize=240%2C320&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/chemistryimagined28.jpg?resize=320%2C427&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/chemistryimagined28.jpg?resize=768%2C1025&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/chemistryimagined28.jpg?resize=600%2C801&amp;ssl=1 600w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Art by Vivian Torrence from <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2018/03/11/chemistry-imagined-roald-hoffmann-vivian-torrence-carl-sagan/"><em>Chemistry Imagined</em></a> by Nobel laureate Roald Hoffmann.</figcaption></figure>
<p>Discomposed by the implications of the question, she decided to reach out to the questioner &#8212; for orientation, for consolation, for collaborative reckoning with this suddenly exposed facet of the confusion of consciousness. &#8220;That is my story,&#8221; she wrote at the end of the nine-page letter detailing her unusual vision history. &#8220;If you have the time and inclination, I would greatly appreciate your thoughts. And, of course, I eagerly await your next book.&#8221; </p>
<p>Within days, Oliver had written back. Amazed at her defiance of the odds &#8212; it had long been accepted that binocular vision must be achieved by a &#8220;critical age&#8221; or will forever elude the seer &#8212; he expressed his admiration for her willingness to welcome her &#8220;new world&#8221; with such &#8220;openness and wonder.&#8221; So began their decade-long correspondence, which helped Barry &#8220;shape a new identity.&#8221; This richly nourishing epistolary friendship, which lasted until his death, now lives on in her wonderful part-memoir, part-memorial <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dear-Oliver-Unexpected-Friendship-Sacks/dp/1891011308/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong><em>Dear Oliver</em></strong></a> (<a href="https://search.worldcat.org/title/1390775551?oclcNum=1390775551" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>public library</em></a>).</p>
<p>From her very first letter, she sets out to convey the wonder-filled disorientation of her newly trained vision &#8212; a transformation both life-expanding and overwhelming, given <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/05/28/arthur-zajonc-catching-the-light/">the coevolution of vision and consciousness</a>. She writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>Imagine a person who saw only in shades of gray suddenly able to see in full color. Such a person would probably be overwhelmed by the beauty of the world. Could they stop looking? Each day, I spend time looking head-on at objects &#8212; flowers, my fingers, faucets, anything &#8212; in order to get that strong three-dimensional sense&#8230; After almost three years, my new vision continues to surprise and delight me. One winter day, I was racing from the classroom to the deli for a quick lunch. After taking only a few steps from the classroom building, I stopped short. The snow was falling lazily around me in large, wet flakes. I could see the space between each flake, and all the flakes together produced a beautiful three-dimensional dance. In the past, the snow would have appeared to fall in a flat sheet in one plane slightly in front of me. I would have felt like I was looking in on the snowfall. But, now, I felt myself within the snowfall, among the snowflakes. Lunch forgotten, I watched the snow fall for several minutes, and, as I watched, I was overcome with a deep sense of joy. A snowfall can be quite beautiful &#8212; especially when you see it for the first time.</p></blockquote>
<p>Barry&#8217;s question about whether one could be so overwhelmed by a new way of seeing as to stop looking is not rhetorical &#8212; the history of medicine is <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/05/28/arthur-zajonc-catching-the-light/">strewn with cases</a> of blind people receiving corrective surgery that grants them sight, only to reject the new reality of light and return to the familiar world of darkness, moving through their lives with eyes shut. </p>
<p>These physiological transformations are a haunting analogue for our psychological pitfalls &#8212; accepting change, even toward something that deepens and broadens our experience of aliveness, is never easy, in part because we are <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2017/09/13/transformative-experience-vampire-problem/">so poor at picturing</a> an alternate rendering of reality. &#8220;The things we want are transformative,&#8221; Rebecca Solnit wrote in her superb <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2014/08/04/field-guide-to-getting-lost-rebecca-solnit/"><em>Field Guide to Getting Lost</em></a>, &#8220;and we don’t know or only think we know what is on the other side of that transformation.&#8221; We live so often lost in our frames of reference, lulled by the familiar, too terrified to live a larger life on the other side of a transformation that upends our comfortable ways of seeing and of being. (And what is the self if not just a style of being?) It takes both great courage and great vulnerability to welcome such a change &#8212; a transformation often mired in uncertainty, discomfiture, and confusion as we adapt to the overwhelm of life more magnified; a transformation that asks us to begin again, and a beginning always <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/12/30/john-odonohue-blessings-beginnings/">places a singular strain on the psyche</a>.</p>
<figure id="attachment_81933"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://society6.com/product/butterfly-metamorphosis-by-philip-henry-gosse-1833_print?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/gosse_metamorphosis_small.jpg?resize=680%2C794&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="794" class="size-full wp-image-81933" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/gosse_metamorphosis_small.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/gosse_metamorphosis_small.jpg?resize=320%2C374&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/gosse_metamorphosis_small.jpg?resize=600%2C701&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/gosse_metamorphosis_small.jpg?resize=240%2C280&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/gosse_metamorphosis_small.jpg?resize=768%2C897&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Butterfly metamorphosis by <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2021/10/12/gosse-devonshire-coast/">Philip Henry Gosse</a> from <em>Entomologia terrae novae</em>, 1833. (Available as <a href="https://society6.com/product/butterfly-metamorphosis-by-philip-henry-gosse-1833_print?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener">a print</a> and as <a href="https://society6.com/product/butterfly-metamorphosis-by-philip-henry-gosse-1833_cards" target="_blank" rel="noopener">stationery cards</a>.)</figcaption></figure>
<p>Years into their correspondence, Barry shares with Oliver the case of a young woman who embodied this courageous willingness to welcome transformation &#8212;  a student of hers born with almost no hearing, who had received a cochlear implant at age 12. Barry writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>When her implant was first turned on, she did not recognize a sound as a sound but rather as a terrifying, unpleasant, unnerving feeling. For the first few days, she had this same frightening sensation every time she put on the implant. Eventually, she said, she came to accept the feeling. Then she began to expect the sensations and to interpret some of them as meaningful sounds.</p>
<p>[&#8230;]</p>
<p>I was intrigued by her use of the word “accept,” because I think anyone who goes through a substantial perceptual improvement must learn to tolerate a certain amount of discomfort, uncertainty, and confusion. If one doesn’t have the support of doctors, therapists, family, and/or friends, then one may not allow the changes to occur.</p></blockquote>
<p>The degree to which we allow transformation &#8212; whether it comes in the form of new prism glasses or a new cochlear implant or a new love &#8212; may be the fullest measure of our courage, the great barometer of being fully alive. </p>
<p>Complement with the blind resistance hero Jacques Lusseyran&#8217;s <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/09/06/and-there-was-light-jacques-lusseyran/">luminous meditation on seeing the heart of life</a> and <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2017/09/13/transformative-experience-vampire-problem/">The Vampire Problem</a> &#8212; another brilliant and haunting thought experiment, illuminating the psychological paradox of transformative experiences &#8212; then revisit Oliver Sacks himself on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/11/23/oliver-sacks-illusions/">the necessity of our illusions</a>, <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2018/01/15/oliver-sacks-identity-self-narrative/">the building blocks of personhood</a>, <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2017/11/09/oliver-sacks-the-river-of-consciousness-the-creative-self/">the three essential elements of creativity</a>, and <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2015/11/24/oliver-sacks-gratitude-book/">the measure of a life fully lived</a>.</p>
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		<title>The Warblers and the Wonder of Being: Loren Eiseley on Contacting the Miraculous</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Maria Popova]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Feb 2024 17:02:14 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA["The time has to be right; one has to be, by chance or intention, upon the border of two worlds. And sometimes these two borders may shift or interpenetrate and one sees the miraculous."]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>&#8220;The time has to be right; one has to be, by chance or intention, upon the border of two worlds. And sometimes these two borders may shift or interpenetrate and one sees the miraculous.&#8221;</h3>
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<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Star-Thrower-Loren-Eiseley/dp/0156849097/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank"><img loading="lazy" width="320" height="475" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/thestarthrower_eiseley.jpg?fit=320%2C475&amp;ssl=1" class="cover alignright size-medium" alt="The Warblers and the Wonder of Being: Loren Eiseley on Contacting the Miraculous" decoding="async" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/thestarthrower_eiseley.jpg?w=674&amp;ssl=1 674w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/thestarthrower_eiseley.jpg?resize=320%2C475&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/thestarthrower_eiseley.jpg?resize=600%2C890&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/thestarthrower_eiseley.jpg?resize=240%2C356&amp;ssl=1 240w" sizes="(max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px" /></a></p><p>Every once in a while, the curtain of the ordinary parts and we touch the miraculous &#8212; the sense that there is another world not beyond this one but within it, a mirror-world any glimpse of which returns our own more luminous and full of wonder. </p>
<p>This can never be willed, but one can be willing for it &#8212; a willingness woven of two things: total wakefulness to reality and total openness to possibility. </p>
<p>It can happen <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2015/09/09/virginia-woolf-cotton-wool-moments-of-being/">while strolling in a garden</a>, as it did for Virginia Woolf; it can happen <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/06/12/g-k-chesterton-dandelion/">while looking at a dandelion</a>, as it did for G.K. Chesterton; it can happen <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2024/01/11/blue-glass/">in stumbling upon a piece of blue glass</a>, as it did for me.</p>
<p>For paleontologist, anthropologist, philosopher of science, and poet <strong>Loren Eiseley</strong> (September 3, 1907&ndash;July 9, 1977), it happened in an encounter with <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2024/01/04/brian-wildsmith-birds-company-terms/">a bouquet of warblers</a> during a fossil-collecting expedition. He recounts the experience in his essay &#8220;The Judgment of the Birds,&#8221; originally published in 1957 in the first of his many exquisite essay collections &#8212; <em>An Immense Journey</em>, which inspired Ed Yong&#8217;s excellent <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/08/10/ed-yong-an-immense-world-color/"><em>An Immense World</em></a> &#8212; and later included in the posthumous collection of his finest writing, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Star-Thrower-Loren-Eiseley/dp/0156849097/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong><em>The Star Thrower</em></strong></a> (<a href="https://search.worldcat.org/title/754773610" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>public library</em></a>), in the introduction to which W.H. Auden so poignantly captures Eiseley&#8217;s core ethos: &#8220;The first point he wishes to make is that in order to be a scientist, an artist, a doctor, a lawyer, or what-have-you, one has first to be a human being.&#8221;</p>
<p>Reflecting on that unbidden moment when he touched the miraculous &#8212; or, rather, the miraculous touched him &#8212; Eiseley observes:</p>
<blockquote><p>The time has to be right; one has to be, by chance or intention, upon the border of two worlds. And sometimes these two borders may shift or interpenetrate and one sees the miraculous.</p></blockquote>
<figure  class="wp-caption alignnone"><a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2017/05/04/the-gold-leaf-hall-forsythe/"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/thegoldleaf3.jpg" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Art by Matthew Forsythe from <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2017/05/04/the-gold-leaf-hall-forsythe/"><em>The Gold Leaf</em></a></figcaption></figure>
<p>An experience of this sort, which Eiseley terms &#8220;a natural revelation,&#8221; comes about most readily in solitude and in nature. He recounts the particular revelation of his encounter with the warblers:</p>
<blockquote><p>It was a late hour on a cold, wind-bitten autumn day when I climbed a great hill spined like a dinosaur’s back and tried to take my bearings. The tumbled waste fell away in waves in all directions. Blue air was darkening into purple along the bases of the hills. I shifted my knapsack, heavy with the petrified bones of long-vanished creatures, and studied my compass. I wanted to be out of there by nightfall, and already the sun was going sullenly down in the west.</p>
<p>It was then that I saw the flight coming on. It was moving like a little close-knit body of black specks that danced and darted and closed again. It was pouring from the north and heading toward me with the undeviating relentlessness of a compass needle. It streamed through the shadows rising out of monstrous gorges. It rushed over towering pinnacles in the red light of the sun or momentarily sank from sight within their shade. Across that desert of eroding clay and wind-worn stone they came with a faint wild twittering that filled all the air about me as those tiny living bullets hurtled past into the night.</p></blockquote>
<figure id="attachment_79711"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://society6.com/product/warblers-from-the-edinburgh-journal-1835-benefitting-the-nature-conservancy_print?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/edinburghjournal_warblers.jpg?resize=680%2C1071&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="1071" class="size-full wp-image-79711" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/edinburghjournal_warblers.jpg?w=900&amp;ssl=1 900w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/edinburghjournal_warblers.jpg?resize=320%2C504&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/edinburghjournal_warblers.jpg?resize=600%2C945&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/edinburghjournal_warblers.jpg?resize=240%2C378&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/edinburghjournal_warblers.jpg?resize=768%2C1209&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Warblers from <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/02/07/edinburgh-journal-birds/"><em>The Edinburgh Journal</em></a>, 1830s. (Available as <a href="https://society6.com/product/warblers-from-the-edinburgh-journal-1835-benefitting-the-nature-conservancy_print?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener">a print</a> and <a href="https://society6.com/brainpicker/cards?sort=new" target="_blank" rel="noopener">stationery cards</a>.)</figcaption></figure>
<p>There is defiance in that many-winged rush of aliveness, of pure pulsating presence &#8212; a kind of stubborn insistence on the wonder of life, transient yet eternal, against the backdrop of the ossified past in Eiseley&#8217;s bag of fossils, the stratified time beneath his feet. With the knowledge that <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/10/18/loren-eiseley-the-slit/">&#8220;we are all potential fossils,&#8221;</a> he lenses through the birds the continuity of life across time, its consanguinity across the common chemistry that composes us:</p>
<blockquote><p>It may not strike you as a marvel. It would not, perhaps, unless you stood in the middle of a dead world at sunset, but that was where I stood. Fifty million years lay under my feet, fifty million years of bellowing monsters moving in a green world now gone so utterly that its very light was traveling on the farther edge of space. The chemicals of all that vanished age lay about me in the ground. Around me still lay the shearing molars of dead titanotheres, the delicate sabers of soft-stepping cats, the hollow sockets that had held the eyes of many a strange, outmoded beast. Those eyes had looked out upon a world as real as ours; dark, savage brains had roamed and roared their challenges into the steaming night.</p>
<p>Now they were still here, or, put it as you will, the chemicals that made them were here about me in the ground. The carbon that had driven them ran blackly in the eroding stone. The stain of iron was in the clays. The iron did not remember the blood it had once moved within, the phosphorus had forgot the savage brain. The little individual moment had ebbed from all those strange combinations of chemicals as it would ebb from our living bodies into the sinks and runnels of oncoming time.</p></blockquote>
<figure id="attachment_73614"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://society6.com/product/chart-from-geographical-portfolio-by-levi-walter-yaggy-1887_framed-print?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/yaggi_geological_sm.jpg?resize=680%2C458&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="458" class="size-full wp-image-73614" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/yaggi_geological_sm.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/yaggi_geological_sm.jpg?resize=320%2C216&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/yaggi_geological_sm.jpg?resize=600%2C405&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/yaggi_geological_sm.jpg?resize=240%2C162&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/yaggi_geological_sm.jpg?resize=768%2C518&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Geological strata from <em>Geographical Portfolio</em> by Levi Walter Yaggy, 1887. (Available <a href="https://society6.com/product/chart-from-geographical-portfolio-by-levi-walter-yaggy-1887_framed-print?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener">as a print</a>, benefitting The Nature Conservancy.)</figcaption></figure>
<p>Once, walking through a centuries-old gilded cathedral in a small Mexican town with a beloved companion, I found myself in tears at the thought of all the people now dead who once sat in those pews and lit candles at that altar and whispered their hopes to those saints; at the realization that we too will have been, that the sum total of our prayers and passions will one day be a votive melted in a pool of itself. </p>
<p>It is a mercy that we walk through the world half-blind to the reality of time and transience, or we would be walking through it in tears &#8212; through the immense cathedral of time that Earth is, with its neatly lined pews of geologic strata holding the history of life, which is the history of loss. And yet the very fact that any one life exists <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2021/07/25/richard-dawkins-death/">against the cosmic odds of eternal night and nothingness</a> is miracle enough &#8212; a triumph of the possible over the probable, a concatenation of chemistry and chance gilded with wonder. </p>
<p>With an eye to the atomic chemistry we are and <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/01/10/alan-lightman-death/">will return to</a>, with an eye to the birds now swarming with the full force of life above him, the birds that evolved from those long-dead dinosaurs, Eiseley writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>I had lifted up a fistful of that ground. I held it while that wild flight of south-bound warblers hurtled over me into the oncoming dark. There went phosphorus, there went iron, there went carbon, there beat the calcium in those hurrying wings. Alone on a dead planet I watched that incredible miracle speeding past. It ran by some true compass over field and waste land. It cried its individual ecstasies into the air until the gullies rang. It swerved like a single body, it knew itself, and, lonely, it bunched close in the racing darkness, its individual entities feeling about them the rising night. And so, crying to each other their identity, they passed away out of my view.</p>
<p>I dropped my fistful of earth. I heard it roll inanimate back into the gully at the base of the hill: iron, carbon, the chemicals of life. Like men from those wild tribes who had haunted these hills before me seeking visions, I made my sign to the great darkness. It was not a mocking sign, and I was not mocked. As I walked into my camp late that night, one man, rousing from his blankets beside the fire, asked sleepily, “What did you see?”</p>
<p>“I think, a miracle,” I said softly, but I said it to myself. Behind me that vast waste began to glow under the rising moon.</p></blockquote>
<p>Couple with Eiseley&#8217;s <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2017/06/22/loren-eiseley-muskrat/">miraculous encounter with a muskrat</a>, then revisit Annie Dillard on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2015/04/30/annie-dillard-pilgrim-at-tinker-creek-1/">finding the miraculous in the mundane</a> and Helen Macdonald on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2015/12/16/h-is-for-hawk/">what a hawk taught her about the meaning of life</a>.</p>
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		<title>Thich Nhat Hanh on True Love and the Five Rivers of Self-Knowledge</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[&#8220;For one human being to love another: that is perhaps the most difficult of all our tasks&#8230; the work for which all other work is but preparation,&#8221; Rilke wrote to his young correspondent. The great difficulty of loving arises from the great difficulty of bridging the abyss between one consciousness and another in order to understand each other, to map the inner landscape of another&#8217;s territory of trust and vulnerability, to teach each other what we need of love. &#8220;Understanding and loving are inseparable,&#8221; the humanistic philosopher and psychologist Erich Fromm wrote in his wonderful field guide to the six&#8230;&#160;<a class="h3 read_on" href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2024/02/03/thich-nhat-hanh-love-rivers/">read&#160;article</a>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/True-Love-Practice-Awakening-Heart/dp/1590309391/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank"><img loading="lazy" width="320" height="480" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/truelove_tnh.jpg?fit=320%2C480&amp;ssl=1" class="cover with-border alignright size-medium" alt="Thich Nhat Hanh on True Love and the Five Rivers of Self-Knowledge" decoding="async" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/truelove_tnh.jpg?w=667&amp;ssl=1 667w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/truelove_tnh.jpg?resize=320%2C480&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/truelove_tnh.jpg?resize=600%2C900&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/truelove_tnh.jpg?resize=240%2C360&amp;ssl=1 240w" sizes="(max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px" /></a></p><p>&#8220;For one human being to love another: that is perhaps the most difficult of all our tasks&#8230; the work for which all other work is but preparation,&#8221; Rilke <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2015/01/29/rilke-on-love/">wrote to his young correspondent</a>. </p>
<p>The great difficulty of loving arises from the great difficulty of bridging the abyss between one consciousness and another in order to understand each other, to map the inner landscape of another&#8217;s territory of trust and vulnerability, to teach each other what we need of love. </p>
<p>&#8220;Understanding and loving are inseparable,&#8221; the humanistic philosopher and psychologist Erich Fromm wrote in his wonderful field guide to <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2017/04/05/erich-fromm-the-art-of-listening/">the six rules of listening</a>. Indeed, there is but one preparation for the task of loving: <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2021/10/10/thich-nhat-hanh-listening-love/">deep listening</a> &#8212; the best tool we have for coaching each other in the agility and endurance necessary for sustaining a true and lasting love, the work of both passionate interest in the inner world of the other and profound self-knowledge. </p>
<p>That is what the great Zen teacher and peace activist <strong>Thich Nhat Hanh</strong> (October 11, 1926&ndash;January 22, 2022) explores in his slender, simply worded, penetrating classic <a href="https://www.amazon.com/True-Love-Practice-Awakening-Heart/dp/1590309391/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong><em>True Love: A Practice for Awakening the Heart</em></strong></a> (<a href="https://search.worldcat.org/title/227201546" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>public library</em></a>).</p>
<figure  class="wp-caption alignnone"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/True-Love-Practice-Awakening-Heart/dp/1590309391/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/tnh1.jpg?w=680&#038;ssl=1" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Thich Nhat Hanh</figcaption></figure>
<p>He considers the first of the four Buddhist elements of true love &#8212; <em>maitri</em>, most closely translated as <em>loving-kindness</em>:</p>
<blockquote><p>Loving-kindness is not only the desire to make someone happy, to bring joy to a beloved person; it is the <em>ability</em> to bring joy and happiness to the person you love, because even if your intention is to love this person, your love might make him or her suffer. </p>
<p>Training is needed in order to love properly; and to be able to give happiness and joy, you must practice <em>deep looking</em> directed toward the person you love. Because if you do not understand this person, you cannot love properly. Understanding is the essence of love. If you cannot understand, you cannot love. That is the message of the Buddha.</p></blockquote>
<p>And yet while mutual understanding is the wellspring of love, the turbid confusion of understanding ourselves often stands in its way. &#8220;It is a fault to wish to be understood before we have made ourselves clear to ourselves,&#8221; Simone Weil admonished in her <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2015/08/24/simone-weil-friendship-separation">superb meditation on the paradoxes of friendship</a>. &#8220;If you don’t understand yourself you don’t understand anybody else,&#8221; the young Nikki Giovanni told James Baldwin in their <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2016/04/04/james-baldwin-nikki-giovannis-dialogue/">forgotten conversation</a> about the language of love. Nothing does more damage in love than a paucity of self-knowledge. (<a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2015/03/31/how-to-love-thich-nhat-hanh/">“To love without knowing how to love wounds the person we love,”</a> Thich Hhat Hanh would later caution.) Without self-knowledge, so much of what we mistake for desire, for devotion, for understanding is mere projection, a chimera of our patterned past keeping us from true presence with the reality of the other. </p>
<p>In Buddhist practice, nothing removes the screen of confusion and anneals the mind more effectively than meditation &#8212; the supreme instrument of self-understanding, out of which springs the unselfing necessary for true love. Thich Hhat Hanh writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>Meditation is the practice of looking deeply into the nature of your suffering and your joy. Through the energy of mindfulness, through concentration, looking deeply into the nature of our suffering makes it possible for us to see the deep causes of that suffering. If you can keep mindfulness and concentration alive, then looking deeply will reveal to you the true nature of your pain. And freedom will arise as a result of your sustaining a deep vision into the nature of your pain. Solidity, freedom, calm, and joy are the fruits of meditation.</p></blockquote>
<p>Twenty-five centuries before the Western canon of self-help cheapened and commodified the notion, the Buddha taught that &#8220;your love for the other, your ability to love another person, depends on your ability to love yourself&#8221; &#8212; which in turn depends on your degree of self-understanding. Thich Nhat Hanh points to the five <em>skandhas</em>, or aggregates, that constitute selfhood in Buddhist philosophy, depicted as five rivers: the body (&#8220;which we do not know well enough,&#8221; he rues); sensations (&#8220;Each sensation is a drop of water in the river,&#8221; he writes, and meditation is the practice of sitting on the banks of the river, observing the passing sensations); perceptions (&#8220;You must look deeply into their nature in order to understand.&#8221;); mental formations, of which Buddhism identifies fifty-two &#8212; feeling-states and faculties like happiness, hate, worry, distraction, appreciation, and faith; and consciousness, the last and deepest of the five rivers. (&#8220;Time is a river which sweeps me along, but I am the river,&#8221; Borges wrote in <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2016/09/19/a-new-refutation-of-time-borges/">his timeless reckoning with time and the nature of consciousness</a>, which inspired the title of one of Oliver Sacks&#8217;s finest essays, later the title of the posthumous collection of his writings: <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2017/11/09/oliver-sacks-the-river-of-consciousness-the-creative-self/"><em>The River of Consciousness</em></a>.)</p>
<figure  class="wp-caption alignnone"><a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2021/08/25/what-is-a-river-monika-vaicenaviciene/"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/whatisariver6.jpg?w=1200&#038;ssl=1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Art by Monika Vaicenavičienė from <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2021/08/25/what-is-a-river-monika-vaicenaviciene/"><em>What Is a River</a>.</figcaption></figure>
<p>Without full and conscious immersion in the riverine mystery inside us, there can be no true love &#8212; that great miracle of transformation that alters the superstructure of the self and tilts the very axis of reality, inclining it wonderward. Thich Nhat Hanh puts it simply, poignantly:</p>
<blockquote><p>It is necessary to come back to yourself in order to be able to achieve the transformation.</p></blockquote>
<p>Complement with David Whyte&#8217;s stunning poem <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2021/07/26/david-whyte-the-truelove/">&#8220;The Truelove&#8221;</a> and philosopher Martha Nussbaum on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2017/01/16/martha-nussbaum-loves-knowledge/">how you know whether you truly love a person</a>, then revisit Thich Nhat Hanh on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2021/10/10/thich-nhat-hanh-listening-love/">the art of deep listening</a> and <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2020/12/01/thich-nhat-hanh-fear-love/">the four Buddhist mantras for transforming fear into love</a>. </p>
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		<title>Time and the Soul: Philosopher Jacob Needleman on Our Search for Meaning</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Jan 2024 01:08:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA["The real significance of our problem with time... is a crisis of meaning... The root of our modern problem with time is neither technological, sociological, economic nor psychological. It is metaphysical. It is a question of the meaning of human life itself."]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>&#8220;The real significance of our problem with time&#8230; is a crisis of meaning&#8230; The root of our modern problem with time is neither technological, sociological, economic nor psychological. It is metaphysical. It is a question of the meaning of human life itself.&#8221;</h3>
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<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Time-Soul-Where-Meaningful-Gone/dp/1459626796/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank"><img loading="lazy" width="320" height="448" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/timesoul_needlman.jpg?fit=320%2C448&amp;ssl=1" class="cover alignright size-medium" alt="Time and the Soul: Philosopher Jacob Needleman on Our Search for Meaning" decoding="async" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/timesoul_needlman.jpg?w=857&amp;ssl=1 857w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/timesoul_needlman.jpg?resize=320%2C448&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/timesoul_needlman.jpg?resize=600%2C840&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/timesoul_needlman.jpg?resize=240%2C336&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/timesoul_needlman.jpg?resize=768%2C1075&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px" /></a></p><p>&#8220;The eternal problem of the human being is how to structure his waking hours,&#8221; the psychiatrist Eric Berne observed in his <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/07/12/eric-berne-games-people-play/">uncommonly insightful model of human relationships</a> a generation after Borges insisted that <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2016/09/19/a-new-refutation-of-time-borges/">time is the substance we are made of</a>. It is the elementary particle of presence and the fundamental unit of attention &#8212; the two most precious resources we have, out of which every meaningful experiences is welded. To give a practice your time is an act of devotion. To give a person your time is a supreme act of love &#8212; for, as <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2020/12/01/thich-nhat-hanh-fear-love/">Thich Nhat Hanh wrote</a>, “when you love someone, the best thing you can offer that person is your presence.&#8221;</p>
<p>It is no wonder, then, that in a culture of accelerating urgency and <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2021/12/20/four-thousand-weeks-oliver-burkeman/">suffocating time-anxiety</a>, we feel syphoned of the substance of our lives.</p>
<figure  class="wp-caption alignnone"><a href="https://society6.com/product/discus-chronologicus-german-time-model-from-the-1720s_print?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/DiscusChronologicus_small.jpg?resize=680%2C728&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="728" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-74249" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/DiscusChronologicus_small.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/DiscusChronologicus_small.jpg?resize=320%2C342&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/DiscusChronologicus_small.jpg?resize=600%2C642&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/DiscusChronologicus_small.jpg?resize=240%2C257&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/DiscusChronologicus_small.jpg?resize=768%2C822&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text"><em>Discus chronologicus</em> &#8212; an 18th-century German depiction of time. (Available as <a href="https://society6.com/product/discus-chronologicus-german-time-model-from-the-1720s_print?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener">a print</a> and as <a href="https://society6.com/product/discus-chronologicus-german-time-model-from-the-1720s_wall-clock?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener">a wall clock</a>.)</figcaption></figure>
<p>How to break free from that cultural tyranny and reconnect with this deepest metaphysical dimension of aliveness is what philosopher <strong>Jacob Needleman</strong> (October 6, 1934&ndash;November 28, 2022) explores in his timelessly wonderful 1998 book <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Time-Soul-Where-Meaningful-Gone/dp/1459626796/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong><em>Time and the Soul</em></strong></a> (<a href="https://search.worldcat.org/title/754773610" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>public library</em></a>).</p>
<p>With an eye to Wordsworth&#8217;s immortal indictment of our compulsive haste &#8212; &#8220;The world is too much with us; late and soon, / Getting and spending, we lay waste our powers&#8221; &#8212; Needleman frames the basic paradox of our relationship to time:</p>
<blockquote><p>The question of our relationship to time is both a mystery and a problem. It calls to us from the deepest recesses of the human heart. And it bedevils us on all the surfaces of our everyday life. At the deeper levels, in front of the <em>mystery</em> of time, we are mortal beings solemnly aware of our finitude &#8212; longing, perhaps, for that in ourselves which partakes of the eternal. But at the surface levels of ourselves, in front of the <em>problem</em> of time, we are like frantic puppets trying to manage the influences of the past, the threats and promises of the future and the tense demands of the ever-diminishing present moment. The mystery of time has the power to call us quietly back to ourselves and toward our essential freedom and humanness. The problem of time, on the other hand, agitates us and “lays waste our powers.”</p></blockquote>
<p>Writing in 1997, he diagnoses a new epidemic of &#8220;time-poverty&#8221; that has only deepened in the decades since:</p>
<blockquote><p>We began to realize, dimly at first, that we were no longer living our lives. We began to see that our lives were living us. And we began to suspect that our relationship to time had become so toxic precisely because we had forgotten how to bring to our day-to-day lives the essential question of who and what a human being is and is meant to be.</p></blockquote>
<figure id="attachment_64219"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2018/04/11/leaves-of-grass-margaret-cook/"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i2.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/margaretcook_leavesofgrass17.jpg" alt="" width="1200" height="1543" class="size-full wp-image-64219" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Art by Margaret C. Cook from <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2018/04/11/leaves-of-grass-margaret-cook/">a rare 1913 edition</a> of Walt Whitman&#8217;s <em>Leaves of Grass</em>. (Available <a href="https://society6.com/product/thoughts-silent-thoughts-of-time-and-space-and-death_framed-print?sku=s6-8967472p21a12v52a13v54?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener">as a print</a>.)</figcaption></figure>
<p>Needleman &#8212; who went on to probe <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2016/10/12/i-am-not-i-jacob-needleman/">the mystery of what makes us who we are</a> in his final book &#8212; considers &#8220;what it means to allow the mystery of time to irrigate our parched and driven lives&#8221; and offers a path to liberation from the problem of time, a portal into its mystery:</p>
<blockquote><p>The pathology of our relationship to time can be healed only as we allow ourselves to be penetrated by the mystery of what we are beneath the surface of ourselves &#8212; by striving, that is, to remember our Selves.</p>
<p>[&#8230;]</p>
<p>The ego, the false self, [is] the root of all the evil that enters the earth and destroys human life, and with it, of course, the reality of time, the reality of lived presence. The ego lives only in the future and the past; it has no present moment; it is always hurrying or dreaming.</p></blockquote>
<p>In consonance with the neuropsychological fact that <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/05/10/iain-mcgilchrist-the-matter-with-things/">attention is our only lens on reality</a>, he weighs this fundament of our humanity against the absent-minded mechanization of our lives:</p>
<blockquote><p>The essential element to recognize is how much of what we call “progress” is accompanied by and measured by the fact that human beings need less and less conscious attention to perform their activities and lead their lives. The real power of the faculty of attention&#8230; is one of the indispensable and most central measures of humanness. </p>
<p>[&#8230;]</p>
<p>In the world as in oneself, everything depends of the <em>presence</em> of humanness &#8212; in oneself it depends on the presence, even if only to a relative degree, of the Self, the real I am &#8212; and in the life of the world it depends on the presence of people who have and can manifest this capacity to be, or even only who wish for it and who come together to learn from each other and to help each other for that purpose.</p></blockquote>
<figure  class="wp-caption alignnone"><a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2024/01/14/the-fairy-tale-tree/"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree16.jpg" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Art by Stanislav Kolíbal from <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2024/01/14/the-fairy-tale-tree/"><em>The Fairy Tale Tree</em></a>, 1961</figcaption></figure>
<p>This attrition of presence, he observes, is maiming not only our individual inner lives but the inner life of humanity as we have come to mistake the <em>right away</em> of immediacy for the <em>now</em> of presence. Two millennia after Seneca devised his cautionary taxonomy of <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2019/04/17/seneca-letter-1-time/">time saved, spent, and wasted</a>, we have invented innumerable tools and technologies to save time but find ourselves wasting it more helplessly than ever. We can only save ourselves, Needleman intimates, by recalibrating our relationship to time, which is fundamentally our relationship to the self and to the meaning of human life. He writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>The real significance of our problem with time&#8230; is a crisis of meaning&#8230; The root of our modern problem with time is neither technological, sociological, economic nor psychological. It is metaphysical. It is a question of the meaning of human life itself.</p></blockquote>
<p>At the center of our self-defeating challenge is an unexamined premise: We have framed time as a problem &#8212; the problem of how to structure and manage our lives &#8212; when it is best regarded as a question. (A problem is a judgment and all judgment is a straitjacket of understanding; a question is an invitation to wonder, which is the antipode of judgment.) </p>
<p>Needleman writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>Such great questions cannot be answered with the part of the mind that solves problems. They need to be deeply felt and experienced long, long before they can begin to be answered. We need to feel the question of time much more deeply and simply than we do. We agitate about the problem of time, but we seldom feel what it means.</p></blockquote>
<p>This is largely due to the general sublimation of feeling &#8212; the disconnect from our creaturely sensorium &#8212; in an age of disembodied technos. A century and a half after the Victorian visionary Samuel Butler <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/09/15/samuel-butler-darwin-among-the-machines-erewhon/">cautioned against our enslavement by intelligent machines</a>, Needleman writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>The time of machines is not our own time. Human time is always&#8230; the time of a being or of beings who can in truth say <em>I</em>. In other cultures, perhaps less alienated from the teachings of wisdom, mankind lived in closer relationship to biological time, the pulses and rhythms of nature, the sun and the moon, the tides, the seasons, the light and darkness, all the measures and meters of the music of the earth and the skies. But even this time, this more natural time, is not in itself human time. Human time is always the time of the consciousness that says and means <em>I, I am</em>&#8230; To live in accordance with nature’s time is to allow the nature that is within us to beat with more synchronous rhythms &#8212; the body’s tempo, the tempos of organic love and fear and tenderness and anger; and the tempos and rhythms of the mind that searches, that needs to guide and receive the action of the senses, to plan and manage and to remember the gods, the greater forces&#8230; To live with these tempos and times more in harmony is to live in the time of earth and nature and to be a more ready receptacle for the consciousness that can truly say <em>I am</em>.</p></blockquote>
<figure id="attachment_73026"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://society6.com/product/spring-moon-at-ninomiya-beach-by-hasui-kawase-1931_print?sku=s6-19564891p4a1v46?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/03/hasuikawase1.jpg?resize=680%2C1014&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="1014" class="size-full wp-image-73026" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/03/hasuikawase1.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/03/hasuikawase1.jpg?resize=320%2C477&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/03/hasuikawase1.jpg?resize=600%2C895&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/03/hasuikawase1.jpg?resize=240%2C358&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/03/hasuikawase1.jpg?resize=768%2C1146&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/03/hasuikawase1.jpg?resize=1030%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1030w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text"><em>Spring Moon at Ninomiya Beach</em>, 1931 &#8212; one of Hasui Kawase&#8217;s <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2021/03/22/hasui-kawase-prints/">stunning vintage Japanese woodblocks</a>. (Available <a href="https://society6.com/product/spring-moon-at-ninomiya-beach-by-hasui-kawase-1931_print?sku=s6-19564891p4a1v46?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener">as a print</a>.)</figcaption></figure>
<p>While biological time is still not entirely human time &#8212; it still unfolds on the material level of existence and not on the level of meaning &#8212; it is infinitely closer to human time than mechanical time, meted out by the hollow pulse-beat of the tools to which we have relinquished the management of meaning. An epoch before AI came to mediate and menace our reach for meaning, Needlman adds:</p>
<blockquote><p>By governing our own inner world through mechanical, computer time, we are running one part of our nature with a time and a tempo so far removed from the time of our body and our feeling that there is less and less possibility of these central parts of ourselves coming into relationship. And only in the relationship, the actual harmonic contact, between the main sources of perception and energy in ourselves can there be a medium through which the authentic self can appear and act in us.</p></blockquote>
<p>In the remainder of <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Time-Soul-Where-Meaningful-Gone/dp/1459626796/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong><em>Time and the Soul</em></strong></a>, Needlman sets out &#8220;to uncover the link between our pathology of time and the eternal mystery of what a human being is meant to be in the universal scheme of things.&#8221; Complement it with Oliver Burkeman, writing an epoch of technology later, on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2021/12/20/four-thousand-weeks-oliver-burkeman/">escaping the time-anxious trap of efficiency</a> and Ursula K. Le Guin&#8217;s lovely <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2018/04/23/ursula-k-le-guin-hymn-to-time-janna-levin/">&#8220;Hymn to Time,&#8221;</a> then revisit <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2021/08/28/alan-lightman-einsteins-dreams/"><em>Einstein&#8217;s Dreams</em></a> &#8212; physicist Alan Lightman&#8217;s poetic exploration of time and the antidote to our existential anxiety. </p>
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		<title>How to Make a World: A Poem</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Maria Popova]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Jan 2024 21:33:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Like mathematics, the truest metaphors are not invented but discovered. Or, they discover us. And when they do, they hardly feel like metaphors &#8212; they feel like equations equating something previously unseen with something familiar in order to see more deeply into the nature of reality. One morning out on a run while traveling for a poetry workshop, I stopped mid-stride at the sight of a tiny tree shooting up from the center of a trunk twice as wide as me &#8212; a regenerative growth known as coppicing. I must have walked past dozens, hundreds of such stubborn second lives&#8230;&#160;<a class="h3 read_on" href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2024/01/28/how-to-make-a-world/">read&#160;article</a>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Like mathematics, the truest metaphors are not invented but discovered. Or, they discover us. And when they do, they hardly feel like metaphors &#8212; they feel like equations equating something previously unseen with something familiar in order to see more deeply into the nature of reality.</p>
<p>One morning out on a run while traveling for a poetry workshop, I stopped mid-stride at the sight of a tiny tree shooting up from the center of a trunk twice as wide as me &#8212; a regenerative growth known as coppicing. I must have walked past dozens, hundreds of such stubborn second lives over the years. But for some reason, this one &#8212; at that moment in my life, at that moment in the world &#8212; became a mirror, a portal, a miniature of a larger truth about what made us and what we have made of ourselves.</p>
<p>By sundown, it had become a poem &#8212; read here to the sound of Zoë Keating&#8217;s &#8220;Optimist&#8221; from her breathtaking album <a href="https://zoekeating.bandcamp.com/album/into-the-trees" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>Into the Trees</em></a>.</p>
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<blockquote><p><strong>HOW TO MAKE A WORLD</strong><br />
<em>by Maria Popova</em></p>
<p>What are you, little tree<br />
rising from the center<br />
of the old slain stump?<br />
You are no requiem,<br />
no prophet,<br />
no metaphor for how<br />
life goes on asserting itself<br />
over death.</p>
<p>No &#8212; you seem to be<br />
just a fractal branch<br />
of the same dumb resilience<br />
by which we rose from the oceans<br />
to compose the <em>Benedictus</em><br />
and to build the bomb.</p></blockquote>
<p>Couple with <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/09/09/the-half-life-of-hope/">another found metaphor in the shape of a poem</a> about the stubbornness of hope, then savor Pattiann Rogers&#8217;s stunning <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/11/02/pattiann-rogers-homo-sapiens/">&#8220;<em>Homo Sapiens</em>: Creating Themselves.&#8221;</a></p>
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		<title>The Bird in the Heart: Terry Tempest Williams on the Paradox of Transformation and How to Live with Uncertainty</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Maria Popova]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jan 2024 16:59:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA["We can change, evolve, and transform our own conditioning. We can choose to move like water rather than be molded like clay."]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>&#8220;We can change, evolve, and transform our own conditioning. We can choose to move like water rather than be molded like clay.&#8221;</h3>
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<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/When-Women-Were-Birds-Fifty-four/dp/1250024110/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank"><img loading="lazy" width="320" height="496" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/whenwomenwerebirds_williams.jpg?fit=320%2C496&amp;ssl=1" class="cover alignright size-medium" alt="The Bird in the Heart: Terry Tempest Williams on the Paradox of Transformation and How to Live with Uncertainty" decoding="async" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/whenwomenwerebirds_williams.jpg?w=967&amp;ssl=1 967w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/whenwomenwerebirds_williams.jpg?resize=320%2C496&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/whenwomenwerebirds_williams.jpg?resize=600%2C931&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/whenwomenwerebirds_williams.jpg?resize=240%2C372&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/whenwomenwerebirds_williams.jpg?resize=768%2C1191&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px" /></a></p><p>It is strange how, in a universe governed by relentless change, human beings hunger for constancy &#8212; our bodies wired for homeostasis, our minds hooked on habit, our hearts yearning for everlasting love. We live as patterns unaware of perpetuating themselves, our aching resistance to change reflected in the routines and rituals and relationship formulae out of which we build the superstructure of belief that houses all of our actions, reactions, and choices. </p>
<p>It is not easy, reconfiguring this superstructure to fit something new &#8212; a new practice, a new person, a new way of being. The more transformative the new element, the more challenging it is to figure it into the pattern of life as we know it &#8212; a pattern shaped by what we believe about love, that deepest sinew of the self. </p>
<p>This delicate, difficult, wildly rewarding reconfiguration is what <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2018/04/12/the-hour-of-land-terry-tempest-williams/">Terry Tempest Williams</a> explores in <a href="https://www.amazon.com/When-Women-Were-Birds-Fifty-four/dp/1250024110/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong><em>When Women Were Birds: Fifty-four Variations on Voice</em></strong></a> (<a href="https://search.worldcat.org/title/759175000" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>public library</em></a>) &#8212; a soaring meditation on life, love, and the stories we tell ourselves about who we are, sparked by an unexpected revelation: When Williams opened the journals her mother had bequeathed her, she was staggered to find them all blank &#8212; a kind of &#8220;second death&#8221; that catalyzed a profound reckoning with the meaning of voice, of words, of how we write the story of who we are and how we revise it, lensed through the love of birds she shared with her mother. </p>
<figure  class="wp-caption alignnone"><a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2020/12/05/if-you-come-to-earth-sophie-blackall/"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/IYCTE.Birds_.2000.jpg" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Art by Sophie Blackall from <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2020/12/05/if-you-come-to-earth-sophie-blackall/"><em>If You Come to Earth</em></a></figcaption></figure>
<p>Two decades later, at the exact age her mother was when she died, Williams writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>Love is to life what life is to death. And so we risk everything trying to touch the ineffable by touching each other. Over and over. Again and again&#8230; Patterned behavior alternates like shadow and light&#8230; We can change, evolve, and transform our own conditioning. We can choose to move like water rather than be molded like clay. Life spirals in and then spirals out on any given day. It does not have to be one way, one truth, one voice. Nor does love have to be all or nothing.</p></blockquote>
<p>Because we suffer a congenital blindness to what lies on the other side of transformation &#8212; a blindness brilliantly illustrated by the <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2017/09/13/transformative-experience-vampire-problem/">Vampire Problem thought experiment</a> &#8212; it is often chance, not choice, that brings about the profoundest change. Life sweeps us off course &#8212; a terrible diagnosis arrives, an unimagined opportunity emerges, an unexpected person enters the heart &#8212; and suddenly we must begin again, rebuilding the superstructure of being on this new terrain. (<a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2024/01/21/william-stafford-yes/">&#8220;It could happen any time&#8230;&#8221;</a>)</p>
<p>Williams finds improbable consolation for the challenge of change in her encounter with a bird out of place. The painted bunting &#8212; the most exuberantly colored bird north of Mexico, which so confused Linnaeus with its exotic plumage that he falsely classified it as native to India; a species now thought to <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2021/09/24/wayfinding-m-r-oconnor/">orient by the pole star</a> during migration &#8212; &#8220;had flown in on the tail of a blizzard, been blown off course, and stayed,&#8221; making a new life in Maine, a new pattern of being: Each day just before dawn, the painted bunting alighted to a neighbor&#8217;s bird feeder like clockwork. </p>
<figure id="attachment_81880"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://society6.com/product/painted-bunting-by-mark-catesby-1729-1731-benefitting-the-nature-conservancy_print?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/PaintedBunting_MarkCatesby_small.jpg?resize=680%2C897&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="897" class="size-full wp-image-81880" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/PaintedBunting_MarkCatesby_small.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/PaintedBunting_MarkCatesby_small.jpg?resize=320%2C422&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/PaintedBunting_MarkCatesby_small.jpg?resize=600%2C792&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/PaintedBunting_MarkCatesby_small.jpg?resize=240%2C317&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/PaintedBunting_MarkCatesby_small.jpg?resize=768%2C1013&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/PaintedBunting_MarkCatesby_small.jpg?resize=1164%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1164w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Painted bunting by Mark Catesby, 1729-1731. (Available as <a href="https://society6.com/product/painted-bunting-by-mark-catesby-1729-1731-benefitting-the-nature-conservancy_print?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener">an art print</a> and as <a href="https://society6.com/product/painted-bunting-by-mark-catesby-1729-1731-benefitting-the-nature-conservancy_cards?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener">stationery cards</a>, benefitting The Nature Conservancy.)</figcaption></figure>
<p>Watching the bird one snowy morning, Williams writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>At 6:43 a.m. the painted bunting arrived, like a dream between the crease of shadow and light. His silhouette grew toward color for the seven short minutes he stayed. And when dawn struck his tiny feathered back, he ignited like a flame: red, blue, and green.</p>
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<p>The bunting got caught in a storm and stayed. I have been seized in a storm of my own making. Whirlwind. World-wind. Distracted and displaced. In the wounding of becoming lost, I can correct myself.</p></blockquote>
<p>Echoing Emerson&#8217;s indictment that <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2015/01/26/emerson-circles/">&#8220;people wish to be settled [but] only as far as they are unsettled is there any hope for them,&#8221;</a> Williams adds:</p>
<blockquote><p>We can take flight from our lives in a form other than denial and return to our authentic selves&#8230; Accidental sightings, whether witnessed in a brain or on a winter dawn, remind us there is no such thing as certainty.</p></blockquote>
<p>A century after Virginia Woolf contemplated <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2020/04/03/virginia-woolf-to-the-lighthouse/">finding beauty in the uncertainty of being</a> in the interlude between two world wars, Williams adds:</p>
<blockquote><p>I want to feel both the beauty and the pain of the age we are living in. I want to survive my life without becoming numb. I want to speak and comprehend words of wounding without having these words become the landscape where I dwell. I want to possess a light touch that can elevate darkness to the realm of stars. </p>
<p>This vascular malformation could bleed and burst. Or I can simply go on living, appreciating my condition as a vulnerable human being in a vulnerable world, guided by the songs of birds. What is time, sacred time, but the acceleration of consciousness? There are so many ways to change the sentences we have been given.</p></blockquote>
<p>Complement these fragments of the entirely wonderful <a href="https://www.amazon.com/When-Women-Were-Birds-Fifty-four/dp/1250024110/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong><em>When Women Were Birds</em></strong></a> with Milan Kundera on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2015/10/16/milan-kundera-unbearable-lightness-of-being/">life&#8217;s central ambivalence of knowing what we really want</a>, Rebecca Solnit on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2014/08/04/field-guide-to-getting-lost-rebecca-solnit/">how we find ourselves by getting lost</a>, and George Saunders on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/04/09/george-saunders-uncertainty/">the courage of uncertainty</a>, then revisit Williams on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2018/04/12/the-hour-of-land-terry-tempest-williams/">our responsibility to awe</a>.</p>
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		<title>War, Peace, and Our Possible Futures: George Saunders on Storytelling the World’s Fate and the Antidote to Media Manipulation</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Maria Popova]]></dc:creator>
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					<description><![CDATA["War is large-scale murder, us at our worst, the stupidest guy doing the cruelest thing to the weakest being."]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>&#8220;War is large-scale murder, us at our worst, the stupidest guy doing the cruelest thing to the weakest being.&#8221;</h3>
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<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Braindead-Megaphone-George-Saunders/dp/159448256X/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank"><img loading="lazy" width="320" height="496" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/braindeadmegaphone_saunders.jpg?fit=320%2C496&amp;ssl=1" class="cover alignright size-medium" alt="War, Peace, and Our Possible Futures: George Saunders on Storytelling the World&#8217;s Fate and the Antidote to Media Manipulation" decoding="async" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/braindeadmegaphone_saunders.jpg?w=774&amp;ssl=1 774w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/braindeadmegaphone_saunders.jpg?resize=320%2C496&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/braindeadmegaphone_saunders.jpg?resize=600%2C930&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/braindeadmegaphone_saunders.jpg?resize=240%2C372&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/braindeadmegaphone_saunders.jpg?resize=768%2C1191&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px" /></a></p><p>&#8220;All the goodness and the heroisms will rise up again, then be cut down again and rise up,&#8221; John Steinbeck <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2016/12/30/john-steinbeck-new-year/">wrote to his best friend</a> at the peak of WWII. &#8220;It isn’t that the evil thing wins &#8212; it never will &#8212; but that it doesn’t die.&#8221; </p>
<p>This is a story many believe to be true &#8212; a story about human nature, written into the scripture of original sin, ensuring that we will go on perpetrating evil for as long as we keep telling and believing that story.</p>
<p>We &#8212; as individuals, as a culture, as a species &#8212; rise and fall to the expectations placed upon us, most of all to the expectations we place upon ourselves. After all, our very minds are <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/06/20/the-experience-machine-andy-clark/">model-fulfillment machines</a>. Bruce Lee understood this: “You will never get any more out of life than you expect,” he <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2016/08/01/bruce-lee-notebook/">wrote to himself</a>. All expectation is a story &#8212; a story about what is true and what is possible &#8212; and a story is a model of reality. But the history of our species is the history of mistaking our models for reality, only to find them unmasoned by the sudden revelation of another region of reality, another possibility &#8212; our mathematical models of how the universe works (Einstein&#8217;s relativity upends Newton&#8217;s clockwork cosmos, and suddenly space and time are new, are one), our political models of how the world works (the French Revolution upends the feudal system, and suddenly a constellation of people&#8217;s republics lights up the possibility of liberal democracy), our personal models of how the self works (you fall in love with the most improbable person, and suddenly your entire story of who you are and what you want is rewritten).</p>
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<p>All models of reality are drawn by an imagination filtered through our fears and our hopes in a proportion mediated by our conditioning, which is always the function of story. It is the stories we believe that shape what we become, shape what the world is. In an age when commercial media have become the great conditioning engine of society, selling models of reality because they are profitable and not because they are true, it matters all the more what stories we believe, and what we resist. </p>
<p>That is what <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/tag/george-saunders/">George Saunders</a> explores throughout his prophetic 2007 essay collection <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Braindead-Megaphone-George-Saunders/dp/159448256X/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong><em>The Braindead Megaphone</em></strong></a> (<a href="https://search.worldcat.org/title/83758981" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>public library</em></a>), composed in the wake of the American invasion of Iraq and in the infancy of social media. He writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>In the beginning, there’s a blank mind. Then that mind gets an idea in it, and the trouble begins, because the mind mistakes the idea for the world. Mistaking the idea for the world, the mind formulates a theory and, having formulated a theory, feels inclined to act.</p>
<p>Because the idea is always only an approximation of the world, whether that action will be catastrophic or beneficial depends on the distance between the idea and the world. </p>
<p>Mass media’s job is to provide this simulacra of the world, upon which we build our ideas. There’s another name for this simulacra-building: storytelling.</p></blockquote>
<p>He considers the antidote to the sensationalist, manipulative, and altogether reality-warping stories comprising the basic business model of modern media &#8212; a model built on marketable antagonism and othering:</p>
<blockquote><p>The best stories proceed from a mysterious truth-seeking impulse that narrative has when revised extensively; they are complex and baffling and ambiguous; they tend to make us slower to act, rather than quicker. They make us more humble, cause us to empathize with people we don’t know, because they help us imagine these people, and when we imagine them &#8212; if the storytelling is good enough &#8212; we imagine them as being, essentially, like us. If the story is poor, or has an agenda, if it comes out of a paucity of imagination or is rushed, we imagine those other people as essentially unlike us: unknowable, inscrutable, inconvertible.</p></blockquote>
<figure  class="wp-caption alignnone"><a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2012/03/15/the-three-astronauts-umberto-eco/"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/threeastronauts12.jpg" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Art from <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2012/03/15/the-three-astronauts-umberto-eco/"><em>The Three Astronauts</em></a> &#8212; Umberto Eco&#8217;s vintage semiotic children&#8217;s book about world peace</figcaption></figure>
<p>The challenge of telling better stories about the possibilities between us and within us is all the more urgent under the realities of war, when the aperture of compassion and understanding <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/11/16/about-war/">so dangerously narrows</a>. All war, Saunders observes, requires &#8220;awareness of the law of unintended consequences&#8221; and &#8220;familiarity with the world’s tendency to throw aggressive energy back at the aggressor in ways he did not expect&#8221; &#8212; nuanced complexities absent from the sensationalist headlines of mass media and the fanged soundbites of social media. </p>
<p>With an eye to the murderous models of reality that incite the energies of war, he envisions an alternative for our culture&#8217;s story of itself:</p>
<blockquote><p>A culture capable of imagining complexly is a humble culture. It acts, when it has to act, as late in the game as possible, and as cautiously, because it knows its own girth and the tight confines of the china shop it’s blundering into. And it knows that no matter how well-prepared it is &#8212; no matter how ruthlessly it has held its projections up to intelligent scrutiny &#8212; the place it is headed for is going to be very different from the place it imagined. The shortfall between the imagined and the real, multiplied by the violence of one’s intent, equals the evil one will do.</p></blockquote>
<figure  class="wp-caption alignnone"><a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2019/07/29/what-if-tallec-lenain/"><img decoding="async" src="https://i1.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/whatif11.jpg?w=1200&#038;ssl=1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Art by Olivier Tallec from <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2019/07/29/what-if-tallec-lenain/"><em>What If&#8230;</em></a></figcaption></figure>
<p>In another essay, Saunders finds himself rereading Kurt Vonnegut&#8217;s <em>Slaughterhouse Five</em> &#8212; a book written decades earlier in the middle of another war &#8212; and contemplating the power of storytelling, with all its capacity for nuance and complexity absent from the media model, as our best mechanism for bridging reality and possibility. An epoch after Steinbeck lamented that the evil of war will never go away, Saunders celebrates Vonnegut&#8217;s enduring gift to the world:</p>
<blockquote><p>It is a comfort [to] be reminded that just because something keeps happening, doesn’t mean we get to stop regretting it&#8230; It’s good for us to hear someone speak the irrational truth. It’s good for us when, in spite of all of the sober, pragmatic, and even correct arguments that war is sometimes necessary, someone says: war is large-scale murder, us at our worst, the stupidest guy doing the cruelest thing to the weakest being.</p>
<p>[&#8230;]</p>
<p>The book didn’t stop the current war, and won’t stop the next one, or the one after that. But something in me rose to the truth in it, and I was put in proper relation to the war going on now. I was, if you will, forbidden to misunderstand it. It is what it is: massacre and screaming and confusion and blood and death. It is the mammoth projection outward of the confused inner life of a handful of men. When someone says war is inevitable, or unavoidable, or unfortunate but necessary, they may be right. Vonnegut’s war was necessary. And yet it was massacre and screaming and confusion and blood and death. It was the mammoth projection outward of the confused inner life of men. In war, the sad tidy constructs we make to help us believe life is orderly and controllable are roughly thrown aside like the delusions they are. In war, love is outed as an insane, insupportable emotion, a kind of luxury emotion, because everywhere you look, someone beloved to someone is being slaughtered, by someone whose own beloved has been slaughtered, or will be, or could be. There’s something sacred about reading a book like Slaughterhouse Five, even if nothing changes but what’s going on inside our minds. We leave such a book restored, if only briefly, to a proper relation with the truth, reminded of what is what, temporarily undeluded, our better nature set back on its feet.</p></blockquote>
<p>Although a novel and a news story may deal with the same subject matter drawn from the same facts of life, there is a universe of difference between the stories of reality and possibility each seeds into the world. It is within our power, Saunders reminds us, to resist the media manipulation machine &#8212; the &#8220;braindead megaphone&#8221; telling us that the world is broken, war inevitable, and human beings doomed by their own nature. Urging us to &#8220;insist that what’s said through it be as precise, intelligent, and humane as possible,&#8221; he writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>Every well-thought-out rebuttal to dogma, every scrap of intelligent logic, every absurdist reduction of some bullying stance is the antidote. Every request for the clarification of the vague, every poke at smug banality, every pen stroke in a document under revision is the antidote&#8230; We still have the ability to rise up&#8230; keep reminding ourselves that representations of the world are never the world itself.</p></blockquote>
<p>Couple with Saunders on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/04/09/george-saunders-uncertainty/">how to love the world more</a>, then revisit Richard Powers on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/01/05/richard-powers-thea/">rewriting the history of our future</a>, May Sarton on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/01/01/may-sarton-the-house-by-the-sea/">how to live openheartedly in a harsh world</a>, and Maya Angelou&#8217;s <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2018/05/09/a-brave-and-startling-truth-maya-angelou/">cosmos-bound poem about rising to our human potential</a>.</p>
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		<title>Yes: William Stafford’s Poetic Calibration of Perspective</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Maria Popova]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jan 2024 17:50:34 +0000</pubDate>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>&#8220;No guarantees in this life.&#8221;</h3>
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<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Way-New-Selected-Poems/dp/1555972691/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank"><img loading="lazy" width="320" height="501" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thewayitis_stafford.jpg?fit=320%2C501&amp;ssl=1" class="cover alignright size-medium" alt="Yes: William Stafford&#8217;s Poetic Calibration of Perspective" decoding="async" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thewayitis_stafford.jpg?w=958&amp;ssl=1 958w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thewayitis_stafford.jpg?resize=320%2C501&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thewayitis_stafford.jpg?resize=600%2C939&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thewayitis_stafford.jpg?resize=240%2C376&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thewayitis_stafford.jpg?resize=768%2C1203&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px" /></a></p><p>When a recent bout of illness sent me sulking with indignant disappointment at the ruin of long laid plans, I had to remind myself that <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/11/02/pattiann-rogers-homo-sapiens/">we were never promised any of this</a>; that it is hubris and self-importance and almost touching delusion to expect an indifferent cosmos to bend to our will, our wishes, and our plans; that meeting the universe on its own terms is the end of suffering. </p>
<p>Through the haze of what Virginia Woolf called the <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2019/05/06/virginia-woolf-on-being-ill/">&#8220;wastes and deserts of the soul&#8221;</a> exposed by being ill, I remembered a lovely calibration of perspective by the poet and peace activist <strong>William Stafford</strong> (January 17, 1914&ndash;August 28, 1993), found in the posthumous collection <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Way-New-Selected-Poems/dp/1555972691/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong><em>The Way It Is: New and Selected Poems</em></strong></a> (<a href="https://search.worldcat.org/title/43938666" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>public library</em></a>).</p>
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<blockquote><p><strong>YES</strong><br />
<em>by William Stafford</em></p>
<p>It could happen any time, tornado,<br />
earthquake, Armageddon. It could happen.<br />
Or sunshine, love, salvation.</p>
<p>It could, you know. That’s why we wake<br />
and look out &#8212; no guarantees<br />
in this life.</p>
<p>But some bonuses, like morning,<br />
like right now, like noon,<br />
like evening.</p></blockquote>
<p>Stafford had a late start as a poet &#8212; his first major collection was published when he was 48. And then the poems that had been writing themselves in him all his life came pouring out, spare and stunning. Within eight years, he was elected Poet Laureate of the United Staes. </p>
<p>The morning before he died in the final year of his seventies, he drafted a poem containing these lines:</p>
<blockquote><p>You can&#8217;t tell when strange things with meaning<br />
will happen. I&#8217;m [still] here writing it down<br />
just the way it was. &#8220;You don&#8217;t have to<br />
prove anything,&#8221; my mother said. &#8220;Just be ready<br />
for what God sends.&#8221; I listened and put my hand<br />
out in the sun again. It was all easy.</p></blockquote>
<p>Complement with Viktor Frankl, writing shortly after his release from the concentration camps, on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2020/05/17/yes-to-life-in-spite-of-everything-viktor-frankl/">saying &#8220;yes&#8221; to life in spite of everything</a> and Henry James on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/10/17/henry-james-the-beast-in-the-jungle/">how to stop waiting and start living</a>, then revisit Barbara Ras&#8217;s kindred poem <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2019/02/07/you-cant-have-it-all-barbara-ras-emily-levine/">&#8220;You Can&#8217;t Have It All&#8221;</a> and Hannah Emerson&#8217;s <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/09/26/hannah-emerson-center-of-the-universe/">cosmic howl of <em>yes yes yes</em></a>.</p>
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		<title>What Makes a Compassionate World: Sophie de Grouchy’s Visionary 18th-Century Appeal to Parents and Teachers</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Maria Popova]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jan 2024 16:15:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[The morning after the 2016 presidential election, I awoke to terrifying flashbacks of my childhood under a totalitarian dictatorship. Desperate for assurance that the future need not hold the total moral collapse of democracy, I reached out to my eldest friend for perspective. Months shy of 100, Helen had been born into a world war, survived the Holocaust, and fled from Poland to America without speaking a word of English before becoming a professor of English literature for half a century. I asked her what to do, where the hope lies. Her response was simple, profound. &#8220;The most hideous crime&#8230;&#160;<a class="h3 read_on" href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2024/01/18/sophie-de-grouchys-sympathy/">read&#160;article</a>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Sophie-Grouchys-Letters-Sympathy-Engagement/dp/0190637080/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank"><img loading="lazy" width="320" height="509" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/lettersonsympathy_degrouchy.jpg?fit=320%2C509&amp;ssl=1" class="cover alignright size-medium" alt="What Makes a Compassionate World: Sophie de Grouchy&#8217;s Visionary 18th-Century Appeal to Parents and Teachers" decoding="async" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/lettersonsympathy_degrouchy.jpg?w=855&amp;ssl=1 855w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/lettersonsympathy_degrouchy.jpg?resize=320%2C509&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/lettersonsympathy_degrouchy.jpg?resize=600%2C954&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/lettersonsympathy_degrouchy.jpg?resize=240%2C382&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/lettersonsympathy_degrouchy.jpg?resize=768%2C1222&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px" /></a></p><p>The morning after the 2016 presidential election, I awoke to terrifying flashbacks of my childhood under a totalitarian dictatorship. Desperate for assurance that the future need not hold the total moral collapse of democracy, I reached out to my eldest friend for perspective. Months shy of 100, <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2018/12/18/a-velocity-of-being-helen-fagin/">Helen</a> had been born into a world war, survived the Holocaust, and fled from Poland to America without speaking a word of English before becoming a professor of English literature for half a century. </p>
<p>I asked her what to do, where the hope lies. </p>
<p>Her response was simple, profound.</p>
<p>&#8220;The most hideous crime against humanity,&#8221; she reminded me, began with a legal election. It is not, therefore, purely on the level of politics that we avert the unconscionable. It begins deeper, she said: in the moral foundation of the people, which is laid early in life; it begins with the impulses we nurture in our young. </p>
<p>Half a century earlier, the pioneering scientist and peace activist Kathleen Lonsdale had arrived at the same conclusion in her <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/03/06/is-peace-possible-kathleen-lonsdale/">superb manifesto for what makes peace possible</a>. But it was another woman of uncommon brilliance and moral courage, writing amid the bloodiest revolution the world had yet seen, that first articulated the urgency of planting the seeds of compassion, out of which all social harmony blooms, in the fallow hearts of children. </p>
<figure id="attachment_81845"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/SophieDeGrouchy_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=680%2C845&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="845" class="size-full wp-image-81845" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/SophieDeGrouchy_TheMarginalian.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/SophieDeGrouchy_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=320%2C398&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/SophieDeGrouchy_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=600%2C746&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/SophieDeGrouchy_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=240%2C298&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/SophieDeGrouchy_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=768%2C955&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Sophie de Grouchy, self-portrait, 1790s</figcaption></figure>
<p>Born in an era when women were barred from formal education and all institutions of political, intellectual, and creative life, <strong>Sophie de Grouchy</strong> (April 8, 1764&ndash;September 8, 1822) was still a girl when she learned English, Latin, Italian, and German by sitting in on her brothers&#8217;s studies, not being allowed to have a tutor of her own; soon, she was teaching the boys herself. By the time she was a teenager, her bedtime reading was Marcus Aurelius, whose <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/06/01/marcus-aurelius-meditations-kindness/">teachings on kindness</a> left a deep impression.</p>
<p>Determined to grow both intellectually and morally, Sophie made frequent visits to the local poor with her mother and her sister to offer compassion and comfort. In this living laboratory of sympathy, she came to see how entwined the wellbeing of others is with one&#8217;s own, how enmeshed we are in what Martin Luther King, Jr. would call <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2015/03/18/martin-luther-king-letter-from-birmingham-city-jail/">&#8220;an inescapable network of mutuality</a> a quarter millennium later. </p>
<figure  class="wp-caption alignnone"><a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/05/27/the-boy-the-mole-the-fox-and-the-horse/"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/05/theboythemolethefoxandthehorse_charliemackesie16.jpg?w=768&#038;ssl=1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Art by Charlie Mackesy from <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/05/27/the-boy-the-mole-the-fox-and-the-horse/"><em>The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse</em></a></figcaption></figure>
<p>After discovering philosophy &#8212; Voltaire, Diderot, Rousseau &#8212; she grew disenchanted with the unprovable promises of religion. Upon announcing her atheism, her mother burned all of Sophie&#8217;s books. </p>
<p>She was twenty-two when she met the philosopher and mathematician Nicolas de Condorcet, twice her age. He was as taken with Sophie&#8217;s intellect as he was with her moral courage &#8212; in one of their first encounters, he watched her throw herself between a rabid dog and a boy she was tutoring. Within weeks, they were married. After helping Condorcet set up a new lyceum where celebrated philosophers and scholars taught, she devoured the curriculum herself, studying mathematics, botany, history. She started taking painting lessons. She joined one of the first anti-slavery clubs. </p>
<p>And then she began writing. </p>
<p>While most of her writing is now lost, one masterwork survives &#8212; her translation of Adam Smith&#8217;s <em>Theory of Moral Sentiments</em>. Published to earn money when her husband was killed in the Reign of Terror and she lost all her property, it embodies what the poet Wisława Szymborska would call “that rare miracle when a translation stops being a translation and becomes&#8230;. a second original.” Appended to it is her entirely original <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Sophie-Grouchys-Letters-Sympathy-Engagement/dp/0190637080/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong><em>Letters on Sympathy</em></strong></a> (<a href="https://search.worldcat.org/title/1049575955" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>public library</em></a>) &#8212; Sophie de Grouchy&#8217;s leap from the springboard of Smith&#8217;s theories into her own singular moral cosmogony. </p>
<p>Although it appeared as an afterword to her translation of Smith in 1798, Sophie had been working on <em>Letters on Sympathy</em> for seven years, beginning when she was only twenty-seven and the French Revolution was raging around her. Rising from its pages are ideas epochs ahead of their time: Not long after Descartes declared nonhuman animals mere automatons, and very long before Jane Goodall lit the dawn of understanding animal consciousness, she insisted that animals are &#8220;sensitive beings&#8221; capable of empathy; two centuries before the discovery of mirror neurons, she wrote of how our sympathy is activated &#8220;when we see a sensible being suffer.&#8221; At the heart of her theory is the recognition that we are endowed with &#8220;a secret impulse to understand the troubles of others as soon as we suspect their existence,&#8221; but that this impulse atrophies if we fail to nourish it from the start and exercise it regularly. </p>
<figure  class="wp-caption alignnone"><a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2014/05/07/the-lion-and-the-bird-marianne-dubuc/"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/lionandbird_dubuc.jpg?w=680&#038;ssl=1" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Illustration by Marianne Dubuc from <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2014/05/07/the-lion-and-the-bird-marianne-dubuc/"><em>The Lion and the Bird</em></a></figcaption></figure>
<p>Anchoring her argument is an impassioned appeal to parents and educators &#8212; one just as urgent today, and perhaps even more so in our age of competitive parenting that scars children&#8217;s souls with the tyranny of achievement and trains them to measure themselves by the trappings of outward success rather than by the scope of their sympathy. She writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>It seems clear that the more we exercise our sensitivity, the stronger it becomes&#8230; When it is not exercised, sensitivity tends to weaken&#8230; How important it must be, therefore, to exercise children’s sensitivity to the point where it will continue to develop as much as it is capable of &#8212; so that it can no longer be dulled by those things in life that tend to lead sensitivity astray. These things lead us far from nature and ourselves by focusing our sensitivity on vain and selfish passions, leading us away from simple tastes, and from those natural leanings in which the happiness of each person resides, the kind of happiness that does not require the sacrifice of others and that benefits all. Fathers, mothers, teachers &#8212; you nearly have in your hands the destiny of the next generation! How guilty you are if you allow your children to abort these precious germs of sensitivity which require, for their development, nothing more than the sight of suffering, the example of compassion, the tears of gratefulness, and an enlightened hand leading and moving them! How guilty you are if you care more about your children’s success than about their virtue, if you are more impatient to see them gain popularity in their circle than to see their heart brim with indignation for an injustice, their faces turn pale at the sight of suffering, their hearts treat all men as brothers!</p></blockquote>
<p>She offers a timeless recipe for cultivating that vital sensitivity in children:</p>
<blockquote><p>Teach them to be easily remorseful, delicately proud, and honest; let them not see suffering without being tormented by the need to bring relief. No less is needed in the midst of these oppressive barriers, raised between man and man from need, strength, and vanity, but that they should fear at each step to hurt rights or to neglect to repair some ancient wrong! That the sweet habit of doing good should teach them that it is through the heart that they will find happiness, and not through titles, luxury, dignities, or riches!</p></blockquote>
<p>Complement with Kahlil Gibran&#8217;s <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2019/09/09/on-children-kahlil-gibran/">poignant advice on parenting</a> and the great cellist Pablo Casals on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2016/03/10/pablo-casals-joys-and-sorrows-jfk/">how to make this world worthy of its children</a>, then &#8212; because books are the finest instrument we have invented for magnifying empathy &#8212; revisit Mary Shelley&#8217;s philosopher-father William Godwin, writing in Sophie de Grouchy&#8217;s day, on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2020/01/17/how-to-raise-a-reader-william-godwin/">how to raise a reader</a>.</p>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Maria Popova]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jan 2024 00:58:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Creativity is at bottom the combinatorial work of memory and imagination. All of our impressions, influences, and experiences &#8212; every sight we have ever seen, every book read, every landscape walked, every love loved &#8212; become seeds for ideas we later combine and recombine, largely unconsciously, into creations we call our own. The most wondrous thing about these seeds is that, when they first fall into the fallow ground of the mind, we have no sense of what they will bloom into years, decades, and selves later, what alchemic cross-pollination will take place between them and other seeds in the&#8230;&#160;<a class="h3 read_on" href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2024/01/14/the-fairy-tale-tree/">read&#160;article</a>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/fairy-tale-tree-stories-world/dp/B000JRCB60/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank"><img loading="lazy" width="320" height="442" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree.jpg?fit=320%2C442&amp;ssl=1" class="cover alignright size-medium" alt="The Fairy Tale Tree" decoding="async" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree.jpg?resize=320%2C442&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree.jpg?resize=600%2C829&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree.jpg?resize=240%2C331&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree.jpg?resize=768%2C1060&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree.jpg?resize=1112%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1112w" sizes="(max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px" /></a></p><p>Creativity is at bottom the combinatorial work of memory and imagination. All of our impressions, influences, and experiences &#8212; every sight we have ever seen, every book read, every landscape walked, every love loved &#8212; become seeds for ideas we later combine and recombine, largely unconsciously, into creations we call our own. The most wondrous thing about these seeds is that, when they first fall into the fallow ground of the mind, we have no sense of what they will bloom into years, decades, and selves later, what alchemic cross-pollination will take place between them and other seeds in the dark underground of consciousness where we become who we are.  </p>
<p>Rilke understood this when he <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2018/04/16/rilke-inspiration-creativity/">contemplated the combinatorial nature of inspiration</a>. Ada Lovelace understood it when she wrote of creativity as the work of an alert imagination that <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2015/12/10/ada-lovelace-imagination/">&#8220;seizes points in common, between subjects having no very apparent connexion, &#038; hence seldom or never brought into juxtaposition&#8221;</a> &#8212; something she embodied when she fused her <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2017/04/05/ada-lovelace-poet-of-science/">childhood impression</a> of a mechanical loom with her gift for mathematics to compose the world&#8217;s first computer program in a <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2015/06/15/the-thrilling-adventures-of-lovelace-and-babbage-sydney-padua/">65-page footnote</a>. </p>
<p>Most artists understand this if they are <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2012/05/10/mark-twain-helen-keller-plagiarism-originality/">honest about the building blocks of their originality</a>. </p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/fairy-tale-tree-stories-world/dp/B000JRCB60/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree18.jpg?w=680&#038;ssl=1" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<p>As he <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/01/20/nick-cave-creativity/">dismantles the myth of originality</a> in the altogether fantastic <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/10/16/nick-cave-hope-faith-carnage-self-forgiveness/"><strong><em>Faith, Hope and Carnage</em></strong></a>, Nick Cave looks back on his body of work as &#8220;primarily narrative songs using vivid imagery&#8221; and traces this sensibility to one particularly fertile seed planted when he was five &#8212; a 1961 Czech book of fairy tales he read and reread for years, into his teens when he first began making music. </p>
<p>(I am reminded of Einstein&#8217;s impassioned insistence that <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2014/03/14/einstein-fairy-tales/">fairy tales are the mightiest fuel for the creative imagination</a>.)</p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/fairy-tale-tree-stories-world/dp/B000JRCB60/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree13.jpg?w=500&#038;ssl=1" class="aligncenter" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/fairy-tale-tree-stories-world/dp/B000JRCB60/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree2.jpg?w=500&#038;ssl=1" class="aligncenter" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<p>Full of brightly illustrated stories from around the world, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/fairy-tale-tree-stories-world/dp/B000JRCB60/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong><em>The Fairy Tale Tree</em></strong></a> (<a href="https://search.worldcat.org/title/1409332" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>public library</em></a>) by Vladislav Stanovsky and Jan Vladislav dazzles with its vivid primary-color illustrations by the great Czech artist and sculptor Stanislav Kolíbal.  </p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/fairy-tale-tree-stories-world/dp/B000JRCB60/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree3.jpg?w=500&#038;ssl=1" class="aligncenter" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<p>The first page of the book casts its promise as part poem and part magic spell &#8212; something strange and transcendent that reads like a Nick Cave song:</p>
<blockquote><p>Beyond endless mountains, beyond endless rivers,<br />
at the very remotest end of the earth<br />
and whither no bird has ever yet flown,<br />
there is a deep blue sea,<br />
and in this sea there is a small green island,<br />
and on this island is a stately tree,<br />
all of gold with shapely branches, twelve in all,<br />
and on each branch there is a nest,<br />
and in each nest a nestful of eggs<br />
&#8212; a nestful of eggs of clear crystal.</p>
<p>You&#8217;ve only to break the crystal shell,<br />
And each has a fairy tale to tell.</p></blockquote>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/fairy-tale-tree-stories-world/dp/B000JRCB60/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree6.jpg?w=500&#038;ssl=1" class="aligncenter" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<p>From there, each chapter proceeds as an egg on a branch of the storytelling tree &#8212; a concept Cave realized only in hindsight anchors &#8220;Spinning Song&#8221; on his record <a href="https://open.spotify.com/album/5TkXgoeyGznBNOjrw17eA7" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>Ghosteen</em></a>. He used an illustration of a red devil from the book in the artwork of another record, and it was the image of a red devil that came to him one day a lifetime later that sparked an entirely new and unexpected creative practice &#8212; his series of bizarre and beautiful <a href="https://www.xavierhufkens.com/exhibitions/the-devil-a-life" target="_blank" rel="noopener">ceramic figurines</a>.</p>
<p>Wild and wondrous, partway between a child&#8217;s drawing and a modernist painting, Kolíbal&#8217;s illustrations emanate his own early influences of Egyptian and Cycladic art yet rise from the page entirely original, full of uncommon vitality and vim &#8212; a pig with a cane, a mouse waltzing with a lobster, a wolf diving down a chimney, strange and joyful like the best of childhood.</p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/fairy-tale-tree-stories-world/dp/B000JRCB60/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree16.jpg?w=500&#038;ssl=1" class="aligncenter" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/fairy-tale-tree-stories-world/dp/B000JRCB60/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree4.jpg?w=500&#038;ssl=1" class="aligncenter" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/fairy-tale-tree-stories-world/dp/B000JRCB60/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree9.jpg?w=500&#038;ssl=1" class="aligncenter" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/fairy-tale-tree-stories-world/dp/B000JRCB60/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree5.jpg?w=500&#038;ssl=1" class="aligncenter" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/fairy-tale-tree-stories-world/dp/B000JRCB60/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree7.jpg?w=500&#038;ssl=1" class="aligncenter" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/fairy-tale-tree-stories-world/dp/B000JRCB60/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree10.jpg?w=500&#038;ssl=1" class="aligncenter" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/fairy-tale-tree-stories-world/dp/B000JRCB60/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree14.jpg?w=500&#038;ssl=1" class="aligncenter" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/fairy-tale-tree-stories-world/dp/B000JRCB60/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree15.jpg?w=500&#038;ssl=1" class="aligncenter" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/fairy-tale-tree-stories-world/dp/B000JRCB60/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree8.jpg?w=500&#038;ssl=1" class="aligncenter" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/fairy-tale-tree-stories-world/dp/B000JRCB60/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree11.jpg?w=500&#038;ssl=1" class="aligncenter" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/fairy-tale-tree-stories-world/dp/B000JRCB60/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree12.jpg?w=500&#038;ssl=1" class="aligncenter" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/fairy-tale-tree-stories-world/dp/B000JRCB60/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thefairytaletree17.jpg?w=500&#038;ssl=1" class="aligncenter" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<p>Complement with J.R.R. Tolkien on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2013/12/05/j-r-r-tolkien-on-fairy-stories/">the psychology of fairy tales</a>, the Nobel-winning Polish poet Wisława Szymborska on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2016/04/22/wislawa-szymborska-fairy-tales-fear/">how fairy tales strengthen our capacity for powerful emotions</a>, and these <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/05/11/jack-day-wonder-tales-from-tibet/">stunning century-old illustrations of Tibetan fairy tales</a> by the artist who created Bambi, then revisit Nick Cave on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/01/20/nick-cave-creativity/">creativity</a>, its <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/10/07/nick-cave-faith/">relationship to self-trust and faith</a>, and <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/11/28/nick-cave-humility-curiosity/">the two pillars of a meaningful life</a>.</p>
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		<title>Sentimentality and Being Mortal: Poet Mark Doty on the Passionate Fragility of Our Attachments</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Maria Popova]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Jan 2024 21:24:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[How beautiful and unbearable that only one of each exists &#8212; each lover, each child, each dog; that this particular chance-constellation of atoms has never before existed and will never again recur in the history of the universe. The fact of each such singularity is a wonder beyond why, as mysterious and irrefutable as the reason you love one and not another. The feeling trembling beneath the fact &#8212; the brutal knowledge that everything we love is irreplaceable yet will be lost: to dissolution and death, to rejection and indifference, to our own return to stardust &#8212; is the hardest&#8230;&#160;<a class="h3 read_on" href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2024/01/13/mark-doty-sentimentality/">read&#160;article</a>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dog-Years-Memoir-Mark-Doty/dp/0061171018/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank"><img loading="lazy" width="320" height="487" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/dogyears_doty.jpg?fit=320%2C487&amp;ssl=1" class="cover alignright size-medium" alt="Sentimentality and Being Mortal: Poet Mark Doty on the Passionate Fragility of Our Attachments" decoding="async" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/dogyears_doty.jpg?w=893&amp;ssl=1 893w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/dogyears_doty.jpg?resize=320%2C487&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/dogyears_doty.jpg?resize=600%2C914&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/dogyears_doty.jpg?resize=240%2C366&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/dogyears_doty.jpg?resize=768%2C1170&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px" /></a></p><p>How beautiful and unbearable that only one of each exists &#8212; each lover, each child, each dog; that this particular chance-constellation of atoms has never before existed and will never again recur in the history of the universe. The fact of each such singularity is a wonder beyond why, as mysterious and irrefutable as the reason you love one and not another. The feeling trembling beneath the fact &#8212; the brutal knowledge that everything we love is irreplaceable yet will be lost: to dissolution and death, to rejection and indifference, to our own return to stardust &#8212; is the hardest thing to bear, the thing for which we have devised <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/04/25/ernest-becker-heroism/">our most elaborate theaters of denial</a>. </p>
<p>Among those coping mechanisms is the invention of sentimentality. &#8220;Sentimentality is a superstructure covering brutality,&#8221; Carl Jung wrote. Its strange psychological machinery is what the poet Mark Doty explores with uncommon insight and sensitivity in a passage from his wonderful memoir <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dog-Years-Memoir-Mark-Doty/dp/0061171018/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong><em>Dog Years</em></strong></a> (<a href="https://search.worldcat.org/title/69792686" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>public library</em></a>). </p>
<p>He writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>The oversweetened surface of the sentimental exists in order to protect its maker, as well as the audience, from anger. At the beautiful image refusing to hold, at the tenderness we bring to the objects of the world &#8212; our eagerness to love, make home, build connection, trust the other &#8212; how all of that’s so readily swept away. Sentimental images of children and of animals, sappy representations of love &#8212; they are fueled, in truth, by their opposites, by a terrible human rage that nothing stays. The greeting card verse, the airbrushed rainbow, the sweet puppy face on the fleecy pink sweatshirt &#8212; these images do not honor the world as it is, in its complexity and individuality, but distort things in apparent service of a warm embrace. They feel empty because they will not acknowledge the inherent anger that things are not as shown; the world, in their terms, is not a universe of individuals but a series of interchangeable instances of charm. It is necessary to assert the insignificance of individuality to make mortality bearable. In this way, the sentimental represents a rage against individuality, the singular, the irreplaceable. (<em>Why don’t you just get another dog?</em>) The anger that lies beneath the sentimental accounts for its weird hollowness. But it is, I supposed, easier to feel than what lies beneath rage: the terror of emptiness, of waste, of the absence of meaning or value; the empty space of our own death, neither comprehensible nor representable.</p></blockquote>
<figure id="attachment_64211"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2018/04/11/leaves-of-grass-margaret-cook/"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/margaretcook_leavesofgrass25.jpg?resize=680%2C851&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="851" class="size-full wp-image-64211" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/margaretcook_leavesofgrass25.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/margaretcook_leavesofgrass25.jpg?resize=240%2C300&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/margaretcook_leavesofgrass25.jpg?resize=320%2C401&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/margaretcook_leavesofgrass25.jpg?resize=768%2C961&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/margaretcook_leavesofgrass25.jpg?resize=600%2C751&amp;ssl=1 600w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Art by Margaret C. Cook for <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2018/04/11/leaves-of-grass-margaret-cook/">a 1913 edition</a> of Walt Whitman&#8217;s <em>Leaves of Grass</em>. (Available <a href="https://society6.com/product/i-musing-late-in-the-autumn-day_framed-print?sku=s6-8967581p21a12v52a13v54?curator=brainpicker" target="_blank" rel="noopener">as a print</a>.)</figcaption></figure>
<p>Of course, our fury at entropy is the great motive force of our creativity &#8212; we make art to make meaning out of our mortality, to counteract its brutality with beauty. Every creative act is an act of consolation for our transience, for our despair about our transience. A century after Albert Camus insisted that <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2015/11/30/albert-camus-travel-lyrical-critical-essays/">&#8220;there is no love of life without despair of life,&#8221;</a> Doty contemplates this fundamental equivalence of existence:</p>
<blockquote><p>Despair, I think, is the fruit of a refusal to accept our mortal situation. Perhaps it’s less passive than it may seem; is despair a deep assertion of will? The stubborn self saying, <em>I will not have it, I do not accept it</em>. <em>Fine</em>, says the world, <em>don’t accept it</em>. The collective continues; the whole goes on, while each part slips away. To attach, to attach passionately to the individual, which is always doomed to vanish &#8212; does that make one wise, or make one a fool?</p></blockquote>
<p>Complement with Annie Dillard on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/04/30/annie-dillard-for-the-time-being/">how to bear your mortality</a> and D.H. Lawrence on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/05/09/d-h-lawrence-death/">the best lifelong preparation for death</a>, then revisit Doty&#8217;s magnificent Whitman-lensed reflection on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2021/09/26/whitman-love-death-doty/">the courage to love despite the certitude of loss</a>.</p>
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		<title>Blue Glass</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Maria Popova]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jan 2024 22:02:14 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Not long after writing about the bowerbird&#8217;s enchantment in blue, I walked out of my house and gasped at the sight of what looked like two extraordinary jewels sparkling on a bed of yellow leaves, right there on the sidewalk &#8212; chunks of cobalt glass, much larger than what a broken bottle would yield, luminous in the low afternoon light. I held one up to the sun and gasped deeper. For millennia &#8212; since long before cobalt became the blood diamond of the digital age, pillaged from the Earth by child labor for its extraordinary usefulness in storing energy and&#8230;&#160;<a class="h3 read_on" href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2024/01/11/blue-glass/">read&#160;article</a>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not long after writing about <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/10/29/bowerbird/">the bowerbird&#8217;s enchantment in blue</a>, I walked out of my house and gasped at the sight of what looked like two extraordinary jewels sparkling on a bed of yellow leaves, right there on the sidewalk &#8212; chunks of cobalt glass, much larger than what a broken bottle would yield, luminous in the low afternoon light. </p>
<p>I held one up to the sun and gasped deeper.</p>
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<p>For millennia &#8212; since long before cobalt became the blood diamond of the digital age, pillaged from the Earth by child labor for its extraordinary usefulness in storing energy and stabilizing the conductors in every laptop and smartphone &#8212; cobalt glass has been answering the soul&#8217;s cry of the great uselessness that makes life not just livable but worth living: beauty. </p>
<p>Cobalt blue is almost as old as the written word, also forged in Mesopotamia four millennia ago. Within five centuries of its invention, Egyptian pottery was making ample and dazzling use of cobalt glass. And then, after the Eighteenth Dynasty of Egypt at the end of the Late Bronze Age, it suddenly vanished &#8212; after 1250 BC, both cobalt and glass almost completely disappear from the archeological record. It took more than a millennium for it to recast its enchantment in Chinese porcelain, slowly migrating west toward the Victorian craze for blue glass. </p>
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<p>The mystery of its disappearance has never been solved &#8212; a harrowing reminder that ideas, even magnificent ideas, can fall into oblivion for epochs: just look at <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/03/24/david-byrne-history-of-the-world-in-dingbats/">Democritus and the atom</a>.</p>
<p>And yet the birth of an idea in a mind &#8212; the conception of something improbable and lovely out of the cold clay of the ordinary &#8212; is one of the great miracles of existence. Looking through the sunlit blue on a Brooklyn sidewalk, I can&#8217;t help but think of cobalt glass a supreme emblem of human ingenuity and the blessed conspiracy of chance and choice behind all creativity: Who was it, the first ancient person to unearth a piece of meteoric iron, throw it into the fire pit to see what happens, watch it release a dazzling silvery metal, compact that metal to the point of liquefaction, and then watch it bleed that loveliest of colors, cobalt blue? What elemental hunger for beauty drove them then to add this strange creation to that supreme triumph of human genius, <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2014/06/23/stuff-matters-miodownik-glass/">glass</a>? </p>
<p>How they too must have gasped when the sun first shone through it. </p>
<p>Cupping this blue marvel in my hand, I feel instantly connected to that anonymous ancestor, connected to the entire lineage of human curiosity and creativity that made so improbable and lovely a thing consecrate an ordinary afternoon with wonder. And none of it had to exist &#8212; not this dazzling blue, not the consciousness that dreamt it up: all of it a miracle of chemistry and chance, a great cosmic gasp at these slender sunlit odds against nothingness and eternal night. </p>
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		<title>The Science and Poetry of Anthotypes: Emily Dickinson’s Herbarium, Recreated in Hauntingly Beautiful Flower Pigment Prints via a Victorian Imaging Process</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[On September 20, 1845, the polymathic Scottish mathematician Mary Somerville &#8212; the woman for whom the word scientist was coined &#8212; sent a letter to the polymathic English astronomer John Herschel, who six years earlier had coined the word photography for the radical invention of capturing light and shadow with chemistry. Somerville recounted her landmark experiments with an alternative image-making process, for which Herschel had laid the groundwork several years earlier. Called anthotype, from the Greek anthos (&#8220;flower&#8221;) and typos (&#8220;imprint&#8221;), the process is kindred to cyanotype, but instead of using a solution of potassium ferricyanide and ferric ammonium citrate&#8230;&#160;<a class="h3 read_on" href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2024/01/09/this-earthen-door-anthotype/">read&#160;article</a>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On September 20, 1845, the polymathic Scottish mathematician Mary Somerville &#8212; <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2020/10/20/mary-somerville/">the woman for whom the word <em>scientist</em> was coined</a> &#8212; sent a letter to the polymathic English astronomer John Herschel, who six years earlier had <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2019/04/03/virginia-woolf-julia-margaret-cameron-photography/">coined the word <em>photography</em></a> for the radical invention of capturing light and shadow with chemistry. Somerville recounted her landmark experiments with an alternative image-making process, for which Herschel had laid the groundwork several years earlier. </p>
<figure id="attachment_81756"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thisearthendoor1.jpg?resize=680%2C865&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="865" class="size-full wp-image-81756" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thisearthendoor1.jpg?w=1061&amp;ssl=1 1061w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thisearthendoor1.jpg?resize=320%2C407&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thisearthendoor1.jpg?resize=600%2C763&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thisearthendoor1.jpg?resize=240%2C305&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/thisearthendoor1.jpg?resize=768%2C977&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Anthotype from <em>This Earthen Door</em>.</figcaption></figure>
<p>Called anthotype, from the Greek <em>anthos</em> (&#8220;flower&#8221;) and <em>typos</em> (&#8220;imprint&#8221;), the process is kindred to <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/05/30/rosalind-hobley-cyanotype-flowers/">cyanotype</a>, but instead of using a solution of potassium ferricyanide and ferric ammonium citrate sensitive to the blue portion of the solar spectrum spilling into ultraviolet, it trades the laboratory for the garden, using the same photosensitive pigment compounds involved in <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2021/10/26/why-leaves-change-color/">how leaves change color</a> and the entire spectrum. </p>
<p>To create an anthotype, a flat object is placed on paper coated with an emulsion made not of chemicals but of plant extracts &#8212; crushed petals, tinctures of roots &#8212; and then exposed to direct sunlight for a long period: days, weeks, even months, depending on the plant, season, and intensity of the light. Eventually, the sun bleaches out the parts of the paper not covered, leaving an imprint of the photopositive object in the color of the pigment used in the coating &#8212; a ghostly beauty with the chromatic quality of a watercolor and the feeling-tone of a poem. </p>
<p>On the first of January the following year, Somerville&#8217;s results were published as <em>On the Action of the Rays of the Spectrum on Vegetable Juices</em> in the <em>Philosophical Transactions of the Royal Society</em> &#8212; not under her own name, since women could not publish in scientific journals, but under Herschel&#8217;s, who gave her full credit. </p>
<figure id="attachment_59154"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/marysomerville.jpg?resize=680%2C827&#038;ssl=1" alt="Mary Somerville (Portrait by Thomas Phillips)" width="680" height="827" class="size-full wp-image-59154" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/marysomerville.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/marysomerville.jpg?resize=240%2C292&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/marysomerville.jpg?resize=320%2C389&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/marysomerville.jpg?resize=768%2C934&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/marysomerville.jpg?resize=600%2C730&amp;ssl=1 600w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Mary Somerville (Portrait by Thomas Phillips)</figcaption></figure>
<p>Condensing the solar spectrum through a lens of flint glass and projecting it through a pinhole onto thick white letter paper washed with various pigments and compounds &#8212; from &#8220;the velvety petals of a scarlet geranium&#8221; to the juice of the beet-root &#8212; Somerville discovered that the juices of the same plant produce different colors depending on what portion of the spectrum they are exposed to and whether they are extracted with water or alcohol. Some of the results were entirely counterintuitive, rendering colors very different from those of the flower &#8212; the dark orange nasturtium, for instance, turned the paper Prussian blue when exposed to light. Somerville marveled at how &#8220;the action of the different parts of the spectrum seems very capricious&#8221; &#8212; a delightful unpredictability that recurred across all of her experiments. She wrote of one:</p>
<blockquote><p>The juice of the petals of pale blue <em>Plumbago auriculata</em> in distilled water imparted its tint to writing-paper, which, after exposure to the action of diffused light, acquired a pale yellowish green hue. The part under the lavender and violet rays of the spectrum, repeatedly washed with the juice, assumed a pale brown colour: the indigo rays seemed to have no effect, although from their lowest edge to the distance of half the length of the spectrum below the red rays, a lavender blue image was formed. Under the orange rays a minute indigo-coloured spot appeared, and also a larger spot of the same colour under the yellow, which were soon blended into one, forming a single oblong figure of maximum intensity, surrounded by a halo of paler indigo </p></blockquote>
<p>This was entirely new insight into the interaction of photons and organic molecules, into the materiality of beauty, into how nature works. Mary Somerville had chipped another fragment of knowledge from the monolith of mystery &#8212; the task and measure of the true scientist. </p>
<p>But as commerce interceded with creativity and the seeds of our insta-culture were planted, the much faster &#8212; and much more toxic &#8212; chemical imaging processes like daguerreotype and tintype became favored over the slow, gentle work of sunlit flowers. </p>
<p>Expelled from the realm of science and commercial technology, anthotypes became the province of artists. </p>
<figure id="attachment_61497"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/emilydickinson.jpg?resize=680%2C814&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="814" class="size-full wp-image-61497" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/emilydickinson.jpg?w=1002&amp;ssl=1 1002w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/emilydickinson.jpg?resize=240%2C287&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/emilydickinson.jpg?resize=320%2C383&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/emilydickinson.jpg?resize=768%2C920&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/emilydickinson.jpg?resize=600%2C719&amp;ssl=1 600w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Emily Dickinson, daguerreotype, ca. 1847. (Amherst College Archives &#038; Special Collections, gift of Millicent Todd Bingham, 1956)</figcaption></figure>
<p>Meanwhile in New England, around the time she sat for the daguerreotype that remains her sole surviving photograph, the teenage Emily Dickinson was discovering a kindred way of immortalizing flowers. </p>
<p>Not long after <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2017/04/27/margaret-gatty-seaweed/">botany gave women a foothold in Victorian science</a>, the young poet began pressing and arranging hundreds of wildflowers into <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2017/05/23/emily-dickinson-herbarium/">her remarkable herbarium</a>, on the pages of which she honed the art of composition and incubated <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/02/04/universe-in-verse-bloom/">her ecological poetry</a>.</p>
<p>Two centuries later, photographers <a href="https://www.amandamarchand.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Amanda Marchand</a> and <a href="https://www.leahsobsey.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Leah Sobsey</a> pay an anthotype homage to Dickinson in their lovely collaboration <a href="https://www.amandamarchand.com/this-earthen" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>This Earthen Door</em></a>, titled after a line from her poem &#8220;We can but follow to the Sun.&#8221; </p>
<figure id="attachment_81759"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://www.amandamarchand.com/this-earthen" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype3.jpg?resize=680%2C441&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="441" class="size-full wp-image-81759" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype3.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype3.jpg?resize=320%2C207&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype3.jpg?resize=600%2C389&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype3.jpg?resize=240%2C156&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype3.jpg?resize=768%2C498&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Left: page from Dickinson&#8217;s herbarium. Right: anthotype from <em>This Earthen Door</em>.</figcaption></figure>
<p>Painstakingly recreating all 66 pages of Dickinson&#8217;s herbarium in large-scale anthotypes made with juices from 66 species of plants the poet grew in her garden, they offer something uncommonly lyrical &#8212; part color study and part time travel, harmonizing the ephemeral and the eternal, radiating the quiet consolation of the dialogue between nature and human nature.</p>
<figure id="attachment_81757"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://www.amandamarchand.com/this-earthen" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype5.jpg?resize=680%2C439&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="439" class="size-full wp-image-81757" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype5.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype5.jpg?resize=320%2C207&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype5.jpg?resize=600%2C388&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype5.jpg?resize=240%2C155&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype5.jpg?resize=768%2C496&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Left: page from Dickinson&#8217;s herbarium. Right: anthotype from <em>This Earthen Door</em>.</figcaption></figure>
<figure id="attachment_81760"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://www.amandamarchand.com/this-earthen" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype2.jpg?resize=680%2C442&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="442" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-81761" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype2.jpg?w=886&amp;ssl=1 886w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype2.jpg?resize=320%2C208&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype2.jpg?resize=600%2C390&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype2.jpg?resize=240%2C156&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype2.jpg?resize=768%2C499&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Left: page from Dickinson&#8217;s herbarium. Right: anthotype from <em>This Earthen Door</em>.</figcaption></figure>
<figure id="attachment_81758"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://www.amandamarchand.com/this-earthen" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype4.jpg?resize=680%2C441&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="441" class="size-full wp-image-81758" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype4.jpg?w=888&amp;ssl=1 888w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype4.jpg?resize=320%2C208&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype4.jpg?resize=600%2C389&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype4.jpg?resize=240%2C156&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype4.jpg?resize=768%2C498&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Left: page from Dickinson&#8217;s herbarium. Right: anthotype from <em>This Earthen Door</em>.</figcaption></figure>
<p>But there is also an elegiac undertone to the project: The <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/02/04/universe-in-verse-bloom/">evolution of flowering plants</a> is what made mammals possible &#8212; creatures capable of photography and poetry &#8212; and yet flowers are now <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2024/01/04/science/flower-sex-evolution-bees.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener">evolving to bloom less</a>. Metabolically costly since the start, producing blossoms to attract pollinators is now becoming prodigal as pollinator populations are rapidly declining. Instead of relying on pollinators, many bisexual species &#8212; the botanical term for which is <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2021/07/02/perfect-flowers-emily-dickison/"><em>perfect flowers</em></a> &#8212; are evolving to fertilize their own seeds with their own pollen: a process known as <em>selfing</em>. Its haunting downside is that, because <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2021/01/02/the-snail-with-the-right-heart/">diversity is nature&#8217;s fulcrum of resilience</a>, flowers pollinated by selfing replicate their own genes in the next generation of seeds, amplifying their existing vulnerabilities to disease and drought &#8212; something cross-pollination prevents by mixing the DNA of different plants into new, adaptive combinations of genes. (I am reminded of Iris Murdoch&#8217;s lovely notion that beauty and art grant us an opportunity for <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2019/10/21/iris-murdoch-unselfing/"><em>unselfing</em></a>, disrupting the ruminative replication of our beliefs and mental states with something magnificently other &#8212; and what is psychological resilience if not the ability to see beyond our suffering, and what is compassion if not the ability to step outside the self and take in the other with a gasp of tenderness.)</p>
<figure id="attachment_81760"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://www.amandamarchand.com/this-earthen" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype1.jpg?resize=680%2C453&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="453" class="size-full wp-image-81760" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype1.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype1.jpg?resize=320%2C213&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype1.jpg?resize=600%2C400&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype1.jpg?resize=240%2C160&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/emily_anthotype1.jpg?resize=768%2C511&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Left: page from Dickinson&#8217;s herbarium. Right: anthotype from <em>This Earthen Door</em>.</figcaption></figure>
<p>The less flowers bloom, the less nectar they are providing for the already endangered pollinators, foreboding a vicious cycle for the entire planetary ecosystem. Against this ecological backdrop, the ghostly loveliness of these anthotypes may one day read as a requiem for life &#8212; an echo of a time on Earth when flowers flourished and poetry was possible. </p>
<p>But amid a world increasingly famished for beauty as it careens into brutality, they are also a tender reminder that the human species is as capable of making art as it is of making war, that each day the Sun rises to shine its spectrum upon this lush wonderland of chemistry and chance, we begin again and get to choose afresh how to spend our light. </p>
<p>Complement with contemporary artist Rosalind Hobley&#8217;s <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/05/30/rosalind-hobley-cyanotype-flowers/">stunning cyanotypes of flowers</a>, created two centuries after Anna Atkins became the first person to illustrate a book with photographic images &#8212; her <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2015/04/08/anna-atkins-algae/">hauntingly beautiful cyanotypes of algae</a> &#8212; and the story of <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/07/05/c-f-durant-algology-alage-new-york/">the Victorian algae herbarium</a> that brought the submarine wilderness to Earth, then delve into this <a href="https://www.alternativephotography.com/anthotypes-anthotype-process/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">excellent field guide</a> to making your own anthotypes.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA["Like a precious, fleeting foam over the sea of suffering arise all those works of art, in which a single individual lifts himself for an hour so high above his personal destiny that his happiness shines like a star and appears to all who see it as something eternal and as a happiness of their own."]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>&#8220;Like a precious, fleeting foam over the sea of suffering arise all those works of art, in which a single individual lifts himself for an hour so high above his personal destiny that his happiness shines like a star and appears to all who see it as something eternal and as a happiness of their own.&#8221;</h3>
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<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Steppenwolf-Novel-Hermann-Hesse/dp/0312278675/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank"><img loading="lazy" width="320" height="480" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/hesse_steppenwolf.jpg?fit=320%2C480&amp;ssl=1" class="cover alignright size-medium" alt="The Two Souls Within: Hermann Hesse on the Dual Life of the Creative Spirit" decoding="async" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/hesse_steppenwolf.jpg?w=1000&amp;ssl=1 1000w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/hesse_steppenwolf.jpg?resize=320%2C480&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/hesse_steppenwolf.jpg?resize=600%2C900&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/hesse_steppenwolf.jpg?resize=240%2C360&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/hesse_steppenwolf.jpg?resize=768%2C1152&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px" /></a></p><p>Coursing through every civilization are the myths that shape what its people come to believe about reality and possibility. Some of them are healing and some damaging. Some are easy to recognize for what they are &#8212; almost all isms are damaging myths. But some are more subtle, more pernicious, permeating the substratum of culture and the marrow of the psyche. </p>
<p>One of Western culture&#8217;s most damaging myths, largely inherited from the Romantics, is that of the tortured genius &#8212; the suffering artist who needs to have suffered and must go on suffering in order to create works of beauty and poignancy, portals to the sacred. The truth, of course, is far more nuanced &#8212; artists are simply people who feel life deeply in all of its dimensions, who are awake and alive to both its tragedy and its transcendence, who put their heightened sensitivity in the service of wakefulness and aliveness for others. </p>
<p>Virginia Woolf knew this when she wrote of <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2015/09/09/virginia-woolf-cotton-wool-moments-of-being/">the shock-receiving capacity</a> necessary for being an artist. In his diary, Walt Whitman contemplated the superior porousness of the creative spirit to both life&#8217;s “sunny expanses and sky-reaching heights” and its &#8220;bare spots and darknesses,&#8221; believing that &#8220;no artist or work of the very first class may be or can be without them.” </p>
<p>These, of course, are the polarities we all live with, the polarities that live in us, which Maya Angelou channeled in her stunning poem <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2018/05/09/a-brave-and-startling-truth-maya-angelou/">&#8220;A Brave and Startling Truth.&#8221;</a> The artist is humanity&#8217;s magnifying lens for the inherent dualities of human nature &#8212; something James Baldwin captured in his insistence that an artist&#8217;s role is <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2017/05/24/james-baldwin-life-magazine-1963/">&#8220;to make you realize the doom and glory of knowing who you are and what you are.&#8221;</a> The measure of our creative vitality lies in how intimately we contact both the doom and the glory of being, what we make of the restless tension between our own poles, how we harmonize them into something beautiful. </p>
<figure id="attachment_66531"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/HermannHesse_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=680%2C960&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="960" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-81996" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/HermannHesse_TheMarginalian.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/HermannHesse_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=320%2C452&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/HermannHesse_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=600%2C847&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/HermannHesse_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=240%2C339&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/HermannHesse_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=768%2C1084&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/HermannHesse_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=1088%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1088w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Hermann Hesse</figcaption></figure>
<p>In the interlude between two world wars, as humanity hungered for beauty to controvert its own brutality, <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/tag/hermann-hesse/">Hermann Hesse</a> (July 2, 1877&ndash;August 9, 1962) considered the inner life of the creative spirit in a poignant passage from his 1927 novel <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Steppenwolf-Novel-Hermann-Hesse/dp/0312278675/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong><em>Steppenwolf</em></strong></a> (<a href="https://search.worldcat.org/title/698117126" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>public library</em></a>), painting the artist as a divided creature that yearns for wholeness and turns that yearning into the creative act:</p>
<blockquote><p>Many artists&#8230; have two souls, two beings within them. There is God and the devil in them; the mother’s blood and the father’s; the capacity for happiness and the capacity for suffering; and in just such a state of enmity and entanglement towards and within each other as were the wolf and man.</p></blockquote>
<p>For Hesse&#8217;s artist, riven by these inner tensions, &#8220;life has no repose.&#8221; And yet out of that restlessness comes the artist&#8217;s gift to the world:</p>
<blockquote><p>[Artists] live at times in their rare moments of happiness with such strength and indescribable beauty, the spray of their moment’s happiness is flung so high and dazzlingly over the wide sea of suffering, that the light of it, spreading its radiance, touches others too with its enchantment. Thus, like a precious, fleeting foam over the sea of suffering arise all those works of art, in which a single individual lifts himself for an hour so high above his personal destiny that his happiness shines like a star and appears to all who see it as something eternal and as a happiness of their own.</p></blockquote>
<p>Complement with other excellent reflections on what it means to be an artist from <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2015/02/09/e-e-cummings-miscellany-agony-of-the-artist/">e.e. cummings</a>, <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2020/02/25/m-c-richards-centering-creativity/">M.C. Richards</a>, <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2018/06/01/egon-schiele-letter/">Egon Schiele</a>, and <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2016/11/30/marina-abramovic-artist-manifesto/">Marina Abramović</a>, then revisit Hesse on <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2019/01/15/hermann-hesse-solitude-suffering-destiny/">the courage to be yourself</a>, <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2018/12/12/hermann-hesse-letter-to-a-young-german/">the wisdom of the inner voice</a>, and <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2023/07/06/hermann-hesse-wonder-butterflies/">how to be more alive</a>.</p>
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		<title>A Parliament of Owls and a Murder of Crows: How Groups of Birds Got Their Names, with Wondrous Vintage Illustrations by Brian Wildsmith</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[Language is an instrument of great precision and poignancy &#8212; our best tool for telling each other what the world is and what we are, for conveying the blueness of blue and the wonder of being alive. But it is also a thing of great pliancy and creativity &#8212; a living reminder that how we name things changes what we see, changes the seer. (This, of course, is why we have poetry.) It is the birthplace of the imagination and forever its plaything: I remember my unabashed delight when a naturalist friend first introduced me to the various terms for&#8230;&#160;<a class="h3 read_on" href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2024/01/04/brian-wildsmith-birds-company-terms/">read&#160;article</a>]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Language is an instrument of great precision and poignancy &#8212; our best tool for telling each other what the world is and what we are, for conveying the blueness of blue and the wonder of being alive. But it is also a thing of great pliancy and creativity &#8212; a living reminder that how we name things changes what we see, changes the seer. (This, of course, is why we have poetry.) It is <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2013/08/19/james-geary-i-is-an-other-children-metaphor/">the birthplace of the imagination</a> and forever its plaything: I remember my unabashed delight when a naturalist friend first introduced me to the various terms for groups of birds &#8212; from &#8220;a deceit of lapwings&#8221; to &#8220;a pitying of turtledoves,&#8221; and could there be a notion more charming than &#8220;an ostentation of peacocks&#8221;?</p>
<p>Some of these collective nouns, often called company terms, are based on observable characteristics of the species &#8212; &#8220;a fall of woodcock&#8221; references the bewildering air dance of the courting birds, &#8220;a watch of nightingales&#8221; pays homage to the nocturnal wakefulness of <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/06/05/the-cello-and-the-nightingales-beatrice-harrison/">Earth&#8217;s most musical bird</a>, and &#8220;a gaggle of geese&#8221; turns their migratory cries into delicious onomatopoeia. Some stem from myths and folk beliefs about birds dating back centuries, to a time when Satan was realer than gravity in the human mind, Kepler&#8217;s mother could be <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2019/12/26/katharina-kepler-witchcraft-dream/">tried for witchcraft</a>, and superstition was the primary sensemaking tool for causality &#8212; an organizing principle for life, reflected in language: &#8220;a murder of crows&#8221; alludes to various superstitions about crows as emissaries of death, believed capable of killing their own kind in punishment for transgression; &#8220;a parliament of owls&#8221; draws on ancient Greek mythology, in which an owl accompanies Athena &#8212; the goddess of wisdom and reason, representing freedom and democracy across the Western world. </p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000NTZMF6/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_ravens.jpg?resize=680%2C549&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="549" class="size-full wp-image-81715" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_ravens.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_ravens.jpg?resize=320%2C258&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_ravens.jpg?resize=600%2C484&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_ravens.jpg?resize=240%2C194&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_ravens.jpg?resize=768%2C620&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<p>A great many of these company terms originate in one of the first books printed in English after the invention of the Gutenberg Press: the <em>Boke of Seynt Albans</em> [<em>Book of Saint Albans</em>], also known as <em>The Book of Hawking, Hunting, and Blasing of Arms</em>. Anonymously published in 1486 and written largely in verse, it was lauded as the work of “a gentleman of excellent gifts&#8221; &#8212; until it was discovered that the author was a woman named Juliana Barnes. </p>
<p>Like <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2022/11/17/octavio-paz-sor-juana/">Sor Juana</a> two centuries later, Juliana had suffered some great unnamed heartbreak that led her to retreat to a cloister, where she immersed herself in study &#8212; convents were often the only way women could access books in an era when formal education was entirely closed to them. Like Montaigne, she became a prolific diarist. Having refined herself as a writer on these private pages, she began writing for the public &#8212; an act of tremendous courage and confidence for a woman in the fifteenth century to begin with, and doubly so given she chose to write about masculine endeavors: hunting, fishing, hawking. </p>
<p>Tucked into the middle of her book is a long list of company terms under the heading &#8220;THE COMPAYNYS OF BEESTYS AND FOWLYS.&#8221; Discernible through the confounding Old English, through the bastarda blackletter script barely legible to modern eyes, are the charming &#8220;exaltation of larks&#8221; (<em>Exaltyng of Larkis</em>), &#8220;murmuration of starlings&#8221; (<em>Murmuration of Stares</em>), &#8220;watch of nightingales&#8221; (<em>Wache of Nyghtingalis</em>), &#8220;sedge of herons&#8221; (<em>Sege of heronnys</em>), &#8220;gaggle of geese&#8221; (<em>Gagle of gees</em>), and &#8220;unkindness of ravens&#8221; (<em>unkyndenes of Ravenes</em>), all still in use today.</p>
<p><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/beestys1.jpg?resize=680%2C944&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="944" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-81704" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/beestys1.jpg?w=1043&amp;ssl=1 1043w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/beestys1.jpg?resize=320%2C444&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/beestys1.jpg?resize=600%2C833&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/beestys1.jpg?resize=240%2C333&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/beestys1.jpg?resize=768%2C1066&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></p>
<p><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/beesty2.jpg?resize=680%2C944&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="944" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-81703" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/beesty2.jpg?w=1043&amp;ssl=1 1043w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/beesty2.jpg?resize=320%2C444&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/beesty2.jpg?resize=600%2C833&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/beesty2.jpg?resize=240%2C333&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/beesty2.jpg?resize=768%2C1066&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></p>
<p><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/beestys3.jpg?resize=680%2C944&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="944" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-81702" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/beestys3.jpg?w=1043&amp;ssl=1 1043w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/beestys3.jpg?resize=320%2C444&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/beestys3.jpg?resize=600%2C833&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/beestys3.jpg?resize=240%2C333&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/beestys3.jpg?resize=768%2C1066&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></p>
<p>Half a millennium after Juliana Barnes died an unknown nun in an English convent on a planet without clocks, calculus, or democracy that thought itself the center of the universe, the English painter and children&#8217;s book illustrator Brian Wildsmith (January 22, 1930&ndash;August 31, 2016) brought to life the loveliest of these company terms in the 1967 gem <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000NTZMF6/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong><em>Birds by Brian Wildsmith</em></strong></a> (<a href="https://search.worldcat.org/title/306437" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>public library</em></a>).</p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000NTZMF6/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds20_1.jpg?resize=680%2C439&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="439" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-81732" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds20_1.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds20_1.jpg?resize=320%2C206&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds20_1.jpg?resize=600%2C387&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds20_1.jpg?resize=240%2C155&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds20_1.jpg?resize=768%2C495&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<p>Not all of these terms have remained the same across space and time &#8212; different eras and different regions have devised their own strange and wondrous lexicon for the same bird groupings. Juliana Barnes&#8217;s &#8220;sedge of herons&#8221; gave way to the &#8220;siege of herons&#8221; more popular today, shifting focus from the silent silhouettes of these dignified birds rising from the edge of the pond like tall grass to the inelegant and rather violent-sounding vocalizations they make during flight; in Wildsmith&#8217;s painted aviary owls are not a &#8220;parliament&#8221; but a &#8220;stare,&#8221; the term now brinking on the obsolete, having peaked in use the year before the book was published.</p>
<figure id="attachment_81721"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000NTZMF6/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_owls.jpg?resize=680%2C535&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="535" class="size-full wp-image-81721" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_owls.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_owls.jpg?resize=320%2C252&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_owls.jpg?resize=600%2C472&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_owls.jpg?resize=240%2C189&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_owls.jpg?resize=768%2C604&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">A stare of owls</figcaption></figure>
<figure id="attachment_81738"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/owls.jpg?resize=648%2C805&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="648" height="805" class="size-full wp-image-81738" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/owls.jpg?w=648&amp;ssl=1 648w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/owls.jpg?resize=320%2C398&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/owls.jpg?resize=600%2C745&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/owls.jpg?resize=240%2C298&amp;ssl=1 240w" sizes="(max-width: 648px) 100vw, 648px" data-recalc-dims="1" /><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">Usage frequency in printed sources</figcaption></figure>
<p>Emerging from these changing terms is a testament to Toni Morrison&#8217;s insistence that language is best understood <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2016/12/07/toni-morrison-nobel-prize-speech/">&#8220;partly as a system, partly as a living thing&#8221;</a> &#8212; evidence that language is but a microcosm of life, subject to its own evolutionary forces of adaptation to context akin to those that transformed the dinosaurs into birds. Lest we forget, words too <a href="https://www.themarginalian.org/2019/06/17/the-lost-words-macfarlane-morris/">face the peril of extinction</a>.</p>
<figure id="attachment_81741"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000NTZMF6/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_woodcock3.jpg?resize=680%2C288&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="288" class="size-full wp-image-81741" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_woodcock3.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_woodcock3.jpg?resize=320%2C136&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_woodcock3.jpg?resize=600%2C255&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_woodcock3.jpg?resize=240%2C102&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_woodcock3.jpg?resize=768%2C326&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">A fall of woodcock</figcaption></figure>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000NTZMF6/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds21_1.jpg?resize=680%2C444&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="444" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-81731" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds21_1.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds21_1.jpg?resize=320%2C209&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds21_1.jpg?resize=600%2C392&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds21_1.jpg?resize=240%2C157&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds21_1.jpg?resize=768%2C501&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<figure id="attachment_81724"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000NTZMF6/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_swans.jpg?resize=680%2C564&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="564" class="size-full wp-image-81724" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_swans.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_swans.jpg?resize=320%2C265&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_swans.jpg?resize=600%2C498&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_swans.jpg?resize=240%2C199&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_swans.jpg?resize=768%2C637&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">A wedge of swans</figcaption></figure>
<figure id="attachment_81723"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000NTZMF6/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_herons-scaled.jpg?resize=680%2C543&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="543" class="size-full wp-image-81723" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_herons-scaled.jpg?w=2560&amp;ssl=1 2560w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_herons-scaled.jpg?resize=320%2C256&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_herons-scaled.jpg?resize=600%2C480&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_herons-scaled.jpg?resize=240%2C192&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_herons-scaled.jpg?resize=768%2C614&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_herons-scaled.jpg?resize=1536%2C1228&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_herons-scaled.jpg?resize=2048%2C1637&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_herons-scaled.jpg?w=1360&amp;ssl=1 1360w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">A sedge of herons</figcaption></figure>
<figure id="attachment_81714"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000NTZMF6/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_turkeys.jpg?resize=680%2C541&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="541" class="size-full wp-image-81714" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_turkeys.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_turkeys.jpg?resize=320%2C254&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_turkeys.jpg?resize=600%2C477&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_turkeys.jpg?resize=240%2C191&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_turkeys.jpg?resize=768%2C611&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">A rafter of turkeys</figcaption></figure>
<figure id="attachment_81716"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000NTZMF6/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_plover1.jpg?resize=680%2C540&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="540" class="size-full wp-image-81716" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_plover1.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_plover1.jpg?resize=320%2C254&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_plover1.jpg?resize=600%2C477&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_plover1.jpg?resize=240%2C191&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_plover1.jpg?resize=768%2C610&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">A congregation of plover</figcaption></figure>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000NTZMF6/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds25_1.jpg?resize=680%2C452&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="452" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-81727" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds25_1.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds25_1.jpg?resize=320%2C213&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds25_1.jpg?resize=600%2C399&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds25_1.jpg?resize=240%2C159&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds25_1.jpg?resize=768%2C510&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<figure id="attachment_81717"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000NTZMF6/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_jay.jpg?resize=680%2C541&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="541" class="size-full wp-image-81717" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_jay.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_jay.jpg?resize=320%2C254&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_jay.jpg?resize=600%2C477&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_jay.jpg?resize=240%2C191&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_jay.jpg?resize=768%2C611&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">A party of jays</figcaption></figure>
<figure id="attachment_81720"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000NTZMF6/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_plover.jpg?resize=680%2C538&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="538" class="size-full wp-image-81720" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_plover.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_plover.jpg?resize=320%2C253&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_plover.jpg?resize=600%2C475&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_plover.jpg?resize=240%2C190&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_plover.jpg?resize=768%2C608&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">A walk of snipe</figcaption></figure>
<figure id="attachment_81722"  class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000NTZMF6/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_bitterns.jpg?resize=680%2C536&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="536" class="size-full wp-image-81722" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_bitterns.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_bitterns.jpg?resize=320%2C252&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_bitterns.jpg?resize=600%2C473&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_bitterns.jpg?resize=240%2C189&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds_bitterns.jpg?resize=768%2C605&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a><figcaption class="wp-caption-text">A siege of bitterns</figcaption></figure>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000NTZMF6/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds27_1.jpg?resize=680%2C453&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="453" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-81725" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds27_1.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds27_1.jpg?resize=320%2C213&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds27_1.jpg?resize=600%2C400&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds27_1.jpg?resize=240%2C160&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds27_1.jpg?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000NTZMF6/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds26_1.jpg?resize=680%2C464&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="464" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-81726" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds26_1.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds26_1.jpg?resize=320%2C218&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds26_1.jpg?resize=600%2C409&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds26_1.jpg?resize=240%2C164&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds26_1.jpg?resize=768%2C524&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000NTZMF6/?tag=braipick-20" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img decoding="async" loading="lazy" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds22_1.jpg?resize=680%2C471&#038;ssl=1" alt="" width="680" height="471" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-81730" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds22_1.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds22_1.jpg?resize=320%2C222&amp;ssl=1 320w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds22_1.jpg?resize=600%2C416&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds22_1.jpg?resize=240%2C166&amp;ssl=1 240w, https://i0.wp.com/www.themarginalian.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/brianwildsmith_birds22_1.jpg?resize=768%2C532&amp;ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></a></p>
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