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		<title>Did Watching Jason Mantzoukas on Taskmaster Change Which Men I Want to Date? Maybe.</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve always found the concept of developing crushes on random famous people to be one of the funniest and yet vaguely mortifying things we as human beings do. According to]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>The Power of Pleasure: How Joy Sustains Us in Uncertain Times</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jun 2025 16:56:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[When a crisis strikes the natural response is to drop everything and tend to the emergency at hand. This makes sense. It would be weird, not to mention extremely dangerous,]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Struggling to talk about mental health? Check out my book recs!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Oct 2023 13:27:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hey folks! So I think we all know that talking about mental health can be tough. That&#8217;s why I&#8217;m very excited to announce that I have teamed up with Shepherd]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Apr 2023 20:47:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hey folks! As you may know, my latest book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family came out at the beginning of March and I&#8217;ve been all]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>IN IT TOGETHER Giveaway!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Mar 2023 16:16:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hey folks! My publishers over at Thornapple Press are kindly giving away 10 paperback copies of my new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family. This exciting]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>IN IT TOGETHER is Available for Preorder!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Oct 2022 09:34:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Books turn me on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Depression Introversion Sensitivity Empathy & Stuff]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s a big day, folks! My second book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family is available for preorder! The book will be published by Thornapple Press]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>2021 was a LOT! Let&#8217;s talk sex, overwhelm, and depression- FREE Event!</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jan 2022 17:44:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>4 Dating App Lessons From My Past to Help Your Dating App Future</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Oct 2021 15:38:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Dating Like a Mofo]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Looking around on social media, it looks like a lot of my vaccinated friends are getting ready to head back into the dating world. Personally, I&#8217;m in no shape to]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Depression and Community Support Interview</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Sep 2021 12:17:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[My new book, In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Family, and Friends, is trucking along and while it was largely inspired by the interviews I did for the old]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Now is Not the Time: Taking Space to Heal (Even When My Brain Objects)</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Sep 2021 19:24:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been feeling it again lately, the pull, the pressure, the anxiety, the voice in my head that says &#8220;do more!&#8221; &#8220;be more!&#8221; &#8220;you are never going to achieve anything]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2021 05:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Note: Fun Factory has been purchased by another toy company (which historically is never a good sign). It was a very sad moment for all of us who know and]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Aug 2021 11:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Fun fact: when I was in college working towards my theatre degree with a concentration in directing one of my favorite professors told us, in the context of “there are]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Get Cool Stuff When You Support me on Patreon!</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2021 00:25:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Want to support my work and score some fun stuff? Support me on Patreon! Hey folks! So, if you&#8217;ve been following me here for a while, you may have noticed]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>3 Ways To Use The Internet As Your Sexual Communication Wingman</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2021 11:10:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I recently talked to my partner about how, once you’ve lived in sex positive world for a while, you start to forget that not everyone is comfortable talking openly about]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Ergonomic Vibrators: What They Are and Why It Matters</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jul 2021 14:12:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Quick! Picture a vibrator! Now describe it. I&#8217;ll bet you thought of words like sleek, sexy, curved, or maybe even modern but how about ergonomic? Ergonomic might not be the]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Seriously, Stop Gendering Sex Toys</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jun 2021 15:01:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[One of my favorite pieces of feedback I have ever gotten after teaching came from a student in a class I taught during the University of Tennessee&#8217;s Sex Week in]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Seriously, Don’t Yuck Each Other’s Yums</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
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					<description><![CDATA[Don’t yuck my yum. If you have spent any time in the sex positive world, odds are you have heard some variation of this phrase. The exact wording may vary]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Here&#8217;s The Thing About &#8220;Porn Sex&#8221; vs &#8220;Real Sex&#8221;</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/realsex/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Apr 2021 19:52:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[There are some headlines that come up over and over again in sex world and one that makes my skin crawl is &#8220;The Difference Between Porn Sex and Real Sex&#8221;]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Valentines Day in the Time of Covid-19</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2021 23:37:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Getting Off Without Going Broke]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lube: the real nectar of the gods]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Even though it feels like we have been living through this pandemic for roughly 23 years, this time last year most of us in the U.S. were still going about]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Want to Have a Sex Toy Sale? Here&#8217;s How I Did It!</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2020 19:18:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Cool ideas]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[When you write about sex, people send you sex toys. Seriously. Even if you don&#8217;t ask for them (YMMV on that). I know I started receiving them before I knew]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>When Crisis Brings Clarity: The Unexpected Way 2020 Changed My Life</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2020 16:47:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Care and Feeding of JoEllen]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[I recently had a conversation with a reader in which he stated &#8220;crisis can bring clarity&#8221; and that hit me hard. I think a lot of us have been living]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>JoEllen&#8217;s Big Sexy Yard Sale</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2020 14:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Look at this thing!]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Looking for my Big, Sexy Yard Sale! Click here!]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Panic! Keeping It Casual Can Be Healthy</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2020 15:23:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Remember when (seemingly not too long ago) the idea of casual sex was kind of taboo? For a while it seemed like everything from adult dating sites to friends with]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>You&#8217;re Still You: Remembering sexuality is not dictated by how much sex you are having</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2020 19:23:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[So, here we are in month 5 (FIVE!) of quarantine and I want to talk to you about something I&#8217;ve seen a bunch of folks struggling with online: the feeling]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Make Your Home A Sexy Haven (without buying stuff)</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2020 00:22:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Getting Off Without Going Broke]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Making the World a Sexier Place]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Over the years I&#8217;ve talked a lot about the proliferation of toys and other sex paraphernalia that fill my home but what I&#8217;ve never discussed is how, in spite of]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Welcome to my Lube Buffet- The (many) Lubricants on my Nightstand</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2020 21:28:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Look at this thing!]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lube: the real nectar of the gods]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[A couple of months ago, in the midst of an interview about sex and depression, I referenced the &#8220;buffet of lubes&#8221; on my nightstand. I wasn&#8217;t exaggerating. At any given]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Virtual Events with JoEllen Notte</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2020 23:45:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I may not be coming to your town any time soon but that doesn’t mean you can’t see me! I’m doing virtual events and I couldn’t be more excited about]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Comfort Media: 12 Series &#038; 1 Podcast to Soothe Your Socially Isolated Mind</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2020 18:55:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Screwing Around]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Being good to each other]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Care and Feeding of JoEllen]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Look at this thing!]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hey folks! So I know a lot of us are isolating at home right now and it&#8217;s a scary time so a lot of us are probably anxious and scared]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>The Monster Under the Bed Tour is POSTPONED</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/the-monster-under-the-bed-tour-is-postponed/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2020 22:09:21 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[General Hotness]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[MY BOOK TOUR HAS BEEN POSTPONED So, it seems I jumped the gun a bit in announcing my tour yesterday. In the last 24 hours several venues have cancelled and]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Win A Copy of The Monster Under the Bed!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/monstergiveaway/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Feb 2020 21:45:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Giveaways]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[sex and depression]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[As you may already know (because I&#8217;ve been talking about it INCESSANTLY) my book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression, and the Conversations We Aren&#8217;t Having is coming out]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>4 Tips for Making Sexual New Year&#8217;s Resolutions</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/resolutions/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Jan 2020 23:49:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Being Cool With The Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Doing The Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Making the World a Sexier Place]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[2020 upon us and over the course of the first week of the year, I&#8217;ve seen a lot of folks making new years resolutions that are decidedly sexual. Whether declaring]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>2019 Best of Bedhead: Posts, Podcasts, Projects and More!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/bestof2019/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Dec 2019 23:51:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deep Breaths & Big Feels]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Depression Introversion Sensitivity Empathy & Stuff]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Well, here we are, it’s time once again for my annual “Best of” list and, as has become the tradition with said list, my annual look at what I did]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>JoEllen&#8217;s 2019 Favorite Things</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/2019faves/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Dec 2019 19:50:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Toys for Grown Ups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Actually innovative]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[favorites]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Look at this thing!]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lube: the real nectar of the gods]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Making the World a Sexier Place]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Wands are everything]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[It’s that time of year again, time for my Favorite Things! I always think of my favorite things list as something that was, for a long time, just a list of products until]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Thank You for Supporting my Indiegogo! (Also, here&#8217;s where you can get my book now!)</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/thankyou/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Dec 2019 21:37:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[General Hotness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex and Depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Depression Introversion Sensitivity Empathy & Stuff]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Look at this thing!]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex and depression]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[So, if you have been following me on social media, you probably already know that I have spent the last month frantically promoting an Indiegogo campaign/pre-sale event to help fund]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>To Get The Sex You Want Online, Read The Damn Room</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/room/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Nov 2019 22:15:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Gettin' Riled Up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Being good to each other]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Whether you are looking for love or just sex, the internet can be a confusing place with ads telling you to have an affair or to sign up and exclusively]]></description>
		
		
		
		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">18439</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>There is No &#8220;Best&#8221; Sex Toy</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/no/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Nov 2019 19:20:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Gettin' Riled Up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Toys for Grown Ups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love Your Junk]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s November right now but December is fast approaching. In the world of &#8220;people who talk about sex&#8221; December is when you start to see a bunch of lists featuring]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Get My Book Early (plus cool perks!) AND Support My Tour on Indiegogo!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/indiegogo/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Nov 2019 14:36:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Big news, folks! The LONG wait is FINALLY over (almost)! I&#8217;ve launched an Indiegogo campaign to fund next year&#8217;s book tour and supporters will get their copies of The Monster]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>When a Sex Writer Doesn&#8217;t Want to Have Sex or Write</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/writer/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Nov 2019 16:50:31 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deep Breaths & Big Feels]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[My body is falling apart]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=18336</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[CW: depression, anxiety, discussion of body image/weight I am a sex writer. That&#8217;s my profession. Sure, I tend to present it as part of a list: &#8220;Sex Writer, Educator, Mental]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Relieve Sinus Pain &#038; Pressure with a  Bullet Vibe!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/sinus/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Oct 2019 20:22:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Body Basics & Beyond]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Toys for Grown Ups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Learning Stuff]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=18309</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[As we come up on another cold and flu season I find myself sharing a piece of advice that I have shared just about yearly for probably the last 5]]></description>
		
		
		
		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">18309</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>The Monster Under the Bed is Coming! Help Spread the Sex &#038; Depression Word!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/spread/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Sep 2019 20:54:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex and Depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deep Breaths & Big Feels]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex and depression]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[It feels like we&#8217;ve all been waiting for YEARS for my book (mostly because we have!) but it&#8217;s coming on March 27, 2020! Okay, sure, the release date is still]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>7 Years of Bedhead: A Different Kind of Anniversary</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/7years/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jul 2019 16:30:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[care]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Care and Feeding of JoEllen]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deep Breaths & Big Feels]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[My body is falling apart]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[On July 4th The Redhead Bedhead had its 7th anniversary. In years past I have marked this anniversary with tons of pictures, emotional stories, cool website additions, and, as was the]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>The Problem(s) With &#8220;Men&#8217;s Sex Toys&#8221;</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/problem-mens-sex-toys/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Apr 2019 23:41:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Gettin' Riled Up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sponsored]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[It seems like not very long ago that I wrote a two-part series on the ridiculous practice of gendering sex toys but here we are again. Why? Because this particular]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>GAME OF THRONES! Now that I have your attention, dildo!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/got/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Apr 2019 15:57:57 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[I have to come clean about a couple of things as we head into discussing the Realm Drago Lock on Dragon Sword Dildo Handle and Draken Lock On Fantasy Dragon Dildo. I]]></description>
		
		
		
		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">17680</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>Sex Toy Storage That (Mostly) Doesn&#8217;t Involve Hiding</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/storage/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Apr 2019 23:09:49 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[General Hotness]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[I am of the mind that one can never have too much sex toy education and as you may already know if you&#8217;ve been following me for any amount of]]></description>
		
		
		
		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">17618</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>Be The First To Know When My Book is Available!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/signup/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Apr 2019 02:02:07 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Sex and Depression]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Sign up here to be notified when The Monster Under The Bed is available! * indicates required Email Address *]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>FemmeFunn Diamond Wand: Sometimes Paying No Attention Works Out</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/femmefunn/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2019 23:42:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sponsored]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sponsored review]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Wands are everything]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Well, it looks like a pattern is forming and no one is more surprised than me! For the second time in two months I received a product for review, looked]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>My House Looks Like The One In Netflix&#8217;s Sex Education</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/sexeducation/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2019 17:23:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Have you seen Sex Education on Netflix yet? It is absolutely delightful and incredibly well done.Featuring, as its main character, Otis, the teenage son of a sex therapist (played beautifully by]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Okay, So Let&#8217;s Talk About Exercise &#038; Depression</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/exercise/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Feb 2019 02:37:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Gettin' Riled Up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex and Depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Depression Introversion Sensitivity Empathy & Stuff]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[A couple weeks back my Google Alerts and Twitter feed started lighting up with the news that &#8220;Physical Activity Can Reduce Risk of Depression&#8221; which, as it spread to different]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Mimic Plus Vibrator: The First Toy to Pleasantly Surprise me in YEARS</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/mimicplus/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jan 2019 00:31:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Note: The Clandestine Mimic seems to have been discontinued.  I&#8217;m going to be 100% honest with you: I had no interest in reviewing the Mimic Plus. I have kept an]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>The One Where I Get A Publisher</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/publisher/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jan 2019 17:46:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[The Monster Under The Bed]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[So, with the hubbub of the holidays and with my traditional post-holiday illness striking (this year I was impressive, I got sick TWICE in two weeks!) I have neglected to]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>PalmPower Plug &#038; Play Corded Rechargeable Wand</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/palmpower-plug-play-corded-rechargeable-wand/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Dec 2018 02:11:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sponsored]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Wands are everything]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Today&#8217;s review is going to be a bit strange (okay, I&#8217;m aware that my &#8220;reviews&#8221; veered away from standard review fare years ago but this one is a bit extra-special).]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>2018 Best of Bedhead: Posts, Podcasts, Appearances &#038; More!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/2018-best-of-bedhead-posts-podcasts-appearances-more/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Dec 2018 19:52:56 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[conferences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Depression Introversion Sensitivity Empathy & Stuff]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Feeling Ways About Stuff]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Here's the thing...]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Learning Stuff]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Professionaling like a professional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex and depression]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Well, here we are, it&#8217;s time once again for my annual &#8220;Best of&#8221; list and, as has become the tradition with said list, my annual look at what I did]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>JoEllen’s 2018 Favorite Things</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/joellens-2018-favorite-things/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Dec 2018 21:01:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Toys for Grown Ups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Feeling Ways About Stuff]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lube: the real nectar of the gods]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Making the World a Sexier Place]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Wands are everything]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[It’s that time of year again, time for my Favorite Things! I always think of my favorite things list as something that was, for a long time, a list of products until I (in my]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Busting Sexual Health Stigma with STDCheck.com!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/stdcheck/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Dec 2018 03:19:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Being Cool With The Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sponsored]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[STD testing. We all know it&#8217;s important and that we should do it regularly but it&#8217;s a hard thing to get super-excited about. However, last month I had an experience]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Killing The Mood: My Favorite Not-At-All-Sexy Uses For Sex Products</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/uses/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Nov 2018 00:57:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Toys for Grown Ups]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[In my years writing about sex I have dealt with so many products and my relationship with those products has grown and evolved. From the very beginning when I was]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Aphrodite and my hunt for a wand that does other cool stuff</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/aphrodite/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Nov 2018 05:08:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Today I&#8217;m talking about the Aphrodite Infrared Rechargeable Massager but as has become my habit of late, I&#8217;m going to tell you a bit about my relationship to products of]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>So, Where&#8217;s This Book? Process, Progress, &#038; a Preview of The Monster Under The Bed</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/process/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Oct 2018 04:49:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Sex and Depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deep Breaths & Big Feels]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[writing amirite?]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[&#8220;You must be done with your book by now!&#8221; &#8220;When is the book coming out?&#8221; &#8220;So, where is this book?&#8221; Now that I am YEARS into the process of writing]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>O-Wand: Because I MUST Try ALL the Wands</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/o-wand/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Oct 2018 03:32:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[As I prepared to write about the O-Wand, I remembered that a couple of years ago  I, driven by the realization that none of the MANY sex toys sent my]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>The Evolution of Online Sex Shopping</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/evolution/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Oct 2018 01:01:04 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Recently I had to update/delete a ton of links on my site because I&#8217;ve now been at this long enough for a bunch of stuff I love to have been]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Guest Post: I Am Not the Sex Writer You Think I Am by Steph Auteri</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/stephauteri/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Oct 2018 17:08:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Guest Post]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Look at this thing!]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hey folks!   This week I have something very special for you. Last month I had the pleasure of meeting Steph Auteri on my trip back East and, frankly, she&#8217;s]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>8 Things I&#8217;m Loving (Or Just Crushing On) Right Now</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/crushing/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Sep 2018 02:35:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Toys for Grown Ups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Look at this thing!]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lube: the real nectar of the gods]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[When you write about sex, new products come into your life all the time! Some make an impression and some&#8230; don&#8217;t. This summer I&#8217;ve come across some very cool stuff,]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Virtual Reality (VR) Porn: Because we live in the future!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/virtualreality/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Sep 2018 19:59:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[News To Me]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[I don’t know about you guys but I sometimes blurt out “It’s 2018! How do we not have teleportation/jet packs/time travel etc yet?!” Basically I feel like movies and books]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>The Ersties Podcast: Enjoyable Sex Ed For Your Ears</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/ersties/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Sep 2018 23:03:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Today I&#8217;m talking about The Ersties Podcast. There&#8217;s a lot going on here, so I&#8217;ll get right down to the 5 Ws on this fabulous, piece of fun and accessible sex]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Hitting The Books: My Favorite Recent Reads (&#038; A Bonus!)</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/hitting-the-books-my-favorite-recent-reads-a-bonus/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2018 02:11:33 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Books turn me on]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[One of my favorite discoveries of the last couple of years is the ability to check audiobooks out of my local library using an app on my phone. I used]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Nonmonogamy, Sex Writing, and My Family: Reflecting on Love, Luck, &#038; Acceptance</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/nonmonogamy-sex-writing-and-my-family-reflecting-on-love-luck-acceptance/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2018 23:38:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Being good to each other]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Feeling Ways About Stuff]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[As you read this I am en route to a wedding in Pennsylvania. It&#8217;s the wedding of a family member and thus I will be seeing a lot of family,]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Touch Lubricant Warming System &#038; The Long Evolution of My Relationship With Lube</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/touch-lubricant-warming-system-the-long-evolution-of-my-relationship-with-lube/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Aug 2018 03:30:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Actually innovative]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love Your Junk]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lube: the real nectar of the gods]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been aware of the Touch Lubricant Warming System for quite some time and I&#8217;ll admit, I was skeptical (you&#8217;ll find out why in a minute) but then, on my]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Cute Brand Alert: Überrime Handmade Silicone</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/cute-brand-alert-uberrime-handmade-silicone/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Aug 2018 02:05:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Toys for Grown Ups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Look at this thing!]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[what up g-spot?]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[I have to be honest, I&#8217;m something of a dildo materialist. I don&#8217;t use dildos much at all but when I see pretty/ interesting ones, I want them. Seriously, I]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>There is No Reason to Gender Sex Toys Part 2: No, It won&#8217;t sound &#8220;weird&#8221;, &#8220;awkward&#8221;, or &#8220;confusing</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/no-reason-to-gender-2/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2018 03:22:08 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Gettin' Riled Up]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Be Cool]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Welcome to part 2 of my series &#8220;There is No Reason to Gender Sex Toys&#8221;. Last week we talked a bit about some of the reasons people apply gendered language]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>There is No Reason to Gender Sex Toys Part 1: Seriously, It&#8217;s completely unnecessary</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/no-reason-to-gender-1/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Aug 2018 02:49:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[One of my favorite pieces of feedback I have ever gotten after teaching came from a student in a class I taught during the University of Tennessee&#8217;s Sex Week in]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Le Wand Petite: Itsy Bitsy Teenie Weenie High-Powered Wand Machinie</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/le-wand-petite-review/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Aug 2018 17:05:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[First off, apologies for the title. I just couldn&#8217;t resist.  Now on to the Le Wand Petite. I&#8217;ve had quite the journey with Le Wand. We met and I seriously]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Celebrating 6 Years of The Redhead Bedhead With a New Site Addition</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/6-years-of-the-redhead-bedhead/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jul 2018 03:04:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[On July 4th The Redhead Bedhead had its 6th anniversary. These last 6 years have flown by and I can&#8217;t believe how much time has passed.  Now, I could say a]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>5 Tips For Writing When Your Brain Doesn&#8217;t Want To</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/5-tips-for-writing-when-your-brain-doesnt-want-to/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jun 2018 04:34:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[My body is falling apart]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[I am a writer, a writer writes. In my case however, I am also someone with a history of depression, someone with a diagnosis of Hashimoto&#8217;s disease, and someone who]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Review: Wildfire All Over Pleasure Oils</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/wildfire/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 May 2018 03:34:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[To be honest, I don&#8217;t really believe in aphrodisiacs. I think the idea that a substance would get you all ready for sex to be, at best, problematic. That said,]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Avant Pride: Let&#8217;s Talk About Gorgeous AFFORDABLE Silicone</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/avant/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 May 2018 04:12:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[I first got a look at Blush Novelties&#8217; Avant line of silicone dildos last January at ANME and I&#8217;ll admit, I was smitten. I restrained myself though as I tend]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Waking The Monster: The Monster Under The Bed Hits Vancouver</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/waking-the-monster-under-the-bed/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Apr 2018 16:18:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[On Saturday April 7th, I had the pleasure of once again presenting on sex and depression. This time I teamed up with the truly wonderful Shadeen Francis, MFT to present]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Check Out My Newest Sex and Depression Resource!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/check-newest-sex-and-depression-resource/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Apr 2018 04:08:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Last weekend I, once again, had the pleasure of publicly talking about sex and depression!  &#8220;Facing The Monster Under The Bed: Navigating Sex and Relationships While Coping With Depression&#8221; (more on]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>The NEW Will Work For Sponsorship Online Class is HERE!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/will-work-for-sponsorship-is-here/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Apr 2018 02:40:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Folks, I’m so excited about today’s news! The new Will Work For Sponsorship is now available on Vimeo! As you may know, I am a huge fan of sponsorship. As far as I’m]]></description>
		
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		<title>I&#8217;m Bringing The Monster Under The Bed To Vancouver, BC!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/monster-under-the-bed-vancouver-bc/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2018 03:15:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In less than two weeks I&#8217;m heading up to Vancouver, BC for the first time. I&#8217;m extremely excited about that for multiple reasons (there&#8217;s a Superhero Sex Shop up there!)]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Review: Sola Sync- Vibrators, Accessibility, and What Makes a &#8220;Wand&#8221;</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/sola-sync-vibrators-accessibility-and-what-makes-a-wand/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/sola-sync-vibrators-accessibility-and-what-makes-a-wand/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Mar 2018 05:19:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Buckle up folks because while this is kind of a review, it&#8217;s also a lot of me having FEELINGS about vibrator terminology. Namely what makes a &#8220;wand&#8221;. Anyway, today we]]></description>
		
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		<title>What Do You Want To Know About Sponsorship?</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/what/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Mar 2018 01:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[The time has come! I&#8217;m bringing back my class Will Work For Sponsorship! It&#8217;s been three years since I recorded the original class and a LOT has happened: I know]]></description>
		
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		<title>And We&#8217;re Back! The Playground Conference Returns (and So Do I!)</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/and-were-back-the-playground-conference-returns-and-so-do-i/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Mar 2018 23:27:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I spent the last weekend of February in Toronto for the Playground Conference and, frankly, it was pretty rad. I attended Playground in 2015 and then the conference took a bit of a hiatus]]></description>
		
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		<title>Win A Le Wand Prize Pack at Playground!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/win-a-le-wand-prize-pack-at-playground/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Feb 2018 05:31:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Giveaways]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[In less than 48 hours I&#8217;ll be heading to Toronto for the exciting return of the Playground Conference! This trip wouldn’t be possible for me without the support of the good folks at Le Wand. Do]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Social Media: Cant Buy The Love</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/social-media-cant-buy-the-love/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Feb 2018 02:43:41 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blogging basics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Here's the thing...]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[In addition to writing and teaching about sex, one of the things I enjoy doing professionally is helping other develop their careers writing and teaching about sex. To this end]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Taking A Closer Look At Le Wand</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/taking-a-closer-look-at-le-wand/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Feb 2018 04:41:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[General Hotness]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[In a couple of weeks I&#8217;ll be heading across the continent for one of my all-time favorite events, the Playground Conference. I&#8217;m excited about the conference itself, the session I&#8217;m doing, the]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Good Sex Shops: The &#8220;How&#8221; Is As Important As The &#8220;What&#8221;</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/good-sex-shops-the-how-is-as-important-as-the-what/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Feb 2018 06:04:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Gettin' Riled Up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Being good to each other]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Here's the thing...]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been just over 5 years since I first declared that good sex shops matter and hit the road to tour North America&#8217;s best adult retail establishments. Over the years I]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Review: The Electro-Whip Neon Wand Attachment</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/review-the-electro-whip-neon-wand-attachment/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Feb 2018 02:45:15 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Toys for Grown Ups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Actually innovative]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sponsored review]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=15501</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Did you all know that I have a bit of a thing for e-stim? Yeah, I do. I think I might have eventually fallen for e-stim and fire play anyway]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>SHUT IT DOWN: Why I (Legit) HATE Valentine&#8217;s Day</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/shut-it-down-why-i-legit-hate-valentines-day/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Jan 2018 06:02:57 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Feeling Ways About Stuff]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=15405</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[A while back I shared a tweet about an idea that I still think is pretty good I once saw an article proposing the movement of Christmas to late February]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>The Playground Conference is Back and I Can&#8217;t Wait!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/the-playground-conference-is-back-and-i-cant-wait/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Jan 2018 06:16:52 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[conferences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex geeks in the wild]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Wands are everything]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[In less than a month I’ll be packing my bags and heading to Toronto for the exciting return of the Playground Conference! Along with Stephen Biggs, I’ll be presenting Keep Giving a]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Having Sex In Public, Comfort, and Letting Go of &#8220;Should&#8221;</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/having-sex-in-public-comfort-and-letting-go-of-should/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jan 2018 02:36:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Feeling Ways About Stuff]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=15389</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[I have a long distance partner who I see a couple of times a year and with whom I have a lovely ongoing email correspondence. One feature of this is, perhaps obviously,]]></description>
		
		
		
		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">15389</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>Realistic Sex Dolls: Because, obviously this is the thing they figured out</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/realistic-sex-dolls/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jan 2018 06:05:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Toys for Grown Ups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Penis Stuff]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=15367</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[I don’t know about you folks but I frequently blurt out “It’s 2018! How do we not have teleportation/jet packs/time travel etc yet?!” Basically I feel like movies and books sold]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Review: Fondlove Vibrating Portable Massager</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/review-fondlove-vibrating-portable-massager/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/review-fondlove-vibrating-portable-massager/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jan 2018 04:06:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=15320</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[If there&#8217;s anything we know about me when it comes to toys it&#8217;s that I love wands. Seriously, can&#8217;t get enough of them. Way back at the beginning of 2015 I]]></description>
		
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		<title>Help Ducky DooLittle Pay Her Cancer Care Bills</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/help-ducky-doolittle-pay-cancer-care-bills/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/help-ducky-doolittle-pay-cancer-care-bills/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Dec 2017 18:41:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Gettin' Riled Up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Being good to each other]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Folks, Ducky Doolittle is a sex educator (and friend) who I love and admire greatly. In 2017 she battled cancer and now, due to the resulting medical debt, she needs]]></description>
		
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		<title>2017 Best of Bedhead: Posts, Podcasts, Appearances &#038; More!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/2017-best-of-bedhead-posts-podcasts-appearances-more/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/2017-best-of-bedhead-posts-podcasts-appearances-more/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Dec 2017 18:41:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Dating Like a Mofo]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deep Breaths & Big Feels]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Depression Introversion Sensitivity Empathy & Stuff]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Doing The Sex]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Here's the thing...]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Learning Stuff]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Making the World a Sexier Place]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Porn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Professionaling like a professional]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex and depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex Ed is a human right]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[The Monster Under The Bed]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Welcome to my fifth annual Best of Bedhead post! I cannot believe it&#8217;s my fifth time doing this! For 3 years this was pretty straightforward: I would set out to]]></description>
		
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		<title>JoEllen’s 2017 Favorite Things</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/joellens-2017-favorite-things/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Dec 2017 21:02:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Toys for Grown Ups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Feeling Ways About Stuff]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Making the World a Sexier Place]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s that time of year again, time for my Favorite Things! Last year I embraced the shift away from a favorite things list that was always a list of products and LOVED how it turned out.]]></description>
		
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		<title>Sex of the Future- From Condoms to Sex Dolls, We&#8217;ve Gone High Tech</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/sex-future-condoms-sex-dolls-weve-gone-high-tech/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/sex-future-condoms-sex-dolls-weve-gone-high-tech/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Dec 2017 06:53:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Learning Stuff]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[I don&#8217;t know about you guys but I frequently blurt out &#8220;It&#8217;s 2014! How do we not have teleportation/jet packs/time travel etc yet?!&#8221; Basically I feel like movies and books]]></description>
		
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		<title>Sistalk Master Godzilla: The Time I Reviewed A Toy Because it Was Called Godzilla</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/sistalk-master-gozilla-remote-vibrator-and-kegel-exerciser/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/sistalk-master-gozilla-remote-vibrator-and-kegel-exerciser/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Dec 2017 16:51:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[When it comes to the Sistalk Master Godzilla I have good news and I have bad news: The good news: when Sistalk approached me to review a small remote-operated vibrator]]></description>
		
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		<title>Business of Blogging About Sex Black Friday Sale! Save 20%!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/business-of-blogging-about-sex-black-friday-sale-save-20/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Nov 2017 14:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[&#160; This Black Friday save big and learn to be a badass blogger from me &#38; Epiphora! 20% off all Business of Blogging About Sex Independent Study coursework* through 11/30! &#160; Use code]]></description>
		
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		<title>My Nine Favorite Things About the Doxy Number 3</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/favorite-things-about-the-doxy-number-3/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Oct 2017 03:07:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Toys for Grown Ups]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[At last it&#8217;s here! The long-awaited Doxy Number 3, the new small wand from the wonderful folks at Doxy, makers of some of the best wand vibrators on earth. Okay,]]></description>
		
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		<title>Le Wand: The Time I Had a Rom-Com Relationship With a Wand</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/le-wand-time-rom-com-relationship-wand/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/le-wand-time-rom-com-relationship-wand/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Sep 2017 14:25:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[First things first, I own 3 Le Wands&#8211; two from the folks at Peepshow Toys and one from the folks at Le Wand themselves. That&#8217;s a lot of one toy]]></description>
		
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		<title>The Toys I Actually Use or &#8220;Hey look, wands!&#8221;</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/the-toys-i-actually-use-or-hey-look-wands/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Sep 2017 21:34:02 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Toys for Grown Ups]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[After five years as a sex writer, even though I don&#8217;t focus on toy reviewing, I&#8217;ve amassed quite a collection of sex toys. This often leads folks to make comments]]></description>
		
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		<title>Getting Really, Really Real About My Own Depression</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/getting-really-really-real-depression/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Sep 2017 03:45:42 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex and Depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Care and Feeding of JoEllen]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deep Breaths & Big Feels]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Depression Introversion Sensitivity Empathy & Stuff]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex and depression]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[For the last couple of years I&#8217;ve been doing a lot of writing about depression&#8211; how it can affect people, how to navigate it, ending the stigma around it&#8230; I]]></description>
		
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		<title>Seriously, Don&#8217;t Yuck Each Other&#8217;s Yums</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/dont-yuck-each-others-yums/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Aug 2017 15:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Being Cool With The Sex]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Don&#8217;t yuck my yum. If you have spent any time in the sex positive world, odds are you have heard some variation of this phrase. The exact wording may vary]]></description>
		
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		<title>Here&#8217;s The Thing About &#8220;Porn Sex&#8221; vs &#8220;Real Sex&#8221;</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/heres-the-thing-about-porn-sex/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Jul 2017 14:36:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Being Cool With The Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Feeling Ways About Stuff]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[There are some headlines that come up over and over again in sex world and one that makes my skin crawl is &#8220;The Difference Between Porn Sex and Real Sex&#8221;]]></description>
		
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		<title>Getting Ready For Woodhull&#8217;s Sexual Freedom Summit!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/getting-ready-for-woodhulls-sexual-freedom-summit/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Jul 2017 20:55:31 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[conferences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Depression Introversion Sensitivity Empathy & Stuff]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[In less than 3 weeks I’ll be packing my bags and heading clear across the country to Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit. I love this event so much (seriously, it was on my]]></description>
		
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		<title>We Get to Be Where We Are: My Trip to the Guelph Sexuality Conference</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/we-get-to-be-where-we-are-my-trip-to-the-guelph-sexuality-conference/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/we-get-to-be-where-we-are-my-trip-to-the-guelph-sexuality-conference/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Jul 2017 19:53:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Deep Breaths & Big Feels]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Depression Introversion Sensitivity Empathy & Stuff]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[So, as you may know, a couple of weeks back I attended the Guelph Sexuality Conference. I sat down today to write the traditional &#8220;I attended a wonderful conference, had]]></description>
		
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		<title>Announcing the Amplified Voices Sex Blogger Scholarship</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/announcing-the-amplified-voices-sex-blogger-scholarship/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Jul 2017 14:39:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Free stuff]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Look at this thing!]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=14172</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Hey folks, did you know that I, along with Epiphora, teach a class called The Business of Blogging About Sex that teaches aspiring bloggers the skills they need to succeed online? And]]></description>
		
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		<title>Dildos, Depression,Touring, and Teaching: 5 Years of The Redhead Bedhead</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/5-years-of-the-redhead-bedhead/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/5-years-of-the-redhead-bedhead/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Jul 2017 17:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deep Breaths & Big Feels]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=14107</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[As impossible as it is for me to believe my baby, The Redhead Bedhead turned 5 on July 4, 2017. If we want to get technical, my first post didn&#8217;t]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">14107</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>3 Things Too Many People STILL Don&#8217;t Know About Lube</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/3-things-about-lube/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/3-things-about-lube/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jun 2017 14:03:11 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lube: the real nectar of the gods]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=14023</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Sex educators LOVE lube! Seriously, my people tend to talk about it a lot. After 5 years in this industry, there are still a couple of things I&#8217;m surprised to]]></description>
		
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		<title>When It Comes To Sex, You&#8217;re Doing Great!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/when-it-comes-to-sex-youre-doing-great/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/when-it-comes-to-sex-youre-doing-great/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jun 2017 14:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Being Cool With The Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Gettin' Riled Up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Be Cool]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Being good to each other]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Feeling Ways About Stuff]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Here's the thing...]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=14063</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[When I started writing about sex one of my big motivations was my lifelong belief that I was doing it wrong. After a coupe of months of writing I realized]]></description>
		
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		<title>5 Reasons To Take A Peep At Peepshow Toys</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/reasons-to-take-a-peep-at-peepshow-toys/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jun 2017 15:40:41 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Toys for Grown Ups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Look at this thing!]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[People who are doing awesome things]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[When I teach about working with sponsors I always tell folks to work with companies they would say nice things about in regular conversations- in other words, companies they actually like-]]></description>
		
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		<title>I&#8217;m Heading to the Guelph Sexuality Conference</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/im-heading-to-the-guelph-sexuality-conference/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/im-heading-to-the-guelph-sexuality-conference/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jun 2017 14:28:58 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[In less than a month I’ll be packing my bags and heading to Canada for the Guelph Sexuality Conference. If you don’t know what that is, go check it out. The]]></description>
		
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		<title>Want to be a Sex Blogger? DO IT! My Online Class is Back!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/want-to-be-a-sex-blogger/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 May 2017 14:22:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=13957</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Do you want to be a sex blogger? Are you already actively blogging and ready to step up your game? Could you use something to help you set up your site,]]></description>
		
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		<title>Stop Calling These Things &#8220;Porn For Women&#8221; (Or Anyone)</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/stop-calling-things-porn-for-women-or/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/stop-calling-things-porn-for-women-or/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 May 2017 14:40:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Gettin' Riled Up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Acting like women are people]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Porn]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=13933</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Heads up: because I&#8217;m taking on an inherently gendered phrase (porn for women), today&#8217;s post is a smorgasbord of gendered language and references assumptions that are frequently made along the]]></description>
		
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		<title>Thanks to SheVibe, I Grew Up To Be Wonder Woman!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/thanks-to-shevibe-i-grew-up-to-be-wonder-woman/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/thanks-to-shevibe-i-grew-up-to-be-wonder-woman/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2017 14:57:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deep Breaths & Big Feels]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=13842</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[What do you want to be when you grow up? That age-old question that, frankly, took me until my mid-thirties to figure out for real, has always played a starring]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">13842</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>To Get The Sex You Want Online, Read The Damn Room</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/read-the-room/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Apr 2017 14:29:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Being Cool With The Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Be Cool]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Being good to each other]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating Like a Mofo]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Back in the day the internet was a lawless land full of random message boards and chat rooms where people wandered around in the hopes of finding people who shared]]></description>
		
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		<title>Get Great Deals On My Faves During Wand Week at Peepshow Toys!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/13878-2/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Apr 2017 03:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Toys for Grown Ups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting Off Without Going Broke]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Wands are everything]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[So, if you&#8217;ve been paying attention, you may have noticed that I love wands. Let me say that again: I LOVE wands. A big hunk of my favorite toys list]]></description>
		
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		<title>3 Ways To Use The Internet As Your Sexual Communication Wingman</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/use-internet-as-your-sexual-communication-wingman/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/use-internet-as-your-sexual-communication-wingman/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Apr 2017 14:50:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Being Cool With The Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Making the World a Sexier Place]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sponsored]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=13805</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[I recently talked to my partner about how, once you’ve lived in sex positive world for a while, you start to forget that not everyone is comfortable talking openly about]]></description>
		
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		<title>Review: Screaming O Charged Positive Vibe</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/review-screaming-o-charged-positive-vibe/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Mar 2017 13:55:52 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting Off Without Going Broke]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sponsored]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sponsored review]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=13719</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[So, it&#8217;s no secret that small vibrators are not my jam. Large swathes are my thing, small doesn&#8217;t get me there. But I agreed to give the Screaming O Charged]]></description>
		
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		<title>6 Ways To Make Your World More Mental Illness Friendly</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/making-your-world-more-mental-illness-friendly/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Mar 2017 14:41:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Sex and Depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Being good to each other]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mental health]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Life with a mental illness is frequently challenging. This can be exacerbated by the words, actions, and attitudes of the world around us. Simply put, the world is not a mental]]></description>
		
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		<title>5 Tips For Being A (Kind &#038; Classy) Casual Sex Rock Star</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/5-tips-for-being-a-casual-sex-rock-star/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/5-tips-for-being-a-casual-sex-rock-star/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Mar 2017 04:09:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Being Cool With The Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating Like a Mofo]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Doing The Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sponsored]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=13645</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Casual sex seems to be more prevalent than ever. Now, I have good news and bad news about that. The good news is, it&#8217;s gotten way easier to find no strings attached]]></description>
		
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		<title>A Slightly Cynical Sex Writer Does Valentine&#8217;s Day</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/a-cynical-sex-writer-valentines-day/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2017 16:33:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Being Cool With The Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Toys for Grown Ups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lube: the real nectar of the gods]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Wands are everything]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=13514</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m not going to lie to you folks, Valentine&#8217;s Day has never been my favorite and now that I&#8217;ve been in the sex writing game for longer than I was]]></description>
		
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		<title>All The Times I Should Have Left My Terrible Therapist</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/all-the-times-i-should-have-left-my-terrible-therapist/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/all-the-times-i-should-have-left-my-terrible-therapist/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2017 18:39:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Gettin' Riled Up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Care and Feeding of JoEllen]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deep Breaths & Big Feels]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Depression Introversion Sensitivity Empathy & Stuff]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex and depression]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=13524</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[For four years, 2007-2011, I saw a therapist mostly weekly with some periods of monthly visits when she thought I was &#8220;doing better&#8221;. Something that became very clear to me]]></description>
		
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		<title>20 Things You Might Not Know About JoEllen</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/20-things-about-joellen/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2017 16:37:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[When the urge hit me to write a &#8220;I bet you don&#8217;t know this about JoEllen!&#8221; post, I&#8217;ll admit I figured it would just be fun, frothy, and easy. For]]></description>
		
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		<title>Funding The Monster Under The Bed: Support Me On Patreon</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/funding-the-monster-under-the-bed-support-me-on-patreon/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jan 2017 15:09:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This might get long. Here&#8217;s the tl;dr: I&#8217;ve launched a Patreon where you can support my work on sex and depression and help me bring my book, The Monster Under]]></description>
		
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		<title>2016 Best of Bedhead: Posts, Podcasts, Appearances &#038; More!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/2016-best-of-bedhead-posts-podcasts-appearances-more/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Dec 2016 20:54:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I sat down to write my annual &#8220;best of&#8221; post and I was confronted with the fact that, compared to other years, I really didn&#8217;t write a whole lot in]]></description>
		
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		<title>JoEllen&#8217;s 2016 Favorite Things!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/joellens-2016-favorite-things/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Dec 2016 17:20:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Toys for Grown Ups]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Lube: the real nectar of the gods]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Wands are everything]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[In the past my annual favorite things list was always a list of products, frequently featuring links to my reviews of said products. This year I tested and reviewed significantly]]></description>
		
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		<title>From Peepshow Toys: Partner PLUS Couples Toy Review</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/from-peepshow-toys-partner-plus-review/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2016 15:06:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is my first post since the US presidential election and it feels wrong not to acknowledge it. This election was about more than one side losing- that&#8217;s politics- this]]></description>
		
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		<title>What Apartment Hunting Taught Me About Relationships</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/what-apartment-hunting-taught-me-about-relationships/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2016 15:18:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Being good to each other]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Sometimes, we have patterns in relationships that we don&#8217;t really understand, or even see. I&#8217;ve long known that I find asking people for anything terrifying so I shy away from doing]]></description>
		
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		<title>All The Things To Love About DOXY: A Vibrating Retrospective</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/all-the-things-to-love-about-doxy/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Sep 2016 19:51:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Stepping onto an elevator at Woodhull&#8217;s Sexual Freedom Summit I was met by the smiling face of one of my all-time favorite sex educators who, after greeting me, reached out to touch]]></description>
		
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		<title>An Embarrassment of Riches- Woodhull&#8217;s Sexual Freedom Summit 2016</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/woodhull-2016/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Sep 2016 22:05:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been a month since I left for Woodhull&#8217;s Sexual Freedom Summit and I still miss being there! I sat down to write this thinking I would give you the]]></description>
		
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		<title>When I Chose To Live &#8211; I Spent 3 Days Suicidal</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/suicidal/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Aug 2016 18:48:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Deep Breaths & Big Feels]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[CW: Suicide, Suicidal thoughts &#160; &#8220;When I chose to live, there was no joy it&#8217;s just a line I crossed&#8221; -Dar Williams After All You hear a lot of stories]]></description>
		
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		<title>I Want To Hang Out With You at #SFS16!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/i-want-to-hang-out-with-you-at-sfs16/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Aug 2016 04:50:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This week I&#8217;m heading to Woodhull&#8217;s Sexual Freedom Summit (#SFS16). I&#8217;ve got a pretty busy schedule and I&#8217;m pretty psyched for it! Last year at Woodhull I skipped all things social]]></description>
		
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		<title>Gearing Up For Woodhull&#8217;s Sexual Freedom Summit!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/gearing-up-for-woodhull-2016/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2016 04:03:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In less than a month I’ll be packing my bags and heading clear across the country to Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit. As you may recall, last year&#8217;s Summit left quite an impression]]></description>
		
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		<title>Safety First: My Favorite Condoms</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/safety-first-my-favorite-condoms/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jun 2016 14:36:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I was cleaning my house over the weekend and I got to my condom stash. This isn&#8217;t a rarity, I don&#8217;t keep it tucked away somewhere out of sight but]]></description>
		
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		<title>Hitting The Books: What I&#8217;ve Been Reading</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/hitting-the-books/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jun 2016 18:28:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[For the last couple of months I&#8217;ve been feeling a bit&#8230; off. Writing has been challenging and reading, well reading just hasn&#8217;t been happening at all. I LOVE books and]]></description>
		
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		<title>Win A Scholarship To #SFS16 From The Smitten Kitten!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/win-a-scholarship/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 May 2016 19:30:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Do you want to go to Woodhull&#8217;s Sexual Freedom Summit? Let me answer that for you, YES! Yes, you really do! Four days of pre-cons, institutes, sessions, and social events]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Mini Review Sampler Featuring As You Like It, Clone-A-Willy, Fun Factory, L&#8217;Amourose &#038; Tantus!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/mini-review-sampler-with-fun-factory/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Apr 2016 18:54:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Actually innovative]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[meh]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[what up g-spot?]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s happened once again– I’m way behind on toy reviewing. Partially because I&#8217;ve been traveling every 2 weeks since December, partially because I didn&#8217;t have a ton to say about several]]></description>
		
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		<title>Surviving A Bully (When You&#8217;re 35)</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/bully/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Mar 2016 14:17:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Being good to each other]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[I spent this past weekend at BinderCon surrounded by writers, pitching my book to agents (who responded favorably, btw), and receiving support from some of my favorite colleagues and friends,]]></description>
		
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		<title>The Womanizer Doesn&#8217;t Work For Me (And It&#8217;s Important To Talk About That)</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/the-womanizer-doesnt-work-for-me-and-its-important-to-talk-about-that/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Feb 2016 19:36:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Gettin' Riled Up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[I resisted testing one of recent history&#8217;s most popular toys &#8211; The Womanizer&#8211; for a while. See, I&#8217;m a broad stimulation chick; when folks say things like &#8220;pinpoint&#8221; in relation]]></description>
		
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		<title>I&#8217;m Talking About Sex And Depression Again &#8211; Interviews</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/were-talking-about-sex-and-depression-again/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Feb 2016 20:31:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hey folks, as you may remember, a while back I conducted a survey on sex and depression along with some interviews, all in preparation for my book. Well, now that]]></description>
		
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		<title>5 Steps To Take When Your Partner Is Dealing With Depression</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/5-steps-to-take-when-your-partner-is-dealing-with-depression/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2016 22:50:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Depression Introversion Sensitivity Empathy & Stuff]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Earlier this week I read a Washington Post article about by a woman whose relationship was torn apart while she and her partner tried to deal with his depression. Reading]]></description>
		
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		<title>Review: Doxy Die Cast- Like A Vibrator Superhero</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/review-doxy-die-cast-like-a-vibrator-superhero/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2016 16:12:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hey folks, heading into this review be forewarned that I talk a lot about the original Doxy Wand. If you are unfamiliar with that product, you can check out my]]></description>
		
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		<title>The Business of Blogging About Sex is Back!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/the-business-of-blogging-about-sex-is-back/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2016 18:45:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hey folks, have you ever wanted to do what I do for a living? Have you been thinking about starting about blog? Do you already have a blog and want]]></description>
		
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		<title>My New Year&#8217;s Revelation</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/my-new-years-revelation/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Jan 2016 07:31:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[So this year I didn&#8217;t make any new year&#8217;s resolutions, instead I had a revelation. It came to me slowly over the week leading up to Christmas and hit hard]]></description>
		
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		<title>The Best of Bedhead 2015 – My Favorite Posts</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/the-best-of-bedhead-2015-my-favorite-posts/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2015 15:13:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hey folks! I&#8217;ve spent this week in Boston completing Planned Parenthood&#8217;s Sexuality Education Certification Series &#8211; it was a tremendous experience and I highly recommend it to any of you]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Motorhead Overkill 7 Function Power Classic Vibrator</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/motorhead-overkill-vibrator-review-rock-on/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Dec 2015 16:43:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Edit: The Motörhead line has gone on to the great nightstand in the sky. If you are looking for a fun take on a basic vibe, I suggest something like]]></description>
		
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		<title>The Bedhead’s 2015 Favorite Things!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/the-bedheads-2015-favorite-things-list/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2015 16:21:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[2015 has been quite a year. I started it off too injured to do much and by the end I had traveled to two conferences to talk about sex and depression,]]></description>
		
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		<title>Seeing Ourselves in Marvel&#8217;s Jessica Jones</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/seeing-ourselves-in-marvels-jessica-jones/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2015 21:38:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&#160; TW: Abuse, rape, trauma, manipulation If you haven&#8217;t watched Jessica Jones yet be forewarned this piece is chock full of spoilers so read at your own risk. Also, consider]]></description>
		
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		<title>A Box Full of Wonders From Tantus</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/a-box-full-of-wonders-from-tantus/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Nov 2015 21:35:14 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[With almost uncanny precision the wonderful folks at Tantus manage to send me packages so they arrive just in time to brighten bad days, as was the case with their]]></description>
		
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		<title>Oh Canada! My Weekend at Playground 2015</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/oh-canada-my-weekend-at-playground-2015/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2015 20:52:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&#160; I just got back from the Playground Conference and frankly, it was pretty rad. I went to sessions about sex positive community building, ableism, erotic humiliation and a closing]]></description>
		
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		<title>Win A SheVibe Gift Card at Playground 2015!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/win-a-shevibe-gift-card-at-playground-2015/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2015 16:44:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&#160; As I mentioned at the end of  last week&#8217;s post, while I&#8217;m at Playground this weekend I&#8217;ll be giving away 3 SheVibe gift cards&#8211; one for each day I&#8217;m]]></description>
		
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		<title>4 Reasons SheVibe Is My Online Sex Shopping Superhero</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/4-reasons-shevibe-is-my-online-sex-shopping-superhero/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2015 16:30:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Superhero Sex Shops]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[I have long loved SheVibe but to tell you they are a great online sex shop feels so woefully inadequate. A lot of people have a lot of great stuff to]]></description>
		
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		<title>Thanks For Making Me A Kinkly Sex Blogging Superhero!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/thanks-for-making-me-a-kinkly-sex-blogging-superhero/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2015 05:48:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&#160; &#160; In what has become one of my favorite fall traditions, the superstars over at Kinkly.com have released their Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes list and I am, once again a grateful]]></description>
		
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		<title>I&#8217;m Talking About Sex and Depression for Bitch!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/im-talking-about-sex-and-depression-for-bitch/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2015 18:40:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Imagine for a moment that I took away your ability to enjoy sex. It’s just gone. Now in order to get it back, you would have to declare that you]]></description>
		
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		<title>Doxy DON (formerly Skittle) Video Review</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/doxy-skittle-video-review/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2015 15:51:11 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[The good folks at Doxy sent me their newest creation, the Skittle DON, it&#8217;s called DON now, and I&#8217;ve made another video review for you (I think I&#8217;m liking the video]]></description>
		
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		<title>I&#8217;m Heading to Playground 2015!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/im-heading-to-playground-2015/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2015 16:09:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In about a month I’ll be packing my bags and heading to Toronto for Playground 2015 .  Along with Stephen Biggs, I’ll be presenting The Monster Under The Bed: Starting the Conversation About Sex]]></description>
		
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		<title>An Ode to Sliquid</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/an-ode-to-sliquid/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2015 23:26:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Okay, that made it sound like I was going to write a poem and I&#8217;m definitely not but, seriously folks, Sliquid. I&#8217;m pretty sure a lot of us love them]]></description>
		
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		<title>What Mentally Ill Looks Like</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/what-mentally-ill-looks-like/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2015 20:33:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Gettin' Riled Up]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[I had planned on writing about sex this week (you know, like a sex writer) but then my state was hit with a tragedy yesterday. Another shooter, another school, another round]]></description>
		
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		<title>Calling People &#8220;Crazy&#8221; is Lazy, Do This Instead!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/calling-people-crazy-is-lazy-do-this-instead/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2015 22:23:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Recently I&#8217;ve been involved in several conversations about people who were, well, treating other people terribly. In all cases the subjects of the conversations had long track records of this behavior and]]></description>
		
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		<title>Starting the Conversation &#8211; #SFSMonster at Woodhull</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/starting-the-conversation-sfsmonster-at-woodhull/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2015 16:39:51 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Want to hear about my general experience at Woodhull&#8217;s Sexual Freedom Summit? Check out Raising My Voice as Quietly as Possible- Woodhull&#8217;s Sexual Freedom Summit It&#8217;s been almost a month since]]></description>
		
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		<title>Fun Factory Miss Bi Video Review &#038; Giveaway</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/fun-factory-miss-bi-video-review-giveaway/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2015 05:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I got to try out Fun Factory&#8217;s newest toy the Miss Bi and here&#8217;s my review in the form of a video (I&#8217;m so modern!). I apologize for the hugeness,]]></description>
		
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		<title>Keep Lady Cheeky&#8217;s Body-Positive Feminist Porn Alive #SaveLadyCheeky</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/keep-lady-cheekys-body-positive-feminist-porn-alive-saveladycheeky/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/keep-lady-cheekys-body-positive-feminist-porn-alive-saveladycheeky/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Sep 2015 23:08:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Being good to each other]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Feeling Ways About Stuff]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Porn]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[LadyCheeky.com is in danger of being erased permanently from Tumblr. Lady Cheeky needs $1000 for a legal retainer in order to start the process of communicating and solving the issue]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10995</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>Raising My Voice As Quietly As Possible &#8211; Woodhull&#8217;s Sexual Freedom Summit</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/raising-my-voice-as-quietly-as-possible-the-woodhull-sexual-freedom-summit/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/raising-my-voice-as-quietly-as-possible-the-woodhull-sexual-freedom-summit/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2015 21:04:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex and Depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[conferences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deep Breaths & Big Feels]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Depression Introversion Sensitivity Empathy & Stuff]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex and depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex geeks in the wild]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s taken me some time to sit down and write this and when considering why I realized that Woodhull&#8217;s Sexual Freedom Summit hit me like a ton of bricks&#8230; in]]></description>
		
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		<title>Fun Factory Bouncer Review</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/fun-factory-bouncer-review-tiger-g5-giveaway/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/fun-factory-bouncer-review-tiger-g5-giveaway/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Aug 2015 15:19:58 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Giveaways]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Actually innovative]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cool ideas]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Free stuff]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[what up g-spot?]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Lots of companies like to toss around the word &#8220;innovative&#8221; like confetti and act like they are bringing out new and different stuff when they are often just rehashing the]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10872</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>Mini Review Sampler featuring Jimmyjane, Tantus, Kinklab &#038; More!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/mini-review-sampler-featuring-jimmyjane-tantus-kinklab-more/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/mini-review-sampler-featuring-jimmyjane-tantus-kinklab-more/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2015 21:40:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[I really wanted that to work]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[meh]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Proof The Universe Loves Us]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Wands are everything]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s happened again, I&#8217;ve fallen way behind on reviewing. I think it&#8217;s the result of me recovering from surgery, devoting a bunch of time to preparing for upcoming classes and appearances]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10841</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>Upcoming Teaching and Speaking Dates</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/upcoming-teaching-and-speaking-dates/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2015 16:10:39 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating Like a Mofo]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Look at this thing!]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex Ed is a human right]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=10565</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Okay folks, I&#8217;ve got a whole lot of fun stuff planned for this summer and I&#8217;d love to see you for some of it. I&#8217;ll be teaching, speaking and doing]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10565</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Heading To Woodhull&#8217;s Sexual Freedom Summit!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/im-heading-to-the-woodhull-sexual-freedom-summit/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/im-heading-to-the-woodhull-sexual-freedom-summit/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2015 15:34:41 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[conferences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex Ed is a human right]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Wands are everything]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[In less than a month I&#8217;ll be packing my bags and heading clear across the country to Woodhull&#8217;s Sexual Freedom Summit. If you don&#8217;t know what that is, go check it]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10806</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>I Tried Cloth Menstrual Pads Again &#8211; Now I&#8217;m Obsessed</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/i-tried-cloth-menstrual-pads-again-now-im-obsessed/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/i-tried-cloth-menstrual-pads-again-now-im-obsessed/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2015 19:50:07 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Body Basics & Beyond]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[menstruation and stuff]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[So, lately I&#8217;ve been getting the feeling that more and more people who get periods are starting to agree that disposable products kind of suck. They create a ton of]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10762</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>5 Questions With OhMiBod&#8217;s Suki Dunham</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/5-questions-with-ohmibods-suki-dunham/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/5-questions-with-ohmibods-suki-dunham/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2015 15:40:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Toys for Grown Ups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[interview]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Next week I&#8217;m heading off to ANME. This convention is one of my favorite events of the year partially because I get to see all the cool new products but]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10749</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>Learn The Business of Sex Blogging with Me &#038; Epiphora!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/learn-the-business-of-sex-blogging-with-me-epiphora/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/learn-the-business-of-sex-blogging-with-me-epiphora/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2015 16:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Look at this thing!]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Professionaling like a professional]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=10729</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[&#160; In just 3 days it will be the 3rd anniversary of this website. I can&#8217;t believe how quickly that time has gone by and how fortunate I have been]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10729</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>My Visit to As You Like It</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/my-visit-to-as-you-like-it/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2015 17:49:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Superhero Sex Shops]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grover]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[I heart sex shops]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Last Friday I took a trip down to Eugene to visit As You Like It, a shop that has been on my Superhero Sex Shop list since back when they]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10713</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>Sexting With A Sex Writer</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/sexting-with-a-sex-writer/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/sexting-with-a-sex-writer/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2015 15:05:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Being Cool With The Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[General Hotness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Be Cool]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Using technology]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=10672</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Sexting. I think at this point a lot of us do it and it&#8217;s one of those things that I&#8217;ve realized people assume I must, because of my work, be]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10672</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>Everyone Makes This HUGE Mistake in BED!!!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/everyone-makes-this-huge-mistake-in-bed/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2015 18:40:52 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Being Cool With The Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[clickbait]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Here's the thing...]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Learning Stuff]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pranks]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[You Know You&#8217;ve Done It!! I know I&#8217;ve done it and I&#8217;m pretty sure you have too. Ask your friends, I&#8217;m willing to bet they all have a story about the]]></description>
		
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		<title>Review: Magic Wand Rechargeable &#8211; Cut the Cord</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/review-magic-wand-rechargeable-cut-the-cord/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/review-magic-wand-rechargeable-cut-the-cord/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2015 20:39:11 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Proof The Universe Loves Us]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Wands are everything]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[So, last year I came to the conclusion that I am, without a doubt, a wand girl. Big, honking, strong wands are my thing and that started on September 7th]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10469</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>The Blind Leading the Blind- Is Abstinence Only Education To Blame For Parents Who Can&#8217;t Say &#8220;Penis&#8221;?</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/the-blind-leading-the-blind-is-abstinence-only-education-to-blame-for-parents-who-cant-say-penis/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/the-blind-leading-the-blind-is-abstinence-only-education-to-blame-for-parents-who-cant-say-penis/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2015 16:15:35 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Being Cool With The Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Gettin' Riled Up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Here's the thing...]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex Ed is a human right]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=7587</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Earlier this week, California Judge Donald Black ruled that abstinence-only education isn&#8217;t actually sex education (preach, sir!), provides inaccurate information and doesn&#8217;t meet California&#8217;s curriculum guidelines. So, this leaves one to]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">7587</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>Celebrating Masturbation May with New Superhero Sex Shops!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/celebrating-masturbation-may-with-new-superhero-sex-shops/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/celebrating-masturbation-may-with-new-superhero-sex-shops/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2015 14:29:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Superhero Sex Shops]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[I heart sex shops]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[In honor of Masturbation May I&#8217;m giving some attention to the folks who enhance our masturbation by updating my Superhero Sex Shop list. For those of you who are unfamiliar, the]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10383</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>Giveaway: Fun Factory ShareVibe Vibrating Harness-Free Double Dildo</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/giveaway-fun-factory-sharevibe-double-dildo/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/giveaway-fun-factory-sharevibe-double-dildo/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 May 2015 18:48:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Giveaways]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Free stuff]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[&#160; Okay folks, it&#8217;s giveaway time and I&#8217;ve got a great prize from one of my favorite companies! Let&#8217;s take a look at the Fun Factory ShareVibe! Description courtesy of]]></description>
		
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		<title>Review: PalmPower Wand &#038; Attachments- Reinventing My Masturbation</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/review-palmpower-wand-attachments-reinventing-my-masturbation/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/review-palmpower-wand-attachments-reinventing-my-masturbation/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2015 19:32:33 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Proof The Universe Loves Us]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[This is how your parts work]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Once you have reviewed a bunch of toys you find that you start to repeat yourself. There are several &#8220;game changers&#8221; more than one thing that&#8217;s &#8220;completely different&#8221; and &#8220;new]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10368</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>Stop Clutching Your Pearls Folks, Hook Ups Can Actually Be Healthy</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/stop-clutching-your-pearls-folks-hook-ups-can-actually-be-healthy/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/stop-clutching-your-pearls-folks-hook-ups-can-actually-be-healthy/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2015 18:50:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Being Cool With The Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Be Cool]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating Like a Mofo]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Science!]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[&#160; &#160; You may have noticed that in the last couple of years there have been a bevy of stories about hook-up culture, online dating, friends with benefits and the]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10296</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>Review: Swan Wand &#8211; New Member of My Starting Line Up</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/review-swan-wand-new-member-of-my-starting-line-up/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/review-swan-wand-new-member-of-my-starting-line-up/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2015 19:38:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Proof The Universe Loves Us]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[&#160; A couple months back, when I put out my 2015 Sex Toy To-Do List and included the PalmPower Wand , Dizzygirl mentioned that she thought I should check out this]]></description>
		
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		<title>Won&#8217;t Work For Free (Or Condoms)</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/wont-work-for-free-or-condoms/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/wont-work-for-free-or-condoms/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Apr 2015 01:44:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Gettin' Riled Up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Here's the thing...]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Professionaling like a professional]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[&#160; This week I received an email (I&#8217;m sure many of my colleagues received it too) from a large, well-known condom company offering me the &#8220;opportunity&#8221; to &#8220;collaborate&#8221; with them]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10262</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>Review- My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging &#038; Polyamory by Cooper Beckett</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/review-my-life-on-the-swingset-by-cooper-beckett/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/review-my-life-on-the-swingset-by-cooper-beckett/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2015 15:14:42 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Books turn me on]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating Like a Mofo]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Learning Stuff]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Look at this thing!]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[So you know when you&#8217;re about to embark on a totally new, totally foreign experience and you are having a hard time figuring out what it will even look like]]></description>
		
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			<slash:comments>1</slash:comments>
		
		
		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10214</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>Body Positivity &#038; Weight Loss Poll</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/body-positivity-weight-loss-poll/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/body-positivity-weight-loss-poll/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Apr 2015 23:42:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Body Basics & Beyond]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Here's the thing...]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=10196</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[&#160; Hey folks, I&#8217;ve been mulling over this question and I&#8217;d love to know what you think. When it comes to living a body positive life, is there ever room]]></description>
		
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			<slash:comments>7</slash:comments>
		
		
		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10196</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>Sex Shop Treasure Hunting</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/sex-shop-treasure-hunting/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/sex-shop-treasure-hunting/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Mar 2015 13:35:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting Off Without Going Broke]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[I heart sex shops]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=10076</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[I talk a lot about small, feminist boutique sex shops &#8211; heck, I went on a whole tour of them! Often, though people ask me about navigating bigger shops, shops that]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10076</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>I Got to Talk to Sex Nerd Sandra About Sex &#038; Depression!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/i-got-talk-to-sex-nerd-sandra-about-sex-depression/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/i-got-talk-to-sex-nerd-sandra-about-sex-depression/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Mar 2015 00:14:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex and Depression]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=10079</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Back in 2012, after my marriage split up when, I knew one of my goals was to have a happy, healthy, really hot sex live but I had not a]]></description>
		
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			<slash:comments>2</slash:comments>
		
		
		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10079</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>Will Work For Sponsorship &#8211; Online Workshop</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/will-work-for-sponsorship-online-workshop/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/will-work-for-sponsorship-online-workshop/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Mar 2015 00:04:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Geeking out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Here's the thing...]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Professionaling like a professional]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=10034</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[&#160; Are you a blogger or educator who is interested in traveling to conferences, conventions and expos but aware that these things cost money? Have you heard of this magical-sounding]]></description>
		
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			<slash:comments>8</slash:comments>
		
		
		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10034</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>Review: Nobessence Seduction</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/review-nobessence-seduction/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/review-nobessence-seduction/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Mar 2015 15:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[what up g-spot?]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=9993</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Every year I make a sex toy to-do list and set about, well, doing it. Towards the end of 2014 I tweeted that I was pretty close to completing my list]]></description>
		
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			<slash:comments>1</slash:comments>
		
		
		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">9993</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>If Anal Sex Makes You Gay, Do Tacos Make You Mexican?</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/if-anal-sex-makes-you-gay/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/if-anal-sex-makes-you-gay/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2015 15:30:01 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Being Cool With The Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=3026</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[&#160; &#160; A while back I had the honor of being the first person someone spoke to about their recent first same-sex sexual encounter. I was humbled by this. I]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">3026</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>Review: Electric Eric E-Stim Vibrator</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/review-electric-eric-e-stim-vibrator/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/review-electric-eric-e-stim-vibrator/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2015 15:23:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cool ideas]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Look at this thing!]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[meh]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=9957</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Did you know I took a break from reviewing toys? From last April to September I went through this phase where I decided I couldn&#8217;t talk about serious stuff and]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">9957</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>Self Care For When You&#8217;re Feeling Not At All Sexy</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/self-care-for-when-youre-feeling-not-at-all-sexy/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/self-care-for-when-youre-feeling-not-at-all-sexy/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2015 18:21:08 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Care and Feeding of JoEllen]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=9898</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;ve all been there, maybe you&#8217;re sick, maybe it&#8217;s a super-stressful time at work, maybe you&#8217;re going through a break up- there are a million and one (and probably more)]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">9898</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>Let&#8217;s Talk About Text, Baby &#8211; Don&#8217;t Text Your Way Out of A Love Life</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/lets-talk-about-text-baby/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/lets-talk-about-text-baby/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2015 05:15:57 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Being Cool With The Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Being good to each other]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Here's the thing...]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=647</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[On December 3 1992 a 22-year-old test engineer for Sema Group used a personal computer to send what is said to be the first text message -&#8220;Merry Christmas&#8221;- to a]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">647</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>Mini Review Sampler featuring Crystal Delights, Je Joue &#038; More!</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/mini-review-sampler-featuring-crystal-delights-je-joue-more/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/mini-review-sampler-featuring-crystal-delights-je-joue-more/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2015 16:09:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Penis Stuff]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Proof The Universe Loves Us]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=8551</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Okay, I&#8217;m not going to lie to you &#8211; I&#8217;m way behind on toy reviewing. Some of this comes from being hit with a deluge of products when I reentered]]></description>
		
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		<title>Where Did I Go? Injury, Desexualization and Fear</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/where-did-i-go-injury-desexualization-and-fear/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/where-did-i-go-injury-desexualization-and-fear/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2015 15:50:21 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Care and Feeding of JoEllen]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deep Breaths & Big Feels]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[My body is falling apart]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[So those of you who have been following along at home already know that this has been a trying time for me. The second half of last year was marked]]></description>
		
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			<slash:comments>6</slash:comments>
		
		
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		<title>Bedhead Birthday Giveaway &#8211; The Pure Wand</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/bedhead-birthday-giveaway-the-pure-wand/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/bedhead-birthday-giveaway-the-pure-wand/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2015 14:44:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Giveaways]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Time Sensitive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Free stuff]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Proof The Universe Loves Us]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=9694</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[&#160; So here&#8217;s the deal folks &#8211; it&#8217;s my birthday and I&#8217;m giving away the subject of the most-read review on my site: the toy, the myth, the legend- the]]></description>
		
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			<slash:comments>19</slash:comments>
		
		
		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">9694</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>An Open Letter to Folks in the Sex &#038; Depression Conversation</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/an-open-letter-to-folks-in-the-sex-depression-conversation/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/an-open-letter-to-folks-in-the-sex-depression-conversation/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Feb 2015 03:22:56 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Gettin' Riled Up]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[&#160; This post is the result of Crista Anne and my endless conversations about what we love and hate about the conversations coming out regarding sexuality and depression. After the glorious]]></description>
		
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		<title>This One Thing Will Make Your Valentine&#8217;s Day Extraordinary</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/this-one-thing-will-make-your-valentines-day-extraordinary/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/this-one-thing-will-make-your-valentines-day-extraordinary/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2015 20:51:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating Like a Mofo]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Here's the thing...]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Let it go]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[My body is falling apart]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=9675</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Don&#8217;t worry, I&#8217;m not going to talk about that movie with the number and the color in the title&#8230; Last year I spent Valentine&#8217;s Day with a man who I was]]></description>
		
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		<title>Handling Hook Ups- Know These 5 Things For Drama-Free Flings</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/handling-hook-ups-know-these-5-things-for-drama-free-flings/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/handling-hook-ups-know-these-5-things-for-drama-free-flings/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Feb 2015 16:30:38 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Being Cool With The Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Be Cool]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating Like a Mofo]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Doing The Sex]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=8687</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[I know we&#8217;re coming up on Valentine&#8217;s day and that tends to make folks all couple-y but I&#8217;m going the other way. This week I&#8217;m doing a two part series]]></description>
		
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		<title>FWB without WTF &#8211; 5 Keys to Successful Friends With Benefits Relationships</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/fwb-without-wtf-5-keys-successful-friends-benefits-relationships/</link>
					<comments>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/fwb-without-wtf-5-keys-successful-friends-benefits-relationships/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2015 16:13:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Being Cool With The Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Live & Learn]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Be Cool]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating Like a Mofo]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Doing The Sex]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.redheadbedhead.com/?p=8660</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[I know we&#8217;re coming up on Valentine&#8217;s day and that tends to make folks all couple-y but I&#8217;m going the other way. This week I&#8217;m doing a two part series]]></description>
		
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		<post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">8660</post-id>	</item>
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		<title>5 Reasons I Love The Original Magic Wand</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/5-reasons-love-original-magic-wand/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2015 17:43:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Toys for Grown Ups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Proof The Universe Loves Us]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[I realized that I have been remiss in sharing a piece of news with you folks. At the end of 2014 I came to a conclusion: I love big wand-style]]></description>
		
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		<title>Review: Tenga Flip Black &#8211; Hole in One</title>
		<link>https://www.redheadbedhead.com/review-tenga-flip-black-hole-one/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[JoEllen Notte]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jan 2015 05:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[So, I don&#8217;t have a penis which makes it odd that I&#8217;m reviewing the TENGA Black Flip Hole Masturbator, a toy made specifically for use on penises but the cute]]></description>
		
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