Dateology https://www.saltpodcasts.com/dateology.html Stuck in the spin of Christian dating? Join Candice Candelaria (Marriage & Family Therapist) and Matt Barrios (Pastor) to discover the empowering and liberating good news. It gets real, gets tender, and gets absurd — just like dating. Feeder 3 3.5.9(3061) Mac App Store Version; Mac OS X Version 10.11.4 (Build 15E65) http://reinventedsoftware.com/feeder/ http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss en Wed, 29 Aug 2018 22:04:31 -0700 Wed, 29 Aug 2018 22:04:31 -0700 Salt Podcasts Stuck in the spin of Christian dating? Join Candice Candelaria (Marriage & Family Therapist) and Matt Barrios (Pastor) to discover the empowering and liberating good news. It gets real, gets tender, and gets absurd — just like dating. Christian,dating,single,Jesus,marriage,love,romance,date,Matt Barrios,pastor,minister,Candice Candelaria,therapy,therapist,family,psychology,faith,Christianity,Gospel,singleness,city,cities,urban,metropolitan,New York,San Francisco,Los Angeles,Portland clean Brad Witty lenspodcast@gmail.com no episodic The Culmination How about we reflect on and celebrate some of what we’ve learned in a season 1 culmination? Join Candice and Matt as they enjoy a fun retrospective. Plus, they have a special word of blessing and gratitude for all their listeners.

And... they announce a new website where you can reach out! To meet, visit https://www.dateology.org/

]]> Wed, 29 Aug 2018 20:50:08 -0700 9D8143FF-30EE-4649-BEC2-26E030B3ED98 How about we reflect on and celebrate some of what we’ve learned in a season 1 culmination? Join Candice and Matt as they enjoy a fun retrospective. Plus, they have a special word of blessing and gratitude for all their listeners. And... they announce a new website where you can reach out! To meet, visit https://www.dateology.org/ 36:18 1 13 full The Conversation with Steve: Dating & Race How do race, ethnicity, dating, and the Gospel all come together? Race is a complicated thing to talk about, and Candice, Matt, and their guest Steve discuss it all in this vulnerable and thoughtful conversation.

To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/

]]> Mon, 13 Aug 2018 18:31:00 -0700 3F959C97-240B-499D-A22D-555856F2D16C How do race, ethnicity, dating, and the Gospel all come together? Race is a complicated thing to talk about, and Candice, Matt, and their guest Steve discuss it all in this vulnerable and thoughtful conversation. To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/ 38:18 1 12 full The Serious Relationship So the relationship is progressing… what happens now? In this episode, Candice and Matt talk about serious relationships and how they can trigger fears of intimacy and commitment. Plus, the team chats about how great it is to pray for God's guidance as a relationship becomes more serious.

To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/

]]> Fri, 27 Jul 2018 17:31:00 -0700 92BC8F9A-4A9C-4324-B32A-D633CDF5A259 So the relationship is progressing… what happens now? In this episode, Candice and Matt talk about serious relationships and how they can trigger fears of intimacy and commitment. Plus, the team chats about how great it is to pray for God's guidance as a relationship becomes more serious. To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/ 44:24 1 11 full The Attraction Why are people drawn to one another? Join Candice and Matt as they talk about what tend to be attractive qualities and what theories explain attraction. Plus, they'll consider how living according to a God-given calling might be one of the most attractive things of all.

To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/

]]> Sun, 15 Jul 2018 20:16:00 -0700 30C2C6AB-17EA-4B55-8A1A-21C02E653452 Why are people drawn to one another? Join Candice and Matt as they talk about what tend to be attractive qualities and what theories explain attraction. Plus, they'll consider how living according to a God-given calling might be one of the most attractive things of all. To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/ 1:02:54 1 10 full The Conversation with Emily Ever had a crush on a friend? Or had a friend say they have a crush on you? Candice and Matt interview Emily, who shares her experience dating a longtime pal.

To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/

]]> Fri, 29 Jun 2018 13:40:00 -0700 FABDE256-2376-42D6-B779-7047CC7DFEB1 Ever had a crush on a friend? Or had a friend say they have a crush on you? Candice and Matt interview Emily, who shares her experience dating a longtime pal. To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/ 40:51 1 9 full The Conversation with Cale What can we learn from Cale’s reflections on the end of a relationship? Join Matt and Candice as they chat with Cale about our tendencies toward selfishness in dating. Plus, what about that one wild date with the woman who enjoyed dining with the dead?

To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/

]]> Fri, 15 Jun 2018 15:59:00 -0700 1023F46F-7729-43A1-8E37-E142D7308926 What can we learn from Cale’s reflections on the end of a relationship? Join Matt and Candice as they chat with Cale about our tendencies toward selfishness in dating. Plus, what about that one wild date with the woman who enjoyed dining with the dead? To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/ 47:15 1 8 full The First One About Sex When it comes to sex, what are the dynamics at play in Christian dating? Candice and Matt discuss sex from a few different angles — from intimacy to porn to celibacy and more. Also, as promised in the show, here are a few links to resources Candice and Matt have found helpful in understanding the Bible’s teachings about sex.

Sermons:
The Story of Sex: Essence - http://bit.ly/2J5hvKu
The Story of Sex: Ethics - http://bit.ly/2kFZMPy
The Exclusive Paul - http://bit.ly/2suLynX

Book:
Loveology by John Mark Comer - http://bit.ly/loveologybook

(P.S. Sorry for the sirens in the background. Just a little proof we live in a big city.)

To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/

]]> Thu, 31 May 2018 20:42:00 -0700 FDAAF239-DC5A-4F1D-8724-8A39E5832C23 When it comes to sex, what are the dynamics at play in Christian dating? Candice and Matt discuss sex from a few different angles — from intimacy to porn to celibacy and more. Also, as promised in the show, here are a few links to resources Candice and Matt have found helpful in understanding the Bible’s teachings about sex. Sermons: The Story of Sex: Essence - http://bit.ly/2J5hvKu The Story of Sex: Ethics - http://bit.ly/2kFZMPy The Exclusive Paul - http://bit.ly/2suLynX Book: Loveology by John Mark Comer - http://bit.ly/loveologybook (P.S. Sorry for the sirens in the background. Just a little proof we live in a big city.) To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/ 51:28 1 7 full The Breakup When the breakup happens, where do we go next? Candice and Matt talk about breakups — in the midst of the conversation and in the aftermath. There's hope in knowing that God is always near to the brokenhearted.

To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/

]]> Wed, 16 May 2018 19:55:00 -0700 B2BE16DA-FA6C-4829-89FE-23BC1E32C999 When the breakup happens, where do we go next? Candice and Matt talk about breakups — in the midst of the conversation and in the aftermath. There's hope in knowing that God is always near to the brokenhearted. To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/ 51:50 1 6 full The Mess What do you do when messy, broken stuff comes up in a dating relationship? Is it worth it to keep going? Candice and Matt talk about the brokenness that inevitably surfaces in every relationship, and how the good news of Jesus empowers us to persevere and grow through it all.

To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/

]]> Wed, 18 Apr 2018 22:17:00 -0700 C3BFEB6C-6979-4D6C-88A8-C2F72E505534 What do you do when messy, broken stuff comes up in a dating relationship? Is it worth it to keep going? Candice and Matt talk about the brokenness that inevitably surfaces in every relationship, and how the good news of Jesus empowers us to persevere and grow through it all. To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/ 32:51 1 5 full The List What's on your list for the person you're looking for? What's a core item, what's a preference, and how can you know the difference? Candice and Matt talk about ways that lists can be helpful (or unhelpful) and also the Gospel truths that empower us to make wise, healthy choices.

To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/

]]> Thu, 12 Apr 2018 22:49:00 -0700 414DA508-C1EA-45FC-BCA5-A2B781AE35CD What's on your list for the person you're looking for? What's a core item, what's a preference, and how can you know the difference? Candice and Matt talk about ways that lists can be helpful (or unhelpful) and also the Gospel truths that empower us to make wise, healthy choices. To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/ 34:10 1 4 full The Dream Growing up, did you have a dream about marriage? Candice and Matt discuss the various ideas we gather about romance and how they impact our approach to dating. What do we do when our dreams aren't fulfilled? And what does it look like to audaciously hold on to a dream anyway?

To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/

]]> Wed, 04 Apr 2018 20:18:29 -0700 96A84AA0-537C-4402-A108-D69E8F0F6A17 Growing up, did you have a dream about marriage? Candice and Matt discuss the various ideas we gather about romance and how they impact our approach to dating. What do we do when our dreams aren't fulfilled? And what does it look like to audaciously hold on to a dream anyway? To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit https://www.dateology.org/ 33:09 1 3 full The Ask What are the best ways ask someone out, and when is the right time? Candice and Matt discuss their experiences and also some important factors to consider when asking someone out (or saying yes). What might it be like if we all had the courage and freedom to just make the ask?

To learn more about Dateology and the hosts, visit https://www.dateology.org/

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]]> Thu, 29 Mar 2018 08:12:00 -0700 D76EE36E-9F4E-4AF0-B495-7110B270536B What are the best ways ask someone out, and when is the right time? Candice and Matt discuss their experiences and also some important factors to consider when asking someone out (or saying yes). What might it be like if we all had the courage and freedom to just make the ask? To learn more about Dateology and the hosts, visit https://www.dateology.org/ Follow us on social media: https://www.instagram.com/dateology_pdcst/ https://twitter.com/dateology_pdcst 26:29 1 2 full The Pursuit What does it mean to pursue someone, and what's it like to be pursued? Candice and Matt share their experiences and thoughts on the kind of power dynamic that the pursuer/pursuee framework creates. Is there a different way that leads to deeper freedom, love, and companionship?

To learn more about Dateology and the hosts, visit https://www.dateology.org/

]]> Wed, 21 Mar 2018 20:20:00 -0700 996444FE-7F78-45E0-965B-314ACD6F5F93 What does it mean to pursue someone, and what's it like to be pursued? Candice and Matt share their experiences and thoughts on the kind of power dynamic that the pursuer/pursuee framework creates. Is there a different way that leads to deeper freedom, love, and companionship? To learn more about Dateology and the hosts, visit https://www.dateology.org/ 25:42 1 1 full The Intro Glad to have you! Get a glimpse of what the show will be like, topics we'll cover, and learn about the hosts, Candice and Matt.

To hear more about the show and the hosts, visit https://www.dateology.org/

]]> Thu, 15 Mar 2018 20:53:00 -0700 3E8842D9-6725-464A-814A-84F9BB6F4EA5 Glad to have you! Get a glimpse of what the show will be like, topics we'll cover, and learn about the hosts, Candice and Matt. To hear more about the show and the hosts, visit https://www.dateology.org/ 19:00 1 0 full