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What the Book Ikigai Has Taught Me

2025-09-22T23:17:00.004+09:00

If there's one book I would recommend in this lifetime, and one I’d gladly read over and over again, it’s Ikigai. It’s an easy-to-read book filled with practical insights and lessons we can apply to life.

Ikigai contains so many valuable insights that can motivate us to push forward and inspire us to find our own “sweet spot.” What are your passions? Do you enjoy what you’re doing? Have you found your purpose in life? These are questions worth pondering as we go through life’s challenges.

I must say, Ikigai feels like a secular version of Rick Warren's Purpose Driven Life. There are so many lessons to learn from this book, and here are the 10 things I personally took away:

Stay active, don’t retire.
When you stay active, you keep yourself busy—and when you’re busy, your focus is on meaningful things. This is one of the keys to a long life. So even in old age, don’t ever think of “retiring” from life. Keep doing what you love and stay active.
Take it slow.
Don’t rush all the time. Take moments to absorb situations, events, or experiences. There’s no need to hurry. Pause once in a while and learn to appreciate life.
Don’t fill your stomach.
In eating, less is more. Follow the 80% rule: don’t eat until you’re completely full. Stop eating when you feel about 80% satisfied—not 100% and definitely not more than your body can handle. Control your appetite.
Surround yourself with good friends.
Distance yourself from toxic people. Instead, spend time with good friends. Talk about life, dreams, music, and meaningful things—not gossip.
Get in shape.
Keep moving and keep exercising. Like water, when the body stays stagnant, it deteriorates. Make sure you stay physically fit and healthy. Hike, climb mountains, or simply move to keep your blood flowing and your spirit alive.
Smile.
When you smile—even on bad days—you’ll often get a smile in return from the people around you.
Reconnect with nature.
Nature is the best stress-reliever and the best healer. Spend time outdoors without Wi-Fi, without Facebook—just you and nature.
Give thanks.
Be grateful to God, to your ancestors, your family, your friends, and everyone who has been part of your journey.
Live in the moment.
Forget about the past or the future—focus on the present. The Japanese call this ichigo ichie: “once in a lifetime” moments.
Follow your ikigai.
Do what makes you happy. Pursue what you’re passionate about. And if you haven’t found your purpose yet, then make it your mission to discover it.

Experience Heaven on Earth at Garin Farm Pilgrimage Resort in Iloilo

2025-09-05T20:16:00.005+09:00

Do you ever wonder what’s waiting for us after life? As a Christian, I was raised to believe in heaven and hell. That’s what we were taught in church. If you live a righteous life, put your faith in God, and accept Jesus as your Savior, you go to heaven. But if you reject Him and live in sin, you go to hell. It sounds simple when put that way, but life itself is never that simple. In the end, it all comes down to your personal relationship with the Creator.

We all long for heaven because it’s a place of eternal life with no pain, no hunger, and no suffering. And if heaven promises peace, then hell offers the opposite: eternal fire, torment without escape. That thought alone is terrifying. That’s why, as Christians, we strive to live as Christ did, following His example and holding on to the promise of eternal life through Him.

The Bible gives us glimpses of what heaven is like, and throughout history people have tried to capture it in paintings, books, and even movies. Some even claim to have seen heaven themselves in near-death experiences. But in Iloilo, there’s a place where you can actually walk through a representation of this promise, Garin Farm Pilgrimage Resort in San Joaquin. It’s not just a farm, it’s a spiritual journey.

From the moment you enter, you’re invited to walk about a kilometer toward the pilgrimage gate. You can ride one of their shuttles if you prefer, but the walk itself adds to the experience, though be warned, the path is inclined and a bit challenging.

At the pilgrimage entrance, you’re given two options: climb the giant staircase or ride up. The stairs, with their 480 steps, are the more meaningful path. Along the way, you’ll encounter dioramas that bring the Bible to life. The journey begins with creation, Adam and Eve surrounded by the creatures God made. Then comes Noah’s Ark, a reminder of God’s wrath and mercy during the great flood.

Next is the Exodus, with Moses leading the Israelites out of Egypt and receiving the Ten Commandments. The path continues through the life of Jesus, His birth, His ministry with the disciples, the Last Supper, His agony in Gethsemane, and His crucifixion. Each scene reminds you of the depth of God’s love and sacrifice.

At the top, a giant cross marks the entrance to heaven. To get there, you pass through a dark tunnel, symbolizing the struggles of life. At the end of the tunnel, a single light, the figure of Jesus Christ, shines through, reminding us that He is the way out of darkness. Beyond the tunnel is a breathtaking all-white space, filled with statues of angels blowing trumpets, St. Peter at the gate, and biblical figures worshipping at God’s throne.

Of course, it’s just a depiction. We know it’s not the real heaven. But before you leave, there’s a reminder that while we are still alive, we still have the chance to live righteously, so that one day we can enter the true heaven.

For me, the experience was unforgettable. I’ve read these stories in the Bible countless times, but seeing them portrayed this way gave me a fresh perspective. Even if you’re not deeply religious, Garin Farm is worth visiting. The view is stunning, like being on a mountaintop. Families and kids would enjoy it too. It’s part pilgrimage, part theme park, and part nature escape. Just avoid going at noon when the heat can be harsh. Afternoons are much more pleasant.

If you ever find yourself in Iloilo, make sure to include Garin Farm in your itinerary. It’s more than just a tourist spot. It’s a journey that leaves you reflecting not only on life, but on eternity.

Why Isla de Gigantes Should Be on Your Iloilo Travel Bucket List

2025-09-02T13:49:00.001+09:00

The first time I set foot in Iloilo was back in 2012. It wasn’t for leisure, so I didn’t get to explore the city much. I visited Plazuela and a few major malls in the city. The main reason I was there was to take a Korean language examination. Still, since I already liked the city of Iloilo, I made time to roam around and enjoy some of its beautiful spots. Unfortunately, I had both limited time and limited funds. Even so, I knew there was more to Iloilo, and if I had the chance to explore further, I could discover more of its beauty and greatness. I believed there would be a second time for me to return.

More than a decade later, I finally had another chance to visit Iloilo when I joined a group tour. I already knew the city was beautiful and the people were wonderful, but I didn’t know they also had a world-class, premium beach destination called Islas de Gigantes.

As the name suggests, it is called the Islands of Giants because of a local legend that giant bones were once discovered there, believed to be larger than human bones. Each island has its own unique features that make visitors happy and excited to explore. I personally enjoyed the scenery and the experience of discovering these natural wonders. Our island-hopping trip lasted the whole day, allowing us to uncover the hidden beauty of the Gigantes Islands. The group of islands can be visited by boat, and hiring a tour guide is necessary to get from one island to another. Here, I want to share my experience of visiting the breathtaking Isla de Gigantes.

1. Antonia’s Island

Let’s begin with Antonia’s Island. I don’t want to play favorites, but this one is definitely my favorite. I just loved its vibe. The sand isn’t as fine and white as other beaches, but it was more than enough for me to appreciate. The rock formations are stunning, and the island is well maintained. Somehow, I felt like I could survive on this island because of its atmosphere.

It brought me back to my childhood memories when going to the beach, regardless of its quality, was already such a big deal. Growing up, visiting a beach was considered a luxury, and we never cared much whether it had fine sand or not. At Antonia’s, I felt the same kind of joy. I walked along its sandy shore, climbed the rock formations, and simply enjoyed being there.

2. Bantigue Sandbar

Of all the islands we visited, Bantigue Sandbar stood out as the most unique. It’s a long stretch of white sand that only appears during low tide. I had the chance to walk along the sandbar, amazed that it would disappear once the tide rose.

Beside the sandbar, boats were docked waiting to take visitors back after they had finished exploring. Another unforgettable part of Bantigue was the meal we had. They served fresh, delicious seafood right on the island, perfectly timed since we were there for lunch.

I’m not usually a big fan of seafood, but with what Bantigue had to offer, I couldn’t resist. We enjoyed a variety of fish and shellfish at very reasonable prices.

3. Cabugao Gamay

Cabugao Gamay is probably the most famous island in Isla de Gigantes. It’s the one you usually see in promotional photos. While undeniably beautiful, I personally think it’s a bit overrated. For me, the experience of being there was more enjoyable than the view from the viewpoint.

What I really loved were the coconut trees scattered around the island, giving us perfect shade from the scorching sun. Cabugao Gamay also has its own unique charm, making it the most Instagrammable island we visited. That’s why it’s also known as the “Selfie Island” of Gigantes.

I also noticed that the sand here seemed finer and whiter compared to the other islands.

4. Pulupandan Island

Pulupandan is the simplest of all the islands. There isn’t much to see except a single palm tree, a small nipa hut, and a few shell decorations for photo spots. On very hot days, it might not be the best place to stay long, but its simplicity makes it charming in its own way.

The rock formations add character, and the island itself is very clean and well maintained. You wouldn’t even think of throwing trash here because of how pristine it is. The island is so small that you could probably jog around it in under ten minutes. From one end, you can already see the other.

5. Tangke Lagoon

Another favorite of mine is Tangke Lagoon. Unlike the other islands, it doesn’t have white sand beaches. Instead, it offers turquoise waters surrounded by stunning rock formations. What made it even more special were the monkeys roaming freely around, entertaining us as we swam.

Their presence shows that the ecosystem here is still healthy. The water was clear and refreshing, and I had a wonderful time snorkeling and watching the marine life beneath the surface.

So that’s my experience visiting the different islands of Isla de Gigantes. It was a fun and memorable trip that made me fall in love with Iloilo even more.

Helmet Diving in Boracay: A Unique Underwater Adventure

2025-08-14T13:03:00.007+09:00

I have a confession! I am an envious kind of person, but it is a different kind of envy. I envy people who can do something I cannot do, and one of the many items on my list is scuba diving. I know for myself that I cannot dive because, number one, I am not confident in my swimming skills, and number two, I find all those diving apparatus intimidating. I love snorkeling, but I have never tried full scuba diving. I am jealous of people who can really get up close and personal with all the fish and fascinating underwater creatures. I love how they pose so calmly under the water, as if they truly belong in this magical marine world.

The first and only diving experience I had was at Talikud Island in Samal, Davao del Norte. You can read my whole scuba diving experience HERE. I cannot believe that was a decade ago, and I have always looked forward to experiencing it again.

They say that we have not yet discovered everything under the ocean. It is so vast that no human technology can fully reveal all the secrets it holds, at least for now. As time progresses, we discover more about marine life, but for us ordinary adventurers, being underwater even for just 30 meters is already a surreal experience. Just imagine seeing underwater wonders you cannot find in shallow waters—beautiful corals, colorful schools of fish whose names I do not even know, sea anemones, sea cucumbers, and if you are lucky, sea snakes and jellyfish. All these and more can only be witnessed when you go down to the ocean floor.

One of the most popular water activities in Boracay is helmet diving, also known as Boracay helmet diving or Boracay sea walking. While it is not the same as scuba diving, it offers a different and unique way to experience marine life up close. This activity takes you about five to seven meters under the sea—just enough to enjoy the beauty of the ocean floor without needing professional diving skills. The price is also very affordable. At only ₱800 (as of this writing), you can experience this fun activity in Boracay. It is no wonder why helmet diving is among the top things to do in Boracay.

Our adventure began with a jet ski ride to the helmet diving site. When we arrived, there were many helmets prepared for guests. We started with a short orientation to remind us not to panic underwater. The staff explained how helmet diving works and what to expect. We were also taught different hand signals since speaking underwater is impossible. For example, there is a specific hand sign if you are in pain, feel uncomfortable, or want to go back up. This is very important for safety and emergencies.

The helmet we used is not the typical one you might see on social media. To me, it looked like a small aquarium, but our guide assured us that it works just as well as the standard equipment. It weighs about 11 kg on land, but once underwater, it becomes much lighter, weighing only about 2 kg. The helmet keeps the water out and allows you to breathe normally, much like when a glass is submerged upside down in water—your head stays dry while your body is underwater.

When I first went underwater, I felt slight pressure in my ears. This is a normal occurrence because of the depth and water pressure, and it was tolerable. I managed to stay calm and enjoy the moment. We went underwater in small groups, and our diving guide stayed close to ensure our safety and watch for any hand signals. We spent about 15 minutes exploring, surrounded by colorful fish and beautiful coral reefs. We could even walk around the ocean floor, enjoying a peaceful world far away from the noise of the surface.

A photographer also took our pictures and videos during the dive, and these were included in the package. The soft copies were later transferred to our phones so we could have lasting memories of our Boracay helmet diving experience. Time seemed to fly quickly. Before I knew it, our guide signaled us to go up, and just like that, we were back on the surface, returning to reality.

It was truly a unique and unforgettable adventure. Walking on the ocean floor, even just for 15 minutes, felt like escaping into another world. It was a rare chance to enjoy peace and beauty in its purest form. I will always be grateful for this incredible experience, and I highly recommend helmet diving in Boracay to anyone visiting the island.

Places in Seoul Featured in the Movie Kpop Demon Hunters and How to Visit Them

2025-08-12T21:54:00.005+09:00

I just recently watched Kpop Demon Hunters, and beyond the moral of the story and the fun, quirky concept, what really hit me was the nostalgia. The movie brought me back to the years I lived in South Korea. I spotted so many familiar places featured in the film.

Even though it’s an animated movie, I’m 100% sure that many of the locations are real. How do I know? Because I’ve actually been there and I have unforgettable core memories from those places.

Before we explore the filming locations, here’s a quick, spoiler-free premise of the movie:

Huntr/x might look like your typical K-pop girl group on stage, but once the lights go down, they trade microphones for weapons because they’re actually demon hunters. Their biggest challenge? The Saja Boys, a rival boy band whose members aren’t just charming, they’re literal demons. What starts as a battle for the charts turns into a fight for humanity itself.

Now, let’s visit all the Seoul landmarks featured in Kpop Demon Hunters and learn how you can get there.

1. Seoul Olympic Stadium

The movie opens with a scene where the girls land in a stadium packed with thousands of fans. Both the interior and exterior of the stadium are shown.

I’ll never forget this place because it’s where I attended a Coldplay concert. With a capacity to hold tens of thousands of people, it’s the perfect venue for world-class performances.

📖 Read my full Coldplay concert experience here: What Happened at Coldplay Concert in Seoul

How to get there:

Take the subway to Jamsil Station (Line 2 or Line 8). Exit the station and follow the signs to the Seoul Sports Complex. The stadium is a short walk from there.

2. Gyeongbokgung Palace

A flashback scene of Jinu seems heavily inspired by Gyeongbokgung Palace, judging from its grand architecture and traditional layout.

This is one of Seoul’s most famous tourist attractions and no first-time visitor to Korea should skip it. My most memorable visit was when I wore a hanbok and strolled around the palace like a local.

📖 Read my hanbok tour experience here: Hanbok Tour at Gyeongbokgung Palace

How to get there:

Ride the subway to Gyeongbokgung Station (Line 3). Take Exit 5, and you’ll be right at the Gwanghwamun Gate, the main entrance.

3. Lotte World Tower

In the movie, this skyscraper serves as the headquarters of Huntr/x. In real life, Lotte World Tower is South Korea’s tallest building.

I was even there when it first opened.

📖 Read my post here: 5 Reasons Why You Should Visit Lotte World Tower

How to get there:

Take the subway to Jamsil Station (Line 2). Use Exit 1, 2, 10, or 11 and the tower is right outside.

4. Namsan Tower (N Seoul Tower)

A Korean movie wouldn’t be complete without showing Namsan Tower. In Kpop Demon Hunters, it’s shown with a concert venue at its base, though in reality, no such venue exists.

I’ve visited Namsan Tower several times and it never loses its charm.

📖 Read my post: Namsan Tower: Seoul’s Center of Attention

How to get there:

From Myeongdong Station (Exit 1), take the shuttle bus with the “Namsan Cable Car” sign. Buses run hourly between 12:00 and 20:30.

5. Hanyangdoseong (Seoul City Wall)

Jinu and Rumi’s meeting spot in the movie is clearly inspired by Hanyangdoseong at Naksan Park, with its signature stone walls and panoramic city views.

One of my most memorable visits here was during a photowalk with other foreigners in Korea.

How to get there:

From Hyehwa Station (Line 4, Exit 2), follow the signs uphill to reach the wall.

6. Bukchon Hanok Village

Jinu and Rumi’s frequent meeting place has all the hallmarks of Bukchon Hanok Village—traditional Korean houses, narrow lanes, and timeless charm.

I’ve been here many times and it always feels like stepping back in time.

📖 Read my story: Of Sanggojae and Bukchon Hanok Village

How to get there:

From Anguk Station (Line 3), it’s a short walk to the village with clear signage along the way.

7. Myeongdong

The Saja Boys’ first appearance takes place in what is unmistakably Myeongdong—from the bustling streets to the street food stalls.

I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve visited Myeongdong. It’s my go-to spot whenever I crave Korean street food.

📖 Read my guide: 8 Must-Try Korean Street Foods in Myeongdong

How to get there:

Take the subway to Myeongdong Station (Line 4, Exit 6) or Euljiro 1-ga Station (Line 2, Exit 5).

There you have it, seven real-life Seoul locations featured in Kpop Demon Hunters. If you’re visiting South Korea, be sure to add these spots to your itinerary for a fun mix of K-drama vibes, K-pop culture, and unforgettable city views

Unforgettable Parasailing Adventure in Boracay: A Surreal Experience with a Rare Dolphin Sighting

2025-08-01T22:24:00.003+09:00

Being in an industry where I stay at home most of the time and spend long hours working in front of my computer, sometimes, getting out there and doing adrenaline-pumping activities feels like a luxury. Not because we can't afford it, but because we don't often have the time to go out and explore. While the introverted side of me is suited to this kind of setup, I can’t help but occasionally give in to my craving for thrilling adventures. There’s something inside me that wants to try terrifying things as long as I know I’ll survive and come out of it still kicking.

Let’s face it: no matter how introverted you are, there will come a time in your life when you just want to go out there and shout your heart out to the world, just like an extrovert would.

So when we went to Boracay, we were offered a chance to try parasailing. I knew about it because I’ve seen it a lot on social media. I even remember a news story from years ago about a family of three who went parasailing, but got detached from the speedboat, leaving them hanging midair before eventually dropping into the ocean. Thankfully, they had life vests on, so they were fine. That didn’t stop me from wanting to try it myself. Just because it happened to them doesn’t mean it would happen to me. I just wanted to experience it and see what kind of view awaits when you’re soaring through the sky.

Boracay wasn’t too crowded when we visited. It was different from what I’d seen on social media, where the beach is packed with people, celebrities, and tourists. I guess it wasn’t peak season, but I was glad to experience Boracay that way. I still couldn’t believe I was stepping on that fine white sand I’d only seen in postcards and books. I was finally living something I had only dreamed about. It felt surreal, and I couldn’t help but glorify everything—the sunset, the sand, and all the water activities. Parasailing seemed to be the most popular water activity there. We paid ₱3,500 for a 15-minute ride. It sounded expensive, but I thought, “I’m already here, I need to experience this.” So I did.

The speedboat took us to the waiting area, somewhere in the middle of the sea. I don’t know what got into the mind of our speedboat driver, but he really gave us a wild ride. He seemed to be showing off his skills, speeding across the waves. But we enjoyed the quick, bumpy ride, it made the experience even more thrilling.

In the waiting area, we transferred to another boat equipped with the parasailing gear. There were three of us, and we all chose to fly solo. I went first. After receiving instructions and ensuring all safety checks were in place, they finally let me fly.

Adrenaline started to kick in, and my heart was pounding. I kept rising, higher and higher, until everything below looked so small. That’s when I realized how high I was. It felt amazing to be up there, higher than anyone else at that moment. I saw everything, the vast ocean, our boat and the people in it, swimmers, the coastline, mountains, and sky. It was like being in a world of my own, completely alone and free. I thought of The Little Prince, alone on Asteroid B-612; maybe he felt the same way.

I prayed and thanked God for letting me experience this kind of adventure. It helped me see life from a new perspective. It was a refreshing breather looking at the world from above, seeing things differently, and gaining a sense of clarity. For that, I am truly grateful.

After my turn, I stayed on the boat, waiting for the others. Suddenly, a breathtaking sight appeared, dolphins swimming around our boat. First, I saw one, then two, then three... and in the blink of an eye, an entire pod was swimming with us, showing off their beauty and playfulness. We were all shouting with joy like kids, just soaking in the moment.

According to locals, dolphin sightings in Boracay are rare—they happen only once a year. We were in the right place at the right time. I don’t know what the universe was trying to tell me, but in that moment, I felt favored and deeply blessed. I had never seen real dolphins in the their natural habitat before and it happened right then and there. What a privilege. It’s something I’ll treasure and keep as a core memory forever.

I’m so happy with my parasailing experience in Boracay. Even now, I can still recall how it felt to be up there. The experience was absolutely worth it and definitely one for the books.

Top Attractions to Visit on a Boracay Land Tour

2025-07-22T23:22:00.002+09:00

Boracay could very well be, without question, one of the top places every Filipino dreams of visiting in the Philippines. It didn’t become one of the most sought-after destinations not just locally but globally for no reason at all. People say Boracay has the finest white sand ever. I also heard it has beautiful sunsets and clear blue waters. Sometimes, there are algae, but that’s just seasonal. Other than that, Boracay has everything you could ever want in a beach.

I remember a time when a Korean friend asked me what place I would recommend visiting in the Philippines. Without hesitation, I immediately said, “Boracay.” I clearly remember how I boasted about how beautiful it was and how proud I was of it. But what took me aback was when he asked if I had already been there. I was silent for a few seconds because how could I describe and recommend a place I hadn’t even visited yet? In the back of my mind, I even questioned myself. Can I even afford to go there? Boracay felt like a luxury, an international tourist destination.

I had to respond, so I confidently said, “Not yet, but someday, I will.” Still, it felt embarrassing. I felt like one of those fake endorsers on TV hyping a product they don’t actually use. Since then, I became more careful whenever someone asked the same question. I stopped recommending Boracay. But deep down, I still hoped the day would come when I could say it with full honesty.

Fast forward to this year. Yes, it took a while, but I finally made my dream vacation to Boracay come true. I joined a travel group and visited Boracay on a budget. I used to think it was expensive, but it actually isn’t. It really depends on your travel lifestyle, but for me, it was surprisingly affordable.

Here’s what we did during our land tour around Boracay

1. Lugutan Mangrove Park

Our first stop was Lugutan Mangrove Park, a quiet little spot where they protect the mangroves that shield Boracay’s coasts. As a nature lover, I appreciated the peaceful shade it offered, especially since we went there at noon. It was a breath of fresh air. It’s good for biodiversity. Biodiversity? Since when did I start talking like that? LOL. But honestly, I loved the calm and relaxing vibe, well, until we arrived and stirred up the peace a little. It was fun walking through the wooden bridges amid the mangrove trees, which felt like they were welcoming us with their shade and the breeze they brought.

2. Bulabog Beach

Next, we headed to Bulabog Beach. This is where you’ll find the famous leaning coconut tree. It felt surreal to finally see something I’d only seen on social media. There was also a huge “Boracay” signage. It was quiet when we arrived, probably because of the scorching heat. Some water sports equipment like kayaks were ready, but nobody seemed to be using them. Maybe it gets busy during certain times of the day. And I don’t know if it was just me, but the wind here was strong.

3. White Beach

Then we visited White Beach, not the super famous Station 2 beach, but another one also named White Beach. When we went, it was almost empty, except for a foreign couple being extra affectionate in the water despite the heat. If you’re looking for privacy and serenity, this is the spot. The sand here is just as white and fine as anywhere else in Boracay. Kudos to them for giving it such a literal name.

4. Keyhole

One head-turner in the Newcoast area is the Keyhole, a giant rock formation that looks like an entrance to a cave, though there’s no actual cave. It’s a naturally formed attraction. To get there, we had to walk almost a kilometer under the blazing sun. The area is secured, and you can’t go too close to the hole itself for safety reasons. There's a designated photo spot. Not much to do there really, except marvel at the formation and take pictures.

5. Puka Beach

Next stop is Puka Beach. It’s one of Boracay’s more popular beaches with its own unique vibe. It was quite crowded, probably because of the many souvenir shops nearby. Here you’ll meet the “braiders” who’ll try to convince you to get your hair braided. They also have a famous sandcastle here, and the whole area gave off a really good energy. The only downside is that everything here is extra expensive, from water to snacks to souvenirs.

6. Sunset Viewing at the Grotto (Station 3)

Our final stop was at Station 3, where you can see a grotto on a small islet. Sadly, the tide was too high, so we couldn’t cross over to see it up close. But the highlight wasn’t the grotto. It was the sunset. As the sun began to set, Paraws or traditional sailboats started filling the horizon. It was such a magical moment. What a perfect way to end the land tour.

So if someone asks me again what place I’d recommend in the Philippines, I can now proudly and confidently say Boracay. And why? Because I’ve been there and I’ve experienced its beauty and magic for myself.

Book Review: The Courage to Be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga

2025-07-15T21:49:00.008+09:00

Story Time: I was testing this app, it's a photo editor I found online. It has so many features that you can actually transform your photos into something you envision. I was amazed at how today's technology can so easily help us turn an ordinary photo like this:

Into something brighter and more glowing, like this:

As I exported the newly edited photo, I noticed that the app showed a summary of the changes I had applied to achieve the final result. A total of 10 edits were made ranging from filters to temperature, color adjustments, brightness, and more. Wow, that’s quite a lot of changes for a single photo! While tinkering with it, I remembered a book I had just finished reading. It's a best-selling book called The Courage to Be Disliked by Japanese philosophers and psychologists Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga. My friends recommended it to me, and I’ll tell you, if you decide to read it, prepare for your beliefs to be challenged by Adlerian Psychology.

I recalled that the book talked about many life issues, including how we tend to complicate the world. According to the book, the world is actually very simple, but we each view it through different filters, which makes it seem more complicated. We want to see the world the way we want it to be so we create beliefs, force things to happen, and often live life not by our own design but according to others, making things unnecessarily complex. In truth, it's simple. Just like the photo above, it used to be simple, but my desire to make it brighter and clearer led me to apply all kinds of filters.

At first, I found the book’s format a bit strange because it’s written as a dialogue between a youth and a philosopher. And even though the authors are Japanese, the concept isn't specifically tied to Japan. In fact, the core ideas are based on the teachings of Alfred Adler, a lesser-known philosopher compared to Freud or Jung. That intrigued me. I resonated with the youth character in the book that I kind of get hooked to reading it. Sometimes I get angry at life, mostly because I don’t understand what’s happening around me, and I end up blaming my past or my circumstances. As I read further, it felt like I was a dartboard being repeatedly hit. I had to take everything with a grain of salt, because at times, I found myself disagreeing.

One example is Adler’s teleological psychology. Unlike Freud’s etiological psychology, which suggests that our present is caused by our past, Adler believed we should be driven by purpose and not held back by our past. He gave the example of a child who is afraid to go outside. According to Freud, the child’s fear could be due to past trauma like strict parents, bullying, or other past events. Adler disagreed. He argued that the child stays inside simply because he chooses to. The past is just an excuse. If the child truly wanted to go out, he would. In Adler's view, trauma does not exist in a way that defines our behavior, our past has nothing to do with who we are now. if we really want to change, we can do so, traumatized or not.

This could be hard to accept, especially for those struggling with mental health due to past experiences. It can feel invalidating and I agree with that concern.

I also learned that all problems stem from interpersonal relationships. If you don’t want problems, then live alone on another planet. As long as you interact with others, problems are inevitable. That’s why we’re taught to treat people as comrades, not enemies. By doing this, we stop comparing ourselves to others and quit competing. Only when we stop seeing others as opponents can we build healthy relationships.

Adler also discussed inferiority and superiority complexes. I learned that these are not opposites as superiority actually stems from inferiority. When we feel inferior (thinking less of ourselves compared to others), we may try to appear superior by associating ourselves with successful people. We draw confidence from others' success rather than our own. He also described the feeling of inferiority as different from the inferiority complex. The former can motivate us to strive harder, to improve ourselves. Adler encouraged horizontal relationship, that is treating everyone as equals. This helps eliminate feelings of both inferiority and superiority. To maintain horizontal relationships, we must avoid both praise and rebuke. Instead of praising, simply say “thank you.” Praise can unintentionally place others above us, creating vertical relationships.

Another important concept was the separation of tasks. Each person has their own tasks, these are the things they can control. We should focus on our own tasks and not interfere with others'. For example, parents should not choose their children's career paths. The more we interfere, the more likely we are to face rejection. By focusing only on our own responsibilities, we develop the courage to be disliked. That means doing what makes us happy, regardless of others’ opinions. Whether others approve or not is their task, not ours.

In all these conversations, the bottom line is: we all aspire to be free and happy. But we can only achieve that if we follow our purpose, contribute to our community, and focus on what we can control. While we can't avoid relationships, we can choose how we engage with others and how much power we give their opinions over our lives. When we stop chasing approval, that’s when we feel true freedom. If you’re still seeking approval, you haven’t found that freedom yet.

I remember a friend who used to post photos and videos online. She would get only a few likes and views but she kept posting anyway. Her purpose wasn’t about getting views. She wanted a platform where she could archive memories of her travels and life events. So it didn’t matter whether people reacted or not, that wasn’t her goal.

I relate to that with this little blog of mine. Since around 2016 or 2017, blogging has mostly been replaced by vlogging. People now prefer watching videos over reading articles. But did I stop writing? No. Did I shut down this blog like many other bloggers? No. Because I understood that things had changed and I accepted that my organic traffic would be lower than it was in the early 2000s. I stopped chasing traffic and refocused on my purpose: to write down my thoughts about my travels, book reviews, movie and food reviews, or anything else. Someday, I’ll look back and read what I wrote 5 or 10 years ago and relive those moments. It’s now more about passion than seeking approval from readers. If I have readers, great. If not, that’s okay too. I no longer want to waste time thinking about how to increase traffic. That’s no longer my priority. This is my task and I won’t intervene in others’.

I’m not 100% converted to Adlerian Psychology, but I’m glad I came across it. It reminded me how powerful our emotions are and how, if we’re not aware of these concepts, our emotions can take over and cause chaos in our lives and the world around us.

Fun Fun Fun at Campuestohan, A Highland Resort in Negros Occidental

2025-07-06T12:04:00.003+09:00

It was a gloomy Sunday morning in Bacolod, but I was excited because we were heading somewhere fun today—Campuestohan Highland Resort. I guess a visit to Bacolod is never complete without seeing this famous resort.

I was supposed to be in bed at home that early morning, feeling sentimental about life, knowing that it was about to rain, the weekend would soon end, and we’d be back to the grind. But no, this day felt different. For one, I was in a new place—free from anxiety about the upcoming Monday, away from my usual routine, and breathing in something new. It smelled like freedom. I felt happiness—pure, unfiltered fun. Sometimes, not being part of a workforce, doing something different from the others and just doing something you love, is the only thing we need in life to enjoy it at its fullest.

Fun! I almost forgot what that word meant. I don't want to be overly dramatic because I know I’m not carrying the heaviest burden on earth, but we all have struggles, and we all have the right to not feel okay sometimes. I was just glad I had this chance to explore the Philippines once again. As I continue my goal to visit all 82 provinces, fate brought me here to Bacolod, Negros Occidental—perhaps not just to discover the beauty of the country, but to escape the usual and rediscover joy.

Adulting really takes its toll on me. And while we can’t fully escape that reality, we can always find ways to roll with it and enjoy life a little. As we approached Campuestohan Highland Resort, I felt like a kid waiting for an ice cream treat. I already knew what this place had in store. I was also glad to be with a bunch of people I’d come to like after four days of exploring parts of the Visayas with them. I knew we were going to have so much fun—and I had already promised myself that no matter what, I was going to enjoy this experience.

True to its name, the themed resort is actually located on high ground. I noticed we were ascending, though not quite heading to a mountain. Still, we were clearly getting higher. Upon arrival, we walked a bit from the parking area to the entrance, and the first thing we saw was the wave pool area. If swimming isn’t fun for you, then I don’t know what is! The resort is vast, and aside from the pool, there were several areas we planned to explore that day.

I really wanted to swim, but I figured I’d save it for another day. Just as we entered the resort, the water in the pool began to overflow. They said that at certain times of the day, they intentionally release the excess water.

Also, there was a foam party happening at that moment. Everyone was ecstatic, playing with the foam. I looked around and realized that every corner of the resort was made for Instagram. It reminded me of my visit to RR Spring Resort in Bukidnon, but this one was even more aesthetic. Even the trash bins were part of the show—you’d see T-Rex heads everywhere. And before you mistake them as decorative pieces, know that they’re actually garbage containers.

I finally met the famous Manok ni Kano Guwapo. This building holds the Guinness World Record for being the tallest building in the shape of a chicken. Yes, you read that right. It’s not just a statue or a decoration—it’s a fully functional building. I was so amazed. Heaven knows how much money they poured into constructing such a unique structure. If their goal was to impress onlookers, they definitely succeeded.

Aside from that, I was also wowed by the King Kong building—yes, another functional structure. It’s so huge, it felt like I stepped into a King Kong movie. It was my first time seeing anything that massive.

And if you love art, you’ll definitely enjoy it here. Art installations are scattered everywhere, like an outdoor museum filled with different structures, movie characters, icons, and more. Everywhere you look is a visual feast. Like children, we were giddy over every sight and experience. Every inch of this place is Instagrammable—I couldn’t help but be in awe the entire time.

The resort also offers a variety of activities—some for adrenaline junkies, and some just for simple fun. I noticed that most of them were still closed at the time, though. No one was on the bike ride or the rainbow slide—maybe we were just too early.

Not only did this resort take me back to my childhood, but it also transported me to the land before time—the dinosaur era. I've always been fascinated by these creatures. They have all sorts of dinosaur species here, and they didn’t just replicate their size and form—they also mimicked their movements and sounds. Some of them were even animated!

Who says crossing a hanging bridge isn't fun? It’s actually so much fun—especially when you're up there and get to see the rainbow slide, the pool, and other beautiful spots and structures around the area.

Out of all the places we visited in the Visayas, this one stood out as the most unique and the most fun. It was truly a memorable experience, something I’ll cherish as part of my core memories.

I know I’ll soon return to the real world, where work will consume most of my time. But I’m grateful for the opportunity to experience this. Because maybe one day, when I’m anxious or stressed, I can pull out this memory and remember what it felt like to just be happy.

The Romantic and Tragic Story of The Ruins- The Taj Mahal of Negros Occidental

2025-07-03T23:27:00.002+09:00

This question has been asked so many times already, but I think I want to ask it again.

How far have you gone for love, and was it worth it?

Should I even answer this question? Well, I think the answer would definitely vary from person to person. Love here doesn’t only refer to romantic relationships—it could also mean love in interpersonal connections. Love is everywhere, to the point that it sometimes feels so overrated that we begin to question whether what we feel is truly love or not.

Maybe one can prove their love by going the extra mile just to show it. But how do you really prove it? Is it through expressing your love language—like acts of service, gift-giving, or spending time? I honestly don’t know. Maybe I have no idea, or maybe I’m just oblivious to this kind of love altogether.

But my perspective changed when I happened to visit The Ruins in Talisay, Bacolod City, Negros Occidental. This old building symbolizes the true essence of love—a love that proves its authenticity and existence as long as the structure continues to stand through generations.

The Ruins is often called the Taj Mahal of Negros Occidental, and rightly so. It might be a bold comparison, but as it stands, this building was also born out of love—just like the Taj Mahal. It's a structure built in the Renaissance architectural style. Although not as massive as the Taj Mahal, it shares the same romantic and tragic essence.

I was very excited when we visited. It was around lunchtime and the weather was gloomy. From the parking area, we walked a short distance to the entrance of The Ruins, and as we entered, there it stood—a hauntingly beautiful structure from the early 20th century. I felt a bit melancholic, and I couldn’t understand why. Maybe because it felt like we were stepping into a time machine, witnessing something deeply historic right before our eyes. I imagined how this place looked in its prime. Then it hit me—no matter how glorified your life is, time will come when, like these ruins, all that glory may fade. But if you're built on love, even if time strips away everything else, your glow will remain.

I looked around. The building, though weathered, drew a lot of visitors. It seemed like rain was about to fall, but people didn’t care. We all came from different places to witness The Ruins. While exploring, I learned a few things about the place—including its romantic and tragic backstory.

Let’s talk about the romantic part first. In the 1920s, there was a man named Don Mariano Ledesma Lacson. He was called “Don” because he was a wealthy sugar baron with vast sugarcane plantations in Negros Occidental. Don Mariano had a wife, Cora Maria Osorio Rosa-Braga, whom he loved dearly. They had a happy married life and were blessed with ten children. You probably wouldn’t have ten children with someone you didn’t truly love.

But as wedding vows say, “’Til death do us part.” In 1911, Cora passed away. As a testament to his undying love, Don Mariano ordered the construction of a mansion in her honor. Since then, the mansion has stood as a symbol of his love for her.

Now for the tragic part. During the Japanese invasion of the Philippines, the mansion became a target. The Japanese soldiers wanted to convert it into their headquarters. They asked Don Mariano to vacate the house so they could occupy it. But he refused. He couldn’t bear the thought of their evil intentions tainting the beautiful memory of his wife. So, he made a heartbreaking decision—to burn the mansion. It burned for three days, ensuring that no one could use it for such dark purposes. And that is why it is now called "The Ruins"—what remains of the mansion after it was consumed by fire.

Decades have passed, but "The Ruins" still stands and has become one of the top tourist attractions in Bacolod. I love how they’ve preserved every part of it. Inside, you’ll find memorabilia from the family who once lived there. Walking through its halls feels like traveling back in time—every corner tells a story. The building stands as a witness to a great love and the tragedy that marked its past.

Outside the mansion is a wide garden filled with lush greenery. The atmosphere is peaceful and serene. There's also a restaurant where you can dine, a souvenir shop, and even a mini film viewing session that tells the story of the mansion for those who want to learn more.

As we explored further, the rain began to fall—something I expected given the gloomy skies. As we prepared to leave, I looked back one more time and felt a wave of sadness. Maybe it was the weather. Maybe it was the feeling that I might never return. Or maybe… maybe it was because I envied the kind of love Don Mariano had for his wife.

In today’s world, love like that feels so rare—to immortalize your love for someone, and allow future generations to witness and remember it. That’s love. A love that goes the extra mile. A love that not even death could erase.

So I ask again, How far have you gone for love, and was it worth it?

My Key Takeaways from the Book The Mountain Is You by Brianna Wiest

2025-07-02T14:05:00.002+09:00

This is Mt. Matutum from afar. If you’re in South Cotabato, you’ll likely see this mountain, as it is the highest point in the province, standing at 7,500 feet above sea level. Every time I see Mt. Matutum, I always wonder: What can we see at the top of this mountain? If it wasn’t blocking my view, what would I see instead?

That’s why a mountain is often used as a metaphor for a hurdle—something that stands in the way of your goal, a challenge, or even a giant that might crush you the moment you approach it. When I came across the book The Mountain Is You, I immediately felt it was something deep and psychological—just judging from the title alone (though we’re told not to judge a book by its cover). I felt drawn to read it because something in me said I needed it.

It was during our Visayas tour that I spotted the book The Mountain Is You from one of our travel companions. I was reading a different book at the time, but I felt the urge to borrow hers. I thought I could use some of our idle moments while traveling to read it and return it before the trip ended. I had come across the book before, but now that I finally had the chance to read it, I knew there were valuable insights waiting for me.

And now, I’m sharing with you the key takeaways I gained from reading this book.

The book talks about self-sabotage. It was my first time encountering the term, but according to Brianna, anything you do that has negative repercussions on your mental and emotional well-being is considered self-sabotage. If you’re familiar with negative self-talk, procrastination, fears, unresolved trauma, and the like—those are all forms of self-sabotage. These are things we do to ourselves that hinder us from becoming the best version of who we are.

Here are the key insights I learned from this book:

1. We need to identify our own mountains

As I mentioned earlier, a mountain is a metaphor for the hurdles we face in life. This is highly subjective because we all have different struggles. The only person who can truly identify your mountain is you.

So what’s blocking you from your goals, your happiness, or your success? List them down—your limiting beliefs, self-doubts, past traumas, fears—anything that feels like a barrier to your full potential. These are your mountains.

If you're having trouble identifying them, ask yourself:

What recurring issues do I keep facing?
What fears and doubts keep holding me back?
What beliefs do I have about myself or my abilities that limit me?

Asking yourself these kinds of questions is a form of self-assessment. And you may be surprised—once you list your answers, your personal mountains become clear.

2. We need to understand the root causes

These mountains didn’t just appear out of nowhere. There's a reason they exist—and more often than not, they stem from deep psychological issues developed in the past.

Think about your self-esteem issues, fear of failure (or even success), and unresolved childhood traumas. These are often the root causes.

Understanding these roots helps us address self-sabotage. Just like an enemy, you need to know where it’s coming from to defeat it. Many of these beliefs were shaped during childhood and still influence us today. If they are holding us back from becoming better versions of ourselves, then they are self-sabotaging beliefs we need to let go of.

3. We need to embrace self-empathy

Once we've identified our mountains and their root causes, it's time to replace self-sabotage with self-empathy. That means treating ourselves with kindness, practicing positive self-talk, and being patient with our progress.

Mistakes are inevitable and part of life. Instead of being harsh and critical, forgive yourself. Don’t be so quick to blame yourself when things don’t go as planned. Be gentle. Be kind. Be patient. Replace self-criticism with compassion and encouragement.

Wiest also shared some practical advice for fighting self-sabotage:

1. Set clear goals and intentions

When your goals are clear and achievable, your mind has direction. You become too focused on growth and progress to be distracted by self-sabotage.

2. Create a positive environment

Surround yourself with people who uplift you. Clean up your space. Avoid toxic influences. A good environment nurtures your well-being and minimizes negativity.

3. Develop healthy habits

Incorporate healthy habits into your routine—daily exercise, nutritious food, reading, gardening, or any passion project. These healthy distractions can steer your mind away from self-sabotaging thoughts.

4. Challenge your negative thoughts

When negative thoughts start to take over, challenge them. Learn cognitive reframing. Ask yourself:

Is it really that bad?
Is this worth my time and energy?
Is this thought even true?

Often, you’ll realize these thoughts don’t hold as much power as you assumed.

5. Take consistent action

At first, the changes might feel small and insignificant. But over time, consistency leads to transformation. These small steps accumulate and grow into big results.

The Mountain Is You is a must-read for anyone struggling with self-sabotage and feeling stuck in their potential. If you're aiming to build a better self-image and heal from within, this book can be a powerful guide.

I hope the key takeaways I’ve shared inspire you to read it too—and help you take that first step toward conquering your own mountain.

Traditional Healing in Siquijor: My Tuob Experience at Balay Pahauli

2025-06-27T11:17:00.002+09:00

When we were in Siquijor, I couldn’t help but notice the shouting tourism tagline of the island: “Healing Paradise.” But where exactly is the healing in the beaches and waterfalls? Ah, perhaps, when you go there, your soul is healed by nature—just by exposing yourself to the beautiful places in Siquijor. I believe there's more to this "healing" than meets the eye.

I’ve always known Siquijor as a mystic island—the one province in the Philippines with a reputation for mythical creatures like aswang and mangkukulam. And if we dig deeper, Siquijor is also known for traditional healing—something that goes beyond the physical. It's mystical. It's spiritual. It's something for the soul.

If this is the kind of experience you're looking for, then I think Balay Pahauli is a place you should definitely include in your itinerary. Originally, we didn’t plan to go there because we had limited time in Siquijor. But someone suggested trying their traditional hilot and tuob, so we canceled a few other stops and decided to head to Balai Pahauli instead. It made sense to include it—after all, before Siquijor became famous for its beaches and waterfalls, it was first known for its rich culture of healing. As a culture-vulture type of traveler, I knew this was something I had to experience.

I didn’t expect much, but I was sure it was something I wanted to try. I noticed we were heading uphill. The healing hut is located in the mountainous area of Barangay Cantabon, but don’t worry—the road is accessible and fully paved. When we arrived, the place wasn’t anything fancy. It was a simple hut—not grand or eye-catching. Outside the house, there was a sign that read “Balay Pahauli,” which means “Healing Hut.” The wooden signage bore the name Juanita Torremocha, a local practitioner of tuob and hilot.

When we entered the hut, a woman greeted us warmly and asked us to wait. The place was calm and silent. A few customers were leaving since it was still early in the morning. Soon, we were met by a man—clearly not Juanita, but her husband, Noel Torremocha, who is also a practitioner of tuob. He began preparing everything for the session, and one by one, we experienced what tuob was all about.

First, he made us wear a white gown—just like the ones you wear in a barbershop. Then, he read our pulse and our palms. Right there and then, he identified what was bothering us physically. He began the fumigation by placing various ingredients into a palayok (clay pot), which was placed under the chair I sat on. Manong Noel told me the ingredients were a mixture of wood gathered from the forest and the sea seven Fridays before Good Friday. Allegedly, this tuob helps restore not only your physical health but also your spiritual well-being, driving away negative energy.

He then went to a small altar lined with bottles of oil. After a quick prayer, he returned to me with one of the oils. He marked a cross on my forehead, then on both temples, and finally on the back of my neck. He blew air gently over each spot. After a few minutes of inhaling the aromatic smoke—letting it deeply penetrate my senses—the session ended.

What did I feel afterward? I felt relaxed and light. Nothing dramatic, but whether it was psychological or not, it felt like a reset for me. I guess you’ll only understand it once you try it yourself.

Outside the tuob room, there were plenty of healing products for sale—love potions, oils, amulets, and more. Anything you can think of that’s related to healing, they had it. Certificates of legitimacy hung on the walls, along with photos of celebrities and public figures who had also visited the hut for their own tuob experience.

It was truly a one-of-a-kind experience for me. I’m not usually one to believe in these things, but if it’s traditional and has been proven effective by our ancestors, I don't think it hurts to give it a try.

Visiting the Enchanted Balete Tree in Siquijor

2025-06-18T20:58:00.003+09:00

Let’s forget about beaches and waterfalls for now. This time, I’m taking you to one of the most standout locations in Siquijor—the Old Balete Tree located in Lazi. They capitalize on the idea that Siquijor was first known for its mysterious entities and stories like aswang, witchcraft, and whatnot. This Balete tree, which is believed to be more than a century old, definitely makes sense to visit.

When we arrived, we were greeted by a big sign. It would be a mortal sin not to find this place because of the loudly screaming “I ❤️” sign. It’s just beside the road, so it’s really easy to locate.

There’s an entrance fee of only 20 pesos, and I was in awe when I saw the Balete tree—huge, and I mean very huge. I felt a bit creeped out at one point, knowing that Balete trees have a reputation for being a favorite tambayan of our friends from other dimensions. I wondered: is there a kapre living in this tree? Or maybe some duwendes thriving in its roots? Could there be fairies or white ladies? But then I saw the place—so crowded that I don’t think any other entities would want to live there.

Aside from its stunning size that dominates the area, the real mystery of this tree comes from the fact that its massive roots emit spring water. Nobody can really tell where the water comes from, but there’s so much of it that it has even formed a pool in the area. In this pool, there are doctor fish (also known as nibble fish) that offer a free foot spa. Just dip your feet in the water, and these little creatures will nibble at your dead skin. It’s a natural fish spa with a slightly electrifying sensation. I had to try it myself, and while it wasn’t my first time experiencing a fish spa, I felt relaxed from the tingling sensation of the fish nibbling away at my dead skin.

The entire area is shaded by the giant Balete tree, so even during the hottest weather, it stays cool and fresh. Just be aware that the place can get quite crowded at times. If you want a chance to take photos amidst the Balete roots, you might have to wait for your turn.

Aside from the old giant Balete tree, its spring water, and the fish spa, there are also food stalls, restaurants, and even souvenir shops in the area. You can dine here or shop for some pasalubong.

We didn’t stay long—probably around an hour or so. It’s a small area and there isn’t much to do, but it’s still definitely worth a visit when you’re in Siquijor.

A Quick Stop at the Pitogo Cliff of Siquijor

2025-06-16T22:54:00.001+09:00

If ever you find yourself lost in the beauty of Siquijor someday, please don't skip visiting Pitogo Cliff. Well, honestly, there's not much to the place except for the iconic cliffs and the beautiful view. You don't even need to stay there for too long because there's not much you can do here other than jump off the cliffs. But I really want you to go here because I just think your Siquijor experience isn’t complete without it. Anyway, it won’t take much of your time.

When I went there, it was raining — and no, not just a simple drizzle, but raining very hard. The place is located somewhere in San Juan, Siquijor. It's pretty accessible because it's just near the roadside. Our vehicle couldn’t enter the premises of Pitogo Cliff because the path is too narrow. A scooter could probably fit, but I saw a lot of people just walking from the road to the entrance. It’s a rough and muddy road, but you can just go through it until you reach the entrance. At the entrance, there are a lot of food stalls and souvenir shops — but that’s not what we’re here for.

The moment you enter the gate, it feels like stepping into another world. You’ll need to pass through a bunch of palm trees to reach the cliff. But just as I was savoring my walk amidst the palm trees, feeling like royalty on a red carpet, the rain started to pour very hard. It began with a little drizzle and quickly turned into a storm-like downpour. Good thing there were some kubo in the area, and I found myself seeking refuge under those tiny roofs just to avoid getting completely soaked.

When the rain started to subside, I wasted no time and proceeded to the cliffs. I just thought the place offered a different kind of experience for visitors. I also noticed that it tends to get really crowded — and it was raining during our visit! I couldn’t imagine how many people go here on sunny days. But the view is spectacular. The water is so inviting, as if calling you to jump from the cliffs.

They have a designated area for diving here. If you really want to get the full experience, you can probably take a quick leap and enjoy the waters of Pitogo. I just think the water is too deep — and I’m sure anyone who’s into it will definitely love it.

Most people go here for pictures. Yes, all those beautiful cliffs and scenic views are made for Instagram. But of course, it’s still up to you how you want to experience the place. If you’re brave enough, you can go right to the highest cliff and strike a pose. I’m not sure if you're allowed to jump from there, but I would definitely not try it — unless guided or accompanied by someone experienced.

But was all the drenching in the rain and pushing through the crowd to reach the cliff worth it? It definitely was. We didn’t really stay long in the area because it was still drizzling, and we didn’t even try jumping off the cliff. But I think that’s everything about it.

Maybe, if we compare the whole Siquijor experience to a buffet, Pitogo Cliff is like one of those appetizers. You don’t dwell on them too much — but still, they’re part of the full experience.

Paliton Beach Experience: Crowds, Charms, and Coastal Fun in Siquijor

2025-06-10T22:40:00.001+09:00

I think one of the most memorable places I’ve visited in Siquijor is Paliton Beach. That’s because it was the first place I went to right after arriving at Siquijor Port. Locals call it “Little Boracay” because its fine white sand is comparable to that of Boracay—not to mention the crystal-clear blue water and the overall tropical vibe. Because of that, Paliton Beach has earned its reputation among both locals and tourists. Its beauty is no secret, which is why the beach can get crowded at certain times.

When we visited, it was indeed a bit crowded—but not overwhelmingly so. It was still manageable and enjoyable. While the water at Paliton Beach is so inviting (and I’m pretty sure you could have a great time swimming or snorkeling), I noticed that people don’t go there just for the water. Many come for its Instagram-worthy views and fun activities. I wish I could share more about actually swimming there, but unfortunately, we didn’t have much time since we had to visit other places that same day. Still, compared to other beaches in the Philippines, this “Little Boracay” has its own charm—something truly enticing and attractive.

As much as I wanted to be a traveler at Paliton Beach, circumstances turned me into a tourist that day. I’m not here to debate about being a traveler versus a tourist, but in my own experience at Paliton Beach, I was able to enjoy everything I needed to—except, of course, for the swimming.

Upon entering the beach premises, you’ll see several makeshift stalls and stores selling Siquijor souvenirs. You can find everything from wholesome “Siquijor” t-shirts to dark and mystical voodoo dolls and keychains. You can even buy love potions for 100 pesos per bottle. So it’s safe to say that Paliton Beach is a good place to grab souvenirs.

There are also other “beach activities” in the area, like the popular Paliton Beach welcome frame. It’s a photo spot where you’ll see the name of the beach, perfect for taking welcome videos and group pictures with your friends.

If you’re up for some fun, you can also try the swing by the beach. Depending on how much height you can handle, you can swing as far as you want—just make sure to grip the rope tightly, or you might end up somewhere unexpected!

Siquijor’s reputation for witches and witchcraft is also humorously represented here through a flying broomstick. It’s not the Nimbus 2000, just a simple broom—but you can jump, pose, and take pictures as if you’re flying on it. It’s a fun little experience! For a second, I felt like I was repping Hufflepuff in a Quidditch match… until I realized I was just a beach witch on a broomstick. How’s that for a twist?

They even have a sandcastle on display. If the beach views and poses aren’t enough to shout out that you’re in Siquijor, then this sandcastle—with “Siquijor” and the date written on it—will do the trick to immortalize your visit.

But here’s the catch: all these beach activities are free, but you’re encouraged to give a donation to the people assisting you. How much you give is totally up to you. One more thing—remember how I said the place tends to get crowded? Yes, if you want to try these activities, you’ll need to wait for your turn. There’s a line for most of them, so hopefully, you’ve got enough time (and patience) to wait. And if you’re lucky, you might even have some time left to swim in the waters of Paliton Beach.

What It’s Like to Visit Cambugahay Falls, Siquijor’s Most Iconic Waterfall

2025-06-03T22:24:00.004+09:00

Just this summer, I had the chance to visit one of Siquijor's most visited place, the Cambugahay Falls. I first met Cambugahay Falls in the movie called "Ang Manananggal na nahahati ang Puso". I watched the movie not for the story plot, but for the beautiful shooting locations that is Siquijor. Although I liked the story of the movie, but I was more in love with Siquijor than the love team top billing the movie. In the movie, they featured a lot of places in Siquijor and one of those is the beautiful Cambugahay Falls. They have a scene in this place. And I said to myself, I must go to Siquijor.

The movie did not really make Siquijor popular because it was made way back 2021. It was Anne Curtis' Fairy Walk that has blown out of proportion on social media that made Siquijor a must go place to visit. Thanks to her shenanigans over at the Cambugahay Falls.

Cambugahay Falls is located in the town of Lazi on Siqujor Island. It has three tiered waterfalls with a striking turquoise falls. It actually reminds me of the Cheonjeyeon Falls that I visited in Jeju Island and you can read about it HERE, but this one has its own character and charm that feels like inviting you to go dive and swim in its warm water. No wonder both foreigners and locals swarm to this place because it is really worth it.

But I think people go to Cambugahay Falls not only to swim but to experience. There are a lot of water activities that you can do here. Just take for example on Tier 1, there's an activity they call a fairy walk. It is called as it is because when you swing around the rope, you look like walking on the water giving the visual impression of a fairy hovering over the torquise water of the pool. This is where Anne Curtis started the fairy walk trend. She has got that right influence to attract visitors to come and experience this. The donation fee is 20 pesos for the locals, and 50 pesos for the foreigners. I personally tried this because to be honest, I am now more interested in trying the hype than experiencing the falls itself. I did successfully finished it without even falling. The pressure is real because there are a lot of audience in the area. So the goal here is not to fall, otherwise you end up a laughing matter to people around.

Cambugahay Falls is not just all about the water and the fairy walk, because in the tier 2 of the falls, you can go rope diving as well as balsa riding. Tier 2 is not that high and not that deep, so for those who wants to go diving, you can try and experience it here. You can also rent a life vest for 100 pesos if you want to feel safe when you dive. The donation is only 20 pesos. You can also take your whole group to ride in their balsa. It will not take you anywhere but just near the water that falls through. I did say that we enjoyed this little fun we have at the bamboo raft. We were like kids enjoying the water, and most of all, each other's company.

The third tier is higher and has more extreme rope diving activity seeing that it's too high and the water is too deep. If you are looking for an adrenaline rush activity to satisfy your soul's craving, this is where you should try it. I did put a limit to myself and decided I cannot do it, so I did not try this activity at all. But happy to see all those who were able to fight their fears and enjoyed this activity.

Aside from all these exciting activities at Cambugahay Falls, the falls itself is a natural beauty. With the dense forrest surrounding the area, you feel like you are in a jungle adventure. The only downside of the popularity of the place is just the place becoming overcrowded.

There are so many people that it is really difficult to maneuver around seeing that the pathways to the different waterfall tiers are not that established. But I think it's part of the adventure. Afterall, we are there for adventure.

And speaking of adventure, you might want to improve them stamina because the concrete stairway down to the falls is very steep. you don't need to really be physically fit, but at least make sure you have enough strength to access the area. Overall, my experience at Cambugahay falls is something I could definitely store on my core memory. I love it and if there's a chance, I will definitely go back.

Inside the Mysterious Miracle Pool Cave of Dinagat Islands

2025-05-29T20:52:00.002+09:00

Have you ever seen a natural pool inside a cave?

Or better yet—have you ever seen a miraculous natural pool inside a cave?

In the Dinagat Islands, there’s a place in Plaridel, Libjo, that the locals call Miracle Pool Cave.

I don’t know about you, but when I first heard the name, I wondered if it was some kind of healing pool or a site with religious significance.

But no, it’s not really religious at all—well, maybe just a little. They call it Miracle Pool Cave because it’s a naturally formed pool inside a cave. The “miracle” part of the name refers to the figures that appear on the cave walls. Inside, there’s an area where, when a flashlight is projected at a certain angle, an image resembling Jesus appears. When I visited, someone demonstrated it for me. I honestly didn’t see anything that looked like Jesus’ face, but I just nodded and moved on—whatever it was.

But you know what the real miracle is? It’s the sheer beauty of the place. I must say, the cave pool is incredibly beautiful and astonishing. The water is clear and blue, and you’re free to swim if you’d like. The cave is well-preserved, and visitors are constantly reminded not to touch the stalagmites and stalactites—which, to be honest, is a bit hard to avoid. Still, I can see that the place is well taken care of. It’s clean, peaceful, and so calm that you’d just want to stay there for a long time, reflecting on life and the beauty of nature. Now that, for me, is the true miracle of the place.

However, before you can enter the cave, you’ll need to wait your turn. Yes, especially during peak season, there’s a long line. Only a limited number of people are allowed inside at a time because the cave is quite small. So, everyone must wait for their chance to go in. And naturally, because of the line, your time inside is limited. In our case, we were only allowed to stay for 15 minutes. The pathway leading to the cave isn’t difficult, but it’s so narrow that only one person can pass through at a time.

In the waiting area, there are makeshift chairs where you can sit while waiting. Or, if you’d rather not sit around, you can snorkel or swim in the surrounding area while waiting for your turn. Since the area is quite small, it can get crowded.

Overall, the experience at Miracle Pool Cave was spectacular, and I would definitely recommend adding it to your itinerary when visiting the Dinagat Islands.

Enjoy the Charm of Pagkawasan Beach Resort in Dinagat Islands

2025-05-27T22:07:00.002+09:00

If there’s one thing I’ll never forget about our visit to Pagkawasan Beach Resort, it’s the gentle sea breeze, the serene waters, and the cozy, peaceful morning that greeted us. It was the final stop in our island-hopping adventure in Dinagat Islands, and it truly felt like saving the best for last.

While it might not be the best in a competitive sense—because, let’s face it, every beach in Dinagat Islands has its own magic—Pagkawasan Beach stands out with its unique charm and soulful simplicity. There's no rivalry here; each destination is a flex in its own right.

Upon arriving, we were welcomed by what locals call a "fairy walk"—a scenic path shaded by trees, giving off mystical vibes. It’s not quite the same as the famous walk to Cambugahay Falls in Siquijor, but here, you can create your own whimsical version of it.

Pagkawasan Beach may not be vast, but it offers a picturesque slice of paradise. Like many beaches in the Dinagat Islands, it boasts crystal-clear turquoise waters, powdery white sand, and a tranquil atmosphere that invites visitors to relax, unwind, and soak in the beauty of nature.

The beach features a mini view deck—not as elevated as the one at AO Blue Lagoon, but it provides a serene vantage point where you can admire the entire area from a slightly higher perspective. From here, you’ll also spot a century-old boat relic, believed to be used by ancient settlers. It’s a fascinating historical touch that adds depth to the experience.

For those who need a rinse after a salty swim, the resort offers a deep well freshwater source. And if your soul is seeking peace and a break from city chaos, Pagkawasan Beach Resort is the ideal escape. Here, time slows down, worries fade, and nature does all the talking.

Whether you’re on a full Dinagat Island tour or looking for an off-the-beaten-path getaway in the Philippines, Pagkawasan Beach deserves a spot on your itinerary. It’s more than just a beach—it’s a place to reconnect with nature, history, and yourself.

A SECRET to share

2025-05-26T19:06:00.000+09:00

I want to tell you a secret.

Please don’t get me wrong with this. I am not a gossiper and gossip is not my cup of tea. This is a different secret. Not mine, not somebody, and most of all not yours. And what is this secret I’m telling about? Well, it’s a secret scrolled on this book:

The Secret is a book written by Rhonda Byrne, a name not known to everyone(not even me) but I personally thanked her for making me know the secret. After reading the book, I just have a lot of realizations about life, of the reason why I failed, why I have a lot of problems, why life seems so hard for me, why I am poor, why I don’t have money, why I’m sad, why I have enemies, etc…etc…..

While reading the book, I just simply laughed because I found there that the reasons why we have all these negativities is because of US. Yes, you are accountable of your own failures and you simply cannot blame it to others. If you are having circumstances right now, it’s a consequence of what you did previously.

I learned that there is such a thing called UNIVERSE and it is like a Genie, and that if you wish something, he will generously give it to you. Now,how can we give our wishes to the UNIVERSE?- By simply thinking of it. What you are thinking is giving impression to the UNIVERSE that you are actually wishing for it. For example, you are complaining about something, you may notice that when you are complaining, you will get into situation that will give you more reasons to complain-because the UNIVERSE might interpreted it that you want to complain and so HE will give you more reasons to complain because he thought you want it, you wish for it. So, if you don’t have money, do not say “I am poor!” or “I don’t have money!” – because these are negative statements, and the more you think you are poor-then the poorer you may get.The bottomline is, we should be careful of what we are thinking, because we are not aware that there’s an element called UNIVERSE that is listening to what you are thinking hence giving an impression that you wished for it.

But what is exactly the secret?

The secret is actually the Law of Nature: “Likes attracts likes”. If you still can’t get it, I elaborate further. It simply boils down to this: If you think POSITIVE, then you will get POSITIVE, If you think NEGATIVE, then you will get NEGATIVE. The book taught me to become positive of my thoughts. As much as possible do not entertain negative thoughts because this will bring something negative to you….and if something bad happen-the more you will think of it-the more negative thinking and the more negative situations will be given to you by the Universe. Meaning, in every circumstances, think positive-think good- for you will only feel good if you are thinking good. You can’t feel good if you are thinking bad right? So, if you get into situations, no matter how simple or complicated it is, check yourself, ask yourself….” DO I FEEL GOOD?”- “AM I THINKING RIGHT?”- if the answer is no, then switch your thought to something better so that you may feel better- and if you think good, you feel good-then good things will happen for you. Sometimes we see ourselves getting in “stuck” into unlikely situations-it is because we keep on thinking of the problem and the more we think of it, the more we are giving energy to it-then this will be sent out to the Universe and the Universe in return will give you more and more problems because HE think you liked it because you keep on thinking on it.

I also learned the beauty of Visualization. It is as if thinking about the things you like. In layman’s term, we can say it’s as simple as Daydreaming..but you know what? It’s one of the secret to achieve your goal. By merely thinking that you got it, that you are into it. For example, you want to have a car, then think of yourself driving the car you want and feel as if you already have it. You just can’t simply say “I want to have that car someday”, because the word “someday” may take you forever.

Now, about the UNIVERSE that I am talking about. I would introduce you to him. Who HE is? UNIVERSE is just like an energy, you cannot see it, you cannot touch it, you cannot hear it…but it is existing. It is everywhere but you can’t see it. Can you think of a person who can be present anywhere but can’t see it?...Yes,it’s God..therefore we can equate this as ENERGY=UNIVERSE=GOD.

Amazing right?

Two thumbs up for this book.

Very Nice. I recommend you read it.

And special thanks to Odessa for lending me the book.

Why Cabacungan Cove in Dinagat Islands Is an Underrated Paradise

2025-05-21T21:46:00.001+09:00

I think one of the most underrated places I’ve visited in the Dinagat Islands is Cabacungan Cove. I thought it was just another ordinary island-hopping adventure, but I didn’t expect that I was in for a real treat.

Visiting Cabacungan Cove is like witnessing a wild display of nature. It felt as if I were watching a movie like Avatar—I truly thought I was looking into another world. The rock formations, the untouched beauty, and the birds flying overhead made it feel surreal. It was as if the coves were welcoming us, almost like a red carpet entrance. I was so speechless that I didn’t even take any pictures or videos. It was a pure spectacle of nature that continues to haunt me in the best way, even now.

Cabacungan Cove is my multo of the Dinagat Islands. Needless to say, it’s one of my favorite destinations. We were lucky to arrive early in the morning—probably before 8 a.m. There was no one else on the island except for the cleaners. No tourists, no crowd—just us and the entire island. I was amazed—truly amazed—by the splendor of nature.

I took some time to savor the moment, to appreciate the beauty of the place, and just to be there—trying not to be overwhelmed by the stunning sight before me.

Later on, we went snorkeling in the area. The beautiful coral reefs beneath the surface, clearly visible through the crystal-clear water, spoke volumes. I could tell that the island is protected and respected by both visitors and locals.

While I was snorkeling, a strange fish started following me. It wasn’t afraid of me at all. I later found out that the fish was attracted to the color black—maybe it mistook me for a whale! It was a beautiful moment because it felt like the fish wanted to be friends with me.

One of the most remarkable things about Cabacungan Cove is that it’s a natural habitat for the kalaw, or Philippine hornbill—a rare and iconic bird species native to the Philippines. As we explored the cove early in the morning, we were lucky enough to spot a few kalaw flying overhead, their distinct calls echoing through the limestone cliffs. This sighting added an unforgettable wildlife experience to our trip. The presence of these birds is a strong sign that Cabacungan Cove is an ecotourism gem, with rich biodiversity and well-preserved natural surroundings. For birdwatching enthusiasts and nature lovers, this hidden spot in the Dinagat Islands offers a rare opportunity to witness the kalaw in its natural environment.

Eventually, more people started arriving, and I guess it was time for us to move on, as the place slowly became crowded. But for a moment, it felt like we owned the island. And for the spectacle it gave us, I am truly grateful. It reminded me that we have a great God—one who uses nature to care for us and to fill us with awe at His glory.

I Left My Heart at the Blue Lagoon of Dinagat Islands (A.O Beach Resort)

2025-05-16T23:06:00.003+09:00

As cheesy as it may sound, it’s true—when nature captures your heart, you have no choice but to succumb to its haunting memory.

I know this for sure because the AO Blue Lagoon in the Dinagat Islands is not just your ordinary island destination. I don’t want to sound over-the-top, but everyone seems to be gushing about its beauty—and for good reason. With its island “kisses,” clear blue waters, and peaceful ambiance, this is a place you simply can’t miss.

There’s a viewing deck you can hike to, which takes around 10 to 15 minutes. It’s a bit of a challenge to reach the top, but believe me, it’s worth every step. The view offers a whole new perspective of the lagoon—you can see all the islets from above, like chocolate kisses scattered across the lagoon and open sea.

I also loved that they have a pond area where they take care of tilapia fish. We even spotted some bayawak (monitor lizards), which added a unique and wild touch to the island experience.

It was a bit crowded when we visited AO Blue Lagoon, probably because it’s a common stop on island-hopping tours in Dinagat. Nevertheless, the lagoon can accommodate the crowd. It has a wide swimming area with crystal-clear blue water that seems to mirror the sky on clear days.

What stood out to me the most was the vibe of the island. It felt like everyone was excited for something. Despite the number of visitors, there was this unspoken connection among us—perhaps a shared love for the peaceful surroundings, or the collective dream of staying in a secluded paradise where we could forget everything and simply bask in the beauty around us.

It was truly a magical experience, even if we only stayed for a short time. It was sulit—not just for the views and the adventure, but for the memories we created. For a while, we forgot the life we left behind. It felt like stepping into a different dimension, one where joy and appreciation were the only things that mattered.

No, I didn’t just like AO Blue Lagoon…

I loved it.

Unwind at Bitaog Beach of Dinagat Islands: Pristine Waters, White Sand, and Peace

2025-05-14T12:54:00.001+09:00

If there's one island in the Dinagat Islands that you should not miss, it should be the Bitaog beach. We went there as part of our island hopping adventure and this beach really did not disappoint. It is not called as little Boracay for nothing. I mean, just take a look at its fine white sand and you will know what I mean.

I like how this beach is also non swimmers friendly. It's easy to move around the area of water because the water is not too deep or not to shallow, maybe at least during the time we visited there which is around lunch time already. The place is not just all about water but also the rock formation is one of a kind. It is as if mother nature has worked its way to make the view around the area pleasing to the eye. Also, I see there are caves in the area which I dared not to enter of course.

The beach is named after the Bitaog tree that used to thrive in the area. Sadly, no more trace of Bitaog trees in the beach, nevertheless, the name Bitaog remains the same.

There are other kinds of trees in the area though. Something that is very commendable for this beach resort because during hot season like summer, we can find refuge to the shadows of the trees planted in the area. I like how they preserved it that way despite the development that they made to the place.

The beach resort is not that big though, but more than enough to cater visitors and occasional tourists. Snorkeling in its water is also a good idea. There's not lot fishes in the water, but great enough to entertain you while you are at the area.

There are also some water activities that you can enjoy like water kayaking, snorkeling or you can just simply swim and enjoy its warm water. Overall, my experience at Bitaog beach resort is great and I would gladly recommend it to other people.

Unveiling Hagakhak Rock Formations: Dinagat Islands' Natural Wonder

2025-05-12T19:37:00.000+09:00

I’ve finally made it to the Dinagat Islands—and yes, it’s “Islands” with an "s." Not many people know about it, but Dinagat Islands is actually a whole province on its own. It was recently added to the roster of Philippine provinces. During our visit, we explored one of its most remarkable attractions: the Hagakhak Rock Formations.

The name might sound funny—it literally sounds like a laugh—but the beauty and wonder of this place are no joke. According to our guide, the rock formation is named after a coconut husk, as it resembles one when viewed from a distance. I must say, Mother Nature did an incredible job shaping this island. I imagine it took thousands of years for it to look the way it does today.

Being naturally curious, I took time to survey the area and noticed that the rocks seem to be made of limestone. Their husky texture was likely formed by years and years of ocean waves crashing against them. I couldn't help but marvel at the sheer power of nature that created such a spectacle.

The island is known not only for its rock formations but also for its historical significance during the Japanese occupation. Japanese ships once docked here, and nearby, a shipwreck has been discovered beneath the sea.

It’s just unfortunate that swimming isn’t allowed in the area, as it faces the open sea. It’s stunningly beautiful—but also quite dangerous. Access to the island is restricted during certain times of the day due to high tide and big waves. In fact, when the weather is bad, it's not advisable to visit at all.

I liked how there's a small area featuring a grotto of the Blessed Virgin Mary—perhaps a quiet spot where you can pause and say a little prayer. However, I was saddened to see vandalism in the area. Some irresponsible visitors have engraved their names on the stones. I hope this will soon be regulated and prevented.

So, if you’re planning a trip to the Dinagat Islands and want to see the Hagakhak Rock Formations, make sure to time your visit right. That way, you can fully enjoy this hidden gem.

Trekking to Mal’lumagpak Falls in New Bataan, Davao de Oro

2025-04-09T22:21:00.003+09:00

After our short stay at the Manurigao Highlands, where we had the chance to shake off some stress, we were ready to commence another adventure ride on our habal-habal to Purok 3—our main destination of the day. Our driver informed us that it would be another one-hour ride and to expect a bumpy journey. From the Manurigao Highlands onward, some roads are still under construction, but mostly, they’re still rough and unpaved. I didn’t like the sound of it, but I had no choice but to experience the so-called bumpy ride to Mal’lumagpak Falls.

And off we went. The start of the ride was smooth and fine. There were a lot of heavy equipment in the area, as the road is still under construction. At first, it was fun and easy, but as we went further, we reached a point where all we could see were rocky, uneven roads. I struggled to stay balanced and tightened my grip on anything I could touch just to remain seated. I tried to distract myself with the beautiful scenery—the lush green forest and all—but the struggle was real. If I was struggling on my seat, I could also see how our driver was doing his best to maneuver over the big rocks and inclined roads without losing balance.

I felt secure, though, because the driver assured us that he had been doing this for years, and to him, the road felt like a highway. I don’t usually like bragging, but at that point, I wanted him to brag more just so I could feel safer. True enough, what seemed like a difficult road became “easy peasy” for our driver, so I’ll give it to him and his expertise.

After around an hour and crossing several rivers, we finally reached Purok 3. I sighed in relief—we had arrived safe and sound. Kudos to our habal-habal driver. Not once did I feel that he was intimidated by those rocks. We rested while waiting for the others to arrive. It was around 8 a.m. on a Sunday morning when we got there. I liked how their small community thrived on its own. There were several houses in the Purok with a small population. Although electric posts were already installed, they weren’t functioning yet, so the residents relied on solar power. They even had Piso WiFi, a sports gymnasium, and a sari-sari store. The people in the Purok were very friendly. And since it was Sunday, they also had church services going on.

We stayed in the Purok to eat breakfast, drink coffee, and recharge, as we were about to hike for another hour to reach Mal’lumagpak Falls.

At around 9 a.m., we began our hike. The weather was nice. We passed through native rice fields that seemed to cheer us on. I loved the view of the mountains—they were all green, and we could even see a lot of waterfalls from afar. Surely, there are so many hidden waterfalls in the forests of New Bataan just waiting to be explored.

After about an hour of walking, we reached another Purok, a small community. I liked how every community we passed felt like its own little world. It’s as if their lives revolve around one another, being far from other settlements. We later found out that they belonged to the Mandaya tribe.

As we continued in the direction of the falls, we were amazed by the view. I imagined waking up every morning to green forests and cascading falls. There’s something about lush mountains that calms the mind—something we all want to experience. But then again, this place is very remote, hard to access, and has a history of NPA activity. Though we were assured it had been cleared, the negative image still lingers.

The real challenge began when we started walking through muddy trails—and I mean really muddy, up to knee level. It felt like we were in a rice field. Some parts of the trail were extremely steep, making it even more difficult to pass. Honestly, it felt more like climbing a mountain than hiking. After crossing several rivers and navigating ups and downs, we finally heard the gush of water from the falls. We got excited—we were almost there! So we continued following the trail.

But then I noticed the sound of the waterfall fading. Instead of getting closer, it felt like we were walking further away. There were no visible trails branching off, so we just kept going. After another hour of endless ascent, we were drained—but the falls were nowhere in sight. We met a stranger along the way and asked how much farther the falls were. To our surprise, he told us we had already passed them!

That’s when we realized we were completely lost. We had to retrace our steps. Our guide, who was actually behind us, had been trying to catch up to redirect us to the correct path.

He suggested we try river trekking instead of going back through the same trail. It seemed like a good idea—until we found out that river trekking had no defined path and might even be more difficult. But we had no choice. We were already there, and we had to go with the flow.

River trekking was extra tricky. We had to maneuver over large rocks, steep terrain, and even rappel down slippery paths. One misstep and we could’ve ended up in the river—or worse. And just to make things harder, it started raining. We had to push through despite everything.

After almost an hour of battling through the river, we finally arrived at the marvelous Mal’lumagpak Falls. The view did not disappoint. It was even more stunning up close. We just stood there, taking in the sight and feeling the cool mist from the falls gently touch our cheeks. The rain continued, but it didn’t matter. We savored the moment.

After a few minutes of soaking it all in, it was time to head back. Yes, we had to go through the same difficult route again—but no biggie. If we made it there, we could definitely make it back. I already felt the muscle pain kicking in, but honestly, who cares? I had enjoyed the journey, and I had never felt this satisfied.

Off the Beaten Path: Exploring the Stunning Manurigao Highlands of Davao De Oro

2025-04-08T20:50:00.002+09:00

Visiting Davao De Oro has been on my bucket list because this is the only province in the Davao circuit that I haven't visited yet. Well, technically, I have been to Davao De Oro countless times, and at one point in my life, I lived there. I was an infant when my family decided to move to Mt. Diwalwal in the late 1980s. The province was known as Compostela Valley back then. It was just recently renamed to Davao De Oro. I guess by looking at its name, you will know that this province is rich in gold. What is notable about this province is the presence of mining companies. There are gold mining operations all over the province, which is why it is named the "Gold District."

Aside from mining, one notable feature of this province is the existence of majestic falls throughout the province. This province is known for its stunning waterfalls. There are a lot of waterfalls to visit in this province, but I got the chance to visit the newest accessible falls—Mal'lumagpak Falls—located in Manurigao, New Bataan, Davao De Oro. But I will not talk about the Mal'lumagpak Falls just yet in this blog post because I want to share first the soon-to-be gem of the municipality, and that is the Manurigao Highlands.

The journey to Manurigao Highlands is easy but certainly not for the weak-hearted. We started at the municipality of New Bataan in one of the residences in the area. It was our hike guide-slash-motorcycle driver who brought us to the place where we signed a waiver and registration. At first, I didn’t understand why going to the falls required such a waiver, but I started to doubt that we were going to face something unexpected. So we started by choosing our weapon—I mean, our service.

The motorcycles and habal-habal would be the means of transportation to the assault point. Yes, you read it right—we were not at the assault point yet. We needed to ride those motorcycles for at least 1 hour before we could start hiking. We were warned that the rides were going to be rough, but we had no idea how hard it was. But since I wanted to try something new, I volunteered myself to ride the habal-habal. It's a motorcycle with makeshift side support made of wood and bamboo. This is where we had to take our seat like the Disney passengers that we were—or not.

The trip commenced with a smooth drive. It was fun, and never had I felt intimidated—until we started ascending. Yes, the road was ascending, like a never-ending ascent. But I wasn’t challenged just yet because the road was concrete and the view was spectacular. As we went further up, I didn’t notice that we were really high up there on the winding ascending road until I felt some pressure in the air—the kind that you usually feel when an airplane is taking off. It was very early in the morning, and the view of the sea of clouds was spectacular. It was as if I was peering out of the window of an airplane. Except I wasn’t riding an airplane, but a habal-habal, where I was trying hard to get a good grip on the wood to make sure I wouldn’t get kicked out of my seat.

After over 30 minutes in that bittersweet position, we finally arrived at our first stop: the Manurigao Highlands. It is 5,650 feet above sea level, and if you’re wondering how high that is—it’s more than half the height of the highest mountain in the Philippines, Mt. Apo. So it’s not surprising to feel some pressure in the ears. And when you are in a place at this height, the view will never disappoint. The sea of clouds, the green trees, and even some sightings of falls that look like gems in the middle of the green forest are a sight to behold. I like how the forest is naturally preserved, with no signs of illegal logging despite the place being gradually developed over the years. And I feel so lucky that I was one of the first few people to visit this area.

Yes, first few—because even though the place is very nice to visit, this area was not previously accessible for two reasons. Number one is the difficulty of the road. We are lucky that the road to the Manurigao Highlands is now concrete, so despite it looking like a 90-degree incline in some areas, I think it’s still manageable because it’s concrete. The second reason is that the place used to be infested by NPAs. Our habal-habal driver assured us that the area is now cleared because all the NPAs have surrendered already. I can see it because people have started to build homes in the area, and they are already preparing this place to attract tourists.

The Manurigao Highlands has nothing to offer yet except for this view deck where you can have a relaxing view of the mountains from up above. But there are ongoing developments in the area that will probably attract more people to visit this place soon. It’s safe, it’s easy, and it’s completely de-stressing to go here. I like the cool wind and the relaxing ambiance of the place, where you can stay a good 30 minutes to just enjoy and savor the beauty of nature.

However, Manurigao Highlands was not our main destination that day. We were set for more adventures because we were going to visit the Mal'lumagpak Falls. I am going to talk about this in my next blog. But whether you just want to visit Manurigao Highlands or proceed to visit the Mal'lumagpak Falls, I must say that this place in New Bataan will soon be one of the gems of Davao De Oro.