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		<title>Book Review: Where Good Ideas Come From</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[You probably knew a book review was coming when I went all “you MUST read” on you, didn’t you. I’m giving myself a Goodreads challenge again, and this was book 5 for me this month. I tend to read more early in the year, and my challenge is to read books more consistently. The Kindle [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>You probably knew a book review was coming when I went all “<a title="Managers, you need to READ" href="http://talkingstory.org/2012/01/managers-need-to-read/" target="_blank">you MUST read</a>” on you, didn’t you.</p>
<p>I’m giving myself a <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/">Goodreads</a> challenge again, and this was book 5 for me this month. I tend to read more early in the year, and my challenge is to read books more consistently. The <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/feature.html/ref=amb_link_357313322_1?ie=UTF8&amp;docId=1000677541&amp;pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&amp;pf_rd_s=auto-sparkle&amp;pf_rd_r=B65B9CF7A381450481C2&amp;pf_rd_t=301&amp;pf_rd_p=1315443602&amp;pf_rd_i=deal%20of%20the%20day">Kindle Daily Deal</a> helps immensely, for it constantly adds to the queue in an easily affordable way. So many books, so little time&#8230;</p>
<h3><strong>Where Good Ideas Come From</strong></h3>
<p><a style="float: right; padding-right: 10px;" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/9366948-where-good-ideas-come-from"><img class="alignright" style="border: 0pt none;" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/31OhEnvRv0L._SL500_AA300_.jpg" alt="Where Good Ideas Come From: The Natural History of Innovation" width="300" height="300" border="0" /></a><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/9366948-where-good-ideas-come-from">Where Good Ideas Come From: The Natural History of Innovation</a> by <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1563.Steven_Johnson">Steven Johnson</a></p>
<p>My rating: <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/253869517">5 of 5 stars</a></p>
<p>In a word, exceptional.</p>
<p>I greatly appreciate authors like Johnson who are ‘slow hunch’ cultivators, thorough researchers, and articulate explainers.</p>
<p><em>Where Good Ideas Come From: The Natural History of Innovation</em> is a focused celebration of the phrase “hindsight is 20/20.” The scientific history of innovation is curated to support Johnson’s thesis, which is his answer to this question: What kind of environment creates good ideas?</p>
<p>There is another, more subtle question which lurks throughout the book as well: Are you open to sharing your ideas before they’ve fully formed? (&#8230;for here are the reasons why.) From his <em>Introduction:</em></p>
<blockquote><p>“The poet and the engineer (and the coral reef) may seem a million miles apart in their particular forms of expertise, but when they bring good ideas into the world, similar patterns of development and collaboration shape that process. If there is a single maxim that runs through this book’s arguments, it is that we are often better served by connecting ideas than we are by protecting them. Like the free market itself, the case for restricting the flow of innovation has long been buttressed by appeals to the “natural” order of things. But the truth is, when one looks at innovation in nature and in culture, environments that build walls around good ideas tend to be less innovative in the long run than more open-ended environments. Good ideas may not want to be free, but they do want to connect, fuse, recombine. They want to reinvent themselves by crossing conceptual borders. They want to <em>complete each other</em> as much as they want to compete.”</p></blockquote>
<p>He then proceeds to cover 7 different qualities he’s discerned about the nature of ideas, with very meaty chapters on each, all illustrated by the scientific stories of innovation:</p>
<p>Ch 1 — The Adjacent Possible<br />
Ch 2 — Liquid Networks<br />
Ch 3 — The Slow Hunch<br />
Ch 4 — Serendipity<br />
Ch 5 — Error<br />
Ch 6 — Exaptation<br />
Ch 7 — Platforms</p>
<p>After reading each one, you can’t help but put the book aside for a moment, and ask yourself, “where do I sit with this, given my own habits?” and, “how must I further shape the environment my ideas will percolate in?”</p>
<p>Johnson’s book is the perfect candidate for the workplace book club. Two reasons immediately came to mind:</p>
<p>1. It is hugely conducive to company adaptation, and would be a marvelous trigger for in depth, “what about us?” discussion on a number of different questions which are kin to his central one [What kind of environment creates good ideas?]<em> </em></p>
<p><em>— Who is our Darwin in this company? (or a number of others he profiles)<br />
— What are the important stories of our own scientific, or innovative history? How were they sequential stories and not singular events?<br />
— Where are the different rooms of our ‘adjacent possible,’ and who, among our own people, are already working in them?<br />
— We say mistakes are cool, and that we have to ‘fail forward’ in our experimentation, but how well do we actually understand error? Have we built on any errors?<br />
</em> … and so forth.</p>
<p>2. It will add to your <em>Language of Intention</em> in culture-building. I love books like these, which teach you new words or phrases, and then treat you like the like-minded insider you become as those words and phrases get built upon in each successive chapter and proposition. Your own vocabulary becomes enriched.</p>
<p>For someone like me, strong proponent of <em>aligning</em> our values, Johnson’s exceptionally well written book is a good reminder about the wealth of possibility that diversity contributes to the healthy <em>and</em> inventive mindset. He hasn’t changed my mind about value alignment, and how necessary it is to culture-building; he zooms me forward. <em>Okay, you have a healthy, <a href="http://talkingstory.org/mwa-core-21-beliefs/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">MWA-infused culture</a>. Now what will it take to innovate and grow?</em></p>
<p><a href="http://www.leighbureau.com/speaker.asp?id=327"><img class="alignright" title="Steven Berlin Johnson, bio photo" src="http://www.leighbureau.com/data/document/1030_thumb.jpg" alt="" width="234" height="303" /></a>Johnson takes his time with his book’s concluding remarks (more stories!) introducing a final filtering concept he calls “the fourth quadrant” to help us better sit with our own conclusions about what we’ve learned. I’m not one of those cynics he need worry about, but I appreciated his patience and attempt to be so open-minded and thorough. I think Johnson was very smart in including his environmental exploration with a “what if” treatise on governmental systems; it’s an arena where cultural innovation is chronically necessary, and any reformation efforts will be complex, and will take time, keeping Johnson’s book relevant for years to come.</p>
<p>I admit to feeling personally challenged by this book still, wondering if I understood everything, and if I took it all in completely — there is so much covered! This will therefore be a book I gladly read again (and now, not later) moving it from a 1st read appetizer and overview to a more complete meal I can savor. A certain degree of reading restraint is called for; I want to read this again before picking up any other non-fiction book.</p>
<p>I’d decided that my reading of <em>Where Good Ideas Come From</em> was long overdue because I’ve been a fan of <a href="http://www.stevenberlinjohnson.com/">Johnson’s blog</a>, and reading it is a good way to get a preview of what you’ll read in his book. You can be assured the book will be better, for his blog posts are his own “slow hunches,” made public to simmer and cook with some early feedback.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/51996-rosa">View all my book reviews on Goodreads</a></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/about/us"><img class="alignleft" title="Goodreads icon" src="http://www.goodreads.com/images/icons/goodreads_icon_100x100.png?1297385984" alt="" width="100" height="100" /></a>Why Goodreads?</em> They have become <a title="Qualify the Automatics" href="http://talkingstory.org/2011/03/weekend-project-qualify-the-automatics/">an App Smart choice</a> for me, for I want to return to more book reading, and have set a goal to read at least 24 books this year. Read more about the Goodreads mission <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/about/us">here</a>, and let’s connect there if you decide to try it too! You can also follow them <a href="http://twitter.com/#!/goodreads">on Twitter</a>.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Previous review done for <em>Talking Story:</em></strong> <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2011/05/botany-of-desire/"><em>The Botany of Desire</em></a> by Michael Pollan</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 19:18:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rosa Say</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The more I read, the more I’m convinced that reading is a habit Alaka‘i Managers must cultivate. You must. You need to read for your own good. Reading is your window to the rest of our fascinating world, and the world is a wonderfully big, and varied place. Management consumes us (managemeant even more so). [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>The more I read, the more I’m convinced that reading is a habit <a title="Alaka‘i Leadership, Chiefs and Indians" href="http://talkingstory.org/2011/10/alakai-leadership-chiefs-and-indians/" target="_blank">Alaka‘i Managers</a> must cultivate.</p>
<p>You <strong>must</strong>. You need to read for your own good.</p>
<h3><strong>Reading is your window to the rest of our fascinating world, and the world is a wonderfully big, and varied place.</strong></h3>
<p>Management consumes us (<a title="What’s the meant in Management?" href="http://talkingstory.org/2011/12/whats-the-meant-in-management/" target="_blank">manage<strong>meant</strong></a> even more so). As we dig in to all the details of our daily work, we tell ourselves to “focus, focus, focus” and we get isolated despite all the people who surround us in the workplace.</p>
<p>They’re in <a title="They need Creative Structure as much as you do." href="http://talkingstory.org/2012/01/on-other-days/" target="_blank">the same boat</a>: Our company and its existing network insulates us in a cocoon of directed attention, and we don’t fight it. We may even be grateful: We feel it’s all we can handle right now anyway, and we aim to get better with whatever’s currently at hand.</p>
<p>But we can’t lose sight of <em>this caution:</em> If we aren’t careful, insulation will stealthily morph from comfort to <em>incestuousness and isolation</em>. We hear about certain things in passing, and we say, “When in the world did <em>that</em> happen?”</p>
<p>I can sense your heads nodding out there. It has happened to me too. Repeatedly. Still will if I’m not careful to prevent it, and reading has become my salvation, and my guarantee. It pulls me out of the fray so I can gain better perspective, and see fresh new inspirations.</p>
<h3><strong>The trick is to do it on your time, but be sure you do it!</strong></h3>
<p>A confession: I have a double standard about subscriptions. I ask Alaka‘i Managers to please consider email subscriptions to <em>Talking Story</em> so we can remain connected to our <em>Managing with Aloha</em> like-mindedness, but I myself have been steadily unsubscribing from nearly all the email subscriptions I’ve had in the past, or I filter them to a “newsletters” folder so they don’t clutter up my inbox.</p>
<p>This is NOT to say that I don’t read subscriptions anymore, for I do; I’ve cultivated a reading habit where I batch read them when I’m in the best frame of mind for consuming them with deep reading, <a title="What is the Learning we managers will Curate?" href="http://talkingstory.org/2010/06/the-learning-we-managers-will-curate/" target="_blank">curation</a> and annotation instead of scanning or skimming. And I seize my opportunities for that very pleasing reading rhythm on a daily basis.</p>
<p>In that regard, I’m a better subscriber for authors, bloggers, journalists and other writers than I’ve ever been before. I’m an appreciative reader, and I’m a better user of what they’ve so generously shared with me. In turn, <em>I share better too</em>, with you, with my companies, with my family and assorted networks (<a title="Ho‘ohana Aloha: Let’s Talk Tumblr" href="http://talkingstory.org/2011/01/tumblr/" target="_blank">like Tumblr</a>).</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://mindsoul.tumblr.com/post/3736245809/omg-so-cute-baby"><img class="aligncenter" title="Baby Bookworm on Mind and Soul, Mine" src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lhrvjyc5Nw1qedtm1o1_500.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="334" /></a></p>
<h3><strong>Reading represents the choices you make, and the habits you have.</strong></h3>
<p>If you’re one of those people who’ll say, when completely honest, “Sorry Rosa, I just don’t read books, haven’t since I got out of school.” I’m sorry that mandated experience soured books for you, but reading covers a lot more ground than that these days.</p>
<p>Reading isn’t just about books, magazines and newspapers. And books? They’re a classic example of change in that category of “When in the world did <em>that</em> happen?” Reading this right now, and feeling like I’ve gone back to school on my own time, but in the best possible way: <em>The Fall of the Roman Empire : A New History of Rome and the Barbarians</em> [<a title="The Fall of the Roman Empire : A New History of Rome and the Barbarians" href="http://www.amazon.com/Fall-Roman-Empire-Barbarians-ebook/dp/B000SEI0JQ/ref=tmm_kin_title_0?ie=UTF8&amp;m=AG56TWVU5XWC2" target="_blank">Kindle Edition</a>, see footnote] — way back when, my teachers never had the option of choosing it for me. Publishing has exploded in variety and diversity thanks to the web, and printing has changed: What we read ‘on paper’ today looks (and is) remarkably different from what we read a mere decade ago.</p>
<p>Reading gets connected to your lifestyle, tools and tech habits too, and because of the curator you choose to be. For example, I’ve noticed that my RSS-reading on the iPad is very different from when done on my MacBook: I consume more on the iPad, but I annotate and curate more on my MacBook. I still prowl bookstores with a voracious appetite, but my in-store habits have shifted, as I prowl with my iPhone in hand, retrieving the book recommendations I’ve indexed <a href="http://www.evernote.com/evernote/">in Evernote</a>, or free-sampled on my Kindle.</p>
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<h3><strong>Read lightly. Read deeply. Mix and match the two, and become more interesting.</strong></h3>
<p>The value of <em>‘Ike loa</em> [lifelong learning, <a title="The Core 21 Beliefs of Managing with Aloha" href="http://talkingstory.org/mwa-core-21-beliefs/" target="_blank">Chapter 11 in <em>Managing with Aloha</em></a>] is not just learning <em>how</em>; it’s also learning <em>about</em>.</p>
<p>You don’t have to consume all knowledge deeply; you can just wallow in a good portion of it, and let your proactive choices seep into you lightly… sort of like basting your character with a golden glow which helps you appear healthier — because you are.</p>
<p><a title="Crazy by Thomas Hawk, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/thomashawk/2247049227/"><img src="http://farm3.staticflickr.com/2212/2247049227_0f507e2ef9_m.jpg" alt="Crazy" width="160" height="240" align="left" /></a>There’s absolutely no doubt about it: Reading increases your awareness in a multitude of ways.</p>
<p>It gives you the balance we call understanding and ‘reasonableness,’ for it helps you be humble (<a title="The value of Humility in our workplaces" href="http://talkingstory.org/2010/04/the-value-of-humility-in-our-workplaces/" target="_blank">the nourishing food of <em>Ha‘aha‘a</em></a>), yet more confident, all at the same time.</p>
<p>Reading boosts your repertoire <a title="Must I work this bit alone?" href="http://talkingstory.org/2011/09/must-i-work-this-bit-alone/">for conversation</a>, and so <strong>it makes you a much more interesting person</strong>. And who doesn’t want that?</p>
<p>[See #8 on this list: <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2007/04/twelve-rules-for-self-management/" target="_blank"><em>Twelve Rules for Self-Management</em></a>.]</p>
<p><em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Fall-Roman-Empire-Barbarians-ebook/dp/B000SEI0JQ/ref=tmm_kin_title_0?ie=UTF8&amp;m=AG56TWVU5XWC2"><img class="alignright" title="The Fall of the Roman Empire by Peter Heather" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51PO3MiAuoL._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-sticker-arrow-click,TopRight,35,-76_AA300_SH20_AA278_PIkin4,BottomRight,-46,22_AA300_SH20_OU01_.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="300" /></a>Footnote:</em><br />
I love history: It was my favorite subject in school. However I didn&#8217;t go looking for <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Fall-Roman-Empire-Barbarians-ebook/dp/B000SEI0JQ/ref=tmm_kin_title_0?ie=UTF8&amp;m=AG56TWVU5XWC2" target="_blank">Peter Heather&#8217;s book</a>, it was a radar blip I keyed in on, due to my habit of checking in for Amazon.com&#8217;s Kindle Daily Deal. It cost me just $1.99 &#8212; if you have a Kindle, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/feature.html/ref=amb_link_357313322_1?ie=UTF8&amp;docId=1000677541&amp;pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&amp;pf_rd_s=auto-sparkle&amp;pf_rd_r=B65B9CF7A381450481C2&amp;pf_rd_t=301&amp;pf_rd_p=1315443602&amp;pf_rd_i=deal%20of%20the%20day" target="_blank">bookmark this page</a> and try reading genres which are new to you.</p>
<p><em>From the Archives:</em> <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2011/09/deliberate-inputs/" target="_blank">Deliberate Inputs</a><br />
Snippet:</p>
<blockquote><p>As electioneering ramps up here in America, I get very concerned about what Bill Davidow has called <a title="Article at The Atlantic" href="http://www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2011/09/life-in-the-age-of-extremes/244989/">“Life in the Age of Extremes.”</a> There is much ‘other possibility’ within the extreme polarity of being Republican or Democrat in ideology. <strong>We must all be working on our own Deliberate Inputs to interject more hope into life.</strong></p>
<p>Being hopeful, can be a direct result of <em>Ha‘aha‘a</em>, <a href="http://talkingstory.org/tag/ha%E2%80%98aha%E2%80%98a/">the value of humility</a>, and the way we’ve spoken of ‘finding decisions’ here at Talking Story: <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2009/10/d5m-ing-your-decisions-see-with-your-ears/">Can you see with your ears?</a> <strong>How open-minded are you</strong>, and how willing are you to weigh the opinions of others? Much of it is about proactive listening, so you can <strong>choose to live with a greater confidence</strong> — it’s a confidence that you’ve uncovered and discovered the best answer, because <a title="Learn about Hō‘imi" href="http://talkingstory.org/2010/02/the-3-secrets-of-being-positive/">you’ve gone looking for it</a>. It’s cultivating an optimistic attitude which will <strong>align with your values</strong>, keeping positive expectancy in your life.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Ho‘omau, as nature teaches us to do</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Jan 2012 14:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rosa Say</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The value which gets highlighted the most in Managing with Aloha (by Kindle readers, enabling me to notice it) isn’t Aloha or Ho‘ohana: It’s Ho‘omau, the value of persistence, perseverance, tenacity and resilience. “Renew. Anything worth having is worth working for. Persistence is often the defining quality between those who fail and those who succeed… [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>The value which gets highlighted the most in <em>Managing with Aloha</em> (by Kindle readers, enabling me to notice it) isn’t <em>Aloha</em> or <em>Ho‘ohana:</em> It’s <strong>Ho‘omau</strong>, the value of persistence, perseverance, tenacity and resilience.</p>
<blockquote><p>“Renew. Anything worth having is worth working for. Persistence is often the defining quality between those who fail and those who succeed… There is never much satisfaction in giving up, and Ho‘omau is the value that will cause you to continue, to persevere in your efforts, and to perpetuate those that have worked.”<br />
&#8212; <a title="The Core 21 Beliefs of Managing with Aloha" href="http://talkingstory.org/mwa-core-21-beliefs/" target="_blank"><em>Managing with Aloha</em>, Chapter 4</a></p></blockquote>
<p>Ultimately, <em>the quality of life</em> is what’s “worth having” and “worth working for” and these days I’m seeing fabulous examples of that thanks to Mother Nature.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Budding promises by Rosa Say, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/6731991197/"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7010/6731991197_53beb60080.jpg" alt="Budding promises" width="500" height="500" /></a></p>
<h3><strong>Our story&#8230;</strong></h3>
<p>We took a 10-day holiday this past Christmas, and we shut off the irrigation system we have for our garden when we left. We expected rain while we were gone, and to leave it on during Hawai‘i’s December would be far too wasteful and irresponsible.</p>
<p>Well, it didn’t rain. Not at all.</p>
<p>We came back home to find that much of our garden was dead.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Trying my best by Rosa Say, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/6731990149/"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7012/6731990149_99f5ff0604.jpg" alt="Trying my best" width="500" height="500" /></a></p>
<h3><strong>Or was it?</strong></h3>
<p>Sometimes, it’s good to strip away the pain quickly, and start over.<br />
[Like when there's fire: <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2011/03/inconvenience/" target="_blank">Your Edge comes from your Inconvenience</a>]</p>
<p>At other times, you pray a lot, and you figure out what else you can do, especially when precious trees are involved, trees which have fruited for you abundantly, and faithfully marked your seasons in a number of life-inspiring ways.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Surinam Cherry by Rosa Say, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/6686048797/"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7023/6686048797_6e3d39135a.jpg" alt="Surinam Cherry" width="500" height="500" /></a></p>
<p><strong>You figure out how to Ho‘omau.</strong></p>
<p>The happy part of my story, is that all most of my garden needed was my hand watering just before sunrise each morning to moisten without rotting, coupled with as much patience as I could muster.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Happy to see your blues by Rosa Say, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/6731989077/"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7025/6731989077_a1e3fe5a00.jpg" alt="Happy to see your blues" width="500" height="500" /></a></p>
<p>To be outside each morning now (still hand watering) is such an exquisite pleasure, for there are more flowers now than usual for January: My garden’s survivors are making their own season. Even the mango tree is going for a second blooming, as if to tell me, “Okay, I’ll try again too. I don’t want to be left out of this party!”</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Kula reliability by Rosa Say, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/6712001875/"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7003/6712001875_ae2993d288.jpg" alt="Kula reliability" width="500" height="500" /></a></p>
<p>Did anything die? Yes, most notably one of my <em>puakenikeni</em> trees, but there’s another one, the one which had always been the healthier of the two, even when sharing its root space with the plumeria.</p>
<p>Now that the trees are back, it’s time to learn by their example. It’s my turn to <em>Ho‘omau in the human way</em>.</p>
<p>How about you? How will you <em>Ho‘omau</em> in your season, and not let go?</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Stevia Tenacity by Rosa Say, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/6711999667/"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7014/6711999667_ac3e03f3f6.jpg" alt="Stevia Tenacity" width="500" height="500" /></a></p>
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		<title>Crossing off the Bucket List</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2012 19:05:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rosa Say</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you have a bucket list? You know, a list of those places you want to visit, and all the things you want to do before your life runs its natural course. Having one, and reviewing it regularly is good tonic for spicing up the normal pattern of your days. Try reading over your list [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><strong>Do you have a bucket list?</strong></p>
<p>You know, a list of those places you want to visit, and all the things you want to do before your life runs its natural course.</p>
<p>Having one, and reviewing it regularly is good tonic for spicing up the normal pattern of your days. Try reading over your list just before bed on a night before you have <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2012/01/on-other-days/">one of your Other Days</a>, and what happens the next morning might surprise you… our wondrous brains have a way of taking over at night as we just lay there and blissfully let it happen.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="A man, his dogs, and a National Park in Hawai‘i... by Rosa Say, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/6710860473/"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7027/6710860473_6fd9d3f50d.jpg" alt="A man, his dogs, and a National Park in Hawai‘i..." width="500" height="357" /></a></p>
<h3><strong>Leisurely travel, close to home</strong></h3>
<p>One of the entries on my bucket list covers a lot of ground here in Hawai‘i, and I’d bet it would do the same for you no matter where you live. It reads, <em>“Get out and go where the tourists go.”</em></p>
<p>Why should they have all the fun?</p>
<p>I don’t want to be one of those people who lives somewhere without seeing, being physically within, and all-senses-firing <em>feeling</em> all the amazing places that are readily accessible to me, if only I’d make the time to do so.</p>
<p>Here are some photos from my last Other Day’s adventure: I did the loop hike at <strong>Kaloko-Honokōhau National Historic Park</strong>. Established in 1978 it’s a newer one, and less popular as national parks go, which means it takes some determination and tenacity to see it: Pathways are directionally marked, but barely enough, and you need to be open to those “I wonder if I’m lost?” moments, especially if you start on your own before the visitor facilities open for the day… the island sun has trained me to head out at first light, or earlier. Better photography happens then too.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="January 14th Sunrise, over Hualalai by Rosa Say, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/6703453279/"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7022/6703453279_5a740f382b.jpg" alt="January 14th Sunrise, over Hualalai" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
<p>Sometimes I do more homework, but this particular adventure was one limited to being sure I had sunscreen, a chapstick, a cap and good shoes, a bottle of water and the stock brochure — kind of a test of your own powers of observation: <em>Will I find, and see, everything there is to see?</em></p>
<p>My full Flickr/Instagram photo set is <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/sets/72157628903393675/">here</a> with accurate descriptions to identify them, and there’s a wealth of info at <a href="http://www.nps.gov/kaho/index.htm">the park’s website</a>. A quick summary from their brochure:</p>
<blockquote><p>The <em>Ala Hele Ike Hawaii</em> trail leads from the main parking area [of the Visitor Center] to the beach. It connects with the <em>Ala Hele Kahakai</em>, or Coastal Trail, which runs north-south beside the ocean and takes you along the sand beach and fishponds and through areas of dense vegetation. Two historic trails, the Mamalahoa, dating from the 1830s, and the Ala Hele Hu&#8217;e Hu&#8217;e (and old ranch road), cross the lava fields.</p></blockquote>
<p>There&#8217;s a small petroglyph field surrounded by a protective wooden boardwalk too.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Pua maia pilo (Hawaiian Caper) by Rosa Say, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/6698656607/"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7161/6698656607_7605f0fbbe_m.jpg" alt="Pua maia pilo (Hawaiian Caper)" width="240" height="240" /></a> <a title="Pua kala by Rosa Say, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/6698657209/"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7012/6698657209_24ca0b2ae9_m.jpg" alt="Pua kala" width="240" height="240" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="‘Aimakapā Fishpond, at Kaloko by Rosa Say, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/6710667215/"><img class=" aligncenter" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7158/6710667215_27df2919ca.jpg" alt="‘Aimakapā Fishpond, at Kaloko" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Weathered milo- original by Rosa Say, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/6710976397/"><img class=" aligncenter" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7007/6710976397_f7fe0909fe.jpg" alt="Weathered milo- original" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Ala Hele Kahakai by Rosa Say, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/6698658053/"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7171/6698658053_c0341013c9_m.jpg" alt="Ala Hele Kahakai" width="240" height="240" /></a> <a title="Rusted, but still effective by Rosa Say, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/6711084341/"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7032/6711084341_4d2feda003_m.jpg" alt="Rusted, but still effective" width="240" height="240" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Use your zoom! by Rosa Say, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/6711087283/"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7028/6711087283_679cf8357e.jpg" alt="Use your zoom!" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="‘Aimakapā Fishpond, at Kaloko by Rosa Say, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/6710670097/"><img class=" aligncenter" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7141/6710670097_10b9a6efb8.jpg" alt="‘Aimakapā Fishpond, at Kaloko" width="500" height="357" /></a></p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jan 2012 20:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rosa Say</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you’ve read Talking Story for any longer-than-recently length of time, you know that I’m a big fan of creative structure. I like to test new habits and shift my routines, to explore and experiment with variation, but I also do so with the hope that I’ll nalu it, and fall into a cool, unexpected, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>If you’ve read <em>Talking Story</em> for any longer-than-recently length of time, you know that I’m a big fan of <strong>creative structure</strong>. I like to test <a title="You are Your Habits, so Make ‘em Good!" href="http://talkingstory.org/2009/04/you-are-your-habits-so-make-em-good/" target="_blank">new habits</a> and shift my routines, to explore and experiment with variation, but I also do so with the hope that I’ll <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2011/11/say-aloha-november-nalu-it/" target="_blank"><em>nalu it</em></a>, and fall into a cool, unexpected, and pleasing rhythm of some new sort.</p>
<p>Structure is comforting, and I like structure. But nobody said it had to be stagnant, stodgy and boring. So I willingly devote whole weekends to <a title="http://talkingstory.org/2010/02/weekend-project-hoimi-your-trusted-system/" href="http://talkingstory.org/2010/02/weekend-project-hoimi-your-trusted-system/" target="_blank">designing trusted systems</a>. I especially love values-based structure (<a title="Value Your Month to Value Your Life" href="http://talkingstory.org/2011/01/value-your-month-to-value-your-life/" target="_blank">no surprise there</a>, huh), for it serves as a kind of <a title="Value Verbing: Theme 2012 with your Aloha Spirit" href="http://talkingstory.org/2012/01/value-verbing-to-theme-2012/" target="_blank">good-habit filtering</a> of all that life can throw at you.</p>
<p>However <em>I like change too</em>. That is, I like it the way most people will discover they actually like it: When they’ve been the ones to choose the change, being more proactive about it versus being swept away in the tide because someone else decided to “make waves” and rock the boat.</p>
<p>If you can become a person who <em>chooses change</em>, you begin to dabble, <a title="In 2012, PLAY more" href="http://rosasay.tumblr.com/post/15407688020/play" target="_blank">and play</a> with it. You reveal creativity you hadn’t thought you had, but do! What others choose to do doesn’t bother you as much, because you’re too busy with your own thing. The boat might be rocking, but you’re standing in the best place — next to the life preservers — and you already have a plan.</p>
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<h3><strong>Time is finite. Content isn’t.</strong></h3>
<p>We all get 24 hours in a day, 7 days in a week, and 52 weeks in a year. What we choose to fill those time frames with, represents an abundance of choice — sky’s the limit. The question I have for you is this: <em>Do you make all the choices you get to make?</em></p>
<p>Note the distinction: Not choices you <em>have to</em> make, but choices you <em>get to</em> make.</p>
<p>One consequence of the conventional 40-hour work week, is that most of us have created our ‘weekday’ and ‘weekend’ paradigms, even if our schedules dictate when the weekend will actually be (mine will happen this coming Tuesday and Wednesday this particular week).</p>
<p>Well, what if you got more than that?</p>
<p>If you are successful at designing a 20-hour work week for yourself like we talked about <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2012/01/the-20-hour-work-week/" target="_blank">last time</a>, a supremely wonderful get-to moment the world is paying serious attention to now, this is what you’ll get:</p>
<ul>
<li>Work days</li>
<li>Weekends</li>
<li>Other days</li>
</ul>
<p>The creative structure of your ‘Other Days’ is completely up to you. How would you design them?</p>
<h3><strong>Making life different, and doing it on purpose.</strong></h3>
<p>For instance, my Work Days typically go like this:<br />
Wake up, brush my teeth, wash my face, fit in my run or workout as possible. Shower, dress the part in store for the day, have a light breakfast. Go to work in the way I’d planned to ‘hit the ground running’ the night before, and by merit of my <a title="Learn a 5-Step Weekly Review, and Make it your Habit" href="http://talkingstory.org/2009/08/learn-a-5-step-weekly-review/" target="_blank">Weekly Review</a> (told ya, I like structure: <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2011/09/deliberate-inputs/" target="_blank">Deliberate Inputs</a>).</p>
<p>In comparison, my Other Days go like this:<br />
Wake up at 5am. Brush <em>and floss</em> my teeth, as I make faces at myself in the mirror and read whatever affirmations I stuck up there on post-its. Capture whatever they make me think about in the Voice Memos app on my phone. Get dressed in the most comfortable, clean clothes I have in reach; no match, no matter (to be truthful, I usually go for more color, and the purposely unprofessional). Start the fixings of a <em>good</em> breakfast, including firing up my Krups cappuccino maker and grinding some good Kona beans. Sit on our porch with my coffee, and find something to take at least one photo of as the sun comes up. Decide how to use the photo as I finish my breakfast. Read whatever is on my Kindle for at least an hour, and for as long as I want to. Write something, and see if I can illustrate it (I want to learn to draw in some distinctive-to-me way). Use the rest of the day <a title="Be unencumbered" href="http://talkingstory.org/2011/10/be-unencumbered/" target="_blank">being unencumbered</a>, and however my spirit moves me.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">In the values-speak of <em>Managing with Aloha:</em><br />
&#8230;Work Days are for <em>Ho‘ohana, Kuleana</em> and <em>Kūlia i ka nu‘u</em><br />
&#8230;Weekends are for <em>‘Ohana, Mālama</em> and <em>Mahalo</em><br />
&#8230;Other Days are for <em>‘Imi ola, ‘Ike loa</em> and <em>Nānā i ke kumu</em></p>
<p><a title="Kindling with my morning coffee by Rosa Say, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/6709661165/"><img class="aligncenter" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7155/6709661165_27cf6784ee.jpg" alt="Kindling with my morning coffee" width="500" height="500" align="middle" /></a><br />
I never check my email on Other Days, and I force myself to ignore my computer’s Work Day bookmarks. If I open my laptop I’ll go straight to my G-Reader and follow links for the 5,6, or 7 degrees of separation my inspiring stable of blogging accomplices and instigators send me toward, and I merrily wander away the time, stopping occasionally to curate my <a href="http://www.stevenberlinjohnson.com/2010/04/the-glass-box-and-the-commonplace-book.html">Commonplace Book</a> in Evernote. I seek to <em>remember the good</em> by dipping into the older archives of <em>Ho‘ohana Aloha</em> (<a href="http://talkingstory.org/2011/01/tumblr/">my Tumblr</a>) so I can <em>Ho‘omau</em> with it (stretch it out, and make it last). I read a lot on Other Days; deep reading, resisting all urges to scan or skim.</p>
<p>Other Days are for discovering how much of a weather-wise person you are (different from weather-lucky). I get outside as much as possible and take a lot of walks on my Other Days, and I call people just to talk story on the phone for a while, or I write letters and thank you notes. Sometimes I simply stay inside the entire day long, and savor the spots of refuge and rejuvenation of my home &#8211; absolutely heavenly when it rains! (Home is different on the weekends, for then I share it with family &#8230;I’m cleaning and catching up with chores.)</p>
<p>I’m an obsessive planner with my Work Days, necessary by merit of the travel and island-hopping I do, yet I am very diligent about fitting in my <a title="5 Minutes/ 3 Values/ 9 MWA Questions" href="http://talkingstory.org/2009/11/daily-5-3-9-redux/" target="_blank">Daily 5 Minutes</a> and having <a title="Conversation “is a pain”" href="http://talkingstory.org/2011/01/conversation-is-a-pain/" target="_blank">other conversations</a>. On Other Days <strong>I plan nothing</strong> but creative pursuits I want to try (<a href="http://pinterest.com/rosasay/" target="_blank">handwork, crafty things mostly</a>), and just fall into the environmental structure I have described. My Other Days aren’t exactly hobby days though, for my goal is more variety. More random life-immersion. More <em>other-ness</em>.</p>
<p>I write a a lot, for that’s how I tend to think, and reason things out. As you might guess, most of what I publish on <em>Talking Story</em> got written on my Other Days, at least in draft form.</p>
<p>Here’s something I just read on my Kindle that was pretty reaffirming:</p>
<blockquote><p>“What kind of environment creates good ideas? The simplest way to answer it is this: innovative environments are better at helping their inhabitants explore <em>the adjacent possible</em> (<a href="http://talkingstory.org/2012/01/an-aloha-business-for-2012/">defined in this post&#8217;s footnote</a>), because they expose a wide and diverse sample of spare parts—mechanical or conceptual—and they encourage novel ways of recombining those parts. Environments that block or limit those new combinations—by punishing experimentation, by obscuring certain branches of possibility, by making the current state so satisfying that no one bothers to explore the edges—will, on average, generate and circulate fewer innovations than environments that encourage exploration.”<br />
— Steven Johnson, <a title="More comments on Goodreads" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/9366948-where-good-ideas-come-from" target="_blank"><em>Where Good Ideas Come From: The Natural History of Innovation</em></a></p></blockquote>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://itstartswith.com/2011/10/28-in-52-notes/"><img class="aligncenter" title="Stop Chasing Ordinary by Sarah Kathleen Peck" src="http://itstartswith.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/stop-chasing-ordinary.jpg" alt="" width="448" height="448" /></a></p>
<p>These days, managers are pretty good at thinking about the environmental creativity fostered in the workplace. But what about in those places where everything else happens?</p>
<p>I propose that <strong>you can have Other Days</strong> right <em>now</em>, even if you start with just one day a week, and no matter what the rest of the world is doing in battling or keeping with their existing conventions.</p>
<p>Try it.<br />
Your dentist will be very happy about the flossing thing.</p>
<p><strong>Just in case you missed these:</strong></p>
<ol>
<li><a title="Value Verbing: Theme 2012 with your Aloha Spirit" href="http://talkingstory.org/2012/01/value-verbing-to-theme-2012/" target="_blank">Value Verbing: Theme 2012 with your Aloha Spirit</a></li>
<li><a href="http://talkingstory.org/2012/01/an-aloha-business-for-2012/" target="_blank">An Aloha Business for 2012</a></li>
<li><a href="http://talkingstory.org/2012/01/the-20-hour-work-week/" target="_blank">On the 20-hour work week: All in favor?</a></li>
</ol>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jan 2012 20:16:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rosa Say</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>There’s an interesting idea which keeps popping up on my radar these early days of our new year, and I love it. It’s an inventive call to action:</p>
<p><strong>Let’s shift what we value in society today, by shifting to the 20-hour work week.</strong></p>
<p>The argument behind this proposal, is that our 40-hour work week has been our convention, but convention isn’t unquestionable fact. Convention isn’t necessarily right, and it may not be that good for us anymore — Was it ever?</p>
<p>The idea is being touted as a sorting-out solution to present unemployment and underemployment levels, wherein we can share the wealth as a better networked society: One job (40 hours per week), designed the old way, can now be held by two people, and designed in a new way (20 hours per week for each of them.)</p>
<p>Breaking free of our convention will be quite radical; it will require adjustments of epic proportion in compensation, legality, managerial mindset, union reorganization… the list is lengthy. <em>But here’s the thing:</em> The possibility of it happening is the unexpected silver lining of The Great Recession. The idea <a title="For example, this was written in May of 2008" href="http://davewrites.com/20-hour-work-week/" target="_blank">is not that new</a>, however conditions for this change have never been as ripe.</p>
<p>And the reward is absolutely dazzling: A better quality of life for each of us, where work is no longer such a tight shackle. When you decrease the hours in which you labor, you increase the hours available to you for more variety — for what we’ve long referred to as “the spice of life.”</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Breakfast at Kenny &amp; Zuke’s Delicatessen by Rosa Say, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/5762535864/"><img src="http://farm3.staticflickr.com/2677/5762535864_ef078ed1fc.jpg" alt="Breakfast at Kenny &amp; Zuke’s Delicatessen" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
<p>I for one, am fervently hoping this idea of the 20-hour work week gains more traction. Let’s reinvent our <strong>‘Ohana in Business</strong> in a big way. We can align this visionary thinking with <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2012/01/an-aloha-business-for-2012/">our Aloha Business model in 2012</a>, I know we can, <em>for this is something I am already doing</em>. I have a 20-hour work week now, and you can have it too, no matter what it is you do.</p>
<p><em>How can you lead in this effort?<br />
What is the first step that you can personally take, leading by virtue of <a title="Set a good example" href="http://talkingstory.org/2010/09/set-a-good-example/" target="_blank">your own good example</a>?</em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">“Example has more followers than reason.”<br />
~ Christian Nevell Bovee</p>
<p>Here are those blips on the radar if you want to read more:</p>
<ol>
<li><a href="http://talkingstory.org/2012/01/an-aloha-business-for-2012/#comment-7461">Cut the working week to a maximum of 20 hours, urge top economists</a><br />
Heather Stewart at The Observer reports: “Job sharing and increased leisure are the answer to rising unemployment, claims thinktank.”</li>
<li><a href="http://www.fastcoexist.com/1679111/the-case-for-a-21-hour-work-week">Fast Company Co.Exist: The Case For A 21-Hour Work Week</a><br />
“It would create jobs and stop the unsustainable cycle of rampant consumerism. Sure, it would also require a wholesale reordering of our economy, but that might happen whether we like it or not.”</li>
</ol>
<p style="text-align: center;">Discover the power of 5 Minutes: <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2004/12/the-daily-five-minutes/">A book excerpt from </a><em><a href="http://talkingstory.org/2004/12/the-daily-five-minutes/">Managing with Aloha</a></em><a href="http://talkingstory.org/2004/12/the-daily-five-minutes/"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2954" title="D5MBetterMgr" src="http://talkingstory.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/D5MBetterMgr.jpg" alt="D5MBetterMgr" width="491" height="159" /></a></p>
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		<dc:creator>Rosa Say</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Last post, we talked about <a title="Value Verbing: Theme 2012 with your Aloha Spirit" href="http://talkingstory.org/2012/01/value-verbing-to-theme-2012/" target="_blank">an approach for the January overwhelm</a> that can appear this time of year, and our talk story about it slanted toward the personal. Let’s talk about <strong>your workplace</strong> today.</p>
<p>If you are a business owner, or an Alaka‘i Manager — one with <em>Kuleana</em> (a sense of personal responsibility, and personal accountability) within your circle of influence, whatever its scope, <em>AND</em> you have the <a title="Blog category for Ho'ohana" href="http://talkingstory.org/category/2-hoohana/" target="_blank"><em>Ho‘ohana</em> intention</a> to manage <em>with Aloha</em> — this post is for you.</p>
<h3><strong>An Aloha Business for 2012</strong></h3>
<p>What will the <em>Aloha</em> business look like and feel like? Why will it be the best kind of business to tackle the coming year’s challenges with the greatest prospects of success? What will it take, so it truly thrives and prospers?</p>
<p>Here are my suggestions for you.</p>
<h3><strong>STEP 1: Allow your people to design their own work schedules, both where and when, and how much. </strong></h3>
<p>If you’re a manager who maintains control of a schedule, it’s time to let it go. To be frank, you should’ve let it go a long, long time ago. If you have a group who works to obey their assigned time on the clock versus the demands and mission of the business, you still have a ‘staff’ and not a ‘tribe’ who will rally around a common cause with the vibrant energy an Aloha-valued business thrives on.</p>
<p>Even businesses with operating hours can successfully put their work schedules in the hands of their people, and should do so. You replace the schedule the manager has controlled (and refereed, yuck) <em>with an agreement:</em> Allow your emerging tribe to <strong>self-organize</strong> around necessary coverage first, and then <strong>self-direct</strong>, filling in the blanks with the rest of the work. Those ‘blanks’ are the opportunities to go above and beyond mere coverage, illustrating for you the work they choose to do because it is most important, either to them, or to your customer, and aren’t those the two groups of people who count most in the workplace equation to begin with?</p>
<p>You’ll be in for a might-be-rocky adjustment at first, but I promise you, the self-sorting, self-directing, tribe-loving work of your people will begin to reveal its treasures. They will surprise you, delight you, and fill you with pride.</p>
<p>If you’re arguing with me in your head with this, insisting that, “well fine, it doesn’t have to be me, but I’ll probably need a lead,” that lead will emerge — your people will elect their most trusted peer. Let it happen and stay out of it, for you have other things to do (read on!)</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>A related read in the archives, about <strong>giving permission</strong>:</em> <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2011/11/managers-give-permission/" target="_blank">When Managers Say the Right Things</a>. To be an Alaka‘i Manager, work on this deliberately: Speak with those two critical intentions of giving permission and sharing your appreciation.</p>
<h3><strong>STEP 2: Value-align your Customer Service with a value-mapping 12&#215;12.</strong></h3>
<p>Imagine what it will do for your business — your profits, your cause, your reputation, your standing in the community — if you improve your customer service x12 in 2012! This is how you get there:</p>
<p>Begin a <a title="Value Your Month to Value Your Life" href="http://talkingstory.org/2011/01/value-your-month-to-value-your-life/" target="_blank">value of the month program</a> which will focus on work-aligning the answers to just one crucial question month after month, a two-fold one: <em>a) What does this value mean to us, and b) How do we share this value with our customer?</em></p>
<p>Sometimes the answers will have to do with changing what you allow a customer to do or not do: The answers which emerge as the month goes by won’t only be about you and your tribe. That’s good: Get rid of your <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2011/08/trump-those-old-rules/" target="_blank">sacred cows</a>, reinvent and innovate, move forward and <a title="The 3 Sins of Management" href="http://talkingstory.org/2005/02/the-3-sins-of-management/" target="_blank">get better</a>.</p>
<p>Start with the values which are most important to you, and work your program with the 12th of each month as day 1: Keep that x12 number in mind every way you can, and have this program take you through next year’s holidays to January 11th, 2013. For instance:</p>
<p>January 12-February 11: <em>Ho‘okipa</em>, the value of service in generosity.<br />
February 12-March 11: <em>Mālama</em>, the value of caring, compassion, and stewardship.<br />
March 12-April 11: <em>Kākou</em>, the value of communication, and inclusivity.<br />
April 12-May 11: <em>Lōkahi</em>, the value of teamwork, cooperation and collaboration.<br />
And so on.</p>
<p>What you will begin to discover — and it will surprise you how quickly this happens — is that your self-directed tribe will apply this value alignment to everything else too: That’s the magic of <a title="Revisiting Value Immersion: Where are your hot spots?" href="http://talkingstory.org/2011/03/value-immersion-hot-spots/" target="_blank">value immersion</a>. You, as Alaka‘i Manager, take the lead with inspiring the charge for the customer, because they won’t always speak for themselves with the same “me too!” urgency that your tribe will. In fact, think about bringing favorite repeat customers into the program as well: Ask them to be your mentor of the month!</p>
<h3><strong>STEP 3: Realign your own Ho‘ohana as an Alaka‘i Manager.</strong></h3>
<p>If you tackle my first two suggestions with full commitment, you will be able to redesign your own day-to-day work as a manager — and as an emerging leader — because of the natural <a title="Don’t Just Add, Replace. Own the 100%" href="http://talkingstory.org/2011/02/own-all-100/" target="_blank">replacement of tasks</a> that happens for you.</p>
<p>It won’t all be peaches and cream at first, for you have to get through the crucible of change that leads to the good stuff. For instance, you may discover that some people leave the tribe (or are forced out) because their comfort zones erode and they can’t evade the radar any longer — <a title="You’ll Be the Company you Keep" href="http://talkingstory.org/2010/02/be-the-company-you-keep/" target="_blank">ultimately a good thing</a>. Taking care of your tribe will always be Job One of the Alaka‘i Manager, but you are progressing magnificently, and growing as your people grow in their own self-direction. Keep your eye on the prize!</p>
<p>Eventually, there will be two game changers you can concentrate on from now on, because you have brought them into the realm of your &#8220;adjacent possible&#8221; (see footnote):</p>
<ol>
<li>The development of your people: How can you mentor their growth? Start here: <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2011/04/are-you-d5ming-yet/" target="_blank">Are you doing the Daily Five Minutes yet?</a> then review this: <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2011/03/appraisal-goal-setting/" target="_blank">Annual Appraisals</a>, and then key in to <em>‘Ike loa</em>, the value of lifelong learning (Review chapter 11 in <em>Managing with Aloha</em>.)</li>
<li><a href="http://talkingstory.org/2010/04/model-me-this/" target="_blank">Your business model</a>: Re-sort out the financial common sense and innovative sense of your business model — <a title="Drive well: Pay people Enough" href="http://talkingstory.org/2010/06/drive-well-pay-people-enough/" target="_blank">compensation</a>, profit-sharing, reinvestment, community philanthropy, all of it. Become the leader you haven’t had the time to become up to now, for that time is here.</li>
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<p>I know you can do this, for you are an Alaka‘i Manager.</p>
<p>I won’t be posting again until January 12th or later, so you have the time to plan this, have your group meetings necessary, invite customer mentors and get started. Do <a href="http://rosasay.com/contact/" target="_blank">write me</a> if you have a question, or encounter a speed bump and we’ll talk story about it.</p>
<p>We ho‘ohana kākou, and always with Aloha!<br />
Rosa</p>
<p>&#8230; if you ache for something fresh to read between now and my next posting, remember that you can always click over to my Tumblr, <a href="http://rosasay.tumblr.com/" target="_blank"><em>Ho‘ohana Aloha</em></a>, and see what finds are getting added there.</p>
<p><em>Footnote:</em> &#8220;Adjacent possible&#8221; is an environmental condition I learned about in Steven Johnson&#8217;s book, <a title="Book link on Goodreads" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/9366948-where-good-ideas-come-from" target="_blank"><em>Where Good Ideas Come From</em></a>. &#8220;The phrase captures both the limits and the creative potential of change and innovation&#8230; the adjacent possible is a kind of shadow future, hovering on the edges of the the present state of things, a map of all the ways in which the present can reinvent itself&#8221; &#8212; if you, as manager, are willing to take that leap into a better future, bringing your workplace with you.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Irresistible by Rosa Say, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/4805022035/"><img src="http://farm5.staticflickr.com/4074/4805022035_edc0be2655.jpg" alt="Irresistible" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
<p>Are you just catching up with our Ho‘ohana Community now? Here are links for our most recent talk stories this week:<br />
<strong>January 1:</strong> <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2012/01/hoimi-ola/" target="_blank">What do you know to be sure? Hō‘imi ola.</a></p>
<blockquote><p><em>Hau‘oli Makahiki Hou</em> — Happy New Year!<br />
I sincerely hope that 2011 ended with ma‘alahi joy for you (contentment), as it did for me. I am flush with the lush generosity of Mahalo (an elemental gratitude) as I sit and write this for you. Good endings help us create good beginnings&#8230;</p></blockquote>
<p><strong>January 2:</strong> <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2012/01/value-verbing-to-theme-2012/" target="_blank">Value Verbing: Theme 2012 with your Aloha Spirit</a></p>
<blockquote><p>In my Makahiki letter, I’d said that I love this time of year because it is Ka lā hiki ola (the dawning of a new day) at its most pervasive moment: We human beings collaborate in self-care, and in our Ho‘ohana intentions. The whole world seems to be in sync, as we collectively look back to assess what we’ve come to know. We corral our confidences and our strengths, and then we look forward, expectantly, and with hopeful optimism knowing those confidences and strengths are packable and adjustable: They’ll remain with us, and they’ll remain useful.<br />
What’s not to love? In a word, the <strong>overwhelm</strong>.</p></blockquote>
<p>Written for January of 2010, and a good read to review: <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2009/12/for-2010-with-aloha/" target="_blank">The ALOHA Point of View</a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://astore.amazon.com/sayleadership-20/detail/0976019000"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-5617" title="MWA Aloha from Pete Aldin" src="http://talkingstory.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/0001Nd-1024x452.jpg" alt="" width="614" height="271" /></a>Purchase <em>Managing with Aloha</em> at Amazon.com <a href="http://astore.amazon.com/sayleadership-20/detail/0976019000">in hardcover</a>, or <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Managing-Bringing-Universal-Business-ebook/dp/B003ES5QPY/">in the Kindle Store</a>.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>In <a title="What do you know to be sure? Hō‘imi ola." href="http://talkingstory.org/2012/01/hoimi-ola/" target="_blank">my Makahiki letter</a>, I’d said that I love this time of year because it is <em>Ka lā hiki ola</em> (the dawning of a new day) at its most pervasive moment: We human beings collaborate in self-care, and in our <em>Ho‘ohana</em> intentions. The whole world seems to be in sync, as we collectively look back to assess what we’ve come to know. We corral our confidences and our strengths, and then we look forward, expectantly, and with hopeful optimism knowing those confidences and strengths are packable and adjustable: They’ll remain with us, and they’ll remain useful.</p>
<p>What’s not to love? <a title="Aloha January! by Rosa Say, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/6622402823/"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7032/6622402823_d3a91bd28f_m.jpg" alt="Aloha January!" width="240" height="240" align="right" /></a></p>
<p>Well, in a word, the <strong>overwhelm</strong>, especially in January’s looking-forward progression. There is a lot to sort through and make decisions about, especially if you try to mix new learning into the batch — it’ll be <em>new</em> learning, and so you’re essentially mixing in batches of unknowns. You’re taking some chances, and turning your resolve into another experiment.</p>
<p>There are two trends I’m seeing, where people are trying to self-manage, get better organized, and habit-create more effectively: Word themes and inputs.</p>
<h3><strong>Inputs over Outputs</strong></h3>
<p>I’m liking the focus on <strong>inputs</strong> (your activities: what you actually do) over <strong>outputs</strong> (the end-result outcomes, like goals and objectives).</p>
<p>We have more control with inputs — as the value of <em>‘Imi ola</em> reminds us, we create our own destiny with each action we personally take. There are several more variables which will contribute to the success or failure of outputs, and they often have to do with other people, whose decisions (and thus actions) are ultimately out of our control. If the only inputs we can effectively direct and control well are our own, we are wise to concentrate our efforts wherever ‘me, myself, and I’ comes into play.</p>
<p>We may want to include others, so corroboration is a good thing. Thus wouldn’t we be wiser to focus on it as an input? How do we collaborate with others? What are the confidences and strengths of our own behavior, and how will we remain humble and open-minded (<em>Ha‘aha‘a</em>, the value of humility) so we become even better, and continue to grow?</p>
<h3><strong>Word themes</strong></h3>
<p>There’s no doubt about it, words are powerful. To state your choices deliberately, and then commit to them can be highly effective — as long as you actually follow through.</p>
<p>The potential problem I am seeing people run into, is in the choice of words they begin with. Many are outputs: health, happiness, wealth. Others are quite broad and need more description: creativity, freedom, organization. Even a word like ‘focus’ is probably too general: What are you going to focus on, and why?</p>
<p>You may say, “It’s a theme, and I know what I mean.” As a coach I’d challenge you on that: Wring out the details and take a good look at them. Are you giving yourself too much wishy-washy wiggle room? Will it be easy for you to abort, and shift your focus day by day? There’s a lot of noise in our world to get distracted by…</p>
<p>You can probably guess where I’m going with this! We all need help with our follow-through, so get your values to help you. That’s actually what they do best.</p>
<h3><strong>Choose Values and Verbs as your Inputs <em>and</em> your Words</strong></h3>
<p>Roll credits: As we’ve learned from <a title="The Core 21 Beliefs of Managing with Aloha" href="http://talkingstory.org/mwa-core-21-beliefs/" target="_blank"><em>Managing with Aloha</em></a>, the big deal about values is that <strong>they drive our behavior by taking good direction from our self-aware sources</strong>.</p>
<p>Your values are the pilot lights of your human goodness, and they start the best fire (energy!) in the actions you choose to take. They are the easiest actions to follow-through with, because <em>they are about you.</em> Your values will reveal you, they fit you, and they celebrate you.</p>
<p>Knowing your personal value-drivers is self-affirming in the most extraordinary way: You learn about yourself, and what’s important to you, and why. You expose your <em>vitality</em>.</p>
<p>Why do you want this learning about you? The more you know about the wonder you are, the closer you get to knowing what you’re meant to do or create: Your <em>Ho‘ohana</em> (intentional work and purpose-driving) will get naturally connected to the work of your legacy.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Reading tip:</strong> If <a href="The Core 21 Beliefs of Managing with Aloha" target="_blank"><em>MWA</em></a> has sat on your shelf for a while, open it up to chapter 17 on <strong>Nānā i ke kumu</strong> for a good review — “Look to your source” for it’s a wonderful place to be.</p>
<h3><strong>So do Choose your Words. Speak them often.</strong></h3>
<p>Be decisive so you can begin well. Seize January with both hands and with your soul.</p>
<p>Do choose the inputs which are the actions and activities you’ll commit to practicing daily, and allow them to gain traction, and strengthen you with more confidence.</p>
<p>Just be sure your words (or clarifying phrases) are <strong>active verbs</strong>, and know which of your personal values they are connected to. Beware the wiggle room, and go for that best fit your values will give you.</p>
<p>Fortify your own life, and begin the day-by-day work on the legacy you are meant to give to our world.</p>
<p>We ho‘ohana kākou, and with aloha,<br />
Rosa</p>
<p>Learn more about <strong>value-alignment</strong> and <strong>value-mapping</strong> here: <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2011/01/value-your-month-to-value-your-life/" target="_blank">Value Your Month to Value Your Life</a></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Aloha dear friends, Hau‘oli Makahiki Hou — Happy New Year. Good endings help us create good beginnings I sincerely hope that 2011 ended with ma‘alahi joy for you (contentment), as it did for me. I am flush with the lush generosity of Mahalo (an elemental gratitude) as I sit and write this for you. We [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Aloha dear friends, <em>Hau‘oli Makahiki Hou</em> — Happy New Year.</p>
<h3><strong>Good endings help us create good beginnings </strong></h3>
<p>I sincerely hope that 2011 ended with ma‘alahi joy for you (contentment), as it did for me. I am flush with the lush generosity of <em>Mahalo</em> (an elemental gratitude) as I sit and write this for you.</p>
<p>We were able to get our entire family together for a week-long Christmas celebration — quite the feat as we now live in three different cities with an ocean and quintet of job scheduling between us. The best gift I received wasn’t wrapped in bright paper and tied up with ribbon (though those were quite fabulous too); it was that strong surge of confident optimism one gets from spending giving time in the arms of <em>‘Ohana</em> — family, and those you care most about in your world. We didn’t talk about it with each other explicitly, but I know we all ended the week feeling that the coming year will be good to us, and good <em>for</em> us, and that <em>we’ll be good for it too</em>. It will be our <em>Ho‘ohana</em> intention no matter the path of our lives.</p>
<p>This weekend has been blissful in another way, with a welcome abundance of quiet spells filled well, mostly with <em>reading</em>. Having both Christmas and New Year’s Day <em>and</em> their eves on consecutive weekends is the very best blessing of a calendar’s turning, don’t you think?</p>
<p>One of my husband’s gifts this year was an iPad2, and guess who has been using it most? It wasn’t something I had coveted, for I’ve been quite happy with my digital arsenal as is (MacBook, iPhone and Kindle if you’re wondering), but once I had the iPad in my hands I just had to play with it, and experiment!</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>Sidebar…</em> it used to be that we’d “take a digital holiday” and mean that we were taking a break from our email, our blogs, and the nascent dabbling we did in social media. Now however, our app-crazed advancements have given us ‘digital degrees’ in a whole rainbow of possibilities (and quirks). Observing how a single choice can so dramatically affect our lifestyle habits is quite the fascination for me. What will morph from toy to new learning, and maybe to obsession? What value is at play, and thus, can be better revealed?</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Did you ever think of apps that way, that they can awaken those assorted, still untested bits of your sleeping spirit?</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">One personal example for me is the app <a href="http://www.fooducate.com/" target="_blank">Fooducate</a>: I now scan every barcode on a new purchase before I decide to buy packaged foods. The value at play for me is surely <em>Mālama</em>, and taking care of my own health with each food choice, something vitally important to me. No one wants to die <a title="Kenny Chesney: Everybody Wants To Go To Heaven" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6MqUqtTlLI" target="_blank">of course</a>, and neither do I, but I <em>am</em> someone who wants the direct route when my time arrives: I’ll eagerly bypass any physical care-getting in my waning years which just prolongs the inevitable.</p>
<h3><strong>A New Year brings so many new choices! Does it bring you focus? Intention?</strong></h3>
<p>So far, the apps rule with my iPhone, and I’m finding that the iPad is fantastic for reading web-based publishing (I’m sticking with book reading on my Kindle), and I yearn for some of the bloggers who have called it quits and have moved on. However there are so many new writers to be discovered, and where I use the iPad most is within my Google Reader.</p>
<p>Thus my ‘blissful weekend.’ Despite the never-ceasing yay-nay debates on setting resolutions, I absolutely <em>love</em> reading those blog entries where writers of all persuasion reflect on their old year, and then pen their <em>Ho‘ohana</em> (best work) and <em>‘Imi ola</em> (best life) intentions for the coming year. They inspire the Aloha yearnings in me too: I can’t help but do the same thing — think about what I valued most in the past year, and what I intend to value most in the year to come.</p>
<p>Are you doing something similar, and reflecting too? I hope so.</p>
<p>Rally your gratitude and let <em>Mahalo</em> fortify you too.</p>
<p><em>Nānā i ke kumu</em>, and <a href="http://talkingstory.org/tag/nana-i-ke-kumu/" target="_blank">look to your source</a>. Grab your quiet time, then refresh and rejuvenate.</p>
<p><em>Be deliberate</em>, and make your choices as you know are best for you and your life.</p>
<p><em>Ho‘omau:</em> Persist and persevere — be downright stubborn about making your life the best it can possibly be.</p>
<p>That possibility is your birthright as a human being. Quite wonderful.</p>
<h3><strong>My value for 2012 will be <em>‘Imi ola</em></strong></h3>
<p>I am still reading, still journaling as I do, and still sorting out my listing of intentions, editing them for best focus. This is a process I relish as the yearly gift it is, and I am taking my dear sweet time, savoring it.</p>
<p>What I have already decided, and can share with you on this early day in a shiny new year that is <em>Ka lā hiki ola</em> (the dawning of a new day, and <a href="http://talkingstory.org/tag/ka-la-hiki-ola/" target="_blank">the value of hope and promise</a>) <strong>is this, an eagerness for me:</strong> My value-driver that will crown any and all lists I may make will be <strong>‘Imi ola</strong>, “best possible life” in <em>Managing with Aloha</em>, <a href="http://talkingstory.org/tag/%E2%80%98imi-ola/" target="_blank">the value that drives</a> proactive mission, clear vision, and creative change.</p>
<p>What I know to be sure, is that 2012 is a year I want change — big change, and best-life change — and I’ll engineer it so it does happen.</p>
<p>I don’t want to imply any dissatisfaction with 2011, for I had a magnificent year, one that pleased me immensely. It served as a tasty bite of the bigger change that is possible for me, and so in 2012 I’m stepping it up and going for more with gusto!</p>
<p>I’ll share my progress with you as time goes by and things shift and take better shape, but for now, <strong>let’s focus on you</strong>.</p>
<h3><strong>What do you know to be sure? Hō‘imi ola.</strong></h3>
<p>Is there anything you know to be sure for you at the moment you read this? Seize that thought, and ask yourself what value is driving you being so sure. (Remember that <a title="The Core 21 Beliefs of Managing with Aloha" href="http://talkingstory.org/mwa-core-21-beliefs/" target="_blank">the <em>Managing with Aloha</em> values</a> are listed on the blog sidebar if you want to skim over them as reminders or triggers.)</p>
<p>Some gentle coaching: <em>Only do this with your positive thoughts</em>. Replace any negativity with ‘on the bright side’ thinking, and steer every shred of your being toward optimism: <em>Hō‘imi ola</em>. (Use <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2010/02/the-3-secrets-of-being-positive/" target="_blank">the 3 Secrets of Being Positive</a>.)</p>
<p>Please know I do wish you blessings this year, and that they’ll magically rain down upon you with a delightful wonder. However the person who manages their life with <em>Aloha</em> knows those wishes are an added bonus, <em>don’t you</em>. You know that you can <em>make life happen</em> in the way you want it to, and that your values will always help you, guiding you toward your own Aloha vitality.</p>
<p>I am so happy to know we have found each other to share that slice of sureness. Thank you for reading, and giving me part of this, your own day for <em>Ka lā hiki ola</em>.</p>
<p>We ho‘ohana kākou. Much aloha to you,<br />
Rosa</p>
<p>From last year: <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2010/12/ignore-the-resolution-bashers/">Ignore the Resolution Bashers</a><br />
Also in the archives: <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2005/11/be-proactive-values-by-choice-as-your-habit-updated/" target="_blank">Be Proactive; Values by Choice as Your Habit</a></p>
<p>As shared on <a href="http://blog.workisnotajob.com/post/15130122064/for-last-years-words-belong-to-last-years" target="_blank">Work is not a job</a>:</p>
<p><a href="http://26.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lx4q7fxRWX1qzwokwo1_500.jpg"><img class="aligncenter" title="Work is not a job: Be open to whatever comes next" src="http://26.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lx4q7fxRWX1qzwokwo1_500.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="625" /></a><br />
“For last year’s words belong to last year’s language. And next year’s words await another voice. And to make an end is to make a beginning.” &#8211; T.S. Eliot</p>
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		<dc:creator>Rosa Say</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I look around me I notice: Management is everywhere. It’s in a President deciding if he should go on vacation as scheduled, or keep working. It’s in a European country deciding if it can handle bailing out another country. It’s in a father and mother thinking about becoming car-less and walking more, moving their [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>When I look around me I notice: <strong>Management is everywhere.</strong></p>
<p>It’s in a President deciding if he should go on vacation as scheduled, or keep working.<br />
It’s in a European country deciding if it can handle bailing out another country.<br />
It’s in a father and mother thinking about becoming car-less and walking more, moving their family where jobs may pay more (or be found at all).<br />
It’s in a shopper wanting to celebrate the holidays with gift-giving, yet hesitating with the realization that ever-deepening debt is the real price paid&#8230; She’ll try to make something instead, using her own two hands.<br />
And it’s in a high-school graduate who wonders how society can declare he is now an ‘adult’ when he should know better than anyone else if that’s true or not.</p>
<p>Management is something we all do, for we all need to.<br />
We get drawn to it in spite of ourselves.<br />
Sometimes we’ll plunge into it, sometimes we’ll fall into it, but we always find ourselves there, a place where we ask ourselves, “Now what?”</p>
<p>We manage by thinking, by weighing our options, and by making a myriad of daily decisions, big and small.<br />
We manage by looking outside, by feeling inside, and then mixing the two, whether they mix like oil and water, like red blood cells and white ones, or in layers &#8212; like paint and primer.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Curbside Paint by Rosa Say, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/2612129915/"><img src="http://farm4.staticflickr.com/3064/2612129915_0cce43d1bd.jpg" alt="Curbside Paint" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
<p>The whole process can get fairly messy, but the time will come where we decide, and we do something (or we <em>don’t</em>, a “nope” word which isn’t really a “stop” word, for it has its own results as well).</p>
<p>Funny word, ‘management’ in the starchy formality of it.<br />
You’d think we’d personalize it more than we do, as steeped into it as we are, and as pervasive as it is.<br />
We talk about a whole plethora of <em>what</em> we manage: Work, budgets, resources, causes, values, ideas, and yes, <strong>others</strong>, when fact is, all those things are grouped under one umbrella — the one we know as our own life. All that other stuff make up a life and its moving parts.<br />
It’s a case where the smaller moving parts constantly seem bigger than the whole because they are seen as more tangible. Weird.</p>
<p>Which is why we have to find (or figure out) those last four letters of management, the ‘ment’ part, somehow getting them to stop dangling there as an after thought, and get in front for a change.</p>
<p>I think, the ‘ment’ part has to do with intention — with our <strong>why</strong>, and the journey we each take to discover it, or to magnify it.<br />
Our why is the part which ultimately, will make everything else (what, where, how and who) make sense, make worth, make good, make right.</p>
<p>Our why is what makes us feel everything else matters. When we feel our why is good and right for us, <a href="http://talkingstory.org/2010/05/tightly-curled-and-regal/" target="_blank">plugged into our spirit</a>, we feel like decent human beings.<br />
Our humanity is something we need.</p>
<p>Far as everyone else is concerned, they believe our why makes us more trustworthy: They want our why to get trumpeted louder, for they like when it’s clear &#8212; shiny and more transparent.</p>
<h3><strong>So I have a small fix to help: It can help in a big way.</strong></h3>
<p>Forget management in the old starchy formality of it, and begin to think of it as <strong>managemeant</strong>; managing meant that something connected to your why.</p>
<p>Give all those decisions you’ll be making your white magic.<br />
Make managing meaning-full, and get self-managing to be self-managing meant something personally wonderful.<br />
You can even plug managemeant into the auto-correct of your word processing, and have today&#8217;s digital wizardry help you, keeping you on track.</p>
<p>Turning management into managemeant will help you keep your managing intentional.</p>
<p>We’ll always just do the manage part, whether deliberately or instinctively.<br />
We kinda have to, in the way we keep going with life.<br />
However, it’s the meant part which will keep us human, and make us happier.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Plumbago skyward by Rosa Say, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/rosasay/4693763690/"><img src="http://farm5.staticflickr.com/4005/4693763690_57cd1c7aa9.jpg" alt="Plumbago skyward" width="500" height="355" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">If you feel you&#8217;re ready to do even more, <a title="An Aloha Business for 2012" href="http://talkingstory.org/2012/01/an-aloha-business-for-2012/">tackle this with me</a>.</p>
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