Any woman walking the brave path of healing and feminine embodiment will eventually cross paths with these two archetypes:

The toxic feminine woman and the spiritual f*ck boy.

The Modern Spiritual Illusion

On the surface, they appear aligned, wearing the same mask of “empowerment” and “healing.” But underneath, both uphold the very power structures they pretend to be dismantling.

They’re the wish.com version of feminine embodiment, cheap imitations of what real feminine power is meant to be.

In this blog, we’ll look at:

• What makes a toxic feminine woman

• What defines a spiritual f*ck boy

• Why they’re the same villain in disguise

• What true feminine embodiment actually feels like

Authenticity vs. Performative Spirituality

How can you tell if someone is genuinely spiritual, or just performing spirituality for attention, validation, or gain?

Sometimes it’s ego-driven. Sometimes it’s profit. And sometimes it’s pure image, a bid to be seen as “enlightened” on TikTok.

As the saying goes:

“The devil is in the details.”

When you slow down and really observe - especially accountability, emotional maturity, and how they handle conflict - the illusion cracks.

My Experience in the Wellness Scene

When I first dove into my own healing journey, I was in Thailand, a literal sea of healers, teachers, and facilitators.

At first, I believed that anyone who could speak the spiritual language or had a certification must be conscious and embodied.

I attended everything: rebirthing sessions, women’s circles, yoni healing workshops. It was intoxicating, and honestly, I was naive.

Over time, I realized that some of the most unhealed people I met were in that same scene. People fluent in the language of “healing” but disconnected from their own shadows.

Let’s break down what I eventually learned to see beneath the mask.

What Is Toxic Femininity?

Toxic femininity can exist in anyone, but here we’re talking about women who weaponize “feminine” qualities, using them for validation, power, or performance rather than healing.

She’s often seen teaching yoga, leading circles, or posting goddess content online while avoiding her own unresolved pain.

Common Behaviors of the Toxic Feminine Woman:

• Self-abandonment: Suppressing her needs to appear peaceful or agreeable.

• People-pleasing: Over-giving to gain validation, followed by resentment or passive aggression.

• Weaponizing softness: Using victimhood or fragility to manipulate and avoid responsibility.

• Policing other women: Shaming others who don’t conform to her “goddess” ideal.

• Passive aggression: Avoiding direct communication, especially around conflict.

• Performative femininity: Cosplaying as “divine feminine” with flowy dresses, sensual photos, “goddess” language while being disconnected from true embodiment or activism.

True feminine energy runs deeper.
It’s not about looking a certain way, it’s about feeling everything from grief to rage to joy.

What Is a Spiritual F*ck Boy?

He’s the self-proclaimed “conscious man” who preaches presence but practices avoidance. He talks about “ego deaths,” “twin flames,” and “alignment”, but it’s all surface-level.

You’ll find him in yoga classes, drum circles, or wellness podcasts, often using spiritual language as a flirtation tactic.

Common Behaviors of the Spiritual F*ck Boy:

• All talk, no embodiment: His daily actions contradict his supposed values.

• Performative vulnerability: Talks about feelings but lacks real emotional availability.

• Spiritual bypassing: Hides behind “good vibes only” to avoid accountability.

• Avoids depth: Uses “raising my vibration” as an excuse to disengage from real-world issues.

• Exploits feminine spaces: Gains validation or sexual access through women’s healing communities.

True masculine consciousness isn’t about performance, it’s about accountability and empathy.

Two Faces, One Energy

After years in spiritual spaces, I realized the toxic feminine woman and the spiritual f*ck boy are the same archetype in different bodies.

Both crave validation.
Both hide behind performative mindfulness.
Both reject true embodiment.

It’s the same script, different costume.

And at their core, both perpetuate patriarchal, avoidant, and disconnected behavior patterns.

What Real Feminine Energy Feels Like

Feminine energy is embodied, not performed. It’s felt through your body, intuition, and emotions.

How to Stay Rooted in Actual Feminine Energy:

• Do your shadow work: Feel your pain instead of projecting it.

• Welcome every emotion: Let sadness, anger, and joy coexist.

• Set boundaries: Speak truth instead of pleasing others.

• Practice embodiment: Breathwork, movement, nature, womb connection… these bring you back home.

• Engage consciously: A truly embodied woman faces societal realities - such as sexism and racism - instead of bypassing them.

When you live from your body and truth, you’ll naturally see through performative spirituality.

Final Thoughts: Moving Beyond the Illusion

The toxic feminine woman and the spiritual f*ck boy make spirituality look fake, but don’t let that turn you away from the real thing.

Authentic feminine energy isn’t curated or commercial.
It’s about feeling everything.

I’m sending you love to do your shadow work, rediscover your body, and reclaim your authentic feminine power.

And when you’re ready, come home to yourself and embody your feminine.

Thanks for listening,
Joss Frank | Yoga Therapist C-IAYT

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What Is Womb Healing?

Womb healing is a holistic, body-based practice that helps women reconnect with their pelvic space, regulate their nervous system, and release stored emotional and physical tension from the womb, sacral chakra, and surrounding tissues.

The “womb” in womb healing refers not just to the physical uterus, but to the entire energetic and somatic centre of the feminine body — including the pelvis, hips, lower belly, sacrum, and the emotional and spiritual energy held there.

For many women, this area has been a site of pain (period pain, pelvic tension, endometriosis, PCOS), shame, trauma, or simply years of disconnection, from hustle culture, stress, or being taught to override the body’s signals.

Womb healing practices and rituals create the conditions for that tension to soften, the nervous system to settle, and a woman to feel (often for the first time) genuinely safe and at home in her own body.

Why Does Womb Healing Matter?

Most women I work with come to me saying some version of the same thing:

“I feel like I’m always on edge.”

“I can’t switch off.”

“I’m exhausted but I can’t rest.”

“I feel completely disconnected from my body, and from my sexuality.”

This isn’t a personal failing. It’s just what happens when the nervous system has been in survival mode for too long, and the body (particularly the womb space) has learned to brace, protect, and guard.

Research increasingly supports what women have known intuitively for centuries:

The body stores what the mind can’t process.

The pelvis and womb space are particularly sensitive to emotional stress, trauma, and chronic tension, and that stored tension can show up as period pain, hormonal imbalance, low libido, pelvic floor issues, and a sense of being disconnected from yourself.

Womb healing doesn’t fix you, because you’re not broken. It returns you to yourself.

The Benefits of Womb Healing:

Women who engage consistently in womb healing practices and rituals often experience:

• Relief from chronic pelvic tension and period pain

• A more regulated nervous system (less reactive, more grounded)

• Improved relationship with their menstrual cycle, pre/post natal body, peri-menopause, and menopause

• Release of stored emotional tensions like shame, guilt, and fear

• Improved libido and a healthier relationship with their sexuality

• Greater body trust and intuition

• Hormonal balance through reduced stress load

• Deeper self-connection and emotional resilience

What Does a Womb Healing Practice Actually Look Like?

Womb healing isn’t a single experience or exercise, it’s a collection of practices that work together to support the mind, body, and nervous system.

In my work as a certified yoga therapist, I guide women through what I call the Release → Rediscover → Reclaim framework.

1. Release

Before anything else, the body needs to feel safe enough to let go. This phase uses nervous system regulation, breathwork, somatic awareness, and gentle yoga therapy to help the body release bracing, tension, and protective holding patterns in the pelvic space.

2. Rediscover

Once there’s more safety and softness in the body, we begin to reconnect: with sensation, with the menstrual cycle, with the emotions and wisdom held in the womb space.

This is where practices like womb healing meditation, yoga nidra, and cycle awareness come in.

3. Reclaim

This is where embodiment becomes a lived reality, not just something you do during a meditation, but something you carry into your life. Boundaries, pleasure, creative expression, and fully inhabiting your feminine energy.

Womb Healing Modalities: What Tools Are Used?

A complete womb healing practice may draw from:

• Womb healing meditation: guided visualizations that bring loving awareness into the womb space

• Womb Yoga: trauma-informed yoga which targets the pelvis, hips, pelvic floor, and sacrum

• Yoga Nidra: deep relaxation that bypasses the thinking mind and allows the nervous system to genuinely rest

• Pelvic Floor Breathwork: to build connection to pelvic muscles for improved pelvic health

• Cycle or Moon-Phase Tracking: working with the four phases of the menstrual cycle as a healing map or the moon phases to align with feminine energy

• Somatic Journalling: body-based reflection that surfaces stored emotions gently

Free Womb Healing Guided Meditation (13 Minutes)

The best way to understand womb healing is to experience it. I’ve created a free 13-minute guided meditation designed to help you:

• Drop out of your head and into your body

• Connect with your heart, womb, and sacral chakra through gentle visualization

• Welcome emotions without judgment

• Begin to build a sense of safety and softness in your pelvic space

This meditation is suitable for complete beginners and for women who already have a practice. All you need is 15 minutes and a comfortable place to lie down or sit.

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Consistency is everything when it comes to womb healing. The nervous system needs repetition to build new patterns of safety — one session can open the door, but a regular practice is what actually shifts things.

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Who Is Womb Healing For?

Womb healing is for any woman who feels called to it, but it’s especially supportive for women experiencing:

• Menstrual pain, endometriosis, PCOS, or hormonal imbalance

• Pelvic tension, tightness, or pelvic floor dysfunction

• Low libido or disconnection from their sexuality

• A sense of being numb, checked out, or ‘not in their body’

• Chronic stress, burnout, or nervous system dysregulation

• Emotional pain around reproductive health, pregnancy loss, or fertility

• A longing to feel more feminine, embodied, and alive

You don’t need to have experienced trauma to benefit from womb healing.

If you’re a woman living in a modern world: navigating stress, pressure, and a culture that rewards output over rest, your nervous system and your womb space will benefit from this kind of care.

Frequently Asked Questions About Womb Healing

Do I need a uterus to practice womb healing?

No. Womb healing works with the energetic and somatic centre of the feminine body: the pelvic space, sacral chakra, and the emotional patterns held there.

Women who have had hysterectomies or other reproductive surgeries can still benefit fully from womb healing practices.

How long does womb healing take?

It’s not a one-and-done. Womb healing is an ongoing practice, not a destination. That said, most women begin to notice a shift within 2-4 weeks of consistent practice, a greater sense of calm, more body awareness, less reactive stress response.

Is womb healing the same as pelvic floor therapy?

They’re different but complementary. Pelvic floor therapy is a physical, clinical intervention targeting the pelvic floor muscles.

Womb healing is a broader, holistic practice that includes the somatic, emotional, energetic, and nervous system dimensions of pelvic health. Many women benefit from both.

Can I practice womb healing if I have endometriosis or PCOS?

Yes, and many women with these conditions find it deeply supportive, particularly for pain management, stress reduction, and improving their relationship with their cycle.

As a certified yoga therapist, I always recommend working within your scope and checking with your healthcare provider if you have specific concerns.

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About the Author

Joss Frank is a Certified Yoga Therapist (C-IAYT) and E-RYT 500 specialising in women’s pelvic health, womb healing, and feminine embodiment.

She is the founder of Wild Womb and has supported hundreds of women in moving from survival mode to genuine embodiment through her online courses, 1:1 yoga therapy sessions, and guided meditations.

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Perhaps you’ve experienced unexpected urinary leakage, pelvic pressure, or discomfort. These could be signs of a weak pelvic floor, a condition affecting many women at various life stages.

If so, you’re not alone.

Millions of women silently struggle with pelvic floor dysfunction, especially after childbirth or during menopause. But here’s the empowering truth: Your body always wants to progress towards healing. And yes, you can improve pelvic floor weakness naturally.

I’m Joss, a certified Yoga Therapist (C-IAYT). In this blog, I’ll guide you through the key signs of pelvic floor weakness and share effective ways to both prevent and improve existing weakness naturally.

What Is Pelvic Floor Weakness?

Pelvic floor weakness, also known as hypotonic pelvic floor dysfunction, is a condition in which the pelvic floor muscles are overly lengthened at rest, have reduced strength, and may not respond well to voluntary contractions. As a result, they may be unable to adequately support the pelvic organs or maintain bladder and bowel control.

When they’re not functioning properly, it leads to a wide range of symptoms that many women dismiss or normalize.

Signs of a Weak Pelvic Floor

A weak pelvic floor can show up in subtle or intense ways. Common signs include:

• Urinary incontinence (especially when laughing, sneezing, or exercising)
  

• Pelvic pressure or a feeling of heaviness
  

• Pain or lack of sensation during sex
  

• Lower back or sacral pain
  

• Pelvic organ prolapse (bladder, uterus, or rectum shifting downward)
  

Pelvic floor weakness is commonly associated with childbirth and often becomes more pronounced after menopause due to hormonal changes and the natural aging of muscle and connective tissue.

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What Causes Pelvic Floor Dysfunction?

While childbirth and menopause are major contributors, other causes include:

• Chronic constipation or straining on the toilet
  

• Poor posture and habitual pelvic tucking
  

• Shallow chest breathing
  

• High-impact exercise without core support
  

• Long-term stress affecting the nervous system and hormonal balance
  

This condition is common but it’s not inevitable. And the best part? You can improve it naturally without any other form of treatment.

Can You Fix a Weak Pelvic Floor Naturally?

Absolutely. While there are medical and surgical interventions, many women can reverse or significantly improve their condition through natural, non-invasive methods.

In fact, pelvic floor exercises without other treatment can improve 70% of women by 70% (Uma Dinsmore-Tuli, author of Yoni Shakti).

Natural Healing for Pelvic Floor Weakness

If you’re curious to get started improving your pelvic floor health, start here. These are holistic ways to improve your pelvic floor, without surgery or devices.

1. Posture Awareness (The Foundation)

Christine Kent of The Whole Woman teaches that positive posture is the first step in healing. It’s very common to tuck the tailbone in, this is called called a posterior pelvic tilt. In fact, we are instructed to tuck in yoga classes and pilates. But this actually weakens the pelvic muscles over time. Instead, align more with an anterior pelvic tilt, this ensures the pelvic organs are supported by the pubic bones properly.

When I first practiced womb yoga, I realized I’d been totally disconnected from my womb and pelvic floor my entire life. Learning to stop tucking my tailbone in and how to breathe with my pelvic floor muscles was transformational.

2. Pelvic Floor Breathwork & Yoni Bandhas

Instead of doing endless Kegels (which does not connect your breathing with the pelvic diaphragm), learn to breathe with your pelvic floor. On your inhale, your pelvic floor softens. On the exhale, gently lift and engage.

In yoga therapy, we call this the mula bandha breath, a subtle, energetic and physical lift of the pelvic floor coordinated with the breath. This helps retrain your nervous system and muscles together.

3. Womb Meditation & Somatic Connection

Healing the pelvic floor isn’t just physical, it’s also emotional. The womb and pelvic space often hold trauma, shame, and fear.

Daily womb meditations can help you reconnect to this part of your body with love. When you bring presence and intention to your pelvic healing, the results are deeper and longer-lasting.

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Conventional (More Invasive) Options

If your condition is advanced or you’re seeking a diagnosis, I recommend to book a consultation with a pelvic floor physio.

If pelvic floor weakness is advanced, you may be required to start more invasive treatments:

• Vaginal pessary: A silicone device inserted into the vagina to support pelvic organs—commonly used for prolapse or incontinence.
  

• Pelvic Organ Prolapse Repair Surgery: Surgical repositioning of pelvic organs that have shifted due to weakened support.
  

• Pelvic Floor Electrical Stimulation (EMS): Uses mild electrical currents to activate and strengthen pelvic floor muscles.
  

• Vaginal Cones (or Weighted Vaginal Cones): Small, weighted devices inserted into the vagina and held in place using pelvic floor muscles. Over time, they help improve strength and muscle control—similar to resistance training.
  

But don’t skip natural methods, especially as a first step.

Many women avoid surgery entirely through daily holistic care. If you think you might have pelvic floor weakness, book a consultation with a pelvic floor physio. From here, explore 1-1 yoga therapy to improve your condition.

What to Do Next: Your Daily Pelvic Floor Routine

If you're asking, “Should I start pelvic floor exercises?” — the answer is YES.

Here’s what a good daily routine should include:

✅ Pelvic floor breathwork (with full body awareness)
✅ Gentle yoga therapy for pelvic health
✅ Pelvic floor breathing practices (with breath, not force)
✅ Womb meditations
✅ Positive posture practices

These practices aren’t just for fixing a problem, they’re preventative care for every woman, at every stage of life.

Final Thoughts: Don’t Wait Until It’s a Problem

Pelvic floor weakness can feel overwhelming, but with the right support, it’s incredibly manageable. Whether you're postpartum, approaching menopause, or simply feeling disconnected from your body, this is your invitation to begin womb healing.

You don’t need to live with discomfort, embarrassment, or disconnection from your womb.

You just need a daily self-care routine, professional support, and the trust that your body always wants to progress to healing.

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This is your first step toward healing: simple, gentle, and completely free. You deserve to feel balanced, whole, and at home in your body.

Thanks for reading,
Joss | Yoga Therapist C-IAYT

This is a question so many women quietly carry. It often arises from a collection of symptoms that feel disconnected but are anything but: irregular periods, low libido, overwhelming mood swings, exhaustion that sleep doesn’t fix, and stress that never fully releases.

Women of all ages experience these signs of hormone imbalance, and they’re often overlooked, dismissed, or put down to “just being a woman.”

If any of this sounds like you, your body is trying to tell you something. And there are gentle, natural ways to begin supporting your hormonal health, starting today.

I’m Joss Frank, a Certified Yoga Therapist (C-IAYT) specialising in women’s health and nervous system regulation.

In this guide, I’ll walk you through the most common signs of hormonal imbalance in women, why they happen, and exactly how to begin healing naturally.

The First Step: Recognizing the Signs of Hormone Imbalance

Your body is incredibly wise. It sends signals when something is out of balance, and learning to listen to those signals is the foundation of natural hormonal healing.

Here are the five most common signs of hormone imbalance in women:

1: Irregular or Missed Cycles:

Changes in your natural hormonal rhythm — missed periods, unusually heavy or light bleeding, or shifts in timing — are often a sign that your hormones are out of balance. This includes menstrual cycles as well as shifts experienced during perimenopause and menopause.

2: Mood Swings, Anxiety, or Depression:

Hormones like estrogen and progesterone directly influence neurotransmitters, so when they’re out of balance, emotional instability follows. This is a physiological response.

3: Fatigue and Low Energy:

Persistent tiredness even after a full night’s sleep is often a sign of thyroid or adrenal hormone dysregulation, both of which are directly impacted by chronic stress.

4: Weight Gain or Difficulty Losing Weight:

Hormones regulate metabolism. Imbalances in insulin or cortisol in particular can cause weight fluctuations, especially around the belly, even when diet and exercise haven’t changed.

5: Sleep Disturbances:

Trouble falling asleep, staying asleep, or waking up unrefreshed is common with fluctuating hormone levels, particularly during the luteal phase, perimenopause, and menopause.

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Hormonal Imbalance in Women: Why It’s Not “Just Part of Being a Woman”

When your hormones are out of balance, the signs can range from subtle to overwhelming.

Irregular or painful periods, mood crashes before your period, bloating, breakouts, low libido, brain fog, a constant sense of being “off”, these are all signals that something deeper is happening in your body.

You might find yourself wondering: “Why am I so tired?” or “Is this normal or is something wrong with me?”

These symptoms are routinely dismissed as “just part of being a woman.” But you are not meant to suffer like this. Your body is trying to signal a need for deeper support, rest, and balance.

The menstrual cycle isn’t meant to be a monthly inconvenience, it’s considered by many practitioners to be your fifth vital sign. It provides valuable, real-time information about your hormonal health and overall wellbeing.

The truth is, hormonal imbalance is far more common than most women realise — and it doesn’t always require medical intervention to begin healing.

The Real Root Cause of Hormone Imbalance: Stress and the Nervous System

I spent nearly a decade stuck in a frustrating cycle of irregular periods, anxiety, depression, low energy, and poor sleep.

I had no idea that all of these symptoms were connected — or that they were signs of hormonal imbalance.

Even more importantly, I didn’t realise that unmanaged stress was the root cause threading everything together.

Stress doesn’t just live in your mind, it rewires your brain and body.

Your limbic system, the part of your brain that processes emotions, plays a central role here.

When something stressful happens — even something small — your brain shifts from logical thinking to emotional reaction, activating your HPA axis (your stress hormone system) and setting off a hormonal chain reaction throughout the body.

Over time, if stress keeps triggering this system, it weakens the immune system, increases inflammation, and disrupts the hormonal cascade that regulates everything from your cycle to your mood to your metabolism (McEwen, 2006).

At the time, I had very little body awareness. I didn’t know how stress felt in my body — muscle tension, shallow breathing, digestive issues, a racing heart had all become my normal.

I wasn’t just ignoring my stress; I genuinely didn’t know how to regulate it.

Instead I relied on quick fixes: medication for anxiety, sleeping pills, and hormonal contraceptives to stop my period entirely. I was blocking and resisting the signals of my body instead of listening and healing — and eventually, the tension built up to a point I couldn’t ignore anymore.

That’s when I turned to Eastern medicine and somatic healing, and everything changed.

Why I Stopped Suppressing Hormonal Symptoms and Started Healing Naturally

When I realised how deeply stress was affecting my hormones — and how little support I was getting from conventional medicine — I felt called to explore a different path.

I was tired of feeling like a zombie: disconnected from my body, numbed by medication, my cycle suppressed. I wanted to feel like myself again.

What I found was surprising: there were evidence-based, research-backed tools I could use from home. Simple somatic practices that didn’t require prescriptions. Practices that worked with my body’s natural rhythms instead of against them.

The shift I experienced moving through Release → Rediscover → Reclaim — first releasing the stored stress and tension, then reconnecting with my body and cycle, then reclaiming my energy and hormonal health — is now the framework I use with every woman I work with.

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7 Natural Ways to Balance Your Hormones

These are the practices I use in my yoga therapy work and in my own life. They work best used consistently and in combination — even just 10 minutes a day creates real change over time.

1: Breathwork

Specific breathwork practices directly regulate the nervous system and support hormonal balance. Two of the most effective for hormone health are extended exhale breathing — exhaling twice as long as your inhale, which activates the parasympathetic nervous system — and Bhramari pranayama, which research shows effectively reduces heart rate, blood pressure, and sympathetic activation (Pramanik et al., 2010).

2: Meditation

Meditation is more than a moment of calm, it’s a powerful, natural tool for hormonal health. Evidence shows that regular meditation reduces cortisol [1], supports faster stress recovery, regulates the HPA axis [2], and positively influences thyroid-stimulating hormone, growth hormone, and testosterone [3].

3:Time in Nature

Studies show that just 20-30 minutes in green spaces significantly lowers cortisol. Even a 15-minute walk in nature activates the parasympathetic nervous system and supports HPA axis regulation, making it one of the simplest and most accessible natural hormone balancers available dailytelegraph.

4: Gentle Yoga

Research shows yoga helps the body return to a state of physical and emotional balance (NIH Study).

Specific poses and breathwork practices calm the nervous system, reduce cortisol, and stimulate the endocrine glands responsible for hormone production.

Gentle yoga also improves circulation, lymphatic flow, and supports the body’s natural detoxification processes, all essential for hormonal health.

You don’t need to be flexible or experienced. You just need to be willing to slow down and reconnect with your body.

5: Prioritize Sleep & Your Circadian Rhythm

Sleep is not optional for hormonal health. Research shows that fewer than 7 hours of sleep is associated with increased ghrelin, decreased leptin, and reduced insulin sensitivity, directly disrupting the hormonal systems that regulate hunger, metabolism, and stress response (NIH studies).

A simple sleep ritual makes a real difference: set aside 15 minutes before bed for yoga nidra or guided meditation, remove screens, slow your breathing, and consciously release tension from your body.

6: Self-Compassion

Research shows that higher levels of self-compassion are linked to lower daily cortisol levels (NIH study).

Self-compassion also supports the release of oxytocin and natural opiates — promoting calm and connection in the body. According to Dr. Kristin Neff, self-compassion is strongly associated with greater mental wellbeing, healthier habits, and a more stable sense of self-worth (source).

A practical starting point: keep a thoughts journal. When you catch yourself in self-criticism, write it down. Then ask:

“Would I speak this way to someone I love?”

That simple pause begins to shift the pattern.

7: Cycle Syncing and Womb Connection

This is one of the most transformational natural approaches to hormonal balance.

Society encourages women to disconnect from their bodies: to push through pain, ignore their cycles, and suppress emotions. But when you ignore your natural rhythms, it creates a stress load that directly disrupts hormonal health.

Beginning to honour your cycle — menstruation, perimenopause, menopause — and align your energy and activity with your hormonal phases is a powerful act of healing.

A 2020 study in the International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health found that training based on menstrual phases improved strength, mood, and reduced hormonal symptoms (source).

You are a cyclical being. Hormonal healing starts when you begin to listen to and trust your body.

Your Next Steps to Natural Hormone Balance

Consistency matters more than perfection. Aim for a simple 10-minute daily practice, your nervous system needs repetition to build new patterns of safety and balance.

1. Start with a daily 10-minute practice using breathwork, meditation, or gentle yoga

2. Prioritise rest and begin syncing with your natural cycle

3. Practice self-compassion using the journalling method above

4. Stay consistent, even on good days, the practice is what keeps you there

Frequently Asked Questions About Natural Hormone Balance

How long does it take to balance hormones naturally?

Most women begin to notice shifts within 4-8 weeks of consistent daily practice — better sleep, more stable mood, less cycle pain. Deeper hormonal rebalancing typically takes 3-6 months. This is not a quick fix; it’s a genuine, lasting change built through consistent, gentle practice.

Can stress really cause hormonal imbalance?

Yes — and this is one of the most underrecognised connections in women’s health. Chronic stress elevates cortisol, which disrupts the entire hormonal cascade — affecting estrogen, progesterone, thyroid function, insulin sensitivity, and more. Addressing stress through nervous system regulation is one of the most direct ways to support hormonal health.

Do I need to stop taking hormonal contraceptives to balance my hormones naturally?

No — and never stop prescribed medication without guidance from your healthcare provider. Holistic practices are complementary to medical treatment, not a replacement for it. Many women use somatic and nervous system practices alongside hormonal contraceptives and find their overall wellbeing improves significantly.

Is hormonal imbalance the same as PCOS or endometriosis?

Not exactly. PCOS and endometriosis are specific conditions that involve hormonal dysregulation, but hormonal imbalance is broader — it can exist without a formal diagnosis. Many women experience significant hormonal symptoms without meeting the clinical criteria for a specific condition. In all cases, natural approaches to nervous system regulation and stress reduction are supportive.

What is the fastest way to balance hormones naturally?

There is no overnight fix — but the fastest route to genuine hormonal balance is consistent nervous system regulation. Daily breathwork, reducing cortisol through meditation and rest, and beginning to sync with your natural cycle creates the physiological conditions for hormonal rebalancing faster than any other natural approach.

Natural Hormone Balance Is Possible

If you’ve been feeling exhausted, anxious, disconnected from your body, or stuck in a cycle of painful periods, mood swings, or poor sleep, you are not alone, and nothing is wrong with you.

I spent years in that same place.

Everything changed when I stopped suppressing my symptoms and started listening to my body.

Through breathwork, meditation, gentle movement, and cycle awareness, I built a daily practice that genuinely shifted my hormonal health.

You deserve to feel balanced, whole, and at home in your body. And it starts with one small, consistent step.

Tap below to get my free guided meditation for one. It’s your small, consistent first step:

Thanks for being here,
Joss

About the Author

Joss Frank is a Certified Yoga Therapist (C-IAYT) and E-RYT 500 specialising in women’s hormonal health, nervous system regulation, and feminine embodiment. She is the founder of Wild Womb and has supported hundreds of women to naturally rebalance their hormones and reconnect with their bodies through her online courses, 1:1 yoga therapy sessions, and guided meditations.

Is your inner voice filled with self-doubt, asking questions like: “Why did I say that?”

Maybe you fidget, hold your breath, or shrink your posture without realizing it?

If you find communication tough or avoid difficult conversations, you’re not alone! This blog is for you.

Many people struggle with communication because they’re not grounded or feeling safe during the experience.

Conversations can feel intimidating, especially when emotions are high. But with the right somatic tools, you can feel more grounded and communicate confident and empowered.

Here are 5 mindfulness tips to help you feel calm and confident in your interactions.

1. Embrace the Power of the Pause:
   
   One of the most effective ways to maintain your calm during a conversation is to feel your emotions rather than react to them.
   
   It’s okay to have moments of silence, especially during difficult conversations. When emotions like anger or sadness arise, it’s easy to react impulsively without pausing to feel.
   
   In these moments, remember to pause instead of instantly react: What are the felt sensations in your body?
   
   Take a slow, deep breath. Notice how the emotion feels in your body, whether it’s anger tightening your chest or anxiety speeding up your heartbeat. Regulate your breathing and relax your body. Allow yourself to pause for as long as needed. This mindful pause creates space for calm, confident communication.
   

2. Ground Yourself in the Moment:
   
   Grounding techniques help you stay present and connected during conversations. One simple way to anchor yourself is by observing the colors or sounds around you. Whether you’re speaking to one person or a group, take a moment to notice the room or environment. This shifts your focus from overthinking to being fully present.
   
   You can also ground yourself by connecting to your body. If you’re standing or sitting, press down through your feet and notice their contact with the ground. Feeling the edges of your feet helps you center your energy and remain calm.
   

3. Lengthen your exhales to calm the nervous system and reduce anxiousness:
   
   When emotions run high, your breathing might become shallow or you may unconsciously hold your breath. This signals to your nervous system that you’re unsafe, which heightens feelings of fear and anxiety. Instead, practice slow breathing.
   
   Place a hand on your heart and remind yourself to breathe slowly and deeply. By slowing down your breath, you send calming signals to your nervous system, promoting a state of confidence and ease.
   

4. Notice Your Body Language:
   
   Your body communicates even when you’re silent. During conversations, check in with your body’s tension levels and posture. Are you clenching your jaw? Are your shoulders tense or hunched? Are your hands in fists?
   
   Gently relax these areas. Soften your jaw, release your shoulders, and open your palms. By embodying calm and open energy, you naturally express confidence and approachability.
   

5. Practice Positive Self-Talk:
   
   Your inner dialogue influences your energy and body language. If you’re silently criticizing yourself, saying things like, “I’m so stupid” or “I shouldn’t have said that,” it impacts your posture and confidence. Others can sense this negative energy, even if they don’t know the words you’re thinking.
   
   Practice self-compassion by reframing your thoughts. Remind yourself: ‘It’s okay, we are safe’. Positive self-talk helps release body tensions and promote calm.

Start Practicing Today

The key to confident and calm communication lies in your self-awareness.

By regularly practicing these mindfulness techniques, you’ll create feelings of calm and grounding in your body. This allows you to approach every conversation with confidence, and ease.

Bottom Line:

Embrace the power of the pause. Take this moment to self-regulate your breathing, body tensions, and posture. Take control of your self-talk in the moment. With these small changes, you’ll be well on your way to a more confident and empowered experience in any conversation.

Next Steps:

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• Boost confidence and inner-trust

• Reduce stress, self-doubt, and worry

• Calm and balance the nervous system

The self-care audio routines are customized to help you feel less stress and more confidence in just 10-minutes per day.

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Joss Frank, Yoga Therapist C-IAYT

I’m Joss, founder of Wild Womb, and I specialize in empowering people to heal, reclaim their power, and build lasting self-confidence.

After years of struggling with depression, anxiety, and trauma, I discovered that true healing comes from within. Through my personal journey of self-healing, I learned that the key to overcoming physical and emotional challenges lies in reconnecting with the body, cultivating inner awareness, and embracing holistic practices.

As a certified Yoga Therapist (C-IAYT), I now guide people through transformative healing processes that address both the physical and emotional aspects of their well-being. My work combines somatic therapy, yoga therapy, and emotional healing practices to help people cultivate self-love and lasting inner peace.

Whether you're struggling with mental health, trauma recovery, or building a positive relationship with your body, I’m here to support you on your healing journey.

Maybe you’ve tried breathing exercises or meditation apps, and they help a little, but the anxiety keeps coming back.

Here’s what most anxiety advice misses:

Anxiety isn’t just a mental experience. It lives in the body. And until you work with the body (not just the mind) you’re only addressing half the picture.

As a Certified Yoga Therapist (C-IAYT) specialising in women’s health and nervous system regulation, I’ve supported women around the world to reduce anxiety naturally using somatic practices: gentle, body-based tools that work with your nervous system, not against it.

This guide is going to walk you through why anxiety hits women so hard, what’s actually happening in your body when you’re anxious, and the specific somatic practices that create real, lasting change.

Why Is Anxiety So Common in Women?

Nearly 1 in 4 women report their stress levels at an 8 or higher out of 10, according to the American Psychological Association. Women are also diagnosed with anxiety disorders at roughly twice the rate of men.

This isn’t weakness. There are real physiological and social reasons why women carry more anxiety:

• Hormonal fluctuations across the menstrual cycle, perimenopause, and menopause directly affect the nervous system and mood regulation

• Women are socialised to suppress emotions, override body signals, and prioritise others (all of which dysregulate the nervous system over time)

• The pressure to over-perform at work, at home, and in relationships creates a chronic stress load that the body was never designed to sustain

• Trauma, including sexual trauma, relationship trauma, and medical trauma, is stored somatically and often shows up as anxiety

• The constant cultural message that something is wrong with you: your body, your emotions, your output, keeps the nervous system in low-level threat mode

What’s Actually Happening in Your Body When You’re Anxious

Anxiety is your nervous system’s threat response, specifically the sympathetic nervous system activating fight-or-flight.

When this happens, your body floods with cortisol and adrenaline, your heart rate increases, your muscles brace, and your digestion slows.

This response is designed to be short-term. The problem is that for many women, it never fully switches off. The body stays in a low-level state of alert: always scanning, always bracing, always ready for the next thing to go wrong.

Over time, this chronic activation shows up as tension in the jaw, neck, shoulders, and hips.

It shows up as disrupted sleep, irregular periods, low libido, digestive issues, and a pervasive sense of being “always on edge.”

This is why thinking your way out of anxiety rarely works long-term.

The body is holding the anxiety, and the body needs to be part of the solution.

What Is Somatic Therapy for Anxiety?

Somatic therapy is a body-based approach to healing that works directly with the nervous system, physical sensation, and stored tension in the body.

Rather than analysing thoughts, somatic practices help the body complete its stress response, release held tension, and build new patterns of safety from the inside out.

In my work as a yoga therapist, I use a framework called Release → Rediscover → Reclaim to guide women through this process:

1. Release

The first step is creating enough safety in the nervous system for the body to begin letting go.

This isn’t about forcing relaxation, it’s about gently signalling to the body that it’s safe to soften. Breathwork, meditation, and body awareness practices are central here.

2. Rediscover

Once there’s more space in the body, we begin to reconnect with sensation, emotion, and the body’s innate wisdom.

Many anxious women are deeply disconnected from their bodies, they live from the neck up. This phase is about coming back down, gently.

3. Reclaim

This is where the nervous system starts to build a new baseline, one that isn’t dominated by anxiety.

Women in this phase often describe feeling grounded, clear, and more themselves than they’ve felt in years.

5 Somatic Practices to Reduce Anxiety Naturally

These aren’t generic wellness tips. These are body-based practices drawn from yoga therapy and somatic healing that directly address nervous system dysregulation.

1. Extended Exhale Breathing

The exhale activates the parasympathetic nervous system, your rest-and-digest response.

Making your exhale longer than your inhale is one of the most direct ways to shift your nervous system out of fight-or-flight in real time.

Try it: inhale for 4 counts, exhale for 7–8 counts. Repeat for 5 minutes. You can do this anywhere,in bed, at your desk, before a difficult conversation.

2. Body Scan Awareness

Anxiety pulls you into your head. A body scan practice reverses this by directing attention systematically through the body, noticing sensation without trying to change it.

This builds interoception — your ability to sense what’s happening inside — which is one of the most important skills for nervous system regulation.

Start with 5 minutes lying down. Begin at the crown of your head and slowly move your awareness down through your body. Notice tension, warmth, tingling, numbness. Don’t try to fix anything, just witness.

3. Gentle Somatic Movement

The body stores anxiety as physical tension, particularly in the jaw, neck, shoulders, hips, and pelvic floor.

Gentle, slow movement helps discharge this held tension without overwhelming the system.

This isn’t about working out. It’s about moving slowly enough to feel what’s happening in your body as you move. Restorative yoga, gentle hip openers, slow neck rolls, and fascia tapping are all effective tools.

4. Guided Meditation and Yoga Nidra

Guided meditation — particularly yoga nidra — brings the nervous system into a deeply restorative state that sits between waking and sleep.

In this state, the body can process and release stored stress that conscious awareness can’t easily access.

Even 10–15 minutes a day creates measurable shifts in cortisol levels and baseline anxiety over time. Consistency matters more than duration.

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5. Somatic Journalling

This is different from regular journalling.

Instead of writing about what happened or analysing your thoughts, somatic journalling starts with the body. Before you write, take a few breaths and check in:

Where do you feel tension right now?

What emotion lives there?

Let the writing follow the sensation, not the story. This practice builds the body awareness that is foundational to lasting anxiety relief.

The Role of Self-Compassion in Anxiety Relief

One of the most underrated tools for reducing anxiety is self-compassion — and it’s also one of the most research-backed.

Dr. Kristin Neff’s work shows that self-compassion reduces cortisol, increases oxytocin, and creates a felt sense of safety in the body.

Self-criticism does the opposite.

When you judge yourself for being anxious, stressed, or ‘not handling it,’ you add another layer of threat to an already overwhelmed nervous system. The body hears self-criticism as danger and responds accordingly.

Practising self-compassion doesn’t mean bypassing difficult emotions or pretending everything is fine.

It means meeting yourself with the same warmth you’d offer a good friend who was struggling. Simple phrases like

“this is tough, and I’m not alone in this”

can genuinely shift your nervous system state.

How Long Does It Take to Reduce Anxiety Naturally?

Most women begin to notice a shift within 2–4 weeks of consistent somatic practice: better sleep, less reactivity, more capacity to pause before responding.

Deeper change in baseline anxiety levels typically takes 2-3 months of regular practice.

You don’t need an hour a day. 10 intentional minutes: a body scan in the morning, extended exhale breathing before bed — is enough to start building new nervous system patterns.

The key is consistency, not intensity.

Frequently Asked Questions About Reducing Anxiety Naturally

Can somatic practices replace medication for anxiety?

Somatic practices are a powerful complement to any anxiety treatment plan, but this is a decision to make with your healthcare provider.

Many women use somatic tools alongside medication, therapy, or other support — and find that over time, with consistent practice, their overall anxiety levels reduce significantly. I never advise stopping medication without medical guidance.

Is yoga therapy the same as regular yoga?

No. Yoga therapy is a clinical, individualised application of yoga tools: movement, breathwork, meditation, and somatic awareness, to address specific health conditions.

It’s evidence-informed, trauma-sensitive, and tailored to the individual. A yoga therapy session looks very different from a group yoga class.

What if I’ve tried meditation and it made my anxiety worse?

This is more common than people realise, especially for women with trauma or significant nervous system dysregulation.

Sitting in silence and trying to ‘empty the mind’ can feel threatening to a hypervigilant nervous system.

There are research-backed meditations and breathwork for anxiety. While others could feel quite triggering and activating.

Guided meditation (particularly body-based, trauma-informed guidance) is very different and much more accessible. Starting with movement or specific breathworks before stillness can also help.

How is anxiety connected to pelvic health and hormones?

Directly. Chronic anxiety elevates cortisol, which disrupts the hormonal cascade that regulates estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone.

This can worsen PMS, period pain, irregular cycles, and perimenopausal symptoms.

The pelvic floor also holds a significant amount of stress tension, many women with anxiety carry chronic pelvic tightness without realising it.

Addressing anxiety somatically often improves pelvic health as a result.

Want Support to Reduce Anxiety Naturally?

If you’re ready to stop managing your anxiety and start actually shifting it — from the inside out — I work with women 1:1 through private yoga therapy sessions online.

I work directly with your nervous system using somatic movement, breathwork, guided meditation, and body awareness practices tailored specifically to you.

No generic routines. No toxic positivity. Just real, body-based support.

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Joss | Yoga Therapist C-IAYT

About the Author

Joss Frank is a Certified Yoga Therapist (C-IAYT) and E-RYT 500 specialising in women’s nervous system health, anxiety, pelvic health, and feminine embodiment. She is the founder of Wild Womb and has supported hundreds of women to move from chronic stress and anxiety into genuine safety and embodiment through her online courses, 1:1 yoga therapy sessions, and guided meditations.

Many women face challenges with their sexuality, including past trauma, low self-esteem, intimacy issues, or a low sex drive.

If this sounds familiar, know that you're not alone. Many women experience these struggles and can benefit from healing their sexual energy.

No matter your age, background, or experience, every woman has the power to connect with her sexuality to heal, build confidence, and improve intimacy.

In this blog, we’ll explore ways to:

• Boost sexual confidence so you can enjoy healthier relationships with others and with your own body.

• Overcome intimacy challenges (fears, doubts, traumas).

• Connect with inner sexual power.

Here’s a Youtube which dives into this topic…

Why Does Understanding Your Sexual Power Matter?

In a world where women often face slut-shaming, objectification, and control, exploring and embracing your sexuality can be a powerful act of self-care.

Sexuality is more than just physical attraction or a sexual activity; it’s a core part of who you are.

Unfortunately, societal norms often complicate this connection. Women’s sexuality is frequently subjected to control, objectification, and shame, which can make it challenging to feel connected to our true selves.

There is an easy way for you to tap into the spirituality of your sexuality and embrace it fully. This journey involves self-discovery and can lead to increased confidence, intimacy, and a deeper understanding of your body.

The Exact Steps To Connect With Your Sexual Power

Before diving into deeper practices, I recommend this gentle journey to help you return to your sexual power with compassion and patience.

1.Build a sense of safety in your body

For many, especially those who have experienced trauma, feeling safe is the first step. Here’s how you can begin:

Ask yourself this important question: ’Do you feel safe and comfortable in your body?’

If the answer is no, focus on daily self-care to calm the nervous system and reduce stress. Practices such as: grounding breathwork and root chakra exercises can help you reconnect with your body.

Be patient with yourself: If you’ve experienced trauma or have an imbalanced nervous system, start slowly. Avoid quick fixes or superficial solutions. Instead, focus on foundational practices that help you feel secure and connected.

For guidance on releasing trauma and feeling safe in the body: Read my blog ‘Rebuilding Confidence After Sexual Trauma’

2. Break-Free from Shame, Guilt, and Fear

It’s essential to consciously release feelings of shame, fear, and guilt imposed by society. Women’s sexuality has been historically controlled and objectified, leading to a distorted view of what it means to be sexual.

Explore embracing a new mindset:

• Release Patriarchal Views: Release from societal expectations and beauty standards. Celebrate your sexuality as a powerful, magical energy.
  

• Empower Yourself: Understand that your sexuality is a source of creativity, healing, and personal power. It’s not limited to physical acts or relationships.
  

3. Build Inner-Awareness & Body Connection

Once you feel safe in your body, the next step is to build inner awareness and deeper connection with your body.

Understanding your emotions, triggers, and sensations is key to connecting with your sexuality. Here’s how to get started:

• Daily Self-Care Practices: Engage in activities that help you tune into your body and emotions. This could include a mix of inner-awareness meditations, journaling, and gentle movement.
  

• Explore Your Bodily Sensations: Build awareness to your body’s tensions and feelings. This self-awareness helps you understand what brings you pleasure and confidence.

For guidance with deepening inner-awareness & body connection: Dowload the free 15-minute guided meditation to build confidence and awaken feminine energy. It will help you connect with your body, womb, and emotions.

4. Exploring the Spirituality of Your Sexuality

As you grow more comfortable and confident with your body, you could explore deeper practices focused on sexuality and pleasure such as:

• Breast and Yoni Meditations: These sacred practices help you tune into your feminine energy and connect with your body on a deeper level.
  
  

• Tantra and Womb Yoga: Offers practices that focus on channeling sexual energy so you can feel aligned with your body’s natural rhythm and cycle.
  
  

• Creative Expression: Use your sexuality as a source of creativity and healing. This might include art, writing, or other forms of self-expression.
  

For guidance with exploring the spirituality of your sexuality: Access the online self-paced course: Embodied Feminine. It gently guides you through a complete healing journey. You’ll learn natural, holistic practices that help you reconnect with your body and awaken your true sexual power.

Bottom Line

Embracing and connecting with your sexual power is a unique healing journey for women of all ages to explore.

Whether you’re starting fresh or deepening your connection, remember…

Your sexuality is a beautiful, integral part of who you are.

Keep exploring, stay curious, and honor your journey.

Next Steps:

You're ready to embrace your sexuality, build confidence, and align with your feminine energy, start right away!

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Joss Frank, Yoga Therapist C-IAYT

I’m Joss, founder of Wild Womb, and I specialize in empowering people to heal, reclaim their power, and build lasting self-confidence.

After years of struggling with depression, anxiety, and trauma, I discovered that true healing comes from within. Through my personal journey of self-healing, I learned that the key to overcoming physical and emotional challenges lies in reconnecting with the body, cultivating inner awareness, and embracing holistic practices.

As a certified Yoga Therapist (C-IAYT), I now guide people through transformative healing processes that address both the physical and emotional aspects of their well-being. My work combines somatic therapy, yoga therapy, and emotional healing practices to help people cultivate self-love and lasting inner peace.

Whether you're struggling with mental health, trauma recovery, or building a positive relationship with your body, I’m here to support you on your healing journey.

You're not alone and it's not your fault.

As women, we’re often told that our sexuality should look a certain way: effortless, desirable, always ready. But behind the scenes, many of us are quietly wondering why the spark feels so far away.

You may have tried quick fixes: lingerie, dieting, a vacation, even forcing yourself to "just get in the mood", but none of that addresses the deeper truth:

Real pleasure starts from within.

The good news? You can awaken your body and your desire naturally, through simple, at-home somatic practices like pelvic floor breathwork, breast meditations, and womb yoga.

This isn’t just about sex, it’s about reclaiming your connection to your body, confidence, and feminine energy.

Because the truth is, many women struggle to feel confident in their sexuality. Whether it’s shame from past experiences, cultural conditioning, or simply the stress of daily life, your nervous system and emotional body might be blocking the flow of your natural arousal.

To begin truly healing, you need more than a surface-level fix.

You need a return to self-awareness. Breathwork, journaling, and gentle somatic practices offer powerful tools for reconnecting with your pleasure.

Try these journal prompts to start your journey:

• What’s your biggest challenge when it comes to feeling pleasure alone or with a partner?
  

• Do you feel safe and confident expressing your desires?
  

• Are there lingering feelings of shame, guilt, or fear around your sexuality?
  

• Can you fully relax and receive during intimacy?

The most important part of sexual healing is letting go of self-judgment and the pressure to "fix" yourself.

True healing and transformation starts with self-compassion.

Only then can you begin to gently release the heavy emotions, fears, and shame that may be holding you back from fully experiencing your body and pleasure.

Through simple somatic practices like pelvic floor breathwork and womb meditation, you can build a deeper connection with your sensuality, improve arousal, and strengthen the foundation for more embodied, fulfilling intimacy.

When I started my sexual healing journey, it started small and with gentle curiosity. Yes I’m guilty of going for the quick fixes which now feel quite silly: a new hairstyle, lingerie, supplements! Although these things did ‘do the trick’ for a short moment, I wasn’t getting to the root cause of my issue.

I was a beautiful woman on the outside but on the inside, I felt blocked. I wasn’t confident and I didn’t have any connection to my body. In a way, I was just going through the motions when it comes to sex. It almost became a gift that I gave to men. I never thought to prioritize my pleasure during sex or to explore my own pleasure alone.

Here’s how I started to improve my libido and confidence:

I started to take a serious look at my unresolved trauma and how to release it. This is not to say that everyone reading this has trauma they need to release. You might just have heavy emotions or non-serving thoughts that are blocking you.

But most often, there is ‘something’ there blocking sexual flow.

I committed to daily womb yoga and meditation to connect to my sacral chakra and womb. I realized in this moment that I‘d never really connected to this space with intention.

This small new positive habit had a ripple effect. Instead of just doing yoga or breathwork, I focused on breathing with my womb, meditating with her, and exploring gentle movements to open up my pelvis and hips.

Things began to feel lighter. I felt more connected to my womb and sexuality.

From here, I began to really honor my feelings and needs. I was slowly aligning with feminine energy and she had a very distinct rhythm. There were phases during the month that I felt more confident and sexual. And there were phases where I felt more closed and inward.

I began to honor my feminine rhythm instead of blindly demanding my body to feel sexual as I wanted it to.

This pertains to the seasons as well. During the winter months (or rainy season), I felt myself go inward and restful and I began to honor this phase just as Mother Earth does.

Aligning with feminine energy using simple meditations, breathwork, affirmations, and journaling will help you improve your sex drive

From here, I slowly began to deepen my practices to include pelvic floor breathing exercises (known in tantra yoga as Yoni Bandhas).

It’s important that you approach this as a gentle journey not a race. There’s no point in jumping straight to the breathwork techniques if you’ve not also given space for trauma release and healing first.

The pelvic floor breathwork to improve tone, pleasure, and heighten sexuality is known as Yoni bandhas.

The Yoni bandha breathwork practice involves breathing between gently holding and releasing the pelvic floor muscles. This is not kegels as kegels do not connect breathing with pelvic movement.

The benefits of Yoni Bandhas (Pelvic Floor Breathwork):

• Improve tone: The tone of a woman’s pelvic floor often weakens after menopause. Lack of tone can also result in prolapse.
  

• Improve pelvic alignment: Improper pelvic alignment (such as tucking the tailbone) can increase the risk of prolapse.
  

• Womb healing: It builds a healthy relationship with a woman’s sexual organs where feelings of shame, guilt, and fear are often stored.
  

• Strengthen the pelvic floor: Pelvic floor exercises - without other treatment - can improve ailments such as incontinence. Consider that 50% of women with children have prolapse and 10% have symptoms.

There are many types of pelvic floor breathwork practices (yoni bandhas), womb yoga asanas, and somatic exercises to help you improve intimacy, pleasure, and sex drive.

Tap here to explore the exercises right away! Watch my YouTube: Boost confidence in intimacy (10-minute meditation + tantra exercises)

Bottom Line

If you’re ready to improve your sex drive, arousal, and pleasure, start small and be patient.

Sexual healing is an exciting journey of discovery and every woman’s is different.

Start with releasing what might be blocking access to your own pleasure: This means releasing any trauma, non-serving thought patterns, and heavy emotions that you’re holding onto.

From here, commit to an simple daily somatic practice of 5-10 minutes to explore womb meditation, womb yoga, and breathwork. This will help you build a loving relationship with your body and womb.

As it feels right in your body, begin to explore the yoni bandha practices. Take it one step at a time.

Next Steps: Ready to reconnect with your feminine energy?

Download my free guided meditation and begin your journey back to softness, sensuality, and embodied feminine energy.

Feel more calm, confident, and connected right away! ⬇️

About Joss Frank

Yoga Therapist C-IAYT, Wild Womb Founder

I’m Joss Frank, certified Yoga Therapist (C-IAYT) and founder of Wild Womb, where I help women heal naturally from anxiety, burnout, hormone imbalance, trauma, and emotional overwhelm through somatic exercises, yoga therapy and womb yoga practices.

After years of living with depression, anxiety, and chronic stress, I found lasting healing through body-based practices that support the nervous system, pelvic health, and emotional release.

This journey inspired me to create my online course and guided meditations that help women reconnect with their bodies, balance their hormones, and feel empowered in their feminine energy.

My approach blends somatic therapy, yoga nidra, cyclical awareness, breathwork, and trauma-informed womb yoga, giving you practical self-care tools you can do from the comfort of your home to release stress and reclaim confidence, pleasure, and emotional well-being.

If you're ready to start your healing journey at home, check out my online feminine energy course or explore my blog and YouTube channel for free practices and inspiration.

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From an early age, women are bombarded with unrealistic beauty standards in the media, leading to constant comparisons and self-criticism.

With the rise of social media and photo filters, these beauty ideals have only worsened, leaving many women feeling inadequate.

If you’ve ever found yourself caught in a cycle of negative self-talk, you're not alone. You may hear thoughts like:

• ‘You shouldn’t have done that’

• ‘Why didn’t you do that’

• ‘Why did you say that?’

• ’You aren’t worthy of this’

These thoughts can become so ingrained that they feel automatic, and sometimes you may not even realize how harshly you’re speaking to yourself.

But there is hope—by recognizing and addressing negative self-talk, you can begin the journey to greater self-love, confidence, and emotional healing.

There’s a deeper meaning behind negative self-talk. Beneath it lies a core belief which is often non-serving and very untrue.

For example: A core belief of ‘I’m unworthy’ will be supported by your own thoughts:

• ’My partner left me for someone better’

• ’I never have good luck’

• etc…

When you change your thoughts, you change your core belief.

Your core beliefs represent how you see the world and this is developed from life’s experiences.

When we face a challenge, our core beliefs motivate how we interpret that challenge. Our chosen interpretation is going to determine how we feel emotionally, and from here, our actions are born.

By paying attention to your negative self-talk, you'll often find that your thoughts about a current situation are linked to something that happened in your past.

How to Break Free from Negative Self-Talk

Breaking free from negative self-talk can be challenging, especially because many people aren't fully aware of their negative thought patterns. However, with the right tools and awareness, it's possible to overcome negative self-talk and build a more positive mindset.

To develop awareness of your negative thoughts, it's essential to commit to daily mindfulness practices that nurtures the body, mind, and spirit.

Some effective mindfulness practices include:

• Yoga Nidra: A powerful relaxation practice that helps quiet the mind and increase body awareness.
  

• Meditation: Regular meditation helps you observe your thoughts without judgment and develop mental clarity.
  

• Body-Awareness Exercises: Techniques like body scans can help you tune into your body’s sensations, which are often linked to your emotional state.

By incorporating these mindfulness practices into a simple daily self-care routine, you'll begin to notice how certain thoughts and emotions manifest in specific areas of your body.

For example, some people feel self-doubt as a lightness or unease in their stomach, while others experience sadness as a tightness in their heart or throat.

Everyone’s experience is unique, so it's important to approach these sensations with self-compassion and kindness.

By acknowledging and accepting your feelings without judgment, you can begin to break the cycle of negative self-talk and cultivate a more balanced, positive mindset.

Overcoming Negative Self-Talk: The Key to Lasting Confidence and Self-Love

It’s nearly impossible to love your body and embrace confidence when you're constantly battling negative self-talk.

These harmful thought patterns block self-compassion, self-acceptance, and joy, keeping you stuck in a cycle of self-doubt and insecurity.

Here’s what I discovered many years ago when I finally decided I was tired of living in fear and uncertainty:

I had to prioritize daily mindfulness practices in order to become more aware of my negative self-talk. Through mindfulness, I began to notice the unfair and limiting stories I was telling myself about who I couldn’t be and how unworthy I felt.

As I began my healing journey, I allowed myself to be seen.

I reached out to teachers, mentors, and a supportive community, sharing my truth. It was incredibly liberating to realize how many other women were also struggling with the same self-critical thoughts.

Being seen is a crucial part of the healing process.

Trusting that you are not alone on this journey can lead you to a more compassionate and accepting way of being. Embracing vulnerability and connecting with others is often the first step toward healing negative self-talk and building lasting self-confidence.

Transforming your mindset from negative self-talk to confidence

It starts with committing to daily at-home mindfulness practices. Each day, could you explore some or all of the following:

• Breathwork

• Meditation, yoga nidra

• Gentle asanas for body awareness

• Skillful observation (this is a process of seeing your thoughts as words with no inherent meaning or power).

• Journaling: Note what comes up during your practices (feelings, doubts, emotions, fears, etc)

Keep it simple. Even 5-10 minutes a day to explore these practices is more than enough to start noticing change from within.

Practicing Positive Beliefs and Releasing Negative Self-Talk for Continued Confidence

The next step in overcoming negative self-talk is to practice new positive beliefs and release the non-serving ones.

Establishing a daily self-care routine can significantly boost your self-awareness, helping you quickly identify and understand how negative thoughts show up in your body.

When you notice a negative belief or thought, take a moment to pause and compassionately acknowledge it:

"This belief no longer serves me. I have the freedom to invite a new, uplifting belief about myself."

By consistently replacing negative self-talk with positive affirmations and new beliefs, you gradually transform your self-confidence.

The key is remembering that you have the power to choose what you believe about yourself.

Through mindfulness practices, I learned that my own thoughts were the root cause of much of my suffering. I had unknowingly created an inner "bully" that affected my confidence, relationships, and joy.

Recognizing this allowed me to challenge my negative thought patterns and invite more empowering beliefs into my life.

The Power of Neuroplasticity: How Your Brain Can Change

It’s important to understand that neuroplasticity—the brain's ability to change—plays a significant role in how we can transform our thought patterns. Your brain is constantly rewiring itself based on the habits you practice, so making consistent changes can lead to lasting transformation.

Here are some habits that can help change your brain and reinforce new positive beliefs:

• Exercise: Regular physical activity supports brain health and emotional well-being.
  

• Adequate Sleep: Quality rest is essential for mental clarity and emotional resilience.
  

• Good Nutrition: Eating nutrient-dense foods fuels brain function and emotional balance.
  

• Stress Management: Practices like meditation, yoga, and deep breathing help reduce stress and improve mental health.

Just like paving a new path in the forest, changing your brain requires consistency.

By practicing mindfulness, meditation, exercise, yoga, and good nutrition consistently, you are rewiring your brain to reinforce positive beliefs and boost your confidence.

Bottom Line:

Thoughts determine how we feel in our bodies. Beneath non-serving thoughts lies a healing journey to reveal your core beliefs that were formed from a younger age.

With a bit of self-compassion, guidance, and a mindfulness practices, you can absolutely release those non-serving thoughts and find more confidence and joy in your body.

Remember, self-criticism turns on your stress response and touches the fight or flight part of your brain. It’s not possible to feel confident and connected to your body when you’re in this state.

So the next time you notice a non-serving thought, consider how it impacts your confidence.

Change your thoughts, change your confidence.

Next Steps:

If you're ready to break-free from negative self talk, self-doubt, and stress, my self-care audio routines can help. This 10-minute daily routine guides you through simple exercises to:

• Boost confidence and joy

• Reduce stress, self-doubt, and worry

• Calm and balance the nervous system

The self-care audio routines are customized to help women feel less stress and more confidence in just 10-minutes per day.

Start your healing journey today: https://wildwomb.space/selfcareroutines

Joss Frank, Yoga Therapist C-IAYT

I’m Joss, founder of Wild Womb, and I specialize in empowering people to heal, reclaim their power, and build lasting self-confidence.

After years of struggling with depression, anxiety, and trauma, I discovered that true healing comes from within. Through my personal journey of self-healing, I learned that the key to overcoming physical and emotional challenges lies in reconnecting with the body, cultivating inner awareness, and embracing holistic practices.

As a certified Yoga Therapist (C-IAYT), I now guide people through transformative healing processes that address both the physical and emotional aspects of their well-being. My work combines somatic therapy, yoga therapy, and emotional healing practices to help people cultivate self-love and lasting inner peace.

Whether you're struggling with mental health, trauma recovery, or building a positive relationship with your body, I’m here to support you on your healing journey.

For anyone struggling with anxiety, depression, or seeking trauma release, the variety of therapies available can feel overwhelming. With so many treatment options to choose from, it’s hard to know where to start.

In this blog, I’ll break down:

• How Yoga Therapy can help you manage trauma, anxiety, and depression.

• The benefits of somatic healing exercises for emotional wellness.

• How to choose a qualified yoga therapist for your healing journey.

When I first began my search for the right therapy, I too felt overwhelmed. There were so many questions that kept coming up:

How do I know which therapy is best for my emotional and mental health needs?
How can I trust my therapist or practitioner?
Is online therapy effective for healing trauma and anxiety?

My Journey to Healing: Finding the Right Therapy for Anxiety, Depression, and Trauma Release

I struggled with anxiety, depression, and unhealed trauma for years.

I knew I needed help, but I was uncertain about which form of therapy would work best for me. So, I tried a variety of treatments, including medication, talk therapy (psychotherapy), yoga, and meditation.

Through this journey, I discovered that true healing requires an approach that addresses mental, emotional, and physical wellness simultaneously.

The problem I encountered with traditional talk therapy was that I wasn’t at a place where I could fully articulate my emotions.

I needed a therapy that allowed me to simply feel and connect with my body.

Why Talk Therapy Alone May Not Be Enough When it Comes to Anxiety, Depression, and Trauma

When people get close to the story of their trauma, the area of the brain responsible for language production (Broca’s Area) can shut down.

For this reason, traditional talk therapy - in the beginning of one’s healing journey - can sometimes feel ineffective when processing deep emotional pain.

Expressing trauma verbally becomes difficult when the brain's language center shuts down.

This knowledge helped me understand why I wasn’t seeing much progress in my talk therapy sessions. I needed to tap into my body and emotions in a different way.

The Role of Yoga Therapy in Managing Anxiety, Depression, and Trauma

Yoga therapy and somatic healing exercises offer a more holistic, body-based approach to mental health.

This alternative holistic approach combines gentle physical movement, breathwork, interoception practices, and more to release trauma stored in the body, helping to heal emotional tensions and restore balance in body, mind, and spirit.

Here’s how yoga therapy helped me heal:

• Trauma release: Yoga helps release trauma stored in the body offering a deeper form of healing.

  
  

• Anxiety relief: Breathing techniques and mindfulness help calm the nervous system.

  
  

• Emotional balance: Somatic healing exercises help you improve awareness to emotions, thoughts, and sensations.

How to Choose a Qualified Yoga Therapist for Your Healing Journey?

When looking for a qualified yoga therapist to support your healing, it’s important to choose someone with expertise in trauma-informed care.

Here’s what to consider when selecting a yoga therapist:

• Credentials and experience: Look for a therapist who is certified in yoga therapy (C-IAYT) and has experience working with trauma, anxiety, and depression.

  
  

• Trauma-sensitive approach: Choose a therapist who uses a trauma-informed approach, ensuring that you feel safe and supported during the healing process.

  
  

• Safety and trust: It’s essential to feel safe and trust your therapist. The therapeutic relationship is key to healing.

Is Online Therapy Effective for Anxiety, Depression, and Trauma Release?

The rise of online therapy has made mental health support more accessible than ever.

Many people wonder if virtual therapy can be as effective as in-person sessions. While face-to-face sessions have their benefits, online yoga therapy offers a flexible and comfortable way to heal from the comfort of your home.

You can still receive high-quality, personalized therapy sessions remotely.

How Yoga Therapy Helps Improve Mental, Physical, and Spiritual Health

Once I began practicing body-centered therapy (specifically yoga therapy), I started to truly feel how my breathing, body tensions, and thoughts were affecting my overall well-being.

This holistic approach allowed me to address the root causes of my mental and physical health challenges, leading to profound improvements in both areas.

For example, if you're dealing with anxiety, it’s not just a mental experience—it's also felt in your body.

Common physical symptoms of anxiety include:

• Increased sensitivity of the sympathetic nervous system (responsible for the "fight or flight" response)

  
  

• Decreased activity in the parasympathetic nervous system (which calms the body)

  
  

• Reduced heart rate variability, which is a key indicator of stress levels

Body-centered therapy helps stimulate the parasympathetic nervous system, improve heart rate variability, promoting relaxation and recovery.

Yoga Therapy Heals the Body, Mind, and Spirit

Body-centered therapy (yoga therapy) is an invaluable tool for healing a wide range of physical and emotional issues, such as:

• Anxiety

• Depression

• Chronic pain

• Stress

• Trauma release

Yoga therapy offers somatic exercises that support the mind, body, and spirit together, creating a whole and balanced holistic healing experience.

What is Yoga Therapy?

There are many different types of somatic therapies available. One of the most effective methods is yoga therapy.

Somatic therapy is a treatment that focuses on the body and how emotions and experiences are stored and expressed within the body.

According to Amanda Baker, a clinical psychologist at the Center for Anxiety and Traumatic Stress Disorders,

“Somatic therapies posit that our body holds and expresses experiences and emotions, and traumatic events or unresolved emotional issues can become 'trapped' inside.”

The Role of Yoga Therapy in Your Healing Journey

Yoga therapy is a specific form of somatic healing that incorporates evidence-based yoga techniques to address the physical, mental, and emotional needs of the individual. These techniques include:

• Therapeutic yoga postures

• Breathwork to regulate the nervous system

• Meditation techniques for mindfulness and stress reduction

• Inner awareness exercises to cultivate emotional intelligence

You might think of yoga as just a physical practice centered around stretching and movement, but yoga therapy is a different approach entirely.

It combines therapeutic somatic-based techniques to help you become more mindful of your body, emotions, habits, and thoughts.

Trauma-Informed and Gentle Healing with Yoga Therapy

Yoga therapy is designed to be gentle, trauma-informed, and supportive.

These private, one-on-one sessions create a safe and welcoming space for you to be seen and heard as you explore your healing journey. The goal is to help you connect with your body and release trauma, stress, and emotional tensions in a compassionate and nurturing environment.

What happens inside a private yoga therapy session?

A certified yoga therapist helps clients release emotional and physical tension in their body using various mind-body techniques such as yoga nidra, breathwork, body awareness, guided meditation, affirmations, asanas, and inner-awareness exercises.

A client might book a private yoga therapy session with a wellness goal to release trauma, manage depression, or reduce anxiety.

A session with a yoga therapist will include a combination of:

• Physical practices: Such as breathing techniques for nervous system regulation and heart rate variability. Stretches to release tensions within nerves and muscles.
  

• Emotional/mental practices: Such as journaling and affirmations to build inner-awareness to one’s own thoughts, feelings, and emotions surrounding their illness.
  

• Spiritual practices: Such as guided meditations and Yoga Nidra to reduce stress and boost mindfulness.

What’s great about yoga therapy is that your therapist will provide you with a self-care routine (containing active-healing tools) so you can self-regulate your issue in-between and beyond the sessions.

A Yoga Therapist provides clients with a small at-home self-care routine (typically 10 minutes) which allows them to explore the practices from home on a consistent basis.

When it comes to healing, success lies in commitment to a consistent daily practice (for mind, body, and spirit) to reduce symptoms of anxiety, depression, and/or trauma long-term.

Clients receive research-backed somatic exercises that are shown to regulate the nervous system, balance hormones, release tensions, and modify any non-serving thought patterns or habits.

Clients gain a greater sense of self-control to manage responses to various stimuli.

What specific somatic healing exercises are explored in private yoga therapy?

There are plenty. A particularly powerful one is the breathwork practice Bhramari Pranayama (also known as the humming-bee breathing technique).

Research shows that it effectively stimulates the parasympathetic nervous system, helps reduce heart rate and blood pressure (Pramanik et al., 2010).

Another study shows that Bhramari Pranayama elicits neurological activity involved in mental processes such as attention, working memory, learning, and conscious perception. (from AJNA Yoga)

Who May Benefit From Yoga Therapy?

Just about anyone can benefit from Yoga Therapy, in fact:

“Recent research has pointed to somatic therapy as being effective when used as a treatment for trauma and/or post-traumatic stress disorder”

— Forbes Health Article: www.forbes.com/health/mind/somatic-therapy

People of all ages and identities can greatly benefit from private yoga therapy. It supports a vast range of physical and mental health issues including:

• Depression, anxiety,

• Stress,

• Trauma,

• Chronic pain and fatigue,

• PTSD

…and more.

What to specifically look for in a yoga therapist?

If you’ve searched online, you may find yourself inundated with the amount of healers, teachers, and practitioners. But how can you know who to choose?

Here’s a few things to look for:

• Is your Yoga Therapist licensed? For example: The International Association of Yoga Therapists provides a C-IAYT certification to all registered practitioners.
  
  

• Has your Yoga Therapist completed trauma-informed training? Language and sensitivity of your chosen therapist makes a major difference to creating that safe space for healing.
  
  

• What school did the Yoga Therapist study with? Don’t be afraid to ask and then research the reputation of the school.
  
  

• Check their reviews: Take a look at the Therapists Google and/or Facebook reviews to hear feedback from real clients and build your consensus.

Bottom Line:

If you’re someone seeking support for trauma release, anxiety, depression, or just ready to feel more mindful and present, yoga therapy is an approach that you might love.

Although it’s not mainstream just yet, it's increasing in popularity as the benefits of mindfulness and yoga are researched and books such as ‘The body keeps the score’ are widely known.

The benefits of yoga therapy are studied, and can be applied to a range of ages, identities, and experiences.

Discovering the link between your emotions, thoughts, and how this affects your body and vice versa is incredibly empowering for everyone.

Next Steps:

If you're ready to break-free from depression, trauma, and/or anxiety, my online 1:1 yoga therapy can help.

This holistic approach to therapy guides you through somatic-based healing to cultivate mindfulness of your body, emotions, habits, and thoughts.

Online 1:1 yoga therapy is designed to help you reduce stress, manage mental health, and improve self-care.

Book a free 20-minute consultation and start your healing journey today: https://wildwomb.space/privateyogatherapyhealingsessions

Joss Frank, Yoga Therapist C-IAYT

I’m Joss, founder of Wild Womb, and I specialize in empowering people to heal, reclaim their power, and build lasting self-confidence.

After years of struggling with depression, anxiety, and trauma, I discovered that true healing comes from within. Through my personal journey of self-healing, I learned that the key to overcoming physical and emotional challenges lies in reconnecting with the body, cultivating inner awareness, and embracing holistic practices.

As a certified Yoga Therapist (C-IAYT), I now guide people through transformative healing processes that address both the physical and emotional aspects of their well-being. My work combines somatic therapy, yoga therapy, and emotional healing practices to help people cultivate self-love and lasting inner peace.

Whether you're struggling with mental health, trauma recovery, or building a positive relationship with your body, I’m here to support you on your healing journey.

The emotional imprint of a relationship doesn’t disappear when the relationship ends. It lives in the nervous system, in the body, and for many women, specifically in the pelvic space and womb.

Dreams about your ex, intrusive thoughts, a heaviness in your lower belly, difficulty moving on (even when you know you should), these are all signs that your body is still processing what your mind has already decided to leave behind.

A womb healing ritual after a breakup is how you support your body to complete that process, to release what no longer belongs to you and create space for genuine renewal.

I’m Joss Frank, a Certified Yoga Therapist (C-IAYT) specialising in women’s pelvic health and somatic healing.

In this guide I’ll walk you through why womb healing matters after a breakup, what a womb cleansing ritual actually involves, and a step-by-step practice you can begin today.

Why Womb Healing Matters After a Breakup

Sexual and emotional intimacy is not just a mental experience, it’s a full body and nervous system experience.

During intimate connection, we naturally absorb the emotional and energetic imprints of our partners. Their stress, their unhealed wounds, their emotional patterns, all of this can be absorbed and held in the body, particularly in the womb.

In yoga therapy and somatic healing, the womb space (the pelvic bowl, the sacral chakra, the lower belly) is understood as the seat of emotional processing, creativity, and intuition in the feminine body. It’s where we hold our deepest feelings, our relational history, and often our most unresolved pain.

After a breakup, especially one involving toxicity, emotional abuse, or deep attachment, this space can feel heavy, contracted, or numb. Many women describe feeling “stuck” in their bodies long after a relationship has ended, unable to fully move forward no matter how much they intellectually want to.

This is the body asking for support. And a womb healing practice is one of the most direct ways to give it that.

The Nervous System and Breakup Healing

From a yogic and nervous system perspective, a significant relationship loss activates the same threat response as any other trauma.

The body goes into grief and survival mode: cortisol spikes, the pelvic floor braces, sleep is disrupted, appetite changes, and the nervous system oscillates between hyperarousal (anxiety, racing thoughts, obsessive checking) and hypoarousal (numbness, exhaustion, disconnection).

Most breakup advice focuses on the mind: keeping busy, reframing thoughts, moving on. But the body has its own timeline. Until the nervous system feels safe again and the held tension in the body is released, true healing remains incomplete.

Womb healing practices work directly with the source of a woman’s feminine energy, creativity, and sexuality (not just the mind) which is womb healing supports a depth of healing that thinking alone cannot reach.

My Personal Experience With Womb Healing After Relationship Trauma

Years ago I was navigating the aftermath of painful relationships, alongside depression, anxiety, and period pain I couldn’t explain.

I tried therapy, medication, self-help books. All of it helped to a degree, but something felt unresolved in my body that none of it could reach. I felt stuck.

It wasn’t until I discovered womb yoga and yoga therapy in Thailand that I began to understand why. I had never been guided to connect with my womb, to bring compassionate awareness to my pelvic space, or to acknowledge what I was holding there.

Through these practices I began to access buried memories and emotions I didn’t realise were stored in my body. As they surfaced and released, my pain (both emotional and physical) began to genuinely shift.

That experience is the foundation of the work I do with women today.

What Is a Womb Cleansing Ritual?

A womb cleansing ritual or womb healing ritual is a somatic practice that helps you consciously reconnect with your pelvic space, bring compassionate awareness to what you’re holding there, and create the conditions for emotional and energetic release.

It’s an intentional, gentle, body-based practice where you slow down enough to feel what’s present in your body & womb which gives it permission to move.

In my yoga therapy practice I guide women through this process using my Release → Rediscover → Reclaim framework:

Release

Here, we create enough nervous system safety for the body to begin letting go of held tension, grief, and emotional residue from the relationship. It’s gentle, consistent, and establishes safety from within.

Rediscover

Reconnecting with your authentic self and understanding your feminine anatomy: your body, womb, emotions… your inner world. A redirection from the relationship and the identity you held within it.

Reclaim

Reclaiming your feminine energy, your boundaries, and your voice. This is where genuine renewal becomes possible, it’s you finally coming home to yourself.

A Step-by-Step Womb Healing Ritual for After a Breakup

Practice this ritual daily for 1-2 weeks. Consistency matters more than duration, even 10-20 minutes a day creates real, cumulative change in the nervous system and body.

1. Create a Safe Space

Find a quiet, private place where you won’t be interrupted. Dim the lights, light a candle if that feels right, and put your phone away. The nervous system needs to feel genuinely safe to open, and that starts with your physical environment.

2. Regulate Your Nervous System First

Before bringing attention to your womb, spend 5 minutes regulating your nervous system with extended exhale breathing (approx inhaling for 4 counts, exhaling for 6-8). This activates the parasympathetic nervous system and signals safety to the body.

3. Place Your Hands on Your Womb

Place both hands on your lower belly, just below your navel. Close your eyes. Simply notice (without trying to change anything) what you feel here.

Warmth or cold.
Tension or softness.
Heaviness or lightness.
Protective or open.

Whatever is present, let it be witnessed without judgment.

4. Write a Letter to Your Womb

This is one of the most powerful practices in the ritual. Write a short letter to your womb, acknowledging what it has held, expressing compassion for what it has been through, and affirming your commitment to care for it now.

It doesn’t need to be eloquent. Even “I see you. I’m sorry I’ve ignored you. I’m here now” is enough to begin shifting the relationship you have with this part of your body.

5. Affirmation Practice

With hands on your womb, repeat an affirmation aloud that feels true or that you want to grow into. Something like: “My womb is sacred. I release what no longer belongs here. I welcome my feminine energy back.”

Say it slowly, feeling the words land in your body rather than just passing through your mind.

6. Guided Womb Meditation

Close the ritual with a guided womb meditation. This brings the nervous system into a deeply restorative state and allows the body to process and integrate what has surfaced during the practice.

Here’s my free 15-minute womb meditation: Get the free guided meditation

7. Journal What Surfaced

After the meditation, spend a few minutes writing down any emotions, images, memories, or sensations that arose.

The act of writing what surfaced completes the cycle and helps you process emotions in a creative and embodied way.

Signs Your Womb Is Healing After a Breakup

Healing isn’t always dramatic. Look for these subtle but significant signs:

• Dreams about your ex becoming less frequent or less charged

• A felt sense of more space or lightness in your body

• Emotions surfacing more freely and passing more quickly

• Less obsessive thinking about the relationship

• A returning sense of your own desire, creativity, and aliveness

• Improved sleep and more stable mood

• Period pain or pelvic pain reducing

Frequently Asked Questions About Womb Healing After a Breakup

How long does womb healing take after a breakup?

There’s no fixed timeline, it depends on the depth of the relationship, the nature of the trauma, and the consistency of your practice.

Most women begin to notice a shift within 2-4 weeks of daily practice. Deeper healing particularly after toxic or abusive relationships takes longer and often benefits from professional support.

For 1-1 support, book a free consultation to learn more about private yoga therapy with Joss.

What is a womb cleansing ritual?

A womb cleansing ritual is a somatic, body-based practice designed to help women release stored emotional energy from the pelvic space after a relationship ending.

It typically involves breathwork to regulate the nervous system, mindful attention to the womb space, journalling, affirmations, and guided meditation.

Do I need a uterus to do womb healing?

No. Womb healing works with the energetic and somatic centre of the feminine body: the pelvic bowl, sacral chakra, and the emotional energy held there.

Women who have had hysterectomies or other reproductive surgeries can benefit fully from these practices.

Can womb healing help after an abusive relationship?

Yes, and it can be particularly powerful. Abusive relationships leave significant imprints in the nervous system and body.

Trauma-informed womb healing practices create a safe, gentle pathway for releasing these imprints without requiring you to relive or re-narrate the trauma. I always recommend working with a qualified, trauma-informed practitioner for deeper healing after abuse. You are never alone.

For 1-1 support, book a free consultation to learn more about private yoga therapy with Joss.

How is womb healing different from regular therapy?

Traditional therapy works primarily through the mind: language, cognition, and narrative.

Womb healing works through the body: sensation, breath, movement, and loving awareness. They are complementary approaches.

Many women find that womb healing reaches places that talk therapy alone cannot, particularly when it comes to trauma held in the body rather than in conscious memory.

Ready to Go Deeper? The Embodied Feminine Course

If the ritual above resonates and you’re ready for a complete, guided womb healing journey, one that takes you step by step through Release, Rediscover, and Reclaim, the Embodied Feminine course was built for exactly this.

It includes womb yoga, breast & womb meditation, womb healing rituals, yoga nidra, pelvic breathwork, and creative journalling — all designed to help you reclaim your feminine energy, your body, and your authentic confidence after relationship pain.

About the Author

Joss Frank is a Certified Yoga Therapist (C-IAYT) and E-RYT 500 specialising in women’s pelvic health, womb healing, relationship trauma, and nervous system regulation.

She is the founder of Wild Womb and has supported hundreds of women to heal, reclaim their bodies, and move forward after painful relationships through her online courses, 1:1 yoga therapy sessions, and guided meditations.

Joss Frank

Hi! I’m Joss Frank, founder of Wild Womb. I understand how womb and body healing ignites when you look within for guidance because I self-healed from my painful periods, depression, anxiety, sexual assault, emotional and physical abuse… after years of failed efforts to feel better about myself. My failed efforts led to a revelation that true healing comes from within.

Today, as a Yoga Therapist C-IAYT, I help women with healing so they can reclaim their feminine power, love their bodies, and build self-confidence.

Letting go of someone you love, healing from past trauma, or releasing lingering anger and resentment is never an easy process.

If you're ready to explore the powerful practice of letting go with greater ease and grace, I have something special to share with you.

Your own feminine energy holds the key to mastering the art of detachment and moving forward with more freedom and peace.

In this article, we’ll explore:

• How feminine energy helps you get better at detachment

• Simple ways to master the art of letting go

• Why letting go can feel so difficult

• Listen to a meditation that helps you embody feminine energy

Using Feminine Energy to Become a Master at Letting Go and Detachment

Feminine energy works in cycles, there’s no beginning or end. It’s a constant rhythm and flow.

The qualities of feminine energy are the same qualities that help you master letting go and detaching:

• Surrender

• Openness

• Movement

Consider the qualities you feel when you can’t let go of something:

• Clinging

• Resisting

• Refusing

• Denying

When you align with feminine energy, you embody an open heart, mindfulness, and acceptance. This frequency helps you master letting go because you begin to embody the qualities of self-acceptance and surrender more.

Life begins to support your natural ability to surrender and go with the flow.

How to Embrace Feminine Energy So You Can Let Go with Ease

Connecting with your feminine energy doesn't have to be complicated.

When I first started to learn about feminine energy, I realized how masculine I’d been living my life. I was so hard on myself, pushing my body, striving to meet deadlines.

There was no compassion or kindness, and as a result, I was suffering.

My ability to let go deepened through yoga & self-care practices designed to reconnect me with my feminine energy:

• Prioritizing rest with yoga nidra

• Honoring all the phases of my menstrual cycle, the seasons, and the moon phases

• Womb meditation

• Yoga exercises for pelvic health and womb healing

These exercises helped me begin to release stored tension, heavy emotions, and access my feminine flow.

Slowly - and day by day - this self-care helped me embody all the qualities I was craving in my life: surrender, allowing, acceptance.

If you’re ready to get better at letting go and detachment, start by integrating these small, mindful habits into your daily routine which honor feminine energy.

Simple Feminine Energy Practices So You Can Let Go with Greater Ease

1. Align with the Moon Phases: Learn about the energy associated with each lunar phase and create rituals for the new moon and full moon to harness their transformative power.
   
   

2. Honor Seasonal Changes: Celebrate the shifts in seasons, acknowledging the natural cycles of life and aligning with their ever-moving energy to foster a deeper connection to your surroundings.
   
   

3. Track Your Menstrual Cycle: If you menstruate, use journaling to track your menstrual cycle and observe how the different phases of your cycle influence your emotions and energy.
   
   

4. Recognize Feminine Energy Everywhere: Understand that feminine energy exists not only within you but in the world around you. It flows through nature, relationships, and the rhythms of daily life, take time to notice and honor it.

By embracing these practices, you can start to tap into the nurturing, cyclical nature of feminine energy and experience greater ease in the process of letting go and detachment.

Why Letting Go Can Be So Difficult & How Feminine Energy Can Help?

Struggling to let go of relationships, past experiences, or even limiting emotions often stems from a sense of disconnection.

When you feel detached from yourself or the world around you, letting go can feel like an overwhelming challenge.

I used to be in such a state of resistance

Whenever I lost something in my life, my whole world would spiral. I couldn’t accept any form of change. What’s fascinating is that feminine energy is always moving and changing.

When you align with feminine energy, you realize that life is a constant state of change, nothing is permanent.

Change used to be scary for me, but it slowly become a safe and comforting truth.

If you find yourself constantly battling with the release of what no longer serves you - whether it's a partner, situation, or old emotional baggage - connecting with feminine energy is your ticket to more acceptance and freedom.

Bottom Line:

Embracing feminine energy means embodying the qualities of surrender, openness, and movement.

This will help you master the art of letting go and detachment because you will become ‘it’.

Feminine energy flows in cycles, promoting acceptance and ease with changes. A big contrast to the energy of resistance which blocks the ability to let go.

By integrating simple practices into your daily life which help you connect with feminine energy, you will begin to let go with greater ease.

Next Steps:

Put your desires into action. You know you’re ready to master detachment and letting go?

Your first step is to practice reconnecting with feminine energy. Click below to download the free guided meditation to awaken feminine energy. It will help you align with surrender, allowing, and self-acceptance.

Thanks for being here,
Joss | Yoga Therapist C-IAYT

Joss Frank

Hi! I’m Joss Frank, founder of Wild Womb. I understand how womb and body healing ignites when you look within for guidance because I self-healed from my painful periods, depression, anxiety, sexual assault, emotional and physical abuse… after years of failed efforts to feel better about myself. My failed efforts led to a revelation that true healing comes from within.

Today, as a Yoga Therapist C-IAYT, I help people with womb and body healing so they can reclaim their feminine power, love their bodies, and build self-confidence.

PCOS is Polycystic Ovary Syndrome.

If you’re experiencing amenorrhoea (no periods) or oligomenorrhea (scanty periods), PCOS is suggested as the most common cause.

I'm Joss, a certified Yoga Therapist (C-IAYT) specializing in women's health and wellness. I work with clients who seek natural remedies to manage PCOS, often after feeling frustrated with traditional medical approaches. Yoga Therapy provides a range of exercises and techniques that can help reduce and manage PCOS symptoms.

I'd love to share how you can manage PCOS using these natural Yoga Therapy techniques.

Let’s start with some of the signs and symptoms of PCOS.

Signs and Symptoms of PCOS:

• Numerous small cysts and a thickened surface layer in your ovaries

• Increased testosterone and low estrogen

• Excess body hair and acne

• Fertility issues

People experiencing fertility issues are supported - by Doctors - with drugs such as Clomid which stimulates ovulation.

What I hear most often from my clients is that they’re confused and frustrated with trying to manage PCOS. Many are prescribed medication by their doctors, but they aren't finding the relief they need.

Almost always, when I work with clients experiencing PCOS, I find that they lack an emotional or spiritual practice to connect with their menstrual cycle and womb.

In yogic philosophy, everything is interconnected—mind, body, and spirit. Therefore, addressing illness requires more than just treating the physical body; emotional and spiritual aspects must also be healed.

With PCOS, emotional and spiritual healing of the uterus is often overlooked, yet it's essential for true healing.

Here are some yoga practices that address healing the emotional and spiritual aspects of PCOS:

• Meditations for womb healing

• Journal tracking your cycle days

• Moon rituals

• Writing a letter to your womb

How Can Yoga Therapy Treat PCOS Naturally?

Yoga Therapy provides a holistic bio-psychosocial approach to managing and reducing the emotional, spiritual, and physical symptoms of PCOS.

Incorporating a daily routine that nurtures the physical and emotional health of the uterus and reproductive organs can be highly beneficial.

The tough part is knowing what a daily routine for PCOS should consist of. I’m here to bridge that gap.

Here’s An Example of a Suggested Yoga Therapy Practice to Treat PCOS Naturally From Home:

• Begin respectful awareness of your period cycle (if you menstruate) via journal tracking practices.
  
  

• Womb Yoga to facilitate a positive relationship with your menstrual and/or womb health. This style of yoga offers a compassionate approach to helping you develop period cycle awareness and/or womb awareness.
  
  

• Understand your inner period rhythms (AKA: seasons) and treat each phase with respect.

How Can Private Yoga Therapy Help Treat PCOS?

Here’s what happens in a private yoga therapy session for a client experiencing PCOS…

• Gentle womb yoga exercises: This helps develop period cycle awareness, womb awareness, and a positive relationship with your womb.
  

• Emotional practices: Such as affirmations and journal awareness tracking to better understand each cycle day and season phase.
  

• Spiritual practices: Such as womb meditations and womb yoga nidra to reduce stress, balance hormones, and promote healing.

Every PCOS client has unique needs. When a client books their first private yoga therapy session, they submit an intake form which I use to research and prepare our session:

Many of the problems associated with PCOS can be managed naturally with a healthy lifestyle that nurtures you mind, body, and spirit.

I’ve witnesses so much growth from clients who open up to the emotional and spiritual aspects of healing their wombs.

Bottom Line

Many of the problems associated with PCOS can be managed naturally with a healthy lifestyle that nurtures the mind, body, and spirit. Private Yoga Therapy sessions offer a space for healing the physical, emotional and spiritual aspects of PCOS.

Next Steps:

Curious if private yoga therapy can support your PCOS? Tap below to book a complimentary wellness chat. No obligations, just a chance to connect, chat, and find out your next steps.

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Joss Frank

Hi! I’m Joss Frank, founder of Wild Womb. I understand how womb and body healing ignites when you look within for guidance because I self-healed from my painful periods, depression, anxiety, sexual assault, emotional and physical abuse… after years of failed efforts to feel better about myself. My failed efforts led to a revelation that true healing comes from within and it requires loving community.

Today, as a Yoga Therapist C-IAYT, I help people with womb and body healing so they can reclaim their confidence and love their bodies.

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The journey to more confidence (and better intimacy) in bed starts with understanding your body and feminine energy on a deeper more spiritual level. I’m Joss, a Yoga Therapist CIAYT, and I’ve got some easy but potent yoga practices to share with you. If you commit to these practices consistently (at least 4 times per week), you will build a healthier relationship with your body and get your sexual energy flowing more optimally.

Tap below to learn about feeling more open, confident, and sexy in bed! This also includes a 10-minute moving meditation practice so you can get started immediately.

“To be a sexual woman in our culture now is to be a woman who looks a certain way in order to elicit sexual desire in others. It has nothing to do with the inner arising of our own feelings and experiences.”

(― Uma Dinsmore-Tuli, Yoni Shakti )

What makes a woman more sexy and confident in bed? It comes down to these two things!

Feeling comfortable, safe, expressive, and confident in the bedroom for women comes down to these two things:

1. Your ability to say NO and communicate your needs

2. How connected you are to your body and inner world

If you do not have a gentle womb yoga practice or solid boundaries then chances are you're focusing on your partner more in the bedroom and not tuning in to your own pleasure.

I used to experience sex as an offering for my partner. I rarely focused on myself or expressed my needs.

Sex has an unhealthy focus on the male orgasm

Honestly, I didn’t believe my needs or orgasm even mattered for most of my life. Once I began my own healing journey and started to understand my feminine energy, things shifted. I started to understand my sexual energy and how powerful it was. I became more confident from understand my body more.

If you’re someone who’s ready to feel more confidence in bed, my YouTube will help you! I guide you through easy tantra and womb yoga practices that help you connect to your breasts and yoni (vagina) so you can get your sexual energy flowing optimally.

Whoever is reading this, you can absolutely feel more sexual confidence in the bedroom and improve your libido. It starts with prioritizing you first. Take the time to learn about your feminine energy and understanding your body more. I have a feminine energy course that will help you with all of this.

The top qualities of a woman who is sexually confident in bed:

1. She unapologetically says NO and communicate her needs to her partner.
   
   

2. She’s connected to her body and inner-world because she does the daily womb yoga practices that nurture her feminine anatomy and get her sexual energy flowing (see my YouTube to explore these practices).
   
   

3. She shamelessly prioritizes her pleasure and ensures she thoroughly enjoys intimacy with her partner.
   
   

4. She understands the power of of her sexual energy because she took the time to learn about her feminine energy (Take my feminine energy course to learn about your sexuality, feminine body, and sacred power)
   

Confidence does not happen overnight. Practice gratitude for where you’re at right now and trust that small steps in the right direction are all you need to do to feel more sexual confidence in bed.

A woman who’s confident in bed shamelessly prioritizes her pleasure, listens to her body’s needs, and gets assertive in her communication.

Ready to feel more sexual confidence in bed? Start here:

1. Open your journal and note down this affirmation. Notice how it feels to say it out loud: ‘I have a sacred sexual power within me’

2. Next, watch my YouTube and explore the easy Tantra womb yoga practices for women that help you deepen connection to your body and sexual energy.

3. Take my feminine energy course: You get absolutely everything you need to ignite your feminine energy and confidence. The course is broken down into a step-by-step self-paced journey, so you start womb healing and feeling more freedom in your body immediately.

Joss Frank | Yoga Therapist C-IAYT

Joss Frank

Hi! I’m Joss Frank, founder of Wild Womb. I understand how womb and body healing ignites when you look within for guidance because I self-healed from my painful periods, depression, anxiety, sexual assault, emotional and physical abuse… after years of failed efforts to feel better about myself. My failed efforts led to a revelation that true healing comes from within and it requires loving community.

Today, as a Yoga Therapist in my practicum, I help people with womb and body healing so they can reclaim their feminine power, LOVE their sacred feminine bodies, and feel more confident.

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Before You Go! What If You Reconnected to the Feminine Power Within Your Body?

With my online course, you’ll get everything you need to ignite your feminine energy, let go of the past, and rediscovering your body. Tap below to learn more.

I’m not sure where to start with this experience. I’ve completely blocked parts out of my memory (which is common for trauma survivors), and the rest feels like a giant ball of confusion.

To love a narcissist is to love someone who never existed because none of it is real. 

My heart is still not ready to accept this reality.

This all started under the guise of love and I’m a hopeless romantic. I was an easy target for a love bomber because no one loves to love as much as I do! I want to believe in romance and fairytales so bad. I wanted to believe that I had met my dream artist and I would be his muse. It felt like we were soul mates. I couldn’t imagine feeling love with anyone else as I felt with this man.

I held onto this dream until the bitter end. Even after the police asked me to press charges for his physical assault against me, I still found my way back to him and told myself he was my soul mate.

This is how delusional the love bombing made me. 

I’ve always believed that with love, anything is possible. And this belief hurt me in the end. I excused awful behaviour because we loved each other and we could ‘work through it’.

But the truth is, this man was a red flag from day one. His ex-girlfriend even contacted me to warn me that he was abusive, throttling her, pushing her, and shouting abuse at her. She even sent me screen grabs of his abusive texts. She warned me he was a narcissist, selfish, and childish and would abandon me. And I chose to not listen to her warning, even when he displayed the exact behaviour that she warned me about.

My choice to ignore the red flags and stay led to years of emotional abuse, physical abuse, and harmful narcissistic behavior that I’m still trying to heal my nervous system from.

Being with a narcissist is never ending drama.

They cannot take accountability for their behaviour therefore his jealousy, anger, upset was always somehow my fault.

Even when we broke up after the assault and I moved on with my life for many years… he still guilted me during this time for having new partners. And when I tried to explain logically to him that when people break up, you cannot guilt them, all he could see was himself. He wasn’t with anyone - or so he claims - for 3+ years. No sex, nothing… and I was convinced to feel guilty for moving forward while he wallowed in self pity. Upon reflection, I see this was just another lie and manipulation. 

Here’s what I remember. And trust that it can all unfold so fast. It was a mix of subtle aggressions and full blown physical assaults.

There was the night he got angry and I had to lock myself in the bathroom to escape him so he smashed the glass on the door which then cut my hand and left a permanent scar.

Or the time he yelled at me in public and I told him to stop and he threatened me ‘you’ve not seen me yell’.

There was the way he consistently refused to let me feel anything when he was hurtful. For example, showing up 4 hours late but refusing to hear how this was hurtful.

Or when I waited 40 minutes on the street for him to arrive and when I tried to express how this made me feel, he walked away mid-sentence to chat up a young attractive woman right infront of me. And then while I was on the street crying, I had to beg him to talk to me, but he chose to laugh at me with strangers on the street. This actually triggered an anxiety attack. Later that night I kicked his door and threw things in his home in upset… but the rage I felt was his perfect opportunity for reactive abuse.

Reactive abuse is when the narcissistic abuser pushes you to your edge and when you finally snap, they become the calmest they’ve ever been. They enjoy your reaction. 

And that night I snapped after one full year of staying calm with him. I cried, I screamed, I threw things. And in the end of that whole drama… the only thing that mattered to him was my reaction. The next day he guilted me. I was the problem. He was innocent. He used the opportunity to treat me like dog shit. Calling me a whore. And again when I reacted to his abuse… Guess who was the problem?

I feel a lot of embarrassment even writing this because I know how awful it sounds, but in the moment, I could not think clear. I was lost, confused, and alone in that moment. I believed that I needed him.

When I expressed any boundary, he would react vengeful instead of caring that he was hurtful.

For example, the night he made me feel so uncomfortable and unsafe that I had to ask him to leave my hotel room. Instead of resolving the issue, he spent the night with a 55+ year old woman all the while sending me abusive texts and calls telling me I was evil, bitch, whore… for kicking him out of my apartment. You can’t imagine his manipulation and selfishness. To be guilted and blamed for someone’s choice to cheat on you and abuse you. I’m still processing how I could have let this go. He even took a train home with this woman. And when I finally met up with him, I held him as he cried. I consoled a man who emotionally abused me and cheated on me. I just wanted to help him heal. I wanted him to process whatever it was that made him angry. This is why I kept forgiving.

Weeks later, I saw heart emojis from her on his phone. When I asked him about it, he guilted me for looking at his phone and of course, denied my feelings over any of it. I was not allowed to feel anything. 

What I slowly discovered is that a narcissists anger and harmful behaviour is ALWAYS ignited by the same thing: When you attempt to address their hurtful behaviour or express your feelings or needs. It never ends well. Never. It got to the point where I just had to keep my head down and swallow my feelings because the alternative would be WW3 with him.

But let me tell you the major incident. The night I thought for sure I would leave this man. 

The worst experience was the night of the physical assault and the subsequent charges I could have but never pressed.

I still regret not pressing charges but in my defense, the police officer told me: ‘He feels really bad, maybe don’t do it’. He persuaded me and I was in such a state of shock, I made the wrong choice. I was in his country, alone with no family or friends, just him and I was afraid what would happen if I pressed charges.

This was by far the scariest night of my life. One that I’ve never received so much as an apology for. In fact, he blames me or mocks me with ‘Oh how did I abuse you?’.

Even though I have a police report, witness reports, and was asked to press charges. This isn’t enough for him to take accountability for his behaviour.

I can’t tell you how painful it is for someone to physically hurt you and scare you like this and then pretend it didn’t happen, and even if it did, its my fault.

He believes the physical assault is ok because I had called my mom that night during the phase that his anger was escalting. I called her because I was afraid and his anger was become frightening. He translated this into: ‘You called her to talk bad about me’. This is how egotistical and selfish a narcissist is. Calling my mom because I was genuinely scared of how he was acting was enough for me to deserve physical assault. In fact, it was not physical assault. He won’t even acknowledge it happened.

On this night I actually told myself: ‘I think this man could kill me right now’

On this night, he was not himself anymore. I saw him transform into a dark entity. He became his fathers darkness. I was trapped in a room with a monster and when I tried to run away out the door, he dragged me back into the apartment by my legs. He told me he had to do this because it was late at night and dangerous outside. (This man could stab me and make an excuse for it. Accountability was an impossibility).

A Narcissist will never take accountability for their behaviour

That night, he shoved me against the wall, pushed me onto the bed and bruised me, and dragged me across the floor. He trapped me in his apartment and frightened me with emotional abuse too. I still don’t know what for, we were not in a fight, nothing eventful had happened that night but he was intoxicated and that was never safe to be around.

I eventually escaped to seek safety with complete strangers off the street who circled me to protect me as he tried to tell them: She’s a slut, whore, etc. One of these strangers was so disgusted, she took me into her home and gave me her room for the night.

As always, a woman came to my rescue. They always do.

And that night I received some of the most violent abusive texts I’ve ever seen in my life. He called me a whore, slut, accused me of fucking everyone on the street. There was zero reflection or remorse for what he just did, only more rage. As I slept in this strangers house, my body went into shock. Every few minutes I would jump scare similar to when you have those dreams that you are falling. This was the start of my PTSD.

In the morning when I returned to the apartment, I discovered that he had not slept, he had just sat there fuming, tossing my belongings into a pile, and waiting to unleash more rage on me.

And when I gathered my belongings to go, he suddenly transformed. That’s how easy he could switch his mask.

The rage left in the blink of an eye and he became this sad little boy. He held my hand and said: ‘Please don’t go’. And would you believe I actually fell for this and stayed?

Here’s what I learned from a narcissists rage:

• There is no healthy communication with a narcissist: Every serious healthy communication I tried to have with this man was filled with contempt, sarcasm, mocking, and belittling. Every single time. And if I tried to address his behaviour, it only made it worse. Contempt means they believe they are superior to you. And he believed he was superior to everyone! He made fun of everyone, his boss, his ex girlfriend, even his ‘best friend’ who ‘wasn’t a real artist because he traced his art’.
  
  
  

• When a narcissists anger is ignited, it does not cool down after time apart. It only gets uglier and fiercer. There’s no reflection phase or accountability, therefore it’s always your fault. Even when I was physically assaulted, this was my fault.
  
  
  

• You must never react to a narcissist. Ever. Even if you want to yell or fight back. Do not do it because they enjoy seeing your reaction. It will only give them an invitation to express more rage. The best thing you can do is not react and go no contact with this person immediately. Don’t try to reason or communicate. It is hopeless.
  

Every argument we had ended in me being slut shamed. Deep down, I know this man hates women. I was constantly accused of getting with other men. I see now that he was projecting his own behaviours onto me because he could not manage anything he felt whether it was jealousy, insecurity, or anger.

Instead of maturely managing his own feelings, he would instantly point at me: It was my fault his anger escalated into dangerous situations, it was my fault he was insecure, and so on.

I wish I would have understood what narcissism was in the beginning. Had I known, it would have explained so many things and prevented me from making excuses and blaming myself.

Here’s what I wish I’d known sooner about dating a narcissist:

• Educate yourself the second you sense the red flags: When you don’t have the language or labels to understand the abusive ways in which someone is treating you, it’s easy to make excuses or blame yourself.
  
  

• People are very quick to judge the woman in a toxic abusive relationship: I’ve received so much judgement from supposed friends that I reached out to and explained what was happening. I was mocked ‘You have horrible taste in men’, ‘I can’t believe you’re back with him’ yet never was there any actual compassion or support. If you’re feeling shamed or judged, its important that you surround yourself with loved ones, practice daily self-compassion, and be gentle with yourself as you heal.
  
  
  

• Healing from narcissism and abuse takes time: It requires daily practices to re-balance your nervous system and promote self-compassion.
  
  
  

• Narcissists LOVE reactive abuse: A narcissist will push you to your edge and when you finally snap they will become satisfied and calm. This is called reactive abuse. He would do this to me and then when I finally felt rage, he would say ‘See, you’re just like me’.

I feel lots of shame and embarrassment about staying with an abusive narcissist and I still battle with the question: ‘Why did I stay?’

It’s easy for those on the outside to over-simplify it and judge. But when you’re with a narcissist, you’re experiencing intense manipulation. I didn’t know a person was capable of saying ‘I love you’ while literally treating you like dog shit.

So, why did I stay… The love. The ‘love’ that I now understand was fake this entire time because a narcissist does not love anyone.

The love you receive from a narcissist is unlike anything you’ve felt before.

And this love made me stay. It made me forgive the physical assault, the cheating, the lies, the permanent scar on my hand, the contempt, the abandonment. I was willing to forgive literally anything this man did - even the humiliation - because we had a love that most people will never feel in their lifetime. At least… that’s the story I told myself.

This wasn’t just any kind of love. It was undying passionate soul-mate kinda love. 

The kind of love that had me whispering ‘I love you!’ from the depths of my soul ten times in a night in his company. I was his dream girl, his muse, and and he loved me like he’d never loved anyone before. I believed this wholeheartedly.

I sacrificed my own mental health and wellness to feel that love. I was addicted to it.

The more that I loved this man, the worse he treated me.

I excused the blatant harmful behaviour because I told myself we love each other and we can get through this. Love can get through anything.

So imagine how I felt when I discovered the languaging to understand the reality of my situation. It turned from my soul mate to my abuser.

I still cannot accept that this man never actually loved me. For me, this is unimaginable. It feels like my entire reality has been ripped from under me. It’s made me lose trust in humanity.

With a narcissist, there’s intense love bombing but NEVER mature, healthy emotional connections with others.

I believed it was love because he told me this and I can’t imagine a person would lie about something so sacred as love. I don’t understand the motivation to lie about something like this.

So there it is: I fell in love with a man who never actually loved me.

I let him emotionally and physically abuse me for many years. I’m still processing this, it feels like my entire trust in humanity has been ripped from under me. 

You might think you could easily spot this type of person but the love bombing and manipulation made it impossible. I believed the love was so deep between us that I literally forgave everything to hold onto the love. I was in a cycle moving so fast I had zero time to reflect on the reality of the situation. 

Here’s what you need to know: All narcissists move the same. They will ALWAYS follow this cycle:

1. Intense love bombing (where I was made to believe this man adored me).
   
   

2. Anger and degradation phase (you will be kicked off your pedestal and be made to feel very unworthy and small).
   
   

3. Abrupt abandonment (stonewalling, ignoring).
   
   

4. Hoovering (they waltz back into your life weeks, months, years later only to repeat the cycle again).

Do not convince yourself during the hoovering phase with a narcissist that it will be different this time. It will not. Unless they’ve committed to intense ongoing therapy with a psychologist, there’s absolutely no way they will change. And even then, it’s not likely.

I have a lot of shame for letting myself be mistreated for so long. I excused physical assault, emotional abuse, daily contempt, cheating, pathological lying, and manipulation. I genuinely believed that this man loved me. I mean… he acted like he worshipped me. 

The reality is: A narcissist does not love you or anyone. They can’t.

This is something I’m still trying to process. I catch myself reflecting on our time together and in retrospect it all seems so obvious how unhealthy the relationship was. It was all manipulation and love bombing. It’s hard for me to imagine trusting anyone again after experiencing this level of deceit.

If you’re not familiar with narcissism, you may find myself - like me - making excuses for this behaviour:

• He’s just emotionally immature, he can grow.

• He comes from a troubled past, I need to give him time.

• He’s experienced trauma…I have to forgive him because we love each other. 

Remember, a narcissist does not have true friends or partners.

They can’t. They have ‘supply’: people who feed them sex, money, or praise. And they will always ditch you for whatever supply they can get.

I have nothing left to show for opening my heart, home, and body to this man.

This man abruptly abandoned me and tried to re-start the cycle of abuse (I won’t even explain how because it’s the same theme). All that remains from my time with this man is a permanent scar on my hand, anxiety, and PTSD.

If you’re reading this and you're either healing from an abusive narcissist or still with one, you’re not alone. The toughest part is truly going no contact and leaving the situation. I promise you, once you go through this phase, things get so much better!

There’s one major red flag that you can easily spot from day one with a narcissist: misalignment in their words and actions.

Trust this one! When you witness this, leave this person immediately and don’t look back. (For example: saying they care and respect you but then acting super disrespectful and hurtful).

This blog is only the beginning. I will continue to speak up about this topic. Next, I will share about the process of moving forward and self-healing.

Next steps:

If you're ready to start your healing journey, My 1:1 online yoga therapy sessions can help you.

My online therapy sessions are a safe space for you to:

• Reconnect to your body in a compassionate, loving way.

• Feel seen, heard, and supported.

• Release emotional tensions of fear, shame, and guilt.

• Practice self-care exercises that promotes healthier menstruation, libido, and/or pelvic health.

The 1:1 online yoga therapy sessions are customized to help women explore womb healing in a safe, trauma-informed environment.

Book a free 20-minute consultation and start your womb healing journey today: https://wildwomb.space/privateyogatherapyhealingsessions

Joss Frank, Yoga Therapist C-IAYT

I’m Joss, founder of Wild Womb, and I specialize in empowering people to heal, reclaim their power, and build lasting self-confidence.

After years of struggling with depression, anxiety, and trauma, I discovered that true healing comes from within. Through my personal journey of self-healing, I learned that the key to overcoming physical and emotional challenges lies in reconnecting with the body, cultivating inner awareness, and embracing holistic practices.

As a certified Yoga Therapist (C-IAYT), I now guide people through transformative healing processes that address both the physical and emotional aspects of their well-being. My work combines somatic therapy, yoga therapy, and emotional healing practices to help people cultivate self-love and lasting inner peace.

Whether you're struggling with mental health, trauma recovery, or building a positive relationship with your body, I’m here to support you on your healing journey.

Let’s explore how online support can help you feel more balanced and empowered.

‘Researchers looked at more than 60 studies and found that seeing a therapist online is just as effective as face-to-face sessions for most people with anxiety, depression and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)’. (from UCLA Health)

Research suggests online therapy is just as effective. In fact, many people prefer it.

Benefits of online therapy include that it’s more convenient, affordable, approachable, and accessible.

Talk therapy (psychotherapy) is perhaps the most widely known form of therapy, but is talk therapy enough when it comes to healing trauma, anxiety, and or depression?

In this article, we’ll explore:

• What is Yoga Therapy vs Talk Therapy?

• What to Expect in an Online 1:1 Yoga Therapy Session

• Choosing the Right Therapy: Yoga Therapy vs. Talk Therapy

• Client Story: How Online Yoga Therapy Helped Manage Anxiety

• Is a yoga therapist qualified?

• Who’s online yoga therapy for and the benefits

When it comes to healing trauma, talk therapy is not enough because the area of the brain responsible for language can shut down when people get close to the story of their trauma

Sometimes, getting close to a trauma can leave you speechless.

This is where body-centered therapies like Yoga Therapy or Somatic Therapy can help. They give you a safe space to be with yourself without needing to talk through everything.

These sessions allow you to process experiences internally first, making it easier to share or explore them in a traditional therapy setting later.

What is Yoga Therapy vs Talk Therapy?

There are many different types of body-centred therapy. Yoga Therapy is rising in popularity as people are understanding that ‘the body keeps the score’.

Online Yoga Therapy focuses on the body and breath as a resource for healing and improving mental health. It’s a bio-psychosocial approach meaning the clients illness or challenge is looked at from all angles: how it shows up in the mind, the emotions, the physical body, and the spirit.

What to Expect in an Online 1:1 Yoga Therapy Session

Clients can book a 1:1 online Yoga Therapy session to address wellness goals, such as releasing trauma or managing anxiety or depression. Each session is personalized and may include:

• Physical practices: such as stretches to release tight nerves and muscles.

• Emotional practices: such as inquiries and affirmations to rewire the brain and build new positive habits.

• Spiritual practices: such as metta meditations (self-compassion meditations) and yoga nidra (considered a gentle form of hypnotherapy) to reduce stress, regulate the nervous system, and balance hormones.

Before the session, the Yoga Therapist reviews the client’s intake form and prepares a session tailored specifically to their needs.

Online Yoga Therapy follows a very similar process to a traditional therapy session or a physio session.

Based on the intake form a client submits, a private yoga therapy session is personalized to support the client’s specific illness, health challenge, or wellness goal.

An online Yoga Therapist will guide you through a gentle, personalized holistic practice that uses research-backed techniques for your specific illness or challenge. Techniques include a mix of western psychology and easy yoga practices to improve your body function and emotional state.

Online yoga therapy taps into research-backed holistic practices suggested to reduce symptoms, prevent injury, and restore optimal wellness in clients.

Practices explored in online 1:1 yoga therapy might include:

• Breathing techniques

• Physical postures for stretching, lengthening, and strengthening

• Fascia tapping

• Guided meditations and Yoga Nidra

• Holistic practices for nervous system regulation

• Inner-awareness exercises: journal inquiries, affirmations, and more

• Embodiment and conscious touch exercises

Choosing the Right Therapy: Yoga Therapy vs. Talk Therapy

If you're someone who’s explored traditional talk therapy (psychotherapy) you might be curious to explore an approach which allows you to move beyond language and to actually befriend what’s happening inside your body.

For example: Most trauma survivors aren’t getting clear info from their body which can cause a disconnect between what the body experiences and how the brain interprets it.

A body-centred therapy helps clients to build a connection between emotions, thoughts and physical sensations in the body. Building this form of inner-awareness is incredibly empowering as it allows clients to self-regulate and self-heal.

Client Story: How Online Yoga Therapy Helped Manage Anxiety

I work with many clients who are seeking relief from anxiety.

Anxiety doesn’t just affect the mind, it also impacts the body and spirit, showing up as muscle tension, shallow breathing, disrupted sleep, and a constant sense of worry or unease.

In this case study, we’ll explore how one client used private online Yoga Therapy to address these challenges and begin restoring balance in their life.

Anxiety can impact the mind, body, and spirit in many ways:

• Mental symptoms: racing thoughts, constant worry, difficulty concentrating, fatigue, and disrupted sleep.
  

• Physical symptoms: muscle tension, shallow breathing, headaches, stomach aches, or unexplained pain, and heightened stress responses.
  

• Spiritual symptoms: feeling on-edge, disconnected, or unable to fully rest in the present moment.

1-1 Yoga Therapy helped my client use her body as a gateway to healing. What she discovered during our sessions is that anxiety was living in her body as tight upper body tension, shallow breathing, and a dysregulated nervous system. She had never considered soothing what she felt in her body.

In each 60-minute session, she explored research-backed breathwork, meditation, and mindfulness exercises that helped her release stored tension, regulate her nervous system, and feel more balanced.

After just a few sessions, she was feeling more grounded and centered in her body.

Is a yoga therapist qualified?

A Yoga Therapist C-IAYT has an 800 hour certification (minimum) and has also completed a 50 hour practicum that typically takes 6 months to one year. A Yoga Therapist C-IAYT works with individuals in private sessions on a specific illness, challenge, or wellness goal.

A Yoga Therapist has additional credentials and studies (beyond a yoga teacher) to work with clients privately on specific illnesses or challenges.

Who’s online yoga therapy for?

Honestly, everyone! People of all ages could greatly benefit from online private yoga therapy. It supports a vast range of physical and mental health issues including: 

• Healing and releasing trauma,

• Depression, anxiety, stress,

• Chronic pain and fatigue, 

• Period cramps, irregularity, heavy bleeding

• Fertility awareness

• Pre/post natal support

• Cysts, fibroids, yeast infection, PCOS,

• Deepening connection to body, sexuality, creativity, and womb,

• and more.

Benefits of online yoga therapy

• It empowers clients to be their own healer with easy practices they can continue to use consistently beyond the sessions.
  

• It accesses healing in the body, mind, and spirit.
  

• It’s an affordable, accessible, and approachable form of therapy.

Bottom Line:

Online therapy is just as effective and many people prefer it. Some of the benefits of online therapy include it’s more convenient, affordable, approachable, and accessible.

If you’re someone seeking to release trauma or manage depression, stress, or anxiety… talk therapy is not enough.

The area of the brain responsible for language can shut down when people get close to the story of their trauma

Online yoga therapy gives clients the space to just be with themselves and not speak. This can be helpful in internally processing stories before going on to articulate their experiences in more formal, therapeutic settings.

Next Steps

Get started with a free consultation, find out if private online yoga therapy is a perfect fit for your needs.

Thanks for being here,
Joss | Yoga Therapist C-IAYT

Joss Frank

Hi! I’m Joss Frank, founder of Wild Womb. I understand how healing ignites when you look within for guidance because I self-healed from painful menstruation, depression, and anxiety after years of failed efforts to feel better about myself.

My vision is to empower women to break through the barriers of shame, guilt, fear, and self-doubt so they can love themselves - inside & out - and unapologetically shine as their most authentic selves.

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Womb yoga is a special form of yoga that supports pelvic and uterus health. It helps to improve sex drive, menstrual cycle health, uterus health, and confidence.

Below is a gentle 20-minute womb yoga for women practice that you can explore right now. This practice offers four gentle standing poses to open up through your pelvic region and a few seated practices to connect with your uterus health. Expect a flowing and expressive combination of movements that will help you feel more connected with your body.

20 minute Womb Yoga practice to feel more sexy and confident in your body

If any of this sounds like you, you’ll benefit from womb yoga:

• Feeling disconnected from your feminine body.

• Feeling emotional tensions in your body from shame, guilt, doubt, anger, and more.

• Confused or frustrated with your body due to period challenges or womb-related illness (fibroids, cysts, etc).

• Fearful or doubtful when it comes to feeling sexually confident in your body.
  
  

What’s the difference between Womb Yoga and regular yoga?

Did you know that most modern yoga practices are based on a very ancient practice designed for the male body? I discovered very early on that general yoga classes just did not support my feminine body the way that I was craving. It inspired me to study and teach a style of yoga called Womb Yoga.

Womb Yoga is so wonderful because it includes asanas which connect you to your breasts, pelvis, and reproductive organs in a way that’s gentle and loving. It’s a chance to use yoga in a way that builds confident connection to your sacred feminine body and get your sexual energy flowing.

You do not need a uterus to practice womb yoga

Womb yoga can be quite a healing practice for anyone who’s had a hysterectomy. Or for those who identify as Trans, Non-Binary, or Two-Spirit and do not have a physical womb… the womb yoga practices are equally as powerful as they invite you to connect to the energetic space of the womb.

Womb yoga is a special style of yoga for women that honors the feminine experiences such as menstruation, pregnancy, female sexuality, and menopause

This style of yoga is important because ignoring and avoiding the cyclical needs of the feminine body has led to many uterus health challenges in women such as cysts, fibroids, and PCOS.

For example: Pushing your body to workout or do yoga during your period is to deny the needs of your feminine body. A woman’s optimal health requires her to honor her cyclical body by aligning with days of rest and inward time vs days of high-energy and expansiveness.

What yoga practices are explored in a womb yoga class?

There are so many varieties of womb yoga classes such as womb yoga for during your period, womb yoga for sexual confidence, and womb yoga for peri-menopause. But, a general womb yoga class might include:

• Meditations to connect to your heart and womb space

• Rhythmic expressive movement to let your body and energy move freely as it wants to

• Asanas for strengthening and/or lengthening your pelvic area

• Breathing techniques to align with your pelvic diaphragm

• Guided meditations to promote inner-awareness

• Yoga Nidra for connecting to your body (could include breasts and reproductive organs)

How can womb yoga help women build self-confidence?

Feeling confident and connected to your body is quite a deep, spiritual experience. It goes far beyond buying clothes or changing your hair style. It’s about committing to a daily routine that nurtures the body, mind, and spirit.

A typical daily practice for women to build self-confidence could be as little as 5-10 minutes per day. It could include a few poses to access pelvic movement, some breathing to connect to the pelvic floor, and journaling to be present with feelings, emotions, and period cycle days (if you menstruate).

Bottom Line

Womb yoga is a special form of yoga that supports pelvic and uterus health. It helps improve sex drive, menstrual cycle health, uterus health, and confidence. If you’re a practicing yogi, you might love this form of yoga for improving uterus health and body connection.

Next Steps:

I have a feminine healing course that gives you the exact self-care practices, tantra exercises, and womb yoga that awaken more confidence and freedom in your body. Tap below to learn more.

Joss Frank | Wild Womb

Joss Frank

Hi! I’m Joss Frank, founder of Wild Womb. I understand how womb and body healing ignites when you look within for guidance because I self-healed from my painful periods, depression, anxiety, sexual assault, emotional and physical abuse… after years of failed efforts to feel better about myself. My failed efforts led to a revelation that true healing comes from within and it requires loving community.

Today, as a Yoga Therapist in my practicum, I help people with womb and body healing so they can reclaim their feminine power, LOVE their sacred feminine bodies, and feel more confident.

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Before You Go! What If You Reconnected to the Power of Your Feminine Body?

If you’re interested in exploring my 10-lesson self-paced course (Ignite Your Feminine Power by Letting Go of The Past and Rediscovering Your Body), tap below to learn more and get started with a free call!

Yoga isn’t just about flexibility or relaxation; it’s a powerful tool that can enhance every aspect of your life, including pleasure and intimacy.

In this blog, I'm sharing my top yoga exercises specifically designed to ignite your libido, strengthen your sense of self, and amplify your pleasure.

Whether you're a seasoned yogi or a complete beginner, these practices are easy to incorporate into your routine and will help you connect with your body in profound and pleasurable ways.

Ready to discover the secrets to a more vibrant and confident you? Let’s dive in!

“To be a sexual woman in our culture now is to be a woman who looks a certain way in order to elicit sexual desire in others. It has nothing to do with the inner arising of our own feelings and experiences.”

(― Uma Dinsmore-Tuli, Yoni Shakti )

What Makes a Woman Sexually Confident?

Let’s explore the qualities of the empowered woman who enjoys mindful and empowering sex.

Whoever’s reading this, you can absolutely feel more confidence in bed and a better sex drive.

It’s just a matter of understanding your body a bit more and doing the easy yoga exercises that ignite your sexual power within.

If you’re a woman ready to improve your sex life, intimacy, and libido through yoga, start here:

• Do not fake an orgasm. The orgasm is a cosmic exchange with the universe… not to be faked.

• Do not open your body and sacred womb temple to anyone when you’re feeling tired, restful, or inward. (For example: on your period, feeling tired, inward, etc).

• Listens to your body and follow your cyclical rhythm.
  

• Prioritize your pleasure so you thoroughly enjoys sex with a partner.
  

• Be confident expressing your needs (communicate your likes and dislikes in the bedroom).
  

• Take time to learn the spirituality of your sexual energy (You can learn this in my online course).
  

Embodying the above qualities takes time and it’s not set in stone. Sometimes you’ll follow these qualities, sometimes you won’t.

It’s a gentle cyclical experience of growing. Practice gratitude for where you’re at right now and trust that small steps in the right direction are all you need to do to feel more sexual confidence.

A woman who’s in her divine sexual power prioritizes her pleasure, she listens to her body’s needs, and she treats sex as a part of her sacred ritual…

Sex is a transmission with the creative and sexual energies of the universe (to learn about this divine feminine wisdom, take my 10-lesson course). There’s so much to discover, I couldn’t possibly share it all here but please enjoy this blog as your perfect starting point in the direction of your sexual confidence journey. The wisdom shared in the course transformed my confidence, sexual experiences, and relationships.

Ready to boost your confidence and libido? Start here:

1. Open your journal and note down the qualities of the empowered woman - from above - and notice what you want to focus on the most.
   

2. Next, watch my YouTube and explore my 10-minute guided meditation (at the 9:00 minute mark).
   
   The after sex meditation has a Root/Muladhara Chakra focus. It’s very earthy based to balance out the act of sex which aligns strongly with the element of water. It helps you feel grounded. It brings you back into your body where you can take time for reflection, connection to your sacred feminine anatomy, and inner-awareness.
   

No matter who’s reading this, you can absolutely feel sexually confident in bed. It truly starts with understanding the spirituality of your sexual energy and learning how to nurture your body every single day using easy yoga practices, affirmations, and journaling.

Thank you,
Joss | Yoga Therapist C-IAYT

Joss Frank

Hi! I’m Joss Frank, founder of Wild Womb. I understand how womb and body healing ignites when you look within for guidance because I self-healed from my painful periods, depression, anxiety, sexual assault, emotional and physical abuse… after years of failed efforts to feel better about myself. My failed efforts led to a revelation that true healing comes from within and it requires loving community.

Today, as a Yoga Therapist in my practicum, I help people with womb and body healing so they can reclaim their feminine power, LOVE their sacred feminine bodies, and feel more confident.

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Before You Go! What If You Reconnected to the Power of Your Feminine Body?

If you’re interested in exploring my 10-lesson self-paced course (Ignite Your Feminine Power by Letting Go of The Past and Rediscovering Your Body), tap below to learn more and get started with a free call!

“Neuroscience research shows that the only way we can change the way we FEEL is by becoming aware of our inner experience and learning to befriend what is going on inside ourselves.”

(― Bessel A. van der Kolk, The Body Keeps the Score)

My name is Joss Frank and I offer a form of yoga called Yoga Therapy (Body Therapy). It’s so wonderful because it includes breathing and nervous system techniques which allows you to improve your mental health in a way that’s gentle and natural. '

This is your chance to unblock stuck emotions with my gentle 12-minute yoga practice. Tap below to try it right now. In only 12 minutes, you’re going to feel lighter and more peaceful in your body!

We’ve all had those feelings: a heavy sad heart or perhaps fiery anger in your belly. It took me so long to realize that avoiding my tough emotions was only giving them a cozy permanent home inside my sacred body.

It’s true what they say ‘You gotta feel it to heal it’

All emotions are valid. There’s a tendency to avoid certain emotions or label them as ‘bad’. This has a counter-productive effect because any act in resistance only amplifies and gives it power. For example: You suppress and bottle up your anger. What happens next? Usually an explosion of anger channeled inappropriately. We’ve all been there!

The path to releasing tough emotions - such as anger and sadness - is to prioritize a daily inner awareness practice.

An inner-awareness practice could be 5 minutes to sit and breath slow and notice how your heart feels. Or laying down to slowly breathe and notice where you feel tension in your body. As a Yoga Therapist, I offer loads of varieties of inner-awareness techniques to support different needs.

Being with all of your emotions every single day with no judgement and noticing where you feel your emotions in your body will dramatically improve how your emotions feel in your body. Instead of feeling tension, you can invite feelings of lightness and peace in. You deserve that!

If you’re ready to let go of some tough emotions, start here:

• Make a promise to yourself to be compassionate instead of judgemental towards ALL your feelings

• Do not label your feelings as ‘good’ or ‘bad’

• Give yourself space to feel what you need to feel instead of avoiding or resisting.

• Do my 12-minute gentle practice to unblock stuck emotions on Youtube

It’s time to get curious about your emotions. Notice the sensations, where do you feel your emotions in your body, start a loving conversation with them! No more avoiding or denying your feelings if you’re ready to feel more confident and peaceful in your body.

Want to explore releasing stuck emotions from your body right now?

Watch the above 12-minute gentle practice. It’s gentle and nurturing. I’ll show you how to connect with your body and emotions in a way that’s loving and kind.

Enjoy! Joss

I’ve got a 10-lesson online course to Ignite Your Feminine Power by Letting Go of The Past and Rediscovering Your Body. It guides you through your shadow work (letting go of the past) and straight into radiating your feminine power, feeling empowered with your emotions, and loving yourself unconditionally.

Joss Frank | Wild Womb

Joss Frank

Hi! I’m Joss Frank, founder of Wild Womb. I understand how womb and body healing ignites when you look within for guidance because I self-healed from my painful periods, depression, anxiety, sexual assault, emotional and physical abuse… after years of failed efforts to feel better about myself. My failed efforts led to a revelation that true healing comes from within and it requires loving community.

Today, as a Yoga Therapist in my practicum, I help people with womb and body healing so they can reclaim their feminine power, LOVE their sacred feminine bodies, and feel more confident.

Share this Article:

Before You Go! What If You Reconnected to the Power of Your Feminine Body?

If you’re interested in exploring my 10-lesson self-paced course (Ignite Your Feminine Power by Letting Go of The Past and Rediscovering Your Body), tap below to learn more and get started with a free call!