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<title> <![CDATA[ DSA Dominates Albany Elections Despite Super PAC Deluge ]]> </title>
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<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2026 00:46:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ The DSA made gains in New York despite super PACs spending $9.6 million in state legislative races — nearly five times the total from 2024. ]]> </description>
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																			<p>Socialist candidates racked up victories in New York’s primary elections for the state legislature on Tuesday, with the Democratic Socialists of America poised to pick up at least six seats despite an enormous wave of outside spending.</p><p>Super PACs had spent $9.6 million on primaries for state Assembly and Senate as of Monday, according to a New York Focus analysis — nearly five times the amount spent through the same period in 2024. Much of the spending was focused on defeating candidates endorsed by local <span class="caps">DSA</span> chapters, which fielded their biggest-ever slate of candidates for state office in an effort to build on last year’s election of Zohran Mamdani as New York City mayor.</p><p>“Zohran is the catalyst. His win woke people up,” said Jeff Leb, a strategist who is <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/04/28/hochul-campaign-matching-funds-super-pac-dsa">running a super <span class="caps">PAC</span></a> devoted to supporting moderate candidates against DSA-aligned challengers.</p><p>“<span class="caps">DSA</span> has momentum, they’re running their largest slate in New York, and they think they’ve figured out the playbook. That’s why people are responding,” he said, referring to groups spending against socialists.</p><p>The anti-DSA spending, which totaled $2.9 million, largely failed to win races. In New York City, Senate candidate Aber Kawas and Assembly contenders Christian Celeste Tate, David Orkin, Eon Huntley, Illapa Sairitupac, Samantha Kattan all defeated their opponents by double digits. In Buffalo, Assembly candidate Adam Bojak appears likely to become <span class="caps">DSA</span>’s first legislator from Western New York. And in Syracuse, Maurice Brown’s challenge against a 28-year incumbent Assemblymember was too close to call on Tuesday night.</p><p>The only DSA-backed candidate to concede Tuesday was Assembly candidate Conrad Blackburn, who was trailing incumbent Jordan Wright. Outside groups spent over $900,000 <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/04/03/jordan-wright-super-pac-harlem-dsa">against Blackburn</a>, more than against any other <span class="caps">DSA</span> candidate.</p>																																		<div class="flourish-embed flourish-chart" data-src="visualisation/29477409"><script src="https://public.flourish.studio/resources/embed.js"></script><noscript><img src="https://public.flourish.studio/visualisation/29477409/thumbnail" width="100%" alt="chart visualization" /></noscript></div>
																
																									<p>At a watch party on Tuesday, Gustavo Gordillo, co-chair of New York City <span class="caps">DSA</span>, attributed the victories to the group’s volunteer army. “The incumbents just were not able to keep up,” he said.</p><p>Another $1.4 million was spent to support more moderate candidates facing progressive opponents not backed by <span class="caps">DSA</span>, such as Stephanie Ruskay against Eli Northrup for Assembly and Grace Lee against Yuh-Line Niou for Senate. Ruskay lost to Northrup by a wide margin, while Lee easily defeated Niou.</p><p>The gains will give <span class="caps">DSA</span> at least 15<strong> </strong>endorsed lawmakers between the Senate and Assembly starting next year, assuming the primary winners all prevail in the November general election. Although the bloc remains a small fraction of the 63-seat Senate and 150-seat Assembly, <span class="caps">DSA</span> has been influential in Albany since electing its first lawmaker in 2018 — shaping laws to <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2024/05/13/good-cause-eviction-landlord-legislators">prevent evictions</a> and allow the state to build its own <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/03/25/build-public-renewable-energy-solar-nypa-new-york">renewable energy projects</a>. A bigger socialist bloc could help Mamdani as he <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/06/17/mamdani-hochul-nyc-budget-gaps">readies for another campaign</a> next year to increase taxes on wealthy people and corporations.</p><p>Gambling companies, the delivery company <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/05/14/new-york-doordash-bloomberg-super-pac">DoorDash</a>, and pro-charter school groups were among the biggest spenders on state races this year. Though the influx had the potential to reshape the balance of power in Albany, it was overshadowed by the even greater outside spending in New York’s congressional races.</p><p>The congressional primary cycle has been the most expensive in New York’s history, according to the watchdog group OpenSecrets, with more than $50 million in outside spending. Super PACs took center stage in those races, as rival <span class="caps">AI</span> giants faced off in Manhattan’s 12th District (along with a billionaire former mayor), pro-Israel and pro-Palestine PACs dueled in Upper Manhattan’s 13th District race, and outside spending supplied some of the biggest attack lines in the progressive civil war of Brooklyn’s 7th District. </p><p>Still, super <span class="caps">PAC</span> activity in state-level races grew more dramatically over recent election cycles than it did in congressional races. (People and companies can donate unlimited amounts of money to super PACs, avoiding the contribution limits that apply to campaigns.)</p><p>Including the $449,000 spent to influence the primary for state comptroller, super PACs had spent $10 million on state races through Monday. Just $2 million had been spent at the same point in 2024.</p><p>The $10 million figure does not include nearly $12 million that an <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/02/03/uber-hochul-election-spending-auto-insurance">Uber-funded group</a> had reported spending on advertisements boosting Governor Kathy Hochul and her efforts to rein in auto insurance premiums. Hochul did not have a primary opponent after her challenger dropped out in early February.</p>																																		<iframe title="State-Level Super PAC Spending Skyrockets in New York" aria-label="Area Chart" id="datawrapper-chart-qtVGn" src="https://datawrapper.dwcdn.net/qtVGn/7/" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" style="width: 0; min-width: 100% !important; border: none;" height="479" data-external="1"></iframe><script type="text/javascript">(function(){function e(){window.addEventListener(`message`,function(e){if(e.data[`datawrapper-height`]!==void 0){var t=document.querySelectorAll(`iframe`);for(var n in e.data[`datawrapper-height`])for(var r=0,i;i=t[r];r++)if(i.contentWindow===e.source){var a=e.data[`datawrapper-height`][n]+`px`;i.style.height=a}}})}e()})();</script>
																
																									<p>Through Monday, the biggest spender seeking to influence this year’s Democratic primaries for the legislature was the super <span class="caps">PAC</span> New York Future, which had spent $2.6 million and was funded primarily by the gaming companies FanDuel and DraftKings. A group <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/05/14/new-york-doordash-bloomberg-super-pac">funded by DoorDash</a> had reported the second-most spending ($885,000).</p><p>A <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/06/18/jessica-ramos-primary-challenger-850k-donation">mysterious group called Progress for New York</a> had reported spending $781,000, and according to paperwork filed by the committee, planned to spend solely to influence the outcome of a single Democratic primary for Senate in Queens. The incumbent senator in the district, Jessica Ramos, charges that Mets owner Steve Cohen is funding the super <span class="caps">PAC</span> as retribution for Ramos unsuccessfully opposing Cohen’s Queens casino project. A spokesperson for Cohen’s casino project has not responded to the accusation. </p><p>Ramos lost her reelection bid on Tuesday night to Assemblymember Jessica González-Rojas,  who had the super <span class="caps">PAC</span>’s backing. </p><p>The next highest spender ($752,000) was a pro-charter school group, Moving New York Families Forward, that has received substantial past funding from former New York City Mayor Michael Bloomberg. That was followed by the liberal Working Families Party ($709,000) and a group called Westside Progress ($705,000) that <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/04/27/cuomo-lindsey-boylan-carl-wilson-super-pac">has ties to allies</a> of former governor Andrew Cuomo and also recently received $250,000 from the state teachers union.</p><p>This year’s spending is also a massive jump from 2022, when Hochul was running for a first full term of office. Although there were Democratic and Republican primaries for governor that year, only about $2.3 million in primary-related spending had been reported up to primary day. (This figure does not include $2 million spent by a group that supported Hochul’s Democratic primary challenger that year <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2024/01/08/tom-suozzi-kathy-hochul-super-pac">but never registered</a> its activities with the state Board of Elections.)</p><p>In the 2020 primaries, even less — about $830,000 — had been spent to this point.</p>																																			<p>Strategists said much of this year’s jump in outside spending can be attributed to <span class="caps">DSA</span>’s rise. Donors to super PACs that opposed <span class="caps">DSA</span> candidates include real estate companies like <span class="caps">SL</span> Green and the Durst Organization; the developers Gary Barnett and Henry Elghanayan; and wealthy individuals like Adeena Rosen and Lori Schreiber who donate frequently to pro-Israel causes.</p><p>“Groups aligned with traditional Democrats are concerned that if the <span class="caps">DSA</span> has a stranglehold in the legislature, are they going to start seeing these policies that Zohran said he was going to pass in the city?” said a strategist who was granted anonymity to avoid antagonizing the leaders of a super <span class="caps">PAC</span> for whom they are working this year.</p><p>About half the outside spending was directed against socialist and progressive candidates. The other half came from groups pushing their own interests with less of an ideological focus; the pro-betting <span class="caps">PAC</span>, for example, supported both the progressive Northrup for Assembly as well as moderate incumbent state Senators Jessica Scarcella-Spanton and Joseph Addabbo. (Addabbo chairs the Senate gaming committee and has championed the legalization of online casino games in New York, a top legislative priority for the gaming companies funding the group.)</p><p>The state’s matching fund system, intended to empower small donors, may also have the perverse effect of encouraging super <span class="caps">PAC</span> activity, the strategist argued, by lowering limits on direct donations to campaigns.</p><p>“How do you curry favor with electeds? How do you make the case that you were more responsible for getting someone elected than not?” the strategist said. “The only way to do that now is with outside spending.”</p><p>Leb, who runs a super <span class="caps">PAC</span> that backed moderate candidates, said more clients are waking up to their ability to shape state races without spending as much as in a congressional election. The <span class="caps">DSA</span>’s victories won’t change that, he predicted Tuesday night.</p><p>“These races are competitive now, and that’s not going away,” he said. “Tonight’s lesson isn’t that spending doesn’t matter. It’s that late spending isn’t enough.”</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ ‘Math Wars’: New York Wants to Reform Math Instruction, but Experts Disagree on How ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/06/25/new-york-back-to-basics-math-curriculum-debate ]]> </link>
<category> <![CDATA[ New York State ]]> </category>
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<category> <![CDATA[ Education ]]> </category>
<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ On the heels of a “Back to Basics” reading effort, New York is launching a similar initiative for math. ]]> </description>
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																			<p>New York school districts will soon begin revamping math instruction under a new law aimed at improving test scores — but the effort comes amid sharp debate over how math should be taught. </p><p>“<a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/05/28/new-york-budget-child-care-education-workforce">Back to Basics in Math</a>,” passed as part of the state budget last month, requires school districts to use “evidence-based” methods in elementary school math classrooms. </p><p>It directs the State Education Department to develop best practices for teaching math in grades K-5 by January, and requires that school districts complete a survey verifying their alignment with those standards by September 2027. The budget also sets aside $2 million for the teachers’ union to administer a training course and another $2 million for regional pilots supporting districts with low math performance.</p>																																			<p>The structure mirrors Governor Kathy Hochul’s signature literacy initiative, which <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/05/07/science-of-reading-back-to-basics-school-curriculum-new-york">has been criticized</a> as having weak accountability measures and using a questionable union-developed training course. </p><p>Transforming math education could be even more challenging. </p><p>Unlike “the science of reading,” which relies on a widely embraced framework, educators and researchers are less aligned on what counts as evidence-based instruction in math. While most states have adopted laws or policies related to the science of reading, <a href="https://www.edweek.org/teaching-learning/more-states-are-calling-for-math-reform-will-it-improve-student-outcomes/2026/02">far fewer</a> have done so with math, leaving New York with few models to draw from. </p><p>Advocates say those ongoing debates over math instruction, coupled with the state’s decision to model the initiative on its literacy reform, could hamper progress. For state leaders, the effort’s success could help transform New York from one of the Northeast’s lowest-performing states in math into a model for improvement. For students, it could shape their access to higher education and high-paying jobs. </p><p>But only if it’s implemented properly. “I think there’s a big lack of understanding of what proper instruction is, and there’s a really big disconnect between ‘evidence-based practices’ and teacher training programs,” said Erica Fanning, math researcher and school psychologist at the City School District of Albany. </p><p>As with reading, the stakes are high. Research shows that math proficiency is one of the strongest predictors of future adult earnings, high school graduation, and college enrollment. </p><p>Improving math education is also key to reducing educational inequities: On the 2024 <span class="caps">NAEP</span> eighth-grade math exam, Black and Latino New York students scored below white students by 26 and 30 points, respectively. New York was ranked 38th in the nation for fourth-grade math, behind all other Northeastern states besides Maine, and 17 points below top-ranked Massachusetts. </p>																																		<div class="flourish-embed flourish-scatter" data-src="visualisation/29311688"><script src="https://public.flourish.studio/resources/embed.js"></script><noscript><img src="https://public.flourish.studio/visualisation/29311688/thumbnail" width="100%" alt="scatter visualization" /></noscript></div>
																
																									<p>Hochul said the initiative aims to ensure New York students are “the most academically prepared in the country.” If the effort fails, advocates say, students of color and those from low-income backgrounds have the most to lose.</p>																									<p>Across the country, schools have seen a decade-long <a href="https://educationscorecard.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Education_Scorecard_May_2026_Report.pdf">decline</a> in reading and math performance that was exacerbated by the pandemic. That’s spurred a wave of reform, including a high-profile push based on the science of reading. This phonics-based approach is grounded in the idea that reading isn’t innate and must be explicitly taught through skills like sounding out words. When New York enacted its Back to Basics plan in 2024, it joined at least <a href="https://www.edweek.org/teaching-learning/which-states-have-passed-science-of-reading-laws-whats-in-them/2022/07">37 other states</a> that had implemented similar policies. </p><p>Math instruction, by contrast, has received relatively little attention. The push to change how children learn math is still in its infancy. That’s in part because there’s little agreement on the best approach.  </p><p>On one side of the so-called “math wars” are advocates of more explicit, teacher-led instruction who argue that students should first build fluency in foundational skills — such as memorizing multiplication tables or working through a math problem step by step — before they can understand deeper concepts. On the other are proponents of inquiry-based instruction, which emphasizes student problem-solving and exploration of mathematical ideas before formal procedures are introduced. </p><p>Many New York schools use curricula that align with the latter. But critics, including special education researchers, say it can reduce student confidence, hinder learning of foundational skills, and cause struggling students to fall further behind. Ben Solomon, a math researcher and associate professor of school psychology at the University of Albany, said there’s a time and place for both pedagogies — but he and other “science of math” advocates believe students should primarily receive explicit instruction before moving on to more conceptual lessons.</p><p>The lack of consensus makes it difficult to know what the law counts as “evidence-based teaching techniques and materials.” The clearest indication so far came last year, when <span class="caps">NYSED</span> released eight briefs outlining “best practices” in numeracy and math instruction. Written by Deborah Loewenberg Ball, a professor of education at the University of Michigan, and TeachingWorks, a project at the university, the briefs take the more conceptual approach, arguing that explicit instruction should “be grounded in meaning and understanding of why the procedures work.” </p><p>Solomon is among a group of over 200 math researchers, educators, and parents who signed a petition describing the briefs as full of factual inaccuracies and <a href="https://nypost.com/2025/10/18/us-news/new-ny-state-math-guidelines-tell-teachers-to-stop-grading-kids-on-speed-solving-problems-because-it-causes-math-anxiety/">calling for the state to retract them.</a></p>																								<div class="newsroomBlockQuoteContainer">
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										<p>“We’re trying to turn around a huge ship that’s been cruising for a long time.”</p>
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																									<p>In an October response, the state agency doubled down on the guidance, and Loewenberg Ball argued that Solomon cited only a narrow segment of research that was not broad enough “to address the complexity of mathematics teaching and learning.” The guidance is still in place.</p><p>Solomon said he worries the agency’s response to his criticisms reflects a reluctance to draw on the expertise of a broad range of math researchers when deciding on what counts as evidence-based math instruction. </p><p>“We’re trying to turn around a huge ship that’s been cruising for a long time,” Solomon said. “That takes deep structural change that will be very challenging in New York.” </p><p>Jeff Smink, deputy director at the advocacy group EdTrust-NY, shares that concern, though he noted that the math debate is more nuanced than literacy, and effective instruction likely falls somewhere between the petitioners’ and the state’s positions. </p><p>In a statement provided to New York Focus, <span class="caps">NYSED</span> spokesperson Karen Male said the briefs are “grounded in research,” and underwent external review to support high-quality P-12 math instruction. She added that while <span class="caps">NYSED</span> shares Solomon’s dedication to improving math outcomes for students, the department “will not be swayed by misinformation or efforts to undermine our work to advance equity and excellence in education.” </p>																																			<p>Some advocates worry the math law’s structural similarities to the reading initiative portend difficulties down the line. </p><p>As part of the new law, school districts will have to report the curricula and instructional materials they’re using in K-5 classrooms and verify that they align with state-developed standards, but it’s largely up to individual districts to make the transition and self-certify.</p><p>The reading initiative also tasked school districts with completing an alignment survey: <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/05/07/science-of-reading-back-to-basics-school-curriculum-new-york">A New York Focus analysis</a> of their responses found that more than 130 school districts reported using curricula that researchers criticized as inconsistent with the science of reading — including dozens that claimed that their materials aligned with all recommended best practices. </p><p>In New York, most decisions about public schools, from curricula to school spending, are determined at the district level, posing obstacles to successful education reform, Solomon said. </p><p>“If you create objectives and goals and then let it work its way through the system, it’s going to mutate based on everyone’s individual philosophies,” he said. </p><p>In order for the math initiative to be more successful than the reading effort, Smink said the state must increase transparency regarding the curricula and instructional materials in use, and hold districts accountable if they are out of alignment with best practices. (The Education Department said it would follow up with school districts that had failed to comply with the literacy law, but did not specify when districts must achieve full compliance.)</p>																									<p>As with the reading initiative, the state budget sets aside money — $2 million — for the teachers’ union to administer a training course. A <a href="https://hechingerreport.org/new-york-ten-million-reading-instruction/">recent Hechinger Report investigation</a> found that the $10 million union-developed training course for the Back to Basics in reading effort featured some of the instructional methods Hochul set out to replace. </p><p>The union has defended the program and refuted the idea that it promoted discredited strategies. Elizabeth Bird, Hochul’s assistant secretary for K-12 education, told New York Focus the criticism was “instructive,” and that the governor’s office is asking the union to review training materials “to make sure they are guided in evidence-based practices.”  </p><p>Finding the right curricula could also be a challenge. There are few evidence-based math curricula readily available for districts to use, said Lynn Gaffney, an assistant superintendent at Watertown City School District. That’s in part because publishers tend to design materials aimed at satisfying school districts’ broad range of instructional approaches, rather than adhering to national standards.</p>																																			<p>When Gaffney transitioned into a new role overseeing curriculum and instruction at the Jefferson County district, she faced a troubling reality: Fewer than one in three students in grades 3 through 8 were meeting math proficiency standards. The district was relying on outdated instructional programs that failed to reflect research on how students best learn math, she said.</p><p>For the past three years, Gaffney has been leading an effort to implement evidence-based math. But when it came time to implement a new curriculum, Gaffney said the district was unable to find one that aligned with both the science of learning and New York state standards, prompting district leaders to develop their own. </p><p>Gaffney is excited by the state’s attention to math instruction, but like Solomon, she said she needs to see the state’s guidance before determining its potential impact on student outcomes.</p><p>“We’re not an evidence-based profession traditionally, we’re more of an ideology-based, philosophy-based profession, and that works to some degree, but it’s not working for most of our kids,” Gaffney said. “So we need to move away from that towards the evidence.” </p>																																				 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ New York Essential Plan Users Worry: Am I Losing Coverage? ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/06/26/new-york-essential-plan-coverage-confusion ]]> </link>
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<category> <![CDATA[ Health ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ Social Services ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ Affordability ]]> </category>
<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ Unclear notices have left participants unsure about the status of their insurance and what steps to take next. ]]> </description>
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																			<p>Christina Hauptman felt relieved when her 19-year-old son, Cody, got approved for New York’s <a href="https://info.nystateofhealth.ny.gov/EssentialPlan">Essential Plan</a>. The flagship program provides free or low-cost health care to over 1.7 million New Yorkers ineligible for Medicaid.</p><p>“This was wonderful,” she thought, when they received the welcome notice in March that said Cody would be covered through 2026. She had been scrambling to figure out a solution before he aged out of <a href="https://info.nystateofhealth.ny.gov/ChildHealthPlus">Child Health Plus</a>, the state’s health care program for children who are 18 and under. </p><p>But a month later, Hauptman logged into her state health account, where a message explained Cody would be among the hundreds of thousands of New Yorkers whose coverage would be terminated on July 1 as a <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/07/09/trump-big-beautiful-bill-new-york-medicaid-snap">result of federal cuts</a>. Adding to the confusion, Cody’s insurance company hadn’t updated its system to reflect the upcoming change.</p><p>Similar situations have been playing out across New York as the state prepares to shed an estimated 450,000 residents who earn between 200 to 250 percent of the federal poverty level off the Essential Plan. Tightened eligibility criteria will also end coverage for some people defined by the federal government as <a href="https://www.nilc.org/resources/lawfullypresent/">lawfully present immigrants</a> and who earn even less.</p><p>Health care advocates say the state’s delayed and unclear messaging strategy around the Essential Plan changes has fostered confusion and done little to prepare New Yorkers for the seismic shift in health care access.</p>																																			<p>Arlene Cruz Escobar, director of health programs at Make the Road New York, said the group was receiving many calls from recipients who seemed stressed and anxious. “It’s going to be a disaster,” she said.</p><p>She said her staff is hearing from frantic families confused by the termination notices — some of them several pages long and filled with language that could be misleading. She pointed to a sentence in the first April notice which reads, “You don’t need to do anything unless your personal situation has changed,” which may have mistakenly given impacted users the impression that their coverage was not at risk or dissuaded them from seeking additional information.</p><p>Advocates like Cruz Escobar have been urging the state to act quickly to avert the coverage cliff since <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/08/14/new-york-call-special-session-delgado-trump">last summer,</a> but top legislators tabled the issue — pledging to address the matter during annual budget negotiations that started in January. A delayed state budget was finally unveiled in late May, but failed to include <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/05/28/essential-plan-cola-social-services-snap-new-york-final-budget-hochul">proposals supported by a coalition of lawmakers</a> to use state funds to keep these New Yorkers insured and make plans available for purchase on the state’s health care exchange more affordable. </p>																									<hr>
								<p>New Yorkers with questions about their coverage should contact the <a href="https://info.nystateofhealth.ny.gov/news/how-contact-customer-service-center">New York State of Health’s call center</a> at 1-855-355-5777 to connect with an assistor. New York City residents who need help navigating the marketplace can also connect with a <a href="https://www.nyc.gov/site/doh/health/health-topics/health-insurance.page">local enrollment counselor</a> by calling 347-665-0214.</p>
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																									<p>In an interview, Danielle Holahan, executive director at <a href="https://nystateofhealth.ny.gov/">New York State of Health</a>, the state-run insurance marketplace, acknowledged that the state’s messaging strategy could be improved. “We agree, they’re not written in plain language,” she said of plan notices that went out in April and May and were required to contain specific legal information. </p><p>She said the department is continuing to work on simplifying additional notices and has been trying to ensure they reach impacted users on multiple platforms such as emails and text messages. The department also recently wrapped up training for their network of assistors who will be contacting impacted New Yorkers about how to buy insurance from the state’s health care exchange website.</p><p>Holahan also acknowledged that the overall timing of the notices has been complicated by delayed action from the federal government and a drawn-out state budget process. When the state first learned of the federal cutbacks last year, health officials <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/09/26/essential-plan-medicaid-explained">devised a strategy to retool</a> the Essential Plan — averting a worse-case scenario that could have ended the program entirely for all 1.7 million New Yorkers. After months of delay amid a federal government shutdown, the state finally secured approval to move forward with a scaled-back version of the Essential Plan in late <a href="https://www.health.ny.gov/press/releases/2026/2026-03-23_federal_approval_to_preserve_health_coverage.htm">March 2026</a>. </p><p>“It was making the best of a very bad situation for New York,” Holahan said of the now scaled-back Essential Plan. She also noted that health officials had been following the state budget process closely to see whether any changes would be made for the Essential Plan. “There’s been a lot of moving parts.”</p><p>Earlier this month, Hauptman was able to transfer Cody — who struggles with mental health issues — to Medicaid. She currently works as a family peer advocate on Long Island, helping other families navigate mental health challenges. </p>																								<div class="newsroomBlockQuoteContainer">
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										—Arlene Cruz Escobar, director of health programs, Make the Road New York									</h5>
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																									<p>Hauptman, a single mother, said that adding Cody to her current employer-provided coverage or purchasing a plan on the state’s health care exchange are both out of reach financially. She is now considering relocating to a city with a lower cost of living or finding a new job that provides more affordable employer-sponsored health care plans. </p><p>Cruz Escobar urged the state to ramp up its awareness campaign around Essential Plan terminations, use plain and easier-to-understand language, and include case-specific information in notices and other tools like state websites that clearly spell out how much marketplace plans could cost every month based on household income.</p><p>“This is a really big learning curve for families; there needs to be a lot more education,” said Cruz Escobar, who previously worked as a health care navigator and routinely spent hours with clients explaining concepts like deductibles, coinsurance and co-pays. “Many people are going to be caught off guard because, maybe for the first time, they’ll have to purchase private insurance. That’s a whole different experience on how to utilize that coverage.”</p>																																			<p>Getting the message fully across to impacted clients like Doris Velasquez has been a hurdle. Velasquez works as a home attendant and relies on the plan to manage her high blood pressure and migraines, chronic health conditions that have previously landed her in the emergency room. Her diabetic husband and college-age son are also covered by the Essential Plan — all three are slated to lose their coverage in July. </p><p>Like many Essential Plan users, the family was previously covered under Medicaid and shifted to the Essential Plan three years ago as their household income grew. Speaking through a Spanish translator, Velasquez told Focus she understands their coverage is ending, but is unsure whether her family can afford to buy insurance and isn’t sure what to do next.</p><p>Cruz Escobar said her staff have been helping clients navigate the state’s marketplace, only for clients to be discouraged by costly monthly premiums and high deductibles. Eligibility for tax credits that reduce the cost of monthly premiums depends on projected household income — math that can get complicated for gig workers and <a href="https://kffhealthnews.org/insurance/tax-tips-aca-affordable-care-act-obamacare-subsidies-income-owing/">later result in an <span class="caps">IRS</span> bill during tax season</a>. “A lot of people in these income levels are people who have multiple jobs and multiple part-time jobs or who bounce around from job to job and their income is inconsistent,” she said.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/WO8VV4_0jjnYLXo2tUTbM5t6xaujoMWbKkemv_u8Unk/w:1000/h:1313/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9lcC1ub3RpY2UtMi5wbmc.png" alt="" class=" size-full " /><figcaption>A termination notice from New York State of Health regarding Essential Plan coverage.  / New York State of Health</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p> </p><p>State health officials acknowledged that it is common for household income to fluctuate throughout the year for many on the Essential Plan, meaning a monthly premium can be hard to meet during specific months, and coverage might change when participants recertify their income if they shift across different tiers. They estimate impacted Essential Plan users will be eligible for a state exchange plan with an average monthly premium of $250 after tax credits and a deductible of $2,150. By comparison, the Essential Plan has no monthly premiums and no deductibles.</p><p>Holahan said that the department’s current projections indicate anywhere from 150,000 to 200,000 impacted Essential Plan users will be unable to buy insurance or get coverage through their employers and therefore will remain uninsured. But other estimates anticipate <a href="https://fiscalpolicy.org/will-essential-plan-enrollees-find-employer-sponsored-coverage-dont-bet-on-it">far more severe outcomes</a> — the progressive think tank Fiscal Policy Institute predicts fewer than 70,000 of the roughly 450,000 impacted users will be able to buy insurance, leaving the vast remainder uninsured.</p><p>Sam, a 40-year-old artist and dog trainer in Queens, is still unclear on the status of her Essential Plan coverage. She received a notice last year from the state, warning that her coverage might be at risk in 2026 due to upcoming federal changes, but said she never received any follow-up message. When she called the state and her insurer earlier this year, she was told she would be unaffected by the July termination. </p>																									<hr>
								<p>Are you one of the hundreds of thousands of New Yorkers impacted by the coverage cliff for Essential Plan users? Our social services reporter wants to hear from you. Email Jie Jenny Zou at <a href="mailto:jenny@nysfocus.com">jenny@nysfocus.com</a>. </p>
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																									<p>But Sam isn’t sure that’s true. Her health card, issued earlier this year, suggests she falls within the impacted income tier, but other notices from the state indicate she might be in the tier just below that, which would spare her from disenrollment. She asked that her last name not be published for fear of drawing the state’s attention to her case. </p><p>“I didn’t have health insurance for pretty much my entire twenties,” said Sam. “That would be a real burden if that went away,” she said of her Essential Plan coverage, which helps her access preventative care and stay up-to-date on allergy appointments. </p><p>Pete Tomao, communications director at Empire State Voices, a group that advocates for working New Yorkers, said he has encountered several people like Sam who are unclear where they stand. “We’re hearing from residents across the state who don’t know if they’ll keep their coverage — or how they’d afford care without it. Some have been told their Essential Plan remains intact, while others were warned just months ago they could lose it, leaving thousands of families in limbo.”</p><p>Holahan encourages all impacted New Yorkers to review their options on the state’s health care exchange as soon as possible. Impacted Essential Plan users will be able to purchase a plan on the New York State of Health website through the end of August. </p><p>She also noted that any coverage purchased this summer will be retroactive and backdated to July 1, so New Yorkers who purchase a plan will not face a coverage gap and can take their time to sort through the myriad of options available.</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ ‘A Family Trying to Survive’: Six Die at Motel Used to House Broome County’s Homeless ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/06/26/broome-county-motel-fire-deaths-homeless-families ]]> </link>
<category> <![CDATA[ New York State ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ Reporting ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ Housing ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ Social Services ]]> </category>
<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2026 10:14:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ The Knights Inn, profiled by New York Focus and ProPublica last year, had received health and safety complaints for years. ]]> </description>
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																			<p>Before 6 am on Monday, Kimberly Crooks, 53, stepped out of her room at the Knights Inn to smoke a cigarette. The Broome County Department of Social Services had placed Crooks and her 12-year-old son at the motel more than a year ago. She had become familiar with its many discomforts: an electrical system that couldn’t handle more than one appliance at a time, having to move rooms every 28 days, and hypodermic needles lying around in the parking lot where her son played. </p><p>As Crooks prepared to get her son ready for school, she heard a loud boom and saw several people running out of a room in the motel’s rear building.</p><p>“When they ran out saying ‘Fire, fire, fire!’ I saw the flames coming out of the room behind them,” she said. Crooks said she roused her son and ran from door to door, trying to wake people up and get them out.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/73w4DzkqpXEIyGwNYCRrmO3ep6uH3KQ47_HXojy0doo/w:1000/h:1333/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9NaWNoZWxsZS1Xb29sZm9say0yLkpQRw.jpg" alt="Michelle Woolfolk sits in a chair, wearing a red t-shirt, and smiles towards the camera." class=" size-thumbnail " /><figcaption>Michelle Woolfolk, better known as Auntie at the Knights Inn, had lived in the motel for about two years. Woolfolk was one of six people to die in the fire.  / Courtesy of Davona Parker</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p>In less than 10 minutes, the fire swept down and engulfed almost the entire building, including Michelle Woolfolk’s room. Woolfolk, better known as Auntie at the Knights Inn, had lived in the motel for about two years and would often have Crooks over to talk, listen to music, and paint together. Crooks said that Woolfolk suffered from chronic pain and had difficulty walking.</p><p>Woolfolk was one of six people to die in the fire. Dominique Cruz-Champion and Josh Molyneaux, a young couple, and their children Ella, Romyn, and Zachariah all perished, New York State Police Captain Lucas Anthony said at a press conference on Thursday.</p><p>The children were ages three, two, and 10 months.</p><p>The tragedy has sparked a backlash against Broome County’s heavy use of hotels and motels as emergency shelter for homeless families, with local protesters holding a continuous rally at the county office building in Binghamton since 4 pm Tuesday. Fifty-six of the people living in the Knights Inn on Monday were placed there by the county Department of Social Services. The department did not say whether that included any of the victims of the fire.</p><p>Local residents say the department has knowingly placed families in unsafe conditions. New York Focus and ProPublica reported last year that the department’s inspections had found a <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/06/24/new-york-homelessness-hotels">litany of issues</a> at the motel for years, such as broken lighting, windows, and doors, punched-through walls, torn carpeting, and cockroaches.</p>																																			<p>At least two fires were reported at the Knights Inn in 2024, and health inspectors found in 2022 that the motel was not in compliance with fire safety requirements, documents reviewed by New York Focus show. The motel did pass an inspection in April of last year, the most recent available.</p><p>“What happened yesterday was preventable. It could have been prevented had our city officials did something about it, or even took us seriously,” said Jasmine Stradford, who lived with her family at the Knights Inn in 2024.</p><p>The Broome County Department of Social Services placed over 200 households at the Knights Inn from April 2023 to March 2024, the last full year of data available. Many described unlivable conditions, frequent drug use, and repeated visits from law enforcement. Over about six years, law enforcement and emergency services were summoned for 789 incidents.</p><p><span class="caps">DSS</span> deferred questions about fire safety issues at the Knights Inn to Broome County Executive Jason Garnar’s office, which did not respond in time for publication.</p><p>A previous fire at the motel in January 2024 may have been caused by a space heater in a room that was under construction, <a href="https://wnbf.com/endwell-motel-residents-flee-fire/"><span class="caps">WNBF</span> reported</a> at the time. Eight months later, another fire was reported in a room, according to a complaint received by the Town of Union and reviewed by New York Focus.</p><p>Broome County <a href="https://broomecountyny.gov/eh-openrfp">announced</a> plans last month to move away from hotels as shelter for unhoused families. But as it searched for an organization to manage the overhaul of its homeless services, it continued to place families in hotels, including the Knights Inn.</p><p>One year ago, New York Focus and ProPublica profiled the Knights Inn as part of an investigation, which found that nearly half of all households receiving emergency shelter outside of New York City are <a href="https://www.propublica.org/article/new-york-homelessness-hotels">placed in hotels</a>. The Broome County Department of Social Services paid the Knights Inn $750,000 for emergency shelter despite the motel getting written up in every inspection for two and a half years.</p><p>Some of those citations were fire-related. The Knights Inn received a critical violation in 2022 for not properly operating and maintaining its fire system, according to inspection data from the New York Department of Health. Management was aware and working to fix it as soon as possible, according to the inspection comments, and the motel didn’t receive any violations in its most recent available inspection, dated April 2025.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/GKW5VPAVtJKbkdFtIJkmx3j5fVB3jjub9Rv11zO4LWw/w:1000/h:666/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9rbmlnaHRzLWlubi1maXJlLTEucG5n.png" alt="Firefighters stand next to a motel, which is pouring smoke with small mostly extinguished flames. Large parts of the motel are completely burned through, and buildings and sky are visible behind it." class=" size-full " /><figcaption>The Knights Inn fire sparked a backlash against Broome County’s heavy use of hotels and motels as emergency shelter.  / Endwell Fire Department</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p><br>New York Focus and ProPublica spoke with the hotel’s manager Aizaz Siddiqui last year. At the time, Siddiqui said that around half of the rooms were typically occupied by people placed by the Department of Social Services and acknowledged that police were regularly called to the hotel. </p><p>New York Focus was able to reach Siddiqui by phone Tuesday to schedule an interview, but could not contact him Wednesday morning.</p>																									<p>Broome County’s homeless population has increased dramatically over the last 10 years, leading to the increased reliance on hotels for shelter. Because the local shelters generally only house single adults, the county is almost completely reliant on hotels for emergency housing for families with children.</p><p>The county is one of the poorest in the state. The strain on low-income families has increased as the county government has failed to build affordable housing while developers expanded student-only housing to serve local university communities, said Rebecca Rathmell, a Binghamton city councilmember and housing advocate. A <a href="https://broomecountyny.gov/sites/default/files/dept/planning/pdfs/BC-Housing-Needs-Assessment-Exec-Summary.pdf">housing needs study</a> commissioned by the county and published in 2024 found that nearly half of renter households spent half or more of their income on housing. </p><p>John Choynowski, a former deputy commissioner for Broome <span class="caps">DSS</span>, suggested the tragedy may be downstream of structural issues such as long-frozen benefits levels, <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2023/06/05/social-services-workers-quitting-benefits-snap-food-stamps">understaffing at the social services department</a>, and the practice of housing families at hotels.</p>																																			<p>“Has anyone spent a week in a hotel with their kids on vacation? It is stressful and impossible. Imagine having to live in a hotel, share beds, have a microwave to cook in for months at a time?” he wrote on Facebook. “This leads to increased calls to the hotline of alleged abuse and neglect. It’s not abuse and neglect, it is a family trying to survive in poverty. These families are set up for failure.”</p><p>The New York State Police announced that they arrested Tyler Russell, 24, on six counts of second-degree manslaughter and one count of fourth-degree arson. Under New York’s penal code, both offenses are reckless in nature, but don’t necessarily mean the person intended to kill or destroy property.</p><p>Russell’s charges could change as police gather more evidence, officials said on Thursday. They said investigators had located a lighter they believed was used to start the fire, but did not share additional details about the circumstances leading up to the blaze. </p><p>Russell listed his home address as “The Knight’s Hotel” on paperwork for his arraignment obtained by New York Focus. State prison records indicate he was paroled earlier this year after spending about two years in prison for stealing a vehicle. Nancy Williams, the <span class="caps">DSS</span> commissioner, declined Thursday to say whether her agency had placed him at the hotel. </p><p>Russell is being held at the Broome County Correctional Facility without bail, according to court documents. He did not respond to a request for comment sent via the jail’s messaging app.</p><p>The county sent Crooks and her son to a new hotel, the Red Roof Inn in Binghamton. Most of their belongings were in a storage unit that was destroyed by the fire. They haven’t been allowed back into their room to retrieve clothes or the electric scooter her fiancé uses to get to work. On Tuesday, she took her son to see a counselor.</p><p>Davona Parker, Woolfolk’s younger sister, said her sister spent roughly $900 a month for her room, eating up most of her disability check. With the money she had left over, Woolfolk liked to buy food and small gifts for other residents. Last year, the ceiling of her room fell in, and she got pneumonia that Parker attributed to mold at the motel. Even so, Woolfolk felt comfortable there.</p><p>“She was happy she made friends with anybody that moved in or out of there,” Parker said. “She didn’t feel any longer alone, so it was kind of like home to her. She got used to it.”</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ New York May End Blame Game When Deciding Which Crime Survivors Get State Aid ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/06/16/new-york-survivors-first-act-contributory-conduct ]]> </link>
<category> <![CDATA[ Criminal Justice ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ New York State ]]> </category>
<pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ A bill awaiting the governor’s signature would relax restrictions on who can qualify for victim compensation. ]]> </description>
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																			<p>Victims of violent crime in New York can get the state to help pay for their medical expenses and other costs — that is, unless it decides they’re at fault, too. A <a href="https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/bills/2025/S4584/amendment/A">bill</a> passed this month in the waning hours of the annual state legislative session could change that.</p><p>Known as the Survivors First Act, the <a href="https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/bills/2025/S4584/amendment/A">legislation</a> would bar the state from evaluating what’s known as “contributory conduct” to determine if victims are eligible for funds. <a href="https://www.americanprogress.org/article/hope-after-harm-an-evaluation-of-state-victim-compensation-statutes/">Nearly all states</a> have similar restrictions, based on factors like whether the victim was accused of using or selling drugs, fighting with the person who injured them, or being in a gang at the time of the crime.</p><p>The state Office of Victim Services decides who receives the funds, using information from law enforcement, prosecutors, claimants, and other sources. In 2024, the office denied roughly 40 percent of the nearly 8,000 claims it ruled on for reasons including incomplete applications and ineligible crimes. Of those, 16 denials included contributory conduct, the office said.</p>																								<div class="newsroomBlockQuoteContainer">
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										<p>“The victim cannot be considered an innocent victim of crime and is not eligible for an award.”</p>
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																									<p>Research has shown that because victim compensation decisions rely on subjective assessments, they can also lead to <a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/21533687251388669">racial disparities</a>. In a 2024 analysis, University of Michigan professor Jeremy Levine found that Black New Yorkers represented 31 percent of all victim compensation claims in the state — but made up 53 percent of claims denied for contributory conduct. The disparity was particularly acute for Black men, who represented 14 percent of New York claims but 47 percent of contributory conduct denials.</p><p>Kira Shepherd, vice president of organizing and policy at Common Justice, a victim services organization that helped spearhead the bill, said these patterns are harmful for survivors in the moment — and down the line. “If they’re denied because they’re criminalized, they aren’t getting the healing they need, and that just causes the cycle of violence to continue,” she said.</p>																																			<p>The bill, sponsored by state Senator Julia Salazar and Assemblymember Monique Chandler-Waterman, would strike the provision in the law that instructs the Office of Victim Services to use contributory conduct to deny claims or reduce awards, making New York one of the first states to do so. It would also make it illegal for the state to award survivors less money if they privately fundraised for funeral or medical expenses, as it does now. And it would require the office to better publicize itself and to publish regular statistics on applications for aid, rejections, and the reasons it denies applications.</p><p>Survivors and their families are sometimes unaware that they’re eligible for victim compensation or confused by the rules around it.</p><p>In 2024, Dylan Marino, 21, was stabbed to death by a worker in a Queens corner store. Grainy <a href="https://pix11.com/news/local-news/queens/police-investigate-fatal-stabbing-outside-queens-bodega/">security camera footage</a> shows the bodega worker chasing Marino, and then Marino chasing him back before staggering away.</p><p>The Office of Victim Services sent a funeral home $3,000 for his services, according to Marino’s mother, Kate Dessommes. Months later, however, the agency tried to claw it back without fully explaining why.</p><p>“Our investigation of this claim shows that the victim’s own actions contributed to his/her death,” the office wrote in a letter to  Dessommes. “The victim cannot be considered an innocent victim of crime and is not eligible for an award.”</p><p>Dessommes attributes the denial to what she says police told her: that Marino had stolen a beer from the corner store. After she appealed, the agency attributed it to the fact that the worker wasn’t charged in the crime, though the statute does not require that.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/IM6XuaDfM0ayV3MsX_H8v2T2YaZNzSmNnqDPw-I2pEg/w:1000/h:1333/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9LYXRlYW5kRHlsYW4uSlBH.jpg" alt="Kate Dessommes and her son, Dylan Marino, on a beach" class="" /><figcaption>Kate Dessommes, seen here with her son, Dylan Marino, fought efforts to rescind the victim compensation she received after his killing.  / Courtesy of Kate Dessommes</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p>To Dessommes, the letter felt like another emotional blow. “It added so much more stress to something that was already horrible,” she said through tears.</p><p>The Office of Victim Services said it could not “comment on an individual claim due to strict confidentiality laws,” but that there may be “circumstances in which <span class="caps">OVS</span> is limited in the information it can disclose, such as when doing so could affect an ongoing investigation or prosecution.”</p><p>Mika Dashman, founding director of the Restorative Justice Initiative, a nonprofit that advocates for non-punitive responses to harm, was working with Dessommes when she received the denial. She helped her push the state to stop trying to recoup the funding, which it eventually did.</p><p>“I couldn’t believe that an agency that was created to support victims of crime would use blaming language like that,” Dashman said. “The state should not be in the business of arbitrarily determining who is an ‘innocent’ victim and who is a ‘deserving’ victim.”</p><p>Aaron Cagwin, a spokesperson for the Office of Victim Services, said the agency reviews each claim “based on the information available at the time.”</p><p>“While <span class="caps">OVS</span> was required to follow the law as written,” he added, “the agency has always approached its work with a focus on supporting victims and survivors and ensuring that claims were reviewed as thoroughly as possible.”</p>																																			<p>Advocates and lawmakers have successfully pushed the agency to improve access to victim compensation. In 2023, they fought to <a href="https://legislation.nysenate.gov/pdf/bills/2023/S214A">remove a requirement</a> that survivors report crimes to the police to qualify for aid. And in 2025, the state budget <a href="https://www.governor.ny.gov/news/governor-hochul-announces-expanded-access-compensation-victims-and-survivors-crime">altered the contributory conduct provision</a> so it can no longer be used against homicide victims, like Marino. In all other cases, however, the conduct restrictions still stand.</p><p>“If my child dies, they can no longer be blamed” in a way that denies or reduces compensation, explained Robert Gipson <span class="caps">II</span>, a New York attorney and former fellow at Giffords Law Center. But if “I catch a stray bullet and live,” he said, the Office of Victim Services “can still make an arbitrary determination about why I was shot.”</p><p>That’s where this year’s bill comes in. If signed, New York would become the second state, after Maryland, to completely eliminate contributory conduct as a factor in victim compensation, according to Gipson, who drafted the legislation and worked with the sponsors’ offices, Common Justice, Safe Horizon, and other groups to get it passed.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/rGY1Sqd47sFl-ovdCnoqERWY-ftLgVCJQYX7sR0yj88/w:1000/h:1499/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9DaGFuZGxlcldhdGVybWFuLmpwZw.jpg" alt="Assemblymember Monique Chandler-Waterman" class=" size-thumbnail " /><figcaption>Assemblymember Monique Chandler-Waterman, a lead sponsor on the bill, helped push for its passage during an unusually short legislative session.  / New York State Assembly Majority</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p>The bill passed both legislative chambers unanimously. The legislature has until December to send it to Governor Kathy Hochul, who can sign or veto it.</p><p>The governor’s office did not answer questions about whether she plans to sign the bill. In a statement, Jess D’Amelia, a spokesperson for Hochul, said the governor “has championed efforts to improve the state’s response to gun violence, sexual assault, domestic violence, gender-based violence and sex trafficking.” </p><p>“Governor Hochul remains committed to supporting victims and survivors of all crimes and will review this legislation,” she said.</p><p>For Shepherd of Common Justice, the bill’s passage is gratifying. “No one has really looked at these policies to make sure that they were equitable,” she said. “I believe that conversation is now happening.”</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ New York High Schoolers Might Be Getting a New Diploma. Here’s What to Know. ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/06/19/new-york-inspires-high-school-graduation-requirements ]]> </link>
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<category> <![CDATA[ Education ]]> </category>
<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ At a Board of Regents meeting Monday, state officials proposed eliminating credit-based diploma requirements. ]]> </description>
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																			<p>At a Board of Regents meeting Monday, state education officials announced that high school graduates in New York could soon start receiving a new type of diploma — one that reflects their skills and knowledge, rather than the number of credits they’ve earned.</p><p>The new diploma is a central component of <a href="https://www.nysed.gov/ny-inspires">New York Inspires</a>, the State Education Department’s multiyear effort to overhaul graduation requirements to ensure students leave high school ready for modern careers and higher education. If approved by the board, it would replace the current graduation framework, which allows students to earn one of three diplomas depending on how they perform on statewide standardized tests known as Regents exams.</p><p>At the meeting, Education Department officials called it the most significant transformation of the state’s graduation system in generations. The plan would direct school districts to shift away from awarding credits based on the time a student spends in a course and instead adopt a “competency-based” model with flexibility in how they develop mastery of specific skills.</p>																																			<p>“The big idea is that New York is moving away from an outdated factory-style education model toward a model system built for how students actually learn,” said Jeffrey Matteson, the department’s senior deputy commissioner for education policy.</p><p>The Education Department has only shared preliminary plans so far, so many implementation details remain unclear. During and after the meeting, some Board of Regents members and education advocates raised concerns about how schools will maintain academic rigor and support teachers as they adopt flexible models, and whether students across the state will have equal access to opportunities.</p><p>Jeff Smink, deputy director at the advocacy group EdTrust-New York, said New York must strengthen K-8 instruction in order for the initiative to succeed, noting that students can only access opportunities like internships and college courses if they are proficient in reading and math.</p><p>The department plans to present the final plan to the board for approval once it’s complete and start a phased rollout in certain grade levels by the end of next school year. Here’s what we know so far.</p><h3>What is competency-based education?</h3><p>The Education Department defines competency-based education as a system in which students get closer to graduating after proving they’ve actually learned material instead of just completing required class time.</p><p>Students would still enroll in traditional courses, but would also be able to participate in activities outside of the classroom, such as internships, capstone projects, community service and career and technical education programs, to move toward their degrees. Instead of a single exam, students would have different ways to show what they know in each subject, such as assessments, projects, presentations, or portfolios.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/AsQy8Q9vkEpYFutDkqfcvMKmXfII9wnE1QVRJqG5e5o/w:1000/h:577/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9zeXN0ZW0tY29tcGFyaXNvbi5wbmc.png" alt="A graphic titled &quot;System Comparison&quot; shows two side-by-side lists. The leftmost, titled &quot;Current,&quot; lists &quot;Regents Exams; Time is the Constant; Grades, Test Scores, GPA; Credit-Based; Unclear Requirements.&quot; The rightmost column, titled &quot;NY Inspires,&quot; lists &quot;Multiple Measures; Learning is the Constant; Evidence of Readiness; Competency-Based; Clear Requirements.&quot;" class=" size-full " /><figcaption>A graphic from a June 2026 State Education Department presentation showing proposed changes to New York&#039;s graduation requirements.  / New York state Education Department</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p><br>In 2024, the Board of Regents announced plans to eliminate the requirement that students pass the Regents exams to receive a diploma. Currently, they can earn one of three diploma designations: a Regents diploma, an advanced Regents diploma for students who pass additional tests, and a local diploma for students who meet testing requirements a different way. On Monday, state officials explained that the exams would be one of many options students can use to qualify for a diploma.</p><p>“What will matter moving forward is the quality and substance of the evidence that a student produces, not the particular route that produced it or how long it took,” said Shannon Logan, director of strategic priorities and coordination in the department’s Office of Cultural Education.</p><h3>What will the new transcript look like?</h3><p>Current transcripts include a list of classes and assessments with corresponding grades, which do not “adequately reflect what a student knows and what they are able to do,” Angelique Johnson-Dingle, one of the department’s deputy commissioners, said at the meeting. Under the new framework, graduating students would receive a “universal transcript or learner profile.” </p><p>The transcript would document alignment with state learning standards and the six attributes the state outlined in its graduation blueprint, called the <a href="https://www.nysed.gov/sites/default/files/programs/grad-measures/portrait-of-a-graduate.pdf">Portrait of a Graduate</a>. It’s unclear exactly what the transcript would look like.</p><h3>Will it affect college applications?</h3><p>There is little evidence that competency-based education disadvantages students in the college admissions process. Many colleges have embraced more holistic admissions practices that consider portfolios and other demonstrations of skills that extend beyond <span class="caps">GPA</span> and standardized test scores.</p><p>Education Department officials said they are working with colleges and universities to ensure every institution that serves the state’s high school graduates ”understands and trusts” the new diploma.</p><h3>What does this mean for current students?</h3>																																			<p>Students who started ninth grade in 2023 would be the final cohort to graduate under the state’s current requirements.</p><p>Students starting high school in 2024, 2025, or 2026 would still have to fulfill current credit requirements and take the Regents exams, but they would not have to pass the exams to graduate. For the 2027 and 2028 cohorts only, the state would impose a yet-to-be-determined credit requirement.</p><p>The new flexible system introduced Monday, which would eliminate time-based credits, would be fully implemented for students who enter high school in 2029.</p><h3>What are the next steps?</h3><p>The state is currently reworking learning standards, competency rubrics, and the universal transcript and will release them within the next year. The department said it will continue to schedule working groups and advisory panels to gather feedback on the changes, and is updating the state’s data system to track student progress.</p><p>The Education Department encouraged school districts to start designing pilot programs for next school year that include hands-on learning outside of traditional classrooms, a wider range of ways to assess student learning beyond standard exams, and expanded career-related opportunities. Schools could hire work-based learning coordinators, for instance, or partner with local employers.</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ Rochester’s Anti-Poverty Portal Struggles to Meet Promise ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/06/03/rochester-anti-poverty-portal-rmapi-social-services ]]> </link>
<category> <![CDATA[ New York State ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ Social Services ]]> </category>
<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ New York state has pumped millions of taxpayer dollars into an online portal that vowed to make life easier for Rochester’s neediest, but critics say it’s fallen short. ]]> </description>
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																			<p>In 2015, then-Lieutenant Governor Kathy Hochul helped unveil a bold plan to reverse decades of severe poverty in Rochester. </p><p>She hailed the effort — now called the <a href="https://rmapiny.org/">Rochester-Monroe Anti-Poverty Initiative (<span class="caps">RMAPI</span>)</a> — as an innovative model that could one day be <a href="https://www.democratandchronicle.com/story/news/2015/01/19/request-state-funds-led-anti-poverty-task-force/22022943/">replicated</a> statewide.</p><p>For months, a task force led by top lawmakers and spearheaded by the <a href="https://unitedwayrocflx.org/">United Way of Greater Rochester </a>had been taking shape. Soon after going public, it announced an ambitious goal: <a href="https://www.wxxinews.org/local-news/2019-02-04/rmapi-director-walks-back-initial-poverty-reduction-promise">slashing the area’s poverty rates</a> in half by 2030. Key to that effort was a cutting-edge website that would seamlessly connect the region’s residents to a variety of social services, acting as a one-stop shop for everything from emergency housing to food assistance and mental health care. By increasing coordination among providers, proponents explained, it could eliminate the bureaucracy of getting help — providing a more holistic, user-friendly experience. </p><p>But the task force faced early stumbles. Its first leader <a href="https://rochesterbeacon.com/2020/05/21/leonard-brocks-next-step/">resigned</a> in 2020 amid <a href="https://rochesterbeacon.com/2018/10/25/is-rmapi-misunderstood/">criticism</a>. Now, more than a decade since its launch, some are calling <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> — along with MyWayFinder, the website it kickstarted — an expensive flop.</p><p>“I’m not convinced an app that tells me where a food pantry is is solving the problem that needs to be solved,” Monroe County legislator Rachel Barnhart said of <a href="https://my-wayfinder.org/about">MyWayfinder</a>, which came online in 2024 and officially launched in 2025. “The problem is when people actually go and apply to the government for the services they’re eligible for, and they encounter extreme barriers and red tape.” </p>																																			<p>The state has pumped at least $25 million into the MyWayFinder website<a href="https://my-wayfinder.org/about">, which took over eight years to develop.</a> State documents billed the website as a transformative hub that would provide a “360-degree” view of each of Rochester’s 150,000 impoverished residents, allowing clients to transition from “crisis to stable to thriving” with a vast network of providers closely tracking their needs and the services they’re receiving.  </p><p>Amy D’Amico, a nonprofit consultant and local housing advocate, has referred several people to the platform to easily locate resources, including a trans person who needed help identifying a health provider. </p><p>“I think there’s a significant gap in our community and elsewhere between the health domain and the housing domain,” D’Amico said. “These are systems that just don’t talk to each other.” MyWayFinder is one of many potential solutions that could help bridge that divide, she said.</p><p>But overall, uptake has been lackluster. As of June 2026, MyWayFinder has <a href="https://my-wayfinder.org/our-impact">over 2,000 registered client users </a>— a fraction of the 150,000 sign-ups promised upon the website’s rollout. Similarly, only 48 organizations are considered “Connected Provider Organizations,” which actively receive referrals from the site, far short of the 300 providers envisioned upon rollout in state contract documents — limiting the website’s ability to function as a one-stop shop. </p><p>The website’s current operator denied that the site had failed to reach its original goals and said that all providers listed on the website are able to utilize the network and are “reachable” through the platform, even if they don’t receive website referrals. </p><p>Despite the tepid response, those running the platform have continued to<a href="https://www.nysenate.gov/sites/default/files/admin/structure/media/manage/filefile/a/2024-01/togethernow.pdf"> seek more state dollars</a> and are looking to expand MyWayFinder and spread the <a href="https://democrats-rules.house.gov/sites/evo-subsites/democrats-rules.house.gov/files/HRDT-117-RU00-WState-GustinL-20210715.pdf">framework</a> to other counties across New York. <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> has long since abandoned its ambitious target of <a href="https://www.wxxinews.org/local-news/2019-02-04/rmapi-director-walks-back-initial-poverty-reduction-promise">halving local poverty rates</a> and has pivoted to a broader set of metrics that, according to its executive director, “better reflect the root causes of poverty” and don’t rely on a single measure. <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> has also stepped away from MyWayFinder and transferred operation of the platform to another group.</p><p>MyWayFinder’s goal of streamlining social services couldn’t come at a more critical time. Historic federal cuts to <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/31/essential-plan-health-insurance-new-york-bill">Medicaid</a> and <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/12/12/whats-next-for-new-yorkers-on-snap">food assistance</a> are estimated to result in hundreds of thousands of New Yorkers losing their benefits in the months and years to come — placing a larger burden on nonprofit providers to fill the gaps.</p><p>These cuts are likely to be especially <a href="https://www.cityofrochester.gov/sites/default/files/2025-03/Report_Compiled%20-%20web_0.pdf">devastating in Rochester</a>, where nearly 30 percent of residents live below the federal poverty line and roughly 40 percent of children live in poverty. </p>																									<p>Rochester was once a bustling hub for some of America’s most iconic brands, including Xerox and Kodak, but decades of <a href="https://rbj.net/2016/05/27/manufacturing-decline-takes-toll-on-middle-class-locally/">declines in manufacturing</a> have taken their toll on the workforce, which has never recovered. And that was before the <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/07/09/trump-big-beautiful-bill-new-york-medicaid-snap">recent spate of federal cuts</a> to safety net programs under the Trump administration. </p><p>The region also has a history of <a href="https://rachbarnhart.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/MONROE-COUNTY-LEADS-IN-BENEFIT-DENIALS.pdf">higher-than-average denial rates</a> for programs like food assistance and punitive sanctions for those who fail to meet stringent requirements for drug or alcohol programs, Barnhart says. </p><p>But while MyWayFinder was built using state funds, it was never intended to connect users with the state or county agencies responsible for administering public benefits — which some critics say hamstrings the platform’s ability to ease the lives of underserved residents. </p>																								<div class="newsroomBlockQuoteContainer">
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																									<p>It can also be impractical, said Anna Valeria, <span class="caps">CEO</span> of Open Door Mission, the region’s largest housing provider. Open Door is among the majority of organizations listed on MyWayFinder that are not fully connected into the platform. </p><p>“It’s wonderful in theory, but the reality is for those of us doing the frontline work, it’s another layer to add,” said Valeria. </p><p>The platform connects directly with 48 providers, allowing users to request referrals for help such as finding a shelter or child care. But when MyWayFinder users click on a listing to Open Door or other nonprofits that aren’t fully connected, they are prompted to call or email directly for help, which Barnhart said makes the platform more akin to an online phone directory than the innovative one-stop shop promised in state documents. </p><p>Valeria said Open Door has no plans to fully connect because it has already fine-tuned its own intake process. Several other community partners that facilitate emergency and transitional housing placements for Open Door have also declined to connect, Valeria said, driving down the platform’s ability to improve coordination among providers. </p><p>She questioned why the state would bankroll MyWayFinder instead of directly supporting nonprofits at a time when many are struggling. In 2024, the United Way of Greater Rochester was criticized by local nonprofits after it announced funding changes that would significantly reduce <a href="https://www.rochesterfirst.com/news/more-local-charities-announce-large-united-way-funding-loss/">its longtime support </a>for them. </p><p>Barnhart raised similar concerns, calling MyWayFinder a costly attempt at unifying providers into a central system instead of investing in actual services. “We have other nonprofit organizations that essentially do the same exact work and don’t need these dollars from taxpayers,” Barnhart said of MyWayFinder and <span class="caps">RMAPI</span>. “We seem to be spending money to fund bureaucracy instead of putting money directly into the hands of people.” </p>																									<p>The United Way of Greater Rochester is one of the larger nonprofits in the region, with a reported <a href="https://projects.propublica.org/nonprofits/organizations/161015782/202403049349300505/full">$183 million in assets</a> as of 2024. </p><p>The organization is part of a national <a href="https://www.unitedway.org/">United Way</a> network of affiliates that raise money through workplace giving programs and direct those donations to local nonprofits like homeless shelters and food pantries. Each United Way is independently run and operated, and many, like the Greater Rochester chapter, do not provide direct services to the public.</p><p>The organization’s relationship with <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> has raised questions. Nearly all of the state funds directed to the task force or MyWayFinder were issued as legislative awards, a process in which lawmakers direct grants to specific institutions. The practice has been flagged by open government advocates for <a href="https://citizensunion.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/Citizens20Union20-20Spending20in20the20Shadows20-20Nonspecific20Funding20in20the20FY201920NYS20Executive20Budget20-20May2020181.pdf">inadequate oversight</a> that “invites misuse and corruption.” </p>																																			<p>Unlike regular state contracts — which are often issued after a competitive bidding process and contain financial safeguards — agencies have limited powers to oversee legislative awards. Neither of the state agencies named on the grants that supported <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> and MyWayFinder were able to provide details about how the money was spent, and both noted that they had no control over the grants.</p><p>A tangled ownership structure also makes tracking spending more difficult. The state grants were entrusted to the United Way of Greater Rochester, which has housed <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> since the task force formed in 2015. All of <span class="caps">RMAPI</span>’s employees are United Way of Greater Rochester employees.</p><p>While <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> spearheaded the development of MyWayFinder, it has since transferred operation of the platform to another organization called TogetherNow, which also started off as part of the United Way of Greater Rochester. TogetherNow spun off into its own nonprofit organization earlier this year. </p>																									<p>John Kaehny of Reinvent Albany said MyWayFinder’s transfer to a new operator raises questions about potential misuse of state dollars, especially if TogetherNow intends to expand the platform beyond the region. He recommended that the state open a financial probe into the matter. </p><p>The United Way of Greater Rochester charged the state $1.2 million per year to manage a five-year grant on <span class="caps">RMAPI</span>’s behalf while it was developing MyWayFinder but declined to share a breakdown of how it spent the $6 million total. State documents show an unspecified part of the annual fee went toward the salaries of United Way of Greater Rochester employees not directly involved in either <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> or MyWayFinder, such as <span class="caps">CEO</span> Jaime Saunders. <a href="https://projects.propublica.org/nonprofits/organizations/161015782">Recent tax filings</a> show Saunders earned over $365,000 annually as the nonprofit’s top executive in 2024.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/AkOahqebXb8sehQN5Dc1N1uImttQPGizavD_35JsbGY/w:1000/h:705/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9qb2UtbW9yZWxsZS5qcGc.jpg" alt="Congressman Joe Morelle stands and speaks at a podium." class=" size-full " /><figcaption>Congressmember Joe Morelle is often described as the architect behind RMAPI’s creation in 2015, when he served as a state assemblymember.  / Mike Groll/Office of Governor Kathy Hochul</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p> </p><p>United Way of Greater Rochester declined an interview request and responded to only some questions from New York Focus.</p><p><span class="caps">RMAPI</span> Executive Director Aqua Porter said her task force is independent from United Way of Greater Rochester, despite the fact that she is listed in tax filings as an employee of the nonprofit. Porter said <span class="caps">RMAPI</span>’s budget over the past five years has hovered around $1 million annually, with state dollars accounting for as little as a third of overall funding at times. She declined to provide a full accounting of all state dollars <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> has received since 2015. </p><p>Because <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> is not a separate entity, it is not subject to <span class="caps">IRS</span> public reporting rules for nonprofits. “No matter the funding sources, <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> has always been an effective and deeply responsible steward of any money we receive,” Porter wrote in an email. </p><p>Porter’s low six-figure salary was among 18 United Way of Greater Rochester positions funded by state grants earmarked for the development of MyWayFinder, according to state records. She has served as head of <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> since 2020, taking over when the group’s last leader resigned after concerns from community members about <a href="https://rochesterbeacon.com/2018/10/25/is-rmapi-misunderstood/">the task force’s effectiveness turned personal</a>, according to the Rochester Beacon.</p><p>Like United Way of Rochester, <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> does not provide direct services to the public. Its main function is convening a steering committee that includes several prominent lawmakers and local politicians, though it does not identify as a think tank or a lobbying group and is not subject to state ethics rules.</p><p>Congressman Joe Morelle — often described as the architect behind <span class="caps">RMAPI</span>’s creation in 2015, when he served as a state assemblymember — did not respond to requests for comment. Morelle has been a fixture at <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> events, attending a celebration for MyWayFinder last summer.</p><p>Asked about <span class="caps">RMAPI</span>’s legacy, Porter pointed to the group’s advocacy for policy changes such as the <a href="https://www.tax.ny.gov/pit/credits/empire_state_child_credit.htm">Empire State child tax credit,</a> <a href="https://www.rochester.edu/newscenter/university-commits-to-15-minimum-wage-by-2022-as-part-of-rmapi-efforts-469302/">raising the state’s minimum wage</a>, and a pilot run of <a href="https://www.cityofrochester.gov/departments/mayors-office/guaranteed-basic-income">Rochester’s Guaranteed Basic Income program</a>. “<span class="caps">RMAPI</span> has brought to Rochester an element that had not previously existed, a central organization that sets common goals and leads the hard work,” she wrote in an email. “While systemic change takes time, we can see the results.”</p>																									<p>Laura Gustin, executive director at TogetherNow, which now runs MyWayFinder, wrote in an email that her organization has set a new target to fully connect 15 percent of all services listed on MyWayFinder by 2028. As of June 2026, <a href="https://my-wayfinder.org/our-impact">an impact tracker</a> on MyWayFinder indicated 125 out of 3,361 total services listed on the platform – or fewer than 4 percent — are fully connected. </p><p>Gustin pointed out that MyWayFinder has been used over 200,000 times by more than 40,000 unique users and has a <a href="https://www.togethernowny.org/engaged-partners/">growing list of partner organizations</a>. She noted that her staff have trained over 1,100 service providers to use MyWayFinder, but didn’t respond to follow-up questions about why she thinks relatively few have chosen to fully connect to the platform. </p><p>Keeping MyWayFinder up and running for its relatively small user base isn’t cheap. Gustin said that annual licensing fees for the website currently cost $1.4 million. It’s not clear whether state funds are footing this bill. Neither Porter nor Gustin provided more details about these ongoing fees. The platform itself was designed by <span class="caps">IBM</span>, which was hired by United Way of Greater Rochester as a subcontractor using state grant money.</p>																									<p>Some community members remain hopeful that MyWayFinder could represent a promising new solution moving forward.</p><p>The platform has helped local residents navigate new federal changes to the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program, also known as food stamps. In March, new work requirements went into effect for thousands of Monroe County residents who rely on food assistance. The county directed <span class="caps">SNAP</span> households to a screening tool on MyWayFinder, which helped them identify if they were subject to the new mandate using a questionnaire. </p><p>The platform and <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> continue to receive strong political support. </p><p>Among <span class="caps">RMAPI</span>’s most enduring supporters is Assemblymember Harry Bronson, who represents Rochester and has served on the task force’s steering committee since 2015. </p><p>Bronson’s office declined to provide Focus with a full accounting of all state money the assemblymember has directed to the task force, but <a href="https://assembly.state.ny.us/mem/Harry-B-Bronson/story/110975">press releases</a> and agency records indicate he is responsible for shepherding at least $10.5 million to the group.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/ZtZbBpen7pG0R7ZIvdkw0JNUdZk0C3YRXvhOU-4Ch40/w:1000/h:666/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9oYXJyeS1icm9uc29uLmpwZw.jpg" alt="Assemblymember Harry Bronson standing and speaking." class=" size-full " /><figcaption>Assemblymember Harry Bronson is among RMAPI’s most enduring supporters.  / New York state Assembly Majority</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p> </p><p>“The funds I have requested for <span class="caps">RMAPI</span>’s continued work bolsters their ability to do outreach, retain staff and facilitate vital community collaboration necessary for our area to persist in addressing poverty and creating upward mobility,” he wrote in a statement. “One of the most significant successes of <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> has been in raising awareness that poverty does not only occur in the City of Rochester, as is commonly believed, but also affects those living in the surrounding rural and suburban areas of Monroe County.”</p><p>Bronson was among those who attended a <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbOHUuz0HC0">2023 <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> event</a> where Rochester Mayor Malik Evans spoke positively of the group’s efforts, <a href="https://www.minorityreporter.net/post/rmapi-lays-out-2023-agenda-to-tackle-area-poverty-local-leaders-pledging-support">calling it</a> “a framework for change that is bold in ambition yet constructive in scope to confront the single greatest challenge of our entire region.” Monroe County Executive Adam Bello said <span class="caps">RMAPI</span>’s efforts had helped make the region “more prosperous and equitable.” Neither responded to requests for comment from New York Focus.</p><p>Some advocates say that raising awareness and fully connecting clients to a few dozen providers falls far short of <span class="caps">RMAPI</span>’s original goals. </p><p>While Valeria of Open Door welcomed <span class="caps">RMAPI</span> with hope back in 2015, she said she has yet to see measurable outcomes from the group’s efforts over the past decade. </p><p>“We get lost in the aspiration,” she said. </p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ Bill Stalled in Assembly Could Determine Fate of Hundreds of Sexual Assault Cases ]]> </title>
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<category> <![CDATA[ Criminal Justice ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ New York State ]]> </category>
<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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																			<p>As Governor Kathy Hochul’s administration fights more than 1,600 lawsuits alleging sexual abuse in New York prisons, it has sought to dismiss certain cases based on strict court filing requirements. Legislation now pending in Albany could change that — but it’s been stalled during the legislative session set to end this week.</p><p>When someone sues the state government, they must bring their case to the Court of Claims. Yet to file a case there, they need to know the exact date, time, and place where a state official harmed them. For the second year in a row, the state Senate has <a href="https://nyassembly.gov/leg/?default_fld=&amp;leg_video=&amp;bn=S09848&amp;term=2025&amp;Summary=Y&amp;Actions=Y">passed a bill</a> that would lift those requirements in cases involving allegations of sexual assault, while the Assembly has failed to advance it.</p><p>At a press conference Tuesday, Assemblymember Linda Rosenthal, its prime Assembly sponsor, urged lawmakers to pass the bill. </p><p>“This is not something that should wait until next year, because people are suffering now,” she said. “People’s cases are going to vanish.”</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/gXMxtyT1UxwEjmFuezJPBS4ePM-6IP7s4fzE84b-lJ0/w:1000/h:1500/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9saW5kYS1yb3NlbnRoYWwuanBn.jpg" alt="Photo of Assemblymember Linda Rosenthal standing and speaking." class=" size-full " /><figcaption>Assemblymember Linda Rosenthal  / New York State Assembly Majority</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p> </p><p>The 1,600 cases stem from the Adult Survivors Act, a law that temporarily opened the statute of limitations for lawsuits alleging sexual abuse against adults. An earlier law, the Child Victims Act, opened a similar window for people allegedly abused as children. Lawmakers involved with the passage of those bills <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/12/22/prison-adult-survivors-act-doccs-sexual-assault-typo-dismissed">say they</a> never meant for filing requirements to stymie cases.</p><p>In other civil courts — like the state’s supreme courts, where <a href="https://gothamist.com/news/late-night-sex-assaults-invasive-searches-the-700-women-alleging-abuse-at-rikers">hundreds of women</a> have filed Adult Survivors Act suits against New York City over sexual abuse by Rikers Island jail staff —  claimants can initiate cases by providing limited details, then gather more evidence through discovery. But in cases filed against New York state, judges have ruled that they need to share more information at the outset. </p><p>“Everything we know about the psychology of sexual abuse and rape trauma is that survivors actively suppress the memories of the abuse, and that they have difficulty recalling small details about it,” said Konstantin Yelisavetskiy, a partner at the law firm Slater Slater Schulman, which represents about 1,200 of the claimants suing the state. It’s also inherently difficult, he said, for any incarcerated person to keep precise track of time in prison. </p><p>“When you take those two things and you put them together,” he added, it’s an even greater burden. “So to not remove this harsh, inhumane requirement is effectively blocking their ability to attain justice,” he said.</p>																																			<p>In a consequential decision <a href="https://www.timesunion.com/capitol/article/hundreds-sexual-abuses-cases-imperiled-court-20227846.php">last year</a>, the Court of Appeals, New York’s highest court, ordered the Court of Claims to dismiss a case filed under the Child Victims Act because the claimant could not provide a precise date for alleged abuse. The case set the bar for how to apply the strict requirements to the thousands of old cases filed under the two laws.</p><p>The proposed state law, which passed the Senate last month by a 57–3 margin, would remove those requirements for pending cases and apply retroactively to cases dismissed under the current filing requirement that are subject to potential appeal. </p><p>Last year, Assembly Speaker Carl Heastie’s office expressed concerns over the degree to which the bill would relax pleading standards, and about changing the law in a way that would impact pending cases, according to a person familiar with the discussions. Heastie’s office, which has remained noncommittal about the bill this year, did not immediately respond to a request for comment.</p><p>During a court conference last October, attorneys for the Department of Corrections and Community Supervision said the state was <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/12/22/prison-adult-survivors-act-doccs-sexual-assault-typo-dismissed">planning to ask</a> judges to throw out 500 cases based on the filing requirements, according to Yelisavetskiy and another attorney, who collectively represent hundreds of women in the cases. Attorney General Letitia James’s office, which represents <span class="caps">DOCCS</span>, has sought dismissal of cases based on the Court of Claims filing requirements. Her office did not immediately respond to a question about whether she supports the bill.</p>																																			<p>Hochul’s office said the governor “remains committed to supporting victims and survivors of sexual assault and will review all legislation that passes both houses of the state legislature.” </p><p>Meanwhile, <span class="caps">DOCCS</span>, a Hochul administration agency represented by James’s office, has sought to use the current filing requirements to its legal advantage.</p><p>In one case, for instance, James’s office <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/12/22/prison-adult-survivors-act-doccs-sexual-assault-typo-dismissed">convinced a judge</a> to throw out a case because the claim included the wrong date of the alleged abuse — a mistake also included in the prison agency’s own records.</p><p>In another, James’s office asked a judge to toss a case because <span class="caps">DOCCS</span> could not locate a record of an alleged abuser — even <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/02/20/adult-survivors-act-sexual-assault-groveland-fitzpatrick-doccs-attorney-general">though New York Focus</a> was able to quickly locate the record, leading James’s office to withdraw its request.</p><p>Last year, the legislature passed a bill relaxing the pleading standard for sexual assault cases going forward. But it did not apply retroactively, so it did not cover cases filed under the Child Victims and Adult Survivors laws.</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ At Hunter College, Students Tackle Garbage — And a New Way of Shaping Policy ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/06/12/new-york-citizens-assemblies-democracy-cuny-hunter ]]> </link>
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<category> <![CDATA[ New York City ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ Climate and Environment ]]> </category>
<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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																			<p>If Hunter College manages to reduce the roughly one ton of trash it produces each day — as required by a state <a href="https://www.governor.ny.gov/executive-order/no-22-leading-example-directing-state-agencies-adopt-sustainability-and">order</a> directing all public entities to cut their waste — it will likely be thanks to a new, highly democratic decision-making body known as a citizens assembly.</p><p>Over two months, some three dozen Hunter undergraduates met weekly to research the topic, grill the college’s waste managers and outside experts, tour the campus trash trail, and ultimately come to consensus on seven actions aimed at sending less garbage to recycling and landfills.</p><p>The <span class="caps">CUNY</span> Climate Assembly Project at Hunter, or <span class="caps">CCAP</span>, is one of the first citizens assemblies in New York state. The approach involves selecting participants at random, ensuring their demographics accurately reflect the community, and giving their recommendations real weight in decision-making. Also known as civic assembly, popular assembly, lottocracy, or citizen jury, it has been used in <a href="https://www.sortitionfoundation.org/case_studies">Europe</a> for decades and is gaining traction in the <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026/may/21/elected-officials-civic-assemblies-la">United States</a> and <a href="https://www.peoplepowered.org/news-content/impacts-of-citizens-assemblies-a-summary-of-the-latest-research">around the world</a>.</p>																																			<p>Some of the Hunter College climate assembly participants were drawn by the $750 stipend. Others had nothing planned for spring break, when the assembly began. And some seized the opportunity to collaborate with others and achieve a tangible good.</p><p>“I’ve been in a phase of climate nihilism,” said Luisa Pellettieri, a senior in sociology. “I’m trying to say yes to more things. I’m hoping to get hope back.”</p><p>Over the summer, the group will present its recommendations to Hunter College leadership, which promised to review and respond to them. While college leaders did not commit to more binding language, they have been involved and supportive of the effort.</p><p>Assembly organizer Forrest Sparks said the project connects people in new ways. “The group that comes together looks like the larger public of Hunter,” he said, addressing the crowd gathered in the West Building’s eighth-floor conference room on a rainy Friday in February, waiting for participants to be drawn from a lottery spinner. Over 23,000 students received an email invitation to opt in to the lottery; 570 accepted the invitation, and 42 were selected by lottery.</p><p>“It really expands who decides and who designs within our democracy,” Sparks said to the group. “In our current political system, unfortunately, we don’t have too many pathways to do that. But y’all are leading the way.”</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/RJnZLL-vwLkSWmul9FHFEsa9EUbgXJq5HL1eP2deOi0/w:1000/h:750/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9jaXRpemVucy1hc3NlbWJsaWVzLTIuanBlZw.jpeg" alt="Groups of college-age people sit around round tables, engaged in discussions." class=" size-full " /><figcaption>Delegates got to know each other and the issues on the first day of the assembly at Hunter College.  / Karen Loew / New York Focus</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p><br><strong>A democratic innovation</strong></p><p>Central to any citizens assembly is the <a href="https://sortitionusa.org/faqs-4-1">selection of participants</a> by lottery. In a given city, an invitation might be mailed to as many as 10,000 to 20,000 people. Of those who respond, several dozen participants are usually chosen with tools that select for both randomness and demographic representativeness.</p><p>Running a successful assembly is labor-intensive. Organizers must secure funding, get buy-in from decision-makers who have the power to act on the assembly’s consensus, and recruit a qualified team to plan and lead the process over weeks or months. <a href="https://centerforthehumanities.org/project/cuny-climate-assembly-project/"><span class="caps">CCAP</span></a> was <a href="https://www.gc.cuny.edu/news/mellon-foundation-funds-climate-assembly-cuny-graduate-center">funded</a> by a Mellon Foundation grant and led by professional facilitators and trained graduate students.</p><p>But the payoffs can be significant. Proponents say citizens assemblies surface genuine public opinion and generate creative solutions that politicians — constrained by loyalties and conflicts — might never reach. They build trust in public policymaking, and participants <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jahGnbOnCOs&amp;t=7s">often report</a> feeling more engaged in democracy, sometimes for the first time.</p><p>Former New York City comptroller and councilmember Brad Lander called for a citizens assembly on housing while campaigning for mayor last year. “At a time of catastrophically low trust in our democracy, I believe citizens assemblies can help to renew it,” Lander, who is now a candidate for Congress, told New York Focus.</p><p>The model also forges unusual bonds: Because a citizen assembly’s “mini-public” mirrors the demographics of its community, participants collaborate with people unlike them politically and socioeconomically, and elected officials get policy options with democratic legitimacy already built in.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/zq0krikqdSNK7QBUUDTDDpDH353cXN7ZauPTHK8DWas/w:1000/h:750/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9jaXRpemVucy1hc3NlbWJsaWVzLmpwZWc.jpeg" alt="A group of people stand in a fluorescent-lit hallway. One man carries bags of trash through the group to a trash room that opens off the hallway." class=" size-full " /><figcaption>A custodial supervisor leads delegates on a tour of waste management on the Hunter campus as a custodian walks through carrying bags of trash.  / Karen Loew / New York Focus</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p><br><strong>Local leaders</strong></p><p>The Hunter College climate project isn’t the city’s only citizens assembly.</p><p>Through June 21, New York City residents over the age of 11 can vote on local projects in a city-sponsored deliberative process called <a href="https://www.participate.nyc.gov">The People’s Money</a>. The five boroughs have $4 million total to spend on priorities selected through borough-level citizens assemblies.</p><p>Now in its fourth cycle, The People’s Money unfolds in <a href="https://www.participate.nyc.gov">four phases</a>: open idea submission, a citizens assembly in each borough to choose finalist ideas, a public vote, and then implementation. <a href="https://www.participate.nyc.gov/processes/Citywidepb2024/f/109/proposals">Projects</a> have included swim lessons for children in <span class="caps">NYCHA</span> housing, food-growing and cooking programs, and housing education for older adults.</p><p>The program is run by the Civic Engagement Commission, which was created by a 2018 referendum to initiate a<i> </i>citywide participatory budgeting process (in addition to the participatory budgeting programs <a href="https://council.nyc.gov/pb/">run by</a> many City Councilmembers in their own districts). </p><p>“People themselves do know what is best, and they can arrive at conclusions that work for the community and that are legislatively feasible,” said Benjamin Solotaire, senior adviser at the Civic Engagement Commission, who helped to integrate the assembly component into The People’s Money process. “It is really the lived experience that makes it feasible.”</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/JbagJo7Ea3DuxnJ-kunerKPugPtimqaoXy2qVKu2CD8/w:1000/h:750/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9jaXRpemVucy1hc3NlbWJsaWVzLTUuanBlZw.jpeg" alt="A middle-aged man speaks to an engaged group of college-age people on the sidewalk, signs showing Hunter College, 68th St, and the M66 bus are visible." class=" size-full " /><figcaption>A staff custodial supervisor answers assembly members&#039; questions outside the compactor on East 67th Street.  / Karen Loew / New York Focus</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p><br><strong>New York and beyond</strong></p><p>The climax of the Hunter College assembly’s campus “garbage tour” was a visit to the trash compactor on East 67th Street, where delegates watched as custodians on a high platform emptied trash from the entire campus into a massive metal container before it was carted away by the Sanitation Department. The goal was to see the problem up close.</p><p>Rozen Kapadia, a junior studying psychology, said her role on the assembly was already changing her mindset. “I do feel responsible,” she said. “I feel expected to bring about change.”</p><p>Over the two months that followed, the delegates worked to achieve it. They sought information from outside experts. They met every Friday to learn, deliberate and ideate. A public forum on May 15 included the broader campus community. Last week, the assembly developed and voted on nine recommendations, passing seven with a strong consensus. Those include expanding the compost program, barring on-campus vendors from distributing styrofoam and single-use plastics, and redesigning and relocating trash receptacles to encourage recycling.</p><p>The results will be discussed with the administration over the summer. Then nine students will serve as post-assembly fellows, working with campus leadership to implement the proposals.</p><p>“This was a great experience,” said Hunter junior Tariq Bradshaw after the vote. “I think I’ll always look back on this time, because I never thought I would do anything like this before. It was great being part of something bigger.”</p><p>It’s unclear whether supporting citizens assemblies is a priority for Mayor Zohran Mamdani’s administration; neither the mayor nor his new Office of Mass Engagement answered questions about it. (<span class="caps">OME</span>’s first initiative is quite different: a <a href="https://www.nyc.gov/content/organize/pages/home">campaign</a> to recruit tenants to testify at upcoming rent stabilization hearings.)</p><p>Across the country, meanwhile, citizens assemblies are proliferating. This spring, <a href="https://healthydemocracy.org/home/projects/#projects-ca">Los Angeles</a> used one as part of a city charter review, as did Lexington, Kentucky. <a href="https://www.unifyakron.org">Akron</a>, Ohio, just conducted a citizens assembly on housing; <a href="https://www.nationalcivicleague.org/raleighs-civic-assembly/">Raleigh</a>, North Carolina, held one focused on urban planning. Beginning in July, Connecticut will <a href="https://ct-citizens-assembly.org">hold</a> a statewide citizens assembly on property taxes.</p><p>Abroad, notable examples include the standing assemblies of <a href="https://demnext.substack.com/p/how-a-permanent-citizens-assembly">Paris</a> and <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2025/11/23/world/europe/belgium-citizen-democracy-ostbelgien-model.html?unlocked_article_code=1.6E8.8iPt.ZVluH7aQJmnX&amp;smid=url-share">East Belgium</a> — whose recommendations have been adopted into law — and the 2016 <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/world/2018/mar/08/how-99-strangers-in-a-dublin-hotel-broke-irelands-abortion-deadlock">Irish</a> assembly that led the country to legalize abortion two years later.</p><p>Citizens assemblies are not infallible. French President Emmanuel Macron, for example, <a href="http://google.com/url?q=https://www.publicdeliberation.net/the-promises-and-disappointments-of-the-french-citizens-convention-for-climate/&amp;sa=D&amp;source=docs&amp;ust=1780964698870323&amp;usg=AOvVaw3C6rBRAdzA7sF1XGyzZ8g2">overpromised and underdelivered</a> on implementing the French Citizens Convention on Climate six years ago.</p><p>Still, the model may prove well suited to society’s emerging problems. Two western communities have already launched assemblies on artificial intelligence: the <a href="https://cocap.us/ai/">Central Oregon</a> Community Solutions Assembly on <span class="caps">AI</span> and the <a href="https://www.snococivicassembly.org">Snohomish County</a>, Washington Civic Assembly.</p><p>If elected, Lander said, he’d love to do the same in New York. A citizens assembly could “transform an extractive, profit-driven model of artificial intelligence by using a democratic model for amplifying our collective intelligence,” he said.</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ What’s in the 2026 State Budget? Here’s What To Know. ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/05/29/new-york-final-state-budget-2026-funding-guide-hochul ]]> </link>
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<category> <![CDATA[ Reporting ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ Budget ]]> </category>
<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ <p>Over the past year, Saprea’s donors and partners—including YESCO and the RLC Family Foundation—have made it possible to expand awareness of child sexual abuse through impactful billboard campaigns, reaching communities with messages of prevention, hope, and healing. </p>
<p>The post <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/saprea-billboard-awareness-yesco-rlc-family-foundation/">How Generous Partners Are Helping Saprea Raise Child Sexual Abuse Awareness </a> appeared first on <a href="https://saprea.org">Saprea</a>.</p>
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return false;"><div class="x-anchor-content"><span class="x-graphic" aria-hidden="true"><i class="x-icon x-graphic-child x-graphic-icon x-graphic-primary" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-b="&#xf231;"></i></span></div></a><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button has-graphic e36440-e13 ms48-2x ms48-30 ms48-31 ms48-34" tabindex="0" href="mailto:?subject=News%20from%20Saprea%20-%20How%20Generous%20Partners%20Are%20Helping%C2%A0Saprea%C2%A0Raise%20Child%20Sexual%20Abuse%20Awareness%C2%A0&amp;body=https%3A%2F%2Fsaprea.org%2Ffeed"><div class="x-anchor-content"><span class="x-graphic" aria-hidden="true"><i class="x-icon x-graphic-child x-graphic-icon x-graphic-primary" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-o="&#xf0e0;"></i></span></div></a></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e36440-e14 ms48-f ms48-i ms48-k ms48-l ms48-o ms48-q ms48-r ms48-s ms48-u ms48-v ms48-w ms48-x ms48-y ms48-17 ms48-18"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e15 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p ms48-1w"><span class="x-image e36440-e16 ms48-36 ms48-37"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/yesco-billboard.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="36442:full" loading="lazy"></span></div><div class="x-col e36440-e17 ms48-1j ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1s ms48-1x"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e18 ms48-29 ms48-2a ms48-2f ms48-2g ms48-2h ms48-2i ms48-2j ms48-2k ms48-2l"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h1 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Generous Partners Are Helping Saprea Raise Child Sexual Abuse Awareness </h1></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e36440-e19 ms48-1 ms48-2 ms48-3 ms48-4 ms48-5 ms48-6"></div><div class="x-section e36440-e20 ms48-1 ms48-2 ms48-3 ms48-4 ms48-6 ms48-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e21 ms48-f ms48-i ms48-k ms48-l ms48-p ms48-r ms48-s ms48-v ms48-w ms48-y ms48-z ms48-14 ms48-19"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e22 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e23 ms48-2a ms48-2g ms48-2i ms48-2l ms48-2m ms48-2n ms48-2o"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary"><p>At Saprea, we know that awareness is one of the most powerful tools in preventing child sexual abuse. But awareness doesn’t happen on its own. It takes a community of committed partners and donors who are willing to invest in making the unseen visible.</p>
<p>Over the past year, that impact has been made possible through the generosity of our supporters and key partners, including <a href="https://www.yesco.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">YESCO</a> and <a href="https://rlcfamilyfoundation.org/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">RLC Family Foundation</a>.</p></h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e36440-e24 ms48-1 ms48-2 ms48-4 ms48-6 ms48-8 ms48-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e25 ms48-f ms48-i ms48-k ms48-l ms48-p ms48-r ms48-s ms48-v ms48-w ms48-y ms48-z ms48-14 ms48-1a"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e26 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e27 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2g ms48-2j ms48-2k ms48-2l ms48-2o ms48-2p ms48-2q ms48-2r ms48-2s"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Donated Billboard Advertising Supports Child Sexual Abuse Awareness</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e28 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-24 ms48-25"><p>Through donated and funded billboard advertising, these partners have helped bring Saprea’s message into communities in a bold, public way.</p>  
 
<p>Billboards have the unique ability to reach people where they are—on their daily commutes, in their neighborhoods, and throughout their cities. Because of this generosity, critical messages about prevention, healing, and hope have reached thousands who may not have otherwise encountered them.</p>  
 
<p><strong>This kind of visibility matters.</strong> It helps normalize conversations around a difficult topic, encourages individuals to seek help, and empowers communities to take action.</p> </div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e36440-e29 ms48-1 ms48-2 ms48-3 ms48-5 ms48-6 ms48-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e30 ms48-f ms48-i ms48-k ms48-l ms48-p ms48-r ms48-s ms48-v ms48-w ms48-y ms48-z ms48-14 ms48-1b"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e31 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p ms48-1y"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e36440-e32 ms48-1 ms48-2 ms48-3 ms48-4 ms48-6 ms48-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e33 ms48-f ms48-i ms48-k ms48-l ms48-p ms48-r ms48-s ms48-v ms48-w ms48-y ms48-z ms48-14 ms48-1c"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e34 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e35 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2g ms48-2j ms48-2k ms48-2l ms48-2o ms48-2p ms48-2q ms48-2r ms48-2s"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Where Has Saprea’s Billboard Campaign Reached?</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e36 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-24 ms48-25 ms48-26"><p>Over the last year, the support of donors and partners like YESCO and the RLC Family Foundation has allowed Saprea to significantly expand awareness efforts through billboard campaigns.</p>
 
<p>These messages have been displayed along I-15 in Utah and surrounding areas and have served as a constant reminder that:</p>
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<li>Healing is possible.</li> 
<li>Support is available.</li> 
<li>Prevention starts with awareness and education.</li> 
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 </div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e37 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-24 ms48-25"><p>What began as an act of generosity has grown into a sustained effort to reach more people, more often, with messages that matter.</p> </div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e36440-e38 ms48-1 ms48-2 ms48-3 ms48-4 ms48-6 ms48-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e39 ms48-f ms48-i ms48-k ms48-l ms48-p ms48-r ms48-s ms48-v ms48-w ms48-y ms48-z ms48-14 ms48-1d"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e40 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e41 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2g ms48-2j ms48-2k ms48-2l ms48-2o ms48-2p ms48-2q ms48-2r ms48-2s"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Why Partnerships Like This Matter</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e42 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-24 ms48-25"><p>Awareness campaigns at this scale require more than visuals—they require partnership.</p>
<p>By donating billboard spaces and funding these efforts, YESCO and the RLC Family Foundation have played a critical role in helping Saprea extend its reach far beyond traditional channels. Their support ensures that conversations about child sexual abuse are not confined to small spaces but are brought into the public eye, where they can inspire change.</p>
<p>These partnerships demonstrate what’s possible when businesses and philanthropic organizations align their resources with a mission that impacts lives.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e36440-e43 ms48-1 ms48-2 ms48-3 ms48-4 ms48-6 ms48-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e44 ms48-f ms48-k ms48-l ms48-n ms48-p ms48-r ms48-v ms48-y ms48-10 ms48-11 ms48-14 ms48-1e"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e45 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e46 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2e ms48-2k ms48-2l ms48-2n ms48-2o ms48-2p ms48-2q ms48-2t ms48-2u"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Grateful for a Community That Shows Up</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e47 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-24 ms48-25"><p><strong>To our donors, partners, and supporters: Thank you!</strong></p>
<p>Your generosity is helping create a world where more people are informed, more survivors are supported, and more communities are equipped to prevent sexual abuse.</p>
<p>Because of you, awareness is not limited to a moment—it is sustained throughout the year, reaching individuals and families when they need it most.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e36440-e48 ms48-1 ms48-2 ms48-4 ms48-6 ms48-7 ms48-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e49 ms48-f ms48-i ms48-k ms48-l ms48-p ms48-r ms48-s ms48-v ms48-w ms48-y ms48-z ms48-14 ms48-1f"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e50 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e51 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2g ms48-2j ms48-2k ms48-2l ms48-2o ms48-2p ms48-2q ms48-2r ms48-2s"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How to Support Child Sexual Abuse Awareness</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e52 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-24 ms48-25"><p>While this past year has been impactful, the need for awareness continues. With the ongoing support of partners like YESCO and the RLC Family Foundation, Saprea will continue to expand its reach and bring critical messages to the community.</p> 
 
<p><strong>Together, we are not just raising awareness; we are building a future where prevention is possible and healing is within reach.</strong></p> </div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e36440-e53 ms48-1 ms48-4 ms48-6 ms48-9 ms48-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e54 ms48-e ms48-f ms48-i ms48-k ms48-l ms48-r ms48-s ms48-v ms48-w ms48-x ms48-y ms48-17 ms48-1g postsrow"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e55 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e56 ms48-29 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2d ms48-2e ms48-2g ms48-2k ms48-2o ms48-2s ms48-2v"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Recent blogs</h2></div></div></div></div><div class="x-col e36440-e57 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p"><div class="x-row e36440-e58 ms48-f ms48-g ms48-i ms48-l ms48-s ms48-v ms48-x ms48-12 ms48-17 ms48-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><a class="x-col e36440-e59 ms48-1n ms48-1z post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/saprea-billboard-awareness-yesco-rlc-family-foundation/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e36440-e60 ms48-36"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/yesco-billboard.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="36442:full" loading="lazy"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e61 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2j ms48-2l ms48-2o ms48-2q ms48-2u ms48-2w"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Generous Partners Are Helping Saprea Raise Child Sexual Abuse Awareness </h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e62 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-27 excerpt">Over the past year, Saprea’s donors and partners—including YESCO and the RLC Family Foundation—have made it possible to expand awareness of child sexual abuse through impactful billboard campaigns, reaching communities with messages of prevention, hope, and healing. </div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e63 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-24 ms48-25 ms48-28"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e36440-e59 ms48-1n ms48-1z post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/conversation-prompts-parents-sensitive-topics/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e36440-e60 ms48-36"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/conversation-prompts-for-parents.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="35384:full" loading="lazy"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e61 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2j ms48-2l ms48-2o ms48-2q ms48-2u ms48-2w"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Conversation Prompts for Parents: Talking About Sensitive Topics</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e62 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-27 excerpt">Starting conversations about online safety and sextortion with teens can feel difficult. These practical conversation prompts help parents discuss sensitive topics, recognize red flags, and build trust so young people feel safe asking for help when they need it.</div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e63 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-24 ms48-25 ms48-28"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e36440-e59 ms48-1n ms48-1z post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/where-sextortion-starts-online-platforms/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e36440-e60 ms48-36"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/platforms-where-sextortion-begins.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="35379:full" loading="lazy"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e36440-e61 ms48-2a ms48-2c ms48-2j ms48-2l ms48-2o ms48-2q ms48-2u ms48-2w"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Common Platforms Where Sextortion Begins</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e62 ms48-20 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-27 excerpt">Sextortion often begins on platforms teens use most, including social media, gaming chats, livestreams, and anonymous messaging apps. Understanding these high-risk spaces and teaching young people to recognize red flags can help parents protect them from online predators. </div><div class="x-text x-content e36440-e63 ms48-21 ms48-22 ms48-24 ms48-25 ms48-28"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e36440-e64 ms48-f ms48-i ms48-j ms48-k ms48-l ms48-n ms48-p ms48-r ms48-v ms48-y ms48-11 ms48-13 ms48-14 ms48-1i"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e36440-e65 ms48-1n ms48-1o ms48-1p"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e36440-e66 ms48-30 ms48-35 ms48-d" tabindex="0" href="/all-blogs/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">SEE ALL blogs</span></div></div></a></div></div></div></div></div>
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<p>Sexual abuse and human trafficking are being examined more openly than ever in documentary filmmaking, with a noticeable rise in projects over the past year. What we are seeing is, in many ways, an expansion of the true crime genre — but with a meaningful shift. Audiences are no longer satisfied with the what and the who. They are increasingly asking <b>why this harm occurs</b> and, more importantly, <b>how do we stop it.</b> Those two questions sit at the heart of ATSA's work and the work of our members.</p>
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<p style="color: #555555; font-size: 0.98em; margin: 0px;">Across different settings, there are recurring patterns such as gradual boundary violations, normalization within peer groups, misuse of authority, and lack of accountability. These patterns can inform risk assessment and intervention strategies.</p>
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<p style="color: #555555; font-size: 0.98em; margin: 0px;">Abuse does not occur in isolation. Organizational culture, supervision gaps, and bystander inaction are often part of the picture. This reinforces the importance of addressing not just individual behavior, but context.</p>
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<p style="color: #555555; font-size: 0.98em; margin: 0px;">Many cases include earlier warning signs that were overlooked. Understanding these moments can help shape earlier intervention and relapse prevention planning.</p>
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<p style="color: #555555; font-size: 0.98em; margin: 0px;">As these stories become more visible, individuals in treatment may be influenced by them. This can create openings for discussion around accountability, empathy, and the real-world impact of harm.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A cult expert and her filmmaker husband infiltrate the inner circle of Samuel Bateman, a self-proclaimed FLDS prophet who took multiple "wives" — including underage girls — and orchestrated abuse to consolidate control. Focused on coercion, manipulation, and abuse within a religious group, including how power and control are established and maintained.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Lizzie, a former Minnesotan Amish woman, breaks decades of silence about her sexual assault and reports her case to police, sparking a nationwide movement of Amish and Mennonite survivors. Highlights how cultural and religious expectations to "forgive and forget" can function as system-level barriers to disclosure, accountability, and prevention.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A four-part docuseries, executive produced by Curtis "50 Cent" Jackson, that traces the rise and fall of Sean "Diddy" Combs through interviews and exclusive footage tied to the sexual misconduct allegations against him. Useful for examining how celebrity, wealth, and inner-circle loyalty can shield long-running coercive behavior, and how survivor accounts surface only after a power structure begins to crack.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Director David Osit revisits Dateline's <i>To Catch a Predator</i>, tracing the people who made it, the men it captured, and the ethical fallout of turning real-life trauma into spectacle. Examines media-driven approaches to confronting offenders and raises questions about deterrence, public exposure, and behavior change.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A group of Catholic nuns — including former Sister Gloria Branciani — publicly accuse priests, including Father Marko Rupnik, of sexual and spiritual abuse and confront the Vatican's hidden patterns of cover-up. Explores abuse within a closed system and the role of authority, secrecy, and institutional response.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A three-part investigation in which former members of YouTuber Piper Rockelle's "Squad," along with their parents, detail accounts of exploitation and abuse by her manager-mother, Tiffany Smith. Useful for understanding emerging digital pathways to grooming and the unregulated environments that enable harm, including the increasingly blurred line between parent and producer.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Filmmaker Anna Hall draws on two decades of investigative work on UK gang grooming, as five women share on-camera accounts of grooming, rape, and exploitation — and the police and social services failures that allowed it to continue. Directly relevant to grooming dynamics, missed warning signs, and the institutional response gaps that allow harm to continue.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A docuseries examining the working environment behind several Nickelodeon shows of the late 1990s and 2000s, with first-hand accounts from cast and crew about misconduct, exploitation, and on-set abuse. Includes accounts of misconduct, boundary violations, and organizational blind spots that allowed harm to occur.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Japanese journalist Shiori Ito documents her own multi-year investigation and prosecution of a prominent broadcaster who sexually assaulted her, blending vérité footage, secret recordings, and first-person video. Highlights systemic barriers to accountability and the social dynamics that can discourage reporting.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A BBC Eye investigation into how prominent K-pop stars used private group chats to share evidence of sexual crimes, and the journalists who pushed the story into public view despite industry retaliation. Offers insight into group dynamics and the normalization of harm within a large-scale exploitation, trafficking, and coordinated abuse scandal.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Director Katherine Kubler reunites with former classmates from Academy at Ivy Ridge, a "behavior modification" facility marketed as a boarding school, to expose the abusive practices of the troubled-teen industry. Highlights closed-system dynamics, supervision failures, and the long-term impact of unregulated youth-treatment environments.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Photojournalist Amanda Mustard spends eight years investigating decades of sexual abuse committed by her grandfather, a trusted local chiropractor, weaving family interviews and archival home video into the inquiry. Offers insight into intra-familial dynamics, intergenerational impact, and how community standing can shield long-running offending behavior.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Award-winning journalist Mariana van Zeller embeds with operators inside global black markets — including human trafficking and sexual exploitation networks — to trace how illicit ecosystems function from the inside. Includes reporting on trafficking networks and the broader ecosystems that support exploitation.</p>
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<p>Sexual abuse and human trafficking are being examined more openly than ever in documentary filmmaking, with a noticeable rise in projects over the past year. What we are seeing is, in many ways, an expansion of the true crime genre — but with a meaningful shift. Audiences are no longer satisfied with the what and the who. They are increasingly asking <b>why this harm occurs</b> and, more importantly, <b>how do we stop it.</b> Those two questions sit at the heart of ATSA's work and the work of our members.</p>
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<p style="color: #555555; font-size: 0.98em; margin: 0px;">Abuse does not occur in isolation. Organizational culture, supervision gaps, and bystander inaction are often part of the picture. This reinforces the importance of addressing not just individual behavior, but context.</p>
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<p style="color: #555555; font-size: 0.98em; margin: 0px;">As these stories become more visible, individuals in treatment may be influenced by them. This can create openings for discussion around accountability, empathy, and the real-world impact of harm.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A cult expert and her filmmaker husband infiltrate the inner circle of Samuel Bateman, a self-proclaimed FLDS prophet who took multiple "wives" — including underage girls — and orchestrated abuse to consolidate control. Focused on coercion, manipulation, and abuse within a religious group, including how power and control are established and maintained.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Lizzie, a former Minnesotan Amish woman, breaks decades of silence about her sexual assault and reports her case to police, sparking a nationwide movement of Amish and Mennonite survivors. Highlights how cultural and religious expectations to "forgive and forget" can function as system-level barriers to disclosure, accountability, and prevention.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A four-part docuseries, executive produced by Curtis "50 Cent" Jackson, that traces the rise and fall of Sean "Diddy" Combs through interviews and exclusive footage tied to the sexual misconduct allegations against him. Useful for examining how celebrity, wealth, and inner-circle loyalty can shield long-running coercive behavior, and how survivor accounts surface only after a power structure begins to crack.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Director David Osit revisits Dateline's <i>To Catch a Predator</i>, tracing the people who made it, the men it captured, and the ethical fallout of turning real-life trauma into spectacle. Examines media-driven approaches to confronting offenders and raises questions about deterrence, public exposure, and behavior change.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A group of Catholic nuns — including former Sister Gloria Branciani — publicly accuse priests, including Father Marko Rupnik, of sexual and spiritual abuse and confront the Vatican's hidden patterns of cover-up. Explores abuse within a closed system and the role of authority, secrecy, and institutional response.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A three-part investigation in which former members of YouTuber Piper Rockelle's "Squad," along with their parents, detail accounts of exploitation and abuse by her manager-mother, Tiffany Smith. Useful for understanding emerging digital pathways to grooming and the unregulated environments that enable harm, including the increasingly blurred line between parent and producer.</p>
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<div style="font-size: 1.6em; line-height: 1.2; text-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5) 2px 2px 8px;">GROOMED<br /><span style="font-size: 0.55em; font-weight: normal; opacity: 0.9;">A National Scandal</span></div>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Filmmaker Anna Hall draws on two decades of investigative work on UK gang grooming, as five women share on-camera accounts of grooming, rape, and exploitation — and the police and social services failures that allowed it to continue. Directly relevant to grooming dynamics, missed warning signs, and the institutional response gaps that allow harm to continue.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A docuseries examining the working environment behind several Nickelodeon shows of the late 1990s and 2000s, with first-hand accounts from cast and crew about misconduct, exploitation, and on-set abuse. Includes accounts of misconduct, boundary violations, and organizational blind spots that allowed harm to occur.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Japanese journalist Shiori Ito documents her own multi-year investigation and prosecution of a prominent broadcaster who sexually assaulted her, blending vérité footage, secret recordings, and first-person video. Highlights systemic barriers to accountability and the social dynamics that can discourage reporting.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">A BBC Eye investigation into how prominent K-pop stars used private group chats to share evidence of sexual crimes, and the journalists who pushed the story into public view despite industry retaliation. Offers insight into group dynamics and the normalization of harm within a large-scale exploitation, trafficking, and coordinated abuse scandal.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Director Katherine Kubler reunites with former classmates from Academy at Ivy Ridge, a "behavior modification" facility marketed as a boarding school, to expose the abusive practices of the troubled-teen industry. Highlights closed-system dynamics, supervision failures, and the long-term impact of unregulated youth-treatment environments.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Photojournalist Amanda Mustard spends eight years investigating decades of sexual abuse committed by her grandfather, a trusted local chiropractor, weaving family interviews and archival home video into the inquiry. Offers insight into intra-familial dynamics, intergenerational impact, and how community standing can shield long-running offending behavior.</p>
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<p style="color: #444444; margin: 0px;">Award-winning journalist Mariana van Zeller embeds with operators inside global black markets — including human trafficking and sexual exploitation networks — to trace how illicit ecosystems function from the inside. Includes reporting on trafficking networks and the broader ecosystems that support exploitation.</p>
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<description> <![CDATA[ <p>Sextortion often begins on platforms teens use most, including social media, gaming chats, livestreams, and anonymous messaging apps. Understanding these high-risk spaces and teaching young people to recognize red flags can help parents protect them from online predators. </p>
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While these spaces can offer creativity and connection, they also create opportunities for criminals who exploit trust and curiosity. <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/what-is-sextortion/">Sextortion</a> frequently begins with a seemingly harmless message, friend request, or gaming conversation. By understanding where these schemes commonly start and how perpetrators operate across platforms, parents can better recognize the risks and help their teens navigate online spaces with greater awareness and safety.</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e26 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e27 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-s mrap-t mrap-v mrap-x mrap-z mrap-1b mrap-1f"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e28 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e29 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3m mrap-3p mrap-3q mrap-3r mrap-3v mrap-3w mrap-3x mrap-3y mrap-3z mrap-40"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Where Sextortion Conversations Often Begin</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e30 mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-33 mrap-34 mrap-35"><p>Sextortion rarely starts with an obvious threat. More often, it begins in everyday digital spaces where young people already spend their time—social media feeds, gaming chats, livestream comment sections, or messaging apps. Perpetrators intentionally seek out platforms that make it easy to connect with strangers, build quick rapport, and move conversations into private messages. Understanding how these environments work—and why they appeal to criminals—can help parents recognize where risks are more likely to emerge and guide their teens in navigating these spaces more safely.</p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e31 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e32 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1g"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e33 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-2f mrap-2h mrap-2i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e34 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3j mrap-3k mrap-3m mrap-3s mrap-3v mrap-40 mrap-41 mrap-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Social Media Platforms with Direct Messaging</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e35 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>Social media represents one of the most common starting points for sextortion schemes. Perpetrators create fake online accounts with stolen photos, build followers to seem legitimate, then send direct messages to potential victims. The platform's visual nature makes it easy for perpetrators to find young people through hashtags, location tags, and suggested accounts. They comment on public posts to establish familiarity before moving to private messages. Adult perpetrators use trending media and references to seem relatable to young people.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e36 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e37 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><hr class="x-line e35377-e38 mrap-4h"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e39 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e40 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1i"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e41 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-2f mrap-2h mrap-2i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e42 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3j mrap-3k mrap-3m mrap-3s mrap-3v mrap-40 mrap-41 mrap-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Gaming Platforms and Chat Features</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e43 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>Gaming environments have become major vectors for sextortion targeting teenage boys specifically.<sup>1</sup> Messaging servers, originally designed for gamers to communicate during play, often include thousands of strangers in chat rooms. Criminals join these servers, identify young users through their voices or comments about school, then send private messages. Many games include chat features where strangers can communicate. While these platforms have some safety features, determined perpetrators find ways around them, especially when young people use third-party communication apps alongside gaming and some messaging systems connect players globally. Criminals can befriend young gamers through cooperative play, then introduce personal conversation and eventually sexual content.<sup>2</sup></p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e44 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e45 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><hr class="x-line e35377-e46 mrap-4h"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e47 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e48 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e49 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-2f mrap-2h mrap-2i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e50 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3j mrap-3k mrap-3m mrap-3s mrap-3v mrap-40 mrap-41 mrap-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Livestreaming and Video Features</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e51 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>Some sites and platforms have video chat sites that directly connect strangers for video conversations. These platforms are designed for anonymous interactions and have minimal safety protections, making them extremely high-risk for young people. Twitch and YouTube Gaming allow viewers to message streamers directly. Young people who stream themselves gaming may receive messages from seemingly friendly viewers who want to "talk more privately." Instagram Live, TikTok Live, and Facebook Live features let young people broadcast to audiences, including strangers. Sextortion perpetrators watch these streams, learn about victims, then contact them privately after the stream ends.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e52 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e53 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><hr class="x-line e35377-e54 mrap-4h"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e55 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e56 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e57 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-2f mrap-2h mrap-2i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e58 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3j mrap-3k mrap-3m mrap-3s mrap-3v mrap-40 mrap-41 mrap-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Anonymous Messaging and Encrypted Apps</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e59 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>Criminals typically move conversations to these platforms after initial contact elsewhere. Some of these apps have been repeatedly identified in law enforcement agency reports as a platform used in child sexual exploitation. <strong>When an app has anonymity features, like when no phone number is required to register, it makes it attractive to perpetrators to use to exploit.</strong></p> </div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e60 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e61 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><hr class="x-line e35377-e62 mrap-4h"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e63 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-9 mrap-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e64 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e65 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-2f mrap-2h mrap-2i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e66 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3j mrap-3k mrap-3m mrap-3s mrap-3v mrap-40 mrap-41 mrap-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Dating and "Meet New People" Apps</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e67 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>While most have age restrictions, young people can lie about their age to access them. Tinder, Bumble, and similar apps are used by perpetrators specifically seeking young victims. Some teens use these apps out of curiosity or to seek romantic relationships. Similar apps marketed as "social discovery" for teens create opportunities for adults to pose as peers. Despite verification attempts, fake online accounts proliferate on these platforms.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e68 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-6 mrap-7 mrap-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e69 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1p"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e70 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26 mrap-2j"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e71 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-4 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e72 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-s mrap-t mrap-v mrap-x mrap-z mrap-1b mrap-1q"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e73 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e74 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3m mrap-3p mrap-3q mrap-3r mrap-3v mrap-3w mrap-3y mrap-3z mrap-40 mrap-43"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">What Makes These Platforms Risky</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e75 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>Several features consistently appear across high-risk platforms. Direct messaging with strangers is the primary risk factor—any platform allowing private communication between people who don't know each other in real life creates an opportunity for manipulation. <strong>Photo and video sharing capabilities let perpetrators send explicit images to normalize sexual content and allow victims to send the sensitive material that becomes leverage.</strong> Moving between platforms enables criminals to isolate victims from oversight and create the secrecy needed for sexual exploitation. Live video features provide opportunities for real-time recording of sexual content. Anonymity and account creation ease means perpetrators can create multiple fake online accounts without verification.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e76 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-4 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e77 mrap-h mrap-l mrap-m mrap-n mrap-s mrap-x mrap-12 mrap-13 mrap-1b mrap-1r"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e78 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e79 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3m mrap-3p mrap-3q mrap-3r mrap-3v mrap-3w mrap-3y mrap-3z mrap-40 mrap-43"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The Platform Is Less Important Than the Pattern</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e80 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>While these platforms see frequent sextortion cases, the specific platform matters less than the behavior pattern. Criminals adapt to whatever platforms young people use. When one platform improves safety features, perpetrators simply move to another. This is why teaching young people to recognize manipulation tactics proves more effective than trying to ban specific apps. The red flags—strangers who contact you out of nowhere, conversations that turn sexual quickly, pressure to move to private messaging apps, requests for explicit images—remain consistent regardless of where the initial contact occurs.</p>
<p>In 2026, there are a number of platforms commonly used by online blackmailers in sextortion activities in targeting young people.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e81 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-s mrap-t mrap-v mrap-x mrap-z mrap-1b mrap-1s"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e82 mrap-20 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-29 mrap-2e mrap-2k mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2p"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e83 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-32 mrap-36 mrap-37 mrap-38">Platform Type</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e84 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2k mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2q"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e85 mrap-2v mrap-2x mrap-32 mrap-36 mrap-37 mrap-38 mrap-39 mrap-3a">Examples Include:</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e86 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e87 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Mainstream Social Media Apps</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e88 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e89 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Instagram, Snapchat</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e90 mrap-20 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-29 mrap-2e mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e91 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Emerging Teen Social Apps </div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e92 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e93 mrap-2v mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-39 mrap-3b mrap-3c">Wizz, Hoop, Yubo</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e94 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e95 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Anonymous / Semi Anonymous Apps</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e96 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e97 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Whisper, ASK.fm, Skout</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e98 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e99 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Messaging Platforms </div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e100 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e101 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Discord, WhatsApp, Kik, Telegram</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e102 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e103 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Gaming Platforms </div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e104 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e105 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Roblox, generalized gaming chats</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e106 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e107 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Video / Content / Streaming Platforms</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e108 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e109 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">TikTok, YouTube, LiveMe</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e110 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s mrap-2t"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e111 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Dating Apps </div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e112 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e113 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Grindr, Tinder, Bumble</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e114 mrap-h mrap-k mrap-l mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-x mrap-10 mrap-13 mrap-14 mrap-18 mrap-1t"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e115 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e116 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35">Parents don't need to become experts on every social media account and gaming platform. Instead, focus on these principles: <strong>know what platforms your teen uses, understand the basic features and risks of each, maintain open communication about who they're talking to online, and ensure privacy settings are maximized.</strong> The goal isn't to prevent all online social interaction but to help young people navigate these spaces safely while recognizing the red flags of sexual extortion.</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e117 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-4 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-a mrap-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e118 mrap-h mrap-l mrap-m mrap-n mrap-s mrap-x mrap-12 mrap-13 mrap-1b mrap-1u"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e119 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e120 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3m mrap-3p mrap-3q mrap-3r mrap-3v mrap-3w mrap-3y mrap-3z mrap-40 mrap-43"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Recognizing Sextortion Red Flags—No Matter the Platform</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e121 mrap-3g mrap-3m mrap-3o mrap-3r mrap-3s mrap-3u mrap-3v mrap-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary"><p>Although certain apps and platforms appear more frequently in sextortion cases, the real danger lies in the patterns of manipulation that perpetrators use. Criminals will always follow young people to whatever platforms are popular, which is why awareness matters more than banning specific apps. Teaching teens to recognize red flags—such as strangers initiating private conversations, requests to move to another app, or pressure to share personal images—helps them stay safer no matter where they are online. With open communication, strong privacy settings, and ongoing conversations about digital boundaries, parents can empower their children to enjoy online spaces while recognizing and avoiding the tactics used in sexual extortion.</p></h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e122 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-6 mrap-7 mrap-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e123 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1v"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e124 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26 mrap-2j"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e125 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-c mrap-d"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e126 mrap-h mrap-i mrap-m mrap-n mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-z mrap-10 mrap-15 mrap-1b mrap-1w"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e127 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-acc e35377-e128 mrap-4i" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e35377-e128"><div class="e35377-e129 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e35377-e129" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e35377-e129" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e35377-e129"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e35377-e129" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e35377-e129" data-x-toggleable="e35377-e129" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><p>For more information about how to protect the children in your life from sexual abuse, we invite you to explore Saprea’s <a href="/prevent/">sexual abuse prevention resources</a>.</p>

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 	<li>Thorn. (2024, June 24). <em>New research from Thorn: Financial sextortion on the rise, targeting teen boys</em>. Thorn. <a href="https://www.thorn.org/blog/new-research-from-thorn-financial-sextortion-on-the-rise-targeting-teen-boys/">https://www.thorn.org/blog/new-research-from-thorn-financial-sextortion-on-the-rise-targeting-teen-boys/</a></li>
 	<li>Federal Bureau of Investigation. (2021, June 29). <em>It’s not a game: Predators target children online</em>. FBI. <a href="https://www.fbi.gov/contact-us/field-offices/newyork/news/its-not-a-game-predators-target-children-online-062921">https://www.fbi.gov/contact-us/field-offices/newyork/news/its-not-a-game-predators-target-children-online-062921</a></li>
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Many parents worry about saying the wrong thing or overwhelming their teen with warnings. In reality, short, supportive conversations often work better than long lectures. Using simple prompts and everyday moments to check in can help teens recognize risks, understand healthy boundaries, and feel safe coming to you if something goes wrong online.</p>
<p>Here are practical conversation prompts that you as a parent (or caregiver) can use to open discussions about these sensitive topics in supportive ways.</p>

</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e26 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-a mrav-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e27 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-w mrav-x mrav-z mrav-11 mrav-13 mrav-1f mrav-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e28 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e29 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Starting the Conversation About Online Safety</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-38 mrav-39 mrav-3a"><p>Rather than beginning with warnings or rules, <strong>start with curiosity and openness</strong>. Try asking: "What apps and social media accounts are you using these days? Can you show me how they work?" This question demonstrates interest without judgment and gives you valuable information about their digital world. Follow up with: "Who do you usually talk to on there? Friends from school or other people too?" This helps you understand their online social network without seeming accusatory.</p>
<p>Another effective opener uses current events: "I saw a news story about teens being targeted by others online. Have you heard anything about that happening at your school or with people you know?" This approach makes the topic concrete and relevant while creating space for your teen to share concerns without feeling like they're in trouble.</p>
</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e31 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e32 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e33 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e34 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-5 mrav-6 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e35 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-w mrav-x mrav-z mrav-11 mrav-13 mrav-1f mrav-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e36 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e37 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Introducing the Topic of Sextortion Without Fear</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e38 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-38 mrav-39 mrav-3a"><p>Saprea recommends <a href="https://saprea.org/prevent/educate/connect/">little talks</a> instead of lengthy talks. Try this approach: "Hey, I learned something concerning and want to check in with you. Have you ever had someone online ask you for pictures of yourself, especially explicit images? If that happens, I want you to know you can always tell me and you won't be in trouble." The explicit statement that they won't face punishment is crucial.</p>
<p>You might also ask: "If someone you met online started making you uncomfortable or asked for sexual content, what would you do? Who would you tell?" This prompt helps you understand their current plan and allows you to clarify that you want to be their first resource. It also reveals whether they understand the available support services.</p>
</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e39 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e40 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e41 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e42 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-5 mrav-6 mrav-7 mrav-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e43 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-w mrav-x mrav-z mrav-11 mrav-13 mrav-1f mrav-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e44 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e45 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Discussing Red Flags and Warning Signs</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e46 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-38 mrav-39 mrav-3a"><p>Use "what if" scenarios to explore situations without accusing your teen of anything. Try: "What would you think if someone you just met online said they felt really connected to you and wanted to video chat privately right away?" Let them respond, then discuss why that's a red flag—healthy relationships build gradually, and pressure to move fast or get private is a warning sign of manipulation.</p>
<p>Another scenario: "Imagine someone online offers you gift cards or money for photos. What do you think is really going on there?" This opens discussion about scammers who target others specifically with financial sextortion schemes. You can explain that legitimate people never offer payment for images, and this is always a setup for online blackmail or other potential exploitation.</p>
</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e47 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e48 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e49 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e50 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-d"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e51 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1p"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e52 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e53 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Building Trust </h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e54 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p>Perhaps the most important conversation establishes what happens if they make a mistake or face victimization. Say directly: "I need you to know something important. If you ever send someone an explicit image and they threaten you, or if you get into any kind of trouble online, please come to me immediately. You will not be punished. I will not take away your phone or get angry. We will handle it together, and the person threatening you is the one who is breaking the law."</p>
<p>You can add: "Even if it starts on an app you're not supposed to be on, or if you made choices you regret, you can still tell me. My job is to protect you and get you help, not to punish you." This message directly addresses the shame that prevents disclosure in 81% of cases.<sup>1</sup></p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e55 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1q"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e56 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e57 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e58 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-e"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e59 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1r"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e60 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e61 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Checking Understanding of Consent and Pressure</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e62 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p><strong>Discuss the difference between freely choosing and being pressured.</strong> Ask: "How would you know if someone was pressuring you versus you actually wanting to do something online?" This helps young people recognize coercion. Follow with: "You know that you never owe anyone explicit images, right? Not even if you've been dating, not if they sent you pictures first, not if you said yes before. You can always change your mind."</p>
<p>For context on relationships, try: "In healthy relationships, whether online or in person, how do people treat each other? What should never be okay?" Let them answer, then emphasize: "Healthy partners never pressure you for sexual content, never threaten you, and never share your private photos without permission."</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e63 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1s"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e64 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e65 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e66 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-e"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e67 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1t"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e68 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e69 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Addressing Privacy and Security</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e70 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p><strong>Rather than demanding access to everything, discuss why privacy settings matter, and work together to protect privacy.</strong> Ask: "Who can see your posts and profile right now—just friends, or anyone? Do strangers message you?" Then explain: "Keeping your social media accounts private makes you safer because criminals look for young people with public profiles. Can we check your settings together?"</p>
<p>On passwords and monitoring, try: "I'd like to know your passwords not because I don't trust you, but so if something goes wrong or you need help, I can access your accounts to fix it. Does that make sense?" Frame monitoring as collaborative online safety rather than distrust.</p>
</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e71 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1u"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e72 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e73 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e74 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-e"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e75 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1v"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e76 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e77 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">When You Suspect Something Is Wrong</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e78 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p>If your teen seems withdrawn, anxious, or is hiding their phone more than usual, approach with concern not accusation. Say: "I've noticed you seem stressed lately. Is everything okay online and at school? Sometimes people struggle with things they're afraid to talk about." Give space for them to respond without pushing.</p>
<p>If you have specific concerns about sextortion or online blackmail, be direct but supportive: "I'm worried something might be wrong. If someone online is making you uncomfortable, threatening you, or has pictures they're using to pressure you, we can fix this together. You're not in trouble with me—I just want to help." Then be quiet and give them time to answer.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e79 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1w"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e80 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e81 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e82 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-e mrav-f"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e83 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1x"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e84 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e85 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Following Up Regularly</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e86 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p>These conversations shouldn't happen just once. Brief check-ins work well: "Anything weird happen online this week?" Or: "Remember what we talked about before—about people online who pressure teens for pictures? That offer still stands to come to me if anything like that happens." Regular, casual mention keeps the topic present without being overwhelming.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e87 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-6 mrav-7 mrav-8 mrav-g"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e88 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1y"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e89 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e mrav-2o"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e90 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-4 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-8 mrav-9" id="healthy"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e91 mrav-l mrav-p mrav-q mrav-r mrav-w mrav-11 mrav-16 mrav-17 mrav-1f mrav-1z"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e92 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e93 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3r mrav-3u mrav-3v mrav-3w mrav-3z mrav-41 mrav-42 mrav-43 mrav-44"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Healthy vs. Unhealthy Digital Interactions: <br/>Teaching Teens the Difference</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e94 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a">Understanding the difference between healthy and unhealthy digital interactions can help teens navigate online spaces with greater confidence. While many online friendships and conversations are positive, some people use manipulation, pressure, or secrecy to gain trust and exploit others. By talking with teens about the common traits of healthy relationships—such as respect for boundaries, transparency, and mutual comfort—parents can help them recognize warning signs early and make safer decisions online.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e95 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-w mrav-x mrav-z mrav-11 mrav-13 mrav-1f mrav-20"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e96 mrav-28 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2h mrav-2m mrav-2p mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2u"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e97 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-37 mrav-3b mrav-3c mrav-3d">Healthy Interactions</div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e98 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2p mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2v"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e99 mrav-30 mrav-32 mrav-37 mrav-3b mrav-3c mrav-3d mrav-3e mrav-3f">Unhealthy Interactions</div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e100 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e101 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Healthy Online Friendships <em>Start Slowly</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e102 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e103 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Unhealthy Interactions <em>Move Too Fast</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e104 mrav-28 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2h mrav-2m mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e105 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Healthy Interactions <em>Respect Privacy and Boundaries</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e106 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e107 mrav-30 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3e mrav-3g mrav-3h">Unhealthy Interactions Involve <em>Pressure and Manipulation</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e108 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e109 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Healthy Digital Friends <em>Can Be Verified</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e110 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e111 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Unhealthy Contacts <em>Hide Their Real Identity</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e112 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x mrav-2y"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e113 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Healthy Relationships <em>Feel Comfortable and Safe</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e114 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e115 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Unhealthy Relationships <em>Create Anxiety and Fear</em></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e116 mrav-l mrav-o mrav-p mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-11 mrav-14 mrav-17 mrav-18 mrav-1c mrav-21"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e117 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e118 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p>Teaching young people these distinctions give them the framework to evaluate online interactions themselves. When teens understand what healthy looks like, they're better equipped to recognize the manipulation tactics of sexual extortion before becoming victims. Parents should discuss these differences regularly, using real examples from news stories or hypothetical scenarios to reinforce the concepts.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e119 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-8 mrav-9 mrav-f"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e120 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-22"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e121 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e122 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3r mrav-3u mrav-3v mrav-3w mrav-3z mrav-41 mrav-42 mrav-43 mrav-44"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Practical Prompts and Supportive Conversation</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e123 mrav-3l mrav-3r mrav-3t mrav-3w mrav-3x mrav-3y mrav-3z"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary"><p>Talking with teens about online safety and sextortion doesn’t have to be intimidating. By using practical prompts, real-life scenarios, and open, supportive conversations, parents can help their teens recognize red flags, understand healthy digital relationships, and feel safe seeking guidance. Regular check-ins build trust and empower teens to navigate online spaces confidently.</p></h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e124 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-6 mrav-7 mrav-8 mrav-g"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e125 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-23"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e126 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e mrav-2o"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e127 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-8 mrav-9 mrav-h"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e128 mrav-l mrav-m mrav-q mrav-r mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-13 mrav-14 mrav-19 mrav-1f mrav-24"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e129 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-acc e35383-e130 mrav-4j" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e35383-e130"><div class="e35383-e131 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e35383-e131" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e35383-e131" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e35383-e131"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e35383-e131" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e35383-e131" data-x-toggleable="e35383-e131" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><p>For more information about how to protect the children in your life from sexual abuse, we invite you to explore Saprea’s <a href="/prevent/">sexual abuse prevention resources</a>.</p>

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 	<li>Wolak, J., Finkelhor, D., Walsh, W., &amp; Treitman, L. (2018). Sextortion of minors: Characteristics and dynamics. <i>Journal of Adolescent Health</i>, 62(1), 72-79. <a href="https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jadohealth.2017.08.014">https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jadohealth.2017.08.014</a></li>
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Understanding Grooming in the Digital Age</h1></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e19 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-3 mqlr-5 mqlr-6 mqlr-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e20 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-y mqlr-10 mqlr-13 mqlr-1h mqlr-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e21 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e22 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-3 mqlr-5 mqlr-7 mqlr-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e23 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-y mqlr-10 mqlr-13 mqlr-1h mqlr-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e24 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34479-e25 mqlr-3c mqlr-3h mqlr-3j mqlr-3m mqlr-3n mqlr-3o mqlr-3p"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">With technology becoming increasingly more accessible, there has been an increase in online grooming. Much like grooming that occurs in-person, online grooming is the technology-facilitated process of befriending a child or teen for the purpose of sexual abuse and exploitation. While some online perpetrators may know the child they are talking to, more often, sexual perpetrators are exploiting the anonymity and accessibility of online platforms to reach potential victims. Unlike in-person grooming, which can occur over weeks, months or even years, online grooming can happen very quickly, even in a matter of hours. When working online, they don’t need to influence adults and control the environment around the child; this potentially makes it easier to establish trust and build the child up more quickly toward sexual discussions or sexual contact. </h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e26 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-5 mqlr-7 mqlr-8 mqlr-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e27 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-y mqlr-10 mqlr-13 mqlr-1h mqlr-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34479-e29 mqlr-3c mqlr-3e mqlr-3h mqlr-3k mqlr-3l mqlr-3m mqlr-3p mqlr-3q mqlr-3r mqlr-3s mqlr-3t mqlr-3u mqlr-3v"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Groomers Operate Online Through Social Media and Digital Platforms</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e30 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-2y mqlr-2z mqlr-30"><p>Online grooming isn’t limited to obscure corners of the internet; in fact, it often takes place on well-known platforms such as social media, messaging apps, and online games. Using fake profiles, groomers may pretend to be another child or a peer with shared interests, making it easier to gain the victim’s trust. They may even use multiple online platforms to contact the same child. They can spend time learning about the child or teen’s interests from their online profiles and use that information to help them build trust and establish a special relationship. As the online relationship develops, the perpetrator may ask for personal information or encourage private chats, video calls, and secretive behavior. Eventually, they manipulate or coerce the child into sending explicit photos or videos. In many cases, the offender uses this material to blackmail the child into further sexual acts (a form of abuse known as <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/what-is-sextortion/">sextortion</a>.)</p>
<p>The tactics used in online grooming are calculated and manipulative. Groomers can maintain frequent or constant contact, intensifying their control and making it difficult for the child to disengage. Some even resort to cyberstalking, using technology to monitor or harass their victims. Understanding these grooming behaviors of perpetrators helps caregivers and other adults to recognize signs of grooming early and protect children and teens from abusers online.</p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e31 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-3 mqlr-6 mqlr-7 mqlr-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e32 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-t mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-14 mqlr-15 mqlr-1d mqlr-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e33 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2l"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e34 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-4 mqlr-5 mqlr-7 mqlr-9 mqlr-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e35 mqlr-i mqlr-n mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-v mqlr-10 mqlr-16 mqlr-17 mqlr-18 mqlr-1h mqlr-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e36 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34479-e37 mqlr-3c mqlr-3e mqlr-3h mqlr-3k mqlr-3l mqlr-3m mqlr-3p mqlr-3q mqlr-3s mqlr-3t mqlr-3u mqlr-3v mqlr-3w"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Online Grooming Red Flags and Warning Signs</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e38 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">Many parents may feel like they don’t know what to look for when trying to catch online grooming early. Luckily, if a parent can spot traditional grooming behaviors, they will likely be able to catch online grooming behaviors. One nonprofit, Bravehearts<sup>1</sup>, nicely outlines seven warning signs and red flags to pay attention to:</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e39 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-s mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-12 mqlr-13 mqlr-14 mqlr-1h mqlr-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e40 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2m"><div class="x-row e34479-e41 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1p"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e42 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e43 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">01</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e44 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e45 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Asking personal questions too soon</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e46 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">The person is asking your child a lot of questions about personal information (such as their age, school, location, home life etc.) soon after meeting them online. This rapid questioning is a common grooming behavior used to assess the child’s vulnerability to build a close relationship quickly.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e47 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1q"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e48 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e49 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">02</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e50 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e51 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Asking for favors and building trust</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e52 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">The person starts asking your child for favors and does favors for them in return – abusers often use promises, gifts and favors to gain trust. This exchange creates a sense of obligation and is part of the grooming process designed to establish special attention and emotional dependence.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e53 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1r"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e54 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e55 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">03</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e56 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e57 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Keeping the 'relationship' secret</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e58 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">Online groomers typically try to keep their relationships extremely private and <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/good-secrets-bad-secrets/">secret</a> from the beginning, asking for it to be something ‘special’ just between them. Perpetrators thrive when caregivers and family members are unaware of their contact with the child.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e59 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1s"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e60 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e61 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">04</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e62 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e63 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Frequent and varied contact</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e64 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">The person contacts your child frequently and in different ways, like texting, on social media apps and through online chats or asking them to move their chat onto another platform that has end-to-end encryption.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e65 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1t"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e66 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e67 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">05</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e68 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e69 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Questions about device access</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e70 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">The person asks your child things like who else uses their device or computer, or which room they use it in. These questions help groomers assess how much privacy they have to escalate grooming behaviors without detection by parents or caregivers.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e71 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1u"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e72 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e73 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">06</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e74 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e75 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Gives compliments and tests boundaries</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e76 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">The person compliments your child on their appearance or body and/or tests their boundaries by asking things like, ‘Have you ever been kissed?,’ ‘Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?,’ and the like. Boundary testing and comments about physical appearance are examples of grooming tactics that target a child’s self-esteem and introduce sexual topics gradually. This is a form of desensitizing the child to sexual content and behavior.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e77 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1v"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e78 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e79 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">07</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e80 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e81 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Wants to meet in-person</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e82 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">Groomers may insist on meeting with the child and try to make them feel guilty or even threaten them if they are unwilling. Note: not all groomers will attempt to meet in person if their aim is to get sexual images or videos of children (known child sexual abuse material (CSAM)). </div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e83 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-5 mqlr-7 mqlr-9 mqlr-b mqlr-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e84 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-t mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-14 mqlr-15 mqlr-1d mqlr-1w"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e85 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34479-e86 mqlr-3c mqlr-3e mqlr-3h mqlr-3k mqlr-3l mqlr-3m mqlr-3p mqlr-3q mqlr-3s mqlr-3t mqlr-3u mqlr-3v mqlr-3w"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How to Protect Children From Online Dangers</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e87 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30"><p>As with all types of child sexual abuse, online grooming can have devastating effects on a child's mental health, self-esteem, and safety. The best defense is education—teaching children to recognize red flags, avoid sharing personal information or images, and to feel safe speaking up when something doesn’t feel right. Parents and caregivers should stay informed about the platforms their children use, maintain open and supportive communication, and be aware of changes in their child’s mood or behavior.</p> 
<p>Online grooming may take place in the digital world, but its impacts are very real. Through awareness, education, and open dialogue, we can better protect children and young people from these serious threats.</p>
<p>If you suspect your child is being groomed or has experienced child sexual abuse, contact law enforcement or child protection services immediately. For more information about how to best support your child, visit our page about <a href="/prevent/">preventing child sexual abuse</a>.</p> 
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Below are some of the most common questions about online grooming—what it is, how to identify the warning signs, and steps you can take to help keep children safe while using digital platforms.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e96 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-13 mqlr-14 mqlr-1h mqlr-1z"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e97 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-acc e34479-e98 mqlr-4a mqlr-4b" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e34479-e98"><div class="e34479-e99 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e99" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e99" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e99"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">What is online grooming?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e99" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e99" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e99" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Online grooming is when an adult uses the internet or digital communication to build a relationship with a child for the purpose of sexual abuse or exploitation.</div></div></div><div class="e34479-e100 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e100" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e100" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e100"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">How can I tell if my child is being groomed online?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e100" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e100" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e100" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Look for red flags like secrecy about online activity, receiving gifts from someone they met online, frequent messaging from unknown contacts, or sudden changes in mood or behavior.</div></div></div><div class="e34479-e101 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e101" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e101" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e101"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">What should I do if I think my child is being groomed online?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e101" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e101" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e101" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Stay calm, gather evidence (such as screenshots or messages), and report the situation to law enforcement or the National Center for Missing &amp; Exploited Children’s CyberTipline. Avoid confronting the suspected groomer directly.</div></div></div><div class="e34479-e102 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e102" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e102" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e102"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">How can parents prevent online grooming?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e102" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e102" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e102" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Keep communication open, set clear boundaries for device use, and talk about online safety regularly. Teach children not to share personal information or images and to tell a trusted adult if something feels off.</div></div></div><div class="e34479-e103 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e103" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e103" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e103"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">What platforms are most common for online grooming?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e103" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e103" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e103" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Online grooming can happen anywhere children communicate digitally—social media, gaming chats, messaging apps, and even educational forums.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e104 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-3 mqlr-6 mqlr-7 mqlr-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e105 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-t mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-14 mqlr-15 mqlr-1d mqlr-20"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e106 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2l"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e107 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-5 mqlr-7 mqlr-b mqlr-e"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e108 mqlr-i mqlr-j mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-13 mqlr-14 mqlr-1a mqlr-1h mqlr-21"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e109 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-acc e34479-e110 mqlr-4a mqlr-4c" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e34479-e110"><div class="e34479-e111 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e111" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e111" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e111"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e111" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e111" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e111" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><ol>
 	<li>Retrieved from “Online Grooming and Child Sexual Exploitation” from Bravehearts.org.au.</li>
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A grooming relationship often starts out appearing safe and positive. By the time the relationship becomes uncomfortable, frightening, and/or isolating, many children feel confused and unsure about how to react or who to trust. Recognizing warning signs of grooming behaviors early can help caregivers intervene before children feel trapped in silence. </h4></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e26 mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2h mqkr-2i mqkr-2j mqkr-2k"><p>According to the National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children (NSPCC)<sup>1</sup>, children may not speak up for a number of reasons. For instance, children and teens may be:</p>

<ul>
 	<li>Ashamed.</li>
 	<li>Feeling guilty for inappropriate sexual activities they participated in.</li>
 	<li>Believe they are in a romantic relationship with their groomer.</li>
 	<li>Embarrassed to share sexual details with other people.</li>
 	<li>Nervous to get the person grooming them in trouble.</li>
 	<li>Scared of what the groomer will do if they speak out or refuse to comply.</li>
</ul></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e27 mqkr-2c mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2k"><strong>Understanding barriers to children reporting grooming is vital to helping children feel safe and supported.</strong> Parents and other caregivers need to create open, non-judgmental environments where kids feel comfortable sharing anything—no matter how confusing or difficult it may seem.</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34443-e28 mqkr-1 mqkr-2 mqkr-3 mqkr-5 mqkr-7 mqkr-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e29 mqkr-h mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-t mqkr-u mqkr-w mqkr-y mqkr-10 mqkr-1d mqkr-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e30 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-1z"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e31 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-32 mqkr-33 mqkr-34 mqkr-37 mqkr-38 mqkr-39 mqkr-3a mqkr-3b"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">What If My Child Thinks They’re in a Romantic Relationship with Their Abuser</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e32 mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2h mqkr-2i mqkr-2k mqkr-2l">Sometimes, groomers use manipulative and emotionally coercive tactics to convince children and teens that they are in a consensual romantic relationship. They may shower them with attention, affection, gifts, or praise as part of the grooming process in order to build trust and emotional dependence. Over time, this manipulation can blur the lines between affection and abuse, making it incredibly difficult for young people to recognize what’s happening.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e33 mqkr-h mqkr-i mqkr-j mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-y mqkr-12 mqkr-13 mqkr-1d mqkr-1i"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e34 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-28"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e35 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2u mqkr-2w mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-37 mqkr-3b mqkr-3c mqkr-3d mqkr-3e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Why Children Can’t Consent to a Relationship with an Adult</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e36 mqkr-2c mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2k">Saprea firmly denounces the notion that children can consent to relationships with adults. Legally and developmentally, minors are not capable of giving informed consent—especially in the context of a power imbalance where an adult is deliberately exploiting their trust and vulnerability. Adults in a position of power who engage in grooming behaviors are abusers, regardless of how they frame the relationship.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e37 mqkr-h mqkr-i mqkr-j mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-y mqkr-12 mqkr-13 mqkr-1d mqkr-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e38 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-28"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e39 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2u mqkr-2w mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-37 mqkr-3b mqkr-3c mqkr-3d mqkr-3e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Groomers Manipulate Feelings of Attachment and Guilt</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e40 mqkr-2c mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2k"><p>Children may feel afraid to speak up or resist because they don’t want to “ruin” what they’ve been told is a special or <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/good-secrets-bad-secrets/">secret</a> relationship. Some may fear losing the emotional connection they've built with the groomer, even if it has become abusive. Others may feel ashamed, confused, or blame themselves for getting involved, making it even harder to seek help. The groomer’s manipulation of the child’s self-esteem and vulnerability makes disclosure even more difficult.</p>
<p>It’s also common for victims to feel they have no choice—that saying "no" isn’t an option. Even when they are deeply uncomfortable or hurt by what they’ve been asked to do, they may believe they’re responsible for maintaining the relationship, or worry that speaking out will lead to punishment, rejection, or harm.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e41 mqkr-h mqkr-i mqkr-j mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-y mqkr-12 mqkr-13 mqkr-1d mqkr-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e42 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-28"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e43 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2u mqkr-2w mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-37 mqkr-3b mqkr-3c mqkr-3d mqkr-3e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Parents and Caregivers Can Help</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e44 mqkr-2c mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2k"><p>The most important thing for parents and caregivers to remember is this: your child is not to blame. Open, non-judgmental conversations and professional support can make all the difference in helping them break free from this manipulation and begin to heal.</p>
<p>If you suspect your child is being groomed or has experienced child sexual abuse, contact law enforcement or child protection services immediately. For more information about how to best support your child, visit our page about <a href="/prevent/">preventing child sexual abuse</a>.</p> 
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34443-e45 mqkr-1 mqkr-2 mqkr-4 mqkr-5 mqkr-7 mqkr-9 mqkr-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e46 mqkr-h mqkr-m mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-t mqkr-y mqkr-13 mqkr-14 mqkr-15 mqkr-1d mqkr-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e47 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-1z"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e48 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-32 mqkr-33 mqkr-34 mqkr-37 mqkr-39 mqkr-3a mqkr-3b mqkr-3c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Moving From Isolation to Integration</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e49 mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2h mqkr-2i mqkr-2j mqkr-2k"><p>Isolation is one of the most powerful tactics used in grooming, as groomers systematically distance children from their support networks to maintain control and secrecy. Research on child sexual abuse recovery demonstrates that structured reintegration approaches—including family assessments, gradual transitions, and sustained aftercare—are essential for helping children rebuild healthy connections. Parents play a critical role in this process by actively working to restore their child's access to safe, supportive relationships. This means:</p>

<ul>
 	<li>facilitating regular contact with trusted family members,</li>
 	<li>encouraging age-appropriate friendships, and</li>
 	<li>creating opportunities for children to participate in activities where they feel valued and connected.</li>
</ul></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e50 mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2h mqkr-2i mqkr-2k mqkr-2m"><p><strong>Maintaining open, non-judgmental communication is one of the most powerful protective factors parents can provide as their child transitions away from an exploitative situation.</strong></p>
<p>Studies examining reintegration strategies emphasize that social <a href="https://saprea.org/heal/approach/support-network/">support networks</a> are fundamental to trauma recovery, and building these networks takes intentional effort and time. Parents should collaborate with mental health professionals who specialize in childhood trauma to develop a comprehensive support plan tailored to their child's specific needs. Professional involvement may be vital throughout the reintegration process, helping families navigate the complex emotional terrain while prioritizing the child's safety and well-being.</p></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e51 mqkr-2r mqkr-2x mqkr-31 mqkr-34 mqkr-35 mqkr-37 mqkr-3f"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Remember that reintegration is gradual—there is no set timeline for healing. Focus on small, consistent steps that help your child feel safe, heard, and supported as they rediscover what healthy relationships look and feel like. Your patience, presence, and unwavering belief in your child's resilience will make all the difference in their recovery journey.</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34443-e52 mqkr-1 mqkr-2 mqkr-3 mqkr-6 mqkr-7 mqkr-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e53 mqkr-h mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-r mqkr-t mqkr-u mqkr-y mqkr-z mqkr-11 mqkr-16 mqkr-1a mqkr-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e54 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-1z mqkr-29"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34443-e55 mqkr-1 mqkr-2 mqkr-5 mqkr-7 mqkr-9 mqkr-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e56 mqkr-h mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-t mqkr-u mqkr-y mqkr-z mqkr-10 mqkr-11 mqkr-1d mqkr-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e57 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-1z mqkr-2a"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e58 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-32 mqkr-33 mqkr-34 mqkr-36 mqkr-37 mqkr-3a mqkr-3b mqkr-3c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Frequently Asked Questions </br>About Grooming and Disclosure</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e59 mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2g mqkr-2k mqkr-2n">Grooming can be difficult for children to recognize, as it often begins as a relationship that seems caring or harmless. Feelings of fear, guilt, or confusion can prevent them from speaking up. This FAQ explores why children may stay silent, how to spot warning signs, and how caregivers can respond with understanding and support.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e60 mqkr-h mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-t mqkr-u mqkr-y mqkr-z mqkr-10 mqkr-11 mqkr-1d mqkr-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e61 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-1z"><div class="x-acc e34443-e62 mqkr-3t mqkr-3u" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e34443-e62"><div class="e34443-e63 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34443-e63" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34443-e63" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e63"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">Why don’t children report grooming right away?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34443-e63" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34443-e63" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e63" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"> Many children don’t realize they’re being groomed until the relationship becomes manipulative or frightening. 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Reassure them that it’s not their fault and that you’re proud of them for speaking up. Then, contact law enforcement or child protection services immediately.</div></div></div><div class="e34443-e66 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34443-e66" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34443-e66" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e66"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">How can I help my child recover after grooming?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34443-e66" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34443-e66" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e66" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Healing takes time. Focus on creating a safe, supportive environment and maintaining open, non-judgmental communication. Seeking guidance from trauma-informed professionals can also help your child rebuild trust and confidence.</div></div></div><div class="e34443-e67 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34443-e67" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34443-e67" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e67"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">What’s the difference between grooming and a healthy friendship?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34443-e67" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34443-e67" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e67" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Healthy relationships are based on mutual respect and clear boundaries. 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<title> <![CDATA[  Call for Letters of Intent: Special Issue on What Works in the Prevention of Sexual Abuse? ]]> </title>
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<p><strong>By Joan Tabachnick</strong></p>

<p>We are excited to share an important opportunity for researchers, practitioners, and policymakers in the field of sexual abuse prevention. <em>Sexual Abuse</em>&nbsp;is now inviting submissions for a special issue on <strong>“What Works in the Prevention of Sexual Abuse?”</strong></p>

<p>This issue, guest edited by Kieran McCartan, Ryan T. Shields, and Joan Tabachnick, will shine a spotlight on <strong>primary perpetration prevention</strong>—programs, policies, and practices designed to stop sexual abuse before anyone is harmed.</p>

<h3>Join the Conversation</h3>

<p>By bringing together evidence, practice, and innovation, this special issue aims to build a stronger foundation to answer the vital question: <em>What truly works to prevent the perpetration of sexual abuse?</em></p>

<p>We invite researchers, practitioners, and thought leaders from around the world to contribute to this conversation by submitting a <strong>Letter of Intent by September 25, 2025.</strong></p>

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👉 For submission details, deadlines, and guidelines&nbsp;visit:&nbsp;<a href="https://atsa.com/callforpapers" style="color: #0066cc; font-weight: bold;" target="_blank">atsa.com/callforpapers</a>
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<h3>Why This Special Issue Matters</h3>

<p>Preventing the perpetration of sexual abuse is one of the most critical yet challenging areas of work. Unlike treatment or response strategies, primary prevention often requires proving that <em>“something didn’t happen”</em>—an outcome that can be difficult to measure.</p>

<p>Yet across the globe, innovative programs, interventions, and policies are being developed to reduce risk, strengthen protective factors, and create safer communities. This special issue seeks to bring those successes, research, evaluations, and innovations together in one place to help shape the future of perpetration prevention efforts.</p>

<h3>Topics of Interest</h3>

<p>We welcome contributions that critically examine and expand our understanding of primary perpetration prevention, including but not limited to:</p>

<ul>
  <li>Evidence of success in primary perpetration prevention programs, including meaningful outcome measures.</li>
  <li>Lessons learned from past prevention efforts—and how they can guide the future.</li>
  <li>Risk and protective factors for first-time perpetration of sexual abuse.</li>
  <li>The role of public messaging, policy, and science in prevention.</li>
  <li>Implementation challenges: overcoming politics, stigma, and sustainability issues.</li>
  <li>Global perspectives: cultural and regional insights that broaden the scope of prevention.</li>
</ul>

<p>If you have any questions, please reach out to <strong>Aniss Benelmouffok, Managing Editor of <em>Sexual Abuse: <a href="mailto:aniss@atsa.com">aniss@atsa.com</a></em></strong></p>

<p>Together, we can deepen the science of prevention, learn from one another, and build safer futures for individuals, families, and communities worldwide.</p>
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<p><strong>By Joan Tabachnick</strong></p>

<p>We are excited to share an important opportunity for researchers, practitioners, and policymakers in the field of sexual abuse prevention. <em>Sexual Abuse</em>&nbsp;is now inviting submissions for a special issue on <strong>“What Works in the Prevention of Sexual Abuse?”</strong></p>

<p>This issue, guest edited by Kieran McCartan, Ryan T. Shields, and Joan Tabachnick, will shine a spotlight on <strong>primary perpetration prevention</strong>—programs, policies, and practices designed to stop sexual abuse before anyone is harmed.</p>

<h3>Join the Conversation</h3>

<p>By bringing together evidence, practice, and innovation, this special issue aims to build a stronger foundation to answer the vital question: <em>What truly works to prevent the perpetration of sexual abuse?</em></p>

<p>We invite researchers, practitioners, and thought leaders from around the world to contribute to this conversation by submitting a <strong>Letter of Intent by September 25, 2025.</strong></p>

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👉 For submission details, deadlines, and guidelines&nbsp;visit:&nbsp;<a href="https://atsa.com/callforpapers" style="color: #0066cc; font-weight: bold;" target="_blank">atsa.com/callforpapers</a>
</div>

<h3>Why This Special Issue Matters</h3>

<p>Preventing the perpetration of sexual abuse is one of the most critical yet challenging areas of work. Unlike treatment or response strategies, primary prevention often requires proving that <em>“something didn’t happen”</em>—an outcome that can be difficult to measure.</p>

<p>Yet across the globe, innovative programs, interventions, and policies are being developed to reduce risk, strengthen protective factors, and create safer communities. This special issue seeks to bring those successes, research, evaluations, and innovations together in one place to help shape the future of perpetration prevention efforts.</p>

<h3>Topics of Interest</h3>

<p>We welcome contributions that critically examine and expand our understanding of primary perpetration prevention, including but not limited to:</p>

<ul>
  <li>Evidence of success in primary perpetration prevention programs, including meaningful outcome measures.</li>
  <li>Lessons learned from past prevention efforts—and how they can guide the future.</li>
  <li>Risk and protective factors for first-time perpetration of sexual abuse.</li>
  <li>The role of public messaging, policy, and science in prevention.</li>
  <li>Implementation challenges: overcoming politics, stigma, and sustainability issues.</li>
  <li>Global perspectives: cultural and regional insights that broaden the scope of prevention.</li>
</ul>

<p>If you have any questions, please reach out to <strong>Aniss Benelmouffok, Managing Editor of <em>Sexual Abuse: <a href="mailto:aniss@atsa.com">aniss@atsa.com</a></em></strong></p>

<p>Together, we can deepen the science of prevention, learn from one another, and build safer futures for individuals, families, and communities worldwide.</p>
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<title> <![CDATA[ Framing Prevention Through an Anti-Memetic Lens ]]> </title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2025 16:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ <p><b>by Aniss Benelmouffok</b><br /><br />In <a href="https://darkforest.metalabel.com/antimemetics?variantId=1" target="_blank">Antimemetics: Why Some Ideas Resist Spreading</a>, Nadia Asparouhova explores why cultural ideas fail to spread. Much of the resistance to spreading, “immunity” as Asparouhova puts it, is due to the uncomfortable nature of antimemetic subjects.&nbsp; Reading the book, I couldn't help but see efforts to prevent sexual abuse through an antimemetic lens. </p><div class="chat-assistant w-full min-w-full markdown-prose svelte-1u5gq5j"><div><div class="w-full flex flex-col relative" id="response-content-container">    </div></div></div> <div class="flex justify-start overflow-x-auto buttons text-gray-600 dark:text-gray-500 mt-0.5 svelte-1u5gq5j"> <div class="flex"></div></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><p>To frame these ideas, she draws on two concepts:<br /><br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; <b>Memes and Memeplexes</b>: Coined by Richard Dawkins in 1976, “memes” are self-replicating cultural units that spread and evolve like genes. Memeplexes—like religions and political ideologies—are networks of related memes.<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; <b>Mimetic Desire</b>: Introduced by René Girard, this concept suggests we desire what others desire, emulating “models” in our social spheres. This can lead to rivalry and scapegoating.<br /><br />Asparouhova proposes that if we take these two concepts as "canon," we can see how the internet has poured fuel on them. "Rather than ushering in an era of global peace, the internet made us leap at each other's throats," she says.  <br />&nbsp;</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxFnp1LdZCwi5xJS6XOBGl4iarPYYley8Jv21-yUHQMG6lD7Vzs7fDrLlqC73q0S9sXjVQP59ZviOaLbuK5Mle3-WGgSoP6-sQWSOIyyFevvRKyyYOSZjSzaWZJZilql8ySmDg-G7AibfRqGCT7FttnfhtPfc6vgjk8TsfMwVr8D92VXBjk8Hxx4PM0GU/s2560/memes.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2560" data-original-width="2560" height="398" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxFnp1LdZCwi5xJS6XOBGl4iarPYYley8Jv21-yUHQMG6lD7Vzs7fDrLlqC73q0S9sXjVQP59ZviOaLbuK5Mle3-WGgSoP6-sQWSOIyyFevvRKyyYOSZjSzaWZJZilql8ySmDg-G7AibfRqGCT7FttnfhtPfc6vgjk8TsfMwVr8D92VXBjk8Hxx4PM0GU/w398-h398/memes.jpg" width="398" /></a></div><p></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">What Are Anti-Memes?</h3><p>Anti-memes are cultural ideas that resist spreading—often because they disrupt social harmony. Asparouhova writes, “Networks have a strong built-in immunity to anti-memes,” noting that these ideas tend to be suppressed because of their disruptive power.<br /><br />Prevention—especially when it comes to sexual violence—is inherently antimemetic. Like disaster preparedness or gun violence prevention, it rarely garners sustained public or political support unless a recent tragedy has captured public attention. <a href="https://members.atsa.com/learn/Details/roadmap-to-talking-about-perpetration-prevention-248108" target="_blank">ATSA's Roadmap to Talking About Perpetration Prevention</a> offers a structured approach to breaking through this “immunity” and reshaping how we talk about sexual harm.<br /><br />Asparouhova herself points to how prevention is deprioritized in public discourse and policy. Consider how media attention surges and fades after mass shootings—or how funding for disaster preparedness lags until catastrophe strikes. Prevention doesn’t spread easily because it requires uncomfortable conversations and long-term thinking—both of which challenge the fast-paced, reactive nature of contemporary communications.<br /><br />The same is true for conversations about treating individuals who have caused sexual harm. These conversations demand we acknowledge the harm sexual abuse has caused, to consider the harm that may occur, and requires frameworks grounded in science that address its prevalence in our communities.</p><h3 style="text-align: left;">ATSA's Roadmap to Talking About Perpetration Prevention</h3><p><a href="https://members.atsa.com/learn/Details/roadmap-to-talking-about-perpetration-prevention-248108" target="_blank">ATSA's Roadmap to Talking About Perpetration Prevention</a>&nbsp;is
 a guide for turning anti-memetic ideas into meaningful conversations. 
It encourages professionals to lead with values—to explain why they work
 with people who have sexually harmed others or are at risk to. It 
provides structure for conversations that highlight our shared goal: 
ending sexual violence.<br /><br />Although designed for ATSA members, this roadmap is for anyone ready to talk about prevention with nuance and purpose. It:<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; Emphasizes collaboration with individuals affected by trauma<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; Draws on decades of clinical research and evidence-based practice<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; Makes prevention the focal point of our work—not an afterthought</p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Why We Need Champions</h3><p>So how do anti-memes break through? Asparouhova’s answer: Champions. These are people who know how to navigate complex systems and bring difficult ideas into broader conversations. Champions help anti-memes find traction beyond their niche communities.<br /><br />She writes:<br />“But to the right champion, even the most labyrinthine system feels like an invitation to create something extraordinary... You will know it when looking at the problem makes your heart expand with possibilities, rather than shrink away.”<br /><br />If you’re reading this, you might be that champion. Because prevention faces many challenges —we need people willing to carry the message.<br /></p><p></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">A Final Note</h3><p>The ideas in the roadmap aren’t always easy to share. They’re disruptive. They challenge deeply held beliefs. They’re anti-memes. But they also carry the potential to transform lives and communities.<br />&nbsp;<br />This year, we've been highlighting <a href="https://www.atsa.com/?s=changemaker" target="_blank">Changemakers </a>within the ATSA community. Members who have embraced the challenge of sharing the message of sexual abuse treatment and prevention to transform their communities.&nbsp; I hope you'll join them in sharing these ideas with conviction, even when they're difficult to express. ATSA has your back with <a href="https://members.atsa.com/learn/" target="_blank">evidence-based resources</a> and professional media support when needed<span data-huuid="16393909046253577615"><span>—</span></span>that's how change begins.</p> ]]> </description>
<content:encoded> <![CDATA[ <p><b>by Aniss Benelmouffok</b><br /><br />In <a href="https://darkforest.metalabel.com/antimemetics?variantId=1" target="_blank">Antimemetics: Why Some Ideas Resist Spreading</a>, Nadia Asparouhova explores why cultural ideas fail to spread. Much of the resistance to spreading, “immunity” as Asparouhova puts it, is due to the uncomfortable nature of antimemetic subjects.&nbsp; Reading the book, I couldn't help but see efforts to prevent sexual abuse through an antimemetic lens. </p><div class="chat-assistant w-full min-w-full markdown-prose svelte-1u5gq5j"><div><div class="w-full flex flex-col relative" id="response-content-container">    </div></div></div> <div class="flex justify-start overflow-x-auto buttons text-gray-600 dark:text-gray-500 mt-0.5 svelte-1u5gq5j"> <div class="flex"></div></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><p>To frame these ideas, she draws on two concepts:<br /><br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; <b>Memes and Memeplexes</b>: Coined by Richard Dawkins in 1976, “memes” are self-replicating cultural units that spread and evolve like genes. Memeplexes—like religions and political ideologies—are networks of related memes.<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; <b>Mimetic Desire</b>: Introduced by René Girard, this concept suggests we desire what others desire, emulating “models” in our social spheres. This can lead to rivalry and scapegoating.<br /><br />Asparouhova proposes that if we take these two concepts as "canon," we can see how the internet has poured fuel on them. "Rather than ushering in an era of global peace, the internet made us leap at each other's throats," she says.  <br />&nbsp;</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxFnp1LdZCwi5xJS6XOBGl4iarPYYley8Jv21-yUHQMG6lD7Vzs7fDrLlqC73q0S9sXjVQP59ZviOaLbuK5Mle3-WGgSoP6-sQWSOIyyFevvRKyyYOSZjSzaWZJZilql8ySmDg-G7AibfRqGCT7FttnfhtPfc6vgjk8TsfMwVr8D92VXBjk8Hxx4PM0GU/s2560/memes.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2560" data-original-width="2560" height="398" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxFnp1LdZCwi5xJS6XOBGl4iarPYYley8Jv21-yUHQMG6lD7Vzs7fDrLlqC73q0S9sXjVQP59ZviOaLbuK5Mle3-WGgSoP6-sQWSOIyyFevvRKyyYOSZjSzaWZJZilql8ySmDg-G7AibfRqGCT7FttnfhtPfc6vgjk8TsfMwVr8D92VXBjk8Hxx4PM0GU/w398-h398/memes.jpg" width="398" /></a></div><p></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">What Are Anti-Memes?</h3><p>Anti-memes are cultural ideas that resist spreading—often because they disrupt social harmony. Asparouhova writes, “Networks have a strong built-in immunity to anti-memes,” noting that these ideas tend to be suppressed because of their disruptive power.<br /><br />Prevention—especially when it comes to sexual violence—is inherently antimemetic. Like disaster preparedness or gun violence prevention, it rarely garners sustained public or political support unless a recent tragedy has captured public attention. <a href="https://members.atsa.com/learn/Details/roadmap-to-talking-about-perpetration-prevention-248108" target="_blank">ATSA's Roadmap to Talking About Perpetration Prevention</a> offers a structured approach to breaking through this “immunity” and reshaping how we talk about sexual harm.<br /><br />Asparouhova herself points to how prevention is deprioritized in public discourse and policy. Consider how media attention surges and fades after mass shootings—or how funding for disaster preparedness lags until catastrophe strikes. Prevention doesn’t spread easily because it requires uncomfortable conversations and long-term thinking—both of which challenge the fast-paced, reactive nature of contemporary communications.<br /><br />The same is true for conversations about treating individuals who have caused sexual harm. These conversations demand we acknowledge the harm sexual abuse has caused, to consider the harm that may occur, and requires frameworks grounded in science that address its prevalence in our communities.</p><h3 style="text-align: left;">ATSA's Roadmap to Talking About Perpetration Prevention</h3><p><a href="https://members.atsa.com/learn/Details/roadmap-to-talking-about-perpetration-prevention-248108" target="_blank">ATSA's Roadmap to Talking About Perpetration Prevention</a>&nbsp;is
 a guide for turning anti-memetic ideas into meaningful conversations. 
It encourages professionals to lead with values—to explain why they work
 with people who have sexually harmed others or are at risk to. It 
provides structure for conversations that highlight our shared goal: 
ending sexual violence.<br /><br />Although designed for ATSA members, this roadmap is for anyone ready to talk about prevention with nuance and purpose. It:<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; Emphasizes collaboration with individuals affected by trauma<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; Draws on decades of clinical research and evidence-based practice<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; Makes prevention the focal point of our work—not an afterthought</p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Why We Need Champions</h3><p>So how do anti-memes break through? Asparouhova’s answer: Champions. These are people who know how to navigate complex systems and bring difficult ideas into broader conversations. Champions help anti-memes find traction beyond their niche communities.<br /><br />She writes:<br />“But to the right champion, even the most labyrinthine system feels like an invitation to create something extraordinary... You will know it when looking at the problem makes your heart expand with possibilities, rather than shrink away.”<br /><br />If you’re reading this, you might be that champion. Because prevention faces many challenges —we need people willing to carry the message.<br /></p><p></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">A Final Note</h3><p>The ideas in the roadmap aren’t always easy to share. They’re disruptive. They challenge deeply held beliefs. They’re anti-memes. But they also carry the potential to transform lives and communities.<br />&nbsp;<br />This year, we've been highlighting <a href="https://www.atsa.com/?s=changemaker" target="_blank">Changemakers </a>within the ATSA community. Members who have embraced the challenge of sharing the message of sexual abuse treatment and prevention to transform their communities.&nbsp; I hope you'll join them in sharing these ideas with conviction, even when they're difficult to express. ATSA has your back with <a href="https://members.atsa.com/learn/" target="_blank">evidence-based resources</a> and professional media support when needed<span data-huuid="16393909046253577615"><span>—</span></span>that's how change begins.</p> ]]> </content:encoded>
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<description> <![CDATA[ <p>Like many of you, the stats of sexual abuse had never sunk in before all my loved ones shared their experiences, but then and now, these figures scream at me. I can no longer look the other way. I can’t discount the discomfort by saying the research must be wrong or that the research responses must have come from somewhere else and someone else.</p>
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Turning Statistics into Action and Protecting Kids</h1></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e19 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-3 mp0z-4 mp0z-5"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e20 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-16 mp0z-1c"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e21 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e22 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-5 mp0z-6 mp0z-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e23 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-16 mp0z-1d"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e24 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e25 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n"><p>Stats are sterile. We are inundated with so much data that we have become numb to their message – that is, until that stat becomes representative of someone we know and love.</p>
<p>Ten years ago, this happened to me. I started working in the social sector, combatting child sexual abuse. Almost immediately, people in my extended family, my neighborhood, my faith community, co-workers, old friends I had not seen in years, and even acquaintances started sharing their experiences as survivors of child sexual abuse.</p>
<p>I'll never forget the emotions that came to me as I heard their stories. First, a humbling wave of gratitude that they trusted me with something so deeply personal. Second, a crushing realization of my own ignorance—how could so many people I cherish have endured such trauma? These weren't distant acquaintances either. Some of them were people I've loved for years, people I consider close. The question haunted me: how had I remained blind to their suffering all this time?</p>
<p>At this time, the stats transformed from sterile numbers to deeply impactful stories. They represented real people, my people. Predictably, I have seen this same pattern repeat over and over with anyone willing to talk openly about child sexual abuse.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e26 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-5 mp0z-6 mp0z-7 mp0z-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e27 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-16 mp0z-1e"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e28 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e29 mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-2x mp0z-32 mp0z-35 mp0z-36 mp0z-37 mp0z-38 mp0z-39 mp0z-3a mp0z-3b mp0z-3c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The Reality of Child Sexual Abuse Stats</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e30 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n">At the risk of providing you with yet another set of figures to remember, let me briefly share the stats of child sexual abuse. UNICEF estimates that one in eight children worldwide are sexually abused.<sup>1</sup> The CDC agrees when they report on prevalence in the United States. <strong>Citing credible research, the CDC says <a href="https://www.cdc.gov/child-abuse-neglect/about/about-child-sexual-abuse.html?utm_source=chatgpt.com#cdc_behavioral_basics_quick-quick-facts-and-stats" target="_blank" rel="noopener">one in four girls and one in twenty boys</a> will be sexually abused by age eighteen.</strong> These numbers are staggering and alarming. However, most research on prevalence narrowly defines child sexual abuse to include some physical touch. Yet, as technology-facilitated abuse has accelerated, we are starting to learn that the rates are much higher. A worldwide leader in prevalence research, Dr. David Finkelhor worked with colleagues to explain prevalence with technology-facilitated abuse added to the rates. We learn that <strong>numbers increase significantly to 10.8% of boys, 31.6% of girls, and 41.3% of those identifying as other genders</strong>.<sup>2</sup></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e31 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-5 mp0z-6 mp0z-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e32 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-16 mp0z-1f"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e33 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e34 mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-2x mp0z-32 mp0z-35 mp0z-36 mp0z-37 mp0z-38 mp0z-39 mp0z-3a mp0z-3b mp0z-3c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The Power of Survivor Stories</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e35 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n"><p>Like many of you, the stats of sexual abuse had never sunk in before all my loved ones shared their experiences, but then and now, these figures scream at me. I can no longer look the other way. I can’t discount the discomfort by saying the research must be wrong or that the research responses must have come from somewhere else and someone else. It was my family, my neighbors, my coworkers sharing their stories. What are we doing as a civilized society? How is it possible that we are not moving heaven and earth to stop this now?</p>
<p>I remember feeling very angry, as I took time to process the accounts of abuse shared with me. Angry at those that harm. Angry at those of us who look away. Angry at a society that decided the topic was too taboo to discuss. One thing about the emotion of anger is that it can be an excellent catalyst for change. We can do great things when we channel our anger into productive action.</p>
<p>Over the past ten years, I have worked to make a change. The impact has been measurable and significant, but compared to the size of the problem, we are just barely moving the needle. <strong>There is still so much to be done, and we must invoke a societal shift to see broad change.</strong></p>
<p>Learning from historical, social movements, we see patterns of how big social issues like abuse shift. We’ve seen it in the civil rights movement, smoking cessation, and car seat safety. Following those patterns, we know that societal change happens when there is top-down and bottom-up pressure—without either one, change stalls. Think of top-down pressure like laws, enforcement of laws, awareness campaigns, or organized activism. Consider bottom-up pressure as neighborhood dialogue, organic media, and grassroots activism. Since most who read this article are part of that bottom-up movement, let’s highlight three ways to take action now.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e36 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-3 mp0z-4 mp0z-5"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e37 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-16 mp0z-1g"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e38 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e39 mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-2x mp0z-32 mp0z-35 mp0z-36 mp0z-37 mp0z-38 mp0z-39 mp0z-3a mp0z-3b mp0z-3c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How to Take Action Today</h2></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e40 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-16 mp0z-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e41 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y mp0z-2a"><div class="x-row e32435-e42 mp0z-d mp0z-f mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-l mp0z-m mp0z-n mp0z-o mp0z-u mp0z-w mp0z-10 mp0z-16 mp0z-17 mp0z-1i"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e43 mp0z-1s mp0z-1u mp0z-1v mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y mp0z-21 mp0z-22 mp0z-27 mp0z-2b"><i class="x-icon e32435-e44 mp0z-3w" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf058;"></i></div><div class="x-col e32435-e45 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e46 mp0z-2g mp0z-2j mp0z-2m mp0z-2o mp0z-2p">Start talking about the issue with those you love</div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e47 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n">Do what I did ten years ago—start talking about the issue of sexual abuse with those you love. The stats will become real for you just like they did for me, but more importantly, you will be instrumental in breaking down the taboo of the issue. Every honest discussion chips away at the stigma and makes change possible. No society has solved a problem without first discussing and naming it.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e32435-e48 mp0z-d mp0z-f mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-l mp0z-m mp0z-n mp0z-o mp0z-u mp0z-w mp0z-10 mp0z-16 mp0z-17 mp0z-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e49 mp0z-1s mp0z-1u mp0z-1v mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y mp0z-21 mp0z-22 mp0z-27 mp0z-2b"><i class="x-icon e32435-e50 mp0z-3w" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf058;"></i></div><div class="x-col e32435-e51 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e52 mp0z-2g mp0z-2j mp0z-2m mp0z-2o mp0z-2p">Educate Yourself on the Impacts and How to Reduce the Risk</div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e53 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n">Educate yourself on the <a href="https://saprea.org/heal/#effects">long-term impacts</a> of abuse on survivors as well as how to <a href="https://saprea.org/prevent/">reduce risk</a> for today’s kids. The organization I work for, Saprea, has tremendous resources, and so do many others.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e32435-e54 mp0z-d mp0z-f mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-l mp0z-m mp0z-n mp0z-o mp0z-u mp0z-w mp0z-10 mp0z-16 mp0z-17 mp0z-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e55 mp0z-1s mp0z-1u mp0z-1v mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y mp0z-21 mp0z-22 mp0z-27 mp0z-2b"><i class="x-icon e32435-e56 mp0z-3w" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf058;"></i></div><div class="x-col e32435-e57 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e58 mp0z-2g mp0z-2j mp0z-2m mp0z-2o mp0z-2p">Commit to Change</div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e59 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n">From your learning, choose and change one behavior when interacting with your kids. I recommend focusing on age-appropriate conversations about <a href="https://saprea.org/prevent/educate/connect/">healthy boundaries</a>, but you may pick something else. The key is to begin with personal change. Societal change happens because individuals commit to changing themselves first.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e60 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-5 mp0z-6 mp0z-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e61 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-16 mp0z-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e62 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e63 mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-32 mp0z-34 mp0z-37 mp0z-3b mp0z-3d mp0z-3e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">We have solved significant issues as a country and world. We can do it with sexual abuse as well. Don’t let sterile stats be your only connection to survivors and children. <strong>Create a world where survivors can heal, and children can maintain their innocence.</strong></h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e64 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-5 mp0z-7 mp0z-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e65 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-o mp0z-q mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-11 mp0z-16 mp0z-17 mp0z-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e66 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e67 mp0z-2s mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-2x mp0z-2y mp0z-2z mp0z-32 mp0z-36 mp0z-37 mp0z-3a mp0z-3b mp0z-3f"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">About the Author</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-row e32435-e68 mp0z-d mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-n mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-y mp0z-z mp0z-12 mp0z-13 mp0z-16 mp0z-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><figure class="x-col e32435-e69 mp0z-1s mp0z-1u mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y mp0z-21 mp0z-25 mp0z-27 mp0z-29"><span class="x-image e32435-e70 mp0z-3t mp0z-3v featured-author-portrait"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/Chris-Yadon_resize-150x150.jpg" alt="Image"></span></figure><div class="x-col e32435-e71 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-2c mp0z-2d"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e72 mp0z-2s mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-2z mp0z-32 mp0z-34 mp0z-37 mp0z-3b mp0z-3e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Chris Yadon, MPA</h4></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e73 mp0z-2s mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2x mp0z-2z mp0z-31 mp0z-3b mp0z-3c mp0z-3g mp0z-3h"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Managing Director</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e74 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2h mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2n">As Saprea’s first employee and Executive Director, Chris Yadon collaborated closely with the organization’s founders to launch and establish its operations in 2015. Chris now serves as the Managing Director, leading the organization’s public efforts to drive societal change around the issue of child sexual abuse. He has previously held executive leadership positions for start-up tech and healthcare organizations.
Chris is committed to driving broad societal change to address child sexual abuse and uses his influence as a thought leader and strategist to inspire others to take action. He firmly believes we can collectively create a better future for our children.
A sought-after speaker, Chris inspires audiences with timely topics such as overcoming emotional numbing by learning how to feel again, protecting children from child sexual abuse in a hypersexualized world, and how to intentionally drive societal change. He has been featured across several media platforms where he is requested to contribute as an industry leader and subject matter expert.
Chris received a BA and an MPA degree from Brigham Young University. He is the grateful father of six children: three boys and three girls. He and his wife, Christy, have been married for 28 years.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32435-e75 mp0z-1 mp0z-2 mp0z-4 mp0z-5 mp0z-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32435-e76 mp0z-d mp0z-e mp0z-i mp0z-j mp0z-r mp0z-u mp0z-v mp0z-x mp0z-y mp0z-13 mp0z-1a mp0z-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32435-e77 mp0z-1w mp0z-1x mp0z-1y"><div class="x-acc e32435-e78 mp0z-3x" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e32435-e78"><div class="e32435-e79 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e32435-e79" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e32435-e79" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e32435-e79"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e32435-e79" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e32435-e79" data-x-toggleable="e32435-e79" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><ol>
 	<li>United Nations Children’s Fund (2020). Action to end child sexual abuse and exploitation: a review of the evidence 2020. UNICEF, New York.</li>
 	<li>Finkelhor, David, Turner, Heather, Colburn, Derdre (2024), The prevalence of child sexual abuse with online sexual abuse added, Child Abuse &amp; Neglect 149 106634</li>
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I can no longer look the other way. I can’t discount the discomfort by saying the research must be wrong or that the research responses must have come from somewhere else and someone else.</div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e90 mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n mp0z-2r"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e32435-e86 mp0z-1w mp0z-2d mp0z-2e post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/reducing-pornography-exposure/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e32435-e87 mp0z-3t"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/hypersexualized-world-blog.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="32318:full"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e88 mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-2x mp0z-35 mp0z-37 mp0z-39 mp0z-3b mp0z-3c mp0z-3h mp0z-3j"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Protecting Kids: Navigating a Hypersexualized World and Reducing Pornography Exposure</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e89 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2l mp0z-2p mp0z-2q excerpt">There is no quick fix that ensures your child will not purposely consume pornography, but a parent can do specific things that will reduce this risk. It is nearly impossible for a parent to prevent all accidental exposure to pornography. Still, again, a parent can do specific things that will reduce the volume of accidental exposures and their impact. </div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e90 mp0z-2g mp0z-2i mp0z-2j mp0z-2l mp0z-2m mp0z-2n mp0z-2r"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e32435-e86 mp0z-1w mp0z-2d mp0z-2e post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/incarceration/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e32435-e87 mp0z-3t"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/CSA-and-Incarceration.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="31936:full"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32435-e88 mp0z-2t mp0z-2u mp0z-2w mp0z-2x mp0z-35 mp0z-37 mp0z-39 mp0z-3b mp0z-3c mp0z-3h mp0z-3j"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Breaking the Link Between Child Sexual Abuse and Incarceration: A Path to Healing</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32435-e89 mp0z-2f mp0z-2g mp0z-2l mp0z-2p mp0z-2q excerpt">Research reveals a striking pattern among incarcerated women: up to 66% report experiencing childhood sexual abuse, more than double the rate found in the general female population (31%). 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I know it has something to do with sex, but what does it mean?” Through the conversation, I discovered that she had heard the word on her elementary school playground. In that moment, I realized my response could either build a protective barrier against pornography or create curiosity that might lead toward it.</p>
<p>There is no quick fix that ensures your child will not <em>purposely</em> consume pornography, but a parent can do specific things that will reduce this risk. It is nearly impossible for a parent to prevent all <em>accidental</em> exposure to pornography. Still, again, a parent can do specific things that will reduce the volume of accidental exposures and their impact.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e26 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-3 moxo-5 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e27 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-s moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-14 moxo-15 moxo-1c moxo-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e28 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2l"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e29 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-3 moxo-4 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e30 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-1g moxo-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e31 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e32 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3m moxo-3p moxo-3q moxo-3r moxo-3s moxo-3t moxo-3u moxo-3v moxo-3w moxo-3x"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The Growing Problem of Children Exposed to Pornography</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e33 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31"><p>Rates of exposure, purposeful or accidental, are overwhelming. <strong>53% of eleven-to sixteen-year-olds report seeing online pornography at least once.</strong> Of this sample, <strong>94% report viewing online pornography before age fourteen</strong>.<sup>1</sup> According to other research, these numbers are likely very conservative, with pornography consumption growing among minors of all genders.</p>

<p>With this level of prevalence, <strong>all children are at a high risk</strong>. Many past generations have been exposed to pornography as minors and led healthy lives. Some may even argue that pornography is part of the normal sexual development of young people. So, should we care or even bother?</p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e34 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-3 moxo-4 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e35 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-1g moxo-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e36 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e37 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3m moxo-3p moxo-3q moxo-3r moxo-3s moxo-3t moxo-3u moxo-3v moxo-3w moxo-3x"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Why Parental Intervention Matters – Risks and Realities</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e38 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3j moxo-3m moxo-3o moxo-3r moxo-3w moxo-3y moxo-3z moxo-40 moxo-41 moxo-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">There are <strong>three</strong> specific reasons we should care and bother to intervene. </h4></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e39 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-r moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-12 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-1g moxo-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e40 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2m"><div class="x-row e32316-e41 moxo-i moxo-k moxo-n moxo-o moxo-q moxo-r moxo-s moxo-t moxo-10 moxo-16 moxo-1c moxo-1d moxo-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e42 moxo-23 moxo-25 moxo-26 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2c moxo-2d moxo-2i moxo-2n"><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e43 moxo-2t moxo-2x moxo-32 moxo-33 moxo-34 moxo-35">01</div></div><div class="x-col e32316-e44 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e45 moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2x moxo-34 moxo-36 moxo-37 moxo-38">Sexual content is used to groom children</div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e46 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31">During interactions with a victim, <strong>98% of online groomers introduce sexual content into the conversation within the first day</strong>. <strong>69% introduce sexual content within the first 30 minutes of an initial interaction.</strong><sup>2</sup> Reducing exposure to pornography is part of reducing the risk of children encountering online predators. </div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e32316-e47 moxo-i moxo-k moxo-n moxo-o moxo-q moxo-r moxo-s moxo-t moxo-10 moxo-16 moxo-1c moxo-1d moxo-1p"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e48 moxo-23 moxo-25 moxo-26 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2c moxo-2d moxo-2i moxo-2n"><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e49 moxo-2t moxo-2x moxo-32 moxo-33 moxo-34 moxo-35">02</div></div><div class="x-col e32316-e50 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e51 moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2x moxo-34 moxo-36 moxo-37 moxo-38">The nature of today’s pornographic content is video-based and often violent.<sup>3</sup></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e52 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31">This exposure introduces children to unrealistic and harmful portrayals of sexual activity.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e32316-e53 moxo-i moxo-k moxo-n moxo-o moxo-q moxo-r moxo-s moxo-t moxo-10 moxo-16 moxo-1c moxo-1d moxo-1q"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e54 moxo-23 moxo-25 moxo-26 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2c moxo-2d moxo-2i moxo-2n"><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e55 moxo-2t moxo-2x moxo-32 moxo-33 moxo-34 moxo-35">03</div></div><div class="x-col e32316-e56 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e57 moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2x moxo-33 moxo-34 moxo-36 moxo-38">The consumption of pornography can become compulsive</div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e58 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31">Due to brain development, minors are more susceptible to the development of addictive or compulsive behaviors when exposed to a stimulus. Early exposure to pornography could create unwanted compulsions that are hard for the child to remove even in adulthood.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e59 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-4 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-8 moxo-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e60 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-1g moxo-1r"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e61 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e62 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3m moxo-3p moxo-3q moxo-3r moxo-3s moxo-3t moxo-3u moxo-3v moxo-3w moxo-3x"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The Role of Technology – Reducing Accidental Exposure</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e63 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31"><p>There are great technologies that parents can use in their homes. However, parents must realize that their house is not the only place their children will have access. <strong>Children who want to access pornography are very resourceful and usually find a way.</strong> It could be through school resources, a friend’s device, bypassing parental controls, using a neighbor’s internet connection, and the list can go on and on.</p>
<p>While technology can reduce accidental exposure to explicit content, it's a limited defense against deliberate seeking. <strong>In fact, excessive reliance on technological barriers may actually undermine efforts to reduce the risk.</strong></p>
<p>Overreliance on technology often leads to extensive technology restrictions. This is often the best approach for our younger children, but it can backfire as children grow. When a child, particularly an older teen, feels overly restricted, they often resort to deception to bypass restrictions. When they bypass a restriction, they shut down communication and turn to secrecy. <strong>Secrecy is where purposeful pornography consumption thrives and builds deep roots.</strong></p></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e64 moxo-3b moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3g moxo-3m moxo-3o moxo-3r moxo-3w moxo-42 moxo-43 moxo-44"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Parents should view technology as one tool in their overall tool belt, not as a fix-all. Like any tool, you use it for a specific job, but not every job. Purposeful consumption must be addressed through other methods and tools.
</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e65 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-3 moxo-5 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e66 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-s moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-14 moxo-15 moxo-1c moxo-1s"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e67 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2l"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e68 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-3 moxo-4 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-8 moxo-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e69 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-1g moxo-1t"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e70 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e71 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3m moxo-3p moxo-3q moxo-3r moxo-3s moxo-3u moxo-3v moxo-3w moxo-3x moxo-45 moxo-46"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Combatting Purposeful Pornography Consumption – Effective Strategies</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e72 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3m moxo-3o moxo-3r moxo-3w moxo-3y moxo-3z moxo-41 moxo-42 moxo-44 moxo-47"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Pornography use among children flourishes in environments of dishonesty, embarrassment, and hidden behaviors. Understanding this makes it clearer how to intervene. Just know that reducing this risk requires deliberate, steady work that can be challenging. The foundation of success is keeping communication channels open.</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e73 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-4 moxo-6 moxo-9 moxo-c moxo-d"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e74 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-1g moxo-1u"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e75 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e76 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3r moxo-3x moxo-3y moxo-3z moxo-41 moxo-47 moxo-48 moxo-49 moxo-4a"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Maintaining Open Communication With Your Child</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e77 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31"><p>Maintaining open communication with a child is a monumental task for any parent, even under ideal circumstances. Children go through regular and natural developmental stages to gradually assert their independence. It becomes common for teens to shut down or significantly limit dialogue with parents. Add to this the deception, shame, and secrecy, plus the awkwardness of talking about anything of a sexual nature, and you have a recipe for silence. And this recipe does not even account for the baggage we as parents carry into the relationship.</p>
<p>With all this against us, we may wonder if we will ever have a meaningful talk with our children again. So, how do we overcome these seemingly insurmountable odds to maintain open communication? <strong>We start early, reduce our tendency to inflict shame, and create safe spaces.</strong></p>
<p>It was previously mentioned that children undergo stages of asserting their independence. Children also go through regular and natural developmental stages where their parent(s) are their entire world—their superheroes. And fortunately, this stage coincides with their early ability to rationalize. The sweet spot is usually between the ages of 6 and 10. <strong>Parents can use this stage to set curiosity, listening, and respect patterns when communicating with their children—reaping big rewards later as children mature.</strong></p>
<p>Another crucial step is to <strong>stop shaming our children</strong>. This is often the most difficult change because our childhood experiences shape how we parent. If we experienced shame growing up, we are likely to use it with our kids. While shame is a topic that deserves extensive exploration, the most important thing to recognize is how easily we slip into shaming our children during correction or discipline. Those are the moments when shame typically emerges.</p>
<p>We must rethink how we talk to our children when disciplining and correcting them. Please don’t misunderstand; <strong>discipline and correction are critical to a child's healthy development, but how we discipline and correct can be damaging and counterproductive to our goals</strong>. Why is this so critical for this topic? When children see pornography, whether on accident or purpose, they already feel uncomfortable and likely have a sense of shame. If we respond to their disclosure with additional shame, it may be the last time they disclose, effectively putting them in a downward shame spiral that is the breeding ground for additional pornography consumption.</p>
<p>The third step to open communication is to <strong>set safe spaces</strong>. <strong>Safe spaces are places our children associate with positive, essential discussions.</strong> These spaces imprint in the child’s brain and can create a sense of safety that allows them to open up. They can be anywhere—a specific room, in a car, at a park. It doesn’t matter. What matters is that they associate that place as a spot where they talk with their parent(s) about important things. It is helpful if a parent consciously and proactively picks spots for open dialogue. This sets a pattern that is familiar and safe for the child.</the></p>
<p><strong>Following these three communication steps will help us overcome the seemingly insurmountable odds of <a href="https://saprea.org/prevent/talk/">maintaining open communication</a> with our children.</strong> It also sets the parent up to create a plan with the child for what they will do when, not if, they are exposed to pornography.</p></div><hr class="x-line e32316-e78 moxo-4u"></hr></div><div class="x-col e32316-e79 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-2o moxo-2p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e80 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3r moxo-3x moxo-3y moxo-41 moxo-46 moxo-47 moxo-48 moxo-49 moxo-4a moxo-4b"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Address Early Childhood Trauma to Prevent Pornography Consumption</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e81 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31"><p>Another key to reducing the risk of purposeful consumption is to <strong>help your child process early childhood traumatic experiences</strong>. We all have them. These experiences impact some more than others, and sometimes, the impacts can become debilitating.</p>
<p>Think of traumatic impacts as the result of an experience where we did not feel safe. When we have a traumatic experience, and it is followed by additional insecurity or dismissive responses, the experiences can leave an imprint in the survival systems of our brains, leading to trauma symptoms. <strong>Anytime we are in an environment that reminds us of the original traumatic experience, our physical senses instantaneously alert our biological survival systems, and those survival systems activate our stress responses in the brain and body.</strong> This is called a trigger.</p>
<p>If we have too many triggers and, thus, an abnormal amount of stress responses, our brain and body become maladaptive and start looking for a coping tool to create a sense of safety. This is often the birthplace of compulsive and addictive behaviors. We use these compulsive or addictive behaviors to calm the stress response. Our brain and body begin to crave these behaviors, and pornography can be one of these.</p>
<p><strong>Because of the neurochemical release that accompanies pornography consumption, our brain may associate our triggers with a craving for that consumption, and, as a result, the purposeful pursuit of pornography begins.</strong></p>
<p>So, what does a child need? <strong>The child requires a parent who will honestly identify traumatic experiences and help them healthily process those experiences.</strong> This is very hard for a parent to do because the traumatic experience is often associated with a sense of failure as a parent. The parent(s) tell themselves, “I did not protect them.”; “It is my fault this happened,” or the worst one of all, “I caused the trauma.” When a parent has this dialogue going through their head, dismissing or ignoring the hard work needed to help a child process their experiences is easy.</p>
<p>So, what is my child’s early childhood trauma, and how do I recognize it? The answer to this question can be as different as the child it applies to. A parent must become an astute observer. They watch moments when their children show insecurity or act out. Observing these moments, they look for patterns and connect the dots across these behaviors. Once they identify the patterns, the parent can help the child process traumatic experiences better.</p>
<p>Not all traumatic experiences are created equal. Some experiences are so consistently traumatic that a parent does not need to guess why their child struggles. The big three that almost always produce a significant trauma response are physical abuse, sexual abuse, and neglect. These are closely followed by several other significant traumatic experiences, such as the death of a loved one, divorce, bullying, and emotional abuse. These significant traumatic experiences often require professional help. As parent(s), we should be quick to engage professionals when our children go through these types of experiences.</p>
<p><strong>When we identify our children’s traumatic experiences and <a href="https://saprea.org/prevent/support/">help them process</a> these experiences (often with the help of professionals), we reduce the likelihood that our children will develop long-term triggers and maladaptive responses, which, in turn, reduces the possibility that they will use pornography as a coping tool.</strong></p></div><hr class="x-line e32316-e82 moxo-4u"></hr></div><div class="x-col e32316-e83 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-2o moxo-2p"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e84 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3r moxo-3x moxo-3y moxo-3z moxo-41 moxo-47 moxo-48 moxo-49 moxo-4a"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Normalizing a Healthy Approach to Sex</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e85 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31"><p>Nothing says awkward more for a child or a parent than discussing sex. <strong>But we must embrace the uncomfortable and do it anyway.</strong> Our sexual expressions are essential to us as humans. They are beautiful and healthy when approached with the respect that they deserve.  But, as with most things wonderful, they can also be abused and put us in harm’s way. Because of this risk of harm, parents often choose not to breach the topic of sex with their children, or if they do, discuss sex primarily using negative language.</p>

<p>Either of these approaches, silence or using negative language, tends to create sexual shame. It tells the child that this is not a safe topic. It is taboo. This leads children to quench their curiosity through internet searches, discussions with friends, or observation of popular media. Each of those alternative methods is fraught with danger and misinformation.</p> 

<p>For this reason, it is critical that the parent(s) <strong><a href="https://saprea.org/prevent/educate/">open dialogue about sex and sexuality in age-appropriate ways</a></strong>. Many resources guide parents on what to discuss at each stage of a child’s development.  And it should start when they are a toddler. For example, a perfect discussion with a toddler is about privacy and boundaries. You can also talk with a toddler about healthy expressions, such as cuddling with a safe adult or giving hugs when they want.  This age-appropriate dialogue progresses as the child grows and, as a result, normalizes a healthy approach to sex and sexuality.</p> 

<p>There may be some awkwardness even in a family with healthy dialogue. Still, when a child hits a critical point, such as an accidental exposure to pornography or even a purposeful one, the <strong>openness will significantly increase the likelihood the child will discuss it and process the exposure with their parent(s)</strong>, thus giving the parent(s) the opportunity to reinforce a positive and healthy view of sex.</p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e86 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-3 moxo-5 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e87 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-s moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-14 moxo-15 moxo-1c moxo-1v"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e88 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2l"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e89 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-4 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-8 moxo-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e90 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-1g moxo-1w"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e91 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e92 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3m moxo-3p moxo-3q moxo-3r moxo-3s moxo-3u moxo-3v moxo-3w moxo-3x moxo-46 moxo-4c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">A Reason to Hope – Empowering Parents Against Pornography Risks</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e93 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31"><p>These risk reducers, open communication, addressing traumatic experiences, and normalizing sexual conversations are critical for parents. Otherwise, you leave things up to chance, and the odds are not in your favor. But these keys also need a word of caution. You can do everything by the book and still have a child choose to pursue pornography purposely. This is why they are called risk reducers and not risk eliminators. Regardless, a parent should have hope that their plans and efforts will make a difference. As an engaged parent, you influence your child's choices more than any other person.</p></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e94 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3m moxo-3o moxo-3r moxo-3w moxo-3z moxo-41 moxo-42 moxo-44 moxo-47 moxo-4d"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Pornography is rampant. Our kids will likely be exposed. Empowered parents willing to educate themselves, invest the time and energy, and approach the risk with commitment can make a difference for their children. They can reduce the risk that pornography will become a long-lasting, detrimental challenge.</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e95 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-4 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-9 moxo-e"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e96 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-s moxo-t moxo-v moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-14 moxo-15 moxo-17 moxo-1c moxo-1d moxo-1x"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e97 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e98 moxo-3b moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3i moxo-3j moxo-3m moxo-3q moxo-3r moxo-3v moxo-3w moxo-4e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">About the Author</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-row e32316-e99 moxo-i moxo-n moxo-o moxo-s moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-14 moxo-15 moxo-18 moxo-19 moxo-1c moxo-1y"><div class="x-row-inner"><figure class="x-col e32316-e100 moxo-23 moxo-25 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29 moxo-2c moxo-2g moxo-2i moxo-2k"><span class="x-image e32316-e101 moxo-4r moxo-4t featured-author-portrait"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/Chris-Yadon_resize-150x150.jpg" alt="Image"></span></figure><div class="x-col e32316-e102 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-2p moxo-2q"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e103 moxo-3b moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3j moxo-3m moxo-3o moxo-3r moxo-3w moxo-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Chris Yadon</h4></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e104 moxo-3b moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3h moxo-3j moxo-3l moxo-3w moxo-3x moxo-4a moxo-4f"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Managing Director</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e105 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2v moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-31">Chris Yadon is the Managing Director of Saprea, and is responsible for managing all operations and services of Saprea in both Utah and Georgia. Yadon has spent most of his professional career in start-up executive management with an emphasis in operations, marketing, and sales. Since joining Saprea in 2015, Yadon has brought a valuable skillset to the organization and is committed to addressing the epidemic of child sexual abuse. His expertise centers on increasing awareness arond this epidemic and educating the public on best practices for prevention and the healing services available to survivors. Yadon has been featured across several regional and national media platforms where he is often requested as an industry thought leader and expert.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e32316-e106 moxo-1 moxo-2 moxo-4 moxo-5 moxo-6 moxo-7 moxo-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e32316-e107 moxo-i moxo-j moxo-n moxo-o moxo-w moxo-10 moxo-11 moxo-13 moxo-14 moxo-19 moxo-1g moxo-1z"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e32316-e108 moxo-27 moxo-28 moxo-29"><div class="x-acc e32316-e109 moxo-4v" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e32316-e109"><div class="e32316-e110 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e32316-e110" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e32316-e110" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e32316-e110"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e32316-e110" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e32316-e110" data-x-toggleable="e32316-e110" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><ol>
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While multiple factors contribute to incarceration, this dramatic statistical disparity demands attention.</div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e121 moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2w moxo-2x moxo-2z moxo-30 moxo-31 moxo-3a"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e32316-e117 moxo-27 moxo-2p moxo-2r post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/how-proximity-can-help-prevent-abuse/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e32316-e118 moxo-4r"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/02/ProximityBlog.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="31748:full"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e32316-e119 moxo-3c moxo-3d moxo-3e moxo-3g moxo-3h moxo-3p moxo-3r moxo-3t moxo-3u moxo-3w moxo-3x moxo-48 moxo-4a moxo-4h"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Why Parents Don’t See Child Sexual Abuse as a Problem—And How Proximity Can Fix It</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e32316-e120 moxo-2s moxo-2t moxo-2u moxo-2z moxo-35 moxo-38 moxo-39 excerpt">In my work addressing child sexual abuse, I see this phenomenon daily. 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But what if it wasn’t just a cinematic moment? What if it was your reality? You sit on an uncomfortable bed, thoughts racing through your mind as you ask yourself, “How did I get here?” For too many survivors of child sexual abuse, incarceration isn’t fiction—it’s their reality. Many incarcerated women ponder how they got there, without a clear answer. Maybe our society would benefit from a more thoughtful approach for how childhood trauma can pave a pathway to incarceration, prompting us to provide healing programs for survivors of child sexual abuse.</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31934-e23 mon2-1 mon2-2 mon2-5 mon2-6 mon2-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31934-e24 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-p mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-w mon2-x mon2-1f"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e25 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e26 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2v mon2-30 mon2-33 mon2-34 mon2-35 mon2-36 mon2-37 mon2-38 mon2-39 mon2-3a"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The Link Between Child Abuse and Incarceration</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31934-e27 mon2-2g mon2-2h mon2-2j mon2-2l mon2-2m">Research reveals a striking pattern among incarcerated women: <strong>up to 66% report experiencing childhood sexual abuse</strong>,<sup>1</sup> more than double the rate found in the general female population (31%).<sup>2</sup> While multiple factors contribute to incarceration, this dramatic statistical disparity demands attention. The consistency and magnitude of this relationship across studies point to <strong>childhood sexual abuse as a significant risk factor in women's pathways to imprisonment</strong>. As the saying goes, “Correlation is not causation.” But this level of high correlation should give us pause.</div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e28 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2v mon2-30 mon2-33 mon2-34 mon2-35 mon2-37 mon2-38 mon2-39 mon2-3a mon2-3b"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Trauma Shapes Coping Mechanisms</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31934-e29 mon2-2g mon2-2h mon2-2j mon2-2l mon2-2m">The line between child sexual abuse and incarceration is not hard to draw. When a child experiences abuse, their safety is violated. The natural response from their brain is to seek safety. The survival part of their brain will not discern between constructive and destructive coping behaviors. As a natural consequence, a child may attach to harmful or maladaptive coping behaviors such as substance use, eating disorders, or suicidal ideation. This becomes more likely as they grow into their teenage and adult years. Using substances as an example, the survivor, now addicted, resorts to criminal activity to feed the addiction, eventually finding themselves involved with the justice system.</div></div><div class="x-col e31934-e30 mon2-1s mon2-1u mon2-1w mon2-1y mon2-1z mon2-21 mon2-27 mon2-29 mon2-2b mon2-2c"><span class="x-image e31934-e31 mon2-42"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/how-to-heal-sexual-abuse.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="Image"></span><div class="x-row e31934-e32 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-o mon2-p mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-v mon2-w mon2-1c mon2-1g"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e33 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e34 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2y mon2-33 mon2-35 mon2-3c mon2-3d mon2-3e mon2-3f"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Learn More About How Trauma Impacts Childhood Development</h3></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e31934-e35 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-j mon2-o mon2-p mon2-y mon2-z mon2-1c mon2-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e36 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e37 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2w mon2-2z mon2-3a mon2-3d mon2-3e mon2-3g mon2-3h mon2-3i"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The effects of Child Sexual Abuse</h5></div></div></div></div><div class="x-col e31934-e38 mon2-1s mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y mon2-21 mon2-23 mon2-24 mon2-27 mon2-28"><i class="x-icon e31934-e39 mon2-45" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0a9;"></i></div></div></div><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e31934-e40 mon2-3t mon2-3u mon2-3z mon2-40 my-button" tabindex="0" href="/heal/#effects"><div class="x-anchor-content"></div></a></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31934-e41 mon2-1 mon2-2 mon2-4 mon2-5 mon2-7 mon2-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31934-e42 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-p mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-v mon2-w mon2-1c mon2-1i"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e43 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e44 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2v mon2-30 mon2-33 mon2-34 mon2-35 mon2-36 mon2-37 mon2-38 mon2-39 mon2-3a"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Breaking the Cycle Through Healing Programs</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31934-e45 mon2-2g mon2-2h mon2-2j mon2-2l mon2-2m">We have reason to believe that if we can reduce the number of girls who experience child sexual abuse and provide healing programs for survivors, we could reduce the number of incarcerated women. In addition, if we can help incarcerated women heal from their child sexual abuse, we have reason to believe that we can reduce recidivism through trauma healing. Each of these assumptions will need to be studied extensively, but until then, we can work with the data we have to design promising interventions.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e31934-e46 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-p mon2-t mon2-w mon2-z mon2-10 mon2-11 mon2-1c mon2-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e47 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e48 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2w mon2-2x mon2-2z mon2-30 mon2-3a mon2-3b mon2-3d mon2-3e mon2-3h mon2-3j"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Creating Opportunities for Healing Within the System</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31934-e49 mon2-2g mon2-2h mon2-2j mon2-2l mon2-2m"><p>Research reveals a critical window of opportunity within correctional facilities themselves. One study noted that for some survivors—approximately one-fifth of incarcerated women—their first disclosure of childhood sexual abuse occurs within an institutional setting. This finding suggests that <strong>correctional facilities may serve as an unexpected but important venue for initiating trauma recovery work</strong>.</p> 
<p>The timing of these institutional disclosures is particularly significant. While many survivors carry their experiences in silence for years—with <strong>45.8% delaying disclosure for a year or more</strong><sup>3</sup>—even the environment like a correctional facility, combined with appropriate support services, may provide the security needed to begin addressing long-buried trauma. <strong>Rather than viewing these facilities solely as punitive environments, we can recognize their potential as spaces where healing can begin.</strong></p>
<p>This revelation also underscores the importance of ensuring that correctional staff are adequately trained in trauma-informed approaches and that facilities maintain robust mental health services.<sup>4</sup> <strong>When a woman chooses to disclose abuse—perhaps for the first time in her life—the system must be prepared to respond with appropriate support and resources.</strong> This preparation could transform what might otherwise be a missed opportunity into a crucial first step toward breaking the cycle of trauma and incarceration.</p>
</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e31934-e50 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-m mon2-p mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-w mon2-12 mon2-18 mon2-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e51 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e52 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2v mon2-30 mon2-33 mon2-34 mon2-35 mon2-37 mon2-38 mon2-39 mon2-3a mon2-3b"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">A Scalable Solution for Incarcerated Women</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31934-e53 mon2-2g mon2-2h mon2-2j mon2-2l mon2-2m"><p>Starting in 2019, our team at Saprea piloted various healing programs within women’s facilities. This has been a challenging journey. We have seen good, measurable success with the curricula, but the implementation has been difficult to scale until recently.</p>
<p>Working with our partner, <a href="https://www.edovo.org/" target="_blank">Edovo</a>, Saprea deployed ten curriculum modules complete with comprehension testing to 1134 prison and jail facilities across the United States. <strong>In the first month of deployment, over 10,500 incarcerated women accessed the curricula, over 7,500 completed at least one module, and over 2,800 finished the tenth module.</strong> This scalable approach allows Saprea to conduct rigorous outcome-based research to determine whether our curriculum, which works in other settings, can reduce post-traumatic stress symptoms and enhance coping skills in this underserved, deserving population.</p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31934-e54 mon2-1 mon2-2 mon2-4 mon2-5 mon2-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31934-e55 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-m mon2-p mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-w mon2-12 mon2-18 mon2-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e56 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e57 mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2v mon2-30 mon2-33 mon2-34 mon2-35 mon2-36 mon2-37 mon2-38 mon2-39 mon2-3a"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Hope for the Future: Expanding Healing Efforts</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31934-e58 mon2-2g mon2-2h mon2-2j mon2-2l mon2-2m"><p>With these promising advances, the best is yet to come. As we expand healing efforts to survivors, including incarcerated men, we give them a chance to rewrite their stories and return to society healthy and ready to contribute. <strong>Breaking the cycle of child sexual abuse and incarceration starts with awareness and action.</strong> I imagine a world where the clank of a jail cell is less of a reality for survivors of child sexual abuse and can only be imagined by them through the fictional portrayals of Hollywood.</p>
<p><strong>Share this post to help raise awareness and explore our healing programs for survivors <a href="/heal/">here</a>.</strong></p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31934-e59 mon2-1 mon2-2 mon2-5 mon2-6 mon2-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31934-e60 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-m mon2-n mon2-p mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-w mon2-12 mon2-13 mon2-18 mon2-19 mon2-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e61 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e62 mon2-2p mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2u mon2-2v mon2-2w mon2-30 mon2-34 mon2-35 mon2-39 mon2-3a mon2-3k"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">About the Author</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-row e31934-e63 mon2-d mon2-h mon2-i mon2-m mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-w mon2-12 mon2-14 mon2-15 mon2-18 mon2-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><figure class="x-col e31934-e64 mon2-1s mon2-1u mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y mon2-21 mon2-25 mon2-27 mon2-29"><span class="x-image e31934-e65 mon2-42 mon2-44 featured-author-portrait"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/Chris-Yadon_resize-150x150.jpg" alt="Image"></span></figure><div class="x-col e31934-e66 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-2d mon2-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e67 mon2-2p mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2t mon2-2w mon2-30 mon2-32 mon2-35 mon2-3a mon2-3l"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Chris Yadon</h4></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31934-e68 mon2-2p mon2-2q mon2-2r mon2-2u mon2-2w mon2-2z mon2-3a mon2-3e mon2-3f mon2-3i mon2-3m"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Managing Director</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31934-e69 mon2-2g mon2-2h mon2-2i mon2-2j mon2-2m">Chris Yadon is the Managing Director of Saprea, and is responsible for managing all operations and services of Saprea in both Utah and Georgia. Yadon has spent most of his professional career in start-up executive management with an emphasis in operations, marketing, and sales. Since joining Saprea in 2015, Yadon has brought a valuable skillset to the organization and is committed to addressing the epidemic of child sexual abuse. His expertise centers on increasing awareness arond this epidemic and educating the public on best practices for prevention and the healing services available to survivors. Yadon has been featured across several regional and national media platforms where he is often requested as an industry thought leader and expert.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31934-e70 mon2-1 mon2-2 mon2-4 mon2-5 mon2-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31934-e71 mon2-d mon2-e mon2-h mon2-i mon2-q mon2-t mon2-u mon2-v mon2-w mon2-15 mon2-1c mon2-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31934-e72 mon2-1w mon2-1x mon2-1y"><div class="x-acc e31934-e73 mon2-46" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e31934-e73"><div class="e31934-e74 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e31934-e74" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e31934-e74" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e31934-e74"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e31934-e74" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e31934-e74" data-x-toggleable="e31934-e74" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><ol>
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At the time, our children were eight and six, and we were focused on learning how to be better parents. The conference was largely unmemorable except for one passing comment by one of the presenters. He said research is showing that the average age a boy will first be exposed to sexually explicit content is between nine and eleven, so if you want to be the first person to introduce the topic of sex, you better talk before that age. I thought about all that could go wrong with him learning about sex from other sources, but the most concerning risk was the potential for child sexual abuse.</p>
<p>I felt a pit in my stomach. I didn’t want my eight-year-old son to learn about sex the way I did – pieced together through media, jokes from friends, and a grossly inadequate awkward health class, but I could not imagine having “the talk” with him as an eight-year-old. As I struggled with what to do with these back-and-forth, conflicting thoughts, ultimately, proximity created urgency, and Christy and I decided to have “the talk” with our son.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31537-e23 moc1-1 moc1-2 moc1-3 moc1-5 moc1-6"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e24 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-q moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-w moc1-x moc1-1a moc1-1d"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e25 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e26 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-2v moc1-2z moc1-32 moc1-33 moc1-34 moc1-35 moc1-36 moc1-37 moc1-38"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Understanding Proximity and Urgency</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e27 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k"><p>Before sharing the rest of the story, I pause to emphasize that sex, generally, and child sexual abuse, specifically, are uncomfortable topics for most parents. Yet, they are critical to address with kids. Both proximity and urgency are essential in influencing and motivating behavior to overcome this discomfort and protect children from abuse.</p>
<p>By proximity, I mean <strong>a sense of closeness or being near to an issue</strong>. Without this sense of proximity, we often ignore significant problems, regardless of their severity. While each can stand alone, they often work together, with proximity fostering a stronger sense of urgency.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31537-e28 moc1-1 moc1-2 moc1-5 moc1-7 moc1-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e29 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-q moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-w moc1-x moc1-1a moc1-1e"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e30 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e31 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-2v moc1-2z moc1-32 moc1-33 moc1-34 moc1-35 moc1-36 moc1-37 moc1-38"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Why Parents Often Miss the Problem of Child Sexual Abuse</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e32 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k"><p>In my work addressing child sexual abuse, I see this phenomenon daily. Despite extensive research highlighting that child sexual abuse is a significant issue in every community, many parents and caregivers dismiss it as a distant problem, believing it happens to someone else, somewhere else. This dissonant, apathetic response is not because parents do not view child sexual abuse as horrific but because they view child sexual abuse as distant.</p> 
<p>According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) and other researchers, about <strong>1 in 4 girls and 1 in 10 boys experience child sexual abuse in the United States</strong>.<sup>1, 2</sup> Yet, a survey in my home state revealed that <strong>65.4% of respondents—mostly parents—either disagreed (40.8%) or were neutral (24.6%) when asked if child sexual abuse is a problem in their immediate community</strong> (e.g., neighborhood, family, faith group, club, business).<sup>3</sup></p>
<p><strong>Only 34.6% of respondents acknowledged that child sexual abuse is an issue in their community.</strong> How can this be? Despite extensive discussions by researchers, news outlets, public health agencies, and nonprofits, a significant disconnect remains. Systems change expert John Kotter insightfully said, “Never underestimate the magnitude of the forces that reinforce complacency and that help maintain the status quo.”<sup>4</sup> Perhaps we have underestimated the desire for humans to look away from something we do not want to face. Put another way, the <strong>lack of proximity reinforces our complacency</strong>.</p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31537-e33 moc1-1 moc1-2 moc1-4 moc1-5 moc1-8 moc1-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e34 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-q moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-w moc1-x moc1-1a moc1-1f"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e35 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e36 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-2v moc1-2z moc1-32 moc1-33 moc1-34 moc1-35 moc1-36 moc1-37 moc1-38"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">What Is Proximity, and How Can It Help?</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e37 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k"><p>Survivors of child sexual abuse experience a significant amount of <a href="/heal/shame/">shame</a> and stigma. <strong>This shame and stigma drive silence and secrecy.</strong> Survivors do not often tell their stories; if they do, they speak with fear of judgment.<sup>5</sup> Most commonly, they share in very limited, closed circles. As a result, you and I interact with survivors of child sexual abuse often without having any idea what they have experienced in their past. I am not talking about acquaintances or casual friends. I am talking about close friends and even family. Yes, even within families, survivors often choose not to share about their child sexual abuse. The result? Most people do not think the issue is proximate.</p>
<p>What about urgency? When a threat feels proximate, urgency naturally follows. We respond, and we respond quickly. In the case of child sexual abuse, if I learn that my loved ones, those closest to me, experienced child sexual abuse, I will feel the urgency to help them heal and protect those I love, especially my children, from going through the same thing. Said differently, proximity leads to urgency.</p>
<p>Research supports this perspective. A study by experts at Johns Hopkins University suggest that <strong>when parents are actively engaged in prevention education, the risk of child sexual abuse can significantly decrease</strong>.<sup>6</sup> This engagement is driven by a sense of proximity—understanding that the threat is real and close to home.</p>
<p>As we understand this connection, we can quickly see how <a href="/blog/combat-child-sexual-abuse-stigma/">stigmatizing</a> child sexual abuse and shaming survivors into silence not only harms the survivor but <strong>creates environments that allow abuse to continue uninterrupted</strong>. <strong>As long as parents feel the risk is distant, child sexual abuse will continue to impact every community at higher rates than if it were confronted directly.</strong></p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31537-e38 moc1-1 moc1-2 moc1-4 moc1-5 moc1-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e39 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-o moc1-q moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-x moc1-y moc1-z moc1-17 moc1-1g"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e40 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e41 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-2v moc1-2z moc1-32 moc1-33 moc1-34 moc1-35 moc1-36 moc1-37 moc1-38"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Turning Proximity into Urgent Action</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e42 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k"><p>Reflecting on the experience with my eight-year-old son, it becomes evident how <strong>proximity and urgency intersect to drive meaningful change</strong>. The presenter's reference to research on early exposure to sexually explicit content, coupled with firsthand accounts from loved ones, brought the issue uncomfortably close to home. This proximity created a sense of urgency that compelled my wife and me to initiate "the talk" despite our apprehensions. Our urgency was motivated by the proximate risk to our son, and that urgency overcame our conflicting thoughts about whether that moment was the right time.</p>
<p>I wish I could say I nailed that “big talk,” but like most things in parenting, the first time didn’t go so well. Yet eighteen years later, my twenty-six-year-old son has a healthy perspective about his sexuality - formed by hundreds of subsequent “little talks” with us as parents. Like me, he also heard about sex through media, jokes from friends, and a grossly inadequate, awkward health class, but he was equipped to handle it because he had our balancing voice. Proximity and urgency had met, changing our parenting behavior when he was eight years old.</p></div></div><div class="x-col e31537-e43 moc1-1q moc1-1s moc1-1u moc1-1w moc1-1x moc1-1z moc1-25 moc1-27 moc1-29 moc1-2a"><span class="x-image e31537-e44 moc1-3x"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/laughing-scaled.jpg" width="1280" height="853" alt="Image"></span><div class="x-row e31537-e45 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-p moc1-q moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-w moc1-x moc1-1a moc1-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e46 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e47 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-2x moc1-32 moc1-34 moc1-39 moc1-3a moc1-3b moc1-3c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Reduce the Risk of Child Sexual Abuse</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e48 moc1-2f moc1-2g moc1-2h moc1-2k moc1-2l">When parents are actively engaged in prevention education, the risk of child sexual abuse can significantly decrease.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e31537-e49 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-k moc1-p moc1-q moc1-10 moc1-1a moc1-1i"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e50 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e51 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-2w moc1-2y moc1-38 moc1-3a moc1-3b moc1-3d moc1-3e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Start the Conversation</h5></div></div></div></div><div class="x-col e31537-e52 moc1-1q moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w moc1-1z moc1-21 moc1-22 moc1-25 moc1-26"><i class="x-icon e31537-e53 moc1-40" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0a9;"></i></div></div></div><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e31537-e54 moc1-3o moc1-3p moc1-3u moc1-3v my-button" tabindex="0" href="/prevent/"><div class="x-anchor-content"></div></a></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e55 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-q moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-w moc1-x moc1-1a moc1-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e56 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e57 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k moc1-2m">Any significant change, whether a broad societal issue like child sexual abuse or an uncomfortable talk with my eight-year-old, requires urgency to motivate new patterns of behavior. <strong>Child sexual abuse is more prevelant in our lives that we might admit.</strong> Creating urgency through proximity can protect our kids. <strong>Start the conversation with your loved ones today and explore more parenting resources <a href="/prevent/">here</a></strong>. </div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31537-e58 moc1-1 moc1-2 moc1-5 moc1-6 moc1-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e59 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-n moc1-o moc1-q moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-x moc1-z moc1-11 moc1-16 moc1-17 moc1-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e60 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e61 moc1-2p moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-2v moc1-2w moc1-2z moc1-33 moc1-34 moc1-37 moc1-38 moc1-3f"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">About the Author</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-row e31537-e62 moc1-e moc1-i moc1-j moc1-n moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-x moc1-11 moc1-12 moc1-13 moc1-16 moc1-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><figure class="x-col e31537-e63 moc1-1q moc1-1s moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w moc1-1z moc1-23 moc1-25 moc1-27"><span class="x-image e31537-e64 moc1-3x moc1-3z featured-author-portrait"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/chris-bios-150x150.jpg" alt="Image"></span></figure><div class="x-col e31537-e65 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-2b moc1-2c"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e66 moc1-2p moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2w moc1-2z moc1-31 moc1-34 moc1-38 moc1-3g"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Chris Yadon</h4></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e67 moc1-2p moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2u moc1-2w moc1-2y moc1-38 moc1-3b moc1-3c moc1-3e moc1-3h"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Managing Director</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e68 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2g moc1-2h moc1-2k">Chris Yadon is the Managing Director of Saprea, and is responsible for managing all operations and services of Saprea in both Utah and Georgia. Yadon has spent most of his professional career in start-up executive management with an emphasis in operations, marketing, and sales. Since joining Saprea in 2015, Yadon has brought a valuable skillset to the organization and is committed to addressing the epidemic of child sexual abuse. His expertise centers on increasing awareness arond this epidemic and educating the public on best practices for prevention and the healing services available to survivors. Yadon has been featured across several regional and national media platforms where he is often requested as an industry thought leader and expert.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e31537-e69 moc1-1 moc1-2 moc1-4 moc1-5 moc1-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e70 moc1-e moc1-f moc1-i moc1-j moc1-r moc1-u moc1-v moc1-w moc1-x moc1-13 moc1-1a moc1-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e71 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><div class="x-acc e31537-e72 moc1-41" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e31537-e72"><div class="e31537-e73 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e31537-e73" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e31537-e73" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e31537-e73"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e31537-e73" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e31537-e73" data-x-toggleable="e31537-e73" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><ol>
 	<li>Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2024). Preventing Child Sexual Abuse. Retrieved from CDC.gov: <a href="https://www.cdc.gov/child-abuse-neglect/about/about-child-sexual-abuse.html" target="_blank">https://www.cdc.gov/child-abuse-neglect/about/about-child-sexual-abuse.html</a></li>
 	<li>Finkelhor, D., Turner, H., &amp; Colburn, D. (2024). The prevalence of child sexual abuse with online sexual abuse added. <em>Child Abuse &amp; Neglect, 149</em>, 106634. <a href="https://doi.org/10.1016/j.chiabu.2024.106634" target="_blank">https://doi.org/10.1016/j.chiabu.2024.106634</a></li>
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Despite extensive research highlighting that child sexual abuse is a significant issue in every community, many parents and caregivers dismiss it as a distant problem, believing it happens to someone else, somewhere else. Read more. </div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e84 moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k moc1-2o"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e31537-e80 moc1-1u moc1-2a moc1-2c moc1-2d post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/symptoms_of_child_sexual_abuse_blog/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e31537-e81 moc1-3x"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/07/Common_Symptoms_Blog.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="28188:full"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e82 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-32 moc1-34 moc1-36 moc1-38 moc1-3b moc1-3c moc1-3j"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Common Symptoms Experienced by Adult Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e83 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2n excerpt">Childhood sexual abuse can have long-lasting debilitating effects throughout the life of a survivor. The impacts of sexual trauma are profound and far-reaching, affecting every aspect of an individual&#8217;s life—physically, psychologically, cognitively, and socially. But why is this so?</div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e84 moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k moc1-2o"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e31537-e80 moc1-1u moc1-2a moc1-2c moc1-2d post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/statute-of-limitations/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e31537-e81 moc1-3x"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Statute_Limitations.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="28105:full"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e31537-e82 moc1-2q moc1-2r moc1-2t moc1-2u moc1-32 moc1-34 moc1-36 moc1-38 moc1-3b moc1-3c moc1-3j"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Statute of Limitations on Sexual Abuse</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e83 moc1-2e moc1-2f moc1-2n excerpt">In our work with individuals who were sexually abused, they often discuss the burden that comes with weighing difficult questions about when to come forward with details of the abuse they experienced. They wonder if they should take legal action or if that is even an option when the abuse occurred many years in the past. </div><div class="x-text x-content e31537-e84 moc1-2f moc1-2h moc1-2j moc1-2k moc1-2o"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e31537-e85 moc1-e moc1-h moc1-i moc1-j moc1-n moc1-q moc1-u moc1-x moc1-15 moc1-16 moc1-1p"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e31537-e86 moc1-1u moc1-1v moc1-1w"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e31537-e87 moc1-3n moc1-3o moc1-3v moc1-3w moc1-c" tabindex="0" href="/all-blogs/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">SEE ALL blogs</span></div></div></a></div></div></div></div></div>
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<content:encoded> <![CDATA[ <img src="https://i3.ytimg.com/vi/BkiyCYFAQy4/hqdefault.jpg" /><br><br>Youth Sports Sexual Abuse Lawyer - Thomas Giuffra, Esq. - New York<br><br>Thomas Giuffra and The Abuse Lawyer NY are dedicated to supporting victims of Youth Sports Sexual Abuse. Our experienced team recognizes the profound impact that abuse by coaches, trainers, and other sports authority figures can have on young athletes. We provide compassionate legal representation tailored to the unique needs of survivors.<br><br>The Courage to Come Forward<br><br>Coming forward as a survivor of sexual assault in sports requires immense bravery. Our New York Youth Sports Sexual Abuse attorneys create a safe and confidential space for individuals to share their experiences. We offer free consultations, allowing victims to explore their legal options without pressure.<br><br>Specialized Legal Representation<br><br>Navigating the complexities of Youth Sports Sexual Abuse cases demands specialized knowledge. Our New York sexual violence lawyers are well-versed in the intricacies of filing sexual abuse lawsuits and understanding the statutes of limitations that apply to child sexual abuse claims. We are committed to holding youth sports organizations accountable for their negligence and ensuring that the rights of young athletes are protected.<br><br>Serving All of New York<br><br>Thomas Giuffra's office proudly serves clients across New York, including New York City, Manhattan, Albany, and Buffalo. We represent survivors from various sports disciplines, whether in gymnastics, swimming, or team sports. Our goal is to provide comprehensive support to those affected by abuse in youth athletics.<br><br>Empowering Survivors Through Legal Action<br><br>The benefits of hiring a Youth Sports Sexual Abuse attorney extend beyond legal expertise. Our team has extensive experience in investigating abuse claims, gathering crucial evidence, and negotiating settlements. We advocate for our clients with the aim of seeking justice and compensation for damages, including counseling and medical care.<br><br>A Compassionate Approach<br><br>At The Abuse Lawyer NY, we understand the emotional toll that abuse takes on survivors. Our compassionate legal team is here to guide you through every step of the process, empowering you to reclaim your voice and hold abusers accountable. If you or someone you know has been affected by youth sports sexual abuse, contact us today for a free, confidential consultation about your case.<br><br><br>Visit us online: <br>Email: thomas@survivorsofabuse.com<br>Web: <a href="https://survivorsofabuseny.com/youth-sports-sexual-abuse-lawyer-ny" target="_blank">https://survivorsofabuseny.com/youth-sports-sexual-abuse-lawyer-ny</a><br><a href="https://sites.google.com/view/youth-sports-abuse-lawyer-ny/" target="_blank">https://sites.google.com/view/youth-sports-abuse-lawyer-ny/</a> <br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BkiyCYFAQy4" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BkiyCYFAQy4</a><br><br>Our Address: <br>Thomas Giuffra, Esq. - The Abuse Lawyer NY<br>551 5th Avenue, 29th Floor, <br>New York, NY 10017<br>Phone: (646) 413-6394<br><br>Find us around the web: <br>Like us on Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/abuselawyerny" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/abuselawyerny</a><br>Follow us on Twitter: <a href="https://x.com/abuselawyerny" target="_blank">https://x.com/abuselawyerny</a><br>Check us out on Pinterest: <a href="https://www.pinterest.com/survivorsofabuseny/" target="_blank">https://www.pinterest.com/survivorsofabuseny/</a><br>Subscribe to our YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDeyWo5O0fj-IV8Sj1HNn9A" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDeyWo5O0fj-IV8Sj1HNn9A</a><br>Find us on SoundCloud: <a href="https://soundcloud.com/abuselawyerny" target="_blank">https://soundcloud.com/abuselawyerny</a><br>Listen to our BuzzSprout Podcasts: <a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/2383783/episodes" target="_blank">https://www.buzzsprout.com/2383783/episodes</a><br><br><div><iframe width='100%' height='auto' src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/BkiyCYFAQy4?rel=0" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen wmode='opaque'></iframe></div> ]]> </content:encoded>
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I learned that golf actually stood for “Gentlemen Only Ladies Forbidden” and my hatred for the sport was solidified. I spent years railing against golf and the sexist acronym behind it.</p>

<p><strong>Except it wasn’t true.</strong> I learned a few weeks ago that it’s a common myth, something repeated because it <em>seems</em> true, even though it isn’t.</p>

<p>This is relatively harmless compared to some myths—like the one that most <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/6-perpetrator-grooming-behaviors/">perpetrators</a> of child sexual abuse were once abused themselves. Or, in other words, that if someone is sexually abused as a child they are more likely to become an abuser when they grow up.</p>

<p>Of course, there are sexual abusers who were abused as children, but it isn’t as frequent or common as most people, even therapists, believe. In her book <em>Predators</em>, Anna C. Salter talks about how most men convicted of child sexual abuse will simply say that they were abused as children because it affords them more sympathy. In reality, fewer than 10% of them actually were.</p>

<p>So, what does this mean to you, as a parent?</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e23257-e23 mhy1-1 mhy1-2 mhy1-5 mhy1-6 mhy1-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e23257-e24 mhy1-b mhy1-g mhy1-h mhy1-k mhy1-p mhy1-q mhy1-t mhy1-u mhy1-v mhy1-w mhy1-x mhy1-1a mhy1-1d"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23257-e25 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r mhy1-21"><div class="x-row e23257-e26 mhy1-b mhy1-d mhy1-g mhy1-h mhy1-i mhy1-j mhy1-k mhy1-m mhy1-n mhy1-z mhy1-10 mhy1-16 mhy1-17 mhy1-1e"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23257-e27 mhy1-1l mhy1-1n mhy1-1o mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r mhy1-1u mhy1-1v mhy1-1z mhy1-22"><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e28 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-29 mhy1-2b mhy1-2c">01</div></div><div class="x-col e23257-e29 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r"><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e30 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-28 mhy1-29 mhy1-2a">If your child is sexually abused it does NOT mean that they will grow up to perpetuate that abuse on others, especially if your child is given the help and care that they need after the abuse is discovered.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e23257-e31 mhy1-b mhy1-d mhy1-g mhy1-h mhy1-j mhy1-k mhy1-m mhy1-n mhy1-z mhy1-11 mhy1-16 mhy1-17 mhy1-1f"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23257-e32 mhy1-1l mhy1-1n mhy1-1o mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r mhy1-1u mhy1-1v mhy1-1z mhy1-22"><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e33 mhy1-25 mhy1-29 mhy1-2c mhy1-2d">02</div></div><div class="x-col e23257-e34 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r"><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e35 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-28 mhy1-29 mhy1-2a">It harms survivors of childhood sexual abuse to have this stigma attached to them. In addition to the trauma they experienced, they are now saddled with the fear that they’ll grow up to harm someone in the way that they were harmed.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e23257-e36 mhy1-b mhy1-g mhy1-h mhy1-j mhy1-k mhy1-m mhy1-n mhy1-z mhy1-11 mhy1-12 mhy1-16 mhy1-17 mhy1-1g"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23257-e37 mhy1-1l mhy1-1n mhy1-1o mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r mhy1-1u mhy1-1v mhy1-1z mhy1-22"><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e38 mhy1-25 mhy1-29 mhy1-2c mhy1-2d">03</div></div><div class="x-col e23257-e39 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r"><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e40 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-28 mhy1-29 mhy1-2a">When you read about a perpetrator of child sexual abuse, don’t assume that he or she MUST have been abused as a child. The truth is, we don’t actually know why people become sexual abusers, but we do know that it isn’t just because they were or weren’t sexually abused when they were children.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e23257-e41 mhy1-b mhy1-g mhy1-h mhy1-q mhy1-t mhy1-u mhy1-w mhy1-x mhy1-12 mhy1-13 mhy1-1a mhy1-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23257-e42 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r"><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e43 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-28 mhy1-29 mhy1-2a">Some myths are harmless, like believing that going outside with wet hair will give you a cold. Others can cause a lot more harm. Make sure that you’re not making assumptions about the sexual abuse survivors in your life, or the perpetrators you may hear about. Here are <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/8-myths-child-sexual-abuse/">eight more myths</a> about child sexual abuse you can take.</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e23257-e44 mhy1-1 mhy1-5 mhy1-7 mhy1-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e23257-e45 mhy1-a mhy1-b mhy1-g mhy1-h mhy1-p mhy1-q mhy1-t mhy1-u mhy1-w mhy1-x mhy1-1a mhy1-1i postsrow"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23257-e46 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e23257-e47 mhy1-2g mhy1-2h mhy1-2j mhy1-2k mhy1-2o mhy1-2p mhy1-2q"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Recent blogs</h2></div></div></div></div><div class="x-col e23257-e48 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r"><div class="x-row e23257-e49 mhy1-b mhy1-c mhy1-h mhy1-q mhy1-t mhy1-w mhy1-12 mhy1-14 mhy1-1a mhy1-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><a class="x-col e23257-e50 mhy1-1p mhy1-23 post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/symptoms_of_child_sexual_abuse_blog/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e23257-e51 mhy1-31"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/07/Common_Symptoms_Blog.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="28188:full" loading="lazy"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e23257-e52 mhy1-2h mhy1-2j mhy1-2n mhy1-2q mhy1-2r"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Common Symptoms Experienced by Adult Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e53 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-2e excerpt">Childhood sexual abuse can have long-lasting debilitating effects throughout the life of a survivor. The impacts of sexual trauma are profound and far-reaching, affecting every aspect of an individual&#8217;s life—physically, psychologically, cognitively, and socially. But why is this so?</div><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e54 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-28 mhy1-29 mhy1-2a mhy1-2f"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e23257-e50 mhy1-1p mhy1-23 post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/statute-of-limitations/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e23257-e51 mhy1-31"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Statute_Limitations.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="28105:full" loading="lazy"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e23257-e52 mhy1-2h mhy1-2j mhy1-2n mhy1-2q mhy1-2r"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Statute of Limitations on Sexual Abuse</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e53 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-2e excerpt">In our work with individuals who were sexually abused, they often discuss the burden that comes with weighing difficult questions about when to come forward with details of the abuse they experienced. They wonder if they should take legal action or if that is even an option when the abuse occurred many years in the past. </div><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e54 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-28 mhy1-29 mhy1-2a mhy1-2f"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e23257-e50 mhy1-1p mhy1-23 post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/effects-of-child-sexual-abuse-blog/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e23257-e51 mhy1-31"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/Effects-of-Sexual-Abuse-Blog.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="27832:full" loading="lazy"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e23257-e52 mhy1-2h mhy1-2j mhy1-2n mhy1-2q mhy1-2r"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Effects of Child Sexual Abuse</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e53 mhy1-24 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-2e excerpt">As a clinician on the Saprea Clinical Intake team, I am often the first point of contact for anyone seeking one of our services. This gives me the opportunity to talk to many survivors of child sexual abuse. I’m often asked about specific effects of sexual abuse that the women I talk to are experiencing.</div><div class="x-text x-content e23257-e54 mhy1-25 mhy1-26 mhy1-28 mhy1-29 mhy1-2a mhy1-2f"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e23257-e55 mhy1-b mhy1-e mhy1-g mhy1-h mhy1-j mhy1-m mhy1-p mhy1-t mhy1-x mhy1-15 mhy1-16 mhy1-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23257-e56 mhy1-1p mhy1-1q mhy1-1r"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e23257-e57 mhy1-2v mhy1-30 mhy1-9" tabindex="0" href="/all-blogs/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">SEE ALL blogs</span></div></div></a></div></div></div></div></div>
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