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<description> <![CDATA[ <p>Over the past year, Saprea’s donors and partners—including YESCO and the RLC Family Foundation—have made it possible to expand awareness of child sexual abuse through impactful billboard campaigns, reaching communities with messages of prevention, hope, and healing. </p>
<p>The post <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/saprea-billboard-awareness-yesco-rlc-family-foundation/">How Generous Partners Are Helping Saprea Raise Child Sexual Abuse Awareness </a> appeared first on <a href="https://saprea.org">Saprea</a>.</p>
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But awareness doesn’t happen on its own. It takes a community of committed partners and donors who are willing to invest in making the unseen visible.</p>
<p>Over the past year, that impact has been made possible through the generosity of our supporters and key partners, including <a href="https://www.yesco.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">YESCO</a> and <a href="https://rlcfamilyfoundation.org/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">RLC Family Foundation</a>.</p></h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e36440-e24 ms48-1 ms48-2 ms48-4 ms48-6 ms48-8 ms48-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e25 ms48-f ms48-i ms48-k ms48-l ms48-p ms48-r ms48-s ms48-v ms48-w ms48-y ms48-z ms48-14 ms48-1a"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e26 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e27 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2g ms48-2j ms48-2k ms48-2l ms48-2o ms48-2p ms48-2q ms48-2r ms48-2s"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Donated Billboard Advertising Supports Child Sexual Abuse Awareness</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e28 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-24 ms48-25"><p>Through donated and funded billboard advertising, these partners have helped bring Saprea’s message into communities in a bold, public way.</p>  
 
<p>Billboards have the unique ability to reach people where they are—on their daily commutes, in their neighborhoods, and throughout their cities. Because of this generosity, critical messages about prevention, healing, and hope have reached thousands who may not have otherwise encountered them.</p>  
 
<p><strong>This kind of visibility matters.</strong> It helps normalize conversations around a difficult topic, encourages individuals to seek help, and empowers communities to take action.</p> </div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e36440-e29 ms48-1 ms48-2 ms48-3 ms48-5 ms48-6 ms48-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e30 ms48-f ms48-i ms48-k ms48-l ms48-p ms48-r ms48-s ms48-v ms48-w ms48-y ms48-z ms48-14 ms48-1b"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e31 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p ms48-1y"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e36440-e32 ms48-1 ms48-2 ms48-3 ms48-4 ms48-6 ms48-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e33 ms48-f ms48-i ms48-k ms48-l ms48-p ms48-r ms48-s ms48-v ms48-w ms48-y ms48-z ms48-14 ms48-1c"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e34 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e35 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2g ms48-2j ms48-2k ms48-2l ms48-2o ms48-2p ms48-2q ms48-2r ms48-2s"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Where Has Saprea’s Billboard Campaign Reached?</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e36 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-24 ms48-25 ms48-26"><p>Over the last year, the support of donors and partners like YESCO and the RLC Family Foundation has allowed Saprea to significantly expand awareness efforts through billboard campaigns.</p>
 
<p>These messages have been displayed along I-15 in Utah and surrounding areas and have served as a constant reminder that:</p>
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<li>Healing is possible.</li> 
<li>Support is available.</li> 
<li>Prevention starts with awareness and education.</li> 
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 </div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e37 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-24 ms48-25"><p>What began as an act of generosity has grown into a sustained effort to reach more people, more often, with messages that matter.</p> </div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e36440-e38 ms48-1 ms48-2 ms48-3 ms48-4 ms48-6 ms48-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e39 ms48-f ms48-i ms48-k ms48-l ms48-p ms48-r ms48-s ms48-v ms48-w ms48-y ms48-z ms48-14 ms48-1d"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e40 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e41 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2g ms48-2j ms48-2k ms48-2l ms48-2o ms48-2p ms48-2q ms48-2r ms48-2s"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Why Partnerships Like This Matter</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e42 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-24 ms48-25"><p>Awareness campaigns at this scale require more than visuals—they require partnership.</p>
<p>By donating billboard spaces and funding these efforts, YESCO and the RLC Family Foundation have played a critical role in helping Saprea extend its reach far beyond traditional channels. Their support ensures that conversations about child sexual abuse are not confined to small spaces but are brought into the public eye, where they can inspire change.</p>
<p>These partnerships demonstrate what’s possible when businesses and philanthropic organizations align their resources with a mission that impacts lives.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e36440-e43 ms48-1 ms48-2 ms48-3 ms48-4 ms48-6 ms48-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e44 ms48-f ms48-k ms48-l ms48-n ms48-p ms48-r ms48-v ms48-y ms48-10 ms48-11 ms48-14 ms48-1e"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e45 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e46 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2e ms48-2k ms48-2l ms48-2n ms48-2o ms48-2p ms48-2q ms48-2t ms48-2u"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Grateful for a Community That Shows Up</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e47 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-24 ms48-25"><p><strong>To our donors, partners, and supporters: Thank you!</strong></p>
<p>Your generosity is helping create a world where more people are informed, more survivors are supported, and more communities are equipped to prevent sexual abuse.</p>
<p>Because of you, awareness is not limited to a moment—it is sustained throughout the year, reaching individuals and families when they need it most.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e36440-e48 ms48-1 ms48-2 ms48-4 ms48-6 ms48-7 ms48-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e49 ms48-f ms48-i ms48-k ms48-l ms48-p ms48-r ms48-s ms48-v ms48-w ms48-y ms48-z ms48-14 ms48-1f"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e50 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e51 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2g ms48-2j ms48-2k ms48-2l ms48-2o ms48-2p ms48-2q ms48-2r ms48-2s"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How to Support Child Sexual Abuse Awareness</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e52 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-24 ms48-25"><p>While this past year has been impactful, the need for awareness continues. With the ongoing support of partners like YESCO and the RLC Family Foundation, Saprea will continue to expand its reach and bring critical messages to the community.</p> 
 
<p><strong>Together, we are not just raising awareness; we are building a future where prevention is possible and healing is within reach.</strong></p> </div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e36440-e53 ms48-1 ms48-4 ms48-6 ms48-9 ms48-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e54 ms48-e ms48-f ms48-i ms48-k ms48-l ms48-r ms48-s ms48-v ms48-w ms48-x ms48-y ms48-17 ms48-1g postsrow"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e55 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e56 ms48-29 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2d ms48-2e ms48-2g ms48-2k ms48-2o ms48-2s ms48-2v"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Recent blogs</h2></div></div></div></div><div class="x-col e36440-e57 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p"><div class="x-row e36440-e58 ms48-f ms48-g ms48-i ms48-l ms48-s ms48-v ms48-x ms48-12 ms48-17 ms48-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><a class="x-col e36440-e59 ms48-1n ms48-1z post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/saprea-billboard-awareness-yesco-rlc-family-foundation/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e36440-e60 ms48-36"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/yesco-billboard.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="36442:full" loading="lazy"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e61 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2j ms48-2l ms48-2o ms48-2q ms48-2u ms48-2w"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Generous Partners Are Helping Saprea Raise Child Sexual Abuse Awareness </h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e62 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-27 excerpt">Over the past year, Saprea’s donors and partners—including YESCO and the RLC Family Foundation—have made it possible to expand awareness of child sexual abuse through impactful billboard campaigns, reaching communities with messages of prevention, hope, and healing. </div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e63 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-24 ms48-25 ms48-28"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e36440-e59 ms48-1n ms48-1z post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/conversation-prompts-parents-sensitive-topics/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e36440-e60 ms48-36"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/conversation-prompts-for-parents.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="35384:full" loading="lazy"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e61 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2j ms48-2l ms48-2o ms48-2q ms48-2u ms48-2w"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Conversation Prompts for Parents: Talking About Sensitive Topics</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e62 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-27 excerpt">Starting conversations about online safety and sextortion with teens can feel difficult. These practical conversation prompts help parents discuss sensitive topics, recognize red flags, and build trust so young people feel safe asking for help when they need it.</div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e63 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-24 ms48-25 ms48-28"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e36440-e59 ms48-1n ms48-1z post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/where-sextortion-starts-online-platforms/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e36440-e60 ms48-36"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/platforms-where-sextortion-begins.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="35379:full" loading="lazy"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e61 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2j ms48-2l ms48-2o ms48-2q ms48-2u ms48-2w"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Common Platforms Where Sextortion Begins</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e62 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-27 excerpt">Sextortion often begins on platforms teens use most, including social media, gaming chats, livestreams, and anonymous messaging apps. Understanding these high-risk spaces and teaching young people to recognize red flags can help parents protect them from online predators. </div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e63 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-24 ms48-25 ms48-28"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e64 ms48-f ms48-i ms48-j ms48-k ms48-l ms48-n ms48-p ms48-r ms48-v ms48-y ms48-11 ms48-13 ms48-14 ms48-1i"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e65 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e36440-e66 ms48-30 ms48-35 ms48-d" tabindex="0" href="/all-blogs/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">SEE ALL blogs</span></div></div></a></div></div></div></div></div>
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<title> <![CDATA[ New State Law Could Unlock Thousands of Child Care Seats, Critics See Risks ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/05/12/new-york-universal-child-care-staffing-ratios-day-care-hochul-ocfs ]]> </link>
<category> <![CDATA[ New York State ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ Reporting ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ Education ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ Social Services ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ Affordability ]]> </category>
<pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ The Hochul administration now has a chance to relax New York&#039;s child care staffing ratios — among the country&#039;s strictest — after 26 years. But will it? ]]> </description>
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																			<p>Despite having room to serve more children, Middletown day care owner Peggy Fuentes often has to turn away families in desperate need of care. Each of her toddler classrooms has 10 students — the state caps class sizes for that age group at 12 — but to fill the remaining seats, she’d have to hire another employee. That’s because a decades-old state regulation says day care classrooms have to have one adult for every five children between 18 and 36 months old.</p><p>With operating costs climbing across the board, <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/09/18/new-york-energy-bill-hikes">from utilities</a> <a href="https://hechingerreport.org/surging-insurance-costs-are-threatening-the-future-of-child-care/">to insurance</a>, Fuentes said it simply isn’t feasible to pay another salary to accommodate just two more children. </p><p>“I have an inventory of child care spots that I’m reluctant to use because it is cost prohibitive,” said Fuentes, owner of On My Way Early Learning and Childcare Center, which serves around 240 children under 13. </p><p>New York state has some of the strictest staffing requirements in the country — stricter, in fact, than New York City’s. As state leaders allocate billions of dollars to address the child care shortage in this year’s budget, a new state law could ease those requirements and unlock new day care seats at no additional cost to providers — but only if the state agency that oversees child care decides to act on it.  </p>																								<div class="newsroomBlockQuoteContainer">
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										<p>“There’s a child care crisis in New York. If we can’t use our full supply of seats, then that crisis is just going to continue.” </p>
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										—Peggy Fuentes, Middletown day care owner									</h5>
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																									<p>In December, Governor Kathy Hochul signed legislation eliminating a provision <a href="https://ocfs.ny.gov/programs/childcare/regulations/390-SSL-Child-Day-Care.pdf">in a 2000 social services law</a> that has prohibited the state Office of Children and Family Services from relaxing child care staffing ratios. The new law leaves it to the agency to actually change the ratios; if it did so, the same number of workers could care for more children.  </p><p>State Senator James Skoufis, who introduced the bill in 2024, told New York Focus that adjusting the ratios is “more critical than ever” amid the state’s ongoing efforts to scale up its child care sector and provide more affordable care to working parents. </p><p>Child care advocates who oppose the change are concerned having the same number of staff supervising more children would increase the risk of accidents and injuries and fail to address a root cause of the state’s child care crisis: low wages for workers. </p><p>Supporters counter that looser ratios are consistent with <a href="https://www.naeyc.org/sites/default/files/globally-shared/downloads/PDFs/accreditation/early-learning/staff_child_ratio_0.pdf">national norms</a> set by the National Association for the Education of Young Children, a professional membership organization that promotes high-quality early childhood education, and that alignment with the group’s guidance would offer flexibility to providers who already operate with razor-thin profit margins. </p><p>So far, <span class="caps">OCFS</span> has not indicated whether it plans to update the regulations. In a statement provided to New York Focus, <span class="caps">OCFS</span> spokesperson Daniel Marans said the agency is “currently assessing the viability of the requested ratio change, with the goal of supporting child care providers without compromising our commitment to child safety.” The law does not impose a deadline for <span class="caps">OCFS</span> to make the switch.</p><p>More than 60 percent of New York’s census tracts are classified as a “child care desert,” meaning that there are three or more children under 5 waiting for every available slot, according to the <a href="https://ocfs.ny.gov/programs/childcare/deserts/">state Office of Children and Family Service</a>. Meanwhile, more than 16,000 children are <a href="https://empirestatechildcare.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/Empire-State-Campaign-Workforce-Shortage-Survey-Press-Release-2.24.25.pdf">unable to receive child care</a> specifically as a result of staffing shortages that have led programs to operate under capacity. While that’s not necessarily related to staffing ratios, some think easing them could help address the shortage.</p><p>“We can provide more resources to counties and to providers all we want, but if we don’t provide the very common sense flexibility that these providers require in order to effectuate creating more seats, then the money is only going to go so far,” said Skoufis.</p>																									<p>Skoufis introduced the bill after providers, including Fuentes, expressed their frustrations to lawmakers over being held to tougher ratios than their counterparts in New York City, where staffing requirements are set by the city Department of Health and Mental Hygiene. Day care providers in the five boroughs must have one staff member for every five children between 12 and 18 months and one for every six children who are 2 years old. In the rest of the state, it’s 1–4 and 1–5, respectively. The discrepancies are even wider for older children.</p>																																		<div class="flourish-embed flourish-table" data-src="visualisation/28580508"><script src="https://public.flourish.studio/resources/embed.js"></script><noscript><img src="https://public.flourish.studio/visualisation/28580508/thumbnail" width="100%" alt="table visualization" /></noscript></div>
																
																									<p>Assemblymember Andrew Hevesi, who sponsored the bill, believes aligning ratios with New York City could help thousands of those families access a seat without burdening providers or taxpayers with additional costs. </p><p>“Child care providers are operating on such slim margins that they frequently worry about going out of business,” Hevesi said. “We were looking for a way to give them some breathing room in an incredibly difficult climate without costing anybody any money.” </p><p>Dede Hill, vice president of policy at the Schuyler Center for Analysis and Advocacy, a social policy and advocacy organization, has a different perspective. “One thing that makes child care in New York state so high quality is because we have low ratios — and that’s certainly not something we want to step away from,” she said. Hill is a member of the Empire State Campaign for Child Care, which advocates for universal child care. </p><p>“I don’t think staffing ratios are the solution to the tremendous issues we have related to supply,” said Hill. The key is more investment in the workforce, including higher pay for child care workers, she said. </p><p>One reason providers are facing significant financial strain is that the state’s reimbursement level for its <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/31/child-care-vouchers-ccap-applications-waitlist-new-york">child care voucher program</a>, which covers nearly all of the cost of child care for low- and middle-income families, isn’t enough to provide high quality care, Hill said. With providers forced to absorb the shortfall, many are unable to offer adequate wages: In 2025, the annual average salary for child care workers in New York <a href="https://scaany.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/01/Workforce-2026-one-pager-Schuyler-Center.pdf">was $37,675</a>, lower than 96 percent of other jobs.</p>																																			<p>Fuentes, who has owned her day care center in Orange County for 17 years, said she currently has to choose between raising tuition for all children in order to pay another employee and waitlisting families even though there is ample space to serve them. If <span class="caps">OCFS</span> chose to align statewide staffing ratios with New York City, she said, she could enroll around 15 more children without hiring additional staff. </p><p>“There’s a child care crisis in New York,” she said. “If we can’t use our full supply of seats, then that crisis is just going to continue.” </p><p>For Heidi-Jo Brandt, president of a union representing more than 8,800 providers outside New York City, the flexibility doesn’t seem worth it. Some revisions to standards may be appropriate, such as the current 1–2 ratio for children under 2 in home-based care, she said, but a broader relaxing of staffing ratios could put children at risk. Research shows inadequate supervision is the main cause of injuries in child care settings, including <a href="https://www.yahoo.com/news/articles/multiple-violations-found-bronx-daycare-014909525.html?guccounter=1&amp;guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&amp;guce_referrer_sig=AQAAALpfn_Z2M3xjCghv8gxquoTZGkNBUE3s8autq7pyLMGpSQ1XMi83Gb1RM3oj5OChhBLu-d8MZV80_eCQLmR2109j16EYaEUWYOh0orHK7gEaW8_9xRd1vOG3qd067JQ1aFUqySnUzRshZvroNGNezarpewHExgAgX6c_F3lnzKXx">drowning</a>, <a href="https://www.nbcconnecticut.com/news/local/state-cites-ywca-in-new-britain-for-violations-after-death-of-2-year-old-who-choked-on-meatball/3649837/">choking</a>, and <a href="https://www.focusdailynews.com/lawsuit-alleges-midlothian-infants-severe-burns-caused-by-negligent-daycare/">severe burns</a> from bottle warmers. </p><p>“While it could have a tremendous impact statewide, our concern is always for the safety of children,” said Brandt.</p><p>Some<strong> </strong>research indicates that high staff-to-child ratios and smaller group sizes are critical for children’s health, safety, and development, but data on the safety outcome of ratios like New York City’s is limited.</p>																									<p>In recent years, as the child care industry has reeled from a pandemic-driven dip in enrollment and rise in operating costs, <a href="https://hechingerreport.org/states-try-to-tackle-child-care-shortages-by-lowering-standards/">over a dozen states</a> have proposed loosening their child care staffing ratios, increasing maximum group sizes, and relaxing other regulations to meet demand. Many states set ratios based on guidance from the National Association for the Education of Young Children; New York City’s ratios are roughly in line with the group’s recommendations.</p><p>Meanwhile, New York state has some of the most stringent ratios nationwide. It is <a href="https://www.niskanencenter.org/states-have-room-to-experiment-with-childcare-staffing-ratios/">one of just a handful of states</a> that uses the restrictive ratios recommended by the American Academy of Pediatrics and the American Public Health Association for 3-, 4-, and 5-year-olds. Even New York City’s staffing ratios remain stricter than those in many other states. </p><p>Skoufis first introduced the bill after then-OCFS Commissioner Suzanne Miles-Gustave informed him that aligning statewide ratios with New York City would require legislation. At the time, he said, <span class="caps">OCFS</span> officials “made it crystal clear” they wanted to pursue the changes, though he’s less clear on their position today. </p><p>In a January letter to current <span class="caps">OCFS</span> Commissioner DaMia Harris-Madden, Skoufis argued that it is “financially unreasonable” to require a 1–5 staff-to-child ratio for 18- to 36-month-olds with a maximum group size of 12. </p><p>Hevesi said that he believes the agency should “act sooner rather than later” given the potential benefits. </p>																																			<p>“My instinct is that there’s going to be support to look at this and see what’s appropriate — but my role was just to take the handcuffs off and now they are free to do whatever they feel is appropriate,” he said.</p><p>Buffalo day care owner Emily Thrasher pointed out that New York City and state regulations differ on other aspects of child care: The city also has more lenient classroom space requirements than the rest of the state, as well as different age group definitions that determine other regulations. For example, New York City defines a toddler as a child between 12 and 24 months old, while New York state’s definition is 18 to 36 months. </p><p>Thrasher said full alignment with New York City’s standards would allow her small business to generate hundreds of thousands of additional dollars annually. That, in turn, would enable her to serve more families.</p><p>“I can’t even imagine how much that would compound for larger day care centers,” she said. “We could help more families, open more slots, pay our staff more. … The changes seem small, but it would make the biggest difference.” </p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ These Kids Trekked Hundreds of Miles to Reunite With Their Parents. The Feds Kept Them Separated for Months. ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/05/13/unaccompanied-kids-immigrant-habeas-orr-detained-parents ]]> </link>
<category> <![CDATA[ Reporting ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ New York City ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ Immigration ]]> </category>
<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ Trump administration rules are keeping immigrant kids detained, even when their parents are available to care for them. Families are using a new legal tool to free them. ]]> </description>
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																			<p>Maria, a 34-year-old construction worker, learned last November that her 11-year-old son had crossed the southern border into the United States with his cousins. They’d traveled from Ecuador, wading through rivers and trudging through jungle, and ended up in a foster care facility in Manhattan. Maria figured she would soon be able to bring her son to her home in Corona, Queens.</p>																									<p>She gave the federal Office of Refugee Resettlement (<span class="caps">ORR</span>), which had custody of her son, all the documents it requested  — identification, a letter from her employer, paystubs. She got fingerprinted and let federal workers inspect her home. Then she waited. In the interim, Maria was only able to visit her son, Maykel, for two hours roughly every 15 days. She felt like she was living for those two hours, she said.</p><p>Months passed, and Maria grew more and more concerned. Maykel’s clothes and shoes were always dirty, and he told her he was afraid of being deported, she said. In March, a caseworker called with an update.</p><p>“You know that paperwork you sent — the letters, the checks, all that?” she recalled him saying. “Now it’s all expired.” (<span class="caps">ORR</span> policies say certain required documents are only valid for 60 or 90 days.) He told her she’d have to submit new documents before getting her son back.</p>																																			<p>Maria reunited with Maykel in late March — after she sued. She hired an attorney, Reuben Kerben, whose firm filed a petition alleging that <span class="caps">ORR</span>’s refusal to release Maykel amounted to illegal detention. Before a judge could rule on the petition, the agency finally released him and his five cousins.</p><p>“I brought him home with me to hug him, feed him, buy him clothes — to do everything the way it should be done,” she said.</p><p>Maria and Maykel, whom New York Focus is identifying only by their first names to avoid jeopardizing their ongoing immigration cases, are among a growing number of families in New York and across the country fighting the government to release their children from monthslong detentions in shelter facilities.</p><p>In most of these cases, children give themselves up to immigration authorities after crossing the southern border without adults in the hopes of uniting with parents or other family already in the <span class="caps">US</span>. The reunification process used to take about a month, but President Donald Trump’s administration imposed new vetting procedures for guardians.</p><p>Now, reunification drags out for so long that families question whether the government intends to release their children at all: The average length of stay in <span class="caps">ORR</span> shelters hit about 200 days in March, up from 30 days in fiscal year 2024.  The Trump administration <a href="https://acf.gov/media/press/2025/acf-reveals-dangers-inadequate-sponsor-vetting-after-horrific-abuse-case-involving">contends that</a> stricter vetting protects children from abuse and trafficking, but advocates believe it’s intended to deter new arrivals, intimidate family members, and expose them to immigration enforcement.</p>																																		<div class="flourish-embed flourish-chart" data-src="visualisation/28943283"><script src="https://public.flourish.studio/resources/embed.js"></script><noscript><img src="https://public.flourish.studio/visualisation/28943283/thumbnail" width="100%" alt="chart visualization" /></noscript></div>
																
																									<p>Like Maria, desperate family members have turned to the courts to get their children out of government custody. They’ve started filing habeas corpus petitions, which allege that the prolonged shelter stays amount to unlawful detention. Such petitions have become <a href="https://projects.propublica.org/habeas-tracker/">adult immigrants’ best hope</a> of escaping Immigration and Customs Enforcement detention since the second Trump administration all but eliminated bond hearings. Now, <a href="https://news.bloomberglaw.com/us-law-week/migrant-children-fight-prolonged-custody-in-us-with-habeas-cases">attorneys are using them</a> to get unaccompanied immigrant kids out of <span class="caps">ORR</span> shelters — something that was almost unheard of prior to last year, several said.</p><p>Across the country, lawyers have filed habeas petitions for at least four dozen kids in <span class="caps">ORR</span> custody since last year, according to a New York Focus review of federal court documents and interviews with attorneys. For some of the kids, it was their second time in <span class="caps">ORR</span> custody: The agency re-detained them after a run-in with <span class="caps">ICE</span> and put their previously approved sponsor through additional vetting.</p><p>The tally includes at least six kids in <span class="caps">ORR</span> custody in New York City: Maykel and three of his cousins, as well as two siblings from Mexico, ages 9 and 17, who spent more than seven months in custody.</p><p>All of Maykel’s cousins have now been released to their parents.</p><p>“We completed everything they asked of us,” said Luis, one of Maria’s brothers, whose 3-year-old son was confined with Maykel. “Even then, we couldn’t get them out.” Like Maria, he only got his son home after his lawyer filed a habeas petition.</p><p>“With each passing day, it became more and more difficult,” he said.</p>																									<p>The Trump administration’s new vetting procedures for guardians of unaccompanied kids have made lawsuits necessary, attorneys and advocates for immigrant youth say.</p><p>Family members trying to reunite with their children are required to submit to <span class="caps">DNA</span> testing and fingerprinting. Guardians also need to show identification documents that are difficult for undocumented immigrants to obtain. They must attend in-person appointments to verify their documents, sometimes at <span class="caps">ICE</span> offices — a risk for undocumented parents or those seeking asylum, as the Trump administration rescinded Biden-era rules blocking <span class="caps">ORR</span> from sharing sponsors’ information with immigration enforcement authorities. The California Newsroom reported that <a href="https://www.kvcrnews.org/2026-03-25/migrant-children-detained-in-southern-california-used-as-bait-to-arrest-and-deport-their-parents">more than 100 people</a> have been arrested while trying to get their kids out of <span class="caps">ORR</span> custody since last year.</p><p>The new policies also allow <span class="caps">ORR</span>, which falls under the federal Department of Health and Human Services, to disqualify potential sponsors based on their immigration status, making it potentially impossible for some families to qualify as sponsors for their children.</p>																								<div class="newsroomBlockQuoteContainer">
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										<p>“When we were wading through the rivers, when we were most struggling, reaching our parents was the only thing on our minds.”</p>
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										—Lizeth, 15									</h5>
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																									<p>“It has come to the point where <span class="caps">ORR</span> is not functioning as it was intended,” said Becky Wolozin, senior attorney at the National Center for Youth Law. “It has in large part become an arm of immigration enforcement, and much like for adults, one of the only ways for a child to be released to their family is to bring a habeas at this point.”</p><p>The Trump administration has framed the new policies as a necessary corrective to its predecessor’s looser vetting standards. As the number of unaccompanied children traveling to the United States shot up after the Covid pandemic, the Biden administration pushed to speed up the sponsor vetting process to get kids out of crowded shelters more quickly. As a result, many minors wound up working in factories, slaughterhouses, hotels, and construction sites, <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/25/us/unaccompanied-migrant-child-workers-exploitation.html">The New York Times reported</a>.</p><p>Immigration attorneys say the new vetting procedures are a pretext to gather information to potentially arrest sponsors. Maykel’s aunt, Blanca, was briefly detained by <span class="caps">ICE</span> at her identification check appointment in March as she sought to gain custody of her sons Stiven, eight, and Jhon, 13, she said. That incident spurred the family to hire their attorney, who decided to file the habeas petitions.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/CFGdtcoWlDrXqWPRahP5TiCTh7NnjMaWSQc72vPo1eA/w:1000/h:1333/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9oYWJlYXMtZG9jcy0zLmpwZw.jpg" alt="" class="" /><figcaption>A page from a habeas corpus petition describes two children&#039;s separation from their mother.  / Isabelle Taft / New York Focus</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p>The six cousins, ranging in age from 3-year-old Eithan to 15-year-old Lizeth, left Ecuador last fall, after the home where they lived with their grandmother was robbed. They told New York Focus they decided to make the journey to join their parents — who arrived in New York City over the last several years — without telling them.</p><p>Lizeth, who stepped into the role of surrogate mother to her younger cousins, said the same hope motivated them as they trekked through the jungle and later as they spent months living with a foster mother.</p><p>“Our goal was simply to reach our parents,” Lizeth said. “When we were hungry, when we were wading through the rivers, when we were most struggling, reaching our parents was the only thing on our minds.”</p><p>When the children reached the southern border, immigration officials apprehended them and turned them over to <span class="caps">ORR</span>, as federal law requires. That agency houses kids by contracting with mostly state-licensed shelter and foster organizations, including more than a dozen in New York in recent years.</p><p>The kids traveled by plane to New York City and moved into a room in a foster mother’s apartment, only about 10 miles from their parents in Corona. That was when the adults started submitting paperwork, hoping to bring them home.</p><p>“Months passed, days, weeks,” said Luis. “As a father, I was in a state of desperation: What more can I do? Because we had given them all the documents they asked for and more.”</p><p>In court filings before the kids were released, <span class="caps">ORR</span> argued that the vetting process was still playing out and that the agency had agreed to expedite analysis of the <span class="caps">DNA</span> testing, after which it could reach a decision. The Department of Health and Human Services did not respond to questions about the case or about delays more broadly.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/G0qvVVeos-bARpyHOdm8qqXSKx6H_p4kpRhjjUK0R-4/w:1000/h:666/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9oYWJlYXMtZm9yLWtpZHMtMS5qcGc.jpg" alt="" class=" size-full " /><figcaption>After four months, Maria was reunited with her son Maykel and his five cousins in March.  / Isabelle Taft / New York Focus</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p> </p><p><strong>As <span class="caps">ORR</span> scrutinizes</strong> their potential sponsors, kids must go to immigration court, sometimes without representation, to answer a judge’s questions about their experiences with the process. On a recent Tuesday morning, a teenage boy wearing headphones appeared on the screen inside Judge Lisa Ling’s courtroom on Varick Street in Manhattan. He sat at what appeared to be a well-used office cubicle, shifting his weight in the black desk chair as he waited. Ling asked what was going on with his reunification.</p><p>“It’s a bit slow,” he said in Spanish. </p><p>Ling assigned him another hearing in three weeks.</p><p>Many kids who are released from <span class="caps">ORR</span> custody get out without a habeas petition. In March, 228 children and teens were released to sponsors around the country, according to federal data. But attorneys said they no longer trust the agency to handle the cases, after encountering unexplained delays, even when sponsors complete every step, and hearing about sponsors being arrested by <span class="caps">ICE</span> during the process.</p><p>The nonprofit Center for Family Representation in New York City has set up what it calls a “new family reunification project” to help parents navigate the process. Zoe Schonfeld, attorney-in-charge of the immigration practice, said the project is currently representing 10 parents with children in <span class="caps">ORR</span> custody. They talk parents through every step of the process, explain the risks, and push back on requirements like appointments at federal Department of Homeland Security offices.</p>																								<div class="newsroomBlockQuoteContainer">
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										<p>“As a father, I was in a state of desperation: What more can I do?”</p>
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										—Luis									</h5>
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																									<p>“But we can’t assure them that as a result of working to get their kids back, they won’t face detention,” Schonfeld said. </p><p>Knowing that their families are struggling or in danger of deportation worsens the toll the lengthy detentions take on children, said Emily Norman, East Coast regional director for Kids in Need of Defense, which provides legal representation for unaccompanied immigrant children.</p><p>“There’s anxiety and depression, I think a feeling of helplessness when it’s not clear why they’re not being let out,” Norman said. “Kids feel a lot of pressure and worry over risks that they’re putting their family members in.”</p><p>In sworn affidavits, Luis and the other parents said adults told their children that their parents would be deported if they didn’t obey the facility rules. The children told New York Focus they rarely went outside while in <span class="caps">ORR</span> custody, except to travel from their foster home to the foster facility, which was operated by the New York-based nonprofit Cayuga Centers. They cried during visits with their parents.</p><p>Cayuga Centers declined to comment for this story. </p>																																			<p>One morning, about a week after their attorneys filed the habeas petitions, Maria got a call from Cayuga Centers: “Come get your son.” The results of her <span class="caps">DNA</span> test had come through, and <span class="caps">ORR</span> had approved the children’s release. That evening, all of the cousins and their parents celebrated over fish soup, ribs, and cake at an Ecuadorian restaurant in Queens.</p><p>The Trump administration has asked the court to dismiss their habeas cases on the grounds that they are now moot. Kerben, their attorney, is opposing that, aiming to keep fighting for a judgment against the government. The cases remain open.</p><p>“I wouldn’t want other kids to suffer like our kids suffered,” Maria said. “I want them to get out, to get help, to reunite with their families.”</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ ‘I Just Need to Hug Him’: Families Say New York Is Illegally Delaying Prison Transfers ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/05/14/new-york-prison-transfers-proximity-law-delay ]]> </link>
<category> <![CDATA[ Criminal Justice ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ New York State ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ Reporting ]]> </category>
<pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ The prison system often postpones or rejects incarcerated people’s requests to be closer to their children, jeopardizing family ties. ]]> </description>
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																			<p>When Shawna Moore’s husband, Artamion, was moved from Attica to Green Haven Correctional Facility after a disciplinary infraction, his family was punished too: Artamion was suddenly more than 300 miles from their children in Rochester. </p><p>Under a 2021 law, an incarcerated person with minor children can request what’s called a “proximity transfer” to the closest appropriate prison to their home. Shawna and Artamion quickly filed for one to get him closer, but Moore said they didn’t hear anything back for months.</p><p>She learned in January 2025 that the request was approved, but now, more than a year later, Artamion is still in Green Haven. </p><p>Moore’s experience isn’t unusual. Research by New York Focus found that the law’s implementation has slowed in recent years. The percentage of “proximity transfers” granted has dropped sharply, from nearly <a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2023/10/2023-proximity-to-minor-children-legislative-report-final.pdf">40 percent</a> of those requested in 2023 to just <a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2025/11/2025-proximity-to-minor-children-legislative-report-final.pdf">20 percent</a> last year.</p><p><a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2025/11/2025-proximity-to-minor-children-legislative-report-final.pdf">One-third</a> of the New York prison population has minor children. Research has <a href="https://l.gotourl.es/l/cb2b8b07dd5fc9f00097425e169e8c07572a0af7?notrack=1&amp;u=13587254">found</a> that regular visitation can reduce recidivism by as much as 26 percent, often by deepening family ties. It can also better the lives of children with incarcerated parents, reducing their feelings of abandonment and anxiety while improving their well-being, self-esteem, and school behavior.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/ukUfGb8oY7G8dxuLZPZFxT7sUx6T2H19530a77fWHko/w:1000/h:772/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9kb2Njcy1tYXAuanBn.jpg" alt="Map of prisons in New York" class=" size-full " /><figcaption>Green Haven Correctional Facility, where Artamion Moore is incarcerated, is over 300 miles from his children&#039;s home in Rochester.  / Map: New York state Department of Corrections and Community Supervision</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p> </p><p>For Moore, the five-hour drive and overnight stay has made it hard to visit her husband, who is serving a lengthy sentence for murder in the second degree. She is self-employed and a driver for Uber and Lyft. She only gets to see her husband once every two months or so. Their 11- and 17-year old children haven’t seen their dad since November 2025. </p><p>“They keep asking all the time when we’re going there, but it’s just such a hassle,” she said. “We’ve been waiting for over a year just to get him moved.”</p><p>Each time Moore calls the Department of Corrections and Community Supervision or his assigned counselor, she said she is told the same thing: <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> is waiting for a bed to open up. They can’t say if and where her husband will be moved.</p><p>Attica has the capacity to house <a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2023/06/attica-cf-final-prea-audit-report-6.1.2023.pdf">2,143</a> prisoners. As of late April, there were <a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2026/04/2026.04.01-uc-profile.pdf">1,846</a> people incarcerated there, according to <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> documents. Thomas Mailey, a spokesperson for <span class="caps">DOCCS</span>, said the agency “does not comment on individual transfer request cases” but added that staffing shortages may cause delays. The agency “closely monitors all available beds” and “makes every effort to process transfers as quickly as possible,” he said.</p><p>Meanwhile, many prisoners face involuntary transfers. Incarcerated people have described feeling insecurity and anxiety during <a href="https://www.themarshallproject.org/2024/12/13/sullivan-closure-new-york-green-haven-horror">these moves</a>, which may take multiple days and include multiple stops, even for small distances. Out of 96 family members and loved ones of incarcerated individuals who shared their experiences with New York Focus through a survey, 41 said that their loved one had been transferred more than five times. Twenty-one said the repeated transfers made it harder to maintain contact as their loved one was moved further away from them. </p><p>There’s no limit to the number of times a prisoner can be transferred in New York state. </p>																																			<p>Also known as April’s Law, the 2021 Proximity Law was prompted in part by a <a href="https://www.brooklynpaper.com/prison-proximity-bill-passes-senate-assembly/">teenager’s appeal</a> to a Brooklyn lawmaker nearly a decade before. It requires <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> to consider the location of children when placing a parent in prison or conducting transfers. </p><p>In the first year of the law’s implementation, the agency allowed more than <a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2023/02/final-2022-proximity-to-minor-children-legislative-report-002.pdf">1,553</a> proximity transfers out of 5,987 requests. The number has plummeted since then. Between May 2024 and June 2025, only 870 incarcerated people with minor children were granted their proximity requests out of a total of <a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2025/11/2025-proximity-to-minor-children-legislative-report-final.pdf">4,349</a> incarcerated people who applied. </p><p>In its most recent report on the bill, <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> <a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2025/11/2025-proximity-to-minor-children-legislative-report-final.pdf">wrote</a> that a <a href="https://nysfocus.com/new-yorks-prison-strike">corrections officers strike</a> last year contributed to reduced and delayed transfer requests.<strong> </strong>Proximity requests can now take more than 18 months to process, depending on whether there is a bed available at the facility the person requests and a seat on the transport bus. </p><p>Kevin Nelson, a staff attorney in the Family Matters Unit at Prisoners’ Legal Services of New York, a nonprofit legal services organization, said that online “incarcerated profile reports” often show open beds in the facilities to which people hope to transfer, even when <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> has said there aren’t any. “I see a lot of clients who would be going to the general population, who are still being told that available bed space is likely a factor delaying their transfer.” </p><p>Mailey, the <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> spokesperson, said that while the agency monitors available beds, moving quickly isn’t always possible. “Due to staffing shortages and the ongoing state of emergency, which results in unstaffed beds, transfers between facilities are taking longer to complete,” he said. </p><p>When the agency improves staffing levels, Mailey said, “facilities will be better positioned to facilitate transfers more efficiently.” He noted that “aggressive” recruiting efforts are in the works.</p>																																			<p><strong><span class="caps">DOCCS</span> r</strong>eviews proximity requests on a case-by-case basis, considering factors such as facility capacity, security classification, programming needs, and the best interests of the child. Requests are denied if, for instance, there are any crimes against the child or children in question or an active order of protection involving the children or the custodial parent or guardian.</p><p>The incarcerated person can’t be serving a disciplinary confinement sanction or attending a specialized treatment program, and must be more than five months away from a scheduled parole board appearance or release.</p><p>In its 2025 report on the legislation, <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> broke down why it <a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2025/11/2025-proximity-to-minor-children-legislative-report-final.pdf">cancelled or rejected</a> 275 proximity requests. Some requests were placed too close to a parole board hearing, for example, or were withdrawn by the requester. But for the remaining 3,200 people, no explicit reason was outlined. When asked to explain the missing information, Mailey said that “requests can remain pending for a number of reasons including incomplete information and a thorough evaluation of the interest of the children involved. Some of this information is confidential and cannot be shared publicly.”</p><p>Former Democratic state Senator David Carlucci, who co-sponsored April’s bill, called the data New York Focus shared “deeply troubling,” noting in an email that it’s “not what any of us who co-sponsored this legislation intended.”</p>																																			<p>“If <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> is approving fewer than one in five proximity requests and cannot account for why the vast majority are being denied,” Carlucci wrote, “that is a transparency failure and an accountability failure.”</p><p>Nelson at Prisoners’ Legal Services said he has received 212 complaints from prisoners regarding proximity transfers.</p><p>Some said they never received documents that the non-incarcerated guardian needed to sign, Nelson explained. In other cases, <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> wrongly used an expired order of protection as justification for rejecting a transfer. Even if a court has permitted visitation or contact with the child, the department may still deny a proximity transfer.</p><p>Under certain conditions, including significant disciplinary infractions, <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> can initiate a reverse transfer.</p><p>That’s what happened to Devon Callicutt, 35, who is serving a life sentence without parole at Elmira Correctional Facility for a murder during a robbery. His wife, Shinasha Bowen, lives in Albany, more than a three-hour drive from Elmira, which is close to the Pennsylvania border. Callicutt requested to be closer to Bowen and her children in November 2023. Within a month, he was transferred to Green Haven Correctional Facility, an hour-and-a-half away.</p><p>“It was everything,” Bowen said. “The fact that he was closer, so I didn’t have to wake up at the crack of dawn.” Bowen takes her children, 12, 17, and 18, with her to see him. “They love seeing him,” she said. “It’s important they see him.”</p><p>But after getting into a fight with a fellow prisoner, Callicutt was sent to Upstate Correctional Facility, then to Clinton Correctional Facility, and eventually back to Elmira. Now Bowen gets up at 2 a.m. to ensure she gets to the prison early enough to get a good spot in line. New York’s maximum security prisons used to allow daily visitation. Since last year’s wildcat strike, visits at most prisons in New York are still <a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/visitation-updates-91525">limited</a> to one weekend day per incarcerated person.</p><p>After a reverse transfer, an incarcerated person has to wait <a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2023/02/final-2022-proximity-to-minor-children-legislative-report-002.pdf">at least a year</a> for a proximity transfer. Callicutt requested another transfer in October 2025. He and his family are still waiting.</p>																																			<p>Transfers for involuntary reasons — such as disciplinary action, programming, or a prison’s staffing needs — often upend proximity requests. Only one transfer can be in process at any given time.</p><p>Proximity transfers are “just a drop in a very large bucket,” explained Iolanthe Brooks, a PhD candidate in sociology at Northwestern University who analyzed <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> transfer data from 2020 to 2022.</p><p>A prisoner in good standing may also request a “preference transfer.” Brooks’s analysis showed that requested transfers brought incarcerated New Yorkers an average of 147 miles closer to home, but transfers for other reasons moved incarcerated people an average of 29 miles farther away from their county of conviction.</p><p>“We see that for those transfers, on average, people are actually getting moved farther from home, which is the opposite, of course, of the intent of these closer-to-home laws,” Brooks said.</p><p><a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2026/02/2026.02.01-uc-profile.pdf">Nearly 65 percent</a> of incarcerated people convicted in New York City are placed in prisons more than 100 miles from the city, according to a calculation by New York Focus. </p><p><span class="caps">DOCCS</span> has transferred Deione Gray’s 34-year-old son Unique at least 14 times over a six-year period. He was sentenced to 29 years-to-life for a murder during an attempted robbery in 2015.</p>																																			<p>Recently, Unique was transferred from Upstate Correctional Facility, a prison near the Canadian border, to Five Points, a maximum-security prison over 200 miles southwest. Each time he’s transferred, Gray has to find a new private shuttle that can take her to his prison; she doesn’t own a car and the prisons are hundreds of miles from her home in Brooklyn. Gray makes the trip as often as she can.</p><p>For Gray, the proximity law doesn’t apply — her son does not have minor children. The law does not allow transfers for incarcerated people seeking proximity to adult children, elderly parents, or other close relatives.</p><p>Proposed <a href="https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/bills/2025/A1573">state legislation</a> could provide a solution for this: It would create a pilot program for moving any incarcerated person, rather than just parents, closer to home.</p><p>“I just need to hug him,” Gray said. “I miss him so much.”</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ The Young Populist Trying to Redefine the New York Democratic Party — and We Don’t Mean Mamdani ]]> </title>
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<description> <![CDATA[ State Senator James Skoufis represents a redder district than almost any other Democrat in Albany. ]]> </description>
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																			<p>James Skoufis grew up in public housing in Queens — but don’t call him a “city Democrat.”</p><p>“If you were a city Democrat, I’d say go [away],” one voter told the state senator as he went door to door in the lower Hudson Valley town of Chester on the Saturday before the November general election.</p><p>We walked up and down rows of identical yellow-shingled houses as he asked residents to vote for Democrats in town and county races. </p><p>The 38-year-old state senator had canvassed the working-class housing development as many as 10 times over the 13 years he’s served as a state legislator, he told me. </p>																									<p>From the outside, it seems like a hard sell. Chester is in Orange County, where Republicans dominate politics. President Donald Trump won the county by 8 points in 2024, and Republicans have long controlled county government. Skoufis, meanwhile, describes himself as “center-left” and supports policies like higher taxes on the rich, free pre-K, and free tuition at public colleges.</p><p>But Skoufis, whose state Senate district nearly matches the county lines, thinks he’s cracked the code. He represents one of the reddest districts of any Democrat in Albany, and often brags that he is more popular than Governor Kathy Hochul among his constituents. During the past three presidential election cycles, he said, Orange County had a “surprising” number of homes sporting both Trump and Skoufis lawn signs. </p><p>That Saturday, the voter who derided city Democrats assured Skoufis he planned to vote for the Democratic slate. </p><p>“We don’t really have the commie Democrats they have down in the city,” the man said, an obvious reference to New York City’s then-Mayor-elect Zohran Mamdani. Skoufis laughed and agreed. </p><p>Skoufis does not shy away from antagonizing his Democratic Party colleagues. Last year he delivered a speech on the Senate floor accusing Hochul of running the state budget process like a “monarch.” (Later, Hochul <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2025/11/13/nyregion/skoufis-hochul-bills-veto.html">vetoed</a> seven of his bills on a single day in September.)</p>																								<div class="newsroomBlockQuoteContainer">
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																									<p>Toward the end of last year, their feud came to an end. Skoufis declined to go into detail about the resolution, but said he had a “series of conversations” with Hochul and her senior staff that calmed tensions.</p><p>“We all resolved that this fight is stupid, it’s not serving anybody well, and that we’re far better off working together,” said Skoufis, who has since reintroduced several of the bills she vetoed. His battle with the state’s most powerful politician had begun and ended unexpectedly — evidence, he said, of his philosophy that politics is often akin to “changing the tires on a moving car.”</p><p>He passed the most bills last year of any lawmaker, was appointed to the executive committee of the Democratic National Committee (after a failed long-shot bid to serve as chair), and <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/08/22/new-york-cdpap-hearing-skoufis">led oversight hearings</a> into Hochul’s overhaul of the state’s home care system. His outspoken and sometimes abrasive style has captured media attention and made him one of the most recognizable names in state politics.</p>																									<p>Elected officials and advocates told New York Focus that Skoufis is primarily motivated by delivering for his constituents. His ability to do so on basic issues — like renovating a courthouse, putting a splash pad in Port Jervis, and helping the town of Cornwall get funding for holiday lights on Main Street — is part of why he consistently wins reelection, they said.</p><p>He’s made enemies of some local progressive groups who believe he was a key force in watering down the 2024 <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2024/05/13/good-cause-eviction-landlord-legislators">good cause eviction</a> law, which Skoufis vocally opposed. But critics and allies alike said he was deeply committed to the causes he chose to dedicate himself to — even if that has sometimes led him to be petulant.</p><p>“His critics aren’t wrong when they say he’s a strident, obnoxious, pain-in-the-ass,” said John Kaehny, the executive director of Reinvent Albany, a government watchdog group.  But Kaehny called him “a tremendous advocate for his constituents,” “great for Democracy in New York,” and “a very effective politician.” </p><p>Skoufis is seeking to use his success and platform to steer New York Democrats — and the national party — in a new direction. He believes that the future of the party lies north of the city, in a purple district that resembles the suburban and exurban areas where his party is battling to win back voters.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/L7dCtsCv423vqZLvLIrLXibl7L4_zIAszSmJMeteNW0/w:1000/h:666/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9za291ZmlzLXBsYXlncm91bmQuanBn.jpg" alt="" class=" size-full " /><figcaption>Senator Skoufis at a new playground in Riverlight Park along with Director of Communications Valerie Best, left, and Cornwall Town Supervisor Joshua Wojehowski, right, ahead of its inauguration in Cornwall, New York, on Nov. 21, 2025.  / Marco Postigo Storel/New York Focus</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p>At the moment, Skoufis is the lower profile young, upstart Democrat reshaping New York politics and the national party. </p><p>Skoufis said he shares Mamdani’s philosophy about politics: Both are sharply critical of the establishment and represent voters who feel politicians have failed them. While Skoufis rarely interacted with Mamdani during the socialist’s time in the Assembly — “he wasn’t super legislatively active,” Skoufis said — he noted that he has some Mamdani-esque accomplishments. He landed a legislative grant for a free bus <a href="https://www.nysenate.gov/newsroom/in-the-news/2023/james-skoufis/middletown-launches-free-bus-service-holidays-video">pilot</a> in his district, and another to dispatch social workers rather than police to respond to mental health calls. </p><p>A vocal child care advocate, Skoufis has been energized by Hochul’s promise to make pre-K universal by the 2028 school year, and made an unsuccessful push this spring to move that deadline up by a year.“That is a wonderful fight to be having, versus whether we are doing universality or not,” he said.</p><p>But politically, Skoufis hews closer to the center, and prefers the moniker “populist.”</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/jLVWw1u2sckC5YLaySUu_PT-6v1OyfiUK3c9BysRLog/w:1000/h:666/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9za291ZmlzLW1hcC5qcGc.jpg" alt="" class="" /><figcaption>James Skoufis represents one of the reddest districts of any Democrat in Albany. Cornwall, New York, Nov. 21, 2025.  / Marco Postigo Storel/New York Focus</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p>His most notably populist crusade has been against the approximately $10 billion in corporate subsidies that state and local entities grant each year. He’s brought corporate watchdogging to his role as chair of the state Senate investigations committee, where he’s held hearings on energy prices, live event ticketing, and pharmacy benefit managers. </p><p>In the 2023 state budget, he convinced the state to install a first-of-its-kind independent monitor to oversee the activities of an Orange County agency tasked with attracting corporations to the area with tax agreements. Since November, Skoufis has been locked in a battle with that office, the Orange County Industrial Development Agency, after he successfully urged the monitor to veto a 15-year, $80 million package of tax breaks for Amazon to build a 3.2 million-square-foot distribution center.</p><p>The <span class="caps">IDA</span> sued the state to overturn the veto in January. Within weeks, though, the agency’s leaders began negotiating a possible compromise with Skoufis to wind down the monitor in exchange for  reforms, such as wage floors for workers on IDA-funded projects and more input from localities before tax breaks are granted. In the end, they were unable to reach an agreement, and Skoufis is now pushing to extend the monitor’s presence for another three years in the upcoming state budget.</p><p>Skoufis has <a href="https://nypost.com/2025/11/06/us-news/nys-dems-open-up-to-zohran-mamdanis-tax-hike-plan-as-primary-threats-loom-sends-a-message/">supported</a> Mamdani’s push to <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/06/mamdani-corporate-tax-albany">raise taxes</a> on millionaires and big corporations. But he’s quick to note that the policy would have a limited impact on his constituents, even if the tax hike were ever applied statewide.</p><p>“I represent very few of them,” he said, “but if you are a millionaire in New York state, I am open and conceptually supportive of modest increases to personal income taxes.”</p><p>Elsewhere, he sharply diverges from Mamdani: The senator has declined to support statewide immigrant sanctuary legislation, although he says he wants to “protect” undocumented people who live their lives “peaceably.” And Skoufis was a high-profile opponent of congestion pricing, as well as good cause eviction.</p><p>Skoufis is skeptical of activists and believes that the average voter doesn’t care much about hot-button ideological debates.</p><p>“I don’t read a script from white papers when I’m communicating with constituents,” he said. “They don’t expect me to, they don’t want me to, and if I did, I wouldn’t win every couple of years in my district.”</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/SK2cR-K9m4CEcanVNRKmRYhbwJQrQmvckiTfbU1Ux3U/w:1000/h:666/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9za291ZmlzLWRhdWdodGVyLmpwZw.jpg" alt="" class=" size-full " /><figcaption>Senator Skoufis listens to his daughter&#039;s school presentation as they get ready for their day in Cornwall, New York, on Nov. 21, 2025.  / Marco Postigo Storel/New York Focus</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p>Skoufis has been “one of the main political faces of Orange County for a long time,” according to Chris McKenna, a local reporter in the Hudson Valley.</p><p>At the doors in Chester, Skoufis was lighthearted and seemed happy talking to his constituents. Many residents, upon opening the door, recognized him as their state senator.</p><p>An older woman wearing a New York Police Department windbreaker, a registered Republican, told Skoufis that she voted for him last year and would vote for him again. </p><p>“The [Republican] party left you,” Skoufis told her.</p><p>Middletown’s Democratic mayor, Joseph DeStefano, said that Skoufis had helped launch a program to install a “social service coordinator” in the police department to respond to police calls and help connect people with social services. After the legislative grant expired, the department made the position permanent because they had “such significant success with it,” the mayor said.</p><p>“He’s very solid on supporting police,” DeStefano said. “When a police officer was shot, he was one of the first people to call.”</p><p>Skoufis has also made allies of some Republican leaders. Port Jervis Mayor Dominic Cicalese said that Skoufis landed him legislative grants that funded 90 percent of the cost of a new police training facility. “That was tremendous of him.”</p><p>“It’s not a question of Democrat or Republican. It’s, are you bringing in the funding? Are you effective with the legislation that reaches the Senate?” said Cicalese. With Skoufis, he said, the answer to both questions is “yes.” </p><p>At the same time, he’s been a disruptive force in local politics. In 2023, Skoufis held a press conference in front of the county government center and spoke about what he has called a “complex web” of “very obvious contract fraud.” (Skoufis called the press conference “pulling a Preet Bharara,” referencing the famed <span class="caps">US</span> attorney who <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2015/12/14/nyregion/preet-bharara-us-attorney-sees-lessons-in-albany-corruption-trials.html">prosecuted</a> Albany corruption.) </p>																								<div class="newsroomBlockQuoteContainer">
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																									<p>Skoufis accused Republican County Executive Steve Neuhaus of an unethical scheme in which the county awarded a major contract to the family member of one of Neuhaus’s closest advisers. (County officials denied any wrongdoing.) </p><p>When knocking on doors, Skoufis made sure to tell voters about an <span class="caps">FBI</span> investigation into the alleged corruption. </p><p>“The average person appreciates that … when I find wrongdoing, fraud, I actually say something about it, I do something about it,” Skoufis said. </p><p>“I don’t go along to get along,” he often says.</p>																									<p>For a politician who has so effectively sold himself to voters, he is relatively quiet about his own biography. In some ways, Skoufis <i>is </i>a “city Democrat.” </p><p>“In Orange County,” he said, “quite a bit of my background might not be relatable to my constituents.”</p><p>As a young child, he lived in the same public housing development that his mother had grown up in: Pomonok, in Queens. His father was born in a rural village in the mountains of Greece and immigrated with his family to New York as a teenager. “It’s sort of the cliche ‘they came here with basically nothing but the shirts on their back’ story,” Skoufis said.</p><p>Skoufis’s parents divorced when he was young and his mother moved to Orange County to send him to better schools. She worked for the <span class="caps">US</span> Postal Service, and Skoufis’s dad opened a deli in Bay Ridge, Brooklyn.</p><p>The senator was the first in his immediate family to attend college, attending George Washington University for undergrad and Columbia University for a masters in political science. </p><p>And despite his populist bent, he is as much of a career politician as anyone: In 2012, at the age of 25, he became the youngest member of the state Assembly.</p>																																												<figure>
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																																										<p> </p><p>He won that election — against a Republican — without the support of the state’s top Democratic elected official, then-Governor Andrew Cuomo.</p><p>According to Skoufis, the Cuomo administration contacted his campaign and said they had one question for him before they could decide whether to endorse. </p><p>“I’m thinking to myself, it’s probably a question about [reproductive] choice or taxes or the environment or something big picture,” Skoufis recalled. “You know what their question was before considering an endorsement? What my position was on rail on the new Tappan Zee Bridge.”</p><p>Cuomo opposed spending money to add a rail track to the bridge, which would have been a significant expansion of commuter transit for Orange County residents. Skoufis said he supported the rail project. </p>																									<p>Skoufis told the story as evidence of his electoral prowess: He wins by delivering for his constituents on issues that shape their daily lives, while myopic state leaders put political considerations first.</p><p>A former senior Cuomo staffer, who requested anonymity because her current employer does not permit her to speak with the press, told New York Focus that Skoufis had been an outspoken critic of the previous governor, but that the office maintained a working relationship with the legislator.</p><p>Skoufis told her at the time that attacking Cuomo “works for me. I get cheered if I hit back against the governor,” she said — a line he later repeated publicly about his feud with Hochul.</p><p>“He needs to show his folks that he’s fighting against the machine,” she said.</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ Scores of New York School Districts Report Using Discredited Reading Curricula ]]> </title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2026 06:30:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ Two years after Gov. Hochul unveiled her signature literacy policy, advocates say the findings underscore an urgent need for sweeping literacy reform. ]]> </description>
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																			<p>When Governor Kathy Hochul unveiled her signature literacy legislation in 2024, she stressed that New York was late to the game — calling it “embarrassing” that Connecticut, New Jersey, and other states had already embraced phonics-based instruction. New York schools had fallen behind the national curve, she said, and had been teaching students how to read the wrong way.</p><p>A large reason for that, she emphasized, is that under state law, districts choose their own curricula. The Back to Basics law was supposed to fix that problem, by requiring school districts to align instruction with research on how children best learn to read by September 2025. </p><p>Specifically, districts had to start teaching using the “science of reading,” a phonics-based approach grounded in the idea that reading isn’t innate and must be explicitly taught through skills like sounding out words. At the time, it was gaining traction as the policy du jour in literacy instruction as an alternative to “balanced literacy,” an approach long embraced by New York districts that teaches children to instead rely on context clues for reading comprehension. </p><p>By passing the Back to Basics plan, New York joined <a href="https://www.edweek.org/teaching-learning/which-states-have-passed-science-of-reading-laws-whats-in-them/2022/07">at least 37 states</a> and the District of Columbia in a nationwide movement fueled in part by results in Mississippi, where rigorous literacy laws <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2026/01/11/us/mississippi-schools-transformation.html">coincided with major gains</a> in academic performance over the past 13 years. </p>																								<div class="newsroomBlockQuoteContainer">
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										<p>“Right now, in New York, you have to be lucky to learn how to read — and that is unjustified and unconscionable.”</p>
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																									<p>But a New York Focus analysis of mandatory school surveys submitted to the state has found that more than 130 school districts are still using “balanced literacy” curricula. </p><p>Teachers in those districts, primarily in rural and suburban areas, are often required to use reading programs that advocates say contradict the settled body of research around teaching reading. The misaligned curricula could have an especially profound impact on students of color and those from low-income families, who are already more likely to experience reading difficulties, these advocates say. </p><p>New York’s law differs from those of some other states, which require districts to pick from a list of state-approved reading curricula and offer extra funding for districts to purchase them. Others have allocated hundreds of millions of dollars to advance multiyear literacy plans with clear benchmarks. </p><p>While New York’s Back to Basics law required the State Education Department to provide best practices to districts, it entrusts school districts with making the switch and measuring their own compliance — leaving in place a discretionary system that advocates argue contributed to New York’s low literacy rates to begin with. </p><p>So far, that piecemeal approach has left hundreds of thousands of students learning how to read with widely discredited curricula and instructional materials.</p><p>“Our concern is a lack of urgency,” said Jeff Smink, deputy director at the advocacy group EdTrust-New York, which recently published <a href="https://newyork.edtrust.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/Back-to-Basics-Curriculum-EdTrust-New-York-Brief.pdf">its own analysis</a> of the survey data submitted to the state in September. “If 400,000 kids aren’t getting evidence-based instruction, that, to us, is a crisis.”</p><p>Smink said the law lacks enforcement mechanisms in part because of New York’s deeply embedded culture as a strong local-control state, where most decisions about public schools are determined by districts, school boards, and even individual campuses. He also said the state teachers union wields significant influence and “opposes anything they think threatens teacher autonomy. </p>																																			<p>The literacy law, which invested $10 million in teacher training and tasked the union with training 20,000 teachers, came under fire after a March <a href="https://hechingerreport.org/new-york-ten-million-reading-instruction">Hechinger Report investigation</a> revealed that the training program heavily featured the instructional methods that Hochul set out to replace.  </p><p>The survey data offers an unprecedented statewide look at how schools are teaching elementary school students how to read and write — and insight into the state’s progress as it gears up to replicate the same approach with <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/11/universal-child-care-schools-funding-state-budget-2026">math instruction</a>. </p><p>New York’s reading scores are average at best. Thirty-one percent of New York fourth graders were proficient in reading last year, according to the National Assessment of Education Progress — just slightly above the <span class="caps">US</span> average and much lower than similar states like Massachusetts and New Jersey. Mississippi, the nation’s poorest state, also outperformed New York, which spends more money per pupil than any other state. </p><p>According to education advocates, the Back to Basics is doing little to make up for lost ground. “We are shockingly behind,” said Assemblymember Robert Carroll, a leading literacy advocate. “If we don’t do something, we are on the path to be the last in the nation on this.” </p><p>In response to a request for comment, a Hochul spokesperson wrote, “We anticipate continued progress and are working with <span class="caps">SED</span> to ensure that all schools are implementing evidence-based literacy instruction.”</p>																									<p>The structure of New York’s education system means that students in neighboring districts may be learning with vastly different curricula. Until recently, Celine Schneider’s children attended school in Riverhead Central School District, where last year less than a third of third graders were proficient in reading. </p><p>On the literacy curricula survey, Riverhead was one of 16 districts that reported not aligning with the state’s best practices in every category of reading instruction, as well as in writing. The district said it uses a mix of curricula, including some aligned with the science of reading alongside balanced literacy programs critics say fail to teach children how to decode words properly. </p><p>Riverhead declined an interview request, but provided a statement through a communications firm verifying that its reading curriculum and instruction “are aligned with the state’s core curriculum standards and teaching practices.”</p><p>Schneider said that in Riverhead, students were promoted from one grade to another without gaining basic literacy skills. After watching her daughter fall behind, lose confidence, and endure bullying for not knowing how to read, Schneider said she decided to transfer her children to a nearby district with stronger reading intervention, despite the hefty tuitions required to switch districts. (The district, Quogue Union Free School District, said in its survey response that it uses science of reading curricula and aligns with the state’s best practices, though it did also report using a popular balanced literacy program.) </p><p>“It was either let them continue to fail, or struggle financially to make sure my kids are okay in the long run,” she said. </p>																																		<div class="flourish-embed flourish-map" data-src="visualisation/28449421"><script src="https://public.flourish.studio/resources/embed.js"></script><noscript><img src="https://public.flourish.studio/visualisation/28449421/thumbnail" width="100%" alt="map visualization" /></noscript></div>
																
																									<p>Schneider asked Quogue to assess her children’s reading abilities, and expected mixed results: Her oldest struggled with dyslexia, and she had just learned her other daughter was going to enter second grade as a nonreader. But the other three seemed to be succeeding in school. </p><p>Instead, the results were shockingly similar — all five were at least a grade level behind. </p><p>“Not being able to read destroys a child’s future,” she said. “We are setting our kids up to fail.”</p><p>Educators and policymakers have long debated how to best teach students how to read. “Balanced literacy” dominated <span class="caps">US</span> classrooms for much of the past 20 years, but many schools have moved away from it due to mounting evidence that can lead to poor reading outcomes. </p><p>The science of reading, on the other hand, represents a vast body of research emphasizing the importance of phonics — the relationship between letters and sounds — in teaching children how to read. While the approach has some detractors who say it pushes a “one-size-fits-all” approach that may not work for every child, studies show that instruction based on the science of reading improves reading proficiency, especially for children with dyslexia. </p><p>But whether it can underpin an effective education policy depends on how it is implemented, and some worry New York’s patchwork approach could limit its potential benefits. </p><p>In 2024, 46 percent of New York third graders were below basic proficiency in reading. Those outcomes could have profound implications: Research shows children who fail to read proficiently by third grade are four times more likely to drop out of high school. </p><p>Mississippi’s success with the science of reading is hard to ignore. The state was ranked second worst nationwide for fourth-grade reading in 2013 and rose to the top 10 within a decade. Nearby states that followed suit, including Alabama and Louisiana, saw similar gains, a trend referred to as the “Southern surge.” Outcomes in other states have been more mixed, fueling debate between critics who see stalled scores as a cause for concern and proponents who argue the reforms need time to take hold. </p><p>Under New York’s Back to Basics plan, all school districts were supposed to confirm in the September survey that they transitioned to the science of reading in their curricula, instruction, and teacher training, and that they’re following best practices in seven literacy and writing categories. As part of the survey, districts submitted the curricula they use.</p>																									<p>Most school districts reported meeting best practices, but the results still show areas of concern, especially in writing, fluency, and vocabulary practices; in each of those areas, over 100 school districts and <span class="caps">BOCES</span> — regional organizations that provide educational resources to districts — said they were out of alignment. Many also shared plans to improve instruction, including by reviewing curricula, revamping teacher training, and establishing literacy committees to inform programming. </p><p>Plattsburgh, Friendship, and Watkins Glen school districts all reported misalignment even though they submitted curricula that align with the science of reading. Superintendents at those school districts said they opted for candor, and that the survey revealed where instruction still needs improvement. </p><p>“There was a relatively large learning curve to get a full staff of teachers up to the expectation of Back to Basics,” said Watkins Glen Superintendent Kai D’Alleva. “But there has been tremendous buy-in, and we’re excited to see the fruits of this labor develop over the next few years.”</p><p>Overall, more than 130 of the state’s 713 school districts submitted balanced literacy curricula, with the most popular being Fountas and Pinnell and Lucy Calkins’ Units of Study, two of the most controversial programs. Scores of districts also created their own curriculum or reported using other programs that have not been reviewed by EdReports, a nonprofit that states and districts use to review the quality of K-12 instructional materials.</p><p>Kat Fratticci, co-founder of the Long Island Literacy Coalition, a community-based advocacy group founded in 2024 to promote the science of reading, said some districts are hesitant to revamp reading instruction because they’ve already invested heavily in their current curriculum, instructional materials, and teacher training. </p><p>At the same time, the state law does not have any clear enforcement mechanism built in to account for these variations. And the survey results don’t capture the full picture. Districts have to fill out the attestation survey annually, but they’re not required to submit proof that their curricula are aligned, and the state doesn’t provide guidance on what programs districts should steer clear of. Dozens of districts reported using balanced literacy programs despite confirming their alignment with all best practices.</p><p>The state shouldn’t tell school districts exactly what to purchase and teach, said Tarja Parssinen, founder of the Western <span class="caps">NY</span> Education Alliance, but “there has to be some guidance, some support, and some recommendations about what to stay away from.”</p>																																		<div class="flourish-embed flourish-chart" data-src="visualisation/28449272"><script src="https://public.flourish.studio/resources/embed.js"></script><noscript><img src="https://public.flourish.studio/visualisation/28449272/thumbnail" width="100%" alt="chart visualization" /></noscript></div>
																
																									<p>Balanced literacy curricula can mask dyslexia and other learning delays, research shows, because they often encourage students to guess words based on pictures or context clues rather than decode letters and sounds. In Schneider’s case, she said she thought her children were reading at the appropriate level because they would read aloud at home — until she noticed they were just reciting passages they had memorized in class. </p><p>Other Riverhead parents told New York Focus how their children who struggled to read were pushed along without proper intervention. One mother, who asked to remain anonymous due to potential litigation, said her son was reading at a kindergarten level in fourth grade before he started receiving one-on-one reading intervention.</p><p>“There’s a mantra in New York state: Just wait and see, wait and see if they grow out of it,” said Yolanda Thompson, special education advocate and three-time Riverhead school board candidate. “There needs to be a huge cultural mindset shift. We can’t fix something we don’t understand.”</p><p>The students most harmed when districts don’t use best practices are often students of color, those from low-income families, and multilingual learners, said Fratticci. “They don’t necessarily have that safety net of private tutoring or reading specialists outside of school, so when the classroom fails them, there’s no backup.”</p><p>That’s true in Riverhead, said Thompson. A majority of students there are from low-income families and around 40 percent are English language learners.</p><p>In the survey, Riverhead wrote that many of its teachers are new to the profession and work with high-needs students, and that financial constraints limit access to instructional resources. The district added that it hired three literacy coaches to lead professional development and support implementation of the science of reading, and is evaluating the need to purchase new instructional materials to teach phonics. </p><p>Education Department spokesperson Karen Male said in a statement that the agency plans to reach out to noncompliant districts to provide free instructional resources, explore professional development with colleges and universities, and work with districts to identify other needs. The agency did specify when districts must achieve full compliance.</p>																									<p>Without holding districts accountable, Assemblymember Carroll said, New York will continue to lose the race to literacy.</p><p>In 2023, Carroll introduced a bill called the Right to Read Act, which would require all elementary school teachers to be trained in the science of reading, provide grants to districts to hire literacy coaches, and mandate school districts to choose from a list of approved, evidence-based curricula. The legislation is currently awaiting action in the education committee, but Carroll said he’s optimistic it will advance this year, citing recent conversations with colleagues and the governor about the need to improve New York schools to keep residents from leaving the state.  </p><p>“Right now, in New York, you have to be lucky to learn how to read — and that is unjustified and unconscionable,” Carroll said. “We know how to fix this, and I know the governor wants to fix this. But we all need to work together because this is going to take the effort of the legislature and the governor working together to get this done.” </p>																								<div class="newsroomBlockQuoteContainer">
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																									<p>Carroll’s bill has the support of EdTrust, which is also calling for school districts to submit literacy plans with evidence of implementation and notify parents if they are using non-evidence-based curricula. In addition, the organization wants to see the state invest $15 million so that districts can purchase science of reading curricula, and mandatory universal screening in grades K-3. </p><p>“We have to catch up with the rest of the nation,” Smink said. “For the amount of money we spend and for how important learning to read is, we deserve policies like every other state.”</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ As the Bronx Democratic Party’s Clout Grows, So Does Its Bottom Line ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/04/13/bronx-democratic-party-bailey-airbnb-uber ]]> </link>
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<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2026 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ The party collected record-breaking gifts from Airbnb and Uber, while party operatives lobbied Bronx lawmakers. ]]> </description>
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																			<p dir="ltr">In the Bronx, where Democratic voters outnumber Republicans nearly 10 to one and incumbents usually cruise to reelection, the local Democratic Party recently had a surprising fundraising streak. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Over a six-month period late last year, the party’s campaign “housekeeping” account raised ​an unprecedented $812,000 in contributions​, the party’s biggest fundraising haul on record. ​More than half of it came from six-figure gifts from Airbnb, Uber, and the state Laborers’ <span class="caps">PAC</span> — the three largest donations to any Democratic party housekeeping account in the state’s most populous counties, according to online records that go back more than two decades.<br></p>																																			<p dir="ltr">The donors’ largesse could endear them to lawmakers in a growing nerve center of statewide political power. Assembly Speaker Carl Heastie hails from the borough and formerly chaired the Bronx Democratic Party. His protégé, Senator Jamaal Bailey — who now chairs the county party and controls its housekeeping account —  <a href="https://www.cityandstateny.com/politics/2026/02/gianaris-will-not-run-reelection/411298/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">is rumored to be next in line</a> to be Senate majority leader.</p>
<p dir="ltr">For Airbnb and Uber, which gave $250,000 and $100,000 respectively, the amounts appear to be their largest political donations to any party committee or candidate in New York. The Laborers’ <span class="caps">PAC</span>, which represents building trades workers and gave $100,000, had made larger donations to the statewide Democratic Party — but never a contribution nearly as large to a county. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Airbnb did not respond to questions. Uber spokesperson Josh Gold said his company’s donation was meant to broadly bolster a political party playing an “important role in recruiting and supporting candidates who are focused on affordability, economic opportunity, and job creation.” </p>
<p dir="ltr"><span class="caps">NYS</span> Laborers’ <span class="caps">PAC</span> Director Vincent Albanese wrote in an email that his group’s donation “reflects the borough’s emergence as a major development hub — and the need for leadership that backs the union construction industry.” </p>
<p dir="ltr">Some of the donors have ties to London House, a political consulting and lobbying firm founded by a close friend and current campaign aide of Bailey’s, Jason Laidley. London House occupies a dual role: Its employees are paid to run the day-to-day operations of the Bronx Democratic Party, an organization that helps make or break local politicians’ political fortunes. It’s also paid by clients to lobby those same Bronx lawmakers on pressing government business. </p>
<p dir="ltr">It’s common for Albany lobbying firms, as a means of building influence, to solicit donations from their clients for the benefit of a politician or party. It’s more unusual for a lobbying firm to also be paid by the party itself, allowing its staff to potentially benefit from some of the donations they helped secure. Neither Laidley nor his clients responded to questions about whether he’d solicited donations from them. Bailey and Heastie also did not respond to questions for this article. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Housekeeping accounts can take donations of any size, including from corporations, but the money must be spent on “party-building” activities, such as paying for staff and headquarters, rather than directly supporting specific candidates in elections. Good government groups have long criticized the accounts as a loosely regulated way for special interests to get around donation limits and curry favor with politicians.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“Housekeeping accounts are a gigantic loophole in New York’s campaign finance rules,” said John Kaehny, executive director of the government reform group Reinvent Albany. “Our groups have been complaining about them for decades because they can do what they’re doing here: Translate special interest money into political influence.”<br></p>																									<p dir="ltr">As Assembly speaker since 2015, Carl Heastie is one of the three most powerful people in Albany. He is also the former chairman of the Bronx Democratic Party and has maintained an interest in its financial success. As New York Focus <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2024/10/24/london-house-jamaal-bailey-bronx-democrats">previously reported</a>, the Assembly Democrats’ campaign committee has directed nearly $700,000 to the Bronx Democrats since 2020, despite the rarity of competitive general elections in the borough. The committee has not given substantial sums to any other county party in recent years.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/jUIuJfkYjFq2WSG9ZsEtkNMX3Zj8EJCGvAjRM8SdD94/w:1000/h:1529/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9jYXJsLWhlYXN0aWUucG5n.png" alt="" class=" size-thumbnail " /><figcaption>Assembly Speaker Carl Heastie hails from the Bronx and formerly chaired the borough&#039;s Democratic Party.  / New York State Assembly Majority</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p dir="ltr">Bailey may be in line for a similar ascension.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Senate Majority Leader Andrea Stewart-Cousins will reach the end of an eight-year term limit for the position in December, though Senate Democrats could easily amend the rules to allow her to remain leader. Even if they do, Stewart-Cousins’s <a href="https://www.cityandstateny.com/politics/2026/02/gianaris-will-not-run-reelection/411298/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">deputy leader</a> is retiring, and insiders believe Bailey is well-positioned to replace him and then to take the top position when Stewart-Cousins, age 75, retires herself.</p>
<p dir="ltr">In a race to succeed Stewart-Cousins, Bailey would have the same built-in advantages that helped Heastie win an internal battle in 2015 to become Assembly speaker while serving as Bronx Democratic Party chair. Bailey would have a bloc of votes among Bronx senators and could lean on Bronx Democrats’ longstanding alliance with the Queens Democratic Party, which holds similar sway over senators in that borough. </p>
<p dir="ltr">If Bailey led the Senate while Heastie led the Assembly, it would mark an unprecedented concentration of power in the Bronx Democratic Party. </p>
<p dir="ltr">That would also benefit Jason Laidley, founder of London House, who was previously a top aide in Bailey’s office and whose firm is a current campaign consultant for the senator. The Bailey-led Bronx Democratic Party has paid London House hundreds of thousands of dollars in once-hidden consulting fees, New York Focus <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2024/11/15/bronx-democratic-party-new-york-focus">has reported</a>, and the firm has <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2024/11/13/london-house-bronx-new-york-judge">routinely represented</a> candidates the party has tapped for judgeships.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Over the most recent six-month period, the Bronx Democratic Party housekeeping account paid over $30,000 to London House and an additional $31,000 to Logan Events, a company Laidley founded in 2023, to provide the party with “gala services.”<br></p>																																			<p dir="ltr">Arianna Collado, a lobbyist at London House, was paid nearly $50,000 over the last six months to run the party’s day-to-day operations as executive director. </p>
<p dir="ltr">The party housekeeping account Collado helps oversee spent $440,000 over the period, on expenses including a Netflix account and a number of sizable dining tabs. Housekeeping funds cannot legally be used to cover personal expenses, but may be used in connection with party business. London House did not respond to requests for comment on the expenses.<br></p>																									<p dir="ltr">As London House works for both the party and its chair, its employees also lobby lawmakers they help elect, including Bailey.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Over the past two years, London House’s list of lobbying clients has nearly doubled, and one of them is also the county party’s biggest new donor. Airbnb has retained London House to lobby since late 2024 and pays the firm $15,000 a month.</p>
<p dir="ltr">When the company donated $250,000 to the Bronx Democrats last September, Airbnb and London House were in the midst of a major push in the New York City Council to roll back restrictions on short-term rentals in the city.<br><br>Lobbying disclosures show that last year, London House lobbied five Bronx members of the City Council on two proposals pushed by Airbnb, including one that would significantly soften the restrictions. </p>
<p dir="ltr">One bill gained seven co-sponsors, the other gained nine — and for each, four were members of the Bronx Democratic Party. Airbnb’s push gained traction but <a href="https://www.yahoo.com/news/articles/city-council-unlikely-consider-bill-012900449.html?guccounter=1&amp;guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&amp;guce_referrer_sig=AQAAAJbU0FqngnQX0v9i_y_g23R7XrX7-fhyg8kYT56uIbriH9X9xSsKoulG0FbTfjkfabYP_p7uKQ7Wc9NzLknoq-LXh4rVy4YKKJlHQkPCVUt2qmNK_M75n167eY6V6PxGzyvOlaR9KGLwWNz6P12Ea0OlanS6eczlMs8fW4yNIzTa" rel="noopener" target="_blank">ultimately died</a> amid heavy pushback from opponents. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Since the bill’s defeat, a new speaker has assumed the top position in the City Council, and London House played a role in her election. In a celebratory photo taken the November night that Julie Menin wrapped up the support needed among fellow Council members to win the race, Menin is surrounded by a group of 10 allies that helped make her speaker, including Collado and Laidley, who advised Menin as the race unfolded.<br></p>
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																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/jt9wHYHZ2eNqOOFtUvSC1PGrq8g-8-XzheaKsCJZiDY/w:1000/h:750/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9JTUcuanBlZw.jpeg" alt="" class=" size-full " /><figcaption>New York City Council Speaker Julie Menin, fourth from right in back, on the November night she wrapped up the speaker&#039;s race at Queens Democratic Party headquarters. Her key supporters present included Queens Democratic Party chairman and US Representative Gregory Meeks (to Menin&#039;s immediate left) and political consultants Jason Laidley (front row, furthest left) and Ariana Collado (front row, furthest right). </figcaption></figure>
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<p dir="ltr">The speaker’s race is often decided by Democratic political bosses, who form alliances and convince the Council members in their delegations to come along. In the photo, taken at the headquarters of the Queens Democratic Party, Menin is standing next to the chair of the Queens Democratic Party, <span class="caps">US</span> Representative Gregory Meeks — who is also Jason Laidley’s father-in-law. The family ties have further cemented the longstanding alliance between Queens and the Bronx and expanded London House’s sphere of influence.</p>
<p dir="ltr">After rounding up the necessary votes, Menin gave top jobs to Bronx Democrats. She hired Miguelina Camilo, Heastie’s former counsel, as her chief of staff, and a former Heastie aide, Simone Jones, as her deputy chief. </p>
<p dir="ltr">In response to questions, Menin’s office said the hirings were unrelated to her Bronx backing and were based on the women’s extensive qualifications. Several top Menin officials are not Bronx-connected.</p>
<p dir="ltr">During Menin’s first two months as speaker, Airbnb reported lobbying both Menin and her staff concerning short-term rental laws. In late February, Airbnb hired a lobbying firm founded by Ebony Meeks-Laidley — Meeks’s daughter and Jason Laidley’s wife — for $7,500 a month. Now, both members of the Bronx power couple are poised to push Airbnb’s agenda before a speaker their family played a key role in seating.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Last year, Menin strongly opposed the Airbnb-backed legislation that significantly softened restrictions. Menin has historically had a close relationship with the Hotel and Gaming Trades Council union, which fiercely opposes efforts to loosen short-term rental rules. The bill has not yet been reintroduced this year, so according to the speaker’s office, Menin does not have a position on any possible renewed legislation.<br></p>																									<p dir="ltr">Other Laidley clients who have donated to the Bronx Democrats are focused on Albany, where Bailey runs a key legislative committee overseeing insurance issues.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The car-sharing rental company Turo donated $10,000 to the party late last year, and its director of government affairs, Kenny Montilla, contributed another $20,000. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Last year, before the donations, Bailey co-sponsored a bill dramatically decreasing insurance liability requirements for peer-to-peer car sharing companies like Turo. The bill, boosted<a href="https://www.cityandstateny.com/policy/2025/06/turo-car-share-app-pushes-bill-reduce-insurance-requirements/405846/" rel="noopener" target="_blank"> by</a> Turo, was signed into law by Governor Kathy Hochul in December.</p>
<p dir="ltr">After the donations, Montilla reported lobbying Bailey on a bill the senator himself <a href="https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/bills/2025/S9298" rel="noopener" target="_blank">introduced in February</a>. It would significantly increase liability coverage requirements for traditional car rental companies, Turo’s competitors.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The ride-sharing giant Uber, which donated $100,000 to the Bronx Democrats in October, is also pressing hard for reductions in auto accident payouts.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Laidley doesn’t work for Uber. But Meeks-Laidley, Laidley’s lobbyist wife, recently inked a $10,000-a-month contract with a lobbying group receiving millions of dollars from Uber, called Citizens for Affordable Rates. The hiring came just after Bailey and fellow Senate Democrats released a budget proposal omitting Hochul’s sweeping plan to narrow insurance company liability for car accidents.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Bailey has been publicly skeptical of Uber’s biggest push in Albany this year, despite the company’s own staff previously <a href="https://reports.ethics.ny.gov/publicquery/ViewFiling/BIMO/Nzg4Nzgz0" rel="noopener" target="_blank">lobbying him</a> to support Hochul’s proposal. Uber, Citizens for Affordable Rates, and Meeks-Laidley did not answer a question about whether Meeks-Laidley would now lobby Bailey on the matter. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Bailey did <a href="https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/bills/2025/S9067" rel="noopener" target="_blank">introduce legislation</a> in January that benefits Uber. Mirroring the Turo-backed legislation last year, it would dramatically ease liability limits for car-sharing companies, putting their coverage on par with taxis. Uber has <a href="https://www.uber.com/us/en/u/fair-insurance/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">publicly expressed</a> a desire for such a change in New York law.</p>																																			<p dir="ltr">In the months before Bailey introduced the bill, Uber reported lobbying Bailey on “Insurance and Litigation Reform.” Asked whether Uber had lobbied Bailey to introduce the bill, Gold, the Uber spokesperson, said the company “regularly engages with elected officials and stakeholders on issues affecting our business, including insurance and affordability.” </p>
<p dir="ltr">In New York Democratic primaries, including <a href="https://www.cityandstateny.com/politics/2026/01/dsa-member-christina-cover-weighing-assembly-bid-south-bronx/410508/#:~:text=January%207%2C%202026-,2026%20New%20York%20state%20elections,And%20while%20former%20Gov." rel="noopener" target="_blank">in the Bronx</a>, business-friendly incumbents backed by the party are facing stronger competition from an ascendant political left. During the 2025 primaries for New York City Council, Uber <a href="https://www.thecity.nyc/2025/07/02/outside-spending-city-council-2025-election/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">spent millions</a> seeking to elect candidates supporting its agenda. The $100,000 donation — made after those primaries were over — is part of a wider strategy in multiple states to support party-building efforts, Gold said, ensuring “a broader and more balanced bench of candidates in the political pipeline.”</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ Gas Industry Eyes Comeback as New York Weighs Climate Law Delays ]]> </title>
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																			<p dir="ltr">After years of seeing their projects rejected in New York, pipeline and power plant companies are eyeing a comeback as the state weighs a slower transition away from fossil fuels. </p>
<p>They’re not just watching from the sidelines. A national industry group, led by some of the country’s largest pipeline builders and a slew of other gas interests, has recently entered the fray, tapping former state politicians to help advance Governor Kathy Hochul’s “all of the above” energy strategy. Top of their agenda: pressing pause on the state’s climate targets.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The group, a nonprofit called Natural Allies for a Clean Energy Future, represents some of the companies with the most to gain if Hochul’s <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/20/hochul-clcpa-climate-law-roll-back">proposed rollbacks</a> to the state’s climate law go through. Speaking at a conference in late March, its New York chapter co-chair, former assemblymember and Bronx borough president Ruben Diaz Jr., gave a spirited defense of the governor’s plan, calling it “responsible leadership.”<br></p>																																			<p dir="ltr">“Yes, more renewables,” he said, “but yes also to modern efficient natural gas when needed to maintain stability. That is not retreating from climate action. That is governing with common sense.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">Diaz, a self-professed environmental justice champion, was delivering the keynote before the Independent Power Producers of New York, or <span class="caps">IPPNY</span>, a trade group representing power plant operators.</p>
<p dir="ltr">It was a new venue for Natural Allies. Formed in 2020, the group has recruited a roster of <a href="https://www.naturalalliesforcleanenergy.org/about/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">high-profile former elected officials</a> to <a href="https://www.washingtonpost.com/climate-environment/2023/02/02/gas-industry-hires-democrats-liberal-voters/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">persuade Democrats</a>, and especially <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/environment/2022/jun/30/gas-industry-pr-advertise-people-of-color" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Black and Latino voters</a>, that gas is here to stay. In the past six months, it has carried that playbook into state-level advocacy, bringing on prominent spokespeople in New York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Virginia, and Wisconsin.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The group is entering New York politics at a pivotal moment. Energy demand is growing, but President Donald Trump’s administration is <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/07/11/trump-hochul-wind-solar-big-beautiful-bill">pulling support for renewables</a> and waging war on <a href="https://www.canarymedia.com/articles/offshore-wind/how-trump-dismantled-a-promising-energy-industry-and-what-america-lost" rel="noopener" target="_blank">offshore</a> <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2026/03/23/climate/offshore-wind-gas-trump-total.html" rel="noopener" target="_blank">wind</a>, a <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2024/11/19/donald-trump-offshore-wind-new-york">central pillar</a> of New York’s green transition. State energy regulators are considering a <a href="https://gothamist.com/news/new-york-climate-goals-face-challenge-as-concern-mounts-about-energy-reliability" rel="noopener" target="_blank">proposal</a> from business groups to pause efforts to achieve a zero-emissions grid. And the governor is <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/12/03/cap-invest-clcpa-lawsuit-hochul-dec-emissions-rules">fighting</a> a <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/10/30/clcpa-ruling-hochul-appeal-new-york-climate-law-cap-invest">court order</a> over violations of the state climate law.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The fight has <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/10/clcpa-climate-law-rollbacks-hochul-budget">come to a head</a> in state budget talks, which are now in overtime as the governor, Assembly, and Senate wrangle over Hochul’s proposed rollbacks of New York’s emissions mandates and other policy sticking points. Despite support from <a href="https://empirereportnewyork.com/climate-and-energy-policy-lets-be-practical/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">some upstate Democrats</a>, Hochul has <a href="https://youtu.be/PRQ4K5ohIxo?si=xDim1Xp3lno3g6bb&amp;t=653" rel="noopener" target="_blank">admitted</a> that she’s facing an uphill battle with the legislature.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Natural Allies brings national heft to the state fight, with the help of familiar faces from New York’s political scene. The group announced Diaz and former Lieutenant Governor Robert Duffy as its state co-chairs last fall, and they quickly began making the rounds in <a href="https://x.com/Natural_Allies/status/1993035318736699849" rel="noopener" target="_blank">policy circles</a> and among <a href="https://x.com/Natural_Allies/status/2016954499412222158" rel="noopener" target="_blank">clergy</a> <a href="https://x.com/Natural_Allies/status/2015838650567631087" rel="noopener" target="_blank">groups</a>. Diaz’s efforts focused on communities of color downstate.<br></p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/-DO0OpDDmwVzW5EpuvryqYudAXqthXGSk_MMVds6h34/w:1000/h:665/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9SdWJlbi1EaWF6LUpSLVRIUl83MzE2Ui5KUEc.jpg" alt="" class=" size-full " /><figcaption>Ruben Diaz Jr. speaks at the Independent Power Producers of New York conference on March 24, 2026.  / Tim Raab/IPPNY</figcaption></figure>
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<p dir="ltr">Duffy, who directs the Greater Rochester Chamber of Commerce, leads the group’s upstate outreach. He said the gas group’s priorities mesh with those of many businesses in the region, who he said could be forced out of New York if the state keeps its current climate deadlines.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“It just defies logic that this is even controversial,” he said.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Natural Allies says it doesn’t lobby in New York, but it treads a fine line. </p>
<p dir="ltr">At the March conference, Diaz mentioned meeting beforehand with a state senator and said he was helping to build “a coalition so that we can give the governor the backing that she needs, so that we can convince many of the legislators” to change the climate law. The previous month, according to the group’s <a href="https://x.com/Natural_Allies/status/2024520841476690307" rel="noopener" target="_blank">social media</a>, he joined the annual conference of the New York State Association of Black, Puerto Rican, Hispanic, and Asian Legislators.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Natural Allies’ website hosts a <a href="https://www.naturalalliesforcleanenergy.org/take-action/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">“Take Action”</a> page directed at state energy regulators. In late March, the group tagged state Senate Majority Leader Andrea Stewart-Cousins in a <a href="https://x.com/Natural_Allies/status/2038973076457615475" rel="noopener" target="_blank">social media post</a> warning of massive energy cost hikes on families “if [climate law] adjustments aren’t made.” </p>
<p dir="ltr">Michael McKeon, spokesperson for Natural Allies, denied that any of the group’s efforts amounted to lobbying. (McKeon is a partner at the consultancy and lobbying shop Actum, where Diaz is co-chair.)</p>
<p dir="ltr">“We have never had legislative meetings or met with the [governor’s office] to discuss legislation at all,” he wrote in an email. “We can and do try to educate folks about our view on issues.” Asked about the “Take Action” page on the group’s website, with a form letter pushing the Public Service Commission to hold hearings on the state’s clean grid mandate, McKeon said it was active for only 10 days in March and “falls outside of lobbying rules.” </p>
<p dir="ltr">Diaz, who runs his own lobbying firm in addition to working for Actum, said he would “know better” than to lobby without disclosing it. </p>
<p dir="ltr">“It’s a consulting gig,” Diaz said of his work with the group. “I’m just there to help educate the community.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">Natural Allies declined to say how much it was paying its state chairs. The group’s latest published <a href="https://projects.propublica.org/nonprofits/organizations/852991975/202542959349301974/full" rel="noopener" target="_blank">tax filings</a>, and <a href="https://heated.world/p/reminder-tim-ryan-is-a-paid-fossil" rel="noopener" target="_blank">prior reporting</a> by the online outlet Heated, show that it paid LLCs linked to some of its national co-chairs, including several former congressmembers, more than $200,000 a year in 2024. The group reported more than $8 million in revenue that year and $10 million in the bank. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Then, Trump took office. Since then, the five publicly traded gas and energy infrastructure companies that top Natural Allies’ <a href="https://www.naturalalliesforcleanenergy.org/about/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">membership list</a> have seen their stocks soar above the S&P 500. With surging energy demand all over headlines and renewables on the defensive, the gas industry is having a moment.</p>																									<p dir="ltr">New York may serve as a test of how far the fossil fuel resurgence will go. Just a few years ago, the state had all but <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2024/11/05/new-york-fossil-fuel-future">ruled out</a> new fossil fuel infrastructure. Between 2020 and 2022, state environmental regulators rejected <a href="https://extapps.dec.ny.gov/docs/permits_ej_operations_pdf/nesewqcdenial05152020.pdf" rel="noopener" target="_blank">every</a> <a href="https://extapps.dec.ny.gov/docs/permits_ej_operations_pdf/nesewqcdenial05152020.pdf" rel="noopener" target="_blank">major gas project</a> that <a href="https://dec.ny.gov/news/press-releases/2022/6/statement-from-the-new-york-state-department-of-environmental-conservation-on-denial-of-the-title-v-permit-renewal-for-greenidge-generation-llc" rel="noopener" target="_blank">came before them</a>, citing, among others, the climate law.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Last year, things began to shift. The clearest sign was Hochul’s green light, in November, for a <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/11/07/nese-gas-pipeline-approval-hochul-trump-new-york">major gas pipeline</a> into the New York City area, which the state had rejected three times before. Soon after, Hochul’s administration finalized a new <a href="https://energyplan.ny.gov/Plans/2025-Energy-Plan" rel="noopener" target="_blank">energy plan</a> that envisions “repowering” — or rebuilding — some New York City fossil fuel plants as late as the mid-2030s in order to plug a hole in the state’s energy mix that was supposed to be filled by offshore wind.</p>																																			<p dir="ltr">Hochul spokesperson Ken Lovett said the pivot was a necessary response to Trump’s attacks on renewables, and that while the governor is “laser focused” on building clean energy, she won’t rule out any option to “help keep the lights and heat on and costs down.” </p>

<p dir="ltr">“Governor Hochul has been clear: we are not going to risk the reliability of the grid,” he said. </p>
<p dir="ltr">For some in the industry, the governor’s “all of the above” energy strategy doesn’t go far enough. “It’s a nice talking point,” said Gavin Donohue, president of the <span class="caps">IPPNY</span> trade group. “But we need to back it up with policy changes.” </p>
<p dir="ltr">Power plant operators are less focused on the climate law’s topline emissions targets, which Hochul is seeking to change through the budget, than a separate provision requiring a <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2023/05/22/non-renewable-energy-hydrogen-nuclear-biofuels-ippny">zero-emissions grid by 2040</a>. </p>
<p dir="ltr">“Under the current law, my company and [others like it] are expected to essentially go away by 2040,” said Matthew Schwall, senior director of regulatory affairs at Alpha Generation, at <span class="caps">IPPNY</span>’s conference in late March. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Schwall’s company owns some of the aging, embattled <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2023/06/14/new-york-air-pollution-climate-peaker-plant">“peaker” plants</a> that get fired up when demand on the grid spikes. The company <a href="https://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/alphagen-proposes-repowering-and-battery-projects-to-secure-nycs-long-term-grid-reliability-302714755.html" rel="noopener" target="_blank">recently proposed</a> new units at two of its Brooklyn plants, but Schwall said they faced tough odds getting built unless the state reconsiders its clean grid mandate. </p>
<p dir="ltr">The cost to build a new gas plant has doubled or tripled since 2020, depending on where in the country it’s built, an executive from the turbine manufacturer <span class="caps">GE</span> Vernova said at the conference. And given backlogs in supply chains and construction timelines, it would likely take until at least the early 2030s for any new gas plants to get up and running.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“I don’t know how to attract financing for a project when the law says your project cannot run by 2040,” Schwall said. </p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/gumHCU0gW1spQ1AOS3uC_L3EBhiv4NovPLuo6BoJu0I/w:1000/h:665/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9TY2h3YWxsLXNwZWFraW5nLWFuZC1Ccnlhbi1TaXhiZXJyeS1USFJfNzExNVIuSlBH.jpg" alt="" class=" size-full " /><figcaption>From left, Bryan Sixberry of GE Vernova and Matthew Schwall of Alpha Generation at the Independent Power Producers of New York conference on March 24, 2026.  / Tim Raab/IPPNY</figcaption></figure>
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<p dir="ltr">Hochul’s administration doesn’t need to change the climate law to put that mandate on hold. Regulators are already allowed to do so if they find that meeting the target will compromise grid reliability — and the <a href="https://documents.dps.ny.gov/public/MatterManagement/CaseMaster.aspx?MatterCaseNo=15-e-0302&amp;CaseSearch=Search#:~:text=Petition%20for%20Hearing%20under%20PSL%20%C2%A766%2Dp" rel="noopener" target="_blank">business group petition</a> pending before the state Public Service Commission asks them to do just that.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Though distinct, the fight at the commission and the one in the legislature are hard to fully separate, with many of the same groups on the front lines of both. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Yvonne Hennessey, who leads the environmental practice at the law firm Barclay Damon and has represented oil and gas clients in major permitting fights, said she has seen renewed industry interest over the last six months in building new gas plants. She said Hochul’s recent moves have been encouraging, but that investors are still waiting for a clearer signal that they’re welcome in New York. Major changes to the state’s climate targets would provide it.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Climate advocates say there couldn’t be a worse time to turn back toward fossil fuels. Raya Salter, founder of the Energy Justice Law and Policy Center and a member of the state’s Climate Action Council, called the industry’s recent advocacy a “cynical ploy.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">“The entire world is aflame because we won’t quit fossil fuels,” she said, pointing to Trump’s war in the Middle East and the <a href="https://www.newstatesman.com/international-politics/geopolitics/2026/03/the-world-energy-shock-is-coming" rel="noopener" target="_blank">fallout on energy prices</a>. “The fact that we are doubling down on fossil fuel infrastructure because of the fossil fuel lobby, instead of doubling down on renewables, is actually insane.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">While experts expect the energy shock to accelerate the transition to renewables in many fossil fuel–importing economies, Hennessey sees it as an opportunity for New York to reconsider fracking, which it banned in 2014. </p>
<p dir="ltr">“We could very well have our own source of fossil fuel in the state of New York,” she said. (Hochul has so far <a href="https://subscriber.politicopro.com/article/eenews/2026/03/19/hochul-says-she-rebuffed-trump-on-fracking-ee-00834597" rel="noopener" target="_blank">rejected</a> the idea of new gas drilling within state lines.)</p>
<p dir="ltr">Downstate, Diaz is pitching new gas plants as an environmental justice measure, which will allow the dirtiest old facilities to be retired.</p>
<p dir="ltr">He acknowledged that he himself long doubted those kinds of promises. In the late 1990s, he recalled, the state promised that a <a href="https://grist.org/justice/new-york-says-goodbye-to-6-dirty-power-plants-and-hello-to-working-with-communities/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">fleet of new downstate gas plants</a> would be cleaner than the old. The problem, Diaz said, was that the old ones stayed on too — and many are still there, almost 30 years later. </p>
<p dir="ltr">What makes him think this time will be different?</p>
<p dir="ltr">“That we have Kathy Hochul,” he said.</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ Child Care Voucher Enrollment Is Closed in 34 New York Counties and NYC ]]> </title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 31 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ That number is up from 21 last July. New York City&#039;s waitlist alone has surged to over 17,000 — a tenfold increase in less than a year. ]]> </description>
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																			<p>More than half of New York counties have stopped enrolling eligible families in the state’s child care voucher program as of mid-March amid a funding crisis that has persisted for over a year, new data shows.</p>
<p>Thirty-four counties and New York City have had to close applications or enrollment for the program, which subsidizes nearly the entire cost of private child care for low- and middle-income families.  Twenty-one of them are keeping waitlists; New York City’s alone has grown to over 17,000 families — a more than 1,000 percent increase since last July.</p>																																			<p dir="ltr">And as Governor Kathy Hochul and state legislators enter <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/11/universal-child-care-schools-funding-state-budget-2026">final budget negotiations</a>, local officials and advocates say that the proposals on the table — to add $1.2 billion to help counties reduce waitlists and resume enrollment — will not come close to clearing the growing statewide backlog. </p>
<p dir="ltr">The decades-old program, which is funded mostly by the federal and state governments, was originally intended to help welfare recipients afford child care so they could enter the workforce. But as the cost of child care has skyrocketed, eligibility and demand have expanded, and state funds haven’t kept pace. </p>
<p dir="ltr">The new data makes clear that the funding shortfall at the center of last year’s <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/03/27/nyc-child-care-voucher-900-million">budget negotiations</a>, which New York Focus <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/02/28/new-york-city-child-care-program-funding">first reported</a>, has only worsened. Voucher enrollment in sixteen counties has remained closed <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/08/08/child-care-vouchers-assistance-ccap-new-york-waitlist">since at least </a>July, when the state Office of Children and Family Services first started publishing the data. </p>
<p dir="ltr">All counties have maintained enrollment for families who are required to receive it under state law, including those who receive other forms of cash assistance, though some county officials have warned those funds are running low, too.</p>																																		<div class="flourish-embed flourish-chart" data-src="visualisation/28207968"><script src="https://public.flourish.studio/resources/embed.js"></script><noscript><img src="https://public.flourish.studio/visualisation/28207968/thumbnail" width="100%" alt="visualization" /></noscript></div>
																
																									<p dir="ltr">If the final budget doesn’t include more funding than what lawmakers proposed earlier this year, New York City’s waitlist could surpass 30,000 by this time next year, warns Pete Nabozny, policy director of the advocacy group the Children’s Agenda. The outlook in the rest of the state is unclear, but officials from over a dozen counties expressed similar concerns about their ability to meet future demand even with increased funding. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Advocates and officials say the gaps highlight a key tension in the governor’s widely lauded massive <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/01/14/universal-child-care-pre-k-hochul-state-of-the-state">child care investment plan</a> and her rhetoric around it; in January, she said she “placed the state on a path to universal child care” last year, and that the plan is a “roadmap” to get there. The voucher funding shortfall has already led one county to withdraw from the governor’s signature universal child care pilot for children aged 3 and younger.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“It’s difficult to say we’re [on the path to] achieving universal child care in New York, and we’re expanding care with these new programs, while thousands of low-income children sit on waitlists,” said Nabozny.<br></p>																									<p dir="ltr">Demand for the Child Care Assistance Program has skyrocketed after the state expanded  eligibility a few years ago, including by raising the income threshold. Today, the governor’s office reports that more than half of young children in New York are eligible for the program. At the same time, a series of state-level reforms has made the program more expensive to administer.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The funding shortfall reached its peak last year. The final state budget added $400 million for vouchers after reports New York City would soon have to kick thousands of families out of the program. But by July, 21 counties had closed enrollment to new families except for mandatory cases. Four of those counties have since reopened enrollment, and one other briefly resumed enrollment for a couple of months until closing them again. </p>
<p dir="ltr">In Greene County, which hasn’t been enrolling new applicants for the past seven months, funding for even mandatory cases is running low. The county Social Services Commissioner Kira Pospesel said she expects remaining funds to cover a couple of weeks into April. </p>
<p dir="ltr">At that point, for the first time in the program’s history, Pospesel said, the county will have to use local money to cover mandatory cases because of rising costs.  </p>
<p dir="ltr">“The state pushed to increase enrollment, but did not provide the dollars to pay for it,” she said. “The lack of funding is closing child care providers down and causing clients to lose their jobs and their housing.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">Hochul’s $1.2 billion funding boost, which the legislature backs, would add around $570 million in regular funding for the program, though counties will not know exactly how much they’ll receive until the fall. It also includes some short-term relief for localities that run out of that money: $475 million for New York City over the next two years, and $155 million for the rest of the state this fiscal year. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Local officials welcomed the proposed funding, but several told New York Focus it likely won’t be enough to fully eliminate waitlists or reopen enrollment. For instance, Erie County Executive Mark Poloncarz said that even with more than $14 million in supplemental funding under the proposal, Erie County’s program would still face a $8.5 million deficit. There are over 300 families currently on the waitlist there.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The county was selected for a pilot Hochul proposed in January to provide affordable full-day child care to children under the age of 3. In a February 10 letter to the legislature, Poloncarz said his administration opted out because it would have required a $2 million local contribution that did not seem “fiscally prudent” given the voucher shortfall.  (Three other selected counties are planning to participate in the pilot.)</p>
<p dir="ltr">Poloncarz has gotten heat for the decision, he wrote in the letter. “I am equally frustrated that I and a growing number of county leaders across the state are not being provided with sufficient resources to accomplish the policy goals passed by your honorable body,” he wrote.</p>																																		<div class="flourish-embed flourish-chart" data-src="visualisation/28266350"><script src="https://public.flourish.studio/resources/embed.js"></script><noscript><img src="https://public.flourish.studio/visualisation/28266350/thumbnail" width="100%" alt="visualization" /></noscript></div>
																
																									<p dir="ltr"><span class="caps">DSS</span> commissioners across the state told New York Focus that funding gaps, uncertainty about future allocations, and a lack of local control over the program have led to disruptions for families. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Essex County is among eight counties that have not enrolled eligible families in the child care voucher program for an entire year, according to <span class="caps">OCFS</span> data. The county’s commissioner for social services, Angie Allen, said regulatory changes have “impacted our ability to be fiscally responsible to the taxpayers and provide the subsidy at the same time.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">Orleans County Commissioner Mary Grace Nenni agreed, noting that the western New York county exhausted its funding even after implementing a waitlist for new applications and recertifications and is now projected to run approximately $60,000 over budget. </p>
<p dir="ltr">“If the state does not want any waiting lists, they need to move away from capped allocations and provide unlimited reimbursement,” Nenni said over email. </p>
<p dir="ltr">In New York City, where the voucher waitlist has grown by about 1,500 families per month, Nabozny said the proposed funding would help provide vouchers to more families guaranteed coverage under state law, but it would not be sufficient to reduce the waitlist. It would take an additional $1.2 billion to clear the waitlist and meet projected demand over the next year, according to a recent analysis by Nabozny and Lauren Melodia, economic policy director at the Center for New York City Affairs. </p>
<p dir="ltr"><span class="caps">OCFS</span> spokesperson Daniel Marans did not comment on the status of waitlists or funding gaps, instead stating that it is at the counties’ discretion to close enrollment or maintain a waitlist based on the funds they have available. He described Hochul’s support for child care subsidies as “nothing short of historic,” highlighting that enrollment in the program has increased by 167 percent, and funding by 164 percent, since she took office.  </p>
<p dir="ltr">Once the budget is passed, he said the agency will work closely with county officials to ensure state funding “is maximized to reach as many eligible New York families as possible.”<br></p>																																		<div class="flourish-embed flourish-chart" data-src="visualisation/28210102"><script src="https://public.flourish.studio/resources/embed.js"></script><noscript><img src="https://public.flourish.studio/visualisation/28210102/thumbnail" width="100%" alt="visualization" /></noscript></div>
																
																									<p dir="ltr">New York City Mayor Zohran Mamdani has been a vocal supporter of Hochul’s child care package, and has appeared alongside her at public events advertising it. But City Hall is taking a different tack on voucher funding. Jenna Lyle, a spokesperson for the mayor’s office, said the city is grateful for the governor’s commitment to funding the voucher program, but agreed that the “funding alone will not clear the waitlist, and it will not meet the scale of need.” </p>
<p dir="ltr">“Universal child care — care that is not means-tested, care that every family can rely on — is not a distant aspiration,” Lyle said. “It is an urgent necessity, and it must remain a top priority for this administration.” </p>
<p dir="ltr">The Empire State Campaign for Child Care, a statewide coalition of parents, early childhood educators and advocates fighting for high-quality universal child care, is pressing the state to add $1.2 billion for vouchers in the final budget to address the city’s waitlist, in line with Nabozny and Melodia’s analysis. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Child care advocates are also supporting two additional voucher-related proposals from the Assembly: one allowing counties to access supplemental funding immediately after the budget is passed, rather than waiting until they run out of funds, and another that eliminates minimum wage requirements for voucher recipients.</p>																																			<p dir="ltr">The budget negotiations come amid uncertainty surrounding federal child care and family assistance funding. In January, <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2026/01/09/us/politics/trump-child-care-funding-freeze.html" rel="noopener" target="_blank">a federal judge blocked</a>the Trump administration from freezing billions in federal funding for child care and social services in five Democratic-led states, including New York.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Federal dollars accounted for nearly three-quarters of voucher program spending from April 2013 through March 2024, according to a state comptroller report. Potential interruptions to those funds make additional state support even more urgent, according to Dede Hill, vice president of policy at the Schuyler Center for Analysis and Advocacy.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“That would be a devastating blow,” Hill said.</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ As New Yorkers Face Health Insurance Cliff, Legislators Urge State to Act ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/31/essential-plan-health-insurance-new-york-bill ]]> </link>
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<pubDate>Tue, 31 Mar 2026 13:54:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ Nearly half a million New Yorkers on the Essential Plan could lose their coverage this summer. ]]> </description>
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																			<p dir="ltr">State lawmakers are announcing legislation this week to ensure health care coverage for nearly half a million New Yorkers set to lose their insurance in July as a result of federal cuts. </p>
<p dir="ltr">The bills, sponsored by Assemblymember Amy Paulin and Senator Gustavo Rivera, would direct the state to use its own funds to continue Essential Plan access for moderate-income New Yorkers. The flagship program provides <a href="https://info.nystateofhealth.ny.gov/EssentialPlan" rel="noopener" target="_blank">free or low-cost healthcare</a> to 1.7 million residents and has been instrumental in helping the state achieve near-universal insurance coverage. </p>																																			<p dir="ltr">The bills represent the first major proposal from state leaders to protect Essential Plan enrollees from policy changes enacted under the <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/07/09/trump-big-beautiful-bill-new-york-medicaid-snap">megabill</a> President Donald Trump signed last year. Under those changes, New York lost a chunk of federal funding for the <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/09/26/essential-plan-medicaid-explained">Essential Plan</a> on January 1. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Earlier this month, the state <a href="https://info.nystateofhealth.ny.gov/sites/default/files/Section%201332%20Waiver%20Termination%20Approval%20Letter%203-20-26.pdf" rel="noopener" target="_blank">secured federal approval</a> to retool the plan — averting a “worse-case scenario” that could have ended the program entirely. The maneuver preserves coverage for 1.3 million New Yorkers, but an estimated 450,000 to 470,000 enrollees are set to be disenrolled in July. </p>
<p dir="ltr">None of the <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/11/essential-plan-snap-medicaid-new-york-budget-2026">budget proposals introduced earlier this year </a>by Governor Kathy Hochul, the Assembly, and the Senate address the impending coverage cliff, frustrating health care advocates who have been urging lawmakers to take action for months. </p>
<p dir="ltr">“There’s been a resistance generally, and I get it, to not have state dollars be responsible for the federal debacle, but we’re talking about human beings,” Paulin said of how current budget negotiations have evolved. “We’re trying very hard to work cooperatively to put forward a plan that could save them.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">State health officials are <a href="https://gothamist.com/news/watch-the-mail-nearly-500k-ny-essential-plan-insured-face-coverage-loss" rel="noopener" target="_blank">planning to mail notices</a> by early April to New Yorkers losing coverage,  directing them to seek out insurance from employers or purchase plans through the <a href="https://nystateofhealth.ny.gov/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">state’s exchange</a>. Advocates have noted that few will likely be able to afford the plans, whose monthly premiums rank among the <a href="https://www.kff.org/affordable-care-act/state-indicator/marketplace-average-benchmark-premiums/?currentTimeframe=0&amp;sortModel=%7B%22colId%22:%22Average%20Benchmark%20Premium%22,%22sort%22:%22desc%22%7D" rel="noopener" target="_blank">most expensive</a> in the country.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><a href="https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/bills/2025/S9589" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Rivera’s bill</a> would also set up a state-funded premium assistance program to make those plans more affordable, and other measures specifically addressing new restrictions on certain legal immigrants on the plan.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“These are the people who go to work every day and generate billions in economic activity,” Rivera wrote in a press release of the impacted New Yorkers. “This bill will protect basic healthcare access and mitigate the harm of these cruel policy choices.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">Paulin’s bill is expected to be released soon.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The bills do not allocate any specific funds, but Paulin said she hopes the effort “catches fire” and prompts deeper discussion about how much the state is willing to spend. A <a href="https://smhttp-ssl-58547.nexcesscdn.net/nycss/images/uploads/pubs/CSSNY_Preserving_Health_Coverage_March_2026.pdf" rel="noopener" target="_blank">recent report</a> by the Community Service Society of New York estimated that extending coverage for New Yorkers who will otherwise be kicked off the Essential Plan could cost $2.3 billion a year. The nonprofit has been among several organizations urging state lawmakers to consider various options to avoid imminent coverage loss. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Hochul’s budget proposal, which assumed New York might not get federal approval to tweak the Essential Plan, earmarked $2 billion to insure a subset of enrollees the state is legally mandated to provide health coverage for, regardless of federal support.</p>																																			<p dir="ltr">Now that the state got federal approval to rework the Essential Plan, the state could redirect that $2 billion to cover New Yorkers getting dropped from the program, said Michael Kinnucan, director of health policy at the left-leaning Fiscal Policy Institute. </p>
<p dir="ltr">“We have the moral obligation to cover this population,” said Kinnucan, who supports legislative efforts to use state funding to continue Essential Plan coverage. “The money is there.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">It’s unclear if legislators and the governor will agree. Paulin noted the governor’s budget proposal put that money aside strictly in the event that the Essential Plan ended. All three budget proposals also call for hefty reimbursement rate increases to health care providers, which would complicate the overall financial picture. Kinnucan is among a group of health care advocates who have criticized lawmakers prioritizing provider rate increases over the coverage cliff.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“The bottom line is there’s been no agreement with the three [budget proposals] of what it is we have to spend,” Paulin said.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The Paulin and Rivera bills represent a significant departure from the legislature’s approach to federal cuts. Last fall, top Democrats <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/08/14/new-york-call-special-session-delgado-trump">declined to return to Albany</a> for a special session to address the imminent impact of federal cuts to Medicaid and other benefits programs — effectively punting the issue to the current budget season. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Earlier this month, both chambers’ budget proposals stopped short of allocating state funds to fully replace the cuts. It’s unclear how much traction the eleventh-hour proposals could get at this stage of negotiations. The state’s fiscal year starts on April 1, but in recent years lawmakers have delivered a final budget weeks or months late. </p>
<p dir="ltr">The measure is likely to encounter strong resistance from Hochul, who has centered her budget proposal this year on “affordability” but has been reluctant to <a href="https://nypost.com/2025/06/18/us-news/gov-hochul-rips-zohran-mamdanis-tax-on-rich-admits-costs-are-pushing-nyers-to-palm-beach/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">raise taxes on the wealthy</a>. She has insisted the state cannot afford to backfill federal cuts. The governor’s office declined to respond to a list of specific questions, but pointed to recent interviews where Hochul said she is continuing to work with federal officials to figure out a path forward for New Yorkers who are dropped from the Essential Plan.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Essential plan enrollee Chris Sahar, a substitute special needs teacher in Queens, is among those likely to become uninsured in July. Sahar, who also works as a church organist and a musical composer, relies on the plan to manage Hashimoto’s disease, an autoimmune disorder that requires medication and regular checkups.<br></p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/Lm-S3OKohinP8scqEg0g1JZom1cfNehN1i9zhZMx5-o/w:1000/h:1500/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9jaHJpcy1zYWhhci5qcGc.jpg" alt="" class=" size-thumbnail " /><figcaption>Essential plan enrollee Chris Sahar, a substitute special needs teacher in Queens, will likely become uninsured in July.  / Courtesy of Chris Sahar</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p dir="ltr">“The Essential Plan this year has taken away the stress of worrying over high health care costs, and the zero monthly deductible has made it easier for me to put more money into my retirement,” said the 59-year-old. As a substitute teacher, Sahar is not eligible for employer-provided insurance or paid leave unless he is able to consistently increase his shifts. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Like many New Yorkers enrolled in the Essential Plan, Sahar earns too much to qualify for Medicaid but not enough to purchase a plan on the state’s exchange. Sahar currently falls in the tier of users that earn between $31,921 and $39,900 as a single person  — or 200 to 250 percent of the federal poverty level — a demographic ineligible for coverage starting in July. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Sahar was previously enrolled in Medicaid for years while his career took a backseat to caregiving for his mother, who was suffering from metastatic breast cancer. “I think the best thing I ever did in my life was take care of my mom in her last years,” he said, noting how the experience also left him “haunted” by how financially devastating a diagnosis could be. </p>
<p dir="ltr">The Essential Plan’s impending coverage cliff is just the first of several seismic changes coming to the state’s healthcare landscape as a result of federal cutbacks. New work rule requirements for Medicaid that kick in next January are projected to result in hundreds of thousands more New Yorkers losing their health coverage over the next year and a half. Similar <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/12/12/whats-next-for-new-yorkers-on-snap">work rules for food assistance</a> kicked in earlier this month.</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ A Pension Battle Is Heating Up in Albany. Here’s What to Know. ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/23/budget-pension-unions-hochul-senate-assembly ]]> </link>
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<category> <![CDATA[ Budget ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ Labor ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ Explainers ]]> </category>
<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2026 11:20:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ Unions want state leaders to sweeten their retirement packages. What would it cost, and what would it achieve? ]]> </description>
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																			<p dir="ltr">If you were in Albany on March 8, you might have felt the ground shake under your feet as 15,000 public sector union members chanted: “Fix Tier 6!”</p>
<p dir="ltr">It’s a cry for state leaders to boost the pensions of government employees. In 2012, the state created a new pension plan, called “Tier 6,” that had less generous benefits and required more years of work compared to previous plans. Then-Governor Andrew Cuomo <a href="https://www.thecity.nyc/2025/05/21/tier-6-cuomo-pensions-unions-retirement/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">claimed</a> the change would save state and local governments $80 billion over three decades. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Now, New York’s top unions want to roll back those changes. They argue it would help keep workers in the public sector, but it won’t come cheap: In dollar terms, it could end up being one of the biggest decisions made in this year’s budget.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The campaign has emerged as a major issue in negotiations around the state budget, which is due on April 1. Here’s what you need to know.<br></p>																																			<h3>What do the unions want?</h3>
<p dir="ltr">The <a href="https://fixtier6.org/why-fix-tier-6" rel="noopener" target="_blank">“Fix Tier 6” agenda</a> contains multiple planks, including lowering the age where workers can retire with full pensions, boosting payments, and reducing employee contributions.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Different unions have different priorities. For the New York State United Teachers, the leading player in the Fix Tier 6 campaign, the top goal is lowering the retirement age to 55, down from 63.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“That’s the thing that we believe is impacting retention for our early-career educators,” <span class="caps">NYSUT</span> President Melinda Person told New York Focus.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The Public Employees Federation, which represents a wide range of government positions, says its top priority is lowering the amount taken out of workers’ salaries — currently between 3 and 6 percent — to pay for their pensions.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“Because of the affordability crisis, putting money into people’s pockets now makes a difference,” <span class="caps">PEF</span> Vice President Randi DiAntonio said.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The unions argue that boosting pensions would help attract and retain qualified workers, and cut down on costs for overtime and consultants.</p>
<p dir="ltr">More people work for state and local government in New York now than in 2012, when Tier 6 was enacted, but staffing shortfalls vary by agency.</p>
<p dir="ltr">DiAntonio said the recruiting and retention concerns are most acute at agencies like the Department of Corrections and Community Supervision, which runs state prisons. The department has been in turmoil since a <a href="https://www.mynbc5.com/article/new-york-corrections-officers-return-to-work/64126664" rel="noopener" target="_blank">three-week</a> <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/07/22/new-york-doccs-prison-staffing-crisis-guard-strike">wildcat strike</a> last year, and this year’s proposed state budget allocates <a href="https://gothamist.com/news/ny-prisons-still-staffed-by-national-guard-amid-ongoing-vacancies-a-year-after-strike" rel="noopener" target="_blank">over $500 million</a> to have the National Guard help staff prisons. </p>
<p><br>Teacher shortages are <a href="https://www.nyssba.org/clientuploads/nyssba_pdf/Reports/teacher-shortage-plug-and-play-report-08192025.pdf" rel="noopener" target="_blank">relatively rare</a> in New York right now, but <span class="caps">NYSUT</span> <a href="https://www.nysut.org/resources/special-resources-sites/support-new-teachers/about/teacher-shortage" rel="noopener" target="_blank">warns</a> that a wave of upcoming retirements, and low enrollment in teacher training programs, could lead to scarcity in the next decade. <br></p>																									<h3>Would boosting pensions improve state government?</h3>
<p dir="ltr">Union leaders say so. </p>
<p dir="ltr">New York <span class="caps">AFL-CIO</span> President Mario Cilento said in a statement to New York Focus that Tier 6 “has created a recruitment and retention crisis” due to “unprecedented mandatory overtime” and “constant hiring, training, and backfilling of vacant positions.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">But there may be more cost-effective ways to attract and retain employees. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Several studies have found that public employees value pensions <a href="https://www.aeaweb.org/articles?id=10.1257/pol.20140087" rel="noopener" target="_blank">less</a> than <a href="https://www.barbarabiasi.com/uploads/1/0/1/2/101280322/biasi_pensions.pdf" rel="noopener" target="_blank">salaries</a> or other benefits like <a href="https://www.aeaweb.org/articles?id=10.1257/pol.20140087" rel="noopener" target="_blank">job security and health insurance</a>, that boosting pensions can <a href="https://jhr.uwpress.org/content/57/1/272?casa_token=dX5NNU8lsMoAAAAA%3AJobyQEFpHH3AEF_nMCGc43adLCCwNSZ81NGasH-MkOliaUogL7d7ofBl3FQkMPy1sqRCagyMZtM" rel="noopener" target="_blank">accelerate retirement</a>, and that pensions <a href="https://www.nber.org/papers/w33986" rel="noopener" target="_blank">may not help retain</a> higher-performing workers.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><a href="https://www.barbarabiasi.com/uploads/1/0/1/2/101280322/biasi_pensions.pdf" rel="noopener" target="_blank">One of the studies</a>, based on a Wisconsin law that cut teacher salaries and pensions, found that teachers respond four times less to pension changes than to salary changes when deciding whether to remain in their jobs.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Boosting pensions “would do something” to keep workers, said David Schleicher, a Yale Law School professor who studies state fiscal systems, “but it’s not clear to me that it is the most or even a mildly efficient method for doing so.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">Boosting pensions does have one advantage for today’s politicians, though. While wage increases require immediate payment, the full bill for a pension boost won’t come due for years.<br></p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/j6PinPJIEIV5LeZIPsc_bdIGcjVaKzk_CWhl-tBoHfE/w:1000/h:666/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9VbnRpdGxlZC0yNDAwLXgtMTYwMC1weC5wbmc.png" alt="" class=" size-full " /><figcaption>Gov. Kathy Hochul said she&#039;s “fighting for a fairer pension plan,” but didn&#039;t provide specifics.  / Darren McGee/Office of Governor Kathy Hochul</figcaption></figure>
																																										<h3>What would the changes cost?</h3>
<p dir="ltr">It’s unclear. The union leaders that New York Focus spoke with didn’t have precise cost estimates for their proposals. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Person, the <span class="caps">NYSUT</span> president, said that lowering the retirement age would likely cost somewhere between $100 million and $700 million annually.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“We don’t know what the deal is yet. So it’s hard to nail down a number,” she said. </p>
<p dir="ltr">The state Senate and Assembly budget proposals also didn’t provide specific figures, despite their support for boosting pensions.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Some budget watchdogs see this as irresponsible. </p>
<p dir="ltr">“We expect cost estimates in every part of normal life,” said Ken Girardin, a fellow at the Manhattan Institute, a conservative think tank. “And yet lawmakers are capable of this cognitive dissonance to endorse a policy proposal when they don’t know the cost.” </p>
<p dir="ltr">Unions say the state can afford the changes, pointing to the <a href="https://www.osc.ny.gov/press/releases/2026/01/dinapoli-independent-review-finds-state-pension-fund-operates-highest-ethical-and-professional" rel="noopener" target="_blank">strong financial condition</a> of New York’s pension funds.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Supporters of Tier 6 argue that it has helped keep New York’s pension funds healthy even as the amount that New York pays for pensions has exploded, from $1 billion a year in 2000 to more than $15 billion post-pandemic. As life expectancies climb, many workers who retire at 55 are expected to collect pensions for longer than they spent working.<br></p>																									<h3>Where do state leaders stand?</h3>
<p dir="ltr">New York’s top lawmakers have all endorsed the campaign in general, but have been vague about which reforms they actually support.</p>
<p dir="ltr">At the “Fix Tier 6” <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sL-Gj8-n0Mc" rel="noopener" target="_blank">rally</a>, Assembly Speaker Carl Heastie said he is “one of the biggest advocates” of getting rid of Tier 6, and that “this is the year we need to blow that shit away.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">Governor Kathy Hochul also spoke at the rally, where she said she’s “fighting for a fairer pension plan,” but didn’t endorse any specific proposal.</p>
<p dir="ltr">And in a video message played at the rally, Senate Majority Leader Andrea Stewart Cousins said that Senate Democrats are “receptive” to Tier 6 reforms, but likewise, didn’t say what exactly should change.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Even several Republicans — generally union skeptics — have <a href="https://thebiggerapple.manhattan.institute/p/nyc-unions-tier6-pensions-budget" rel="noopener" target="_blank">supported the push</a>.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Person is optimistic that legislators will go big. “We want to be able to go back to our members and say, ‘This is enough of a signal for you to stay. Please don’t leave public service.’”</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<description> <![CDATA[ <p>Sextortion often begins on platforms teens use most, including social media, gaming chats, livestreams, and anonymous messaging apps. Understanding these high-risk spaces and teaching young people to recognize red flags can help parents protect them from online predators. </p>
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While these spaces can offer creativity and connection, they also create opportunities for criminals who exploit trust and curiosity. <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/what-is-sextortion/">Sextortion</a> frequently begins with a seemingly harmless message, friend request, or gaming conversation. By understanding where these schemes commonly start and how perpetrators operate across platforms, parents can better recognize the risks and help their teens navigate online spaces with greater awareness and safety.</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e26 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e27 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-s mrap-t mrap-v mrap-x mrap-z mrap-1b mrap-1f"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e28 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e29 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3m mrap-3p mrap-3q mrap-3r mrap-3v mrap-3w mrap-3x mrap-3y mrap-3z mrap-40"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Where Sextortion Conversations Often Begin</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e30 mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-33 mrap-34 mrap-35"><p>Sextortion rarely starts with an obvious threat. More often, it begins in everyday digital spaces where young people already spend their time—social media feeds, gaming chats, livestream comment sections, or messaging apps. Perpetrators intentionally seek out platforms that make it easy to connect with strangers, build quick rapport, and move conversations into private messages. Understanding how these environments work—and why they appeal to criminals—can help parents recognize where risks are more likely to emerge and guide their teens in navigating these spaces more safely.</p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e31 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e32 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1g"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e33 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-2f mrap-2h mrap-2i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e34 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3j mrap-3k mrap-3m mrap-3s mrap-3v mrap-40 mrap-41 mrap-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Social Media Platforms with Direct Messaging</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e35 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>Social media represents one of the most common starting points for sextortion schemes. Perpetrators create fake online accounts with stolen photos, build followers to seem legitimate, then send direct messages to potential victims. The platform's visual nature makes it easy for perpetrators to find young people through hashtags, location tags, and suggested accounts. They comment on public posts to establish familiarity before moving to private messages. Adult perpetrators use trending media and references to seem relatable to young people.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e36 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e37 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><hr class="x-line e35377-e38 mrap-4h"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e39 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e40 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1i"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e41 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-2f mrap-2h mrap-2i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e42 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3j mrap-3k mrap-3m mrap-3s mrap-3v mrap-40 mrap-41 mrap-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Gaming Platforms and Chat Features</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e43 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>Gaming environments have become major vectors for sextortion targeting teenage boys specifically.<sup>1</sup> Messaging servers, originally designed for gamers to communicate during play, often include thousands of strangers in chat rooms. Criminals join these servers, identify young users through their voices or comments about school, then send private messages. Many games include chat features where strangers can communicate. While these platforms have some safety features, determined perpetrators find ways around them, especially when young people use third-party communication apps alongside gaming and some messaging systems connect players globally. Criminals can befriend young gamers through cooperative play, then introduce personal conversation and eventually sexual content.<sup>2</sup></p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e44 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e45 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><hr class="x-line e35377-e46 mrap-4h"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e47 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e48 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e49 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-2f mrap-2h mrap-2i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e50 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3j mrap-3k mrap-3m mrap-3s mrap-3v mrap-40 mrap-41 mrap-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Livestreaming and Video Features</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e51 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>Some sites and platforms have video chat sites that directly connect strangers for video conversations. These platforms are designed for anonymous interactions and have minimal safety protections, making them extremely high-risk for young people. Twitch and YouTube Gaming allow viewers to message streamers directly. Young people who stream themselves gaming may receive messages from seemingly friendly viewers who want to "talk more privately." Instagram Live, TikTok Live, and Facebook Live features let young people broadcast to audiences, including strangers. Sextortion perpetrators watch these streams, learn about victims, then contact them privately after the stream ends.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e52 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e53 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><hr class="x-line e35377-e54 mrap-4h"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e55 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e56 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e57 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-2f mrap-2h mrap-2i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e58 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3j mrap-3k mrap-3m mrap-3s mrap-3v mrap-40 mrap-41 mrap-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Anonymous Messaging and Encrypted Apps</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e59 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>Criminals typically move conversations to these platforms after initial contact elsewhere. Some of these apps have been repeatedly identified in law enforcement agency reports as a platform used in child sexual exploitation. <strong>When an app has anonymity features, like when no phone number is required to register, it makes it attractive to perpetrators to use to exploit.</strong></p> </div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e60 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e61 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><hr class="x-line e35377-e62 mrap-4h"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e63 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-9 mrap-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e64 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e65 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-2f mrap-2h mrap-2i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e66 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3j mrap-3k mrap-3m mrap-3s mrap-3v mrap-40 mrap-41 mrap-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Dating and "Meet New People" Apps</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e67 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>While most have age restrictions, young people can lie about their age to access them. Tinder, Bumble, and similar apps are used by perpetrators specifically seeking young victims. Some teens use these apps out of curiosity or to seek romantic relationships. Similar apps marketed as "social discovery" for teens create opportunities for adults to pose as peers. Despite verification attempts, fake online accounts proliferate on these platforms.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e68 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-6 mrap-7 mrap-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e69 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1p"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e70 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26 mrap-2j"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e71 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-4 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e72 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-s mrap-t mrap-v mrap-x mrap-z mrap-1b mrap-1q"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e73 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e74 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3m mrap-3p mrap-3q mrap-3r mrap-3v mrap-3w mrap-3y mrap-3z mrap-40 mrap-43"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">What Makes These Platforms Risky</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e75 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>Several features consistently appear across high-risk platforms. Direct messaging with strangers is the primary risk factor—any platform allowing private communication between people who don't know each other in real life creates an opportunity for manipulation. <strong>Photo and video sharing capabilities let perpetrators send explicit images to normalize sexual content and allow victims to send the sensitive material that becomes leverage.</strong> Moving between platforms enables criminals to isolate victims from oversight and create the secrecy needed for sexual exploitation. Live video features provide opportunities for real-time recording of sexual content. Anonymity and account creation ease means perpetrators can create multiple fake online accounts without verification.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e76 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-4 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e77 mrap-h mrap-l mrap-m mrap-n mrap-s mrap-x mrap-12 mrap-13 mrap-1b mrap-1r"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e78 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e79 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3m mrap-3p mrap-3q mrap-3r mrap-3v mrap-3w mrap-3y mrap-3z mrap-40 mrap-43"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The Platform Is Less Important Than the Pattern</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e80 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>While these platforms see frequent sextortion cases, the specific platform matters less than the behavior pattern. Criminals adapt to whatever platforms young people use. When one platform improves safety features, perpetrators simply move to another. This is why teaching young people to recognize manipulation tactics proves more effective than trying to ban specific apps. The red flags—strangers who contact you out of nowhere, conversations that turn sexual quickly, pressure to move to private messaging apps, requests for explicit images—remain consistent regardless of where the initial contact occurs.</p>
<p>In 2026, there are a number of platforms commonly used by online blackmailers in sextortion activities in targeting young people.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e81 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-s mrap-t mrap-v mrap-x mrap-z mrap-1b mrap-1s"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e82 mrap-20 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-29 mrap-2e mrap-2k mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2p"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e83 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-32 mrap-36 mrap-37 mrap-38">Platform Type</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e84 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2k mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2q"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e85 mrap-2v mrap-2x mrap-32 mrap-36 mrap-37 mrap-38 mrap-39 mrap-3a">Examples Include:</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e86 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e87 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Mainstream Social Media Apps</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e88 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e89 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Instagram, Snapchat</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e90 mrap-20 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-29 mrap-2e mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e91 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Emerging Teen Social Apps </div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e92 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e93 mrap-2v mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-39 mrap-3b mrap-3c">Wizz, Hoop, Yubo</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e94 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e95 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Anonymous / Semi Anonymous Apps</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e96 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e97 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Whisper, ASK.fm, Skout</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e98 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e99 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Messaging Platforms </div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e100 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e101 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Discord, WhatsApp, Kik, Telegram</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e102 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e103 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Gaming Platforms </div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e104 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e105 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Roblox, generalized gaming chats</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e106 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e107 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Video / Content / Streaming Platforms</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e108 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e109 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">TikTok, YouTube, LiveMe</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e110 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s mrap-2t"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e111 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Dating Apps </div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e112 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e113 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Grindr, Tinder, Bumble</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e114 mrap-h mrap-k mrap-l mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-x mrap-10 mrap-13 mrap-14 mrap-18 mrap-1t"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e115 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e116 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35">Parents don't need to become experts on every social media account and gaming platform. Instead, focus on these principles: <strong>know what platforms your teen uses, understand the basic features and risks of each, maintain open communication about who they're talking to online, and ensure privacy settings are maximized.</strong> The goal isn't to prevent all online social interaction but to help young people navigate these spaces safely while recognizing the red flags of sexual extortion.</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e117 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-4 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-a mrap-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e118 mrap-h mrap-l mrap-m mrap-n mrap-s mrap-x mrap-12 mrap-13 mrap-1b mrap-1u"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e119 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e120 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3m mrap-3p mrap-3q mrap-3r mrap-3v mrap-3w mrap-3y mrap-3z mrap-40 mrap-43"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Recognizing Sextortion Red Flags—No Matter the Platform</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e121 mrap-3g mrap-3m mrap-3o mrap-3r mrap-3s mrap-3u mrap-3v mrap-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary"><p>Although certain apps and platforms appear more frequently in sextortion cases, the real danger lies in the patterns of manipulation that perpetrators use. Criminals will always follow young people to whatever platforms are popular, which is why awareness matters more than banning specific apps. Teaching teens to recognize red flags—such as strangers initiating private conversations, requests to move to another app, or pressure to share personal images—helps them stay safer no matter where they are online. With open communication, strong privacy settings, and ongoing conversations about digital boundaries, parents can empower their children to enjoy online spaces while recognizing and avoiding the tactics used in sexual extortion.</p></h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e122 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-6 mrap-7 mrap-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e123 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1v"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e124 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26 mrap-2j"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e125 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-c mrap-d"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e126 mrap-h mrap-i mrap-m mrap-n mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-z mrap-10 mrap-15 mrap-1b mrap-1w"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e127 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-acc e35377-e128 mrap-4i" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e35377-e128"><div class="e35377-e129 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e35377-e129" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e35377-e129" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e35377-e129"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e35377-e129" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e35377-e129" data-x-toggleable="e35377-e129" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><p>For more information about how to protect the children in your life from sexual abuse, we invite you to explore Saprea’s <a href="/prevent/">sexual abuse prevention resources</a>.</p>

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 	<li>Thorn. (2024, June 24). <em>New research from Thorn: Financial sextortion on the rise, targeting teen boys</em>. Thorn. <a href="https://www.thorn.org/blog/new-research-from-thorn-financial-sextortion-on-the-rise-targeting-teen-boys/">https://www.thorn.org/blog/new-research-from-thorn-financial-sextortion-on-the-rise-targeting-teen-boys/</a></li>
 	<li>Federal Bureau of Investigation. (2021, June 29). <em>It’s not a game: Predators target children online</em>. FBI. <a href="https://www.fbi.gov/contact-us/field-offices/newyork/news/its-not-a-game-predators-target-children-online-062921">https://www.fbi.gov/contact-us/field-offices/newyork/news/its-not-a-game-predators-target-children-online-062921</a></li>
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Many parents worry about saying the wrong thing or overwhelming their teen with warnings. In reality, short, supportive conversations often work better than long lectures. Using simple prompts and everyday moments to check in can help teens recognize risks, understand healthy boundaries, and feel safe coming to you if something goes wrong online.</p>
<p>Here are practical conversation prompts that you as a parent (or caregiver) can use to open discussions about these sensitive topics in supportive ways.</p>

</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e26 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-a mrav-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e27 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-w mrav-x mrav-z mrav-11 mrav-13 mrav-1f mrav-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e28 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e29 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Starting the Conversation About Online Safety</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-38 mrav-39 mrav-3a"><p>Rather than beginning with warnings or rules, <strong>start with curiosity and openness</strong>. Try asking: "What apps and social media accounts are you using these days? Can you show me how they work?" This question demonstrates interest without judgment and gives you valuable information about their digital world. Follow up with: "Who do you usually talk to on there? Friends from school or other people too?" This helps you understand their online social network without seeming accusatory.</p>
<p>Another effective opener uses current events: "I saw a news story about teens being targeted by others online. Have you heard anything about that happening at your school or with people you know?" This approach makes the topic concrete and relevant while creating space for your teen to share concerns without feeling like they're in trouble.</p>
</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e31 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e32 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e33 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e34 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-5 mrav-6 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e35 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-w mrav-x mrav-z mrav-11 mrav-13 mrav-1f mrav-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e36 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e37 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Introducing the Topic of Sextortion Without Fear</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e38 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-38 mrav-39 mrav-3a"><p>Saprea recommends <a href="https://saprea.org/prevent/educate/connect/">little talks</a> instead of lengthy talks. Try this approach: "Hey, I learned something concerning and want to check in with you. Have you ever had someone online ask you for pictures of yourself, especially explicit images? If that happens, I want you to know you can always tell me and you won't be in trouble." The explicit statement that they won't face punishment is crucial.</p>
<p>You might also ask: "If someone you met online started making you uncomfortable or asked for sexual content, what would you do? Who would you tell?" This prompt helps you understand their current plan and allows you to clarify that you want to be their first resource. It also reveals whether they understand the available support services.</p>
</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e39 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e40 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e41 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e42 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-5 mrav-6 mrav-7 mrav-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e43 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-w mrav-x mrav-z mrav-11 mrav-13 mrav-1f mrav-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e44 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e45 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Discussing Red Flags and Warning Signs</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e46 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-38 mrav-39 mrav-3a"><p>Use "what if" scenarios to explore situations without accusing your teen of anything. Try: "What would you think if someone you just met online said they felt really connected to you and wanted to video chat privately right away?" Let them respond, then discuss why that's a red flag—healthy relationships build gradually, and pressure to move fast or get private is a warning sign of manipulation.</p>
<p>Another scenario: "Imagine someone online offers you gift cards or money for photos. What do you think is really going on there?" This opens discussion about scammers who target others specifically with financial sextortion schemes. You can explain that legitimate people never offer payment for images, and this is always a setup for online blackmail or other potential exploitation.</p>
</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e47 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e48 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e49 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e50 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-d"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e51 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1p"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e52 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e53 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Building Trust </h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e54 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p>Perhaps the most important conversation establishes what happens if they make a mistake or face victimization. Say directly: "I need you to know something important. If you ever send someone an explicit image and they threaten you, or if you get into any kind of trouble online, please come to me immediately. You will not be punished. I will not take away your phone or get angry. We will handle it together, and the person threatening you is the one who is breaking the law."</p>
<p>You can add: "Even if it starts on an app you're not supposed to be on, or if you made choices you regret, you can still tell me. My job is to protect you and get you help, not to punish you." This message directly addresses the shame that prevents disclosure in 81% of cases.<sup>1</sup></p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e55 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1q"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e56 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e57 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e58 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-e"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e59 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1r"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e60 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e61 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Checking Understanding of Consent and Pressure</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e62 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p><strong>Discuss the difference between freely choosing and being pressured.</strong> Ask: "How would you know if someone was pressuring you versus you actually wanting to do something online?" This helps young people recognize coercion. Follow with: "You know that you never owe anyone explicit images, right? Not even if you've been dating, not if they sent you pictures first, not if you said yes before. You can always change your mind."</p>
<p>For context on relationships, try: "In healthy relationships, whether online or in person, how do people treat each other? What should never be okay?" Let them answer, then emphasize: "Healthy partners never pressure you for sexual content, never threaten you, and never share your private photos without permission."</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e63 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1s"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e64 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e65 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e66 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-e"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e67 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1t"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e68 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e69 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Addressing Privacy and Security</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e70 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p><strong>Rather than demanding access to everything, discuss why privacy settings matter, and work together to protect privacy.</strong> Ask: "Who can see your posts and profile right now—just friends, or anyone? Do strangers message you?" Then explain: "Keeping your social media accounts private makes you safer because criminals look for young people with public profiles. Can we check your settings together?"</p>
<p>On passwords and monitoring, try: "I'd like to know your passwords not because I don't trust you, but so if something goes wrong or you need help, I can access your accounts to fix it. Does that make sense?" Frame monitoring as collaborative online safety rather than distrust.</p>
</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e71 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1u"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e72 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e73 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e74 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-e"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e75 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1v"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e76 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e77 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">When You Suspect Something Is Wrong</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e78 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p>If your teen seems withdrawn, anxious, or is hiding their phone more than usual, approach with concern not accusation. Say: "I've noticed you seem stressed lately. Is everything okay online and at school? Sometimes people struggle with things they're afraid to talk about." Give space for them to respond without pushing.</p>
<p>If you have specific concerns about sextortion or online blackmail, be direct but supportive: "I'm worried something might be wrong. If someone online is making you uncomfortable, threatening you, or has pictures they're using to pressure you, we can fix this together. You're not in trouble with me—I just want to help." Then be quiet and give them time to answer.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e79 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1w"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e80 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e81 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e82 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-e mrav-f"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e83 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1x"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e84 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e85 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Following Up Regularly</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e86 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p>These conversations shouldn't happen just once. Brief check-ins work well: "Anything weird happen online this week?" Or: "Remember what we talked about before—about people online who pressure teens for pictures? That offer still stands to come to me if anything like that happens." Regular, casual mention keeps the topic present without being overwhelming.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e87 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-6 mrav-7 mrav-8 mrav-g"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e88 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1y"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e89 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e mrav-2o"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e90 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-4 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-8 mrav-9" id="healthy"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e91 mrav-l mrav-p mrav-q mrav-r mrav-w mrav-11 mrav-16 mrav-17 mrav-1f mrav-1z"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e92 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e93 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3r mrav-3u mrav-3v mrav-3w mrav-3z mrav-41 mrav-42 mrav-43 mrav-44"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Healthy vs. Unhealthy Digital Interactions: <br/>Teaching Teens the Difference</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e94 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a">Understanding the difference between healthy and unhealthy digital interactions can help teens navigate online spaces with greater confidence. While many online friendships and conversations are positive, some people use manipulation, pressure, or secrecy to gain trust and exploit others. By talking with teens about the common traits of healthy relationships—such as respect for boundaries, transparency, and mutual comfort—parents can help them recognize warning signs early and make safer decisions online.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e95 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-w mrav-x mrav-z mrav-11 mrav-13 mrav-1f mrav-20"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e96 mrav-28 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2h mrav-2m mrav-2p mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2u"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e97 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-37 mrav-3b mrav-3c mrav-3d">Healthy Interactions</div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e98 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2p mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2v"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e99 mrav-30 mrav-32 mrav-37 mrav-3b mrav-3c mrav-3d mrav-3e mrav-3f">Unhealthy Interactions</div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e100 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e101 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Healthy Online Friendships <em>Start Slowly</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e102 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e103 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Unhealthy Interactions <em>Move Too Fast</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e104 mrav-28 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2h mrav-2m mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e105 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Healthy Interactions <em>Respect Privacy and Boundaries</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e106 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e107 mrav-30 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3e mrav-3g mrav-3h">Unhealthy Interactions Involve <em>Pressure and Manipulation</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e108 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e109 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Healthy Digital Friends <em>Can Be Verified</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e110 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e111 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Unhealthy Contacts <em>Hide Their Real Identity</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e112 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x mrav-2y"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e113 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Healthy Relationships <em>Feel Comfortable and Safe</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e114 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e115 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Unhealthy Relationships <em>Create Anxiety and Fear</em></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e116 mrav-l mrav-o mrav-p mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-11 mrav-14 mrav-17 mrav-18 mrav-1c mrav-21"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e117 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e118 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p>Teaching young people these distinctions give them the framework to evaluate online interactions themselves. When teens understand what healthy looks like, they're better equipped to recognize the manipulation tactics of sexual extortion before becoming victims. Parents should discuss these differences regularly, using real examples from news stories or hypothetical scenarios to reinforce the concepts.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e119 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-8 mrav-9 mrav-f"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e120 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-22"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e121 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e122 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3r mrav-3u mrav-3v mrav-3w mrav-3z mrav-41 mrav-42 mrav-43 mrav-44"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Practical Prompts and Supportive Conversation</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e123 mrav-3l mrav-3r mrav-3t mrav-3w mrav-3x mrav-3y mrav-3z"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary"><p>Talking with teens about online safety and sextortion doesn’t have to be intimidating. By using practical prompts, real-life scenarios, and open, supportive conversations, parents can help their teens recognize red flags, understand healthy digital relationships, and feel safe seeking guidance. Regular check-ins build trust and empower teens to navigate online spaces confidently.</p></h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e124 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-6 mrav-7 mrav-8 mrav-g"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e125 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-23"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e126 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e mrav-2o"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e127 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-8 mrav-9 mrav-h"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e128 mrav-l mrav-m mrav-q mrav-r mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-13 mrav-14 mrav-19 mrav-1f mrav-24"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e129 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-acc e35383-e130 mrav-4j" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e35383-e130"><div class="e35383-e131 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e35383-e131" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e35383-e131" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e35383-e131"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e35383-e131" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e35383-e131" data-x-toggleable="e35383-e131" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><p>For more information about how to protect the children in your life from sexual abuse, we invite you to explore Saprea’s <a href="/prevent/">sexual abuse prevention resources</a>.</p>

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 	<li>Wolak, J., Finkelhor, D., Walsh, W., &amp; Treitman, L. (2018). Sextortion of minors: Characteristics and dynamics. <i>Journal of Adolescent Health</i>, 62(1), 72-79. <a href="https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jadohealth.2017.08.014">https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jadohealth.2017.08.014</a></li>
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Understanding Grooming in the Digital Age</h1></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e19 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-3 mqlr-5 mqlr-6 mqlr-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e20 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-y mqlr-10 mqlr-13 mqlr-1h mqlr-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e21 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e22 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-3 mqlr-5 mqlr-7 mqlr-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e23 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-y mqlr-10 mqlr-13 mqlr-1h mqlr-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e24 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34479-e25 mqlr-3c mqlr-3h mqlr-3j mqlr-3m mqlr-3n mqlr-3o mqlr-3p"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">With technology becoming increasingly more accessible, there has been an increase in online grooming. Much like grooming that occurs in-person, online grooming is the technology-facilitated process of befriending a child or teen for the purpose of sexual abuse and exploitation. While some online perpetrators may know the child they are talking to, more often, sexual perpetrators are exploiting the anonymity and accessibility of online platforms to reach potential victims. Unlike in-person grooming, which can occur over weeks, months or even years, online grooming can happen very quickly, even in a matter of hours. When working online, they don’t need to influence adults and control the environment around the child; this potentially makes it easier to establish trust and build the child up more quickly toward sexual discussions or sexual contact. </h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e26 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-5 mqlr-7 mqlr-8 mqlr-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e27 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-y mqlr-10 mqlr-13 mqlr-1h mqlr-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34479-e29 mqlr-3c mqlr-3e mqlr-3h mqlr-3k mqlr-3l mqlr-3m mqlr-3p mqlr-3q mqlr-3r mqlr-3s mqlr-3t mqlr-3u mqlr-3v"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Groomers Operate Online Through Social Media and Digital Platforms</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e30 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-2y mqlr-2z mqlr-30"><p>Online grooming isn’t limited to obscure corners of the internet; in fact, it often takes place on well-known platforms such as social media, messaging apps, and online games. Using fake profiles, groomers may pretend to be another child or a peer with shared interests, making it easier to gain the victim’s trust. They may even use multiple online platforms to contact the same child. They can spend time learning about the child or teen’s interests from their online profiles and use that information to help them build trust and establish a special relationship. As the online relationship develops, the perpetrator may ask for personal information or encourage private chats, video calls, and secretive behavior. Eventually, they manipulate or coerce the child into sending explicit photos or videos. In many cases, the offender uses this material to blackmail the child into further sexual acts (a form of abuse known as <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/what-is-sextortion/">sextortion</a>.)</p>
<p>The tactics used in online grooming are calculated and manipulative. Groomers can maintain frequent or constant contact, intensifying their control and making it difficult for the child to disengage. Some even resort to cyberstalking, using technology to monitor or harass their victims. Understanding these grooming behaviors of perpetrators helps caregivers and other adults to recognize signs of grooming early and protect children and teens from abusers online.</p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e31 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-3 mqlr-6 mqlr-7 mqlr-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e32 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-t mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-14 mqlr-15 mqlr-1d mqlr-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e33 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2l"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e34 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-4 mqlr-5 mqlr-7 mqlr-9 mqlr-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e35 mqlr-i mqlr-n mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-v mqlr-10 mqlr-16 mqlr-17 mqlr-18 mqlr-1h mqlr-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e36 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34479-e37 mqlr-3c mqlr-3e mqlr-3h mqlr-3k mqlr-3l mqlr-3m mqlr-3p mqlr-3q mqlr-3s mqlr-3t mqlr-3u mqlr-3v mqlr-3w"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Online Grooming Red Flags and Warning Signs</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e38 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">Many parents may feel like they don’t know what to look for when trying to catch online grooming early. Luckily, if a parent can spot traditional grooming behaviors, they will likely be able to catch online grooming behaviors. One nonprofit, Bravehearts<sup>1</sup>, nicely outlines seven warning signs and red flags to pay attention to:</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e39 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-s mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-12 mqlr-13 mqlr-14 mqlr-1h mqlr-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e40 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2m"><div class="x-row e34479-e41 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1p"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e42 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e43 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">01</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e44 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e45 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Asking personal questions too soon</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e46 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">The person is asking your child a lot of questions about personal information (such as their age, school, location, home life etc.) soon after meeting them online. This rapid questioning is a common grooming behavior used to assess the child’s vulnerability to build a close relationship quickly.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e47 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1q"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e48 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e49 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">02</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e50 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e51 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Asking for favors and building trust</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e52 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">The person starts asking your child for favors and does favors for them in return – abusers often use promises, gifts and favors to gain trust. This exchange creates a sense of obligation and is part of the grooming process designed to establish special attention and emotional dependence.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e53 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1r"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e54 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e55 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">03</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e56 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e57 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Keeping the 'relationship' secret</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e58 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">Online groomers typically try to keep their relationships extremely private and <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/good-secrets-bad-secrets/">secret</a> from the beginning, asking for it to be something ‘special’ just between them. Perpetrators thrive when caregivers and family members are unaware of their contact with the child.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e59 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1s"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e60 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e61 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">04</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e62 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e63 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Frequent and varied contact</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e64 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">The person contacts your child frequently and in different ways, like texting, on social media apps and through online chats or asking them to move their chat onto another platform that has end-to-end encryption.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e65 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1t"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e66 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e67 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">05</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e68 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e69 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Questions about device access</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e70 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">The person asks your child things like who else uses their device or computer, or which room they use it in. These questions help groomers assess how much privacy they have to escalate grooming behaviors without detection by parents or caregivers.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e71 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1u"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e72 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e73 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">06</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e74 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e75 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Gives compliments and tests boundaries</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e76 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">The person compliments your child on their appearance or body and/or tests their boundaries by asking things like, ‘Have you ever been kissed?,’ ‘Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?,’ and the like. Boundary testing and comments about physical appearance are examples of grooming tactics that target a child’s self-esteem and introduce sexual topics gradually. This is a form of desensitizing the child to sexual content and behavior.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e77 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1v"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e78 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e79 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">07</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e80 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e81 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Wants to meet in-person</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e82 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">Groomers may insist on meeting with the child and try to make them feel guilty or even threaten them if they are unwilling. Note: not all groomers will attempt to meet in person if their aim is to get sexual images or videos of children (known child sexual abuse material (CSAM)). </div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e83 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-5 mqlr-7 mqlr-9 mqlr-b mqlr-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e84 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-t mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-14 mqlr-15 mqlr-1d mqlr-1w"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e85 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34479-e86 mqlr-3c mqlr-3e mqlr-3h mqlr-3k mqlr-3l mqlr-3m mqlr-3p mqlr-3q mqlr-3s mqlr-3t mqlr-3u mqlr-3v mqlr-3w"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How to Protect Children From Online Dangers</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e87 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30"><p>As with all types of child sexual abuse, online grooming can have devastating effects on a child's mental health, self-esteem, and safety. The best defense is education—teaching children to recognize red flags, avoid sharing personal information or images, and to feel safe speaking up when something doesn’t feel right. Parents and caregivers should stay informed about the platforms their children use, maintain open and supportive communication, and be aware of changes in their child’s mood or behavior.</p> 
<p>Online grooming may take place in the digital world, but its impacts are very real. Through awareness, education, and open dialogue, we can better protect children and young people from these serious threats.</p>
<p>If you suspect your child is being groomed or has experienced child sexual abuse, contact law enforcement or child protection services immediately. For more information about how to best support your child, visit our page about <a href="/prevent/">preventing child sexual abuse</a>.</p> 
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Below are some of the most common questions about online grooming—what it is, how to identify the warning signs, and steps you can take to help keep children safe while using digital platforms.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e96 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-13 mqlr-14 mqlr-1h mqlr-1z"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e97 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-acc e34479-e98 mqlr-4a mqlr-4b" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e34479-e98"><div class="e34479-e99 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e99" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e99" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e99"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">What is online grooming?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e99" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e99" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e99" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Online grooming is when an adult uses the internet or digital communication to build a relationship with a child for the purpose of sexual abuse or exploitation.</div></div></div><div class="e34479-e100 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e100" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e100" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e100"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">How can I tell if my child is being groomed online?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e100" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e100" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e100" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Look for red flags like secrecy about online activity, receiving gifts from someone they met online, frequent messaging from unknown contacts, or sudden changes in mood or behavior.</div></div></div><div class="e34479-e101 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e101" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e101" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e101"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">What should I do if I think my child is being groomed online?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e101" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e101" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e101" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Stay calm, gather evidence (such as screenshots or messages), and report the situation to law enforcement or the National Center for Missing &amp; Exploited Children’s CyberTipline. Avoid confronting the suspected groomer directly.</div></div></div><div class="e34479-e102 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e102" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e102" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e102"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">How can parents prevent online grooming?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e102" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e102" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e102" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Keep communication open, set clear boundaries for device use, and talk about online safety regularly. Teach children not to share personal information or images and to tell a trusted adult if something feels off.</div></div></div><div class="e34479-e103 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e103" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e103" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e103"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">What platforms are most common for online grooming?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e103" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e103" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e103" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Online grooming can happen anywhere children communicate digitally—social media, gaming chats, messaging apps, and even educational forums.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e104 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-3 mqlr-6 mqlr-7 mqlr-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e105 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-t mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-14 mqlr-15 mqlr-1d mqlr-20"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e106 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2l"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e107 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-5 mqlr-7 mqlr-b mqlr-e"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e108 mqlr-i mqlr-j mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-13 mqlr-14 mqlr-1a mqlr-1h mqlr-21"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e109 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-acc e34479-e110 mqlr-4a mqlr-4c" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e34479-e110"><div class="e34479-e111 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e111" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e111" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e111"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e111" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e111" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e111" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><ol>
 	<li>Retrieved from “Online Grooming and Child Sexual Exploitation” from Bravehearts.org.au.</li>
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A grooming relationship often starts out appearing safe and positive. By the time the relationship becomes uncomfortable, frightening, and/or isolating, many children feel confused and unsure about how to react or who to trust. Recognizing warning signs of grooming behaviors early can help caregivers intervene before children feel trapped in silence. </h4></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e26 mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2h mqkr-2i mqkr-2j mqkr-2k"><p>According to the National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children (NSPCC)<sup>1</sup>, children may not speak up for a number of reasons. For instance, children and teens may be:</p>

<ul>
 	<li>Ashamed.</li>
 	<li>Feeling guilty for inappropriate sexual activities they participated in.</li>
 	<li>Believe they are in a romantic relationship with their groomer.</li>
 	<li>Embarrassed to share sexual details with other people.</li>
 	<li>Nervous to get the person grooming them in trouble.</li>
 	<li>Scared of what the groomer will do if they speak out or refuse to comply.</li>
</ul></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e27 mqkr-2c mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2k"><strong>Understanding barriers to children reporting grooming is vital to helping children feel safe and supported.</strong> Parents and other caregivers need to create open, non-judgmental environments where kids feel comfortable sharing anything—no matter how confusing or difficult it may seem.</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34443-e28 mqkr-1 mqkr-2 mqkr-3 mqkr-5 mqkr-7 mqkr-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e29 mqkr-h mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-t mqkr-u mqkr-w mqkr-y mqkr-10 mqkr-1d mqkr-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e30 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-1z"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e31 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-32 mqkr-33 mqkr-34 mqkr-37 mqkr-38 mqkr-39 mqkr-3a mqkr-3b"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">What If My Child Thinks They’re in a Romantic Relationship with Their Abuser</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e32 mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2h mqkr-2i mqkr-2k mqkr-2l">Sometimes, groomers use manipulative and emotionally coercive tactics to convince children and teens that they are in a consensual romantic relationship. They may shower them with attention, affection, gifts, or praise as part of the grooming process in order to build trust and emotional dependence. Over time, this manipulation can blur the lines between affection and abuse, making it incredibly difficult for young people to recognize what’s happening.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e33 mqkr-h mqkr-i mqkr-j mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-y mqkr-12 mqkr-13 mqkr-1d mqkr-1i"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e34 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-28"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e35 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2u mqkr-2w mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-37 mqkr-3b mqkr-3c mqkr-3d mqkr-3e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Why Children Can’t Consent to a Relationship with an Adult</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e36 mqkr-2c mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2k">Saprea firmly denounces the notion that children can consent to relationships with adults. Legally and developmentally, minors are not capable of giving informed consent—especially in the context of a power imbalance where an adult is deliberately exploiting their trust and vulnerability. Adults in a position of power who engage in grooming behaviors are abusers, regardless of how they frame the relationship.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e37 mqkr-h mqkr-i mqkr-j mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-y mqkr-12 mqkr-13 mqkr-1d mqkr-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e38 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-28"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e39 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2u mqkr-2w mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-37 mqkr-3b mqkr-3c mqkr-3d mqkr-3e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Groomers Manipulate Feelings of Attachment and Guilt</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e40 mqkr-2c mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2k"><p>Children may feel afraid to speak up or resist because they don’t want to “ruin” what they’ve been told is a special or <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/good-secrets-bad-secrets/">secret</a> relationship. Some may fear losing the emotional connection they've built with the groomer, even if it has become abusive. Others may feel ashamed, confused, or blame themselves for getting involved, making it even harder to seek help. The groomer’s manipulation of the child’s self-esteem and vulnerability makes disclosure even more difficult.</p>
<p>It’s also common for victims to feel they have no choice—that saying "no" isn’t an option. Even when they are deeply uncomfortable or hurt by what they’ve been asked to do, they may believe they’re responsible for maintaining the relationship, or worry that speaking out will lead to punishment, rejection, or harm.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e41 mqkr-h mqkr-i mqkr-j mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-y mqkr-12 mqkr-13 mqkr-1d mqkr-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e42 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-28"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e43 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2u mqkr-2w mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-37 mqkr-3b mqkr-3c mqkr-3d mqkr-3e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Parents and Caregivers Can Help</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e44 mqkr-2c mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2k"><p>The most important thing for parents and caregivers to remember is this: your child is not to blame. Open, non-judgmental conversations and professional support can make all the difference in helping them break free from this manipulation and begin to heal.</p>
<p>If you suspect your child is being groomed or has experienced child sexual abuse, contact law enforcement or child protection services immediately. For more information about how to best support your child, visit our page about <a href="/prevent/">preventing child sexual abuse</a>.</p> 
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34443-e45 mqkr-1 mqkr-2 mqkr-4 mqkr-5 mqkr-7 mqkr-9 mqkr-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e46 mqkr-h mqkr-m mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-t mqkr-y mqkr-13 mqkr-14 mqkr-15 mqkr-1d mqkr-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e47 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-1z"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e48 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-32 mqkr-33 mqkr-34 mqkr-37 mqkr-39 mqkr-3a mqkr-3b mqkr-3c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Moving From Isolation to Integration</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e49 mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2h mqkr-2i mqkr-2j mqkr-2k"><p>Isolation is one of the most powerful tactics used in grooming, as groomers systematically distance children from their support networks to maintain control and secrecy. Research on child sexual abuse recovery demonstrates that structured reintegration approaches—including family assessments, gradual transitions, and sustained aftercare—are essential for helping children rebuild healthy connections. Parents play a critical role in this process by actively working to restore their child's access to safe, supportive relationships. This means:</p>

<ul>
 	<li>facilitating regular contact with trusted family members,</li>
 	<li>encouraging age-appropriate friendships, and</li>
 	<li>creating opportunities for children to participate in activities where they feel valued and connected.</li>
</ul></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e50 mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2h mqkr-2i mqkr-2k mqkr-2m"><p><strong>Maintaining open, non-judgmental communication is one of the most powerful protective factors parents can provide as their child transitions away from an exploitative situation.</strong></p>
<p>Studies examining reintegration strategies emphasize that social <a href="https://saprea.org/heal/approach/support-network/">support networks</a> are fundamental to trauma recovery, and building these networks takes intentional effort and time. Parents should collaborate with mental health professionals who specialize in childhood trauma to develop a comprehensive support plan tailored to their child's specific needs. Professional involvement may be vital throughout the reintegration process, helping families navigate the complex emotional terrain while prioritizing the child's safety and well-being.</p></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e51 mqkr-2r mqkr-2x mqkr-31 mqkr-34 mqkr-35 mqkr-37 mqkr-3f"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Remember that reintegration is gradual—there is no set timeline for healing. Focus on small, consistent steps that help your child feel safe, heard, and supported as they rediscover what healthy relationships look and feel like. Your patience, presence, and unwavering belief in your child's resilience will make all the difference in their recovery journey.</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34443-e52 mqkr-1 mqkr-2 mqkr-3 mqkr-6 mqkr-7 mqkr-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e53 mqkr-h mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-r mqkr-t mqkr-u mqkr-y mqkr-z mqkr-11 mqkr-16 mqkr-1a mqkr-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e54 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-1z mqkr-29"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34443-e55 mqkr-1 mqkr-2 mqkr-5 mqkr-7 mqkr-9 mqkr-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e56 mqkr-h mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-t mqkr-u mqkr-y mqkr-z mqkr-10 mqkr-11 mqkr-1d mqkr-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e57 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-1z mqkr-2a"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e58 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-32 mqkr-33 mqkr-34 mqkr-36 mqkr-37 mqkr-3a mqkr-3b mqkr-3c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Frequently Asked Questions </br>About Grooming and Disclosure</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e59 mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2g mqkr-2k mqkr-2n">Grooming can be difficult for children to recognize, as it often begins as a relationship that seems caring or harmless. Feelings of fear, guilt, or confusion can prevent them from speaking up. This FAQ explores why children may stay silent, how to spot warning signs, and how caregivers can respond with understanding and support.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e60 mqkr-h mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-t mqkr-u mqkr-y mqkr-z mqkr-10 mqkr-11 mqkr-1d mqkr-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e61 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-1z"><div class="x-acc e34443-e62 mqkr-3t mqkr-3u" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e34443-e62"><div class="e34443-e63 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34443-e63" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34443-e63" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e63"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">Why don’t children report grooming right away?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34443-e63" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34443-e63" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e63" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"> Many children don’t realize they’re being groomed until the relationship becomes manipulative or frightening. 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Reassure them that it’s not their fault and that you’re proud of them for speaking up. Then, contact law enforcement or child protection services immediately.</div></div></div><div class="e34443-e66 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34443-e66" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34443-e66" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e66"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">How can I help my child recover after grooming?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34443-e66" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34443-e66" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e66" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Healing takes time. Focus on creating a safe, supportive environment and maintaining open, non-judgmental communication. Seeking guidance from trauma-informed professionals can also help your child rebuild trust and confidence.</div></div></div><div class="e34443-e67 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34443-e67" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34443-e67" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e67"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">What’s the difference between grooming and a healthy friendship?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34443-e67" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34443-e67" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e67" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Healthy relationships are based on mutual respect and clear boundaries. 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Turning Statistics into Action and Protecting Kids</h1></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e19 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-3 mp0z-4 mp0z-5"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e20 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-16 mp0z-1c"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e21 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e22 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-5 mp0z-6 mp0z-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e23 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-16 mp0z-1d"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e24 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e25 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n"><p>Stats are sterile. We are inundated with so much data that we have become numb to their message – that is, until that stat becomes representative of someone we know and love.</p>
<p>Ten years ago, this happened to me. I started working in the social sector, combatting child sexual abuse. Almost immediately, people in my extended family, my neighborhood, my faith community, co-workers, old friends I had not seen in years, and even acquaintances started sharing their experiences as survivors of child sexual abuse.</p>
<p>I'll never forget the emotions that came to me as I heard their stories. First, a humbling wave of gratitude that they trusted me with something so deeply personal. Second, a crushing realization of my own ignorance—how could so many people I cherish have endured such trauma? These weren't distant acquaintances either. Some of them were people I've loved for years, people I consider close. The question haunted me: how had I remained blind to their suffering all this time?</p>
<p>At this time, the stats transformed from sterile numbers to deeply impactful stories. They represented real people, my people. Predictably, I have seen this same pattern repeat over and over with anyone willing to talk openly about child sexual abuse.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e26 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-5 mp0z-6 mp0z-7 mp0z-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e27 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-16 mp0z-1e"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e28 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e29 mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-2x mp0z-32 mp0z-35 mp0z-36 mp0z-37 mp0z-38 mp0z-39 mp0z-3a mp0z-3b mp0z-3c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The Reality of Child Sexual Abuse Stats</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e30 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n">At the risk of providing you with yet another set of figures to remember, let me briefly share the stats of child sexual abuse. UNICEF estimates that one in eight children worldwide are sexually abused.<sup>1</sup> The CDC agrees when they report on prevalence in the United States. <strong>Citing credible research, the CDC says <a href="https://www.cdc.gov/child-abuse-neglect/about/about-child-sexual-abuse.html?utm_source=chatgpt.com#cdc_behavioral_basics_quick-quick-facts-and-stats" target="_blank" rel="noopener">one in four girls and one in twenty boys</a> will be sexually abused by age eighteen.</strong> These numbers are staggering and alarming. However, most research on prevalence narrowly defines child sexual abuse to include some physical touch. Yet, as technology-facilitated abuse has accelerated, we are starting to learn that the rates are much higher. A worldwide leader in prevalence research, Dr. David Finkelhor worked with colleagues to explain prevalence with technology-facilitated abuse added to the rates. We learn that <strong>numbers increase significantly to 10.8% of boys, 31.6% of girls, and 41.3% of those identifying as other genders</strong>.<sup>2</sup></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e31 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-5 mp0z-6 mp0z-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e32 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-16 mp0z-1f"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e33 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e34 mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-2x mp0z-32 mp0z-35 mp0z-36 mp0z-37 mp0z-38 mp0z-39 mp0z-3a mp0z-3b mp0z-3c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The Power of Survivor Stories</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e35 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n"><p>Like many of you, the stats of sexual abuse had never sunk in before all my loved ones shared their experiences, but then and now, these figures scream at me. I can no longer look the other way. I can’t discount the discomfort by saying the research must be wrong or that the research responses must have come from somewhere else and someone else. It was my family, my neighbors, my coworkers sharing their stories. What are we doing as a civilized society? How is it possible that we are not moving heaven and earth to stop this now?</p>
<p>I remember feeling very angry, as I took time to process the accounts of abuse shared with me. Angry at those that harm. Angry at those of us who look away. Angry at a society that decided the topic was too taboo to discuss. One thing about the emotion of anger is that it can be an excellent catalyst for change. We can do great things when we channel our anger into productive action.</p>
<p>Over the past ten years, I have worked to make a change. The impact has been measurable and significant, but compared to the size of the problem, we are just barely moving the needle. <strong>There is still so much to be done, and we must invoke a societal shift to see broad change.</strong></p>
<p>Learning from historical, social movements, we see patterns of how big social issues like abuse shift. We’ve seen it in the civil rights movement, smoking cessation, and car seat safety. Following those patterns, we know that societal change happens when there is top-down and bottom-up pressure—without either one, change stalls. Think of top-down pressure like laws, enforcement of laws, awareness campaigns, or organized activism. Consider bottom-up pressure as neighborhood dialogue, organic media, and grassroots activism. Since most who read this article are part of that bottom-up movement, let’s highlight three ways to take action now.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e36 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-3 mp0z-4 mp0z-5"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e37 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-16 mp0z-1g"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e38 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e39 mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-2x mp0z-32 mp0z-35 mp0z-36 mp0z-37 mp0z-38 mp0z-39 mp0z-3a mp0z-3b mp0z-3c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How to Take Action Today</h2></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e40 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-16 mp0z-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e41 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y mp0z-2a"><div class="x-row e32435-e42 mp0z-d mp0z-f mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-l mp0z-m mp0z-n mp0z-o mp0z-u mp0z-w mp0z-10 mp0z-16 mp0z-17 mp0z-1i"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e43 mp0z-1s mp0z-1u mp0z-1v mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y mp0z-21 mp0z-22 mp0z-27 mp0z-2b"><i class="x-icon e32435-e44 mp0z-3w" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf058;"></i></div><div class="x-col e32435-e45 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e46 mp0z-2g mp0z-2j mp0z-2m mp0z-2o mp0z-2p">Start talking about the issue with those you love</div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e47 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n">Do what I did ten years ago—start talking about the issue of sexual abuse with those you love. The stats will become real for you just like they did for me, but more importantly, you will be instrumental in breaking down the taboo of the issue. Every honest discussion chips away at the stigma and makes change possible. No society has solved a problem without first discussing and naming it.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e32435-e48 mp0z-d mp0z-f mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-l mp0z-m mp0z-n mp0z-o mp0z-u mp0z-w mp0z-10 mp0z-16 mp0z-17 mp0z-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e49 mp0z-1s mp0z-1u mp0z-1v mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y mp0z-21 mp0z-22 mp0z-27 mp0z-2b"><i class="x-icon e32435-e50 mp0z-3w" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf058;"></i></div><div class="x-col e32435-e51 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e52 mp0z-2g mp0z-2j mp0z-2m mp0z-2o mp0z-2p">Educate Yourself on the Impacts and How to Reduce the Risk</div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e53 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n">Educate yourself on the <a href="https://saprea.org/heal/#effects">long-term impacts</a> of abuse on survivors as well as how to <a href="https://saprea.org/prevent/">reduce risk</a> for today’s kids. The organization I work for, Saprea, has tremendous resources, and so do many others.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e32435-e54 mp0z-d mp0z-f mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-l mp0z-m mp0z-n mp0z-o mp0z-u mp0z-w mp0z-10 mp0z-16 mp0z-17 mp0z-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e55 mp0z-1s mp0z-1u mp0z-1v mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y mp0z-21 mp0z-22 mp0z-27 mp0z-2b"><i class="x-icon e32435-e56 mp0z-3w" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf058;"></i></div><div class="x-col e32435-e57 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e58 mp0z-2g mp0z-2j mp0z-2m mp0z-2o mp0z-2p">Commit to Change</div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e59 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n">From your learning, choose and change one behavior when interacting with your kids. I recommend focusing on age-appropriate conversations about <a href="https://saprea.org/prevent/educate/connect/">healthy boundaries</a>, but you may pick something else. The key is to begin with personal change. Societal change happens because individuals commit to changing themselves first.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e60 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-5 mp0z-6 mp0z-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e61 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-16 mp0z-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e62 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e63 mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-32 mp0z-34 mp0z-37 mp0z-3b mp0z-3d mp0z-3e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">We have solved significant issues as a country and world. We can do it with sexual abuse as well. Don’t let sterile stats be your only connection to survivors and children. <strong>Create a world where survivors can heal, and children can maintain their innocence.</strong></h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e64 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-5 mp0z-7 mp0z-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e65 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-o mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-11 mp0z-16 mp0z-17 mp0z-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e66 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e67 mp0z-2s mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-2x mp0z-2y mp0z-2z mp0z-32 mp0z-36 mp0z-37 mp0z-3a mp0z-3b mp0z-3f"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">About the Author</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-row e32435-e68 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-12 mp0z-13 mp0z-16 mp0z-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><figure class="x-col e32435-e69 mp0z-1s mp0z-1u mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y mp0z-21 mp0z-25 mp0z-27 mp0z-29"><span class="x-image e32435-e70 mp0z-3t mp0z-3v featured-author-portrait"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/Chris-Yadon_resize-150x150.jpg" alt="Image"></span></figure><div class="x-col e32435-e71 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-2c mp0z-2d"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e72 mp0z-2s mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-2z mp0z-32 mp0z-34 mp0z-37 mp0z-3b mp0z-3e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Chris Yadon, MPA</h4></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e73 mp0z-2s mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2x mp0z-2z mp0z-31 mp0z-3b mp0z-3c mp0z-3g mp0z-3h"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Managing Director</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e74 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2h mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2n">As Saprea’s first employee and Executive Director, Chris Yadon collaborated closely with the organization’s founders to launch and establish its operations in 2015. Chris now serves as the Managing Director, leading the organization’s public efforts to drive societal change around the issue of child sexual abuse. He has previously held executive leadership positions for start-up tech and healthcare organizations.
Chris is committed to driving broad societal change to address child sexual abuse and uses his influence as a thought leader and strategist to inspire others to take action. He firmly believes we can collectively create a better future for our children.
A sought-after speaker, Chris inspires audiences with timely topics such as overcoming emotional numbing by learning how to feel again, protecting children from child sexual abuse in a hypersexualized world, and how to intentionally drive societal change. He has been featured across several media platforms where he is requested to contribute as an industry leader and subject matter expert.
Chris received a BA and an MPA degree from Brigham Young University. He is the grateful father of six children: three boys and three girls. He and his wife, Christy, have been married for 28 years.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e75 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-4 mp0z-5 mp0z-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e76 mp0z-d mp0z-e mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-x mp0z-y mp0z-13 mp0z-1a mp0z-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e77 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-acc e32435-e78 mp0z-3x" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e32435-e78"><div class="e32435-e79 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e32435-e79" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e32435-e79" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e32435-e79"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e32435-e79" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e32435-e79" data-x-toggleable="e32435-e79" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><ol>
 	<li>United Nations Children’s Fund (2020). Action to end child sexual abuse and exploitation: a review of the evidence 2020. UNICEF, New York.</li>
 	<li>Finkelhor, David, Turner, Heather, Colburn, Derdre (2024), The prevalence of child sexual abuse with online sexual abuse added, Child Abuse &amp; Neglect 149 106634</li>
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I can no longer look the other way. I can’t discount the discomfort by saying the research must be wrong or that the research responses must have come from somewhere else and someone else.</div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e90 mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n mp0z-2r"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e32435-e86 mp0z-1w mp0z-2d mp0z-2e post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/reducing-pornography-exposure/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e32435-e87 mp0z-3t"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/hypersexualized-world-blog.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="32318:full"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e88 mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-2x mp0z-35 mp0z-37 mp0z-39 mp0z-3b mp0z-3c mp0z-3h mp0z-3j"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Protecting Kids: Navigating a Hypersexualized World and Reducing Pornography Exposure</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e89 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2l mp0z-2p mp0z-2q excerpt">There is no quick fix that ensures your child will not purposely consume pornography, but a parent can do specific things that will reduce this risk. It is nearly impossible for a parent to prevent all accidental exposure to pornography. Still, again, a parent can do specific things that will reduce the volume of accidental exposures and their impact. </div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e90 mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n mp0z-2r"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e32435-e86 mp0z-1w mp0z-2d mp0z-2e post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/incarceration/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e32435-e87 mp0z-3t"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/CSA-and-Incarceration.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="31936:full"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e88 mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-2x mp0z-35 mp0z-37 mp0z-39 mp0z-3b mp0z-3c mp0z-3h mp0z-3j"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Breaking the Link Between Child Sexual Abuse and Incarceration: A Path to Healing</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e89 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2l mp0z-2p mp0z-2q excerpt">Research reveals a striking pattern among incarcerated women: up to 66% report experiencing childhood sexual abuse, more than double the rate found in the general female population (31%). 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I know it has something to do with sex, but what does it mean?” Through the conversation, I discovered that she had heard the word on her elementary school playground. In that moment, I realized my response could either build a protective barrier against pornography or create curiosity that might lead toward it.</p>
<p>There is no quick fix that ensures your child will not <em>purposely</em> consume pornography, but a parent can do specific things that will reduce this risk. It is nearly impossible for a parent to prevent all <em>accidental</em> exposure to pornography. Still, again, a parent can do specific things that will reduce the volume of accidental exposures and their impact.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e26 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-3 moxo-5 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e27 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-s moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-14 moxo-15 moxo-1c moxo-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e28 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2l"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e29 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-3 moxo-4 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e30 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-1g moxo-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e31 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e32 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3m moxo-3p moxo-3q moxo-3r moxo-3s moxo-3t moxo-3u moxo-3v moxo-3w moxo-3x"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The Growing Problem of Children Exposed to Pornography</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e33 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31"><p>Rates of exposure, purposeful or accidental, are overwhelming. <strong>53% of eleven-to sixteen-year-olds report seeing online pornography at least once.</strong> Of this sample, <strong>94% report viewing online pornography before age fourteen</strong>.<sup>1</sup> According to other research, these numbers are likely very conservative, with pornography consumption growing among minors of all genders.</p>

<p>With this level of prevalence, <strong>all children are at a high risk</strong>. Many past generations have been exposed to pornography as minors and led healthy lives. Some may even argue that pornography is part of the normal sexual development of young people. So, should we care or even bother?</p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e34 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-3 moxo-4 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e35 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-1g moxo-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e36 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e37 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3m moxo-3p moxo-3q moxo-3r moxo-3s moxo-3t moxo-3u moxo-3v moxo-3w moxo-3x"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Why Parental Intervention Matters – Risks and Realities</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e38 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3j moxo-3m moxo-3o moxo-3r moxo-3w moxo-3y moxo-3z moxo-40 moxo-41 moxo-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">There are <strong>three</strong> specific reasons we should care and bother to intervene. </h4></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e39 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-r moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-12 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-1g moxo-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e40 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2m"><div class="x-row e32316-e41 moxo-i moxo-k moxo-n moxo-o moxo-q moxo-r moxo-s moxo-t moxo-10 moxo-16 moxo-1c moxo-1d moxo-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e42 moxo-23 moxo-25 moxo-26 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2c moxo-2d moxo-2i moxo-2n"><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e43 moxo-2t moxo-2x moxo-32 moxo-33 moxo-34 moxo-35">01</div></div><div class="x-col e32316-e44 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e45 moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2x moxo-34 moxo-36 moxo-37 moxo-38">Sexual content is used to groom children</div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e46 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31">During interactions with a victim, <strong>98% of online groomers introduce sexual content into the conversation within the first day</strong>. <strong>69% introduce sexual content within the first 30 minutes of an initial interaction.</strong><sup>2</sup> Reducing exposure to pornography is part of reducing the risk of children encountering online predators. </div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e32316-e47 moxo-i moxo-k moxo-n moxo-o moxo-q moxo-r moxo-s moxo-t moxo-10 moxo-16 moxo-1c moxo-1d moxo-1p"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e48 moxo-23 moxo-25 moxo-26 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2c moxo-2d moxo-2i moxo-2n"><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e49 moxo-2t moxo-2x moxo-32 moxo-33 moxo-34 moxo-35">02</div></div><div class="x-col e32316-e50 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e51 moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2x moxo-34 moxo-36 moxo-37 moxo-38">The nature of today’s pornographic content is video-based and often violent.<sup>3</sup></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e52 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31">This exposure introduces children to unrealistic and harmful portrayals of sexual activity.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e32316-e53 moxo-i moxo-k moxo-n moxo-o moxo-q moxo-r moxo-s moxo-t moxo-10 moxo-16 moxo-1c moxo-1d moxo-1q"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e54 moxo-23 moxo-25 moxo-26 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2c moxo-2d moxo-2i moxo-2n"><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e55 moxo-2t moxo-2x moxo-32 moxo-33 moxo-34 moxo-35">03</div></div><div class="x-col e32316-e56 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e57 moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2x moxo-33 moxo-34 moxo-36 moxo-38">The consumption of pornography can become compulsive</div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e58 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31">Due to brain development, minors are more susceptible to the development of addictive or compulsive behaviors when exposed to a stimulus. Early exposure to pornography could create unwanted compulsions that are hard for the child to remove even in adulthood.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e59 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-4 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-8 moxo-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e60 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-1g moxo-1r"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e61 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e62 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3m moxo-3p moxo-3q moxo-3r moxo-3s moxo-3t moxo-3u moxo-3v moxo-3w moxo-3x"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The Role of Technology – Reducing Accidental Exposure</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e63 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31"><p>There are great technologies that parents can use in their homes. However, parents must realize that their house is not the only place their children will have access. <strong>Children who want to access pornography are very resourceful and usually find a way.</strong> It could be through school resources, a friend’s device, bypassing parental controls, using a neighbor’s internet connection, and the list can go on and on.</p>
<p>While technology can reduce accidental exposure to explicit content, it's a limited defense against deliberate seeking. <strong>In fact, excessive reliance on technological barriers may actually undermine efforts to reduce the risk.</strong></p>
<p>Overreliance on technology often leads to extensive technology restrictions. This is often the best approach for our younger children, but it can backfire as children grow. When a child, particularly an older teen, feels overly restricted, they often resort to deception to bypass restrictions. When they bypass a restriction, they shut down communication and turn to secrecy. <strong>Secrecy is where purposeful pornography consumption thrives and builds deep roots.</strong></p></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e64 moxo-3b moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3g moxo-3m moxo-3o moxo-3r moxo-3w moxo-42 moxo-43 moxo-44"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Parents should view technology as one tool in their overall tool belt, not as a fix-all. Like any tool, you use it for a specific job, but not every job. Purposeful consumption must be addressed through other methods and tools.
</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e65 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-3 moxo-5 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e66 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-s moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-14 moxo-15 moxo-1c moxo-1s"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e67 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2l"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e68 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-3 moxo-4 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-8 moxo-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e69 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-1g moxo-1t"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e70 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e71 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3m moxo-3p moxo-3q moxo-3r moxo-3s moxo-3u moxo-3v moxo-3w moxo-3x moxo-45 moxo-46"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Combatting Purposeful Pornography Consumption – Effective Strategies</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e72 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3m moxo-3o moxo-3r moxo-3w moxo-3y moxo-3z moxo-41 moxo-42 moxo-44 moxo-47"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Pornography use among children flourishes in environments of dishonesty, embarrassment, and hidden behaviors. Understanding this makes it clearer how to intervene. Just know that reducing this risk requires deliberate, steady work that can be challenging. The foundation of success is keeping communication channels open.</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e73 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-4 moxo-6 moxo-9 moxo-c moxo-d"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e74 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-1g moxo-1u"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e75 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e76 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3r moxo-3x moxo-3y moxo-3z moxo-41 moxo-47 moxo-48 moxo-49 moxo-4a"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Maintaining Open Communication With Your Child</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e77 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31"><p>Maintaining open communication with a child is a monumental task for any parent, even under ideal circumstances. Children go through regular and natural developmental stages to gradually assert their independence. It becomes common for teens to shut down or significantly limit dialogue with parents. Add to this the deception, shame, and secrecy, plus the awkwardness of talking about anything of a sexual nature, and you have a recipe for silence. And this recipe does not even account for the baggage we as parents carry into the relationship.</p>
<p>With all this against us, we may wonder if we will ever have a meaningful talk with our children again. So, how do we overcome these seemingly insurmountable odds to maintain open communication? <strong>We start early, reduce our tendency to inflict shame, and create safe spaces.</strong></p>
<p>It was previously mentioned that children undergo stages of asserting their independence. Children also go through regular and natural developmental stages where their parent(s) are their entire world—their superheroes. And fortunately, this stage coincides with their early ability to rationalize. The sweet spot is usually between the ages of 6 and 10. <strong>Parents can use this stage to set curiosity, listening, and respect patterns when communicating with their children—reaping big rewards later as children mature.</strong></p>
<p>Another crucial step is to <strong>stop shaming our children</strong>. This is often the most difficult change because our childhood experiences shape how we parent. If we experienced shame growing up, we are likely to use it with our kids. While shame is a topic that deserves extensive exploration, the most important thing to recognize is how easily we slip into shaming our children during correction or discipline. Those are the moments when shame typically emerges.</p>
<p>We must rethink how we talk to our children when disciplining and correcting them. Please don’t misunderstand; <strong>discipline and correction are critical to a child's healthy development, but how we discipline and correct can be damaging and counterproductive to our goals</strong>. Why is this so critical for this topic? When children see pornography, whether on accident or purpose, they already feel uncomfortable and likely have a sense of shame. If we respond to their disclosure with additional shame, it may be the last time they disclose, effectively putting them in a downward shame spiral that is the breeding ground for additional pornography consumption.</p>
<p>The third step to open communication is to <strong>set safe spaces</strong>. <strong>Safe spaces are places our children associate with positive, essential discussions.</strong> These spaces imprint in the child’s brain and can create a sense of safety that allows them to open up. They can be anywhere—a specific room, in a car, at a park. It doesn’t matter. What matters is that they associate that place as a spot where they talk with their parent(s) about important things. It is helpful if a parent consciously and proactively picks spots for open dialogue. This sets a pattern that is familiar and safe for the child.</the></p>
<p><strong>Following these three communication steps will help us overcome the seemingly insurmountable odds of <a href="https://saprea.org/prevent/talk/">maintaining open communication</a> with our children.</strong> It also sets the parent up to create a plan with the child for what they will do when, not if, they are exposed to pornography.</p></div><hr class="x-line e32316-e78 moxo-4u"></hr></div><div class="x-col e32316-e79 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-2o moxo-2p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e80 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3r moxo-3x moxo-3y moxo-41 moxo-46 moxo-47 moxo-48 moxo-49 moxo-4a moxo-4b"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Address Early Childhood Trauma to Prevent Pornography Consumption</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e81 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31"><p>Another key to reducing the risk of purposeful consumption is to <strong>help your child process early childhood traumatic experiences</strong>. We all have them. These experiences impact some more than others, and sometimes, the impacts can become debilitating.</p>
<p>Think of traumatic impacts as the result of an experience where we did not feel safe. When we have a traumatic experience, and it is followed by additional insecurity or dismissive responses, the experiences can leave an imprint in the survival systems of our brains, leading to trauma symptoms. <strong>Anytime we are in an environment that reminds us of the original traumatic experience, our physical senses instantaneously alert our biological survival systems, and those survival systems activate our stress responses in the brain and body.</strong> This is called a trigger.</p>
<p>If we have too many triggers and, thus, an abnormal amount of stress responses, our brain and body become maladaptive and start looking for a coping tool to create a sense of safety. This is often the birthplace of compulsive and addictive behaviors. We use these compulsive or addictive behaviors to calm the stress response. Our brain and body begin to crave these behaviors, and pornography can be one of these.</p>
<p><strong>Because of the neurochemical release that accompanies pornography consumption, our brain may associate our triggers with a craving for that consumption, and, as a result, the purposeful pursuit of pornography begins.</strong></p>
<p>So, what does a child need? <strong>The child requires a parent who will honestly identify traumatic experiences and help them healthily process those experiences.</strong> This is very hard for a parent to do because the traumatic experience is often associated with a sense of failure as a parent. The parent(s) tell themselves, “I did not protect them.”; “It is my fault this happened,” or the worst one of all, “I caused the trauma.” When a parent has this dialogue going through their head, dismissing or ignoring the hard work needed to help a child process their experiences is easy.</p>
<p>So, what is my child’s early childhood trauma, and how do I recognize it? The answer to this question can be as different as the child it applies to. A parent must become an astute observer. They watch moments when their children show insecurity or act out. Observing these moments, they look for patterns and connect the dots across these behaviors. Once they identify the patterns, the parent can help the child process traumatic experiences better.</p>
<p>Not all traumatic experiences are created equal. Some experiences are so consistently traumatic that a parent does not need to guess why their child struggles. The big three that almost always produce a significant trauma response are physical abuse, sexual abuse, and neglect. These are closely followed by several other significant traumatic experiences, such as the death of a loved one, divorce, bullying, and emotional abuse. These significant traumatic experiences often require professional help. As parent(s), we should be quick to engage professionals when our children go through these types of experiences.</p>
<p><strong>When we identify our children’s traumatic experiences and <a href="https://saprea.org/prevent/support/">help them process</a> these experiences (often with the help of professionals), we reduce the likelihood that our children will develop long-term triggers and maladaptive responses, which, in turn, reduces the possibility that they will use pornography as a coping tool.</strong></p></div><hr class="x-line e32316-e82 moxo-4u"></hr></div><div class="x-col e32316-e83 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-2o moxo-2p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e84 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3r moxo-3x moxo-3y moxo-3z moxo-41 moxo-47 moxo-48 moxo-49 moxo-4a"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Normalizing a Healthy Approach to Sex</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e85 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31"><p>Nothing says awkward more for a child or a parent than discussing sex. <strong>But we must embrace the uncomfortable and do it anyway.</strong> Our sexual expressions are essential to us as humans. They are beautiful and healthy when approached with the respect that they deserve.  But, as with most things wonderful, they can also be abused and put us in harm’s way. Because of this risk of harm, parents often choose not to breach the topic of sex with their children, or if they do, discuss sex primarily using negative language.</p>

<p>Either of these approaches, silence or using negative language, tends to create sexual shame. It tells the child that this is not a safe topic. It is taboo. This leads children to quench their curiosity through internet searches, discussions with friends, or observation of popular media. Each of those alternative methods is fraught with danger and misinformation.</p> 

<p>For this reason, it is critical that the parent(s) <strong><a href="https://saprea.org/prevent/educate/">open dialogue about sex and sexuality in age-appropriate ways</a></strong>. Many resources guide parents on what to discuss at each stage of a child’s development.  And it should start when they are a toddler. For example, a perfect discussion with a toddler is about privacy and boundaries. You can also talk with a toddler about healthy expressions, such as cuddling with a safe adult or giving hugs when they want.  This age-appropriate dialogue progresses as the child grows and, as a result, normalizes a healthy approach to sex and sexuality.</p> 

<p>There may be some awkwardness even in a family with healthy dialogue. Still, when a child hits a critical point, such as an accidental exposure to pornography or even a purposeful one, the <strong>openness will significantly increase the likelihood the child will discuss it and process the exposure with their parent(s)</strong>, thus giving the parent(s) the opportunity to reinforce a positive and healthy view of sex.</p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e86 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-3 moxo-5 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e87 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-s moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-14 moxo-15 moxo-1c moxo-1v"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e88 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2l"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e89 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-4 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-8 moxo-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e90 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-1g moxo-1w"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e91 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e92 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3m moxo-3p moxo-3q moxo-3r moxo-3s moxo-3u moxo-3v moxo-3w moxo-3x moxo-46 moxo-4c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">A Reason to Hope – Empowering Parents Against Pornography Risks</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e93 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31"><p>These risk reducers, open communication, addressing traumatic experiences, and normalizing sexual conversations are critical for parents. Otherwise, you leave things up to chance, and the odds are not in your favor. But these keys also need a word of caution. You can do everything by the book and still have a child choose to pursue pornography purposely. This is why they are called risk reducers and not risk eliminators. Regardless, a parent should have hope that their plans and efforts will make a difference. As an engaged parent, you influence your child's choices more than any other person.</p></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e94 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3m moxo-3o moxo-3r moxo-3w moxo-3z moxo-41 moxo-42 moxo-44 moxo-47 moxo-4d"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Pornography is rampant. Our kids will likely be exposed. Empowered parents willing to educate themselves, invest the time and energy, and approach the risk with commitment can make a difference for their children. They can reduce the risk that pornography will become a long-lasting, detrimental challenge.</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e95 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-4 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-9 moxo-e"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e96 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-s moxo-t moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-14 moxo-15 moxo-17 moxo-1c moxo-1d moxo-1x"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e97 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e98 moxo-3b moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3i moxo-3j moxo-3m moxo-3q moxo-3r moxo-3v moxo-3w moxo-4e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">About the Author</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-row e32316-e99 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-s moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-14 moxo-15 moxo-18 moxo-19 moxo-1c moxo-1y"><div class="x-row-inner"><figure class="x-col e32316-e100 moxo-23 moxo-25 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2c moxo-2g moxo-2i moxo-2k"><span class="x-image e32316-e101 moxo-4r moxo-4t featured-author-portrait"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/Chris-Yadon_resize-150x150.jpg" alt="Image"></span></figure><div class="x-col e32316-e102 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-2p moxo-2q"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e103 moxo-3b moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3j moxo-3m moxo-3o moxo-3r moxo-3w moxo-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Chris Yadon</h4></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e104 moxo-3b moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3h moxo-3j moxo-3l moxo-3w moxo-3x moxo-4a moxo-4f"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Managing Director</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e105 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2v moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-31">Chris Yadon is the Managing Director of Saprea, and is responsible for managing all operations and services of Saprea in both Utah and Georgia. Yadon has spent most of his professional career in start-up executive management with an emphasis in operations, marketing, and sales. Since joining Saprea in 2015, Yadon has brought a valuable skillset to the organization and is committed to addressing the epidemic of child sexual abuse. His expertise centers on increasing awareness arond this epidemic and educating the public on best practices for prevention and the healing services available to survivors. Yadon has been featured across several regional and national media platforms where he is often requested as an industry thought leader and expert.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e106 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-4 moxo-5 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e107 moxo-i moxo-j moxo-n moxo-o moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-19 moxo-1g moxo-1z"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e108 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-acc e32316-e109 moxo-4v" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e32316-e109"><div class="e32316-e110 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e32316-e110" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e32316-e110" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e32316-e110"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e32316-e110" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e32316-e110" data-x-toggleable="e32316-e110" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><ol>
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It is nearly impossible for a parent to prevent all accidental exposure to pornography. 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While multiple factors contribute to incarceration, this dramatic statistical disparity demands attention.</div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e121 moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31 moxo-3a"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e32316-e117 moxo-27 moxo-2p moxo-2r post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/how-proximity-can-help-prevent-abuse/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e32316-e118 moxo-4r"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/ProximityBlog.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="31748:full"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e119 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3p moxo-3r moxo-3t moxo-3u moxo-3w moxo-3x moxo-48 moxo-4a moxo-4h"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Why Parents Don’t See Child Sexual Abuse as a Problem—And How Proximity Can Fix It</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e120 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2z moxo-35 moxo-38 moxo-39 excerpt">In my work addressing child sexual abuse, I see this phenomenon daily. Despite extensive research highlighting that child sexual abuse is a significant issue in every community, many parents and caregivers dismiss it as a distant problem, believing it happens to someone else, somewhere else. Read more. </div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e121 moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31 moxo-3a"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e122 moxo-i moxo-l moxo-n moxo-o moxo-q moxo-s moxo-v moxo-10 moxo-14 moxo-1b moxo-1c moxo-22"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e123 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e32316-e124 moxo-4l moxo-4q moxo-g" tabindex="0" href="/all-blogs/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">SEE ALL blogs</span></div></div></a></div></div></div></div></div>
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But what if it wasn’t just a cinematic moment? What if it was your reality? You sit on an uncomfortable bed, thoughts racing through your mind as you ask yourself, “How did I get here?” For too many survivors of child sexual abuse, incarceration isn’t fiction—it’s their reality. Many incarcerated women ponder how they got there, without a clear answer. Maybe our society would benefit from a more thoughtful approach for how childhood trauma can pave a pathway to incarceration, prompting us to provide healing programs for survivors of child sexual abuse.</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31934-e23 mon2-1 mon2-2 mon2-5 mon2-6 mon2-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31934-e24 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-p mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-w mon2-x mon2-1f"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e25 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e26 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2v mon2-30 mon2-33 mon2-34 mon2-35 mon2-36 mon2-37 mon2-38 mon2-39 mon2-3a"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The Link Between Child Abuse and Incarceration</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31934-e27 mon2-2g mon2-2h mon2-2j mon2-2l mon2-2m">Research reveals a striking pattern among incarcerated women: <strong>up to 66% report experiencing childhood sexual abuse</strong>,<sup>1</sup> more than double the rate found in the general female population (31%).<sup>2</sup> While multiple factors contribute to incarceration, this dramatic statistical disparity demands attention. The consistency and magnitude of this relationship across studies point to <strong>childhood sexual abuse as a significant risk factor in women's pathways to imprisonment</strong>. As the saying goes, “Correlation is not causation.” But this level of high correlation should give us pause.</div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e28 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2v mon2-30 mon2-33 mon2-34 mon2-35 mon2-37 mon2-38 mon2-39 mon2-3a mon2-3b"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Trauma Shapes Coping Mechanisms</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31934-e29 mon2-2g mon2-2h mon2-2j mon2-2l mon2-2m">The line between child sexual abuse and incarceration is not hard to draw. When a child experiences abuse, their safety is violated. The natural response from their brain is to seek safety. The survival part of their brain will not discern between constructive and destructive coping behaviors. As a natural consequence, a child may attach to harmful or maladaptive coping behaviors such as substance use, eating disorders, or suicidal ideation. This becomes more likely as they grow into their teenage and adult years. Using substances as an example, the survivor, now addicted, resorts to criminal activity to feed the addiction, eventually finding themselves involved with the justice system.</div></div><div class="x-col e31934-e30 mon2-1s mon2-1u mon2-1w mon2-1y mon2-1z mon2-21 mon2-27 mon2-29 mon2-2b mon2-2c"><span class="x-image e31934-e31 mon2-42"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/how-to-heal-sexual-abuse.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="Image"></span><div class="x-row e31934-e32 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-o mon2-p mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-v mon2-w mon2-1c mon2-1g"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e33 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e34 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2y mon2-33 mon2-35 mon2-3c mon2-3d mon2-3e mon2-3f"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Learn More About How Trauma Impacts Childhood Development</h3></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e31934-e35 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-j mon2-o mon2-p mon2-y mon2-z mon2-1c mon2-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e36 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e37 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2w mon2-2z mon2-3a mon2-3d mon2-3e mon2-3g mon2-3h mon2-3i"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The effects of Child Sexual Abuse</h5></div></div></div></div><div class="x-col e31934-e38 mon2-1s mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y mon2-21 mon2-23 mon2-24 mon2-27 mon2-28"><i class="x-icon e31934-e39 mon2-45" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0a9;"></i></div></div></div><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e31934-e40 mon2-3t mon2-3u mon2-3z mon2-40 my-button" tabindex="0" href="/heal/#effects"><div class="x-anchor-content"></div></a></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31934-e41 mon2-1 mon2-2 mon2-4 mon2-5 mon2-7 mon2-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31934-e42 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-p mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-v mon2-w mon2-1c mon2-1i"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e43 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e44 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2v mon2-30 mon2-33 mon2-34 mon2-35 mon2-36 mon2-37 mon2-38 mon2-39 mon2-3a"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Breaking the Cycle Through Healing Programs</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31934-e45 mon2-2g mon2-2h mon2-2j mon2-2l mon2-2m">We have reason to believe that if we can reduce the number of girls who experience child sexual abuse and provide healing programs for survivors, we could reduce the number of incarcerated women. In addition, if we can help incarcerated women heal from their child sexual abuse, we have reason to believe that we can reduce recidivism through trauma healing. Each of these assumptions will need to be studied extensively, but until then, we can work with the data we have to design promising interventions.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e31934-e46 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-p mon2-t mon2-w mon2-z mon2-10 mon2-11 mon2-1c mon2-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e47 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e48 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2w mon2-2x mon2-2z mon2-30 mon2-3a mon2-3b mon2-3d mon2-3e mon2-3h mon2-3j"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Creating Opportunities for Healing Within the System</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31934-e49 mon2-2g mon2-2h mon2-2j mon2-2l mon2-2m"><p>Research reveals a critical window of opportunity within correctional facilities themselves. One study noted that for some survivors—approximately one-fifth of incarcerated women—their first disclosure of childhood sexual abuse occurs within an institutional setting. This finding suggests that <strong>correctional facilities may serve as an unexpected but important venue for initiating trauma recovery work</strong>.</p> 
<p>The timing of these institutional disclosures is particularly significant. While many survivors carry their experiences in silence for years—with <strong>45.8% delaying disclosure for a year or more</strong><sup>3</sup>—even the environment like a correctional facility, combined with appropriate support services, may provide the security needed to begin addressing long-buried trauma. <strong>Rather than viewing these facilities solely as punitive environments, we can recognize their potential as spaces where healing can begin.</strong></p>
<p>This revelation also underscores the importance of ensuring that correctional staff are adequately trained in trauma-informed approaches and that facilities maintain robust mental health services.<sup>4</sup> <strong>When a woman chooses to disclose abuse—perhaps for the first time in her life—the system must be prepared to respond with appropriate support and resources.</strong> This preparation could transform what might otherwise be a missed opportunity into a crucial first step toward breaking the cycle of trauma and incarceration.</p>
</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e31934-e50 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-m mon2-p mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-w mon2-12 mon2-18 mon2-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e51 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e52 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2v mon2-30 mon2-33 mon2-34 mon2-35 mon2-37 mon2-38 mon2-39 mon2-3a mon2-3b"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">A Scalable Solution for Incarcerated Women</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31934-e53 mon2-2g mon2-2h mon2-2j mon2-2l mon2-2m"><p>Starting in 2019, our team at Saprea piloted various healing programs within women’s facilities. This has been a challenging journey. We have seen good, measurable success with the curricula, but the implementation has been difficult to scale until recently.</p>
<p>Working with our partner, <a href="https://www.edovo.org/" target="_blank">Edovo</a>, Saprea deployed ten curriculum modules complete with comprehension testing to 1134 prison and jail facilities across the United States. <strong>In the first month of deployment, over 10,500 incarcerated women accessed the curricula, over 7,500 completed at least one module, and over 2,800 finished the tenth module.</strong> This scalable approach allows Saprea to conduct rigorous outcome-based research to determine whether our curriculum, which works in other settings, can reduce post-traumatic stress symptoms and enhance coping skills in this underserved, deserving population.</p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31934-e54 mon2-1 mon2-2 mon2-4 mon2-5 mon2-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31934-e55 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-m mon2-p mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-w mon2-12 mon2-18 mon2-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e56 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e57 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2v mon2-30 mon2-33 mon2-34 mon2-35 mon2-36 mon2-37 mon2-38 mon2-39 mon2-3a"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Hope for the Future: Expanding Healing Efforts</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31934-e58 mon2-2g mon2-2h mon2-2j mon2-2l mon2-2m"><p>With these promising advances, the best is yet to come. As we expand healing efforts to survivors, including incarcerated men, we give them a chance to rewrite their stories and return to society healthy and ready to contribute. <strong>Breaking the cycle of child sexual abuse and incarceration starts with awareness and action.</strong> I imagine a world where the clank of a jail cell is less of a reality for survivors of child sexual abuse and can only be imagined by them through the fictional portrayals of Hollywood.</p>
<p><strong>Share this post to help raise awareness and explore our healing programs for survivors <a href="/heal/">here</a>.</strong></p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31934-e59 mon2-1 mon2-2 mon2-5 mon2-6 mon2-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31934-e60 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-m mon2-n mon2-p mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-w mon2-12 mon2-13 mon2-18 mon2-19 mon2-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e61 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e62 mon2-2p mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2v mon2-2w mon2-30 mon2-34 mon2-35 mon2-39 mon2-3a mon2-3k"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">About the Author</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-row e31934-e63 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-m mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-w mon2-12 mon2-14 mon2-15 mon2-18 mon2-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><figure class="x-col e31934-e64 mon2-1s mon2-1u mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y mon2-21 mon2-25 mon2-27 mon2-29"><span class="x-image e31934-e65 mon2-42 mon2-44 featured-author-portrait"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/Chris-Yadon_resize-150x150.jpg" alt="Image"></span></figure><div class="x-col e31934-e66 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-2d mon2-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e67 mon2-2p mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2w mon2-30 mon2-32 mon2-35 mon2-3a mon2-3l"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Chris Yadon</h4></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e68 mon2-2p mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2u mon2-2w mon2-2z mon2-3a mon2-3e mon2-3f mon2-3i mon2-3m"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Managing Director</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31934-e69 mon2-2g mon2-2h mon2-2i mon2-2j mon2-2m">Chris Yadon is the Managing Director of Saprea, and is responsible for managing all operations and services of Saprea in both Utah and Georgia. Yadon has spent most of his professional career in start-up executive management with an emphasis in operations, marketing, and sales. Since joining Saprea in 2015, Yadon has brought a valuable skillset to the organization and is committed to addressing the epidemic of child sexual abuse. His expertise centers on increasing awareness arond this epidemic and educating the public on best practices for prevention and the healing services available to survivors. Yadon has been featured across several regional and national media platforms where he is often requested as an industry thought leader and expert.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31934-e70 mon2-1 mon2-2 mon2-4 mon2-5 mon2-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31934-e71 mon2-d mon2-e mon2-h mon2-i mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-v mon2-w mon2-15 mon2-1c mon2-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e72 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-acc e31934-e73 mon2-46" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e31934-e73"><div class="e31934-e74 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e31934-e74" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e31934-e74" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e31934-e74"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e31934-e74" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e31934-e74" data-x-toggleable="e31934-e74" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><ol>
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At the time, our children were eight and six, and we were focused on learning how to be better parents. The conference was largely unmemorable except for one passing comment by one of the presenters. He said research is showing that the average age a boy will first be exposed to sexually explicit content is between nine and eleven, so if you want to be the first person to introduce the topic of sex, you better talk before that age. I thought about all that could go wrong with him learning about sex from other sources, but the most concerning risk was the potential for child sexual abuse.</p>
<p>I felt a pit in my stomach. I didn’t want my eight-year-old son to learn about sex the way I did – pieced together through media, jokes from friends, and a grossly inadequate awkward health class, but I could not imagine having “the talk” with him as an eight-year-old. As I struggled with what to do with these back-and-forth, conflicting thoughts, ultimately, proximity created urgency, and Christy and I decided to have “the talk” with our son.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31537-e23 moc1-1 moc1-2 moc1-3 moc1-5 moc1-6"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e24 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-q moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-w moc1-x moc1-1a moc1-1d"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e25 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e26 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-2v moc1-2z moc1-32 moc1-33 moc1-34 moc1-35 moc1-36 moc1-37 moc1-38"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Understanding Proximity and Urgency</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e27 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k"><p>Before sharing the rest of the story, I pause to emphasize that sex, generally, and child sexual abuse, specifically, are uncomfortable topics for most parents. Yet, they are critical to address with kids. Both proximity and urgency are essential in influencing and motivating behavior to overcome this discomfort and protect children from abuse.</p>
<p>By proximity, I mean <strong>a sense of closeness or being near to an issue</strong>. Without this sense of proximity, we often ignore significant problems, regardless of their severity. While each can stand alone, they often work together, with proximity fostering a stronger sense of urgency.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31537-e28 moc1-1 moc1-2 moc1-5 moc1-7 moc1-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e29 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-q moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-w moc1-x moc1-1a moc1-1e"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e30 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e31 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-2v moc1-2z moc1-32 moc1-33 moc1-34 moc1-35 moc1-36 moc1-37 moc1-38"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Why Parents Often Miss the Problem of Child Sexual Abuse</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e32 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k"><p>In my work addressing child sexual abuse, I see this phenomenon daily. Despite extensive research highlighting that child sexual abuse is a significant issue in every community, many parents and caregivers dismiss it as a distant problem, believing it happens to someone else, somewhere else. This dissonant, apathetic response is not because parents do not view child sexual abuse as horrific but because they view child sexual abuse as distant.</p> 
<p>According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) and other researchers, about <strong>1 in 4 girls and 1 in 10 boys experience child sexual abuse in the United States</strong>.<sup>1, 2</sup> Yet, a survey in my home state revealed that <strong>65.4% of respondents—mostly parents—either disagreed (40.8%) or were neutral (24.6%) when asked if child sexual abuse is a problem in their immediate community</strong> (e.g., neighborhood, family, faith group, club, business).<sup>3</sup></p>
<p><strong>Only 34.6% of respondents acknowledged that child sexual abuse is an issue in their community.</strong> How can this be? Despite extensive discussions by researchers, news outlets, public health agencies, and nonprofits, a significant disconnect remains. Systems change expert John Kotter insightfully said, “Never underestimate the magnitude of the forces that reinforce complacency and that help maintain the status quo.”<sup>4</sup> Perhaps we have underestimated the desire for humans to look away from something we do not want to face. Put another way, the <strong>lack of proximity reinforces our complacency</strong>.</p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31537-e33 moc1-1 moc1-2 moc1-4 moc1-5 moc1-8 moc1-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e34 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-q moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-w moc1-x moc1-1a moc1-1f"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e35 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e36 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-2v moc1-2z moc1-32 moc1-33 moc1-34 moc1-35 moc1-36 moc1-37 moc1-38"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">What Is Proximity, and How Can It Help?</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e37 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k"><p>Survivors of child sexual abuse experience a significant amount of <a href="/heal/shame/">shame</a> and stigma. <strong>This shame and stigma drive silence and secrecy.</strong> Survivors do not often tell their stories; if they do, they speak with fear of judgment.<sup>5</sup> Most commonly, they share in very limited, closed circles. As a result, you and I interact with survivors of child sexual abuse often without having any idea what they have experienced in their past. I am not talking about acquaintances or casual friends. I am talking about close friends and even family. Yes, even within families, survivors often choose not to share about their child sexual abuse. The result? Most people do not think the issue is proximate.</p>
<p>What about urgency? When a threat feels proximate, urgency naturally follows. We respond, and we respond quickly. In the case of child sexual abuse, if I learn that my loved ones, those closest to me, experienced child sexual abuse, I will feel the urgency to help them heal and protect those I love, especially my children, from going through the same thing. Said differently, proximity leads to urgency.</p>
<p>Research supports this perspective. A study by experts at Johns Hopkins University suggest that <strong>when parents are actively engaged in prevention education, the risk of child sexual abuse can significantly decrease</strong>.<sup>6</sup> This engagement is driven by a sense of proximity—understanding that the threat is real and close to home.</p>
<p>As we understand this connection, we can quickly see how <a href="/blog/combat-child-sexual-abuse-stigma/">stigmatizing</a> child sexual abuse and shaming survivors into silence not only harms the survivor but <strong>creates environments that allow abuse to continue uninterrupted</strong>. <strong>As long as parents feel the risk is distant, child sexual abuse will continue to impact every community at higher rates than if it were confronted directly.</strong></p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31537-e38 moc1-1 moc1-2 moc1-4 moc1-5 moc1-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e39 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-o moc1-q moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-x moc1-y moc1-z moc1-17 moc1-1g"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e40 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e41 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-2v moc1-2z moc1-32 moc1-33 moc1-34 moc1-35 moc1-36 moc1-37 moc1-38"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Turning Proximity into Urgent Action</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e42 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k"><p>Reflecting on the experience with my eight-year-old son, it becomes evident how <strong>proximity and urgency intersect to drive meaningful change</strong>. The presenter's reference to research on early exposure to sexually explicit content, coupled with firsthand accounts from loved ones, brought the issue uncomfortably close to home. This proximity created a sense of urgency that compelled my wife and me to initiate "the talk" despite our apprehensions. Our urgency was motivated by the proximate risk to our son, and that urgency overcame our conflicting thoughts about whether that moment was the right time.</p>
<p>I wish I could say I nailed that “big talk,” but like most things in parenting, the first time didn’t go so well. Yet eighteen years later, my twenty-six-year-old son has a healthy perspective about his sexuality - formed by hundreds of subsequent “little talks” with us as parents. Like me, he also heard about sex through media, jokes from friends, and a grossly inadequate, awkward health class, but he was equipped to handle it because he had our balancing voice. Proximity and urgency had met, changing our parenting behavior when he was eight years old.</p></div></div><div class="x-col e31537-e43 moc1-1q moc1-1s moc1-1u moc1-1w moc1-1x moc1-1z moc1-25 moc1-27 moc1-29 moc1-2a"><span class="x-image e31537-e44 moc1-3x"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/laughing-scaled.jpg" width="1280" height="853" alt="Image"></span><div class="x-row e31537-e45 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-p moc1-q moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-w moc1-x moc1-1a moc1-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e46 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e47 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-2x moc1-32 moc1-34 moc1-39 moc1-3a moc1-3b moc1-3c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Reduce the Risk of Child Sexual Abuse</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e48 moc1-2f moc1-2g moc1-2h moc1-2k moc1-2l">When parents are actively engaged in prevention education, the risk of child sexual abuse can significantly decrease.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e31537-e49 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-k moc1-p moc1-q moc1-10 moc1-1a moc1-1i"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e50 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e51 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-2w moc1-2y moc1-38 moc1-3a moc1-3b moc1-3d moc1-3e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Start the Conversation</h5></div></div></div></div><div class="x-col e31537-e52 moc1-1q moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w moc1-1z moc1-21 moc1-22 moc1-25 moc1-26"><i class="x-icon e31537-e53 moc1-40" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0a9;"></i></div></div></div><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e31537-e54 moc1-3o moc1-3p moc1-3u moc1-3v my-button" tabindex="0" href="/prevent/"><div class="x-anchor-content"></div></a></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e55 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-q moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-w moc1-x moc1-1a moc1-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e56 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e57 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k moc1-2m">Any significant change, whether a broad societal issue like child sexual abuse or an uncomfortable talk with my eight-year-old, requires urgency to motivate new patterns of behavior. <strong>Child sexual abuse is more prevelant in our lives than we might admit.</strong> Creating urgency through proximity can protect our kids. <strong>Start the conversation with your loved ones today and explore more parenting resources <a href="/prevent/">here</a></strong>.</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31537-e58 moc1-1 moc1-2 moc1-5 moc1-6 moc1-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e59 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-n moc1-o moc1-q moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-x moc1-z moc1-11 moc1-16 moc1-17 moc1-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e60 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e61 moc1-2p moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-2v moc1-2w moc1-2z moc1-33 moc1-34 moc1-37 moc1-38 moc1-3f"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">About the Author</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-row e31537-e62 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-n moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-x moc1-11 moc1-12 moc1-13 moc1-16 moc1-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><figure class="x-col e31537-e63 moc1-1q moc1-1s moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w moc1-1z moc1-23 moc1-25 moc1-27"><span class="x-image e31537-e64 moc1-3x moc1-3z featured-author-portrait"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/Chris-Yadon-1-150x150.jpg" alt="Image"></span></figure><div class="x-col e31537-e65 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-2b moc1-2c"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e66 moc1-2p moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2w moc1-2z moc1-31 moc1-34 moc1-38 moc1-3g"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Chris Yadon</h4></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e67 moc1-2p moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2u moc1-2w moc1-2y moc1-38 moc1-3b moc1-3c moc1-3e moc1-3h"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Managing Director</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e68 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2g moc1-2h moc1-2k">Chris Yadon is the Managing Director of Saprea, and is responsible for managing all operations and services of Saprea in both Utah and Georgia. Yadon has spent most of his professional career in start-up executive management with an emphasis in operations, marketing, and sales. Since joining Saprea in 2015, Yadon has brought a valuable skillset to the organization and is committed to addressing the epidemic of child sexual abuse. His expertise centers on increasing awareness arond this epidemic and educating the public on best practices for prevention and the healing services available to survivors. Yadon has been featured across several regional and national media platforms where he is often requested as an industry thought leader and expert.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31537-e69 moc1-1 moc1-2 moc1-4 moc1-5 moc1-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e70 moc1-e moc1-f moc1-i moc1-j moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-w moc1-x moc1-13 moc1-1a moc1-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e71 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-acc e31537-e72 moc1-41" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e31537-e72"><div class="e31537-e73 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e31537-e73" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e31537-e73" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e31537-e73"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e31537-e73" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e31537-e73" data-x-toggleable="e31537-e73" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><ol>
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Despite extensive research highlighting that child sexual abuse is a significant issue in every community, many parents and caregivers dismiss it as a distant problem, believing it happens to someone else, somewhere else. Read more. </div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e84 moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k moc1-2o"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e31537-e80 moc1-1u moc1-2a moc1-2c moc1-2d post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/symptoms_of_child_sexual_abuse_blog/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e31537-e81 moc1-3x"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/07/Common_Symptoms_Blog.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="28188:full"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e82 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-32 moc1-34 moc1-36 moc1-38 moc1-3b moc1-3c moc1-3j"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Common Symptoms Experienced by Adult Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e83 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2n excerpt">Childhood sexual abuse can have long-lasting debilitating effects throughout the life of a survivor. 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But why is this so?</div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e84 moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k moc1-2o"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e31537-e80 moc1-1u moc1-2a moc1-2c moc1-2d post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/statute-of-limitations/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e31537-e81 moc1-3x"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Statute_Limitations.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="28105:full"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e82 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-32 moc1-34 moc1-36 moc1-38 moc1-3b moc1-3c moc1-3j"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Statute of Limitations on Sexual Abuse</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e83 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2n excerpt">In our work with individuals who were sexually abused, they often discuss the burden that comes with weighing difficult questions about when to come forward with details of the abuse they experienced. They wonder if they should take legal action or if that is even an option when the abuse occurred many years in the past. </div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e84 moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k moc1-2o"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e85 moc1-e moc1-h moc1-i moc1-j moc1-n moc1-q moc1-u moc1-x moc1-15 moc1-16 moc1-1p"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e86 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e31537-e87 moc1-3n moc1-3o moc1-3v moc1-3w moc1-c" tabindex="0" href="/all-blogs/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">SEE ALL blogs</span></div></div></a></div></div></div></div></div>
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<content:encoded> <![CDATA[ <img src="https://i2.ytimg.com/vi/Qxn5uXdvyDQ/hqdefault.jpg" /><br><br>Doctor Sexual Abuse Lawyer - Thomas Giuffra, Esq. - New York<br><br>Navigating the aftermath of sexual abuse in a medical setting can be overwhelming. For those who have faced misconduct, it is vital to find compassionate legal support. In New York, The Abuse Lawyer NY stands ready to assist victims of doctor sexual abuse, providing the expertise necessary to guide survivors through the complexities of the legal system.<br><br>The Role of a Doctor Sexual Abuse Attorney<br><br>A New York doctor sexual abuse attorney plays a critical role in advocating for victims. These lawyers understand the nuances of medical malpractice and sexual violence cases, ensuring that survivors receive the attention and support they need. They are dedicated to holding medical professionals accountable for their actions and helping victims secure the compensation they deserve.<br><br>Why Choose Thomas Giuffra?<br><br>As head of The Abuse Lawyer NY, Thomas Giuffra's office has a strong reputation for supporting survivors of sexual misconduct across New York, including cities like Manhattan, Staten Island, and Buffalo. His approach is characterized by empathy and dedication. By offering a free consultation, he ensures that victims can discuss their experiences without financial pressure. This initial meeting allows survivors to understand their options and the potential benefits of pursuing a lawsuit.<br><br>Giuffra's experience as a sexual assault attorney in New York equips him to handle various cases, from medical negligence to child sexual abuse. He understands the emotional and psychological toll that such experiences can impose on individuals and families. His commitment to clients extends beyond legal representation; he provides a supportive environment where victims can feel heard and respected.<br><br>The Importance of Legal Action<br><br>Filing a sexual abuse lawsuit in New York is a significant step toward justice and healing. It not only addresses the immediate harm caused but also raises awareness about the broader issues of healthcare abuse. Victims can seek compensation for medical bills, therapy costs, and emotional distress, helping them rebuild their lives after trauma.<br><br>Additionally, legal action can help prevent future incidents. By holding abusers accountable, survivors contribute to a safer environment for others, potentially sparing future victims from similar experiences.<br><br>Compassionate Guidance<br><br>Navigating the legal system can be daunting, especially for those who have endured trauma. A seasoned attorney like Thomas Giuffra serves as an advocate and ally throughout this journey. He understands the intricacies of sexual harassment law and medical malpractice, providing clients with the guidance needed to make informed decisions.<br><br>Whether dealing with issues of doctor misconduct, physician abuse, or sexual harassment, having the right support can make all the difference. Giuffra's compassionate approach ensures that victims feel empowered and informed every step of the way.<br><br>Take the First Step Towards Justice and Healing Today<br><br>For those affected by doctor sexual abuse or related misconduct, finding an experienced attorney is crucial. Thomas Giuffra offers not only legal expertise but also an understanding of the emotional landscape that victims navigate. By reaching out for help, survivors can take the first step toward seeking justice and reclaiming their lives.<br><br>If you or someone you know has experienced doctor abuse, consider contacting Thomas Giuffra for a free consultation. Together, you can explore the path to healing and accountability.<br><br><br>Visit us online: <br>Email: thomas@survivorsofabuse.com<br>Web: <a href="https://survivorsofabuseny.com/doctor-sexual-abuse-lawyer-ny" target="_blank">https://survivorsofabuseny.com/doctor-sexual-abuse-lawyer-ny</a> <br><a href="https://sites.google.com/view/doctor-sexual-abuse-lawyer-ny/" target="_blank">https://sites.google.com/view/doctor-sexual-abuse-lawyer-ny/</a> <br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qxn5uXdvyDQ" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qxn5uXdvyDQ</a><br><br>Our Address: <br>Thomas Giuffra, Esq. - The Abuse Lawyer NY<br>551 5th Avenue, 29th Floor, <br>New York, NY 10017<br>Phone: (646) 413-6394<br><br>Find us around the web: <br>Like us on Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/abuselawyerny" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/abuselawyerny</a><br>Follow us on Twitter: <a href="https://x.com/abuselawyerny" target="_blank">https://x.com/abuselawyerny</a><br>Check us out on Pinterest: <a href="https://www.pinterest.com/survivorsofabuseny/" target="_blank">https://www.pinterest.com/survivorsofabuseny/</a><br>Subscribe to our YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDeyWo5O0fj-IV8Sj1HNn9A" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDeyWo5O0fj-IV8Sj1HNn9A</a><br>Find us on SoundCloud: <a href="https://soundcloud.com/abuselawyerny" target="_blank">https://soundcloud.com/abuselawyerny</a><br>Listen to our BuzzSprout Podcasts: <a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/2383783/episodes" target="_blank">https://www.buzzsprout.com/2383783/episodes</a><br><br><div><iframe width='100%' height='auto' src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/Qxn5uXdvyDQ?rel=0" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen wmode='opaque'></iframe></div> ]]> </content:encoded>
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I learned that golf actually stood for “Gentlemen Only Ladies Forbidden” and my hatred for the sport was solidified. I spent years railing against golf and the sexist acronym behind it.</p>

<p><strong>Except it wasn’t true.</strong> I learned a few weeks ago that it’s a common myth, something repeated because it <em>seems</em> true, even though it isn’t.</p>

<p>This is relatively harmless compared to some myths—like the one that most <a href="http://saprea.org/blog/6-perpetrator-grooming-behaviors/">perpetrators</a> of child sexual abuse were once abused themselves. Or, in other words, that if someone is sexually abused as a child they are more likely to become an abuser when they grow up.</p>

<p>Of course, there are sexual abusers who were abused as children, but it isn’t as frequent or common as most people, even therapists, believe. In her book <em>Predators</em>, Anna C. Salter talks about how most men convicted of child sexual abuse will simply say that they were abused as children because it affords them more sympathy. In reality, fewer than 10% of them actually were.</p>

<p>So, what does this mean to you, as a parent?</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e23257-e23 mhy1-1 mhy1-2 mhy1-5 mhy1-6 mhy1-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e23257-e24 mhy1-b mhy1-g mhy1-h mhy1-k mhy1-p mhy1-q mhy1-t mhy1-u mhy1-v mhy1-w mhy1-x mhy1-1a mhy1-1d"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23257-e25 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r mhy1-21"><div class="x-row e23257-e26 mhy1-b mhy1-d mhy1-g mhy1-h mhy1-i mhy1-j mhy1-k mhy1-m mhy1-n mhy1-z mhy1-10 mhy1-16 mhy1-17 mhy1-1e"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23257-e27 mhy1-1l mhy1-1n mhy1-1o mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r mhy1-1u mhy1-1v mhy1-1z mhy1-22"><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e28 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-29 mhy1-2b mhy1-2c">01</div></div><div class="x-col e23257-e29 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r"><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e30 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-28 mhy1-29 mhy1-2a">If your child is sexually abused it does NOT mean that they will grow up to perpetuate that abuse on others, especially if your child is given the help and care that they need after the abuse is discovered.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e23257-e31 mhy1-b mhy1-d mhy1-g mhy1-h mhy1-j mhy1-k mhy1-m mhy1-n mhy1-z mhy1-11 mhy1-16 mhy1-17 mhy1-1f"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23257-e32 mhy1-1l mhy1-1n mhy1-1o mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r mhy1-1u mhy1-1v mhy1-1z mhy1-22"><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e33 mhy1-25 mhy1-29 mhy1-2c mhy1-2d">02</div></div><div class="x-col e23257-e34 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r"><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e35 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-28 mhy1-29 mhy1-2a">It harms survivors of childhood sexual abuse to have this stigma attached to them. In addition to the trauma they experienced, they are now saddled with the fear that they’ll grow up to harm someone in the way that they were harmed.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e23257-e36 mhy1-b mhy1-g mhy1-h mhy1-j mhy1-k mhy1-m mhy1-n mhy1-z mhy1-11 mhy1-12 mhy1-16 mhy1-17 mhy1-1g"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23257-e37 mhy1-1l mhy1-1n mhy1-1o mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r mhy1-1u mhy1-1v mhy1-1z mhy1-22"><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e38 mhy1-25 mhy1-29 mhy1-2c mhy1-2d">03</div></div><div class="x-col e23257-e39 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r"><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e40 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-28 mhy1-29 mhy1-2a">When you read about a perpetrator of child sexual abuse, don’t assume that he or she MUST have been abused as a child. The truth is, we don’t actually know why people become sexual abusers, but we do know that it isn’t just because they were or weren’t sexually abused when they were children.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e23257-e41 mhy1-b mhy1-g mhy1-h mhy1-q mhy1-t mhy1-u mhy1-w mhy1-x mhy1-12 mhy1-13 mhy1-1a mhy1-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23257-e42 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r"><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e43 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-28 mhy1-29 mhy1-2a">Some myths are harmless, like believing that going outside with wet hair will give you a cold. Others can cause a lot more harm. Make sure that you’re not making assumptions about the sexual abuse survivors in your life, or the perpetrators you may hear about. Here are <a href="http://saprea.org/blog/8-myths-child-sexual-abuse/">eight more myths</a> about child sexual abuse you can take.</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e23257-e44 mhy1-1 mhy1-5 mhy1-7 mhy1-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e23257-e45 mhy1-a mhy1-b mhy1-g mhy1-h mhy1-p mhy1-q mhy1-t mhy1-u mhy1-w mhy1-x mhy1-1a mhy1-1i postsrow"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23257-e46 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e23257-e47 mhy1-2g mhy1-2h mhy1-2j mhy1-2k mhy1-2o mhy1-2p mhy1-2q"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Recent blogs</h2></div></div></div></div><div class="x-col e23257-e48 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r"><div class="x-row e23257-e49 mhy1-b mhy1-c mhy1-h mhy1-q mhy1-t mhy1-w mhy1-12 mhy1-14 mhy1-1a mhy1-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><a class="x-col e23257-e50 mhy1-1p mhy1-23 post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/symptoms_of_child_sexual_abuse_blog/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e23257-e51 mhy1-31"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/07/Common_Symptoms_Blog.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="28188:full" loading="lazy"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e23257-e52 mhy1-2h mhy1-2j mhy1-2n mhy1-2q mhy1-2r"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Common Symptoms Experienced by Adult Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e53 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-2e excerpt">Childhood sexual abuse can have long-lasting debilitating effects throughout the life of a survivor. The impacts of sexual trauma are profound and far-reaching, affecting every aspect of an individual&#8217;s life—physically, psychologically, cognitively, and socially. But why is this so?</div><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e54 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-28 mhy1-29 mhy1-2a mhy1-2f"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e23257-e50 mhy1-1p mhy1-23 post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/statute-of-limitations/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e23257-e51 mhy1-31"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Statute_Limitations.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="28105:full" loading="lazy"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e23257-e52 mhy1-2h mhy1-2j mhy1-2n mhy1-2q mhy1-2r"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Statute of Limitations on Sexual Abuse</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e53 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-2e excerpt">In our work with individuals who were sexually abused, they often discuss the burden that comes with weighing difficult questions about when to come forward with details of the abuse they experienced. They wonder if they should take legal action or if that is even an option when the abuse occurred many years in the past. </div><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e54 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-28 mhy1-29 mhy1-2a mhy1-2f"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e23257-e50 mhy1-1p mhy1-23 post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/effects-of-child-sexual-abuse-blog/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e23257-e51 mhy1-31"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/Effects-of-Sexual-Abuse-Blog.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="27832:full" loading="lazy"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e23257-e52 mhy1-2h mhy1-2j mhy1-2n mhy1-2q mhy1-2r"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Effects of Child Sexual Abuse</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e53 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-2e excerpt">As a clinician on the Saprea Clinical Intake team, I am often the first point of contact for anyone seeking one of our services. This gives me the opportunity to talk to many survivors of child sexual abuse. I’m often asked about specific effects of sexual abuse that the women I talk to are experiencing.</div><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e54 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-28 mhy1-29 mhy1-2a mhy1-2f"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e23257-e55 mhy1-b mhy1-e mhy1-g mhy1-h mhy1-j mhy1-m mhy1-p mhy1-t mhy1-x mhy1-15 mhy1-16 mhy1-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23257-e56 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e23257-e57 mhy1-2v mhy1-30 mhy1-9" tabindex="0" href="/all-blogs/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">SEE ALL blogs</span></div></div></a></div></div></div></div></div>
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