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<title> <![CDATA[ Gas Industry Eyes Comeback as New York Weighs Climate Law Delays ]]> </title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2026 13:56:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ Fossil fuel interests have enlisted prominent former elected officials to make the case that gas is here to stay. ]]> </description>
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																			<p dir="ltr">After years of seeing their projects rejected in New York, pipeline and power plant companies are eyeing a comeback as the state weighs a slower transition away from fossil fuels. </p>
<p>They’re not just watching from the sidelines. A national industry group, led by some of the country’s largest pipeline builders and a slew of other gas interests, has recently entered the fray, tapping former state politicians to help advance Governor Kathy Hochul’s “all of the above” energy strategy. Top of their agenda: pressing pause on the state’s climate targets.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The group, a nonprofit called Natural Allies for a Clean Energy Future, represents some of the companies with the most to gain if Hochul’s <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/20/hochul-clcpa-climate-law-roll-back">proposed rollbacks</a> to the state’s climate law go through. Speaking at a conference in late March, its New York chapter co-chair, former assemblymember and Bronx borough president Ruben Diaz Jr., gave a spirited defense of the governor’s plan, calling it “responsible leadership.”<br></p>																																			<p dir="ltr">“Yes, more renewables,” he said, “but yes also to modern efficient natural gas when needed to maintain stability. That is not retreating from climate action. That is governing with common sense.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">Diaz, a self-professed environmental justice champion, was delivering the keynote before the Independent Power Producers of New York, or <span class="caps">IPPNY</span>, a trade group representing power plant operators.</p>
<p dir="ltr">It was a new venue for Natural Allies. Formed in 2020, the group has recruited a roster of <a href="https://www.naturalalliesforcleanenergy.org/about/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">high-profile former elected officials</a> to <a href="https://www.washingtonpost.com/climate-environment/2023/02/02/gas-industry-hires-democrats-liberal-voters/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">persuade Democrats</a>, and especially <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/environment/2022/jun/30/gas-industry-pr-advertise-people-of-color" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Black and Latino voters</a>, that gas is here to stay. In the past six months, it has carried that playbook into state-level advocacy, bringing on prominent spokespeople in New York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Virginia, and Wisconsin.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The group is entering New York politics at a pivotal moment. Energy demand is growing, but President Donald Trump’s administration is <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/07/11/trump-hochul-wind-solar-big-beautiful-bill">pulling support for renewables</a> and waging war on <a href="https://www.canarymedia.com/articles/offshore-wind/how-trump-dismantled-a-promising-energy-industry-and-what-america-lost" rel="noopener" target="_blank">offshore</a> <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2026/03/23/climate/offshore-wind-gas-trump-total.html" rel="noopener" target="_blank">wind</a>, a <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2024/11/19/donald-trump-offshore-wind-new-york">central pillar</a> of New York’s green transition. State energy regulators are considering a <a href="https://gothamist.com/news/new-york-climate-goals-face-challenge-as-concern-mounts-about-energy-reliability" rel="noopener" target="_blank">proposal</a> from business groups to pause efforts to achieve a zero-emissions grid. And the governor is <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/12/03/cap-invest-clcpa-lawsuit-hochul-dec-emissions-rules">fighting</a> a <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/10/30/clcpa-ruling-hochul-appeal-new-york-climate-law-cap-invest">court order</a> over violations of the state climate law.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The fight has <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/10/clcpa-climate-law-rollbacks-hochul-budget">come to a head</a> in state budget talks, which are now in overtime as the governor, Assembly, and Senate wrangle over Hochul’s proposed rollbacks of New York’s emissions mandates and other policy sticking points. Despite support from <a href="https://empirereportnewyork.com/climate-and-energy-policy-lets-be-practical/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">some upstate Democrats</a>, Hochul has <a href="https://youtu.be/PRQ4K5ohIxo?si=xDim1Xp3lno3g6bb&amp;t=653" rel="noopener" target="_blank">admitted</a> that she’s facing an uphill battle with the legislature.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Natural Allies brings national heft to the state fight, with the help of familiar faces from New York’s political scene. The group announced Diaz and former Lieutenant Governor Robert Duffy as its state co-chairs last fall, and they quickly began making the rounds in <a href="https://x.com/Natural_Allies/status/1993035318736699849" rel="noopener" target="_blank">policy circles</a> and among <a href="https://x.com/Natural_Allies/status/2016954499412222158" rel="noopener" target="_blank">clergy</a> <a href="https://x.com/Natural_Allies/status/2015838650567631087" rel="noopener" target="_blank">groups</a>. Diaz’s efforts focused on communities of color downstate.<br></p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/-DO0OpDDmwVzW5EpuvryqYudAXqthXGSk_MMVds6h34/w:1000/h:665/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9SdWJlbi1EaWF6LUpSLVRIUl83MzE2Ui5KUEc.jpg" alt="" class=" size-full " /><figcaption>Ruben Diaz Jr. speaks at the Independent Power Producers of New York conference on March 24, 2026.  / Tim Raab/IPPNY</figcaption></figure>
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<p dir="ltr">Duffy, who directs the Greater Rochester Chamber of Commerce, leads the group’s upstate outreach. He said the gas group’s priorities mesh with those of many businesses in the region, who he said could be forced out of New York if the state keeps its current climate deadlines.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“It just defies logic that this is even controversial,” he said.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Natural Allies says it doesn’t lobby in New York, but it treads a fine line. </p>
<p dir="ltr">At the March conference, Diaz mentioned meeting beforehand with a state senator and said he was helping to build “a coalition so that we can give the governor the backing that she needs, so that we can convince many of the legislators” to change the climate law. The previous month, according to the group’s <a href="https://x.com/Natural_Allies/status/2024520841476690307" rel="noopener" target="_blank">social media</a>, he joined the annual conference of the New York State Association of Black, Puerto Rican, Hispanic, and Asian Legislators.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Natural Allies’ website hosts a <a href="https://www.naturalalliesforcleanenergy.org/take-action/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">“Take Action”</a> page directed at state energy regulators. In late March, the group tagged state Senate Majority Leader Andrea Stewart-Cousins in a <a href="https://x.com/Natural_Allies/status/2038973076457615475" rel="noopener" target="_blank">social media post</a> warning of massive energy cost hikes on families “if [climate law] adjustments aren’t made.” </p>
<p dir="ltr">Michael McKeon, spokesperson for Natural Allies, denied that any of the group’s efforts amounted to lobbying. (McKeon is a partner at the consultancy and lobbying shop Actum, where Diaz is co-chair.)</p>
<p dir="ltr">“We have never had legislative meetings or met with the [governor’s office] to discuss legislation at all,” he wrote in an email. “We can and do try to educate folks about our view on issues.” Asked about the “Take Action” page on the group’s website, with a form letter pushing the Public Service Commission to hold hearings on the state’s clean grid mandate, McKeon said it was active for only 10 days in March and “falls outside of lobbying rules.” </p>
<p dir="ltr">Diaz, who runs his own lobbying firm in addition to working for Actum, said he would “know better” than to lobby without disclosing it. </p>
<p dir="ltr">“It’s a consulting gig,” Diaz said of his work with the group. “I’m just there to help educate the community.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">Natural Allies declined to say how much it was paying its state chairs. The group’s latest published <a href="https://projects.propublica.org/nonprofits/organizations/852991975/202542959349301974/full" rel="noopener" target="_blank">tax filings</a>, and <a href="https://heated.world/p/reminder-tim-ryan-is-a-paid-fossil" rel="noopener" target="_blank">prior reporting</a> by the online outlet Heated, show that it paid LLCs linked to some of its national co-chairs, including several former congressmembers, more than $200,000 a year in 2024. The group reported more than $8 million in revenue that year and $10 million in the bank. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Then, Trump took office. Since then, the five publicly traded gas and energy infrastructure companies that top Natural Allies’ <a href="https://www.naturalalliesforcleanenergy.org/about/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">membership list</a> have seen their stocks soar above the S&P 500. With surging energy demand all over headlines and renewables on the defensive, the gas industry is having a moment.</p>																									<p dir="ltr">New York may serve as a test of how far the fossil fuel resurgence will go. Just a few years ago, the state had all but <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2024/11/05/new-york-fossil-fuel-future">ruled out</a> new fossil fuel infrastructure. Between 2020 and 2022, state environmental regulators rejected <a href="https://extapps.dec.ny.gov/docs/permits_ej_operations_pdf/nesewqcdenial05152020.pdf" rel="noopener" target="_blank">every</a> <a href="https://extapps.dec.ny.gov/docs/permits_ej_operations_pdf/nesewqcdenial05152020.pdf" rel="noopener" target="_blank">major gas project</a> that <a href="https://dec.ny.gov/news/press-releases/2022/6/statement-from-the-new-york-state-department-of-environmental-conservation-on-denial-of-the-title-v-permit-renewal-for-greenidge-generation-llc" rel="noopener" target="_blank">came before them</a>, citing, among others, the climate law.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Last year, things began to shift. The clearest sign was Hochul’s green light, in November, for a <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/11/07/nese-gas-pipeline-approval-hochul-trump-new-york">major gas pipeline</a> into the New York City area, which the state had rejected three times before. Soon after, Hochul’s administration finalized a new <a href="https://energyplan.ny.gov/Plans/2025-Energy-Plan" rel="noopener" target="_blank">energy plan</a> that envisions “repowering” — or rebuilding — some New York City fossil fuel plants as late as the mid-2030s in order to plug a hole in the state’s energy mix that was supposed to be filled by offshore wind.</p>																																			<p dir="ltr">Hochul spokesperson Ken Lovett said the pivot was a necessary response to Trump’s attacks on renewables, and that while the governor is “laser focused” on building clean energy, she won’t rule out any option to “help keep the lights and heat on and costs down.” </p>

<p dir="ltr">“Governor Hochul has been clear: we are not going to risk the reliability of the grid,” he said. </p>
<p dir="ltr">For some in the industry, the governor’s “all of the above” energy strategy doesn’t go far enough. “It’s a nice talking point,” said Gavin Donohue, president of the <span class="caps">IPPNY</span> trade group. “But we need to back it up with policy changes.” </p>
<p dir="ltr">Power plant operators are less focused on the climate law’s topline emissions targets, which Hochul is seeking to change through the budget, than a separate provision requiring a <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2023/05/22/non-renewable-energy-hydrogen-nuclear-biofuels-ippny">zero-emissions grid by 2040</a>. </p>
<p dir="ltr">“Under the current law, my company and [others like it] are expected to essentially go away by 2040,” said Matthew Schwall, senior director of regulatory affairs at Alpha Generation, at <span class="caps">IPPNY</span>’s conference in late March. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Schwall’s company owns some of the aging, embattled <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2023/06/14/new-york-air-pollution-climate-peaker-plant">“peaker” plants</a> that get fired up when demand on the grid spikes. The company <a href="https://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/alphagen-proposes-repowering-and-battery-projects-to-secure-nycs-long-term-grid-reliability-302714755.html" rel="noopener" target="_blank">recently proposed</a> new units at two of its Brooklyn plants, but Schwall said they faced tough odds getting built unless the state reconsiders its clean grid mandate. </p>
<p dir="ltr">The cost to build a new gas plant has doubled or tripled since 2020, depending on where in the country it’s built, an executive from the turbine manufacturer <span class="caps">GE</span> Vernova said at the conference. And given backlogs in supply chains and construction timelines, it would likely take until at least the early 2030s for any new gas plants to get up and running.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“I don’t know how to attract financing for a project when the law says your project cannot run by 2040,” Schwall said. </p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/gumHCU0gW1spQ1AOS3uC_L3EBhiv4NovPLuo6BoJu0I/w:1000/h:665/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9TY2h3YWxsLXNwZWFraW5nLWFuZC1Ccnlhbi1TaXhiZXJyeS1USFJfNzExNVIuSlBH.jpg" alt="" class=" size-full " /><figcaption>From left, Bryan Sixberry of GE Vernova and Matthew Schwall of Alpha Generation at the Independent Power Producers of New York conference on March 24, 2026.  / Tim Raab/IPPNY</figcaption></figure>
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<p dir="ltr">Hochul’s administration doesn’t need to change the climate law to put that mandate on hold. Regulators are already allowed to do so if they find that meeting the target will compromise grid reliability — and the <a href="https://documents.dps.ny.gov/public/MatterManagement/CaseMaster.aspx?MatterCaseNo=15-e-0302&amp;CaseSearch=Search#:~:text=Petition%20for%20Hearing%20under%20PSL%20%C2%A766%2Dp" rel="noopener" target="_blank">business group petition</a> pending before the state Public Service Commission asks them to do just that.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Though distinct, the fight at the commission and the one in the legislature are hard to fully separate, with many of the same groups on the front lines of both. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Yvonne Hennessey, who leads the environmental practice at the law firm Barclay Damon and has represented oil and gas clients in major permitting fights, said she has seen renewed industry interest over the last six months in building new gas plants. She said Hochul’s recent moves have been encouraging, but that investors are still waiting for a clearer signal that they’re welcome in New York. Major changes to the state’s climate targets would provide it.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Climate advocates say there couldn’t be a worse time to turn back toward fossil fuels. Raya Salter, founder of the Energy Justice Law and Policy Center and a member of the state’s Climate Action Council, called the industry’s recent advocacy a “cynical ploy.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">“The entire world is aflame because we won’t quit fossil fuels,” she said, pointing to Trump’s war in the Middle East and the <a href="https://www.newstatesman.com/international-politics/geopolitics/2026/03/the-world-energy-shock-is-coming" rel="noopener" target="_blank">fallout on energy prices</a>. “The fact that we are doubling down on fossil fuel infrastructure because of the fossil fuel lobby, instead of doubling down on renewables, is actually insane.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">While experts expect the energy shock to accelerate the transition to renewables in many fossil fuel–importing economies, Hennessey sees it as an opportunity for New York to reconsider fracking, which it banned in 2014. </p>
<p dir="ltr">“We could very well have our own source of fossil fuel in the state of New York,” she said. (Hochul has so far <a href="https://subscriber.politicopro.com/article/eenews/2026/03/19/hochul-says-she-rebuffed-trump-on-fracking-ee-00834597" rel="noopener" target="_blank">rejected</a> the idea of new gas drilling within state lines.)</p>
<p dir="ltr">Downstate, Diaz is pitching new gas plants as an environmental justice measure, which will allow the dirtiest old facilities to be retired.</p>
<p dir="ltr">He acknowledged that he himself long doubted those kinds of promises. In the late 1990s, he recalled, the state promised that a <a href="https://grist.org/justice/new-york-says-goodbye-to-6-dirty-power-plants-and-hello-to-working-with-communities/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">fleet of new downstate gas plants</a> would be cleaner than the old. The problem, Diaz said, was that the old ones stayed on too — and many are still there, almost 30 years later. </p>
<p dir="ltr">What makes him think this time will be different?</p>
<p dir="ltr">“That we have Kathy Hochul,” he said.</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ As the Bronx Democratic Party’s Clout Grows, So Does Its Bottom Line ]]> </title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2026 06:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ The party collected record-breaking gifts from Airbnb and Uber, while party operatives lobbied Bronx lawmakers. ]]> </description>
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																			<p dir="ltr">In the Bronx, where Democratic voters outnumber Republicans nearly 10 to one and incumbents usually cruise to reelection, the local Democratic Party recently had a surprising fundraising streak. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Over a six-month period late last year, the party’s campaign “housekeeping” account raised ​an unprecedented $812,000 in contributions​, the party’s biggest fundraising haul on record. ​More than half of it came from six-figure gifts from Airbnb, Uber, and the state Laborers’ <span class="caps">PAC</span> — the three largest donations to any Democratic party housekeeping account in the state’s most populous counties, according to online records that go back more than two decades.<br></p>																																			<p dir="ltr">The donors’ largesse could endear them to lawmakers in a growing nerve center of statewide political power. Assembly Speaker Carl Heastie hails from the borough and formerly chaired the Bronx Democratic Party. His protégé, Senator Jamaal Bailey — who now chairs the county party and controls its housekeeping account —  <a href="https://www.cityandstateny.com/politics/2026/02/gianaris-will-not-run-reelection/411298/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">is rumored to be next in line</a> to be Senate majority leader.</p>
<p dir="ltr">For Airbnb and Uber, which gave $250,000 and $100,000 respectively, the amounts appear to be their largest political donations to any party committee or candidate in New York. The Laborers’ <span class="caps">PAC</span>, which represents building trades workers and gave $100,000, had made larger donations to the statewide Democratic Party — but never a contribution nearly as large to a county. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Airbnb did not respond to questions. Uber spokesperson Josh Gold said his company’s donation was meant to broadly bolster a political party playing an “important role in recruiting and supporting candidates who are focused on affordability, economic opportunity, and job creation.” </p>
<p dir="ltr"><span class="caps">NYS</span> Laborers’ <span class="caps">PAC</span> Director Vincent Albanese wrote in an email that his group’s donation “reflects the borough’s emergence as a major development hub — and the need for leadership that backs the union construction industry.” </p>
<p dir="ltr">Some of the donors have ties to London House, a political consulting and lobbying firm founded by a close friend and current campaign aide of Bailey’s, Jason Laidley. London House occupies a dual role: Its employees are paid to run the day-to-day operations of the Bronx Democratic Party, an organization that helps make or break local politicians’ political fortunes. They’re also paid by clients to lobby those same Bronx lawmakers on pressing government business. </p>
<p dir="ltr">It’s common for Albany lobbying firms, as a means of building influence, to solicit donations from their clients for the benefit of a politician or party. It’s more unusual for a lobbying firm to also be paid by the party itself, allowing them to potentially benefit from some of the donations they helped secure. Neither Laidley nor his clients responded to questions about whether he’d solicited donations from them. Bailey and Heastie also did not respond to questions for this article. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Housekeeping accounts can take donations of any size, including from corporations, but the money must be spent on “party-building” activities, such as paying for staff and headquarters, rather than directly supporting specific candidates in elections. Good government groups have long criticized the accounts as a loosely regulated way for special interests to get around donation limits and curry favor with politicians.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“Housekeeping accounts are a gigantic loophole in New York’s campaign finance rules,” said John Kaehny, executive director of the government reform group Reinvent Albany. “Our groups have been complaining about them for decades because they can do what they’re doing here: Translate special interest money into political influence.”<br></p>																									<p dir="ltr">As Assembly speaker since 2015, Carl Heastie is one of the three most powerful people in Albany. He is also the former chairman of the Bronx Democratic Party and has maintained an interest in its financial success. As New York Focus <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2024/10/24/london-house-jamaal-bailey-bronx-democrats">previously reported</a>, the Assembly Democrats’ campaign committee has directed nearly $700,000 to the Bronx Democrats since 2020, despite the rarity of competitive general elections in the borough. The committee has not given substantial sums to any other county party in recent years.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/jUIuJfkYjFq2WSG9ZsEtkNMX3Zj8EJCGvAjRM8SdD94/w:1000/h:1529/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9jYXJsLWhlYXN0aWUucG5n.png" alt="" class=" size-thumbnail " /><figcaption>Assembly Speaker Carl Heastie hails from the Bronx and formerly chaired the borough&#039;s Democratic Party.  / New York State Assembly Majority</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p dir="ltr">Bailey may be in line for a similar ascension.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Senate Majority Leader Andrea Stewart-Cousins will reach the end of an eight-year term limit for the position in December, though Senate Democrats could easily amend the rules to allow her to remain leader. Even if they do, Stewart-Cousins’s <a href="https://www.cityandstateny.com/politics/2026/02/gianaris-will-not-run-reelection/411298/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">deputy leader</a> is retiring, and insiders believe Bailey is well-positioned to replace him and then to take the top position when Stewart-Cousins, age 75, retires herself.</p>
<p dir="ltr">In a race to succeed Stewart-Cousins, Bailey would have the same built-in advantages that helped Heastie win an internal battle in 2015 to become Assembly speaker while serving as Bronx Democratic Party chair. Bailey would have a bloc of votes among Bronx senators and could lean on Bronx Democrats’ longstanding alliance with the Queens Democratic Party, which holds similar sway over senators in that borough. </p>
<p dir="ltr">If Bailey led the Senate while Heastie led the Assembly, it would mark an unprecedented concentration of power in the Bronx Democratic Party. </p>
<p dir="ltr">That would also benefit Jason Laidley, founder of London House, who was previously a top aide in Bailey’s office and whose firm is a current campaign consultant for the senator. The Bailey-led Bronx Democratic Party has paid London House hundreds of thousands of dollars in once-hidden consulting fees, New York Focus <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2024/11/15/bronx-democratic-party-new-york-focus">has reported</a>, and the firm has <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2024/11/13/london-house-bronx-new-york-judge">routinely represented</a> candidates the party has tapped for judgeships.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Over the most recent six-month period, the Bronx Democratic Party housekeeping account paid over $30,000 to London House and an additional $31,000 to Logan Events, a company Laidley founded in 2023, to provide the party with “gala services.”<br></p>																																			<p dir="ltr">Arianna Collado, a lobbyist at London House, was paid nearly $50,000 over the last six months to run the party’s day-to-day operations as executive director. </p>
<p dir="ltr">The party housekeeping account Collado helps oversee spent $440,000 over the period, on expenses including a Netflix account and a number of sizable dining tabs. Housekeeping funds cannot legally be used to cover personal expenses, but may be used in connection with party business. London House did not respond to requests for comment on the expenses.<br></p>																									<p dir="ltr">As London House works for both the party and its chair, its employees also lobby lawmakers they help elect, including Bailey.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Over the past two years, London House’s list of lobbying clients has nearly doubled, and one of them is also the county party’s biggest new donor. Airbnb has retained London House to lobby since late 2024 and pays the firm $15,000 a month.</p>
<p dir="ltr">When the company donated $250,000 to the Bronx Democrats last September, Airbnb and London House were in the midst of a major push in the New York City Council to roll back restrictions on short-term rentals in the city.<br><br>Lobbying disclosures show that last year, London House lobbied five Bronx members of the City Council on two proposals pushed by Airbnb, including one that would significantly soften the restrictions. </p>
<p dir="ltr">One bill gained seven co-sponsors, the other gained nine — and for each, four were members of the Bronx Democratic Party. Airbnb’s push gained traction but <a href="https://www.yahoo.com/news/articles/city-council-unlikely-consider-bill-012900449.html?guccounter=1&amp;guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&amp;guce_referrer_sig=AQAAAJbU0FqngnQX0v9i_y_g23R7XrX7-fhyg8kYT56uIbriH9X9xSsKoulG0FbTfjkfabYP_p7uKQ7Wc9NzLknoq-LXh4rVy4YKKJlHQkPCVUt2qmNK_M75n167eY6V6PxGzyvOlaR9KGLwWNz6P12Ea0OlanS6eczlMs8fW4yNIzTa" rel="noopener" target="_blank">ultimately died</a> amid heavy pushback from opponents. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Since the bill’s defeat, a new speaker has assumed the top position in the City Council, and London House played a role in her election. In a celebratory photo taken the November night that Julie Menin wrapped up the support needed among fellow Council members to win the race, Menin is surrounded by a group of 10 allies that helped make her speaker, including Collado and Laidley, who advised Menin as the race unfolded.<br></p>
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																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/jt9wHYHZ2eNqOOFtUvSC1PGrq8g-8-XzheaKsCJZiDY/w:1000/h:750/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9JTUcuanBlZw.jpeg" alt="" class=" size-full " /><figcaption>New York City Council Speaker Julie Menin, fourth from right in back, on the November night she wrapped up the speaker&#039;s race at Queens Democratic Party headquarters. Her key supporters present included Queens Democratic Party chairman and US Representative Gregory Meeks (to Menin&#039;s immediate left) and political consultants Jason Laidley (front row, furthest left) and Ariana Collado (front row, furthest right). </figcaption></figure>
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<p dir="ltr">The speaker’s race is often decided by Democratic political bosses, who form alliances and convince the Council members in their delegations to come along. In the photo, taken at the headquarters of the Queens Democratic Party, Menin is standing next to the chair of the Queens Democratic Party, <span class="caps">US</span> Representative Gregory Meeks — who is also Jason Laidley’s father-in-law. The family ties have further cemented the longstanding alliance between Queens and the Bronx and expanded London House’s sphere of influence.</p>
<p dir="ltr">After rounding up the necessary votes, Menin gave top jobs to Bronx Democrats. She hired Miguelina Camilo, Heastie’s former counsel, as her chief of staff, and a former Heastie aide, Simone Jones, as her deputy chief. </p>
<p dir="ltr">In response to questions, Menin’s office said the hirings were unrelated to her Bronx backing and were based on the women’s extensive qualifications. Several top Menin officials are not Bronx-connected.</p>
<p dir="ltr">During Menin’s first two months as speaker, Airbnb reported lobbying both Menin and her staff concerning short-term rental laws. In late February, Airbnb hired a lobbying firm founded by Ebony Meeks-Laidley — Meeks’s daughter and Jason Laidley’s wife — for $7,500 a month. Now, both members of the Bronx power couple are poised to push Airbnb’s agenda before a speaker their family played a key role in seating.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Last year, Menin strongly opposed the Airbnb-backed legislation that significantly softened restrictions. Menin has historically had a close relationship with the Hotel and Gaming Trades Council union, which fiercely opposes efforts to loosen short-term rental rules. The bill has not yet been reintroduced this year, so according to the speaker’s office, Menin does not have a position on any possible renewed legislation.<br></p>																									<p dir="ltr">Other Laidley clients who have donated to the Bronx Democrats are focused on Albany, where Bailey runs a key legislative committee overseeing insurance issues.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The car-sharing rental company Turo donated $10,000 to the party late last year, and its director of government affairs, Kenny Montilla, contributed another $20,000. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Last year, before the donations, Bailey co-sponsored a bill dramatically decreasing insurance liability requirements for peer-to-peer car sharing companies like Turo. The bill, boosted<a href="https://www.cityandstateny.com/policy/2025/06/turo-car-share-app-pushes-bill-reduce-insurance-requirements/405846/" rel="noopener" target="_blank"> by</a> Turo, was signed into law by Governor Kathy Hochul in December.</p>
<p dir="ltr">After the donations, Montilla reported lobbying Bailey on a bill the senator himself <a href="https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/bills/2025/S9298" rel="noopener" target="_blank">introduced in February</a>. It would significantly increase liability coverage requirements for traditional car rental companies, Turo’s competitors.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The ride-sharing giant Uber, which donated $100,000 to the Bronx Democrats in October, is also pressing hard for reductions in auto accident payouts.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Laidley doesn’t work for Uber. But Meeks-Laidley, Laidley’s lobbyist wife, recently inked a $10,000-a-month contract with a lobbying group receiving millions of dollars from Uber, called Citizens for Affordable Rates. The hiring came just after Bailey and fellow Senate Democrats released a budget proposal omitting Hochul’s sweeping plan to narrow insurance company liability for car accidents.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Bailey has been publicly skeptical of Uber’s biggest push in Albany this year, despite the company’s own staff previously <a href="https://reports.ethics.ny.gov/publicquery/ViewFiling/BIMO/Nzg4Nzgz0" rel="noopener" target="_blank">lobbying him</a> to support Hochul’s proposal. Uber, Citizens for Affordable Rates, and Meeks-Laidley did not answer a question about whether Meeks-Laidley would now lobby Bailey on the matter. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Bailey did <a href="https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/bills/2025/S9067" rel="noopener" target="_blank">introduce legislation</a> in January that benefits Uber. Mirroring the Turo-backed legislation last year, it would dramatically ease liability limits for car-sharing companies, putting their coverage on par with taxis. Uber has <a href="https://www.uber.com/us/en/u/fair-insurance/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">publicly expressed</a> a desire for such a change in New York law.</p>																																			<p dir="ltr">In the months before Bailey introduced the bill, Uber reported lobbying Bailey on “Insurance and Litigation Reform.” Asked whether Uber had lobbied Bailey to introduce the bill, Gold, the Uber spokesperson, said the company “regularly engages with elected officials and stakeholders on issues affecting our business, including insurance and affordability.” </p>
<p dir="ltr">In New York Democratic primaries, including <a href="https://www.cityandstateny.com/politics/2026/01/dsa-member-christina-cover-weighing-assembly-bid-south-bronx/410508/#:~:text=January%207%2C%202026-,2026%20New%20York%20state%20elections,And%20while%20former%20Gov." rel="noopener" target="_blank">in the Bronx</a>, business-friendly incumbents backed by the party are facing stronger competition from an ascendant political left. During the 2025 primaries for New York City Council, Uber <a href="https://www.thecity.nyc/2025/07/02/outside-spending-city-council-2025-election/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">spent millions</a> seeking to elect candidates supporting its agenda. The $100,000 donation — made after those primaries were over — is part of a wider strategy in multiple states to support party-building efforts, Gold said, ensuring “a broader and more balanced bench of candidates in the political pipeline.”</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ Child Care Voucher Enrollment Is Closed in 34 New York Counties and NYC ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/31/child-care-vouchers-ccap-applications-waitlist-new-york ]]> </link>
<category> <![CDATA[ New York State ]]> </category>
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<category> <![CDATA[ Budget ]]> </category>
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<category> <![CDATA[ Social Services ]]> </category>
<category> <![CDATA[ Affordability ]]> </category>
<pubDate>Tue, 31 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ That number is up from 21 last July. New York City&#039;s waitlist alone has surged to over 17,000 — a tenfold increase in less than a year. ]]> </description>
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																			<p>More than half of New York counties have stopped enrolling eligible families in the state’s child care voucher program as of mid-March amid a funding crisis that has persisted for over a year, new data shows.</p>
<p>Thirty-four counties and New York City have had to close applications or enrollment for the program, which subsidizes nearly the entire cost of private child care for low- and middle-income families.  Twenty-one of them are keeping waitlists; New York City’s alone has grown to over 17,000 families — a more than 1,000 percent increase since last July.</p>																																			<p dir="ltr">And as Governor Kathy Hochul and state legislators enter <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/11/universal-child-care-schools-funding-state-budget-2026">final budget negotiations</a>, local officials and advocates say that the proposals on the table — to add $1.2 billion to help counties reduce waitlists and resume enrollment — will not come close to clearing the growing statewide backlog. </p>
<p dir="ltr">The decades-old program, which is funded mostly by the federal and state governments, was originally intended to help welfare recipients afford child care so they could enter the workforce. But as the cost of child care has skyrocketed, eligibility and demand have expanded, and state funds haven’t kept pace. </p>
<p dir="ltr">The new data makes clear that the funding shortfall at the center of last year’s <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/03/27/nyc-child-care-voucher-900-million">budget negotiations</a>, which New York Focus <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/02/28/new-york-city-child-care-program-funding">first reported</a>, has only worsened. Voucher enrollment in sixteen counties has remained closed <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/08/08/child-care-vouchers-assistance-ccap-new-york-waitlist">since at least </a>July, when the state Office of Children and Family Services first started publishing the data. </p>
<p dir="ltr">All counties have maintained enrollment for families who are required to receive it under state law, including those who receive other forms of cash assistance, though some county officials have warned those funds are running low, too.</p>																																		<div class="flourish-embed flourish-chart" data-src="visualisation/28207968"><script src="https://public.flourish.studio/resources/embed.js"></script><noscript><img src="https://public.flourish.studio/visualisation/28207968/thumbnail" width="100%" alt="visualization" /></noscript></div>
																
																									<p dir="ltr">If the final budget doesn’t include more funding than what lawmakers proposed earlier this year, New York City’s waitlist could surpass 30,000 by this time next year, warns Pete Nabozny, policy director of the advocacy group the Children’s Agenda. The outlook in the rest of the state is unclear, but officials from over a dozen counties expressed similar concerns about their ability to meet future demand even with increased funding. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Advocates and officials say the gaps highlight a key tension in the governor’s widely lauded massive <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/01/14/universal-child-care-pre-k-hochul-state-of-the-state">child care investment plan</a> and her rhetoric around it; in January, she said she “placed the state on a path to universal child care” last year, and that the plan is a “roadmap” to get there. The voucher funding shortfall has already led one county to withdraw from the governor’s signature universal child care pilot for children aged 3 and younger.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“It’s difficult to say we’re [on the path to] achieving universal child care in New York, and we’re expanding care with these new programs, while thousands of low-income children sit on waitlists,” said Nabozny.<br></p>																									<p dir="ltr">Demand for the Child Care Assistance Program has skyrocketed after the state expanded  eligibility a few years ago, including by raising the income threshold. Today, the governor’s office reports that more than half of young children in New York are eligible for the program. At the same time, a series of state-level reforms has made the program more expensive to administer.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The funding shortfall reached its peak last year. The final state budget added $400 million for vouchers after reports New York City would soon have to kick thousands of families out of the program. But by July, 21 counties had closed enrollment to new families except for mandatory cases. Four of those counties have since reopened enrollment, and one other briefly resumed enrollment for a couple of months until closing them again. </p>
<p dir="ltr">In Greene County, which hasn’t been enrolling new applicants for the past seven months, funding for even mandatory cases is running low. The county Social Services Commissioner Kira Pospesel said she expects remaining funds to cover a couple of weeks into April. </p>
<p dir="ltr">At that point, for the first time in the program’s history, Pospesel said, the county will have to use local money to cover mandatory cases because of rising costs.  </p>
<p dir="ltr">“The state pushed to increase enrollment, but did not provide the dollars to pay for it,” she said. “The lack of funding is closing child care providers down and causing clients to lose their jobs and their housing.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">Hochul’s $1.2 billion funding boost, which the legislature backs, would add around $570 million in regular funding for the program, though counties will not know exactly how much they’ll receive until the fall. It also includes some short-term relief for localities that run out of that money: $475 million for New York City over the next two years, and $155 million for the rest of the state this fiscal year. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Local officials welcomed the proposed funding, but several told New York Focus it likely won’t be enough to fully eliminate waitlists or reopen enrollment. For instance, Erie County Executive Mark Poloncarz said that even with more than $14 million in supplemental funding under the proposal, Erie County’s program would still face a $8.5 million deficit. There are over 300 families currently on the waitlist there.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The county was selected for a pilot Hochul proposed in January to provide affordable full-day child care to children under the age of 3. In a February 10 letter to the legislature, Poloncarz said his administration opted out because it would have required a $2 million local contribution that did not seem “fiscally prudent” given the voucher shortfall.  (Three other selected counties are planning to participate in the pilot.)</p>
<p dir="ltr">Poloncarz has gotten heat for the decision, he wrote in the letter. “I am equally frustrated that I and a growing number of county leaders across the state are not being provided with sufficient resources to accomplish the policy goals passed by your honorable body,” he wrote.</p>																																		<div class="flourish-embed flourish-chart" data-src="visualisation/28266350"><script src="https://public.flourish.studio/resources/embed.js"></script><noscript><img src="https://public.flourish.studio/visualisation/28266350/thumbnail" width="100%" alt="visualization" /></noscript></div>
																
																									<p dir="ltr"><span class="caps">DSS</span> commissioners across the state told New York Focus that funding gaps, uncertainty about future allocations, and a lack of local control over the program have led to disruptions for families. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Essex County is among eight counties that have not enrolled eligible families in the child care voucher program for an entire year, according to <span class="caps">OCFS</span> data. The county’s commissioner for social services, Angie Allen, said regulatory changes have “impacted our ability to be fiscally responsible to the taxpayers and provide the subsidy at the same time.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">Orleans County Commissioner Mary Grace Nenni agreed, noting that the western New York county exhausted its funding even after implementing a waitlist for new applications and recertifications and is now projected to run approximately $60,000 over budget. </p>
<p dir="ltr">“If the state does not want any waiting lists, they need to move away from capped allocations and provide unlimited reimbursement,” Nenni said over email. </p>
<p dir="ltr">In New York City, where the voucher waitlist has grown by about 1,500 families per month, Nabozny said the proposed funding would help provide vouchers to more families guaranteed coverage under state law, but it would not be sufficient to reduce the waitlist. It would take an additional $1.2 billion to clear the waitlist and meet projected demand over the next year, according to a recent analysis by Nabozny and Lauren Melodia, economic policy director at the Center for New York City Affairs. </p>
<p dir="ltr"><span class="caps">OCFS</span> spokesperson Daniel Marans did not comment on the status of waitlists or funding gaps, instead stating that it is at the counties’ discretion to close enrollment or maintain a waitlist based on the funds they have available. He described Hochul’s support for child care subsidies as “nothing short of historic,” highlighting that enrollment in the program has increased by 167 percent, and funding by 164 percent, since she took office.  </p>
<p dir="ltr">Once the budget is passed, he said the agency will work closely with county officials to ensure state funding “is maximized to reach as many eligible New York families as possible.”<br></p>																																		<div class="flourish-embed flourish-chart" data-src="visualisation/28210102"><script src="https://public.flourish.studio/resources/embed.js"></script><noscript><img src="https://public.flourish.studio/visualisation/28210102/thumbnail" width="100%" alt="visualization" /></noscript></div>
																
																									<p dir="ltr">New York City Mayor Zohran Mamdani has been a vocal supporter of Hochul’s child care package, and has appeared alongside her at public events advertising it. But City Hall is taking a different tack on voucher funding. Jenna Lyle, a spokesperson for the mayor’s office, said the city is grateful for the governor’s commitment to funding the voucher program, but agreed that the “funding alone will not clear the waitlist, and it will not meet the scale of need.” </p>
<p dir="ltr">“Universal child care — care that is not means-tested, care that every family can rely on — is not a distant aspiration,” Lyle said. “It is an urgent necessity, and it must remain a top priority for this administration.” </p>
<p dir="ltr">The Empire State Campaign for Child Care, a statewide coalition of parents, early childhood educators and advocates fighting for high-quality universal child care, is pressing the state to add $1.2 billion for vouchers in the final budget to address the city’s waitlist, in line with Nabozny and Melodia’s analysis. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Child care advocates are also supporting two additional voucher-related proposals from the Assembly: one allowing counties to access supplemental funding immediately after the budget is passed, rather than waiting until they run out of funds, and another that eliminates minimum wage requirements for voucher recipients.</p>																																			<p dir="ltr">The budget negotiations come amid uncertainty surrounding federal child care and family assistance funding. In January, <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2026/01/09/us/politics/trump-child-care-funding-freeze.html" rel="noopener" target="_blank">a federal judge blocked</a>the Trump administration from freezing billions in federal funding for child care and social services in five Democratic-led states, including New York.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Federal dollars accounted for nearly three-quarters of voucher program spending from April 2013 through March 2024, according to a state comptroller report. Potential interruptions to those funds make additional state support even more urgent, according to Dede Hill, vice president of policy at the Schuyler Center for Analysis and Advocacy.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“That would be a devastating blow,” Hill said.</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ As New Yorkers Face Health Insurance Cliff, Legislators Urge State to Act ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/31/essential-plan-health-insurance-new-york-bill ]]> </link>
<category> <![CDATA[ Social Services ]]> </category>
<pubDate>Tue, 31 Mar 2026 13:54:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ Nearly half a million New Yorkers on the Essential Plan could lose their coverage this summer. ]]> </description>
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																			<p dir="ltr">State lawmakers are announcing legislation this week to ensure health care coverage for nearly half a million New Yorkers set to lose their insurance in July as a result of federal cuts. </p>
<p dir="ltr">The bills, sponsored by Assemblymember Amy Paulin and Senator Gustavo Rivera, would direct the state to use its own funds to continue Essential Plan access for moderate-income New Yorkers. The flagship program provides <a href="https://info.nystateofhealth.ny.gov/EssentialPlan" rel="noopener" target="_blank">free or low-cost healthcare</a> to 1.7 million residents and has been instrumental in helping the state achieve near-universal insurance coverage. </p>																																			<p dir="ltr">The bills represent the first major proposal from state leaders to protect Essential Plan enrollees from policy changes enacted under the <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/07/09/trump-big-beautiful-bill-new-york-medicaid-snap">megabill</a> President Donald Trump signed last year. Under those changes, New York lost a chunk of federal funding for the <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/09/26/essential-plan-medicaid-explained">Essential Plan</a> on January 1. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Earlier this month, the state <a href="https://info.nystateofhealth.ny.gov/sites/default/files/Section%201332%20Waiver%20Termination%20Approval%20Letter%203-20-26.pdf" rel="noopener" target="_blank">secured federal approval</a> to retool the plan — averting a “worse-case scenario” that could have ended the program entirely. The maneuver preserves coverage for 1.3 million New Yorkers, but an estimated 450,000 to 470,000 enrollees are set to be disenrolled in July. </p>
<p dir="ltr">None of the <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/11/essential-plan-snap-medicaid-new-york-budget-2026">budget proposals introduced earlier this year </a>by Governor Kathy Hochul, the Assembly, and the Senate address the impending coverage cliff, frustrating health care advocates who have been urging lawmakers to take action for months. </p>
<p dir="ltr">“There’s been a resistance generally, and I get it, to not have state dollars be responsible for the federal debacle, but we’re talking about human beings,” Paulin said of how current budget negotiations have evolved. “We’re trying very hard to work cooperatively to put forward a plan that could save them.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">State health officials are <a href="https://gothamist.com/news/watch-the-mail-nearly-500k-ny-essential-plan-insured-face-coverage-loss" rel="noopener" target="_blank">planning to mail notices</a> by early April to New Yorkers losing coverage,  directing them to seek out insurance from employers or purchase plans through the <a href="https://nystateofhealth.ny.gov/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">state’s exchange</a>. Advocates have noted that few will likely be able to afford the plans, whose monthly premiums rank among the <a href="https://www.kff.org/affordable-care-act/state-indicator/marketplace-average-benchmark-premiums/?currentTimeframe=0&amp;sortModel=%7B%22colId%22:%22Average%20Benchmark%20Premium%22,%22sort%22:%22desc%22%7D" rel="noopener" target="_blank">most expensive</a> in the country.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><a href="https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/bills/2025/S9589" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Rivera’s bill</a> would also set up a state-funded premium assistance program to make those plans more affordable, and other measures specifically addressing new restrictions on certain legal immigrants on the plan.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“These are the people who go to work every day and generate billions in economic activity,” Rivera wrote in a press release of the impacted New Yorkers. “This bill will protect basic healthcare access and mitigate the harm of these cruel policy choices.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">Paulin’s bill is expected to be released soon.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The bills do not allocate any specific funds, but Paulin said she hopes the effort “catches fire” and prompts deeper discussion about how much the state is willing to spend. A <a href="https://smhttp-ssl-58547.nexcesscdn.net/nycss/images/uploads/pubs/CSSNY_Preserving_Health_Coverage_March_2026.pdf" rel="noopener" target="_blank">recent report</a> by the Community Service Society of New York estimated that extending coverage for New Yorkers who will otherwise be kicked off the Essential Plan could cost $2.3 billion a year. The nonprofit has been among several organizations urging state lawmakers to consider various options to avoid imminent coverage loss. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Hochul’s budget proposal, which assumed New York might not get federal approval to tweak the Essential Plan, earmarked $2 billion to insure a subset of enrollees the state is legally mandated to provide health coverage for, regardless of federal support.</p>																																			<p dir="ltr">Now that the state got federal approval to rework the Essential Plan, the state could redirect that $2 billion to cover New Yorkers getting dropped from the program, said Michael Kinnucan, director of health policy at the left-leaning Fiscal Policy Institute. </p>
<p dir="ltr">“We have the moral obligation to cover this population,” said Kinnucan, who supports legislative efforts to use state funding to continue Essential Plan coverage. “The money is there.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">It’s unclear if legislators and the governor will agree. Paulin noted the governor’s budget proposal put that money aside strictly in the event that the Essential Plan ended. All three budget proposals also call for hefty reimbursement rate increases to health care providers, which would complicate the overall financial picture. Kinnucan is among a group of health care advocates who have criticized lawmakers prioritizing provider rate increases over the coverage cliff.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“The bottom line is there’s been no agreement with the three [budget proposals] of what it is we have to spend,” Paulin said.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The Paulin and Rivera bills represent a significant departure from the legislature’s approach to federal cuts. Last fall, top Democrats <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/08/14/new-york-call-special-session-delgado-trump">declined to return to Albany</a> for a special session to address the imminent impact of federal cuts to Medicaid and other benefits programs — effectively punting the issue to the current budget season. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Earlier this month, both chambers’ budget proposals stopped short of allocating state funds to fully replace the cuts. It’s unclear how much traction the eleventh-hour proposals could get at this stage of negotiations. The state’s fiscal year starts on April 1, but in recent years lawmakers have delivered a final budget weeks or months late. </p>
<p dir="ltr">The measure is likely to encounter strong resistance from Hochul, who has centered her budget proposal this year on “affordability” but has been reluctant to <a href="https://nypost.com/2025/06/18/us-news/gov-hochul-rips-zohran-mamdanis-tax-on-rich-admits-costs-are-pushing-nyers-to-palm-beach/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">raise taxes on the wealthy</a>. She has insisted the state cannot afford to backfill federal cuts. The governor’s office declined to respond to a list of specific questions, but pointed to recent interviews where Hochul said she is continuing to work with federal officials to figure out a path forward for New Yorkers who are dropped from the Essential Plan.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Essential plan enrollee Chris Sahar, a substitute special needs teacher in Queens, is among those likely to become uninsured in July. Sahar, who also works as a church organist and a musical composer, relies on the plan to manage Hashimoto’s disease, an autoimmune disorder that requires medication and regular checkups.<br></p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/Lm-S3OKohinP8scqEg0g1JZom1cfNehN1i9zhZMx5-o/w:1000/h:1500/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9jaHJpcy1zYWhhci5qcGc.jpg" alt="" class=" size-thumbnail " /><figcaption>Essential plan enrollee Chris Sahar, a substitute special needs teacher in Queens, will likely become uninsured in July.  / Courtesy of Chris Sahar</figcaption></figure>
																																										<p dir="ltr">“The Essential Plan this year has taken away the stress of worrying over high health care costs, and the zero monthly deductible has made it easier for me to put more money into my retirement,” said the 59-year-old. As a substitute teacher, Sahar is not eligible for employer-provided insurance or paid leave unless he is able to consistently increase his shifts. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Like many New Yorkers enrolled in the Essential Plan, Sahar earns too much to qualify for Medicaid but not enough to purchase a plan on the state’s exchange. Sahar currently falls in the tier of users that earn between $31,921 and $39,900 as a single person  — or 200 to 250 percent of the federal poverty level — a demographic ineligible for coverage starting in July. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Sahar was previously enrolled in Medicaid for years while his career took a backseat to caregiving for his mother, who was suffering from metastatic breast cancer. “I think the best thing I ever did in my life was take care of my mom in her last years,” he said, noting how the experience also left him “haunted” by how financially devastating a diagnosis could be. </p>
<p dir="ltr">The Essential Plan’s impending coverage cliff is just the first of several seismic changes coming to the state’s healthcare landscape as a result of federal cutbacks. New work rule requirements for Medicaid that kick in next January are projected to result in hundreds of thousands more New Yorkers losing their health coverage over the next year and a half. Similar <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/12/12/whats-next-for-new-yorkers-on-snap">work rules for food assistance</a> kicked in earlier this month.</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ ICE Is Trying to Send Hundreds of New York’s African Asylum Seekers to a Country They’re Not From ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/18/ice-pretermissions-uganda-asylum-seekers ]]> </link>
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<pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ Over the last three months, ICE attorneys in New York state have petitioned to send half of the African asylum seekers who had immigration hearings to Uganda. ]]> </description>
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																			<p dir="ltr">Modou sat with his lawyer in the quiet hallway of the immigration court on the 21st floor of a Manhattan federal building. It was a Wednesday afternoon late last month, and he was waiting for the next hearing in his asylum case. He wore black sweatpants, a blue corduroy suit jacket, and a tie.</p>
<p dir="ltr">For two years, Modou had compiled evidence that, if the United States deported him to his home country of Senegal, he’d face persecution for marrying someone of a different faith. In his asylum application, he’d meticulously described the violence and death threats he’d faced, supporting his story with medical and government records, certificates, news articles, and testimony from family and friends.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Yet in January, an Immigration and Customs Enforcement lawyer petitioned the judge in Modou’s case to throw out his claim before the court could even consider it.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Instead of Senegal, <span class="caps">ICE</span> wanted to send Modou to Uganda, 4,500 miles from his home country. He’d never been to Uganda, or even thought of visiting. He and his lawyer scrambled; they had just a few weeks to argue a whole new case.<br></p>																																			<p dir="ltr">In the courthouse hallway, Modou’s attorney coached him in whispers.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“They’re not going to ask you anything about Senegal,” she told him. “Don’t even bring it up.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">She drilled him on the questions an <span class="caps">ICE</span> cross-examiner would likely ask.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“Why are you afraid of going to Uganda if you’ve never even been there?” she posed.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Modou hesitated: “Because I’m a Muslim?” His hands shook. It was Ramadan and he’d been fasting.</p>
<p dir="ltr">After a 30-minute hearing, Modou and his lawyer emerged from the courtroom. The judge ruled that the government could send him to Uganda. His lawyer had told him before his hearing that the judge would likely decide in <span class="caps">ICE</span>’s favor, but that didn’t alleviate the shock. “I’m scared,” he said. Modou, whom New York Focus is identifying with a pseudonym to avoid jeopardizing his case, is appealing.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Modou is one of tens of thousands of immigrants across the <span class="caps">US</span> who are facing rendition to countries they’re not from and often have never visited. To facilitate the third-country removals, federal attorneys are petitioning courts to throw out asylum seekers’ original cases before they have a chance to argue them. The tactic allows <span class="caps">ICE</span> to quickly deny or abandon asylum claims, even as it struggles to follow through on the actual renditions.<br></p>																								<div class="newsroomBlockQuoteContainer">
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																									<p dir="ltr">In New York state, the one-two punch is widespread and disproportionately affecting African asylum seekers like Modou, according to immigration court statistics that Joseph Gunther, an independent researcher, and Brandon Morrow of the data service bklg compiled for New York Focus. Of the roughly 2,350 African asylum seekers with hearings in New York between December and February, just under 50 percent were subject to motions to abandon their cases and, in most cases, send them to a third country. For those from Latin America, that number was about 29 percent.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Of the African cases whose motions were ruled on, judges approved about 66 percent — with most granting removal to Uganda.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The cases are dismissed through a legal process known as a “pretermission.” The technique was rarely employed before last year, when the Department of Justice, which runs the immigration court system, issued <a href="https://www.justice.gov/eoir/media/1396411/dl?inline" rel="noopener" target="_blank">a policy memo</a> that encouraged immigration judges to accept pretermission motions. In November, motions to pretermit asylum cases <a href="https://bklg.org/blog/pretermission-02-26/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">skyrocketed</a>.</p>
<p dir="ltr">In the motions, <span class="caps">ICE</span> attorneys point to agreements the Trump administration has signed with other countries to take asylum seekers the <span class="caps">US</span> wants to deport. Since those third countries state they can safely accept the migrants, the government lawyers argue, asylum seekers’ claims that they face harm if returned to their home countries are moot. Aside from Uganda for Africans, the Trump administration has signed the agreements with Honduras, Guatemala, and Ecuador, where it is seeking to send Latin Americans.</p>																																			<p dir="ltr"><span class="caps">ICE</span> has sent roughly 50 third-country nationals to Guatemala, 140 to Honduras, and an undisclosed number to Ecuador, but it hasn’t yet sent any non-Ugandans to Uganda. That’s due in part to the fact that Uganda has not released an implementation plan outlining how it would provide safe conditions and paths to asylum for the deportees from the <span class="caps">US</span>.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The future of the practice remains unclear: Last week <a href="https://www.seattletimes.com/seattle-news/u-s-pauses-tactic-to-deport-asylum-seekers-to-third-countries/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">an <span class="caps">ICE</span> memo reportedly</a> instructed attorneys to pause the tactic, though it didn’t say for how long.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The practice is also being <a href="https://cgrs.uclawsf.edu/en/our-work/litigation/ut-v-bondi" rel="noopener" target="_blank">challenged in federal court</a>. The lawsuit, originally filed against the first Trump administration, claims that the countries with which the <span class="caps">US</span> has entered into the agreements don’t qualify as safe places to seek asylum. In the case of Uganda, the plaintiffs point out that the <a href="https://www.state.gov/reports/2024-country-reports-on-human-rights-practices/uganda" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><span class="caps">US</span>’s own State Department</a> describes extrajudicial killings and torture of dissidents and death penalties and imprisonment for homosexuality in Uganda.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Some Ugandan officials have also pushed back against the arrangement. The day before the agreement was officially announced in August, the Ugandan minister of state for foreign affairs <a href="https://www.reuters.com/world/africa/uganda-has-not-agreed-take-deportees-us-senior-official-says-2025-08-20/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">told Reuters</a> that the country does “not have the facilities and infrastructure to accommodate” the asylees. Uganda already hosts nearly 2 million refugees — more than any other African country. After funding shortfalls left it unable to feed them, the country <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2025/dec/04/aid-cuts-africa-uganda-stops-refugee-status-eritreans-somalis-ethiopians" rel="noopener" target="_blank">closed its borders</a> to new refugees from multiple neighboring countries late last year.</p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/RUq8GirR2fwT_TT-vl05y9YWyN1-ivewZUK92Tztwp0/w:1000/h:750/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9JTUdfODQzOS5qcGVn.jpeg" alt="" class=" size-full " /><figcaption>“Nobody understands,” Modou said. “Everyone is just talking about Uganda, Uganda, Uganda.”  / Liv Veazey / New York Focus</figcaption></figure>
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<p dir="ltr">Despite the lack of follow-through thus far, African asylum seekers remain terrified of the potential choice between deportation to a country they fled and rendition to a country they know little about. West Africans are trying to make sense of why a judge told them that they’d be sent to Uganda when the government hasn’t sent anyone there yet.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“Nobody understands,” Modou said. “Everyone is just talking about Uganda, Uganda, Uganda.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">For immigration attorneys, pretermission cases are exceptionally difficult to prepare. A strong asylum claim usually requires evidence that one has already suffered persecution at the hands of specific people. That’s nearly impossible for someone who has never been to the country where they fear persecution, even if their fear is well-founded.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Pretermission cases also face an accelerated timeline. <span class="caps">ICE</span> attorneys are filing their motions with almost no lead-time before a hearing, blowing past deadlines set by judges, said Melanie Zamenhof, senior attorney at Neighbors Link Community Law Practice.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“Sometimes it is the morning of, one hour before, or literally an oral motion made at that moment,” Zamenhof said.</p>
<p dir="ltr">That often leaves attorneys just days or even hours to respond to a pretermission motion and argue that an entirely new country is unsafe for their clients. For standard asylum cases, most clients work with their attorneys for at least a year to prepare material.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><span class="caps">ICE</span> did not respond to a request for comment.<br></p>																								<div class="newsroomBlockQuoteContainer">
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										—Melanie Zamenhof, immigration attorney									</h5>
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																									<p dir="ltr">For their part, judges move quickly on scheduling and deciding pretermission cases. Half of the African cases that received a pretermission motion between November 2025 and January 2026 were decided by January 31, according to Gunther and Morrow’s analysis. Nearly nine in 10 of those cases received a ruling in under 30 days, and one in 10 was decided on the same day the motion was filed.</p>
<p dir="ltr">For Modou’s case, his attorney, Stefi Bastiaensz, filed over 200 pages of affidavits, reports, and articles on Uganda to argue that the country can’t offer Modou safety — all in about three weeks.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Zamenhof said that some of the strongest cases she’s handled in her career are getting pretermitted. “For folks who did everything the right way, at any time prior to a hearing, the judge can just put their case in the trash,” she said. She described burnout and turnover among her colleagues as they buckle under the weight of the increased workload.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Zamenhof is currently representing a family of five from West Africa. The father, Alpha, whom New York Focus is also identifying with a pseudonym to avoid jeopardizing his case, came to the <span class="caps">US</span> with his pregnant wife and two of their children. He left his career as a surgeon after he and his family received threats and were attacked because of their ethnicity and his opposition to the government, he said. He has been trying for two and a half years to transfer his certifications and begin practicing medicine again. He often works multiple jobs, including one as an assistant manager at a Dollar Tree.<br></p>																																			<p dir="ltr">Alpha and his wife each filed their own asylum claims, both of which <span class="caps">ICE</span> attorneys sought to dismiss in order to send the family to Uganda. “I was so, so afraid,” Alpha said. He’s been speaking with other African asylum seekers in the same situation. “A lot of people are saying they would rather be in prison here than in Uganda,” he said.</p>
<p dir="ltr">A judge denied the motion to abandon Alpha’s case, but granted it for his wife’s case. He said that he hasn’t told his kids about the judge’s decision and wasn’t sure what would happen to his <span class="caps">US</span> citizen baby if his wife was sent to Uganda or he was deported.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Alpha has a final asylum hearing scheduled for this month. The family is hoping that he’ll win and that he can add his wife to his asylum application.</p>
<p dir="ltr">While he waits for the judge’s decision, Alpha said that he’s trying to lay low. Just recently, he said, a customer spit on his face while he was working. When his coworkers asked him why he didn’t fight back, he said, “We are not coming here to have problems. We are coming here to be alive.”</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ New York Gave These Broadway Shows Millions — And They Flopped Anyway ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/19/new-york-broadway-tax-credit-flops ]]> </link>
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<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2026 14:40:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ Sold as a pandemic-era emergency program, the state&#039;s theater tax credit has quietly sent hundreds of millions to short-run flops and blockbuster hits. ]]> </description>
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																			<p dir="ltr">When the musical “<span class="caps">KPOP</span>” shut its doors in December 2022 after just 17 performances, it concluded a disappointing Broadway run. The show, which celebrated Korean music and <a href="https://www.sec.gov/Archives/edgar/data/1808497/000180849723000001/xslFormDX01/primary_doc.xml" rel="noopener" target="_blank">cost</a> about $13 million to make, sold too few tickets to stay open longer than two weeks.</p>
<p dir="ltr">But there was a silver lining for the show’s producers. About a year after “<span class="caps">KPOP</span>” closed, the State of New York awarded them $1.9 million. Taxpayers subsidized the show for an amount that comes out to more than $110,000 per performance, thanks to the New York City Musical and Theatrical Production Tax Credit.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The program began as a one-year, $100 million lifeline during the pandemic, which shut Broadway down for 18 months. It has been extended three times since. Now, Governor Hochul is proposing to grow the program by $150 million, bringing the state’s total outlay to $550 million through mid-2027 — even as Broadway attendance and revenues <a href="https://comptroller.nyc.gov/newsroom/newsletter/new-york-by-the-numbers-monthly-economic-and-fiscal-outlook-no-109-january-2026/#:~:text=November%20and%20December.-,Chart%207,-Broadway%20Theater%20Attendance" rel="noopener" target="_blank">surpass</a> pre-pandemic levels.<br></p>																																			<p dir="ltr">More than two dozen Broadway producers and other industry figures <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/01/22/hochul-budget-broadway-tax-credit-campaign-contributions">donated over $240,000</a> to Hochul’s re-election campaign last fall, a few months before she made her proposal public, New York Focus previously reported. State lawmakers have asked few questions and appear likely to approve the extra funding, despite a 2023 state-commissioned <a href="https://www.tax.ny.gov/pdf/research/economic-impact-of-tax-incentive-programs.pdf#page=75" rel="noopener" target="_blank">study</a> that found the tax break generated just 23 cents for every dollar the state invested.</p>
<p dir="ltr">State leaders have defended the credit as a crucial tool for sustaining the theater industry during the pandemic, along with the enormous tourist sector it helps support. Producers <a href="http://broadwayjournal.com/p/hochul-proposes-150-million-add-on" rel="noopener" target="_blank">say</a> the credit remains essential for attracting investors — helping wobbly productions stay in business, hire workers, and attract tourists. They also note that the 2023 study concluded the expense might ultimately be worth it, given the impact of Broadway on local businesses like hotels and restaurants.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The state does not publicly announce which productions have received the credit. But a list obtained by New York Focus through a freedom of information request shows that the state sent $308 million to 129 different Broadway shows and 21 Off-Broadway shows between August 2022 and February 2026.</p>
<p dir="ltr">They include long-running hits like “Chicago,” but also a notable number of flops — raising questions about the program’s effectiveness.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The 2024 musical “Tammy Faye” closed after 29 performances but received $2.5 million from the state earlier this year. The musical “Lempicka” got $2.6 million after its monthlong 2024 run. “Mrs. Doubtfire,” which had 77 performances across a pandemic-interrupted run, received the maximum $3 million.</p>
<p dir="ltr">All told, the state has given at least $179 million to Broadway shows that had fewer than 200 performances each. Of the 150 total shows that have received the credit, all but 15 have closed, according to the data.<br></p>																																		<div class="flourish-embed flourish-table" data-src="visualisation/28143271"><script src="https://public.flourish.studio/resources/embed.js"></script><noscript><img src="https://public.flourish.studio/visualisation/28143271/thumbnail" width="100%" alt="table visualization" /></noscript></div>
																
																									<p dir="ltr">The program has also attracted criticism from the opposite direction: for throwing money at shows that would likely have succeeded anyway. The New York Times <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2024/05/17/nyregion/broadway-tax-subsidy-credits.html" rel="noopener" target="_blank">noted</a> in 2024 that top-grossing shows like “The Lion King,” “The Book of Mormon,” and “Wicked” each got the maximum $3 million. Weeks after that article was published, “Chicago” received the maximum award as well, according to the updated list obtained by New York Focus.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Empire State Development, the state corporation that administers the benefit, defended the spending.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“Broadway’s comeback after the pandemic was driven by investment in the people who make it run — the stagehands, musicians, costumers, and crews who were out of work for nearly two years,” <span class="caps">ESD</span> spokesperson Emily Mijatovic said. “This program helped bring those workers back and support new productions across the city. Every show that comes to New York, regardless of how long it runs, supports jobs and strengthens the city’s theater economy.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">Focusing on programs with short runs is misleading, <span class="caps">ESD</span> argued, since limited-run productions have long been part of live theater and New York’s program was not designed to support only shows with a certain lifespan.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Several watchdog groups have <a href="https://reinventalbany.org/2026/02/watchdog-testimony-calls-for-state-to-end-off-budget-tax-credits/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">urged</a> the state not to put more money into the program or extend it past its current 2027 sunset date. The fiscally conservative Citizens Budget Commission tolerated the program as an emergency measure in 2021, but opposes its expansion now that the industry has recovered.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“The intent of the program has shifted to help cover costs, as opposed to when it was first created, which was explicitly to help Broadway recover and reopen from the pandemic,” said Sean Campion, <span class="caps">CBC</span>’s director of housing and economic development studies.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The Broadway League, the industry’s main trade group, declined to comment. The group, which represents theater owners and producers, has argued that far fewer investors would be willing to fund high-risk shows without the tax credit.</p>																								<div class="newsroomBlockQuoteContainer">
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										<p>“The true per-job subsidy is, in reality, off the charts.”</p>
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										—State Senator James Skoufis									</h5>
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																									<p dir="ltr">Philip Boroff, who covers the theater industry as editor of the website Broadway Journal, said it’s inevitable that some state money has been spent on short-lived shows, given the program’s goal of boosting the whole sector.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“Whether the runs are short or long, the advocates for the tax credit would say it’s doing its job in making investing on Broadway more attractive,” he said. “It is probably true that in some cases, short runs are a little bit longer because of the tax credit, because there is an incentive in running longer.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">Hochul proposed the additional $150 million infusion in January as part of her executive budget in response to <a href="https://www.broadwaynews.com/heres-whats-going-on-with-the-downstate-tax-credit/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">reports</a> that the state’s fund had unexpectedly run dry, two years before its June 2027 end date. The Broadway League has <a href="https://www.broadwaynews.com/heres-whats-going-on-with-the-downstate-tax-credit/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">called</a> for extending the tax credit through 2029 and restoring it to $100 million per year, its original funding level. (The more recent extensions under Hochul cut the program to $50 million per year.)</p>
<p dir="ltr">Both the state Assembly and Senate included Hochul’s expansion in their <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/12/new-york-state-budget-negotiations-2026">one-house budget proposals</a> this month, meaning it’s highly likely to be approved. State Senator James Skoufis, one of the tax break’s few vocal critics, said the money spent on short-lived productions highlights “a fundamental problem” with the program: that the jobs it sustains are themselves short-lived.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“To sustain one person’s job, you need multiple iterations of this credit,” said Skoufis, a Hudson Valley Democrat. “For one individual to remain employed in this profession, they might need, over the course of their career, 10, 11, 15 shots of the Broadway tax credit. So the true per-job subsidy is, in reality, off the charts.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">Although it’s administered as a tax credit, the program works more like a grant, since the state reimburses shows for their expenses regardless of how much they paid in taxes. Producers can be <a href="https://esd.ny.gov/new-york-city-musical-and-theatrical-production-tax-credit#eligibility" rel="noopener" target="_blank">reimbursed</a> for employees’ salaries, production costs like sets and costumes, and advertising spending.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The program’s rules require the most successful shows to repay the state up to half the money they received once they reach a certain profitability threshold — if their revenues are twice as much as their costs after receiving the full benefit from the state. But more than five years into the program’s history, no shows have triggered that provision yet, according to <span class="caps">ESD</span>.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Meanwhile, shows produced by nonprofit organizations are ineligible for the credit, as are other performance arts like opera and ballet. Several nonprofit theaters have figured out a workaround by creating for-profit corporations to receive the credit, the news site Broadway World <a href="https://www.broadwayworld.com/article/Update-on-the-Broadway-Tax-Credit-Deadline-Shifts-and-How-Non-Profits-are-Qualifying-20251124" rel="noopener" target="_blank">reported</a>.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The Broadway tax credit barely came up during an eight-hour budget hearing on the state’s economic development programs last month. State Senator Erik Bottcher said he supports the expansion but asked <span class="caps">ESD</span> President Hope Knight what reports or data backed up the proposal.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Knight called Broadway “synonymous with New York” and said it sustains thousands of jobs, but shared no specific figures.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“It’s important that Broadway stays strong,” she said.</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ A Pension Battle Is Heating Up in Albany. Here’s What to Know. ]]> </title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2026 11:20:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ Unions want state leaders to sweeten their retirement packages. What would it cost, and what would it achieve? ]]> </description>
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																			<p dir="ltr">If you were in Albany on March 8, you might have felt the ground shake under your feet as 15,000 public sector union members chanted: “Fix Tier 6!”</p>
<p dir="ltr">It’s a cry for state leaders to boost the pensions of government employees. In 2012, the state created a new pension plan, called “Tier 6,” that had less generous benefits and required more years of work compared to previous plans. Then-Governor Andrew Cuomo <a href="https://www.thecity.nyc/2025/05/21/tier-6-cuomo-pensions-unions-retirement/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">claimed</a> the change would save state and local governments $80 billion over three decades. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Now, New York’s top unions want to roll back those changes. They argue it would help keep workers in the public sector, but it won’t come cheap: In dollar terms, it could end up being one of the biggest decisions made in this year’s budget.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The campaign has emerged as a major issue in negotiations around the state budget, which is due on April 1. Here’s what you need to know.<br></p>																																			<h3>What do the unions want?</h3>
<p dir="ltr">The <a href="https://fixtier6.org/why-fix-tier-6" rel="noopener" target="_blank">“Fix Tier 6” agenda</a> contains multiple planks, including lowering the age where workers can retire with full pensions, boosting payments, and reducing employee contributions.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Different unions have different priorities. For the New York State United Teachers, the leading player in the Fix Tier 6 campaign, the top goal is lowering the retirement age to 55, down from 63.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“That’s the thing that we believe is impacting retention for our early-career educators,” <span class="caps">NYSUT</span> President Melinda Person told New York Focus.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The Public Employees Federation, which represents a wide range of government positions, says its top priority is lowering the amount taken out of workers’ salaries — currently between 3 and 6 percent — to pay for their pensions.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“Because of the affordability crisis, putting money into people’s pockets now makes a difference,” <span class="caps">PEF</span> Vice President Randi DiAntonio said.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The unions argue that boosting pensions would help attract and retain qualified workers, and cut down on costs for overtime and consultants.</p>
<p dir="ltr">More people work for state and local government in New York now than in 2012, when Tier 6 was enacted, but staffing shortfalls vary by agency.</p>
<p dir="ltr">DiAntonio said the recruiting and retention concerns are most acute at agencies like the Department of Corrections and Community Supervision, which runs state prisons. The department has been in turmoil since a <a href="https://www.mynbc5.com/article/new-york-corrections-officers-return-to-work/64126664" rel="noopener" target="_blank">three-week</a> <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/07/22/new-york-doccs-prison-staffing-crisis-guard-strike">wildcat strike</a> last year, and this year’s proposed state budget allocates <a href="https://gothamist.com/news/ny-prisons-still-staffed-by-national-guard-amid-ongoing-vacancies-a-year-after-strike" rel="noopener" target="_blank">over $500 million</a> to have the National Guard help staff prisons. </p>
<p><br>Teacher shortages are <a href="https://www.nyssba.org/clientuploads/nyssba_pdf/Reports/teacher-shortage-plug-and-play-report-08192025.pdf" rel="noopener" target="_blank">relatively rare</a> in New York right now, but <span class="caps">NYSUT</span> <a href="https://www.nysut.org/resources/special-resources-sites/support-new-teachers/about/teacher-shortage" rel="noopener" target="_blank">warns</a> that a wave of upcoming retirements, and low enrollment in teacher training programs, could lead to scarcity in the next decade. <br></p>																									<h3>Would boosting pensions improve state government?</h3>
<p dir="ltr">Union leaders say so. </p>
<p dir="ltr">New York <span class="caps">AFL-CIO</span> President Mario Cilento said in a statement to New York Focus that Tier 6 “has created a recruitment and retention crisis” due to “unprecedented mandatory overtime” and “constant hiring, training, and backfilling of vacant positions.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">But there may be more cost-effective ways to attract and retain employees. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Several studies have found that public employees value pensions <a href="https://www.aeaweb.org/articles?id=10.1257/pol.20140087" rel="noopener" target="_blank">less</a> than <a href="https://www.barbarabiasi.com/uploads/1/0/1/2/101280322/biasi_pensions.pdf" rel="noopener" target="_blank">salaries</a> or other benefits like <a href="https://www.aeaweb.org/articles?id=10.1257/pol.20140087" rel="noopener" target="_blank">job security and health insurance</a>, that boosting pensions can <a href="https://jhr.uwpress.org/content/57/1/272?casa_token=dX5NNU8lsMoAAAAA%3AJobyQEFpHH3AEF_nMCGc43adLCCwNSZ81NGasH-MkOliaUogL7d7ofBl3FQkMPy1sqRCagyMZtM" rel="noopener" target="_blank">accelerate retirement</a>, and that pensions <a href="https://www.nber.org/papers/w33986" rel="noopener" target="_blank">may not help retain</a> higher-performing workers.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><a href="https://www.barbarabiasi.com/uploads/1/0/1/2/101280322/biasi_pensions.pdf" rel="noopener" target="_blank">One of the studies</a>, based on a Wisconsin law that cut teacher salaries and pensions, found that teachers respond four times less to pension changes than to salary changes when deciding whether to remain in their jobs.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Boosting pensions “would do something” to keep workers, said David Schleicher, a Yale Law School professor who studies state fiscal systems, “but it’s not clear to me that it is the most or even a mildly efficient method for doing so.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">Boosting pensions does have one advantage for today’s politicians, though. While wage increases require immediate payment, the full bill for a pension boost won’t come due for years.<br></p>																																												<figure>
																						<img src="https://imgproxy.gridwork.co/j6PinPJIEIV5LeZIPsc_bdIGcjVaKzk_CWhl-tBoHfE/w:1000/h:666/rt:fill/g:fp:0.5:0.5/q:90/el:1/aHR0cHM6Ly9zMy51cy1lYXN0LTIuYW1hem9uYXdzLmNvbS9ueXNmb2N1cy9VbnRpdGxlZC0yNDAwLXgtMTYwMC1weC5wbmc.png" alt="" class=" size-full " /><figcaption>Gov. Kathy Hochul said she&#039;s “fighting for a fairer pension plan,” but didn&#039;t provide specifics.  / Darren McGee/Office of Governor Kathy Hochul</figcaption></figure>
																																										<h3>What would the changes cost?</h3>
<p dir="ltr">It’s unclear. The union leaders that New York Focus spoke with didn’t have precise cost estimates for their proposals. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Person, the <span class="caps">NYSUT</span> president, said that lowering the retirement age would likely cost somewhere between $100 million and $700 million annually.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“We don’t know what the deal is yet. So it’s hard to nail down a number,” she said. </p>
<p dir="ltr">The state Senate and Assembly budget proposals also didn’t provide specific figures, despite their support for boosting pensions.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Some budget watchdogs see this as irresponsible. </p>
<p dir="ltr">“We expect cost estimates in every part of normal life,” said Ken Girardin, a fellow at the Manhattan Institute, a conservative think tank. “And yet lawmakers are capable of this cognitive dissonance to endorse a policy proposal when they don’t know the cost.” </p>
<p dir="ltr">Unions say the state can afford the changes, pointing to the <a href="https://www.osc.ny.gov/press/releases/2026/01/dinapoli-independent-review-finds-state-pension-fund-operates-highest-ethical-and-professional" rel="noopener" target="_blank">strong financial condition</a> of New York’s pension funds.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Supporters of Tier 6 argue that it has helped keep New York’s pension funds healthy even as the amount that New York pays for pensions has exploded, from $1 billion a year in 2000 to more than $15 billion post-pandemic. As life expectancies climb, many workers who retire at 55 are expected to collect pensions for longer than they spent working.<br></p>																									<h3>Where do state leaders stand?</h3>
<p dir="ltr">New York’s top lawmakers have all endorsed the campaign in general, but have been vague about which reforms they actually support.</p>
<p dir="ltr">At the “Fix Tier 6” <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sL-Gj8-n0Mc" rel="noopener" target="_blank">rally</a>, Assembly Speaker Carl Heastie said he is “one of the biggest advocates” of getting rid of Tier 6, and that “this is the year we need to blow that shit away.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">Governor Kathy Hochul also spoke at the rally, where she said she’s “fighting for a fairer pension plan,” but didn’t endorse any specific proposal.</p>
<p dir="ltr">And in a video message played at the rally, Senate Majority Leader Andrea Stewart Cousins said that Senate Democrats are “receptive” to Tier 6 reforms, but likewise, didn’t say what exactly should change.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Even several Republicans — generally union skeptics — have <a href="https://thebiggerapple.manhattan.institute/p/nyc-unions-tier6-pensions-budget" rel="noopener" target="_blank">supported the push</a>.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Person is optimistic that legislators will go big. “We want to be able to go back to our members and say, ‘This is enough of a signal for you to stay. Please don’t leave public service.’”</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ Common Platforms Where Sextortion Begins ]]> </title>
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<description> <![CDATA[ <p>Sextortion often begins on platforms teens use most, including social media, gaming chats, livestreams, and anonymous messaging apps. Understanding these high-risk spaces and teaching young people to recognize red flags can help parents protect them from online predators. </p>
<p>The post <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/where-sextortion-starts-online-platforms/">Common Platforms Where Sextortion Begins</a> appeared first on <a href="https://saprea.org">Saprea</a>.</p>
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While these spaces can offer creativity and connection, they also create opportunities for criminals who exploit trust and curiosity. <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/what-is-sextortion/">Sextortion</a> frequently begins with a seemingly harmless message, friend request, or gaming conversation. By understanding where these schemes commonly start and how perpetrators operate across platforms, parents can better recognize the risks and help their teens navigate online spaces with greater awareness and safety.</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e26 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e27 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-s mrap-t mrap-v mrap-x mrap-z mrap-1b mrap-1f"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e28 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e29 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3m mrap-3p mrap-3q mrap-3r mrap-3v mrap-3w mrap-3x mrap-3y mrap-3z mrap-40"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Where Sextortion Conversations Often Begin</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e30 mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-33 mrap-34 mrap-35"><p>Sextortion rarely starts with an obvious threat. More often, it begins in everyday digital spaces where young people already spend their time—social media feeds, gaming chats, livestream comment sections, or messaging apps. Perpetrators intentionally seek out platforms that make it easy to connect with strangers, build quick rapport, and move conversations into private messages. Understanding how these environments work—and why they appeal to criminals—can help parents recognize where risks are more likely to emerge and guide their teens in navigating these spaces more safely.</p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e31 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e32 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1g"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e33 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-2f mrap-2h mrap-2i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e34 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3j mrap-3k mrap-3m mrap-3s mrap-3v mrap-40 mrap-41 mrap-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Social Media Platforms with Direct Messaging</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e35 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>Social media represents one of the most common starting points for sextortion schemes. Perpetrators create fake online accounts with stolen photos, build followers to seem legitimate, then send direct messages to potential victims. The platform's visual nature makes it easy for perpetrators to find young people through hashtags, location tags, and suggested accounts. They comment on public posts to establish familiarity before moving to private messages. Adult perpetrators use trending media and references to seem relatable to young people.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e36 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e37 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><hr class="x-line e35377-e38 mrap-4h"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e39 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e40 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1i"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e41 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-2f mrap-2h mrap-2i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e42 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3j mrap-3k mrap-3m mrap-3s mrap-3v mrap-40 mrap-41 mrap-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Gaming Platforms and Chat Features</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e43 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>Gaming environments have become major vectors for sextortion targeting teenage boys specifically.<sup>1</sup> Messaging servers, originally designed for gamers to communicate during play, often include thousands of strangers in chat rooms. Criminals join these servers, identify young users through their voices or comments about school, then send private messages. Many games include chat features where strangers can communicate. While these platforms have some safety features, determined perpetrators find ways around them, especially when young people use third-party communication apps alongside gaming and some messaging systems connect players globally. Criminals can befriend young gamers through cooperative play, then introduce personal conversation and eventually sexual content.<sup>2</sup></p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e44 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e45 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><hr class="x-line e35377-e46 mrap-4h"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e47 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e48 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e49 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-2f mrap-2h mrap-2i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e50 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3j mrap-3k mrap-3m mrap-3s mrap-3v mrap-40 mrap-41 mrap-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Livestreaming and Video Features</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e51 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>Some sites and platforms have video chat sites that directly connect strangers for video conversations. These platforms are designed for anonymous interactions and have minimal safety protections, making them extremely high-risk for young people. Twitch and YouTube Gaming allow viewers to message streamers directly. Young people who stream themselves gaming may receive messages from seemingly friendly viewers who want to "talk more privately." Instagram Live, TikTok Live, and Facebook Live features let young people broadcast to audiences, including strangers. Sextortion perpetrators watch these streams, learn about victims, then contact them privately after the stream ends.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e52 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e53 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><hr class="x-line e35377-e54 mrap-4h"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e55 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e56 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e57 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-2f mrap-2h mrap-2i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e58 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3j mrap-3k mrap-3m mrap-3s mrap-3v mrap-40 mrap-41 mrap-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Anonymous Messaging and Encrypted Apps</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e59 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>Criminals typically move conversations to these platforms after initial contact elsewhere. Some of these apps have been repeatedly identified in law enforcement agency reports as a platform used in child sexual exploitation. <strong>When an app has anonymity features, like when no phone number is required to register, it makes it attractive to perpetrators to use to exploit.</strong></p> </div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e60 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e61 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><hr class="x-line e35377-e62 mrap-4h"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e63 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-9 mrap-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e64 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e65 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-2f mrap-2h mrap-2i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e66 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3j mrap-3k mrap-3m mrap-3s mrap-3v mrap-40 mrap-41 mrap-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Dating and "Meet New People" Apps</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e67 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>While most have age restrictions, young people can lie about their age to access them. Tinder, Bumble, and similar apps are used by perpetrators specifically seeking young victims. Some teens use these apps out of curiosity or to seek romantic relationships. Similar apps marketed as "social discovery" for teens create opportunities for adults to pose as peers. Despite verification attempts, fake online accounts proliferate on these platforms.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e68 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-6 mrap-7 mrap-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e69 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1p"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e70 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26 mrap-2j"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e71 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-4 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e72 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-s mrap-t mrap-v mrap-x mrap-z mrap-1b mrap-1q"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e73 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e74 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3m mrap-3p mrap-3q mrap-3r mrap-3v mrap-3w mrap-3y mrap-3z mrap-40 mrap-43"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">What Makes These Platforms Risky</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e75 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>Several features consistently appear across high-risk platforms. Direct messaging with strangers is the primary risk factor—any platform allowing private communication between people who don't know each other in real life creates an opportunity for manipulation. <strong>Photo and video sharing capabilities let perpetrators send explicit images to normalize sexual content and allow victims to send the sensitive material that becomes leverage.</strong> Moving between platforms enables criminals to isolate victims from oversight and create the secrecy needed for sexual exploitation. Live video features provide opportunities for real-time recording of sexual content. Anonymity and account creation ease means perpetrators can create multiple fake online accounts without verification.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e76 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-4 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e77 mrap-h mrap-l mrap-m mrap-n mrap-s mrap-x mrap-12 mrap-13 mrap-1b mrap-1r"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e78 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e79 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3m mrap-3p mrap-3q mrap-3r mrap-3v mrap-3w mrap-3y mrap-3z mrap-40 mrap-43"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The Platform Is Less Important Than the Pattern</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e80 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35"><p>While these platforms see frequent sextortion cases, the specific platform matters less than the behavior pattern. Criminals adapt to whatever platforms young people use. When one platform improves safety features, perpetrators simply move to another. This is why teaching young people to recognize manipulation tactics proves more effective than trying to ban specific apps. The red flags—strangers who contact you out of nowhere, conversations that turn sexual quickly, pressure to move to private messaging apps, requests for explicit images—remain consistent regardless of where the initial contact occurs.</p>
<p>In 2026, there are a number of platforms commonly used by online blackmailers in sextortion activities in targeting young people.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e81 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-s mrap-t mrap-v mrap-x mrap-z mrap-1b mrap-1s"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e82 mrap-20 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-29 mrap-2e mrap-2k mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2p"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e83 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-32 mrap-36 mrap-37 mrap-38">Platform Type</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e84 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2k mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2q"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e85 mrap-2v mrap-2x mrap-32 mrap-36 mrap-37 mrap-38 mrap-39 mrap-3a">Examples Include:</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e86 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e87 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Mainstream Social Media Apps</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e88 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e89 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Instagram, Snapchat</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e90 mrap-20 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-29 mrap-2e mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e91 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Emerging Teen Social Apps </div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e92 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e93 mrap-2v mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-39 mrap-3b mrap-3c">Wizz, Hoop, Yubo</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e94 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e95 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Anonymous / Semi Anonymous Apps</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e96 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e97 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Whisper, ASK.fm, Skout</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e98 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e99 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Messaging Platforms </div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e100 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e101 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Discord, WhatsApp, Kik, Telegram</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e102 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e103 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Gaming Platforms </div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e104 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e105 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Roblox, generalized gaming chats</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e106 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e107 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Video / Content / Streaming Platforms</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e108 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e109 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">TikTok, YouTube, LiveMe</div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e110 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s mrap-2t"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e111 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Dating Apps </div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e112 mrap-24 mrap-26 mrap-2l mrap-2m mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2s"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e113 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35 mrap-37 mrap-3b">Grindr, Tinder, Bumble</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e114 mrap-h mrap-k mrap-l mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-x mrap-10 mrap-13 mrap-14 mrap-18 mrap-1t"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e115 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e116 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-35">Parents don't need to become experts on every social media account and gaming platform. Instead, focus on these principles: <strong>know what platforms your teen uses, understand the basic features and risks of each, maintain open communication about who they're talking to online, and ensure privacy settings are maximized.</strong> The goal isn't to prevent all online social interaction but to help young people navigate these spaces safely while recognizing the red flags of sexual extortion.</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e117 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-4 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-a mrap-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e118 mrap-h mrap-l mrap-m mrap-n mrap-s mrap-x mrap-12 mrap-13 mrap-1b mrap-1u"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e119 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e120 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3m mrap-3p mrap-3q mrap-3r mrap-3v mrap-3w mrap-3y mrap-3z mrap-40 mrap-43"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Recognizing Sextortion Red Flags—No Matter the Platform</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e121 mrap-3g mrap-3m mrap-3o mrap-3r mrap-3s mrap-3u mrap-3v mrap-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary"><p>Although certain apps and platforms appear more frequently in sextortion cases, the real danger lies in the patterns of manipulation that perpetrators use. Criminals will always follow young people to whatever platforms are popular, which is why awareness matters more than banning specific apps. Teaching teens to recognize red flags—such as strangers initiating private conversations, requests to move to another app, or pressure to share personal images—helps them stay safer no matter where they are online. With open communication, strong privacy settings, and ongoing conversations about digital boundaries, parents can empower their children to enjoy online spaces while recognizing and avoiding the tactics used in sexual extortion.</p></h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e122 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-3 mrap-6 mrap-7 mrap-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e123 mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-10 mrap-11 mrap-18 mrap-1v"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e124 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26 mrap-2j"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e125 mrap-1 mrap-2 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-c mrap-d"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e126 mrap-h mrap-i mrap-m mrap-n mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-z mrap-10 mrap-15 mrap-1b mrap-1w"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e127 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-acc e35377-e128 mrap-4i" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e35377-e128"><div class="e35377-e129 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e35377-e129" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e35377-e129" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e35377-e129"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e35377-e129" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e35377-e129" data-x-toggleable="e35377-e129" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><p>For more information about how to protect the children in your life from sexual abuse, we invite you to explore Saprea’s <a href="/prevent/">sexual abuse prevention resources</a>.</p>

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 	<li>Thorn. (2024, June 24). <em>New research from Thorn: Financial sextortion on the rise, targeting teen boys</em>. Thorn. <a href="https://www.thorn.org/blog/new-research-from-thorn-financial-sextortion-on-the-rise-targeting-teen-boys/">https://www.thorn.org/blog/new-research-from-thorn-financial-sextortion-on-the-rise-targeting-teen-boys/</a></li>
 	<li>Federal Bureau of Investigation. (2021, June 29). <em>It’s not a game: Predators target children online</em>. FBI. <a href="https://www.fbi.gov/contact-us/field-offices/newyork/news/its-not-a-game-predators-target-children-online-062921">https://www.fbi.gov/contact-us/field-offices/newyork/news/its-not-a-game-predators-target-children-online-062921</a></li>
</ol></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35377-e130 mrap-1 mrap-5 mrap-7 mrap-a mrap-e"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e131 mrap-g mrap-h mrap-m mrap-n mrap-s mrap-t mrap-x mrap-y mrap-z mrap-10 mrap-1b mrap-1x postsrow"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e132 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e133 mrap-3f mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3j mrap-3m mrap-3q mrap-3v mrap-3z mrap-40 mrap-44"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Recent blogs</h2></div></div></div></div><div class="x-col e35377-e134 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><div class="x-row e35377-e135 mrap-h mrap-i mrap-n mrap-t mrap-x mrap-z mrap-15 mrap-16 mrap-1b mrap-1y"><div class="x-row-inner"><a class="x-col e35377-e136 mrap-24 mrap-2i mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2u post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/conversation-prompts-parents-sensitive-topics/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e35377-e137 mrap-4f"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/conversation-prompts-for-parents.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="35384:full" loading="lazy"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e138 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3p mrap-3r mrap-3v mrap-3y mrap-40 mrap-42 mrap-43 mrap-45"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Conversation Prompts for Parents: Talking About Sensitive Topics</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e139 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-38 mrap-3d excerpt">Starting conversations about online safety and sextortion with teens can feel difficult. These practical conversation prompts help parents discuss sensitive topics, recognize red flags, and build trust so young people feel safe asking for help when they need it.</div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e140 mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-34 mrap-35 mrap-3e"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e35377-e136 mrap-24 mrap-2i mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2u post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/where-sextortion-starts-online-platforms/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e35377-e137 mrap-4f"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/platforms-where-sextortion-begins.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="35379:full" loading="lazy"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e138 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3p mrap-3r mrap-3v mrap-3y mrap-40 mrap-42 mrap-43 mrap-45"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Common Platforms Where Sextortion Begins</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e139 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-38 mrap-3d excerpt">Sextortion often begins on platforms teens use most, including social media, gaming chats, livestreams, and anonymous messaging apps. Understanding these high-risk spaces and teaching young people to recognize red flags can help parents protect them from online predators. </div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e140 mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-34 mrap-35 mrap-3e"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e35377-e136 mrap-24 mrap-2i mrap-2n mrap-2o mrap-2r mrap-2u post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/barriers-children-reporting-grooming/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e35377-e137 mrap-4f"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/Grooming_Blog_2.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="34449:full" loading="lazy"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35377-e138 mrap-3g mrap-3i mrap-3p mrap-3r mrap-3v mrap-3y mrap-40 mrap-42 mrap-43 mrap-45"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">What Stops Children from Reporting Grooming: Understanding Barriers to Disclosure</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e139 mrap-2v mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-38 mrap-3d excerpt">Learn why children and teens often don’t report grooming, the manipulative tactics abusers use, and how caregivers can create safe, supportive environments to help survivors speak up and heal.</div><div class="x-text x-content e35377-e140 mrap-2w mrap-2x mrap-2y mrap-2z mrap-31 mrap-32 mrap-34 mrap-35 mrap-3e"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35377-e141 mrap-h mrap-k mrap-l mrap-m mrap-n mrap-q mrap-s mrap-x mrap-10 mrap-13 mrap-14 mrap-17 mrap-18 mrap-1z"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35377-e142 mrap-24 mrap-25 mrap-26"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e35377-e143 mrap-49 mrap-4e mrap-f" tabindex="0" href="/all-blogs/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">SEE ALL blogs</span></div></div></a></div></div></div></div></div>
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Many parents worry about saying the wrong thing or overwhelming their teen with warnings. In reality, short, supportive conversations often work better than long lectures. Using simple prompts and everyday moments to check in can help teens recognize risks, understand healthy boundaries, and feel safe coming to you if something goes wrong online.</p>
<p>Here are practical conversation prompts that you as a parent (or caregiver) can use to open discussions about these sensitive topics in supportive ways.</p>

</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e26 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-a mrav-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e27 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-w mrav-x mrav-z mrav-11 mrav-13 mrav-1f mrav-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e28 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e29 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Starting the Conversation About Online Safety</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-38 mrav-39 mrav-3a"><p>Rather than beginning with warnings or rules, <strong>start with curiosity and openness</strong>. Try asking: "What apps and social media accounts are you using these days? Can you show me how they work?" This question demonstrates interest without judgment and gives you valuable information about their digital world. Follow up with: "Who do you usually talk to on there? Friends from school or other people too?" This helps you understand their online social network without seeming accusatory.</p>
<p>Another effective opener uses current events: "I saw a news story about teens being targeted by others online. Have you heard anything about that happening at your school or with people you know?" This approach makes the topic concrete and relevant while creating space for your teen to share concerns without feeling like they're in trouble.</p>
</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e31 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e32 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e33 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e34 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-5 mrav-6 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e35 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-w mrav-x mrav-z mrav-11 mrav-13 mrav-1f mrav-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e36 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e37 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Introducing the Topic of Sextortion Without Fear</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e38 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-38 mrav-39 mrav-3a"><p>Saprea recommends <a href="https://saprea.org/prevent/educate/connect/">little talks</a> instead of lengthy talks. Try this approach: "Hey, I learned something concerning and want to check in with you. Have you ever had someone online ask you for pictures of yourself, especially explicit images? If that happens, I want you to know you can always tell me and you won't be in trouble." The explicit statement that they won't face punishment is crucial.</p>
<p>You might also ask: "If someone you met online started making you uncomfortable or asked for sexual content, what would you do? Who would you tell?" This prompt helps you understand their current plan and allows you to clarify that you want to be their first resource. It also reveals whether they understand the available support services.</p>
</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e39 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e40 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e41 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e42 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-5 mrav-6 mrav-7 mrav-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e43 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-w mrav-x mrav-z mrav-11 mrav-13 mrav-1f mrav-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e44 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e45 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Discussing Red Flags and Warning Signs</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e46 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-38 mrav-39 mrav-3a"><p>Use "what if" scenarios to explore situations without accusing your teen of anything. Try: "What would you think if someone you just met online said they felt really connected to you and wanted to video chat privately right away?" Let them respond, then discuss why that's a red flag—healthy relationships build gradually, and pressure to move fast or get private is a warning sign of manipulation.</p>
<p>Another scenario: "Imagine someone online offers you gift cards or money for photos. What do you think is really going on there?" This opens discussion about scammers who target others specifically with financial sextortion schemes. You can explain that legitimate people never offer payment for images, and this is always a setup for online blackmail or other potential exploitation.</p>
</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e47 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e48 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e49 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e50 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-d"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e51 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1p"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e52 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e53 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Building Trust </h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e54 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p>Perhaps the most important conversation establishes what happens if they make a mistake or face victimization. Say directly: "I need you to know something important. If you ever send someone an explicit image and they threaten you, or if you get into any kind of trouble online, please come to me immediately. You will not be punished. I will not take away your phone or get angry. We will handle it together, and the person threatening you is the one who is breaking the law."</p>
<p>You can add: "Even if it starts on an app you're not supposed to be on, or if you made choices you regret, you can still tell me. My job is to protect you and get you help, not to punish you." This message directly addresses the shame that prevents disclosure in 81% of cases.<sup>1</sup></p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e55 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1q"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e56 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e57 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e58 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-e"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e59 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1r"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e60 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e61 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Checking Understanding of Consent and Pressure</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e62 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p><strong>Discuss the difference between freely choosing and being pressured.</strong> Ask: "How would you know if someone was pressuring you versus you actually wanting to do something online?" This helps young people recognize coercion. Follow with: "You know that you never owe anyone explicit images, right? Not even if you've been dating, not if they sent you pictures first, not if you said yes before. You can always change your mind."</p>
<p>For context on relationships, try: "In healthy relationships, whether online or in person, how do people treat each other? What should never be okay?" Let them answer, then emphasize: "Healthy partners never pressure you for sexual content, never threaten you, and never share your private photos without permission."</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e63 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1s"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e64 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e65 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e66 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-e"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e67 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1t"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e68 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e69 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Addressing Privacy and Security</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e70 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p><strong>Rather than demanding access to everything, discuss why privacy settings matter, and work together to protect privacy.</strong> Ask: "Who can see your posts and profile right now—just friends, or anyone? Do strangers message you?" Then explain: "Keeping your social media accounts private makes you safer because criminals look for young people with public profiles. Can we check your settings together?"</p>
<p>On passwords and monitoring, try: "I'd like to know your passwords not because I don't trust you, but so if something goes wrong or you need help, I can access your accounts to fix it. Does that make sense?" Frame monitoring as collaborative online safety rather than distrust.</p>
</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e71 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1u"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e72 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e73 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e74 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-e"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e75 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1v"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e76 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e77 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">When You Suspect Something Is Wrong</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e78 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p>If your teen seems withdrawn, anxious, or is hiding their phone more than usual, approach with concern not accusation. Say: "I've noticed you seem stressed lately. Is everything okay online and at school? Sometimes people struggle with things they're afraid to talk about." Give space for them to respond without pushing.</p>
<p>If you have specific concerns about sextortion or online blackmail, be direct but supportive: "I'm worried something might be wrong. If someone online is making you uncomfortable, threatening you, or has pictures they're using to pressure you, we can fix this together. You're not in trouble with me—I just want to help." Then be quiet and give them time to answer.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e79 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1w"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e80 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><hr class="x-line e35383-e81 mrav-4i"></hr></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e82 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-b mrav-e mrav-f"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e83 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1x"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e84 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e85 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3o mrav-3p mrav-3r mrav-3x mrav-3z mrav-40 mrav-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Following Up Regularly</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e86 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p>These conversations shouldn't happen just once. Brief check-ins work well: "Anything weird happen online this week?" Or: "Remember what we talked about before—about people online who pressure teens for pictures? That offer still stands to come to me if anything like that happens." Regular, casual mention keeps the topic present without being overwhelming.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e87 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-6 mrav-7 mrav-8 mrav-g"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e88 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-1y"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e89 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e mrav-2o"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e90 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-4 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-8 mrav-9" id="healthy"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e91 mrav-l mrav-p mrav-q mrav-r mrav-w mrav-11 mrav-16 mrav-17 mrav-1f mrav-1z"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e92 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e93 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3r mrav-3u mrav-3v mrav-3w mrav-3z mrav-41 mrav-42 mrav-43 mrav-44"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Healthy vs. Unhealthy Digital Interactions: <br/>Teaching Teens the Difference</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e94 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a">Understanding the difference between healthy and unhealthy digital interactions can help teens navigate online spaces with greater confidence. While many online friendships and conversations are positive, some people use manipulation, pressure, or secrecy to gain trust and exploit others. By talking with teens about the common traits of healthy relationships—such as respect for boundaries, transparency, and mutual comfort—parents can help them recognize warning signs early and make safer decisions online.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e95 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-w mrav-x mrav-z mrav-11 mrav-13 mrav-1f mrav-20"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e96 mrav-28 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2h mrav-2m mrav-2p mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2u"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e97 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-37 mrav-3b mrav-3c mrav-3d">Healthy Interactions</div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e98 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2p mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2v"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e99 mrav-30 mrav-32 mrav-37 mrav-3b mrav-3c mrav-3d mrav-3e mrav-3f">Unhealthy Interactions</div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e100 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e101 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Healthy Online Friendships <em>Start Slowly</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e102 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e103 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Unhealthy Interactions <em>Move Too Fast</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e104 mrav-28 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2h mrav-2m mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e105 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Healthy Interactions <em>Respect Privacy and Boundaries</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e106 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e107 mrav-30 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3e mrav-3g mrav-3h">Unhealthy Interactions Involve <em>Pressure and Manipulation</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e108 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e109 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Healthy Digital Friends <em>Can Be Verified</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e110 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e111 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Unhealthy Contacts <em>Hide Their Real Identity</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e112 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x mrav-2y"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e113 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Healthy Relationships <em>Feel Comfortable and Safe</em></div></div><div class="x-col e35383-e114 mrav-2c mrav-2e mrav-2q mrav-2r mrav-2s mrav-2t mrav-2w mrav-2x"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e115 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a mrav-3c mrav-3g">Unhealthy Relationships <em>Create Anxiety and Fear</em></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e116 mrav-l mrav-o mrav-p mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-11 mrav-14 mrav-17 mrav-18 mrav-1c mrav-21"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e117 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-content e35383-e118 mrav-30 mrav-31 mrav-32 mrav-33 mrav-34 mrav-36 mrav-37 mrav-3a"><p>Teaching young people these distinctions give them the framework to evaluate online interactions themselves. When teens understand what healthy looks like, they're better equipped to recognize the manipulation tactics of sexual extortion before becoming victims. Parents should discuss these differences regularly, using real examples from news stories or hypothetical scenarios to reinforce the concepts.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e119 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-8 mrav-9 mrav-f"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e120 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-22"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e121 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e122 mrav-3l mrav-3n mrav-3r mrav-3u mrav-3v mrav-3w mrav-3z mrav-41 mrav-42 mrav-43 mrav-44"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Practical Prompts and Supportive Conversation</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e35383-e123 mrav-3l mrav-3r mrav-3t mrav-3w mrav-3x mrav-3y mrav-3z"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary"><p>Talking with teens about online safety and sextortion doesn’t have to be intimidating. By using practical prompts, real-life scenarios, and open, supportive conversations, parents can help their teens recognize red flags, understand healthy digital relationships, and feel safe seeking guidance. Regular check-ins build trust and empower teens to navigate online spaces confidently.</p></h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e124 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-3 mrav-6 mrav-7 mrav-8 mrav-g"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e125 mrav-l mrav-q mrav-r mrav-u mrav-w mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-14 mrav-15 mrav-1c mrav-23"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e126 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e mrav-2o"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e35383-e127 mrav-1 mrav-2 mrav-5 mrav-7 mrav-8 mrav-9 mrav-h"><div class="x-row x-container max width e35383-e128 mrav-l mrav-m mrav-q mrav-r mrav-x mrav-11 mrav-12 mrav-13 mrav-14 mrav-19 mrav-1f mrav-24"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e35383-e129 mrav-2c mrav-2d mrav-2e"><div class="x-acc e35383-e130 mrav-4j" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e35383-e130"><div class="e35383-e131 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e35383-e131" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e35383-e131" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e35383-e131"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e35383-e131" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e35383-e131" data-x-toggleable="e35383-e131" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><p>For more information about how to protect the children in your life from sexual abuse, we invite you to explore Saprea’s <a href="/prevent/">sexual abuse prevention resources</a>.</p>

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 	<li>Wolak, J., Finkelhor, D., Walsh, W., &amp; Treitman, L. (2018). Sextortion of minors: Characteristics and dynamics. <i>Journal of Adolescent Health</i>, 62(1), 72-79. <a href="https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jadohealth.2017.08.014">https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jadohealth.2017.08.014</a></li>
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<title> <![CDATA[ Lawmakers Want to Stay the Course on Climate ]]> </title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2026 17:50:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ The Senate and Assembly are resisting Hochul’s push to relax New York’s emissions targets and are instead pressing for renewed clean energy funding. ]]> </description>
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																			<p dir="ltr">New York state lawmakers want to keep their foot on the gas — er, accelerator pedal. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Senate and Assembly Democrats are so far rejecting Governor Kathy Hochul’s push for a <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/10/clcpa-climate-law-rollbacks-hochul-budget">budget-season rollback</a> of the state’s climate mandates, and are instead seeking renewed funding to keep inching the state toward its emissions targets. </p>
<p dir="ltr">As expected, neither chamber included language in their responses to Hochul’s budget proposal — known as “one-house budgets” — that would amend New York’s flagship climate law. They are both seeking to add $1 billion in funding for the clean energy transition, renewing a major commitment from last year’s budget that Hochul left out this year.<br></p>																																			<p dir="ltr">While lawmakers await Hochul’s next move on climate rollbacks, the two chambers’ unified $1 billion push — a key demand from advocates — sets up this year’s clearest fight over New York’s next steps on the green transition. </p>
<p>Like last year, the largest share of that pot would go toward cutting pollution from buildings, including a notable boost for the <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/07/18/hochul-energy-efficient-affordable-empower-program-funding-cuts-nyserda">Empower Plus program</a>, which funds efficiency upgrades for low- and moderate-income households, and neighborhood-scale electrification projects known as “thermal energy networks.” Smaller portions would go to clean transportation and renewable energy efforts, though the two chambers don’t fully agree on which ones.</p>																																		<div class="flourish-embed flourish-chart" data-src="story/3610610"><script src="https://public.flourish.studio/resources/embed.js"></script><noscript><img src="https://public.flourish.studio/story/3610610/thumbnail" width="100%" alt="visualization" /></noscript></div>
																
																									<p dir="ltr">The Senate also <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/03/12/climate-hochul-assembly-senate-budget">once again</a> said it wants the state to move ahead with a longer-term climate funding plan — the carbon pricing program known as <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/01/10/climate-change-pollution-new-york">cap and invest</a>, which Hochul <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/01/15/state-of-state-climate-cap-and-invest">unexpectedly shelved</a> at the start of last year — but didn’t include any specific legislative language to advance it. (The Assembly made no mention of cap and invest.) </p>
<p dir="ltr">Senate energy committee chair Kevin Parker, speaking to New York Focus ahead of the one-house budgets’ release on Monday, said Hochul’s efforts to amend the climate law were “misguided.” </p>
<p dir="ltr">“I’m for moving ahead with cap and invest, and I think there’s… a lot of different areas in which you can address [climate] without pushing back the timetables,” he said. </p>
<p dir="ltr">That attitude is reflected in the wide array of new energy and climate measures the Senate and Assembly proposed. </p>
<p dir="ltr">The Assembly is taking <a href="https://nyassembly.gov/Press/?sec=story&amp;story=117201" rel="noopener" target="_blank">major swings on energy affordability</a>, proposing a whopping $2.6 billion in bill rebates to low-income customers through a new program. And it is seeking a two-year freeze on all electric and gas rate hikes — an entirely new proposal.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The Senate is pitching a more modest $200 million in rate relief through an existing program. And it wants to keep, but tweak, other <a href="https://www.governor.ny.gov/news/governor-hochul-unveils-ratepayer-protection-plan-hold-energy-companies-accountable-and-ensure" rel="noopener" target="_blank">utility reforms</a> Hochul has put on the table — such as tying <span class="caps">CEO</span> pay to bill affordability — whereas the Assembly set those aside.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Both chambers want to set aside $1 million for consumer watchdog groups participating in utility rate hike proceedings. Hochul has <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2024/08/29/utility-watchdog-funding-hochul">vetoed a standalone bill</a> to create such a program three times, but its inclusion in budget talks could change the calculus. The Assembly also wants to create a new utility consumer advocate’s office in state government, reviving another piece of legislation Hochul has <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/12/23/hochul-veto-bills-2025">repeatedly</a> <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2021/12/08/hochul-veto-utility-consumer-advocate">vetoed</a>; the Senate did not include it. </p>
<p dir="ltr">The legislature is on board with Hochul’s <a href="https://www.syracuse.com/news/2026/02/for-300-would-you-give-national-grid-control-over-your-thermostat.html" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Excelsior Power proposal</a>, which would put $33 million toward bill rebates for customers who enroll smart thermostats with their utilities, as part of an effort to make the electric grid <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/02/18/virtual-power-plants-grid-flexibility-energy-bills-new-york">more flexible</a>. But they want additional guardrails on the program, to protect customers’ privacy and guarantee that they would be able to override utilities’ control of their thermostats. (The Senate and Assembly proposals vary on the specifics.) <br></p>																																			<p dir="ltr">The Senate, meanwhile, wants to make it easier and cheaper to <a href="https://www.nysenate.gov/newsroom/press-releases/2026/pete-harckham/harckham-environmental-and-labor-advocates-call-asap-act" rel="noopener" target="_blank">plug local solar projects into the grid</a>, and to create rebates for heat pumps, <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2022/08/30/ny-electric-bikes-subsidy">e-bikes</a>, and used electric cars. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Climate advocates have applauded the two chambers’ proposals, starting with their decisions to stand by the climate law. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Liz Moran, New York policy advocate for Earthjustice, said in a statement that the law “is not responsible for higher energy bills, and should not be negotiated under the darkness of the budget process.” </p>
<p dir="ltr">The business group Upstate United, for its part, <a href="https://upstateunited.com/news/upstate-united-senate-and-assembly-one-house-budget-proposals-fail-to-address-energy-affordability/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">called</a> the legislature’s stance “infuriating.” </p>
<p dir="ltr">“Any measure that ignores the unconscionable cost increases associated with Cap-and-Invest should be dead on arrival,” the group wrote in a statement, referring to the $4,000 per household <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/03/10/clcpa-climate-law-rollbacks-hochul-budget">price tag</a> that Hochul’s administration claims could result from a maximal version of the program.</p>
<p dir="ltr">None of the budget proposals include anything on two of Hochul’s <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/01/14/nuclear-energy-utility-bills-climate-state-of-the-state-hochul">flagship energy proposals</a> this year: building new nuclear plants and regulating data centers. (Those proposals are advancing through agency regulations.) The Assembly did put forward a new <a href="https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/bills/2025/A9138" rel="noopener" target="_blank">excise tax on cryptocurrency mining</a>, which it says could raise $380 million a year and help fund energy bill rebates.</p>
<p dir="ltr">While climate advocates cheered at seeing so many of their priorities reflected in the budget proposals, Parker noted that the documents remain “aspirational.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">“We put a stake in the ground on certain positions,” he said. “But we’re not building the building until the three of us can agree where it goes.”</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[ Your Guide to the 2026 State Budget Fight ]]> </title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2026 12:43:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ We read the governor’s, Senate’s, and Assembly’s budget proposals — so you don’t have to. ]]> </description>
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																			<p dir="ltr">The Assembly wants to freeze your energy bills, the Senate wants to stop police from working with <span class="caps">ICE</span>, and the governor wants to slash auto insurance premiums. Albany’s leaders will hash out these and hundreds of other policies in the next three weeks, as they craft the state budget and decide how to spend $260 billion — and then some, if the legislature gets its way.</p>
<p dir="ltr">This week, the two legislative chambers released their counters to Governor Kathy Hochul’s executive budget. The biggest disagreement is on taxes; the legislature is once again proposing hikes on wealthy people and corporations to fund expanded social programs. This year, they have a notable ally in their corner: New York City Mayor Zohran Mamdani, who has aggressively pushed for more state revenue to help close the city’s budget gap. All eyes are on Hochul, who has so far resisted the idea.</p>
<p>But there’s much more to the battle than the headline numbers. Each of the three proposals are thousands of pages long, and they don’t make for light reading. We’ve been working around the clock to break them down for you. </p>
<p>In the chart below, you can see where each party stands on the highest-profile issues. Below that, you can find written descriptions using the drop-down menus. Happy budget season!</p>																																		<div class="flourish-embed flourish-chart" data-src="visualisation/28012009"><script src="https://public.flourish.studio/resources/embed.js"></script><noscript><img src="https://public.flourish.studio/visualisation/28012009/thumbnail" width="100%" alt="visualization" /></noscript></div>
																
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<title> <![CDATA[ Lawmakers Join Battery Developers in Fight With ConEd Over NYC’s Grid ]]> </title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2026 15:52:00 -0400</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ ConEd says New York’s battery boom could overload the grid. The industry and its allies are pushing back. ]]> </description>
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																			<p dir="ltr">A fight over the future of New York City’s electric grid is heating up. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Energy developers are racing to build community-scale battery storage projects across the five boroughs, a push that the city is counting on to bolster reliability while cutting costs and pollution. State energy officials <a href="https://documents.dps.ny.gov/public/Common/ViewDoc.aspx?DocRefId=%7B9079428E-0000-C91D-A340-682288832D69%7D&amp;DocTitle=New%20York" rel="noopener" target="_blank">estimate</a> that a rapid battery buildout over the next few years could yield $2 billion in statewide energy system savings, with much of the benefits concentrated in and around New York City. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Already, about two dozen projects have been built around the city, and scores more are in advanced stages of development. But Con Edison, the city’s electric utility, is pumping the brakes.</p>																																			<p dir="ltr">ConEd says the battery rush has been a victim of its own success. So many new projects are seeking to plug into the grid, the utility says, that they risk overloading local infrastructure and causing outages. To avoid that, in recent months the company has started asking developers to pay tens of millions of dollars for upgrades if they want to move ahead with their projects.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The battery industry is crying foul — and has a growing chorus on its side. On Wednesday, seven city and state lawmakers, two industry groups, and more than a dozen community and climate groups sent a <a href="https://www.documentcloud.org/documents/27872696-coned-bess-moratorium-march-10-finaldocx-1/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">letter</a> to ConEd asking the utility to reverse its position and allow projects to move ahead without the additional fees, New York Focus has learned. </p>
<p dir="ltr">“Instead of slamming the brakes on batteries, Con Edison should be doing everything in its power to accelerate battery development because it would save money for customers,” said Patrick Robbins, director of the Utility Customers Association, a signatory of the letter.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The letter came the same day as an <a href="https://documents.dps.ny.gov/public/Common/ViewDoc.aspx?DocRefId=%7B109CDD9C-0000-CE1A-93DC-4BA543087CD7%7D&amp;DocTitle=NY-BEST%20NYSEIA%20Motion%20for%20Emergency%20Rulemaking" rel="noopener" target="_blank">emergency petition</a> from the industry to New York’s utility regulator accusing ConEd of taking “arbitrary” action and jeopardizing $1.5 billion worth of battery projects in New York City. That includes 25 projects that developers have already canceled in response to the policy change and 91 others at risk, according to the trade group New York Battery and Energy Storage Technology Consortium, or <span class="caps">NY-BEST</span>. </p>
<p dir="ltr">ConEd spokesperson Jamie McShane said the company would respond formally to the petition, and declined to comment further on the specific allegations. </p>
<p dir="ltr">More generally, the utility insists that it supports New York’s battery buildout, but says a reset is needed to protect the grid. </p>
<p dir="ltr">“As the market scales, storage must deliver real benefits to customers — not drive new infrastructure costs that show up on bills — which is why we are working with regulators and stakeholders to align growth with real‑world grid conditions,” said Raghu Sudhakara, ConEd’s vice president of distributed resource integration, in a statement. </p>
<p dir="ltr">“Without reforms, current policies risk shifting significant new costs to customers, undermining both affordability and the long‑term success of storage,” Sudhakara said. <br></p>																									<p dir="ltr">New York City’s battery industry is being built from the ground up. </p>
<p dir="ltr">The first community-scale battery project in the city was <a href="https://www.enelnorthamerica.com/about-us/newsroom/search-press/press/2019/12/battery-storage-system-new-york-city-enelx-related" rel="noopener" target="_blank">completed in 2019</a>, and they remain rare. Picture a few shipping containers’ worth of batteries and electrical equipment sitting in a small lot. The installations could become a common sight for New Yorkers in the coming years, with hundreds proposed across the outer boroughs. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Altogether, there are currently about 2.5 gigawatts’ worth of storage projects waiting to be connected to ConEd’s grid, equivalent to about a fifth of total peak load; more than 650 megawatts’ worth applied in just the second quarter of last year.</p>																																		<div class="flourish-embed flourish-map" data-src="visualisation/28010293"><script src="https://public.flourish.studio/resources/embed.js"></script><noscript><img src="https://public.flourish.studio/visualisation/28010293/thumbnail" width="100%" alt="map visualization" /></noscript></div>
																
																									<p dir="ltr">The rush to build — accelerated in part by battery-friendly zoning reforms in Mayor Eric Adams’s “City of Yes” plan — has met <a href="https://www.silive.com/news/2025/02/take-your-battery-projects-elsewhere-staten-island-residents-confront-energy-developer-at-heated-community-board-meeting.html" rel="noopener" target="_blank">pushback</a> in <a href="https://nypost.com/2026/02/26/us-news/nyers-fume-over-lithium-ion-battery-storage-site-in-middle-village/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">many</a> <a href="https://www.cityandstateny.com/politics/2026/03/charged-fight-over-battery-storage-comes-historic-black-neighborhood-queens/412071/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">neighborhoods</a>, with residents worrying that the projects could pose fire hazards and depress home values. (Developers insist that their projects are safe, pointing to New York’s strict fire codes.)</p>
<p dir="ltr">The industry has long complained of <a href="https://insideclimatenews.org/news/23062025/new-york-battery-storage-system-wind-solar/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">hurdles</a> to plugging into the grid. But ConEd’s recent policy change is in another league, developers say.</p>
<p dir="ltr">At first glance, ConEd’s claim that batteries could overload the grid is surprising. The systems are supposed to charge when there’s plenty of spare power — typically overnight in New York — and put that power back on the grid when demand is high. That helps <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2025/09/18/new-york-energy-bill-hikes">smooth out peaks</a> in demand and reduce the amount of traditional infrastructure needed to meet them, which in turn should reduce energy bills.</p>
<p dir="ltr">ConEd says that a surge of projects clustered in certain areas risks defeating that purpose. If they all charge at the same time, <a href="https://www.documentcloud.org/documents/27877944-con-edison-notice-on-sir-energy-storage/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">the utility says</a>, they could create new overnight peaks that would overload neighborhood electric hubs called substations. ConEd has started asking developers in certain areas to pay for a portion of infrastructure upgrades to accommodate those peaks. Those upgrades can run from about $100 million to $1 billion or more.<br></p>																									<hr>
								<p><strong>ConEd’s New Standards for Battery Hookups</strong></p>
<p dir="ltr">Con Edison studies proposals for energy projects to make sure they can be added to the grid safely and estimate the costs. Last October, according to filings, the utility implemented a new “two-step test” to determine costs for battery storage projects. If a project would cause local energy demand to exceed 70 percent of infrastructure capacity, ConEd says it needs to build infrastructure to accommodate it. That infrastructure could range from new transformers (costing $100 million or more) to entire new substations (costing $1 billion or more). </p>
<p dir="ltr">Even paying a small portion of such upgrades would be cost-prohibitive for battery projects, developers say.<br /></p>
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																									<p dir="ltr">The result for developers? An average of $21 million per project in added costs, according to the <span class="caps">NY-BEST</span> petition. That’s made the cost of hooking a project up to the grid grow from a fraction of a project’s cost to, in some cases, more than its total budget, developers say.</p>
<p dir="ltr">William Acker, executive director of <span class="caps">NY-BEST</span>, said ConEd is overcompensating for a problem that may be years away. He said that energy storage <em>could </em>create new overnight peaks if you put enough on the grid and “operate it all at exactly one time … all the way out in the future.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">“But those are things that will be evolving,” he said.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The industry and its backers say ConEd is blocking development at a time when it’s urgently needed. The state’s grid operator warned last fall that New York City could <a href="https://www.utilitydive.com/news/new-york-iso-warns-of-2026-reliability-violations-in-nyc-long-island/802699/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">face a power shortfall</a> as soon as next year, due to delays in building major new clean energy projects like <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/01/13/trump-offshore-wind-empire-sunrise-hochul-unions">offshore wind</a>. In response, the state’s utility regulator, the Public Service Commission, in December <a href="https://dps.ny.gov/news/con-edison-directed-develop-reliability-contingency-plan-new-york-city" rel="noopener" target="_blank">directed</a> ConEd to “turn over every stone” in order to meet energy needs without increasing pollution. </p>

<p dir="ltr">That means finding an alternative to the fleet of aging gas and oil plants, known as “peaker” plants, that the city has traditionally relied on when demand spikes — and that the state has been <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2023/06/14/new-york-air-pollution-climate-peaker-plant">trying to close</a> for years. <a href="https://nysfocus.com/2026/02/28/virtual-power-plants-utilities-jigar-shah">Experts say</a> batteries offer a neat substitute. </p>
<p dir="ltr">ConEd’s new standards are “a double whammy, in the sense that we’re stalling the exact solution that the city needs right now,” Acker said.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Developers are also fuming over what they call a lack of transparency in how ConEd implemented its recent policy changes. The company first suspended all battery projects in affected areas last August, before saying it would seek to amend its rules through a public proceeding.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Instead, in January, the company issued a <a href="https://www.documentcloud.org/documents/27877944-con-edison-notice-on-sir-energy-storage/" rel="noopener" target="_blank">“notice”</a> laying out its new methodology for calculating costs, which the industry says it wasn’t consulted on. And ConEd applied the new method retroactively to dozens of projects that had already completed interconnection studies. </p>
<p dir="ltr">ConEd maintains that it has gone out of its way to be transparent. It made the recent changes purely on technical engineering grounds and was not required to provide public notice but chose to anyway, the company says.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Both sides agree that the rules for managing how batteries plug into the grid are in need of updates as the market grows.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Claudia Villar-Leeman, senior director of policy at <span class="caps">NY-BEST</span>, said that current Public Service Commission regulations don’t reflect battery systems’ ability to turn off and on at short notice when the grid needs it. They were designed to get technologies like solar and batteries “off the ground,” she said.<br></p>																																			<p dir="ltr">“That was good for the beginning of the market, but now we have a lot more resources and a lot more potential,” Villar-Leeman continued. She said developers want to work with all parties to figure out a long-term fix. But for now, they want the utility to reverse course on its recent changes and allow planned projects to move ahead. </p>

<p dir="ltr">The Public Service Commission is fielding public comments on the issue through the beginning of May, but <span class="caps">NY-BEST</span> wants regulators to step in sooner. Public Service Commission spokesperson Kim Mashke said the commission would review the filings, but declined to say whether or when the regulators might take action. </p>
<p dir="ltr">State Senate energy committee chair Kevin Parker, who signed the letter to ConEd this week, said he’s considering bringing the legislature into the fight if it isn’t resolved soon. </p>
<p dir="ltr">“I’m hoping that the [Public Service Commission] can help just mediate a solution that gets us there because if we have to legislate something, that’s the slowest possible outcome, and we need electrons now,” he said. “But if not, we are at the ready and prepared to do our jobs.”</p>											 ]]> </content:encoded>
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Understanding Grooming in the Digital Age</h1></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e19 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-3 mqlr-5 mqlr-6 mqlr-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e20 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-y mqlr-10 mqlr-13 mqlr-1h mqlr-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e21 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e22 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-3 mqlr-5 mqlr-7 mqlr-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e23 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-y mqlr-10 mqlr-13 mqlr-1h mqlr-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e24 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34479-e25 mqlr-3c mqlr-3h mqlr-3j mqlr-3m mqlr-3n mqlr-3o mqlr-3p"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">With technology becoming increasingly more accessible, there has been an increase in online grooming. Much like grooming that occurs in-person, online grooming is the technology-facilitated process of befriending a child or teen for the purpose of sexual abuse and exploitation. While some online perpetrators may know the child they are talking to, more often, sexual perpetrators are exploiting the anonymity and accessibility of online platforms to reach potential victims. Unlike in-person grooming, which can occur over weeks, months or even years, online grooming can happen very quickly, even in a matter of hours. When working online, they don’t need to influence adults and control the environment around the child; this potentially makes it easier to establish trust and build the child up more quickly toward sexual discussions or sexual contact. </h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e26 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-5 mqlr-7 mqlr-8 mqlr-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e27 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-y mqlr-10 mqlr-13 mqlr-1h mqlr-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34479-e29 mqlr-3c mqlr-3e mqlr-3h mqlr-3k mqlr-3l mqlr-3m mqlr-3p mqlr-3q mqlr-3r mqlr-3s mqlr-3t mqlr-3u mqlr-3v"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Groomers Operate Online Through Social Media and Digital Platforms</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e30 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-2y mqlr-2z mqlr-30"><p>Online grooming isn’t limited to obscure corners of the internet; in fact, it often takes place on well-known platforms such as social media, messaging apps, and online games. Using fake profiles, groomers may pretend to be another child or a peer with shared interests, making it easier to gain the victim’s trust. They may even use multiple online platforms to contact the same child. They can spend time learning about the child or teen’s interests from their online profiles and use that information to help them build trust and establish a special relationship. As the online relationship develops, the perpetrator may ask for personal information or encourage private chats, video calls, and secretive behavior. Eventually, they manipulate or coerce the child into sending explicit photos or videos. In many cases, the offender uses this material to blackmail the child into further sexual acts (a form of abuse known as <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/what-is-sextortion/">sextortion</a>.)</p>
<p>The tactics used in online grooming are calculated and manipulative. Groomers can maintain frequent or constant contact, intensifying their control and making it difficult for the child to disengage. Some even resort to cyberstalking, using technology to monitor or harass their victims. Understanding these grooming behaviors of perpetrators helps caregivers and other adults to recognize signs of grooming early and protect children and teens from abusers online.</p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e31 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-3 mqlr-6 mqlr-7 mqlr-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e32 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-t mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-14 mqlr-15 mqlr-1d mqlr-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e33 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2l"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e34 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-4 mqlr-5 mqlr-7 mqlr-9 mqlr-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e35 mqlr-i mqlr-n mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-v mqlr-10 mqlr-16 mqlr-17 mqlr-18 mqlr-1h mqlr-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e36 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34479-e37 mqlr-3c mqlr-3e mqlr-3h mqlr-3k mqlr-3l mqlr-3m mqlr-3p mqlr-3q mqlr-3s mqlr-3t mqlr-3u mqlr-3v mqlr-3w"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Online Grooming Red Flags and Warning Signs</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e38 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">Many parents may feel like they don’t know what to look for when trying to catch online grooming early. Luckily, if a parent can spot traditional grooming behaviors, they will likely be able to catch online grooming behaviors. One nonprofit, Bravehearts<sup>1</sup>, nicely outlines seven warning signs and red flags to pay attention to:</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e39 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-s mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-12 mqlr-13 mqlr-14 mqlr-1h mqlr-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e40 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2m"><div class="x-row e34479-e41 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1p"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e42 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e43 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">01</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e44 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e45 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Asking personal questions too soon</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e46 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">The person is asking your child a lot of questions about personal information (such as their age, school, location, home life etc.) soon after meeting them online. This rapid questioning is a common grooming behavior used to assess the child’s vulnerability to build a close relationship quickly.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e47 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1q"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e48 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e49 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">02</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e50 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e51 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Asking for favors and building trust</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e52 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">The person starts asking your child for favors and does favors for them in return – abusers often use promises, gifts and favors to gain trust. This exchange creates a sense of obligation and is part of the grooming process designed to establish special attention and emotional dependence.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e53 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1r"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e54 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e55 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">03</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e56 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e57 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Keeping the 'relationship' secret</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e58 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">Online groomers typically try to keep their relationships extremely private and <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/good-secrets-bad-secrets/">secret</a> from the beginning, asking for it to be something ‘special’ just between them. Perpetrators thrive when caregivers and family members are unaware of their contact with the child.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e59 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1s"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e60 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e61 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">04</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e62 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e63 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Frequent and varied contact</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e64 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">The person contacts your child frequently and in different ways, like texting, on social media apps and through online chats or asking them to move their chat onto another platform that has end-to-end encryption.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e65 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1t"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e66 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e67 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">05</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e68 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e69 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Questions about device access</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e70 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">The person asks your child things like who else uses their device or computer, or which room they use it in. These questions help groomers assess how much privacy they have to escalate grooming behaviors without detection by parents or caregivers.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e71 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1u"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e72 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e73 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">06</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e74 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e75 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Gives compliments and tests boundaries</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e76 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">The person compliments your child on their appearance or body and/or tests their boundaries by asking things like, ‘Have you ever been kissed?,’ ‘Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?,’ and the like. Boundary testing and comments about physical appearance are examples of grooming tactics that target a child’s self-esteem and introduce sexual topics gradually. This is a form of desensitizing the child to sexual content and behavior.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e34479-e77 mqlr-i mqlr-k mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-r mqlr-s mqlr-t mqlr-10 mqlr-18 mqlr-19 mqlr-1d mqlr-1e mqlr-1v"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e78 mqlr-25 mqlr-27 mqlr-28 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2e mqlr-2f mqlr-2j mqlr-2n mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e79 mqlr-2r mqlr-2v mqlr-31 mqlr-32 mqlr-33 mqlr-34">07</div></div><div class="x-col e34479-e80 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e81 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2v mqlr-32 mqlr-34 mqlr-35 mqlr-36 mqlr-37">Wants to meet in-person</div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e82 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30">Groomers may insist on meeting with the child and try to make them feel guilty or even threaten them if they are unwilling. Note: not all groomers will attempt to meet in person if their aim is to get sexual images or videos of children (known child sexual abuse material (CSAM)). </div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e83 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-5 mqlr-7 mqlr-9 mqlr-b mqlr-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e84 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-t mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-14 mqlr-15 mqlr-1d mqlr-1w"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e85 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34479-e86 mqlr-3c mqlr-3e mqlr-3h mqlr-3k mqlr-3l mqlr-3m mqlr-3p mqlr-3q mqlr-3s mqlr-3t mqlr-3u mqlr-3v mqlr-3w"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How to Protect Children From Online Dangers</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e87 mqlr-2q mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2x mqlr-30"><p>As with all types of child sexual abuse, online grooming can have devastating effects on a child's mental health, self-esteem, and safety. The best defense is education—teaching children to recognize red flags, avoid sharing personal information or images, and to feel safe speaking up when something doesn’t feel right. Parents and caregivers should stay informed about the platforms their children use, maintain open and supportive communication, and be aware of changes in their child’s mood or behavior.</p> 
<p>Online grooming may take place in the digital world, but its impacts are very real. Through awareness, education, and open dialogue, we can better protect children and young people from these serious threats.</p>
<p>If you suspect your child is being groomed or has experienced child sexual abuse, contact law enforcement or child protection services immediately. For more information about how to best support your child, visit our page about <a href="/prevent/">preventing child sexual abuse</a>.</p> 
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e88 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-3 mqlr-6 mqlr-7 mqlr-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e89 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-t mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-14 mqlr-15 mqlr-1d mqlr-1x"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e90 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2l"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e91 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-5 mqlr-7 mqlr-b mqlr-d"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e92 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-13 mqlr-14 mqlr-1h mqlr-1y"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e93 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2o"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34479-e94 mqlr-3c mqlr-3e mqlr-3h mqlr-3k mqlr-3l mqlr-3m mqlr-3o mqlr-3p mqlr-3q mqlr-3t mqlr-3u mqlr-3v mqlr-3w"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Frequently Asked Questions </br>About Online Grooming</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34479-e95 mqlr-2r mqlr-2s mqlr-2u mqlr-2v mqlr-2w mqlr-2x mqlr-30 mqlr-32 mqlr-35 mqlr-38">Online grooming can be complex and difficult to recognize, which often leaves parents and caregivers with many questions about how it happens and what to do if they suspect it. Below are some of the most common questions about online grooming—what it is, how to identify the warning signs, and steps you can take to help keep children safe while using digital platforms.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e96 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-13 mqlr-14 mqlr-1h mqlr-1z"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e97 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-acc e34479-e98 mqlr-4a mqlr-4b" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e34479-e98"><div class="e34479-e99 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e99" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e99" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e99"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">What is online grooming?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e99" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e99" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e99" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Online grooming is when an adult uses the internet or digital communication to build a relationship with a child for the purpose of sexual abuse or exploitation.</div></div></div><div class="e34479-e100 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e100" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e100" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e100"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">How can I tell if my child is being groomed online?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e100" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e100" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e100" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Look for red flags like secrecy about online activity, receiving gifts from someone they met online, frequent messaging from unknown contacts, or sudden changes in mood or behavior.</div></div></div><div class="e34479-e101 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e101" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e101" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e101"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">What should I do if I think my child is being groomed online?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e101" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e101" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e101" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Stay calm, gather evidence (such as screenshots or messages), and report the situation to law enforcement or the National Center for Missing &amp; Exploited Children’s CyberTipline. Avoid confronting the suspected groomer directly.</div></div></div><div class="e34479-e102 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e102" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e102" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e102"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">How can parents prevent online grooming?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e102" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e102" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e102" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Keep communication open, set clear boundaries for device use, and talk about online safety regularly. Teach children not to share personal information or images and to tell a trusted adult if something feels off.</div></div></div><div class="e34479-e103 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e103" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e103" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e103"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">What platforms are most common for online grooming?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e103" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e103" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e103" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Online grooming can happen anywhere children communicate digitally—social media, gaming chats, messaging apps, and even educational forums.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e104 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-3 mqlr-6 mqlr-7 mqlr-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e105 mqlr-i mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-t mqlr-v mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-14 mqlr-15 mqlr-1d mqlr-20"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e106 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b mqlr-2l"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34479-e107 mqlr-1 mqlr-2 mqlr-5 mqlr-7 mqlr-b mqlr-e"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34479-e108 mqlr-i mqlr-j mqlr-o mqlr-p mqlr-w mqlr-10 mqlr-11 mqlr-13 mqlr-14 mqlr-1a mqlr-1h mqlr-21"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34479-e109 mqlr-29 mqlr-2a mqlr-2b"><div class="x-acc e34479-e110 mqlr-4a mqlr-4c" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e34479-e110"><div class="e34479-e111 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34479-e111" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34479-e111" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e111"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34479-e111" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34479-e111" data-x-toggleable="e34479-e111" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><ol>
 	<li>Retrieved from “Online Grooming and Child Sexual Exploitation” from Bravehearts.org.au.</li>
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A grooming relationship often starts out appearing safe and positive. By the time the relationship becomes uncomfortable, frightening, and/or isolating, many children feel confused and unsure about how to react or who to trust. Recognizing warning signs of grooming behaviors early can help caregivers intervene before children feel trapped in silence. </h4></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e26 mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2h mqkr-2i mqkr-2j mqkr-2k"><p>According to the National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children (NSPCC)<sup>1</sup>, children may not speak up for a number of reasons. For instance, children and teens may be:</p>

<ul>
 	<li>Ashamed.</li>
 	<li>Feeling guilty for inappropriate sexual activities they participated in.</li>
 	<li>Believe they are in a romantic relationship with their groomer.</li>
 	<li>Embarrassed to share sexual details with other people.</li>
 	<li>Nervous to get the person grooming them in trouble.</li>
 	<li>Scared of what the groomer will do if they speak out or refuse to comply.</li>
</ul></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e27 mqkr-2c mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2k"><strong>Understanding barriers to children reporting grooming is vital to helping children feel safe and supported.</strong> Parents and other caregivers need to create open, non-judgmental environments where kids feel comfortable sharing anything—no matter how confusing or difficult it may seem.</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34443-e28 mqkr-1 mqkr-2 mqkr-3 mqkr-5 mqkr-7 mqkr-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e29 mqkr-h mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-t mqkr-u mqkr-w mqkr-y mqkr-10 mqkr-1d mqkr-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e30 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-1z"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e31 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-32 mqkr-33 mqkr-34 mqkr-37 mqkr-38 mqkr-39 mqkr-3a mqkr-3b"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">What If My Child Thinks They’re in a Romantic Relationship with Their Abuser</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e32 mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2h mqkr-2i mqkr-2k mqkr-2l">Sometimes, groomers use manipulative and emotionally coercive tactics to convince children and teens that they are in a consensual romantic relationship. They may shower them with attention, affection, gifts, or praise as part of the grooming process in order to build trust and emotional dependence. Over time, this manipulation can blur the lines between affection and abuse, making it incredibly difficult for young people to recognize what’s happening.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e33 mqkr-h mqkr-i mqkr-j mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-y mqkr-12 mqkr-13 mqkr-1d mqkr-1i"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e34 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-28"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e35 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2u mqkr-2w mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-37 mqkr-3b mqkr-3c mqkr-3d mqkr-3e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Why Children Can’t Consent to a Relationship with an Adult</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e36 mqkr-2c mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2k">Saprea firmly denounces the notion that children can consent to relationships with adults. Legally and developmentally, minors are not capable of giving informed consent—especially in the context of a power imbalance where an adult is deliberately exploiting their trust and vulnerability. Adults in a position of power who engage in grooming behaviors are abusers, regardless of how they frame the relationship.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e37 mqkr-h mqkr-i mqkr-j mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-y mqkr-12 mqkr-13 mqkr-1d mqkr-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e38 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-28"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e39 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2u mqkr-2w mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-37 mqkr-3b mqkr-3c mqkr-3d mqkr-3e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Groomers Manipulate Feelings of Attachment and Guilt</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e40 mqkr-2c mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2k"><p>Children may feel afraid to speak up or resist because they don’t want to “ruin” what they’ve been told is a special or <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/good-secrets-bad-secrets/">secret</a> relationship. Some may fear losing the emotional connection they've built with the groomer, even if it has become abusive. Others may feel ashamed, confused, or blame themselves for getting involved, making it even harder to seek help. The groomer’s manipulation of the child’s self-esteem and vulnerability makes disclosure even more difficult.</p>
<p>It’s also common for victims to feel they have no choice—that saying "no" isn’t an option. Even when they are deeply uncomfortable or hurt by what they’ve been asked to do, they may believe they’re responsible for maintaining the relationship, or worry that speaking out will lead to punishment, rejection, or harm.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e41 mqkr-h mqkr-i mqkr-j mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-y mqkr-12 mqkr-13 mqkr-1d mqkr-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e42 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-28"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e43 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2u mqkr-2w mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-37 mqkr-3b mqkr-3c mqkr-3d mqkr-3e"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Parents and Caregivers Can Help</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e44 mqkr-2c mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2k"><p>The most important thing for parents and caregivers to remember is this: your child is not to blame. Open, non-judgmental conversations and professional support can make all the difference in helping them break free from this manipulation and begin to heal.</p>
<p>If you suspect your child is being groomed or has experienced child sexual abuse, contact law enforcement or child protection services immediately. For more information about how to best support your child, visit our page about <a href="/prevent/">preventing child sexual abuse</a>.</p> 
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34443-e45 mqkr-1 mqkr-2 mqkr-4 mqkr-5 mqkr-7 mqkr-9 mqkr-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e46 mqkr-h mqkr-m mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-t mqkr-y mqkr-13 mqkr-14 mqkr-15 mqkr-1d mqkr-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e47 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-1z"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e48 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-32 mqkr-33 mqkr-34 mqkr-37 mqkr-39 mqkr-3a mqkr-3b mqkr-3c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Moving From Isolation to Integration</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e49 mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2h mqkr-2i mqkr-2j mqkr-2k"><p>Isolation is one of the most powerful tactics used in grooming, as groomers systematically distance children from their support networks to maintain control and secrecy. Research on child sexual abuse recovery demonstrates that structured reintegration approaches—including family assessments, gradual transitions, and sustained aftercare—are essential for helping children rebuild healthy connections. Parents play a critical role in this process by actively working to restore their child's access to safe, supportive relationships. This means:</p>

<ul>
 	<li>facilitating regular contact with trusted family members,</li>
 	<li>encouraging age-appropriate friendships, and</li>
 	<li>creating opportunities for children to participate in activities where they feel valued and connected.</li>
</ul></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e50 mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2h mqkr-2i mqkr-2k mqkr-2m"><p><strong>Maintaining open, non-judgmental communication is one of the most powerful protective factors parents can provide as their child transitions away from an exploitative situation.</strong></p>
<p>Studies examining reintegration strategies emphasize that social <a href="https://saprea.org/heal/approach/support-network/">support networks</a> are fundamental to trauma recovery, and building these networks takes intentional effort and time. Parents should collaborate with mental health professionals who specialize in childhood trauma to develop a comprehensive support plan tailored to their child's specific needs. Professional involvement may be vital throughout the reintegration process, helping families navigate the complex emotional terrain while prioritizing the child's safety and well-being.</p></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e51 mqkr-2r mqkr-2x mqkr-31 mqkr-34 mqkr-35 mqkr-37 mqkr-3f"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Remember that reintegration is gradual—there is no set timeline for healing. Focus on small, consistent steps that help your child feel safe, heard, and supported as they rediscover what healthy relationships look and feel like. Your patience, presence, and unwavering belief in your child's resilience will make all the difference in their recovery journey.</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34443-e52 mqkr-1 mqkr-2 mqkr-3 mqkr-6 mqkr-7 mqkr-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e53 mqkr-h mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-r mqkr-t mqkr-u mqkr-y mqkr-z mqkr-11 mqkr-16 mqkr-1a mqkr-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e54 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-1z mqkr-29"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34443-e55 mqkr-1 mqkr-2 mqkr-5 mqkr-7 mqkr-9 mqkr-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e56 mqkr-h mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-t mqkr-u mqkr-y mqkr-z mqkr-10 mqkr-11 mqkr-1d mqkr-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e57 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-1z mqkr-2a"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e34443-e58 mqkr-2r mqkr-2t mqkr-2x mqkr-2y mqkr-30 mqkr-32 mqkr-33 mqkr-34 mqkr-36 mqkr-37 mqkr-3a mqkr-3b mqkr-3c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Frequently Asked Questions </br>About Grooming and Disclosure</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e34443-e59 mqkr-2d mqkr-2f mqkr-2g mqkr-2k mqkr-2n">Grooming can be difficult for children to recognize, as it often begins as a relationship that seems caring or harmless. Feelings of fear, guilt, or confusion can prevent them from speaking up. This FAQ explores why children may stay silent, how to spot warning signs, and how caregivers can respond with understanding and support.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e60 mqkr-h mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-t mqkr-u mqkr-y mqkr-z mqkr-10 mqkr-11 mqkr-1d mqkr-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e61 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-1z"><div class="x-acc e34443-e62 mqkr-3t mqkr-3u" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e34443-e62"><div class="e34443-e63 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34443-e63" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34443-e63" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e63"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">Why don’t children report grooming right away?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34443-e63" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34443-e63" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e63" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"> Many children don’t realize they’re being groomed until the relationship becomes manipulative or frightening. Shame, guilt, confusion, and fear of getting someone in trouble can all prevent them from speaking up.</div></div></div><div class="e34443-e64 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34443-e64" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34443-e64" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e64"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">How can I tell if my child is being groomed?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34443-e64" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34443-e64" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e64" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"> Look for signs such as secretive communication, sudden isolation from friends or family, excessive gifts or attention from an adult, or changes in mood and behavior.</div></div></div><div class="e34443-e65 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34443-e65" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34443-e65" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e65"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">What should I do if my child tells me they’re being groomed?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34443-e65" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34443-e65" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e65" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"> Stay calm and thank them for trusting you. Reassure them that it’s not their fault and that you’re proud of them for speaking up. Then, contact law enforcement or child protection services immediately.</div></div></div><div class="e34443-e66 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34443-e66" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34443-e66" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e66"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">How can I help my child recover after grooming?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34443-e66" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34443-e66" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e66" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Healing takes time. Focus on creating a safe, supportive environment and maintaining open, non-judgmental communication. Seeking guidance from trauma-informed professionals can also help your child rebuild trust and confidence.</div></div></div><div class="e34443-e67 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34443-e67" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34443-e67" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e67"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">What’s the difference between grooming and a healthy friendship?</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34443-e67" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34443-e67" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e67" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content">Healthy relationships are based on mutual respect and clear boundaries. Grooming involves secrecy, manipulation, and a power imbalance, where the adult seeks to control or exploit the child.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e34443-e68 mqkr-1 mqkr-2 mqkr-5 mqkr-6 mqkr-7 mqkr-d"><div class="x-row x-container max width e34443-e69 mqkr-h mqkr-i mqkr-n mqkr-o mqkr-u mqkr-y mqkr-z mqkr-10 mqkr-11 mqkr-17 mqkr-1d mqkr-1p"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e34443-e70 mqkr-1x mqkr-1y mqkr-1z"><div class="x-acc e34443-e71 mqkr-3t mqkr-3v" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e34443-e71"><div class="e34443-e72 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e34443-e72" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e34443-e72" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e72"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e34443-e72" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e34443-e72" data-x-toggleable="e34443-e72" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><ol>
 	<li>Retrieved from “Grooming: Recognizing the Signs” on learning.nspcc.org.uk</li>
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<description> <![CDATA[ <p>Going to a sleepover may raise the risk for a child to be sexually abused. Educated parents are the best ones to decide if a sleepover is appropriate for their child.  You can eliminate the risk by not allowing a sleepover.  Or, if you choose to have sleepovers, there are some things you should think through.</p>
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Educated parents are the best ones to decide if a sleepover is appropriate for their child. You can eliminate the risk by not allowing a sleepover. Or, if you choose to have sleepovers, there are some things you should think through.</p>
<p>Below is a checklist of things to consider. Some won’t apply to your situation, but all of them have their place.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e23240-e23 mhxk-1 mhxk-2 mhxk-3 mhxk-6 mhxk-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e23240-e24 mhxk-d mhxk-i mhxk-j mhxk-n mhxk-p mhxk-q mhxk-t mhxk-u mhxk-x mhxk-y mhxk-12 mhxk-19"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23240-e25 mhxk-1n mhxk-1o mhxk-1p mhxk-1z"><div class="x-row e23240-e26 mhxk-d mhxk-f mhxk-i mhxk-j mhxk-l mhxk-m mhxk-n mhxk-t mhxk-v mhxk-z mhxk-12 mhxk-13 mhxk-1a"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23240-e27 mhxk-1j mhxk-1l mhxk-1m mhxk-1n mhxk-1o mhxk-1p mhxk-1s mhxk-1t mhxk-1x mhxk-20"><i class="x-icon e23240-e28 mhxk-31" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf058;"></i></div><div class="x-col e23240-e29 mhxk-1n mhxk-1o mhxk-1p"><div class="x-text x-content e23240-e30 mhxk-23 mhxk-26 mhxk-28 mhxk-2a mhxk-2b">THIS IS THE RIGHT CHOICE FOR YOUR CHILD.</div><div class="x-text x-content e23240-e31 mhxk-22 mhxk-23 mhxk-25 mhxk-26 mhxk-27 mhxk-28 mhxk-29">Some children aren’t ready for sleepovers. Some aren’t comfortable with the idea of staying somewhere else, but feel pressure from their friends or don’t really understand what it means to have a sleepover. Make sure that this is the right thing for your child at their age-, comfort-, and maturity-level.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e23240-e32 mhxk-d mhxk-f mhxk-i mhxk-j mhxk-l mhxk-m mhxk-n mhxk-t mhxk-v mhxk-z mhxk-12 mhxk-13 mhxk-1b"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23240-e33 mhxk-1j mhxk-1l mhxk-1m mhxk-1n mhxk-1o mhxk-1p mhxk-1s mhxk-1t mhxk-1x mhxk-20"><i class="x-icon e23240-e34 mhxk-31" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf058;"></i></div><div class="x-col e23240-e35 mhxk-1n mhxk-1o mhxk-1p"><div class="x-text x-content e23240-e36 mhxk-23 mhxk-26 mhxk-28 mhxk-2a mhxk-2b">YOU KNOW THE OTHER PARENTS, HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM, AND TRUST THEM.</div><div class="x-text x-content e23240-e37 mhxk-22 mhxk-23 mhxk-25 mhxk-26 mhxk-27 mhxk-28 mhxk-29">This may seem obvious, but knowing who the adults are, and trusting them with your child, is an important aspect that you’ll want to have in place before you allow your child to sleep over at another person’s house.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e23240-e38 mhxk-d mhxk-f mhxk-i mhxk-j mhxk-l mhxk-m mhxk-n mhxk-t mhxk-v mhxk-z mhxk-12 mhxk-13 mhxk-1c"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23240-e39 mhxk-1j mhxk-1l mhxk-1m mhxk-1n mhxk-1o mhxk-1p mhxk-1s mhxk-1t mhxk-1x mhxk-20"><i class="x-icon e23240-e40 mhxk-31" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf058;"></i></div><div class="x-col e23240-e41 mhxk-1n mhxk-1o mhxk-1p"><div class="x-text x-content e23240-e42 mhxk-23 mhxk-26 mhxk-28 mhxk-2a mhxk-2b">YOU KNOW WHO ELSE WILL BE AT THE HOUSE WHERE THEY ARE STAYING.</div><div class="x-text x-content e23240-e43 mhxk-22 mhxk-23 mhxk-25 mhxk-26 mhxk-27 mhxk-28 mhxk-29">Older siblings, family friends, an uncle from out of town – make sure that you know all the people who your child will come in contact with and, if it makes you feel uncomfortable, cancel or reschedule the sleepover.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e23240-e44 mhxk-d mhxk-f mhxk-i mhxk-j mhxk-l mhxk-m mhxk-n mhxk-t mhxk-v mhxk-z mhxk-12 mhxk-13 mhxk-1d"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23240-e45 mhxk-1j mhxk-1l mhxk-1m mhxk-1n mhxk-1o mhxk-1p mhxk-1s mhxk-1t mhxk-1x mhxk-20"><i class="x-icon e23240-e46 mhxk-31" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf058;"></i></div><div class="x-col e23240-e47 mhxk-1n mhxk-1o mhxk-1p"><div class="x-text x-content e23240-e48 mhxk-23 mhxk-26 mhxk-28 mhxk-2a mhxk-2b">THE INTERNET AND OTHER MEDIA FOLLOWS YOUR STANDARDS FOR YOUR CHILD.</div><div class="x-text x-content e23240-e49 mhxk-22 mhxk-23 mhxk-25 mhxk-26 mhxk-27 mhxk-28 mhxk-29">Many kids are first exposed to sexually explicit movies or images at sleepovers. You’ll want to set clear expectations for the night your child will be there.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e23240-e50 mhxk-d mhxk-f mhxk-i mhxk-j mhxk-l mhxk-m mhxk-n mhxk-t mhxk-v mhxk-z mhxk-12 mhxk-13 mhxk-1e"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23240-e51 mhxk-1j mhxk-1l mhxk-1m mhxk-1n mhxk-1o mhxk-1p mhxk-1s mhxk-1t mhxk-1x mhxk-20"><i class="x-icon e23240-e52 mhxk-31" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf058;"></i></div><div class="x-col e23240-e53 mhxk-1n mhxk-1o mhxk-1p"><div class="x-text x-content e23240-e54 mhxk-23 mhxk-26 mhxk-28 mhxk-2a mhxk-2b">YOUR CHILD HAS A VOICE.</div><div class="x-text x-content e23240-e55 mhxk-22 mhxk-23 mhxk-25 mhxk-26 mhxk-27 mhxk-28 mhxk-29">You’ve talked through what a sleepover is and some of the things they should expect. You’ve role-played possible scenarios they might come across and had them practice their answers. If necessary, you’ve come up with a code word for your child to use if they want to come home, but don’t want their friends to know. You’ve scheduled set phone call times and a pick up time, if appropriate. </div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e23240-e56 mhxk-1 mhxk-2 mhxk-4 mhxk-6 mhxk-8 mhxk-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e23240-e57 mhxk-d mhxk-i mhxk-j mhxk-n mhxk-p mhxk-q mhxk-t mhxk-u mhxk-x mhxk-y mhxk-12 mhxk-1f"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e23240-e58 mhxk-1n mhxk-1o mhxk-1p"><div class="x-text x-content e23240-e59 mhxk-22 mhxk-23 mhxk-25 mhxk-26 mhxk-27 mhxk-28 mhxk-29"><p>Once you’ve gone through this checklist, it will make it a lot easier to determine if your child should go on a sleepover. 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<description> <![CDATA[ <p><b>by Aniss Benelmouffok</b><br /><br />In <a href="https://darkforest.metalabel.com/antimemetics?variantId=1" target="_blank">Antimemetics: Why Some Ideas Resist Spreading</a>, Nadia Asparouhova explores why cultural ideas fail to spread. Much of the resistance to spreading, “immunity” as Asparouhova puts it, is due to the uncomfortable nature of antimemetic subjects.&nbsp; Reading the book, I couldn't help but see efforts to prevent sexual abuse through an antimemetic lens. </p><div class="chat-assistant w-full min-w-full markdown-prose svelte-1u5gq5j"><div><div class="w-full flex flex-col relative" id="response-content-container">    </div></div></div> <div class="flex justify-start overflow-x-auto buttons text-gray-600 dark:text-gray-500 mt-0.5 svelte-1u5gq5j"> <div class="flex"></div></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><p>To frame these ideas, she draws on two concepts:<br /><br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; <b>Memes and Memeplexes</b>: Coined by Richard Dawkins in 1976, “memes” are self-replicating cultural units that spread and evolve like genes. Memeplexes—like religions and political ideologies—are networks of related memes.<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; <b>Mimetic Desire</b>: Introduced by René Girard, this concept suggests we desire what others desire, emulating “models” in our social spheres. This can lead to rivalry and scapegoating.<br /><br />Asparouhova proposes that if we take these two concepts as "canon," we can see how the internet has poured fuel on them. "Rather than ushering in an era of global peace, the internet made us leap at each other's throats," she says.  <br />&nbsp;</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxFnp1LdZCwi5xJS6XOBGl4iarPYYley8Jv21-yUHQMG6lD7Vzs7fDrLlqC73q0S9sXjVQP59ZviOaLbuK5Mle3-WGgSoP6-sQWSOIyyFevvRKyyYOSZjSzaWZJZilql8ySmDg-G7AibfRqGCT7FttnfhtPfc6vgjk8TsfMwVr8D92VXBjk8Hxx4PM0GU/s2560/memes.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2560" data-original-width="2560" height="398" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxFnp1LdZCwi5xJS6XOBGl4iarPYYley8Jv21-yUHQMG6lD7Vzs7fDrLlqC73q0S9sXjVQP59ZviOaLbuK5Mle3-WGgSoP6-sQWSOIyyFevvRKyyYOSZjSzaWZJZilql8ySmDg-G7AibfRqGCT7FttnfhtPfc6vgjk8TsfMwVr8D92VXBjk8Hxx4PM0GU/w398-h398/memes.jpg" width="398" /></a></div><p></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">What Are Anti-Memes?</h3><p>Anti-memes are cultural ideas that resist spreading—often because they disrupt social harmony. Asparouhova writes, “Networks have a strong built-in immunity to anti-memes,” noting that these ideas tend to be suppressed because of their disruptive power.<br /><br />Prevention—especially when it comes to sexual violence—is inherently antimemetic. Like disaster preparedness or gun violence prevention, it rarely garners sustained public or political support unless a recent tragedy has captured public attention. <a href="https://members.atsa.com/learn/Details/roadmap-to-talking-about-perpetration-prevention-248108" target="_blank">ATSA's Roadmap to Talking About Perpetration Prevention</a> offers a structured approach to breaking through this “immunity” and reshaping how we talk about sexual harm.<br /><br />Asparouhova herself points to how prevention is deprioritized in public discourse and policy. Consider how media attention surges and fades after mass shootings—or how funding for disaster preparedness lags until catastrophe strikes. Prevention doesn’t spread easily because it requires uncomfortable conversations and long-term thinking—both of which challenge the fast-paced, reactive nature of contemporary communications.<br /><br />The same is true for conversations about treating individuals who have caused sexual harm. These conversations demand we acknowledge the harm sexual abuse has caused, to consider the harm that may occur, and requires frameworks grounded in science that address its prevalence in our communities.</p><h3 style="text-align: left;">ATSA's Roadmap to Talking About Perpetration Prevention</h3><p><a href="https://members.atsa.com/learn/Details/roadmap-to-talking-about-perpetration-prevention-248108" target="_blank">ATSA's Roadmap to Talking About Perpetration Prevention</a>&nbsp;is
 a guide for turning anti-memetic ideas into meaningful conversations. 
It encourages professionals to lead with values—to explain why they work
 with people who have sexually harmed others or are at risk to. It 
provides structure for conversations that highlight our shared goal: 
ending sexual violence.<br /><br />Although designed for ATSA members, this roadmap is for anyone ready to talk about prevention with nuance and purpose. It:<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; Emphasizes collaboration with individuals affected by trauma<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; Draws on decades of clinical research and evidence-based practice<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; Makes prevention the focal point of our work—not an afterthought</p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Why We Need Champions</h3><p>So how do anti-memes break through? Asparouhova’s answer: Champions. These are people who know how to navigate complex systems and bring difficult ideas into broader conversations. Champions help anti-memes find traction beyond their niche communities.<br /><br />She writes:<br />“But to the right champion, even the most labyrinthine system feels like an invitation to create something extraordinary... You will know it when looking at the problem makes your heart expand with possibilities, rather than shrink away.”<br /><br />If you’re reading this, you might be that champion. Because prevention faces many challenges —we need people willing to carry the message.<br /></p><p></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">A Final Note</h3><p>The ideas in the roadmap aren’t always easy to share. They’re disruptive. They challenge deeply held beliefs. They’re anti-memes. But they also carry the potential to transform lives and communities.<br />&nbsp;<br />This year, we've been highlighting <a href="https://www.atsa.com/?s=changemaker" target="_blank">Changemakers </a>within the ATSA community. Members who have embraced the challenge of sharing the message of sexual abuse treatment and prevention to transform their communities.&nbsp; I hope you'll join them in sharing these ideas with conviction, even when they're difficult to express. ATSA has your back with <a href="https://members.atsa.com/learn/" target="_blank">evidence-based resources</a> and professional media support when needed<span data-huuid="16393909046253577615"><span>—</span></span>that's how change begins.</p> ]]> </description>
<content:encoded> <![CDATA[ <p><b>by Aniss Benelmouffok</b><br /><br />In <a href="https://darkforest.metalabel.com/antimemetics?variantId=1" target="_blank">Antimemetics: Why Some Ideas Resist Spreading</a>, Nadia Asparouhova explores why cultural ideas fail to spread. Much of the resistance to spreading, “immunity” as Asparouhova puts it, is due to the uncomfortable nature of antimemetic subjects.&nbsp; Reading the book, I couldn't help but see efforts to prevent sexual abuse through an antimemetic lens. </p><div class="chat-assistant w-full min-w-full markdown-prose svelte-1u5gq5j"><div><div class="w-full flex flex-col relative" id="response-content-container">    </div></div></div> <div class="flex justify-start overflow-x-auto buttons text-gray-600 dark:text-gray-500 mt-0.5 svelte-1u5gq5j"> <div class="flex"></div></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><div class="flex"></div><p>To frame these ideas, she draws on two concepts:<br /><br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; <b>Memes and Memeplexes</b>: Coined by Richard Dawkins in 1976, “memes” are self-replicating cultural units that spread and evolve like genes. Memeplexes—like religions and political ideologies—are networks of related memes.<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; <b>Mimetic Desire</b>: Introduced by René Girard, this concept suggests we desire what others desire, emulating “models” in our social spheres. This can lead to rivalry and scapegoating.<br /><br />Asparouhova proposes that if we take these two concepts as "canon," we can see how the internet has poured fuel on them. "Rather than ushering in an era of global peace, the internet made us leap at each other's throats," she says.  <br />&nbsp;</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxFnp1LdZCwi5xJS6XOBGl4iarPYYley8Jv21-yUHQMG6lD7Vzs7fDrLlqC73q0S9sXjVQP59ZviOaLbuK5Mle3-WGgSoP6-sQWSOIyyFevvRKyyYOSZjSzaWZJZilql8ySmDg-G7AibfRqGCT7FttnfhtPfc6vgjk8TsfMwVr8D92VXBjk8Hxx4PM0GU/s2560/memes.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2560" data-original-width="2560" height="398" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxFnp1LdZCwi5xJS6XOBGl4iarPYYley8Jv21-yUHQMG6lD7Vzs7fDrLlqC73q0S9sXjVQP59ZviOaLbuK5Mle3-WGgSoP6-sQWSOIyyFevvRKyyYOSZjSzaWZJZilql8ySmDg-G7AibfRqGCT7FttnfhtPfc6vgjk8TsfMwVr8D92VXBjk8Hxx4PM0GU/w398-h398/memes.jpg" width="398" /></a></div><p></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">What Are Anti-Memes?</h3><p>Anti-memes are cultural ideas that resist spreading—often because they disrupt social harmony. Asparouhova writes, “Networks have a strong built-in immunity to anti-memes,” noting that these ideas tend to be suppressed because of their disruptive power.<br /><br />Prevention—especially when it comes to sexual violence—is inherently antimemetic. Like disaster preparedness or gun violence prevention, it rarely garners sustained public or political support unless a recent tragedy has captured public attention. <a href="https://members.atsa.com/learn/Details/roadmap-to-talking-about-perpetration-prevention-248108" target="_blank">ATSA's Roadmap to Talking About Perpetration Prevention</a> offers a structured approach to breaking through this “immunity” and reshaping how we talk about sexual harm.<br /><br />Asparouhova herself points to how prevention is deprioritized in public discourse and policy. Consider how media attention surges and fades after mass shootings—or how funding for disaster preparedness lags until catastrophe strikes. Prevention doesn’t spread easily because it requires uncomfortable conversations and long-term thinking—both of which challenge the fast-paced, reactive nature of contemporary communications.<br /><br />The same is true for conversations about treating individuals who have caused sexual harm. These conversations demand we acknowledge the harm sexual abuse has caused, to consider the harm that may occur, and requires frameworks grounded in science that address its prevalence in our communities.</p><h3 style="text-align: left;">ATSA's Roadmap to Talking About Perpetration Prevention</h3><p><a href="https://members.atsa.com/learn/Details/roadmap-to-talking-about-perpetration-prevention-248108" target="_blank">ATSA's Roadmap to Talking About Perpetration Prevention</a>&nbsp;is
 a guide for turning anti-memetic ideas into meaningful conversations. 
It encourages professionals to lead with values—to explain why they work
 with people who have sexually harmed others or are at risk to. It 
provides structure for conversations that highlight our shared goal: 
ending sexual violence.<br /><br />Although designed for ATSA members, this roadmap is for anyone ready to talk about prevention with nuance and purpose. It:<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; Emphasizes collaboration with individuals affected by trauma<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; Draws on decades of clinical research and evidence-based practice<br />&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;•&nbsp; &nbsp; Makes prevention the focal point of our work—not an afterthought</p><h3 style="text-align: left;">Why We Need Champions</h3><p>So how do anti-memes break through? Asparouhova’s answer: Champions. These are people who know how to navigate complex systems and bring difficult ideas into broader conversations. Champions help anti-memes find traction beyond their niche communities.<br /><br />She writes:<br />“But to the right champion, even the most labyrinthine system feels like an invitation to create something extraordinary... You will know it when looking at the problem makes your heart expand with possibilities, rather than shrink away.”<br /><br />If you’re reading this, you might be that champion. Because prevention faces many challenges —we need people willing to carry the message.<br /></p><p></p><h3 style="text-align: left;">A Final Note</h3><p>The ideas in the roadmap aren’t always easy to share. They’re disruptive. They challenge deeply held beliefs. They’re anti-memes. But they also carry the potential to transform lives and communities.<br />&nbsp;<br />This year, we've been highlighting <a href="https://www.atsa.com/?s=changemaker" target="_blank">Changemakers </a>within the ATSA community. Members who have embraced the challenge of sharing the message of sexual abuse treatment and prevention to transform their communities.&nbsp; I hope you'll join them in sharing these ideas with conviction, even when they're difficult to express. ATSA has your back with <a href="https://members.atsa.com/learn/" target="_blank">evidence-based resources</a> and professional media support when needed<span data-huuid="16393909046253577615"><span>—</span></span>that's how change begins.</p> ]]> </content:encoded>
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<title> <![CDATA[  Call for Letters of Intent: Special Issue on What Works in the Prevention of Sexual Abuse? ]]> </title>
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<p><strong>By Joan Tabachnick</strong></p>

<p>We are excited to share an important opportunity for researchers, practitioners, and policymakers in the field of sexual abuse prevention. <em>Sexual Abuse</em>&nbsp;is now inviting submissions for a special issue on <strong>“What Works in the Prevention of Sexual Abuse?”</strong></p>

<p>This issue, guest edited by Kieran McCartan, Ryan T. Shields, and Joan Tabachnick, will shine a spotlight on <strong>primary perpetration prevention</strong>—programs, policies, and practices designed to stop sexual abuse before anyone is harmed.</p>

<h3>Join the Conversation</h3>

<p>By bringing together evidence, practice, and innovation, this special issue aims to build a stronger foundation to answer the vital question: <em>What truly works to prevent the perpetration of sexual abuse?</em></p>

<p>We invite researchers, practitioners, and thought leaders from around the world to contribute to this conversation by submitting a <strong>Letter of Intent by September 25, 2025.</strong></p>

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👉 For submission details, deadlines, and guidelines&nbsp;visit:&nbsp;<a href="https://atsa.com/callforpapers" style="color: #0066cc; font-weight: bold;" target="_blank">atsa.com/callforpapers</a>
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<h3>Why This Special Issue Matters</h3>

<p>Preventing the perpetration of sexual abuse is one of the most critical yet challenging areas of work. Unlike treatment or response strategies, primary prevention often requires proving that <em>“something didn’t happen”</em>—an outcome that can be difficult to measure.</p>

<p>Yet across the globe, innovative programs, interventions, and policies are being developed to reduce risk, strengthen protective factors, and create safer communities. This special issue seeks to bring those successes, research, evaluations, and innovations together in one place to help shape the future of perpetration prevention efforts.</p>

<h3>Topics of Interest</h3>

<p>We welcome contributions that critically examine and expand our understanding of primary perpetration prevention, including but not limited to:</p>

<ul>
  <li>Evidence of success in primary perpetration prevention programs, including meaningful outcome measures.</li>
  <li>Lessons learned from past prevention efforts—and how they can guide the future.</li>
  <li>Risk and protective factors for first-time perpetration of sexual abuse.</li>
  <li>The role of public messaging, policy, and science in prevention.</li>
  <li>Implementation challenges: overcoming politics, stigma, and sustainability issues.</li>
  <li>Global perspectives: cultural and regional insights that broaden the scope of prevention.</li>
</ul>

<p>If you have any questions, please reach out to <strong>Aniss Benelmouffok, Managing Editor of <em>Sexual Abuse: <a href="mailto:aniss@atsa.com">aniss@atsa.com</a></em></strong></p>

<p>Together, we can deepen the science of prevention, learn from one another, and build safer futures for individuals, families, and communities worldwide.</p>
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<p><strong>By Joan Tabachnick</strong></p>

<p>We are excited to share an important opportunity for researchers, practitioners, and policymakers in the field of sexual abuse prevention. <em>Sexual Abuse</em>&nbsp;is now inviting submissions for a special issue on <strong>“What Works in the Prevention of Sexual Abuse?”</strong></p>

<p>This issue, guest edited by Kieran McCartan, Ryan T. Shields, and Joan Tabachnick, will shine a spotlight on <strong>primary perpetration prevention</strong>—programs, policies, and practices designed to stop sexual abuse before anyone is harmed.</p>

<h3>Join the Conversation</h3>

<p>By bringing together evidence, practice, and innovation, this special issue aims to build a stronger foundation to answer the vital question: <em>What truly works to prevent the perpetration of sexual abuse?</em></p>

<p>We invite researchers, practitioners, and thought leaders from around the world to contribute to this conversation by submitting a <strong>Letter of Intent by September 25, 2025.</strong></p>

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👉 For submission details, deadlines, and guidelines&nbsp;visit:&nbsp;<a href="https://atsa.com/callforpapers" style="color: #0066cc; font-weight: bold;" target="_blank">atsa.com/callforpapers</a>
</div>

<h3>Why This Special Issue Matters</h3>

<p>Preventing the perpetration of sexual abuse is one of the most critical yet challenging areas of work. Unlike treatment or response strategies, primary prevention often requires proving that <em>“something didn’t happen”</em>—an outcome that can be difficult to measure.</p>

<p>Yet across the globe, innovative programs, interventions, and policies are being developed to reduce risk, strengthen protective factors, and create safer communities. This special issue seeks to bring those successes, research, evaluations, and innovations together in one place to help shape the future of perpetration prevention efforts.</p>

<h3>Topics of Interest</h3>

<p>We welcome contributions that critically examine and expand our understanding of primary perpetration prevention, including but not limited to:</p>

<ul>
  <li>Evidence of success in primary perpetration prevention programs, including meaningful outcome measures.</li>
  <li>Lessons learned from past prevention efforts—and how they can guide the future.</li>
  <li>Risk and protective factors for first-time perpetration of sexual abuse.</li>
  <li>The role of public messaging, policy, and science in prevention.</li>
  <li>Implementation challenges: overcoming politics, stigma, and sustainability issues.</li>
  <li>Global perspectives: cultural and regional insights that broaden the scope of prevention.</li>
</ul>

<p>If you have any questions, please reach out to <strong>Aniss Benelmouffok, Managing Editor of <em>Sexual Abuse: <a href="mailto:aniss@atsa.com">aniss@atsa.com</a></em></strong></p>

<p>Together, we can deepen the science of prevention, learn from one another, and build safer futures for individuals, families, and communities worldwide.</p>
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<title> <![CDATA[ Transgender sexual abuse lawyer NY   Thomas Giuffra, Esq ]]> </title>
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<pubDate>2025-11-14T23:12:50+00:00</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ Transgender sexual abuse lawyer NY<br><br>At The Abuse Lawyer NY, led by attorney Thomas Giuffra, we are committed to standing with survivors of transgender sexual abuse, sexual assault, and harassment across New York. Our mission is to provide compa [&#8230;] ]]> </description>
<content:encoded> <![CDATA[ <img src="https://i2.ytimg.com/vi/iUiF6QUhCgQ/hqdefault.jpg" /><br><br>Transgender sexual abuse lawyer NY<br><br>At The Abuse Lawyer NY, led by attorney Thomas Giuffra, we are committed to standing with survivors of transgender sexual abuse, sexual assault, and harassment across New York. Our mission is to provide compassionate, skilled legal support to those who have suffered due to the wrongdoing of others.<br><br>Survivors of abuse often face overwhelming challenges, both emotionally and legally. Navigating these experiences can feel isolating, but you don’t have to face them alone. Our experienced team focuses on offering survivors the legal representation they need to hold offenders accountable and seek justice through the proper channels.<br><br>Understanding Your Rights in New York<br><br>New York law provides protections for individuals who have suffered abuse, including those in the transgender and LGBTQ+ communities. Survivors may have the opportunity to file civil lawsuits to pursue accountability and compensation for damages. However, the process can be complex, involving specific laws, filing deadlines, and statutes of limitations. A knowledgeable transgender sexual abuse attorney in New York can guide you through these legal intricacies and ensure your case is handled with care and precision.<br><br>The Role of a Transgender Sexual Abuse Lawyer<br><br>A transgender sexual abuse lawyer serves as both your advocate and ally. At The Abuse Lawyer NY, we provide legal representation tailored to the needs of survivors, addressing the unique aspects of each case. Our services include gathering evidence, filing claims, negotiating with opposing parties, and, when needed, representing clients in court. We also work to ensure that your voice is heard and your rights are respected throughout the legal process.<br><br>As a civil rights lawyer for transgender abuse in New York, Thomas Giuffra and his team are dedicated to ensuring that survivors receive the justice and support they deserve. From sexual harassment claims to civil suits for sexual abuse, we handle a wide range of cases with sensitivity and professionalism.<br><br>The Benefits of Hiring an Attorney<br><br>Hiring an experienced transgender abuse lawyer in New York can make a significant difference in your case. An attorney not only helps you understand your rights but also takes on the legal burden, allowing you to focus on healing. 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<title> <![CDATA[ What to do if a Sex Offender Moves to Your Neighborhood? ]]> </title>
<link> <![CDATA[ https://saprea.org/blog/registered-sex-offender-moves/ ]]> </link>
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<pubDate>Fri, 15 Dec 2023 16:39:56 +0000</pubDate>
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<description> <![CDATA[ <p>You do everything you can to ensure that your kids are safe. But what do you do if a registered sex offender moves into your neighborhood? You may feel like you suddenly don’t have control over your child’s safety. A potential threat has come and you don’t know what to do. Here are some tips for managing what can feel like an overwhelming situation.</p>
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But what do you do if a registered sex offender moves into your neighborhood? You may feel like you suddenly don’t have control over your child’s safety. A potential threat has come and you don’t know what to do. Here are some tips for managing what can feel like an overwhelming situation.</div></div><div class="x-col e23210-e23 mhwq-16 mhwq-17 mhwq-1i mhwq-1j"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e23210-e24 mhwq-1t mhwq-1v mhwq-1w mhwq-1z mhwq-21 mhwq-22 mhwq-23 mhwq-24 mhwq-25 mhwq-26"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Stay Calm</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e23210-e25 mhwq-1l mhwq-1m mhwq-1o mhwq-1p"><p>It can be easy to assume that it’s only a matter of time before something bad happens. While the threat of reoffending should be acknowledged, it’s possible for sex offenders to become productive members of their communities, especially if they are supported and supervised. Of course you want to be vigilant in protecting your child, but don’t panic.</p></div></div><div class="x-col e23210-e26 mhwq-16 mhwq-17 mhwq-1i mhwq-1j"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e23210-e27 mhwq-1t mhwq-1v mhwq-1w mhwq-1z mhwq-21 mhwq-22 mhwq-23 mhwq-24 mhwq-25 mhwq-26"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Get Information</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e23210-e28 mhwq-1l mhwq-1m mhwq-1o mhwq-1p">Try to get as much <em>accurate</em> information as possible about the situation. You may hear rumors about the offender from people in your neighborhood, but everything you hear might not be true. There are a variety of reasons someone might be on the registry. The Department of Justice maintains the <a href="https://www.nsopw.gov">National Sex Offender Public Website</a>, and you can go there to get specific information about the offender in your neighborhood. The information that is available varies from state to state, but the registry is a good starting point. You can contact law enforcement for more information, if necessary.</div></div><div class="x-col e23210-e29 mhwq-16 mhwq-17 mhwq-1i mhwq-1j"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e23210-e30 mhwq-1t mhwq-1v mhwq-1w mhwq-1z mhwq-21 mhwq-22 mhwq-23 mhwq-24 mhwq-25 mhwq-26"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Talk to Your Kids and Neighbors</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e23210-e31 mhwq-1l mhwq-1m mhwq-1o mhwq-1p">You can always be proactive as a parent and neighbor in discussing ways to reduce risk and protect children from sexual abuse. Be sensitive sharing information about the registered sex offender—you don’t want to spread rumors. The topic of sexual abuse will likely come up in your neighborhood, and you can share empowering and accurate information with people. At Saprea, we believe that education is one of the keys to prevention, and you can be a part of educating others. Check out our <a href="https://saprea.org/community-education/">community resources</a> for information you can share.</div></div><div class="x-col e23210-e32 mhwq-16 mhwq-17 mhwq-1i mhwq-1j"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e23210-e33 mhwq-1t mhwq-1v mhwq-1w mhwq-1z mhwq-21 mhwq-22 mhwq-23 mhwq-24 mhwq-25 mhwq-26"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Provide a Supportive Community</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e23210-e34 mhwq-1l mhwq-1m mhwq-1o mhwq-1p"><p>Sex offenders who are being reintegrated into society generally want to be successful. They want to lead productive lives free from perpetrating, and the communities where they live can have an impact on their success. A <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2820068/">study in the American Journal of Public Health</a> observes that individuals with a criminal history reintegrate into society with more success when they have social support, housing, and employment. Understandably, you might want to isolate the offender in your neighborhood. You don’t need to interact in any way that makes you uncomfortable, but harassment and discrimination can make the risk of re-perpetrating worse instead of better. This person is a member of your community now, and your community will be healthier if all the members succeed.</p>
Having a registered sex offender move in close by may not seem ideal, but don’t assume the worst about the situation. In all likelihood, the new person in your neighborhood wants the same things you do: a safe community filled with mutual respect. Be aware of the situation and sensitive to what’s going on, and you can feel confident that you’re doing what you can to keep your kids safe.
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<description> <![CDATA[ <p>According to the Centers for Disease Control, 1 in 13 boys in the US experience sexual abuse at some time in their childhood. And the American National Center for PTSD states that at least 1 in 10 men in our country will experience sexual assault at some point in their life. This means that sexual trauma can occur beyond childhood.</p>
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Males who have been sexually abused may experience similar feelings and symptoms as other survivors, however because of social stigmas, there are often extra challenges to disclosure and seeking help. </p></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e27067-e23 mkvv-f mkvv-g mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-o mkvv-r mkvv-z mkvv-13 mkvv-14 mkvv-15 mkvv-16 mkvv-17 mkvv-18 mkvv-1o mkvv-1v"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e24 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-3d mkvv-3e mkvv-3f mkvv-3g"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e25 mkvv-47 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4c mkvv-4e mkvv-4f mkvv-4h mkvv-4i mkvv-4s mkvv-4v mkvv-4w"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary"> Definition of Male Sexual Abuse:</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e26 mkvv-3t mkvv-3u mkvv-3w mkvv-3x mkvv-40 mkvv-41">Because laws vary from one location to another, there’s not a universal definition of male <a href="https://saprea.org/understand-issue-child-sexual-abuse/">sexual abuse</a>. However, at Saprea we define male sexual abuse as any situation where another person (adult or peer) forces or coerces a male into unwanted sexual activity that may or may not involve touch. </div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e27067-e27 mkvv-1 mkvv-2 mkvv-3 mkvv-4 mkvv-6 mkvv-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e27067-e28 mkvv-f mkvv-i mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-u mkvv-v mkvv-x mkvv-z mkvv-12 mkvv-1s mkvv-1w"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e29 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e30 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4c mkvv-4d mkvv-4i mkvv-4l mkvv-4m mkvv-4n mkvv-4s mkvv-4x mkvv-4y mkvv-4z mkvv-50"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Statistics</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e31 mkvv-3t mkvv-3u mkvv-3w mkvv-3x mkvv-41 mkvv-42"><p>According to the Centers for Disease Control, <strong>1 in 13 boys in the US experience sexual abuse at some time in their childhood</strong>.<sup>1</sup> And the American National Center for PTSD states that at least 1 in 10 men in our country will experience sexual assault at some point in their life.<sup>2</sup> This means that sexual trauma can occur beyond childhood.</p> 
 
<p>These numbers are worrisome because male victims often underreport being sexually abused and are also significantly less likely to ever disclose. <strong>On average, a male survivor will take longer to disclose sexual abuse than a female survivor, if they disclose at all.</strong><sup>3</sup></p> </div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e27067-e32 mkvv-1 mkvv-2 mkvv-4 mkvv-6 mkvv-7 mkvv-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e27067-e33 mkvv-f mkvv-i mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-u mkvv-v mkvv-x mkvv-z mkvv-12 mkvv-1s mkvv-1x"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e34 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e35 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4c mkvv-4d mkvv-4i mkvv-4l mkvv-4m mkvv-4n mkvv-4s mkvv-4x mkvv-4y mkvv-4z mkvv-50"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Stigma</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e36 mkvv-3t mkvv-3u mkvv-3w mkvv-3x mkvv-41 mkvv-42"><p>Socialization and attitudes towards trauma have created stigmas and barriers for males to disclose abuse and seek help. Males are socialized not to identify as victims, not ask for help, and suppress emotions. These are seen as feminine practices. Males (consciously or unconsciously) may use shame as a tool to suppress behaviors and feelings associated with femininity. Men are also socialized to believe they always want sex, so when unwanted sexual activity occurs, it can be very confusing to them. There is even an attitude that trauma is “no big deal” as long as they don’t think about it or “let it control” them, they’ll be just fine.</p>  
 
<p>The stigma has gotten so powerful that there is currently a push to replace the term “therapy” with words like <em>consultation</em>, <em>meeting</em>, <em>coaching</em>, or <em>discussion</em> for males just so they are more open to talking about their trauma.</p> </div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e27067-e37 mkvv-1 mkvv-2 mkvv-3 mkvv-6 mkvv-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e27067-e38 mkvv-f mkvv-i mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-r mkvv-u mkvv-v mkvv-z mkvv-10 mkvv-13 mkvv-19 mkvv-1o mkvv-1y"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e39 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z mkvv-3h"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e27067-e40 mkvv-1 mkvv-2 mkvv-4 mkvv-5 mkvv-6 mkvv-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e27067-e41 mkvv-f mkvv-i mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-u mkvv-v mkvv-x mkvv-z mkvv-12 mkvv-1s mkvv-1z"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e42 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e43 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4c mkvv-4d mkvv-4i mkvv-4l mkvv-4m mkvv-4n mkvv-4s mkvv-4x mkvv-4y mkvv-4z mkvv-50"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Signs of Child Sexual Abuse</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e44 mkvv-3t mkvv-3u mkvv-3w mkvv-3x mkvv-41 mkvv-42">Though everyone is different, there are 3 warning <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/signs-of-sexual-abuse-in-children/">signs of sexual abuse</a> to look for: changes in their <strong>behavioral</strong>, <strong>physical</strong>, and/or <strong>emotional</strong> state.  </div><div class="x-row x-container max width e27067-e45 mkvv-f mkvv-h mkvv-i mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-y mkvv-z mkvv-1a mkvv-1b mkvv-1c mkvv-1d mkvv-1s mkvv-20"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e46 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-3i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e47 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4c mkvv-4e mkvv-4h mkvv-4i mkvv-4s mkvv-4w mkvv-4x mkvv-4y mkvv-51 mkvv-52"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Behavioral</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e48 mkvv-47 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4e mkvv-4i mkvv-4k mkvv-4n mkvv-4r mkvv-4s mkvv-53"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><p class="x-text-content-text-primary">Isolation, Engaging in risky behavior, Self-Harm, Out of Control Sexual Behaviors, Aggression</p></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e27067-e49 mkvv-f mkvv-g mkvv-h mkvv-i mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-y mkvv-z mkvv-1b mkvv-1c mkvv-1d mkvv-1s mkvv-21"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e50 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-3i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e51 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4c mkvv-4e mkvv-4h mkvv-4i mkvv-4s mkvv-4w mkvv-4x mkvv-4y mkvv-51 mkvv-52"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Physical</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e52 mkvv-47 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4e mkvv-4i mkvv-4k mkvv-4n mkvv-4r mkvv-4s mkvv-53"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><p class="x-text-content-text-primary"> Pain in the genital area, Difficulty urinating, Abdominal pain </p></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e27067-e53 mkvv-f mkvv-g mkvv-i mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-y mkvv-z mkvv-1b mkvv-1c mkvv-1d mkvv-1e mkvv-1s mkvv-22"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e54 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-3i"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e55 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4c mkvv-4e mkvv-4h mkvv-4i mkvv-4s mkvv-4w mkvv-4x mkvv-4y mkvv-51 mkvv-52"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Emotional</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e56 mkvv-47 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4e mkvv-4i mkvv-4k mkvv-4n mkvv-4r mkvv-4s mkvv-53"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><p class="x-text-content-text-primary">Shame, Guilt, Powerlessness, Depression</p></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e27067-e57 mkvv-f mkvv-i mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-u mkvv-v mkvv-x mkvv-z mkvv-12 mkvv-1s mkvv-23"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e58 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e59 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4e mkvv-4i mkvv-4k mkvv-4n mkvv-4o mkvv-4p mkvv-4q mkvv-4r mkvv-4s mkvv-53"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Some of these signs might not be as obvious as others.</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e27067-e60 mkvv-1 mkvv-2 mkvv-4 mkvv-6 mkvv-7 mkvv-8 mkvv-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e27067-e61 mkvv-f mkvv-i mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-u mkvv-v mkvv-z mkvv-10 mkvv-12 mkvv-13 mkvv-1s mkvv-24"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e62 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e63 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4c mkvv-4d mkvv-4i mkvv-4l mkvv-4m mkvv-4n mkvv-4s mkvv-4x mkvv-4y mkvv-4z mkvv-50"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Common Symptoms in Adult Male Survivors</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e64 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4i mkvv-4k mkvv-4n mkvv-4r mkvv-4s mkvv-4x mkvv-4y mkvv-54 mkvv-55"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><p class="x-text-content-text-primary">Male survivors of sexual abuse may experience a range of symptoms that stem from the trauma they experienced, such as:</p></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e27067-e65 mkvv-f mkvv-i mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-q mkvv-v mkvv-z mkvv-10 mkvv-12 mkvv-13 mkvv-14 mkvv-1f mkvv-1s 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class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">Loneliness</span></div></div></a></div><div class="x-col e27067-e91 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e27067-e92 mkvv-5e mkvv-5h mkvv-5n mkvv-5o mkvv-5p" tabindex="0" href="/heal/triggers/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">Triggers</span></div></div></a></div><div class="x-col e27067-e93 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e27067-e94 mkvv-5e mkvv-5h mkvv-5n mkvv-5o mkvv-5p" tabindex="0" href="/heal/panic-attacks/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">Panic Attacks</span></div></div></a></div></div></div><div class="x-row e27067-e95 mkvv-f mkvv-i mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-q mkvv-r mkvv-s mkvv-v mkvv-z mkvv-10 mkvv-13 mkvv-14 mkvv-19 mkvv-1g mkvv-1h mkvv-1o mkvv-1p mkvv-2a"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e96 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e27067-e97 mkvv-5e mkvv-5h mkvv-5n mkvv-5o mkvv-5p" tabindex="0" href="/heal/physical-pain/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">Physical Pain</span></div></div></a></div><div class="x-col e27067-e98 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e27067-e99 mkvv-5e mkvv-5h mkvv-5n mkvv-5o mkvv-5p" tabindex="0" href="/heal/sexual-intimacy-issues/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">Sexual Intimacy Issues</span></div></div></a></div><div class="x-col e27067-e100 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e27067-e101 mkvv-5e mkvv-5h mkvv-5n mkvv-5o mkvv-5p" tabindex="0" href="/heal/shame/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">Shame</span></div></div></a></div></div></div><div class="x-row e27067-e102 mkvv-f mkvv-i mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-q mkvv-r mkvv-s mkvv-v mkvv-z mkvv-10 mkvv-13 mkvv-14 mkvv-19 mkvv-1g mkvv-1h mkvv-1o mkvv-1p mkvv-2b"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e103 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e27067-e104 mkvv-5e mkvv-5h mkvv-5n mkvv-5o mkvv-5p" tabindex="0" href="/heal/sleep-issues/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">Sleep Issues</span></div></div></a></div><div class="x-col e27067-e105 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e27067-e106 mkvv-5e mkvv-5h mkvv-5n mkvv-5o mkvv-5p" tabindex="0" href="/heal/unhealthy-behaviors/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">Unhealthy Behaviors</span></div></div></a></div><div class="x-col x-hide-sm x-hide-xs e27067-e107 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z mkvv-3j"></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e27067-e108 mkvv-1 mkvv-2 mkvv-4 mkvv-5 mkvv-6 mkvv-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e27067-e109 mkvv-f mkvv-i mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-u mkvv-v mkvv-x mkvv-z mkvv-12 mkvv-1s mkvv-2c"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e110 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e111 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4c mkvv-4d mkvv-4i mkvv-4l mkvv-4m mkvv-4n mkvv-4s mkvv-4x mkvv-4y mkvv-4z mkvv-50"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Resources for Male Survivors</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e112 mkvv-3t mkvv-3u mkvv-3w mkvv-3x mkvv-41 mkvv-42">The <a href="https://saprea.org/heal/approach/">healing from sexual abuse</a> section of our website offers healing activities such as <a href="https://saprea.org/heal/approach/paced-breathing/">paced breathing</a>, other <a href="https://saprea.org/heal/approach/grounding-techniques/">grounding techniques</a>, and <a href="https://saprea.org/heal/approach/self-compassion/">self-compassion exercises</a>.  </div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e113 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4e mkvv-4i mkvv-4k mkvv-4n mkvv-4p mkvv-4r mkvv-4s mkvv-55 mkvv-56"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">The following websites have resources that are tailored specifically toward male survivors:</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e27067-e114 mkvv-f mkvv-i mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-u mkvv-z mkvv-1c mkvv-1d mkvv-1i mkvv-1j mkvv-1s mkvv-2d"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e115 mkvv-2x mkvv-3e mkvv-3g mkvv-3k mkvv-3l mkvv-3m"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e116 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4c mkvv-4e mkvv-4f mkvv-4h mkvv-4i mkvv-4o mkvv-4p mkvv-4q mkvv-4s mkvv-4v mkvv-4w"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">1in6</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e117 mkvv-3t mkvv-3u mkvv-3w mkvv-3x mkvv-41 mkvv-42"><a href="https://1in6.org" target="_blank">1in6</a> is a nonprofit organization that provides online support groups, trainings, webinars, survivor stories, and resources for male survivors. </div></div><div class="x-col e27067-e118 mkvv-2x mkvv-3e mkvv-3g mkvv-3k mkvv-3l mkvv-3m"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e119 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4c mkvv-4e mkvv-4f mkvv-4h mkvv-4i mkvv-4o mkvv-4p mkvv-4q mkvv-4s mkvv-4v mkvv-4w"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">MaleSurvivor</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e120 mkvv-3t mkvv-3u mkvv-3w mkvv-3x mkvv-41 mkvv-42"><a href="https://malesurvivor.org/" target="_blank">MaleSurvivor</a> is a nonprofit organization that provides a directory of therapists who specialize in male sexual trauma, support groups, healing events, and resources for parents and partners of male survivors. </div></div><div class="x-col e27067-e121 mkvv-2x mkvv-3e mkvv-3g mkvv-3k mkvv-3l mkvv-3m"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e122 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4c mkvv-4e mkvv-4f mkvv-4h mkvv-4i mkvv-4o mkvv-4p mkvv-4q mkvv-4s mkvv-4v mkvv-4w"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">MenHealing</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e123 mkvv-3t mkvv-3u mkvv-3w mkvv-3x mkvv-41 mkvv-42"><a href="https://menhealing.org" target-"_blank">MenHealing</a> is a nonprofit organization that hosts healing retreats, podcasts, survivor stories, and online resources for male survivors.</div></div><div class="x-col e27067-e124 mkvv-2x mkvv-3e mkvv-3g mkvv-3k mkvv-3l mkvv-3m"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e125 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4c mkvv-4e mkvv-4f mkvv-4h mkvv-4i mkvv-4o mkvv-4p mkvv-4q mkvv-4s mkvv-4v mkvv-4w"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Survivors and Mates Support Network</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e126 mkvv-3t mkvv-3u mkvv-3w mkvv-3x mkvv-41 mkvv-42"><a href="https://samsn.org.au" target="_blank">Survivors and Mates Support Network</a> is a not-for-profit that provides individual and support counseling, peer support groups, peer support line, workshops, online meetings, and a podcast for male survivors, their families, and supporters.</div></div><div class="x-col e27067-e127 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-3e mkvv-3g mkvv-3m"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e128 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4c mkvv-4e mkvv-4f mkvv-4h mkvv-4i mkvv-4o mkvv-4p mkvv-4q mkvv-4s mkvv-4v mkvv-4w"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Living Well</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e129 mkvv-3t mkvv-3u mkvv-3w mkvv-3x mkvv-41 mkvv-42"><a href="https://livingwell.org.au/" target="_blank">Living Well</a> is an Australian service and resource that provides information, encouragement, and support to men who experienced childhood sexual abuse or adulthood sexual assault. </div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e27067-e130 mkvv-f mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-q mkvv-r mkvv-s mkvv-v mkvv-z mkvv-10 mkvv-13 mkvv-14 mkvv-17 mkvv-19 mkvv-1g mkvv-1k mkvv-1o mkvv-1p mkvv-2e"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e131 mkvv-2t mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-32 mkvv-35 mkvv-38 mkvv-39 mkvv-3e mkvv-3f mkvv-3n mkvv-3o"><i class="x-icon e27067-e132 mkvv-5u" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf05a;"></i></div><div class="x-col e27067-e133 mkvv-2t mkvv-2u mkvv-2v mkvv-2w mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-32 mkvv-33 mkvv-3c mkvv-3g mkvv-3p"><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e134 mkvv-3t mkvv-3u mkvv-3v mkvv-3w mkvv-3x mkvv-3y mkvv-41 mkvv-43"><strong> Crisis Hotline:</strong> If you or someone you know is struggling, or in crisis, help is available. Call or text 988 to reach the Suicide &amp; Crisis Lifeline. Confidential chat is also available at <a href="https://988lifeline.org/" target="_blank">988lifeline.org</a> 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.  </div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e27067-e135 mkvv-1 mkvv-2 mkvv-3 mkvv-6 mkvv-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e27067-e136 mkvv-f mkvv-i mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-r mkvv-u mkvv-v mkvv-z mkvv-10 mkvv-13 mkvv-19 mkvv-1o mkvv-2f"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e137 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z mkvv-3h"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e27067-e138 mkvv-1 mkvv-2 mkvv-3 mkvv-4 mkvv-5 mkvv-6"><div class="x-row x-container max width e27067-e139 mkvv-f mkvv-i mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-u mkvv-v mkvv-x mkvv-z mkvv-12 mkvv-1s mkvv-2g"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e140 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e141 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4c mkvv-4d mkvv-4i mkvv-4l mkvv-4m mkvv-4n mkvv-4s mkvv-4x mkvv-4y mkvv-4z mkvv-50"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Myths and Facts About Male Sexual Abuse </h2></div></div></div></div><div class="x-col e27067-e142 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z mkvv-3q"><div class="x-row e27067-e143 mkvv-f mkvv-h mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-o mkvv-p mkvv-r mkvv-s mkvv-z mkvv-11 mkvv-16 mkvv-17 mkvv-1c mkvv-1l mkvv-1o mkvv-1p mkvv-2h"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e144 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e145 mkvv-3u mkvv-3x mkvv-42 mkvv-44">Myth: “It’s not rape if you liked it.” </div><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e146 mkvv-3t mkvv-3u mkvv-3w mkvv-3x mkvv-41 mkvv-42"><strong>Fact:</strong> Males can experience unwanted or unintentional arousal during a sexual assault. An erection and even ejaculation does not mean the abuse was welcome or enjoyable, as <a href="https://saprea.org/heal/trauma-body-brain/">physiological reactions</a> are often automatic responses.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e27067-e147 mkvv-f mkvv-h mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-o mkvv-p mkvv-r mkvv-s mkvv-z mkvv-11 mkvv-16 mkvv-17 mkvv-1c mkvv-1l mkvv-1o mkvv-1p mkvv-2i"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e148 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e149 mkvv-3u mkvv-3x mkvv-42 mkvv-44">Myth: “It’s okay as long as the male student was attracted to the teacher.”</div><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e150 mkvv-3t mkvv-3u mkvv-3w mkvv-3x mkvv-41 mkvv-42"><strong>Fact:</strong> Underage students cannot give consent to an adult. Even if a student is of consenting age, the teacher or professor is an authority figure and would be abusing their position of power. Though <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/protecting-children-sexual-abuse-school/">student-on-student sexual assault</a> is more likely to occur, educator sexual abuse has been a more prominent topic in the media as of late.</div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e27067-e151 mkvv-f mkvv-h mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-o mkvv-p mkvv-r mkvv-s mkvv-z mkvv-11 mkvv-16 mkvv-17 mkvv-1c mkvv-1l mkvv-1o mkvv-1p mkvv-2j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e152 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e153 mkvv-3u mkvv-3x mkvv-42 mkvv-44"><span data-contrast="auto" xml:lang="EN-US" lang="EN-US" class="TextRun SCXW227646887 BCX4"><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW227646887 BCX4">Myth: </span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW227646887 BCX4">“He’s gay because he was diddled </span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW227646887 BCX4">(touched) </span><span class="NormalTextRun SCXW227646887 BCX4">as a kid.”</span></span><span class="EOP SCXW227646887 BCX4" data-ccp-props="{}"> </span></div><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e154 mkvv-3t mkvv-3u mkvv-3w mkvv-3x mkvv-41 mkvv-42"><strong>Fact: Sexual abuse does not change nor determine your sexual orientation.</strong> About 86% of the time, the perpetrators of male sexual abuse are other males. Contrary to the popular belief that gay men are the perpetrators, the majority of male perpetrators identify as straight.<sup>2</sup> </div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e27067-e155 mkvv-f mkvv-h mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-o mkvv-p mkvv-r mkvv-s mkvv-z mkvv-11 mkvv-16 mkvv-17 mkvv-1c mkvv-1l mkvv-1o mkvv-1p mkvv-2k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e156 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e157 mkvv-3u mkvv-3x mkvv-42 mkvv-44">Myth: “Males who were sexually abused will go on to become abusers themselves.” </div><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e158 mkvv-3t mkvv-3u mkvv-3w mkvv-3x mkvv-41 mkvv-42"><strong>Fact:</strong> It is reported that 30% of survivors of child sexual abuse will become perpetrators themselves. However, this risk is significantly reduced if the survivor receives help. </div></div></div></div><div class="x-row e27067-e159 mkvv-f mkvv-h mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-o mkvv-p mkvv-r mkvv-s mkvv-z mkvv-11 mkvv-16 mkvv-17 mkvv-1c mkvv-1l mkvv-1o mkvv-1p mkvv-2l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e160 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e161 mkvv-3u mkvv-3x mkvv-42 mkvv-44">Myth: “A man can’t be raped by a woman.” </div><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e162 mkvv-3t mkvv-3u mkvv-3w mkvv-3x mkvv-41 mkvv-42"><strong>Fact:</strong> Yes, a man can be raped by a woman. Men can be forced or coerced into sexual activity without consent or against their will. This type of abuse is often underreported. </div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e27067-e163 mkvv-f mkvv-i mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-u mkvv-v mkvv-x mkvv-z mkvv-12 mkvv-1s mkvv-2m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e164 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e165 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4i mkvv-4k mkvv-4n mkvv-4p mkvv-4q mkvv-4r mkvv-4s mkvv-4t mkvv-53 mkvv-57"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><p class="x-text-content-text-primary">In conclusion, if you are a male survivor of sexual harassment, sexual abuse, sexual assault, or sexual violence, <strong>you are not alone</strong>. Seeking help or disclosing abuse DOES NOT make you any “less of a man”. Even if you feel like you weren’t affected that much or at all, it’s okay to take the time to process what happened. You, a male survivor, can work through your traumatic experiences. Healing is possible. </p></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e27067-e166 mkvv-1 mkvv-2 mkvv-4 mkvv-5 mkvv-6 mkvv-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e27067-e167 mkvv-f mkvv-i mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-r mkvv-s mkvv-u mkvv-v mkvv-z mkvv-10 mkvv-13 mkvv-19 mkvv-1g mkvv-1o mkvv-1p mkvv-2n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e168 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e169 mkvv-47 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4c mkvv-4d mkvv-4e mkvv-4i mkvv-4m mkvv-4n mkvv-4s mkvv-50 mkvv-58"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">About the Author</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-row e27067-e170 mkvv-f mkvv-i mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-r mkvv-v mkvv-z mkvv-10 mkvv-13 mkvv-14 mkvv-19 mkvv-1a mkvv-1o mkvv-2o"><div class="x-row-inner"><figure class="x-col e27067-e171 mkvv-2t mkvv-2v mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z mkvv-32 mkvv-36 mkvv-38 mkvv-3a"><span class="x-image e27067-e172 mkvv-5r mkvv-5t featured-author-portrait"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/Eric-Rivas-2023-1-150x150.jpg" alt="Image"></span></figure><div class="x-col e27067-e173 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-3f mkvv-3o mkvv-3r"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e174 mkvv-47 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4e mkvv-4i mkvv-4k mkvv-4n mkvv-4r mkvv-4s mkvv-55"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Eric Rivas</h4></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e175 mkvv-47 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4c mkvv-4e mkvv-4h mkvv-4s mkvv-4w mkvv-52 mkvv-59 mkvv-5a"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">SEO/Web Analyst</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e176 mkvv-3t mkvv-3u mkvv-3v mkvv-3w mkvv-3x mkvv-41">Eric joined Saprea at the end of 2021 as the SEO/Web Analyst. He received a BS in marketing, a Professional Sales Certificate, and an AS in university studies from Utah Valley University, where he is currently enrolled in the MBA program. Before making the jump to the nonprofit sector, he worked in start-up, agency, and corporate marketing positions. In his free time he enjoys traveling with his wife, reading, and volunteering in the community.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e27067-e177 mkvv-1 mkvv-2 mkvv-4 mkvv-6 mkvv-7 mkvv-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e27067-e178 mkvv-f mkvv-g mkvv-i mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-v mkvv-z mkvv-10 mkvv-12 mkvv-13 mkvv-14 mkvv-1s mkvv-2p"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e179 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><div class="x-acc e27067-e180 mkvv-5v" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e27067-e180"><div class="e27067-e181 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e27067-e181" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e27067-e181" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e27067-e181"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e27067-e181" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e27067-e181" data-x-toggleable="e27067-e181" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><ul>
 	<li><a href="https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/childsexualabuse/fastfact.html#:~:text=Although%20estimates%20vary%20across%20studies,States%20experience%20child%20sexual%20abuse" target="_blank" rel="noopener"> https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/childsexualabuse/fastfact.html#:~:text=Although%20estimates%20vary%20across%20studies,States%20experience%20child%20sexual%20abuse.</a></li>
 	<li><a href=" https://www.ptsd.va.gov/understand/types/sexual_trauma_male.asp#:~:text=At%20least%201%20out%20of%20every%2010%20(or%2010%25),emotional%20problems%20as%20a%20result" target="_blank" rel="noopener">https://www.ptsd.va.gov/understand/types/sexual_trauma_male.asp#:~:text=At%20least%201%20out%20of%20every%2010%20(or%2010%25),emotional%20problems%20as%20a%20result.</a></li>
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I can no longer look the other way. I can’t discount the discomfort by saying the research must be wrong or that the research responses must have come from somewhere else and someone else.</div><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e192 mkvv-3u mkvv-3w mkvv-3x mkvv-41 mkvv-42 mkvv-46"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e27067-e188 mkvv-2x mkvv-3f mkvv-3k mkvv-3s post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/reducing-pornography-exposure/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e27067-e189 mkvv-5r"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/hypersexualized-world-blog.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="32318:full"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27067-e190 mkvv-48 mkvv-49 mkvv-4b mkvv-4c mkvv-4l mkvv-4n mkvv-4s mkvv-4v mkvv-4w mkvv-4y mkvv-51 mkvv-5a mkvv-5c"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Protecting Kids: Navigating a Hypersexualized World and Reducing Pornography Exposure</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e191 mkvv-3t mkvv-3u mkvv-45 excerpt">There is no quick fix that ensures your child will not purposely consume pornography, but a parent can do specific things that will reduce this risk. It is nearly impossible for a parent to prevent all accidental exposure to pornography. Still, again, a parent can do specific things that will reduce the volume of accidental exposures and their impact. </div><div class="x-text x-content e27067-e192 mkvv-3u mkvv-3w mkvv-3x mkvv-41 mkvv-42 mkvv-46"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e27067-e193 mkvv-f mkvv-i mkvv-j mkvv-l mkvv-m mkvv-o mkvv-r mkvv-u mkvv-z mkvv-13 mkvv-18 mkvv-1j mkvv-1n mkvv-1o mkvv-2s"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27067-e194 mkvv-2x mkvv-2y mkvv-2z"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e27067-e195 mkvv-5h mkvv-5i mkvv-5o mkvv-5q mkvv-d" tabindex="0" href="/all-blogs/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">SEE ALL blogs</span></div></div></a></div></div></div></div></div>
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<description> <![CDATA[ <p>As a clinician on the Saprea Clinical Intake team, I am often the first point of contact for anyone seeking one of our services. This gives me the opportunity to talk to many survivors of child sexual abuse. I’m often asked about specific effects of sexual abuse that the women I talk to are experiencing.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://saprea.org/blog/effects-of-child-sexual-abuse-blog/">Effects of Child Sexual Abuse</a> appeared first on <a href="https://saprea.org">Saprea</a>.</p>
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This gives me the opportunity to talk to many survivors of child sexual abuse. I’m often asked about specific <a href="/heal/#effects">effects</a> of sexual abuse that the women I talk to are experiencing. The most common question is: Is this normal? The answer to that question is yes! While each person’s trauma history is unique to them, the effects are often similar.</p>
<p>Something that can be frustrating for survivors and their loved ones is the fact that the effects of child sexual abuse can last into adulthood. Our brains are amazing at keeping us safe, and when trauma occurs in childhood, our brains can get confused about what is considered “dangerous.” (<a href="/heal/trauma-body-brain/">See video about the effects of trauma on the brain</a>.) Our brains may interpret something associated with the trauma (often called trauma triggers), like a song or a smell or a sound, and react as if we are still in that dangerous situation.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e27830-e23 mlh2-1 mlh2-2 mlh2-4 mlh2-6 mlh2-7 mlh2-8 mlh2-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e27830-e24 mlh2-g mlh2-k mlh2-l mlh2-s mlh2-t mlh2-w mlh2-x mlh2-y mlh2-z mlh2-1d mlh2-1g"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27830-e25 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27830-e26 mlh2-2y mlh2-2z mlh2-31 mlh2-32 mlh2-33 mlh2-38 mlh2-3b mlh2-3c mlh2-3d mlh2-3e mlh2-3f mlh2-3g mlh2-3h"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Common Reactions  to Child Sexual Abuse </h2></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e27830-e27 mlh2-g mlh2-k mlh2-l mlh2-o mlh2-t mlh2-w mlh2-x mlh2-y mlh2-z mlh2-10 mlh2-11 mlh2-1d mlh2-1h"><div 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mlh2-45" tabindex="0" href="/heal/depression/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">Depression</span></div></div></a></div></div></div><div class="x-row e27830-e36 mlh2-g mlh2-k mlh2-l mlh2-o mlh2-p mlh2-q mlh2-t mlh2-w mlh2-x mlh2-z mlh2-11 mlh2-12 mlh2-13 mlh2-14 mlh2-19 mlh2-1a mlh2-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27830-e37 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e27830-e38 mlh2-3u mlh2-3x mlh2-43 mlh2-44 mlh2-45" tabindex="0" href="/heal/dissociation/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">Dissociation</span></div></div></a></div><div class="x-col e27830-e39 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e27830-e40 mlh2-3u mlh2-3x mlh2-43 mlh2-44 mlh2-45" tabindex="0" href="/heal/emotional-numbness/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">Emotional Numbness</span></div></div></a></div><div class="x-col e27830-e41 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e27830-e42 mlh2-3u mlh2-3x mlh2-43 mlh2-44 mlh2-45" tabindex="0" href="/heal/flashbacks/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">Flashbacks</span></div></div></a></div></div></div><div class="x-row e27830-e43 mlh2-g mlh2-k mlh2-l mlh2-o mlh2-p mlh2-q mlh2-t mlh2-w mlh2-x mlh2-z mlh2-11 mlh2-12 mlh2-13 mlh2-14 mlh2-19 mlh2-1a mlh2-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27830-e44 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e27830-e45 mlh2-3u mlh2-3x mlh2-43 mlh2-44 mlh2-45" tabindex="0" href="/heal/panic-attacks/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">Panic Attacks</span></div></div></a></div><div class="x-col e27830-e46 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e27830-e47 mlh2-3u mlh2-3x mlh2-43 mlh2-44 mlh2-45" tabindex="0" href="/heal/physical-pain/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">Physical Pain</span></div></div></a></div><div class="x-col e27830-e48 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e27830-e49 mlh2-3u mlh2-3x mlh2-43 mlh2-44 mlh2-45" tabindex="0" href="/heal/shame/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">Shame</span></div></div></a></div></div></div><div class="x-row e27830-e50 mlh2-g mlh2-k mlh2-l mlh2-o mlh2-p mlh2-q mlh2-t mlh2-w mlh2-x mlh2-z mlh2-11 mlh2-12 mlh2-13 mlh2-14 mlh2-19 mlh2-1a mlh2-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27830-e51 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e27830-e52 mlh2-3u mlh2-3x mlh2-43 mlh2-44 mlh2-45" tabindex="0" href="/heal/sexual-intimacy-issues/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">Sexual Intimacy Issues</span></div></div></a></div><div class="x-col e27830-e53 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e27830-e54 mlh2-3u mlh2-3x mlh2-43 mlh2-44 mlh2-45" tabindex="0" href="/heal/sleep-issues/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">Sleep Issues</span></div></div></a></div><div class="x-col e27830-e55 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e27830-e56 mlh2-3u mlh2-3x mlh2-43 mlh2-44 mlh2-45" tabindex="0" href="/heal/unhealthy-behaviors/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">Unhealthy Behaviors</span></div></div></a></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e27830-e57 mlh2-1 mlh2-2 mlh2-4 mlh2-5 mlh2-6 mlh2-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e27830-e58 mlh2-g mlh2-k mlh2-l mlh2-s mlh2-t mlh2-w mlh2-x mlh2-y mlh2-z mlh2-1d mlh2-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27830-e59 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27830-e60 mlh2-2y mlh2-2z mlh2-31 mlh2-32 mlh2-33 mlh2-38 mlh2-3b mlh2-3c mlh2-3d mlh2-3e mlh2-3f mlh2-3g mlh2-3h"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Survivor's Brains React to Sexual Abuse </h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e27830-e61 mlh2-2o mlh2-2p mlh2-2r mlh2-2t mlh2-2u"><p>You may be asking yourself, “How do the effects of child sexual abuse like panic attacks, dissociation, or emotional numbness keep me safe?” Because our brains are experts at safety, a trauma trigger can move our brain into a survival response such as flight, fight, or freeze. For those who experience panic attacks, you may notice the desire to run away from a situation (flight) or defend yourself in an argument (fight). For those who experience dissociation or emotional numbness, you may notice a desire to check out of a situation or feel like you cannot move (freeze).</p> 

<p>Another way our brain works to keep us safe is to lead us to avoid pain and seek pleasure. Therefore, some survivors may have effects of child sexual abuse that include <a href="/heal/unhealthy-behaviors/">unhealthy behaviors</a> or unsustainable coping skills. Many survivors talk about engaging in behaviors such as overeating, excessive sleeping, or zoning out on a device to cope with uncomfortable feelings. The more someone uses these behaviors, the more our brain can come to rely on them for comfort and safety.</p> 

<p>Our brain is amazing at caring for us, and while it can be frustrating that some of these effects of child sexual abuse occur, there is hope. There was a time we believed once the brain was fully developed, it could not be changed. We have since discovered this is untrue. Through a process called <a href="/heal/trauma-body-brain/#neuroplasticity">neuroplasticity</a>, we can combat the effects of child sexual abuse. With patience, self-compassion, time, support of loved ones, and work, our brain can change and grow so we can feel more in control of our reactions.</p> 
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e27830-e62 mlh2-1 mlh2-2 mlh2-3 mlh2-6 mlh2-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e27830-e63 mlh2-g mlh2-k mlh2-l mlh2-p mlh2-s mlh2-t mlh2-w mlh2-x mlh2-z mlh2-12 mlh2-19 mlh2-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27830-e64 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28 mlh2-2j"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e27830-e65 mlh2-1 mlh2-2 mlh2-4 mlh2-5 mlh2-6 mlh2-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e27830-e66 mlh2-g mlh2-k mlh2-l mlh2-p mlh2-s mlh2-t mlh2-w mlh2-x mlh2-z mlh2-12 mlh2-19 mlh2-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27830-e67 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27830-e68 mlh2-2y mlh2-2z mlh2-31 mlh2-32 mlh2-33 mlh2-38 mlh2-3b mlh2-3c mlh2-3d mlh2-3e mlh2-3f mlh2-3g mlh2-3h"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Saprea Can Help Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27830-e69 mlh2-2y mlh2-2z mlh2-31 mlh2-38 mlh2-3a mlh2-3d mlh2-3h mlh2-3i mlh2-3j mlh2-3k"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><p class="x-text-content-text-primary">At Saprea, our mission includes teaching others about the effects of child sexual abuse, how to create healthier behavioral patterns, and how to manage survival responses when they are not needed. Using the most up-to-date research, Saprea has created many resources for survivors of child sexual abuse and their supporters. </p></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e27830-e70 mlh2-g mlh2-k mlh2-l mlh2-s mlh2-t mlh2-w mlh2-x mlh2-z mlh2-15 mlh2-1p mlh2-1q"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27830-e71 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28 mlh2-2k"><span class="x-image e27830-e72 mlh2-47 mlh2-49"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/Retreats@2x.png" width="125" height="125" alt="Image"></span></div><div class="x-col e27830-e73 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27830-e74 mlh2-2y mlh2-2z mlh2-31 mlh2-32 mlh2-34 mlh2-35 mlh2-37 mlh2-38 mlh2-3h mlh2-3i mlh2-3l mlh2-3m mlh2-3n"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Saprea Retreat</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e27830-e75 mlh2-2o mlh2-2p mlh2-2r mlh2-2t mlh2-2u"><p>The <a href="/saprea-retreat/">Saprea Retreat</a> is a free, 4-day clinically informed experience followed by a self-guided online course specifically designed for women who were sexually abused as children or teenagers. The retreat has three purposes:</p>

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 	<li>One, to learn about how having a history of child sexual abuse can impact someone as an adult.</li>
 	<li>Two, the opportunity to apply healing tools.</li>
 	<li>Three, to build a community of support with other women who have have experienced something similar.</li>
</ul></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e27830-e76 mlh2-g mlh2-k mlh2-l mlh2-s mlh2-t mlh2-w mlh2-x mlh2-y mlh2-z mlh2-1d mlh2-1r"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27830-e77 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28"><hr class="x-line e27830-e78 mlh2-4b"></hr></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e27830-e79 mlh2-g mlh2-k mlh2-l mlh2-s mlh2-t mlh2-w mlh2-x mlh2-z mlh2-15 mlh2-1p mlh2-1s"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27830-e80 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28 mlh2-2k"><span class="x-image e27830-e81 mlh2-47 mlh2-49"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/Healing-Webinar@2x.png" width="125" height="125" alt="Image"></span></div><div class="x-col e27830-e82 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27830-e83 mlh2-2y mlh2-2z mlh2-31 mlh2-32 mlh2-34 mlh2-35 mlh2-37 mlh2-38 mlh2-3h mlh2-3i mlh2-3l mlh2-3m mlh2-3n"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Saprea Healing Webinar</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e27830-e84 mlh2-2o mlh2-2p mlh2-2r mlh2-2t mlh2-2u">The <a href=/healing-webinar/">Saprea Healing Webinar</a> is a free, 4.5-hour interactive, educational online experience designed to help women start their healing from home or for those unable to attend the retreat. Participants will have the opportunity to learn about the effects of child sexual abuse, engage in group discussions to begin building a community of support, and mindfully connect with their bodies. </div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e27830-e85 mlh2-g mlh2-k mlh2-l mlh2-s mlh2-t mlh2-w mlh2-x mlh2-y mlh2-z mlh2-1d mlh2-1t"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27830-e86 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28"><hr class="x-line e27830-e87 mlh2-4b"></hr></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e27830-e88 mlh2-g mlh2-k mlh2-l mlh2-s mlh2-t mlh2-w mlh2-x mlh2-z mlh2-15 mlh2-1p mlh2-1u"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27830-e89 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28 mlh2-2k"><span class="x-image e27830-e90 mlh2-47 mlh2-49"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/Support-Groups@2x.png" width="125" height="125" alt="Image"></span></div><div class="x-col e27830-e91 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27830-e92 mlh2-2y mlh2-2z mlh2-31 mlh2-32 mlh2-34 mlh2-35 mlh2-37 mlh2-38 mlh2-3h mlh2-3i mlh2-3l mlh2-3m mlh2-3n"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Saprea Support Groups</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e27830-e93 mlh2-2o mlh2-2p mlh2-2r mlh2-2t mlh2-2u">The <a href="https://supportgroups.saprea.org">Saprea Support Groups</a> are groups led by survivors for survivors with the goals of offering emotional safety, ensuring confidentiality, and creating a community of support with other women who have been through similar experiences. </div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e27830-e94 mlh2-g mlh2-k mlh2-l mlh2-s mlh2-t mlh2-w mlh2-x mlh2-y mlh2-z mlh2-1d mlh2-1v"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27830-e95 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28"><hr class="x-line e27830-e96 mlh2-4b"></hr></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e27830-e97 mlh2-g mlh2-k mlh2-l mlh2-s mlh2-t mlh2-w mlh2-x mlh2-z mlh2-15 mlh2-1p mlh2-1w"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27830-e98 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28 mlh2-2k"><span class="x-image e27830-e99 mlh2-47 mlh2-49"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/Online-Resources@2x.png" width="125" height="125" alt="Image"></span></div><div class="x-col e27830-e100 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27830-e101 mlh2-2y mlh2-2z mlh2-31 mlh2-32 mlh2-34 mlh2-35 mlh2-37 mlh2-38 mlh2-3h mlh2-3i mlh2-3l mlh2-3m mlh2-3n"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Saprea Online Resources</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e27830-e102 mlh2-2o mlh2-2p mlh2-2r mlh2-2t mlh2-2u">The <a href="/heal/">Saprea Online Resources</a> offer an extensive library of resources available to help survivors better understand the effects of child sexual abuse and how to begin or continue a healing journey. </div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e27830-e103 mlh2-1 mlh2-2 mlh2-4 mlh2-6 mlh2-7 mlh2-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e27830-e104 mlh2-g mlh2-k mlh2-l mlh2-p mlh2-q mlh2-s mlh2-t mlh2-w mlh2-x mlh2-z mlh2-12 mlh2-13 mlh2-19 mlh2-1a mlh2-1x"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27830-e105 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27830-e106 mlh2-2x mlh2-2z mlh2-31 mlh2-32 mlh2-33 mlh2-34 mlh2-38 mlh2-3c mlh2-3d mlh2-3g mlh2-3h mlh2-3o"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">About the Author</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-row e27830-e107 mlh2-g mlh2-k mlh2-l mlh2-p mlh2-t mlh2-w mlh2-x mlh2-z mlh2-11 mlh2-12 mlh2-16 mlh2-19 mlh2-1y"><div class="x-row-inner"><figure class="x-col e27830-e108 mlh2-22 mlh2-24 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28 mlh2-2b mlh2-2f mlh2-2h"><span class="x-image e27830-e109 mlh2-47 mlh2-4a featured-author-portrait"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/05/Sarah-Burton-150x150.jpg" alt="Image"></span></figure><div class="x-col e27830-e110 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-2l mlh2-2m"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27830-e111 mlh2-2x mlh2-2y mlh2-2z mlh2-31 mlh2-34 mlh2-38 mlh2-3a mlh2-3d mlh2-3h mlh2-3k"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Sarah Burton, CMHC</h4></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27830-e112 mlh2-2x mlh2-2y mlh2-2z mlh2-32 mlh2-34 mlh2-37 mlh2-3h mlh2-3n mlh2-3p mlh2-3q"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Director of Clinical Outreach Services</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e27830-e113 mlh2-2o mlh2-2p mlh2-2q mlh2-2r mlh2-2u">Sarah earned her bachelor’s degree in Sociology from Utah State University and her master’s degree in Mental Health Counseling from the University of Phoenix. She has over 15 years of experience in the mental health field primarily working with women and adolescents. Sarah’s post-graduate training includes Motivational Interviewing, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Trauma-Focused Substance Abuse Treatment, and Psychodrama.

Sarah has worked with women in a residential substance abuse treatment setting. This experience gave her the passion to assist women with acknowledging and honoring the healing power they have within themselves. She feels grateful and honored to be a part of Saprea’s mission.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e27830-e114 mlh2-1 mlh2-4 mlh2-6 mlh2-7 mlh2-9 mlh2-c mlh2-d"><div class="x-row x-container max width e27830-e115 mlh2-f mlh2-g mlh2-k mlh2-l mlh2-s mlh2-t mlh2-w mlh2-x mlh2-y mlh2-z mlh2-1d mlh2-1z postsrow"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e27830-e116 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27830-e117 mlh2-2x mlh2-2y mlh2-2z mlh2-31 mlh2-32 mlh2-33 mlh2-34 mlh2-38 mlh2-3c mlh2-3g mlh2-3h mlh2-3r"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Recent blogs</h2></div></div></div></div><div class="x-col e27830-e118 mlh2-26 mlh2-27 mlh2-28"><div class="x-row e27830-e119 mlh2-g mlh2-h mlh2-l mlh2-t mlh2-w mlh2-y mlh2-11 mlh2-17 mlh2-1d mlh2-20"><div class="x-row-inner"><a class="x-col e27830-e120 mlh2-26 mlh2-2m mlh2-2n post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/protecting-kids-navigating-a-hypersexualized-world-and-reducing-pornography-exposure-french/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27830-e122 mlh2-2y mlh2-2z mlh2-31 mlh2-32 mlh2-3b mlh2-3d mlh2-3f mlh2-3h mlh2-3m mlh2-3n mlh2-3q mlh2-3s"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Protecting Kids: Navigating a Hypersexualized World and Reducing Pornography Exposure (French)</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e27830-e123 mlh2-2o mlh2-2p mlh2-2v excerpt">No excerpt</div><div class="x-text x-content e27830-e124 mlh2-2p mlh2-2r mlh2-2t mlh2-2u mlh2-2w"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e27830-e120 mlh2-26 mlh2-2m mlh2-2n post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/stats-to-action/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e27830-e121 mlh2-47"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/stats-to-action.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="32437:full"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e27830-e122 mlh2-2y mlh2-2z mlh2-31 mlh2-32 mlh2-3b mlh2-3d mlh2-3f mlh2-3h mlh2-3m mlh2-3n mlh2-3q mlh2-3s"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Child Sexual Abuse &#8211; Turning Statistics into Action and Protecting Kids</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e27830-e123 mlh2-2o mlh2-2p mlh2-2v excerpt">Like many of you, the stats of sexual abuse had never sunk in before all my loved ones shared their experiences, but then and now, these figures scream at me. I can no longer look the other way. 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<description> <![CDATA[ <p>In our work with individuals who were sexually abused, they often discuss the burden that comes with weighing difficult questions about when to come forward with details of the abuse they experienced. They wonder if they should take legal action or if that is even an option when the abuse occurred many years in the past. </p>
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They wonder if they should take legal action or if that is even an option when the abuse occurred many years in the past.</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e28104-e23 mloo-1 mloo-3 mloo-4 mloo-5 mloo-7 mloo-8 mloo-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e28104-e24 mloo-h mloo-m mloo-n mloo-x mloo-11 mloo-12 mloo-1d mloo-1g"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28104-e25 mloo-1z mloo-20 mloo-2c"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28104-e26 mloo-32 mloo-33 mloo-35 mloo-36 mloo-38 mloo-3b mloo-3c mloo-3i mloo-3j mloo-3k mloo-3l mloo-3m mloo-3n"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Statute of Limitations</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e28104-e27 mloo-2i mloo-2j mloo-2k mloo-2l mloo-2n mloo-2o mloo-2p mloo-2r mloo-2s">A law that sets a time limit on when someone can take legal action for a particular crime or offense.</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e28104-e28 mloo-1 mloo-2 mloo-3 mloo-4 mloo-5 mloo-7 mloo-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e28104-e29 mloo-h mloo-m mloo-n mloo-s mloo-t mloo-v mloo-x mloo-z mloo-1d mloo-1h"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28104-e30 mloo-1z mloo-20 mloo-21"><div class="x-text x-content e28104-e31 mloo-2i mloo-2j mloo-2k mloo-2l mloo-2n mloo-2o mloo-2p mloo-2r mloo-2s"><p>A statute of limitations is a law that sets a time limit on when someone can take legal action for a particular crime or offense. Simply put, after a crime happens, there's a set period of time when the police or justice system can charge someone, or a victim can sue for damages. If that time passes, the legal options expire, even if there's evidence or someone confesses to the crime.</p>
<p>For example, let's say the statute of limitations for robbery is five years. If a person commits a robbery, but nobody takes legal action during those five years, the offender can no longer be charged for that specific crime.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e28104-e32 mloo-1 mloo-2 mloo-3 mloo-5 mloo-6 mloo-7 mloo-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e28104-e33 mloo-h mloo-m mloo-n mloo-s mloo-t mloo-v mloo-x mloo-z mloo-1d mloo-1i"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28104-e34 mloo-1z mloo-20 mloo-21"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28104-e35 mloo-32 mloo-33 mloo-35 mloo-36 mloo-37 mloo-3c mloo-3f mloo-3g mloo-3h mloo-3i mloo-3j mloo-3m mloo-3o mloo-3p"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Why Do Statute of Limitations Exist?</h2></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e28104-e36 mloo-h mloo-m mloo-n mloo-s mloo-t mloo-x mloo-y mloo-z mloo-10 mloo-1d mloo-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28104-e37 mloo-1z mloo-20 mloo-21"><div class="x-text x-content e28104-e38 mloo-2j mloo-2k mloo-2l mloo-2n mloo-2o mloo-2p mloo-2r mloo-2s mloo-2t"><p>These laws are intended to encourage prompt action, ensure relevant evidence can be examined in a timely way, and provide a degree of certainty that the crime occurred. Statute deadlines vary depending on the type of offense and the jurisdiction where the crime was perpetrated. The idea of a statute of limitations for child sexual abuse has recently been examined with a greater understanding of the long-term impacts of childhood trauma and the reasons why survivors often delay disclosing the abuse they experienced.</p>
<p>In fact, some studies indicate that <strong>more than 25% of survivors do not disclose until they reach adulthood</strong>. Factors like shame, fear, traumatic stress, and dependent relationships with perpetrators can delay a survivor’s willingness or ability to disclose abuse.<sup>1</sup> The trend many governments are taking to eliminate or extend criminal and civil statutes of limitations reflects the acknowledgment that survivors often need many years to process their trauma and come forward about their abuse.</p>
<p>Recognizing these dynamics, there has been an increase in statute of limitations reform since the early 2000s as several child sex abuse scandals were reported on with increased attention. From 2002–2020, over 30 states in the U.S. amended their laws to extend or eliminate limitations. One of the earliest and largest adjustments came in 2019, when New York extended its statute to allow survivors to press charges until age 28 in felony cases and file civil suits until age 55.<sup>2</sup> <strong>Many victim advocates consider this period of change as both validating to survivors of abuse and enhancing the ability for individuals to seek justice.</strong></p></div></div><div class="x-col e28104-e39 mloo-1z mloo-20 mloo-21"><div class="x-text x-content e28104-e40 mloo-2i mloo-2k mloo-2o mloo-2p mloo-2u mloo-2v">25%+</div><div class="x-text x-content e28104-e41 mloo-2k mloo-2l mloo-2n mloo-2o mloo-2s mloo-2u mloo-2w mloo-2x mloo-2y">of survivors do not disclose until they reach adulthood.</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e28104-e42 mloo-1 mloo-2 mloo-3 mloo-4 mloo-7 mloo-9 mloo-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e28104-e43 mloo-h mloo-m mloo-n mloo-q mloo-s mloo-t mloo-x mloo-y mloo-10 mloo-13 mloo-1a mloo-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28104-e44 mloo-1z mloo-20 mloo-21 mloo-2d"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e28104-e45 mloo-1 mloo-2 mloo-3 mloo-5 mloo-6 mloo-7 mloo-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e28104-e46 mloo-h mloo-m mloo-n mloo-s mloo-t mloo-v mloo-x mloo-z mloo-1d mloo-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28104-e47 mloo-1z mloo-20 mloo-21"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28104-e48 mloo-32 mloo-33 mloo-35 mloo-36 mloo-37 mloo-3c mloo-3f mloo-3g mloo-3h mloo-3i mloo-3j mloo-3m mloo-3o mloo-3p"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">What Is the Statute of Limitations That Exist in My Area?</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e28104-e49 mloo-2i mloo-2j mloo-2k mloo-2l mloo-2n mloo-2o mloo-2p mloo-2r mloo-2s"><p><strong>As of 2024, 44 states have completely eliminated statutes of limitations for certain types of felony sex crimes against children</strong>, while others have statutes ranging from 3 to 30+ years after the survivor reaches adulthood. In many states, survivors can <em>still</em> press for civil charges as there is no statute of limitations. Other states have window laws open for victims to raise their claims of past abuse, even if they were victimized more than 20 years ago.<sup>3</sup></p> 
 
<p>Several organizations and agencies assist survivors of sexual abuse in accessing updated information about the statute of limitations in their state. You can learn more at <a href="https://www.rainn.org/state-state-guide-statutes-limitations" target="_blank">RAINN</a> and <a href="https://childusa.org/2024sol/" target="_blank">CHILD USA</a>, which provide breakdowns of the various laws in each state or territory.</p> </div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e28104-e50 mloo-h mloo-l mloo-m mloo-n mloo-s mloo-x mloo-12 mloo-14 mloo-15 mloo-1d mloo-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28104-e51 mloo-1z mloo-20 mloo-2e"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28104-e52 mloo-32 mloo-33 mloo-35 mloo-36 mloo-38 mloo-39 mloo-3b mloo-3c mloo-3m mloo-3n mloo-3q mloo-3r mloo-3s"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">What Is the Difference Between a Statute of Limitations, Lookback Windows, Revival Law, or “Revival Window?”</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e28104-e53 mloo-2i mloo-2j mloo-2k mloo-2l mloo-2n mloo-2o mloo-2p mloo-2r mloo-2s"><p>Lookback windows <strong>provide a temporary suspension of the statute of limitations, enabling survivors to bring their cases to court when they were unable to do so because of an expired statute of limitations</strong>. These windows aim to address the delayed reporting of sexual abuse, which could have been influenced by trauma, fear, or manipulation by the abuser. While a civil suit takes a different form than a criminal trial, these opportunities afford those who were sexually abused to legally confront the individuals or organizations who were party to wrongdoing.</p> 
 
<p>The Sean P. McImail Statute of Limitations Research Institute explains, “Revival laws establish a specific period of time during which survivors can bring previously expired civil claims to court. There are two types of revival laws: (1) revival windows and (2) revival age limits. When the revival period is a set amount of time after the law is passed, it is called a revival window, and claims can be filed while the window is open. States have opened windows for a few years or permanently. When the revival period is set at a survivor’s age, it is called a revival age limit, and claims can be filed until a survivor reaches that specific age. The age states choose ranges from 27–55.”<sup>4</sup </p>
</div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28104-e54 mloo-32 mloo-33 mloo-35 mloo-36 mloo-38 mloo-39 mloo-3b mloo-3c mloo-3m mloo-3n mloo-3r mloo-3s mloo-3t"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">How Can I Find Information About Statutes of Limitations in Countries Other than the United States?</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e28104-e55 mloo-2i mloo-2j mloo-2k mloo-2l mloo-2n mloo-2o mloo-2p mloo-2r mloo-2s"><p>You might consider reviewing official government websites or resources, such as from a Ministry of Justice or the national legislature. These often provide detailed information on laws and statutes. There are also legal databases that offer more detailed information:</p>
<ul> 
<li><strong>World Legal Information Institute (WorldLII)</strong>: WorldLII offers legal information from various countries.</li> 
<li><strong>Some universities and organizations offer research tools for international law</strong>. For example, NYU has GlobaLex. A project by the International Development Law Organization (IDLO), provides legal resources and documents on various areas and topics of international law.</li>
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<p>Additionally, internet searches can help you find more information about laws in your area. Use search terms like "sexual abuse statute of limitations [country]" or "[country] sexual abuse laws."</p> </div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e28104-e56 mloo-1 mloo-2 mloo-3 mloo-4 mloo-7 mloo-9 mloo-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e28104-e57 mloo-h mloo-m mloo-n mloo-q mloo-s mloo-t mloo-x mloo-y mloo-10 mloo-13 mloo-1a mloo-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28104-e58 mloo-1z mloo-20 mloo-21 mloo-2d"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e28104-e59 mloo-1 mloo-2 mloo-3 mloo-5 mloo-6 mloo-7 mloo-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e28104-e60 mloo-h mloo-m mloo-n mloo-s mloo-t mloo-v mloo-x mloo-z mloo-1d mloo-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28104-e61 mloo-1z mloo-20 mloo-21"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28104-e62 mloo-32 mloo-33 mloo-35 mloo-36 mloo-37 mloo-3c mloo-3f mloo-3g mloo-3h mloo-3i mloo-3j mloo-3m mloo-3o mloo-3p"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Taking Legal Action and Reporting Abuse</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e28104-e63 mloo-2i mloo-2j mloo-2k mloo-2l mloo-2n mloo-2o mloo-2p mloo-2r mloo-2s"><p>Reporting child sex crimes to law enforcement as soon as possible often provides the best chance of successful prosecution. However, this process can be very demanding and difficult. Even if the criminal statute of limitations has expired, survivors may have other legal options like civil lawsuits or victim compensation funds. The current realities of statutes of limitations remain complex. <strong>We encourage survivors to contact individuals and services who can help them understand their rights and options.</strong> Taking back your choice, power, and voice can be an important part of the healing process.</p> 
 
<p>If you are a parent of a victim, reporting something like child sexual abuse can be a challenging and unfamiliar process. As you factor in fears about your child’s ongoing well-being, as well as concerns about the possible impacts that reporting may have, you might feel overwhelmed. Saprea offers <a href="/prevent/child-has-been-sexually-abused/">this resource</a> to help parents navigate the complex situation of reporting child sexual abuse.</p> </div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e28104-e64 mloo-1 mloo-2 mloo-3 mloo-5 mloo-7 mloo-b mloo-d"><div class="x-row x-container max width e28104-e65 mloo-h mloo-m mloo-n mloo-s mloo-t mloo-v mloo-x mloo-z mloo-1d mloo-1p"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28104-e66 mloo-1z mloo-20 mloo-21"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28104-e67 mloo-31 mloo-33 mloo-35 mloo-36 mloo-37 mloo-38 mloo-3c mloo-3g mloo-3h mloo-3m mloo-3p mloo-3u"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">About the Author</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-row e28104-e68 mloo-h mloo-m mloo-n mloo-q mloo-t mloo-x mloo-y mloo-10 mloo-13 mloo-16 mloo-17 mloo-1a mloo-1q"><div class="x-row-inner"><figure class="x-col e28104-e69 mloo-1v mloo-1x mloo-1z mloo-20 mloo-21 mloo-24 mloo-28 mloo-2a"><span class="x-image e28104-e70 mloo-49 mloo-4b featured-author-portrait"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/brian-bios-150x150.jpg" alt="Image"></span></figure><div class="x-col e28104-e71 mloo-1z mloo-20 mloo-2f mloo-2g"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28104-e72 mloo-31 mloo-32 mloo-33 mloo-35 mloo-38 mloo-3c mloo-3e mloo-3h mloo-3m mloo-3v"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Brian Walker</h4></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28104-e73 mloo-31 mloo-32 mloo-33 mloo-36 mloo-38 mloo-3b mloo-3l mloo-3m mloo-3n mloo-3w mloo-3x"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Research and Program Development Strategist</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e28104-e74 mloo-2i mloo-2j mloo-2k mloo-2l mloo-2m mloo-2n mloo-2o mloo-2p mloo-2s">Brian is a Research and Program Development Strategist at Saprea. Brian spent over a decade of his career teaching high school social studies and serving in administrative capacities at a residential treatment center for teen boys who struggled with anxiety, depression, trauma, and learning disabilities. He has directly observed the effects of trauma and abuse as well as the healing that can come to both individuals and families. In addition to his full-time responsibilities, Brian has served as an accrediation evaluator for schools and as an aftercare coach for clients and families transitioning from intensive mental health treatment. Brian has enjoyed presenting regularly at academic, professional, and religious leadership conferences. He holds a Bachelor of Arts degree in history teaching from Brigham Young University. You can find Brian often hiking the Utah mountain trails in search of spiritual enlightenment and photo opportunities or trying out a new recipe in his ambitious but under-stocked kitchen.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e28104-e75 mloo-1 mloo-2 mloo-3 mloo-5 mloo-6 mloo-7 mloo-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e28104-e76 mloo-h mloo-i mloo-m mloo-n mloo-t mloo-x mloo-y mloo-z mloo-10 mloo-17 mloo-1d mloo-1r"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28104-e77 mloo-1z mloo-20 mloo-21"><div class="x-acc e28104-e78 mloo-4c" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e28104-e78"><div class="e28104-e79 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e28104-e79" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e28104-e79" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e28104-e79"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e28104-e79" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e28104-e79" data-x-toggleable="e28104-e79" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><ol>
<li>Gewirtz-Meydan, A., et al. (2019). Disclosure of child sexual abuse: Delays, non‐disclosure and partial disclosure. What the research tells us and implications for practice. Child Abuse Review, 28(2).</li> 
<li>New York State Senate. (2019). NY Senate Bill S2440. NYSenate.gov. Retrieved from <a href="https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/bills/2019/S2440" target="_blank">https://www.nysenate.gov/legislation/bills/2019/S2440</a></li>  
<li>CHILD USA. (2024). 2024 Statute of Limitations (SOL) Reform. CHILD USA. Retrieved June 14, 2024, from <a href="https://childusa.org/2024sol/" target="_blank">https://childusa.org/2024sol/</a></li> 
<li>CHILD USA. (2024). Revival Laws for Child Sexual Abuse (Report No. 6.7.24-AH). CHILD USA. <a href="https://childusa.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/US-WindowsRevival-Laws-for-CSA-Since-2002-6.7.24-AH.pdf" target="_blank">https://childusa.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/US-WindowsRevival-Laws-for-CSA-Since-2002-6.7.24-AH.pdf</a></li> 
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I can no longer look the other way. I can’t discount the discomfort by saying the research must be wrong or that the research responses must have come from somewhere else and someone else.</div><div class="x-text x-content e28104-e90 mloo-2j mloo-2k mloo-2l mloo-2n mloo-2o mloo-2p mloo-2r mloo-2s mloo-2x mloo-30"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a><a class="x-col e28104-e86 mloo-1z mloo-2g mloo-2h post-article" href="https://saprea.org/blog/reducing-pornography-exposure/" data-x-effect-provider="colors particles effects"><span class="x-image e28104-e87 mloo-49"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/05/hypersexualized-world-blog.jpg" width="541" height="353" alt="32318:full"></span><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28104-e88 mloo-32 mloo-33 mloo-35 mloo-36 mloo-3f mloo-3h mloo-3j mloo-3k mloo-3m mloo-3n mloo-3s mloo-3x mloo-3z"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h6 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Protecting Kids: Navigating a Hypersexualized World and Reducing Pornography Exposure</h6></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e28104-e89 mloo-2i mloo-2j mloo-2k mloo-2l mloo-2y mloo-2z excerpt">There is no quick fix that ensures your child will not purposely consume pornography, but a parent can do specific things that will reduce this risk. It is nearly impossible for a parent to prevent all accidental exposure to pornography. Still, again, a parent can do specific things that will reduce the volume of accidental exposures and their impact. </div><div class="x-text x-content e28104-e90 mloo-2j mloo-2k mloo-2l mloo-2n mloo-2o mloo-2p mloo-2r mloo-2s mloo-2x mloo-30"><span style="color:#d97247; text-decoration:underline; font-weight:400;">Read this article</span></div></a></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e28104-e91 mloo-h mloo-k mloo-l mloo-m mloo-n mloo-q mloo-s mloo-x mloo-10 mloo-15 mloo-19 mloo-1a mloo-1u"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28104-e92 mloo-1z mloo-20 mloo-21"><a class="x-anchor x-anchor-button e28104-e93 mloo-43 mloo-48 mloo-f" tabindex="0" href="/all-blogs/"><div class="x-anchor-content"><div class="x-anchor-text"><span class="x-anchor-text-primary">SEE ALL blogs</span></div></div></a></div></div></div></div></div>
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<description> <![CDATA[ <p>Childhood sexual abuse can have long-lasting debilitating effects throughout the life of a survivor. The impacts of sexual trauma are profound and far-reaching, affecting every aspect of an individual's life—physically, psychologically, cognitively, and socially. But why is this so?</p>
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The impacts of sexual trauma are profound and far-reaching, affecting every aspect of an individual's life—physically, psychologically, cognitively, and socially. But why is this so?</p></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28186-e23 mlqy-37 mlqy-38 mlqy-3a mlqy-3b mlqy-3c mlqy-3h mlqy-3k mlqy-3l mlqy-3m mlqy-3q mlqy-3s mlqy-3t mlqy-3u mlqy-3v"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Why Trauma Survivors Experience Lasting Symptoms</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e28186-e24 mlqy-2x mlqy-2y mlqy-30 mlqy-32 mlqy-33"><p>Trauma is said to be something experienced with our whole selves. In <em>The Body Keeps the Score</em>, Dr. Bessel van der Kolk states, “We have learned that trauma is not just an event that took place sometime in the past; it is also the imprint left by that experience on the mind, brain, and body. This imprint has ongoing consequences for how the human organism manages to survive in the present.”</p>
<p>During the formative years, children begin to establish a sense of self and identity by interpreting their experiences, making conclusions about their self-worth, and then construct a narrative about the world from those experiences. As the brain continues to develop into adulthood, those <strong>core belief systems create structural changes in the brain</strong> through the formation of neuropathways and become the foundation to how they see themselves, form relationships, and react to situations.</p>
<p>For example, when a child is raised in a supportive and nurturing environment with clear boundaries, consistent routines, and respectful communication, they can interpret the world as being safe, establish trusting interdependent connections, and tend to be flexible with their expectations. They may also form healthy core beliefs, such as: “I am ___” (e.g., capable, smart, strong, lovable, etc.). <strong>Unfortunately, sexual abuse can misconstrue how the child sees themselves, view the world, and relate with others.</strong> When sexual trauma is experienced, the child may then make conclusions that “I can’t trust anyone,” “it’s my fault,” “I am ___” (e.g., bad, worthless, dirty, unlovable, a burden, damaged, powerless, weak, a failure, inadequate, etc.).</p>
<p>When these destructive conclusions become the child’s misperceived reality, <em>all</em> future experiences get filtered through this belief system, which may then lead the individual to feel sad, anxious, ashamed, fearful, confused, and lonely. Sometimes, in an attempt to manage these uncomfortable emotions, an individual attempts to cope by engaging in <a href="/heal/unhealthy-behaviors/">unhealthy behaviors</a> (e.g., substance use, risky sexual behavior, disassociation, emotional numbing, self-harm, sleeping too much, eating disorders, etc.). <strong>When an individual uses these maladaptive coping behaviors to deal with <a href="/heal/triggers/">triggering</a> situations and distressing emotions, neuropathways are again strengthened.</strong></p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e28186-e25 mlqy-1 mlqy-2 mlqy-3 mlqy-4 mlqy-5 mlqy-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e28186-e26 mlqy-h mlqy-l mlqy-m mlqy-o mlqy-q mlqy-x mlqy-10 mlqy-12 mlqy-13 mlqy-14 mlqy-1c mlqy-1j"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28186-e27 mlqy-29 mlqy-2a mlqy-2m"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28186-e28 mlqy-37 mlqy-38 mlqy-3a mlqy-3b mlqy-3d mlqy-3g mlqy-3h mlqy-3q mlqy-3s mlqy-3t mlqy-3w mlqy-3x mlqy-3y"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">What Wires Together, Fires Together</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e28186-e29 mlqy-2x mlqy-2y mlqy-30 mlqy-32 mlqy-33">In 1949, a neuropsychologist named Donald Hebb developed the phrase, ‘neurons that fire together wire together’. This phrase was used to describe how neural pathways are formed in the brain, respond together with the same stimulus, and are then reinforced through repetition. For example, if arousal and fear were ‘fired and wired’ together as a child, it is likely that distress will then be experienced during times of <a href="/heal/sexual-intimacy-issues/">sexual intimacy</a>. Another example may be that the abuser had a mustache, and anytime the survivor comes across someone with a similar pattern of facial hair, they may unwittingly experience panic and feel unsafe. However, even if traumatic responses have developed in a person’s life, they can, through <a href="/heal/approach/">intentional healing practices</a>, diminish over time.</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e28186-e30 mlqy-1 mlqy-2 mlqy-4 mlqy-5 mlqy-6 mlqy-7"><div class="x-row x-container max width e28186-e31 mlqy-h mlqy-l mlqy-m mlqy-q mlqy-t mlqy-u mlqy-x mlqy-y mlqy-10 mlqy-11 mlqy-1c mlqy-1k"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28186-e32 mlqy-29 mlqy-2a mlqy-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28186-e33 mlqy-37 mlqy-38 mlqy-3a mlqy-3b mlqy-3c mlqy-3h mlqy-3k mlqy-3l mlqy-3m mlqy-3q mlqy-3s mlqy-3t mlqy-3u mlqy-3v"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Trauma Response in the Brain &amp; Body </h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e28186-e34 mlqy-2x mlqy-2y mlqy-30 mlqy-32 mlqy-33"><p>Many victims of sexual abuse experience biological responses that are considered normal in an effort to cope with an abnormal situation. The <a href="/heal/trauma-body-brain/#limbic">limbic system</a>, which acts like a command center, is a complex set of structures within the brain that is responsible for the fight-or-flight stress response. When the limbic system is activated, the adrenal and pituitary glands rapidly release stress hormones, such as cortisol, adrenaline, and norepinephrine, which start a chain of physiological responses in the sympathetic nervous system that aid in survival.</p>
<p>When experiences are interpreted as dangerous, the brain and body gear up for survival to either fight or flee from the situation. The brain sends a signal to release stress hormones into the bloodstream. The body responds by dilating pupils to improve eyesight, airways open, heart rate increases, and oxygen-rich blood is diverted from the digestive system and redirected to the muscles. When the threat is alleviated and the danger has passed, the parasympathetic nervous system, which acts as the rest-and-digest response, helps to regulate bodily functions. Muscles relax, heart rate slows, pupils constrict, blood pressure lowers, and energy conservation resumes.</p>
<p><strong>When someone endures abuse and neuropathways are reinforced by negative core beliefs, the limbic system responses can become compounded and may result in a myriad of longer-term symptoms that impair everyday functioning.</strong> Repeated activation of the stress response can have an <em>increasingly</em> negative effect on the body. Chronically high levels of stress hormones may lead to long-term physical ailments, including immunosuppression, kidney damage, intestinal problems, headaches, hyperglycemia, weight gain, insomnia, irritability, depression, anxiety, and hypertension, which increases the risk of heart attacks and/or strokes.</p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e28186-e35 mlqy-1 mlqy-2 mlqy-5 mlqy-6 mlqy-7 mlqy-8"><div class="x-row x-container max width e28186-e36 mlqy-h mlqy-l mlqy-m mlqy-q mlqy-t mlqy-u mlqy-x mlqy-y mlqy-10 mlqy-11 mlqy-1c mlqy-1l"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28186-e37 mlqy-29 mlqy-2a mlqy-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28186-e38 mlqy-37 mlqy-38 mlqy-3a mlqy-3b mlqy-3c mlqy-3h mlqy-3k mlqy-3l mlqy-3m mlqy-3q mlqy-3s mlqy-3t mlqy-3u mlqy-3v"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Adverse Childhood Experiences Study</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e28186-e39 mlqy-2x mlqy-2y mlqy-30 mlqy-32 mlqy-33"><p>In 1995, Kaiser Permanente and the Center for Disease Control and Prevention conducted a longitudinal study using 17,337 participants to measure the effects of 10 adverse childhood experiences, referred to as ACEs, (e.g., emotional abuse, physical abuse, sexual abuse, mother treated violently, household substance abuse, household mental illness, parental separation/divorce, incarcerated household member, emotional neglect, and physical neglect). This monumental study concluded that the <strong>higher the score, the more at risk a person is for developing heart disease, cancer, diabetes, alcoholism, engaging in illicit drug use, experiencing financial stress, depression, suicide attempts, unintended pregnancy, sexual violence, poor academic achievement, and premature death</strong>.</p>

<p>The study found that 64% of adults in the United States reported they had experienced one type of ACE, and 17.3% of adults reported they had experienced four or more types of ACEs. Seeing how prevalent ACEs are, combined with the associated physical and psychological effects, it has been estimated that <strong>ACEs-related health consequences carry an estimated economic burden of $748 billion annually</strong>.</p>
</div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e28186-e40 mlqy-1 mlqy-2 mlqy-4 mlqy-7 mlqy-9 mlqy-a"><div class="x-row x-container max width e28186-e41 mlqy-h mlqy-l mlqy-m mlqy-q mlqy-t mlqy-u mlqy-x mlqy-y mlqy-10 mlqy-11 mlqy-1c mlqy-1m"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28186-e42 mlqy-29 mlqy-2a mlqy-2b mlqy-2n"></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e28186-e43 mlqy-1 mlqy-2 mlqy-5 mlqy-6 mlqy-7 mlqy-8 mlqy-b"><div class="x-row x-container max width e28186-e44 mlqy-h mlqy-l mlqy-m mlqy-q mlqy-t mlqy-u mlqy-x mlqy-y mlqy-10 mlqy-11 mlqy-1c mlqy-1n"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28186-e45 mlqy-29 mlqy-2a mlqy-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28186-e46 mlqy-37 mlqy-38 mlqy-3a mlqy-3b mlqy-3c mlqy-3h mlqy-3k mlqy-3l mlqy-3m mlqy-3q mlqy-3s mlqy-3t mlqy-3u mlqy-3v"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Common Symptoms of Trauma</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28186-e47 mlqy-37 mlqy-38 mlqy-3a mlqy-3h mlqy-3j mlqy-3m mlqy-3n mlqy-3o mlqy-3p mlqy-3q mlqy-3r"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><p class="x-text-content-text-primary">While every survivor's journey is unique, there are common symptoms and challenges that many may face as they navigate their path to healing, which can include:</p></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e28186-e48 mlqy-h mlqy-l mlqy-m mlqy-t mlqy-x mlqy-15 mlqy-16 mlqy-1g mlqy-1o"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28186-e49 mlqy-29 mlqy-2o mlqy-2p mlqy-2q mlqy-2r"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28186-e50 mlqy-37 mlqy-38 mlqy-3a mlqy-3b mlqy-3d mlqy-3e mlqy-3g mlqy-3h mlqy-3n mlqy-3o mlqy-3q mlqy-3y mlqy-3z"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Physical</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e28186-e51 mlqy-2x mlqy-2y mlqy-30 mlqy-32 mlqy-33"><ul>
 	<li><a href="/heal/physical-pain/">Chronic Pain</a>: Backaches, neck and shoulder tension, headaches, joints, nerves, gastrointestinal issues, etc.</li>
 	<li><a href="/heal/sleep-issues/">Sleep</a>: Insomnia, hypersomnia, nightmares, parasomnia, paralysis, etc.</li>
 	<li>Miscellaneous: Fatigue, shallow breath/hyperventilating, dry mouth, nausea, vomiting, heart palpitations, shaking, sweating, hypervigilance, jumpy, restlessness/fidgeting, etc.</li>
</ul></div></div><div class="x-col e28186-e52 mlqy-29 mlqy-2o mlqy-2p mlqy-2r mlqy-2s"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28186-e53 mlqy-37 mlqy-38 mlqy-3a mlqy-3b mlqy-3d mlqy-3e mlqy-3g mlqy-3h mlqy-3n mlqy-3o mlqy-3q mlqy-3y mlqy-3z"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Psychological</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e28186-e54 mlqy-2x mlqy-2y mlqy-30 mlqy-32 mlqy-33"><ul>
<li><a href="/heal/addictions/">Addiction</a>: Illegal drugs, prescription medication, alcohol, smoking, vaping, etc.</li> 
<li>Avoidance: situations, places, and people that remind of the trauma, eye contact, procrastination, lack of motivation, indecisiveness, emotional expression, intimacy, relationships, etc.</li>
<li><a href="/heal/dissociation/">Dissociation</a>: <a href="/heal/flashbacks/">Flashbacks</a>, <a href="/heal/emotional-numbness/">emotional numbing</a>, flat affect, and disconnect from thoughts, feelings, memories, or reality, etc.</li>
<li>Low Self-Esteem: Struggle with feelings of guilt, <a href="/heal/shame-child-sexual-abuse/">shame</a>, self-worth, overly critical of oneself, self-blame, feeling fundamentally flawed, negative self-perception, a belief that they are never good enough, perfectionistic, etc.</li> 
<li>Mood: Dysregulated &amp; intense <a href="/heal/approach/emotion-wheel/">emotions</a>, easily overwhelmed &amp; overstimulated, suicidal ideation, paranoia, <a href="/heal/anxiety/">anxiety</a>, <a href="/heal/depression/">depression</a>, <a href="/heal/panic-attacks/">panic attacks</a>, rage, despair, helplessness, hopelessness, irritability, etc.</li> 
<li>Unsustainable Coping: Disordered eating, substance abuse, risky sexual behavior, pornography, self-harm, neglecting medical needs, aggression, impulsive reactions, over-compliance, gambling, uncontrolled shopping, compulsive exercise, excessive use of social media &amp; video games, etc.</li>
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</div></div><div class="x-col e28186-e55 mlqy-29 mlqy-2o mlqy-2p mlqy-2r mlqy-2s"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28186-e56 mlqy-37 mlqy-38 mlqy-3a mlqy-3b mlqy-3d mlqy-3e mlqy-3g mlqy-3h mlqy-3n mlqy-3o mlqy-3q mlqy-3y mlqy-3z"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Cognitive</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e28186-e57 mlqy-2x mlqy-2y mlqy-30 mlqy-32 mlqy-33"><ul>
 	<li>Concentration: Difficulty making decisions, delay in processing information, impairments with focus, ruminating or intrusive thoughts, overthinking, dwelling, obsessing, etc.</li>
 	<li>Executive Functioning: Difficulty with planning, organizing, time management, coordination, self-control, problem-solving, and decision-making.</li>
 	<li>Memory: Challenges with encoding, recognition, retention, and recall.</li>
</ul></div></div><div class="x-col e28186-e58 mlqy-29 mlqy-2a mlqy-2r mlqy-2s"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28186-e59 mlqy-37 mlqy-38 mlqy-3a mlqy-3b mlqy-3d mlqy-3e mlqy-3g mlqy-3h mlqy-3n mlqy-3o mlqy-3q mlqy-3y mlqy-3z"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Social</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e28186-e60 mlqy-2x mlqy-2y mlqy-30 mlqy-32 mlqy-33"><ul>
 	<li><a href="/heal/communication-issues/">Communication</a>: Evading deep topics, unexpressed needs, verbalizing boundaries, arguments, passive/aggressive, blaming, circumventing confrontation, defensiveness, interrupting, etc.</li>
 	<li><a href="/blog/intimacy-issues/">Intimacy</a>: Avoiding physical touch, heightened sense of vulnerability, feeling unsafe, challenges with establishing and maintaining boundaries, fear of abandonment, inability to form deep connections, difficulty forming relationships, unhealthy attachments, etc.</li>
 	<li>Isolation: Withdrawing from social interactions and activities, which leads to feelings of loneliness, inability to reach out for support or ask for help, not leaving the house, etc.</li>
 	<li>Relationships: <a href="/heal/dysfunctional-relationships/">Dysfunctional relationships</a> with family, friends, and romantic partners, being overly controlling, codependency, unrealistic expectations, inability to trust, etc.</li>
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<p>Dr. Dan Siegel, clinical professor of psychiatry at the UCLA School of Medicine, coined the phrase, ‘name it to tame it’ where he explains that the more you notice and <a href="/heal/approach/emotion-wheel/">identify your emotions</a> and body sensations, the easier they are to manage. Ideally, discerning the ‘what’ and ‘why’ of these symptoms will aid survivors in reducing shame by fostering self-compassion and an understanding of thoughts, emotions, and bodily reactions to the endured trauma while also increasing their ability to effectively cope when <a href="/heal/triggers/">triggered</a>. Survivors can learn how to respond rather than react to triggers through <a href="/heal/approach/intentional-behavior/">intentional behavior</a> shifts by repeatedly practicing <a href="/heal/approach/grounding-techniques/">grounding techniques</a> and healthy coping strategies. By doing so, the structures of their brain can adapt, grow and change through the process of <a href="/heal/trauma-body-brain/#neuroplasticity">neuroplasticity</a> that ultimately make these changes easier to maintain.</p>
<p>Among these initial steps toward recovery is to <a href="heal/approach/acknowledgement/">acknowledge</a> that the abuse happened and the impact it had on one’s life. Acknowledgement is a healing practice that involves looking at the past and present with clarity and showing yourself compassion for where you’ve been and where you are now. A second healing practice is becoming more <a href="/heal/approach/mindfulness/">mindful</a>. Mindfulness is purposefully paying attention with kindness and curiosity to the present moment. Lastly, one of the final steps toward reclaiming hope is to identify an <a href="/heal/approach/aspiration/">aspirational</a> goal toward well-being. Aspiration is a healing practice that involves directing your thoughts and actions toward healing. This past, present, and future approach encompasses a holistic framework for trauma healing.</p>
<p>Despite survivors experiencing many complex symptoms, it is essential to recognize that healing is possible. While sexual trauma is not your fault, healing is your responsibility. Many individuals have embarked on the journey of healing, diligently doing the work and finding their way to a place of thriving. Their <a href="/stories/">stories</a> serve as beacons of hope, reminding us that despite the darkness of the past, there is light ahead. Remember, healing is not linear; it's okay and normal to have setbacks along the way. Keep moving forward, one step at a time, and trust that brighter days lie ahead. By embracing patience throughout the journey, seeking support, allowing yourself to feel, and nurturing self-compassion, healing becomes a possibility and a tangible reality. Take care of yourself, honor your journey, and believe in the power of resilience to transform pain into strength. <strong>Together, we can create a future where victims of abuse not only survive but thrive.</strong></p></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e28186-e69 mlqy-1 mlqy-2 mlqy-5 mlqy-6 mlqy-7 mlqy-c"><div class="x-row x-container max width e28186-e70 mlqy-h mlqy-l mlqy-m mlqy-q mlqy-t mlqy-u mlqy-x mlqy-y mlqy-10 mlqy-11 mlqy-1c mlqy-1r"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28186-e71 mlqy-29 mlqy-2a mlqy-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28186-e72 mlqy-37 mlqy-38 mlqy-3a mlqy-3b mlqy-3c mlqy-3h mlqy-3k mlqy-3l mlqy-3m mlqy-3q mlqy-3s mlqy-3t mlqy-3u mlqy-3v"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Saprea's Healing Resources</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28186-e73 mlqy-37 mlqy-38 mlqy-3a mlqy-3h mlqy-3j mlqy-3m mlqy-3n mlqy-3p mlqy-3q mlqy-40"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><p class="x-text-content-text-primary">At Saprea, we are dedicated to educating others about the impact of child sexual abuse, promoting healthier behavior patterns, addressing maladaptive survival responses. Leveraging the latest research, we offer a wide array of resources designed for survivors and their support networks.</p></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e28186-e74 mlqy-h mlqy-l mlqy-m mlqy-t mlqy-u mlqy-x mlqy-y mlqy-10 mlqy-17 mlqy-1s mlqy-1t"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28186-e75 mlqy-29 mlqy-2a mlqy-2b mlqy-2t"><span class="x-image e28186-e76 mlqy-4g mlqy-4i"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/Healing-Webinar@2x.png" width="125" height="125" alt="Image"></span></div><div class="x-col e28186-e77 mlqy-29 mlqy-2a mlqy-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28186-e78 mlqy-37 mlqy-38 mlqy-3a mlqy-3b mlqy-3d mlqy-3e mlqy-3g mlqy-3h mlqy-3n mlqy-3o mlqy-3q mlqy-3y mlqy-3z mlqy-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Saprea Healing Webinar</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e28186-e79 mlqy-2x mlqy-2y mlqy-30 mlqy-32 mlqy-33"><p>Saprea administers a free 4.5 hour interactive and educational <a href="/healing-webinar/">healing webinar</a> designed to help adult female survivors jumpstart their healing from home. The webinar is led by a clinical therapist who specializes in trauma recovery, along with a co-facilitator. Survivors will have the opportunity to participate in classes, engage in group discussions, mindfully connect with their body, and build a community with fellow survivors.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e28186-e80 mlqy-h mlqy-l mlqy-m mlqy-t mlqy-u mlqy-x mlqy-y mlqy-z mlqy-10 mlqy-1g mlqy-1u"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28186-e81 mlqy-29 mlqy-2a mlqy-2b"><hr class="x-line e28186-e82 mlqy-4k"></hr></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e28186-e83 mlqy-h mlqy-l mlqy-m mlqy-t mlqy-u mlqy-x mlqy-y mlqy-10 mlqy-17 mlqy-1s mlqy-1v"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28186-e84 mlqy-29 mlqy-2a mlqy-2b mlqy-2t"><span class="x-image e28186-e85 mlqy-4g mlqy-4i"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/Retreats@2x.png" width="125" height="125" alt="Image"></span></div><div class="x-col e28186-e86 mlqy-29 mlqy-2a mlqy-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28186-e87 mlqy-37 mlqy-38 mlqy-3a mlqy-3b mlqy-3d mlqy-3e mlqy-3g mlqy-3h mlqy-3n mlqy-3o mlqy-3q mlqy-3y mlqy-3z mlqy-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Saprea Retreat</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e28186-e88 mlqy-2x mlqy-2y mlqy-30 mlqy-32 mlqy-33"><p>Saprea provides a free four-day <a href="/saprea-retreat/">retreat</a> in Utah for adult women survivors of childhood sexual abuse that is clinically informed and led by a team of licensed therapists and case managers. The retreat teaches survivors about the impacts of trauma, provides opportunities to apply healing tools, and builds a community of support. Afterwards, participants are invited to continue their learning in subsequent online courses that builds a deeper understanding and application of healing principles.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e28186-e89 mlqy-h mlqy-l mlqy-m mlqy-t mlqy-u mlqy-x mlqy-y mlqy-z mlqy-10 mlqy-1g mlqy-1w"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28186-e90 mlqy-29 mlqy-2a mlqy-2b"><hr class="x-line e28186-e91 mlqy-4k"></hr></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e28186-e92 mlqy-h mlqy-l mlqy-m mlqy-t mlqy-u mlqy-x mlqy-y mlqy-10 mlqy-17 mlqy-1s mlqy-1x"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28186-e93 mlqy-29 mlqy-2a mlqy-2b mlqy-2t"><span class="x-image e28186-e94 mlqy-4g mlqy-4i"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/Support-Groups@2x.png" width="125" height="125" alt="Image"></span></div><div class="x-col e28186-e95 mlqy-29 mlqy-2a mlqy-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28186-e96 mlqy-37 mlqy-38 mlqy-3a mlqy-3b mlqy-3d mlqy-3e mlqy-3g mlqy-3h mlqy-3n mlqy-3o mlqy-3q mlqy-3y mlqy-3z mlqy-41"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h3 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Saprea Support Groups</h3></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e28186-e97 mlqy-2x mlqy-2y mlqy-30 mlqy-32 mlqy-33"><p>Saprea offers in-person and virtual <a href="https://supportgroups.saprea.org/">survivor-led support groups</a> with individuals that have shared experiences and motivation to build a community of emotional safety, understanding, and a desire for growth. Facilitators receive training to lead these research -backed and clinically informed groups in a confidential and nurturing environment wherein survivors can connect with one another, provide validation, empathy, and solidarity in the healing journey.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e28186-e98 mlqy-h mlqy-k mlqy-l mlqy-m mlqy-o mlqy-q mlqy-t mlqy-x mlqy-10 mlqy-14 mlqy-16 mlqy-1c mlqy-1y"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28186-e99 mlqy-29 mlqy-2a mlqy-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28186-e100 mlqy-37 mlqy-38 mlqy-3a mlqy-3h mlqy-3j mlqy-3m mlqy-3n mlqy-3o mlqy-3p mlqy-3q mlqy-3r"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">In addition to healing services for adult women survivors of childhood sexual abuse, Saprea provides <a href="/prevent/">education for prevention</a> of abuse and works to increase the public’s awareness of the issue. Learn more about <a href="/about-us/">Saprea</a>, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit, and what you can do to get involved.</h4></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e28186-e101 mlqy-1 mlqy-2 mlqy-5 mlqy-7 mlqy-8 mlqy-d"><div class="x-row x-container max width e28186-e102 mlqy-h mlqy-l mlqy-m mlqy-q mlqy-r mlqy-t mlqy-u mlqy-x mlqy-y mlqy-10 mlqy-11 mlqy-18 mlqy-1c mlqy-1d mlqy-1z"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28186-e103 mlqy-29 mlqy-2a mlqy-2b"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28186-e104 mlqy-36 mlqy-38 mlqy-3a mlqy-3b mlqy-3c mlqy-3d mlqy-3h mlqy-3l mlqy-3m mlqy-3q mlqy-3v mlqy-42"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h2 class="x-text-content-text-primary">About the Author</h2></div></div></div><div class="x-row e28186-e105 mlqy-h mlqy-l mlqy-m mlqy-q mlqy-u mlqy-x mlqy-y mlqy-10 mlqy-11 mlqy-12 mlqy-19 mlqy-1c mlqy-20"><div class="x-row-inner"><figure class="x-col e28186-e106 mlqy-25 mlqy-27 mlqy-29 mlqy-2a mlqy-2b mlqy-2e mlqy-2i mlqy-2k"><span class="x-image e28186-e107 mlqy-4g mlqy-4j featured-author-portrait"><img decoding="async" src="https://saprea.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/07/Rachel_Gardner-150x150.jpg" alt="Image"></span></figure><div class="x-col e28186-e108 mlqy-29 mlqy-2a mlqy-2u mlqy-2v"><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28186-e109 mlqy-36 mlqy-37 mlqy-38 mlqy-3a mlqy-3d mlqy-3h mlqy-3j mlqy-3m mlqy-3p mlqy-3q"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h4 class="x-text-content-text-primary">Rachel Gardner, L.C.S.W.</h4></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-text-headline e28186-e110 mlqy-36 mlqy-37 mlqy-38 mlqy-3b mlqy-3d mlqy-3g mlqy-3q mlqy-3x mlqy-3y mlqy-43 mlqy-44"><div class="x-text-content"><div class="x-text-content-text"><h5 class="x-text-content-text-primary">CLINICAL THERAPIST</h5></div></div></div><div class="x-text x-content e28186-e111 mlqy-2x mlqy-2y mlqy-2z mlqy-30 mlqy-33">Rachel completed her Master of Social Work degree at the University of Southern California in 2012 and earned her License in Clinical Social Work after working with diverse populations across the lifespan in a variety of in &amp; out-patient settings. She is trained in Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TFCBT), Dialectal Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Acceptance &amp; Commitment Therapy (ACT), Eye-Movement Desensitization &amp; Reprocessing (EMDR), Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT), Structural Family Therapy, Brainspotting, Sand Tray Therapy, Equine-Assisted Psychotherapy, Sound Healing, and is working toward certification in Yoga Therapy.

Rachel is passionate to ignite hope, encourage perseverance, and promote balance throughout her client’s transformational journey so they can reach their highest potential and thrive. She is inspired by and finds it rejuvenating to empower individuals to make sustainable growth and is humbled and honored to be permitted to walk the path of healing together. In her free time, Rachel can be found experimenting with new recipes, hosting game nights, at the gym, volunteering, gardening, bonding with her horse, snuggling with her cats, and exploring nature through camping, hiking, biking, kayaking, and horseback riding.</div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="x-section e28186-e112 mlqy-1 mlqy-2 mlqy-5 mlqy-7 mlqy-8 mlqy-9"><div class="x-row x-container max width e28186-e113 mlqy-h mlqy-i mlqy-l mlqy-m mlqy-u mlqy-x mlqy-y mlqy-z mlqy-10 mlqy-19 mlqy-1g mlqy-21"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e28186-e114 mlqy-29 mlqy-2a mlqy-2b"><div class="x-acc e28186-e115 mlqy-4l" role="tablist" id="x-acc-e28186-e115"><div class="e28186-e116 x-acc-item"><button id="tab-e28186-e116" class="x-acc-header" role="tab" type="button" aria-selected="false" aria-expanded="false" aria-controls="panel-e28186-e116" data-x-toggle="collapse" data-x-toggleable="e28186-e116"><span class="x-acc-header-content"><span class="x-acc-header-indicator"><i class="x-icon" aria-hidden="true" data-x-icon-l="&#xf0ab;"></i></span><span class="x-acc-header-text">References</span></span></button><div id="panel-e28186-e116" role="tabpanel" aria-hidden="true" aria-labelledby="tab-e28186-e116" data-x-toggleable="e28186-e116" data-x-toggle-collapse="1" class="x-collapsed"><div class="x-acc-content"><p>Allison, B., &amp; Anderson, K. (2023). <em>Why Do I Still Feel This Way: Changing Your Relationship with the Trauma of Child Sexual Abuse</em> (M. Hartvigsen &amp; B. Kanarowski, Eds.). Saprea.</p>

<p>Firestone, L. (2022, February 1). Name it to tame it: The emotions underlying your triggers. <em>Psychology Today</em>. Retrieved June 11, 2024, from <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/compassion-matters/202202/name-it-tame-it-the-emotions-underlying-your-triggers" target="_blank">https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/compassion-matters/202202/name-it-tame-it-the-emotions-underlying-your-triggers</a></p>

<p>Friedrich Miescher Institute for Biomedical Research. (2021, December 23). How neurons that wire together fire together. <em>NeuroscienceNews</em>. Retrieved June 10, 2024, from <a href="https://neurosciencenews.com/wire-fire-neurons-19835/" target="_blank">https://neurosciencenews.com/wire-fire-neurons-19835/</a></p>

<p>LeWine, H. E. (2024, April 3). Understanding the stress response: Chronic activation of this survival mechanism impairs health. <em>Harvard Health Publishing</em>. <a href="https://www.health.harvard.edu/staying-healthy/understanding-the-stress-response" target="_blank">https://www.health.harvard.edu/staying-healthy/understanding-the-stress-response</a></p>

<p>Mind. (n.d.). Effects of trauma. <em>Mind</em>. Retrieved June 10, 2024, from <a href="https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/trauma/effects-of-trauma/" target="_blank">https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/trauma/effects-of-trauma/</a></p>

<p>The National Child Traumatic Stress Network. (2014). <em>Complex Trauma: Facts for Caregivers</em> <a href="https://www.nctsn.org/sites/default/files/resources/complex_trauma_caregivers.pdf" target="_blank">https://www.nctsn.org/sites/default/files/resources//complex_trauma_caregivers.pdf</a></p> 

<p>The National Child Traumatic Stress Network. (2023). <em>What is Child Traumatic Stress?</em> <a href="https://www.nctsn.org/sites/default/files/resources/fact-sheet/what_is_child_traumatic_stress.pdf" target="_blank">https://www.nctsn.org/sites/default/files/resources/fact-sheet/what_is_child_traumatic_stress.pdf</a></p> 

<p>Van der Kolk, B. (2015). <em>The Body Keeps the Score: Mind, Brain, and Body in the Transformation of Trauma</em>. London: Penguin Books.</p> 
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