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<title> <![CDATA[ At Hunter College, Students Tackle Garbage — And a New Way of Shaping Policy ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/06/12/new-york-citizens-assemblies-democracy-cuny-hunter ]]> </link>
<category> <![CDATA[ Reporting ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ New York City ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ Climate and Environment ]]> </category>
<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ The citizens assembly model, used for public decision-making around the world, is gaining traction in New York. ]]> </description>
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																			<p>If Hunter College manages to reduce the roughly one ton of trash it produces each day — as required by a state <a href="https://www.governor.ny.gov/executive-order/no-22-leading-example-directing-state-agencies-adopt-sustainability-and">order</a> directing all public entities to cut their waste — it will likely be thanks to a new, highly democratic decision-making body known as a citizens assembly.</p><p>Over two months, some three dozen Hunter undergraduates met weekly to research the topic, grill the college’s waste managers and outside experts, tour the campus trash trail, and ultimately come to consensus on seven actions aimed at sending less garbage to recycling and landfills.</p><p>The <span class="caps">CUNY</span> Climate Assembly Project at Hunter, or <span class="caps">CCAP</span>, is one of the first citizens assemblies in New York state. The approach involves selecting participants at random, ensuring their demographics accurately reflect the community, and giving their recommendations real weight in decision-making. Also known as civic assembly, popular assembly, lottocracy, or citizen jury, it has been used in <a href="https://www.sortitionfoundation.org/case_studies">Europe</a> for decades and is gaining traction in the <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026/may/21/elected-officials-civic-assemblies-la">United States</a> and <a href="https://www.peoplepowered.org/news-content/impacts-of-citizens-assemblies-a-summary-of-the-latest-research">around the world</a>.</p>																																			<p>Some of the Hunter College climate assembly participants were drawn by the $750 stipend. Others had nothing planned for spring break, when the assembly began. And some seized the opportunity to collaborate with others and achieve a tangible good.</p><p>“I’ve been in a phase of climate nihilism,” said Luisa Pellettieri, a senior in sociology. “I’m trying to say yes to more things. I’m hoping to get hope back.”</p><p>Over the summer, the group will present its recommendations to Hunter College leadership, which promised to review and respond to them. While college leaders did not commit to more binding language, they have been involved and supportive of the effort.</p><p>Assembly organizer Forrest Sparks said the project connects people in new ways. “The group that comes together looks like the larger public of Hunter,” he said, addressing the crowd gathered in the West Building’s eighth-floor conference room on a rainy Friday in February, waiting for participants to be drawn from a lottery spinner. Over 23,000 students received an email invitation to opt in to the lottery; 570 accepted the invitation, and 42 were selected by lottery.</p><p>“It really expands who decides and who designs within our democracy,” Sparks said to the group. “In our current political system, unfortunately, we don’t have too many pathways to do that. But y’all are leading the way.”</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/RJnZLL-vwLkSWmul9FHFEsa9EUbgXJq5HL1eP2deOi0/w:1000/h:750/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9jaXRpemVucy1hc3NlbWJsaWVzLTIuanBlZw.jpeg" alt="Groups of college-age people sit around round tables, engaged in discussions." class=" size-full " /><figcaption>Delegates got to know each other and the issues on the first day of the assembly at Hunter College.  / Karen Loew / New York Focus</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p><br><strong>A democratic innovation</strong></p><p>Central to any citizens assembly is the <a href="https://sortitionusa.org/faqs-4-1">selection of participants</a> by lottery. In a given city, an invitation might be mailed to as many as 10,000 to 20,000 people. Of those who respond, several dozen participants are usually chosen with tools that select for both randomness and demographic representativeness.</p><p>Running a successful assembly is labor-intensive. Organizers must secure funding, get buy-in from decision-makers who have the power to act on the assembly’s consensus, and recruit a qualified team to plan and lead the process over weeks or months. <a href="https://centerforthehumanities.org/project/cuny-climate-assembly-project/"><span class="caps">CCAP</span></a> was <a href="https://www.gc.cuny.edu/news/mellon-foundation-funds-climate-assembly-cuny-graduate-center">funded</a> by a Mellon Foundation grant to the <span class="caps">CUNY</span> Center for the Humanities and led by professional facilitators and trained graduate students.</p><p>But the payoffs can be significant. Proponents say citizens assemblies surface genuine public opinion and generate creative solutions that politicians — constrained by loyalties and conflicts — might never reach. They build trust in public policymaking, and participants <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jahGnbOnCOs&amp;t=7s">often report</a> feeling more engaged in democracy, sometimes for the first time.</p><p>Former New York City comptroller and councilmember Brad Lander called for a citizens assembly on housing while campaigning for mayor last year. “At a time of catastrophically low trust in our democracy, I believe citizens assemblies can help to renew it,” Lander, who is now a candidate for Congress, told New York Focus.</p><p>The model also forges unusual bonds: Because a citizen assembly’s “mini-public” mirrors the demographics of its community, participants collaborate with people unlike them politically and socioeconomically, and elected officials get policy options with democratic legitimacy already built in.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/zq0krikqdSNK7QBUUDTDDpDH353cXN7ZauPTHK8DWas/w:1000/h:750/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9jaXRpemVucy1hc3NlbWJsaWVzLmpwZWc.jpeg" alt="A group of people stand in a fluorescent-lit hallway. One man carries bags of trash through the group to a trash room that opens off the hallway." class=" size-full " /><figcaption>A custodial supervisor leads delegates on a tour of waste management on the Hunter campus as a custodian walks through carrying bags of trash.  / Karen Loew / New York Focus</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p><br><strong>Local leaders</strong></p><p>The Hunter College climate project isn’t the city’s only citizens assembly.</p><p>Through June 21, New York City residents over the age of 11 can vote on local projects in a city-sponsored deliberative process called <a href="https://www.participate.nyc.gov">The People’s Money</a>. The five boroughs have $4 million total to spend on priorities selected through borough-level citizens assemblies.</p><p>Now in its fourth cycle, The People’s Money unfolds in <a href="https://www.participate.nyc.gov">four phases</a>: open idea submission, a citizens assembly in each borough to choose finalist ideas, a public vote, and then implementation. <a href="https://www.participate.nyc.gov/processes/Citywidepb2024/f/109/proposals">Projects</a> have included swim lessons for children in <span class="caps">NYCHA</span> housing, food-growing and cooking programs, and housing education for older adults.</p><p>The program is run by the Civic Engagement Commission, which was created by a 2018 referendum to initiate a<i> </i>citywide participatory budgeting process (in addition to the participatory budgeting programs <a href="https://council.nyc.gov/pb/">run by</a> many City Councilmembers in their own districts). </p><p>“People themselves do know what is best, and they can arrive at conclusions that work for the community and that are legislatively feasible,” said Benjamin Solotaire, senior adviser at the Civic Engagement Commission, who helped to integrate the assembly component into The People’s Money process. “It is really the lived experience that makes it feasible.”</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/JbagJo7Ea3DuxnJ-kunerKPugPtimqaoXy2qVKu2CD8/w:1000/h:750/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9jaXRpemVucy1hc3NlbWJsaWVzLTUuanBlZw.jpeg" alt="A middle-aged man speaks to an engaged group of college-age people on the sidewalk, signs showing Hunter College, 68th St, and the M66 bus are visible." class=" size-full " /><figcaption>A staff custodial supervisor answers assembly members&#039; questions outside the compactor on East 67th Street.  / Karen Loew / New York Focus</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p><br><strong>New York and beyond</strong></p><p>The climax of the Hunter College assembly’s campus “garbage tour” was a visit to the trash compactor on East 67th Street, where delegates watched as custodians on a high platform emptied trash from the entire campus into a massive metal container before it was carted away by the Sanitation Department. The goal was to see the problem up close.</p><p>Rozen Kapadia, a junior studying psychology, said her role on the assembly was already changing her mindset. “I do feel responsible,” she said. “I feel expected to bring about change.”</p><p>Over the two months that followed, the delegates worked to achieve it. They sought information from outside experts. They met every Friday to learn, deliberate and ideate. A public forum on May 15 included the broader campus community. Last week, the assembly developed and voted on nine recommendations, passing seven with a strong consensus. Those include expanding the compost program, barring on-campus vendors from distributing styrofoam and single-use plastics, and redesigning and relocating trash receptacles to encourage recycling.</p><p>The results will be discussed with the administration over the summer. Then nine students will serve as post-assembly fellows, working with campus leadership to implement the proposals.</p><p>“This was a great experience,” said Hunter junior Tariq Bradshaw after the vote. “I think I’ll always look back on this time, because I never thought I would do anything like this before. It was great being part of something bigger.”</p><p>It’s unclear whether supporting citizens assemblies is a priority for Mayor Zohran Mamdani’s administration; neither the mayor nor his new Office of Mass Engagement answered questions about it. (<span class="caps">OME</span>’s first initiative is quite different: a <a href="https://www.nyc.gov/content/organize/pages/home">campaign</a> to recruit tenants to testify at upcoming rent stabilization hearings.)</p><p>Across the country, meanwhile, citizens assemblies are proliferating. This spring, <a href="https://healthydemocracy.org/home/projects/#projects-ca">Los Angeles</a> used one as part of a city charter review, as did Lexington, Kentucky. <a href="https://www.unifyakron.org">Akron</a>, Ohio, just conducted a citizens assembly on housing; <a href="https://www.nationalcivicleague.org/raleighs-civic-assembly/">Raleigh</a>, North Carolina, held one focused on urban planning. Beginning in July, Connecticut will <a href="https://ct-citizens-assembly.org">hold</a> a statewide citizens assembly on property taxes.</p><p>Abroad, notable examples include the standing assemblies of <a href="https://demnext.substack.com/p/how-a-permanent-citizens-assembly">Paris</a> and <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2025/11/23/world/europe/belgium-citizen-democracy-ostbelgien-model.html?unlocked_article_code=1.6E8.8iPt.ZVluH7aQJmnX&amp;smid=url-share">East Belgium</a> — whose recommendations have been adopted into law — and the 2016 <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/world/2018/mar/08/how-99-strangers-in-a-dublin-hotel-broke-irelands-abortion-deadlock">Irish</a> assembly that led the country to legalize abortion two years later.</p><p>Citizens assemblies are not infallible. French President Emmanuel Macron, for example, <a href="http://google.com/url?q=https://www.publicdeliberation.net/the-promises-and-disappointments-of-the-french-citizens-convention-for-climate/&amp;sa=D&amp;source=docs&amp;ust=1780964698870323&amp;usg=AOvVaw3C6rBRAdzA7sF1XGyzZ8g2">overpromised and underdelivered</a> on implementing the French Citizens Convention on Climate six years ago.</p><p>Still, the model may prove well suited to society’s emerging problems. Two western communities have already launched assemblies on artificial intelligence: the <a href="https://cocap.us/ai/">Central Oregon</a> Community Solutions Assembly on <span class="caps">AI</span> and the <a href="https://www.snococivicassembly.org">Snohomish County</a>, Washington Civic Assembly.</p><p>If elected, Lander said, he’d love to do the same in New York. A citizens assembly could “transform an extractive, profit-driven model of artificial intelligence by using a democratic model for amplifying our collective intelligence,” he said.</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ New York May End Blame Game When Deciding Which Crime Survivors Get State Aid ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/06/16/new-york-survivors-first-act-contributory-conduct ]]> </link>
<category> <![CDATA[ Criminal Justice ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ New York State ]]> </category>
<pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ A bill awaiting the governor’s signature would relax restrictions on who can qualify for victim compensation. ]]> </description>
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																			<p>Victims of violent crime in New York can get the state to help pay for their medical expenses and other costs — that is, unless it decides they’re at fault, too. A <a href="https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/bills/2025/S4584/amendment/A">bill</a> passed this month in the waning hours of the annual state legislative session could change that.</p><p>Known as the Survivors First Act, the <a href="https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/bills/2025/S4584/amendment/A">legislation</a> would bar the state from evaluating what’s known as “contributory conduct” to determine if victims are eligible for funds. <a href="https://www.americanprogress.org/article/hope-after-harm-an-evaluation-of-state-victim-compensation-statutes/">Nearly all states</a> have similar restrictions, based on factors like whether the victim was accused of using or selling drugs, fighting with the person who injured them, or being in a gang at the time of the crime.</p><p>The state Office of Victim Services decides who receives the funds, using information from law enforcement, prosecutors, claimants, and other sources. In 2024, the office denied roughly 40 percent of the nearly 8,000 claims it ruled on for reasons including incomplete applications and ineligible crimes. Of those, 16 denials included contributory conduct, the office said.</p>																								<div class="newsroomBlockQuoteContainer">
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										<p>“The victim cannot be considered an innocent victim of crime and is not eligible for an award.”</p>
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																									<p>Research has shown that because victim compensation decisions rely on subjective assessments, they can also lead to <a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/21533687251388669">racial disparities</a>. In a 2024 analysis, University of Michigan professor Jeremy Levine found that Black New Yorkers represented 31 percent of all victim compensation claims in the state — but made up 53 percent of claims denied for contributory conduct. The disparity was particularly acute for Black men, who represented 14 percent of New York claims but 47 percent of contributory conduct denials.</p><p>Kira Shepherd, vice president of organizing and policy at Common Justice, a victim services organization that helped spearhead the bill, said these patterns are harmful for survivors in the moment — and down the line. “If they’re denied because they’re criminalized, they aren’t getting the healing they need, and that just causes the cycle of violence to continue,” she said.</p>																																			<p>The bill, sponsored by state Senator Julia Salazar and Assemblymember Monique Chandler-Waterman, would strike the provision in the law that instructs the Office of Victim Services to use contributory conduct to deny claims or reduce awards, making New York one of the first states to do so. It would also make it illegal for the state to award survivors less money if they privately fundraised for funeral or medical expenses, as it does now. And it would require the office to better publicize itself and to publish regular statistics on applications for aid, rejections, and the reasons it denies applications.</p><p>Survivors and their families are sometimes unaware that they’re eligible for victim compensation or confused by the rules around it.</p><p>In 2024, Dylan Marino, 21, was stabbed to death by a worker in a Queens corner store. Grainy <a href="https://pix11.com/news/local-news/queens/police-investigate-fatal-stabbing-outside-queens-bodega/">security camera footage</a> shows the bodega worker chasing Marino, and then Marino chasing him back before staggering away.</p><p>The Office of Victim Services sent a funeral home $3,000 for his services, according to Marino’s mother, Kate Dessommes. Months later, however, the agency tried to claw it back without fully explaining why.</p><p>“Our investigation of this claim shows that the victim’s own actions contributed to his/her death,” the office wrote in a letter to  Dessommes. “The victim cannot be considered an innocent victim of crime and is not eligible for an award.”</p><p>Dessommes attributes the denial to what she says police told her: that Marino had stolen a beer from the corner store. After she appealed, the agency attributed it to the fact that the worker wasn’t charged in the crime, though the statute does not require that.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/IM6XuaDfM0ayV3MsX_H8v2T2YaZNzSmNnqDPw-I2pEg/w:1000/h:1333/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9LYXRlYW5kRHlsYW4uSlBH.jpg" alt="Kate Dessommes and her son, Dylan Marino, on a beach" class="" /><figcaption>Kate Dessommes, seen here with her son, Dylan Marino, fought efforts to rescind the victim compensation she received after his killing.  / Courtesy of Kate Dessommes</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p>To Dessommes, the letter felt like another emotional blow. “It added so much more stress to something that was already horrible,” she said through tears.</p><p>The Office of Victim Services said it could not “comment on an individual claim due to strict confidentiality laws,” but that there may be “circumstances in which <span class="caps">OVS</span> is limited in the information it can disclose, such as when doing so could affect an ongoing investigation or prosecution.”</p><p>Mika Dashman, founding director of the Restorative Justice Initiative, a nonprofit that advocates for non-punitive responses to harm, was working with Dessommes when she received the denial. She helped her push the state to stop trying to recoup the funding, which it eventually did.</p><p>“I couldn’t believe that an agency that was created to support victims of crime would use blaming language like that,” Dashman said. “The state should not be in the business of arbitrarily determining who is an ‘innocent’ victim and who is a ‘deserving’ victim.”</p><p>Aaron Cagwin, a spokesperson for the Office of Victim Services, said the agency reviews each claim “based on the information available at the time.”</p><p>“While <span class="caps">OVS</span> was required to follow the law as written,” he added, “the agency has always approached its work with a focus on supporting victims and survivors and ensuring that claims were reviewed as thoroughly as possible.”</p>																																			<p>Advocates and lawmakers have successfully pushed the agency to improve access to victim compensation. In 2023, they fought to <a href="https://legislation.nysenate.gov/pdf/bills/2023/S214A">remove a requirement</a> that survivors report crimes to the police to qualify for aid. And in 2025, the state budget <a href="https://www.governor.ny.gov/news/governor-hochul-announces-expanded-access-compensation-victims-and-survivors-crime">altered the contributory conduct provision</a> so it can no longer be used against homicide victims, like Marino. In all other cases, however, the conduct restrictions still stand.</p><p>“If my child dies, they can no longer be blamed” in a way that denies or reduces compensation, explained Robert Gipson <span class="caps">II</span>, a New York attorney and former fellow at Giffords Law Center. But if “I catch a stray bullet and live,” he said, the Office of Victim Services “can still make an arbitrary determination about why I was shot.”</p><p>That’s where this year’s bill comes in. If signed, New York would become the second state, after Maryland, to completely eliminate contributory conduct as a factor in victim compensation, according to Gipson, who drafted the legislation and worked with the sponsors’ offices, Common Justice, Safe Horizon, and other groups to get it passed.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/rGY1Sqd47sFl-ovdCnoqERWY-ftLgVCJQYX7sR0yj88/w:1000/h:1499/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9DaGFuZGxlcldhdGVybWFuLmpwZw.jpg" alt="Assemblymember Monique Chandler-Waterman" class=" size-thumbnail " /><figcaption>Assemblymember Monique Chandler-Waterman, a lead sponsor on the bill, helped push for its passage during an unusually short legislative session.  / New York State Assembly Majority</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p>The bill passed both legislative chambers unanimously. The legislature has until December to send it to Governor Kathy Hochul, who can sign or veto it.</p><p>The governor’s office did not answer questions about whether she plans to sign the bill. In a statement, Jess D’Amelia, a spokesperson for Hochul, said the governor “has championed efforts to improve the state’s response to gun violence, sexual assault, domestic violence, gender-based violence and sex trafficking.” </p><p>“Governor Hochul remains committed to supporting victims and survivors of all crimes and will review this legislation,” she said.</p><p>For Shepherd of Common Justice, the bill’s passage is gratifying. “No one has really looked at these policies to make sure that they were equitable,” she said. “I believe that conversation is now happening.”</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ New York High Schoolers Might Be Getting a New Diploma. Here’s What to Know. ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/06/19/new-york-inspires-high-school-graduation-requirements ]]> </link>
<category> <![CDATA[ New York State ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ Education ]]> </category>
<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ At a Board of Regents meeting Monday, state officials proposed eliminating credit-based diploma requirements. ]]> </description>
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																			<p>At a Board of Regents meeting Monday, state education officials announced that high school graduates in New York could soon start receiving a new type of diploma — one that reflects their skills and knowledge, rather than the number of credits they’ve earned.</p><p>The new diploma is a central component of <a href="https://www.nysed.gov/ny-inspires">New York Inspires</a>, the State Education Department’s multiyear effort to overhaul graduation requirements to ensure students leave high school ready for modern careers and higher education. If approved by the board, it would replace the current graduation framework, which allows students to earn one of three diplomas depending on how they perform on statewide standardized tests known as Regents exams.</p><p>At the meeting, Education Department officials called it the most significant transformation of the state’s graduation system in generations. The plan would direct school districts to shift away from awarding credits based on the time a student spends in a course and instead adopt a “competency-based” model with flexibility in how they develop mastery of specific skills.</p>																																			<p>“The big idea is that New York is moving away from an outdated factory-style education model toward a model system built for how students actually learn,” said Jeffrey Matteson, the department’s senior deputy commissioner for education policy.</p><p>The Education Department has only shared preliminary plans so far, so many implementation details remain unclear. During and after the meeting, some Board of Regents members and education advocates raised concerns about how schools will maintain academic rigor and support teachers as they adopt flexible models, and whether students across the state will have equal access to opportunities.</p><p>Jeff Smink, deputy director at the advocacy group EdTrust-New York, said New York must strengthen K-8 instruction in order for the initiative to succeed, noting that students can only access opportunities like internships and college courses if they are proficient in reading and math.</p><p>The department plans to present the final plan to the board for approval once it’s complete and start a phased rollout in certain grade levels by the end of next school year. Here’s what we know so far.</p><h3>What is competency-based education?</h3><p>The Education Department defines competency-based education as a system in which students get closer to graduating after proving they’ve actually learned material instead of just completing required class time.</p><p>Students would still enroll in traditional courses, but would also be able to participate in activities outside of the classroom, such as internships, capstone projects, community service and career and technical education programs, to move toward their degrees. Instead of a single exam, students would have different ways to show what they know in each subject, such as assessments, projects, presentations, or portfolios.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/AsQy8Q9vkEpYFutDkqfcvMKmXfII9wnE1QVRJqG5e5o/w:1000/h:577/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9zeXN0ZW0tY29tcGFyaXNvbi5wbmc.png" alt="A graphic titled &quot;System Comparison&quot; shows two side-by-side lists. The leftmost, titled &quot;Current,&quot; lists &quot;Regents Exams; Time is the Constant; Grades, Test Scores, GPA; Credit-Based; Unclear Requirements.&quot; The rightmost column, titled &quot;NY Inspires,&quot; lists &quot;Multiple Measures; Learning is the Constant; Evidence of Readiness; Competency-Based; Clear Requirements.&quot;" class=" size-full " /><figcaption>A graphic from a June 2026 State Education Department presentation showing proposed changes to New York&#039;s graduation requirements.  / New York state Education Department</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p><br>In 2024, the Board of Regents announced plans to eliminate the requirement that students pass the Regents exams to receive a diploma. Currently, they can earn one of three diploma designations: a Regents diploma, an advanced Regents diploma for students who pass additional tests, and a local diploma for students who meet testing requirements a different way. On Monday, state officials explained that the exams would be one of many options students can use to qualify for a diploma.</p><p>“What will matter moving forward is the quality and substance of the evidence that a student produces, not the particular route that produced it or how long it took,” said Shannon Logan, director of strategic priorities and coordination in the department’s Office of Cultural Education.</p><h3>What will the new transcript look like?</h3><p>Current transcripts include a list of classes and assessments with corresponding grades, which do not “adequately reflect what a student knows and what they are able to do,” Angelique Johnson-Dingle, one of the department’s deputy commissioners, said at the meeting. Under the new framework, graduating students would receive a “universal transcript or learner profile.” </p><p>The transcript would document alignment with state learning standards and the six attributes the state outlined in its graduation blueprint, called the <a href="https://www.nysed.gov/sites/default/files/programs/grad-measures/portrait-of-a-graduate.pdf">Portrait of a Graduate</a>. It’s unclear exactly what the transcript would look like.</p><h3>Will it affect college applications?</h3><p>There is little evidence that competency-based education disadvantages students in the college admissions process. Many colleges have embraced more holistic admissions practices that consider portfolios and other demonstrations of skills that extend beyond <span class="caps">GPA</span> and standardized test scores.</p><p>Education Department officials said they are working with colleges and universities to ensure every institution that serves the state’s high school graduates ”understands and trusts” the new diploma.</p><h3>What does this mean for current students?</h3>																																			<p>Students who started ninth grade in 2023 would be the final cohort to graduate under the state’s current requirements.</p><p>Students starting high school in 2024, 2025, or 2026 would still have to fulfill current credit requirements and take the Regents exams, but they would not have to pass the exams to graduate. For the 2027 and 2028 cohorts only, the state would impose a yet-to-be-determined credit requirement.</p><p>The new flexible system introduced Monday, which would eliminate time-based credits, would be fully implemented for students who enter high school in 2029.</p><h3>What are the next steps?</h3><p>The state is currently reworking learning standards, competency rubrics, and the universal transcript and will release them within the next year. The department said it will continue to schedule working groups and advisory panels to gather feedback on the changes, and is updating the state’s data system to track student progress.</p><p>The Education Department encouraged school districts to start designing pilot programs for next school year that include hands-on learning outside of traditional classrooms, a wider range of ways to assess student learning beyond standard exams, and expanded career-related opportunities. Schools could hire work-based learning coordinators, for instance, or partner with local employers.</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ Rochester’s Anti-Poverty Portal Struggles to Meet Promise ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/06/03/rochester-anti-poverty-portal-rmapi-social-services ]]> </link>
<category> <![CDATA[ New York State ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ Social Services ]]> </category>
<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ New York state has pumped millions of taxpayer dollars into an online portal that vowed to make life easier for Rochester’s neediest, but critics say it’s fallen short. ]]> </description>
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																			<p>In 2015, then-Lieutenant Governor Kathy Hochul helped unveil a bold plan to reverse decades of severe poverty in Rochester. </p><p>She hailed the effort — now called the <a href="https://rmapiny.org/">Rochester-Monroe Anti-Poverty Initiative (<span class="caps">RMAPI</span>)</a> — as an innovative model that could one day be <a href="https://www.democratandchronicle.com/story/news/2015/01/19/request-state-funds-led-anti-poverty-task-force/22022943/">replicated</a> statewide.</p><p>For months, a task force led by top lawmakers and spearheaded by the <a href="https://unitedwayrocflx.org/">United Way of Greater Rochester </a>had been taking shape. Soon after going public, it announced an ambitious goal: <a href="https://www.wxxinews.org/local-news/2019-02-04/rmapi-director-walks-back-initial-poverty-reduction-promise">slashing the area’s poverty rates</a> in half by 2030. Key to that effort was a cutting-edge website that would seamlessly connect the region’s residents to a variety of social services, acting as a one-stop shop for everything from emergency housing to food assistance and mental health care. By increasing coordination among providers, proponents explained, it could eliminate the bureaucracy of getting help — providing a more holistic, user-friendly experience. </p><p>But the task force faced early stumbles. Its first leader <a href="https://rochesterbeacon.com/2020/05/21/leonard-brocks-next-step/">resigned</a> in 2020 amid <a href="https://rochesterbeacon.com/2018/10/25/is-rmapi-misunderstood/">criticism</a>. Now, more than a decade since its launch, some are calling <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> — along with MyWayFinder, the website it kickstarted — an expensive flop.</p><p>“I’m not convinced an app that tells me where a food pantry is is solving the problem that needs to be solved,” Monroe County legislator Rachel Barnhart said of <a href="https://my-wayfinder.org/about">MyWayfinder</a>, which came online in 2024 and officially launched in 2025. “The problem is when people actually go and apply to the government for the services they’re eligible for, and they encounter extreme barriers and red tape.” </p>																																			<p>The state has pumped at least $25 million into the MyWayFinder website<a href="https://my-wayfinder.org/about">, which took over eight years to develop.</a> State documents billed the website as a transformative hub that would provide a “360-degree” view of each of Rochester’s 150,000 impoverished residents, allowing clients to transition from “crisis to stable to thriving” with a vast network of providers closely tracking their needs and the services they’re receiving.  </p><p>Amy D’Amico, a nonprofit consultant and local housing advocate, has referred several people to the platform to easily locate resources, including a trans person who needed help identifying a health provider. </p><p>“I think there’s a significant gap in our community and elsewhere between the health domain and the housing domain,” D’Amico said. “These are systems that just don’t talk to each other.” MyWayFinder is one of many potential solutions that could help bridge that divide, she said.</p><p>But overall, uptake has been lackluster. As of June 2026, MyWayFinder has <a href="https://my-wayfinder.org/our-impact">over 2,000 registered client users </a>— a fraction of the 150,000 sign-ups promised upon the website’s rollout. Similarly, only 48 organizations are considered “Connected Provider Organizations,” which actively receive referrals from the site, far short of the 300 providers envisioned upon rollout in state contract documents — limiting the website’s ability to function as a one-stop shop. </p><p>The website’s current operator denied that the site had failed to reach its original goals and said that all providers listed on the website are able to utilize the network and are “reachable” through the platform, even if they don’t receive website referrals. </p><p>Despite the tepid response, those running the platform have continued to<a href="https://www.nysenate.gov/sites/default/files/admin/structure/media/manage/filefile/a/2024-01/togethernow.pdf"> seek more state dollars</a> and are looking to expand MyWayFinder and spread the <a href="https://democrats-rules.house.gov/sites/evo-subsites/democrats-rules.house.gov/files/HRDT-117-RU00-WState-GustinL-20210715.pdf">framework</a> to other counties across New York. <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> has long since abandoned its ambitious target of <a href="https://www.wxxinews.org/local-news/2019-02-04/rmapi-director-walks-back-initial-poverty-reduction-promise">halving local poverty rates</a> and has pivoted to a broader set of metrics that, according to its executive director, “better reflect the root causes of poverty” and don’t rely on a single measure. <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> has also stepped away from MyWayFinder and transferred operation of the platform to another group.</p><p>MyWayFinder’s goal of streamlining social services couldn’t come at a more critical time. Historic federal cuts to <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/31/essential-plan-health-insurance-new-york-bill">Medicaid</a> and <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/12/12/whats-next-for-new-yorkers-on-snap">food assistance</a> are estimated to result in hundreds of thousands of New Yorkers losing their benefits in the months and years to come — placing a larger burden on nonprofit providers to fill the gaps.</p><p>These cuts are likely to be especially <a href="https://www.cityofrochester.gov/sites/default/files/2025-03/Report_Compiled%20-%20web_0.pdf">devastating in Rochester</a>, where nearly 30 percent of residents live below the federal poverty line and roughly 40 percent of children live in poverty. </p>																									<p>Rochester was once a bustling hub for some of America’s most iconic brands, including Xerox and Kodak, but decades of <a href="https://rbj.net/2016/05/27/manufacturing-decline-takes-toll-on-middle-class-locally/">declines in manufacturing</a> have taken their toll on the workforce, which has never recovered. And that was before the <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/07/09/trump-big-beautiful-bill-new-york-medicaid-snap">recent spate of federal cuts</a> to safety net programs under the Trump administration. </p><p>The region also has a history of <a href="https://rachbarnhart.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/MONROE-COUNTY-LEADS-IN-BENEFIT-DENIALS.pdf">higher-than-average denial rates</a> for programs like food assistance and punitive sanctions for those who fail to meet stringent requirements for drug or alcohol programs, Barnhart says. </p><p>But while MyWayFinder was built using state funds, it was never intended to connect users with the state or county agencies responsible for administering public benefits — which some critics say hamstrings the platform’s ability to ease the lives of underserved residents. </p>																								<div class="newsroomBlockQuoteContainer">
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																									<p>It can also be impractical, said Anna Valeria, <span class="caps">CEO</span> of Open Door Mission, the region’s largest housing provider. Open Door is among the majority of organizations listed on MyWayFinder that are not fully connected into the platform. </p><p>“It’s wonderful in theory, but the reality is for those of us doing the frontline work, it’s another layer to add,” said Valeria. </p><p>The platform connects directly with 48 providers, allowing users to request referrals for help such as finding a shelter or child care. But when MyWayFinder users click on a listing to Open Door or other nonprofits that aren’t fully connected, they are prompted to call or email directly for help, which Barnhart said makes the platform more akin to an online phone directory than the innovative one-stop shop promised in state documents. </p><p>Valeria said Open Door has no plans to fully connect because it has already fine-tuned its own intake process. Several other community partners that facilitate emergency and transitional housing placements for Open Door have also declined to connect, Valeria said, driving down the platform’s ability to improve coordination among providers. </p><p>She questioned why the state would bankroll MyWayFinder instead of directly supporting nonprofits at a time when many are struggling. In 2024, the United Way of Greater Rochester was criticized by local nonprofits after it announced funding changes that would significantly reduce <a href="https://www.rochesterfirst.com/news/more-local-charities-announce-large-united-way-funding-loss/">its longtime support </a>for them. </p><p>Barnhart raised similar concerns, calling MyWayFinder a costly attempt at unifying providers into a central system instead of investing in actual services. “We have other nonprofit organizations that essentially do the same exact work and don’t need these dollars from taxpayers,” Barnhart said of MyWayFinder and <span class="caps">RMAPI</span>. “We seem to be spending money to fund bureaucracy instead of putting money directly into the hands of people.” </p>																									<p>The United Way of Greater Rochester is one of the larger nonprofits in the region, with a reported <a href="https://projects.propublica.org/nonprofits/organizations/161015782/202403049349300505/full">$183 million in assets</a> as of 2024. </p><p>The organization is part of a national <a href="https://www.unitedway.org/">United Way</a> network of affiliates that raise money through workplace giving programs and direct those donations to local nonprofits like homeless shelters and food pantries. Each United Way is independently run and operated, and many, like the Greater Rochester chapter, do not provide direct services to the public.</p><p>The organization’s relationship with <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> has raised questions. Nearly all of the state funds directed to the task force or MyWayFinder were issued as legislative awards, a process in which lawmakers direct grants to specific institutions. The practice has been flagged by open government advocates for <a href="https://citizensunion.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/Citizens20Union20-20Spending20in20the20Shadows20-20Nonspecific20Funding20in20the20FY201920NYS20Executive20Budget20-20May2020181.pdf">inadequate oversight</a> that “invites misuse and corruption.” </p>																																			<p>Unlike regular state contracts — which are often issued after a competitive bidding process and contain financial safeguards — agencies have limited powers to oversee legislative awards. Neither of the state agencies named on the grants that supported <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> and MyWayFinder were able to provide details about how the money was spent, and both noted that they had no control over the grants.</p><p>A tangled ownership structure also makes tracking spending more difficult. The state grants were entrusted to the United Way of Greater Rochester, which has housed <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> since the task force formed in 2015. All of <span class="caps">RMAPI</span>’s employees are United Way of Greater Rochester employees.</p><p>While <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> spearheaded the development of MyWayFinder, it has since transferred operation of the platform to another organization called TogetherNow, which also started off as part of the United Way of Greater Rochester. TogetherNow spun off into its own nonprofit organization earlier this year. </p>																									<p>John Kaehny of Reinvent Albany said MyWayFinder’s transfer to a new operator raises questions about potential misuse of state dollars, especially if TogetherNow intends to expand the platform beyond the region. He recommended that the state open a financial probe into the matter. </p><p>The United Way of Greater Rochester charged the state $1.2 million per year to manage a five-year grant on <span class="caps">RMAPI</span>’s behalf while it was developing MyWayFinder but declined to share a breakdown of how it spent the $6 million total. State documents show an unspecified part of the annual fee went toward the salaries of United Way of Greater Rochester employees not directly involved in either <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> or MyWayFinder, such as <span class="caps">CEO</span> Jaime Saunders. <a href="https://projects.propublica.org/nonprofits/organizations/161015782">Recent tax filings</a> show Saunders earned over $365,000 annually as the nonprofit’s top executive in 2024.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/AkOahqebXb8sehQN5Dc1N1uImttQPGizavD_35JsbGY/w:1000/h:705/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9qb2UtbW9yZWxsZS5qcGc.jpg" alt="Congressman Joe Morelle stands and speaks at a podium." class=" size-full " /><figcaption>Congressmember Joe Morelle is often described as the architect behind RMAPI’s creation in 2015, when he served as a state assemblymember.  / Mike Groll/Office of Governor Kathy Hochul</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p> </p><p>United Way of Greater Rochester declined an interview request and responded to only some questions from New York Focus.</p><p><span class="caps">RMAPI</span> Executive Director Aqua Porter said her task force is independent from United Way of Greater Rochester, despite the fact that she is listed in tax filings as an employee of the nonprofit. Porter said <span class="caps">RMAPI</span>’s budget over the past five years has hovered around $1 million annually, with state dollars accounting for as little as a third of overall funding at times. She declined to provide a full accounting of all state dollars <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> has received since 2015. </p><p>Because <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> is not a separate entity, it is not subject to <span class="caps">IRS</span> public reporting rules for nonprofits. “No matter the funding sources, <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> has always been an effective and deeply responsible steward of any money we receive,” Porter wrote in an email. </p><p>Porter’s low six-figure salary was among 18 United Way of Greater Rochester positions funded by state grants earmarked for the development of MyWayFinder, according to state records. She has served as head of <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> since 2020, taking over when the group’s last leader resigned after concerns from community members about <a href="https://rochesterbeacon.com/2018/10/25/is-rmapi-misunderstood/">the task force’s effectiveness turned personal</a>, according to the Rochester Beacon.</p><p>Like United Way of Rochester, <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> does not provide direct services to the public. Its main function is convening a steering committee that includes several prominent lawmakers and local politicians, though it does not identify as a think tank or a lobbying group and is not subject to state ethics rules.</p><p>Congressman Joe Morelle — often described as the architect behind <span class="caps">RMAPI</span>’s creation in 2015, when he served as a state assemblymember — did not respond to requests for comment. Morelle has been a fixture at <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> events, attending a celebration for MyWayFinder last summer.</p><p>Asked about <span class="caps">RMAPI</span>’s legacy, Porter pointed to the group’s advocacy for policy changes such as the <a href="https://www.tax.ny.gov/pit/credits/empire_state_child_credit.htm">Empire State child tax credit,</a> <a href="https://www.rochester.edu/newscenter/university-commits-to-15-minimum-wage-by-2022-as-part-of-rmapi-efforts-469302/">raising the state’s minimum wage</a>, and a pilot run of <a href="https://www.cityofrochester.gov/departments/mayors-office/guaranteed-basic-income">Rochester’s Guaranteed Basic Income program</a>. “<span class="caps">RMAPI</span> has brought to Rochester an element that had not previously existed, a central organization that sets common goals and leads the hard work,” she wrote in an email. “While systemic change takes time, we can see the results.”</p>																									<p>Laura Gustin, executive director at TogetherNow, which now runs MyWayFinder, wrote in an email that her organization has set a new target to fully connect 15 percent of all services listed on MyWayFinder by 2028. As of June 2026, <a href="https://my-wayfinder.org/our-impact">an impact tracker</a> on MyWayFinder indicated 125 out of 3,361 total services listed on the platform – or fewer than 4 percent — are fully connected. </p><p>Gustin pointed out that MyWayFinder has been used over 200,000 times by more than 40,000 unique users and has a <a href="https://www.togethernowny.org/engaged-partners/">growing list of partner organizations</a>. She noted that her staff have trained over 1,100 service providers to use MyWayFinder, but didn’t respond to follow-up questions about why she thinks relatively few have chosen to fully connect to the platform. </p><p>Keeping MyWayFinder up and running for its relatively small user base isn’t cheap. Gustin said that annual licensing fees for the website currently cost $1.4 million. It’s not clear whether state funds are footing this bill. Neither Porter nor Gustin provided more details about these ongoing fees. The platform itself was designed by <span class="caps">IBM</span>, which was hired by United Way of Greater Rochester as a subcontractor using state grant money.</p>																									<p>Some community members remain hopeful that MyWayFinder could represent a promising new solution moving forward.</p><p>The platform has helped local residents navigate new federal changes to the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program, also known as food stamps. In March, new work requirements went into effect for thousands of Monroe County residents who rely on food assistance. The county directed <span class="caps">SNAP</span> households to a screening tool on MyWayFinder, which helped them identify if they were subject to the new mandate using a questionnaire. </p><p>The platform and <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> continue to receive strong political support. </p><p>Among <span class="caps">RMAPI</span>’s most enduring supporters is Assemblymember Harry Bronson, who represents Rochester and has served on the task force’s steering committee since 2015. </p><p>Bronson’s office declined to provide Focus with a full accounting of all state money the assemblymember has directed to the task force, but <a href="https://assembly.state.ny.us/mem/Harry-B-Bronson/story/110975">press releases</a> and agency records indicate he is responsible for shepherding at least $10.5 million to the group.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/ZtZbBpen7pG0R7ZIvdkw0JNUdZk0C3YRXvhOU-4Ch40/w:1000/h:666/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9oYXJyeS1icm9uc29uLmpwZw.jpg" alt="Assemblymember Harry Bronson standing and speaking." class=" size-full " /><figcaption>Assemblymember Harry Bronson is among RMAPI’s most enduring supporters.  / New York state Assembly Majority</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p> </p><p>“The funds I have requested for <span class="caps">RMAPI</span>’s continued work bolsters their ability to do outreach, retain staff and facilitate vital community collaboration necessary for our area to persist in addressing poverty and creating upward mobility,” he wrote in a statement. “One of the most significant successes of <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> has been in raising awareness that poverty does not only occur in the City of Rochester, as is commonly believed, but also affects those living in the surrounding rural and suburban areas of Monroe County.”</p><p>Bronson was among those who attended a <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbOHUuz0HC0">2023 <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> event</a> where Rochester Mayor Malik Evans spoke positively of the group’s efforts, <a href="https://www.minorityreporter.net/post/rmapi-lays-out-2023-agenda-to-tackle-area-poverty-local-leaders-pledging-support">calling it</a> “a framework for change that is bold in ambition yet constructive in scope to confront the single greatest challenge of our entire region.” Monroe County Executive Adam Bello said <span class="caps">RMAPI</span>’s efforts had helped make the region “more prosperous and equitable.” Neither responded to requests for comment from New York Focus.</p><p>Some advocates say that raising awareness and fully connecting clients to a few dozen providers falls far short of <span class="caps">RMAPI</span>’s original goals. </p><p>While Valeria of Open Door welcomed <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> with hope back in 2015, she said she has yet to see measurable outcomes from the group’s efforts over the past decade. </p><p>“We get lost in the aspiration,” she said. </p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ Bill Stalled in Assembly Could Determine Fate of Hundreds of Sexual Assault Cases ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/06/05/new-york-assembly-bill-adult-survivors-sexual-assault ]]> </link>
<category> <![CDATA[ Criminal Justice ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ New York State ]]> </category>
<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ The legislation would make it easier for currently and formerly incarcerated people and child victims to sue the state over allegations of past abuse. ]]> </description>
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																			<p>As Governor Kathy Hochul’s administration fights more than 1,600 lawsuits alleging sexual abuse in New York prisons, it has sought to dismiss certain cases based on strict court filing requirements. Legislation now pending in Albany could change that — but it’s been stalled during the legislative session set to end this week.</p><p>When someone sues the state government, they must bring their case to the Court of Claims. Yet to file a case there, they need to know the exact date, time, and place where a state official harmed them. For the second year in a row, the state Senate has <a href="https://nyassembly.gov/leg/?default_fld=&amp;leg_video=&amp;bn=S09848&amp;term=2025&amp;Summary=Y&amp;Actions=Y">passed a bill</a> that would lift those requirements in cases involving allegations of sexual assault, while the Assembly has failed to advance it.</p><p>At a press conference Tuesday, Assemblymember Linda Rosenthal, its prime Assembly sponsor, urged lawmakers to pass the bill. </p><p>“This is not something that should wait until next year, because people are suffering now,” she said. “People’s cases are going to vanish.”</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/gXMxtyT1UxwEjmFuezJPBS4ePM-6IP7s4fzE84b-lJ0/w:1000/h:1500/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9saW5kYS1yb3NlbnRoYWwuanBn.jpg" alt="Photo of Assemblymember Linda Rosenthal standing and speaking." class=" size-full " /><figcaption>Assemblymember Linda Rosenthal  / New York State Assembly Majority</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p> </p><p>The 1,600 cases stem from the Adult Survivors Act, a law that temporarily opened the statute of limitations for lawsuits alleging sexual abuse against adults. An earlier law, the Child Victims Act, opened a similar window for people allegedly abused as children. Lawmakers involved with the passage of those bills <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/12/22/prison-adult-survivors-act-doccs-sexual-assault-typo-dismissed">say they</a> never meant for filing requirements to stymie cases.</p><p>In other civil courts — like the state’s supreme courts, where <a href="https://gothamist.com/news/late-night-sex-assaults-invasive-searches-the-700-women-alleging-abuse-at-rikers">hundreds of women</a> have filed Adult Survivors Act suits against New York City over sexual abuse by Rikers Island jail staff —  claimants can initiate cases by providing limited details, then gather more evidence through discovery. But in cases filed against New York state, judges have ruled that they need to share more information at the outset. </p><p>“Everything we know about the psychology of sexual abuse and rape trauma is that survivors actively suppress the memories of the abuse, and that they have difficulty recalling small details about it,” said Konstantin Yelisavetskiy, a partner at the law firm Slater Slater Schulman, which represents about 1,200 of the claimants suing the state. It’s also inherently difficult, he said, for any incarcerated person to keep precise track of time in prison. </p><p>“When you take those two things and you put them together,” he added, it’s an even greater burden. “So to not remove this harsh, inhumane requirement is effectively blocking their ability to attain justice,” he said.</p>																																			<p>In a consequential decision <a href="https://www.timesunion.com/capitol/article/hundreds-sexual-abuses-cases-imperiled-court-20227846.php">last year</a>, the Court of Appeals, New York’s highest court, ordered the Court of Claims to dismiss a case filed under the Child Victims Act because the claimant could not provide a precise date for alleged abuse. The case set the bar for how to apply the strict requirements to the thousands of old cases filed under the two laws.</p><p>The proposed state law, which passed the Senate last month by a 57–3 margin, would remove those requirements for pending cases and apply retroactively to cases dismissed under the current filing requirement that are subject to potential appeal. </p><p>Last year, Assembly Speaker Carl Heastie’s office expressed concerns over the degree to which the bill would relax pleading standards, and about changing the law in a way that would impact pending cases, according to a person familiar with the discussions. Heastie’s office, which has remained noncommittal about the bill this year, did not immediately respond to a request for comment.</p><p>During a court conference last October, attorneys for the Department of Corrections and Community Supervision said the state was <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/12/22/prison-adult-survivors-act-doccs-sexual-assault-typo-dismissed">planning to ask</a> judges to throw out 500 cases based on the filing requirements, according to Yelisavetskiy and another attorney, who collectively represent hundreds of women in the cases. Attorney General Letitia James’s office, which represents <span class="caps">DOCCS</span>, has sought dismissal of cases based on the Court of Claims filing requirements. Her office did not immediately respond to a question about whether she supports the bill.</p>																																			<p>Hochul’s office said the governor “remains committed to supporting victims and survivors of sexual assault and will review all legislation that passes both houses of the state legislature.” </p><p>Meanwhile, <span class="caps">DOCCS</span>, a Hochul administration agency represented by James’s office, has sought to use the current filing requirements to its legal advantage.</p><p>In one case, for instance, James’s office <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/12/22/prison-adult-survivors-act-doccs-sexual-assault-typo-dismissed">convinced a judge</a> to throw out a case because the claim included the wrong date of the alleged abuse — a mistake also included in the prison agency’s own records.</p><p>In another, James’s office asked a judge to toss a case because <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> could not locate a record of an alleged abuser — even <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/02/20/adult-survivors-act-sexual-assault-groveland-fitzpatrick-doccs-attorney-general">though New York Focus</a> was able to quickly locate the record, leading James’s office to withdraw its request.</p><p>Last year, the legislature passed a bill relaxing the pleading standard for sexual assault cases going forward. But it did not apply retroactively, so it did not cover cases filed under the Child Victims and Adult Survivors laws.</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ What’s in the 2026 State Budget? Here’s What To Know. ]]> </title>
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																			<p>It’s two months late, but it’s finally here: New York state’s $269 billion budget.</p><p>The big story of this year’s budget was the face-off between Governor Kathy Hochul and New York City Mayor Zohran Mamdani, who made “tax the rich” a rallying cry of his campaign. Even as she stumped for Mamdani last fall, Hochul was adamant that she would not raise taxes on the wealthy. </p>																																			<p>In the end, they split the baby. Mamdani didn’t get what he most wanted: a tax hike on New York’s top earners. But he did get <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/05/27/new-york-state-budget-city-aid-mamdani-hochul">billions of dollars</a> from the state to plug a hole in the city’s budget, new funding for child care, and a tax on luxury second homes in New York City, giving him something to burnish his socialist cred.</p><p>Hochul and Mamdani also had to contend with major federal cuts and threats from President Donald Trump about more pain to come. The governor and mayor have managed to stay on good terms. As the budget neared completion, Mamdani said in a <a href="https://www.nyc.gov/mayors-office/news/2026/05/governor-hochul-and-mayor-mamdani-announce-additional-aid-and-st">statement</a> that they had “partnered through every step of the process.”</p><p>The budget contains hundreds of new programs and laws. Some of the most important: limits on <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/05/22/hochul-budget-new-york-immigration-protections-collaboration-deal">police collaboration with <span class="caps">ICE</span></a>, a significant weakening of the state’s <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/05/27/new-york-state-budget-city-aid-mamdani-hochul">landmark climate law</a>, and removal of a <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/05/27/new-york-budget-seqra-housing-environment">major barrier to new housing</a> statewide.</p><p>We’ve pored over thousands of pages of budget documents to make this guide, which will tell you about several dozen of the most important decisions lawmakers made this budget cycle. In the chart below, you can see where each party stood and what made it into the final deal. Below that, you can find written descriptions using the drop-down menus. Happy reading!</p>																																		<div class="flourish-embed flourish-table" data-src="visualisation/29165630"><script src="https://public.flourish.studio/resources/embed.js"></script><noscript><img src="https://public.flourish.studio/visualisation/29165630/thumbnail" width="100%" alt="table visualization" /></noscript></div>
																
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<title> <![CDATA[ How Generous Partners Are Helping Saprea Raise Child Sexual Abuse Awareness  ]]> </title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 18 May 2026 14:28:57 +0000</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ <p>Over the past year, Saprea’s donors and partners—including YESCO and the RLC Family Foundation—have made it possible to expand awareness of child sexual abuse through impactful billboard campaigns, reaching communities with messages of prevention, hope, and healing. </p>
<p>The post <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/saprea-billboard-awareness-yesco-rlc-family-foundation/">How Generous Partners Are Helping Saprea Raise Child Sexual Abuse Awareness </a> appeared first on <a href="https://saprea.org">Saprea</a>.</p>
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But awareness doesn’t happen on its own. It takes a community of committed partners and donors who are willing to invest in making the unseen visible.</p>
<p>Over the past year, that impact has been made possible through the generosity of our supporters and key partners, including <a href="https://www.yesco.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">YESCO</a> and <a href="https://rlcfamilyfoundation.org/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">RLC Family Foundation</a>.</p></h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e36440-e24 ms48-1 ms48-2 ms48-4 ms48-6 ms48-8 ms48-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e25 ms48-f ms48-i ms48-k ms48-l ms48-p ms48-r ms48-s ms48-v ms48-w ms48-y ms48-z ms48-14 ms48-1a"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e26 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e27 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2g ms48-2j ms48-2k ms48-2l ms48-2o ms48-2p ms48-2q ms48-2r ms48-2s"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Donated Billboard Advertising Supports Child Sexual Abuse Awareness</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e28 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-24 ms48-25"><p>Through donated and funded billboard advertising, these partners have helped bring Saprea’s message into communities in a bold, public way.</p>  
 
<p>Billboards have the unique ability to reach people where they are—on their daily commutes, in their neighborhoods, and throughout their cities. Because of this generosity, critical messages about prevention, healing, and hope have reached thousands who may not have otherwise encountered them.</p>  
 
<p><strong>This kind of visibility matters.</strong> It helps normalize conversations around a difficult topic, encourages individuals to seek help, and empowers communities to take action.</p> </div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e36440-e29 ms48-1 ms48-2 ms48-3 ms48-5 ms48-6 ms48-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e30 ms48-f ms48-i ms48-k ms48-l ms48-p ms48-r ms48-s ms48-v ms48-w ms48-y ms48-z ms48-14 ms48-1b"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e31 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p ms48-1y"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e36440-e32 ms48-1 ms48-2 ms48-3 ms48-4 ms48-6 ms48-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e33 ms48-f ms48-i ms48-k ms48-l ms48-p ms48-r ms48-s ms48-v ms48-w ms48-y ms48-z ms48-14 ms48-1c"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e34 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e35 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2g ms48-2j ms48-2k ms48-2l ms48-2o ms48-2p ms48-2q ms48-2r ms48-2s"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Where Has Saprea’s Billboard Campaign Reached?</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e36 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-24 ms48-25 ms48-26"><p>Over the last year, the support of donors and partners like YESCO and the RLC Family Foundation has allowed Saprea to significantly expand awareness efforts through billboard campaigns.</p>
 
<p>These messages have been displayed along I-15 in Utah and surrounding areas and have served as a constant reminder that:</p>
<ul>  
<li>Healing is possible.</li> 
<li>Support is available.</li> 
<li>Prevention starts with awareness and education.</li> 
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 </div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e37 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-24 ms48-25"><p>What began as an act of generosity has grown into a sustained effort to reach more people, more often, with messages that matter.</p> </div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e36440-e38 ms48-1 ms48-2 ms48-3 ms48-4 ms48-6 ms48-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e39 ms48-f ms48-i ms48-k ms48-l ms48-p ms48-r ms48-s ms48-v ms48-w ms48-y ms48-z ms48-14 ms48-1d"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e40 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e41 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2g ms48-2j ms48-2k ms48-2l ms48-2o ms48-2p ms48-2q ms48-2r ms48-2s"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Why Partnerships Like This Matter</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e42 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-24 ms48-25"><p>Awareness campaigns at this scale require more than visuals—they require partnership.</p>
<p>By donating billboard spaces and funding these efforts, YESCO and the RLC Family Foundation have played a critical role in helping Saprea extend its reach far beyond traditional channels. Their support ensures that conversations about child sexual abuse are not confined to small spaces but are brought into the public eye, where they can inspire change.</p>
<p>These partnerships demonstrate what’s possible when businesses and philanthropic organizations align their resources with a mission that impacts lives.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e36440-e43 ms48-1 ms48-2 ms48-3 ms48-4 ms48-6 ms48-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e44 ms48-f ms48-k ms48-l ms48-n ms48-p ms48-r ms48-v ms48-y ms48-10 ms48-11 ms48-14 ms48-1e"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e45 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e46 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2e ms48-2k ms48-2l ms48-2n ms48-2o ms48-2p ms48-2q ms48-2t ms48-2u"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Grateful for a Community That Shows Up</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e47 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-24 ms48-25"><p><strong>To our donors, partners, and supporters: Thank you!</strong></p>
<p>Your generosity is helping create a world where more people are informed, more survivors are supported, and more communities are equipped to prevent sexual abuse.</p>
<p>Because of you, awareness is not limited to a moment—it is sustained throughout the year, reaching individuals and families when they need it most.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e36440-e48 ms48-1 ms48-2 ms48-4 ms48-6 ms48-7 ms48-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e49 ms48-f ms48-i ms48-k ms48-l ms48-p ms48-r ms48-s ms48-v ms48-w ms48-y ms48-z ms48-14 ms48-1f"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e50 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e51 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2g ms48-2j ms48-2k ms48-2l ms48-2o ms48-2p ms48-2q ms48-2r ms48-2s"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How to Support Child Sexual Abuse Awareness</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e52 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-24 ms48-25"><p>While this past year has been impactful, the need for awareness continues. With the ongoing support of partners like YESCO and the RLC Family Foundation, Saprea will continue to expand its reach and bring critical messages to the community.</p> 
 
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<title> <![CDATA[ New State Law Could Unlock Thousands of Child Care Seats, Critics See Risks ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/05/12/new-york-universal-child-care-staffing-ratios-day-care-hochul-ocfs ]]> </link>
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<pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ The Hochul administration now has a chance to relax New York&#039;s child care staffing ratios — among the country&#039;s strictest — after 26 years. But will it? ]]> </description>
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																			<p>Despite having room to serve more children, Middletown day care owner Peggy Fuentes often has to turn away families in desperate need of care. Each of her toddler classrooms has 10 students — the state caps class sizes for that age group at 12 — but to fill the remaining seats, she’d have to hire another employee. That’s because a decades-old state regulation says day care classrooms have to have one adult for every five children between 18 and 36 months old.</p><p>With operating costs climbing across the board, <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/09/18/new-york-energy-bill-hikes">from utilities</a> <a href="https://hechingerreport.org/surging-insurance-costs-are-threatening-the-future-of-child-care/">to insurance</a>, Fuentes said it simply isn’t feasible to pay another salary to accommodate just two more children. </p><p>“I have an inventory of child care spots that I’m reluctant to use because it is cost prohibitive,” said Fuentes, owner of On My Way Early Learning and Childcare Center, which serves around 240 children under 13. </p><p>New York state has some of the strictest staffing requirements in the country — stricter, in fact, than New York City’s. As state leaders allocate billions of dollars to address the child care shortage in this year’s budget, a new state law could ease those requirements and unlock new day care seats at no additional cost to providers — but only if the state agency that oversees child care decides to act on it.  </p>																								<div class="newsroomBlockQuoteContainer">
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										<p>“There’s a child care crisis in New York. If we can’t use our full supply of seats, then that crisis is just going to continue.” </p>
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										—Peggy Fuentes, Middletown day care owner									</h5>
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																									<p>In December, Governor Kathy Hochul signed legislation eliminating a provision <a href="https://ocfs.ny.gov/programs/childcare/regulations/390-SSL-Child-Day-Care.pdf">in a 2000 social services law</a> that has prohibited the state Office of Children and Family Services from relaxing child care staffing ratios. The new law leaves it to the agency to actually change the ratios; if it did so, the same number of workers could care for more children.  </p><p>State Senator James Skoufis, who introduced the bill in 2024, told New York Focus that adjusting the ratios is “more critical than ever” amid the state’s ongoing efforts to scale up its child care sector and provide more affordable care to working parents. </p><p>Child care advocates who oppose the change are concerned having the same number of staff supervising more children would increase the risk of accidents and injuries and fail to address a root cause of the state’s child care crisis: low wages for workers. </p><p>Supporters counter that looser ratios are consistent with <a href="https://www.naeyc.org/sites/default/files/globally-shared/downloads/PDFs/accreditation/early-learning/staff_child_ratio_0.pdf">national norms</a> set by the National Association for the Education of Young Children, a professional membership organization that promotes high-quality early childhood education, and that alignment with the group’s guidance would offer flexibility to providers who already operate with razor-thin profit margins. </p><p>So far, <span class="caps">OCFS</span> has not indicated whether it plans to update the regulations. In a statement provided to New York Focus, <span class="caps">OCFS</span> spokesperson Daniel Marans said the agency is “currently assessing the viability of the requested ratio change, with the goal of supporting child care providers without compromising our commitment to child safety.” The law does not impose a deadline for <span class="caps">OCFS</span> to make the switch.</p><p>More than 60 percent of New York’s census tracts are classified as a “child care desert,” meaning that there are three or more children under 5 waiting for every available slot, according to the <a href="https://ocfs.ny.gov/programs/childcare/deserts/">state Office of Children and Family Service</a>. Meanwhile, more than 16,000 children are <a href="https://empirestatechildcare.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/Empire-State-Campaign-Workforce-Shortage-Survey-Press-Release-2.24.25.pdf">unable to receive child care</a> specifically as a result of staffing shortages that have led programs to operate under capacity. While that’s not necessarily related to staffing ratios, some think easing them could help address the shortage.</p><p>“We can provide more resources to counties and to providers all we want, but if we don’t provide the very common sense flexibility that these providers require in order to effectuate creating more seats, then the money is only going to go so far,” said Skoufis.</p>																									<p>Skoufis introduced the bill after providers, including Fuentes, expressed their frustrations to lawmakers over being held to tougher ratios than their counterparts in New York City, where staffing requirements are set by the city Department of Health and Mental Hygiene. Day care providers in the five boroughs must have one staff member for every five children between 12 and 18 months and one for every six children who are 2 years old. In the rest of the state, it’s 1–4 and 1–5, respectively. The discrepancies are even wider for older children.</p>																																		<div class="flourish-embed flourish-table" data-src="visualisation/28580508"><script src="https://public.flourish.studio/resources/embed.js"></script><noscript><img src="https://public.flourish.studio/visualisation/28580508/thumbnail" width="100%" alt="table visualization" /></noscript></div>
																
																									<p>Assemblymember Andrew Hevesi, who sponsored the bill, believes aligning ratios with New York City could help thousands of those families access a seat without burdening providers or taxpayers with additional costs. </p><p>“Child care providers are operating on such slim margins that they frequently worry about going out of business,” Hevesi said. “We were looking for a way to give them some breathing room in an incredibly difficult climate without costing anybody any money.” </p><p>Dede Hill, vice president of policy at the Schuyler Center for Analysis and Advocacy, a social policy and advocacy organization, has a different perspective. “One thing that makes child care in New York state so high quality is because we have low ratios — and that’s certainly not something we want to step away from,” she said. Hill is a member of the Empire State Campaign for Child Care, which advocates for universal child care. </p><p>“I don’t think staffing ratios are the solution to the tremendous issues we have related to supply,” said Hill. The key is more investment in the workforce, including higher pay for child care workers, she said. </p><p>One reason providers are facing significant financial strain is that the state’s reimbursement level for its <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/31/child-care-vouchers-ccap-applications-waitlist-new-york">child care voucher program</a>, which covers nearly all of the cost of child care for low- and middle-income families, isn’t enough to provide high quality care, Hill said. With providers forced to absorb the shortfall, many are unable to offer adequate wages: In 2025, the annual average salary for child care workers in New York <a href="https://scaany.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/01/Workforce-2026-one-pager-Schuyler-Center.pdf">was $37,675</a>, lower than 96 percent of other jobs.</p>																																			<p>Fuentes, who has owned her day care center in Orange County for 17 years, said she currently has to choose between raising tuition for all children in order to pay another employee and waitlisting families even though there is ample space to serve them. If <span class="caps">OCFS</span> chose to align statewide staffing ratios with New York City, she said, she could enroll around 15 more children without hiring additional staff. </p><p>“There’s a child care crisis in New York,” she said. “If we can’t use our full supply of seats, then that crisis is just going to continue.” </p><p>For Heidi-Jo Brandt, president of a union representing more than 8,800 providers outside New York City, the flexibility doesn’t seem worth it. Some revisions to standards may be appropriate, such as the current 1–2 ratio for children under 2 in home-based care, she said, but a broader relaxing of staffing ratios could put children at risk. Research shows inadequate supervision is the main cause of injuries in child care settings, including <a href="https://www.yahoo.com/news/articles/multiple-violations-found-bronx-daycare-014909525.html?guccounter=1&amp;guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&amp;guce_referrer_sig=AQAAALpfn_Z2M3xjCghv8gxquoTZGkNBUE3s8autq7pyLMGpSQ1XMi83Gb1RM3oj5OChhBLu-d8MZV80_eCQLmR2109j16EYaEUWYOh0orHK7gEaW8_9xRd1vOG3qd067JQ1aFUqySnUzRshZvroNGNezarpewHExgAgX6c_F3lnzKXx">drowning</a>, <a href="https://www.nbcconnecticut.com/news/local/state-cites-ywca-in-new-britain-for-violations-after-death-of-2-year-old-who-choked-on-meatball/3649837/">choking</a>, and <a href="https://www.focusdailynews.com/lawsuit-alleges-midlothian-infants-severe-burns-caused-by-negligent-daycare/">severe burns</a> from bottle warmers. </p><p>“While it could have a tremendous impact statewide, our concern is always for the safety of children,” said Brandt.</p><p>Some<strong> </strong>research indicates that high staff-to-child ratios and smaller group sizes are critical for children’s health, safety, and development, but data on the safety outcome of ratios like New York City’s is limited.</p>																									<p>In recent years, as the child care industry has reeled from a pandemic-driven dip in enrollment and rise in operating costs, <a href="https://hechingerreport.org/states-try-to-tackle-child-care-shortages-by-lowering-standards/">over a dozen states</a> have proposed loosening their child care staffing ratios, increasing maximum group sizes, and relaxing other regulations to meet demand. Many states set ratios based on guidance from the National Association for the Education of Young Children; New York City’s ratios are roughly in line with the group’s recommendations.</p><p>Meanwhile, New York state has some of the most stringent ratios nationwide. It is <a href="https://www.niskanencenter.org/states-have-room-to-experiment-with-childcare-staffing-ratios/">one of just a handful of states</a> that uses the restrictive ratios recommended by the American Academy of Pediatrics and the American Public Health Association for 3-, 4-, and 5-year-olds. Even New York City’s staffing ratios remain stricter than those in many other states. </p><p>Skoufis first introduced the bill after then-OCFS Commissioner Suzanne Miles-Gustave informed him that aligning statewide ratios with New York City would require legislation. At the time, he said, <span class="caps">OCFS</span> officials “made it crystal clear” they wanted to pursue the changes, though he’s less clear on their position today. </p><p>In a January letter to current <span class="caps">OCFS</span> Commissioner DaMia Harris-Madden, Skoufis argued that it is “financially unreasonable” to require a 1–5 staff-to-child ratio for 18- to 36-month-olds with a maximum group size of 12. </p><p>Hevesi said that he believes the agency should “act sooner rather than later” given the potential benefits. </p>																																			<p>“My instinct is that there’s going to be support to look at this and see what’s appropriate — but my role was just to take the handcuffs off and now they are free to do whatever they feel is appropriate,” he said.</p><p>Buffalo day care owner Emily Thrasher pointed out that New York City and state regulations differ on other aspects of child care: The city also has more lenient classroom space requirements than the rest of the state, as well as different age group definitions that determine other regulations. For example, New York City defines a toddler as a child between 12 and 24 months old, while New York state’s definition is 18 to 36 months. </p><p>Thrasher said full alignment with New York City’s standards would allow her small business to generate hundreds of thousands of additional dollars annually. That, in turn, would enable her to serve more families.</p><p>“I can’t even imagine how much that would compound for larger day care centers,” she said. “We could help more families, open more slots, pay our staff more. … The changes seem small, but it would make the biggest difference.” </p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ These Kids Trekked Hundreds of Miles to Reunite With Their Parents. The Feds Kept Them Separated for Months. ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/05/13/unaccompanied-kids-immigrant-habeas-orr-detained-parents ]]> </link>
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<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ Trump administration rules are keeping immigrant kids detained, even when their parents are available to care for them. Families are using a new legal tool to free them. ]]> </description>
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																			<p>Maria, a 34-year-old construction worker, learned last November that her 11-year-old son had crossed the southern border into the United States with his cousins. They’d traveled from Ecuador, wading through rivers and trudging through jungle, and ended up in a foster care facility in Manhattan. Maria figured she would soon be able to bring her son to her home in Corona, Queens.</p>																									<p>She gave the federal Office of Refugee Resettlement (<span class="caps">ORR</span>), which had custody of her son, all the documents it requested  — identification, a letter from her employer, paystubs. She got fingerprinted and let federal workers inspect her home. Then she waited. In the interim, Maria was only able to visit her son, Maykel, for two hours roughly every 15 days. She felt like she was living for those two hours, she said.</p><p>Months passed, and Maria grew more and more concerned. Maykel’s clothes and shoes were always dirty, and he told her he was afraid of being deported, she said. In March, a caseworker called with an update.</p><p>“You know that paperwork you sent — the letters, the checks, all that?” she recalled him saying. “Now it’s all expired.” (<span class="caps">ORR</span> policies say certain required documents are only valid for 60 or 90 days.) He told her she’d have to submit new documents before getting her son back.</p>																																			<p>Maria reunited with Maykel in late March — after she sued. She hired an attorney, Reuben Kerben, whose firm filed a petition alleging that <span class="caps">ORR</span>’s refusal to release Maykel amounted to illegal detention. Before a judge could rule on the petition, the agency finally released him and his five cousins.</p><p>“I brought him home with me to hug him, feed him, buy him clothes — to do everything the way it should be done,” she said.</p><p>Maria and Maykel, whom New York Focus is identifying only by their first names to avoid jeopardizing their ongoing immigration cases, are among a growing number of families in New York and across the country fighting the government to release their children from monthslong detentions in shelter facilities.</p><p>In most of these cases, children give themselves up to immigration authorities after crossing the southern border without adults in the hopes of uniting with parents or other family already in the <span class="caps">US</span>. The reunification process used to take about a month, but President Donald Trump’s administration imposed new vetting procedures for guardians.</p><p>Now, reunification drags out for so long that families question whether the government intends to release their children at all: The average length of stay in <span class="caps">ORR</span> shelters hit about 200 days in March, up from 30 days in fiscal year 2024.  The Trump administration <a href="https://acf.gov/media/press/2025/acf-reveals-dangers-inadequate-sponsor-vetting-after-horrific-abuse-case-involving">contends that</a> stricter vetting protects children from abuse and trafficking, but advocates believe it’s intended to deter new arrivals, intimidate family members, and expose them to immigration enforcement.</p>																																		<div class="flourish-embed flourish-chart" data-src="visualisation/28943283"><script src="https://public.flourish.studio/resources/embed.js"></script><noscript><img src="https://public.flourish.studio/visualisation/28943283/thumbnail" width="100%" alt="chart visualization" /></noscript></div>
																
																									<p>Like Maria, desperate family members have turned to the courts to get their children out of government custody. They’ve started filing habeas corpus petitions, which allege that the prolonged shelter stays amount to unlawful detention. Such petitions have become <a href="https://projects.propublica.org/habeas-tracker/">adult immigrants’ best hope</a> of escaping Immigration and Customs Enforcement detention since the second Trump administration all but eliminated bond hearings. Now, <a href="https://news.bloomberglaw.com/us-law-week/migrant-children-fight-prolonged-custody-in-us-with-habeas-cases">attorneys are using them</a> to get unaccompanied immigrant kids out of <span class="caps">ORR</span> shelters — something that was almost unheard of prior to last year, several said.</p><p>Across the country, lawyers have filed habeas petitions for at least four dozen kids in <span class="caps">ORR</span> custody since last year, according to a New York Focus review of federal court documents and interviews with attorneys. For some of the kids, it was their second time in <span class="caps">ORR</span> custody: The agency re-detained them after a run-in with <span class="caps">ICE</span> and put their previously approved sponsor through additional vetting.</p><p>The tally includes at least six kids in <span class="caps">ORR</span> custody in New York City: Maykel and three of his cousins, as well as two siblings from Mexico, ages 9 and 17, who spent more than seven months in custody.</p><p>All of Maykel’s cousins have now been released to their parents.</p><p>“We completed everything they asked of us,” said Luis, one of Maria’s brothers, whose 3-year-old son was confined with Maykel. “Even then, we couldn’t get them out.” Like Maria, he only got his son home after his lawyer filed a habeas petition.</p><p>“With each passing day, it became more and more difficult,” he said.</p>																									<p>The Trump administration’s new vetting procedures for guardians of unaccompanied kids have made lawsuits necessary, attorneys and advocates for immigrant youth say.</p><p>Family members trying to reunite with their children are required to submit to <span class="caps">DNA</span> testing and fingerprinting. Guardians also need to show identification documents that are difficult for undocumented immigrants to obtain. They must attend in-person appointments to verify their documents, sometimes at <span class="caps">ICE</span> offices — a risk for undocumented parents or those seeking asylum, as the Trump administration rescinded Biden-era rules blocking <span class="caps">ORR</span> from sharing sponsors’ information with immigration enforcement authorities. The California Newsroom reported that <a href="https://www.kvcrnews.org/2026-03-25/migrant-children-detained-in-southern-california-used-as-bait-to-arrest-and-deport-their-parents">more than 100 people</a> have been arrested while trying to get their kids out of <span class="caps">ORR</span> custody since last year.</p><p>The new policies also allow <span class="caps">ORR</span>, which falls under the federal Department of Health and Human Services, to disqualify potential sponsors based on their immigration status, making it potentially impossible for some families to qualify as sponsors for their children.</p>																								<div class="newsroomBlockQuoteContainer">
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										<p>“When we were wading through the rivers, when we were most struggling, reaching our parents was the only thing on our minds.”</p>
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										—Lizeth, 15									</h5>
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																									<p>“It has come to the point where <span class="caps">ORR</span> is not functioning as it was intended,” said Becky Wolozin, senior attorney at the National Center for Youth Law. “It has in large part become an arm of immigration enforcement, and much like for adults, one of the only ways for a child to be released to their family is to bring a habeas at this point.”</p><p>The Trump administration has framed the new policies as a necessary corrective to its predecessor’s looser vetting standards. As the number of unaccompanied children traveling to the United States shot up after the Covid pandemic, the Biden administration pushed to speed up the sponsor vetting process to get kids out of crowded shelters more quickly. As a result, many minors wound up working in factories, slaughterhouses, hotels, and construction sites, <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/25/us/unaccompanied-migrant-child-workers-exploitation.html">The New York Times reported</a>.</p><p>Immigration attorneys say the new vetting procedures are a pretext to gather information to potentially arrest sponsors. Maykel’s aunt, Blanca, was briefly detained by <span class="caps">ICE</span> at her identification check appointment in March as she sought to gain custody of her sons Stiven, eight, and Jhon, 13, she said. That incident spurred the family to hire their attorney, who decided to file the habeas petitions.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/CFGdtcoWlDrXqWPRahP5TiCTh7NnjMaWSQc72vPo1eA/w:1000/h:1333/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9oYWJlYXMtZG9jcy0zLmpwZw.jpg" alt="" class="" /><figcaption>A page from a habeas corpus petition describes two children&#039;s separation from their mother.  / Isabelle Taft / New York Focus</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p>The six cousins, ranging in age from 3-year-old Eithan to 15-year-old Lizeth, left Ecuador last fall, after the home where they lived with their grandmother was robbed. They told New York Focus they decided to make the journey to join their parents — who arrived in New York City over the last several years — without telling them.</p><p>Lizeth, who stepped into the role of surrogate mother to her younger cousins, said the same hope motivated them as they trekked through the jungle and later as they spent months living with a foster mother.</p><p>“Our goal was simply to reach our parents,” Lizeth said. “When we were hungry, when we were wading through the rivers, when we were most struggling, reaching our parents was the only thing on our minds.”</p><p>When the children reached the southern border, immigration officials apprehended them and turned them over to <span class="caps">ORR</span>, as federal law requires. That agency houses kids by contracting with mostly state-licensed shelter and foster organizations, including more than a dozen in New York in recent years.</p><p>The kids traveled by plane to New York City and moved into a room in a foster mother’s apartment, only about 10 miles from their parents in Corona. That was when the adults started submitting paperwork, hoping to bring them home.</p><p>“Months passed, days, weeks,” said Luis. “As a father, I was in a state of desperation: What more can I do? Because we had given them all the documents they asked for and more.”</p><p>In court filings before the kids were released, <span class="caps">ORR</span> argued that the vetting process was still playing out and that the agency had agreed to expedite analysis of the <span class="caps">DNA</span> testing, after which it could reach a decision. The Department of Health and Human Services did not respond to questions about the case or about delays more broadly.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/G0qvVVeos-bARpyHOdm8qqXSKx6H_p4kpRhjjUK0R-4/w:1000/h:666/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9oYWJlYXMtZm9yLWtpZHMtMS5qcGc.jpg" alt="" class=" size-full " /><figcaption>After four months, Maria was reunited with her son Maykel and his five cousins in March.  / Isabelle Taft / New York Focus</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p> </p><p><strong>As <span class="caps">ORR</span> scrutinizes</strong> their potential sponsors, kids must go to immigration court, sometimes without representation, to answer a judge’s questions about their experiences with the process. On a recent Tuesday morning, a teenage boy wearing headphones appeared on the screen inside Judge Lisa Ling’s courtroom on Varick Street in Manhattan. He sat at what appeared to be a well-used office cubicle, shifting his weight in the black desk chair as he waited. Ling asked what was going on with his reunification.</p><p>“It’s a bit slow,” he said in Spanish. </p><p>Ling assigned him another hearing in three weeks.</p><p>Many kids who are released from <span class="caps">ORR</span> custody get out without a habeas petition. In March, 228 children and teens were released to sponsors around the country, according to federal data. But attorneys said they no longer trust the agency to handle the cases, after encountering unexplained delays, even when sponsors complete every step, and hearing about sponsors being arrested by <span class="caps">ICE</span> during the process.</p><p>The nonprofit Center for Family Representation in New York City has set up what it calls a “new family reunification project” to help parents navigate the process. Zoe Schonfeld, attorney-in-charge of the immigration practice, said the project is currently representing 10 parents with children in <span class="caps">ORR</span> custody. They talk parents through every step of the process, explain the risks, and push back on requirements like appointments at federal Department of Homeland Security offices.</p>																								<div class="newsroomBlockQuoteContainer">
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																									<p>“But we can’t assure them that as a result of working to get their kids back, they won’t face detention,” Schonfeld said. </p><p>Knowing that their families are struggling or in danger of deportation worsens the toll the lengthy detentions take on children, said Emily Norman, East Coast regional director for Kids in Need of Defense, which provides legal representation for unaccompanied immigrant children.</p><p>“There’s anxiety and depression, I think a feeling of helplessness when it’s not clear why they’re not being let out,” Norman said. “Kids feel a lot of pressure and worry over risks that they’re putting their family members in.”</p><p>In sworn affidavits, Luis and the other parents said adults told their children that their parents would be deported if they didn’t obey the facility rules. The children told New York Focus they rarely went outside while in <span class="caps">ORR</span> custody, except to travel from their foster home to the foster facility, which was operated by the New York-based nonprofit Cayuga Centers. They cried during visits with their parents.</p><p>Cayuga Centers declined to comment for this story. </p>																																			<p>One morning, about a week after their attorneys filed the habeas petitions, Maria got a call from Cayuga Centers: “Come get your son.” The results of her <span class="caps">DNA</span> test had come through, and <span class="caps">ORR</span> had approved the children’s release. That evening, all of the cousins and their parents celebrated over fish soup, ribs, and cake at an Ecuadorian restaurant in Queens.</p><p>The Trump administration has asked the court to dismiss their habeas cases on the grounds that they are now moot. Kerben, their attorney, is opposing that, aiming to keep fighting for a judgment against the government. The cases remain open.</p><p>“I wouldn’t want other kids to suffer like our kids suffered,” Maria said. “I want them to get out, to get help, to reunite with their families.”</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ ‘I Just Need to Hug Him’: Families Say New York Is Illegally Delaying Prison Transfers ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/05/14/new-york-prison-transfers-proximity-law-delay ]]> </link>
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<category> <![CDATA[ New York State ]]> </category>
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<pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ The prison system often postpones or rejects incarcerated people’s requests to be closer to their children, jeopardizing family ties. ]]> </description>
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																			<p>When Shawna Moore’s husband, Artamion, was moved from Attica to Green Haven Correctional Facility after a disciplinary infraction, his family was punished too: Artamion was suddenly more than 300 miles from their children in Rochester. </p><p>Under a 2021 law, an incarcerated person with minor children can request what’s called a “proximity transfer” to the closest appropriate prison to their home. Shawna and Artamion quickly filed for one to get him closer, but Moore said they didn’t hear anything back for months.</p><p>She learned in January 2025 that the request was approved, but now, more than a year later, Artamion is still in Green Haven. </p><p>Moore’s experience isn’t unusual. Research by New York Focus found that the law’s implementation has slowed in recent years. The percentage of “proximity transfers” granted has dropped sharply, from nearly <a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2023/10/2023-proximity-to-minor-children-legislative-report-final.pdf">40 percent</a> of those requested in 2023 to just <a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2025/11/2025-proximity-to-minor-children-legislative-report-final.pdf">20 percent</a> last year.</p><p><a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2025/11/2025-proximity-to-minor-children-legislative-report-final.pdf">One-third</a> of the New York prison population has minor children. Research has <a href="https://l.gotourl.es/l/cb2b8b07dd5fc9f00097425e169e8c07572a0af7?notrack=1&amp;u=13587254">found</a> that regular visitation can reduce recidivism by as much as 26 percent, often by deepening family ties. It can also better the lives of children with incarcerated parents, reducing their feelings of abandonment and anxiety while improving their well-being, self-esteem, and school behavior.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/ukUfGb8oY7G8dxuLZPZFxT7sUx6T2H19530a77fWHko/w:1000/h:772/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9kb2Njcy1tYXAuanBn.jpg" alt="Map of prisons in New York" class=" size-full " /><figcaption>Green Haven Correctional Facility, where Artamion Moore is incarcerated, is over 300 miles from his children&#039;s home in Rochester.  / Map: New York state Department of Corrections and Community Supervision</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p> </p><p>For Moore, the five-hour drive and overnight stay has made it hard to visit her husband, who is serving a lengthy sentence for murder in the second degree. She is self-employed and a driver for Uber and Lyft. She only gets to see her husband once every two months or so. Their 11- and 17-year old children haven’t seen their dad since November 2025. </p><p>“They keep asking all the time when we’re going there, but it’s just such a hassle,” she said. “We’ve been waiting for over a year just to get him moved.”</p><p>Each time Moore calls the Department of Corrections and Community Supervision or his assigned counselor, she said she is told the same thing: <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> is waiting for a bed to open up. They can’t say if and where her husband will be moved.</p><p>Attica has the capacity to house <a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2023/06/attica-cf-final-prea-audit-report-6.1.2023.pdf">2,143</a> prisoners. As of late April, there were <a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2026/04/2026.04.01-uc-profile.pdf">1,846</a> people incarcerated there, according to <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> documents. Thomas Mailey, a spokesperson for <span class="caps">DOCCS</span>, said the agency “does not comment on individual transfer request cases” but added that staffing shortages may cause delays. The agency “closely monitors all available beds” and “makes every effort to process transfers as quickly as possible,” he said.</p><p>Meanwhile, many prisoners face involuntary transfers. Incarcerated people have described feeling insecurity and anxiety during <a href="https://www.themarshallproject.org/2024/12/13/sullivan-closure-new-york-green-haven-horror">these moves</a>, which may take multiple days and include multiple stops, even for small distances. Out of 96 family members and loved ones of incarcerated individuals who shared their experiences with New York Focus through a survey, 41 said that their loved one had been transferred more than five times. Twenty-one said the repeated transfers made it harder to maintain contact as their loved one was moved further away from them. </p><p>There’s no limit to the number of times a prisoner can be transferred in New York state. </p>																																			<p>Also known as April’s Law, the 2021 Proximity Law was prompted in part by a <a href="https://www.brooklynpaper.com/prison-proximity-bill-passes-senate-assembly/">teenager’s appeal</a> to a Brooklyn lawmaker nearly a decade before. It requires <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> to consider the location of children when placing a parent in prison or conducting transfers. </p><p>In the first year of the law’s implementation, the agency allowed more than <a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2023/02/final-2022-proximity-to-minor-children-legislative-report-002.pdf">1,553</a> proximity transfers out of 5,987 requests. The number has plummeted since then. Between May 2024 and June 2025, only 870 incarcerated people with minor children were granted their proximity requests out of a total of <a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2025/11/2025-proximity-to-minor-children-legislative-report-final.pdf">4,349</a> incarcerated people who applied. </p><p>In its most recent report on the bill, <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> <a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2025/11/2025-proximity-to-minor-children-legislative-report-final.pdf">wrote</a> that a <a href="https://nysfocus.com/new-yorks-prison-strike">corrections officers strike</a> last year contributed to reduced and delayed transfer requests.<strong> </strong>Proximity requests can now take more than 18 months to process, depending on whether there is a bed available at the facility the person requests and a seat on the transport bus. </p><p>Kevin Nelson, a staff attorney in the Family Matters Unit at Prisoners’ Legal Services of New York, a nonprofit legal services organization, said that online “incarcerated profile reports” often show open beds in the facilities to which people hope to transfer, even when <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> has said there aren’t any. “I see a lot of clients who would be going to the general population, who are still being told that available bed space is likely a factor delaying their transfer.” </p><p>Mailey, the <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> spokesperson, said that while the agency monitors available beds, moving quickly isn’t always possible. “Due to staffing shortages and the ongoing state of emergency, which results in unstaffed beds, transfers between facilities are taking longer to complete,” he said. </p><p>When the agency improves staffing levels, Mailey said, “facilities will be better positioned to facilitate transfers more efficiently.” He noted that “aggressive” recruiting efforts are in the works.</p>																																			<p><strong><span class="caps">DOCCS</span> r</strong>eviews proximity requests on a case-by-case basis, considering factors such as facility capacity, security classification, programming needs, and the best interests of the child. Requests are denied if, for instance, there are any crimes against the child or children in question or an active order of protection involving the children or the custodial parent or guardian.</p><p>The incarcerated person can’t be serving a disciplinary confinement sanction or attending a specialized treatment program, and must be more than five months away from a scheduled parole board appearance or release.</p><p>In its 2025 report on the legislation, <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> broke down why it <a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2025/11/2025-proximity-to-minor-children-legislative-report-final.pdf">cancelled or rejected</a> 275 proximity requests. Some requests were placed too close to a parole board hearing, for example, or were withdrawn by the requester. But for the remaining 3,200 people, no explicit reason was outlined. When asked to explain the missing information, Mailey said that “requests can remain pending for a number of reasons including incomplete information and a thorough evaluation of the interest of the children involved. Some of this information is confidential and cannot be shared publicly.”</p><p>Former Democratic state Senator David Carlucci, who co-sponsored April’s bill, called the data New York Focus shared “deeply troubling,” noting in an email that it’s “not what any of us who co-sponsored this legislation intended.”</p>																																			<p>“If <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> is approving fewer than one in five proximity requests and cannot account for why the vast majority are being denied,” Carlucci wrote, “that is a transparency failure and an accountability failure.”</p><p>Nelson at Prisoners’ Legal Services said he has received 212 complaints from prisoners regarding proximity transfers.</p><p>Some said they never received documents that the non-incarcerated guardian needed to sign, Nelson explained. In other cases, <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> wrongly used an expired order of protection as justification for rejecting a transfer. Even if a court has permitted visitation or contact with the child, the department may still deny a proximity transfer.</p><p>Under certain conditions, including significant disciplinary infractions, <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> can initiate a reverse transfer.</p><p>That’s what happened to Devon Callicutt, 35, who is serving a life sentence without parole at Elmira Correctional Facility for a murder during a robbery. His wife, Shinasha Bowen, lives in Albany, more than a three-hour drive from Elmira, which is close to the Pennsylvania border. Callicutt requested to be closer to Bowen and her children in November 2023. Within a month, he was transferred to Green Haven Correctional Facility, an hour-and-a-half away.</p><p>“It was everything,” Bowen said. “The fact that he was closer, so I didn’t have to wake up at the crack of dawn.” Bowen takes her children, 12, 17, and 18, with her to see him. “They love seeing him,” she said. “It’s important they see him.”</p><p>But after getting into a fight with a fellow prisoner, Callicutt was sent to Upstate Correctional Facility, then to Clinton Correctional Facility, and eventually back to Elmira. Now Bowen gets up at 2 a.m. to ensure she gets to the prison early enough to get a good spot in line. New York’s maximum security prisons used to allow daily visitation. Since last year’s wildcat strike, visits at most prisons in New York are still <a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/visitation-updates-91525">limited</a> to one weekend day per incarcerated person.</p><p>After a reverse transfer, an incarcerated person has to wait <a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2023/02/final-2022-proximity-to-minor-children-legislative-report-002.pdf">at least a year</a> for a proximity transfer. Callicutt requested another transfer in October 2025. He and his family are still waiting.</p>																																			<p>Transfers for involuntary reasons — such as disciplinary action, programming, or a prison’s staffing needs — often upend proximity requests. Only one transfer can be in process at any given time.</p><p>Proximity transfers are “just a drop in a very large bucket,” explained Iolanthe Brooks, a PhD candidate in sociology at Northwestern University who analyzed <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> transfer data from 2020 to 2022.</p><p>A prisoner in good standing may also request a “preference transfer.” Brooks’s analysis showed that requested transfers brought incarcerated New Yorkers an average of 147 miles closer to home, but transfers for other reasons moved incarcerated people an average of 29 miles farther away from their county of conviction.</p><p>“We see that for those transfers, on average, people are actually getting moved farther from home, which is the opposite, of course, of the intent of these closer-to-home laws,” Brooks said.</p><p><a href="https://doccs.ny.gov/system/files/documents/2026/02/2026.02.01-uc-profile.pdf">Nearly 65 percent</a> of incarcerated people convicted in New York City are placed in prisons more than 100 miles from the city, according to a calculation by New York Focus. </p><p><span class="caps">DOCCS</span> has transferred Deione Gray’s 34-year-old son Unique at least 14 times over a six-year period. He was sentenced to 29 years-to-life for a murder during an attempted robbery in 2015.</p>																																			<p>Recently, Unique was transferred from Upstate Correctional Facility, a prison near the Canadian border, to Five Points, a maximum-security prison over 200 miles southwest. Each time he’s transferred, Gray has to find a new private shuttle that can take her to his prison; she doesn’t own a car and the prisons are hundreds of miles from her home in Brooklyn. Gray makes the trip as often as she can.</p><p>For Gray, the proximity law doesn’t apply — her son does not have minor children. The law does not allow transfers for incarcerated people seeking proximity to adult children, elderly parents, or other close relatives.</p><p>Proposed <a href="https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/bills/2025/A1573">state legislation</a> could provide a solution for this: It would create a pilot program for moving any incarcerated person, rather than just parents, closer to home.</p><p>“I just need to hug him,” Gray said. “I miss him so much.”</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ The Young Populist Trying to Redefine the New York Democratic Party — and We Don’t Mean Mamdani ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/05/04/james-skoufis-hudson-valley-new-york-populist-democrat ]]> </link>
<category> <![CDATA[ New York State ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ Reporting ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ Budget ]]> </category>
<pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2026 14:53:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ State Senator James Skoufis represents a redder district than almost any other Democrat in Albany. ]]> </description>
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																			<p>James Skoufis grew up in public housing in Queens — but don’t call him a “city Democrat.”</p><p>“If you were a city Democrat, I’d say go [away],” one voter told the state senator as he went door to door in the lower Hudson Valley town of Chester on the Saturday before the November general election.</p><p>We walked up and down rows of identical yellow-shingled houses as he asked residents to vote for Democrats in town and county races. </p><p>The 38-year-old state senator had canvassed the working-class housing development as many as 10 times over the 13 years he’s served as a state legislator, he told me. </p>																									<p>From the outside, it seems like a hard sell. Chester is in Orange County, where Republicans dominate politics. President Donald Trump won the county by 8 points in 2024, and Republicans have long controlled county government. Skoufis, meanwhile, describes himself as “center-left” and supports policies like higher taxes on the rich, free pre-K, and free tuition at public colleges.</p><p>But Skoufis, whose state Senate district nearly matches the county lines, thinks he’s cracked the code. He represents one of the reddest districts of any Democrat in Albany, and often brags that he is more popular than Governor Kathy Hochul among his constituents. During the past three presidential election cycles, he said, Orange County had a “surprising” number of homes sporting both Trump and Skoufis lawn signs. </p><p>That Saturday, the voter who derided city Democrats assured Skoufis he planned to vote for the Democratic slate. </p><p>“We don’t really have the commie Democrats they have down in the city,” the man said, an obvious reference to New York City’s then-Mayor-elect Zohran Mamdani. Skoufis laughed and agreed. </p><p>Skoufis does not shy away from antagonizing his Democratic Party colleagues. Last year he delivered a speech on the Senate floor accusing Hochul of running the state budget process like a “monarch.” (Later, Hochul <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2025/11/13/nyregion/skoufis-hochul-bills-veto.html">vetoed</a> seven of his bills on a single day in September.)</p>																								<div class="newsroomBlockQuoteContainer">
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																									<p>Toward the end of last year, their feud came to an end. Skoufis declined to go into detail about the resolution, but said he had a “series of conversations” with Hochul and her senior staff that calmed tensions.</p><p>“We all resolved that this fight is stupid, it’s not serving anybody well, and that we’re far better off working together,” said Skoufis, who has since reintroduced several of the bills she vetoed. His battle with the state’s most powerful politician had begun and ended unexpectedly — evidence, he said, of his philosophy that politics is often akin to “changing the tires on a moving car.”</p><p>He passed the most bills last year of any lawmaker, was appointed to the executive committee of the Democratic National Committee (after a failed long-shot bid to serve as chair), and <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/08/22/new-york-cdpap-hearing-skoufis">led oversight hearings</a> into Hochul’s overhaul of the state’s home care system. His outspoken and sometimes abrasive style has captured media attention and made him one of the most recognizable names in state politics.</p>																									<p>Elected officials and advocates told New York Focus that Skoufis is primarily motivated by delivering for his constituents. His ability to do so on basic issues — like renovating a courthouse, putting a splash pad in Port Jervis, and helping the town of Cornwall get funding for holiday lights on Main Street — is part of why he consistently wins reelection, they said.</p><p>He’s made enemies of some local progressive groups who believe he was a key force in watering down the 2024 <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2024/05/13/good-cause-eviction-landlord-legislators">good cause eviction</a> law, which Skoufis vocally opposed. But critics and allies alike said he was deeply committed to the causes he chose to dedicate himself to — even if that has sometimes led him to be petulant.</p><p>“His critics aren’t wrong when they say he’s a strident, obnoxious, pain-in-the-ass,” said John Kaehny, the executive director of Reinvent Albany, a government watchdog group.  But Kaehny called him “a tremendous advocate for his constituents,” “great for Democracy in New York,” and “a very effective politician.” </p><p>Skoufis is seeking to use his success and platform to steer New York Democrats — and the national party — in a new direction. He believes that the future of the party lies north of the city, in a purple district that resembles the suburban and exurban areas where his party is battling to win back voters.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/L7dCtsCv423vqZLvLIrLXibl7L4_zIAszSmJMeteNW0/w:1000/h:666/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9za291ZmlzLXBsYXlncm91bmQuanBn.jpg" alt="" class=" size-full " /><figcaption>Senator Skoufis at a new playground in Riverlight Park along with Director of Communications Valerie Best, left, and Cornwall Town Supervisor Joshua Wojehowski, right, ahead of its inauguration in Cornwall, New York, on Nov. 21, 2025.  / Marco Postigo Storel/New York Focus</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p>At the moment, Skoufis is the lower profile young, upstart Democrat reshaping New York politics and the national party. </p><p>Skoufis said he shares Mamdani’s philosophy about politics: Both are sharply critical of the establishment and represent voters who feel politicians have failed them. While Skoufis rarely interacted with Mamdani during the socialist’s time in the Assembly — “he wasn’t super legislatively active,” Skoufis said — he noted that he has some Mamdani-esque accomplishments. He landed a legislative grant for a free bus <a href="https://www.nysenate.gov/newsroom/in-the-news/2023/james-skoufis/middletown-launches-free-bus-service-holidays-video">pilot</a> in his district, and another to dispatch social workers rather than police to respond to mental health calls. </p><p>A vocal child care advocate, Skoufis has been energized by Hochul’s promise to make pre-K universal by the 2028 school year, and made an unsuccessful push this spring to move that deadline up by a year.“That is a wonderful fight to be having, versus whether we are doing universality or not,” he said.</p><p>But politically, Skoufis hews closer to the center, and prefers the moniker “populist.”</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/jLVWw1u2sckC5YLaySUu_PT-6v1OyfiUK3c9BysRLog/w:1000/h:666/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9za291ZmlzLW1hcC5qcGc.jpg" alt="" class="" /><figcaption>James Skoufis represents one of the reddest districts of any Democrat in Albany. Cornwall, New York, Nov. 21, 2025.  / Marco Postigo Storel/New York Focus</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p>His most notably populist crusade has been against the approximately $10 billion in corporate subsidies that state and local entities grant each year. He’s brought corporate watchdogging to his role as chair of the state Senate investigations committee, where he’s held hearings on energy prices, live event ticketing, and pharmacy benefit managers. </p><p>In the 2023 state budget, he convinced the state to install a first-of-its-kind independent monitor to oversee the activities of an Orange County agency tasked with attracting corporations to the area with tax agreements. Since November, Skoufis has been locked in a battle with that office, the Orange County Industrial Development Agency, after he successfully urged the monitor to veto a 15-year, $80 million package of tax breaks for Amazon to build a 3.2 million-square-foot distribution center.</p><p>The <span class="caps">IDA</span> sued the state to overturn the veto in January. Within weeks, though, the agency’s leaders began negotiating a possible compromise with Skoufis to wind down the monitor in exchange for  reforms, such as wage floors for workers on IDA-funded projects and more input from localities before tax breaks are granted. In the end, they were unable to reach an agreement, and Skoufis is now pushing to extend the monitor’s presence for another three years in the upcoming state budget.</p><p>Skoufis has <a href="https://nypost.com/2025/11/06/us-news/nys-dems-open-up-to-zohran-mamdanis-tax-hike-plan-as-primary-threats-loom-sends-a-message/">supported</a> Mamdani’s push to <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/06/mamdani-corporate-tax-albany">raise taxes</a> on millionaires and big corporations. But he’s quick to note that the policy would have a limited impact on his constituents, even if the tax hike were ever applied statewide.</p><p>“I represent very few of them,” he said, “but if you are a millionaire in New York state, I am open and conceptually supportive of modest increases to personal income taxes.”</p><p>Elsewhere, he sharply diverges from Mamdani: The senator has declined to support statewide immigrant sanctuary legislation, although he says he wants to “protect” undocumented people who live their lives “peaceably.” And Skoufis was a high-profile opponent of congestion pricing, as well as good cause eviction.</p><p>Skoufis is skeptical of activists and believes that the average voter doesn’t care much about hot-button ideological debates.</p><p>“I don’t read a script from white papers when I’m communicating with constituents,” he said. “They don’t expect me to, they don’t want me to, and if I did, I wouldn’t win every couple of years in my district.”</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/SK2cR-K9m4CEcanVNRKmRYhbwJQrQmvckiTfbU1Ux3U/w:1000/h:666/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9za291ZmlzLWRhdWdodGVyLmpwZw.jpg" alt="" class=" size-full " /><figcaption>Senator Skoufis listens to his daughter&#039;s school presentation as they get ready for their day in Cornwall, New York, on Nov. 21, 2025.  / Marco Postigo Storel/New York Focus</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p>Skoufis has been “one of the main political faces of Orange County for a long time,” according to Chris McKenna, a local reporter in the Hudson Valley.</p><p>At the doors in Chester, Skoufis was lighthearted and seemed happy talking to his constituents. Many residents, upon opening the door, recognized him as their state senator.</p><p>An older woman wearing a New York Police Department windbreaker, a registered Republican, told Skoufis that she voted for him last year and would vote for him again. </p><p>“The [Republican] party left you,” Skoufis told her.</p><p>Middletown’s Democratic mayor, Joseph DeStefano, said that Skoufis had helped launch a program to install a “social service coordinator” in the police department to respond to police calls and help connect people with social services. After the legislative grant expired, the department made the position permanent because they had “such significant success with it,” the mayor said.</p><p>“He’s very solid on supporting police,” DeStefano said. “When a police officer was shot, he was one of the first people to call.”</p><p>Skoufis has also made allies of some Republican leaders. Port Jervis Mayor Dominic Cicalese said that Skoufis landed him legislative grants that funded 90 percent of the cost of a new police training facility. “That was tremendous of him.”</p><p>“It’s not a question of Democrat or Republican. It’s, are you bringing in the funding? Are you effective with the legislation that reaches the Senate?” said Cicalese. With Skoufis, he said, the answer to both questions is “yes.” </p><p>At the same time, he’s been a disruptive force in local politics. In 2023, Skoufis held a press conference in front of the county government center and spoke about what he has called a “complex web” of “very obvious contract fraud.” (Skoufis called the press conference “pulling a Preet Bharara,” referencing the famed <span class="caps">US</span> attorney who <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2015/12/14/nyregion/preet-bharara-us-attorney-sees-lessons-in-albany-corruption-trials.html">prosecuted</a> Albany corruption.) </p>																								<div class="newsroomBlockQuoteContainer">
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																									<p>Skoufis accused Republican County Executive Steve Neuhaus of an unethical scheme in which the county awarded a major contract to the family member of one of Neuhaus’s closest advisers. (County officials denied any wrongdoing.) </p><p>When knocking on doors, Skoufis made sure to tell voters about an <span class="caps">FBI</span> investigation into the alleged corruption. </p><p>“The average person appreciates that … when I find wrongdoing, fraud, I actually say something about it, I do something about it,” Skoufis said. </p><p>“I don’t go along to get along,” he often says.</p>																									<p>For a politician who has so effectively sold himself to voters, he is relatively quiet about his own biography. In some ways, Skoufis <i>is </i>a “city Democrat.” </p><p>“In Orange County,” he said, “quite a bit of my background might not be relatable to my constituents.”</p><p>As a young child, he lived in the same public housing development that his mother had grown up in: Pomonok, in Queens. His father was born in a rural village in the mountains of Greece and immigrated with his family to New York as a teenager. “It’s sort of the cliche ‘they came here with basically nothing but the shirts on their back’ story,” Skoufis said.</p><p>Skoufis’s parents divorced when he was young and his mother moved to Orange County to send him to better schools. She worked for the <span class="caps">US</span> Postal Service, and Skoufis’s dad opened a deli in Bay Ridge, Brooklyn.</p><p>The senator was the first in his immediate family to attend college, attending George Washington University for undergrad and Columbia University for a masters in political science. </p><p>And despite his populist bent, he is as much of a career politician as anyone: In 2012, at the age of 25, he became the youngest member of the state Assembly.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/lxn0xm-ZeM5WTzQKjRFi8SKtPNGl2fAJM7rPGExLS_E/w:1000/h:666/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9za291ZmlzLWRpcGxvbWFzLmpwZw.jpg" alt="" class=" size-full " /><figcaption>Senator Skoufis’s office wall in Cornwall, New York, on Nov. 21, 2025.  / Marco Postigo Storel/New York Focus</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p> </p><p>He won that election — against a Republican — without the support of the state’s top Democratic elected official, then-Governor Andrew Cuomo.</p><p>According to Skoufis, the Cuomo administration contacted his campaign and said they had one question for him before they could decide whether to endorse. </p><p>“I’m thinking to myself, it’s probably a question about [reproductive] choice or taxes or the environment or something big picture,” Skoufis recalled. “You know what their question was before considering an endorsement? What my position was on rail on the new Tappan Zee Bridge.”</p><p>Cuomo opposed spending money to add a rail track to the bridge, which would have been a significant expansion of commuter transit for Orange County residents. Skoufis said he supported the rail project. </p>																									<p>Skoufis told the story as evidence of his electoral prowess: He wins by delivering for his constituents on issues that shape their daily lives, while myopic state leaders put political considerations first.</p><p>A former senior Cuomo staffer, who requested anonymity because her current employer does not permit her to speak with the press, told New York Focus that Skoufis had been an outspoken critic of the previous governor, but that the office maintained a working relationship with the legislator.</p><p>Skoufis told her at the time that attacking Cuomo “works for me. I get cheered if I hit back against the governor,” she said — a line he later repeated publicly about his feud with Hochul.</p><p>“He needs to show his folks that he’s fighting against the machine,” she said.</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<p>Sexual abuse and human trafficking are being examined more openly than ever in documentary filmmaking, with a noticeable rise in projects over the past year. What we are seeing is, in many ways, an expansion of the true crime genre — but with a meaningful shift. Audiences are no longer satisfied with the what and the who. They are increasingly asking <b>why this harm occurs</b> and, more importantly, <b>how do we stop it.</b> Those two questions sit at the heart of ATSA's work and the work of our members.</p>
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<p style="color: #555555; font-size: 0.98em; margin: 0px;">Across different settings, there are recurring patterns such as gradual boundary violations, normalization within peer groups, misuse of authority, and lack of accountability. These patterns can inform risk assessment and intervention strategies.</p>
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<p style="color: #555555; font-size: 0.98em; margin: 0px;">Abuse does not occur in isolation. Organizational culture, supervision gaps, and bystander inaction are often part of the picture. This reinforces the importance of addressing not just individual behavior, but context.</p>
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<p style="color: #555555; font-size: 0.98em; margin: 0px;">Many cases include earlier warning signs that were overlooked. Understanding these moments can help shape earlier intervention and relapse prevention planning.</p>
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<p style="color: #555555; font-size: 0.98em; margin: 0px;">As these stories become more visible, individuals in treatment may be influenced by them. This can create openings for discussion around accountability, empathy, and the real-world impact of harm.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A cult expert and her filmmaker husband infiltrate the inner circle of Samuel Bateman, a self-proclaimed FLDS prophet who took multiple "wives" — including underage girls — and orchestrated abuse to consolidate control. Focused on coercion, manipulation, and abuse within a religious group, including how power and control are established and maintained.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Lizzie, a former Minnesotan Amish woman, breaks decades of silence about her sexual assault and reports her case to police, sparking a nationwide movement of Amish and Mennonite survivors. Highlights how cultural and religious expectations to "forgive and forget" can function as system-level barriers to disclosure, accountability, and prevention.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A four-part docuseries, executive produced by Curtis "50 Cent" Jackson, that traces the rise and fall of Sean "Diddy" Combs through interviews and exclusive footage tied to the sexual misconduct allegations against him. Useful for examining how celebrity, wealth, and inner-circle loyalty can shield long-running coercive behavior, and how survivor accounts surface only after a power structure begins to crack.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Director David Osit revisits Dateline's <i>To Catch a Predator</i>, tracing the people who made it, the men it captured, and the ethical fallout of turning real-life trauma into spectacle. Examines media-driven approaches to confronting offenders and raises questions about deterrence, public exposure, and behavior change.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A group of Catholic nuns — including former Sister Gloria Branciani — publicly accuse priests, including Father Marko Rupnik, of sexual and spiritual abuse and confront the Vatican's hidden patterns of cover-up. Explores abuse within a closed system and the role of authority, secrecy, and institutional response.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A three-part investigation in which former members of YouTuber Piper Rockelle's "Squad," along with their parents, detail accounts of exploitation and abuse by her manager-mother, Tiffany Smith. Useful for understanding emerging digital pathways to grooming and the unregulated environments that enable harm, including the increasingly blurred line between parent and producer.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Filmmaker Anna Hall draws on two decades of investigative work on UK gang grooming, as five women share on-camera accounts of grooming, rape, and exploitation — and the police and social services failures that allowed it to continue. Directly relevant to grooming dynamics, missed warning signs, and the institutional response gaps that allow harm to continue.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A docuseries examining the working environment behind several Nickelodeon shows of the late 1990s and 2000s, with first-hand accounts from cast and crew about misconduct, exploitation, and on-set abuse. Includes accounts of misconduct, boundary violations, and organizational blind spots that allowed harm to occur.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Japanese journalist Shiori Ito documents her own multi-year investigation and prosecution of a prominent broadcaster who sexually assaulted her, blending vérité footage, secret recordings, and first-person video. Highlights systemic barriers to accountability and the social dynamics that can discourage reporting.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A BBC Eye investigation into how prominent K-pop stars used private group chats to share evidence of sexual crimes, and the journalists who pushed the story into public view despite industry retaliation. Offers insight into group dynamics and the normalization of harm within a large-scale exploitation, trafficking, and coordinated abuse scandal.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Director Katherine Kubler reunites with former classmates from Academy at Ivy Ridge, a "behavior modification" facility marketed as a boarding school, to expose the abusive practices of the troubled-teen industry. Highlights closed-system dynamics, supervision failures, and the long-term impact of unregulated youth-treatment environments.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Photojournalist Amanda Mustard spends eight years investigating decades of sexual abuse committed by her grandfather, a trusted local chiropractor, weaving family interviews and archival home video into the inquiry. Offers insight into intra-familial dynamics, intergenerational impact, and how community standing can shield long-running offending behavior.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Award-winning journalist Mariana van Zeller embeds with operators inside global black markets — including human trafficking and sexual exploitation networks — to trace how illicit ecosystems function from the inside. Includes reporting on trafficking networks and the broader ecosystems that support exploitation.</p>
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<p>Sexual abuse and human trafficking are being examined more openly than ever in documentary filmmaking, with a noticeable rise in projects over the past year. What we are seeing is, in many ways, an expansion of the true crime genre — but with a meaningful shift. Audiences are no longer satisfied with the what and the who. They are increasingly asking <b>why this harm occurs</b> and, more importantly, <b>how do we stop it.</b> Those two questions sit at the heart of ATSA's work and the work of our members.</p>
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<p style="color: #555555; font-size: 0.98em; margin: 0px;">Across different settings, there are recurring patterns such as gradual boundary violations, normalization within peer groups, misuse of authority, and lack of accountability. These patterns can inform risk assessment and intervention strategies.</p>
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<p style="color: #555555; font-size: 0.98em; margin: 0px;">Abuse does not occur in isolation. Organizational culture, supervision gaps, and bystander inaction are often part of the picture. This reinforces the importance of addressing not just individual behavior, but context.</p>
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<p style="color: #555555; font-size: 0.98em; margin: 0px;">As these stories become more visible, individuals in treatment may be influenced by them. This can create openings for discussion around accountability, empathy, and the real-world impact of harm.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A cult expert and her filmmaker husband infiltrate the inner circle of Samuel Bateman, a self-proclaimed FLDS prophet who took multiple "wives" — including underage girls — and orchestrated abuse to consolidate control. Focused on coercion, manipulation, and abuse within a religious group, including how power and control are established and maintained.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Lizzie, a former Minnesotan Amish woman, breaks decades of silence about her sexual assault and reports her case to police, sparking a nationwide movement of Amish and Mennonite survivors. Highlights how cultural and religious expectations to "forgive and forget" can function as system-level barriers to disclosure, accountability, and prevention.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A four-part docuseries, executive produced by Curtis "50 Cent" Jackson, that traces the rise and fall of Sean "Diddy" Combs through interviews and exclusive footage tied to the sexual misconduct allegations against him. Useful for examining how celebrity, wealth, and inner-circle loyalty can shield long-running coercive behavior, and how survivor accounts surface only after a power structure begins to crack.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Director David Osit revisits Dateline's <i>To Catch a Predator</i>, tracing the people who made it, the men it captured, and the ethical fallout of turning real-life trauma into spectacle. Examines media-driven approaches to confronting offenders and raises questions about deterrence, public exposure, and behavior change.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A group of Catholic nuns — including former Sister Gloria Branciani — publicly accuse priests, including Father Marko Rupnik, of sexual and spiritual abuse and confront the Vatican's hidden patterns of cover-up. Explores abuse within a closed system and the role of authority, secrecy, and institutional response.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A three-part investigation in which former members of YouTuber Piper Rockelle's "Squad," along with their parents, detail accounts of exploitation and abuse by her manager-mother, Tiffany Smith. Useful for understanding emerging digital pathways to grooming and the unregulated environments that enable harm, including the increasingly blurred line between parent and producer.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Filmmaker Anna Hall draws on two decades of investigative work on UK gang grooming, as five women share on-camera accounts of grooming, rape, and exploitation — and the police and social services failures that allowed it to continue. Directly relevant to grooming dynamics, missed warning signs, and the institutional response gaps that allow harm to continue.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A docuseries examining the working environment behind several Nickelodeon shows of the late 1990s and 2000s, with first-hand accounts from cast and crew about misconduct, exploitation, and on-set abuse. Includes accounts of misconduct, boundary violations, and organizational blind spots that allowed harm to occur.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Japanese journalist Shiori Ito documents her own multi-year investigation and prosecution of a prominent broadcaster who sexually assaulted her, blending vérité footage, secret recordings, and first-person video. Highlights systemic barriers to accountability and the social dynamics that can discourage reporting.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A BBC Eye investigation into how prominent K-pop stars used private group chats to share evidence of sexual crimes, and the journalists who pushed the story into public view despite industry retaliation. Offers insight into group dynamics and the normalization of harm within a large-scale exploitation, trafficking, and coordinated abuse scandal.</p>
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<description> <![CDATA[ <p>Sextortion often begins on platforms teens use most, including social media, gaming chats, livestreams, and anonymous messaging apps. Understanding these high-risk spaces and teaching young people to recognize red flags can help parents protect them from online predators. </p>
<p>The post <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/where-sextortion-starts-online-platforms/">Common Platforms Where Sextortion Begins</a> appeared first on <a href="https://saprea.org">Saprea</a>.</p>
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While these spaces can offer creativity and connection, they also create opportunities for criminals who exploit trust and curiosity. <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/what-is-sextortion/">Sextortion</a> frequently begins with a seemingly harmless message, friend request, or gaming conversation. By understanding where these schemes commonly start and how perpetrators operate across platforms, parents can better recognize the risks and help their teens navigate online spaces with greater awareness and safety.</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e26 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e27 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-s mrap-t mrap-v mrap-x mrap-z mrap-1b mrap-1f"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e28 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e29 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3m mrap-3p mrap-3q mrap-3r mrap-3v mrap-3w mrap-3x mrap-3y mrap-3z mrap-40"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Where Sextortion Conversations Often Begin</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e30 mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-33 mrap-34 mrap-35"><p>Sextortion rarely starts with an obvious threat. More often, it begins in everyday digital spaces where young people already spend their time—social media feeds, gaming chats, livestream comment sections, or messaging apps. Perpetrators intentionally seek out platforms that make it easy to connect with strangers, build quick rapport, and move conversations into private messages. Understanding how these environments work—and why they appeal to criminals—can help parents recognize where risks are more likely to emerge and guide their teens in navigating these spaces more safely.</p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e31 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e32 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1g"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e33 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-2f mrap-2h mrap-2i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e34 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3j mrap-3k mrap-3m mrap-3s mrap-3v mrap-40 mrap-41 mrap-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Social Media Platforms with Direct Messaging</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e35 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>Social media represents one of the most common starting points for sextortion schemes. Perpetrators create fake online accounts with stolen photos, build followers to seem legitimate, then send direct messages to potential victims. The platform's visual nature makes it easy for perpetrators to find young people through hashtags, location tags, and suggested accounts. They comment on public posts to establish familiarity before moving to private messages. Adult perpetrators use trending media and references to seem relatable to young people.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e36 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e37 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><hr class="x-line e35377-e38 mrap-4h"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e39 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e40 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1i"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e41 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-2f mrap-2h mrap-2i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e42 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3j mrap-3k mrap-3m mrap-3s mrap-3v mrap-40 mrap-41 mrap-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Gaming Platforms and Chat Features</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e43 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>Gaming environments have become major vectors for sextortion targeting teenage boys specifically.<sup>1</sup> Messaging servers, originally designed for gamers to communicate during play, often include thousands of strangers in chat rooms. Criminals join these servers, identify young users through their voices or comments about school, then send private messages. Many games include chat features where strangers can communicate. While these platforms have some safety features, determined perpetrators find ways around them, especially when young people use third-party communication apps alongside gaming and some messaging systems connect players globally. Criminals can befriend young gamers through cooperative play, then introduce personal conversation and eventually sexual content.<sup>2</sup></p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e44 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e45 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><hr class="x-line e35377-e46 mrap-4h"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e47 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e48 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e49 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-2f mrap-2h mrap-2i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e50 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3j mrap-3k mrap-3m mrap-3s mrap-3v mrap-40 mrap-41 mrap-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Livestreaming and Video Features</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e51 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>Some sites and platforms have video chat sites that directly connect strangers for video conversations. These platforms are designed for anonymous interactions and have minimal safety protections, making them extremely high-risk for young people. Twitch and YouTube Gaming allow viewers to message streamers directly. Young people who stream themselves gaming may receive messages from seemingly friendly viewers who want to "talk more privately." Instagram Live, TikTok Live, and Facebook Live features let young people broadcast to audiences, including strangers. Sextortion perpetrators watch these streams, learn about victims, then contact them privately after the stream ends.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e52 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e53 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><hr class="x-line e35377-e54 mrap-4h"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e55 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e56 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e57 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-2f mrap-2h mrap-2i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e58 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3j mrap-3k mrap-3m mrap-3s mrap-3v mrap-40 mrap-41 mrap-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Anonymous Messaging and Encrypted Apps</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e59 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>Criminals typically move conversations to these platforms after initial contact elsewhere. Some of these apps have been repeatedly identified in law enforcement agency reports as a platform used in child sexual exploitation. <strong>When an app has anonymity features, like when no phone number is required to register, it makes it attractive to perpetrators to use to exploit.</strong></p> </div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e60 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e61 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><hr class="x-line e35377-e62 mrap-4h"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e63 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-9 mrap-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e64 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e65 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-2f mrap-2h mrap-2i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e66 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3j mrap-3k mrap-3m mrap-3s mrap-3v mrap-40 mrap-41 mrap-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Dating and "Meet New People" Apps</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e67 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>While most have age restrictions, young people can lie about their age to access them. Tinder, Bumble, and similar apps are used by perpetrators specifically seeking young victims. Some teens use these apps out of curiosity or to seek romantic relationships. Similar apps marketed as "social discovery" for teens create opportunities for adults to pose as peers. Despite verification attempts, fake online accounts proliferate on these platforms.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e68 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-6 mrap-7 mrap-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e69 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1p"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e70 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26 mrap-2j"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e71 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-4 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e72 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-s mrap-t mrap-v mrap-x mrap-z mrap-1b mrap-1q"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e73 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e74 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3m mrap-3p mrap-3q mrap-3r mrap-3v mrap-3w mrap-3y mrap-3z mrap-40 mrap-43"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">What Makes These Platforms Risky</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e75 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>Several features consistently appear across high-risk platforms. Direct messaging with strangers is the primary risk factor—any platform allowing private communication between people who don't know each other in real life creates an opportunity for manipulation. <strong>Photo and video sharing capabilities let perpetrators send explicit images to normalize sexual content and allow victims to send the sensitive material that becomes leverage.</strong> Moving between platforms enables criminals to isolate victims from oversight and create the secrecy needed for sexual exploitation. Live video features provide opportunities for real-time recording of sexual content. Anonymity and account creation ease means perpetrators can create multiple fake online accounts without verification.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e76 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-4 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e77 mrap-h mrap-l mrap-m mrap-n mrap-s mrap-x mrap-12 mrap-13 mrap-1b mrap-1r"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e78 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e79 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3m mrap-3p mrap-3q mrap-3r mrap-3v mrap-3w mrap-3y mrap-3z mrap-40 mrap-43"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The Platform Is Less Important Than the Pattern</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e80 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>While these platforms see frequent sextortion cases, the specific platform matters less than the behavior pattern. Criminals adapt to whatever platforms young people use. When one platform improves safety features, perpetrators simply move to another. This is why teaching young people to recognize manipulation tactics proves more effective than trying to ban specific apps. The red flags—strangers who contact you out of nowhere, conversations that turn sexual quickly, pressure to move to private messaging apps, requests for explicit images—remain consistent regardless of where the initial contact occurs.</p>
<p>In 2026, there are a number of platforms commonly used by online blackmailers in sextortion activities in targeting young people.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e81 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-s mrap-t mrap-v mrap-x mrap-z mrap-1b mrap-1s"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e82 mrap-20 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-29 mrap-2e mrap-2k mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2p"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e83 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-32 mrap-36 mrap-37 mrap-38">Platform Type</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e84 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2k mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2q"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e85 mrap-2v mrap-2x mrap-32 mrap-36 mrap-37 mrap-38 mrap-39 mrap-3a">Examples Include:</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e86 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e87 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Mainstream Social Media Apps</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e88 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e89 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Instagram, Snapchat</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e90 mrap-20 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-29 mrap-2e mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e91 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Emerging Teen Social Apps </div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e92 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e93 mrap-2v mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-39 mrap-3b mrap-3c">Wizz, Hoop, Yubo</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e94 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e95 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Anonymous / Semi Anonymous Apps</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e96 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e97 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Whisper, ASK.fm, Skout</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e98 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e99 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Messaging Platforms </div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e100 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e101 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Discord, WhatsApp, Kik, Telegram</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e102 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e103 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Gaming Platforms </div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e104 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e105 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Roblox, generalized gaming chats</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e106 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e107 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Video / Content / Streaming Platforms</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e108 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e109 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">TikTok, YouTube, LiveMe</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e110 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s mrap-2t"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e111 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Dating Apps </div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e112 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e113 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Grindr, Tinder, Bumble</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e114 mrap-h mrap-k mrap-l mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-x mrap-10 mrap-13 mrap-14 mrap-18 mrap-1t"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e115 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e116 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35">Parents don't need to become experts on every social media account and gaming platform. Instead, focus on these principles: <strong>know what platforms your teen uses, understand the basic features and risks of each, maintain open communication about who they're talking to online, and ensure privacy settings are maximized.</strong> The goal isn't to prevent all online social interaction but to help young people navigate these spaces safely while recognizing the red flags of sexual extortion.</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e117 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-4 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-a mrap-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e118 mrap-h mrap-l mrap-m mrap-n mrap-s mrap-x mrap-12 mrap-13 mrap-1b mrap-1u"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e119 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e120 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3m mrap-3p mrap-3q mrap-3r mrap-3v mrap-3w mrap-3y mrap-3z mrap-40 mrap-43"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Recognizing Sextortion Red Flags—No Matter the Platform</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e121 mrap-3g mrap-3m mrap-3o mrap-3r mrap-3s mrap-3u mrap-3v mrap-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary"><p>Although certain apps and platforms appear more frequently in sextortion cases, the real danger lies in the patterns of manipulation that perpetrators use. Criminals will always follow young people to whatever platforms are popular, which is why awareness matters more than banning specific apps. Teaching teens to recognize red flags—such as strangers initiating private conversations, requests to move to another app, or pressure to share personal images—helps them stay safer no matter where they are online. With open communication, strong privacy settings, and ongoing conversations about digital boundaries, parents can empower their children to enjoy online spaces while recognizing and avoiding the tactics used in sexual extortion.</p></h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e122 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-6 mrap-7 mrap-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e123 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1v"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e124 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26 mrap-2j"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e125 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-c mrap-d"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e126 mrap-h mrap-i mrap-m mrap-n mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-z mrap-10 mrap-15 mrap-1b mrap-1w"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e127 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-acc e35377-e128 mrap-4i" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e35377-e128"><div class="e35377-e129 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e35377-e129" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e35377-e129" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e35377-e129"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e35377-e129" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e35377-e129" data-x-toggleable="e35377-e129" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><p>For more information about how to protect the children in your life from sexual abuse, we invite you to explore Saprea’s <a href="/prevent/">sexual abuse prevention resources</a>.</p>

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 	<li>Thorn. (2024, June 24). <em>New research from Thorn: Financial sextortion on the rise, targeting teen boys</em>. Thorn. <a href="https://www.thorn.org/blog/new-research-from-thorn-financial-sextortion-on-the-rise-targeting-teen-boys/">https://www.thorn.org/blog/new-research-from-thorn-financial-sextortion-on-the-rise-targeting-teen-boys/</a></li>
 	<li>Federal Bureau of Investigation. (2021, June 29). <em>It’s not a game: Predators target children online</em>. FBI. <a href="https://www.fbi.gov/contact-us/field-offices/newyork/news/its-not-a-game-predators-target-children-online-062921">https://www.fbi.gov/contact-us/field-offices/newyork/news/its-not-a-game-predators-target-children-online-062921</a></li>
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These practical conversation prompts help parents discuss sensitive topics, recognize red flags, and build trust so young people feel safe asking for help when they need it.</div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e140 mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-34 mrap-35 mrap-3e"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e35377-e136 mrap-24 mrap-2i mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2u post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/where-sextortion-starts-online-platforms/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e35377-e137 mrap-4f"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/platforms-where-sextortion-begins.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="35379:full" loading="lazy"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e138 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3p mrap-3r mrap-3v mrap-3y mrap-40 mrap-42 mrap-43 mrap-45"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Common Platforms Where Sextortion Begins</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e139 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-38 mrap-3d excerpt">Sextortion often begins on platforms teens use most, including social media, gaming chats, livestreams, and anonymous messaging apps. Understanding these high-risk spaces and teaching young people to recognize red flags can help parents protect them from online predators. </div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e140 mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-34 mrap-35 mrap-3e"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e35377-e136 mrap-24 mrap-2i mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2u post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/barriers-children-reporting-grooming/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e35377-e137 mrap-4f"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/Grooming_Blog_2.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="34449:full" loading="lazy"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e138 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3p mrap-3r mrap-3v mrap-3y mrap-40 mrap-42 mrap-43 mrap-45"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">What Stops Children from Reporting Grooming: Understanding Barriers to Disclosure</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e139 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-38 mrap-3d excerpt">Learn why children and teens often don’t report grooming, the manipulative tactics abusers use, and how caregivers can create safe, supportive environments to help survivors speak up and heal.</div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e140 mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-34 mrap-35 mrap-3e"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e141 mrap-h mrap-k mrap-l mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-x mrap-10 mrap-13 mrap-14 mrap-17 mrap-18 mrap-1z"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e142 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e35377-e143 mrap-49 mrap-4e mrap-f" tabindex="0" href="/all-blogs/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">SEE ALL blogs</span></div></div></a></div></div></div></div></div>
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Many parents worry about saying the wrong thing or overwhelming their teen with warnings. In reality, short, supportive conversations often work better than long lectures. Using simple prompts and everyday moments to check in can help teens recognize risks, understand healthy boundaries, and feel safe coming to you if something goes wrong online.</p>
<p>Here are practical conversation prompts that you as a parent (or caregiver) can use to open discussions about these sensitive topics in supportive ways.</p>

</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e26 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-a mrav-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e27 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-w mrav-x mrav-z mrav-11 mrav-13 mrav-1f mrav-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e28 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e29 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Starting the Conversation About Online Safety</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-38 mrav-39 mrav-3a"><p>Rather than beginning with warnings or rules, <strong>start with curiosity and openness</strong>. Try asking: "What apps and social media accounts are you using these days? Can you show me how they work?" This question demonstrates interest without judgment and gives you valuable information about their digital world. Follow up with: "Who do you usually talk to on there? Friends from school or other people too?" This helps you understand their online social network without seeming accusatory.</p>
<p>Another effective opener uses current events: "I saw a news story about teens being targeted by others online. Have you heard anything about that happening at your school or with people you know?" This approach makes the topic concrete and relevant while creating space for your teen to share concerns without feeling like they're in trouble.</p>
</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e31 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e32 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e33 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e34 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-5 mrav-6 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e35 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-w mrav-x mrav-z mrav-11 mrav-13 mrav-1f mrav-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e36 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e37 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Introducing the Topic of Sextortion Without Fear</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e38 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-38 mrav-39 mrav-3a"><p>Saprea recommends <a href="https://saprea.org/prevent/educate/connect/">little talks</a> instead of lengthy talks. Try this approach: "Hey, I learned something concerning and want to check in with you. Have you ever had someone online ask you for pictures of yourself, especially explicit images? If that happens, I want you to know you can always tell me and you won't be in trouble." The explicit statement that they won't face punishment is crucial.</p>
<p>You might also ask: "If someone you met online started making you uncomfortable or asked for sexual content, what would you do? Who would you tell?" This prompt helps you understand their current plan and allows you to clarify that you want to be their first resource. It also reveals whether they understand the available support services.</p>
</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e39 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e40 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e41 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e42 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-5 mrav-6 mrav-7 mrav-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e43 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-w mrav-x mrav-z mrav-11 mrav-13 mrav-1f mrav-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e44 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e45 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Discussing Red Flags and Warning Signs</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e46 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-38 mrav-39 mrav-3a"><p>Use "what if" scenarios to explore situations without accusing your teen of anything. Try: "What would you think if someone you just met online said they felt really connected to you and wanted to video chat privately right away?" Let them respond, then discuss why that's a red flag—healthy relationships build gradually, and pressure to move fast or get private is a warning sign of manipulation.</p>
<p>Another scenario: "Imagine someone online offers you gift cards or money for photos. What do you think is really going on there?" This opens discussion about scammers who target others specifically with financial sextortion schemes. You can explain that legitimate people never offer payment for images, and this is always a setup for online blackmail or other potential exploitation.</p>
</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e47 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e48 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e49 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e50 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-d"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e51 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1p"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e52 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e53 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Building Trust </h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e54 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p>Perhaps the most important conversation establishes what happens if they make a mistake or face victimization. Say directly: "I need you to know something important. If you ever send someone an explicit image and they threaten you, or if you get into any kind of trouble online, please come to me immediately. You will not be punished. I will not take away your phone or get angry. We will handle it together, and the person threatening you is the one who is breaking the law."</p>
<p>You can add: "Even if it starts on an app you're not supposed to be on, or if you made choices you regret, you can still tell me. My job is to protect you and get you help, not to punish you." This message directly addresses the shame that prevents disclosure in 81% of cases.<sup>1</sup></p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e55 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1q"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e56 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e57 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e58 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-e"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e59 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1r"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e60 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e61 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Checking Understanding of Consent and Pressure</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e62 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p><strong>Discuss the difference between freely choosing and being pressured.</strong> Ask: "How would you know if someone was pressuring you versus you actually wanting to do something online?" This helps young people recognize coercion. Follow with: "You know that you never owe anyone explicit images, right? Not even if you've been dating, not if they sent you pictures first, not if you said yes before. You can always change your mind."</p>
<p>For context on relationships, try: "In healthy relationships, whether online or in person, how do people treat each other? What should never be okay?" Let them answer, then emphasize: "Healthy partners never pressure you for sexual content, never threaten you, and never share your private photos without permission."</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e63 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1s"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e64 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e65 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e66 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-e"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e67 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1t"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e68 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e69 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Addressing Privacy and Security</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e70 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p><strong>Rather than demanding access to everything, discuss why privacy settings matter, and work together to protect privacy.</strong> Ask: "Who can see your posts and profile right now—just friends, or anyone? Do strangers message you?" Then explain: "Keeping your social media accounts private makes you safer because criminals look for young people with public profiles. Can we check your settings together?"</p>
<p>On passwords and monitoring, try: "I'd like to know your passwords not because I don't trust you, but so if something goes wrong or you need help, I can access your accounts to fix it. Does that make sense?" Frame monitoring as collaborative online safety rather than distrust.</p>
</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e71 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1u"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e72 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e73 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e74 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-e"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e75 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1v"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e76 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e77 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">When You Suspect Something Is Wrong</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e78 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p>If your teen seems withdrawn, anxious, or is hiding their phone more than usual, approach with concern not accusation. Say: "I've noticed you seem stressed lately. Is everything okay online and at school? Sometimes people struggle with things they're afraid to talk about." Give space for them to respond without pushing.</p>
<p>If you have specific concerns about sextortion or online blackmail, be direct but supportive: "I'm worried something might be wrong. If someone online is making you uncomfortable, threatening you, or has pictures they're using to pressure you, we can fix this together. You're not in trouble with me—I just want to help." Then be quiet and give them time to answer.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e79 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1w"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e80 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e81 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e82 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-e mrav-f"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e83 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1x"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e84 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e85 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Following Up Regularly</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e86 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p>These conversations shouldn't happen just once. Brief check-ins work well: "Anything weird happen online this week?" Or: "Remember what we talked about before—about people online who pressure teens for pictures? That offer still stands to come to me if anything like that happens." Regular, casual mention keeps the topic present without being overwhelming.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e87 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-6 mrav-7 mrav-8 mrav-g"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e88 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1y"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e89 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e mrav-2o"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e90 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-4 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-8 mrav-9" id="healthy"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e91 mrav-l mrav-p mrav-q mrav-r mrav-w mrav-11 mrav-16 mrav-17 mrav-1f mrav-1z"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e92 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e93 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3r mrav-3u mrav-3v mrav-3w mrav-3z mrav-41 mrav-42 mrav-43 mrav-44"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Healthy vs. Unhealthy Digital Interactions: <br/>Teaching Teens the Difference</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e94 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a">Understanding the difference between healthy and unhealthy digital interactions can help teens navigate online spaces with greater confidence. While many online friendships and conversations are positive, some people use manipulation, pressure, or secrecy to gain trust and exploit others. By talking with teens about the common traits of healthy relationships—such as respect for boundaries, transparency, and mutual comfort—parents can help them recognize warning signs early and make safer decisions online.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e95 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-w mrav-x mrav-z mrav-11 mrav-13 mrav-1f mrav-20"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e96 mrav-28 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2h mrav-2m mrav-2p mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2u"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e97 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-37 mrav-3b mrav-3c mrav-3d">Healthy Interactions</div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e98 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2p mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2v"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e99 mrav-30 mrav-32 mrav-37 mrav-3b mrav-3c mrav-3d mrav-3e mrav-3f">Unhealthy Interactions</div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e100 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e101 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Healthy Online Friendships <em>Start Slowly</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e102 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e103 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Unhealthy Interactions <em>Move Too Fast</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e104 mrav-28 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2h mrav-2m mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e105 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Healthy Interactions <em>Respect Privacy and Boundaries</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e106 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e107 mrav-30 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3e mrav-3g mrav-3h">Unhealthy Interactions Involve <em>Pressure and Manipulation</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e108 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e109 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Healthy Digital Friends <em>Can Be Verified</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e110 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e111 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Unhealthy Contacts <em>Hide Their Real Identity</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e112 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x mrav-2y"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e113 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Healthy Relationships <em>Feel Comfortable and Safe</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e114 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e115 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Unhealthy Relationships <em>Create Anxiety and Fear</em></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e116 mrav-l mrav-o mrav-p mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-11 mrav-14 mrav-17 mrav-18 mrav-1c mrav-21"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e117 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e118 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p>Teaching young people these distinctions give them the framework to evaluate online interactions themselves. When teens understand what healthy looks like, they're better equipped to recognize the manipulation tactics of sexual extortion before becoming victims. Parents should discuss these differences regularly, using real examples from news stories or hypothetical scenarios to reinforce the concepts.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e119 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-8 mrav-9 mrav-f"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e120 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-22"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e121 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e122 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3r mrav-3u mrav-3v mrav-3w mrav-3z mrav-41 mrav-42 mrav-43 mrav-44"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Practical Prompts and Supportive Conversation</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e123 mrav-3l mrav-3r mrav-3t mrav-3w mrav-3x mrav-3y mrav-3z"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary"><p>Talking with teens about online safety and sextortion doesn’t have to be intimidating. By using practical prompts, real-life scenarios, and open, supportive conversations, parents can help their teens recognize red flags, understand healthy digital relationships, and feel safe seeking guidance. Regular check-ins build trust and empower teens to navigate online spaces confidently.</p></h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e124 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-6 mrav-7 mrav-8 mrav-g"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e125 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-23"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e126 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e mrav-2o"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e127 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-8 mrav-9 mrav-h"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e128 mrav-l mrav-m mrav-q mrav-r mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-13 mrav-14 mrav-19 mrav-1f mrav-24"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e129 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-acc e35383-e130 mrav-4j" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e35383-e130"><div class="e35383-e131 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e35383-e131" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e35383-e131" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e35383-e131"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e35383-e131" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e35383-e131" data-x-toggleable="e35383-e131" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><p>For more information about how to protect the children in your life from sexual abuse, we invite you to explore Saprea’s <a href="/prevent/">sexual abuse prevention resources</a>.</p>

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 	<li>Wolak, J., Finkelhor, D., Walsh, W., &amp; Treitman, L. (2018). Sextortion of minors: Characteristics and dynamics. <i>Journal of Adolescent Health</i>, 62(1), 72-79. <a href="https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jadohealth.2017.08.014">https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jadohealth.2017.08.014</a></li>
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Understanding Grooming in the Digital Age</h1></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e19 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-3 mqlr-5 mqlr-6 mqlr-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e20 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-y mqlr-10 mqlr-13 mqlr-1h mqlr-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e21 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e22 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-3 mqlr-5 mqlr-7 mqlr-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e23 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-y mqlr-10 mqlr-13 mqlr-1h mqlr-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e24 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34479-e25 mqlr-3c mqlr-3h mqlr-3j mqlr-3m mqlr-3n mqlr-3o mqlr-3p"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">With technology becoming increasingly more accessible, there has been an increase in online grooming. Much like grooming that occurs in-person, online grooming is the technology-facilitated process of befriending a child or teen for the purpose of sexual abuse and exploitation. While some online perpetrators may know the child they are talking to, more often, sexual perpetrators are exploiting the anonymity and accessibility of online platforms to reach potential victims. Unlike in-person grooming, which can occur over weeks, months or even years, online grooming can happen very quickly, even in a matter of hours. When working online, they don’t need to influence adults and control the environment around the child; this potentially makes it easier to establish trust and build the child up more quickly toward sexual discussions or sexual contact. </h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e26 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-5 mqlr-7 mqlr-8 mqlr-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e27 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-y mqlr-10 mqlr-13 mqlr-1h mqlr-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34479-e29 mqlr-3c mqlr-3e mqlr-3h mqlr-3k mqlr-3l mqlr-3m mqlr-3p mqlr-3q mqlr-3r mqlr-3s mqlr-3t mqlr-3u mqlr-3v"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Groomers Operate Online Through Social Media and Digital Platforms</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e30 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-2y mqlr-2z mqlr-30"><p>Online grooming isn’t limited to obscure corners of the internet; in fact, it often takes place on well-known platforms such as social media, messaging apps, and online games. Using fake profiles, groomers may pretend to be another child or a peer with shared interests, making it easier to gain the victim’s trust. They may even use multiple online platforms to contact the same child. They can spend time learning about the child or teen’s interests from their online profiles and use that information to help them build trust and establish a special relationship. As the online relationship develops, the perpetrator may ask for personal information or encourage private chats, video calls, and secretive behavior. Eventually, they manipulate or coerce the child into sending explicit photos or videos. In many cases, the offender uses this material to blackmail the child into further sexual acts (a form of abuse known as <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/what-is-sextortion/">sextortion</a>.)</p>
<p>The tactics used in online grooming are calculated and manipulative. Groomers can maintain frequent or constant contact, intensifying their control and making it difficult for the child to disengage. Some even resort to cyberstalking, using technology to monitor or harass their victims. Understanding these grooming behaviors of perpetrators helps caregivers and other adults to recognize signs of grooming early and protect children and teens from abusers online.</p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e31 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-3 mqlr-6 mqlr-7 mqlr-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e32 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-t mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-14 mqlr-15 mqlr-1d mqlr-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e33 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2l"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e34 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-4 mqlr-5 mqlr-7 mqlr-9 mqlr-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e35 mqlr-i mqlr-n mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-v mqlr-10 mqlr-16 mqlr-17 mqlr-18 mqlr-1h mqlr-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e36 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34479-e37 mqlr-3c mqlr-3e mqlr-3h mqlr-3k mqlr-3l mqlr-3m mqlr-3p mqlr-3q mqlr-3s mqlr-3t mqlr-3u mqlr-3v mqlr-3w"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Online Grooming Red Flags and Warning Signs</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e38 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">Many parents may feel like they don’t know what to look for when trying to catch online grooming early. Luckily, if a parent can spot traditional grooming behaviors, they will likely be able to catch online grooming behaviors. One nonprofit, Bravehearts<sup>1</sup>, nicely outlines seven warning signs and red flags to pay attention to:</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e39 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-s mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-12 mqlr-13 mqlr-14 mqlr-1h mqlr-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e40 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2m"><div class="x-row e34479-e41 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1p"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e42 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e43 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">01</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e44 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e45 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Asking personal questions too soon</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e46 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">The person is asking your child a lot of questions about personal information (such as their age, school, location, home life etc.) soon after meeting them online. This rapid questioning is a common grooming behavior used to assess the child’s vulnerability to build a close relationship quickly.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e47 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1q"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e48 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e49 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">02</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e50 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e51 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Asking for favors and building trust</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e52 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">The person starts asking your child for favors and does favors for them in return – abusers often use promises, gifts and favors to gain trust. This exchange creates a sense of obligation and is part of the grooming process designed to establish special attention and emotional dependence.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e53 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1r"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e54 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e55 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">03</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e56 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e57 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Keeping the 'relationship' secret</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e58 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">Online groomers typically try to keep their relationships extremely private and <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/good-secrets-bad-secrets/">secret</a> from the beginning, asking for it to be something ‘special’ just between them. Perpetrators thrive when caregivers and family members are unaware of their contact with the child.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e59 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1s"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e60 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e61 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">04</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e62 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e63 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Frequent and varied contact</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e64 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">The person contacts your child frequently and in different ways, like texting, on social media apps and through online chats or asking them to move their chat onto another platform that has end-to-end encryption.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e65 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1t"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e66 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e67 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">05</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e68 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e69 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Questions about device access</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e70 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">The person asks your child things like who else uses their device or computer, or which room they use it in. These questions help groomers assess how much privacy they have to escalate grooming behaviors without detection by parents or caregivers.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e71 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1u"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e72 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e73 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">06</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e74 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e75 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Gives compliments and tests boundaries</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e76 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">The person compliments your child on their appearance or body and/or tests their boundaries by asking things like, ‘Have you ever been kissed?,’ ‘Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?,’ and the like. Boundary testing and comments about physical appearance are examples of grooming tactics that target a child’s self-esteem and introduce sexual topics gradually. This is a form of desensitizing the child to sexual content and behavior.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e77 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1v"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e78 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e79 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">07</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e80 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e81 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Wants to meet in-person</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e82 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">Groomers may insist on meeting with the child and try to make them feel guilty or even threaten them if they are unwilling. Note: not all groomers will attempt to meet in person if their aim is to get sexual images or videos of children (known child sexual abuse material (CSAM)). </div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e83 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-5 mqlr-7 mqlr-9 mqlr-b mqlr-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e84 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-t mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-14 mqlr-15 mqlr-1d mqlr-1w"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e85 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34479-e86 mqlr-3c mqlr-3e mqlr-3h mqlr-3k mqlr-3l mqlr-3m mqlr-3p mqlr-3q mqlr-3s mqlr-3t mqlr-3u mqlr-3v mqlr-3w"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How to Protect Children From Online Dangers</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e87 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30"><p>As with all types of child sexual abuse, online grooming can have devastating effects on a child's mental health, self-esteem, and safety. The best defense is education—teaching children to recognize red flags, avoid sharing personal information or images, and to feel safe speaking up when something doesn’t feel right. Parents and caregivers should stay informed about the platforms their children use, maintain open and supportive communication, and be aware of changes in their child’s mood or behavior.</p> 
<p>Online grooming may take place in the digital world, but its impacts are very real. Through awareness, education, and open dialogue, we can better protect children and young people from these serious threats.</p>
<p>If you suspect your child is being groomed or has experienced child sexual abuse, contact law enforcement or child protection services immediately. For more information about how to best support your child, visit our page about <a href="/prevent/">preventing child sexual abuse</a>.</p> 
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Below are some of the most common questions about online grooming—what it is, how to identify the warning signs, and steps you can take to help keep children safe while using digital platforms.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e96 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-13 mqlr-14 mqlr-1h mqlr-1z"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e97 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-acc e34479-e98 mqlr-4a mqlr-4b" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e34479-e98"><div class="e34479-e99 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e99" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e99" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e99"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">What is online grooming?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e99" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e99" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e99" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Online grooming is when an adult uses the internet or digital communication to build a relationship with a child for the purpose of sexual abuse or exploitation.</div></div></div><div class="e34479-e100 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e100" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e100" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e100"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">How can I tell if my child is being groomed online?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e100" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e100" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e100" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Look for red flags like secrecy about online activity, receiving gifts from someone they met online, frequent messaging from unknown contacts, or sudden changes in mood or behavior.</div></div></div><div class="e34479-e101 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e101" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e101" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e101"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">What should I do if I think my child is being groomed online?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e101" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e101" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e101" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Stay calm, gather evidence (such as screenshots or messages), and report the situation to law enforcement or the National Center for Missing &amp; Exploited Children’s CyberTipline. Avoid confronting the suspected groomer directly.</div></div></div><div class="e34479-e102 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e102" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e102" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e102"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">How can parents prevent online grooming?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e102" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e102" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e102" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Keep communication open, set clear boundaries for device use, and talk about online safety regularly. Teach children not to share personal information or images and to tell a trusted adult if something feels off.</div></div></div><div class="e34479-e103 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e103" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e103" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e103"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">What platforms are most common for online grooming?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e103" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e103" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e103" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Online grooming can happen anywhere children communicate digitally—social media, gaming chats, messaging apps, and even educational forums.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e104 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-3 mqlr-6 mqlr-7 mqlr-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e105 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-t mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-14 mqlr-15 mqlr-1d mqlr-20"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e106 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2l"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e107 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-5 mqlr-7 mqlr-b mqlr-e"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e108 mqlr-i mqlr-j mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-13 mqlr-14 mqlr-1a mqlr-1h mqlr-21"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e109 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-acc e34479-e110 mqlr-4a mqlr-4c" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e34479-e110"><div class="e34479-e111 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e111" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e111" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e111"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e111" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e111" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e111" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><ol>
 	<li>Retrieved from “Online Grooming and Child Sexual Exploitation” from Bravehearts.org.au.</li>
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A grooming relationship often starts out appearing safe and positive. By the time the relationship becomes uncomfortable, frightening, and/or isolating, many children feel confused and unsure about how to react or who to trust. Recognizing warning signs of grooming behaviors early can help caregivers intervene before children feel trapped in silence. </h4></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e26 mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2h mqkr-2i mqkr-2j mqkr-2k"><p>According to the National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children (NSPCC)<sup>1</sup>, children may not speak up for a number of reasons. For instance, children and teens may be:</p>

<ul>
 	<li>Ashamed.</li>
 	<li>Feeling guilty for inappropriate sexual activities they participated in.</li>
 	<li>Believe they are in a romantic relationship with their groomer.</li>
 	<li>Embarrassed to share sexual details with other people.</li>
 	<li>Nervous to get the person grooming them in trouble.</li>
 	<li>Scared of what the groomer will do if they speak out or refuse to comply.</li>
</ul></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e27 mqkr-2c mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2k"><strong>Understanding barriers to children reporting grooming is vital to helping children feel safe and supported.</strong> Parents and other caregivers need to create open, non-judgmental environments where kids feel comfortable sharing anything—no matter how confusing or difficult it may seem.</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34443-e28 mqkr-1 mqkr-2 mqkr-3 mqkr-5 mqkr-7 mqkr-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e29 mqkr-h mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-t mqkr-u mqkr-w mqkr-y mqkr-10 mqkr-1d mqkr-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e30 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-1z"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e31 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-32 mqkr-33 mqkr-34 mqkr-37 mqkr-38 mqkr-39 mqkr-3a mqkr-3b"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">What If My Child Thinks They’re in a Romantic Relationship with Their Abuser</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e32 mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2h mqkr-2i mqkr-2k mqkr-2l">Sometimes, groomers use manipulative and emotionally coercive tactics to convince children and teens that they are in a consensual romantic relationship. They may shower them with attention, affection, gifts, or praise as part of the grooming process in order to build trust and emotional dependence. Over time, this manipulation can blur the lines between affection and abuse, making it incredibly difficult for young people to recognize what’s happening.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e33 mqkr-h mqkr-i mqkr-j mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-y mqkr-12 mqkr-13 mqkr-1d mqkr-1i"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e34 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-28"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e35 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2u mqkr-2w mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-37 mqkr-3b mqkr-3c mqkr-3d mqkr-3e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Why Children Can’t Consent to a Relationship with an Adult</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e36 mqkr-2c mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2k">Saprea firmly denounces the notion that children can consent to relationships with adults. Legally and developmentally, minors are not capable of giving informed consent—especially in the context of a power imbalance where an adult is deliberately exploiting their trust and vulnerability. Adults in a position of power who engage in grooming behaviors are abusers, regardless of how they frame the relationship.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e37 mqkr-h mqkr-i mqkr-j mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-y mqkr-12 mqkr-13 mqkr-1d mqkr-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e38 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-28"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e39 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2u mqkr-2w mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-37 mqkr-3b mqkr-3c mqkr-3d mqkr-3e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Groomers Manipulate Feelings of Attachment and Guilt</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e40 mqkr-2c mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2k"><p>Children may feel afraid to speak up or resist because they don’t want to “ruin” what they’ve been told is a special or <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/good-secrets-bad-secrets/">secret</a> relationship. Some may fear losing the emotional connection they've built with the groomer, even if it has become abusive. Others may feel ashamed, confused, or blame themselves for getting involved, making it even harder to seek help. The groomer’s manipulation of the child’s self-esteem and vulnerability makes disclosure even more difficult.</p>
<p>It’s also common for victims to feel they have no choice—that saying "no" isn’t an option. Even when they are deeply uncomfortable or hurt by what they’ve been asked to do, they may believe they’re responsible for maintaining the relationship, or worry that speaking out will lead to punishment, rejection, or harm.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e41 mqkr-h mqkr-i mqkr-j mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-y mqkr-12 mqkr-13 mqkr-1d mqkr-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e42 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-28"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e43 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2u mqkr-2w mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-37 mqkr-3b mqkr-3c mqkr-3d mqkr-3e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Parents and Caregivers Can Help</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e44 mqkr-2c mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2k"><p>The most important thing for parents and caregivers to remember is this: your child is not to blame. Open, non-judgmental conversations and professional support can make all the difference in helping them break free from this manipulation and begin to heal.</p>
<p>If you suspect your child is being groomed or has experienced child sexual abuse, contact law enforcement or child protection services immediately. For more information about how to best support your child, visit our page about <a href="/prevent/">preventing child sexual abuse</a>.</p> 
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34443-e45 mqkr-1 mqkr-2 mqkr-4 mqkr-5 mqkr-7 mqkr-9 mqkr-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e46 mqkr-h mqkr-m mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-t mqkr-y mqkr-13 mqkr-14 mqkr-15 mqkr-1d mqkr-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e47 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-1z"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e48 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-32 mqkr-33 mqkr-34 mqkr-37 mqkr-39 mqkr-3a mqkr-3b mqkr-3c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Moving From Isolation to Integration</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e49 mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2h mqkr-2i mqkr-2j mqkr-2k"><p>Isolation is one of the most powerful tactics used in grooming, as groomers systematically distance children from their support networks to maintain control and secrecy. Research on child sexual abuse recovery demonstrates that structured reintegration approaches—including family assessments, gradual transitions, and sustained aftercare—are essential for helping children rebuild healthy connections. Parents play a critical role in this process by actively working to restore their child's access to safe, supportive relationships. This means:</p>

<ul>
 	<li>facilitating regular contact with trusted family members,</li>
 	<li>encouraging age-appropriate friendships, and</li>
 	<li>creating opportunities for children to participate in activities where they feel valued and connected.</li>
</ul></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e50 mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2h mqkr-2i mqkr-2k mqkr-2m"><p><strong>Maintaining open, non-judgmental communication is one of the most powerful protective factors parents can provide as their child transitions away from an exploitative situation.</strong></p>
<p>Studies examining reintegration strategies emphasize that social <a href="https://saprea.org/heal/approach/support-network/">support networks</a> are fundamental to trauma recovery, and building these networks takes intentional effort and time. Parents should collaborate with mental health professionals who specialize in childhood trauma to develop a comprehensive support plan tailored to their child's specific needs. Professional involvement may be vital throughout the reintegration process, helping families navigate the complex emotional terrain while prioritizing the child's safety and well-being.</p></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e51 mqkr-2r mqkr-2x mqkr-31 mqkr-34 mqkr-35 mqkr-37 mqkr-3f"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Remember that reintegration is gradual—there is no set timeline for healing. Focus on small, consistent steps that help your child feel safe, heard, and supported as they rediscover what healthy relationships look and feel like. Your patience, presence, and unwavering belief in your child's resilience will make all the difference in their recovery journey.</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34443-e52 mqkr-1 mqkr-2 mqkr-3 mqkr-6 mqkr-7 mqkr-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e53 mqkr-h mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-r mqkr-t mqkr-u mqkr-y mqkr-z mqkr-11 mqkr-16 mqkr-1a mqkr-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e54 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-1z mqkr-29"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34443-e55 mqkr-1 mqkr-2 mqkr-5 mqkr-7 mqkr-9 mqkr-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e56 mqkr-h mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-t mqkr-u mqkr-y mqkr-z mqkr-10 mqkr-11 mqkr-1d mqkr-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e57 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-1z mqkr-2a"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e58 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-32 mqkr-33 mqkr-34 mqkr-36 mqkr-37 mqkr-3a mqkr-3b mqkr-3c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Frequently Asked Questions </br>About Grooming and Disclosure</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e59 mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2g mqkr-2k mqkr-2n">Grooming can be difficult for children to recognize, as it often begins as a relationship that seems caring or harmless. Feelings of fear, guilt, or confusion can prevent them from speaking up. This FAQ explores why children may stay silent, how to spot warning signs, and how caregivers can respond with understanding and support.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e60 mqkr-h mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-t mqkr-u mqkr-y mqkr-z mqkr-10 mqkr-11 mqkr-1d mqkr-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e61 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-1z"><div class="x-acc e34443-e62 mqkr-3t mqkr-3u" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e34443-e62"><div class="e34443-e63 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34443-e63" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34443-e63" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e63"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">Why don’t children report grooming right away?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34443-e63" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34443-e63" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e63" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"> Many children don’t realize they’re being groomed until the relationship becomes manipulative or frightening. 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Reassure them that it’s not their fault and that you’re proud of them for speaking up. Then, contact law enforcement or child protection services immediately.</div></div></div><div class="e34443-e66 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34443-e66" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34443-e66" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e66"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">How can I help my child recover after grooming?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34443-e66" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34443-e66" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e66" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Healing takes time. Focus on creating a safe, supportive environment and maintaining open, non-judgmental communication. Seeking guidance from trauma-informed professionals can also help your child rebuild trust and confidence.</div></div></div><div class="e34443-e67 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34443-e67" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34443-e67" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e67"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">What’s the difference between grooming and a healthy friendship?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34443-e67" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34443-e67" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e67" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Healthy relationships are based on mutual respect and clear boundaries. 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<title> <![CDATA[  Call for Letters of Intent: Special Issue on What Works in the Prevention of Sexual Abuse? ]]> </title>
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<p><strong>By Joan Tabachnick</strong></p>

<p>We are excited to share an important opportunity for researchers, practitioners, and policymakers in the field of sexual abuse prevention. <em>Sexual Abuse</em>&nbsp;is now inviting submissions for a special issue on <strong>“What Works in the Prevention of Sexual Abuse?”</strong></p>

<p>This issue, guest edited by Kieran McCartan, Ryan T. Shields, and Joan Tabachnick, will shine a spotlight on <strong>primary perpetration prevention</strong>—programs, policies, and practices designed to stop sexual abuse before anyone is harmed.</p>

<h3>Join the Conversation</h3>

<p>By bringing together evidence, practice, and innovation, this special issue aims to build a stronger foundation to answer the vital question: <em>What truly works to prevent the perpetration of sexual abuse?</em></p>

<p>We invite researchers, practitioners, and thought leaders from around the world to contribute to this conversation by submitting a <strong>Letter of Intent by September 25, 2025.</strong></p>

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👉 For submission details, deadlines, and guidelines&nbsp;visit:&nbsp;<a href="https://atsa.com/callforpapers" style="color: #0066cc; font-weight: bold;" target="_blank">atsa.com/callforpapers</a>
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<h3>Why This Special Issue Matters</h3>

<p>Preventing the perpetration of sexual abuse is one of the most critical yet challenging areas of work. Unlike treatment or response strategies, primary prevention often requires proving that <em>“something didn’t happen”</em>—an outcome that can be difficult to measure.</p>

<p>Yet across the globe, innovative programs, interventions, and policies are being developed to reduce risk, strengthen protective factors, and create safer communities. This special issue seeks to bring those successes, research, evaluations, and innovations together in one place to help shape the future of perpetration prevention efforts.</p>

<h3>Topics of Interest</h3>

<p>We welcome contributions that critically examine and expand our understanding of primary perpetration prevention, including but not limited to:</p>

<ul>
  <li>Evidence of success in primary perpetration prevention programs, including meaningful outcome measures.</li>
  <li>Lessons learned from past prevention efforts—and how they can guide the future.</li>
  <li>Risk and protective factors for first-time perpetration of sexual abuse.</li>
  <li>The role of public messaging, policy, and science in prevention.</li>
  <li>Implementation challenges: overcoming politics, stigma, and sustainability issues.</li>
  <li>Global perspectives: cultural and regional insights that broaden the scope of prevention.</li>
</ul>

<p>If you have any questions, please reach out to <strong>Aniss Benelmouffok, Managing Editor of <em>Sexual Abuse: <a href="mailto:aniss@atsa.com">aniss@atsa.com</a></em></strong></p>

<p>Together, we can deepen the science of prevention, learn from one another, and build safer futures for individuals, families, and communities worldwide.</p>
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<p><strong>By Joan Tabachnick</strong></p>

<p>We are excited to share an important opportunity for researchers, practitioners, and policymakers in the field of sexual abuse prevention. <em>Sexual Abuse</em>&nbsp;is now inviting submissions for a special issue on <strong>“What Works in the Prevention of Sexual Abuse?”</strong></p>

<p>This issue, guest edited by Kieran McCartan, Ryan T. Shields, and Joan Tabachnick, will shine a spotlight on <strong>primary perpetration prevention</strong>—programs, policies, and practices designed to stop sexual abuse before anyone is harmed.</p>

<h3>Join the Conversation</h3>

<p>By bringing together evidence, practice, and innovation, this special issue aims to build a stronger foundation to answer the vital question: <em>What truly works to prevent the perpetration of sexual abuse?</em></p>

<p>We invite researchers, practitioners, and thought leaders from around the world to contribute to this conversation by submitting a <strong>Letter of Intent by September 25, 2025.</strong></p>

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👉 For submission details, deadlines, and guidelines&nbsp;visit:&nbsp;<a href="https://atsa.com/callforpapers" style="color: #0066cc; font-weight: bold;" target="_blank">atsa.com/callforpapers</a>
</div>

<h3>Why This Special Issue Matters</h3>

<p>Preventing the perpetration of sexual abuse is one of the most critical yet challenging areas of work. Unlike treatment or response strategies, primary prevention often requires proving that <em>“something didn’t happen”</em>—an outcome that can be difficult to measure.</p>

<p>Yet across the globe, innovative programs, interventions, and policies are being developed to reduce risk, strengthen protective factors, and create safer communities. This special issue seeks to bring those successes, research, evaluations, and innovations together in one place to help shape the future of perpetration prevention efforts.</p>

<h3>Topics of Interest</h3>

<p>We welcome contributions that critically examine and expand our understanding of primary perpetration prevention, including but not limited to:</p>

<ul>
  <li>Evidence of success in primary perpetration prevention programs, including meaningful outcome measures.</li>
  <li>Lessons learned from past prevention efforts—and how they can guide the future.</li>
  <li>Risk and protective factors for first-time perpetration of sexual abuse.</li>
  <li>The role of public messaging, policy, and science in prevention.</li>
  <li>Implementation challenges: overcoming politics, stigma, and sustainability issues.</li>
  <li>Global perspectives: cultural and regional insights that broaden the scope of prevention.</li>
</ul>

<p>If you have any questions, please reach out to <strong>Aniss Benelmouffok, Managing Editor of <em>Sexual Abuse: <a href="mailto:aniss@atsa.com">aniss@atsa.com</a></em></strong></p>

<p>Together, we can deepen the science of prevention, learn from one another, and build safer futures for individuals, families, and communities worldwide.</p>
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<title> <![CDATA[ Framing Prevention Through an Anti-Memetic Lens ]]> </title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2025 16:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ <p><b>by Aniss Benelmouffok</b><br /><br />In <a href="https://darkforest.metalabel.com/antimemetics?variantId=1" target="_blank">Antimemetics: Why Some Ideas Resist Spreading</a>, Nadia Asparouhova explores why cultural ideas fail to spread. Much of the resistance to spreading, “immunity” as Asparouhova puts it, is due to the uncomfortable nature of antimemetic subjects.&nbsp; Reading the book, I couldn't help but see efforts to prevent sexual abuse through an antimemetic lens. </p><div class="chat-assistant w-full min-w-full markdown-prose svelte-1u5gq5j"><div><div class="w-full flex flex-col relative" id="response-content-container">    </div></div></div> <div class="flex justify-start overflow-x-auto buttons text-gray-600 dark:text-gray-500 mt-0.5 svelte-1u5gq5j"> <div class="flex"></div></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><p>To frame these ideas, she draws on two concepts:<br /><br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; <b>Memes and Memeplexes</b>: Coined by Richard Dawkins in 1976, “memes” are self-replicating cultural units that spread and evolve like genes. Memeplexes—like religions and political ideologies—are networks of related memes.<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; <b>Mimetic Desire</b>: Introduced by René Girard, this concept suggests we desire what others desire, emulating “models” in our social spheres. This can lead to rivalry and scapegoating.<br /><br />Asparouhova proposes that if we take these two concepts as "canon," we can see how the internet has poured fuel on them. "Rather than ushering in an era of global peace, the internet made us leap at each other's throats," she says.  <br />&nbsp;</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxFnp1LdZCwi5xJS6XOBGl4iarPYYley8Jv21-yUHQMG6lD7Vzs7fDrLlqC73q0S9sXjVQP59ZviOaLbuK5Mle3-WGgSoP6-sQWSOIyyFevvRKyyYOSZjSzaWZJZilql8ySmDg-G7AibfRqGCT7FttnfhtPfc6vgjk8TsfMwVr8D92VXBjk8Hxx4PM0GU/s2560/memes.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2560" data-original-width="2560" height="398" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxFnp1LdZCwi5xJS6XOBGl4iarPYYley8Jv21-yUHQMG6lD7Vzs7fDrLlqC73q0S9sXjVQP59ZviOaLbuK5Mle3-WGgSoP6-sQWSOIyyFevvRKyyYOSZjSzaWZJZilql8ySmDg-G7AibfRqGCT7FttnfhtPfc6vgjk8TsfMwVr8D92VXBjk8Hxx4PM0GU/w398-h398/memes.jpg" width="398" /></a></div><p></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">What Are Anti-Memes?</h3><p>Anti-memes are cultural ideas that resist spreading—often because they disrupt social harmony. Asparouhova writes, “Networks have a strong built-in immunity to anti-memes,” noting that these ideas tend to be suppressed because of their disruptive power.<br /><br />Prevention—especially when it comes to sexual violence—is inherently antimemetic. Like disaster preparedness or gun violence prevention, it rarely garners sustained public or political support unless a recent tragedy has captured public attention. <a href="https://members.atsa.com/learn/Details/roadmap-to-talking-about-perpetration-prevention-248108" target="_blank">ATSA's Roadmap to Talking About Perpetration Prevention</a> offers a structured approach to breaking through this “immunity” and reshaping how we talk about sexual harm.<br /><br />Asparouhova herself points to how prevention is deprioritized in public discourse and policy. Consider how media attention surges and fades after mass shootings—or how funding for disaster preparedness lags until catastrophe strikes. Prevention doesn’t spread easily because it requires uncomfortable conversations and long-term thinking—both of which challenge the fast-paced, reactive nature of contemporary communications.<br /><br />The same is true for conversations about treating individuals who have caused sexual harm. These conversations demand we acknowledge the harm sexual abuse has caused, to consider the harm that may occur, and requires frameworks grounded in science that address its prevalence in our communities.</p><h3 style="text-align: left;">ATSA's Roadmap to Talking About Perpetration Prevention</h3><p><a href="https://members.atsa.com/learn/Details/roadmap-to-talking-about-perpetration-prevention-248108" target="_blank">ATSA's Roadmap to Talking About Perpetration Prevention</a>&nbsp;is
 a guide for turning anti-memetic ideas into meaningful conversations. 
It encourages professionals to lead with values—to explain why they work
 with people who have sexually harmed others or are at risk to. It 
provides structure for conversations that highlight our shared goal: 
ending sexual violence.<br /><br />Although designed for ATSA members, this roadmap is for anyone ready to talk about prevention with nuance and purpose. It:<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; Emphasizes collaboration with individuals affected by trauma<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; Draws on decades of clinical research and evidence-based practice<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; Makes prevention the focal point of our work—not an afterthought</p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Why We Need Champions</h3><p>So how do anti-memes break through? Asparouhova’s answer: Champions. These are people who know how to navigate complex systems and bring difficult ideas into broader conversations. Champions help anti-memes find traction beyond their niche communities.<br /><br />She writes:<br />“But to the right champion, even the most labyrinthine system feels like an invitation to create something extraordinary... You will know it when looking at the problem makes your heart expand with possibilities, rather than shrink away.”<br /><br />If you’re reading this, you might be that champion. Because prevention faces many challenges —we need people willing to carry the message.<br /></p><p></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">A Final Note</h3><p>The ideas in the roadmap aren’t always easy to share. They’re disruptive. They challenge deeply held beliefs. They’re anti-memes. But they also carry the potential to transform lives and communities.<br />&nbsp;<br />This year, we've been highlighting <a href="https://www.atsa.com/?s=changemaker" target="_blank">Changemakers </a>within the ATSA community. Members who have embraced the challenge of sharing the message of sexual abuse treatment and prevention to transform their communities.&nbsp; I hope you'll join them in sharing these ideas with conviction, even when they're difficult to express. ATSA has your back with <a href="https://members.atsa.com/learn/" target="_blank">evidence-based resources</a> and professional media support when needed<span data-huuid="16393909046253577615"><span>—</span></span>that's how change begins.</p> ]]> </description>
<content:encoded> <![CDATA[ <p><b>by Aniss Benelmouffok</b><br /><br />In <a href="https://darkforest.metalabel.com/antimemetics?variantId=1" target="_blank">Antimemetics: Why Some Ideas Resist Spreading</a>, Nadia Asparouhova explores why cultural ideas fail to spread. Much of the resistance to spreading, “immunity” as Asparouhova puts it, is due to the uncomfortable nature of antimemetic subjects.&nbsp; Reading the book, I couldn't help but see efforts to prevent sexual abuse through an antimemetic lens. </p><div class="chat-assistant w-full min-w-full markdown-prose svelte-1u5gq5j"><div><div class="w-full flex flex-col relative" id="response-content-container">    </div></div></div> <div class="flex justify-start overflow-x-auto buttons text-gray-600 dark:text-gray-500 mt-0.5 svelte-1u5gq5j"> <div class="flex"></div></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><p>To frame these ideas, she draws on two concepts:<br /><br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; <b>Memes and Memeplexes</b>: Coined by Richard Dawkins in 1976, “memes” are self-replicating cultural units that spread and evolve like genes. Memeplexes—like religions and political ideologies—are networks of related memes.<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; <b>Mimetic Desire</b>: Introduced by René Girard, this concept suggests we desire what others desire, emulating “models” in our social spheres. This can lead to rivalry and scapegoating.<br /><br />Asparouhova proposes that if we take these two concepts as "canon," we can see how the internet has poured fuel on them. "Rather than ushering in an era of global peace, the internet made us leap at each other's throats," she says.  <br />&nbsp;</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxFnp1LdZCwi5xJS6XOBGl4iarPYYley8Jv21-yUHQMG6lD7Vzs7fDrLlqC73q0S9sXjVQP59ZviOaLbuK5Mle3-WGgSoP6-sQWSOIyyFevvRKyyYOSZjSzaWZJZilql8ySmDg-G7AibfRqGCT7FttnfhtPfc6vgjk8TsfMwVr8D92VXBjk8Hxx4PM0GU/s2560/memes.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2560" data-original-width="2560" height="398" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxFnp1LdZCwi5xJS6XOBGl4iarPYYley8Jv21-yUHQMG6lD7Vzs7fDrLlqC73q0S9sXjVQP59ZviOaLbuK5Mle3-WGgSoP6-sQWSOIyyFevvRKyyYOSZjSzaWZJZilql8ySmDg-G7AibfRqGCT7FttnfhtPfc6vgjk8TsfMwVr8D92VXBjk8Hxx4PM0GU/w398-h398/memes.jpg" width="398" /></a></div><p></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">What Are Anti-Memes?</h3><p>Anti-memes are cultural ideas that resist spreading—often because they disrupt social harmony. Asparouhova writes, “Networks have a strong built-in immunity to anti-memes,” noting that these ideas tend to be suppressed because of their disruptive power.<br /><br />Prevention—especially when it comes to sexual violence—is inherently antimemetic. Like disaster preparedness or gun violence prevention, it rarely garners sustained public or political support unless a recent tragedy has captured public attention. <a href="https://members.atsa.com/learn/Details/roadmap-to-talking-about-perpetration-prevention-248108" target="_blank">ATSA's Roadmap to Talking About Perpetration Prevention</a> offers a structured approach to breaking through this “immunity” and reshaping how we talk about sexual harm.<br /><br />Asparouhova herself points to how prevention is deprioritized in public discourse and policy. Consider how media attention surges and fades after mass shootings—or how funding for disaster preparedness lags until catastrophe strikes. Prevention doesn’t spread easily because it requires uncomfortable conversations and long-term thinking—both of which challenge the fast-paced, reactive nature of contemporary communications.<br /><br />The same is true for conversations about treating individuals who have caused sexual harm. These conversations demand we acknowledge the harm sexual abuse has caused, to consider the harm that may occur, and requires frameworks grounded in science that address its prevalence in our communities.</p><h3 style="text-align: left;">ATSA's Roadmap to Talking About Perpetration Prevention</h3><p><a href="https://members.atsa.com/learn/Details/roadmap-to-talking-about-perpetration-prevention-248108" target="_blank">ATSA's Roadmap to Talking About Perpetration Prevention</a>&nbsp;is
 a guide for turning anti-memetic ideas into meaningful conversations. 
It encourages professionals to lead with values—to explain why they work
 with people who have sexually harmed others or are at risk to. It 
provides structure for conversations that highlight our shared goal: 
ending sexual violence.<br /><br />Although designed for ATSA members, this roadmap is for anyone ready to talk about prevention with nuance and purpose. It:<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; Emphasizes collaboration with individuals affected by trauma<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; Draws on decades of clinical research and evidence-based practice<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; Makes prevention the focal point of our work—not an afterthought</p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Why We Need Champions</h3><p>So how do anti-memes break through? Asparouhova’s answer: Champions. These are people who know how to navigate complex systems and bring difficult ideas into broader conversations. Champions help anti-memes find traction beyond their niche communities.<br /><br />She writes:<br />“But to the right champion, even the most labyrinthine system feels like an invitation to create something extraordinary... You will know it when looking at the problem makes your heart expand with possibilities, rather than shrink away.”<br /><br />If you’re reading this, you might be that champion. Because prevention faces many challenges —we need people willing to carry the message.<br /></p><p></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">A Final Note</h3><p>The ideas in the roadmap aren’t always easy to share. They’re disruptive. They challenge deeply held beliefs. They’re anti-memes. But they also carry the potential to transform lives and communities.<br />&nbsp;<br />This year, we've been highlighting <a href="https://www.atsa.com/?s=changemaker" target="_blank">Changemakers </a>within the ATSA community. Members who have embraced the challenge of sharing the message of sexual abuse treatment and prevention to transform their communities.&nbsp; I hope you'll join them in sharing these ideas with conviction, even when they're difficult to express. ATSA has your back with <a href="https://members.atsa.com/learn/" target="_blank">evidence-based resources</a> and professional media support when needed<span data-huuid="16393909046253577615"><span>—</span></span>that's how change begins.</p> ]]> </content:encoded>
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<description> <![CDATA[ <p>Like many of you, the stats of sexual abuse had never sunk in before all my loved ones shared their experiences, but then and now, these figures scream at me. I can no longer look the other way. I can’t discount the discomfort by saying the research must be wrong or that the research responses must have come from somewhere else and someone else.</p>
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Turning Statistics into Action and Protecting Kids</h1></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e19 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-3 mp0z-4 mp0z-5"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e20 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-16 mp0z-1c"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e21 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e22 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-5 mp0z-6 mp0z-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e23 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-16 mp0z-1d"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e24 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e25 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n"><p>Stats are sterile. We are inundated with so much data that we have become numb to their message – that is, until that stat becomes representative of someone we know and love.</p>
<p>Ten years ago, this happened to me. I started working in the social sector, combatting child sexual abuse. Almost immediately, people in my extended family, my neighborhood, my faith community, co-workers, old friends I had not seen in years, and even acquaintances started sharing their experiences as survivors of child sexual abuse.</p>
<p>I'll never forget the emotions that came to me as I heard their stories. First, a humbling wave of gratitude that they trusted me with something so deeply personal. Second, a crushing realization of my own ignorance—how could so many people I cherish have endured such trauma? These weren't distant acquaintances either. Some of them were people I've loved for years, people I consider close. The question haunted me: how had I remained blind to their suffering all this time?</p>
<p>At this time, the stats transformed from sterile numbers to deeply impactful stories. They represented real people, my people. Predictably, I have seen this same pattern repeat over and over with anyone willing to talk openly about child sexual abuse.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e26 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-5 mp0z-6 mp0z-7 mp0z-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e27 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-16 mp0z-1e"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e28 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e29 mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-2x mp0z-32 mp0z-35 mp0z-36 mp0z-37 mp0z-38 mp0z-39 mp0z-3a mp0z-3b mp0z-3c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The Reality of Child Sexual Abuse Stats</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e30 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n">At the risk of providing you with yet another set of figures to remember, let me briefly share the stats of child sexual abuse. UNICEF estimates that one in eight children worldwide are sexually abused.<sup>1</sup> The CDC agrees when they report on prevalence in the United States. <strong>Citing credible research, the CDC says <a href="https://www.cdc.gov/child-abuse-neglect/about/about-child-sexual-abuse.html?utm_source=chatgpt.com#cdc_behavioral_basics_quick-quick-facts-and-stats" target="_blank" rel="noopener">one in four girls and one in twenty boys</a> will be sexually abused by age eighteen.</strong> These numbers are staggering and alarming. However, most research on prevalence narrowly defines child sexual abuse to include some physical touch. Yet, as technology-facilitated abuse has accelerated, we are starting to learn that the rates are much higher. A worldwide leader in prevalence research, Dr. David Finkelhor worked with colleagues to explain prevalence with technology-facilitated abuse added to the rates. We learn that <strong>numbers increase significantly to 10.8% of boys, 31.6% of girls, and 41.3% of those identifying as other genders</strong>.<sup>2</sup></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e31 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-5 mp0z-6 mp0z-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e32 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-16 mp0z-1f"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e33 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e34 mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-2x mp0z-32 mp0z-35 mp0z-36 mp0z-37 mp0z-38 mp0z-39 mp0z-3a mp0z-3b mp0z-3c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The Power of Survivor Stories</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e35 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n"><p>Like many of you, the stats of sexual abuse had never sunk in before all my loved ones shared their experiences, but then and now, these figures scream at me. I can no longer look the other way. I can’t discount the discomfort by saying the research must be wrong or that the research responses must have come from somewhere else and someone else. It was my family, my neighbors, my coworkers sharing their stories. What are we doing as a civilized society? How is it possible that we are not moving heaven and earth to stop this now?</p>
<p>I remember feeling very angry, as I took time to process the accounts of abuse shared with me. Angry at those that harm. Angry at those of us who look away. Angry at a society that decided the topic was too taboo to discuss. One thing about the emotion of anger is that it can be an excellent catalyst for change. We can do great things when we channel our anger into productive action.</p>
<p>Over the past ten years, I have worked to make a change. The impact has been measurable and significant, but compared to the size of the problem, we are just barely moving the needle. <strong>There is still so much to be done, and we must invoke a societal shift to see broad change.</strong></p>
<p>Learning from historical, social movements, we see patterns of how big social issues like abuse shift. We’ve seen it in the civil rights movement, smoking cessation, and car seat safety. Following those patterns, we know that societal change happens when there is top-down and bottom-up pressure—without either one, change stalls. Think of top-down pressure like laws, enforcement of laws, awareness campaigns, or organized activism. Consider bottom-up pressure as neighborhood dialogue, organic media, and grassroots activism. Since most who read this article are part of that bottom-up movement, let’s highlight three ways to take action now.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e36 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-3 mp0z-4 mp0z-5"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e37 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-16 mp0z-1g"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e38 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e39 mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-2x mp0z-32 mp0z-35 mp0z-36 mp0z-37 mp0z-38 mp0z-39 mp0z-3a mp0z-3b mp0z-3c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How to Take Action Today</h2></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e40 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-16 mp0z-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e41 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y mp0z-2a"><div class="x-row e32435-e42 mp0z-d mp0z-f mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-l mp0z-m mp0z-n mp0z-o mp0z-u mp0z-w mp0z-10 mp0z-16 mp0z-17 mp0z-1i"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e43 mp0z-1s mp0z-1u mp0z-1v mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y mp0z-21 mp0z-22 mp0z-27 mp0z-2b"><i class="x-icon e32435-e44 mp0z-3w" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf058;"></i></div><div class="x-col e32435-e45 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e46 mp0z-2g mp0z-2j mp0z-2m mp0z-2o mp0z-2p">Start talking about the issue with those you love</div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e47 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n">Do what I did ten years ago—start talking about the issue of sexual abuse with those you love. The stats will become real for you just like they did for me, but more importantly, you will be instrumental in breaking down the taboo of the issue. Every honest discussion chips away at the stigma and makes change possible. No society has solved a problem without first discussing and naming it.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e32435-e48 mp0z-d mp0z-f mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-l mp0z-m mp0z-n mp0z-o mp0z-u mp0z-w mp0z-10 mp0z-16 mp0z-17 mp0z-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e49 mp0z-1s mp0z-1u mp0z-1v mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y mp0z-21 mp0z-22 mp0z-27 mp0z-2b"><i class="x-icon e32435-e50 mp0z-3w" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf058;"></i></div><div class="x-col e32435-e51 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e52 mp0z-2g mp0z-2j mp0z-2m mp0z-2o mp0z-2p">Educate Yourself on the Impacts and How to Reduce the Risk</div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e53 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n">Educate yourself on the <a href="https://saprea.org/heal/#effects">long-term impacts</a> of abuse on survivors as well as how to <a href="https://saprea.org/prevent/">reduce risk</a> for today’s kids. The organization I work for, Saprea, has tremendous resources, and so do many others.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e32435-e54 mp0z-d mp0z-f mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-l mp0z-m mp0z-n mp0z-o mp0z-u mp0z-w mp0z-10 mp0z-16 mp0z-17 mp0z-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e55 mp0z-1s mp0z-1u mp0z-1v mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y mp0z-21 mp0z-22 mp0z-27 mp0z-2b"><i class="x-icon e32435-e56 mp0z-3w" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf058;"></i></div><div class="x-col e32435-e57 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e58 mp0z-2g mp0z-2j mp0z-2m mp0z-2o mp0z-2p">Commit to Change</div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e59 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n">From your learning, choose and change one behavior when interacting with your kids. I recommend focusing on age-appropriate conversations about <a href="https://saprea.org/prevent/educate/connect/">healthy boundaries</a>, but you may pick something else. The key is to begin with personal change. Societal change happens because individuals commit to changing themselves first.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e60 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-5 mp0z-6 mp0z-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e61 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-16 mp0z-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e62 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e63 mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-32 mp0z-34 mp0z-37 mp0z-3b mp0z-3d mp0z-3e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">We have solved significant issues as a country and world. We can do it with sexual abuse as well. Don’t let sterile stats be your only connection to survivors and children. <strong>Create a world where survivors can heal, and children can maintain their innocence.</strong></h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e64 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-5 mp0z-7 mp0z-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e65 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-o mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-11 mp0z-16 mp0z-17 mp0z-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e66 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e67 mp0z-2s mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-2x mp0z-2y mp0z-2z mp0z-32 mp0z-36 mp0z-37 mp0z-3a mp0z-3b mp0z-3f"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">About the Author</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-row e32435-e68 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-12 mp0z-13 mp0z-16 mp0z-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><figure class="x-col e32435-e69 mp0z-1s mp0z-1u mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y mp0z-21 mp0z-25 mp0z-27 mp0z-29"><span class="x-image e32435-e70 mp0z-3t mp0z-3v featured-author-portrait"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/Chris-Yadon_resize-150x150.jpg" alt="Image"></span></figure><div class="x-col e32435-e71 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-2c mp0z-2d"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e72 mp0z-2s mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-2z mp0z-32 mp0z-34 mp0z-37 mp0z-3b mp0z-3e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Chris Yadon, MPA</h4></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e73 mp0z-2s mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2x mp0z-2z mp0z-31 mp0z-3b mp0z-3c mp0z-3g mp0z-3h"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Managing Director</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e74 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2h mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2n">As Saprea’s first employee and Executive Director, Chris Yadon collaborated closely with the organization’s founders to launch and establish its operations in 2015. Chris now serves as the Managing Director, leading the organization’s public efforts to drive societal change around the issue of child sexual abuse. He has previously held executive leadership positions for start-up tech and healthcare organizations.
Chris is committed to driving broad societal change to address child sexual abuse and uses his influence as a thought leader and strategist to inspire others to take action. He firmly believes we can collectively create a better future for our children.
A sought-after speaker, Chris inspires audiences with timely topics such as overcoming emotional numbing by learning how to feel again, protecting children from child sexual abuse in a hypersexualized world, and how to intentionally drive societal change. He has been featured across several media platforms where he is requested to contribute as an industry leader and subject matter expert.
Chris received a BA and an MPA degree from Brigham Young University. He is the grateful father of six children: three boys and three girls. He and his wife, Christy, have been married for 28 years.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e75 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-4 mp0z-5 mp0z-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e76 mp0z-d mp0z-e mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-x mp0z-y mp0z-13 mp0z-1a mp0z-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e77 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-acc e32435-e78 mp0z-3x" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e32435-e78"><div class="e32435-e79 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e32435-e79" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e32435-e79" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e32435-e79"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e32435-e79" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e32435-e79" data-x-toggleable="e32435-e79" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><ol>
 	<li>United Nations Children’s Fund (2020). Action to end child sexual abuse and exploitation: a review of the evidence 2020. UNICEF, New York.</li>
 	<li>Finkelhor, David, Turner, Heather, Colburn, Derdre (2024), The prevalence of child sexual abuse with online sexual abuse added, Child Abuse &amp; Neglect 149 106634</li>
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I can no longer look the other way. I can’t discount the discomfort by saying the research must be wrong or that the research responses must have come from somewhere else and someone else.</div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e90 mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n mp0z-2r"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e32435-e86 mp0z-1w mp0z-2d mp0z-2e post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/reducing-pornography-exposure/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e32435-e87 mp0z-3t"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/hypersexualized-world-blog.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="32318:full"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e88 mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-2x mp0z-35 mp0z-37 mp0z-39 mp0z-3b mp0z-3c mp0z-3h mp0z-3j"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Protecting Kids: Navigating a Hypersexualized World and Reducing Pornography Exposure</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e89 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2l mp0z-2p mp0z-2q excerpt">There is no quick fix that ensures your child will not purposely consume pornography, but a parent can do specific things that will reduce this risk. It is nearly impossible for a parent to prevent all accidental exposure to pornography. Still, again, a parent can do specific things that will reduce the volume of accidental exposures and their impact. </div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e90 mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n mp0z-2r"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e32435-e86 mp0z-1w mp0z-2d mp0z-2e post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/incarceration/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e32435-e87 mp0z-3t"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/CSA-and-Incarceration.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="31936:full"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e88 mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-2x mp0z-35 mp0z-37 mp0z-39 mp0z-3b mp0z-3c mp0z-3h mp0z-3j"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Breaking the Link Between Child Sexual Abuse and Incarceration: A Path to Healing</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e89 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2l mp0z-2p mp0z-2q excerpt">Research reveals a striking pattern among incarcerated women: up to 66% report experiencing childhood sexual abuse, more than double the rate found in the general female population (31%). 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I know it has something to do with sex, but what does it mean?” Through the conversation, I discovered that she had heard the word on her elementary school playground. In that moment, I realized my response could either build a protective barrier against pornography or create curiosity that might lead toward it.</p>
<p>There is no quick fix that ensures your child will not <em>purposely</em> consume pornography, but a parent can do specific things that will reduce this risk. It is nearly impossible for a parent to prevent all <em>accidental</em> exposure to pornography. Still, again, a parent can do specific things that will reduce the volume of accidental exposures and their impact.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e26 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-3 moxo-5 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e27 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-s moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-14 moxo-15 moxo-1c moxo-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e28 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2l"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e29 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-3 moxo-4 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e30 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-1g moxo-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e31 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e32 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3m moxo-3p moxo-3q moxo-3r moxo-3s moxo-3t moxo-3u moxo-3v moxo-3w moxo-3x"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The Growing Problem of Children Exposed to Pornography</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e33 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31"><p>Rates of exposure, purposeful or accidental, are overwhelming. <strong>53% of eleven-to sixteen-year-olds report seeing online pornography at least once.</strong> Of this sample, <strong>94% report viewing online pornography before age fourteen</strong>.<sup>1</sup> According to other research, these numbers are likely very conservative, with pornography consumption growing among minors of all genders.</p>

<p>With this level of prevalence, <strong>all children are at a high risk</strong>. Many past generations have been exposed to pornography as minors and led healthy lives. Some may even argue that pornography is part of the normal sexual development of young people. So, should we care or even bother?</p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e34 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-3 moxo-4 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e35 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-1g moxo-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e36 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e37 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3m moxo-3p moxo-3q moxo-3r moxo-3s moxo-3t moxo-3u moxo-3v moxo-3w moxo-3x"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Why Parental Intervention Matters – Risks and Realities</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e38 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3j moxo-3m moxo-3o moxo-3r moxo-3w moxo-3y moxo-3z moxo-40 moxo-41 moxo-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">There are <strong>three</strong> specific reasons we should care and bother to intervene. </h4></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e39 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-r moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-12 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-1g moxo-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e40 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2m"><div class="x-row e32316-e41 moxo-i moxo-k moxo-n moxo-o moxo-q moxo-r moxo-s moxo-t moxo-10 moxo-16 moxo-1c moxo-1d moxo-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e42 moxo-23 moxo-25 moxo-26 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2c moxo-2d moxo-2i moxo-2n"><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e43 moxo-2t moxo-2x moxo-32 moxo-33 moxo-34 moxo-35">01</div></div><div class="x-col e32316-e44 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e45 moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2x moxo-34 moxo-36 moxo-37 moxo-38">Sexual content is used to groom children</div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e46 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31">During interactions with a victim, <strong>98% of online groomers introduce sexual content into the conversation within the first day</strong>. <strong>69% introduce sexual content within the first 30 minutes of an initial interaction.</strong><sup>2</sup> Reducing exposure to pornography is part of reducing the risk of children encountering online predators. </div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e32316-e47 moxo-i moxo-k moxo-n moxo-o moxo-q moxo-r moxo-s moxo-t moxo-10 moxo-16 moxo-1c moxo-1d moxo-1p"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e48 moxo-23 moxo-25 moxo-26 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2c moxo-2d moxo-2i moxo-2n"><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e49 moxo-2t moxo-2x moxo-32 moxo-33 moxo-34 moxo-35">02</div></div><div class="x-col e32316-e50 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e51 moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2x moxo-34 moxo-36 moxo-37 moxo-38">The nature of today’s pornographic content is video-based and often violent.<sup>3</sup></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e52 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31">This exposure introduces children to unrealistic and harmful portrayals of sexual activity.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e32316-e53 moxo-i moxo-k moxo-n moxo-o moxo-q moxo-r moxo-s moxo-t moxo-10 moxo-16 moxo-1c moxo-1d moxo-1q"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e54 moxo-23 moxo-25 moxo-26 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2c moxo-2d moxo-2i moxo-2n"><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e55 moxo-2t moxo-2x moxo-32 moxo-33 moxo-34 moxo-35">03</div></div><div class="x-col e32316-e56 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e57 moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2x moxo-33 moxo-34 moxo-36 moxo-38">The consumption of pornography can become compulsive</div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e58 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31">Due to brain development, minors are more susceptible to the development of addictive or compulsive behaviors when exposed to a stimulus. Early exposure to pornography could create unwanted compulsions that are hard for the child to remove even in adulthood.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e59 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-4 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-8 moxo-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e60 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-1g moxo-1r"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e61 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e62 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3m moxo-3p moxo-3q moxo-3r moxo-3s moxo-3t moxo-3u moxo-3v moxo-3w moxo-3x"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The Role of Technology – Reducing Accidental Exposure</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e63 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31"><p>There are great technologies that parents can use in their homes. However, parents must realize that their house is not the only place their children will have access. <strong>Children who want to access pornography are very resourceful and usually find a way.</strong> It could be through school resources, a friend’s device, bypassing parental controls, using a neighbor’s internet connection, and the list can go on and on.</p>
<p>While technology can reduce accidental exposure to explicit content, it's a limited defense against deliberate seeking. <strong>In fact, excessive reliance on technological barriers may actually undermine efforts to reduce the risk.</strong></p>
<p>Overreliance on technology often leads to extensive technology restrictions. This is often the best approach for our younger children, but it can backfire as children grow. When a child, particularly an older teen, feels overly restricted, they often resort to deception to bypass restrictions. When they bypass a restriction, they shut down communication and turn to secrecy. <strong>Secrecy is where purposeful pornography consumption thrives and builds deep roots.</strong></p></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e64 moxo-3b moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3g moxo-3m moxo-3o moxo-3r moxo-3w moxo-42 moxo-43 moxo-44"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Parents should view technology as one tool in their overall tool belt, not as a fix-all. Like any tool, you use it for a specific job, but not every job. Purposeful consumption must be addressed through other methods and tools.
</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e65 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-3 moxo-5 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e66 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-s moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-14 moxo-15 moxo-1c moxo-1s"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e67 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2l"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e68 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-3 moxo-4 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-8 moxo-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e69 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-1g moxo-1t"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e70 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e71 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3m moxo-3p moxo-3q moxo-3r moxo-3s moxo-3u moxo-3v moxo-3w moxo-3x moxo-45 moxo-46"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Combatting Purposeful Pornography Consumption – Effective Strategies</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e72 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3m moxo-3o moxo-3r moxo-3w moxo-3y moxo-3z moxo-41 moxo-42 moxo-44 moxo-47"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Pornography use among children flourishes in environments of dishonesty, embarrassment, and hidden behaviors. Understanding this makes it clearer how to intervene. Just know that reducing this risk requires deliberate, steady work that can be challenging. The foundation of success is keeping communication channels open.</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e73 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-4 moxo-6 moxo-9 moxo-c moxo-d"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e74 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-1g moxo-1u"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e75 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e76 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3r moxo-3x moxo-3y moxo-3z moxo-41 moxo-47 moxo-48 moxo-49 moxo-4a"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Maintaining Open Communication With Your Child</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e77 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31"><p>Maintaining open communication with a child is a monumental task for any parent, even under ideal circumstances. Children go through regular and natural developmental stages to gradually assert their independence. It becomes common for teens to shut down or significantly limit dialogue with parents. Add to this the deception, shame, and secrecy, plus the awkwardness of talking about anything of a sexual nature, and you have a recipe for silence. And this recipe does not even account for the baggage we as parents carry into the relationship.</p>
<p>With all this against us, we may wonder if we will ever have a meaningful talk with our children again. So, how do we overcome these seemingly insurmountable odds to maintain open communication? <strong>We start early, reduce our tendency to inflict shame, and create safe spaces.</strong></p>
<p>It was previously mentioned that children undergo stages of asserting their independence. Children also go through regular and natural developmental stages where their parent(s) are their entire world—their superheroes. And fortunately, this stage coincides with their early ability to rationalize. The sweet spot is usually between the ages of 6 and 10. <strong>Parents can use this stage to set curiosity, listening, and respect patterns when communicating with their children—reaping big rewards later as children mature.</strong></p>
<p>Another crucial step is to <strong>stop shaming our children</strong>. This is often the most difficult change because our childhood experiences shape how we parent. If we experienced shame growing up, we are likely to use it with our kids. While shame is a topic that deserves extensive exploration, the most important thing to recognize is how easily we slip into shaming our children during correction or discipline. Those are the moments when shame typically emerges.</p>
<p>We must rethink how we talk to our children when disciplining and correcting them. Please don’t misunderstand; <strong>discipline and correction are critical to a child's healthy development, but how we discipline and correct can be damaging and counterproductive to our goals</strong>. Why is this so critical for this topic? When children see pornography, whether on accident or purpose, they already feel uncomfortable and likely have a sense of shame. If we respond to their disclosure with additional shame, it may be the last time they disclose, effectively putting them in a downward shame spiral that is the breeding ground for additional pornography consumption.</p>
<p>The third step to open communication is to <strong>set safe spaces</strong>. <strong>Safe spaces are places our children associate with positive, essential discussions.</strong> These spaces imprint in the child’s brain and can create a sense of safety that allows them to open up. They can be anywhere—a specific room, in a car, at a park. It doesn’t matter. What matters is that they associate that place as a spot where they talk with their parent(s) about important things. It is helpful if a parent consciously and proactively picks spots for open dialogue. This sets a pattern that is familiar and safe for the child.</the></p>
<p><strong>Following these three communication steps will help us overcome the seemingly insurmountable odds of <a href="https://saprea.org/prevent/talk/">maintaining open communication</a> with our children.</strong> It also sets the parent up to create a plan with the child for what they will do when, not if, they are exposed to pornography.</p></div><hr class="x-line e32316-e78 moxo-4u"></hr></div><div class="x-col e32316-e79 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-2o moxo-2p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e80 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3r moxo-3x moxo-3y moxo-41 moxo-46 moxo-47 moxo-48 moxo-49 moxo-4a moxo-4b"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Address Early Childhood Trauma to Prevent Pornography Consumption</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e81 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31"><p>Another key to reducing the risk of purposeful consumption is to <strong>help your child process early childhood traumatic experiences</strong>. We all have them. These experiences impact some more than others, and sometimes, the impacts can become debilitating.</p>
<p>Think of traumatic impacts as the result of an experience where we did not feel safe. When we have a traumatic experience, and it is followed by additional insecurity or dismissive responses, the experiences can leave an imprint in the survival systems of our brains, leading to trauma symptoms. <strong>Anytime we are in an environment that reminds us of the original traumatic experience, our physical senses instantaneously alert our biological survival systems, and those survival systems activate our stress responses in the brain and body.</strong> This is called a trigger.</p>
<p>If we have too many triggers and, thus, an abnormal amount of stress responses, our brain and body become maladaptive and start looking for a coping tool to create a sense of safety. This is often the birthplace of compulsive and addictive behaviors. We use these compulsive or addictive behaviors to calm the stress response. Our brain and body begin to crave these behaviors, and pornography can be one of these.</p>
<p><strong>Because of the neurochemical release that accompanies pornography consumption, our brain may associate our triggers with a craving for that consumption, and, as a result, the purposeful pursuit of pornography begins.</strong></p>
<p>So, what does a child need? <strong>The child requires a parent who will honestly identify traumatic experiences and help them healthily process those experiences.</strong> This is very hard for a parent to do because the traumatic experience is often associated with a sense of failure as a parent. The parent(s) tell themselves, “I did not protect them.”; “It is my fault this happened,” or the worst one of all, “I caused the trauma.” When a parent has this dialogue going through their head, dismissing or ignoring the hard work needed to help a child process their experiences is easy.</p>
<p>So, what is my child’s early childhood trauma, and how do I recognize it? The answer to this question can be as different as the child it applies to. A parent must become an astute observer. They watch moments when their children show insecurity or act out. Observing these moments, they look for patterns and connect the dots across these behaviors. Once they identify the patterns, the parent can help the child process traumatic experiences better.</p>
<p>Not all traumatic experiences are created equal. Some experiences are so consistently traumatic that a parent does not need to guess why their child struggles. The big three that almost always produce a significant trauma response are physical abuse, sexual abuse, and neglect. These are closely followed by several other significant traumatic experiences, such as the death of a loved one, divorce, bullying, and emotional abuse. These significant traumatic experiences often require professional help. As parent(s), we should be quick to engage professionals when our children go through these types of experiences.</p>
<p><strong>When we identify our children’s traumatic experiences and <a href="https://saprea.org/prevent/support/">help them process</a> these experiences (often with the help of professionals), we reduce the likelihood that our children will develop long-term triggers and maladaptive responses, which, in turn, reduces the possibility that they will use pornography as a coping tool.</strong></p></div><hr class="x-line e32316-e82 moxo-4u"></hr></div><div class="x-col e32316-e83 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-2o moxo-2p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e84 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3r moxo-3x moxo-3y moxo-3z moxo-41 moxo-47 moxo-48 moxo-49 moxo-4a"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Normalizing a Healthy Approach to Sex</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e85 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31"><p>Nothing says awkward more for a child or a parent than discussing sex. <strong>But we must embrace the uncomfortable and do it anyway.</strong> Our sexual expressions are essential to us as humans. They are beautiful and healthy when approached with the respect that they deserve.  But, as with most things wonderful, they can also be abused and put us in harm’s way. Because of this risk of harm, parents often choose not to breach the topic of sex with their children, or if they do, discuss sex primarily using negative language.</p>

<p>Either of these approaches, silence or using negative language, tends to create sexual shame. It tells the child that this is not a safe topic. It is taboo. This leads children to quench their curiosity through internet searches, discussions with friends, or observation of popular media. Each of those alternative methods is fraught with danger and misinformation.</p> 

<p>For this reason, it is critical that the parent(s) <strong><a href="https://saprea.org/prevent/educate/">open dialogue about sex and sexuality in age-appropriate ways</a></strong>. Many resources guide parents on what to discuss at each stage of a child’s development.  And it should start when they are a toddler. For example, a perfect discussion with a toddler is about privacy and boundaries. You can also talk with a toddler about healthy expressions, such as cuddling with a safe adult or giving hugs when they want.  This age-appropriate dialogue progresses as the child grows and, as a result, normalizes a healthy approach to sex and sexuality.</p> 

<p>There may be some awkwardness even in a family with healthy dialogue. Still, when a child hits a critical point, such as an accidental exposure to pornography or even a purposeful one, the <strong>openness will significantly increase the likelihood the child will discuss it and process the exposure with their parent(s)</strong>, thus giving the parent(s) the opportunity to reinforce a positive and healthy view of sex.</p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e86 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-3 moxo-5 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e87 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-s moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-14 moxo-15 moxo-1c moxo-1v"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e88 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2l"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e89 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-4 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-8 moxo-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e90 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-1g moxo-1w"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e91 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e92 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3m moxo-3p moxo-3q moxo-3r moxo-3s moxo-3u moxo-3v moxo-3w moxo-3x moxo-46 moxo-4c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">A Reason to Hope – Empowering Parents Against Pornography Risks</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e93 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31"><p>These risk reducers, open communication, addressing traumatic experiences, and normalizing sexual conversations are critical for parents. Otherwise, you leave things up to chance, and the odds are not in your favor. But these keys also need a word of caution. You can do everything by the book and still have a child choose to pursue pornography purposely. This is why they are called risk reducers and not risk eliminators. Regardless, a parent should have hope that their plans and efforts will make a difference. As an engaged parent, you influence your child's choices more than any other person.</p></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e94 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3m moxo-3o moxo-3r moxo-3w moxo-3z moxo-41 moxo-42 moxo-44 moxo-47 moxo-4d"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Pornography is rampant. Our kids will likely be exposed. Empowered parents willing to educate themselves, invest the time and energy, and approach the risk with commitment can make a difference for their children. They can reduce the risk that pornography will become a long-lasting, detrimental challenge.</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e95 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-4 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-9 moxo-e"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e96 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-s moxo-t moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-14 moxo-15 moxo-17 moxo-1c moxo-1d moxo-1x"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e97 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e98 moxo-3b moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3i moxo-3j moxo-3m moxo-3q moxo-3r moxo-3v moxo-3w moxo-4e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">About the Author</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-row e32316-e99 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-s moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-14 moxo-15 moxo-18 moxo-19 moxo-1c moxo-1y"><div class="x-row-inner"><figure class="x-col e32316-e100 moxo-23 moxo-25 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2c moxo-2g moxo-2i moxo-2k"><span class="x-image e32316-e101 moxo-4r moxo-4t featured-author-portrait"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/Chris-Yadon_resize-150x150.jpg" alt="Image"></span></figure><div class="x-col e32316-e102 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-2p moxo-2q"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e103 moxo-3b moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3j moxo-3m moxo-3o moxo-3r moxo-3w moxo-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Chris Yadon</h4></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e104 moxo-3b moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3h moxo-3j moxo-3l moxo-3w moxo-3x moxo-4a moxo-4f"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Managing Director</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e105 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2v moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-31">Chris Yadon is the Managing Director of Saprea, and is responsible for managing all operations and services of Saprea in both Utah and Georgia. Yadon has spent most of his professional career in start-up executive management with an emphasis in operations, marketing, and sales. Since joining Saprea in 2015, Yadon has brought a valuable skillset to the organization and is committed to addressing the epidemic of child sexual abuse. His expertise centers on increasing awareness arond this epidemic and educating the public on best practices for prevention and the healing services available to survivors. Yadon has been featured across several regional and national media platforms where he is often requested as an industry thought leader and expert.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e106 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-4 moxo-5 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e107 moxo-i moxo-j moxo-n moxo-o moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-19 moxo-1g moxo-1z"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e108 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-acc e32316-e109 moxo-4v" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e32316-e109"><div class="e32316-e110 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e32316-e110" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e32316-e110" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e32316-e110"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e32316-e110" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e32316-e110" data-x-toggleable="e32316-e110" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><ol>
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It is nearly impossible for a parent to prevent all accidental exposure to pornography. 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While multiple factors contribute to incarceration, this dramatic statistical disparity demands attention.</div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e121 moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31 moxo-3a"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e32316-e117 moxo-27 moxo-2p moxo-2r post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/how-proximity-can-help-prevent-abuse/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e32316-e118 moxo-4r"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/ProximityBlog.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="31748:full"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e119 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3p moxo-3r moxo-3t moxo-3u moxo-3w moxo-3x moxo-48 moxo-4a moxo-4h"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Why Parents Don’t See Child Sexual Abuse as a Problem—And How Proximity Can Fix It</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e120 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2z moxo-35 moxo-38 moxo-39 excerpt">In my work addressing child sexual abuse, I see this phenomenon daily. Despite extensive research highlighting that child sexual abuse is a significant issue in every community, many parents and caregivers dismiss it as a distant problem, believing it happens to someone else, somewhere else. Read more. </div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e121 moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31 moxo-3a"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e122 moxo-i moxo-l moxo-n moxo-o moxo-q moxo-s moxo-v moxo-10 moxo-14 moxo-1b moxo-1c moxo-22"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e123 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e32316-e124 moxo-4l moxo-4q moxo-g" tabindex="0" href="/all-blogs/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">SEE ALL blogs</span></div></div></a></div></div></div></div></div>
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But what if it wasn’t just a cinematic moment? What if it was your reality? You sit on an uncomfortable bed, thoughts racing through your mind as you ask yourself, “How did I get here?” For too many survivors of child sexual abuse, incarceration isn’t fiction—it’s their reality. Many incarcerated women ponder how they got there, without a clear answer. Maybe our society would benefit from a more thoughtful approach for how childhood trauma can pave a pathway to incarceration, prompting us to provide healing programs for survivors of child sexual abuse.</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31934-e23 mon2-1 mon2-2 mon2-5 mon2-6 mon2-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31934-e24 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-p mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-w mon2-x mon2-1f"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e25 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e26 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2v mon2-30 mon2-33 mon2-34 mon2-35 mon2-36 mon2-37 mon2-38 mon2-39 mon2-3a"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The Link Between Child Abuse and Incarceration</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31934-e27 mon2-2g mon2-2h mon2-2j mon2-2l mon2-2m">Research reveals a striking pattern among incarcerated women: <strong>up to 66% report experiencing childhood sexual abuse</strong>,<sup>1</sup> more than double the rate found in the general female population (31%).<sup>2</sup> While multiple factors contribute to incarceration, this dramatic statistical disparity demands attention. The consistency and magnitude of this relationship across studies point to <strong>childhood sexual abuse as a significant risk factor in women's pathways to imprisonment</strong>. As the saying goes, “Correlation is not causation.” But this level of high correlation should give us pause.</div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e28 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2v mon2-30 mon2-33 mon2-34 mon2-35 mon2-37 mon2-38 mon2-39 mon2-3a mon2-3b"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Trauma Shapes Coping Mechanisms</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31934-e29 mon2-2g mon2-2h mon2-2j mon2-2l mon2-2m">The line between child sexual abuse and incarceration is not hard to draw. When a child experiences abuse, their safety is violated. The natural response from their brain is to seek safety. The survival part of their brain will not discern between constructive and destructive coping behaviors. As a natural consequence, a child may attach to harmful or maladaptive coping behaviors such as substance use, eating disorders, or suicidal ideation. This becomes more likely as they grow into their teenage and adult years. Using substances as an example, the survivor, now addicted, resorts to criminal activity to feed the addiction, eventually finding themselves involved with the justice system.</div></div><div class="x-col e31934-e30 mon2-1s mon2-1u mon2-1w mon2-1y mon2-1z mon2-21 mon2-27 mon2-29 mon2-2b mon2-2c"><span class="x-image e31934-e31 mon2-42"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/how-to-heal-sexual-abuse.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="Image"></span><div class="x-row e31934-e32 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-o mon2-p mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-v mon2-w mon2-1c mon2-1g"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e33 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e34 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2y mon2-33 mon2-35 mon2-3c mon2-3d mon2-3e mon2-3f"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Learn More About How Trauma Impacts Childhood Development</h3></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e31934-e35 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-j mon2-o mon2-p mon2-y mon2-z mon2-1c mon2-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e36 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e37 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2w mon2-2z mon2-3a mon2-3d mon2-3e mon2-3g mon2-3h mon2-3i"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The effects of Child Sexual Abuse</h5></div></div></div></div><div class="x-col e31934-e38 mon2-1s mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y mon2-21 mon2-23 mon2-24 mon2-27 mon2-28"><i class="x-icon e31934-e39 mon2-45" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0a9;"></i></div></div></div><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e31934-e40 mon2-3t mon2-3u mon2-3z mon2-40 my-button" tabindex="0" href="/heal/#effects"><div class="x-anchor-content"></div></a></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31934-e41 mon2-1 mon2-2 mon2-4 mon2-5 mon2-7 mon2-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31934-e42 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-p mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-v mon2-w mon2-1c mon2-1i"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e43 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e44 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2v mon2-30 mon2-33 mon2-34 mon2-35 mon2-36 mon2-37 mon2-38 mon2-39 mon2-3a"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Breaking the Cycle Through Healing Programs</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31934-e45 mon2-2g mon2-2h mon2-2j mon2-2l mon2-2m">We have reason to believe that if we can reduce the number of girls who experience child sexual abuse and provide healing programs for survivors, we could reduce the number of incarcerated women. In addition, if we can help incarcerated women heal from their child sexual abuse, we have reason to believe that we can reduce recidivism through trauma healing. Each of these assumptions will need to be studied extensively, but until then, we can work with the data we have to design promising interventions.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e31934-e46 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-p mon2-t mon2-w mon2-z mon2-10 mon2-11 mon2-1c mon2-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e47 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e48 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2w mon2-2x mon2-2z mon2-30 mon2-3a mon2-3b mon2-3d mon2-3e mon2-3h mon2-3j"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Creating Opportunities for Healing Within the System</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31934-e49 mon2-2g mon2-2h mon2-2j mon2-2l mon2-2m"><p>Research reveals a critical window of opportunity within correctional facilities themselves. One study noted that for some survivors—approximately one-fifth of incarcerated women—their first disclosure of childhood sexual abuse occurs within an institutional setting. This finding suggests that <strong>correctional facilities may serve as an unexpected but important venue for initiating trauma recovery work</strong>.</p> 
<p>The timing of these institutional disclosures is particularly significant. While many survivors carry their experiences in silence for years—with <strong>45.8% delaying disclosure for a year or more</strong><sup>3</sup>—even the environment like a correctional facility, combined with appropriate support services, may provide the security needed to begin addressing long-buried trauma. <strong>Rather than viewing these facilities solely as punitive environments, we can recognize their potential as spaces where healing can begin.</strong></p>
<p>This revelation also underscores the importance of ensuring that correctional staff are adequately trained in trauma-informed approaches and that facilities maintain robust mental health services.<sup>4</sup> <strong>When a woman chooses to disclose abuse—perhaps for the first time in her life—the system must be prepared to respond with appropriate support and resources.</strong> This preparation could transform what might otherwise be a missed opportunity into a crucial first step toward breaking the cycle of trauma and incarceration.</p>
</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e31934-e50 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-m mon2-p mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-w mon2-12 mon2-18 mon2-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e51 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e52 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2v mon2-30 mon2-33 mon2-34 mon2-35 mon2-37 mon2-38 mon2-39 mon2-3a mon2-3b"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">A Scalable Solution for Incarcerated Women</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31934-e53 mon2-2g mon2-2h mon2-2j mon2-2l mon2-2m"><p>Starting in 2019, our team at Saprea piloted various healing programs within women’s facilities. This has been a challenging journey. We have seen good, measurable success with the curricula, but the implementation has been difficult to scale until recently.</p>
<p>Working with our partner, <a href="https://www.edovo.org/" target="_blank">Edovo</a>, Saprea deployed ten curriculum modules complete with comprehension testing to 1134 prison and jail facilities across the United States. <strong>In the first month of deployment, over 10,500 incarcerated women accessed the curricula, over 7,500 completed at least one module, and over 2,800 finished the tenth module.</strong> This scalable approach allows Saprea to conduct rigorous outcome-based research to determine whether our curriculum, which works in other settings, can reduce post-traumatic stress symptoms and enhance coping skills in this underserved, deserving population.</p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31934-e54 mon2-1 mon2-2 mon2-4 mon2-5 mon2-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31934-e55 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-m mon2-p mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-w mon2-12 mon2-18 mon2-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e56 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e57 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2v mon2-30 mon2-33 mon2-34 mon2-35 mon2-36 mon2-37 mon2-38 mon2-39 mon2-3a"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Hope for the Future: Expanding Healing Efforts</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31934-e58 mon2-2g mon2-2h mon2-2j mon2-2l mon2-2m"><p>With these promising advances, the best is yet to come. As we expand healing efforts to survivors, including incarcerated men, we give them a chance to rewrite their stories and return to society healthy and ready to contribute. <strong>Breaking the cycle of child sexual abuse and incarceration starts with awareness and action.</strong> I imagine a world where the clank of a jail cell is less of a reality for survivors of child sexual abuse and can only be imagined by them through the fictional portrayals of Hollywood.</p>
<p><strong>Share this post to help raise awareness and explore our healing programs for survivors <a href="/heal/">here</a>.</strong></p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31934-e59 mon2-1 mon2-2 mon2-5 mon2-6 mon2-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31934-e60 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-m mon2-n mon2-p mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-w mon2-12 mon2-13 mon2-18 mon2-19 mon2-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e61 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e62 mon2-2p mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2v mon2-2w mon2-30 mon2-34 mon2-35 mon2-39 mon2-3a mon2-3k"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">About the Author</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-row e31934-e63 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-m mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-w mon2-12 mon2-14 mon2-15 mon2-18 mon2-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><figure class="x-col e31934-e64 mon2-1s mon2-1u mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y mon2-21 mon2-25 mon2-27 mon2-29"><span class="x-image e31934-e65 mon2-42 mon2-44 featured-author-portrait"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/Chris-Yadon_resize-150x150.jpg" alt="Image"></span></figure><div class="x-col e31934-e66 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-2d mon2-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e67 mon2-2p mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2w mon2-30 mon2-32 mon2-35 mon2-3a mon2-3l"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Chris Yadon</h4></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e68 mon2-2p mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2u mon2-2w mon2-2z mon2-3a mon2-3e mon2-3f mon2-3i mon2-3m"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Managing Director</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31934-e69 mon2-2g mon2-2h mon2-2i mon2-2j mon2-2m">Chris Yadon is the Managing Director of Saprea, and is responsible for managing all operations and services of Saprea in both Utah and Georgia. Yadon has spent most of his professional career in start-up executive management with an emphasis in operations, marketing, and sales. Since joining Saprea in 2015, Yadon has brought a valuable skillset to the organization and is committed to addressing the epidemic of child sexual abuse. His expertise centers on increasing awareness arond this epidemic and educating the public on best practices for prevention and the healing services available to survivors. Yadon has been featured across several regional and national media platforms where he is often requested as an industry thought leader and expert.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31934-e70 mon2-1 mon2-2 mon2-4 mon2-5 mon2-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31934-e71 mon2-d mon2-e mon2-h mon2-i mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-v mon2-w mon2-15 mon2-1c mon2-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e72 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-acc e31934-e73 mon2-46" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e31934-e73"><div class="e31934-e74 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e31934-e74" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e31934-e74" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e31934-e74"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e31934-e74" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e31934-e74" data-x-toggleable="e31934-e74" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><ol>
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At the time, our children were eight and six, and we were focused on learning how to be better parents. The conference was largely unmemorable except for one passing comment by one of the presenters. He said research is showing that the average age a boy will first be exposed to sexually explicit content is between nine and eleven, so if you want to be the first person to introduce the topic of sex, you better talk before that age. I thought about all that could go wrong with him learning about sex from other sources, but the most concerning risk was the potential for child sexual abuse.</p>
<p>I felt a pit in my stomach. I didn’t want my eight-year-old son to learn about sex the way I did – pieced together through media, jokes from friends, and a grossly inadequate awkward health class, but I could not imagine having “the talk” with him as an eight-year-old. As I struggled with what to do with these back-and-forth, conflicting thoughts, ultimately, proximity created urgency, and Christy and I decided to have “the talk” with our son.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31537-e23 moc1-1 moc1-2 moc1-3 moc1-5 moc1-6"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e24 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-q moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-w moc1-x moc1-1a moc1-1d"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e25 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e26 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-2v moc1-2z moc1-32 moc1-33 moc1-34 moc1-35 moc1-36 moc1-37 moc1-38"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Understanding Proximity and Urgency</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e27 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k"><p>Before sharing the rest of the story, I pause to emphasize that sex, generally, and child sexual abuse, specifically, are uncomfortable topics for most parents. Yet, they are critical to address with kids. Both proximity and urgency are essential in influencing and motivating behavior to overcome this discomfort and protect children from abuse.</p>
<p>By proximity, I mean <strong>a sense of closeness or being near to an issue</strong>. Without this sense of proximity, we often ignore significant problems, regardless of their severity. While each can stand alone, they often work together, with proximity fostering a stronger sense of urgency.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31537-e28 moc1-1 moc1-2 moc1-5 moc1-7 moc1-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e29 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-q moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-w moc1-x moc1-1a moc1-1e"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e30 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e31 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-2v moc1-2z moc1-32 moc1-33 moc1-34 moc1-35 moc1-36 moc1-37 moc1-38"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Why Parents Often Miss the Problem of Child Sexual Abuse</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e32 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k"><p>In my work addressing child sexual abuse, I see this phenomenon daily. Despite extensive research highlighting that child sexual abuse is a significant issue in every community, many parents and caregivers dismiss it as a distant problem, believing it happens to someone else, somewhere else. This dissonant, apathetic response is not because parents do not view child sexual abuse as horrific but because they view child sexual abuse as distant.</p> 
<p>According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) and other researchers, about <strong>1 in 4 girls and 1 in 10 boys experience child sexual abuse in the United States</strong>.<sup>1, 2</sup> Yet, a survey in my home state revealed that <strong>65.4% of respondents—mostly parents—either disagreed (40.8%) or were neutral (24.6%) when asked if child sexual abuse is a problem in their immediate community</strong> (e.g., neighborhood, family, faith group, club, business).<sup>3</sup></p>
<p><strong>Only 34.6% of respondents acknowledged that child sexual abuse is an issue in their community.</strong> How can this be? Despite extensive discussions by researchers, news outlets, public health agencies, and nonprofits, a significant disconnect remains. Systems change expert John Kotter insightfully said, “Never underestimate the magnitude of the forces that reinforce complacency and that help maintain the status quo.”<sup>4</sup> Perhaps we have underestimated the desire for humans to look away from something we do not want to face. Put another way, the <strong>lack of proximity reinforces our complacency</strong>.</p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31537-e33 moc1-1 moc1-2 moc1-4 moc1-5 moc1-8 moc1-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e34 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-q moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-w moc1-x moc1-1a moc1-1f"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e35 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e36 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-2v moc1-2z moc1-32 moc1-33 moc1-34 moc1-35 moc1-36 moc1-37 moc1-38"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">What Is Proximity, and How Can It Help?</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e37 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k"><p>Survivors of child sexual abuse experience a significant amount of <a href="/heal/shame/">shame</a> and stigma. <strong>This shame and stigma drive silence and secrecy.</strong> Survivors do not often tell their stories; if they do, they speak with fear of judgment.<sup>5</sup> Most commonly, they share in very limited, closed circles. As a result, you and I interact with survivors of child sexual abuse often without having any idea what they have experienced in their past. I am not talking about acquaintances or casual friends. I am talking about close friends and even family. Yes, even within families, survivors often choose not to share about their child sexual abuse. The result? Most people do not think the issue is proximate.</p>
<p>What about urgency? When a threat feels proximate, urgency naturally follows. We respond, and we respond quickly. In the case of child sexual abuse, if I learn that my loved ones, those closest to me, experienced child sexual abuse, I will feel the urgency to help them heal and protect those I love, especially my children, from going through the same thing. Said differently, proximity leads to urgency.</p>
<p>Research supports this perspective. A study by experts at Johns Hopkins University suggest that <strong>when parents are actively engaged in prevention education, the risk of child sexual abuse can significantly decrease</strong>.<sup>6</sup> This engagement is driven by a sense of proximity—understanding that the threat is real and close to home.</p>
<p>As we understand this connection, we can quickly see how <a href="/blog/combat-child-sexual-abuse-stigma/">stigmatizing</a> child sexual abuse and shaming survivors into silence not only harms the survivor but <strong>creates environments that allow abuse to continue uninterrupted</strong>. <strong>As long as parents feel the risk is distant, child sexual abuse will continue to impact every community at higher rates than if it were confronted directly.</strong></p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31537-e38 moc1-1 moc1-2 moc1-4 moc1-5 moc1-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e39 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-o moc1-q moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-x moc1-y moc1-z moc1-17 moc1-1g"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e40 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e41 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-2v moc1-2z moc1-32 moc1-33 moc1-34 moc1-35 moc1-36 moc1-37 moc1-38"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Turning Proximity into Urgent Action</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e42 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k"><p>Reflecting on the experience with my eight-year-old son, it becomes evident how <strong>proximity and urgency intersect to drive meaningful change</strong>. The presenter's reference to research on early exposure to sexually explicit content, coupled with firsthand accounts from loved ones, brought the issue uncomfortably close to home. This proximity created a sense of urgency that compelled my wife and me to initiate "the talk" despite our apprehensions. Our urgency was motivated by the proximate risk to our son, and that urgency overcame our conflicting thoughts about whether that moment was the right time.</p>
<p>I wish I could say I nailed that “big talk,” but like most things in parenting, the first time didn’t go so well. Yet eighteen years later, my twenty-six-year-old son has a healthy perspective about his sexuality - formed by hundreds of subsequent “little talks” with us as parents. Like me, he also heard about sex through media, jokes from friends, and a grossly inadequate, awkward health class, but he was equipped to handle it because he had our balancing voice. Proximity and urgency had met, changing our parenting behavior when he was eight years old.</p></div></div><div class="x-col e31537-e43 moc1-1q moc1-1s moc1-1u moc1-1w moc1-1x moc1-1z moc1-25 moc1-27 moc1-29 moc1-2a"><span class="x-image e31537-e44 moc1-3x"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/laughing-scaled.jpg" width="1280" height="853" alt="Image"></span><div class="x-row e31537-e45 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-p moc1-q moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-w moc1-x moc1-1a moc1-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e46 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e47 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-2x moc1-32 moc1-34 moc1-39 moc1-3a moc1-3b moc1-3c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Reduce the Risk of Child Sexual Abuse</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e48 moc1-2f moc1-2g moc1-2h moc1-2k moc1-2l">When parents are actively engaged in prevention education, the risk of child sexual abuse can significantly decrease.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e31537-e49 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-k moc1-p moc1-q moc1-10 moc1-1a moc1-1i"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e50 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e51 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-2w moc1-2y moc1-38 moc1-3a moc1-3b moc1-3d moc1-3e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Start the Conversation</h5></div></div></div></div><div class="x-col e31537-e52 moc1-1q moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w moc1-1z moc1-21 moc1-22 moc1-25 moc1-26"><i class="x-icon e31537-e53 moc1-40" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0a9;"></i></div></div></div><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e31537-e54 moc1-3o moc1-3p moc1-3u moc1-3v my-button" tabindex="0" href="/prevent/"><div class="x-anchor-content"></div></a></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e55 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-q moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-w moc1-x moc1-1a moc1-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e56 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e57 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k moc1-2m">Any significant change, whether a broad societal issue like child sexual abuse or an uncomfortable talk with my eight-year-old, requires urgency to motivate new patterns of behavior. <strong>Child sexual abuse is more prevelant in our lives that we might admit.</strong> Creating urgency through proximity can protect our kids. <strong>Start the conversation with your loved ones today and explore more parenting resources <a href="/prevent/">here</a></strong>. </div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31537-e58 moc1-1 moc1-2 moc1-5 moc1-6 moc1-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e59 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-n moc1-o moc1-q moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-x moc1-z moc1-11 moc1-16 moc1-17 moc1-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e60 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e61 moc1-2p moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-2v moc1-2w moc1-2z moc1-33 moc1-34 moc1-37 moc1-38 moc1-3f"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">About the Author</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-row e31537-e62 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-n moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-x moc1-11 moc1-12 moc1-13 moc1-16 moc1-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><figure class="x-col e31537-e63 moc1-1q moc1-1s moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w moc1-1z moc1-23 moc1-25 moc1-27"><span class="x-image e31537-e64 moc1-3x moc1-3z featured-author-portrait"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/chris-bios-150x150.jpg" alt="Image"></span></figure><div class="x-col e31537-e65 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-2b moc1-2c"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e66 moc1-2p moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2w moc1-2z moc1-31 moc1-34 moc1-38 moc1-3g"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Chris Yadon</h4></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e67 moc1-2p moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2u moc1-2w moc1-2y moc1-38 moc1-3b moc1-3c moc1-3e moc1-3h"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Managing Director</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e68 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2g moc1-2h moc1-2k">Chris Yadon is the Managing Director of Saprea, and is responsible for managing all operations and services of Saprea in both Utah and Georgia. Yadon has spent most of his professional career in start-up executive management with an emphasis in operations, marketing, and sales. Since joining Saprea in 2015, Yadon has brought a valuable skillset to the organization and is committed to addressing the epidemic of child sexual abuse. His expertise centers on increasing awareness arond this epidemic and educating the public on best practices for prevention and the healing services available to survivors. Yadon has been featured across several regional and national media platforms where he is often requested as an industry thought leader and expert.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31537-e69 moc1-1 moc1-2 moc1-4 moc1-5 moc1-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e70 moc1-e moc1-f moc1-i moc1-j moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-w moc1-x moc1-13 moc1-1a moc1-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e71 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-acc e31537-e72 moc1-41" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e31537-e72"><div class="e31537-e73 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e31537-e73" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e31537-e73" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e31537-e73"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e31537-e73" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e31537-e73" data-x-toggleable="e31537-e73" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><ol>
 	<li>Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2024). Preventing Child Sexual Abuse. Retrieved from CDC.gov: <a href="https://www.cdc.gov/child-abuse-neglect/about/about-child-sexual-abuse.html" target="_blank">https://www.cdc.gov/child-abuse-neglect/about/about-child-sexual-abuse.html</a></li>
 	<li>Finkelhor, D., Turner, H., &amp; Colburn, D. (2024). The prevalence of child sexual abuse with online sexual abuse added. <em>Child Abuse &amp; Neglect, 149</em>, 106634. <a href="https://doi.org/10.1016/j.chiabu.2024.106634" target="_blank">https://doi.org/10.1016/j.chiabu.2024.106634</a></li>
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Despite extensive research highlighting that child sexual abuse is a significant issue in every community, many parents and caregivers dismiss it as a distant problem, believing it happens to someone else, somewhere else. Read more. </div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e84 moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k moc1-2o"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e31537-e80 moc1-1u moc1-2a moc1-2c moc1-2d post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/symptoms_of_child_sexual_abuse_blog/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e31537-e81 moc1-3x"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/07/Common_Symptoms_Blog.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="28188:full"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e82 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-32 moc1-34 moc1-36 moc1-38 moc1-3b moc1-3c moc1-3j"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Common Symptoms Experienced by Adult Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e83 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2n excerpt">Childhood sexual abuse can have long-lasting debilitating effects throughout the life of a survivor. The impacts of sexual trauma are profound and far-reaching, affecting every aspect of an individual&#8217;s life—physically, psychologically, cognitively, and socially. But why is this so?</div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e84 moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k moc1-2o"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e31537-e80 moc1-1u moc1-2a moc1-2c moc1-2d post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/statute-of-limitations/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e31537-e81 moc1-3x"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Statute_Limitations.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="28105:full"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e82 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-32 moc1-34 moc1-36 moc1-38 moc1-3b moc1-3c moc1-3j"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Statute of Limitations on Sexual Abuse</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e83 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2n excerpt">In our work with individuals who were sexually abused, they often discuss the burden that comes with weighing difficult questions about when to come forward with details of the abuse they experienced. They wonder if they should take legal action or if that is even an option when the abuse occurred many years in the past. </div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e84 moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k moc1-2o"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e85 moc1-e moc1-h moc1-i moc1-j moc1-n moc1-q moc1-u moc1-x moc1-15 moc1-16 moc1-1p"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e86 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e31537-e87 moc1-3n moc1-3o moc1-3v moc1-3w moc1-c" tabindex="0" href="/all-blogs/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">SEE ALL blogs</span></div></div></a></div></div></div></div></div>
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<content:encoded> <![CDATA[ <img src="https://i4.ytimg.com/vi/Smo2UbWsYgo/hqdefault.jpg" /><br><br>Dr. Darius Paduch Sexual Abuse Lawsuits - Thomas Giuffra, Esq. - New York<br><br>Thomas Giuffra, lead attorney at The Abuse Lawyer NY, is dedicated to representing victims of Dr. Darius Paduch's alleged sexual abuse. With a compassionate approach and extensive experience, Giuffra provides essential support to survivors and their families during this challenging time.<br><br>Giuffra understands the profound trauma faced by survivors. Offering free, confidential consultations, he ensures that victims can explore their legal options without fear or pressure. His firm serves clients throughout New York, including Manhattan, Queens, and beyond.<br><br>Uncovering the Truth Behind the Allegations of Sex Abuse<br><br>Dr. Darius Paduch, a former urologist at prominent New York hospitals, faces serious charges for sexually abusing patients from 2015 to 2019. Giuffra now represents over 20 survivors in civil lawsuits aimed at holding Paduch and the institutions that employed him accountable for their negligence.<br><br>Holding Institutions Accountable for Negligence<br><br>These lawsuits not only target Paduch but also the medical facilities that may have overlooked earlier complaints. Evidence suggests that previous warnings about his conduct were dismissed, raising critical questions about institutional responsibility.<br><br>Disturbing Allegations of Abuse by Prominent Urologist<br><br>The lawsuits detail shocking accusations against Dr. Paduch, including inappropriate examinations and coercive sexual acts disguised as medical procedures. These claims highlight the urgent need for accountability and reform in medical practices.<br><br>Time is of the Essence<br><br>Survivors should be aware that time limits exist for filing claims. Giuffra urges anyone who may have experienced abuse by Dr. Paduch to seek legal advice promptly. A consultation can provide clarity on rights and options moving forward.<br><br>Standing Together for Justice<br><br>While the road to justice may be long, Thomas Giuffra stands firmly with survivors every step of the way. His proven track record in similar cases instills hope for accountability and healing.<br><br>Reach Out for Support<br><br>Survivors of medical sexual abuse deserve justice and support. Thomas Giuffra and The Abuse Lawyer NY are committed to fighting tirelessly on their behalf. If you or someone you know has been affected by Dr. Paduch's alleged actions, don't hesitate to reach out for compassionate guidance and assistance.<br><br>Visit us online: <br>Email: thomas@survivorsofabuse.com<br>Web: <a href="https://survivorsofabuseny.com/urologist-dr-darius-paduch-sexual-abuse-lawsuits-ny/" target="_blank">https://survivorsofabuseny.com/urologist-dr-darius-paduch-sexual-abuse-lawsuits-ny/</a><br><a href="https://sites.google.com/view/dr-darius-paduch-lawsuits-ny/" target="_blank">https://sites.google.com/view/dr-darius-paduch-lawsuits-ny/</a> <br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Smo2UbWsYgo" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Smo2UbWsYgo</a><br><br>Our Address: <br>Thomas Giuffra, Esq. - The Abuse Lawyer NY<br>551 5th Avenue, 29th Floor, <br>New York, NY 10017<br>Phone: (646) 413-6394<br><br>Find us around the web: <br>Like us on Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/abuselawyerny" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/abuselawyerny</a><br>Follow us on Twitter: <a href="https://x.com/abuselawyerny" target="_blank">https://x.com/abuselawyerny</a><br>Check us out on Pinterest: <a href="https://www.pinterest.com/survivorsofabuseny/" target="_blank">https://www.pinterest.com/survivorsofabuseny/</a><br>Subscribe to our YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDeyWo5O0fj-IV8Sj1HNn9A" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDeyWo5O0fj-IV8Sj1HNn9A</a><br>Find us on SoundCloud: <a href="https://soundcloud.com/abuselawyerny" target="_blank">https://soundcloud.com/abuselawyerny</a><br>Listen to our BuzzSprout Podcasts: <a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/2383783/episodes" target="_blank">https://www.buzzsprout.com/2383783/episodes</a><br><br><div><iframe width='100%' height='auto' src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/Smo2UbWsYgo?rel=0" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen wmode='opaque'></iframe></div> ]]> </content:encoded>
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I learned that golf actually stood for “Gentlemen Only Ladies Forbidden” and my hatred for the sport was solidified. I spent years railing against golf and the sexist acronym behind it.</p>

<p><strong>Except it wasn’t true.</strong> I learned a few weeks ago that it’s a common myth, something repeated because it <em>seems</em> true, even though it isn’t.</p>

<p>This is relatively harmless compared to some myths—like the one that most <a href="http://saprea.org/blog/6-perpetrator-grooming-behaviors/">perpetrators</a> of child sexual abuse were once abused themselves. Or, in other words, that if someone is sexually abused as a child they are more likely to become an abuser when they grow up.</p>

<p>Of course, there are sexual abusers who were abused as children, but it isn’t as frequent or common as most people, even therapists, believe. In her book <em>Predators</em>, Anna C. Salter talks about how most men convicted of child sexual abuse will simply say that they were abused as children because it affords them more sympathy. In reality, fewer than 10% of them actually were.</p>

<p>So, what does this mean to you, as a parent?</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e23257-e23 mhy1-1 mhy1-2 mhy1-5 mhy1-6 mhy1-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e23257-e24 mhy1-b mhy1-g mhy1-h mhy1-k mhy1-p mhy1-q mhy1-t mhy1-u mhy1-v mhy1-w mhy1-x mhy1-1a mhy1-1d"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23257-e25 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r mhy1-21"><div class="x-row e23257-e26 mhy1-b mhy1-d mhy1-g mhy1-h mhy1-i mhy1-j mhy1-k mhy1-m mhy1-n mhy1-z mhy1-10 mhy1-16 mhy1-17 mhy1-1e"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23257-e27 mhy1-1l mhy1-1n mhy1-1o mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r mhy1-1u mhy1-1v mhy1-1z mhy1-22"><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e28 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-29 mhy1-2b mhy1-2c">01</div></div><div class="x-col e23257-e29 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r"><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e30 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-28 mhy1-29 mhy1-2a">If your child is sexually abused it does NOT mean that they will grow up to perpetuate that abuse on others, especially if your child is given the help and care that they need after the abuse is discovered.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e23257-e31 mhy1-b mhy1-d mhy1-g mhy1-h mhy1-j mhy1-k mhy1-m mhy1-n mhy1-z mhy1-11 mhy1-16 mhy1-17 mhy1-1f"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23257-e32 mhy1-1l mhy1-1n mhy1-1o mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r mhy1-1u mhy1-1v mhy1-1z mhy1-22"><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e33 mhy1-25 mhy1-29 mhy1-2c mhy1-2d">02</div></div><div class="x-col e23257-e34 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r"><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e35 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-28 mhy1-29 mhy1-2a">It harms survivors of childhood sexual abuse to have this stigma attached to them. In addition to the trauma they experienced, they are now saddled with the fear that they’ll grow up to harm someone in the way that they were harmed.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e23257-e36 mhy1-b mhy1-g mhy1-h mhy1-j mhy1-k mhy1-m mhy1-n mhy1-z mhy1-11 mhy1-12 mhy1-16 mhy1-17 mhy1-1g"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23257-e37 mhy1-1l mhy1-1n mhy1-1o mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r mhy1-1u mhy1-1v mhy1-1z mhy1-22"><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e38 mhy1-25 mhy1-29 mhy1-2c mhy1-2d">03</div></div><div class="x-col e23257-e39 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r"><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e40 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-28 mhy1-29 mhy1-2a">When you read about a perpetrator of child sexual abuse, don’t assume that he or she MUST have been abused as a child. The truth is, we don’t actually know why people become sexual abusers, but we do know that it isn’t just because they were or weren’t sexually abused when they were children.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e23257-e41 mhy1-b mhy1-g mhy1-h mhy1-q mhy1-t mhy1-u mhy1-w mhy1-x mhy1-12 mhy1-13 mhy1-1a mhy1-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23257-e42 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r"><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e43 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-28 mhy1-29 mhy1-2a">Some myths are harmless, like believing that going outside with wet hair will give you a cold. Others can cause a lot more harm. Make sure that you’re not making assumptions about the sexual abuse survivors in your life, or the perpetrators you may hear about. Here are <a href="http://saprea.org/blog/8-myths-child-sexual-abuse/">eight more myths</a> about child sexual abuse you can take.</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e23257-e44 mhy1-1 mhy1-5 mhy1-7 mhy1-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e23257-e45 mhy1-a mhy1-b mhy1-g mhy1-h mhy1-p mhy1-q mhy1-t mhy1-u mhy1-w mhy1-x mhy1-1a mhy1-1i postsrow"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23257-e46 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e23257-e47 mhy1-2g mhy1-2h mhy1-2j mhy1-2k mhy1-2o mhy1-2p mhy1-2q"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Recent blogs</h2></div></div></div></div><div class="x-col e23257-e48 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r"><div class="x-row e23257-e49 mhy1-b mhy1-c mhy1-h mhy1-q mhy1-t mhy1-w mhy1-12 mhy1-14 mhy1-1a mhy1-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><a class="x-col e23257-e50 mhy1-1p mhy1-23 post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/symptoms_of_child_sexual_abuse_blog/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e23257-e51 mhy1-31"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/07/Common_Symptoms_Blog.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="28188:full" loading="lazy"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e23257-e52 mhy1-2h mhy1-2j mhy1-2n mhy1-2q mhy1-2r"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Common Symptoms Experienced by Adult Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e53 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-2e excerpt">Childhood sexual abuse can have long-lasting debilitating effects throughout the life of a survivor. The impacts of sexual trauma are profound and far-reaching, affecting every aspect of an individual&#8217;s life—physically, psychologically, cognitively, and socially. But why is this so?</div><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e54 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-28 mhy1-29 mhy1-2a mhy1-2f"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e23257-e50 mhy1-1p mhy1-23 post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/statute-of-limitations/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e23257-e51 mhy1-31"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Statute_Limitations.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="28105:full" loading="lazy"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e23257-e52 mhy1-2h mhy1-2j mhy1-2n mhy1-2q mhy1-2r"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Statute of Limitations on Sexual Abuse</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e53 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-2e excerpt">In our work with individuals who were sexually abused, they often discuss the burden that comes with weighing difficult questions about when to come forward with details of the abuse they experienced. They wonder if they should take legal action or if that is even an option when the abuse occurred many years in the past. </div><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e54 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-28 mhy1-29 mhy1-2a mhy1-2f"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e23257-e50 mhy1-1p mhy1-23 post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/effects-of-child-sexual-abuse-blog/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e23257-e51 mhy1-31"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/Effects-of-Sexual-Abuse-Blog.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="27832:full" loading="lazy"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e23257-e52 mhy1-2h mhy1-2j mhy1-2n mhy1-2q mhy1-2r"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Effects of Child Sexual Abuse</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e53 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-2e excerpt">As a clinician on the Saprea Clinical Intake team, I am often the first point of contact for anyone seeking one of our services. This gives me the opportunity to talk to many survivors of child sexual abuse. I’m often asked about specific effects of sexual abuse that the women I talk to are experiencing.</div><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e54 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-28 mhy1-29 mhy1-2a mhy1-2f"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e23257-e55 mhy1-b mhy1-e mhy1-g mhy1-h mhy1-j mhy1-m mhy1-p mhy1-t mhy1-x mhy1-15 mhy1-16 mhy1-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23257-e56 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e23257-e57 mhy1-2v mhy1-30 mhy1-9" tabindex="0" href="/all-blogs/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">SEE ALL blogs</span></div></div></a></div></div></div></div></div>
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